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Spend A Day in Downtown Greenwich By Susie Moore Greenwich spreads across almost fifty square miles of land, and yet it still has a small-town feel. Even so, as you make your way across town, each neighborhood has its own unique personality. Downtown Greenwich is known for being the main business and shopping district in town. It’s also full of scenic, green spaces. In this article, discover the perfect place to enjoy a day. #1 Morning Stroll Go for a run or leisurely walk through the winding paths of Bruce Park. Follow the 1.1mile loop meandering through inlet streams under a canopy of 100-year-old oaks.

A Dowtown morning can be kicked off with a walk or run following the 1.1-mile loop in Bruce Park, meandering through inlet streams and under a canopy of 100-year-old oaks.

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Moon Over Great Captain Island

Heat Alert By Richard Kaufman With temperatures rising into the 90’s with high humidity across Fairfield County and the region this week, especially this weekend, the Greenwich Department of Health has issued a heat alert, and is reminding residents to stay safe by following several tips. All residents, especially persons who a re you ng, elderly, have medical or mental health conditions, use medications that impede body temperature regulation, those who do not have air conditioning, those whose work requires outdoor activities and people who are socially isolated are encouraged to pay special attention to the weather. Residents can go to the following air-conditioned locations to read, sit quietly and charge their cell phones or other electronics: The Greenwich Senior Center (299 Greenwich Ave.): Mon. – Fri.: 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Greenwich Main Library (101 West Putnam Ave.): Mon. – Thu.: 9 a.m. to 9 p.m.; Friday – Sat.: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Sun. 1 to 5 p.m.

The full moon rising above Great Captain Island lighthouse. Known as the Buck Moon, because this is the time of year when new antlers emerge from a buck’s forehead. Photographer Patty Doyle, took this photo Wednesday night. The lightouse is the same one depicted in the Greenwich Sentinel's logo at the top of this page each week.

Manor House Traditions

Perrot Memorial Librar y (90 Sound Beach Ave.): Mon., Wed., Friday: 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.; Tue., Thu.: 9 a.m. to 8 p.m.; Sat.: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Sun.: 1 to 5 p.m.

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Excerpts from The Waterwheel

Life Is the Story We Tell Ourselves ILLUSTRATED BY WAJIH CHAUDHRY

S After an extensive search, Whitby School’s Board of Trustees announced the appointment of Dr. John “Jack ” Creeden a s t he school’s Interim Head of School. The appointment is effective from July 15, 2019 to Ju ne 30, 2021. Creeden has more than three decades of experience in independent school leadersh ip, teach i ng , governance and strategic planning. Creeden was most recent ly Head of School at Chadwick School, a highly-regarded independent K-12 school in California. S A fishing device was discovered on July 15 inside a blue US Postal box outside 41 W. Putnam Ave. If you or anyone you know placed mail in the box, it may not reach its final destination. If the mail contained any type of check/payment, advise that person to immediately contact their bank and put a stop on the check. Anyone with information is urged to contact the Greenwich Police Department tip line at 203-622-3333, 800-3721176, or tips@greenwichct. org S The Greenwich Police Department announced on Wednesday that the Town H i g hw ay D e p a r t me nt would be paving Sound Beach Avenue that day. Residents were advised to expect delays and consider alternative routes, although residents seemed happy on social media, with one person exclaiming “finally!” on the Greenwich Sentinel Facebook page. S Greenwich Democrats nominated candidates for this fall’s election during their monthly meeting o n We d n e s d ay n i g ht . The ticket is headlined by current BET chair Jill Oberlander, who will run for First Selectman, and current Selectman Sandy Litvack, who is seeking reelection. Republicans will make their nominations on July 23. For coverage on both parties, be sure to check out next week’s Greenwich Sentinel. S G o v. N e d L a m o n t earlier this week joined lawmakers and industry leaders from the state’s telecommu nicat ions companies for a bill signing ceremony to commemorate the adoption of legislation the governor introduced that will accelerate the deployment of high-speed, wireless 5G technology in Connect icut. This legislation sets up a process to set 5G infrastructure on state proper t y, a nd also establishes a process for municipa lities that are interested in taking advantage of the technology in cases where utility or light poles are not available. S A n on l i ne p e t it ion for action on an empty and blighted home on 46 Mead Ave., in Byram had over 200 signatures as of press time on Wednesday. Supporters are urging the Town to address the “health and safety hazards” that is a nuisance, per Sec. 6C of the Greenwich Municipal Code. To find the petition, residents can search “46 Me ad Avenue” on t he petition website, change. org S Te m p e r a t u r e s a r e supposed to climb into the mid 90’s this weekend, before returning to the mid 80’s and even the mid 70’s next week. The Town of Greenwich has issued a heat alert for this weekend.

