Growth Women's Business Networks Magazine September Issue 2020

One Year Anniversary Issue September 2020

Career Woman, Business Owner & Entrepreneur

Author’s Spotlight

Fall Fashion

Financial Literacy

inspiration. news. networking.

Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine

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about us

Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine is an inspirational Christian magazine that was created to support women authors, business owners/entrepreneurs, ministry leaders, and nonprofit organizations by networking together to assist them in reaching their goals of growth within their industry.

mission

Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine mission is to empower and support women towards their growth within various industries. We believe in supporting one another and networking to assist you in reaching your overall mission of building a larger customer or client base. As an inspirational Christian magazine, it is important we encourage, inspire, and uplift one another with the love of Christ while working daily for the Kingdom of God.

purpose

Our primary purpose is to be supportive of women in our local communities, in different states across the United States, and even countries internationally. Growth Women’s Business Networks is here to support women authors, business owners/entrepreneurs, ministry leaders, and CEOs of nonprofit organizations by taking them to a higher level of growth in various industries towards a successful future.

vision

Our vision is reach people by sharing the gifts and talents from women in various industries who want to market their products and services. The online digital magazine will eventually be available in print copies sold in stores in the United States and worldwide.

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contents

7 Author’s Spotlight 8 Cover Feature

10 Women in Ministry 12 Author’s Spotlight 14 Entrepreneur Spotlight 16 Women Wellness 18 Financial Literacy 20 Gentlemen’s Den 33 Women Fashion

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Founder

I would like to thank God for blessing me with the vision to create Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine to support women and men in various industries. Thank you to all the readers who support the magazine’s mission, purpose, and vision in an effort to help us build our networks. We are look forward to bringing all our readers inspirational articles and spotlight features in every magazine issue.

Jennifer Diaby, MBA GWBNM, Founder

Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine strives to support women authors, business owner/entrepreneurs, educators, health & wellness coaches, ministry leaders, non-profit organizations, and radio/television hosts. We also offer an opportunity for men to be featured in our Gentlemen’s Den Spotlight.

If you are interested in advertising with us throughout the year, we have affordable bronze, silver, and gold sponsorship packages. To become a contributor who support the magazine contact us at gwbnmagazine@gmail.com Mission: Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine mission is to empower and support women towards their growth within various industries. We believe in supporting one another and networking to assist you in reaching your overall mission of building a larger customer or client base. As an inspirational Christian magazine, it is important we encourage, inspire, and uplift one another with the love of Christ while working daily for the Kingdom of God. Purpose: Our primary purpose is to be supportive of women in our local communities, in different states across the United States, and even countries Internationally. Growth Women’s Business Networks is here to support women a uthors, business owners/entrepreneurs, ministry leaders, and CEOs of nonprofit organizations by taking them to a higher level of growth in their various industries towards a successful future.

Vision: Our vision is reach people by sharing the gifts and talents from women in various industries who want to market their products and services. The online digital magazine will eventually be available in print copies sold in stores in the United States and worldwide.

God Bless You Jennifer Diaby Founder/CEO of Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine

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CONTRIBUTORS

PUBLISHER Danyelle Timmons

FOUNDER/CEO Jennifer Diaby

Women Fashion WRITER Bernadette Graham WRITER Tafadazwa Mazibuko

WRITER Victoria Henry

Financial Literacy WRITER Kadenia Javis

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Author’s Spotlight

Aneika Turnbull An optimist, a leader, and now the author of the new children’s book, A Little Girl’s Dream, Aneika Asharee Turnbull was born and raised in Jamaica, where she spent most of her life until her migration to the United States several years ago. She completed her Bachelor of Science Degree at Bethune-Cookman University and aspires to become a Physician Assistant within the next few years.

The lifelong writer realized her passion at the age of ten when she began writing poems and participating in essay competitions. She likes to think of writing as a way of expressing her thoughts and emotions because it creates an atmosphere to refine ideas to others and ourselves in its purest form.

Aneika likes to travel and spend quality time with her loved ones. She values faith, family, and food. Aneika hopes that others will find inspiration through her works of literature to never give up on what’s most important in life- achieving their dream.

SOCIAL MEDIA

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Interviewed by Jennifer Diaby Please introduce and tell us a little bit about yourself. Greetings! My name is Ashley L. Isreal, and I’m from Marion, SC! As a Bill and Melinda Gates scholar recipient, I have earned a scholarship that paid for my three degrees: a bachelor's degree in business administration at Winthrop University, a master's degree in higher education and student affairs at the University of South Carolina, and a doctoral degree in educational leadership with a focus in psychology at Clemson University.

Currently, I serve as the interim Special Assistant to the Vice President for Student Affairs at Winthrop University. Reporting directly to the Vice President, I serve as one of the key members of the Division of Student Affairs. I collaborate with individuals across campus to actively drive the Vice President's initiatives and the Division's strategic plan forward.

My primary job function consists of providing administrative, programmatic, and project management support in dealing with a wide range of divisional and institutional issues and projects. As an individual who strives to become a Vice President for Enrollment Management at a comprehensive or research institution one day, I am thankful that God has positioned me in an environment beside an effective leader where I can grow more professionally. Outside of my primary job duties, I take on more of an entrepreneurial lens. Over the past few years, I have developed Isreal Educational Consulting, LLC., and established the Academic Leadership Institute. Additionally, I am a Branding photographer. The name of my photography business is called Noah’s Art Photos.

You believe in the importance of education, tell us the services you provide with Isreal Education Consulting? As an initiator, self-starter individual, I developed an educational consulting business to assist higher education constituents and students. The services that I provide include developing curriculum, assisting with getting students enrolled in graduate school, and presenting scholarship workshops. As a Bill and Melinda Gates scholarship recipient, I find the need to continue supporting underrepresented individuals to become financially free by assisting them in obtaining maximum funding through scholarships. I am currently about to start developing a scholarship course for high school students. For more information, please visit my website at www.isrealedconsulting.com.

Tell our readers the reason you created the “Academic Leadership Institute Summit” and its primary mission. “Be the person you needed when you were younger.” Then, pay it forward. If I were to sum up the reason the Academic Leadership Institute (ALI) Summit was created, I would describe it with this quote by author and advocate, Ayesha Siddiqi. There is a profound magic that can occur when young kids are exposed to knowledge that can change their trajectory. My mission is to provide those resources that young students need.

