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A Tribute to South Florida’s Drag Pioneers at The Galleria Mall
A cast of over 40 colorful drag artists will adorn a prominent Wall of Fame as part of History Fort Lauderdale's “I Am What I Am: A Tribute to South Florida's Drag Pioneers,” in honor of PRIDE Month (June 2022). This never-before-seen tribute at Galleria Fort Lauderdale will showcase the drag community who tirelessly entertain and support philanthropic endeavors. Tickets are now on sale for the opening reception on Tuesday, May 31, at 6 p.m., at Galleria Fort Lauderdale featuring a special pioneer presentation, guest performances and more. Six drag pioneers – South Florida's own Nikki Adams, Tiffany Arieagus, Cathy Craig, Daisy Deadpetals, Electra and Latrice Royale - who, based on their longevity, entrepreneurship, roles on local television and international fame - will be celebrated. Images from the past and present, plus videos, costumes and artifacts will be shared to highlight their success. The photo Wall of Fame, designed by Robert Tabor and sponsored by Lips Fort Lauderdale and Hunter's, will showcase many amazing local performers such as Athena Dion, TP Lords, Nicole T. Phillips, Tiffany Fantasia and Nicole Halliwell. Joanna James, Erika Norell and Velvet Lenore will perform special tributes with the help of DJ Aulden Brown. Shawn Palacious and Joe Posa as Joan Rivers will host the effort which also coincides as the official Stonewall PRIDE celebration kickoff event. Fort Lauderdale City Commissioner
Steve Glassman will be part of the presentation issuing a special proclamation. “History Fort Lauderdale is thrilled with the response to celebrate these larger-thanlife personalities who make our community a more colorful and inclusive place to live and visit,” said Patricia Zeiler, executive director of History Fort Lauderdale. “The LGBT+ community has been resolute supporters of and contributors to the vibrant fabric of Fort Lauderdale's worldclass arts scene and we're excited to celebrate their contributions during PRIDE month and beyond.” “I Am What I Am: A Tribute to South Florida's Drag Pioneers” is sponsored by Our Fund, Galleria Fort Lauderdale, Memorial Healthcare System, Truist, HotSpots/Happeninng Out Media Group, Lips Fort Lauderdale, Hunter's, OutClique, Stoli, Tulio's Tacos and Tequila Bar and GPR | Goodman Public Relations. Tickets for the May 31 “I Am What I Am: A Tribute to South Florida's Drag Pioneers” Stonewall PRIDE Month Kickoff are $25 per person which includes one Stoli cocktail and delicious bites from Lips Fort Lauderdale and Tulio's Tacos and Tequila Bar. Visit bit.ly/HFLIAmWhatIAm2022 to purchase tickets. The exhibition will be free and open to the public during mall hours from June 1 30. For more information about History Fort Lauderdale, please call (954) 463-4431 or visit us online at historyfortlauderdale.org
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Iconic photo during Gay Days in front of Cinderella’s Castle at Magic Kingdom in Orlando, 2007. Photo by Wikipedia.org/jericl cat
By Scott Holland
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Covid 19 took away one of our favorite annual weekends, Gay Disney. Now for the first time since 2019, the weekend returns with all the promoters on fire producing bigger and better events and many new hotels. Whether you are going to GaydayS, One Magical Weekend, Girls in Wonderland, Tidal Wave Bears, or a combination of them, check out all the info you need to know about these events!
GAYDAYS GaydayS changed hotels and now calls the Avanti Palms Resort and Conference Center their official hotel. The resort features dining, and outdoor pool complex, and fitness Center and well over 600 rooms and is located at 6516 International Drive, just 1.8 miles from Universal Orlando and 4.2 miles from SeaWorld. The rooms are decorated with a subtle tropical theme and all feature TVs, minifridges, microwaves and coffeemakers; some have pool views and pull-out sofas. There's a 24-hour business center and meeting space for up to 1,400 people. Other amenities include a lagoon-style pool, a poolside bar & grill restaurant and a laid-back cafe. The resort fee covers shuttles to the major theme parks, Wi-Fi, and access to the fitness center and parking. Rooms must be booked for a minimum of three nights and included Friday and Saturday. Rooms include 2 pool passes for each day booked. There is a fee for
additional guests over 2. Party pool view rooms face the Gay Days party pool and will be loud during party hours. Pool bands represent a $80 value per band per day/night. All Gaydays events take place at the Avanti Palms Resort and Conference Center,where parking is free:
• GayDayS Welcome & Information Booth
Stop by the Official Host Hotel and pick up your FREE Official GayDayS 2022 Welcome Bag! While you're there, their team of ambassadors are eager to assist you in answering any questions you may have.
