Gaycation Magazine issue 15 April 2015

Gaycation April 2015 Issue 15

Thailand's Elephant

Eco-Tourism

EXPLORE London's

Regent's Canal

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Like a Local: Denver, Oakland & Fort Lauderdale

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Founder/Editor-in-Chief DJ Doran dj@gaycationmagazine.com Executive Editor Aaron Drake @theaarondrake aaron@gaycationmagazine.com Feast Editor Joe Morales joe@gaycationmagazine.com Webmaster / IT Nic Baslock nic@gaycationmagazine.com Social Media Gregory L. Kiep @gregorykiep Contributors Caroline Blaha-Black Kelsy Chauvin @kelsycc Gregory L. Kiep @gregorykiep Ben Lambert @highsocietyhobo Meg Ten Eyck @dopesontheroad Advertising Department sales@gaycationmagazine.com National Advertising Representative Rivendell Media 212-242-6863 Subscription Department subscriptions@gaycationmagazine.com Article and Photo Submissions editor@gaycationamagazine.com General Info travel@gaycationmagazine.com Social Media GaycationMagazine GaycationMag +Gaycationmagazine1 GaycationMag gaycationmagazine gaycationmagazine April 2015 Issue 15

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About the above photo: Palm trees and clouds over Lake Merritt, Oakland, California. Photo by Visit Oakland and Greg Leong Send address changes and subscription info to: Gaycation Magazine 931W 75th St Suite 137-215 Naperville, IL 60565 ISSN 2378-7279 (print) ISSN 2378-7287 (online) www.gaycationmagazine.com

Postcards 34 Walk Like an Elephant 38 A closer look at eco-volunteers working with pachyderms in Thailand There’s This Place...

Break Away to Brno

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Lingering Along London’s Regent’s Canal

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What Was I Thinking?

The Not-So-Solo Traveler

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Gaycationers 66 Photos of people showing off their best gaycation.

About the above photo: Vintage car in Oakland California. Photo by Kelsy Chauvin

CONTENTS

Letter from the Publisher

Classifieds

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The Wire 10 LGBT travel news and information Local Living 18 Tips for Exploring Oakland, Denver & Fort Lauderdale through the eyes of its Inhabitants Events 27

COLUMNS Cruising Corner

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Letter from the Publisher

Dear Gaycationers, As we approach our very first anniversary, I want to take a moment to personally thank you for discovering and reading Gaycation Magazine.

Last year, we launched Gaycation as the first LGBTQ travel magazine that truly focused on real gay travel issues, news and information for the sophisticated traveler. Our team of imaginative writers offered readers stories and articles about off the beaten path LGBTQ-friendly destinations that were edited from a mature perspective. The fundamental goal from the very beginning was to provide a travel publication that not only offered unique travel and travel-related content, but also included dazzling photography that helped transport our readers to exotic locales across the globe and transform perspectives about that destination.

Since our inception we have sought out talented, inspiring travel writers, editors and creative professionals to contribute to Gaycation Magazine.

One of these people is a successful travel writer in his own right, a Global Correspondent for Man About World and a former editor of Frontiers Magazine, Aaron Drake. Aaron has also been a regular contributor to Out Traveler, Amtrak’s Ride 6

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with Pride and other LGBTQ travel publications and it is now my pleasure to welcome him as our new Executive Editor.

In addition to Aaron’s accomplished writing style, Aaron will bring his passion for travel and adventure to our team. I am looking forward to working with Aaron as we continue to produce a publication that is worthy of you, our readers.

Please join me in welcoming Aaron and don’t hesitate to reach out to him to say hello.

Gaycation Magazine is committed to bringing you travel experiences from across the globe by gay travelers who have gone before you. Whether you are reading about eating Cricket Tacos in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, spending Christmas in the Bavarian-themed town of Leavenworth, Washington or Following Lesbians on the Loose, Gaycation Magazine will always be about the transformative travel experience and not just fancy hotel rooms and pool parties.

Thank you for continuing to support and read Gaycation Magazine and for being a subscriber.