Underneath the umbrella of my LLC., I developed with the assistance of seven other individuals, the ALI Summit for my hometown community. The purpose of the annual summit is as follows: (1) familiarize students with the admission process for colleges, state universities, and private institutions; (2) teach students about finances before, during, and after high school; (3) demonstrate the importance of building good financial credit and generational wealth; (4) inform students about the benefits they will gain from their college and career pathway; and (5) help students plan for their future by aligning college and career choices to their interests and aspirations.

In April 2020, you worked on the first “Academic Leadership Institute Summit.” Will you be organizing it annually? If so, what is the date of the next “Academic Leadership Institute Summit” and how can our readers support you? Due to COVID19, we had to postpone the Academic Leadership Institute (ALI) Summit that was scheduled in April. We are currently looking at delivering the summit virtually towards the end of the year or the beginning of 2021. Readers can support the Academic Leadership Institute Summit by contacting us at alisummitPD@gmail.com to become a sponsor. We are going to do giveaways at the Virtual ALI Summit, and all monetary donations are greatly appreciated.

I have seen some of your great photography skills. Please tell the readers about “Noah’s Art” what inspired you to start your photography company and when was it established? If I were to be totally transparent, photography is more like "self-care" for me.

Although Noah’s Art Photography was established in 2018, photography has always been my outlet where I can tap into my creative ability since I was eight years old. Almost every Christmas, my parents would purchase me a new camera. This shows how much I actually love photography! After many years of taking pictures for fun, I decided to create a photography business. “Noah’s Art Photography” is named after my child Noah – he is my main source for motivation. I specifically colored the "t" red on the logo to symbolize the blood of Jesus. Also, the "t" stands as the cross for me. I love me some Jesus! Everything that I do, I do it with intent. I always seek Him first to see about provisions.

What type of services you offer at your photography company “Noah’s Art”? Nothing brings me much joy than seeing an individual thrive while working in purpose! Since I love seeing people working their purpose, I love even more helping them with their purpose. That is why I am a branding photographer! Meeting new people, building relationships, and creatively expressing myself while I enhance a person’s distinct style or business are a few reasons why I love being a branding photographer. Outside of branding photography, I typically shoot senior pictures and weddings.

Where can people follow you on social media?

People can follow me at Noah’s Art Photos on Facebook and Instagram. Please also visit my website at www.noahsartphotos.com.

What is one of your greatest accomplishments? Being a mother is simply the greatest achievement of my life. It has taken me on an unexpected journey that can constantly surprise, educate, and challenge me! During my first-year in college, I became pregnant with my son Noah. Not only did I become pregnant with him, but I also became pregnant with a new mindset and a vision for my life. Noah is simply the catalyst that drives me to be the best version of myself. He is definitely my greatest motivation. By being a teacher at heart, I enjoy teaching him everything that I know. Noah is like a sponge – he soaks all of the knowledge up.

How do you find balance between home and work being a Mother, Entrepreneur, and a full-time Career Woman? The key is integration. I focus less on balance and more on integrating the different needs in my life. Work-life integration is the new work-life balance for me. Rather than trying to keep things separate, it is about finding a way to integrate the two. It is all about seamlessly blending responsibilities to create a day that is convenient for you. While pursuing my graduate degrees, I learned early on the importance of integration when it applied to my son Noah. I used to take my son everywhere with me on campus. As the President of certain organizations on campus, I use to stay involved with everything. My son would come to all of my meetings and would see his mom in action. Although that was not specifically spending one-on-one time with my child, he did reap the benefits of learning and being exposed to many elements that will benefit him in the long run.

Please share any upcoming conferences, events, or workshops? The Virtual Academic Leadership Institute Summit will be held later on in the year or the beginning of next year. I am also creating a course on how to obtain scholarship funding. This project will be started at the beginning of next year as well.

Give us some words to educate, inspire, and encourage women and all of our readers of Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine. If you want to network effectively—then volunteer. Volunteering is a great way to network and meet other like-minded individuals by creating friendships that can last a lifetime. A lot of my life opportunities I found through volunteering and fostering relationships with those people I volunteered with during those experiences. As I was reflecting on my accomplishments one day, I realized this epiphany about myself. Therefore, if you want to get your foot in the door in the workplace, learn to make connections through volunteering. This is an easy way, but many overlook this path that can lead you to your dream career.

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Dr. Lougenia Rucker Interviewed by Jennifer Diaby

Please introduce and tell us a little about yourself. Thank you for this blessed opportunity to share with your readers. I am an authentic and relentless woman of faith dedicated to blazing trails for women who are seeking purpose in their lives and how to unlock their brilliance and prosper in all things. The biggest opportunity of life is to discover one's purpose and then create generational blessings and lasting legacies.

You are the Founder of Divine Diamonds Ministries, tell the readers when was it established and what is the mission of your ministry? Divine Diamonds Ministries was created out of smoking grieving ashes in 2009 giving birth to a beautiful place of ministry where women can be encouraged, edified, equipped to live, thrive and prosper in their souls as well as their spirits. Our faith-based mission is established on the Word of God and grounded in the unfailing and amazing love of our Heavenly Father. We provide virtual coaching, mentoring, training, leadership training and prophetic ministry.

Dr. Rucker in your ministry work you created Diamond Heart Kingdom Mentorship. What services do you offer through your mentorship program? Our Diamond Heart Kingdom Mentorship is very unique in that we offer 1-to-1 mentorship and coaching PLUS monthly masterminds that empower and equip Kingdom TrailBlazers to expand their digital platforms with increased visibility, greater brand awareness and impact. This Mentorship is designed for those who are ready to soar on the next dimension of life, business and/or ministry.

You are known as the Game-Changer “Breakthrough” Life Coach. What inspired you to become a mentor for women through your coaching business “Trailblazing Transformations?” My "Game-Changer" Life Coaching Program is a six-week "signature" coaching program that will shift the very trajectory of your life. As a result of this coaching program, you will have breakthroughs after breakthroughs that will lead you to change from the inside out and arise to the Next-Level of Life.

One thing that I know for sure is that we were born to change the game and "Mentorship Matters." In our culture today, it is extremely necessary that we move the next Leader and/or next generation forward with coaching and mentoring services that will help them to breakthrough with clarity and vision for their lives. Mentorship is the key to increasing your life with wisdom and wealth. So it is my honor to serve others, pour into and to support them to reach their highest potential.

