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TA B L E of CONTENTS Announcement Guidelines 20 (New!) Wedding Color Ideas Don’t Invite These Myths to Your Wedding Festivities Hues To Woo You Ask Carley
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BRIDESMAIDS Ten Bridesmaid Mishaps (And How To Fix Them) 9 Hot Bridesmaid Trends
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10 Things Not to Freak Out About Bridal Gown Trends For 2012, from Vintage Lace To Glamorous Belts How to Get the Wedding Shots You Want From Your Photographer Should Wedding Cupcakes Be DIY?
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GROOMS CORNER Five Ways Women Can Involve Their Groom In Wedding Planning 37 The Groom’s Role In The Wedding: When to Wake Up And When To Hit Snooze 38 BRIDAL
COVER PHOTO SELECTED AS THE WINNER OF HERALD AND NEWS’ WEDDING PHOTO CONTEST Couple: Christopher & Jessica Harper Married: May 27, 2011 Location of Ceremony & Reception: St. Denis Catholic Church, Diamond Bar California Reception at the Diamond Bar Center Bride’s Dress from: David’s Bridal, Beaverton, OR Groom’s & Groomsmen’s Tuxedos from: Friar Tux in Costa Mesa, CA Photography by: Jackie Lamas Photography Riverside, CA Wedding Décor Rentals from: Country Gardens Catering Santa Ana, CA Rehearsal Dinner at: BJ’s Restaurant and Brewhouse in Brea, CA Pre and Post Wedding Night Accommodations at: Ayres Suites Diamond Bar, CA
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ANNOUNCEMENT GUIDELINES PLEASE VISIT WWW.KLAMATHCONNECTIONS.COM TO SUBMIT YOUR ANNOUNCEMENT INFORMATION Weddings, engagements and anniversary announcements appear one time in the Saturday Connections Section of the Herald and News and online at klamathconnections. com for 30 days. Announcements should be submitted to the Herald and News by 11 a.m. on Wednesday one week before the desired date of publication. To ensure the timely publication of announcements, the Herald and News requests that notices and photos be submitted within one month after the celebration has occurred. Anniversary, wedding and engagement notices need to be submitted on the appropriate form provided by the Herald and News, with complete information about the couple. Forms are available on klamathconnections. com. All announcements should show that the couple has strong ties to the area.
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20 (new!) WEDDING COLOR IDEAS by Amy Eisinger Distributed by weddingchannel.com
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our wedding colors are one of the first planning decisions you need to make. Not sure where to start? Just consider one of these fail-safe color palette ideas.
1. DOVE GRAY AND PEACH
Put a new twist on the “peaches and cream” look by subbing in soft gray for a sophisticated, chic look.
2. SHADES OF BLUE AND CREAM
4. SHADES OF GREEN
For most brides, green is an automatic accent color because of the bouquets. But it can take center stage when shades of mint, lime and sour apple are grouped together (perfect for a summer wedding).
3. CRIMSON AND BLACK
Nothing quite says urban chic and sophisticated like this romantic duo.
Bright pink and lime scattered throughout the reception decor make for an instant laid-back, beachy vibe.
8. MOSS AND IVORY
5. VIOLET, PURPLE AND LAVENDER
The same trick works for purple. If you can’t pick just one or two colors, then opt for a color palette like this one, featuring several shades within the same family. This easy, breezy color palette is easy to personalize with patterns.
7. LIME AND BUBBLE GUM PINK
Give your wedding a woodsy, rustic feel with these subdued, earthy colors.
9. TANGERINE AND NAVY
6. SUNFLOWER AND DARK GRAY
Add a little sophistication to any summertime wedding by adding touches of gray to a bright hue, like golden yellow. BRIDAL
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Dress up your wedding with a classic formal color, like navy, but keep things from getting too stuffy with a vibrant hue, like tangerine.
10. ORANGE AND DEEP FUCHSIA
14. POWDER BLUE AND MIDNIGHT BLACK
There’s something so classic and clean about this summery combination.
These oddball colors look pulledtogether when paired with a subdued brown accent color.
11. TURQUOISE AND CHOCOLATE
17. MINT GREEN AND PURE WHITE
Mixing muted tones like this soft blue and a not-quite-jet-black midnight gives the wedding a sophisticated, formal feel.
18. BLACK AND WHITE
15. RED AND MATTE WHITE There’s plenty of room for variety and splashes of accent colors (think: magenta, yellow or lilac) with black and white as your backdrop.
This color combination is the classic for a rustic yet elegant wedding.
12. ECRU AND GOLD
19. BRIGHT RED AND CITRINE While a red and white combo would be perfect for a traditional Chinese theme, you could just as easily use these colors for a preppy bayside wedding.
Accent this classic color palette with lots of warm candlelight and rich gold details in the room decor.
16. STEEL AND ICE BLUE
13. BROWN, GARNET AND YELLOW
Perfect for an October or November wedding; embrace the fall season with this rich color palette.
Regal? You bet. These bold colors are ideal for an upscale ballroom affair.
20. DUSTY ROSE AND ANTIQUE GOLD
Give the groomsmen something they’ll love to wear, with this masculine color palette. BRIDAL
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It’s soft and romantic.
DON’T INVITE THESE MYTHS TO YOUR WEDDING FESTIVITIES By Alexia Elejalde-Ruiz Wedding bells cause enough headaches without the noise of outdated or misguided rules. Here are five wedding myths that happy couples and their guests can banish from their to-do lists to save money, time or grief. MYTH NO 1: Guests should spend on a wedding gift the same amount as the per-person cost of being entertained at the reception. The per-plate rule is outdated and impractical, said Mark Kingsdorf, owner of The Queen of Hearts Wedding Consultants in Philadelphia and a master bridal consultant with the Association of Bridal Consultants. Guests should spend according to their personal relationship to the bride and/or groom and their financial situation. The closer you are, the more you may wish to spend, but don't worry about expectations. "They're inviting you because they love you, not because they want a present from you," Kingsdorf said. MYTH NO. 2: The bride must wear white, and the guests better not. The bride can wear whatever she pleases, and many brides today have a pink or lavender underlay to their gowns for a blush tone, while others add splashes of color with bright sashes or embroidery (and still others walk down the aisle in fire-engine red).
Because of superstition or to make a grand entrance, many couples think it's best to wait until the procession for the big reveal _ but, in fact, it can be more romantic to have a "first look" with your soon-to-be spouse earlier in the day. "They can actually take the time to connect together, by themselves," said Christy Weber, co-founder of Junebug Weddings, an online wedding magazine based in Seattle. It's also more relaxing to do the photo shoot before the ceremony rather than slip away during the cocktail hour. MYTH NO. 5: Guests want party favors to take home from the reception. "How many little silver picture frames do you have at home with a couple's picture inside? None, because you got rid of them," Kingsdorf said. The best party favors are edible ones, like chocolates, so don't waste money on candles, bottle stoppers or any other tchotchkes that turn into clutter, Kingsdorf said. A photo booth is one way to give your guests something meaningful to take with them. Another option is to make a donation to charity in lieu of party favors. Photo by Lukasz Dunikowski
Guests, meanwhile, may wear certain shades of white _ but with caution. The point is not to distract from the bride or her attendants, Kingsdorf said. So if the bride is wearing a white ball gown, a guest can get away with a knee-length ivory sheath, especially if she adds colorful or chunky accessories that are clearly unbridelike.
MYTH NO. 4: The bride and groom shouldn't see each other until she walks down the aisle.
MYTH NO. 3: June is the best month for weddings. The cachet of being a June bride has less-than-romantic roots: In the Middle Ages, June weddings were advisable because brides were still somewhat clean from their annual spring bath. Today, May and October are more popular months to get married than June, according to Conde Nast's American Wedding Survey 2009. And couples can often save money getting married during less popular months. Distributed by McClatchy-Tribune Information Services
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HUES TO WOO YOU By Melissa Magsaysay
What nail polish colors are there for brides these days? I'm not thrilled by the ho-hum soft pinks and boring French manicures, and I don't want to be too matchy with my bridesmaids (who are wearing rich eggplant purple). My friend suggested fire engine red, which intrigues me but might not go with the purples. Is there something else that might be daring but still classy?
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I am a traditionalist when it comes to weddings and always imagine pinky-nude shades such as Essie Mademoiselle or Ballet Slippers on a beautiful bride's fingers, but I'm a little oldfashioned and boring when it comes down to it. And now you've got me thinking that it could be very chic to have something of a statement nail as an accent to your wedding dress. After all, with the amazing shades and techniques in nail color now, nails really are just another accessory, like earrings. Having said that, it is your wedding day and you probably don't want some crazy palm tree and sunset nail art to eclipse your elegant dress.
Abandoning the purple altogether, gold would also look really amazing as well as complement the purple tones. The rich metallic hue is classic while still being a bit edgy and unexpected. YSL La Laque in No. 139 Gold is a gorgeous warm gold that is opaque enough to cover the entire nail with solid color but not in an in-yourface kind of way. For a more intense gold, try Dior Nail Lacquer in Timeless Gold. This polish is a tarnished version with an amazingly shiny finish that will have your nails looking like little gold bricks. My advice is, go for the gold. Shimmery gold nails will look timeless, beautiful and unexpected as well as complement your wedding colors, which is so much more modern and chic than trying to rigidly match them. Distributed by McClatchy-Tribune Information Services
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Based on the eggplant-colored bridesmaid dresses you describe, a shade of light purple or lavender would be pretty and definitely out of the bridal nail "norm." I love Demure Vixen (an iridescent cocoa mauve) from Essie and Metro Chic from Sephora by OPI (a taupe-y purple). These are on the trendy side, following the fad in purple‑ish/gray nail color. If you're OK with wearing something more of the moment than classic, these shades are perfect, and they'll complement your bridesmaids' dresses.