We appreciate you!

Thank you,

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The Wire

LGBT travel news and information, ranging from new hotel/resort openings to cruise itineraries and travel planning tips and products and services that we like Grossing up has become less of an issue as more states allow same-sex marriage, according to Deena Fidas, director of the group's workplace equality program.

(Source: AP Photo)

Delta Air Lines to Assist Gay Employees With Health Care Taxes Delta Air Lines became the first major air carrier Thursday to make same-sex domestic partners whole for additional income taxes they owe for health care plans.

Still, she says, "it's the right thing to do. It's fair to the workforce."

Story from Edge Media Network April 3, 2015

U.S. President Barack Obama receives Gay & Lesbian Travel award

Atlanta-based Delta will pay those taxes for employees retroactive to Jan. 1. The tax is only a problem for employees living in states that do not recognize their marriages; Georgia is one of them.

Delta executives, pilots, flight attendants and other employees living there have to pay extra tax based on the value of the insurance.

There are currently 37 states that allow same same-sex marriage. The U.S. Supreme Court is expected to issue a ruling by the end of June that could expand same-sex marriage to the entire country.

Delta Air Lines Inc. is hardly the first major company to offer such benefits, known as "grossing up." There are at least 40 large companies and law firms that make employees whole for the tax, according to the Human Rights Campaign Foundation, which lobbies for LGBT rights. The group says Delta is the first big airline to do so.

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United States President Barack Obama will receive the International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association’s prestigious Chair Award this year.

“This administration has gone to great lengths to make the U.S. more welcoming to the global LGBT community and has allowed individuals with HIV/ AIDS to travel freely, “ says IGLTA Board Chair Dan Melesurgo. “We all know travel opens minds and changes perceptions. The actions of President Obama and his administration certainly have created a more positive experience for all of us.”

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of the IGLTA board of directors and presented to an individual or business that has made significant improvements to the landscape of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender travel.

In 2009, Obama lifted a 22-year-old travel ban that prevented visitors and immigrants with HIV from entering the United States, saying that it “was rooted in fear rather than fact.” A year later the Department of State revised standards for gender designation on passports, making it easier for transgender people to travel. U.S. Customs and Border Protection eased entry into the United States by expanding the definition of family to include domestic partners in 2012 and to recognize children of same-sex parents regardless of adoption status in 2014.

The award will be presented as part of the opening keynote session 9 April at IGLTA’s 32nd Annual Global Convention in Los Angeles.

Accepting the award on the president’s behalf is Aditi Hardikar, who serves as an Associate Director of Public Engagement in the Office of Public Engagement. In her role, she is the White House’s primary liaison to the LGBT community as well as the Asian American and Pacific Islander community.

“It’s an honor to accept this award on behalf President Obama for his leadership in helping eliminate barriers for the LGBT community around the world,” said Aditi Hardikar, White House Associate Director of Public Engagement. “The United States places great importance on the protection and promotion of the human rights and fundamental freedoms of all people, including LGBT persons globally.”

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Here comes the bride! Norwegian to offer weddings

(Photo: Norwegian Cruise Line) Add Norwegian Cruise Line to the growing list of cruise suppliers conducting legal wedding ceremonies at sea.

Norwegian said that it has reached agreement with The Bahamas to issue wedding licenses to couples married by the captain on its Norwegian Breakaway and Norwegian Getaway ships, as well as the Norwegian Escape coming in November.

The news comes in time for the peak wedding month of June. Although Norwegian will not be offering them at sea, it said it will provide legal same-sex ceremonies in destinations where they are recognized by local law, including Boston, Hawaiii, Los Angeles, New York, Seattle, Vancouver, Tampa, Miami and Port Canaveral.

Norwegian also offers customizable destination wedding experiences in ports of call. In a press release it suggested Santorini, Greece and the island of Maui in Hawaii as two especially romantic settings.

Like other cruise lines, Norwegian also has

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onsite wedding coordinators at a couple’s disposal and can arrange everything from banquets to bouquets, as well as professional photography, venues for dancing or a cocktail reception and more.

