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Greater Fort Lauderdale invites everyone under the sun to the very first Pride of the Americas. Join hundreds of thousands of individuals who together will bring global attention to LGBT+ advocacy. All are welcome to fly your flag high, make an impact and radiate life – because who you are is worth celebrating. Make your plans at sunny.org/PrideAmericas Beach Party & Parade • Arts Festival • Fashion Show • Business of the Americas Conference • Transgender Summit • LGBT+ Health & Wellness Conference

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ast Tuesday was New Year's Eve and everywhere I went in Fort Lauderdale was packed. Our staff split up and some hit Miami and some were in Key West to see the shoe drop, and everyone reported the same thing….that the businesses were crazy busy! Congrats to all!

On Saturday afternoon, my brother form another mother, and the new Mr.

Florida Male Entertainer, Raul Griffith, married his soul mate, Jason Valentin, in a beautiful ceremony in South Miami. You may recall that Raul and Jason donned the cover of Hotspots a few months ago. Seen at their wedding were Latrice Royale (there is an “e” at the end…..inside joke for her 12 | Hotspots.LGBT

hubby Christopher), TP Lords, Athena Dion, Naysha Lopez (who were all in boy drag), Oscar Ambulo, Tony Lima, Dale Stine, Mikey,

Ernie, Josh and Matt, Michael Bath, and many others…Table 9 ruled! This was a special day for two special people, and I was so honored to be there to celebrate with them.

Wishing my brother and brother in law a lifetime of happiness!

Later that night the Ramrod presented Pig Dance #138 (first Saturday of every month) with this month's guest DJ, Doug Jackson. As usual, the Ramrod packs them in during Pig Dance!

On Sunday, we headed down to R House Brunch with hostess Athena Dion.

Sunday's special guests were Morphine Love, Serenity Dupree, Tayanna Love and T.Lo Ivy. Both

brunches were sold out, so make your reservations early. Seen there was make up guru and Social Media Influencer Patrick Starrr.

Later that afternoon we went to Flip Flops Dockside Eatery for their monthly T

Dance (first Sunday of every month). Their hostess, Amanda Austin, was taken down by the flu so TP Lords stepped in to MC. The T Dance starred DJ

Everything you need to plan your week Robert Lavalle and this month's special guests Sharde Ross, Vanity Flair, and the new Miss Florida F.I. at Large, Kimberly Venom. uTHURSDAY JAN 09

The Pride Factory (Have you been there lately? I was just there and got so many nice things) presents 20% off

selected underwear from today until January 15. What a great time to stock up!

The Arsht Center for the Performing Arts presents “American Son� from today through January 26. Set in a South Florida police station in the middle of the night, two parents search for their missing teenage son, who happens to be African American. A gripping tale of two people caught in our national divide, with their worst fears hanging in the balance. Fresh from its highly successful Broadway run, Zoetic Stage will be one of the first regional theaters to present this important new work about race in America. Tickets are $50 at ArshtCenter.org

u FRIDAY JAN 10 The Seminole Hardrock Hotel and Casino Hollywood's Hard Rock Live presents the one and only Billy Joel at 8pm. Joel is one of the biggest concert draws in the world and continues this achievement with an impressive run of sold-out consecutive stadium shows and concert arenas. Having sold 150 million records over the past quarter century, earning 33 consecutive Top 40 hits, Billy Joel ranks as one of most popular recording artists and respected entertainers in history.

Tickets start at $109 at Seminolehardrockhollywoo d.com.

Boca Black Box presents, direct from America's Got Talent, finalist Jackie Fabulous today and

tomorrow. She is a gutbusting, writer, producer,

speaker, and headlining comedian who uses comedy to simultaneously entertain, encourage and empower audiences. Having survived her fair share of loves, tragedies, lessons and embarrassing moments, Jackie channels all of that energy into hilarious sets and inspiring keynotes. More than just a funny lady, she is on a mission to inspire and empower women all over the world to find the funny in their flaws. Tickets are $35 and $45 at Bocablackbox.com.

The Key West Business Guild's January Mixer will take place at the Marriott Beachside from noon to 1pm, and feature a State of the City by Mayor Teri Johnson. There will also be a special presentation by Carol Shaughnessy of Newman PR.

u SATURDAY JAN 11 Alibi Sound Lab presents DJ Musso with no cover and the kitchen open late.

The Ramrod presents their monthly Underground Invasion, where it's all about the music. This month catch the sounds of DJ VLeXXX. Never a cover and free parking.

The Club Fort Lauderdale presents Cumunion from 3-7pm.

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entitled “Guardian of The Magic City Casino presents entitled “Guardian of The Magic City Casino presents Galaxy” starring, back in the Air Supply & Poco at 7pm. Galaxy” starring, back in the Air Supply & Poco at 7pm.

USA from his world tour, DJ Air Supply has been blazing USA from his world tour, DJ Air Supply has been blazing Manny Lehman. The night the charts since 1975! Russell Manny Lehman. The night the charts since 1975! Russell will also feature shows, Hitchcock's soaring tenor will also feature shows, Hitchcock's soaring tenor novelty acts and dancers. In voice and Graham Russell's novelty acts and dancers. In voice and Graham Russell's the Ivy Room and Lounge, simple, yet majestic songs the Ivy Room and Lounge, simple, yet majestic songs Noche Latina Saturdays created the trademark sound Noche Latina Saturdays created the trademark sound presents “Super Heroes” that will forever be presents “Super Heroes” that will forever be starring Lana Novva recognized. Their hits include starring Lana Novva recognized. Their hits include Lanudde, DJ Larry Larr, sexy “Here I Am,” “Making Love Out Lanudde, DJ Larry Larr, sexy “Here I Am,” “Making Love Out Go-Go boys and special guests. of Nothing at All,” “The Power Go-Go boys and special guests. of Nothing at All,” “The Power of Love” and “All Out of Love.” of Love” and “All Out of Love.” u SUNDAY JAN 12 The country rock pioneers, u SUNDAY JAN 12 The country rock pioneers, Mangoes in Key West Poco gained platinum success Mangoes in Key West Poco gained platinum success presents Drunken Drag early in their careers. The presents Drunken Drag early in their careers. The Brunch from noon to 4pm group continues to perform Brunch from noon to 4pm group continues to perform featuring a breakfast buffet, their chart-topping hits like featuring a breakfast buffet, their chart-topping hits like Bottomless Mimosas, and drag “Heart Of The Night,” “Call It Bottomless Mimosas, and drag “Heart Of The Night,” “Call It Queen performances. The cost Love” and “Crazy Love” to Queen performances. The cost Love” and “Crazy Love” to is $55 per person. venues across the country! is $55 per person. venues across the country!