Chanel Paradoxal is an amazing shade that blends purple, silver and gray into a sort of swirly finish. It's got texture and sparkle going on and could look really gorgeous. Or you could go way dark with a shade like Lincoln Park After Dark from OPI, Velvet Voyeur from Essie or Branwen's Feather from Butter London. Both are a purple-ish black and definitely add some intense color to your overall look. But think about those shots your photographer will take of your and your husband's newly ringed fingers. Will you be OK looking back in 50 years at purple-black nails? I think anything goes and it's your big day, but it's something to think about.
You could also go dramatic and dark as your friend suggested, but if you do, I'd say go dark and deep, rather than bright. I am guessing purple is a complementary color in your wedding, so stick with cool shades rather than hot and bright reds.
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You want to look gorgeous on your wedding day, and part of achieving that is to work with beauty professionals you trust. If you’re not happy with your makeup trial, don’t commit to a wedding-day makeup application. And don’t let the salon (or anyone) pressure you into thinking you need one.
If you’re worried about your mom offending guests, you can ask a middlewoman (a sister or aunt) to make sure the invitations are worded in a way that lets guests know what to expect.
No need to reciprocate when picking a maid of honor
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If you’re the type of person who’d feel uncomfortable going back to the salon just for an updo, it may be worth exploring other options. If you really want the salon to do your hair, maybe also schedule a manicure instead of a makeup application.
I was the maid of honor in a friend’s wedding, and now that I’m getting married, I think she expects to be mine, but she’s not my first choice. Am I obligated?
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Whatever you choose, remember that the last thing you need on your wedding day is an awkward situation interrupting some much-needed pampering and girl time.
Absolutely not! There are no requirements or rules of reciprocity when it comes to choosing a maid of honor. Sometimes the right person is a best friend or sister, and sometimes it’s simply a close friend who will be able to handle the responsibility.
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This wedding invite is nontransferable I invited my friend and her boyfriend (by name on the invite), but they recently broke up. Now she wants to bring a girl I don’t like. Can I tell her no?
It should be easy to explain to your friend why you’ve chosen someone else while reassuring her that you value her friendship. Because of the time and expense involved, she may even be relieved to hear that she’s off the hook. Assuming she’s included in the bridal party, chances are she’ll be fine with it.
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Because you worded the invitation correctly by having her boyfriend’s name on the envelope (rather than ‘’and guest’’), you have every right to say no.
You can’t invite friend to wedding but not her husband
As a rule, invitations are nontransferable when people are invited by name. Try explaining that you’re not friendly with the girl and you’d prefer that the guest list be limited to very good friends and family.
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We’re keeping our wedding-guest list very small. Is it rude if we invite my friend but not her husband?
If you invited all of your single friends sans dates, let her know she won’t be the only one coming solo (in case that’s her worry).
In a word, yes. We could (maybe) let it go if the couple weren’t married, but husbands and wives should always be invited as a couple or not at all.
A surprise engagement party where guests have to pay I just found out that my mom is throwing us a surprise engagement party. I’m really excited, but I also heard she’s not paying for dinner or drinks -- guests have to pay. What should I do? BRIDAL
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Since you’re not hosting (and it’s supposed to be a surprise), there’s not much you can do. Plus, engagement parties can be anything from backyard barbecues to full-on fetes. So even though bites and booze aren’t free, at least your mom is organizing a time where everyone can be together to celebrate your newly engaged status.
After getting a hair-and-makeup trial, I think I’d be happier doing the makeup myself. The problem is, I still want the salon to do my hair. Is it rude to not schedule wedding-day makeup, too?
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Put yourself in her shoes: If you were invited to a friend’s wedding without your husband, wouldn’t you be upset? Try to make room in your budget for both your friend and her husband, or leave them off the guest list altogether. Just explain that you’re having an intimate wedding with family and very close friends. She should understand.
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I’ve been so stressed with all the things I have to do -- book a wedding venue, find vendors, send out invitations -- that I’m considering hiring a day-of coordinator. I’m not sure we have room in our budget. What are my options?
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Fees for day-of coordinators can range from as low as $200 to well over $1,000 for the day. But hiring one may not help that much. Most of your worries seem to be about all the things you need to do before your wedding. Day-of coordinators can only help you on your wedding day Running Y Ranch (directing your guests and vendors, coordinating the day’s Courtesy of Glo events, putting out any last-minute fires). Photography Many planners offer combo packages that include several hours of planning help before the wedding but aren’t as pricey as a full-time planner. Or enlist your bridal party and family (and your groom!) to help with all the planning to-dos. Another great resource: Other brides’ recommendations for vendors and venues in your area on TheKnot.com.
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Guests’ presence is a present in itself Should we send thank-you cards to guests who came to our wedding but didn’t give us cards or gifts? All attendees deserve a handwritten thank-you note — regardless of whether they gave you a gift. Now, before you roll your eyes and ignore this advice, remember: Guests may have traveled or taken time off from work to be there. Keep it simple, and say something like, “Thanks for coming! It meant so much that you could be there to celebrate with us.” Try to include something personal, too, such as how you loved their dance moves or the joke they told in the receiving line.
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TEN BRIDESMAID MISHAPS (AND HOW TO FIX THEM) by Jaimie Dalessio
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DISASTER #1 SHE NEVER ORDERED HER DRESS The deal: You sent them links, fabric swatches and style numbers, but still -- one bridesmaid ended up never buying the dress. The solution: Dump her! She really forgot to order her dress? She’s out, unless she can fix things herself -- i.e., rush-order the dress and deal with the extra charges. Note that if you happened to go with a general color palette or theme rather than a specific dress, it should be much easier for her to quickly find something suitable before the wedding.
DISASTER # 2 DISASTER # 4 SHE DOESN’T CARE SHE HATES YOUR OTHER BRIDESMAIDS The deal: All-night DIY sessions The deal: This trouble-causing bridesmaid can’t seem to play nice with the others in the group, resulting in awkward situations, fed-up friends and fights. The solution: Put her in check. Whatever her issue is with one or all of your bridesmaids, she needs to tuck it away until after the wedding. Your bridesmaids are likely a mix of friends from different parts of your life, many of whom have never met each other, so this loose cannon may just need a little TLC to feel connected with the others.
DISASTER # 3 SHE’S A BRIDESMAID-ZILLA The deal: You’re supposed to
Don’t let bridesmaid woes ruin your big day!
be the demanding one -- not your bridesmaid. If she cares more about where she falls in the order of girls walking down the aisle or giving toasts, you have a problem. And that long list of guests she’d like you to invite isn’t okay either. The solution: Tell her like it is. When it comes to the order of toasts, just explain that you want your sister to go first or that you think hers would be so much funnier after so-and-so goes. (Stroking the ego always works.) If it’s your best friend, she’s probably been thinking about your wedding for as long as you have, so try to understand if she wants, let’s say, her mom and sister to come see you two before the wedding. But a posse of 15 is a no-no.
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are supposed to be fun, right? Well, kind of. But don’t forget, she still may have plans on Saturday night that don’t involve stuffing favor bags. To many bridesmaids, helping with planning is part of the fun and something they’re totally up for doing -- granted you keep your sanity and a sunny attitude. Every once in a while, though, you’ll get the attendant who wants nothing to do with early morning bridal salon runs and trips to the florist, and it can ruin the fun for you or, worse, for the other bridesmaids. The solution: Explain how much it would mean to you, not just because you have 148 mint tins to fill, but because you want to spend time with her. And if she’s too busy to come to every single appointment (and she will be), that’s okay. Remember she has a job and a life and things to do besides worry about your wedding.
DISASTER # 5 SHE HOOKED UP WITH A GROOMSMAN. IT DIDN’T WORK OUT The deal: It was after a prewedding barbecue, and they’d been eyeing each other since your groups of friends merged way back when you and your groom first hit it off. But the love affair was short-lived. Now they’re superawkward around each other, and he’s bringing his new girlfriend to the wedding.
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The solution: Be a good friend and get your girl a hot date to bring to the wedding so she’s got someone to talk to (and ogle over) when her path crosses with the groomsman who shall not be mentioned. If she’s being a baby about seeing him at the wedding, remind her she’s the one who thought making out with him was a good idea in the first place.
DISASTER # 6 SHE WENT MIA The deal: If your phone calls and texts go unanswered, your emails get bounced back and you haven’t heard from her in weeks, your bridesmaid has probably gone AWOL (sorry). If she’s not reaching out to you at all, chances are she can’t or doesn’t want to be in the wedding. The solution: You probably want to kick her out of the wedding in a dramatic email, but don’t. Try to track her down in person, without looking too much like a stalker, just to find out if she wants to be included. Tell her it’s okay if she has too many things going on, but that you just need an answer. Maybe she got a new phone and a new email address, or maybe she’s just not that into you. How to handle a flaky bridesmaid
DISASTER # 7 SHE HATES YOUR GUY The deal: Your bridesmaid can’t stand to be in the same room as your groom, and that’s a problem if you need them both at the altar.
