Silverlinings Midlands Wedding Guide - Autumn/Winter 2019

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Managing your guest list Win £275 Bridal Gift Box at every wedding fair from Steffans Jewellers

DESTINATION WEDDINGS IN THE UK PLANNING FOR A WET WEDDING

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Prize draw

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PRIZE DRAW Perfect gifts for you and your Bridal Party to remember your special day.

-A pair of pearl earrings each for the Bride, Maid of Honor, and Bridesmaid -A pair of engraved cufflinks each for the Groom and Best Man

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a Bridal Gift Box from Steffans Jewellers worth ÂŁ275 Every Silverlinings wedding fair has the ir own PRIZE DRAW to win

The winners will be chosen at the end of each fair and you simply have to pop along to the Steffans store in Northampton within 30 days to collect your prize.

To win, all you have to do is: -R egister for our fairs at www.silverlinings.co.uk -A ttend any of the fairs you have registered for

Images are a representation and may not be the actual prize.

PRIZE DRAW y Rebbeca & Ton A huge thanks goes to Wes Suter at Steffans Jewellers for being our Prize Draw sponsor.

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WINNERS A huge congratulations to Rebecca Prior and Tony Hill on winning the Spring/Summer 2019 Prize Draw of ÂŁ1000 towards their wedding rings from Steffans Jewellers.

After 9 years together and 3 children between them, Rebecca and Tony are getting married at the stunning Normanton Church, followed by a reception at Normanton Park Hotel, in September 2020.

We wish them all the love, luck and happiness.

Terms & conditions: no cash alternative; prize must be collected from the sponsor within 30 days of the wedding fair - if it remains unclaimed, Silverlinings reserves the right to redraw; the sponsor reserves the right to offer an alternative prize should this become unavailable.

Free goody bag packed with magazines, discounts and offers

Pre-register and attend to be in with a chance of winning a Bridal Gift Box worth £275 from Steffans Jewellers* at every wedding fair.

Pre-register at www.silverlinings.co.uk

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NORTHAMPTON MARRIOTT WEDDING FAIR SUNDAY 8TH SEPTEMBER Eagle Drive, Northampton, NN4 7HW THE BIG KETTERING WEDDING SHOW AT KETTERING CONFERENCE CENTRE SUNDAY 15TH SEPTEMBER Thurston Drive, Kettering, NN15 6PB OXFORD TOWN HALL WEDDING FAIR SUNDAY 22ND SEPTEMBER St Aldate’s, Oxford, OX1 1BX SILVERSTONE GOLF CLUB WEDDING FAIR SUNDAY 29TH SEPTEMBER Silverstone Road, Stowe, MK18 5LH LEICESTER MERCURE THE GRAND HOTEL SUNDAY 6TH OCTOBER Granby St, Leicester, LE1 6ES THE BIG NORTHAMPTON WEDDING SHOW AT THE NCCC SUNDAY 13TH OCTOBER Northants County Cricket Club, Northampton, NN1 4PR KETTERING PARK HOTEL WEDDING FAIR SUNDAY 20TH OCTOBER Kettering Parkway, Kettering, NN15 6XT HOLIDAY INN CORBY WEDDING FAIR SUNDAY 3RD NOVEMBER Geddington Rd, Corby, NN18 8ET MAGNOLIA PARK COUNTRY CLUB WEDDING FAIR SUNDAY 17TH NOVEMBER Arncott Road, Boarstall, HP18 9XX CHRISTMAS AT NORTHAMPTON GUILDHALL SUNDAY 24TH NOVEMBER St. Giles Square, Northampton, NN1 1DE All fairs are open from 11am - 3pm (unless stated otherwise) Free Admission (unless stated otherwise)

FAWSLEY HALL HOTEL & SPA FAWSLEY, NORTHAMPTONSHIRE

The perfect venue ďż˝ Stunning views, striking backdrops and soft shades of ancient stone, Fawsley Hall could lie at the heart of any fairy tale wedding.

Surrounded by 2000 acres of beautiful parkland in the heart of Northamptonshire, this historic mansion house has striking but flexible function rooms including your own exclusive venue, space for romantic outdoor ceremonies and the comfort of elegant bedrooms and suites.

Our experienced and dedicated team will be on hand every step of the way, to ensure you have the wedding of your dreams.

Wedding Event Day Join us on Sunday 8th September from 12pm until 3pm Suppliers, stands and meet the team Pre-registration also available to try our Home Cooked Hog Roast Call to arrange a show round with our Wedding Co-ordinator or just pop in for a chat!

Fawsley Hall Hotel & Spa Fawsley, Near Daventry NN11 3BA 01327 892000 weddings.fawsley@handpicked.co.uk handpickedhotels.co.uk/fawsleyhall

HOTELS B U I L T

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Welcome

in this issue...

REGULARS 4 Prize draw 5 Wedding fair diary 10 What you need to do & when The sun is finally out! Well, it is today and fingers crossed it stays for the rest of the next few months so all of our summer brides can have the sunshine they are hoping for.

We’re already halfway through the year (where has the time gone!) and looking ahead to the sumptuous autumn and winter weddings.

We are seeing a move towards smaller, more intimate weddings which may prove more popular during the darker months when candle lit dinners in cosy venues come into their own.

One of my favourite fabrics, velvet, is a rising trend and perfect for bringing warmth to weddings in the colder months. Bring on the grooms wearing velvet dinner jackets! But let us enjoy the summer first!

Our fabulous new website went live in July (a little later than expected!), so if you’re still looking for your team of wedding professionals, head over to www.silverlinings.co.uk and check out our Wedding Directory. You’ll also find wonderfully inspiring blogs and practical planning downloads.

Our magazine has been a successful planning tool for our brides and grooms for over 15 years, and we truly hope you’ll find this guide useful in planning your special once-in-alifetime wedding day.

27 Northants wedding venues 62 Mood boards

FEATURES

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Guide to wedding ceremonies 14 Vows & readings

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SPOTLIGHT STUNNING BRIDAL

18 Ask the expert 22 Managing your guest list 31 Insuring against the unexpected 32 5 ways to have a sustainable wedding dress 43 I t’s never too early for wedding dress shopping!

Cover photo: Sarah Vivienne Photography.

Hair: Leanne Eldridge, Make-up: Rochelle O’Brien, Dress: Serendipity Brides, Balloons: Bubblegum Balloons, Model: Polly Jones

CONTACT US Editor Emma Tuckley hello@silverlinings.co.uk Midlands Manager Jennifer Hughes jennifer@silverlinings.co.uk Art Director Chris Bunt - Desine adcopy@silverlinings.co.uk

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STYLING YOUR WEDDING CAKE TABLE

50 Planning for a wet wedding 74 Destination weddings in the UK 78 How social media is inspiring our honeymoon choices

REAL WEDDINGS 44 Emily & Ashley Holdenby House

68 Julia & Sarah The Reid Rooms

58 Anna & Aaron Warwick House The views of the contributors in the Silverlinings Wedding Guide are not necessarily those shared by the publisher. The contributor acknowledges that material submitted may be published in any publication, website, or social media produced or managed by High Times Weddings Ltd. The contributor agrees not to submit material where they do not own the copyright or where they have not obtained all necessary permissions from the rightful owners. The contributor confirms all necessary model releases have been obtained from persons appearing in any image.

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If so, check out our

WEDDING DIRECTORY LISTING INFORMATION INCLUDES: • Overview of services offered • Contact information

• Links to social media • Links to online shops • Gallery images • Video clips*

• Directions to business* * Where applicable

www.silverlinings.co.uk/wedding-directory Are you a wedding business looking to reach more engaged couples?

If so contact us at hello@silverlinings.co.uk or 07732 285617

Weddings at Kilworth

Extraordinary Weddings don’t just happen… …they’re planned!

A picturesque country house set amid rolling parkland is the perfect setting for your fairytale wedding.

Turn your dreams into a reality surrounded by stunning scenery, architecture and the exceptional service of our dedicated team.