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The award-winning HIV-positive musical The award-winning HIV-positive musical comedy web series, MERCE — beloved for comedy web series, MERCE — beloved for its MGM classic film ethos mixed with its MGM classic film ethos mixed with potty mouth flair — returns on January 21 potty mouth flair — returns on January 21 for its second hilarious season. Produced for its second hilarious season. Produced

by Skipping Boyz Productions and made

by Skipping Boyz Productions and made possible via a crowdfunding campaign on possible via a crowdfunding campaign on Fractured Atlas that raised over $60,000 Fractured Atlas that raised over $60,000 from fans, the second season of MERCE from fans, the second season of MERCE features eight new episodes, each with its features eight new episodes, each with its own elaborately choreographed original own elaborately choreographed original 14 | Hotspots.LGBT

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tomorrow at 6:30 and 9pm.

Seen in London's West End, in more than 200 cities all around the world and by over 50 million people on major TV networks, The Naked Magicians is the world's funniest and naughtiest magic show. The show features magic, mirth and mayhem as these two hot and hilarious Aussie magicians take magic to a whole new level. Contains mature content. For ages 18+ only. Tickets starts at $43 at Kravis.org

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The South Florida Gay News will be celebrating their 10th anniversary at Grieco Ford of Fort Lauderdale (1333 N Federal Highway) from 6 to 8:30pm.

The celebration will feature

special performances by Kitty Meow and Champagne Bordeaux with Emcee Miss Bryan and VJ Cliff R. Reserve your tickets online at: bit.ly/2q0hzbq

Pride Skate Night (3rd Wednesday of every month) takes place tonight at Xtreme Action Park (5300 Powerline Road) from 7 to 10pm. This is a unique fundraising event benefitting the Wilton Manors Stonewall Pride Parade and Street Festival. The night features skating, dancing, live DJ, full liquor bar, special guest performances and the South Florida Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Buy tickets online at: Xtremeactionpark.com/ston ewall-pride-skate-nights

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musical number. All of the series favorite characters are back, too. The outrageous Southern Mama played by Tyne Firmin shines along with the fabulous fairies and, of course, the loveable Merce played by Charles Sanchez. Exciting new characters are introduced as well; among them are judgmental Aunt Bless, Lisa (with an S) Minnelli and a smattering of titillating Eye

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Candy Boys. The hijinks are raised to unprecedented heights in season two yet the series manages to dive into some hot button topics impacting today’s HIV community as well, including PrEP, slut shaming, and gay marriage. Additionally, and most particularly mahhvelous for fans of the series, Merce finds love in season 2! The second season of MERCE premieres in the USA on Vimeo and Youtube.

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Regular Exercise, It's Not Just for the Body

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By Tom Bonanti hether you're an exercise fanatic, or you've just begun to consider the option, you're probably aware that there are tangible results that come from doing cardio and lifting weights. But did you also know that exercise can improve the mind as well as the body?

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Vigorous physical activity relieves stress and pressure at work, helps you think like a creative genius and generally makes you feel more peaceful and secure?

Studies have proven that regular cardio work can enhance the ability of neurotransmitters like serotonin in the brain to work faster. This higher ability won't replace a quality education or being generally street-smart, but it can help you to think clearer, quicker and more creatively. Regular weight training has also been shown to ease excess tension and aggression and promote overall feelings of con idence and well-being.

As a trainer, I ind that clients who come in feeling anxious and stressed, over- worked, and generally depressed, report feeling energized and upbeat after early morning exercise. As a result, they are more relaxed and con ident at work and seem to exhibit sharper, clearer mental processes all day long. For many practical reasons a lot of people can't work out before work, but those clients who do regular cardio and

weight training at some point in the course of their busy day report similar increases in energy, mood and productivity.

Do you come home from work and crash in exhaustion? Does your heart race when you're stuck in traf ic or before a big presentation or meeting? You have the power to change this misery. Start doing cardio after work and don't

situations – like a cranky boss and do- nothing colleagues who cause you huge amounts of stress. Throwing the weights around helps you to alleviate frustration and pent-up aggression as you build a gorgeous toned body in the process!

If you have trouble sleeping, you're not alone.

Instead of groping for another Ambien– go for the treadmill or pump a little iron instead. Regular exercise lowers your resting pulse rate, can lower blood pressure, revs up your metabolism, improves digestion, and biologically assists your brain in producing feel-good endorphins. Endorphins are your body's naturally produced painkillers that help you to feel more relaxed and even elated in the face or stress and strain. Regular exercise will help you to produce these substances as you function better during the day and rest easier at night.

forget to pump some iron while you are at it! You might think these activities would add to your overall fatigue, but you are wrong.

Psychologists say that a key element behind failing under pressure is physical fatigue. Regular cardio (running, biking or swimming) energizes you and it charges up your brain and body for tough The next time you hit the gym to give that body a workout, remember the good you're doing for your mind and spirit as well! For more information on the mind-body connection and exercise, contact trainerTomB@aol.com now!

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Here's to Your Healthiest Year Ever: 2020!

by Tom Bonanti Happy New Year and welcome to 2020.

Listen, if you're serious about making this year your healthiest and most productive on record, then you've simply got to make exercise one of your top priorities. No more excuses, procrastination is fruitless, just get moving and do it. Whether you're a “newbie” reluctant about starting, or a seasoned pro looking to up your game, here are 25 indisputable and urgent reasons why you need to exercise in 2020!

1. Exercise is great for mental health. It can alleviate depression and anxiety, battles fatigue, and gives you more energy all day long.

2. Exercise bolsters and forti ies your immune system making you more resistant to colds and lu.

3. Exercise sharpens mental processes helping you to think on your feet and in any situation.

4. Exercise is a creative and potent way to occupy your mind and help you burn off steam when you are worried about life's little dif iculties.

5. Exercise improves posture by doing such things as lattening your tummy and eliminating lower back pain.

6. Exercise can help curb and even eliminate excessive health care costs.

7. Exercise improves lexibility at the

joints.

8. Exercise helps lower blood pressure and your resting heart rate.

9. Exercise prevents the loss of muscle mass due to aging and inactivity as it helps to preserve and build lean muscle.

10. Exercise helps burn excess blood sugar caused by poor nutrition and daily stress.

11. Exercise revs your metabolism to burn more calories even while you are asleep.

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12. Exercise is good for pets. Taking your favorite pooch for a walk is a superb excuse for getting up off the couch after a hard day at the of ice.

13. Exercise is a great way to meet new people and make friends.

14. Exercise is a wonderful excuse to get outside and enjoy the bene its of fresh air and sunshine.

15. Exercise improves coordination and balance as it makes you more stable and resistant to falls and accidents.

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Exercise helps improve appetite as well as curb your appetite against stress eating or grazing out of boredom.

17. Exercise lowers the bad cholesterol

(LDL) and raises your good cholesterol (HDL).

18. Exercise can greatly decrease the risk of certain types of cancer.

19. Exercise improves the supply of oxygen to your cells helping you to move more freely and breathe more deeply.

20. Exercise improves and enhances sex drive!

21. Exercise lowers the risk of type 2 diabetes in most people by combatting obesity and a sedentary lifestyle.

22. Exercise prevents bone loss and increases bone density thereby decreasing your risk of osteoporosis.

23. Exercise, especially doing regular cardiovascular activities like swimming, biking and walking, greatly improves your cardiovascular system making you more resistant to heart attacks and heart disease.