• GayDayS Ticket & Merchandise Center
The Ticket & Merchandise Center is the one-stop location to pick up or purchase Official GayDayS event tickets, pool party bands, and exclusive merchandise including the "#RedShirtDays" Official GayDayS 2022 Red Shirt!
• GayDayS Expo
Experience one of the largest Gay & Lesbian Expos in the world featuring of businesses from all over the world! Showcasing a variety of goods and services. Over 20,000 attendees, over 100 booths, giveaways, AND free prize raffles.
• GayDayS Adult 18+ Expo
Enjoy a selection of Adult Vendors that are part of one the largest LGBT Vendor Expos in the World!
• Daytime Pool Parties (11am to 5pm)
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grab an ice-cold beverage, and enjoy the variety of live entertainment and DJ's. Advance $25; At Door $35.
• Evening Pool Parties (5pm to 2am)
Experience the same thing you did during the day, just with it being dark and the lights making the party even better. Advance $35; At the door $45
contestants will be showing off their talents throughout various events during the week! The final performance and crowning will take place tonight at the Pool Party stage in front of the guests to help decide who will take the crown!
• GayDayS Puppy Mosh (Sunday, June 5; 2pm – 4pm)
Join the other puppies in an indoor puppy mosh presented by The Florida Puppy Contest. Human pups will romp, wrestle, and play. Your tail will wag for sure! Come jump in the balls or just run around the yard! For more information check out the Facebook event or email leather@gaydays.com. Admission $10
• Mr. GayDayS Leather Competition (Sunday, June 5; 5-7pm)
• Taste of GaydayS (Thursday June 2; 6 – 9pm; 21+ event)
One of the tastiest annual events returns! Enjoy samplings from local restaurants, exciting beverages, and live entertainment! Note: This is not intended to be a dinner, just light bites and drinks. $40 in advance and $50 at the door.
• Boots, Bears & Beers Social (Friday, June 3; 9 - 11pm; 21 and over event)
Take a break from the pools and meet your Mr. GayDayS Leather 2022 competitors and judges! Enjoy some free beer and tailgate games. Donations, in any amount, at the door to benefit the Leather Archives & Museum. Sponsored by Crew Health.
• Drag Queen Bingo (Friday, June 3; 7 – 9pm)
Family friendly event Drag Bingo. Join all the fun of bingo with a twist! All the fun of bingo and all of the fun of a Drag Show mixed together. $20 in advance and $30 at the door.
• XXX Porn Bingo (Saturday, June 4; 5 - 6:30pm)
See what happens when O-69 is called! $20 in advance and $30 at the door.
• 7th Annual Miss Gaydays Pageant (Finale Sat June 4; 5-7pm)
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The Fourth annual Mr. GayDayS Leather Competition will feature the traditional categories such as Pecs and Personality, Formal Leather, Jocks, and much more! This competition promises a night of handsome men, skin, and entertainment that you will talk about for a long time ahead. $20 in advance and $30 at the door.
Gay DayS 2022 DJ lineup Thursday 10a-4p: DJ John Stuurm • 4p-9p: DJ LuS • 9p-2a: DJ Steve Sidewalk Friday 10a-4p: DJ Mike Sklarz • 4p-9p: DJ Chris Adams • 9p-2a: DJ Lu-S Saturday 10a-4p: DJ Chris Adams • 4p-9p: DJ Aracely • 9p-2a: DJ Randy Bettis Sunday 10a-4p: DJ Mike Sklarz • 4p-9p: DJ Randy Bettis • 9p-2a: DJ Aracely
For more information or to purchase tickets, go to: Gaydays.com
ONE MAGICAL WEEKEND After moving to the Sheraton Lake Buena Vista Resort in 2019 to great reviews, One Magical Weekend (OMW) is back there and invites you to join them for their amazing weekend of events. The Sheraton Lake Buena Vista Resort, complete with 2 resort-style pools, spacious fitness center, complimentary wifi, a fabulous restaurant and much more. The Sheraton Lake Buena Vista is sold out (next year, book your rooms earlier), but there is great news as OMW has an overflow hotel – The Crown Plaza, which is an easy walk from the Sheraton and the daily Therapy Pool Parties, Cadabra After Hours Parties, WIG, and the Gay Biz Expo! Book your room now at the Crowne Plaza – one of the official host hotels of One Magical Weekend and the Pride Cup Athletes, as they are going fast. If you book your room there (3 night minimum) through the link on the OMW website you will receive 2 Therapy Pool Party Wristbands for Friday, Saturday and Sunday pool parties ($210 value). Bring your confirmation from the Crown Paza to the gay Biz Expo (11am to 6pm Fri and Sat; and 11am to 4pm on Sun) at the Sheraton Lake Buena Vista after you check in to receive your passes.