Other lines that do weddings at sea include Celebrity Cruises, Cunard Line, Royal Caribbean International and Princess Cruises.

Story by Tom Stieghorst, Special for USA TODAY

New Cuba travel milestone: Airbnb adds lodging rentals

remaining listings are in cities such as Matanzas, Cienfuegos, and Santa Clara. Airbnb expects to expand the number of listings. Cuba has already become one of the most searched for destinations in the company's listings, topping Latin American cities such as Rio de Janeiro, Buenos Aires and Mexico City.

"For over 50 years, Cuba has been out of reach for most Americans," Airbnb co-founder Nathan Blecharczyk said in a written release. "We couldn't be more excited that, starting today, licensed U.S. travelers will now be able to experience the unique culture and warm hospitality that makes the island so special through our new Cuban community."

(Photo: Getty Images/iStockphoto)

Cuba already has a large network of casas particulares, which offer visitors home-stays and are run by locals.

Major U.S. hotel companies have also said they would like to have a presence in Cuba but that it is too early to make any moves.

Airbnb officials announced today that the community-driven hospitality company will be one of the first U.S. companies to offer accommodations to U.S. travelers who fit into the 12 categories of approved reasons to go to Cuba.

New rules put into place by President Obama's administration in January has made it easier for Americans to travel to Cuba. They cannot go as tourists but they can go for approved reasons such as educational activities, professional meetings, humanitarian projects and athletic competitions.

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Airlines too are slowly figuring out how they can expand direct service from the USA. They have only been able to offer charter flights for peopleto-people tours, which was the only way Americans could legally visit Cuba up until recently.

Airbnb is offering Cuban hosts the same protection and benefits it offers hosts in any location, including the reimbursement of up to $1 million for property damage.

Americans who book with Airbnb will have to attest that they are traveling under one of the 12 approved categories. As of now, Airbnb is only open to authorized U.S. travelers but the company says it will seek approval to serve non-U.S. travelers as well.

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Local Living: Tips for Exploring Oakland, Denver & Fort Lauderdale through the eyes of its inhabitants

by Kelsy Chauvin

Traveling can make a city feel like it has

two faces: one for tourists, and one for locals. But diving deeper into a destination is as easy as a good chat with the right person. Most residents are glad to point eager visitors in the right direction and share secrets that may be off the radar even to the home team. Here’s what local tipsters shared about three gay-friendly U.S. cities worth a closer look.

OAKLAND, CALIFORNIA California knows how to party, claimed Tupac in “California Love”—but it also knows how to eat.

This other lovely “city by the Bay” is compared to a lot of places, even earning a rep as “Brooklyn West.” But on a warm August visit to Oak Town, I saw why natives Gertrude Stein and Jack London traveled the world, yet still always called themselves Oaklanders.

Juhu Beach Club Top Chef season-six competitor (and out and proud) Preeti Mistry takes Indian food in a whole new sassy direction with dishes like Holy Cow, a short-rib curry braised with root vegetables direct from the farmers market. 5179 Telegraph Ave., (510) 652-7350, juhubeachclub.com Oaklandish No other merch will make you feel more at home. Cool designs, local artists, well-built T-shirts, www.gaycationmagazine.com

hoodies, jackets, baby clothes and other Oakbranded gear from this shop may be the only labels you’ll be glad to wear. The brand has multiple locations in the city and sells online and through various California boutiques. Multiple locations, oaklandish.com Tacos Mi Rancho Lake Merritt is the city’s playground, and as such, bikers, rollerbladers and picnickers need sustenance. Head to this food truck, usually parked around First Avenue and 14th Street, for some of the best real-deal tacos al pastor in the state. tiny. cc/tacosmirancho 811 Parliament Among the aged brick buildings of Old Oakland is this multi-story club, which hosts the sexy-fun Sunday night Social Life LGBT (but mainly L) parties; check their Facebook page for when to catch the next one. 811 Washington Ave., www.facebook.com/TheSocialLife510 Savor Oakland Food Tour So many tantalizing restaurants, so little time. So why not sign up for a culinary walking tour even locals appreciate and sample a range of dishes?