24. Exercise is the only effective and inexpensive “fountain of youth” available to all of us. Facelifts, illers and Botox may give you a temporary lift, but regular exercise will help you look and feel younger for years on end!

25. Exercise helps improve self- image making you a happier, more con ident and productive person at work, at home and in your relationships.

Tom Bonanti is a certi ied personal trainer and massage therapist (MA#40288) with his own one on one gym and studio www.pumpnincgym.com in Ft. Lauderdale. Contact Tom trainertomb@aol.com with questions or to set up a free consultation today!

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By Romeo San Vicente

It’s Time for More Shrill!

First you need Hulu. Then you need to catch up on Shrill, the wonderfully hilarious sitcom based on essayist Lindy West's book of the same name.

The first season is six addictive episodes about a woman (the captivating and perfectly cast Aidy Bryant from SNL) who writes for an alternative weekly newspaper, and who navigates misogyny, fatphobia, sneering colleagues, editors who don't believe in her talent, and cruel Twitter trolls, battling all of it with her wits. John Cameron Mitchell (Hedwig and the Angry Inch) co-stars as Bryant's smug, gay

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and impossibly difficult boss, and transgender comic Patti Harrison steals every scene she's in with an absurdist presence that has to be experienced rather than explained. Now that we've sold you on it, here comes a second season dropping at the end of January. Plan your life around a weekend afternoon binge-watch and thank us later.

An American Pickle is a real movie that’s happening

It's the story of Rip Van

Winkle, but also An American Tail, with twin effects in the manner of The Parent Trap/Dead Ringers, and some queer casting thrown in for good measure. It's An American Pickle and it stars Seth Rogen as an immigrant named Herschel Greenbaum, struggling along in the year 1918. Then he falls into a vat of pickles and gets brined for 100 years. When removed he is perfectly preserved, hasn't aged a bit, and finds that he has a great grandson (also played

by Rogen) who helps him figure out 2019 Brooklyn. In other words, more absurdity from Rogen, his producing partner Evan Goldberg, and writer Simon Rich. As for that queer casting, we get the film debut of YouTube star and Ellen regular Kalen Allen, as well as Broad City's beleaguered brother Eliot Glazer. It's all been in development for a while but the film is meant to finally hit screens sometime in 2020. Cue the hit '80s James Ingram/Linda Ronstadt song “Somewhere Out There.”

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Romeo San Vicente would love to get brined

Things That Make You Go

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By Troy Maillis

Neighborly Love

Old College Try According to a study by Wayne State University and Michigan State University, two-thirds of college students have been in a friends-with-benefits relationship, citing the lack of commitment required as the main advantage to such an arrangement. More than half of those who had sex with a friend said they had engaged in all forms of sex; 22.7% said they had intercourse only, while 8% said they did everything but have intercourse.

Through another survey of more than 24,000 university students, researchers found that many people engaging in same-sex hookups identify as heterosexual. One in 8.5 men in college whose most recent hookup was with a partner of the same sex consider themselves straight.

“Not everybody who has same-sex relationships is secretly gay,” says coauthor Arielle Kuperberg, Ph.D., director of Undergraduate Studies in Sociology at The University of North Carolina at Greensboro, who has written extensively on student relationships.

“There was a big disconnect between what people said their sexual orientation was and what their actions were.”

Canada’s Privy Council Office, whose objective is to provide non-partisan advice and support to the Canadian ministry, commissioned a mid-summer 2019 poll to determine how comfortable Canadians were with their LBGTQ neighbors. An overwhelming 91.8 per cent of those surveyed said they would be “comfortable” if a next-door neighbor was gay, lesbian or bisexual and that 87.6 per cent said they would be “comfortable” if a neighbor was a transgender person.

The poll found 90.5% of the respondents said they were “very comfortable” or “somewhat comfortable” with a gay, lesbian or bisexual boss and 88.2% were “comfortable” with having an LGB doctor and 79.9% “comfortable” with having a transgender doctor.

“It’s really good to see the attitude of Canadians changing and being more open and inclusive,” said Helen Kennedy, executive director of the LGBT advocacy group Egale Canada. “We obviously have more work to do.

But it’s definitely a step in the right direction.”

Source: Back2Stonewall.com

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Law of the Land

Illinois became the first US state to decriminalise homosexual acts between consenting adults, under a new penal code in 1961. This was following the 1955 recommendation by the American Law Institute, a group of distinguished lawyers. Illinois remained the only US state to have decriminalised homosexuality until Connecticut became the next state to strike down its laws in 1971.

Since June 26, 2003, sexual activity between consenting adults and adolescents of a close age of the same sex has been legal nationwide, pursuant to the U.S. Supreme Court ruling in Lawrence v. Texas.

Source: Funtriva.com

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In 2019, out glam-rocker Adam Lambert encouraged us to keep ighting, out musician Ben Platt talked about authenticity, out actress Anna Paquin underlined how ilm and TV can change minds, and out Schitt's Creek creator Dan Levy was in awe of his show's resonance. Country music superstars Trisha Yearwood and Miranda Lambert also chimed in on LGBTQ issues, speaking out on their LGBTQ allyship. Meanwhile, A-list screen allies like Jamie Lee Curtis, Laura Linney, Amy Poehler, and Charlize Theron continued to show up for the community, discussing everything from their queerinclusive movies to their longtime activism. Here's a look back at 2019's most memorable quotes: 38 | Hotspots.LGBT

“It was so special, and when he was giving me permission to post about it, we both cried because it was such a big moment. I see now, talking about it, why it's a big moment for other people: because it was a big moment for us too.”

–Miranda Lambert

on posting WorldPride pics of her and her gay brother (blue shirt)

@mirandalambert

“You know, no one's coming up to me going, 'Oh god, that was fantastic!' I mean, it's so far gone. It's far in the past. Who cares! But it's nice to hear and I hope somebody enjoyed it.

It's like, maybe Goldie enjoyed it. Or Bette!

They've had more interesting lives.

– Diane Keaton

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on The First Wives Club now

“I don't think it's anybody's business what people's sexuality is, to be perfectly honest. I ind it like a reverse discrimination. People's private lives are their private lives and whether I've ever kissed a girl – have not – is irrelevant to whatever advocacy I participate in.”

– jamie lee curtis

“The reason why I ight the good ight: to try to make people see it the way I've been seeing it my whole life.”

– Carly Rae Jepsen

on normalizing the LGBTQ community

“I experimented and I did what I think every young person should do: feel brave enough and free enough in order to igure it out.”

– Charlize Theron

“To now be in the position that I am, getting to write what I ind to be a really lovely queer romance that millions of people get to watch, it's quite profound.”

– Dan Levy

“If you're authentic, I think that's the most attractive quality beyond just a beautiful voice, feeling like this is undoubtedly exactly who you are.”

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Keep going, keep pushing. And when the opposition is stronger, we have to push back stronger.”

– adam lambert

“One of the wonderful things about the LGBTQ community is that they kind of throw caution to the winds and it's a moment where people get together and celebrate the positive rather than the negative.”

