Surrogates & Intended Parents - Things You Should Know Before Finding The Right

Surrogates & Intended Parents - Things You Should Know Before Finding The Right

How do you find the right surrogate to match with? We'll dive into useful tips based on our years of experience.

All surrogates must pass specific criteria and meet required guidelines before they can qualify to be a suitable carrier.

When it's time for the all important first "Match meeting" there are some tried and true tips that help intended parents determine if it's the right match, while at the same time setting the stage for an emotionally healthy, respectful journey ahead.

If you ask an intended parent how they matched with their surrogate, they might tell you that they just knew she was the one after meeting her.

Establishing the appropriate atmosphere of the matchmeeting conversation Balancing your expectations Paying attention to how your behavior may affect your potential surrogate Matching with the right surrogate for you is key to building a solid foundation for the journey to parenthood! Before the Ma

It will be beneficial to think of open-ended questions to ask the surrogate before you meet her, such as "What are the major reasons why you decided to become a surrogate?", "What is a typical day in your life like?", "How often would you like to touch base throughout the process?" or "What do your

During the Match Meeting The match meeting should be a relaxed, casual, stress free connection between you and the surrogate on a personal level.

The match meeting should not feel like a test, but rather, it should be an open, honest and transparent conversation you have with your potential surrogate.

After the Match Meeting Although neither party is obligated to make a decision at the actual match meeting, it is best to make a decision within 24 after the meeting.

This not only gives the surrogate confidence in your relationship, it also gives your agency flexibility in presenting the surrogate to other interested intended parents, in case you would like to pass on the potential surrogate.

After an official match, your agency will send all of the surrogate's information over to your IVF clinic to start the medical process.

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