• Riptide at Disney's Typhoon Lagoon Waterpark (Friday, June 3; 8pm – 2am)
For one night, Disney's Typhoon Lagoon Waterpark becomes entirely yours for one of the parties of the year! OMW's signature
bathing suit dancing to the beats of International DJs Edgar and Oscar Velazquez. Don't miss the amazing water rides or just chill out inside this sprawling theme park. Along with the other thrilling rides, also catch the latest 2 additional rides - BACK FOR 2022 - and open until closing all night - Board Miss Adventure Falls treasure raft and hit the high seas for crazy fun during the longest ride in the
history of the Disney water parks! Also, this year the Crush “n” Gusher water-coaster will remain open all night. It's no wonder Disney's Typhoon Lagoon Waterpark is known around the world. Imagine you've been washed ashore a giant hidden lagoon where you encounter a massive six-foot wave pool and giant water slides. All around you lies the strewn debris of abandoned fishing ships. Explore isolated alcoves with your friends – or a special new friend. Also don't miss the special performance by RuPaul's Drag Race’s superstar Trinity “The Tuck” Taylor, proudly presented by Bliss Health.
• Red Volume V Varsity (Saturday, June 4; 8pm – 1am)
event once again washes ashore Disney's entire 52-acre fantasy water park. 6,000 party animals clad in little more than a
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RED takes place at House Of Blues at Disney Springs and stars DJ/Producer Paulo with heart thumping sound and euphoric visuals, grab your friends and join them for the game! Don't miss 2 SPECIAL performances by RuPaul's Drag Race Season 14 Finalist, BOSCO presented by 26 Health! Dress code: Show your RED Athletic Spirit #GearUp
• Wig (Sunday, June 5; 9pm - 1am)
Djs lineup Friday, June 3 DJ Joe Ross • DJ Edil Hernandez Saturday, June 4 DJ Cindel • DJ Sinna-G Sunday, June 5 DJ Deanne • DJ Scott Robert
Get ready to strike a POSE and let your inner diva run WILD! Join them at the Sheraton Lake Buena Vista Resort for a closing Sunday T-Dance party not-to-bemissed! Whether you prefer a short bob, or a full blow out, rock your favorite wig and join us on the dancefloor with the sounds of International DJ and Producer Twisted Dee! Heels & harnesses are not necessary, but they are more than welcome at the 2nd Annual WIG party! Wig will feature special performances by RuPaul's Drag Race Season 14, Angeria Paris VanMichaels presented by 26 Health. Just added is a performance by RuPaul's Drag Race All-star "ALL WINNERs" Season 7, Trinity the Tuck! Presented by BLISS Health, and a performance by RuPauls' Drag Race Season 3 performer and owner of Fantasy Girls at Future Atlanta, Phoenix, which is also presented by BLISS Health.
• Therapy Pool Parties (12pm - 7/8pm)
The parties taking place daily alongside – and in – the two sprawling pools at Sheraton Lake Buena Vista Resort bring the concept of “pool party” to a whole new level.
Whether just soaking in the rays and the man-filled landscape; dancing to the sounds of world-class DJs; or enjoying the refreshing drinks and light items from the Pool Bar & Grill, being surrounded by all your current (and new) friends is the kind of physical therapy you'll only find at One Magical Weekend.
• Cadabra After hours (2am – 8am)
The Magic continues into the late hours as One Magical Weekend presents a series of After-hours Dance Parties that they call CADABRA at the host hotel, Sheraton Lake Buena Vista Resort. This is Magic and Mystery, a sensual musical journey! CADABRA presents a world class dance extravaganza with a DJ line-up of only the very best. Welcome to CADABRA...the fifth year of the ONLY Afterhours to be held in Orlando during One Magical Weekend. CADABRA nights are 21+.