– angelica huston on Pride

“The older I get the more I realize I feel much more comfortable in menswear. I like the feel of it. I feel much more myself.”

– amy poehler

“The idea of just being present, it's the

way I approach the relationship with my son, the not judging. I'm not going at it trying to make him into something he doesn't want to be.”

– kyle maclachlan

I know it's still not easy in certain circles, but I like where we are and where we're going. We preach 'love one another' and that's what we're supposed to do.”

– trisha yearwood

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“I say that it goes together for me, my faith and my love for not just gays but people.”

– kristin chenoweth

“What if we could just stay in the place of being completely open?

– judith light

“I think that people learn about people they don't understand through entertainment. That's one of our most powerful tools for bringing people out of their own bubble and their own world.”

– anna paquin

“I think questioning yourself or questioning the context you're in comes natural to this community, and for me that's something that I feel connected to…”

– robyn

“I hope they take away that I haven't lost hope.

That I still believe that people are good and that we'll get through this.

– wanda sykes

on her Net lix comedy special, Not Normal

“I don't even know what Twitter or twatter is! And I really don't want to.”

– dionne warwick

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Drag Icon Varla Jean Merman Opens 2020 Outlandish Series

Logo TV founder Matt Farber is bringing his Outlandish series back to South Florida for the fourth season, opening Jan. 18 at the Sunshine Cathedral in Fort Lauderdale with drag icon Varla Jean Merman in “A Star is Bored” I have interviewed Varla before, but never in person, and imagine my surprise when our interview time came and a ginger, mustached, big muscle men came knocking at my door. I thought he had the wrong place until he smiled and I saw the infamous Varla smile. That's right boys, the girl we have known and loved for her originality, creativity and stage presence is a muscle man!

It was a pleasure to sit down and talk with Varla's Alter Ego Jeffery Roberson for this exclusive Hotspots interview:

What have you been up to since we last spoke about a year ago?

I have of icially moved to Fort Lauderdale and I love it.

As a child, were you always a ham/performer or when did the bug bite you?

I think I was secretly a ham and it would come out at times. But it wasn't until I went to a boarding school in High school that I got the con idence to act like a goo ball.

When was the irst time you did Drag?

It was actually in high school. A friend of mine had a senior auction, where a junior could buy a senior and make them do whatever they wanted. We paid these 2 girls to make us do drag in school the next day.

How did you come up with the character of Varla Jean Merman?

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By: Scott Holland

that's more than 3, but who's counting?

Tell me about your new show, A Star is Bored, and why should our readers come see it?

It's really funny and it's one of the only shows I have done that's based on real life stories. It deals with being an old hefer (like myself) and having to play the new social media game to keep up. I also talk about my in luences in the biz and how they helped me get started. Miss CoCo has had a huge in luence on me, and took me out of bars to work in cabarets and do my own shows.

I also feel the responsibility to pay it forward.

Is there something I didn't ask you that you want to talk about?

Yes….I love the Outlandish festival and I am so happy to be a part of it 2 years in a row.

Matt does such a great job, and Fort Lauderdale is lucky to have this festival.

For more information on Varla Jean Merman, you can go to her website at: Varlaonline.com or follow her on Instagram.com/VarlaJeanMerman Tickets for Varla Jean Merman's A star is Bored start at $30 at OutlandishFL.com.

Premium seating and VIP tickets (including an artist meet-and-greet) are also available.

Discounted full series passes to see all shows are available, as well as a new “Pick 4” option, to see any four shows. For tickets and more information, go to OutlandishFL.com.

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That came later. I went to LSU and met this guy named Timo who had a Video Camera, and he introduced me to John Waters movies. Needless to say, I fell in love with Divine. Timo and I started making these small movies doing crazy things. I sold them to the gay bars, and they got popular.

When I moved to New York I walked into a gay bar and they were playing the same video tapes….and I told the bartender it was me. They were about to do a big bene it and he asked me if I would perform and that's how Varla was born.

In your wildest dreams did you ever imagine she would have such longevity and be this popular?

I hoped she would be a little more popular.

Do you still do the Easy Cheese number?

I have not done that in 15 years, because when I got older I became lactose intolerant. However, it may make a comeback.

You have a wedding ring on, how long have you been married and how did you meet?

We have been married a year and a half and we met on a RSVP cruise in the gym around 3 years ago.

When did you know he was the one?

I knew right away that I wanted to be with him, but I didn't think about marriage until about 6 months later. I never thought I was the marrying kind!

How does your hubby, Dewitte, deal with you traveling so much?

He gets to come with me a lot as he is retired and he loves to travel.

Speaking of traveling, you have traveled the world. Is there a favorite city or concert hall you performed in and why?

I love San Fran. I always have, because I connect with them. I also love Palm Springs and Sydney Australia.

Is there something Varla has not done yet that's on her bucket list?

I have always wanted to do an ice skating show, or a show in a swimming pool on a lifeboat.

Describe Varla in 3 words?

Ditzy, narcissistic and a fun drunk…ok

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By: Scott Holland Disney's Aladdin will play the Broward Center for the Performing Arts from Wednesday, January 8 through Sunday, January 19. From the producer of The Lion King comes the timeless story of Aladdin, a thrilling new production illed with unforgettable beauty, magic, comedy and a breathtaking spectacle.

It's an extraordinary theatrical event where one lamp and three wishes make the possibilities in inite.

Aladdin, the hit musical based on the Academy Award-winning animated ilm, opened on Broadway at the New Amsterdam Theatre to critical acclaim on March 20, 2014 and quickly established itself as one of the biggest new blockbusters in recent years, breaking 14 New Amsterdam Theatre house records; worldwide it has welcomed more than 10 million people and grossed over $1 billion.

Its global footprint includes productions in Tokyo, Hamburg, London, and of course the tour across North America.

Produced by Disney Theatrical Productions,

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under the direction of Thomas Schumacher, the show features music by Tony Award and eight-time Oscar winner Alan Menken (Beauty and the Beast, Newsies, Sister Act), lyrics by two-time Oscar winner Howard Ashman (Beauty and the Beast, The Little Mermaid), three-time Tony Award and threetime Oscar winner Tim Rice (Evita, Aida) and six-time Tony Award nominee Chad Beguelin (The Wedding Singer), with a book by Beguelin, and is directed and choreographed

by Tony Award winner Casey Nicholaw (The Book of Mormon).

Aladdin, adapted from the animated Disney ilm and centuries-old folktales including “One Thousand and One Nights,� is brought to fresh theatrical life in this bold new musical.

Aladdin's journey sweeps audiences into an exotic world of daring adventure, classic comedy and timeless romance. This new production features a full score, including the ive cherished songs from the Academy Award-winning soundtrack and more written

especially for the stage.

Aladdin is designed by seven-time Tonywinning scenic designer Bob Crowley, six-time Tony-winning lighting designer Natasha Katz, two-time Tony-winning costume designer Gregg Barnes and sound designer Ken Travis.

