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September 11, 2020
The Greenwich Weekly Newspaper, where we celebrate our hometown with Greenwich news, people, and events.
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CALL TO ACTION COMMUNITY CENTERS INC. (CCI) In need of a donation of large paper grocery bags for food deliveries to 175 people weekly. www.ccigreenwich.org
Photos of the 9/11 Memorial at Cos Cob Park taken by Stephanie Dunn Ashley.
MEALS ON WHEELS Volunteer drivers needed. If interested in joining the team contact Lynne Stewart 203 869-1312 or email greenwichmow@optonline.net
Stephanie has been running in Cos Cob Park with camera in hand almost every day since the 9/11 Memorial was dedicated. An early, avid supporter of the memorial project, she annually serves as an organizer of the September 11th Remembrance Service. Stephanie is a first responder and community enthusiast.
NEIGHBOR TO NEIGHBOR Drive through food donations every Tuesday 9am to 11am hosted by the St. Catherine of Siena and St. Agnes Parish Items needed: unexpired tuna, formula, canned meats, peanut butter & cereal. They are not accepting clothing at this time. www.ntngreenwich.org
Born and raised in New York City, she notes: "The Memorial is a respite, a reminder of my City roots and the family and friends affected by the tragic events of that day. The beauty of the Memorial is ever changing."
GREENWICH ALLIANCE FOR EDUCATION Looking for student mentors for the AVID program. Call 203.340.2323 or email julie@greenwichalliance.org
The memorial was dedicated on 9/11/2015. It is celebrating its fifth year today.
www.greenwichalliance.org/ volunteer/ JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES Signature Superermarkeing for Seniors needs additional volunteer shoppers to help. Please call 203 6221881 or contact ebrown@ jfsgreenwich.org CHAPLAINCY SERVICES In need of new or gently used ipads to facilitate virtual family visits. Please reach out to Kate Noonan Glaser: kate@greenwichchaplaincy. org with your donations.
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Gardenvale Edges out Los Violines 14-12
Love and Loss Are Twins Illustrated by Wajih Chaudhry
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By Jill S. Woolworth, LMFT Loss in life is inevitable. Living things change, often not on our timetable. People we love die or move away. Others disappoint us or cause us suffering. Sometimes we disappoint ourselves. This is normal, not something to be medicated or hidden away. Appropriately sharing our losses is gold for our psyches, as hard as this may be in the moment. The people we will cherish most are those who accept their losses, their fallibility, and their suffering, and use these experiences to become humble helpers of others. Even happy events often include loss. When Ryan’s daughter married and moved two thousand miles away, he was sur- prised that he grieved. As much as he celebrated his daugh- ter’s marriage and admired his son-in-law, he was losing something precious to him. The same is true for every parent who leaves a child at summer camp or college. Our babies grow up and leave us when we do our job well. Greenwich resident Jill Woolworth is author of the book, The Waterwheel available locally at Diane's Books (203-869-1515 or info@dianesbooks.com) or at Amazon.
Gardenvale, the fierce and formidable 20-goal Long Island-based polo team, seems to be as determined as ever to make its mark as a forerunner in the 2020 East Coast Open, dashing past Los Violines, the Teflon-tough Westchester County-based contingent with a 14-12 win in the first round playoffs of this celebrated annual U.S. high-goal tournament last Sunday. See page 16.