Djs lineup Friday, June 3 DJ Nina Flowers • DJ Obra Primitiva Saturday, June 4 DJ Abel Sunday, June 5 DJ Alex Ramos • DJ Bio Zounds
For more information or to purchase tickets, go to: Onemagicalweekend.com
GIRLS IN WONDERLAND Girls in Wonderland is your ULTIMATE resource for women to create a magical weekend from parties to their exclusive women's resort (Grand Orlando Resort At Celebration - 2900 Parkway Boulevard, Kissimmee), to Kindred Pride's Red Shirt Day! So hop on board for a weekend that promises something for everyone including Live Women's Music, spectacular dance parties, Celebrities, Pool Parties, Comedy Show, theme parks and thousands of women from around the country and the world celebrating in grand style. All events including their resort are 21 and over. Bud Light Welcomes you to Happy Hour (Thursday June 4; 6 – 8pm) Mix and mingle with new friends at their host hotels new lobby Bar. Live music by Mad Transit. Free Bud Light on draft for Girls In Wonderland attendees until it runs out, so get there early! Free for GIW host hotel guests.
Pool Parties Djs lineup
Friday, June 3 (noon to 5pm) DJ Delux • DJ Citizen Jane Saturday, June 4 (11am to 5pm) DJ Tatiana • DJ Pat Pat Sunday, June 5 (11am to 7pm/extended hours) DJ Pat Pat • DJ Dlux DJ Zehno • DJ Lady Snack Daddy
• After Hours Parties (Host Hotel 2am to 5am) Sat AM June 4 - After Hours, Afterglow
The party continues with DJ Nela who will throw down house, indie beats and more in the Bud Light Disco for a late night social.
Sunday Am June 5, After Hours, GIRL - The Afterparty
One of the biggest and best lesbian party in the country, Girl The Party, takes over GIW after hours for a night of debauchery featuring DJ Dlux and DJ. Zehno throwing down house and indie beats in the Bud Light Disco.
• Out for Laughs Comedy Show (Friday June 3; 7:30 - 9:30pm)
Join GIW at the host hotel for an evening of laughs featuring opening comedian Lee Cohen and headliner Emma Willmann.
• Climax (Friday June 3; 9pm – 2am)
GIW brings the sexy Latin vibe to this packed party at Cuba Libre (9101 International Drive). Latin Patio with guest DJ Pat Pat spinning salsa, merengue, and reggaeton hits while DJ Citizen Jane and DJ
• Traffic Jam - GIW Opening Party (Thursday June 4; 9:30pm - 2am)
This party takes place at Elixir (9 W Washington st) and features DJ Nel and a special live performance. Red means taken; yellow means approach with caution; and green means GO FOR IT! Sexy go-go girls work the traffic all night long.
• Pool Parties
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Tatiana get the party started on the main floor with top 40 and house beats. Go-Go's galore lead by Ivy Les Vixen and her sexy Vixens get ready for a wild night as the ladies take over one of the hippest venues at Pointe Orlando! In addition, Nohemy will be performing live. 21+
• GIW Signature Event (Saturday, June 4; 10pm – 2am)
GIW weekend's hottest ticket takes place at Pirate's Adventure (6400 Carrier Dr.) DJs
Zehno and Citizen Jane will be playing house and break beats. Eye candy on the boxes all night. 21+
• Last Chance Party (Sunday June 5; 10pm – 2am)
Say goodbye to another amazing Wonderland in their Bud Light Disco with beats by DJ Zehno and DJ Lady Snack Daddy at the host hotel.
For more information or to purchase tickets, go to: Girlsinwonderland.com
TIDAL WAVE Tidal Wave Bears are so excited for the return of their inclusive party for Bears, Cubs. Chubs, Chasers & their admirers! They are pleased to announce that The B Resort and Spa is this year's home for Tidal Wave! The resort houses 394 rooms, a 5,000 SF outdoor courtyard with a pool table, ping pong, cornhole, lawn, chess/checkers, connect four and giant Jenga. The courtyard will be converted each night of the event to a dance area with lighting and incredible sound. The 300+ seat restaurant/bar and the updated rooms will all round out your Tidal Wave experience. (Please note that the host hotel, The B Resort and Spa, will require a 4-night minimum stay). Thursday, June 2nd 11am – 7pm – Registration 11am – 7pm – Vendors – Ballrooms 1:30pm – 2pm – Opening Ceremony – Pool 3pm – 7pm – Tea Dance - Courtyard 8pm – 11pm – Bearaoke expression 9pm – 2am – Dance – Courtyard Friday, June 3rd 11am – 7pm – Registration 11am – 7pm – Vendors – Ballrooms
11am – 2pm – Relax Max - Pool 3pm – 7pm – Tea Dance - Courtyard 3:30 pm – 5:30 pm – Dirty Bingo 8pm – 11pm – Bearaoke expression 8pm – 2am – Riptide – Disney's Typhoon Lagoon Waterpark 9pm – 2am – Dance – Courtyard SATURDAY, JUNE 4th 11am – 7pm – Registration 11am – 7pm – Vendors – Ballrooms 11am – 2pm – Relax Max - Pool 3pm – 7pm – Tea Dance - Courtyard 8pm – 11pm – Bearaoke expression 8pm – 8:30 pm – Cabaret Seating Grand Ballroom 8:30 pm – 10 pm – Cabaret Show Grand Ballroom 9pm – 2am – Dance – Courtyard Sunday, June 5th 11am – 2pm – Registration 11am – 2pm – Vendors – Ballrooms 11am – 2pm – Church In Session – Pool 3pm – 7pm – Tea Dance - Pool 7pm – 1am – Closing Dance – Courtyard
For more information or to purchase tickets, go to: Tidalwaveparty.com
While in Orlando for Gay Disney, don't forget to stop by all your local bars, restaurants, nightclubs and establishments as many of them are also celebrating with fabulous events for Gay Disney!
