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RECIPE: INSTANT POT ITALIAN SAUSAGE SOUP CAN VOLUNTEERING IMPROVE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH?
THE EMOTIONAL LOAD OF MOTHERHOOD: 5 REASONS WHY YOU’RE SO TIRED (AND WHY REST ISN’T A LUXURY)
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Treaty 6 Land Acknowledgment
We acknowledge that we are on Treaty 6 territory, a traditional meeting ground, gathering place and traveling route to the Cree, Saulteaux, Blackfoot, Metis, Dene, and Nakota Sioux.
It belongs to those who came before us. We are learning to listen, to remember, to be grateful and to allow voices previously silenced to be heard.
We are grateful for the traditional Knowledge Keepers and Elders who are still with us today and those who have gone before us
As a media publication we recognize our responsibilities and roles in sharing these stories and our contributions within narratives We hold ourselves and Heartheld accountable for these, and pledge to embrace the heart of the treaty with love
FIND SELF-CARE STELLA
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Dear Heartheld Community,
I love the idea of small acts of kindness making a big impact Whether it’s holding the door for someone or sharing a kind word, these little moments of connection truly matter. This week, I’m focusing on how I can spread a little more kindness, both to myself and to others I hope you’ll join me in looking for those simple, meaningful ways to connect and show care Together, we can create a ripple effect of kindness that touches everyone we encounter.
In love and kindness, Jasmine
Jenne
Creative Director || Heartheld Magazine
Below is a list of common psychological and material needs. Go over the list to identify which needs are important to you!
Adventure
Acceptance
Success
Being Admired
Being Right
Being in Control
Creativity
Empowered Friendship
Spiritual Fulfilment
Stability Status
Power
Being Noticed
Intimacy
Making People Happy
Feeling Valued
Feeling Loved
Having Fun
Feeling Relaxed
Growth
Feeling Useful
Being in Control
Supported by Others
Being Independent
Feeling Needed
Free Time
Write down your needs and what they mean to you. What steps can you take to fulfil these needs?
Imagine that there are no obstacles or hurdles in your path, how would you want each of the parameters mentioned below to look:
Health Career
In 2 months,
I will... Intellectual
Papers & Prose
Some stories are told in ink, some in colour, some in the quiet spaces between.
Each month, Papers & Prose brings you a spread of inspiration words and imagery woven together to spark creativity, reflection, and a moment of pause. These pages are yours to interpret, to sit with, to take as a starting point for your own thoughts and artistic expressions.
Use them as a backdrop for journaling, a place to add your own sketches or quotes, or simply as a reminder that creativity takes many forms. However these pages speak to you, let them be a space where art and words meet in a way that feels personal.
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Ask Our Digital Expert
Q: Can I reuse content on social media, or will people get bored with it?
A: You can absolutely reuse content! Remember, your content is not always being seen by everyone that is following you
I have two guidelines for reusing content, though.
1 Don’t copy/paste reshare something too soon. If you want to share the exact same image and caption, I would recommend waiting six months or longer You can, however, share the same concept or idea more frequently than that as long as you follow #2
2.Share content in different formats! You can take one concept or idea and share it in multiple ways For example, you could create a reel where you talk about the topic, then create a reel with B-roll video and text on screen, and then create a graphic or carousel post about it These can all be shared at different times, even though they are basically saying the same thing
Using these two tips can help you save time and energy when creating content.
TRUE OR FALSE?
You can schedule posts through the Instagram app now.
Verdict? This is TRUE!
In a recent update, Instagram added the scheduling feature You’ll find this feature under “Advanced Settings” on the last screen before you share a post
The only catch is you can only schedule the post to Instagram If you like to share posts to Facebook, you’ll have to do that manually.
THREADS...WHAT IS IT?
Writer: Jess Schultz
Threads is an app from Instagram where you can post threads, reply to others and follow profiles you're interested in Threads and replies can include short pieces of text, links, photos, videos or any combination of them People can also follow you to see your threads and replies in their feed and from your profile
If you've been following along on Instagram recently, you've probably seen that they released a new sister app called Threads. Threads has strong Twitter vibes, but will feel very intuitive to anyone who already uses Instagram I know a lot of people are curious about this app and whether or not they need to be on it, so I wanted to answer a few FAQs for you
How do I download Threads?
