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September 25, 2020
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Improving Census Numbers
Charity Calls to Action Greenwich Green & Clean
Richard Kaufman
In need of volunteers and teams for the fall town wide clean up! This Saturday, Sept. 26, from 11am - 3pm, Greenwich Green & Clean and Skip the Straw Greenwich are sponsoring the fall cleanup at Greenwich Point as part of the International Coastal Cleanup. To preregister on-line go to: www. greenwichgreenandclean.org. For virtual participation, photographs of families or small groups collecting trash can be submitted at info@greenwichgreenandclean. org or use social media tags @GreenwichGreenandClean or @ SkipTheStrawGreenwich along with a list of items collected. For more information: 203-531-0006 Greenwich Alliance for Education Looking for Turkey Trot sponsors: https://greenwichalliance.org/wp-content/ uploads/2020/09/TURKEY-TROT-2020-SPONSOR-FORM-8_31.pdf Neighbor to Neighbor Most needed items: Unexpired, unopened, nonperishable food: tuna, canned meats, peanut butter and cereal, larger-sized diapers, and unexpired infant formula. Donations can be made at the Food Pantry, now located at Arch St. Teen Center or at the food drive taking place at St. Michael Church on Sunday 9/27 at St. Michael Church parking lot: 469 North Street from 10am-12:30pm. Liberation Programs: In need of Personal Protective Equipment donations, please see their website for donation opportunities: https://www.liberationprograms.org/ppe-donations/ Liberation Programs are focused on Recovery for Life from addiction with services in the YWCA and throughout Fairfield County Mother’s for Others: Host a Diaper Drive in 3 easy steps: http://www.mothersforothers.org/host-adiaper-drive.html Community Centers, Inc. (CCI) In need of grocery bags, specifically brown paper bags with handles and help to bag and deliver groceries and prepared foods on Monday and Thursday afternoons. Food is going to families and senior citizens who live in subsidized housing in Greenwich and are our most vulnerable neighbors. Check the website for more details: https://www.ccigreenwich.org/corona-virus
The f inal push to complete this year's census is on, as local and state officials are making rounds to encourage residents to get counted before the Sept. 30 deadline. O n M o n d a y, L t . G o v S u s a n Bysiewicz joined Greenwich First Selectman Fred Camillo, and State Reps. Harry Arora (R-151) and Stephen Meskers (D-150) to knock on doors at Greenwich Close Apartments across from Town Hall. Tyler Fairbairn, the town's Director of Community Development and the head of Greenwich's Complete Count Committee, was part of the group, too, along with Greenwich Communities
themselves or open the door when the census enumerators show up." Bysiewicz said that as of Monday morning, 98.1 percent of households i n Con ne c t ic ut have eit her s el fresponded to the census, or responded to enumerators knocking on doors. The state enumeration rate is 28.1 percent, and the self-response rate is 70 percent, up from 69.5 percent in 2010, the last time the census was conducted. Greenwich's self-response rate is slightly above the rest of the state at 70.2 percent. " T h at nu m b e r i s g o o d ," s a i d Camillo. "But we're going to keep going." Camillo hoped to encourage people to participate, and thank those who have already been counted. He said
"We've tried hard to get the message out. We need to do more; there's always a little more to do," said State Rep. Harry Arora. Executive Director, Tony Johnson. Greenwich Communities, formerly known as the Greenwich Housing Authority, owns the apartment complex. Bysiewicz has been touring the state in recent weeks, visiting hard-to-count areas. Greenwich Close Apartments were chosen based off of low count data. "Some people think that it's only extremely urban areas and the very big cities that have hard-to-count areas, but that's not true. Twenty-two percent of the people in our state live in hardto-count areas. Hard-to-count areas
census outreach to the community will continue through schools and churches around town. A rora, who is running for reelection in the state legislature, said there is always room for improvement on the numbers. "We've tried hard to get the message out. We need to do more; there's always a little more to do. I feel very good about the 98.2 percent [in the state], but we need to get to 100 percent," he said. Meskers, also running for reelection, said he has run into several