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By Maria Espinal
Boca House 1793 Bell Tower LN • Weston, FL 33326 954.533-6100 • bocashouse.com • Mon - Thur 11:30am – 9pm Fri – Sat 11:30am – 11pm • Sun 11:30am – 9pm Bocas House fuses different types of Latin American cuisine to create completely new dishes, while still staying loyal to the original flavors. With another location in Doral, Boca House you'll feel like home while having a sophisticated culinary experience. Their variety in every category is extensive; you have 12 ceviches to choose from & 17 appetizers. For the main dishes you have chicken, beef, pork, seafood or go with a platter to share. Make sure you leave room for the signature shakes, oh my! Yakitori Saki House 271 SE Mizner Blvd. • Boca Raton, 33432 FL 561.544.0087 • yakitoriboca.com • Sun 12pm – 10:15pm • Mon – Fri 11:30am – 10:15pm • Sat 12pm – 11:15pm Yakitori has been a landmark destination in East Boca for those seeking authentic Japanese cuisine. Yakitori offers sake house and full bar with extensive choices from some of the finest choices available with a happy hour everyday 3-6pm. Take a note of their lunch specials served Mon – Fri 11:30am – 3pm. Visit them online to see their menu , as well as their catering menu is available for any parties you have planned. Green Bar Kitchen 1075 SE 17th St. • Fort Lauderdale, FL 33316 954.533.7507 • greenbarkitchen.com • Mon – Wed 11am – 8pm Thur – Sat 11am – 9pm • Sun 11am – 4pm An for our vegetarian/vegan friends…Green Bar & Kitchen was established to creatively bring vegan dining to a fresh, healthy and delicious new level. On their menu you will find burgers, gyros, house fries, veggie wraps, paninis, tacos, salads and more. GBK also offers cleansing juices packaged for 1 to 7 days cleansing period. Finally, there is a Saturday brunch 11am – 3pm. Come in, enjoy their food and green ambiance. Joia Beach 1111 Parrot Jungle Trail • Miami, FL 33132 • 305.400.7280 joiabeachmiami.com • Wed – Thur 4pm – 11pm • Fri – Sun 12pm – 11pm Want to get a bit fancier with your significant other? Well…Joia is perfect for sunset cocktails, waterfront dinners in magic Miami. From their European-inspired menu we can highlight their Greek Fisherman's Stew (prawns, scallops, calamari, mussels, clams, branzino), Maine Lobster, Charcoaled rack of Lamb, Ribeye or their Greek-style chicken breast. Also available are spreads and raw bar. Joia is a reservation-only location. 68 | HotspotsMagazine.com
Johnny McGovern & Greg McKeon Search for America’s Champion Go-Go Boy in Out TV’s
“GoGo For The Gold” Episode 1 By Scott Holland
Everyone's favorite Hey Qween host Jonny McGovern and his bestie, GoGo veteran Greg McKeon are on the hunt for America's next champion GoGo superstar star in OUTtv's hilarious new competition series, GoGo For the Gold. “The queer community has spent the last decade celebrating the queens on Drag 72 | HotspotsMagazine.com
Race, but the other stars of the gay club are the GoGo boys,” says McGovern. “They, too, serve the looks with tons of personality and style and they never hold back on the drama. We're crowning America's #1 champion GoGo superstar star … and the competition will be fierce!” GoGo For the Gold co-creators McGovern
also influencers, fashion models, and nightlife representatives. As contestants on GoGo For the Gold, their journey will be packed with humor, dramatic twists, and tongue-in-cheek fun. There may even be some tears shed along the way. Judging the boys will be the “GoGo Gods,” headed by supreme GoGo veteran Greg McKeon along with JoJo Guadz, Teddy Bear, and Adrian Hart. Each judge scores based on four important criteria: Fantasy, Body, Dance and Individuality. One or more GoGos are eliminated each week until the final strip down when GOGO FOR THE GOLD crowns its STUD — super talented underwear dancer — and officially proclaims him as 'America's #1 Champion GoGo Superstar Star '. We are then introduced to the 12 Go-Go boys competing for the title and Jonny tells us that they will have a dance-off, where they will have one song to show the judges why they are special, before the judges decides the bottom 4 who will all go home. After the dance off the bottom 4 are: Paulo, Gamma, Beef and Zaddy. It was a pleasure to sit down with each of them for these exclusive Hotspots interviews.