You can roam the formerly industrial, newly polished streets around Jack London Square for new and old-fave eateries, or hit Chinatown’s best.

Come hungry! jacklondonsquare.com

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Oakland Pride It’s not a local secret but it is a favorite, thanks to a convivial queer atmosphere that takes over downtown each late summer. Held this year on September 13, the parade raises excitement that kicks into the street festival, where you can hear live music, check out Cali’s latest queer fashions and immerse yourself in a veritable sea of Oaklanders ready to tip you off to still more local tips. oaklandpride.org DENVER, COLORADO The Mile High City isn’t super high on the LGBT travel radar—yet. But a closer look at Denver uncovered a few sites and sights that will make gay visitors pay a little more attention to the part20

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cowboy, part-hipster Colorado capital.

Kirkland Museum Not to knock the famous Denver Art Museum, but Capitol Hill Mansion Bed & Breakfast owner Carl Schmidt II calls the Kirkland a “hidden gem” for its gorgeous exhibits of fine and decorative art.

Arts & Crafts, Art Nouveau, Bauhaus, Postmodern— they’re all here in the form of furniture, art, housewares and other striking manifestations.

Colorado local and regional art will get you even more into the Rocky Mountain mindset. 1311 Pearl St., (303) 832-8576, kirklandmuseum.org Charlie’s To sip drinks with some of the aforementioned Denver cowboys, head to this Capitol Hill bar, www.gaycationmagazine.com

which is home to nightly drink specials, country line dancing and lots of rugged gays in jeans and big hats. Schmidt says you can drink proud at Charlie’s, a sponsor of the Colorado Gay Rodeo Association. 900 E. Colfax Ave., (303) 839-8890, charliesdenver.com Denver Microbrew Tour This is beer country, and it only takes $29 and two hours to taste-test 10 or more locally made brews on a guided downtown brewery tour. denvermicrobrewtour.com

Euflora Since you’re in Denver, you may want to sample some legal local horticulture. This downtown recreational-marijuana dispensary is conveniently located on the 16th Street Mall, and sells a few dozen weed varieties. It’s laid out similar to an Apple Store, with displays of smokables and edibles arranged on tables, each strain with a digital tablet breaking down user ratings, prices and other descriptions. 401 16th St. Mall, (303) 534-6255, eufloracolorado.com FORT LAUDERDALE, FLORIDA

City Park This enormous park is located atop one of the city’s scenic hills, a location that makes for the best recreation, and best view of the city, complete with downtown skyscrapers and Rocky Mountain peaks in the distance. While you’re there, stop by the Denver Museum of Nature & Science to read up on rather fascinating Colorado paleontology.

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The seat of Broward County, Florida, is a bastion of all things gay. As such, it’s easy to head to Wilton Drive and enjoy the bevy of LGBT establishments ready to refresh you. Here are a few of the best of them in the gayborhood and beyond.

World AIDS Museum A truly engaging, surprisingly compact museum

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is the only in the world devoted to telling the story of HIV and AIDS. It opened in 2014, conveniently on Wilton Drive, and relays a fascinating timeline of the epidemic—welcoming visitors for free or voluntary donation. 1201 NE 26th St., Ste. 111, Wilton Manors, (954) 390-0550, worldaidsmuseum.com Dapur This gay-owned Asian tapas restaurant and lounge is among the best dining experiences in the city. The chic décor alone is worth a visit; not to mention the wall-to-wall queers who fill up the place nightly for irresistible cocktails that accompany Thai faves, uncommon sushi combinations and various Southeast Asian delights. 1620 N. Federal Hwy, (954) 306-2663, dapurkitchen.com

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Stonewall Gallery The Stonewall National Museum & Archives is headquartered on Sunrise Boulevard about 10 minutes from the queer strip, so in 2014 it opened this satellite gallery on Wilton Drive.