Kilworth House Hotel, Lutterworth Road, North Kilworth, Leicestershire LE17 6JE Telephone: 01858 880058 www.kilworthhouse.co.uk

Planning

TO DO

12 months before...

Choose a wedding date Decide on a budget Open a planning book Make a list of guests and decide on numbers Book your church or registrar Book your reception venue/caterers Send out “Save The Date” cards Choose your Bridesmaids, Ushers and Best Man Start looking for The Dress!

Choose and book your photographer

10 months before...

Order your wedding dress Choose bridesmaids’ dresses Choose the music, hymns and readings for the ceremony Order wedding stationery Book entertainment Choose and order your wedding cake Make an appointment with your chosen florist Select a Toastmaster Decide on how you’re getting to the venues

Choose and book your videographer Take out insurance cover Start thinking about the honeymoon

6 months before...

Book an engagement shoot Give Notice of Marriage Purchase or hire menswear Order venue decoration/chair covers Select your wedding rings Book a make-up artist/hairdresser and arrange a trial Choose a Gift List Think about timings of the day Book transport Buy shoes, lingerie and accessories Attend initial fitting for your wedding dress

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Planning

4 months before...

Send out your wedding invitations Check your passport expiry date Check if you will need visas or vaccinations for your honeymoon destination Choose attendants’ gifts Order favours Start thinking about a seating plan Book your wedding night accommodation Make arrangements for Hen and Stag parties

2 weeks before...

Arrange fittings for the menswear Organise a rehearsal with the relevant people

Make a note of wedding gifts as they arrive

Choose your menu Have a final meeting with your venue

1 month before...

Arrange a final fitting of your wedding dress

Arrange to change your name if appropriate Speak to all your suppliers to confirm details Book dry cleaning for your dress

1 week before...

Telephone guests who have not responded to your invitation Buy a wedding gift for each other Arrange for a final fitting for your bridesmaids, ushers and best man and arrange when to collect the outfits Confirm timings with the venue and all relevant suppliers

Arrange to collect your wedding dress, bridesmaids dresses and the menswear Arrange for your order of service to be given to the minister Pack for your honeymoon or overnight bag Have all your beauty treatments Book the groom a hair cut

Have a final meeting with your venue Create a list of important photos for the photographer

Confirm the date and time of the rehearsal with the relevant people

Organise an emergency kit for on the day Drink plenty of water and have some early nights

... and Relax and enjoy this time – all your hard work is about to come to fruition

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Church: St. Pirans, Perranzabuloe, Cornwall. Photography: Elizabeth Melvin Photography

Marriage

GUIDE

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Marriage

Things have changed a bit since the only option for couples wanting to get married was a religious ceremony in the bride’s parish church and couples can now choose to seal their union in a way that best suits them. The legislation around who can marry who has also changed relatively recently and now, both heterosexual and same sex couples can get married in Register Offices and Approved Venues.

TRADITIONAL WEDDINGS IN CHURCH Brides and grooms can, of course, still choose to get married in church and many do, even if they have already set up home together. These will be very traditional ceremonies conducted by the vicar and will include the classic ‘…to have and to hold…’ vows that we are all familiar with.

REGISTER OFFICES There has also long been the option to get married in a Register Office, of which there are a number in Cornwall, and ceremonies held here have to be strictly non-religious, even down to the choice of music and readings. They must be conducted by a Registrar who is employed by the local authority and can include vows written by the couple as well as the statutory Declaratory Vows and Contractual Vows.

Around Cornwall, this includes castles, luxury hotels, beaches (under a roofed structure) and even a camel farm! Your local authority will have a full list of Approved Venues on their website.

The chances are that any venue chosen will have a dedicated wedding co-ordinator or event planner who will help with all the arrangements.

However, the couple themselves will each still have to apply for a Notice of Marriage at the Register Office in the district where they normally live, at least 28 days before the date of the ceremony.

The legal aspect of a wedding in an Approved Venue is very similar to that of a Register Office wedding, must be conducted by a Registrar employed by the local authority and will also be entered into the Register there and then. However, couples can then choose to ask a celebrant or other person to lead a less formal celebration of their union where the choice of readings, songs, music etc. can be completely open.

OTHER LEGAL WEDDING VENUES Some other venues can be the setting for a legal wedding ceremony. These include chapels or even private homes or hospitals in the case of someone who is seriously ill.

CIVIL PARTNERSHIPS Civil partnerships are still available as an option for same sex couples and it is anticipated that this will extend to heterosexual couples at the end of 2019. There are some subtle differences in the paperwork for civil partnerships; for example, information on both the father & mother of both parties will be included in the schedule and the partnership is formed by the signing of the civil partnership document, as opposed to the sharing of vows as in a marriage.

The marriage is entered into the official Register and a marriage certificate written out during the ceremony and presented to the couple soon after.

Same sex couples who had a civil partnership can convert that to a marriage by signing a declaration at the Register Office. Then, a marriage ceremony can be organised in the usual way and a marriage certificate issued.

APPROVED VENUES The biggest change in recent years has been the introduction of Approved Venues. These are venues licenced by the local authority to host wedding ceremonies and this means that couples can now choose to get married in some spectacular locations.

Getting married or entering into a civil partnership is a legal process and so there are some defined steps to go through before and during the ceremony. But the most important thing is to choose a venue, type of ceremony and its content that mean most to the couple, their families and friends as they celebrate their love.

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Marriage

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READINGS Congratulations - you are getting married!

This is such an exciting time but there are so many choices and decisions to make – venues, colours, flowers, dresses, suits – the list can feel endless.

One of the most personal and important decisions is about the intimate heart of the day – your ceremony. However you choose to marry, be it Church, Civil Ceremony with the Registration Service or a celebration with a Celebrant, there are choices to be made.

Whatever your choice, one of the ways you can personalise the ceremony is to include some personal vows and add in some readings.

WE HAVE PUT TOGETHER SOME TIPS ABOUT CREATING YOUR OWN VOWS: -K eep them simple, sincere and heartfelt – a little humour is a nice touch but don’t overdo it!

-D on’t think you can ad lib on the day – this is such an important part of the ceremony – your vows need to be thought through!

- These words become full of such strong emotion on your wedding day that you may find it difficult to speak – we suggest that 3-4 sentences is about the right length.

-R emember that you have an audience who will be hearing your vows.

-B e true to who you are and who you are as a couple.

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STUCK FOR INSPIRATION? Take a look at poems, prose and song lyrics which you can adapt to suit you both. If you are working with a celebrant they can help you with suggestions, and they can also keep your vows secret from each other until the day making them a romantic surprise. A good celebrant will also moderate your individual vows for both length and tone to ensure they fully reflect you both.

Readings are another wonderful way of injecting your personalities into the ceremony.

From classic romantic poems and sonnets to humorous prose, and everything in-between.

Choose something which speaks to you both, again song lyrics can work well. Alternatively, ask a guest to choose a reading as a surprise!

Some couples have put together their favourite quotes on love, romance, life and marriage, and given them out randomly to their guests, who have then been asked to read the quotes out during the ceremony – a fun way to get everyone involved!

We love to include something different – Bob Marley’s essay on love, the Dali Lama on marriage, traditional Taoist passages, and extracts from novels such as “The Amber Spyglass” by Phillip Pullman and “The Alchemist”

by Paulo Coelho - there is so much choice! Some brides and grooms write their own poems or have guests that write and read one for them – how personal is that? We would suggest that 2 or 3 readings is about right for a ceremony however we recently conducted a ceremony with 7 and it worked so well – each was brilliantly delivered and had the right sentiment for the couple who were great Shakespeare fans.

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As Independent Celebrants we often get asked to include religious or spiritual readings into our ceremonies and we are happy to oblige. Civil Ceremonies with the Registration Service will not be able to use religious or spiritual readings and Ministers of Religion will also check the readings to be used to ensure their suitability.

Our advice is – this is your wedding and your ceremony and everything in it should speak to your hearts and be true to your souls, and make you happy.