The production features Jonah Ho'okano (Aladdin), Korie Lee Blossey (Genie), Kaena Kekoa (Jasmine), Jonathan Weir (Jafar), Reggie De Leon (Iago), Jerald Vincent (Sultan), Zach Bencal (Babkak), Ben Chavez (Omar), Colt Prattes (Kassim), Jeremy Gaston (Standby Genie), Adam Stevenson (Standby Jafar & Sultan) and Frank Viveros (Standby Genie, Sultan & Babkak).

It was a pleasure to sit down with Ben Chavez, who plays Omar for this exclusive Hotspots Interview:

At what age did you begin performing and how did it happen?

I always had an in inity for music since my parents played, and I started performing when I was 3 years old playing piano. I started giving recitals at age 4. That same year I got involved in singing, dancing and acting. I caught the bug

and have never stopped pursuing it. I ended up going to my dream school, NYU, and got a BFA in acting with a focus on musical theater. I have been fortunate enough to be working in theater, since I graduated in 2015.

What was your irst professional role?

The irst professional role I had I would never do again, it was a swing in a regional production of Grease at Northshore Music Theater outside of Boston. It was in between my junior and senior years of college. I was covering 8 dierent roles, it's incredible hard!

How did you get cast in Disney's Aladdin?

The tour has been out on the road for almost 3 years and I auditioned for this role when it irst launched 3 years ago.

I made it to all of the call backs, and in the last round they chose someone else. I was heartbroken as I knew this role was perfect for me. After two years that actor left and they called me to audition again, and this time I was cast. In theater, no doesn't always mean no!

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How exciting is it to be on your irst tour?

It's amazing! All I ever really wanted to do once Graduating College was travel and perform and its what I am doing. I am visiting cities I thought I would ever see. Traveling the world I have met so many amazing people, eat great food.

The highlight for me is bringing Broadway to people all around the country. Seeing their faces mean the world to me.

Other than this role, what has been your favorite to play?

I did a production of Alter Boys in Cape Cod and I got to play the role of Juan. It's a boy band dancing spectacle in those insane 90's costumes.

It was so much fun to play!

What is your fantasy role?

Hamilton is obviously a revolutionary show and it would be awesome to be in that show playing either Hamilton or the Lafayette Jeerson role. I would also love to be Frankie Valley in Jersey Boys.

What should our readers expect from this production of Disney's Aladdin?

First of all this show is for any age, and makes for an awesome date night. You will laugh your butts o. Anyone who loves Disney and/or Aladdin will love this show which features a really great love story between 2 people who want to make a better life for

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themselves. When Jasmine and Aladdin take that magic carpet ride it's like nothing you have experienced in theater before.

For more information on Ben Chavez, follow him on Instagram.com/: Ben__Chavez.

Tickets, which start at $35.50, are available at the Broward Center AutoNation Box Of ice, 201 SW Fifth Avenue, Fort Lauderdale, at Browardcenter.org or by calling 954.462.0222.

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CELINE DION - COURAGE WORLD TOUR She has won five Grammy Awards, including Album of the Year and Record of the Year. Billboard named her the “Queen of Adult Contemporary” for having the most number ones on the radio format for a female artist. She is the second best-selling female artist in the US during the Nielsen SoundScan era. She remains the best-selling Canadian artist and one of the best-selling artists of all time with record sales of 200 million copies worldwide.

Fri, and Sat, January 17 & 18; 7:30pm; American Airlines Arena (601 Biscayne Boulevard, Miami); Tix: start at $86; Aaarena.com COMEDIAN - TREVOR NOAH The Emmy-winning “The Daily Show” host and celebrated comedian is known around the world for his insightful and authentic take on politics and current events. Noah has written, produced, and starred in 8 comedy specials, most recently including “Son of Patricia” on Netflix. He is bringing his “Loud & Clear Tour” to South Florida for one night only!

Sat, January 18; 8pm; Hard Rock Live at Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Hollywood; Tix: $45 to $115 CIRQUESCO The mystical artistry of a European circus combines with the flirtatious camp of cabaret to create an evening of sheer magic. Critics say the show is: “Simply breathtaking.” Featuring seductive choreography and incredible acrobatics that test the limits of the human body.

Sat, January 18; 2 & 8pm; Aventura Arts & Cultural Center (3385 NE 188th Street, Aventura); Tix: $45 & $49; Aventuracenter.org.

NUDE – MAGICIANS Seen in London’s West End, in more than 200 cities all around the world and by over 50 million people on major TV networks, The Naked Magicians is the world’s funniest and naughtiest magic show. The show features magic, mirth and mayhem as these two hot and hilarious Aussie magicians take magic to a whole new level. Contains mature content.

For ages 18+ only.

Mon and Tues, January 13 & 14; 6:30 & 9pm; Kravis Center for the Performing Arts (701 Okeechobee Boulevard, West Palm): Tix: start at $43; Kravis.org MOVIES - BAD BOYS FOR LIFE The Bad Boys Mike Lowrey and Marcus Burnett are back together for one last ride in the highly anticipated Bad Boys for Life. This action, comedy, crime, thriller stars Will Smith, Vanessa Hudgens, Alexander Ludwig, Joe Pantoliano, and Martin Lawrence.

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COMEDIAN - JUDY GOLD Best known for her role as the star of her two critically acclaimed, long-running Off Broadway hit shows: The Judy Show – My Life As A Sitcom (New York Times Critics’ Pick) and 25 Questions for a Jewish Mother (GLADD Award, Drama Desk Nom.), she is also known for her acclaimed stand-up specials on HBO, Comedy Central and LOGO Fri, January 17; 8pm; Aventura Arts & Cultural Center (3385 NE 188th Street, Aventura); Tix: $36 & $43; Aventuracenter. org. & Saturday, January 18; 7pm; Boca Black Box (8221 Glades Road #10, Boca Raton); Tix: $35 & $45; BocaBlackBox.com ORCHESTRA - SOUTH FLORIDA SYMPHONY Masterworks II - Bruckner: Symphony No. 6; Borenstein: Concerto for Violin and Orchestra, Op. 60 featuring Irmina Trynkos, violin; Nardi: Upon An Ocean (World Premiere).

There will also be a Pre-show lecture in the Amaturo Theater at 7pm.

Thu, January 16; 7:30pm; Amaturo Theater at The Broward Center for the Performing Arts (201 SW 5th Ave, Fort Lauderdale); Tix: $40-$90; BrowardCenter.org MEAT LOAF - PRESENTS THE NEVERLAND EXPRESS & CALEB JOHNSON The Neverland Express includes world-class alumni spanning the history of the Meat Loaf legacy. Winner of American Idol season 13. He delivers his own unique stamp to such classics as “Bat Out Of Hell,” “Paradise By The Dashboard Light,” and “I Would Do Anything For Love” while staying true to the essence of Meat Loaf’s delivery.