If someone is interested in your services, where can they view more information? I would invite you to visit my website @ www.trailblazingtransformations.com

Apostle Dr. Lougenia TrailBlazer J. Rucker Divine Diamonds Ministries http://divinediamondsministries.ning.com Trailblazing paths of transformation, Apostle Dr. Lougenia TrailBlazer J. Rucker, is an authentic relentless Kingdom Trailblazer. She knows what it takes to come through the eye of a storm and rise up in renewed strength to overcome with greater revelation and divine wisdom equipped to support others to breakthrough and to establish the new thing.

It is with unstoppable faith and unshakeable confidence by which Dr. Rucker serves and empowers women to get unstuck, unlock their full brilliant potential and change the game through teaching, coaching, mentoring, creative masterminds and servant leadership.

She supports her clients to own their stories, stand in their brilliance, increase their brand visibility and create brand strategies which promotes prosperity in their soul, generates multiple streams of income and generational blessings.

A pioneering marketplace apostle, multi-passionate entrepreneur and author of best-selling books, she helps leaders to create and accelerate both in ministry and business through digital marketplace ministry, outside of the four walls, as well as building relationships and strategies to establish spiritual and cultural transformations for such a time as this.

3 John 2 AMP Beloved, I pray that in every way you may succeed and prosper and be in good health [physically], just as [I know] your soul prospers [spiritually].

Ministry Website: http://divinediamondsministries.ning.com Life-Coaching Website: http://www.trailblazingtransformations.com Social Media Links: FB: http://www.facebook.com/divinediamonds IG: divine_diamonds_ministries Twitter: @uncommonmentor

Author’s Spotlight

Ashley Silver After years of creating short stories and poems that produced awe-inspiring visuals of love and adventure, Birmingham native Ashley Silver released her second novel “Autoscopy” in May 2020 at Barnes and Noble. The book is available for pre-order now Barnes and Nobles’ digital platform. Silver hopes to help open a new literary avenue for African Americans with the fusion of science fiction, action, history and romance.

In “Autoscopy”, Lelani Sanders travels through life with a sense of ineffectuality until she discovers she has the ability to mysteriously catapult through time - landing in the 1800s during the heat of slavery as a completely different girl. After years of being propelled through time, she begins to search for answers to her paradoxical blackouts in order to find her true purpose. She quickly surmises that her choices are not her own and she must fight to survive this world and the next. Silver hopes to accomplish several aspects with the release of “Autoscopy”. “I really want to push the limits of the imagination in regard to African American storytelling,” said Silver. “I realize that there are certain hindrances in our communities. Therefore, I wanted the quest for purpose to be at the forefront of “Autoscopy” to inspire others to never shoot for the road most traveled. You must create your own.”

There is also a special dedication to her aunt, Gwendolyn Tucker, in the novel who passed away in April 2020. “I wanted to house a piece of my aunt in the book as well,” Silver stated. “If it weren’t for the strong women in my family, I couldn’t fathom having the courage to complete this project. I want this book to be a testament to never giving up no matter what adversities you face.” The 29-year-old author knew from a young age that writing was deeply engrained in her being. The journey to the publication of her first novel back in 2018 began seventeen years ago when Silver was chosen to attend a Birmingham Young Author’s Conference by her fifth-grade teacher at Sun Valley Elementary School.

“Ashley’s intelligent perspectives on life bleed onto her paper as she writes the stories the world needs to hear,” said Jimmie Washington, supervisor of supply chain management at Alabama Power and the co-head of media relations at Pleasant Hill Baptist Church along with Silver.

Silver attended Auburn University from 2008-2009; but would go on to graduate from the University of Montevallo in December 2012 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Mass Communication with a concentration in Journalism and a minor in Public Relations. In August 2017, she received her Master of Arts degree in Mass Communication and Journalism with a concentration in Public Relations from Kent State University. In April 2018, Silver published her first book entitled "Choices" through Amazon. She currently works in internal communications at the University of Alabama at Birmingham. When Silver is not writing, she enjoys spending her days with her husband Larry Silver and their small Shih-Tzu, Reo. Her husband is a self-taught oil painting artist that designed the book cover for “Autoscopy”.

Author’s Spotlight

Pam Dorsey was born and raised in Greenville, SC and now resides in Columbia, SC with her husband, “Mr. Wonderful”; with her two handsome heartbeats, and her forever love, her mommy to whom she is a caregiver due to her Alzheimer’s disease. Pam is an Entrepreneur, an Author, Self-Love Expert, Affirmation Specialist, Master Motivator, Purpose Pusher, Life Pursuer, and God’s Gurl for Life.

She began her entrepreneur journey in 2012 in multi-level marketing and had no idea of the adventure that God was about to take her on. She took the first step into Entrepreneurship and God has literally taken her on an amazing journey that she loves to share with women as often as she can. One of her favorite Pamtastic Quotes is “Dream a Dream so Big that God has to Grow You into It” and that is because that is exactly what God is doing in her Life!

Pam birthed All Things Purple, a women’s online boutique that catered to lovers of purple in June 2013. She also presented an annual women’s networking event, Mix ,Mingle & Learn which eventually birthed Table Talk 101 in 2018. A safe place for all women to come and enjoy Candid, Courageous, Conversations. Due to Covid-19, it is on hold; but it will be returning. Women need a safe place to come and share freely without judgement. That is the space that Pam provides at her events.

You will often hear Pam talk about being a Life Pursuer. As a Life Pursuer we leave absolutely nothing on the table, we go after everything that God says is ours. The L in L.I.F.E stands for Leader, the I stands for Intentional, the F is for Fearless, and the E is for Evolving. At any given point and time any woman can be in one or all of these places in life. Honor yourself in each role that you play in your LIFE! As God began to reveal more to Pam about her life’s purpose through personal development and self-discovery Pam Dorsey Enterprises, LLC was birthed in 2017. Pam realized that she isn’t just called to women entrepreneurs but to all women. This was a pivotal and most revolutionary time in Pam’s life. Knowing just pieces of your purpose is enough to put a spark under you which can’t be quenched. Walking in purpose is like breathing in the breath of God. It can’t be explained, only experienced.