The solution: We’re going to trust you and assume she’s wrong about him. This person loves you or else she wouldn’t have agreed to be in the wedding party at all. The bridesmaid needs to back off— you’re getting married to him. She’s not going to change that by acting like an A-hole and making you miserable. Maybe she shouldn’t be up there at the altar with you, and you should tell her that the choice is hers — be civil or take a seat with the other guests.
DISASTER # 8 SHE OWES YOU MONEY The deal: You put her hotel room on your credit card because you were booking all of the rooms, and this bridesmaid has made no mention of it since. The solution: Let’s face it: You have a lot of bills to pay right now, so getting this money is important. At the same time, it’s money spent on your wedding, so be gentle. Just bring it up next time you see her. Even if you’re not the confrontational type, this is definitely something you’ll want to do in person, as she could take it the wrong way if it’s over the phone or email. Say something like, “So I’m finishing up all the bills and paperwork, and I could really use that X amount I put down for the hotel. Can you write up a check?” She’ll probably say she totally forgot. Problem solved! BRIDAL
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DISASTER # 9 SHE GOT ENGAGED The deal: Maybe you were really excited to plan your weddings together at first, but somehow it’s turned into a full-out competition a la Bride Wars. The solution: Bring it down to earth a little bit. Maybe even rent the movie and watch it together! You’re both planning pretty important days in your lives, so do what you do best and be there for each other. Sit down with her to work out some sort of compromise in terms of helping each other plan and not stepping on each other’s toes.
DISASTER # 10 SHE BACKED OUT The deal: Whether it’s four months before the wedding or four weeks, it stings when someone in your bridal party says sayonara to the whole thing -- especially if it’s after a fight. Luckily (sort of), the damage is more emotional than anything else. The solution: Get over the idea that you need the same number of people standing up for each of you at the wedding. Uneven bridal parties are pretty common. In terms of the logistics, your ex-bridesmaid probably bought her own dress, but ask her to return it if you had to foot the bill. Remember to take her name out of the program and to ask your florist to subtract one bouquet from your order. Distributed by Weddingchannel.com.
BRIDESMAIDS 9 HOT BRIDESMAID TRENDS by Amy Eisinger Distributed by weddingchannel.com.
We’ve got the scoop on the latest trends for next year’s bridal party. Straight from the runway, these gown ideas will have the bridesmaids looking (almost!) as standout as the bride herself.
Bright and Bold
Double the Fun
Let the world know your girls are no shrinking violets. Lots of brides are opting for bright hues this season, including yellow, lime, bright blues and fuchsia. If you go with a bold color, make sure you pick a style, like a short party dress, that has a similarly playful look.
We’re loving the trend of seeing two-toned dresses, instead of the more traditional solid look. It can be a great way to incorporate both of the hues in your color scheme, but just be careful not to get too matchymatchy. Picking a tone that’s a few shades off from the rest of your colors might be helpful in the long run.
Heavy Metal
For late summer and fall weddings we’ve been noticing lots of silvers and pewter tones. Don’t confuse this with gray — there’s more of a sheen to the fabrics and a touch of elegance, which the other doesn’t include. Try outfitting your bridesmaids in a long gown in this tone for an evening affair.
All Wrapped Up
If your bridal party comes in a variety of shapes and sizes, consider a gown that has an asymmetrical detailing, or try a wrap dress. The diagonal angle is slimming on most body shapes and, in the case of most asymmetrical detailing, the adding ruching or detail can also help to distract from other Details, Details, Details! This season, it’s all about the small trims and frills areas (like hips or tummy). around the edges. If you’re a true fashionista, you’ll love the detailed fabric flowers we’re seeing at the neckline Forever Plaid and hemline of gowns, along with embroidered details Who says your girls have to wear solid colors? There are now several and even small frilly trains. styles available in florals, plaids, or geometric prints, to name a few. Light as a Feather If you’re having a summer wedding, don’t be surprised Make sure you choose a simple if your bridesmaids insist on wearing something short. style dress, though, so they don’t Keep them looking elegant in a luxurious fabric, like distract from your look. chiffon or crinkle chiffon, which is light and airy, but still looks formal. You’ll also love the way it twirls when they She’s Got Your Back take to the dance floor later in the evening. For evening affairs, slip your girls into something with a low scooped back or a backless dress. This style can Barely There Another daring trend we’ve noticed are the nude move seamlessly from a daytime to or even white bridesmaids gowns popping up on nighttime look and (most women) are runways. Putting bridesmaids in a color so close to the confident about the way their backs bride’s won’t distract though — we promise. Instead, look, so you won’t hear any complaints they’ll look sophisticated and chic. about it being too short or too tight.
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Klamath County 2012 Bridal & Event Show Sunday, February 26, 2012 The Running Y Ranch 11:00 am to 3:00 pm
Jackie Lamas Photogra
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Welcome to the 2012 Klamath County Bridal & Event Show This year’s Klamath County Bridal & Event Show is brought to you by Party Time Events, the Running Y Ranch, Basin Mediactive and the Herald and News. We are excited to provide an exciting yet affordable venue showcasing the area’s top wedding professionals. Our bridal show is a great opportunity to discover the best options to make your dream wedding come true. Let our trust-worthy wedding professionals help you shop for the best wedding planning values, products and services to suit your own unique style and budget—all in one relaxed and stress-free location. You’ll be able to meet one-on-one with caterers, florists, photographers, music and entertainment professionals, jewelers, bridal gown and tuxedo shops, hair & makeup professionals and more to discuss in detail the plans for your special day. Have fun while you preview new ideas, see the latest styles and trends and shop in one convenient location. The show also features live fashion shows and exciting prize giveaways! Delight in all the sights, sounds and tastes that will help create a sensational wedding day. If you’re just starting with wedding details or looking for last minute ideas, you’ll find what you need at this year’s show. Thank you for coming and enjoy your day discovering the best options to make your dream wedding come true!
Basin Mediactive, LLC is thrilled to be a presenter of this years Klamath County Bridal and Event Show. It is a pleasure to be able to give our loyal listeners and users direct access to a great community event. Enjoy your day at the beautiful Running Y Ranch Resort and congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Basin Mediactive, LLC is a full service, community focused multi-media company which owns and operates the Klamath basin's most listened to commercial radio stations, KLAD FM. 99.5 The Rock, Newstalk 1150AM, and AM 960 the Sports Legend as well as the Basin's most popular interactive local news and information web portal; mybasin.com.
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Party Time Events would like to thank the Klamath Basin for their ongoing loyalty and allowing us to create events that become memories of a lifetime! We are a 4th generation, locally owned and operated family business. The business began in 1989 in the basement of our home after being approached by Harry’s mother Fonda about starting a party and wedding supply store to compliment her very popular cakes and pastries that Fonda and Harry Sr. operated for over 20 years. We quickly grew out of our small basement setup and established a storefront business in 1994 on 5143 South Street, Klamath Falls, where you can still find us today. Party Time Events is the premier rental location for weddings, receptions, company parties, birthday and anniversary celebrations, fundraisers and more. Whatever it is you’d like to celebrate, Party Time Events can help turn that vision into reality. We will continue to provide Southern Oregon with the quality service and professionalism we have been delivering for over 22 years. We look forward to seeing you at this year’s Klamath County Bridal Event & Show at the Running Y. Thank You from our family at Party Time Events! Carol, Harry, Jeff, Tiffany, Darlena, Stacey, Matt, Dave and our Jr. Party Event Specialists Mya and Koy!
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Events, Basin Mediactive and the Running Y Ranch to bring you Klamath County’s premier Bridal Show. For many brides, the details of planning a wedding can be overwhelming—especially if you are trying to do it yourself. And we know – the process is much more difficult when you don’t know where to start, what to do, or where to go for the information you need to plan your Southern Oregon wedding. We hope our 2011 Bridal Guide helps you as your wedding planning process begins, answers many of your wedding planning questions and helps ensure a successful wedding day. This Guide is made possible by the support of our advertisers. When planning your wedding, be sure to patronize these great establishments to ensure that your wedding is as perfect as you’ve always dreamed! Also, be sure to get your engagement and wedding story published in the Herald and News! You’ll find all the forms and information you need on www.