CONTRIBUTOR Nicola & Denise Cornish Celebrants cornishcelebrants.co.uk

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Stunning Wedding Venue situated on the Northamptonshire/Buckinghamshire County border opposite the famous Silverstone Circuit.

• Fully Heated Marquee • Newly Furnished Function Room • Licensed for both Inside and Outside Wedding Ceremonies • Exclusive Use • Beautiful Onsite Modern Accommodation

Contact Lucy Barnes, Silverstone Golf Club, MK18 5LH Telephone: 01280 850005

www.silverstonegolfclub.co.uk

Highgate House is an elegant 17th century country house, full of English charm and character in rural Northamptonshire. Set within beautiful grounds, it offers a truly romantic setting for a wedding. With a range of ceremony and reception rooms to choose from, as well as 97 bedrooms, you can celebrate your whole day here from the all-important ‘I do’ right through to your final dance of the night.

For more information, visit www.sundialgroup.com/silverlinings or call us on 01604 505505

Highgate House, Grooms Lane, Creaton, Northampton. NN6 8NN 01604 505505 | highgate@sundialgroup.com www.sundialgroup.com/silverlinings

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Ask the

TOP TIPS FROM WEDDING INDUSTRY BUSINESSES

VENUE - BARTON HALL When you have contacted a venue/met with the wedding planner, did you feel a good rapport with the wedding planner and did they make you feel confident in their ability to deliver the wedding day that you are hoping for?

Many of the couples who choose Barton Hall over other venues do so because not only is our venue beautiful and unique, our Wedding Coordinator takes the time to listen and understand their requirements of how they want their wedding day to go and works with them to make it happen rather than stating “this is the way each wedding runs�.

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Ask the expert CAKE - JLR BAKED KREATIONS Do your homework! Although we understand that weddings are expensive, a cheap cake does not always mean good cake; for wedding cakes there is more work involved and a legitimate supplier will value their time and use quality ingredients.

Ask to see pictures of previous wedding cakes and look online for reviews. Check the local council for hygiene ratings and make sure they have public liability insurance; without this you will not be covered if anything goes wrong on the day.

Most wedding cake suppliers will give you the option to go for a cake tasting session...take it! Not only does your cake have to look good but you want it to taste great too!

STATIONERY - HALF PINT PRINT You’re engaged! Congrats!

Now the fun begins, starting with stationery. Many people overlook the importance of their wedding stationery.

However, your stationery is the perfect way to showcase to your guests the style of your wedding and illustrate your personality.

It’s important to spend time researching the kind of stationery that you love.

It’s the perfectstarting point for choosing your theme and colour schemes.

Then, find a stationer who cancreate your design and carry it throughout your wedding. Don’t forget your items for thewedding day itself - decorations, table plans and place settings. It’s the simple things thatreally will give your wedding that beautiful personal feel.

PHOTOGRAPHY - EMMA DB PHOTOGRAPHY Do you like the photographer's style? This is one of the most important things to consider!

As a bride myself, once I'd seen photos I liked, it was hard to forget my favourites when looking at other options.

It can be overwhelming and they do all start to look similar.

If that's the case, take a step back. Plan other parts of your wedding and come back to choosing your photographer a few days later. I found that worked for me and 2 years later I still love looking through my wedding photos!

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WEDDING SHOWCASES Monday 7th October 2019 (4.30pm - 7.00pm)

Wednesday 4th March 2020 (4.30pm - 7.00pm)

Meet the Wedding Team & Suppliers and view the Wedding Facilities

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A beautiful field for you to hire to create the event you desire!

www.stonesidingevents.com Stone Siding Event Field, West Haddon Rd, Guilsborough Northants

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stonesiding@outlook.com 07909 858909

Brampton Grange Old world charm meets contemporary, with our stunning converted barns & elegant & romantic English Country House, all set in 25 acres of lavish countryside.

Northamptonshire Wine Wedding Packages

Wedding Fair

Sunday 13th October 2019

www.bramptongrange.co.uk One of Northamptonshire’s largest wedding venues, with postcard perfect views in every direction.

Luxury accommodation available on site.

Call 01604 844 717 to book an appointment or to discuss your wedding with our Wedding Specialists.

www.brynnevineyard.com contactus@brynnevineyard.com for more details

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Bridebook Wedding Report 2018 said

HERE’S SOME TIPS ON DECIDING YOUR GUEST LIST AND AVOIDING THE STRESS! UNDERSTAND YOUR GOALS Use your budget and venue capacity as guides to help you set a realistic figure. If you already have an idea on catering, this will have the most impact on your budget (after your venue) so deciding if you want elaborate 4-course fine dining or street food served from vans is important from the outset.

DETERMINE YOUR IMPORTANT GUESTS When you start building your list, put down everyone who you couldn’t have a wedding without them there, from family members to old school buddies. Just for this part, take your budget and venue out of the equation. You may have to trim later but for now, this is a good starting point.

MANAGE YOUR FAMILY’S EXPECTATIONS Sometimes couples feel pressured into inviting certain friends of their parents or distant relatives because they are not entirely footing the bill themselves. If you accept any generous contributions to your wedding fund, determine if there are strings attached ahead of time.

Have an honest discussion with your parents/ in-laws/grandparents/etc. to see if their financial assistance comes with any requirements (or even any subtle “hopes”) about the guests, the venue, or other wedding details.

THE NUMBER OF GUESTS WILL AFFECT YOUR BUDGET Each guest affects a large number of elements of your wedding, from the number of plates your caterer will prepare, to place settings needed, to stationery items, to favors, and even to how much cake you’ll need. It’s much better to keep your number on the conservative side; avoid over inviting as you’ll be holding your breath every time you open an RSVP. If there’s room in the budget or you end up having more space than you thought you would, add later on.

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OF COUPLES

...found managing their guest list the most chall enging part of wedding plann ing.

CREATE YOUR ‘CUTTING’ RULES When it comes to trimming the guest list, decide on how you’ll decide on who makes the list and stick to the rules. Don’t be put off of also creating an A List and a B List which you can then refer back to when RSVPs start coming in.

1. I f neither of you has spoken to or met them or heard their name before, don’t invite them.

2. If neither of you has spoken to them in three years, don’t invite them.

3. If there’s anyone who’s on the list because you feel guilty about leaving them off, don’t invite them.

CONSIDER AN ‘ADULTS ONLY’ WEDDING Deciding whether to invite children will probably come down to a pure budgetary or venue space decision. If the money isn’t there, you may want to go with an adults-only event.

A wedding can be a great reason to encourage guests to get a sitter, leave the kids at home, dress up and enjoy a day out with your spouse!

This is a kind way to let people know that this isn’t a whole family affair, plus, it makes it a fun occasion for them!

PICK A DESTINATION AWAY FROM YOUR HOMETOWN If you find that you are still struggling to manage your guest list and have a certain number to stay below, consider choosing a venue that requires a little more effort to get to. Picking a venue an hour or two out of the way, guests are required to put a little more effort into attending. People who truly want to be there will make the effort.

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01604 609286 events@nccc.co.uk www.northantscricket.com

The tranquillity combined with the historical and picturesque setting of the Cricket Ground makes us the perfect location for your wedding day.

With years of experience planning weddings and events, our qualified team will be on hand to ensure your dream day is brought to reality.

The County Ground is proud to ensure clients have one central point of contact; from the moment your initial enquiry is processed through to the day itself. We will then smoothly hand over the details of your day to our experienced operations team who will be with you every step to ensure everything runs without a hitch. With our friendly and flexible approach we will ensure your event runs effortlessly and exceeds all your expectations.

We are now licenced for civil ceremonies from 10 to 550 guests and with a variety of spaces, many with natural daylight and pitch side views we can offer the perfect location for your big day.

Please contact our events team today and organise a convenient time to pop down to The County Ground and have a look around.

Like many of our clients, you’re sure to be impressed!

Happy Ever After starts

at Mercure Leicester the Grand Hotel.

