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October 16, 2020
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An Unforgettable Season By Liz Leamy Three weeks ago, the Greenwich Polo Club wrapped up its 2020 season in showstopping style with a one-two series of matches featuring its famous characteristic showcase of superb highgoal teams, players and ponies. In this exciting final round of matches, Altaris and Barton rode away with the day’s top honors with the players and their charges all wowing the spectators with their terrific power, skill and stealth, hitting speeds of up to 40 miles an hour as they would fly up and down the massive Conyers Farm field. Along with this extraordinary athletic standard, the atmosphere at the GPC was golden across the board, something that seemed to be very much appreciated by spectators all throughout this memorable season. Last August, the famed GPC kicked off the 2020 season with the annual East Coast Open Championships of which White Birch, the famed GPC-based contingent victoriously had clinched the title back in mid September. Right from the outset through to the final series of matches, the GPC knocked
the proverbial ball out of the park on all counts, particularly in terms of how its staff and management handled the wellbeing and safety of everyone there to insure a good overall experience during this challenging pandemic period. At all of the matches, spectators, who comprised an outdoor reduced capacity crowd, consistently followed the mandated CDC guidelines of wearing masks and maintaining healthy social distance from one another. They would sit in either designated spread-out spots in the grandstand, small round tables in outlined areas along the sidelines or in the cordoned-off tent areas. Each week, visitors were handed sea led plastic bags contain ing red sanitizer packets and programs upon entering the Conyers Farm grounds by GPC staff members, while hand sanitation dispensaries were set up all around the field for everyone to use during the matches. Without a doubt, it was something to see the entire GPC community come together in such a focused, concerned and committed fashion and made for a comforting, safe and pleasant experience.
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The Future of The New Bruce
At the New Bruce Groundbreaking Ceremony massive backhoes created "triumphal arches" framing the construction site. Melani Lust Photography
By Anne W. Semmes It was a bright, brisk and windy day last Thursday when the New Bruce donors, staff members, designer, and elected officials gathered to celebrate the groundbreaking ceremony of the new Bruce Museum, to double in size. Peter Sutton, the former executive director whose dream had been to transform the Museum into a world class regional museum was an
early arrival. “I’ve rarely seen the building so clearly because they've already begun the work with this triumphal arch that is created by the backhoe,” said Sutton. “It's great that we're moving finally forward.” Sutton had surmised with present executive director Robert Wolterstorff it had taken 18 years – the length of Sutton’s tenure, for this expansion “to come to fruition.” “This man deserves a lot of credit,”
said arriving Bill Richter to Sutton who countered with, “You did, sir. You made all the difference in the world, sir. You really did.” Richter’s $15 million gift had helped turn Sutton’s dream into reality with the planned 40,000-plus square-foot William L. Richter Art Wing. “ T h i s i s s uch a b e aut i f u l d ay,” exclaimed arriving Steven Dumez the New
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An Inspiring New Feature Three weeks ago we were challenged by a reader to name one Medal of Honor winner. "Everyone can name hundreds of famous actors," he said, "but not one medal of honor" recipient. Point taken. Medals of Honor are awarded sparingly and are bestowed only to the bravest of the brave; and that courage must be well documented. This week we beg in a series of pieces
Gardenvale (red jersey) faces off against Los Violines (green jersey) in the first round series of the 2020 East Coast Open, held earlier this season at the Greenwich Polo Club (photo by John Robben)
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about individuals who received the Medal of Honor. The Medal of Honor is the nation's highest medal for valor awarded to members of the armed forces. Less than 3,500 have been awarded to members of all DoD services and the Coast Guard. We begin with Edward Rickenbacker, who was married in Christ Church Greenwich. His awe-inspiring story can be found on page 2.