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Booth 1: Leo’s Camera Booth 2: Running Y Ranch Resort Booth 3: Estilo Hair Studio Booth 4: Holliday Jewelry Booth 5: Party Time Events Booth 6: One Way Entertainment Booth 7: Indulgence Salon Booth 8: Cakery Booth 9: Nibbley’s Booth 10: Sherm’s Thunderbird Booth 11: Made with Love Cakes & Goodies
Booth 12: Cellular Sales – Verizon Wireless Booth 13: Ross Ragland Theater Booth 14: New Discoveries Flowers Booth 15: County Cork Collectibles Booth 16: Exquisite Limousine Service LLC Booth 17: Cimarron Inn Booth 18: Simply You Jewelry Booth 19: Wyatt’s American Eatery Booth 20: Botanica Creations Booth 21: Simply Elegant Seating Booth 22: Bogatay’s Tuxedo
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Booth 23: Shirley’s Fashion Boutique
and Bridal Salon
Booth 24: Vintage Salon Booth 25: Klamath Tribute Center Booth 26: Boresha Booth 27: Southern Oregon Photography Booth 28: Above & Beyond Catering Booth 29: Lake of the Woods Resort Booth 30: Wubba’s BBQ Shack and Catering Booth 31: Arbonne Cosmetics Booth 32: Herald and News
VENDOR LIST Booth 1: Leo’s Camera 437 Main Street Klamath Falls Or. 97603 541.882.3331
Booth 5:
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Running Y Ranch Resort 5500 Running Y Road Klamath Falls, OR 97601 541.850.5570
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Booth 3: Estilo Hair Studio 2542 Shasta Way Klamath Falls, Or. 97603 541.882.3447
Booth 4: Holliday Jewelry 2834 South 6th Street Klamath Falls, OR 97603 541.884.9033
One Way Entertainment (DJ Services) Dave Davenport 541.331.1432
Booth 7:
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Booth 10: Sherm’s Thunderbird Market 1877 Avalon Street Klamath Falls, OR 97603 541.884.1758
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Booth 11: Made with Love Cakes & Goodies Nickie Caroon 740.975.4495
Booth 12: Cellular Sales – Verizon Wireless 2316 South 6th Street Klamath Falls, OR 97601 541.205.5066
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Booth 14: New Discoveries Flowers by Debby Debby Curran 541.882.3933
Booth 15: County Cork Collectibles 14141 Falvey Road Merrill, OR 97633 541.798.5096
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Booth 16: Exquisite Limousine Service LLC 3939 South 6th Street #193 Klamath Falls, OR. 97603 541.882.3099
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Booth 20: Botanica Creations 2223 North Eldorado Ave. Klamath Falls, OR 97601 541.884.5422
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Booth 21: Simply Elegant Seating Kelli Warner 541.882.8375
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Booth 22: Bogatay’s Tuxedo 119 South 8th Street Klamath Falls, OR 97601 541.884.8811 Booth
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Shirley’s Fashion Boutique and Bridal Salon 205 Fern Valley Road #1 Phoenix, OR. 97535 541.512.8903
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Booth 24: Vintage Salon 1039 Main Street Klamath Falls, OR. 97601 541.273.8818
Booth 25: Klamath Tribute Center Ceilia Foster American Academy of Wedding Professionals Certified 6420 South 6th Street Klamath Falls, OR. 97603 541.884.5555
Booth 26: Boresha Susan Belden 541-281-5558 Booth 27: Southern Oregon Photography 541.944.9306
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Booth 28: Above & Beyond Catering Running Y Ranch Klamath Falls, OR. 97601 541.884.0114
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Wubba’s BBQ Shack and Catering 3930 South 6th Street Klamath Falls, OR 97603 541.273.4227
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Arbonne Cosmetics Karla Estabrook 541.331.0609
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Herald and News 2701 Foothills Boulevard Klamath Falls, OR 97601 541.885.4410
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The wedding attire featured at this year’s Klamath County Bridal & Event Show is presented by:
Shirley’s Fashions & Bogatay’s Tuxedos Shirley’s Fashions has been providing Southern Oregon with quality fashions for every bride’s dream wedding. The Phoenix, Oregon store covers bridal gowns, bridesmaids dresses, mother of the brides and other special occasion dresses. With an extensive showroom featuring 3 large dressing rooms the bride has the option to experiment with different style dresses to find the perfect gown.
At Bogatay’s Tuxedos Rentals and Sales, you’ll find an extensive in-store selection of the latest styles and classic looks. Tuxedo and suit rentals, accessories and custom fittings available. For personalized service, visit Bogatay’s Tuxedos in downtown Klamath Falls.
Shirley’s Fashion Boutique and Bridal Salon 205 Fern Valley Road #1 Phoenix OR 97535 Phone: 541-512-8903 www.shirleysbridalsalon.com
Bogatay’s Tuxedo 119 South 8th Street Klamath Falls, OR 97601 Phone: 541.884.8811
Thank you for coming!
Jackie Lamas Photography
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Things not to Freak Out About
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When it comes to the wedding day, the little things can seem like a big issue _ even when they shouldn’t. That’s why We have come up with the top 10 things you can stop worrying about right now.
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Don’t freak out about: messing up the vows Repeat after us: No matter what happens during the ceremony, it will always be memorable for the right reasons. Being overcome with emotion is totally normal during ceremonies, so it’s no surprise if you or your groom slip up or miss some of the words _ even if you’ve rehearsed them before. The key is to not get flustered; if you mess up, take a deep breath and keep going.
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Don’t freak out about:
your bridesmaids’ hair Despite what you might think, we have yet to hear of someone looking at a wedding photo and saying, “Oh, the bridesmaid second from the left looks incredible!” The focus of the day will always be on the bride, which is exactly why there’s no point in letting someone else’s hairstyle ruin the day.
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Don’t freak out about: grandma’s attire Ever heard the saying “age
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your
before beauty”? Whether it’s your
groomsmen didn’t cut his hair _ let
grandmother or grandfather (or even
it go. Even if you discussed it weeks
your parents), focus on how great it
ahead of time, this is just one of those
is to have them there for the wedding
things that isn’t worth stressing over.
_ rather than dwelling on that 80s era
If it’s really bad, ask a bridesmaid to
attire they just couldn’t part with.
help straighten ties and push any long
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Don’t freak out about: left-behind favors No guest ever means to offend
photos.
bound to have leftovers. Just ask
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frazzled guests, lost vendors and
favors. Put them out again at the day-
anxious family members who need
after brunch (if you’re having one) for
fast answers. Make sure your phone is
those guests who want another.
fully charged — and then put someone
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the bride or groom by accidentally leaving one on the table, but you’re
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Don’t freak out about: the wrong dinner side dishes You’re going to get a bunch
of calls on your wedding day from
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guest no-shows Don’t freak out about: Most guests have a pretty bridal party drama Don’t freak out about: not good reason for skipping out on a So the maid of honor just can’t getting every combination of wedding at the last minute, so we get along with another bridesmaid, or family photos suggest giving them the benefit of the maybe one friend has been acting a Giving your wedding photographer doubt. Chances are, by morning, you’ll little bitter ever since your engagement a priority list of photos is always a have an email or phone call explaining was announced. The day of the great idea to make sure you get the their absence. wedding is never the right time to bring family member combinations that are up issues and it’s not something you Don’t freak out about: should have to worry about. Put your most important. Still, if time runs low, the weather don’t sweat missing that odd photo mom, another neutral bridesmaid, or Even if it never rains your planner on patrol to make sure combination of cousins, aunts, and groomsmen. It’s better to get the during your wedding month, accept the day stays drama-free. biggies and move on with the day than that it could. Have a pretty umbrella to spend your cocktail hour taking on hand just in case. Then if it rains, embrace it and ask your photographer to get a shot of you kissing in the rain. posed portraits.
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BRIDAL GOWN TRENDS FOR 2012, FROM VINTAGE LACE TO GLAMOROUS BELTS By Andrea Brunty
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hether you're a modern, yet traditional bride looking for a lacy vintage dress, or you prefer a glamorous, glitzy gown with an embellished sash and feathery hairpiece, 2012's bridal fashion trends can accommodate your style. Thanks to popular TV shows like "Say Yes to the Dress," most customers already know what to expect when trying on wedding gowns. However, brides-to-be often make unexpected choices, said Sarah Morris, owner of The Something Blue Shoppe in Hartselle. "Just when you think you know what they want, they surprise you," she said. What isn't surprising is the reasoning behind their choices: "I just think every girl wants to be herself and to have something different and exclusive about her look and her wedding," Morris said. Carolyn Grimes, manager of Nathan's Bridal in Decatur, agreed.
backs and illusion sleeves, says Carley Roney, co-founder and editor in chief.
"I think every bride has a tendency to want to be glamorous on that day," she said. "Even if they're a jeans girl, they still have fantasized about dressing up and being glamorous."
"For the past several seasons, all that the girls were interested in were strapless and sweetheart (necklines), but now we're having more straps and a capped sleeve," Morris said.
While many Southern brides stick to tradition, Morris and Grimes see new trends each year. Kate and coverage Kate Middleton's long-sleeved lace dress may have had an effect on bridal fashion, but Morris hasn't seen much of its influence. "There was a lot of talk about it, but most girls don't want to cover up that much," Grimes agreed. However, Kate's sister Pippa's bridesmaid dress was the scene stealer at the royal wedding, and replica dresses are popular. Strapless dresses will still rule the bridal aisle this year, according to TheKnot .com's trend forecast, but expect more coverage with a sexy twist. Think sheer
Photo by Quinn Anya Instead of the traditional veil, brides are opting for decorative hairpieces
Grimes agreed, saying one-shoulder gowns are also popular. Some brides choose to don a bolero jacket for more coverage during the ceremony and then remove it for the reception. Lace Though lace has been around for several seasons, the toned-down style still reigns. Some gowns feature dimensional laces, while other dresses are designed with laser-cut edges for a frayed look, offering a modern take on vintage, Morris said. "We get a lot of requests for lace and a vintage look," she said. Lace will also most likely pop up on everything from the wedding cake to the decor, Roney predicted. BRIDAL
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Flowers One of the biggest new trends, Morris said, is fabric flowers in all sizes. "Some of them are made from the same fabric as the dress; some are in contrasting fabric," she said. "A lot of the more expensive dresses in the silk and the dupioni feature a cabbage rose of the same fabric." Other dresses feature flowers with frayed petals, picking up on the modern vintage vibe. Hairpieces vs. veils Morris and Grimes have seen a shift from veils and tiaras to hairpieces with embellishments. More brides prefer a hair comb with a detachable veil, or, if they want a traditional chapel-length veil, they will opt to remove it for the reception. Cocktail hats with a caged veil of Russian netting (commonly known as a birdcage veil) are another fashionable option.
