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First published 2025 by Solution Tree Press.

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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

A note from Jane: The original version of this book was a true collaboration involving hundreds of educators, administrators, counselors, and students (and former students), as well as friends, family, and colleagues throughout the world. In addition to circulating surveys through their districts, organizations, and newsletters, many invited me into their classrooms and schools, offered feedback on early drafts of the book, and supplied me with nonstop support and encouragement throughout the two years of researching, organizing, and writing.

Additionally, various individuals shared their expertise, personal stories, observations, resources, and factual information, which tremendously helped shape the text and direction of this book. These individuals’ names appear in the following list. Although I was not able to include all these contributors’ valuable input, I am immensely grateful to each person who took the time to talk with me or send me letters or emails describing their experiences.

All contributors whose comments appear in the text are mentioned by name unless they requested that their material be used anonymously. Names you see in this updated version usually are mentioned alongside references to the work these individuals were doing at the time. If you do not see a corresponding citation referring

to an article or book, please consider the mentioned individual as having contributed to this project. Any anonymous comments shared from personal conversations or correspondences, surveys, or interviews are offered with a generic reference, such as “one educator” or “one student.”

Adam Adache

Andrea Adamko

Titus Alexander

Faizah Alkaff

Brad Allison

Rudenia S. Anderson-Howard

Duayne Askew

Hamidah Bahashwan

John Barnes

Claude Beamish

Charles Beckman

Betty Begeal

Richard Biffle

Janet Bliss

Michele Borba

Dan Boyd

Nathaniel Branden

Roberta Braverman

Dee Brumley

Dave Bruno

June Buchanan

Terry Burik

Joanna Carman

Christina Chapman

Linda Classen

Paul Clements

Lynn Collins

Peggy Corcovelos

Laurie A. Couture

Cheryl Cramer

Elizabeth Crary

Sherri Davidman

Beverly Davies

Verónica de Andrés

James R. Delisle

Mary Ann Dockstader

Mimi Doe

Naomi Drew

Gordon Dryden

Gail Dusa

Nadia M. El-Ockaili

Mary Faber

Vic Fantozzi

Cheryl Ficocello

Charles Fisher

Rich Forer

Josh Freeman

Pat Freeman

Erica Frenkel

Nancy Garner

Stephen L. Gessner

Tanya Gjerman

Bob Gritt

Laura Gutman

Carla Hannaford

Rachel Harnish

Stephen Haslam

Betty Hatch

Faye Hauwai

Jane Hersey

Dave Hinckley

Sandra Holgate

John Hoover

Barry Hopping

Victor Allan C. Ilagan

Mark Ita

Henry Jackson

Kathy Jenkins

Cori Jennings

Carol Nevius Jones

Eric Katz

Nicole Kauffman

Ron Kimmel

Nancy Knickerbocker

Hannah Kohl

Mary Ann Kohl

Marcia Kons

Olga Sraj Kristan

Jason Krueger

Rob Krueger

Krista Kuisma

Adam Kupersmith

Eileen Kupersmith

Tom Lagana

Joseph Lancaster

Beth Langley

Sandra LaRose

Beth K. Lefevre

Patti Lentz

Elaine Lesse

Ross Logan

Robert Low

Lynn Lowrance

J. D. Lucas

Ginny Luther

Loretta Maase

Ann K. Marshall

Marvin Marshall

Wendy Marshall

Marvin Martinez

Christina Mattise

Linda McGinnis

Pat McIntosh

Rita Mercier

Evelyn Mercur

Jeff Michel

Braulio Montalvo

D. Moritz

Jenny Mosley

Barbara Muller-Ackerman

Sandy Murray

Gary Myrah

Anne Naylor

Barbara Nielsen

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Aili Pogust

Jean Potter

Michael Powers

Patti Present

Stanka Prezlj

Susan Priest

William Purkey

Sione Quaass

Pam Quatse

Andy Quiñones

Rico Racosky

Robert Reasoner

Jordan Riak

LeAnn Risch

Michèle Robin

Jan Rogers

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Frances Ryan

Annick Safken

Sumiati Said

Laurie Schmidt

Susan Schrader

Mike Selby

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Lindsay Shepheard

Mary Ellen Simmons

Linda Sorenson

Emily Stafford

Maria Stewart

Judy Stillwell

Karen Baker Stilson

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Debra Sugar

Sharon Tandy

Paul Tegg

Jerry Tereszkiewicz

Steve Tipps

Aaron Trummer

Kathryn Tyler

Kathi Foster Vlcek

Clairr Waldeman

Hazel Walker

Robin Warnes

Tonia Wechsler

Shayna Weitz

Marla West

Bonnie Wilde

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Mary Sue Williams

Barbara Y. Wills

Elizabeth Wolfe

Barbara Yerby

Bobbie Yoakum

Solution Tree Press would like to thank the following reviewers:

Gina Cherkowski

Education Researcher Calgary, Alberta, Canada

Doug Crowley

Assistant Principal DeForest Area High School

DeForest, Wisconsin

Johanna Josaphat

Teacher Leader

Urban Assembly Unison School

Brooklyn, New York

Louis Lim

Principal

Bur Oak Secondary School

Markham, Ontario, Canada

Brad Neuendorf

Principal

Lander Valley High School

Lander, Wyoming

Dianne Yee

Assistant Professor, Faculty of Education

Western University London, Ontario, Canada

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ABOUT THE AUTHORS

Jane Bluestein, PhD, entered the teaching profession in 1973. She has worked with students at all grade levels as a classroom teacher, crisis-intervention counselor, volunteer with high-risk youths, and teacher educator and supervisor. She has taught various undergraduate and graduate classes for teachers at nine different universities, with the majority of courses focusing on behavior management, motivation, and how to build success with a wide range of learners.

Since the 1980s, she has presented seminars and conference keynotes on five continents, working with educators, counselors, paraprofessionals, and other school staff from around the world. A dynamic and entertaining speaker, she has also appeared internationally as a talk-show guest, including as a guest expert on CNN, National Public Radio, and The Oprah Winfrey Show.

Jane’s work emphasizes practical strategies related to classroom climate and community, student behavior and self-management, effective instruction and guidance, and

constructive connections with young people, especially children at risk. After more than five decades in the profession, Jane continues to strive to change families and schools—one heart at a time.

Jane is an award-winning author. Her books include The Win-Win Classroom; The Beginning Teacher’s Survival Guide ; Managing 21st Century Classrooms ; High School’s Not Forever ; and Mentors, Masters and Mrs. MacGregor: Stories of Teachers Making a Difference. She has also written several books for parents and caregivers, as well as a gratitude journal and a self-help book on perfectionism. Her work has been translated into a dozen languages.

Jane heads Instructional Support Services, a consulting and resource firm in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Visit her website (https://janebluestein.com) for hundreds of helpful articles, handouts, tip sheets, excerpts, resources, and audio discussions. Her words will touch your heart; her ideas will change your life.

Tom Hierck has been an educator since 1983 in a career that has spanned all grade levels and many roles in public education. His experiences as a teacher, an administrator, a district leader, a department of education project leader, and an executive director have provided a unique context for his education philosophy.

Tom is a compelling presenter, infusing his message of hope with strategies culled from the real world. He understands that educators face unprecedented challenges and knows which strategies will best serve learning communities. Tom has presented to schools and districts across North America with a message of celebration for educators seeking to make a difference in the lives of students. His dynamic presentations explore the importance of positive learning environments and the role of assessment to improve student learning. His belief that every student is a success story waiting to be told has led him to work with teachers and administrators to create positive school cultures and build effective relationships that facilitate learning for all students.

His most recent books include Trauma-Sensitive Instruction: Creating a Safe and Predictable Classroom Environment, Trauma-Sensitive Leadership: Creating a Safe and Predictable School Environment (both coauthored with John F. Eller) and You’re a Teacher Now! What’s Next? (coauthored with Alex Kajitani).

To learn more about Tom’s work, visit his website (www.tomhierck.com), or follow @thierck on X or Tom Hierck on Facebook.

INTRODUCTION

Jane Bluestein

The person who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.

In the late 1990s, I was invited to write a book for educators about improving the emotional climate in schools. Initially, I thought about it in terms of my previous work on discipline and motivation, places in which emotional safety is often compromised. But the more I explored the concept, the clearer it became that my original vision was limited at best.

I needed to get a better sense of how big this issue of emotional safety truly is. I began with what seemed like a fairly simple question: What affects emotional safety in schools? The answers overwhelmed me. Once I started digging, I realized that just about anything can impact school climate and can affect how safe schools feel to the people who spend their days there, students and adults alike.

Every door I opened led to other doors or down hallways I never expected to investigate. After a few months, I had an outline with more than 140 topics, many of which could have become a book or two on their own. The more I learned, the more I realized that, if nothing else, this book would have to reflect the enormity of the topic I intended to explore.

Complicating matters, shortly after I started collecting data, the Columbine High School massacre occurred. Despite what seemed to be a pivotal moment in U.S. culture and history, I resisted the temptation to emphasize guns and violence over practices, policies, and interactions that we encounter daily in schools. Yes, this book addresses guns and violence, both in its original version and in this revision. But its primary focus is the overall culture we create in schools, one that deliberately strives to offer an educational experience that prevents (or reduces) the desire to hurt others from ever arising in the first place.