DART Virtual Walk, Trinity Church: Saturday, September 27-October 3. You can walk virtually or follow the 2 mile course marked at Tod’s Point. Please register using this link: https://trinitychurch. life/event/7107-dart-virtual-walk The Undies Project: Looking for people to buy tickets to Virtual Cocktails and Comedy event taking place on Saturday, October 10: https://www.theundiesproject.org/event
SENTINEL
A Grudge
First Selectman Fred Camillo and Lt. Gov. Susan Bysiewicz talking to a Greenwich resident about filling out the 2020 Census. (Richard Kaufman photo)
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By Jill S. Woolworth, LMFT Grudges, like grievances, are ugly, disgusting creatures. Who would want to hold one, let alone nurse one? No one is changed by our grudges except us. They eat at us so slowly we sometimes don’t realize that they are consuming us whole. Grudges feed on un-forgiveness. They lock us into a prison cell along with the offending party, who is only truly there in our imagination. We can open the cell door from the inside, but only when we are willing to let the “guilty party” out first. This doesn’t mean minimizing the offense or excusing it—only letting go of feeding it. The key is in our hands; it’s our decision, in our own time. Wanting to get out of that jail and to let our grudge go can take a long time—sometimes years. The alternative is that the “guilty party” continues to expand and fill the cell of our mind. When we let our grudge go, we find that we have more productive ways to use that brain space. Charlie’s hatred of his verbally abusive father was “eating him up.” His therapist asked him if he could recall a single happy scene with him. He remembered the time his dad brought him a puppy. The counselor asked him to fully describe the scene and bring it to mind every time he thought of his dad. At first Charlie was resistant, but over time, this practice changed the way he perceived him. His grudge disappeared. Greenwich resident, Jill Woolworth is author of the book, The Waterwheel, which is available locally at Diane's Books (203-869-1515) or info@dianesbooks. com) or at Amazon.
tend to be apartment and multi-family housing areas, and communities of color and immigrant communities," Bysiewicz said. "Our focus over the past two months has been on visiting hard-to-count neighborhoods with our local, state and federal leaders and our complete count committees to try to encourage folks to either respond
census workers while passing out campaign material. Meskers said he hopes people realize how important getting counted really is. "I think people don't recognize the importance of the census and the appropriate allocation of federal dollars," he said. "Being counted is very important so we can get our fair share
of infrastructure dollars, healthcare dollars, and aid for v ulnerable populations in Greenwich." Bysiewicz noted that there could be an extension on the Sept. 30 census deadline because of a lawsuit filed in California. Residents may complete the 2020 Census online at www.my2020census. gov. For people who do not have access to a computer, you can complete it by calling these numbers: E n g l i s h : 1- 8 4 4 - 3 3 0 -2 0 2 0 ; Spanish:1-84 4-468-2020; Chinese (Mandarin) 1-844-391-2020; Chinese (Cantonese) 1-844-398-2020; Haitian Creole: 1-844-474-2020.
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POLO: Greenwich Clinches Title By Liz Leamy It was certainly a day to remember as White Birch, the illustrious Greenwich Polo Club high-goal team k now n for its g r it, gold charisma and gold standard triumphantly clinched the 2020 East Coast Open title in remarkable style, claiming a 13-10 win over Black Hound DE, the Tef lon-tough squad based out of the New York Citymetropolitan area. This edge-of-your-seat match, held on the main field of the Greenwich Polo Club, host of this year’s East Coast Open, was an Mariano Aguerre, (far right, white jersey) swings his mallet in characteristic affair to remember in every stunning fashion to help White Birch of Greenwich take the East Coast Open regard as the two qualifying title in a dramatic final showdown against Black Hound DE that was held last f inal teams (of f ive total Tuesday at the GPC. (Photo by John Ferris Robben)
“It was one of those days we needed to shine. We were up against one of the best teams and went all in,” said Aguerre. “Both teams performed out there today and it was a tough and good game.” polo’s up-and-coming stars entries) in this celebrated a n d B l a c k H o u n d D E , decorated athletes. This illustrious group and some of its g lobally and historic Championship fe at u r e d r o ster s l i st i ng tournament, White Birch some of the sport’s most included some of high-goal See POLO page 2