Sun, January 12, 7:30pm; Amaturo Theater at The Broward Center for the Performing Arts (201 SW 5th Ave, Fort Lauderdale); Tix: $45-$70; BrowardCenter.org SINGER – MATISYAHU Brings his acclaimed acoustic show for two rare intimate performances. Fans will enjoy stripped back versions of his deep catalog and songs from his latest release Undercurrent. Accompanied by Live at Stubb’s guitarist Aaron Dugan and Miami-native Adam Weinberg, he highlights his voice and beat boxing with inventive guitar arrangements, lyrical intensity, and musical improvisation Sat and Sun, January 18 & 19; 7:30pm; Kravis Center for the Performing Arts (701 Okeechobee Boulevard, West Palm): Tix: start at $59; Kravis.org

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COMEDIAN - ROB SCHNEIDER A household name and a bona-fide comedy star, Rob is well known for his trademark blend of character and comedic acting, and has become one of the most popular touring acts in comedy. Schneider created and stars in the Netflix docu-series ‘Real Rob’, which focuses on the day-to-day hijinks of Rob’s life. The series marks the first time any actor has ever written, produced, starred in, directed and financed an entire season of a television show.

Fri-Sun, January 17-19; Miami Improv (3450 NW 83 Ave, Suite 224, Doral); Tix: $30 &$40; Miamiimprov.com

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DONALD TRUMP

OF THE WEEK

BY D'ANNE WITKOWSKI

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s I write this it is the day before Christmas Eve and the second night of Hanukkah. In our house we celebrate both not only because we have Jews in our extended family but also because my wife and I like to celebrate traditions with our son. It's our goal to raise him to be a feminist who embraces a variety of cultures and celebrates diversity. He is also fluent in Spanish. Basically we are everything conservatives fear when they imagine a boy being raised by lesbian parents.

We are quite proud of that.

So, 2019. What a year, eh? A lot of awfulness.

Honestly, it's hard to think of good news because there's an orange cloud hanging over everything. And that orange cloud is named Donald Trump.

It is still incredible to me that someone so proudly ignorant, dishonest, narcissistic, racist, misogynist and cruel is the president of the United States. It's like a bad dream I can't wake up from.

Trump is instructive when it comes to how I do NOT want my son to turn out. It's a strange position to be in as a parent, looking at something Trump does or says and then having to explain to my son how I would be so ashamed if he were to behave that way.

When I told my son that Trump had been impeached he got very excited. Because he, like many Americans mistakenly understood impeachment to be synonymous with removal.

It, of course, is not. A president can be impeached but not removed.

On Dec. 19, Trump sent an absolutely batshit

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insane letter to House Speaker Nancy Pelosi (D-California) in which he protested the impeachment.

Trump wrote, “[Democrats] are the ones interfering in America's elections. You are the ones subverting America's Democracy. You are the ones obstructing Justice. You are the ones bringing pain and suffering to our Republic for your own selfish personal, political, and partisan gain.”

In other words, “I know you are but what am I.” He also wrote, ”You have developed a fullfledged case of what many in the media call Trump Derangement Syndrome and sadly, you will never get over it!”

Super presidential.

It's all up to the Senate now, which is controlled by Republicans who all maintain that they love Trump, it's True Love Forever, sitting in a tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G, gonna have his babies and if loving Trump is wrong they're proud to be right.

There was a time when people like Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-South Carolina) was calling Trump “a kook.”

In Feb. 2016 Graham told Fox News, “I think he's crazy. I think he's unfit to be president.”

Then on May 6, 2016, Graham Tweeted, “If we nominate Trump, we will get destroyed, and we will deserve it.”

But that was then. Now Graham is basically worshipping Trump as a god. In fact, Chris Hayes, host of MSNBC's “All In,” called Graham “one of the most devoted and self-abasing

Basically we are everything conservatives fear when they Basically we are everything conservatives fear when they imagine a boy being raised by lesbian parents. imagine a boy being raised by lesbian parents.

We are quite proud of that.

We are quite proud of that. acolytes of the President.” acolytes of the President.”

It's an apt description since Trump has It's an apt description since Trump has become a cult leader. Unquestioned, become a cult leader. Unquestioned, unchallenged, unchecked. What could possibly unchallenged, unchecked. What could possibly go wrong? go wrong?

Regarding his role as a juror in the upcoming Regarding his role as a juror in the upcoming trial in the Senate, Graham said, “I'm not trying trial in the Senate, Graham said, “I'm not trying to pretend to be a fair juror here.” to pretend to be a fair juror here.”

In other words, he has no intention of doing In other words, he has no intention of doing his job. Definitely try that next time you get his job. Definitely try that next time you get called for jury duty and see how it works out. called for jury duty and see how it works out.

(Though I would like to point out that jury duty (Though I would like to point out that jury duty is incredibly important and a sign of how is incredibly important and a sign of how messed up our justice system is that being on a messed up our justice system is that being on a jury has become synonymous with being a pain jury has become synonymous with being a pain in the ass and a hardship. Elect people who want in the ass and a hardship. Elect people who want to reform our justice system for the better, folks). to reform our justice system for the better, folks).

Meanwhile Mitch McConnell (R-Kentucky) has Meanwhile Mitch McConnell (R-Kentucky) has publicly said he plans to work directly with publicly said he plans to work directly with Trump's legal team.

Trump's legal team.

And yet Republicans are calling for Sens.

And yet Republicans are calling for Sens.

Elizabeth Warren (D-Massachusetts), Bernie Elizabeth Warren (D-Massachusetts), Bernie

Sanders (D-Vermont), Cory Booker (D-New Sanders (D-Vermont), Cory Booker (D-New Jersey), Amy Klobuchar (D-Minnesota) and Jersey), Amy Klobuchar (D-Minnesota) and Michael Bennet (D-Colorado) to recuse Michael Bennet (D-Colorado) to recuse themselves since they're all running to be themselves since they're all running to be Trump's Democratic challenger. They'd Trump's Democratic challenger. They'd probably prefer that Sen. Kamala Harris (Dprobably prefer that Sen. Kamala Harris (DCalifornia) sit this one out, too.

California) sit this one out, too.

But hey, maybe Republicans will surprise us.

But hey, maybe Republicans will surprise us.

Maybe they will rise to the occasion and do the Maybe they will rise to the occasion and do the right... Oh, man. I can't even finish that right... Oh, man. I can't even finish that sentence. They won't. To everyone holding sentence. They won't. To everyone holding their breath hoping that Republicans care at all their breath hoping that Republicans care at all about the rule of law you need to start about the rule of law you need to start breathing again right away. We need you alive breathing again right away. We need you alive to vote in 2020. to vote in 2020.

D'Anne Witkowski is a poet, writer and D'Anne Witkowski is a poet, writer and comedian living in Michigan with her wife and comedian living in Michigan with her wife and son. She has been writing about LGBT politics son. She has been writing about LGBT politics for over a decade. Follow her on Twitter for over a decade. Follow her on Twitter @MamaDWitkowski. @MamaDWitkowski.