You can download Threads from the App Store or Google Play Store. Simply search for Threads by Instagram and download it to your device Once installed, you can log in using your Instagram account information Threads will ask if you want to follow all the same accounts you follow in Instagram, and you can say yes or no If you say yes, as soon as those users join Threads you will automatically be following them
Can I use Threads without an Instagram account?
No, you need an Instagram account to use Threads Threads is designed as a companion app to Instagram, so you need to have an Instagram account to log in and use the app
What is the difference between Threads and Instagram?
Threads was designed as a companion app to Instagram for "private sharing with close friends and family members" While it wasn't designed for business use and advertising, many businesses are already in this space and looking to build connection. The biggest difference between the two apps is that Threads is primarily text focused, while Instagram relies more on image and video content (although you can share images and videos on Threads as well)
What privacy settings does Threads have?
Threads has a number of privacy settings that allow you to control who can see your content You can choose to share your content with your close friends only or with a wider audience. Additionally, accounts that you have blocked on Instagram will also be blocked on Threads
Can I share content from Threads into Instagram?
Yes! This is a neat feature - since this app is designed to work with Instagram, you can share your Threads posts directly into your Instagram story or post it right onto your feed You can also choose to share it outside of Instagram via messaging apps or other social media platforms, just as you can with Instagram posts.
You'll likely be hearing a lot about Threads in the coming months and you might feel FOMO (fear of missing out) when you see "experts" saying you need to join right away I strongly believe that it is better to do a few things well than to do everything so-so In light of that, I would recommend that you pause and think about what purpose Threads will serve in your business and/or personal life and whether or not it is something you actually have the time for right now
As I've said before, it is not necessary (and sometimes not even advisable) to be on EVERY social media platform. Make sure you are making the choice intentionally and because you think it will serve you/your business well
The Emotional Load of Motherhood: 5 Reasons Why
You’re So Tired (And Why Rest Isn’t A Luxury)
When you became a mother, you probably expected sleepless nights, endless diaper changes, and the occasional tantrum in public But what no one tells you what really catches you off guard is the invisible job you signed up for: being the emotional thermostat for the entire house
The emotional load is heavy, especially when you’re seeing your husband close to losing it and a toddler who is unequipped to handle his own emotions
Making sure that everyone remains calm and levelheaded is not an easy task. It’s a balancing act that often goes unnoticed but demands so much of you. Suddenly, you’re not just managing your own feelings. You’re calming your toddler’s meltdowns, diffusing tension between siblings, and often even regulating your partner’s stress after a long day. It’s a full-time job on top of everything else you do. And let’s be honest it’s exhausting.
You’re Not Imagining It: Emotional Labour is Real
Emotional regulation especially for little ones who are still developing the tools to cope isn’t just about hugs and kind words It takes energy, patience, and a whole lot of self-awareness And when you’re constantly pouring into others, it’s no wonder you feel like there’s nothing left for yourself
In my own life, emotional labor looks like calming a crying 8-month-old, handling the demands of an almost 4-year-old, and trying to manage my partner’s vibe when I can feel he’s had a rough day at work. It’s a constant state of emotional awareness and adjustment that most people don’t even realize is happening.
You may find yourself snapping more easily, crying in the bathroom, or feeling resentful even though you love your people fiercely. That’s not weakness. That’s burnout
Why Rest Isn’t Optional
I did it all for years and reached a point where I thought, “I can’t keep doing this, something has to give.” That breaking point taught me that rest isn’t just a niceto-have it’s essential.
Rest doesn’t just mean sleep (though we all need more of that too). It means pausing to recharge your nervous system. It’s the difference between reacting and responding, between barely making it through the day and moving through it with intention
When you give yourself permission to rest, even in small ways, you begin to replenish the emotional reserves you so generously give to others It’s not selfish it’s essential
You Don’t Have to Carry It All Alone
If you’ve ever thought, “Why does it feel like I’m holding everyone together?”, it’s because… you are. But mama, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
It’s okay to ask for help. It’s okay to step away. It’s okay to say, “I need a minute.”