It’s the most special day of your lives so spend it at a special place. Not only will you be in a beautiful setting but you can rest assured that we’ll help you get it just right. We’ll get to know you, your tastes, your wishes - and help make those dreams come true.

For more information and a wedding show-round please call the hotel.

T: +44 (0)116 214 9257 | E: weddings@mercureleicester.co.uk W: mercureleicester.co.uk

Situated just moments from the historic town of Kenilworth and set within 32 acres of grounds, Woodside offers a romantic setting for a wedding. With a range of ceremony and reception rooms, and the opportunity to marry outside in our beautiful gazebo, you can celebrate your whole day here, from the all-important ‘I do’ right through to your final dance of the night. There’s also the opportunity to hire the venue to be exclusively yours, including all of the 74 bedrooms.

For more information, visit www.sundialgroup.com/ws-silverlinings or call us on 01926 852217

Woodside, Glasshouse Lane, Kenilworth, Warwickshire, CV8 2AL 01926 852217 | woodside@sundialgroup.com www.sundialgroup.com/ws-silverlinings

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Magnolia Park, set in 200 acres of beautiful Buckinghamshire countryside, creates the perfect backdrop for your special day. Our characteristic venue and meticulous team ensures that your day is as personal and effortless as possible.

Our intimate Ryder Cup room can accommodate up to 70 guests, whilst our larger Magnolia Suite can accommodate up to 140 guests for your ceremony and for your Wedding Breakfast.

We believe that every wedding should be unique, which is why we will create you a bespoke wedding package, based on your expectations.

For more information about holding your wedding at Magnolia Park, call 01844 239700 or email events@magnoliapark.co.uk

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www.northampton.gov.uk/theguildhall ďˆ° Guildhall Northampton

The Guildhall, Northampton offers a unique & memorable setting for your wedding The building features period features and majestic Victorian architecture set in an enviable location offering an impressive backdrop for your perfect day.

We have a choice of stunning rooms allowing us to cater for small intimate ceremonies for as few as 4 guests up to large celebrations for 220 guests.

For more information, call 01604 838400 or email guildhalloffice@northampton.gov.uk

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CASTLE FARM GUEST HOUSE 01832 226200

deenepark.com

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DELAPRE ABBEY 01604 760817

ALTHORP 01604 770107

COCK HOTEL 01908 567733

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althorp.com

oldenglishinns.co.uk

DELAPRE GOLF CENTRE 01604 764036

AVIATOR HOTEL 01604 642111

COLD ASHBY GOLF CLUB 01604 740548

delapregolfcentre.co.uk

aviatorhotel.co.uk

coldashbygolfclub.com

DE VERE STAVERTON PARK 01327 302000

ABINGTON PARK MUSEUM 01604 838110

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COLLINGTREE PARK GOLF CLUB 01604 700000

DEENE PARK 01780 450278

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BARTON HALL HOTEL 01536 515505

CORN MARKET HALL 01536 534279

DODMOOR HOUSE 0845 241 3511

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BEST WESTERN ROCKINGHAM FOREST HOTEL 0844 387 6278

COURTEENHALL ESTATE 01604 864290

DOVECOTE FARM 01536 742227

courteenhall.co.uk

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CRANFORD HALL 01536 330608

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BOAT INN 01604 862428

cranfordhall.co.uk

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BOUGHTON HOUSE 01536 515731

CROCKWELL FARM 01327 361358

FALCON INN 01832 226254

crockwellfarm.co.uk

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CROWN HOTEL 01280 702210

FAWSLEY HALL HOTEL & SPA 01327 892000

thecrownhotelbrackley.co.uk

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FRANKLIN’S GARDENS 01604 751543

buccleuch.com

BRAMPTON GRANGE 01604 844717 bramptongrange.co.uk

BRAMPTON HEATH GOLF CENTRE 01604 843939 bramptonheathgolfcentre.co.uk

BRIDGE HOTEL 01832 732128 thebridge-hotel.com

78 DERNGATE 01604 230166 78derngate.org.uk

franklinsgardens.co.uk

FREEMASON’S HALL & CONFERENCING CENTRE 01604 714673 northants-huntsmasons.org.uk

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HILTON NORTHAMPTON 01604 700666

GARDEN ROOM AT TOP FARM 07793 866201

hilton.com

thegardenroomtop farm.com

HIND HOTEL 01933 222827

GOALS NORTHAMPTON 01604 876777

thehind.co.uk

goalsfootball.co.uk

HINWICK HOUSE 01244 571208

GRENDON HALL 01933 666830

hinwickhouse.com

northamptonshire.gov. uk/ outdoorlearning/centres/grendon

HOLDENBY HOUSE 01604 770074

grendonlakes.co.uk

01536 414414 ketteringconference.co.uk

holdenby.com

GRENDON LAKES 01933 665303

KETTERING CONFERENCE CENTRE

KETTERING MASONIC HALL 01536 512810 garleycatering.com/Venues.html

HOLIDAY INN KETTERING/CORBY

KETTERING PARK HOTEL

01536 401020

01536 416666

hicorby.com

shirehotels.com

HOLIDAY INN NORTHAMPTON 01604 622777

KNUSTON LODGE FARM 07766 003361

holidayinn.com/northamptonuk

knustonlodgefarm.com

HOLIDAY INN RUGBY 01788 824810

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GROSVENOR HOTEL RUGBY 01788 535686 grosvenorhotelrugby.co.uk

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HAMPTON BY HILTON 01536 211001 hilton.com

HARLESTONE PARK 01604 845155 harlestonepark.co.uk

HARROWDEN HALL 01933 677234 wellingboroughgolfclub.com/ weddings.asp

HELLIDON LAKES GOLF & SPA HOTEL 01327 262550 QHotels.co.uk

HIGHCROFT HOUSE 01327 351383 highcrofthouse.co.uk

HIGHGATE HOUSE 01604 505505 sundialweddings.com/highgatehouse

hirugbyhotel.co.uk

HOME FARM 07769 589459 homefarmevents.co.uk

lamporthall.co.uk

HOPPING HARE 01604 580090

LANGHAM HOTEL 01604 639917

hoppinghare.com

langham-hotel.co.uk

HUNSBURY HILL CENTRE 01604 702444

LYVEDEN NEW BIELD 01832 205358

northantsacre.org.uk

nationaltrust.org.uk/lyveden

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meadowspiresfarm.com

KELMARSH HALL 01604 686543

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LAMPORT HALL 01604 686272

MEADOW SPIRES FARM 01295 768989

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MERCURE DAVENTRY COURT HOTEL & SPA 01327 307000 mercure.com

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NARROW BOAT INN 01327 340536 narrowboatatweedon.co.uk

NEW FRENCH PARTRIDGE 01604 870033 frenchpartridge.co.uk

NORTHAMPTON COUNTY CRICKET CLUB

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OVERSTONE PARK HOTEL 01604 647666

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RAUNDS TOWN HALL 01933 622087

PALM BEACH WEDDINGS 07814 859423

RUSHDEN HALL 01933 316216

clubpalmbeach.co.uk

rushdentowncouncil.gov.uk

PARK INN BY RADISSON NORTHAMPTON 01604 739988

RUSHTON HALL HOTEL & SPA 01536 713001

rezidorparkinn.com

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pipewellhall.com

nccc.co.uk

NORTHAMPTON GUILDHALL

01604 838400 northampton.gov.uk

NORTHAMPTON MARRIOT HOTEL

rubys.co.uk

overstonepark.com

PIPEWELL HALL 01536 760563

01604 514490

RUBY LOUNGE AT DIANAS 01933 277344

raunds-tc.gov.uk

rushtonhall.com

SARACENS HEAD 01604 770640

PLOUGH HOTEL 01604 230554

thesaracensatbrington.co.uk

the-plough-hotel.co.uk

SARACENS HEAD HOTEL 01327 350414

PLUM PARK 01327 811515

oldenglishinns.co.uk

plumpark.co.uk

SAXON HALL 01933 622087

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SEDGEBROOK HALL 01604 821666