It’s been a great way to get more visitors to see some of this amazing nonprofit’s extraordinary collection of art and memorabilia, with regularly changing exhibits and cool community events.

2157 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors, (954) 530-9337, stonewallnationalmuseum.org/gallery Rumors Whether you head here for Sunday brunch or evening cocktails on the great big patio, Rumors is a one-stop shop for dining, dancing, and most importantly, flirting. 2426 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors, (954) 565-8851, rumorsbarwiltonmanors.com www.gaycationmagazine.com

Southern Comfort Conference For 24 years, this annual symposium has promoted the empowerment and understanding of transgender people. Its 25th anniversary happens September 29 to October 4, and marks the first conference held in Fort Lauderdale, where it will stay for at least three years (after a lifetime in Atlanta). Richard Gray, head of LGBT marketing for the local tourism bureau, was key to bringing the conference to Broward County, and sums up his enthusiasm in three words: “LGBT spells people.” southerncomfortconference.org

Kelsy Chauvin is a writer, photographer and editor based in Brooklyn, N.Y. She specializes in travel, feature journalism, art, theater, architecture, construction and LGBT interests. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter at @kelsycc.

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EVENTS

Here are some events and shows Gaycation Magazine will be attending or will have a presence. We’re always adding more and looking for that special event for us to be at. If you would like us to attend your event, please let us know at travel@gaycationmagazine.com SEE YOU SOON!

May 14 - 17, 2015 Kamp Key West www.kampkeywest.org

June 10 - 14, 2015 Key West Pride www.keywestpride.org

May 17 - 24, 2015 Puerto Vallarta Gay Pride www.vallartapride.com

August 13 - 16, 2015 Tropical Heat Key West www.tropicalheatkw.com

June 5 - 7, 2015 OlaGirls, Lesbian Getaway www.olagirls.com/en

September 10 - 13, 2015 Key West Womenfest www.womenfest.com

June 6 - 13, 2015 Circle City IN Pride www.indypride.org

October 27, 2015 Key West Headdress Ball

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How to Make Pad Thai Like a Local

By Meg Ten Eyck

I knew I needed to buy spices, but I wasn’t sure where to go or what to buy. I approached the bamboo gates of the local Chiang Mai market nervous and excited. There was a tiny Thai grandmother sitting behind a desk in a small wooden office. She was surrounded by fruit, nuts and piles of multicolored packages. I hoped she’d be able to point me in the right direction. I approached her and uttered my best, punctuated, “Sa. Wat. Dee. Kah.” She smiled and rolled her eyes in a friendly “oh, tourists” manner. Feeling self-congratulatory, I asked where to find the cooking class. She waved to the side of the building and said “400 28

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An exploration of a traditional local dish and how it connects to the culture, with recipes and recommnedations where to eat.

Baht” in accented English. She handed me a bundle of soft handwoven taffeta with small packages of spices inside. I walked away as she gave me a side eye look that I interpreted as, “Do you know what you’re doing, lady?”

I was nervous as I walked past her gate and into the grounds of the small market. As I glanced around, I noticed a handful of tourists looking as nervous as I was. We were waiting for our teacher from the Asia Scenic Cooking School.

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food, in particular, is one of my favorite cuisines.

I’ve had access to the ingredients to make my own dishes, but Asian markets intimidate me. My culinary abilities peaked at ramen and Easy Mac during my undergraduate bar days. Needless to say, a cooking school in Thailand was far out of my comfort zone.

Our guide joined us and led us through a tour of the market. She explained the spices, vegetables and sauces we would be using during the day. I started to relax as we wandered the aisles listening to our guide.

In The Kitchen At the school, the instructor lead us on a tour of the kitchen facilities and beautiful garden.

It was a small, quaint herb garden beaming with love. It was clear from the organized rows that the staff took great pride in tending to the plants. We went through the garden selecting samplings of herbs to take back to the kitchen.