Pam Dorsey Enterprises, LLC is a Women's Empowerment Company that Equips Women to Walk in their Authentic Wholeness through Daily Affirmations, Self-Love Practices, Personal Development, and one on one sessions. Her Affirmation Book entitled "Gurl Affirm Yourself" will take you on a 21 Day Transformational Journey of Speaking Your LIFE into Existence.

Words Have Power BUT, the "Belief" in the words you speak to yourself is where true Manifestation takes place. This book will be your guide for 21 days as you begin to create your best life now by speaking your life into existence.

Website: PamDorsey.com

Social Media: Facebook, IG & Twitter; @IAmPamDorsey

ENTREPRENEUR SPOTLIGHT Interviewed by Jennifer Diaby Please introduce and tell us a little about yourself? My name is Deborah Williams and I’m the founder of D Divine Interior, an interior decorating company based in Houston, Texas. As a 37-yearold mother of four children providing homeowners with their dream décor has been an underlying passion of mine for a long time. Before I transitioned into becoming a full-time entrepreneur I was working as a medical laboratory scientist for nine years.

You have a passion for interior decorating, what inspired you to start your business “D Divine Interior”? I was inspired to embark on my business journey due to the joy I find in decorating. I figured why not extend myself and the lovely creations I know I can produce to others and bring them joy. I was contacted by a Home Advisor and started booking clients. Initially, I was hesitant about signing up, but I hit the ground running by enrolling in interior design courses and earning my eDesign certification. I’ve had the pleasure of collaborating with clients who want to creatively rework their homes through designing custom furniture such as closets and coffee tables. One of the projects that brought me the most fulfillment was developing a vibrant color scheme composed of black, yellow, and smoked gray. There is a certain thrill that comes along with having the power to fully explore your artistic talents and I am thankful for having chosen this route.

Tell the readers more details on what services you offer through D Divine Interior and where are you located? We officially launched in July 2019 and cater to people’s home owning needs by providing a multitude of services which includes: professional organizing consulting, eDesign, and interior design. We serve a wide range of clients extending our consulting and customization expertise to residential neighborhoods in the greater Houston area.

I first started, I was picking up projects here and there while still working in the medical field part-time. After being laid off on three separate occasions, I knew my role in medicine was coming to an end.

During this time period when I was in between jobs, I would rearrange my apartment furniture. Every month, I used the decor to bring a different energy to my environment. I often spent my time drawing, cleaning, decorating as a kid, so I carried that artistic side with me into adulthood. Afterwards, everything resurfaced and I realized I put What advice would you give to those who are interested in starting something I loved aside. It was time to hit the ground running to a business in the area of Interior Design? I want to remind those manage my business, and I have not looked back since I got started. who are beginning their interior design careers to stay persistent. When I read that you provide Onsite Consultations to your clients. Explain what services are offered with the Onsite Consultations? At D Divine Interior, we supply clients with onsite consultations; these are exclusive to our interior design and professional organizing consulting services; eDesign is DIY. The first thing I look at before selecting a business to do work for me is their reviews. I read all of your great reviews on your website.

Why is it so important to have great work ethics and professionalism in your business? Adding the title of business owner to my portfolio requires hard work and dedication, along with quality service. The success of a business highly depends on its reputation, which is why I value my image. Company reviews are so important because they display what type of service you are providing; what type of business clients are working with; and allows you to take pride in what you are offering to the general public. For instance, I am a very vibrant and down-to-earth person always open to accepting phone calls from my clients.

Where can the readers book an appointment for your services if they need Interior Decorating done within their home or office space and they live in your city? For inquiries and appointments, you can visit my website or call me personally. Clients can also contact me through Home Advisor or Thumbtack. I strongly suggest booking appointments in advance so we can allocate the proper resources to fully execute your vision.

What is one of your great accomplishments? One of my greatest accomplishments is the overall success of my business. As a mother, things were not always smooth, I often paid people to babysit my children while I worked and attended school. I did not have a constant support system, except for my grandmother who passed away in 2014. Sometimes I feel like I am walking in her footsteps. My grandmother was an entrepreneur herself and operated a waste management company often drafting invoices from her kitchen table. She inspired me to never give up no matter how long it took me to accomplish my goals. Her advice traces back to my collegiate days, which is why I keep striving and don’t quit. This constant drive and motivation always brings success.

Please share any upcoming conferences, events, or workshops? Some of my upcoming events and projects include attending the Las Vegas market and launching my online home furnishing store on August 29th. I am very excited to present my store to the public and provide a space where consumers can purchase various home décor products.

Give us some words to educate, inspire, and encourage women and all of our readers of Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine. I would advise women to be prepared to work hard and stay on course. You should brace yourself if you want to start a business.

Continue reaching milestones by putting yourself in positions where you are constantly learning and improving. You become better at your craft if surrounded by people who are successful. As a black woman, networking is a vital skill I have learned while obtaining my bachelor’s degree. Positive and influential people can counteract many obstacles. I have dealt with challenges, but despite temporary setbacks I weathered the storm. I am excited to see where my business takes me in the future.

By Victoria Henry, LMHC

3 Tips to Conquering the Fear of Social Rejection “If I wasn’t so anxious, I could finally____.” You can fill in the blank a few times if you have ever dealt with Social Anxiety. Social Anxiety is rooted in the idea that something about you is wrong. Social anxiety would cause you to want to change something about yourself to fit in or “be normal.” You obsess about being judged. This type of thinking is embedded in comparison with others and robs you of the joys of life and relationships…every time! Consider for a moment that your needs and desires are unique to you! That everything that you are thinking, and feeling are appropriate and timely…for you! Most importantly, there isn’t anything fundamentally wrong with you. This nagging feeling that you will need to change something about yourself in order to fit in or be “good enough” may be stopping you from doing a few things:

Anxiety stops you from being assertive. You deny your own needs and desires so that you appear to be “normal” and “not too much” for others. You worry about being offensive. You stop yourself from disclosing your true needs and desires and resign yourself to be “quiet.” Ask yourself, what your losing when you do this? What needs are not being met? By squelching the light of your uniqueness, you not only deny yourself, your denying others of your friendship and creativity.