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and McKeon have assembled a diverse cast of GoGos that encompass a wide range of body types from traditional masculine hunks to thick 'n juicy bears, smooth twinks and even femme dancers who serve it up in heels. One of the contestants is a trans man. All are competing for a $10k cash prize. To win, they must undergo a series of challenges that comprise the many facets of being a champion GoGo. Being a skillful dancer is pivotal, of course, but GoGo boys are
At what age did you know you were Trans and when did you start transitioning? I knew I was trans at the age of 18 after I went to my first gay youth conference after graduating High School. I didn't start my transitioning until I was 24 due to my unsafe surroundings. Once I moved to a place where I had support, I
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knew I would be ok to start the transition. For starting in your 20's, there is nothing feminine about you. How did you accomplish that? From the age of 20 I started bodybuilding, and I think 4 years of changing my physique gave me an advantage once I start hormone therapy. It all fell into place the way it should have! How long have you been Go-Go dancing and how did you get into it? I started Go-Go dancing when I lived in Florida 2 years post transitioning, around the age of 26. My friend, Alexis DeLaMar, helped me at the Suncoast Resort and then I got invited to all the other bars she worked at. Once I moved to San Diego I applied at the bars, and everyone started hiring me. I recently moved to Chicago, and I will start up again. How did you pick your Go-Go Boy name? Oh god, I consider myself a mystical creature because everyone thinks I am lying when I tell them I am trans. Muscle and body building has always been my Genre so Mystical Muscle seemed right. Do you have a move you are famous for or anything you are famous for?
Honestly the thing that people like the most is my leather looks. Leather Jocks seem to be the most popular. How excited were you when you found out you had been chosen for the inaugural season of “Go-Go For the Gold?” When Johnny hit me up, I was super excited. I thought it would be a great impact for the Trans community. Now that you have been eliminated, who do you want to win and why? Honestly its between AJ and Brant as they both had great energy. Brannt would break the boundaries, so I may be rooting for him a drop more. But they are both beautiful souls. What does the future hold for you? I am enlisting in the navy soon, and I am currently working on a Navy base. However, I will always be Go-Go (ing) on the side. For more information on Paulo, follow him on Q /FTMuscle
“I wanted to choose a name that represented me and make me laugh...” How long have you been Go-Go dancing and how did you get into it? I have been go-go dancing for 6 years and I got into it as my ex-boyfriend was a Gogo and he wanted me to pursue it. How did you pick your Go-Go Boy name? My name comes from me loving burritos and me having a lot of beef on me. I wanted to choose a name that represented me and make me laugh…oh yeah and something to make people want to eat me.
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Do you have a move you are famous for or anything you are famous for? Yes, I have a move it’s an upside-down ass twerk where I put my feet up against the wall and I shake my ass and let it rip. How excited were you when you found out you had been chosen for the inaugural season of “Go-Go For the Gold?” I was so excited I immediately got on a face time call with 7 friends and did a costume party to see what I was going to wear on the show.