You’re doing enough
You are enough
Join me on Instagram where I help moms find balance, selfcare, and joy in the chaos.
Create Protected Time
Your identity needs space to breathe Work with your partner or support system to create pockets of time that are just for you Even 30 minutes can be transformative when it’s truly yours
The best part about scheduling your time is it takes away the dreaded decision fatigue of what you will do with it!
Embrace the Evolution
You’re not trying to go backward – you’re creating a new version of yourself that encompasses both who you were and who you’ve become through motherhood This evolved identity is something to celebrate!
The powerhouse woman you are becoming, the things we moms can accomplish, is nothing short of amazing I cannot wait for you to find her and harness her drive and resilience
BLISS MEDISPA BOOK
At Bliss MediSpa & Integrated Wellness, we’re passionate about helping you feel your absolute best - from the inside out One of the easiest and most effective ways to boost your energy, immunity, and overall wellness is through vitamin injections. But with options like Vitamin B12 and Intramuscular (IM) MultiVitamin shots, it can be hard to know which is right for you. Let’s break down the key differences, benefits, and how to choose what your body might need most
WHAT IS A VITAMIN B12 SHOT?
Vitamin B12 is a water-soluble vitamin that plays a vital role in:
Energy production
Brain function
Red blood cell formation
Nervous system health
Even with a healthy diet, many people are deficient in B12, especially vegetarians, vegans, and those with absorption issues A B12 shot delivers a high-dose directly into the muscle, bypassing the digestive system for fast and effective absorption
BENEFITS OF B12 INJECTIONS:
Boosts natural energy levels
Supports mood and mental clarity
Strengthens the immune system
Helps with sleep regulation
Promotes healthy hair, skin, and nails
WHAT IS AN IM MULTIVITAMIN SHOT?
IM Multi-Vitamin shots are a blend of several essential vitamins and nutrients, often including B-complex vitamins (like B1, B2, B3, B5, B6), Vitamin C, and sometimes amino acids or minerals. This comprehensive formula supports overall wellness by targeting multiple body systems.
Benefits of IM Multi-Vitamin Shots:
Enhances overall energy and stamina
Strengthens the immune system
Supports detoxification and liver function
Improves skin health and collagen production
Aids metabolism and nutrient absorption
Think of the IM Multi-Vitamin as a broad-spectrum support system, whereas B12 is more focused on specific functions like energy and neurological health
SO, WHICH ONE SHOULD YOU CHOOSE?
It depends on your unique needs and wellness goals
Feeling tired, foggy, or run-down? A B12 shot might be just what you need to recharge
Looking for a more comprehensive wellness boost? An IM Multi-Vitamin shot offers more variety and wholebody benefits.
Can’t decide? Many of our clients enjoy alternating between both or doing a customized series based on what their body is asking for.
At Bliss MediSpa, we offer both options in a calm, relaxing environment where your health is our top priority Our expert team of nurses will help you decide which shot (or combination) is best for you Whether you’re managing stress, recovering from burnout, or simply wanting to feel like your most vibrant self, we’ve got your back
Ready to feel refreshed, revitalized, and balanced? Book your appointment today or stop in to chat with one of our wellness professionals Your next boost of bliss is just a shot away!
IV INFUSION THERAPY
Silver Drip - $195
Vitamindrip® “HYDRATION” - This product is the perfect blend for introductory IV client. It is focused on wellness through healthy hydration of the body.