QUINTON HOUSE 01604 752050

principal-hayley.com

quintonhouse.co.uk

SILVERSTONE CIRCUIT 0844 3750 740

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RED LION HOTEL 01604 770223 redlionthornby.co.uk

ROADE HOUSE RESTAURANT & HOTEL 01604 863372 roadehousehotel.co.uk

01280 850005

01604 667604 northamptonmarriott.co.uk

ROYAL & DERNGATE 01604 624811

silverstonegolfclub.co.uk

royalandderngate.co.uk

SKYLARK FARM 01327 300471 skylarkfarm.co.uk silverlinings.co.uk

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STANWICK LAKES 01933 625522

THE GRANGE FIELD 07732 285617

stanwicklakes.org.uk

countryandcoastweddings.co.uk

STOKE PARK PAVILIONS 01604 862329

THE RITZ BANQUETING & CONFERENCE SUITES 01536 763510

sweet-events.co.uk

ketteringvenues.co.uk

SUNLEY CONFERENCE CENTRE 01604 892020

THE RAVEN HALL 01536 202313

northampton.ac.uk

theravenhotel.com

SYWELL GRANGE 07732 285617

THE SAMUEL PEPYS 01832 731739

sywellgrange.co.uk

samuel-pepys.com

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WADENHOE HOUSE 01832 720777 wadenhoe-house.com

WALNUT TREE INN 01604 859551 walnut-tree.co.uk

WARWICK HOUSE 01926 815738 warwickhouse.co.uk

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TALBOT HOTEL 01832 273621 thetalbot-oundle.com

WESTONE MANOR HOTEL 01604 739 955

THE SNOOTY FOX 01832 733434

westonemanor.com

thesnootyfoxlowick.com

WHITTLEBURY PARK WEDDING VENUE 01327 850040

THE STANWICK HOTEL 01933 622233

whittleburyweddings. co.uk

courtyardstanwick.co.uk

THE BARN RESTAURANT 01327 349911 thebarnrestaurant.net

THE WORLDS END 01604 414521

WICKSTEED PARK 01536 512475 wicksteedpark.org

theworldsend.org

THE CASTLE 01933 270007 thecastle.org.uk

TOWCESTER RACECOURSE 01327 353414

WINCHESTER HOUSE SCHOOL 01280 702483

towcester-racecourse.co.uk

winchester-house.org

THE CHEQUERED SKIPPER 01832 273494

TRAVEL PLAZA HOTEL 01536 764789

chequeredskipper.co.uk

travelplaza.co.uk

THE CHURCH RESTAURANT 01604 603800 thechurchrestaurant.com

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THE DECO 01604 622749

VINE HOUSE HOTEL & RESTAURANT 01327 811267

stage-right.co.uk

vinehousehotel.com

THE GRANARY AT FAWSLEY 01327 361730

VINEYARD RESTAURANT 01604 633978

granary-hotel.com

thevineyardnorthampton.co.uk

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INSURING AGAINST THE UNEXPECTE WHY SHOULD I INSURE MY WEDDING? Though you might not want to think about it, disasters can strike your wedding day. From a sudden cancellation to stolen gifts to a damaged gown, wedding insurance can help protect you against the unforeseen, and can also afford you great peace of mind. But what exactly is wedding insurance, and how does it work?

WHEN SHOULD YOU GET WEDDING INSURANCE? The sooner you buy your wedding insurance the sooner you’re covered, should something go wrong and you need to cancel, postpone or get a refund for one element of the wedding.

This means you’d be covered should the venue be destroyed in a fire a year before your wedding date, or if a serious illness set in for a family member six months before the ceremony.

WHAT DOES STAND-ALONE WEDDING INSURANCE COVER? All policies are different, but typically they cover the cancellation or rearrangement of a wedding or reception due to accident, illness or bereavement within the main wedding party, or if a supplier goes out of business. Most policies also cover loss or damage to the main wedding outfits; presents, rings; the cake and flowers; as well as the price of having to retake photographs and video; failure of wedding cars; and personal liability and legal expenses. The amount you can claim if things go wrong depends on the level of cover you purchased.

THE SMALL PRINT - WHAT WON’T IT COVER: -C old feet -C ancellation due to financial difficulties, other than redundancy -C ancellation if only a small part of the day goes wrong -P re-existing medical conditions that cause cancellation You can add other items to your policy such as: - I f bad weather ruins the experience i.e. for outdoor weddings -M arquee cover - Public liability for accidents your guests may have Always remember to check the small print!

WEDDING INSURANCE PROVIDERS: Dreamsaver Wedding Insurance weddinginsurance.co.uk John Lewis Insurance johnlewisinsurance.com The Insurance Emporium theinsuranceemporium.co.uk

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From as little as £17, to more than £2 00 for fully com prehens ive cover.

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WAYS TO HAVE A SUSTAINABLE WEDDING DRESS Over the past few years, sustainability has increasingly become a significant issue in the fashion world, with the mass production of fast-fashion and the large sum of new garments burnt by leading designer brands adding to the deterioration of our environment. While the wedding dress industry doesn’t do as much damage to the environment as retail brands do, the waste of material for such high costs and little wear does still have an effect. Because of these ongoing issues that have been brought to the forefront of fashion news in the past few years, sustainability has become one of the newest trends in fashion. In order to support this new era of sustainable and eco-friendly clothing, here are five non-traditional ways in which you can help the environment when it comes to finding your wedding gown:

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BUY VINTAGE OR PRE-LOVED Buying a vintage or pre-loved wedding dress is not only something which is now quite fashionable, but it is also more affordable and environmentally friendly than buying a brand-new dress. The perks of going pre-loved also include the variety of styles that you can choose from, whether you want a sleek and glamorous 1930s look or a more relaxed, boho-chic 1970s style. The cost of a vintage wedding dress will vary on the quality; however, they are more likely to be in the £100s instead of £1000s, and by reclaiming an old dress you are being sustainable in your purchase. Places to buy a vintage wedding dress can be at your local pre-loved bridal shop, vintage or charity store, or websites such as Etsy.

Where can I buy? Bridal Reloved bridalreloved.co.uk

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BUY A DRESS YOU CAN WEAR MORE THAN ONCE Although you may want a dress that is special specifically for your wedding day, it could be an idea to buy a dress you can wear for other occasions that isn’t just your wedding. By purchasing a dress that is either a different colour or altering it later, either by dyeing it or having it tailored, you would be able to have multiple uses from one dress.

Where can I buy? Charlotte Balbier available from Natalya James Bridal natalyajames.com

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SHOP WITH ECO-FRIENDLY COMPANIES There are plenty of smaller companies that produce wedding dresses in a more sustainable and eco-friendly way than the mass producing, big designer brands. Whether they use recycled material or make to order, they are one step towards creating a better environment, while creating beautiful dresses. By just searching the internet for eco-friendly wedding dresses, you’ll have a sufficient amount of businesses coming up, or you could look on the aforementioned website Etsy, who support small, creative businesses.

Where can I buy? Eco bespoke couture dresses from Julie Dutton Bespoke Bridal juliedutton.co.uk

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WEAR A FAMILY HEIRLOOM This may already be a tradition in your family or could be the start of a new one.

Wearing a dress of one of your family members, probably your mother’s or grandmother’s, can be a really nice way to be sentimental on your wedding day, fulfilling the ‘something borrowed and something old’ criteria as well. If you are not into a vintage or retro style, you could alter their dress into something new, meaning that you still have the sentimental value while having a new dress.

Where can I buy? Alterations from Stunning Bridal stunningbridal.co.uk

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KEEP THE CYCLE GOING Your wedding dress is an item which carries a lot of sentimental value is indisputable. However, after having kept your dress for many years, it may be a good idea to donate your dress to one of the aforementioned causes, such as a vintage wedding dress store or to a family member to carry on traditions. Even if you do end up going down the normal route of buying a designer dress from a bridal store (which I have nothing against), you will still be able to achieve sustainability with your wedding dress if you follow this last step.

