Destiny's story. On Feb 12th, 2015 what would have been Kaiden's 1st birthday, -the first ever Kaiden's day became a reality. The moms were treated to manicures, pedicures, makeup application, massages, and facials. Destiny described the feeling as a support group of sorts. There was healing in being around and connecting with other women that share in the same pain. Kaiden's Day has now had it's second annual event. The hope is to continue it yearly on either Kaiden's birthday or the day of his passing in order to keep the event connected to Destiny's son. It is in his name and a celebration of his life that Destiny gives back. "I felt like I was strong before, but I don't think I really knew what it was to be strong until this. I know how I have battled with this. I could have died. When you have a child that is who you are living for. When you lose a child you feel like there is no reason for you to exist, but time does heal you. Your family, your support system, they save you." 100
Destiny is evidence of the fierceness of a mothers unconditional and true love and the healing power of giving. She is still a mother that lives everyday for her son, to make him proud and to be a shining example of light in the world. In the aftermath of the life that she thought would have, she has bravely built a new life and found a purpose. She has found a way to continue moving and being and giving, even in the darkest place. She has created a day of peace and a community of love from tragedy. Although she has been forever changed by her heartbreak and her loss, it is in her strength and her resilience that will continue to be the message that she shares with the world.