Gold Drip - $250
Vitamindrip® “ENERGY” - This Vitamin compound focuses on delivering the tools your body needs to promote mental activity and stress tolerance Vitamindrip® “RECOVERY” - This vitamin compound focuses on delivering the tools your body needs to boost the immune system and as an example reduce the frequency, severity and duration of cold and flu symptoms
Platinum Drip - $295
Vitamindrip® "COSMETIC" is a functional IV Injection providing replenishing fluids, vitamins, minerals and amino acids to restore youthful radiance with a focus on glutathione
In our fast-paced world, taking time to care for oneself can sometimes be a challenge. VitaminDrip IV Infusion Therapy is particularly suited for those with busy schedules as it provides a concentrated dose of nutrients in a short period, helping to ensure that wellness doesn’t take a backseat to a hectic life. You can take the time getting your drip to catch up on emails, do some work, or just enjoy the downtime!
VitaminDrip IV Infusion Therapy is becoming a favoured choice for those looking to enhance their wellness in a holistic and efficient manner By supporting hydration, nutrient intake, skin health, and energy levels, this therapy can be a valuable part of a proactive approach to health and productivity As always, it is recommended to consult with a healthcare provider to determine if this therapy is right for you and how best to integrate it into your wellness regimen
Embrace the journey to a more vibrant, energetic, and productive life with the support of VitaminDrip IV Infusion Therapy - a simple step towards comprehensive wellness
IDEAL FOR BUSY LIFESTYLES
Instant Pot It
The Instant Pot makes soup creation so easy!
Everything is done in one pot, from sautéing to simmering – and who doesn’t love that
Ingredients:
1 lb ground Italian sausage (mild, m
6 slices bacon
½ cup onion, chopped
3 cloves garlic
6 cups chicken stock
1 teaspoon Italian seasoning
1 bay leaf
2 cups spinach
1 red pepper, roasted
10 oz gnocchi, fresh or store boug
¾ cup cream
2 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopp
Parmesan cheese, shredded (opti
Instructions:
1 Set Instant Pot to saute setting on high heat
2 Add bacon and cook until crisp Remove bacon and most of grease to a paper towel lined plate
3 Add onion and ground sausage Cook until sausage is no longer pink Add garlic and cook for 1 minute Turn heat off
4 Pour a bit of broth into bottom of Instant Pot to loosen any bits from the bottom Pour remaining broth into the pot along with Italian Seasoning, 1 Tablespoon parsley and bay leaf
5 Close and set Instant Pot to pressure cook for 4 minutes Cancel and quick release
6 Set Instant Pot to saute on high Add gnocchi and stir Once gnocchi begin to float, add roasted red peppers, spinach, cream and half the cooked bacon Continue to cook for about 3 more minutes.
7.Remove bay leaf and serve. Garnish with a bit of shredded parmesan cheese, parsley and remaining bacon.
ASMR
An Interview With Rayanne Boychuk
In today's fast-paced world, where high demands, tight deadlines, and endless responsibilities seem to dominate, many people are on the hunt for new ways to unwind and relax
One trend that has recently exploded in popularity is ASMR
ASMR, or “Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response,” refers to the calming, soothing sounds that trigger a tingling sensation, often associated with memories from childhood Think gentle hair brushing, the sound of raindrops falling, or soft whispering
ASMR creators design content to elicit this tingling sensation in viewers, creating a unique auditory and visual experience that induces relaxation and calm As a result, millions of people are turning to ASMR content in search of a peaceful escape from the stresses of the modern world
We spoke with Salz, an emerging local ASMR artist, to learn more about this phenomenon
Salz started her ASMR journey in 2014 when she created her first YouTube account, but it wasn't until 2024, when she launched her TikTok account, that she began to gain a larger following Now, with over 50,000 followers and growing every day, Salz’s account is gaining incredible traction
What makes her account unique is the frequent appearances of her seven-year-old daughter, Elayah, in her videos
Salz primarily creates personal attention videos, like hair brushing and makeup application, while Elayah often plays with toys or organizes things like pencil crayons and jewellery
So, how did a young child become involved in ASMR content creation?
"Last summer, while I was doing my makeup, my daughter was rummaging through her hair accessories I started feeling these incredible, unintentional ASMR tingles that I hadn’t experienced in a while I immediately thought, 'This is camera-worthy,' and posted it to TikTok!" Salz recalls
"I'm so glad I trusted my instincts because that video quickly gained momentum, and people wanted more of Elayah's ASMR That's how we started doing it together"
Their ASMR content has since become a family affair, with her four-year-old son also creating soothing videos of himself playing with his monster trucks
"I think our channel stands out because it's different," Salz explains "I haven’t seen many ASMR accounts where a parent and child create content together. I believe our TikTok grew because people can sense how genuine and original my daughter and I are when we make our videos."