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t's 2020 and you're ready to blast into a New Year filled with hearty, healthy new habits including a renewed openness to working out, getting fit, and staying healthy! The only trouble is that all winter, spring, summer and fall, your job keeps demanding more of your time and energy. On those days when deadlines, long hours, and irritable bosses keep you from getting to the gym you can still get in a workout right there in the office. Here are some super exercises that you can do on

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break or between meetings. These must-do moves will help you to get in a pump and burn lots of calories simply and effectively.

The squat is the best exercise for your lower body, especially your butt. Stand tall with your feet approximately 2 feet apart, toes pointed slightly outward. Bend your knees until your thighs are nearly parallel to the floor. Hold for four deep breaths then gradually stand back up to starting position. Repeat 15 to 20 times. Keep your back straight, hands on your hips and look straight ahead keeping your chin slightly upward. To make

this exercise harder, add weight by holding a couple of large books. Follow each set of squats with high kicks. Lean over a bench or chair, steady yourself on one foot and kick up and out as high as you can with the other leg for 15 to 20 reps then change sides. These are great butt shapers.

Push Ups are dynamite exercises for the entire upper body, especially your chest. For a bigger, harder chest, boulder shoulders and pumped

and toes. Bend your elbows to lower your body 3 to 4 inches. Press back up to start.

Repeat 10 to 15 times. For variation, try a set with your arms out as wide as you can, then do a set with arms shoulder width apart, then bring your arms in as close as you can. This will allow you to target and isolate the muscle groups of the upper body.

Criss-cross crunches will not only give you awesome abs, but they challenge all aspects of the core at once. Lie on a towel or a small exercise mat (you can store one under your desk) with your left knee bent towards your chest and right leg extended up off the floor.

Place your hands behind your head to cradle your neck and head. Never pull on them. Curl head, neck and shoulders up off the floor.

Rotate from the middle so that your right shoulder is pointing toward your left knee.

Hold one breath then slowly rotate to the other side by bending the right knee and extending the left leg as the left elbow moves to the right knee. Continue alternating to complete the set.

Repeat 10 to 15 times on each side.

Try this routine in the morning before you get to the office. Then find an uncluttered place at work to do it on your lunch break.

Bust up the afternoon doldrums by doing it again on days when you can't get to the gym.

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biceps and triceps do your push ups daily. Bend your elbows and place your palms on the floor a bit to the side and in front of the shoulders. Straighten your arms and lift your body to balance on palms Tom Bonanti is a certified personal trainer and massage therapist (MA#40288) with his own one on one facility Pumpnincgym.com in Ft. Lauderdale. Contact trainertomb@aol.com with questions or to make an appointment today!

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David Hernandez

is Feeling Pso-Right

By Robert Hassilow

A

lthough David Hernandez is best known for his gorgeous pipes, famously competing on the seventh season of American Idol, the out singer is making a name for himself in the wellness world. He's the new spokesperson for the self-massaging tool, Pso-Rite.

He was irst introduced to the product last year, after surviving a six-car pile-up that left him with severe injury to his neck and back. “The pain was excruciating,” he remembers. He was given epidurals to alleviate the swelling in his spine and followed it with six months of chiropractor treatment.

“Most people don't think about the impact of living with injury until it happens to them,” he continues. “All of a sudden, simple things like running, lifting, working, and performing basic tasks become impossible.”

After the chiropractor treatment ended, David hoped to follow it with massage therapy but his insurance wouldn't cover it. Luckily, a chance

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encounter at a pool party changed everything for him.

According to the 36-year-old, Pso-Rite does more than offer the deep tissue massages he needs to release the tightness in his neck and back. It has allowed him to get back to the gym and feel like himself again. We caught up with David Hernandez from his home in LA.

Is David Hernandez to Pso-Rite what Suzanne Somers was to ThighMaster?

David Hernandez: (Laughing) If getting behind it means that more people will discover it, then sure, I'll be Ms. Somers. The truth is, thousands of everyday people believe in PsoRite and support it regardless of my involvement.

This isn't your irst time as a pitchman! I read you had a job selling knives door-todoor as a kid.

David Hernandez: (Laughing) Actually, I sold the knives during my irst semester in college at the University of Arizona. I was terrible at it,

because the knives cost three thousand dollars and I couldn't sell something that I wouldn't buy myself.

How did you discover Pso-Rite?

David Hernandez: My friend invited me to his pool this past summer and he told me about a company he and his brother had started. He had me try it out on the pool deck and I was immediately hooked. It really hit home for me, considering I had been having chronic lower back pain since the accident.

Did the brothers ask you to be their spokesperson?

David Hernandez: They asked me to take some photos with my Pso-Rite and about a month later, I came onboard with the company.

It is de initely a passion of mine now.

Why? David Hernandez: Because it got me to the point where I can hit the gym again! I'm pain-free! Plus, using Pso-Rite for ten minutes before workouts improves my performance by enabling an increase range of motion. Using it after workouts helps with recovery by introducing new blood low and releasing toxins.

The gym has always played an important role in your life. Fans may be surprised to learn that you were a gymnast before you were a singer.

David Hernandez: I was! I was always very active, growing up. I used to watch the Olympics and dream of being in them one day. I competed in the Grand Canyon Olympics and took home a lot of medals. Gymnastics taught me discipline and helped to instill the importance of physical activity into my life that still continues to this day.

Why did you give gymnastics up?

David Hernandez: It is a very rigorous lifestyle. My life became school and then practice ive days per week. It started to take a toll on me.

experience and became a family. I keep in regular contact with Chikezie, Syesha Mercado and Ramiele. Carly Smithson came to my last show in San Diego. I also speak with contestants from other seasons. Blake Lewis, Elliott Yamin, Mikalah Gordon, Haley Reinhart, Brandon Rogers, and Joshua Ledet are all friends.

Are you working on any new music?

David Hernandez: Absolutely! Ef ie Passero (another former American Idol) and I have been writing music together and plan to release our irst single and music video this month. We call ourselves 2nd Hour and the single will be “What I See,� a power ballad and we couldn't be more stoked about!

The universe had bigger plans for you. Do you keep in touch with any of the singers you competed with on the seventh season of American Idol?

Visit https://pso-rite.com and follow David David Hernandez: Yes, I keep in touch with a Hernandez on IG @DHernandezMusic lot of them. We all shared a really unique

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ENJOY IT, WHILE IT LASTS Dear Andreus, I have met the man of my dreams. After so many failed relationships, I had all but given up. I met this amazing guy, and suddenly everything seems to be just right. The issue is that I am constantly in my thoughts. I am so afraid of the floor coming out from under me, just because things are going so great. I can't understand why I am so fearful of something so good. Any thoughts?

Sincerely, Douglas J. Dear Douglas, That is what we call “human nature.” We are not creatures of absolute satisfaction.

No matter what we have, we want more.

Clearly if things have never gone well, and now they are, it is a natural reaction to feel skeptical. What I can tell you, is not to waste your time in your thoughts.

Sometimes thinking to much can sabotage something wonderful. If you spend all your time waiting for the floor to come out from underneath you, you can focus on this amazing thing that is happening to you.

There are no guarantees in life. Enjoy the good things, while you have them.

Sometimes we are fortunate enough to

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keep them.