From a fun flower to a flirty feather to a Swarovski crystaladorned comb added to the side of an updo, many brides are choosing playful over traditional. Belts and sashes The over-the-top glamorous trend has helped push rhinestone-embellished belts to the fashion forefront. But the glitzy style isn't cheap; belts and sashes can cost anywhere from $100 to $600. "You'll see a pretty grosgrain belt with a big rhinestone motif, and we also have some belts that have these tatteredlooking flowers," Morris said. Color Though the racks of poufy dresses may all look white, don't be so sure. Diamond white and light ivory are the shades you're probably looking at, Morris said. "We're not seeing stark white," she said. "The fabrics look richer and more expensive in the softer shades of white, and they're more complexion-friendly." For a destination wedding, a chiffon gown in a pale peachypink hue would be a pretty option, she said. Shoes Once you've chosen your dream dress, shoes are probably next on the list. "I think some girls are spending almost as much on the shoes as they are on the gown," Morris said.
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"It's almost a status symbol to wear a beautiful, expensive shoe on your wedding day," she said. Some brides choose to add personality with glitz or color, Grimes said. "Shoes don't necessarily have to stay white because their dress is white," she said. "Brides are dying them different colors -- blue, red, fuchsia, pink."
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HOW TO GET THE WEDDING SHOTS Y O U WA N T F R O M Y O U R P H O T O G R A P H E R
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t doesn’t take long for a couple to forget the flavor of their wedding cake or the scent of the gardenias in the centerpieces. Weddings go by so quickly that by the end of the honeymoon, most of the details of the big day are often just a blur. Thank goodness for the photos. A good wedding photographer captures the moments that a marrying couple might easily forget (or may not have even witnessed in the first place). And many wedding photographers shoot hundreds and hundreds (even thousands) of photos, so they catch almost every detail that’s worth remembering (and some that aren’t). But getting the photos you want of the big day depends on communication between the couple and the person behind the camera. Here are some tips for ensuring your wedding is captured just the way you want it:
TRUST YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER
“I really like my clients to trust me, and know that I’ve been doing this for a long time,” says Kate Headley, an Alexandria, Va.-based wedding photographer who recently shot her 100th wedding. “I love their enthusiasm, and when they’re excited to work with me.” PROVIDE A SHOT LIST
But don’t expect the photographer to follow it to the letter. And let the photographer know where you’ll be during the day, and whether you expect him or her to follow you there. “As soon as you have it, give your photographer a complete timeline of the entire day,” says Amy Eisinger, associate editor of weddingchannel. com. If you want the photographer to shoot you getting ready at your parents’ house or you want a few shots of you at the spot where you first kissed, provide that information as soon as you have it. “What I like to hear from the couple is what’s important to them,” Headley says. BRIDAL
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BE HONEST
“It’s important to bring up things that you don’t feel comfortable doing,” Eisinger says. Depending on the photographer, he or she might ask you to try different poses or expressions, and if you’re game, go for it. But if you and your sweetie don’t care for serious photos or hate extreme closeups or have trouble being silly on cue, tell the shooter up front. Otherwise, you’ll feel awkward, and that’s the last thing you want on your wedding day. Plus, the photos won’t come out well if you’re not into it. POINT OUT THINGS YOU LIKE IN YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER’S PORTFOLIO
But don’t expect them to copy an exact shot. And Headley says she is uncomfortable when couples show her a photo taken by another photographer and ask her to replicate it. So if there’s something you’ve seen online or in a friend’s album and loved, tread
lightly until you determine whether your photographer is willing to do that. “You don’t want to tell this person how to do their job,” Eisinger says. BE CLEAR ABOUT WHICH D E TA I L S A R E I M P O R TA N T T O Y O U
Many couples are embracing the boom in do-it-yourself weddings, creating everything from the favors to the cake topper themselves. If there are details or decor items that you want to be sure to capture, tell the photographer ahead of time. Don’t assume that he or she will figure out that the table runner is made from your great-Aunt Mary’s handkerchief collection without a nudge from you. Headley says that since light plays such a huge role in her job, sometimes she needs to shoot small details earlier in the day, or even the next day in her studio. Be sure the photographer knows what you want so he or she can make special plans if necessary. L O N G B E F O R E T H E B I G D AY , F I N D O U T HOW MANY PHOTOS YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER PROVIDES AFTER THE EVENT
Some couples want every photo of every moment of their day; others are happy with an edited album that captures the best shots. Headley shoots all her weddings on film, so she provides fewer photos than some digital photographers. But she says she feels the final product is better representative of her fine-art photography style. Still, if you want absolutely every photo taken on your wedding day, be sure you and your photographer are on the same page. FIND OUT IF YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER OFFERS ANYTHING UNIQUE OR UNUSUAL
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In 2010, Headley started shooting part of her weddings with a Super 8 video camera. She edits the footage into a three-minute movie set to music. The movie has a nostalgic feel that many couples love, and offers a few “moving pictures” in a different style from traditional wedding videography
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These days, wedding photos often go far beyond the traditional kiss, cake and ring exchange. But be careful not to venture too far toward trendy shots that you’ll regret later. (Google “awkward wedding photos” if you need convincing.) Plus, you’ve only got so much time, and you’re probably paying your photographer by the hour. “If it feels cheesy, don’t do it,” Eisinger says. “Don’t waste time.” By Becky Sher Distributed by McClatchy-Tribune Information Services
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Should Wedding Cupcakes Be DIY?
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he long, sweet history of the wedding cake is a mix of traditions, dreams and changing tastes. So it’s no surprise that cupcakes are playing a major role in the latest version of this multitiered, frosting-swirled world. Call it Wedding Cake 2.0. Dozens of cupcakes— tiered on decorated stands or arrayed on a table, often in a variety of flavors, colors and embellishments — let bridal couples personalize the celebratory sweet.
America’s love affair with cupcakes is intense. “Whether it is a throwback to childhood or another way to make dessert a little more special and fun, these small cakes are a sweet spot for adults and children,” NPD Group’s Kathleen Cella noted. The research group found cupcake pan sales were up 14 percent in the 12 months ending September 2010, and 555 million cupcakes were eaten between February 2009 and February 2010.
“The whole trend in weddings in general is to make it personal,” said Darcy Miller, editorial director for Martha Stewart Weddings.
Before you opt for DIY cupcakes for your wedding, realize that they require planning, a strong support team and a cup of common sense.
The ultimate personal touch? Cupcakes you bake and decorate yourself.
“In the 48 hours before your wedding, you should have no responsibilities other than being with your guests, enjoying yourself and getting lastminute stuff done that has to be done,” said Miller. However, if you love baking and you’ve always baked, go for it, she said. “You can make them ahead, then stick them in the freezer, though I think it’s better if they’re fresh.” Bobbie Lloyd understands the urge to bake the mini-cakes. “I’m one of those crazy people who catered my own wedding,” said Lloyd, president and chief baking officer of New York-based Magnolia Bakery. Remembering the 180 cupcakes she baked, “I have to tell you, it takes away from your wedding because you’re stressing out about all these factors.” She suggests that home bakers tackle cupcakes for small weddings of 50 or so guests. DIY success, say experts, depends on finding the perfect first lieutenant in charge of sweets, a cupcake wrangler _ an aunt, cousin, friend _ with baking savvy.