Salz reveals her motivation for creating ASMR content: "I started making ASMR videos to help people relax and fall asleep Knowing that we can help at least one person is the most fulfilling part of it for me."
As for where she finds inspiration for her channel, Salz says, "The great thing about ASMR is that the ideas are endless Sometimes, I'll be at the dollar store, testing objects to see if they produce pleasant sounds On other days, I'll get a rush of ideas and jot them down so I don’t forget"
We asked Salz why she thinks ASMR has gained such popularity in recent years. "I believe ASMR has become popular because it's a safe space for a lot of people," she says "It provides a sense of calm and relaxation that many people need"
The growing popularity of ASMR speaks to its powerful impact on relaxation and mental well-being.
Some of my other personal favourite online ASMR creators are Safe Space ASMR, Unity ASMR and ASMR with Yadi
Whether you're trying to combat insomnia or simply need a few moments of peace during a busy workday, ASMR might be the perfect solution to help calm your nerves
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Written by Vickie Boechler
Kindness Benefits Your Health
“If you act kindly toward another, there’s also a propagation effect That person goes on to act more kindly” - VanderWeele
What is Kindness?
What is kindness, and what does it mean to you? How does it benefit both the giver and the receiver? Kindness involves helping others, but it also positively impacts our own health and well-being positively (Avonhealthcare, 2023). Brownstein (2025) found that volunteering and acts of kindness can improve mental and physical health, as well as longevity.
But first I want to discuss the benefits of being kind and volunteering as a lead in to a wonderful story by a local woman who gives her all to those in great need of the basics of life! The following are some of the benefits of being kind
1 Being kind relieves stress - it lowers cortisol levels and improves blood pressure Kindness fosters generosity, connection, and inclusion, which enhances resilience against stress While kindness helps us cope and respond more calmly it doesn’t eliminate the stressor
2 Kindness improves anxiety and depression management Being kind to others and to yourself supports everyone’s mental health Meditation fostering positivity is effective in treating social anxiety and depression
3 Kindness is good for our heart, kindness releases oxytocin, the hormone that boosts mood and fights ageing in arteries and blood vessels
4 Kindness boosts immunity Oxytocin reduces inflammation, which is linked to diseases like diabetes, cancer, chronic pain, obesity, migraines, multiple sclerosis and others too numerous to mention.
5. Kindness promotes happiness. Being kind and aware you are being kind boosts happiness, even when it’s not your best day.
6. Kindness slows ageing. Oxytocin decreases free radicals and inflammation in the cardiovascular system, thereby slowing ageing.
7 Kindness improves relationships and fights loneliness Kindness helps us manage friendships, family relationships and loneliness Just being with other people helps combat loneliness (Avonhealthcare, 2023)
To further support the benefits of kindness, Kim et al (2020) also found a strong association between volunteering and favourable health and well-being outcomes Participants who volunteered had reduced risk of mortality and physical limitations, higher physical activity, and better results such as a higher purpose in life, optimism, and more contact with friends. They had less depressive symptoms, hopelessness, and loneliness.
Volunteering did not affect diabetes, hypertension (high blood pressure), stroke, cancer, heart disease, lung disease, arthritis, overweight/obesity, cognitive impairment, and chronic pain, nor did volunteering affect health behaviours like binge drinking, smoking, and sleep problems
On the other hand, Macchia, Farmer and Kubzansky (2023) did find a link between volunteerism, and lower levels of physical pain They also discussed the growing body of research suggesting that people have better health outcomes when they make a habit of helping others with social connectedness and stress reduction as the reasons why.
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There are several reasons why volunteer boon for better mental health (Fruitman It creates community and belonging.