I put on my maroon apron and was directed to select three dishes to prepare on the menu. I picked the old standby of pad Thai, massaman curry and mango sticky rice. Our instructor steered us towards the prep table to assess our ingredients.

When making this dish at home, you should prepare all ingredients well in advance. Stir-fried dishes are cooked at a fast pace that prevents preparation while cooking.

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Recipe Ingredients: 8 ozs flat rice noodles 4 cloves of garlic 5 tbsps of vegetable oil 1 lg boneless, skinless chicken breast 2 eggs 1 cup fresh bean sprouts 1/3 cup sliced green onions 3 ozs hard white beancurds cut into small pieces

Crack one egg into the wok, pierce the yolk and scramble it completely.

Add the noodles and bean curd back into the wok. Mix everything together well.

Add the fish sauce, sugar and tamarind water to the mixture while reducing the heat by half.

Add the chicken and adjust the sauce to desired taste.

Place the noodle mixture on a plate and garnish with peanuts, lime wedges and fresh washed bean sprouts.

2 tbsps fish sauce 4 tbsps tamarind water 1 tbsp sugar ½ cup peanuts, coarsely ground 1 lime cut into quarters Recipe: We begin by placing 8 ounces of flat rice noodles in cold water. Soak the noodles for about 30 minutes until they are al dente. Drain the water from the noodles.

Add one clove of garlic and the oil to a preheated wok. Fry the mixture until the garlic turns yellow.

Add the chicken breast and fry until thoroughly cooked. Remove the chicken from the wok and keep it warm.

Add the rest of the garlic and bean curd to the hot wok. Fry for one minute. Remove the beancurd from the wok but keep it warm.

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At the end of the day I felt satisfied with my ability to recreate this dish at home, which is a major feat for someone who can only cook packaged meals with cartoons on the box. I highly recommend taking a cooking course while traveling. I took a recipe book home and will have meals with my loved ones as a lasting souvenir.

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Meg Ten Eyck is a former LGBT rights activist, currently living in South Korea and traveling the world with her partner, Lindsay. She writes about their experiences as a queer couple traveling together on her blog Dopes on the Road and posts their travel photos on Instagram at @dopesontheroad.

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MIAMI’S LGBT VOICE

We warmly welcome you to the LGBT Visitor Center, the proud voice of all things gay in Miami and the Beaches.

We’re located in Old City Hall in the heart of South Beach at 1130 Washington Ave., Suite 100, Miami Beach, FL 33139.

To plan your next vacation in fabulous Miami Beach, go to GoGayMiami.com or call us at 305/397-8914.

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TOP LEFT: Sunshine Skyway Bridge in Tampa Bay TOP RIGHT: Egmont Key off the coast of Florida in the Gulf of Mexico MIDDLE LEFT: Los Angeles Hyatt Century Plaza Lobby Bar MIDDLE RIGHT: Balcony view of Los Angeles from Hyatt Century Plaza BOTTOM LEFT: Jacaranda Trees blooming in Upcountry Maui by Llevelyn Lightsey LightSea Images

Show off your Gayation! Send in your vacation photos (with captions) and we’ll put ‘em here and be envious of the great time you had!

TOP LEFT: Indiana World War Memorial Plaza TOP RIGHT: Long Beach, CalinforniaPier shops MIDDLE RIGHT: Queen Elizabeth II in Long Beach, California BOTTOM LEFT: Rose Compass Long Beach, California

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TOP LEFT: Flying into Philadephia Airport aboard US Airways ABOVE: Cathedral in Indianapolis, Indiana LEFT: Part of the Murat Shrine Building

ABOVE: View from the Getty Museum, Los Angeles, California attending the #IGLTA2015 Conference LEFT: Walking to breakfast and passing the Santa Monica Blvd sign in Los Angeles, California

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Walk Like an Elephant: A closer look at eco-volunteers working with pachyderms in Thailand

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People all over the world have grown up seeing elephants.