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“Maybe it’s a collaboration with you and your aunt. Someone who is close to you so you can enjoy the process, but not someone who has to be at the rehearsal and is in your wedding party,” said Miller. Added Lloyd, “If you do cupcakes the day before and even ice them the night before, they stay pretty fresh.” “Whatever you do, practice,” Miller said. “You shouldn’t be doing anything for the first time at your wedding other than going down the aisle, whether it’s your first dance or ... tasting the food or baking the cupcakes. What you don’t want the day of your wedding is surprises _ cupcakes that are too sweet or too rich.” By Judy Hevrdejs Distributed by McClatchy-Tribune Information Services
THE PLANNING Practice: Do a practice run; do it again. Balance: Flavors and textures, for cupcakes and frostings. Count: Most people eat one traditional-size cupcake. “We usually recommend you go 15 to 20 percent over the number of guests,” said Magnolia Bakery’s Bobbie Lloyd. For 100 guests, have 120 cupcakes. Top it: “Sometimes we also do a small 6-inch cake on the top so the bride and groom can do the cake cutting,” said Lloyd Buy: Containers for carrying to the event. THE EVENT The look: A metal tree? Decorated cardboard tiers? An array on a table? Research ideas. Design: Complement the wedding’s colors, personality, theme. Help: Provide a key if there is a large variety of cupcakes. Avoid disaster: Give very specific instructions to cupcake handlers. “All it takes is one busboy who says, ‘Sure I’ll take that,’ and he tips over your cupcakes,” Lloyd said. SOURCES For ideas: Check wedding and cupcake Web sites, books, magazines, TV cake shows. For bakery supplies, cake trees, embellishments: Check cookware, baking and craft supply stores, plus online resources such as: nycake.com bellacupcakecouture.com wilton.com
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Cupcakes: • 3/4 cup each: all-purpose flour, cake flour • 1 tablespoon ground ginger • 1/2 teaspoon baking powder • 1/4 teaspoon each: baking soda, salt • 1 1/4 cups granulated sugar • 1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, room temperature • 3 large eggs • 3/4 cup milk • 2 tablespoons candied ginger, chopped
Rose icing: • 4 cups confectioners' sugar • 7 to 8 tablespoons milk • 1 tablespoon rose water or 1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla • Pink gel-paste food coloring or 1 drop red food coloring • Sugared rose petals, see note
1. Heat oven to 350 degrees. Sift together flours, ground ginger, baking powder, baking soda, and salt; set aside. Beat granulated sugar and butter with mixer until pale, about 4 minutes. Beat in eggs one at a time until incorporated. Beat in flour mixture in three batches, alternating with milk and beginning and ending with flour. Stir in candied ginger until distributed. 2. Pour batter into a muffin pan with paper liners, filling each cup half full. Bake until golden, about 20 minutes. Transfer pan to rack; cool 15 minutes. Remove cupcakes from pan; cool. Store in airtight container up to 2 days. 3. Make icing: Whisk together confectioners' sugar and milk until smooth. Add rose water or vanilla. Stir in a small amount of food coloring to make a pale pink. Immediately ice cupcakes. Decorate with sugared rose petals. Let set 2 hours until surface hardens. Note: For sugared rose petals, you will need 2 or 3 organic roses (unsprayed, pesticide free) from a florist or garden. Remove petals from the roses; you should have 24 to 30 petals of varying sizes. Whisk together 1 room-temperature pasteurized egg white with 1 tablespoon water in a small bowl. Hold each petal with clean tweezers; brush egg wash over one side using a small, fine brush. Sprinkle with superfine sugar (you'll need about 1 cup). Set on a baking sheet lined with parchment. Let stand overnight. Store in a single layer in an airtight container at room temperature up to 3 months. Nutrition information: Per cupcake: 198 calories, 21 percent of calories from fat, 5 g fat, 3 g saturated fat, 38 mg cholesterol, 38 g carbohydrates, 2 g protein, 60 mg sodium, 0 g fiber
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20 GORGEOUS CENTERPIECE IDEAS (ON A BUDGET!) By Amy Eisinger You might be trying to save some money on your wedding _ but that doesn't mean it needs to show! These centerpieces are perfect for the money-savvy bride because most of them can be DIY. If you are using a florist, remember you can always request seasonal, fresh flowers (like in these centerpiece ideas) as a way to save as well. 1. Tall and lovely Pink gerber daisies paired with long green ferns make for the perfect DIY arrangement. Tall arrangements can work well, especially if you’re trying to fill a large space or a reception hall with high ceilings. 2. Bright summer colors What could be cuter at an outdoor summer wedding than a few in-season flowers placed in a large vase? Use an all-white table decor to help the colors on the flowers really stand out.
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3. Lemons and limes Who says you have to use flowers? Fill a large vase or oval-shaped container with lemons and limes and set them against a darker colored tablecloth (try a midnight blue or deep purple). Even if you’re set on having flowers for centerpieces, consider arranging the bartender’s garnishes this way _ far lovelier than a plastic container with slices. 4. Garden fresh Try shopping at flea markets or thrift stores to pick up antique watering cans and then fill them with flowers. You can also try the idea with mismatched vintage vases, antique silver baby cups,
or old-fashioned cookie tins, depending on how casual your wedding is. 5. Contrasting colors Using different-sized glass jars creates a mix of tall and short arrangements. Add in mismatched flowers to add to the effect for an overall quirky look. 6. Au naturel A natural-bark “vase” on an arrangement will blend in with other woodsy details at a wedding. You can purchase the wood vases (don’t waste time trying to carve your own) and then stuff them with seasonal flowers. 7. All about accessories Who doesn’t love a flashy pair of shoes? Why not then, use fake miniature shoes, small cars or other memorabilia symbolic of the bride and groom to add a whimsical touch to the reception table? Pair it with brightly colored candy, like jelly beans, for a look that’s playful and fun. 8. Shades of autumn Fall colors normally make us think of decadence, but a minimalist centerpiece can look stylish and inviting when paired with dark brown or gold table linens.
9. Candlelit dining Adding candles to your centerpieces (or around them) is a great way to make them look a little larger than life. Plus, a little candlelight can go a long way in setting a romantic mood at your reception. 10. Baby’s breath bouquet If you’re on a tight budget, look for options that are big on volume and small on price, like baby’s breath. You can usually buy it in big bunches and, as long as you stick to simple vases, you won’t break the bank. 11. Overflowing with flowers We’ve already talked about using oversize mason jars with smaller arrangements, but you can achieve a similarly interesting look by filling a smaller vase so it’s overflowing with blooms. 12. Sweet smells of summer The best part about this centerpiece of gardenia blooms and lemons is that it will smell lovely. Consider using other nonflower items in your centerpieces for added scent _ like cinnamon sticks, oranges, and sprigs of mint. 13. Clean and simple A single large cluster of flowers, like white hydrangeas, can also make a surprisingly bold statement. As with the baby’s breath, go for flowers with volume so you still save on cost.
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14. A centerpiece to keep Another great way to save money is by skipping the idea of a “flowers in a vase” centerpiece altogether. Instead, visit a local plant nursery and buy an entire small plant, and simply cover the pot in some colorful paper or patterned fabric. The best part of this centerpiece is that you’ll get to keep the plant for years and watch it grow. 15. Just rosy You can’t go wrong with roses. If you’ve got a little extra to spend, simply stuff a vase full of roses in a color of your choice. Choose a contrasting tablecloth and place setting (try navy with pink roses or white with red roses) to get a truly standout look.
16. Glowing centerpieces Another alternative to flowers is to fill the table with tall and short candles. You can still place small flowers or greenery at their base, but you’ll use far less flowers than in a normal arrangement. In the evening, the glow they cast will keep the reception from being too bright. 17. Bright blue and brown Using brightly hued flowers in a clear glass vase looks amazing _ but only if the stems are in order. If you’re trying this style of arrangement DIY, make sure you take care to clip the stems and rid them of any extra leaves first, so the centerpiece looks 18. Pink and pewter You can make a simple arrangement stand out just by placing it in a pewter vase. The metal will give it an antique look, while the bright colors keep it looking fresh. Pair it with white tablecloths for a look that’s sophisticated and understated. 19. DIY wildflowers The ultimate DIY flower arrangement: Wildflowers picked near the ceremony site and placed in a mason jar creates a look that’s just as country as it is unique. If you’re going for an eclectic look, these centerpieces are perfect because no two will look the same.