Volunteering increases social interaction us make new friends, build our support system, and connect with community – all of which can decrease feelings of isolation and loneliness
It makes us happier in the moment and gives hope for the future Lawton et al (2021)found that those who volunteered reported an increase in feelings of well-being after volunteering When we enjoy improved wellbeing in the present, we are more likely to have hope for the future and hope is crucial for confidence in better healing, mental health, and resilience
It supports a focus on others and increases our own empowerment When we pursue activities that serve others, we shift our attention from “me” to “them”. We find space to put less emphasis on our own feelings and pay more attention to things going on in the world around us.
This can be especially useful for people who cope with depression or anxiety and may experience repetitive thoughts or cycling moods What’s more, being actively engaged in the world around us increases our sense of having control over our own actions to fulfill our potential and influence the world.
In other words, taking action to make change, even in small ways, flips the script from feeling helpless to being helpful It builds “hard” and “soft” skills
Volunteering can expose us to new people, places, and practices and help us use skills we already have or build new ones.
When we apply these skills, we develop feelings of self-confidence, self-esteem, mastery, and a sense of pride These feelings create a circle where one good thing leads to another
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Positive social interactions with others, and giving and receiving kindness, help and appreciation, releases dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins – those are hormones in our brain’s reward centre that facilitate pleasure, motivation, mood, and learning. These substances in our body are nature’s own anti-depressants, helping to boost relaxed positive feelings thereby reducing stress It contributes to a sense of purpose and meaning
When we choose a volunteering opportunity that aligns with our interests, passions, and values it can help us feel part of something bigger than ourselves It reinforces the value of what we can offer the world, expressing our own identity, and enabling us to give back in ways that are meaningful to us.
Some Ideas for Showing Kindness
These are some suggestions for showing kindness, but I know you can think of a lot more!
Paying for the next customer’s coffee or food order is a common one but it’s not hard to come up with other no cost/inexpensive gestures that can also yield far-reaching effects (Tyler VanderWeele, 2025) You may or may not see the effects of kindness that you paid forward but they are felt by the receiver
These gestures of kindness can include:
Commit to doing one act of kindness everyday
Complimenting three people you see today
Taking your neighbour shopping
Walking a senior’s dog
Sending flowers to a friend
Shopping for an older person
Having coffee with a friend who is having a bad day
Helping your partner with household chores
Shovelling a neighbour’s sidewalk and driveway
Reacting with kindness to a stressful situation.
Mowing an elderly person’s lawn
Volunteering for a non-profit agency that can use your skills
PAYFORWARDKINDNESS (PFK)INPARKLAND COUNTY:VANESSA’SSTORY
And now for a real story about kindness in our community. Vanessa is always there 24/7 for the unhoused. They all know her by name and go to her first with any crisis. She has worked many miracles with her friend Trish but you wouldn’t know it because they never talk about themselves!
Read on as Vanessa tells us more about her experience with Pay Forward Kindness in our community.
This is just one of my many outreach stories. One of the most important reasons Trish and I started this group many years ago (around 10) was to raise awareness of the real, hard struggles some unhoused people face in our community In every town and city, many of the struggles to live are the same but the supports are not From town to town and city to city, things look different
I want to give an example of one of our biggest struggles: we have said it for years, at many tables, meetings, and community conversations that we have many beautiful lost souls walking around in our community in worn out shoes eating out of dumpsters. How can we help them? When you are fighting for your life, breaking the cycle of homelessness and addiction is so incredibly hard!