Now that you have been eliminated, who do you want to win and why? I really want Rico to win as I feel he is the best dancer and has a great personality and when you combine that with his looks he came to slay! What does the future hold for you? Its only just beginning! I have so many things I want to do now as this experience has opened so many more doors for me. For more information on Beef, follow him on Q /thebeefburrito
“Every guy in there deserves to win as they are all talented and great human beings.” GAMMA How long have you been Go-Go dancing and how did you get into it? I Go-Go danced for about 6 years and I stopped in 2017. I started back in college when I was broke, and wild. I needed the extra cash, but I was skeptical. However, I enjoyed it and kept going. How did you pick your Go-Go Boy name? It's my actual name that everyone calls me since I was a little kid. My real name is Gamaliel, and everyone just calls me Gamma. Do you have a move you are famous for or anything you are famous for? No, not really, but my style is being myself. How excited were you when you found out you had been chosen for the
inaugural season of “Go-Go For the Gold?” Honestly it was mixed emotions, but since I had worked with Johnny before it got me more excited. Now that you have been eliminated, who do you want to win and why? Every guy in there deserves to win as they are all talented and great human beings. But I was only on the show briefly so it's hard for me to pick a winner. What does the future hold for you? I don't even know; I am just going with the flow. I just live life and enjoy my family and friends. For more information on Gamma, follow him Q /GammaBaez HotspotsMagazine.com | 75
ZADDY How long have you been Go-Go dancing and how did you get into it? I have been Go-Go dancing for 12 years, as I started when I was 18. It's a job I love, and I got into it as there was a local pizzeria that was starting a gay night that needed Go-Go's, and I loved it and started working all over Go-Go dancing. I moved to LA about a year ago and my career has been skyrocketing. I am so glad I have this opportunity to do what I love. How did you pick your Go-Go Boy name? The name Zaddy was an alias I went by on social media, and it picked up popularity and it stuck with me. Do you have a move you are famous for or anything you are famous for? My signature dance is the Zaddy meat shuffle. When you see it you will know what it is! How excited were you when you found out you had been chosen for the inaugural season of “GoGo For the Gold?” I was thrilled as it felt like a dream come true beyond words. I shed a couple tears of joy and my family, who fully accepts me, were also super excited. Now that you have been eliminated, who do you want to win and why? I want Ken to win, as he has a heart of gold, and his dance moves are on point. He always puts on a good show and is super professional and has such good energy. What does the future hold for you? I would like to have my own night at a bar and maybe have my own group of Go-Go dancing boys. I would also like to do a Zaddy Underwear line. Is there anything I didn't ask you that you want to talk about?
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Yes, I hope people get to see that anyone can be a Go-Go dancer. You don't have to have a specific body type as we all serve our own flavors. I am a body positive person and I see sexy in every body type. For more information on Zaddy, follow him on /// Q/GoGoZaddy
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Jesus Christ Superstar
Comes to the Arsht Center May 31-June 5 By Scott Holland
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Following critically acclaimed, sold-out engagements in the UK, the reimagined 50th Anniversary tour of Jesus Christ Superstar will make its anticipated Miami premiere at the Adrienne Arsht Center for the Performing Arts of Miami-Dade County from May 31 – June 5, 2022. This 2017 Olivier awarding-winning production from Regent's Park Open Air Theatre features a stellar cast including Miami natives Courtney Arango (Dance Captain, Swing) and David Andre (Ensemble) along with University of Miami alums and Florida natives Omar Lopez-Cepero (Judas) and Jenna Rubaii (Mary). Jesus Christ Superstar continues the 15th anniversary season of Broadway in Miami. The Broadway in Miami season is presented by Florida Theatrical Association with presenting sponsor Bank of America in association with the Adrienne Arsht Center along with support from Nicklaus Children's Hospital. Aaron LaVigne leads the show as Jesus, joined by Jenna Rubaii as Mary. Omar Lopez-Cepero joins the cast as Judas. The
“Jesus & Judas had to be the best of friends for the betrayal to be as devastating as it was, and is every night on stage.” <<<<<< Omar Lopez-Cepero tour also features Alvin Crawford as Caiphas, Tommy Sherlock as Pilate, and Tyce Green as Annas. Pepe Nufrio returns to the tour as the standby for Jesus and Judas. The ensemble includes David Andre, Courtney Arango, Giuliana Augello, Wesley J. Barnes, Lydia Ruth Dawson, Hope Easterbrook, Derek Ferguson, Brian Golub, Brittany Rose Hammond, Garfield Hammonds, Quiana Holmes, Darrell T. Joe, Sheila Jones, Jacob Lacopo, Paul Louis Lessard, Eric A. Lewis, Tommy McDowell, Danny McHugh, Jenny Mollet, Sarah Parker, Erick Patrick, SandyRedd, and Cooper Stanton. Featuring lyrics and music by Emmy, GRAMMY, Oscar and Tony winners Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber, the North
American tour of this iconic musical is helmed by acclaimed director Timothy Sheader and cutting-edge choreographer Drew McOnie. Rounding out the creative team is set and costume design by 2016 Tony Award nominee Tom Scutt, lighting design by Lee Curran, sound design by Keith Caggiano and Nick Lidster, with music supervision by Tom Deering and North American music supervisor David Holcenberg. Jesus Christ Superstar is set against the backdrop of an extraordinary series of events during the final weeks in the life of Jesus Christ, as seen through the eyes of Judas. Reflecting the rock roots that defined a generation, the legendary score includes 'I Don't Know How to Love Him', 'Gethsemane' and 'Superstar'. It was a pleasure to sit down with University of Miami Alum Omar LopezCepero (Judas) for this exclusive Hotspots interview: At what age did you begin performing? I always kind of had a love for music, but I was introduced to theater and music in HotspotsMagazine.com | 93