The worry keeps you “stuck.” You find yourself procrastinating, telling yourself “I will get to that phone call or that text later.” However, you don’t because anxiety tells you “if you can’t say it perfectly, it can wait.” Anxiety will have you comparing your progress with that of others and telling yourself you’ve been rejected before it’s even occurred. This type of thinking perpetuates fear, self-loathing, and stagnation. Eventually you could fall into sadness because you “waited” and never “won” or made the connections you wanted to make. In these instances, action towards your goals, no matter how small, will help you to feel accomplished. Action is the anecdote. Get moving, respond, in small increments, and let go of time bound outcomes. Let go of your expectations as absolute. Consider each experience as a platform for learning.

The anxiety tells you to withdraw instead of connecting. Your unsure of yourself and you may become indecisive.

While you are more concerned about the needs and happiness of others, you fall into “people pleasing.” Everyone else will be happy but your left feeling drained, disrespected, and unappreciated. Pause to consider how being open and vulnerable will allow you to build true connection and friendship. If someone is unwilling to consider your feelings or to meet your needs, would you want them to stay in your life? Consider how your thoughts, ideas, and beliefs are a gift to others. By making connections, you are validating your needs and theirs. Validating yourself and your needs will help you build true and lasting connections with others.

Everyone, no matter who you are, desires to feel seen, felt, and heard and we want the validation that our existence matters.

Social anxiety brings up feelings of shame and self-loathing that could be from past experiences or just perceived threat of being rejected. However, by considering the tips above you can start on a path towards liberating yourself and overcoming the fear of rejection.

If you feel you have the need for professional mental health care, please contact your local mental health facility and/or NAMI (National Alliance for Mental Illness.

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Author’s Spotlight

Dr. Katrina Esau As the CEO and President of KE3 Worldwide Enterprises, LLC, Dr. Katrina Esau brings a unique set of skills from her background as a seasoned business leader with over 20 years’ experience in the financial services industry. She is known for helping multiple Fortune 500 companies successfully complete projects on-time, yielding over 40% increase in revenues and increasing efficiencies. Dr. Esau is regularly sought out for her expertise in Project Management and Consulting and is widely regarded as a ‘big picture’ thinker, problem solver, thought leader, who brings rational decision-making to the most challenging scenarios.

Dr. Esau is the founder of W.H.O.L.E – Wives Healing Openly Leaving Him Exalted. Her ministry was birthed after coming face to face with infidelity in her own marriage, having bouts of hopelessness, and feeling alone in her marital journey. Her mission in life is to help other women heal from infidelity. Dr. Esau shares her story and experience with other women to bring hope, encouragement, and healing to them whether they are entering in, in the midst of, or they walked away from a season of trauma in their marriage. Her desire is that women walk out the healing process so they can be ready for their next. While her hope is, they would experience the level of restoration she has, more than that, she wants the women to be free of all unforgiveness and hurt. Dr. Esau holds a Bachelor’s degree in Management, Master’s degree in Managerial Leadership (both respectfully from National Louis University), and a Doctorate of Education in Organizational Leadership from Argosy University. She is the author of The Pain of Infidelity Births Purpose and the accompanying journal, The Blueprint to Becoming WHOLE, and The Relationship Between Career Development, Flexible Work Arrangements, Job Roles, and Employee Engagement within a Non-Profit Organization. She is also a Certified Associate in Project Management and a licensed, Series 99 Operations Professional.

Dr. Esau is known for her unique style of delivery and coaching that has a way of reaching people where they are and empowering them to come up higher. She is often referred to as the Executor—If you need it done with a spirit of quality and excellence, Dr. Esau will make it happen. Dr. Esau enjoys helping her clients design project plans that promote successful project completion. Her ability to assist in identifying risk, completing gap analyses, and scope business process changes enables clients to successfully execute their organizational change initiatives.

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Be Prepared for Higher Taxes

“Tis impossible to be sure of anything but death and taxes." The Cobbler of Preston by Christopher Bullock (1716).

This old adage by Christopher Bullock is still true today, but there's actually a third certain thing in life - fluctuating tax rates! The past 50 years includes a roller coaster of increasing and decreasing tax rates depending on the budget needs of the country and the whims of the White House and Congress. Another major election upcoming in November, combined with plummeting state and federal revenue because of this year's pandemic, could lead to higher tax rates in the near future. Now is the time to start thinking about how to structure your finances around higher tax rates. Here are some potential issues you could encounter if tax rates are increased along with some helpful suggestions.

Estate Tax Problem: The federal estate tax rate for 2020 is 40% for the value of estate assets which exceeds $11,580,000 ($23,160,000 for a married couple). States and Feds may drastically lower the $11.58M ($23.16M) threshold to tax more of your wealth when you die. They may also increase the estate tax rate over the current 40%.

Solution: Create an estate plan or review your existing plan. Consider gifting money or securities to family, friends or a foundation during your lifetime. Individual gifts in 2020 of $15,000 or less ($30,000 for married couples) don't count against the lifetime gift-giving limit.

Capital gains tax rate goes up. In 2020, the highest long-term capital gains tax rate is 23.8% (20% capital gains tax rate plus a 3.8% surtax as part of the Affordable Care Act.) In 2005, the highest rate was 15%. Congress could see the sales of long-term securities and other assets as a valuable source of tax revenue by eliminating this preferential tax rate and instead using the ordinary income tax rates (currently as high as 37%).

Solution: Actively manage investment profits using your gains against your losses. If you have any assets that have appreciated over time and intend to sell in the near future, consider trading in 2020 to avoid a potential increase in the capital gains tax rates.

Higher income taxes. Given the increased government spending during the pandemic without corresponding tax receipts, most experts forecast an increase in overall income tax rates.

Solution: An old standby in tax planning is shifting income and expenses. If you're the owner of a private business, consider negotiating contracts with customers to move income from 2021 into 2020. On the expense side, try to do the opposite by pushing as many deductions as possible from 2020 into 2021. For example, you could wait until 2021 to make any major capital acquisitions. Finally, remember your tax-deferred accounts. If planned correctly, you may have time to pay income tax on accounts now and then move them into a tax-free Roth account.

The bottom line? Consider your situation now and create a tax strategy so that if or when tax rates go up, you will be as prepared as possible.