Even when it’s sunny outside, it’s still hard Yesterday’s sunshine brings today’s snow in the winter and wet shoes in the summer Any day can be hard, but weekends are the worst! One beautiful day we got a message from a man who had been waiting over a year on a housing list and months for a treatment bed. Thankfully, with the help of the City Outreach Team, he was able to secure a bed in detox for the next week, but his treatment bed date is not until the end of the month. There would be a gap between the detox bed and the treatment bed, which put him at the greatest risk for harm
We at PFK were able to walk alongside him with the City Outreach Team
He shared that he was so defeated after walking to get a shower with a shower pass, he struggled to stay because it was so busy. He reached out feeling defeated-he’s been walking around for days. So, I met him and offered him a ride to go sit and have a meal. He was exhausted, feeling alone and hungry. We were able to bless him with 2 x $1000 A&W gift cards that were donated through Pay Forward Kindness I encouraged him to keep going- 5 minutes at a time, one hour at a time He later reached back out saying, “Is there any way of going to detox tonight or tomorrow morning? I’m just done with walking around town I’m old and my feet hurt”
His reality is that he is trying to break his present cycle. This means staying out of camps, keeping a distance from his circle he’s been friends with for years-not going to places where his circle of friends meet
Why? Because he knows that offer from his friends to head back to camp will be there and he just may not be strong enough, in his state of mind, to say no. “If you want to get sober and off of the streets you need to trade it all in”. In other words, the life you know, the people you use with, the people you call friends, the places you went and the bush you called home have to be gone.
What do we need to do to have a place where this man doesn’t have to walk the city streets all night so he doesn’t go backwards and risk death by overdose? This is his reality He wants to live, he doesn’t want to be unhoused, he’s fighting but he’s tired of fighting to just feel safe and rest The end of the month is so far away. His detox bed date is still days away. What will he do when he is detoxed and he has a gap to wait on his treatment bed? Come back to our city and wait? Where? These are all questions he asked me
We will be on the phone first thing tomorrow inquiring to make sure we are all ready ahead of time
A K E A W A Y S
Kindness is free, there is no cost associated with being kind.
When you are kind to another person, you give them a hand up.
Kindness towards another person makes a huge difference in their world (and in yours).
When we are kind, we might not know how big of a difference it made.
Volunteering is the most humbling act of kindness.
When they are ready, they are showing up and doing the work they need to do to surround themselves with people like PFK who can meet them, where they are at. Each day is different, each day brings highs and lows.
This is heavy - we need change We need a place where we can meet people in those moments with the kindness and wrap around supports they need It is a proven fact that to be successful those people trying to break the cycle need safe, stable places to live. They need people that can support them in the walk to recovery, to navigate the system, and find the help they need in those moments People need people to walk with them - we have seen it time and time again They need a home base; they need connection and community
They need access to basic needs like food, water, shelter; and because everything is technology they need access to that too. Computers, phones, a place to check in for messages and meet the team of people walking with them Thank you to the library for this gift
They need a place to go when they are fighting for their life in a world that is holding them back because of wait times and limited access to the help they need and deserve. They need a place where family who have had to set boundaries and love them from a distance can come and have a cup of coffee with their loved ones Our community families want to help
Today, I am happy to say that our unhoused have much better access to food and the need to flip open dumpster lids look much different now. Why? Because of volunteerism, kindness and looking after your fellow man; donations of food and clothes, the bus donation from a small business owner, community churches, late night cafes, schools, local catering companies, the Food Bank, Friday’s Feast, small businesses/organizations and community families all providing suppers on Monday and Wednesday nights for the Connection Bus
In addition, City Outreach and our PFK bus outreach volunteers offer life saving solutions during the day That quote, “We need to stop pulling people from the river We need to go upstream and find out why they are falling in” is so true! Your donations matter!
We thank you for your kindness and for blessing us with the tools to meet people in those moments As we grow, we continue to offer the Connection Bus at the Spruce Grove Rotary Park, Mondays and Wednesdays (V Fales Vezina, personal communication, March 25, 2025)
In conclusion, it is great to see that kindness by way of volunteering benefits our health. We all need to be kind because you never know what is going on in someone else’s life. It benefits both the person needing a hand up and the person who is giving it In times of great stress, we all need each other, no one is exempt We can always use another kind friend no matter how many we might have
So, ask yourself, what can each of us do today in the spirit of giving kindness towards another human being?
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Q&A with Victoria LaBerge: Navigating Wellness as a Military Spouse and Psychologist
Victoria LaBerge is a Registered Provisional Psychologist with Balance Psychological Services, a military spouse, and the sibling of a serving CAF member. In this interview with Heartheld Magazine, she shares her personal journey and professional insights into what wellness really means for families in First Responder and military communities
Q: Victoria, can you start by telling us what led you into the field of psychology?
