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decreases motivation and productivity, PCSD 125, PCSD 126 decreases our motivation and productivity, RLW 40-43 decreases our sense of meaning in our jobs, RLW41 decreases performance, RLW40-43 downside of, PCSD 113-28 earned, RLD 9-10, RLW38, EWB73-5 earning becomes too much work, PCSD 85-6 earning is lying, RLD 10-11 earning is natural but deadly, BWB82-4 effect, PCSD 12, PCSD 85-6, PCSD 112-28 effect brief, RLD 12-14, EWB 67-71, BWB77, BWB79-80 effects temporary and superficial, RLW36-7 emptiness of, B21Nov06B empty, RLP31 examples, RLWM 22-5 examples of needing or using, EWB63, EWB65-7, EWB105, BWB70, BWB73-5, BWB117 exchanged in falling in love, EWB75, BWB81 expectations separate healthy from unhealthy, RLW43-5 feedback instead of, RLP248-9, RLP344-5, RLP355-6 for adults, PCSD 112-13 for being wise man, RLWM 26 for children, PCSD 112 forms of, RL18-20, RLM 9-10, EWB77-8, BWB85 form of Imitation Love, PCSD 12, PCSD 112-28, RLV 14-15 from sex, RLM 241 good kind, B09Mar11 gratitude a form of, RLWM 25-6 harmful effects of, B29Feb16 has its own reward, BWB74-5 healthy, RLP246, RLP247-9, RLW 61 how to give correctly, RLP247-9,RLP355-6, RLW43-7 how we seek, RLW36 Imitation Love, DC5, B09Mar11, RL18-21 imitation wise man seeks, RLWM 22-5 in Real Love, RL 23 increases anxiety, PCSD 124 increases discouragement, PCSD 126 interfering with ability to be wise man, RLWM 22-5 interferes with creativity and decision making, PCSD 126 interferes with persistence and independence, PCSD 126 keeps us from feeling unconditionally loved, PCSD 124, RLW43 lie of, EWB76-7, BWB83-4 loving and teaching instead, RLP246-7, RLP344-5, RLP355-6 makes us blind to needs of others, PCSD 124-5 manipulation of children with,RLP28-30, RLP245-6 need for strong, RLD 12-15