Where can I buy? Clean and box up your dress at Wedding Dress Cleaning Specialist wedding-dress-cleaning.co.uk

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Having one of Britain’s most successful bridal wear designers as the ‘in house designer’ must surely make Stunning Bridal stand out amongst the crowd.

Nominated 4 times for Designer of the Year, Donna has a passion for design that is clearly demonstrated in her attention to detail and ability to turn risk into astounding dresses. Donna is also one of the bridal designers for Mark Lesley Bridalwear.

The shop has since evolved and welcomed other designers - Mori Lee and La Sposa Barcelona, as well as a superb collection from Mark Lesley Bridalwear.

“When Mum (Donna) opened the doors back in 1991, it was with a clear goal to provide an industry-leading service to brides founded on passion, enthusiasm, knowledge and expertise in all things bridal - a vision that is still front and centre at SB! For us it is not just about excellent customer service on the day you purchase your gown, we pride ourselves on providing a truly memorable experience that lasts for your whole journey with us. From the moment you walk through our door, to the day you leave us ready for your big day, you are our only priority!” silverlinings.co.uk

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Brides sometimes forget that buying the right underwear can also make your dress look and feel better, so Stunning Bridal have chosen to stock Poirier, who develop bridal bodywear and accessories for the contemporary bride.

But what if your dress doesn’t quite fit or something just isn’t quite right with the neckline? Stunning Bridal is one of the few bridal shops in the county who can provide in house alterations. Jenny is one of Donna Salado’s very original couture seamstresses who has been working alongside the family for over 18 years. With an unrivalled knowledge on all bridalwear matters, she is the fairy godmother of Stunning Bridal.

“We recommend you start looking for your gown 12 months prior to your wedding but you can start looking as soon as you feel ready to find your wedding dress. All our dresses are handmade which is why we need that little extra time and you still want to allow 2-3 months for any alterations.”

What’s the future for this well established family bridal boutique? “Now that’s a secret! But we have so much in the pipeline and we are so excited! So keep your eyes peeled.”

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Buying your wedding dress should be an experience like nothing else during your wedding planning journey.

At Stunning Bridal, they have their VIB (Very Important Bride) Experience down to a tea...a cup of tea actually! You and your bridal party can completely indulge yourself in this ultimate appointment when finding your dream dress. While enjoying a glass of fizz and a scrumptious Afternoon Tea, you’ll have the boutique all to yourself to try on as many dresses as you can in 2 hours! Your very own styling consultant will also be on hand to help you make the all important decisions.

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Stockists of Natalya James, Stephanie Allin and Charlotte Balbier, we are a luxury bridal boutique located at Nene Court, The Embankment, Wellingborough the home of 26 independent small businesses. www.natalyajames.com

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Focused on empowering you to feel the most amazing version of yourself on your wedding day.

Join us in our relaxed, friendly and private bridal boutique.

And if we don’t have the dress you’re looking for in the boutique we will go out of our way to track it down for you.

“Out of all of the bridal shops I visited Anna’s was by far the best service. Fantastic shop, dresses and hospitality. Anna really went out of her way to make our appointment feel special”.

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When buying your wedding dress, it is best to allow yourself enough time for each and every step, so you do not feel pressured or rushed into choosing your dress.

There are lots of bridal shops and boutiques in Northamptonshire to choose from, all offering different price ranges of dresses and levels of service. It is a good idea to start looking for your wedding dress 12-18 months before your wedding date, all depending on how decisive you are.

If you are a fairly decisive bride, 12 months gives you a perfect amount of time to have a relaxing time dress shopping, enjoying yourself with family and friends, and to find your dream dress! However, if you are more indecisive, allow yourself 12-18 months before your wedding date. This gives you time to try more dresses on, looking at different styles and shapes and figuring out what suits you best.

Most bridal shops take at least 3-4 months (in some cases longer) to receive your dress in store after you have placed your order. In order for everything to run smoothly, it’s a good idea to allow a minimum of 6 months for your dress to come in and for any alterations to be done.

If you are buying a dress from stock you will not need this much time, but again don’t let this make you feel as though you have all the time in the world; you still need to find the perfect gown!

You should still allow 6-8 weeks for alterations.

May to September is the busiest time for weddings, so if you are finding your seamstress privately (not through your bridal boutique), booking your alterations in advance is well advised, especially to take the pressure off so you can enjoy the experience. The last thing you need is to find they are fully booked, causing you extra stress not knowing how you will get your alterations done in time.

Collecting your dress will depend on who is doing the alterations for you. If you are doing this through your bridal boutique then they may be able to keep your dress, stored safely, until nearer the time of your wedding.

Otherwise, you may be required to collect your dress and take it to your alteration’s appointments; if this is the case your seamstress might hold the dress for you. This could depend on how close to the wedding your seamstress can do your alterations. Make sure you leave time for alterations. silverlinings.co.uk

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I think it mak es the day al l that more special when you involve fa mily in the planning process, as th ey help to put a personal touch to thin gs. The day would no t have been po ssible without the su pport of our families (now family), and we could not thank them en ough.

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Real weddings I woke up to all my bridesmaids and parents making me a continental breakfast with bubbly.

My parents gave me a wedding present of my mum’s wedding jewellery (this was my something old). We then headed off to Holdenby House for an 8am to get ready together. When we arrived at Holdenby we were all VERY excited and could not wait to start getting ready.

Ben Cotterill, our photographer, saw this as a great opportunity to take some lovely pictures of us all. He really didn’t miss a moment throughout the day!

The morning went so quickly, before we knew it was time for the bridesmaids to head off to the church. This is when it all started to feel very real! After the girls left I went downstairs to be greeted my Dad who shed a tear to see me in my wedding dress and gave me the biggest hug.

We went straight upstairs to the ‘blue room’, where we found a breakfast basket and a lovely bottle of prosecco. The make-up artist and hair stylist were very prompt, already at house on our arrival and were as excited as we were!

The bridesmaids got their hair done, whilst I got my make-up done. It was lovely to see Emma Remington who personally came to deliver our beautiful flowers to our room whilst we were getting ready.

Dad and I arrived at Pitsford Church fashionably late. I will never forget my Dad walking me down the aisle and waving at our friends and family as we passed… I was so happy I welled up when I saw Ashley! The Groomsmen looked very handsome in the suits Ashley had chosen from Debenhams. After the ceremony and some group photos we were pleasantly surprised as a friend had brought along our dog, Finn, to see us, which made the day even more special.

The photo Ben snapped of the three of us takes pride of place on our fireplace.

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The wedding car we had chosen for our big day was a stunning 1935 Rolls Royce Landaulette, from Bridal Carriages of Northamptonshire; when we looked around their showroom, all of the cars looked amazing but this really stood out to us both! The owner, John, was extremely helpful and arranged for multiple trips to transport the Bridesmaids as well, the driver also greeted us out of the church with a bottle of Champagne.

One of Ashley’s best men also arranged for a friend who owns a restored vintage Volkswagen Camper, to take the 3 of them to the Church.

As we arrived at Holdenby House everyone was there to welcome us; it was lovely to see that all our guests were enjoying ice creams provided by Honey Bees vintage ice-cream bicycle, who we met at a wedding fair at Holdenby House. After our arrival and walking the grounds with Ben to get some more pictures we were soon sat down in the ballroom for our wedding breakfast.

During the wedding breakfast we had booked a local string quartet to play throughout which turned out to be a lovely touch and something all of our friends and family have commented on. We had chosen macarons from Maison Des Macarons for our favors, which were very popular! We then had our three-course meal and listened to speeches from the father of the bride, the groom, the bride and the two best men. There were tears and lots of laughter. After the speeches, we all went outside for where the falconry display began and everyone got the chance to both hold and feed the birds.

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After the food, the falconry display began where the guests got the chance to both hold and feed the birds.

Then we cut our cake, which tasted amazing! We tried to please all of our guests by ensuring each layer was a different flavor.