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Please introduce and tell us a little about yourself. My name is Deonte’ Bolden, and I am an Actor, Writer, Director, Producer, Author, and Host and Founder of the DNA Podcast. I am a man of God, and I have a passion for the arts. I was born in Washington DC, but I currently reside in Atlanta, GA. I am loving, compassionate, spiritual, fun, inspirational, a go-getter and overall I am motivated to achieve success.

You are the CEO/Founder of Deonte’ Bolden Productions. When was your production company established and where is it located? I launched Deonte’ Bolden Productions in 2015 and it’s located in Atlanta, Georgia.

I know you have written and directed many productions. What inspired you to start writing/directing independent films and screenplays? I decided to start creating and writing my own content because I wanted to create opportunities for other people. God has placed so many stories inside of me, and I was inspired by so many creative artists to take control of my own career and not depend on others to give me the green light. Writing my own content gives me power to work whenever I want to work, and use my voice to inspire, heal, and encourage other people through my creativity.

I found it interesting Deonte’ Bolden productions is a Christian production company that provides ministry through the arts. What made you want to create opportunities to impact lives through Jesus Christ? I was told by my spiritual father and Pastor that you do not have to stand behind a pulpit to minister to people. Creating my own content provides a platform to entertain while ministering to people all over the world. When people watch my productions, they experience different emotions. They cry, laugh, but most of all they come and experience deliverance. They leave the production with a powerful message that will change their lives forever, and that is ministry for me.

What advice would you give to aspiring film writers and directors before they get started? First, it is important to know who you are and what stories that you want to tell. People will try to place you in a box and it is important to know who you are before you begin to write and create. The audience wants to get to know your voice and scripts that are a part of the connection with you and your audience. Lastly, I want to encourage writers and directors to go for it and not allow anyone to place limitations on you. Yes, creating a production is not an easy task, but if you are willing to sacrifice and put in the work then you will begin to start seeing the fruits of your labor. That is why it is imperative to know who YOU are and who GOD created YOU to be because once you do then you will not settle for anything less than your best.

Do you have any upcoming films or screenplays to be released? I do. I am currently in pre-production for my upcoming short film titled “ The Skin I’m In” which is a three part short film series that touches on the issues of racism and colorism while breaking generational curses. We start filming the short film March of 2021. I am also bringing back my hit stage production “Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places” in October 2021. We had two sold out shows last year and we will be back to do it again. Tickets will move fast so please stay tuned.

What is one of your greatest accomplishments in your career? One of the greatest accomplishments in my career was putting on my successful stage production last year titled “ Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places.” The amount of success and people’s lives who were changed through this production was worth every moment. After that production, I was nominated for awards and it placed me in a category where people know who I am and what I am capable of accomplishing. I truly thank God for it.

Deonte’ Bolden, you are the author of an inspirational book titled “Purpose Pains.” Tell the readers about your book and the reason you wrote it? Purpose Pains is an introspective autobiography, where author & playwright, Deonte' Bolden recounts how he overcame a multitude of personal challenges by grace and through his faith in God. The five chapter volume is built around his journeys of Preparation, Adaptation, Illumination, Navigation, and Supplication. In the end this inspirational book will encourage the reader to understand every situation, circumstance, and sometimes painful experience as an opportunity to grow towards a true spiritual awakening. I wrote this book because I wanted to encourage people during their difficult times. It is easy to look at our painful situations as defeat, but I wanted to write a book that will inspire and encourage people to look at every painful situation as an opportunity to grow and help them to not be defined by their obstacles, but to turn their pain into promise.

If our readers would like to purchase your book “Purpose Pains” where can they order it? My book is available on Amazon as well as my website www.deonteboldenproductions.com Please share with us any upcoming conferences, events, or workshops. First, please check out the DNA Podcast which I launched in April 2020. We are creative and inspirational podcast who are discovering, nurturing, and applying God’s word to our everyday lives while bringing transparency. This is a podcast for everyone to feel loved, inspired, and appreciated for who God created them to be in this life. We also discuss various relatable topics and have some inspirational guests. You can catch us on facebook.com/thednapodcastshow and on Instagram.com/thednapodcastshowlive. Also I will be bringing back my production titled “ Looking For Love In All The Wrong Place” in October 2021. There is a workshop coming titled “Powered To Empower,” and it will be a motivational workshop that will change the industry, so stay tuned. It’s still in the early birthing process.

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Transitional Life Coach ● Adult Educator ● Global Career Development Facilitator ● Interventionist ● Advocate ● Philanthropist ● Entrepreneur ● ● Caseworker and CEO ● Wisdom & Insights Elizabeth Crawford is a Transitional Life Coach and Adult Educator with a passion to assist individuals and families in becoming a happy and healthy functioning unit. She does this by assisting clients with the tools necessary to thrive and linking them to resources available in the community. She believes in a holistic approach catering to the needs of the mind, body and spirit. Ms. Crawford gracefully manages several businesses specifically geared to transitions, financial literacy and health and wellness.

Ms. Crawford has previously partnered with the military, (Department of the Army) for over 15 years facilitating workshops and providing briefings and seminars to soldiers, their family members, and civilians in the areas of domestic violence, sexual assault, parent education, life skills coaching, transitioning, and various family support corroborations.

Currently, she works with adolescents and their families in the areas of behavior modification, psychosocial rehabilitative support and parent education. Ms. Crawford believes that the family unit can function successfully when all members are healthy, whole and working together. Spiritually, she believes God has provided everything we need pertaining to life and godliness. 2 Peter 1:3.

Recently, she has partnered with the Academy of Creative Coaching providing services to those affected and facing challenges due to the Covid-19 pandemic. The initiative, “Coaching during Covid” donates three one-hour coaching sessions per client need. Ms. Crawford holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Criminal Justice and a Master’s Degree in Adult and Continuing Education, she is certified as a Transitional Life Coach, a Global Career Development Facilitator and is also a Notary Public. She is currently completing the credentialing process as a Life Coach with the Academy of Creative Coaching. Elizabeth serves on the Logistics Ministry at Right Direction Church International and is an Assistant with the Volunteer Ministry. She is a member of Theta Phi Sigma Christian Sorority, Incorporated. Elizabeth was raised in Baton Rouge, Louisiana and became a resident of the State of South Carolina in 2005. She is the proud mother of two adults, Julian and Ayana Crawford.