middle school and high school. Before that I was much more of an athlete. It kind of found me and I have to give credit to my public-school teachers who saw that I had some talent and cultivated that. What was your first paid gig? After college, I wanted to go to New York. However, I wanted to do it with some money so I wouldn't have the hassle of worrying about paying rent and I could focus on auditioning. Therefore, I got a job at Royale Caribbean on a cruise ship and saved up lots of money. That was my first paid gig in entertainment. When did you know performing would be your career? Probably in my senior year in high school. I was just going to apply to colleges and my teachers convinced me to audition for schools and I got a full scholarship as a musical theater major. That's when I knew this was my career path. Other than this show, what has been your favorite show or role so far? One that will always stick with me was “On Your Feet.” I was in the tour when it played in Miami, which was very special to me. Most recently I got to play opposite my wife who played Gloria. 94 | HotspotsMagazine.com
Speaking of your wife, how do you handle being on the road and not being together a lot? I will be honest with you, it's very difficult. We both love what we do, and we are very grateful for it, but its not easy. My wife is working in Moulin Rouge on Broadway right now. This is part of the sacrifices that comes with a career in the arts. What's your fantasy role (a role you haven't played but want to)? I would say Frankie Valli in Jersey Boys. However, the thing that attracted me to musical theater is the creative process. So, to be part of a new show that is created from the ground up is really the dream. What did you and your wife do/accomplish during the Quarantine part of the pandemic? We moved to Atlanta for a year and a half to explore the TV and film scene there as they were coming back sooner than theater was.
We perfected self-tape auditions. We also got to spend a lot of time with my family. Is there additional pressure performing in this show since it's so iconic? Absolutely as the music has been around for 50 years, and the story everyone knows, it's the last 10 days of Jesus' life. Since the story is told through Judas's eye, there is a lot of pressure. In addition, many famous actors have played this Judas. However, it's an honor and a pleasure to play every performance. Describe yourself in 3 words? Competitive, caring, and optimistic What do you do for fun? I am a big golfer, it's my rest and mind cleanse. It also scratches my competitiveness. What's the best and worst things about being on the road? The best part is getting to see different cities and share art and theater with different cities around the country. The hardest part is being away from your family and living out of a hotel. What should our readers expect from this touring company of “Jesus Christ Superstar”? I think what's special about this production, is it really leads with the music first. The director wanted to highlight the music, and he did. Audiences that are Theater lovers will love this and non-theater lovers will appreciate the rock concert experience. It
bridges the gap between theatrical and concert experience. Another great thing about this production is that Aaron, who plays Jesus, has been a close friend of mine for 12 years. He was a groomsman in my wedding. So having this previous relationship helps tell the story for the relationship we tell on stage. Jesus & Judas had to be the best of friends for the betrayal to be as devastating as it was, and is every night on stage. >> For more information on Omar, go to: Instagram.com/omarlopezcepero or visit his website at omarlopezcepero.com. Tickets to Jesus Christ Superstar are $35, $50, $70, $90 and $130* and may be purchased now at the Adrienne Arsht Center box office by calling (305) 9496722, or online at archtcenter.org. For additional information about this production, please visit ustour.JesusChristSuperstar.com
“The thing that attracted me to musical theater is the creative process. So, to be part of a new show that is created from the ground up is really the dream.”
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“ If you are looking for a traditional relationship, then maybe you need to be with someone with a more traditional job. Otherwise, you need to come to an agreement on what can work for you both...” that I have soft features. I grew up in a very religious family. My family is Latino and very closed-minded. I dare not ever have expressed myself growing up and was forced into living a very machismo kind of life. When I did decide to come out and presented my partner to my family, I was met with a lot of resistance. My family has slowly come around, but I know deep inside, that I am transgender. I have been seeing a therapist and want to take the steps to transition to a woman. I am just so afraid of how my family will react, and if they will reject me. What should I do? Sincerely, Johnnie S. Dear Johnnie, Before I tell you anything else, my advice to you is – LIVE YOUR TRUTH! You will never be happy if you spend your life worrying about what other people think. The choices that you make that will lead to your happiness, should be of the utmost importance. The people who really love and care for you will stay, and for those who leave – well, that tells you just about everything. It is always going to be impossible to please everyone, therefore, that should never be your focus. Be you, be happy, and do it as you see fit! Best of luck on your new journey.