Moving into the evening the disco then began ran by Big Bopper and the bar provided by Liquid Bars seemed to get more and more busy!

Ashley and I had our first dance to Perfect by Ed Sheeran. It was great; even though we couldn’t do the dance steps we had been practicing as my dress was too big… Then we had the father and daughter dance. We decided to practice a slightly ‘different’ father and daughter dance which was choreographed

by Ashley, my dad and me. Lots of our guests were very surprised to see us dancing to ‘shake it off’ by Taylor Swift and then ‘Apache’ by the Sugerhill Gang. The evening went very quickly, possibly even too quickly, there was lots of dancing, drinking and fun with those close to us.

Real weddings COLOUR SCHEME The colour scheme was dusky pink, as it is my favourite colour.

We thought it would look great to have a colour scheme throughout, Ashley had picked some lovely dusky pink ties and pocket squares for his groomsmen. To complement the colour scheme the flowers, table decorations, bridesmaid’s dresses and jewellery were all dusky pink too.

THE VENUE We had chosen Holdenby House because we had always spoke about having our wedding in a

traditional manor house and as soon as we walked through the front door it felt like the perfect place for our venue. We really liked the fact that our guests could access most of downstairs, so there was always space to either dance in the ballroom or go and find somewhere quiet to socialize. We also had our own room to steal some time for the two of us. The unique factor that attracted us to Holdenby was the beautiful gardens and the falconry display which are guests still talk about when we see them.

Emily: Exchanging our vows, listening to my Dad’s and Ashley’s speech which made me cry of happiness and laughter, taking part in a ‘different’ father and daughter dance which was choreographed by me, Ashley and Dad!

Ashley: seeing Emily walk down the aisle to our favourite song (Christina Perri ‘A Thousand Years’) and taking my hand at the altar.

WHO THEY USED: VENUE: Holdenby House holdenby.com PHOTOGRAPHY: Ben Cotterill Photography bencotterillphotography.com BRIDAL WEAR: Liney’s Brides lineysbrides.com BRIDESMAIDS: ASOS asos.com MAKEUP: Helen Silver Make-Up helensilvermakeup.co.uk MENSWEAR: Debenhams debenhams.com FLOWERS: Emma Remington emmaremingtonflowers.com ICE CREAM: Honey Bees wearehoneybees.com FAVOURS: Maison Des Macarons maisondesmacarons.com STATIONERY: Invited With Love invitedwithlove.co.uk TRANSPORT: Bridal Carriages of Northamptonshire bridalcarriages.co.uk ENTERTAINMENT: Icarus Falconry icarusfalconry.co.uk DJ: Big Bopper Entertainment bigbopperentertainment.co.uk silverlinings.co.uk

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There really is nothing we can do about the weather...including the rain!

Rain on your wedding day is very possible in the UK, no matter the time of year.

In fact, August is the wettest month of the year, even though it’s the most popular month to get married!

There are some simple ways to make the best of it and ensure the weather won’t ruin your day.

UMBRELLAS AND BLANKETS Make sure you have lots of umbrellas for guests, and an extra pretty one for you. With the rain usually comes the cold, so have blankets around for guests to throw over their shoulders or wrap over cold legs. Brollies Galore (brolliesgalore.co.uk) have a huge selection of umbrellas to buy or hire, while Ikea has fantastic cheap fleece blankets which can be popped in a basket.

CATERING Be open to changing your catering and drinks reception plans. Rather than serving summery fizz on arrival, serve a warm apple cider or a sloe gin instead. Given enough notice, most caterers will be able to change the menu from a luxury BBQ to a warming plated menu.

If you’d planned on an al fresco drinks reception, then putting up a funky capri tent to protect from a shower or two will keep you and your guests outside.

BRIDAL WEAR Embrace the wellie boots! Have a pair of bridal white wellie boots from Funky Wellington Boots (funky-wellington-boots.co.uk) or add some colour to your dress with a pair of bright pink ones or even rainbow coloured! If you’re worried about the dash from the car to your venue, then Rainaway Bride (weddingdressraincover.com) has a white, waterproof hooded cloak (to protect your hair, veil and make-up too) that fits most gowns and trains, and the elasticated hem scoops up the dress away from puddles and mud.

Don’t forget your waterproof mascara!

PHOTOGRAPHS Most photographers will agree that a rainy day can give some stunning, dramatic photographs. The clouds in the sky soften the light which gives better photographs than the harsh light from a clear blue sky. Have a chat with your photographer and work out the wet weather plan for group shots and the more romantic ones of just the two of you. Remember to have fun - some of my favourite photos of couples are when they’ve been dancin’ in the rain!

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SAY IT WITH FLOWERS Once the I-dos are over you will have a beautiful bouquet and perhaps smaller posies that will need a home. Think about using these on your cake table to frame your cake. It will make a lovely display and give your guests the opportunity to not Tiny cake tables in corners with wonky white table only enjoy your cake but your clothes are a thing of the past... let’s face it this is the gorgeous wedding flowers too! I most expensive cake purchase you are ever likely to loved bringing some of the fresh make, so let’s show it off and really make it a special flowers from the brides bouquet centerpiece at your reception! into this cake design to really bring this display together.

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Cakes NOT JUST ONE CAKE Why have one wedding cake when you could have a whole dessert table! Dessert tables are a super fun option for couples who want to offer their guests a selection of tasty treats, perhaps as part of their dessert option! You can still have a main focal cake for that all-important cake cutting shot alongside other cakes and treats in colours and designs to match! I loved creating this cake table with its focal hand painted cake and smaller rustic iced cakes with hand crafted butterflies and fresh flowers. There were also hand painted cookie pops to match the cake and French macarons in complementary colours!

MORE THAN A TABLE Have some fun displaying your wedding cake by using an interesting piece of furniture! You might have something suitable at home already or you might find something in a local charity shop that you could upcycle and then keep as a memory of your big day! There are also lots of unique hire companies out there with lots of fab pieces of furniture just waiting for their big moment! I love the way that the tables used to display both of my cakes below really match the cakes personality!

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SOMETHING PERSONAL There are sadly often people who can’t be with us on our big day or memories of other family weddings that you would like to share with your guests. I loved how this couple really made the most of celebrating their family as part of their cake table display with framed photos all in black and white to complement their burgundy and grey cake. © Liberty Pearl Photography

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Nobody says you have to keep your wedding cake inside! Best check the weather first for this one though! (Seriously - cakes outdoors in the sun are not the best idea but it does look super gorgeous!!) I always enjoy seeing how couples style their cake table! If you are not sure what to do always ask your cake maker -we will have lots of ideas for you and can help you choose something that fits you and your cake perfectly!

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WHO THEY USED: VENUE: Warwick House warwickhouse.co.uk CELEBRANT: Stephen Church humanist.org.uk/stephenchurch/ PHOTOGRAPHY: Dan Foley Photography danfoley.co.uk RINGS: Wedding Rings

by Natalie weddingringsbynatalie.co.uk DRESS & BRIDESMAIDS: Anna Wood Bridal annawoodbridal.co.uk FLOWERS: Jack Haddon Florist jackhaddon.co.uk CAKE: Dilicious Cake Creations diliciouscakecreations.co.uk VENUE DECOR: Wildflower Styling via Facebook and Little Details Company thelittledetailscompany.co.uk STATIONERY: Unique Designs Weddings & Cards udweddings.co.uk ENTERTAINMENT: Joe Church, Odd Child oddchild.co.uk THEMES/COLOUR SCHEMES: Geometric theme with navy dresses and red flowers 58

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VENUE At our first meeting it was clear how organised they were and they knew exactly what they were doing. The venue is stunning and we liked that the venue was only used for weddings so we had the whole place to ourselves. They did not disappoint; the day went like a dream and just flowed.

DRESS I had already picked two dresses for the day.

One made for me by Nicola Anne and another by Rachel Allan–Mary’s for the evening. Just before the wedding I fell in love with a new Watters dress we had delivered so my dress plans went out the window and I ended up wearing 3 dresses!