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Dr. Tracy Washington Mother, daughter, sister, grandmother, and friend are words used to describe Tracy. Originally from Charleston, South Carolina, Tracy is a graduate of Walden University where she obtained her Doctorate in Business Administration with a concentration in Finance.

Currently employed as a full-time Assistant Professor in Knoxville, Tennessee Tracy teaches finance and business courses on the graduate level. She is also a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) and Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) advocate for Knox County where she works on behalf of children who have experienced abuse or neglect.

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Shelly Lee Shelly Lee is a Christian Inspirational Author and she is a single parent of one daughter who is 26 years old and one son 23 years old. Shelly Lee grew up in a small town called Bon Wier, Texas; located near Kirbyville, Newton, and Jasper Texas.

Shelly Lee is the author of two books: God Spoke and I Listened and The Sheldra Series-An Unknown Love-Book One. She is currently working on her 3rd and 4th book. In addition to being an author, Shelly Lee is a speaker, ghostwriter, book coach, and proofreader where she can help you birth and deliver your book.

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Chyrel J. Jackson and Lyris D. Wallace are avid lovers, readers and writers of African American Literature. They grew up in a Southern Suburb of Chicago, IL. Country Club Hills. As young girls, they read Nancy Drew, Hardy Boys, and Judy Blume novels. College was the real scholastic awakening introducing these two Literary Enthusiasts to the Literary works of their great ancestors: James Baldwin, Toni Morrison, Maya Angelou, Langston Hughes, Nikki Giovanni and Sonia Sanchez. These writers influenced Chyrel and Lyris so much that it only makes sense that they would now be writing in the Spirit of these ancestors. Giving a voice to social issues that plague our modern time.

The latest self-published work was a book of poetry named “Different Sides of the Same Coin.” It is a modern and sassy collage of poetry as experienced from the Black female perspective of two sisters who are authors. This timeless collection of poems is refreshing and unique. Different Sides of the Same Coin is a soul searing and heartwarming work of new age black voice and spoken word. This adaptation highlights the human experience of life, love, loss, parting and sorrow. Timeless wording, honestly written with a little of the unexpected. Black Expression has never been more vibrant, relevant and real. This work is an interesting twist on Harlem Renaissance revisited as it collides with 2020 social struggles and conditions of our current time. In no short order we are reminded of why written and spoken word is so vital to the sustenance of African American Literature.

The sisters Chyrel and Lyris have written for most of their adult lives in Political Opinion Editorials, Book Reviews, Romance Novels, Television Show Treatments, Journaling and Poetry, in which the sisters enjoy writing best. When asked why they write? The two authors answer is they write for visibility and to say they are present in the world where their lives and stories matter.

Chyrel and Lyris want to be a voice for all those who feel they have something of value to say but aren’t capable of putting it in their own words. Words surpass life, love and loss. Whether written, spoken or sung may the readers of our written words find healing and comfort in our poems. Writers are born when life intersects with time and chance. You will always find them doing what they love reading and writing. Through writing and telling stories is how they fulfil their divine purpose.

You can’t ignore what is so visible and undeniable because writing saved the authors at their lowest points in life. They hope to provide healing through their writing and uplift others through their pain as writing has uplifted them while it provided great healing in those times of profound despair and hurt. Throughout the Passage of time words remain.

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RODSHIDA HENDERSON Rodshida Henderson is a true Southern Lady with a zest and a zeal for life and all it has to offer. She is a Woman of God who answers to the Prophet call on her life and takes it wherever God sends her to minister to others. Rodshida is an inspirational speaker to any group of people that need a push of encouragement in their career or life. She enjoys and love to do four things within her spare time: Modeling, Music, Writing and being a Piano Instructor.

Rodshida’s love for the piano has broaden not just her horizons, but every student's life that she has taught over the years. As a young girl, Rodshida took piano lessons at the age of 3 at Presbyterian College under the Instruction of the Late Mr. Gary Rutkowski and she has been teaching students classical piano since 1999 until this present time.

Accomplishments: Rodshida Henderson received a Guild Musicians Diploma and was honored by the American Guild at the early age of five, as a child prodigy along with being the first African-American female in the state of South Carolina. She has taught over 30 students, in which three of her students have also received the prodigy award. One of the three who was honored at the age of 6 years old was recognized as the first African-American Male Child Prodigy in the state of South Carolina by the American Guild.

This year, Rodshida’s two students have both received full scholarships to attend Juilliard. She received a certification in acting and modeling from John Casablancas Modeling and Acting Center in 2017.

Currently, Rodshida is an active fashion model for MPC International Models Inc, in which her modeling career consists of modeling for; Xpose Magazine, CIE Magazine in California. Also, she has experience in Print and Runway for Athesis Foundation in Charlotte, NC. Rodshida has competed in various beauty pageants, as early as in 1980 and won the following pageants: 1980 Miss Tots 1981 Miss Jaberwalk 1987 Miss Allen University 1996 Miss University of South Carolina Fashionista.

Rodshida Henderson’s love of writing has led her to begin writing an Instructor's Guide for Teaching Piano. She just received her Master's Degree in Piano Pedagogy and has plans to pursue her Doctorate program.

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Her personal story has encouraged many people to persevere despite great odds. She is a dedicated mother, wife and Nana. She is married to Stuart C. Davis, has two adult sons and a granddaughter that she loves dearly.

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WOMEN FASHION Article By: Bernadette Graham

From Less to More Fall 2020

I know summer has been hot and chaotic, but before you know it, fall will be here. It is time to start thinking about swapping out our bikinis, shorts, and tank tops for a little more coverage. Coverage that will show off your ultra-fun fall style!

This year’s trends are all inspired by the fashion runways. The past season trends have taken on previous fashion decades. Designers are at a point where their collections are taking a step back in time. These collections can be integrated into anyone’s closet, appeal to a wide age range, and are fun and easy to wear. Are you ready to switch things up?

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Leather was a big trend last season, and designers are sending a message from the runway that leather will continue to trend this season. This year designers are going beyond the traditional designs and colors of leather, such as pants, jackets, black, and burgundy. Now we will see an array of colors in leather, with versatile pieces such as culottes, wide-leg pants, and lux shirts.

After going away quietly for the past few seasons, fringing is back in the form of embellished dresses, coasts, and separates; and has become one of the biggest trends for 2020. Not only will a fringed jacket or accessory elevate an everyday outfit, they’ll also teach you how to balance a look.

