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NOVEMBER 2016
Speaker’s life-long mission is to give people hope
Regional - Chris Must chris@pdgmedia.ca “I can’t put my arms around you and embrace you, but I’m hoping with my music to hug your heart,” said Tony Melendez to a youthful audience at the Smiths Falls Golf & Country Club on Nov. 1. Born without arms or hands after his mother was prescribed thalidomide to treat morning sickness during her pregnancy, Melendez taught himself to play the guitar with his toes. Now 54, he is a motivational speaker and performer who has visited 44 countries and shared a message of hope with millions. As Melendez’s older brother Jose told an audience of students, educators, children’s aid society staff and foster parents at the event hosted by the Crown Ward Education Championship Team, “You can’t tell me that miracles don’t exist.” Born in Nicaragua and raised in Los Angeles, Melendez has been married for 26 years, and has driven his car from one end of the United States to the other, using customized foot controls. He has recorded five albums of original songs and written an autobiography. He and his family now live in Branson, Missouri. Because he was born without arms, Melendez explained, he never had to adjust to losing them. “The foot just kind of took over
instantly,” he said. “The foot became the hand.” Melendez was also born with a clubbed foot, requiring several operations to allow him to walk normally. Although Melendez’s father was an abusive alcoholic who died at 42, he did leave an important legacy. A guitar player himself, he inspired his armless son to become a musician. “If I just stood still, I hated life,” Melendez recalled. “I hated the way people looked at me. That’s where the music came in.” Melendez, whose motto is “If I do not make the effort to do something, I will never know if I can,” learned how to hold a guitar pick between the toes of one foot, and to change chords with a toe of the other foot. Using an open (Drop D) tuning that allows him to change chords with one toe, he can even play “fingerstyle” guitar using the toes of the other foot. “Imagine if you (a person with arms) could learn to play the guitar with your feet?” He joked. “You could play lead and rhythm guitar at the same time. You wouldn’t need that other person.” Melendez’s original songs shared messages of hope, belief and love for others. Combining humour and audience participation with his serious messages, Melendez also sang some favourite songs by other art-
Born without arms or hands, Tony Melendez taught himself to play the guitar with his feet, and now travels the world sharing a message of belief and hope. He visited Smiths Falls on Nov. 1. Photo Credit: Chris Must
ists, including Don’t Worry, Be Happy (Bobby McFerrin); Grandma’s Feather Bed (John Denver); La Bamba; and We Are the World, from Live Aid. Speaking to the audience later in the program, Melendez’s brother Jose described the experience of growing up with a brother with no arms, and how people would stare at him, or make hurtful re-
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marks. As his older brother, Jose would fight with bullies, until one day Tony told him that, “If I had hands, I would never use them for violence.” Jose urged the audience to remember that “words have meaning, and they hurt.” Reinforcing the message of hope, he added, “If you say I can’t, I won’t, I give up, then you are more disabled that my brother will ever be.”
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Among the many people Melendez has met in his travels was Pope John Paul II. In 1987, he was chosen by the youth of Los Angeles as their gift to the Pope. Recounting that experience to his Smiths Falls audience, Melendez recalled the Pope’s word to him the day they met: “My wish for you is that you continue giving hope to others.”
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