CELEBRANT We decided to have a Humanist Celebrant because we wanted Stephen Church to do the Ceremony for us. Stephen is hilarious and an amazing speaker. We didn’t want a boring service, we wanted something fun and well presented. Stephen took time to get information about us and personalised service to us.

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES I had originally wanted mauve, however went for navy as I thought the colour would suit everyone better. It’s my one regret of the day; I wish I had gone with the mauve! People think planning a wedding when you work in the industry is great but its not; you have too much choice so end up keep changing your mind which is what happened!

PHOTOGRAPHY We met with a couple of photographers but Dan won us over. Dan jus made us feel so at ease and we really got on well with Dan, plus his photographs were fantastic. Dan also provide us with a Comedy Photo booth which worked really well for the evening.

FLOWERS We just clicked with Selina and she was the only person who came with flowers and different items so I could see exactly what it would look like; Selina knew I had a fixed idea in my head.

VENUE DÉCOR Wildflower Styling provided me with lanterns and some geometric items for the day and Little Details Company provided me with the charger plates, table centerpieces and lanterns. I only met Wildflower Styling just before the wedding and she was so accommodating as I was missing some key pieces!

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It is so fulfilling to see everything com e together on th e day and know all of your hard w ork has paid off. D on’t be tempted to make things to o complicated when arranging your own decoratio ns, simple can be very effective

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We decided our theme was rustic straight away.

Both loving nature, we wanted it to feature highly in our decorations. Green and purple were our colours and, with our love of gin, we decided this could be included as our centerpieces for each table! Our wedding favours were seed pods as we wanted to spread a bit of nature to our guests too.

The aim for our wedding was to upcycle as much as possible, using jars and gin bottles as centerpieces.

We got logs from our local woodland trust for our centerpieces too and collected over 80 pine cones for our place names!

We decided to get married at the Reid Rooms because it felt like the full package. It was rustic and most of the rooms were already perfectly decorated so we only needed a few finishing touches!

We loved the courtyard and the outside areas. We knew it would fit us perfectly as it is set on a working farm!

Our photographers, Gez and Victoria, were recommended to us by Julia’s friend. What we loved about them was their creativity and ability to think outside of the box! They put us at ease straight away and were able to get photos organically as well as stepping in to direct us for a winning shot.

Gez and Victoria were really able to capture our day perfectly and wowed us with the quality of their images.

My dress was “Raula” by La Sposa. It was the A-line fit that I had always dreamed of but with a class that made me feel elegant on the day. I couldn’t have wished for a more perfect dress if I had tried! I truly felt like a Disney princess!

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We used Vistaprint for all of our wedding stationary. It was so easy and with so many different styles and templates, we were able to find the perfect stationary that fit with our theme.

The quality of the prints were perfect and we were really pleased with the finished article. We enlisted the help of our friend Wing Lau to put the finishing touches to our wedding stationary – she used her beautiful handwriting skills to write out all of our guests’ names!

I was never someone who thought about their ‘dream wedding dress’ but as the wedding planning got underway, I realised I wanted to wear something a bit ‘bohemian’ to reflect my style but also traditional. I was lucky to find a beautiful “Olivine” dress by Diane Harbridge. I loved the lace and the way it flowed, I felt amazing wearing it on the big day.

We hired our own PA system as we felt we didn’t need a DJ. It was important to us that we could be in charge of our own music and so we created a playlist that suited our own music taste as well as our guests. It’s fair to say we partied the night away! We definitely recommend having a photo booth as the guests loved it - especially the children! - and we had lots of fun looking at the photos in the guest book!

Being a same sex wedding we wanted to push the boundaries of ‘ordinary’ and so whilst we both had two bridesmaids each we also decided to have a best man each! Adam, Julia’s brother, was her best man whilst Sarah chose her 8 year old nephew, Joshua. Joshua stood up and delivered the most exceptional best man’s speech to a room of 80 people. He reduced the room to tears, ending his speech on the memorable line

“ People at school have said that two girls cannot get married but I have said my aunties are. You two have shown me that if you love someone you love them no matter what.

Love is love and that is why we are here today.”

It is safe to say that speech will be a lasting memory for us.

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The whole ceremony process. It was a joyous emotional rollercoaster and nothing could have prepared me for how overwhelming it was – seeing all our loved ones there, friends and family, sharing our special day – it was something I’ll never forget.

Our first dance as wife and wife was a beautiful moment which I will never forget. As well as the best man speech from my 8 year old nephew!

WHO THEY USED: VENUE: The Reid Rooms thereidrooms.co.uk VIDEOGRAPHY: Rapid Image UK rapidimageuk.com PHOTOGRAPHY: Magnolia Wedding Photography magnoliawedphotography.co.uk HAIR & MAKEUP: Amethyst Hair CATERING: Amaze in Taste amazeintaste.com FLOWERS: My Fair Lady Floral Design myflairladyfloraldesigns.co.uk ENTERTAINMENT: Cloud 9 Hire & Sales cloud9entertainmentandhire.com STATIONERY: Vistaprint vistaprint.com BRIDAL WEAR: Amorae Bridal amoraebridal.co.uk and Clifford Burr cliffordburr.co.uk PHOTO BOOTH: King of the Booth kingofthebooth.co.uk

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PENDENNIS CASTLE english-heritage.org.uk/pendennisweddings Set on the Falmouth headland with breathtaking views out to sea, Pendennis Castle is one of Henry VIII’s finest coastal fortresses. The picturesque castle wedding venue has defended Cornwall since Tudor times and played a vital role during both World Wars.

POLHAWN FORT polhawnfort.com A real Napoleonic fort, complete with cannon, drawbridge and walls eight feet thick, it’s the real deal. Granite staircases spiral towards huge vaulted ceilings and rows of windows face out to sea. Steeped in history, it was built to discourage Napoleon III from even thinking of invading us.

MV CONSTANCE constancecruises.com This beautifully restored Victorian launch offers small intimate wedding receptions while quietly sailing along the Helford Passage, an area rich in romantic history having been the location for Daphne Du Maurier books and more recently provided scenes for the BBC drama Poldark.

With first class catering also available on board, Constance is perfect for an ‘elopement’ wedding.

CAERHAYS CASTLE caerhays.co.uk Tucked into a hidden Cornish cove, on the unspoilt Porthluney beach, and hugged by exceptionally beautiful woodland gardens, Caerhays offers a wildly romantic and unforgettable backdrop for your dream day. Choose to marry in the romantic Coastguards Lookout, perched on top of the cliff with breathtaking sea views. silverlinings.co.uk

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LUSTY GLAZE lustyglaze.co.uk A truly spectacular location, Lusty Glaze is the only venue in Cornwall where you can legally marry on the beach. Situated in a secluded cove on the outskirts of Newquay, this coastal venue is located on its own private beach with spectacular sea views across the Atlantic Ocean. Uninterrupted seascapes, fiery sunsets and dramatic cliffs make Lusty Glaze’s little cove is one of the most romantic places on Earth.

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CARBIS BAY HOTEL carbisbayhotel.co.uk At Carbis Bay, barefooted couples can walk sandy-toed down the aisle, before exchanging seaside vows with each other. Set against the backdrop of their privately-owned Blue Flag beach, as exotic and exhilarating as any British shoreline, Carbis Bay fits the bill.

ST NECTAN’S GLEN st-nectansglen.co.uk St Nectan’s Glen is set in an exquisite location of naturally formed waterfalls, creating a beautiful haven of peace and tranquillity in a hidden Cornish Valley of outstanding natural beauty. A place of spiritual pilgrimage since the 5th Century and an ideal setting for any celebration.

A good place to start your wedding planning is with Visit Cornwall (visitcornwall.com) and our website silverlinings.co.uk.

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5. Romance in Rome: If you are looking for a romantic honeymoon, Rome has plenty of beautiful romantic lanes, restaurants and parks. Rome’s public rose garden is also worth a visit as you can dine, drink, and wander through the roses, enjoying views and food tastings.

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