#2 Buy Local Continue the day at the Greenwich Farmer’s Market, which opens at 9:30 a.m. Every Saturday, farmers come to Downtown Greenwich bringing locally grown and handmade wares to our community. During the summer months, the parking lot off 1-95, exit 3, across from the train station is transformed into haven of delicious local produce. Stock up for the week or grab just a peach and apple cider donut for breakfast. The market is open to the public and parking is free during market hours. Booths typically begin closing at around noon so go early and get home to unpack and put away your groceries because you have a busy day

On well-maintained estates or in families with more than one residence, there was an honored tradition of stewards, or estate managers, who would oversee the details of almost everything. Not a butler or landscaper or carpenter or electrician or housekeeper or painter, but more of a CEO; knowledgeable about all of those jobs plus experience in finances and management to ensure owners were not being taken advantage. Part mechanic, part general contractor, part fees and tax negotiator, and 100% loyal, a traditional property manager would save time, money, and stress in service to a noble tradition. In Great Britain, an estate manager on the great estates was also sometimes referred to as a farm manager. No matter the official title, the estate manager's first responsibility was, and still is, to ensure all the needs of the owners are considered and completed. The objective is to fashion a stress-free situation where owners do not have to worry about competence, pricing, mistakes, day-to-day operations, or security of the properties. As one estate manager put it in an article from Estate & Manor Magazine, As ‘CEO’ of the household, you have a lot on your plate ensuring all runs smoothly. As a result the House Manager resides at the top of the chain of command, just after the owners. Being this person I set all standards of service and I am trusted by the owner to hire/release staff, pay household bills, organize repairs, keep records of household administrative activities and care for valuable possessions such as antiques, wines, silverware, china, paintings, classic vehicles among a lot of other responsibilities. Often estate managers will be responsible for finding and dealing with tenants and ensuring a tenant property is operating at a profit or that non-income properties are operating at maximum efficiency. Where a dwelling (vacation home, second home) is only periodically occupied, the property manager might arrange for heightened security monitoring, house-sitting, storage and shipping of goods, and other local sub-contracting necessary to make the property comfortable when the owner is in residence (utilities, systems operating, supplies and staff on hand, etc.). In today’s internet driven world and economy, the traditional estate manager has become a fractured amalgamation of housekeepers, house painters, landscapers, and “as needed” laborers and contractors. Entire industries and, unfortunately illegal work forces, have sprung up to replace the traditional estate manager. The nightmare scenarios are many but even the most benign involve substandard work and unethical behavior that typically seems to cost less but ends up costing home owners a great deal more than they thought and puts the burden of uninsured workers and unlicensed contractors on Connecticut taxpayers. The traditional, honorable estate manager hires qualified, known, and properly licensed and insured

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By Jill S. Woolworth, LMFT Choose your story wisely. Most of us have experienced significant challenges. How we tell our story to ourselves and to others matters. Do you plant the ladder of your story on the sinking sands of victimhood, or on the solid ground of survivorship? If you’re reading this book, you are a survivor. Tell your story from that perspective. You will not diminish what happened; you will be telling the truth about the present. How you tell your story changes the way your brain stores the information each time you tell it. You literally have the choice to lay new tracks over old in your memory. Stories of courage, hope, strength, and transformation reinforce your ability to continue taking courageous, hopeful, strong, transformative actions. Kendall was terrified of the things her ex-husband said about her and of the awful things he might do. For years, she told her story from the perspective of a helpless victim. With coaching, she learned to share her story as a courageous survivor. She was amazed by her new abilities to pay less attention to his threats, to land a more lucrative job, to raise their children, and to develop a large network of supportive and fun-loving friends. Publisher's Note: Pieces like the one above will be printed here each week for the next 64 weeks. They are excerpts from a book by local author, Jill Woolworth, titled The Waterwheel. The book contains 64 whimsical illustrations of familiar life challenges followed by explanations and examples. The examples are compilations of true stories with important details changed. Many of the stories are the author's own. If you recognize “your story,” it is because you are not alone in the experience. The book, in its entirety, is a wonderful gift for anyone, especially those navigating new experiences and relationships with classmates, co-workers, significant others, children, and siblings. The Waterwheel: Practical Wisdom for 64 Common Concerns is available through Amazon. Alternatively, we encourage you to shop locally at Diane's Books or Christ Church Books & Gifts.


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