Dear Andreus, I am secretly having an intimate relationship with my second cousin. I have always been taught that these things are taboo, but I can't help it. We began a fondness for one another as children, and now as adults, we have a sort of secret relationship. It is so difficult to keep up appearances, because my family would likely disown us both. I feel the pressure to walk away, but I love him. I have no idea how to handle this situation. Please help!

Sincerely, Carson H. Dear Carson, Okay, this is a new one for me. I don't know that I can say anything that would make you feel at ease about this. For most, something like this would be considered taboo. What you must ask yourself is – what is at stake? How many lives would be affected by finding out this secret? Do you feel completely comfortable in this “forbidden” love? If the reservations you have, outweigh all else, then you have your answer. Good luck!

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The Spa at The Grand Resort is looking for a Licensed Massage Therapist for our day spa. Also looking for a Licensed Full Specialist. Waxing, nails (no fills, acrylic) simply buff or clear coat and a variety of facials. We’ll train you on our products and services. The right therapist and specialists can do well in our spa. We’ve been in business for 18 years and have received many awards. All equipment and materials are provided. We receive guests from the resort we are located in, along with clients from neighboring hotels and guesthouses.

Commission and 100% of your gratuity. 3-4 days available for the right candidates. Email a resume to spa.director@hotmail.com.

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No pets. No smoking. Call 754-366-7563

LAKE EMERALD PROPERTY OAKLAND PARK

2 bdrm 2 baths 3rd Floor Gated Community $1,350 per month first and last 954-801-4273

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Lg. 1/1, Condo, 1st Floor, private parking, 4 blocks to entertainment, arts, food etc. - Less than 10 minutes to the beach. $1100./mo., CAN SPREAD OUT F/L/S Contact Joe AT 954-656-7608 or TEXT/ MSG with “apartment”

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2 bed / 1 bath, renovated. Nice private fenced yard, driveway ½ mile to The drive, Florida room 1650.00 call- 954-804-6764

WALK TO WILTON DR. STUDIO/EFFICIENCY

Private entrance, nice studio/efficiency. 1/2 Block to Wilton Drive. Refrigerator, microwave, electric & water included. $840./month plus 1 month security.

No smoking or pets. Call 313-460-3881

WILTON MANORS 1/1

Completely renovated, central air, DW, W/D in unit.

Prime location. Beautifully landscaped complex, minutes to the drive. Pet friendly. $1225./mo.

Contact Rich 718-314-8686

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Fort Lauderdale/Wilton Manors just off of The Drive.

Washer/Dryer, garage parking. Pool in Association.

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Share a 3BD/2BA house with pool, hot tub and a great atmosphere. Large furnished room. $750/ Mo. Newly renovated. What’s the catch? You must be a quality individual: responsible, professional, mature, employed, clean and respectful. incl. ALL utilities. MUST BE NEAT 954-980-1123.

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MASSAGE/SKIN CARE/WAXING/MANSCAPING

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Offering Swedish, Lomi Lomi, Sports and Deep Tissue Massage for Men at Affordable Rates in a comfortable and Private Massage studio located in Wilton Manors on NE 26th Street, Same Day appointments can mostly be accommodated.

Great New Specials Available call for details. Gift Certificates Available. Call Jim at 954-600-5843 or visit my website at www.massagebyjim.com License MM22293. Plenty of Free Parking. GIFT CERTIFICATES AVAILABLE.

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Artserve

Celebrates Black History Month ArtServe, a non-profit that supports artists committed to diversity, equity, and inclusion, is presenting “Roots of the Spirit: Soulful Expressions of the African Diaspora” from Jan. 15 through Feb. 27, coinciding with Black History Month.

Under the artistic direction of Consulting Curator Ludlow E. Bailey, “Roots of the Spirit” is a multimedia exhibition and performance series exploring African customs and aesthetics – from ancient traditions to works produced exclusively for this show. A collaboration with The Miramar Cultural Trust further supplements the exhibition with “Imagine Puppets,” a national collection of handmade figures representing the post-slavery era of puppetry, created by contemporary African-American artists.

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by Zipporah Michel

zation, and climate gentrification. The group includes: • ArtServe artist-in-residence George Gadson • Fine artist and illustrator Zipporah Michel • Interdisciplinary artist and dancer Hattie Mae Williams and opera singer Kunya Rowley • Painter, sculptor and installation artist Asser Saint-Val • Photographer Zeek Mathias • Multidisciplinary artist and educator Morel Doucet • Artist, author, and University of Texas Professor Moyo Okediji

“Surviving slavery meant tapping into the sprit side of ourselves, which has allowed us to endure a whole lot of pain and emerge strong, resilient and powerful,” says Bailey, managing director of Contemporary African Diaspora Art. “My motivation behind ‘Roots of the Spirit’ revolves around educating the whole community about the history of black people in the world. We’re living in a time where there’s a big misconception about where we were up to the 14th century. That’s when we started having a different status.”

Bailey is gathering some 25 visual and performing artists from Nigeria, Cuba, Haiti, Jamaica and the U.S. – bold artists exploring themes such as ancestral memory, coloni-

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Mama Stirs by Moyo Okediji

“We’ve chosen to kick off 2020’s socially conscious season with a celebration of Africa, because that’s where the human story begins,” says ArtServe Executive Director Craig W. Johnson. “We are exploring not only the continent’s spiritual roots – but all of our roots.

We are celebrating our shared origins and underscoring ArtServe’s commitment to unifying communities through the arts.”

Key Dates and Tickets:

“Roots of the Spirit” VIP Reception – Jan. 18 from 6 to 9 pm.

The experience includes: open wine bar and vegan cuisine catered by Inika Foods; an exclusive performance of African dance, spirituals and opera; and tours of ArtServe’s creative laboratory, where artists experiment with concepts tied to social impact. Attendees will also participate in conversations about the latest cultural trends with three influencers

that ArtServe is recognizing through its Broward County Arts & Culture Visionary Awards: Melissa Hunter Davis, founder and editor of Sugarcane Magazine, an online journal about art of Africa and the African Diaspora; Darius Daughtry, author of “And the Walls Came Tumbling: Unapologetically Speaking Truth to Power” and executive director of Art Prevails Project; and Miguel Pilgram, CEO of Pilgram Group, a development company revitalizing the Sistrunk area through jazz and art. For tickets, visit www.artserve.org.

“Roots of the Spirit” Community Reception – Feb. 1 from 3 pm to 5 pm.

Celebrate the first day of Black History Month at ArtServe with the community reception for “Roots of the Spirit: Soulful Expressions of the African Diaspora.” Tickets are $20 each and include pizza, punch and art activities. Admission is free for members and children 12 and under. For tickets, visit Artserve.org.

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MASTERWORKS II BRUCKNER: Symphony No. 6 BRAHMS: Concerto for Violin and Orchestra featuring Siwoo Kim, violin NARDI: Upon An Ocean (World Premiere)

JAN. 16

Broward Center Ft. Lauderdale

JAN. 18

Temple Israel of Greater Miami Miami

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