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20. A touch of class Sometimes a little splurge can go a long way. Use a centerpiece that mostly consists of wildflowers, but tuck in a few roses, peonies, or more expensive flowers in noticeable spots. The added flowers will be a bit expensive, but just one or two in each arrangement should really do the trick. Distributed by weddingchannel.com
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ou’re ready to head down the aisle, but are you prepared to go broke on the way? Believe it or not, you don’t have to drain your bank account to have the wedding of your dreams. These eight tricks will help you save — instantly! 1. Simplify Your Stationery Planning to send engagement announcements or save-the-dates? Make them yourself! There are so many fun DIY ways to customize cards or stationery to share your news. Doing so won’t just help you save big, you’ll also be able to truly personalize the message. Plus, you know those blank pieces of paper that go inside most invitations? Guess what — they’re totally unnecessary! Save hundreds of dollars by skipping this super-formal tradition. The extra paper may be a little over the top, especially if you’re having a casual wedding, and your invites will be more eco-friendly this way. Remember, you can always put lodging info and other wedding details on your wedding website! 2. Buy Your Gown Second Hand Consider shopping for a gently used gown. Not sure where to start? Hit online shops like WoreItOnce.com (which offers the chance to purchase used bridal and bridesmaid gowns) or SavetheDress.com — this site actually lets you post an ad for the gown of your dreams and sellers can directly respond with offers. 3. Keep It in the Family Buying wedding jewelry can be quite costly for the bride — especially when you’re already spending a lot on your gown! Skipping the usual jewelry in favor of one-of-a-kind family heirlooms could save and add a special touch to your big day. Don’t hesitate to ask a family member to borrow a piece of jewelry that you admire. (Those who are closest to you may feel honored to help
you fulfill the “something borrowed” category.) Jewelry that’s been in your family for generations has a special feel. Imagine wearing the same strand of pearls that your mother or grandmother wore to her wedding. Plus, vintage jewelry is very popular for brides right now and can really transform your entire wedding day look. 4. Hire a “Friendly” Officiant Hiring a priest, rabbi, or even a judge can be difficult — especially if you’re planning on getting married outside of your community. While laws and religious rules about officiants can vary by location, you can keep your budget down by asking a friend or family member who’s qualified to conduct the ceremony (as a wedding gift!) at your preferred venue, or pick someone close to you and ask them to become ordained online through websites like FirstNationMinistry.com. 5. Stick to Signature Drinks A cash bar is a definite no-no, but limiting your open bar to several signature drinks to cut down the costs is perfectly acceptable. Nod to your wedding theme or location to really amp up your party. Opt for mint juleps or fruity hurricanes at a Southernstyle wedding, or keep it festive with margaritas and sangria at a traditional Mexican fiesta. Looking for something new? Use some of the money you saved from not having a fully open bar to hire an expert mixologist to whip up a few signature drinks for your special day. You can even take it to the next level and offer a special mini mixology lesson during your cocktail hour to entertain your guests. 6. Go With Local Talent Sorry, Beyonce and John Mayer are already booked and way out of your price range — so now what? You don’t need A-list talent to rock your reception. Consult your friends and family for help on finding local entertainment. Tribute BRIDAL
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bands are always crowd-pleasers, as are karaoke machines and celebrity impersonators. If all else fails, contact your local college music department for recommendations on student musicians in the area. Most likely, your newbie talent will be eager to please and open to accommodating your distinct musical style for a very discounted rate. Note: Just because you’re getting your entertainment for less doesn’t mean you should skimp on feeding them. Treat them with the same courtesy you’d give to any other paid talent by providing them with food, drinks, and regular breaks throughout your reception. 7. Minimize the Menu It’s a wedding, not a five-star restaurant, so whoever said you have to offer fish, chicken, and steak needs a reality check. If you’re a foodie, then go ahead and splurge on your menu (and maybe save with smaller centerpieces or a DJ). If not, serve plates with duos, like a crab cake and small filet, so guests can have a taste of everything and you don’t pay for wasted entrees. 8. Honeymoon in the US You don’t need a passport to have the honeymoon of your dreams! Many fourand five-star resorts throughout the country offer lavish honeymoon suites and packages that can easily compete with those in the Caribbean and other popular honeymoon destinations. Plus, you’ll save a ton on airfare — especially if you book well in advance. Hawaii may be a little too far, but cities like Chicago, Austin, Miami, and New Orleans are loaded with personality, charm, and endless possibilities for honeymooners that want to save money and stick close to home. Plus, you can afford to stay a day or two longer this way, and who wouldn’t be up for that? Distributed by weddingchannel.com
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ou’ve lost the weight for the big day, but how do you keep the pounds from creeping back in the coming years with your hubby?
of respondents reported eating breakfast on most days of the week, and 4 percent reported that they never ate breakfast.
As fantastic as it feels to reach a weight loss goal, hitting your target is not a point at which you should cancel your gym membership and bury your food diary in the junk drawer. Keeping weight off can be harder than shedding pounds in the first place, especially when popular diet and exercise programs are more focused on weight loss than weight loss maintenance.
According to the study, there was no difference in the total number of calories consumed each day between breakfast eaters (those who ate breakfast four or more times a week) and nonbreakfast eaters (those who ate the meal three or fewer times a week). However, breakfast eaters reported that they engaged in slightly more physical activity each day.
Here, we condense recent research on the National Weight Control Registry (NWCR) members into nine tips that can help you keep pounds from creeping back on.
The study’s authors suggest that regularly eating breakfast may help people pick less caloric foods throughout the remainder of the day. They also suggest that the nutrients consumed during an a.m. meal _ among NWCR members who typically ate breakfast, 80 percent reported that, at the least, they sometimes ate cereal in the morning and 79 percent reported that they at least sometimes ate fruit _ may help breakfast eaters better perform physical activity.
Energize with breakfast every day Skipping the first meal of the day may seem like a smart strategy for reducing the total number of calories you consume from morning to night, but eating breakfast has important weight-maintenance benefits. “By spreading your calories out across the day, you avoid the peaks and valleys in hunger that can lead to overeating,” says J. Graham Thomas, PhD, a NWCR co-researcher and assistant professor at Brown University Alpert Medical School. When survey responses from 2,959 NWCR members were compiled for a study published in Obesity Research, 78 percent of respondents reported that they ate breakfast every day of the week. Nearly 90 percent BRIDAL
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P R O V E N S T R A T E G I E S T O K E E P W E I G H T O F F F O R G O O D C O N T. An additional step that registry participants take is limiting their exposure to diet-wrecking foods. Upon entering into the registry, people complete a questionnaire about how frequently they eat foods from various food groups. When responses from 2,237 members were reviewed for a study published in Obesity Research, researchers concluded that NWCR members consume a diet with little variety in all food groups, especially within groups with the highest amounts of fat, like meat and dairy. “Our environments are filled with delicious, high-calorie foods that are available to us all the time,” says Thomas. “And studies show that the more variety that is available, the more food we are likely to eat.” Study authors suggest that eating the same foods over and over makes weight loss easier to sustain because it provides your eating plan with structure and simplicity, making it more possible to consistently stay within daily limits set for calories and fat. The researchers also suggest that as a food is consumed more frequently, it loses a certain pleasurable quality, meaning you’re less tempted to overindulge.
Stay strict on special occasions Allowing a little wiggle room in your eating and exercise plan during weekends, holidays and vacations might make your weight loss plan easier to stick with for the long haul. However, flexibility also makes it easier to fall victim to high-risk situations, like overindulging during a weekend outing to the movies. A study in the International Journal of Obesity involving 1,429 members of the NWCR examined whether it was more effective to stick to the same diet over the course of a week or diet more strictly on weekdays. Results show that those who reported being consistent with their eating plans all week were 1.5 times more likely to keep their weight within 5 pounds of their previous year’s weight, compared with those who allowed more wiggle room on weekends. A similar trend was observed with dieting consistency over the course of a year.
Self-monitor to stay on track Continue to befriend your bathroom scale. “The only way you know if what you’re doing is working is by checking in and using the scale,” says Thomas. Study participants who weighed themselves most frequently reported being less likely to give into temptation and more likely to practice restraint around trigger foods. Subjects who decreased their weighing BRIDAL
frequency between entrance into the registry and their 1-year follow-up consumed more calories and were less able to hold themselves back from indulging in unhealthy foods. “It’s a lot easier to cope with a small gain than it is to cope with a big weight gain,” says Thomas, explaining that catching a small gain can encourage people to make the behavior changes necessary to head off additional weight gain. Keeping a record of calories and/or fat grams is also a popular strategy among NWCR members, with approximately half engaged in keeping a log. “It’s a powerful strategy that helps to increase your awareness of how much you are eating, and it can be helpful if you are setting specific goals or limits for calories or fat grams,” says Thomas.
Cut back on TV time Not surprising, keeping weight off requires keeping yourself off the sofa. When researchers examined the television-watching habits of 1,422 NWCR members for a study published in Obesity, they found that 62 percent watched less than 10 hours of TV a week — 36 percent reported watching less than 5 hours a week, and 26 percent reported watching 6 to 10 hours a week. These findings are a stark contrast to the TV-viewing behavior of the average American, who watched 34 hours and 29 minutes of TV a week between October and December of last year, according to a Nielsen study. “Cutting back on TV time has two benefits,” says Thomas. “First, it leaves more time to be physically active and, second, for many people, sitting and watching TV is associated with indulging in junk food.”
Exercise for one hour a day According to the NWCR, 90 percent of its members exercise, on average, about one hour a day, which is slightly more physical activity than the average gym-goer gets. In a recent study in Obesity, researchers compared the exercise habits of 26 NWCR members with a control group of 30 never-obese individuals as well as a control group of 34 overweight people. Study participants wore accelerometers, devices that chart calories burned from various degrees of movement, to track their level of activity over the course of 1 week. Exercise was defined as a moderate to vigorous activity lasting at least 10 minutes. - 34 - G U I D E
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P R O V E N S T R A T E G I E S T O K E E P W E I G H T O F F F O R G O O D C O N T. Results show that NWCR participants exercised for an average of 42 minutes a day, the obese control group worked out for 19.2 minutes daily, and the normal-weight group for 26 minutes daily.
— medical triggers were the most common motivators, with 23 percent reporting that a doctor’s instructions or an existing obesity-related condition such as Type 2 Diabetes had sparked their weight loss.
“You don’t have to do an hour all at once,” says Thomas, who suggests breaking a 60-minute workout into 10-minute segments. “It also doesn’t have to be highintensity,” he says, explaining that the most commonly reported exercise among registry members is brisk walking. “Walking is something most people can do and it doesn’t require special gym equipment.”
Participants with medical triggers also reported greater initial weight loss and less weight regain after two years, compared with those whose weight loss was motivated by nonmedical triggers.
Remember, it gets easier over time
Don’t expect miracles from surgery Research shows that maintaining a significant weight loss is entirely possible without surgery. Results from a study published in the International Journal of Obesity show that among 105 NWCR members who underwent bariatric weight loss surgery (only about 2 percent of registry members have had weight loss surgery) and 210 members who lost weight by nonsurgical methods there were no significant differences in weight regain between the groups upon entry into the NWCR and after a one-year follow-up. “Surgery is not a magic bullet,” says Thomas, explaining that maintaining surgical weight loss requires many of the same behaviors, like restricting calories and exercising regularly, necessary for maintaining weight loss in general. Nonsurgical weight loss, however, does take more work to maintain. Surgical study participants reported that they consumed more fat calories, ate fast food more regularly, ate breakfast less frequently, and got less physical activity than nonsurgical participants.