A: My journey into therapy started with my own healing. I grew up in a family where mental health challenges were present but poorly understood My father was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in his mid-30s after years of emotional turbulence, and my parents’ marriage eventually fell apart That experience left me confused, angry, and trying to make sense of it all
In my early 20s, I struggled with anxiety, depression, and disordered eating. I took time to travel, work different jobs, and reflect on how I wanted to contribute to the world. I initially took a life coaching course but quickly realized I needed a deeper understanding of the brain and behaviour. That’s what brought me to psychology
Q: You’re a military spouse and sibling how has that shaped your perspective on mental health in the First Responder world?
A: Being part of a military family gave me a front-row seat to the culture and its unique stressors. When my husband and brother both joined the CAF, I saw firsthand how military life shapes identity, how it asks people to put duty before nearly everything else
At the same time, I witnessed how difficult it can be to seek mental health support in that culture There’s still stigma, especially for men, and I’ve seen people passed over for opportunities just because they asked for help. That’s unacceptable My goal is to normalize therapy and emotional support for everyone, but especially for those who serve
Q: What are some common mental health challenges you see among military and First Responder spouses?
A: Anxiety is a big one, especially anticipatory anxiety about deployments, emergencies, or just never knowing what tomorrow looks like Grief and loss show up too, not always from death, but from the loss of stability, routine, or presence
There’s also a deep sense of helplessness that comes from not being able to influence your partner’s career. It’s hard not to feel second to the job sometimes, especially when birthdays, holidays, or big life moments get missed
Visiting my husband during his leave on his first tour
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Q: What does wellness look like when you're living with that kind of unpredictability?
A: It looks like creating internal stability when your external world is constantly shifting For me, that’s about routine, support systems, and reframing how I approach my time alone When my husband is deployed, I try to view it as an opportunity to reconnect with myself I book massages, go out with friends, even take on new goals like training for a run
It doesn’t mean I’m not sad or frustrated. I absolutely am. But wellness means letting yourself hold two truths: I can be happy, love my life and miss my partner at the same time They’re not mutually exclusive
Q: How do you stay emotionally connected with your partner through all of this?
A: Honestly, by leaning in instead of resisting I had to “drink the Kool-Aid,” so to speak I stopped fighting the military lifestyle and started learning about it; asking about his days, understanding his maps, trying to get involved in his world
When I showed genuine interest in his work, he became more curious about mine. We both work in careers with a lot of confidentiality, but we’ve developed mutual respect for what each other does. That shared curiosity builds connection, even across distance.
Q: What message would you offer someone who feels unseen or
A: It won’t necessarily get easier, but you will get stronger. You’ll develop new skills, build a support network, and start to trust your own capacity
You don’t need to have it all figured out, especially if this is your first time navigating the lifestyle And therapy can really help Friends and family may comfort you, but a therapist can hold space and help you move forward with intention.
You’re not meant to do this alone, and you don’t have to
Victoria LaBerge is a therapist, military spouse and sibling, and passionate advocate for the mental health of Veterans, active CAF members, and First Responders Having lived in four countries and moved more than twenty times, Victoria now calls Alberta home, where she supports clients through Balance Psychological Services.
Deeply familiar with the unique demands of First Responder and military life, Victoria blends personal experience with professional insight to help clients find meaning, resilience, and empowerment. When she’s not in session, you’ll likely find her at the dog park with her Great Dane, Ozzy, trying out a new recipe, or cracking a bad joke with loved ones.
Time with my favourite pup - Ozzy!
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“2020-2023 saw increased demand for affordable Alberta real estate from people relocating from other provinces. Prices increased, which was great news for sellers.
Now?
Spruce Grove & Stony Plain are attracting Edmonton families at an unprecedented rate. I recieve calls regularly from my Edmonton office colleagues (as the go-to ‘Spruce Grove girl’) asking what listings I have coming up in Spruce Grove
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Spruce Grove is on the radar in a whole new way for families looking for a safe, affordable, ideally located community to call home.
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