By Jill S. Woolworth, LMFT It is sometimes necessary to climb down and sit in the pit with our friends who are struggling. When our friends are hurting, our caring presence is 85 percent of our value. We can all be present. The challenge is to leave our suggestions elsewhere for a while. This is the hard part: just listening. We draw out our friend’s story. We do not suggest how this may become a valuable experience or have a silver lining or is just like what happened to us once upon a time. We’re simply present. If the story is on autorepeat for months, our friend may need a counselor. Grief can become a toxic grievance. Emma’s son died of a rare illness. Friends brought meals, walked with her, picked up her daughter from school, and included her in social occasions. They hugged her when she cried and let her talk about her son when she wanted to. They did not judge her when she occasionally didn’t show up for events. They called or visited instead. Emma eventually used her artistic gifts to paint uplifting mosaics on hospital walls, including a wall in the hospital where her son was treated. She credits her newfound sense of purpose to the quiet friends who sat in the pit with her while she grieved. Greenwich resident, Jill Woolworth is author of the book, The Waterwheel, which is available locally at Diane's Books (203-869-1515) or info@dianesbooks. com) or at Amazon.
The Greenwich Education Alliance is holding its annual Turkey Trot beginning November 1st. Please consider sponsoring the Turkey Trot. Sponsors can sign up until 10/23/20. Sign up to sponsor or participate at: https://greenwichalliance.org/turkey-trot-2020/ online. All proceeds go to fund public school programs. #greenwichallianceturkeytrot2020 Community Centers, Inc. is in need of volunteers to deliver food Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. No one needs to choose more than one day a week and the whole pickup and delivery process takes about an hour. Please call for details: 203-869-1276 TAG, the Transportation Association of Greenwich, is delivering grocery bags of food collected by Neighbor to Neighbor for over 500 families a week. They are in need of volunteers to deliver groceries Monday-Friday between 9:30am and 12:30pm. Volunteers are needed on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday mornings. You will travel on the TAG bus to deliver grocery bags for contactless delivery. Please call TAG at 203 637-4345 or email debbie@ridestag.org to volunteer. Meals on W heels : Please join in helping to deliver food to the community. Reach out via phone 203 896-1312 or email us: greenwichmow@optonline.net to join our team of drivers. Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is working with Families Affected by COVID-19 Transition Services (FACTS). They are providing services to help families improve lives post COVID-19. Below are items families need most. Please have it shipped to their office at 1 Holly Hill Lane in Greenwich and let them know by either calling (203-622-1881) or emailing mknee@jfsgreenwich.org. Items needed: Crib mattress, Crib sheets , Infant car seat, Baby bath tub, Wash cloths, Crib mobile, Newborn pacifiers, New clothing (newborn to six months; winter clothing, i.e. onesies, pajamas, outfits, socks, mittens), New clothing for boys and girls, school aged 5 and up, and Personal care items. Inspirica Inc. is collecting non-perishable food items and Shop Rite gift cards for their Harvest for Hope drive which feeds over 800 families at Thanksgiving. Please drop off any of the following: instant mashed potatoes, stuffing mix, gravy, cranberry sauce, sweet potatoes, candied yams, string beans/peas, corn, mixed vegetables, apple sauce, coffee, tea, or disposable aluminum pans. Donations can be brought to 141 Franklin Street in downtown Stamford. Donations are being accepted now through November 19, 2020. https://www.inspiricact.org/ harvestforhope
By Beth Barhydt On the radar screen this week: alarming emergency drought restrictions that seemingly came out of nowhere. Although Aquarion has been warning us for most of the summer, it has been difficult to hear their message over the other very loud conversations. In coordination with state and local officials, Aquarion announced Wednesday a mandatory irrigation ban in Darien, Greenwich, New Canaan, Stamford, and Westport as southwest Fairfield County hit its third drought trigger this fall. R ight now 100 percent of Connecticut is classified as Abnormally Dry, including Fairfield County, and 38.4 percent is classif ied under an extreme drought. Recent rainfall from Hurricane Delta remnants did little to replenish water supplies. Effective immediately, automatic irrigation systems and hoseend sprinklers are banned and all Aquarion-issued, irrigation variances have been revoked for the season. In the home, three-quarters of the water used is in the bathroom. As Americans, we use an average of 88 gallons of water per person, per day. Those numbers may well go up for those working from home. If 88+ gallons per person, per day seems like a lot to you, you are not alone. We can do better and it is irresistibly easy. All we need to do is pay more attention. See page 17 for effortless, stepby-step ways to use less water. Now that we know, let's keep this water shortage on our radar screens.