Make overall well-being your main objective Swimsuit season is a great excuse to slim down, but a real commitment to making lasting lifestyle changes is likely to result from something a little more serious, like your doctor’s advice or a medical emergency. “When you have a significant reason to lose weight, like your health, that seems to be more motivating than changing the way you look,” says Thomas. The relationship between weight maintenance and medical triggers, like being instructed by a doctor to lose weight or witnessing a family member suffer a heart attack, was the subject of a study published in Preventive Medicine involving 917 members of the NWCR. While 83 percent of study participants reported that something had triggered their weight loss — responses ranged from approaching a 40th birthday to stumbling upon a new weight loss clinic BRIDAL
Here’s something to look forward to: Over time, staying slim will require fewer tricks and less obsessing about your lifestyle. Yet you’ll still reap all the rewards of weight loss success. In a study of 758 women and 173 men who had maintained a weight loss of at least 30 pounds for two years or longer, NWCR members completed questionnaires that assessed the effort, attention and pleasure they associated with maintaining their weight over the past year. Results show that as time passed, maintainers used fewer strategies to keep pounds from creeping back on. They were less likely to report keeping a photo of themselves in a prominent place, less likely to record eating and exercise habits, less likely to keep themselves away from restaurants, and less likely to purchase health-related books or magazines. Subjects did, however, report that they continued to monitor their weight by frequently stepping on the scale. “It’s important to keep in mind that you’re not necessarily doing less, it just takes less effort,” says Thomas. “If you are able to build healthy habits and stick to them over time, they become more habitual and part of your life versus something you have to work at to maintain.” The bonus: The rewards of successful weight loss don’t disappear when effort levels decline. Passing time did not decrease the amount of pleasure derived from exercising, eating low-fat foods, and maintaining weight loss, according to questionnaire responses. Distributed by MCT Information Services
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t's coming. Summer. Wedding season. And 99 percent of brides have the same complaint: their grooms aren't involved. How to rope them in? Follow these 5 strategies:
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Don't pretend the not-fun stuff is fun.
Don't whitewash the fence. Even if you're savvier than Tom Sawyer, usually, this tactic will backfire. We're just not buying it. When you say, "Sweetie, it's going to be so much fun to select those ice sculptures!" you lose credibility. Don't pretend that the not-fun stuff is fun. (Like, say, evaluating the different packages of flowers.) In fact, go the opposite route, which leads us to...
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Join him in the sarcasm (sometimes).
If you are also a bit sarcastic, suddenly we're on the same page. No, this doesn't mean you need to smother your excitement, feign bitterness, or pretend you're bored by the process. (Honestly, we sort of think it's endearing that you're crazy-into the wedding, and if you were blase, we'd be troubled.) But. If you take some potshots
at the most gratuitous chunks of the planning-vendor meetings, florists, table decorations-the two of you can share a laugh. At that point, we're more likely to believe you when you tell us that something is fun.
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Focus on money he can save.
There's one word that will grab his attention: money. Especially if you're footing the bill, every dollar spent on the wedding is one less dollar for a house, car, TV, college tuition payment, or his favorite brand of Scotch. Remind him that you're a team, that for the next 70-plus years you'll be making financial decisions together, so this isn't bad practice. Appeal to his business acumen: you're not just planning a party, you're jointly managing a high-priced project.
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Emphasize big picture over details.
Plenty of decisions are crucially important. Many are not. And you only have so much groom-giving-a-damn capital to spend, so spend it wisely. Use reason. For example: instead of a torturous, stressful, 90-minute conversation about stationary, talk to him about why
the guestlist is so important, reminding him that it drives nearly every other cost. Focus on the venue, the date, the type of ambiance-the Big Picture stuff that sets the tempo. If he's an active part of those decisions, you're 80 percent of the way there. (Incidentally, this is the same advice we give to the groom.)
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Incorporate his interests.
A buddy of mine was like your groom. He shrugged off all the wedding planning. Then his fiancee whispered two words near and dear to his heart: wiffle-ball. This excited him. As part of a three-day destination wedding weekend, he arranged a wiffle-ball tournament for all the guests, and this transformed his entire perspective. He got more involved, he dove into details like the music, and he even started personalizing things like the website and video invitations. (Seriously.) Once he realized that the wedding wasn't just a stuffy tradition-fest, but instead could be cool, adventurous, and include stuff that he actually likes, he hopped on board. Get quirky. Think about your groom's version of wiffle-ball, and see if you can incorporate.
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awn. We all know the cliche. She plans the wedding like she’s masterminding the launch of a space shuttle, lugging around a fat nerdy binder, hyperventilating, both appalled by your indifference and, simultaneously, unforgiving when your suggestions betray your naivete. So you say nothing, do nothing, think nothing. That’s your job, right? Actually, no. Not if you’re smart. At a few key moments, your vigorous involvement will make this whole slog, paradoxically, feel like less of a root canal. No need to go all Male Martha Stewart _ not that there’s anything wrong with that _ but when the chips are down, it’s not in your interest to stand on the sidelines, useless, like Ladainian Tomlinson in the 2008 AFC title game. Ninety percent of the time you can get away with muttering, “Mmmm hmmm” and “buttercream sounds nice” while you doze off, check email on your Blackberry, or find a razor that’s sharp enough for suicide. That other 10 percent of the time, however, you need to wake up. Here’s how to pick your battles: Wake Up: Setting the overall budget. Three key variables will probably drive the cost of your wedding: 1. The number of guests; 2. The venue; 3. The date. A thousand other minor (and tedious) decisions will tweak the budget, but guest/venue/ date sets the ballpark. Pay attention now or pay up later. Doze Off: Choosing between the baked brie and the prosciutto-wrapped breadsticks. Her job is to make everything perfect. Your job is to keep things in perspective. The next 70 years of happiness are not contingent on whether Uncle Evan nibbles on chicken skewers as opposed to kabab. (Aside:
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THE GROOM’S ROLE IN THE WEDDING: WHEN TO WAKE UP AND WHEN TO HIT SNOOZE both brie and prosciutto are high in fat, and if you want to live 70 more years, we suggest you watch your diet. This does not, by definition, make you a wimp.) Wake Up: Coaching your groomsmen. Putting aside your decision to get married, you’re not an idiot. So we won’t belabor the obvious: handling your boys is your responsibility, not hers. Doze Off: Invitations. Unless shee spels lyke this, there’s no need to squander your time on envelopes or fonts. Embrace the mindset of George Costanza: the cheapest ones are adequate, even if it kills her. Wake Up: Planning the honeymoon. Tradition has decreed that for the honeymoon, you bust out the Fodor’s and become little Miss Travel Agent. Our advice: forget the obvious hotspots. Instead of thinking about places, think about attributes. Incorporating her input, first whip up your ideal criteria (quiet beaches, local exotic culture, price) then zero in on a destination. Doze Off: Cakes. It sounds easy, right? Just scarf down dessert and tell her it tastes good? Watch out. This is a trap. The Knot, for instance, has over 120 wedding cakes (and “7 Hot Wedding Cake Trends!” – we couldn’t make that up), and if you ask to get involved, you’ll suffer through each and every one. And trust us _ you don’t enjoy the cake when the price tag (actual average cost) is $650. One exception: it’s now acceptable _ at times even encouraged, especially in the South _ for you to have your own separate “groom’s cake,” which can be as masculine as you damn well please.
are supposed to be fun. I have been to weddings where the excitement everyone feels at the end of the ceremony is quickly squandered by a bad band in a lovely room. Your party’s vibe starts and ends with the music. Band or DJ? Classical or cover? The wrong choice will ruin $10,000 worth of catered food. (Think Old School: “Turn around, bright eyes...every now and then I friggin’ fall apart!”). Doze Off: Florists. Unless that’s your thing, which is totally cool. Sort of. Wake Up: The Bachelor Party. The way you handle strippers _ or, more technically, her fear of strippers _ will establish some “trust parameters” in your budding family. How far is too far? How much do you tell her? Those questions are almost impossible to answer. Doze Off: Finding the right videographer. Unless you’re a filmmaker. Now, to clarify, if you’re enthralled by wedding documentaries _ or cakes, or flowers, or the proper syntax for invitations _ there’s nothing wrong with taking an active interest. Some grooms will be genuinely pumped about tasting the farfalle with porcini mushrooms. So for all these categories, “Doze Off” doesn’t mean that you’re forbidden from helping the bride; it means that it’s not mission-
critical, the stakes are low, and you can save your energy for things like... Wake Up: Religion. When it comes to Jesus or Moses or anyone of that stature, it’s time to put down the Xbox. Interfaith weddings will add tension for everyone involved _ it’s not fair to dump this decision on the bride. Click here to learn how to walk that tightrope. Doze Off: The outfits. Not even Carson Kressley loses sleep over the color of his cummerbund. Wake Up: The uncomfortable moneystuff. Those awkward conversations with your parents (and her parents) over who pays for what, how much, and who gets to make the decisions — you have to live that hell. Doze Off: The gift registry. Do you really want to quibble over the pattern of your bath towels? Let her win this battle. Wake Up: There’s one time when you absolutely must not doze off: the night of your wedding. It’s the most haunting statistic that doesn’t involve Darfur: 52% of couples don’t have sex on their wedding night. By Jeff Wilser
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