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Regardless of what we intend our schools to accomplish, the emotional climate is an issue. The need to acknowledge this was particularly clear in the number of programs and reactions that targeted isolated parts of the problem with the emotional climate in schools with little or no regard for the context in which the problem occurred—not unlike trying to solve a puzzle with only a few of the pieces (and no picture on the box).

Yes, safety is about guns and violence, but the concept of school safety covers much more than the violence that has gotten our attention. It’s also about learning styles, social interactions, discipline policies, and bathroom breaks. It’s about the roles schools assume in society and the demands of an economy our students will ultimately serve.

It’s about the brain, body, and heart. It’s about content and assessment, and it’s about desirable but unmeasurable commodities like curiosity, persistence, and creativity. It’s about the discrepancy between the goals we express and hold in our hearts and the priorities we serve through the behaviors we practice and the choices we make. It’s about people and communities, values and politics, and the interesting dynamics that can happen when we overlay these factors on diverse academic imperatives.

Now, certain limitations are inherent in taking on a topic this big and multidimensional. For one thing, representing what is essentially holographic in its complexity within the linear constraints of a book led to certain decisions and necessary compromises. Nonetheless, the original book ran over five hundred pages with over one thousand footnotes and comments. (I had to include the original book’s bibliography on my website, as it simply wouldn’t fit in the printed book.)

When I received the opportunity to update this book for a second edition, I was challenged to significantly condense the content while still addressing the five main dimensions of school safety that ultimately emerged from the research: (1) academic safety, (2) emotional safety, (3) social safety, (4) behavioral safety, and (5) physical (or neurological) safety. Enter Tom Hierck, a great match as a coauthor, who was able to maintain the vision for this book even while helping to pare the content to a manageable product.

A Note About the Voice of the Text

Since I tend to share personal observations and experiences in my writing, a great deal of the original book was in first person from my perspective. Throw in a second author, and things could have gotten a bit confusing. From the beginning, Tom and I agreed that a we voice would make for easier reading than going back and forth between “Tom says” and “Jane says.”

The congruence in our personal priorities, philosophies, and experiences as educators made it simple and practical to shift to ideas we share throughout this book. In nearly all instances, the content is presented from our perspective.

A Note About Sources, Resources, and Context

Once I committed to the original concept for this book, I read everything I could get my hands on that had any connection to the idea of emotionally safe schools. I was on the road much of that year, which afforded me access to thousands of educators from all over the world. Surveys, interviews, personal conversations, and even little notes left on my table during breaks in presentations provided much of the content for the book.

Of course, I found, learned, and received far more information than I could use; mountains of notes and hundreds of facts, stories, and examples never made their way into the text. Fewer still survived the cuts required for a second edition, especially as new voices and resources emerged. If the communications included names and positions—and not all did—I included these specifics unless the person requested anonymity. Often, the comments simply stated the source as a participant, a contributor, or someone in the field.

I wish to honor everyone who has contributed not only to the content of this book but also to my understanding of the various dimensions of emotional safety in schools. Their spirit lives on in this revision, even if their specific comments do not.

A deep dive into the literature took me back through years of work by authors I respect. Whenever possible, I sought out original sources, especially in the case of landmark or long-established resources, which led to publications that go back decades. Twenty-five years later, in revising the material for a new edition, Tom and I found that the basics still apply. Therefore, we agreed to stick with the legacy resources and authors where it made sense.

As is always an issue when citing online content, many links referenced in the original version of this book are no longer active. When we could find a legitimate link to the same material, we updated the reference. If we could not find a copy online but felt the need to use the content was strong, we referenced the original book as the source.

While this book focuses on American schools and their history, traditions, and programs, we have discovered that, for better or worse, the problems and concerns we see in the United States are reflected to varying degrees wherever we have worked. Further, the basic need for emotional safety and the various considerations involved are similar, if not identical, throughout humanity. Students in Malaysia

have no less need for a safe learning environment than students in Missouri, and the observations and experiences from overseas are highly relevant to U.S. schools. We have deliberately omitted references to the locations or affiliations of the individuals we quote for this reason.

Summary

In the end, we hope what comes through in this book is a sense of optimism rooted in a firm belief that educators have the ability to create the kinds of schools, environments, and relationships that will support learning, achievement, and cognitive growth, as well as compassion, creativity, resilience, commitment, productivity, self-understanding, and self-actualization. As bleak as the big picture can sometimes appear, we believe that there has never been a better time to be involved in education.

Educators have never known as much as they now know about how people learn, think, and interact, and various factors that can affect the previously mentioned behaviors. This knowledge comes with a certain accountability to reckon with the outcomes of the traditions their predecessors imposed or followed because we have come to know the cost of ignoring their potential impact. The world has changed, and in many cases, business as usual no longer serves. It is our hope that this book will help you get a better sense of not only where we are and how we got here but also the many promising paths that lie ahead.

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