Designers across the board ventured into new and refreshing territory with bodycon. Designers are showing off the bodycon style with floor sweeping long-sleeved dresses. Some designers even went a step further, debuting styles with cut-outs. Ultimately, this year’s bodycon dresses are made to inspire the woman wearing them with confidence and glamour.

This season several designers have been exploring the ‘70s fashion decade. Inspired tailoring and retro sweaters were all down the runway. To work this style, you need all the key components of the ‘70s style which can probably be found in your closet. Master the ‘70s with muted color palette brown, navy, gray.

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Ms. Finn, you are the owner of Thrifty Plus Boutique, a women’s clothing store. When was it established and where is located? The dream to start a boutique began about two years ago in 2018. I originally started by selling barely used items that were worn during the run way or for photo shoots. In 2020, I went full speed and added new items to expand the brand.

Tell the readers about Thrifty Plus Boutique. Also, where can they view and even order clothes from your store? Thrifty Plus is an online plus clothing brand to bring comfort and sexiness to plus size women. The official website is www.thriftyplusboutique.com What advice would you give to future business owners? If you’re serious about opening a business, I would say read all you can about business from paperwork to taxes to how to promote and sell. Your business must be something you have a passion for because when you have slow days you have to remind yourself why you started your business. The first year is not be easy, but staying motivated is the key to push you to the next level.

I know you have been modeling as a Pluz-Size model for some years, what inspired you to start a modeling career? The inspiration for modeling was actually one night I was watching “The Braxtons” and as I sat there watching and I said God gave them such a beautiful gift of their voices. In that moment God said to me I gave you the gift of Beauty and Empowerment. I started researching plus modeling, even while researching I battled with my self esteem. However, I said to myself what would it hurt, I went to my first audition a week later and was signed to a small agency in Atlanta, Georgia.

Earlier this year you became a published Author of a book called “Lemonade: Loving Yourself After the Breakup” Congratulations. Please tell the readers more about your book. WELL!! this book is so dear to me because it speaks about a few of my personal experiences while going through a bad marriage and divorce. Alot of times we as women hide these battles because we don’t want to be looked at in the wrong way. In 2019, I said it is time to release this book to the world, women need to hear how to overcome and see that they are not alone. We overcome by the words of our testimonies, and no longer remain a slave of our past. Yes, it might have been bad, but you made it out so it is time to live the life God has given us to live.

“Lemonade: Loving Yourself After the Breakup” where can our readers order a copy of your book? The book can be purchased on Thrifty Plus Boutique website and/or on Amazon.

Please share any upcoming conferences, events, or workshops? Currently due to Covid 19 I have no big plans, but to keep pushing the website and taking online orders hopefully in 2021 I can open the doors to my boutique.

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Arise and be Whole, King’s Daughter I arrived at the beauty salon earlier than my appointment and quickly grabbed a glossy magazine to kill time. As I patiently flipped through the pages, an article about a celebrity who had finally decided to walk out of an abusive relationship immediately caught my attention. Having put on a mask for some time, she was emotionally and physically bruised. As I read the moving article, I remembered the countless women in the same situation. Some of the women were enduring abuse and believed that God would change their situation. Others were persevering because they could not bear the pain of divorce and the challenges of single motherhood.

In my reflection, I wondered: how many women because of fear of stigmatization or in the name of protecting their reputation portray an image of emotional and physical wholeness and yet are bleeding profusely inside?

How many accomplished women silently suffer and have not mustered the courage to arise because they have resolved to maintain a facade? How many women endure a loveless relationship because they are threatened by their partners not to share their painful experiences with anyone? How many women stay in abusive relationships because they are victimized to think they deserve it because of their past or even the wrongs they did in the past? Unless some brave sisters arise for their own sake and for the sake of curing society of this ill, we will never know change.

Gender-based domestic violence robs defenseless women of their emotional, physical, and spiritual wholeness.

Whether a woman makes a choice to persist in an abusive relationship or walk out of it, she still needs healing, restoration and support from other women. One thing is for sure though: one can pretend to be whole for so long. Eventually, a point of emotional and physical breakdown is reached and God forbid that any more lives are lost from violence perpetrated by intimate partners. In my book, The King’s dream for His Daughter! I state: “A woman who knows her self-worth says no to physical, emotional, sexual and verbal abuse. It is in refusing to accept it as your fate or identity that you gain strength to stand against it and eventually get victory.”

God our creator knows our embedded worth. If women can undress before a medical doctor, how easy should it be to do the same before God. He is the only one with the proven ability to restore battered women to unimaginable wholeness. In Mark 5, Jairus pleaded with Jesus on behalf of his lifeless little daughter. The King’s daughter knows that God has power to restore lifeless situations back to wholeness. Jairus was an intermediary to connect the lifeless daughter to the resurrection power of God. May God use many women as intermediaries to connect lifeless victims of abuse to the resurrection power of God which restores them to wholeness.

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We are in desperate times. Your business may be slow, income has depleted and you are not able to pay your bills. The difference is that everyone has been affected a certain way from this virus. We as women develop a “do what we gotta do” mentality to keep moving. I suggest you educate yourself more in your field, take some quick online classes or find new ways to reach your customers. Protect your family, prepare your household with food and remain hopeful in this time.Techniques” are things that I enjoyed to help me shut my mind down and relax to be better for the next business day. I hope that one of these techniques that I shared helps you.

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Heavenly Father, Thank you for this opportunity to support both women and men in various industries across the world. May you bless our readers with the inspirational words in the magazine that will make a great positive impact on their lives. In these difficult and uncertain times, we pray for hope and strength to remain strong standing on your Word in the Bible despite what is happening around us. Lord, surround us and our families with a shield of protection. No Weapon Formed Against Us Shall Prosper. Isaiah 54:17 I pray for the people who are experiencing life-threatening illnesses and sickness, those who are fighting for their life because of this virus or loss of a loved one due to Covid-19 known as Coronavirus. Bring complete healing and restoration to everyone who have survived this virus. According to scripture Isaiah 53:5, By His stripes, we are healed. A lot of people are suffering due to fear, I pray that you give them comfort and peace. Provide for all of our spiritual, emotional, and financial needs in this season. We thank you in advance for breakthroughs, miracles, and answers to our prayers.

In Jesus Name. Amen.

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