We buy stuffed toys made in their likeness, we watch cartoons personifying them—we even go to visit them on school trips to the zoo. It’s natural for tourists to be curious about them when visiting elephants’ native land. So it’s no surprise that elephants are big business in Thailand. www.gaycationmagazine.com

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As a travel writer who has spent a significant amount of time in Asia, I’ve been asked if I’ve visited elephant parks.

I’m always hesitant to answer that question because of the complexity of the issue.

Visiting animal-based tourist attractions is controversial, but lots of developing countries depend on tourism to support their economy. These businesses cater to the desires of the tourists. For example, the average weekly income of a Thai person is $87, and tourists line up in droves to take photos with elephants at $20 a piece.

Elephant tourism is going to continue as long as there is profit. The profit isn’t the controversial part—it’s the exploitation and abuse of the animals.

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to work in tourism. After mass flooding occurred due to deforestation, Thailand banned logging in 1988. After the ban, thousands of domestic elephants were out of work.

In a perfect world, elephants would have then returned to their natural habitat; unfortunately, domestic elephants lack survival skills in the wild. There is also a huge shortage of land and food in Thailand.

Asian elephants are herbivores and eat about 330 lbs. of fruits and veggies a day.

When wild elephants cannot find food, they steal produce from farmers’ crops.

Since most of Southeast Asia is still rife with poverty, an elephant herd eating crops can be an issue of life and death for these communities. If the herd eats the crops, the villagers do not have food or income for the coming season, so farmers often shoot the elephants to protect their livelihood.

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they return to the wild, they often die from there as an eco-volunteer at their facility in starvation and poaching.

Chiang Mai, Thailand.

Some tourist attractions offer rides, performances and trekking with elephants.

Others sell elephant-made paintings and products made of their ivory tusks. Ivory is illegal because it comes from dead elephants. Elephants are “trained” using a technique called Pha Jaan, which translates to “crush.” Trainers put baby elephants in tiny cages and then beat, starve and force them to stay awake as means of torture. The trainers beat them until they accept humans as dominant.

I had more questions about responsible animal tourism than answers. I wanted to understand more about the elephant tourism industry so I decided to take a visit to Elephant Nature Park. I spent a day

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Elephant Nature Park is unique because they offer sanctuary for elephants. It is a rescue for abused, neglected and abandoned elephants. ENP sits on a large tract of valley land and is home for 39 elephants. They roam around the valley in herds of their choosing.

The park’s current herd includes rescued elephants of all ages. The park’s founder, Lek Chailert, has purchased abused and disabled elephants from their owners.

She saved most of the elephants from street begging, logging or tourism. Some grew too old to work, others suffered injury at the hands of humans and some survived trekking camps.

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I had the opportunity to meet Lek and learn the stories of individual elephants. It was then that she introduced me to Lucky, a 43-year-old circus elephant. Lucky was deliberately blinded by her owner and rescued by ENP years ago. I also met Pornsawan, a 22-year-old elephant who worked in an illegal logging camp. In 2011, she stepped on an active landmine and blew her foot apart. After major reconstructive surgery, Pornsawan now lives an active life with her herd at ENP. Lek and her team are calling for reform and a new kind of elephant tourism. They respect and understand the cultural ties elephants have to villages in Thailand.

They understand the economic needs of the Thai people. They also see a need for preservation and conservation of elephants and their habitats.

To lead by example, Lek offers the opportunity for tourists to volunteer at ENP. They can pay to spend a week improving the quality of life for the elephants. While I was there, we helped to feed the herd watermelons, bananas and squash by the tons. We helped to bathe them in the river with buckets of water. Volunteers even help do chores like cleaning and shoveling elephant dung. During down time, we 42

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watched documentaries and learned about the history of the elephants. There was also time to observe the herd and pose for new Facebook photos.

If you are planning to take part in elephant tourism, please research the facility—do not visit facilities that offer elephant rides or use hooks. Please consider visiting one of these three ethical elephant sanctuaries: Baan Chang Elephant Park, Boon Lott’s Elephant Sanctuary (BLES) or Elephant World.

For more information on Elephant Nature Park, visit elephantnaturepark.org.

Meg Ten Eyck is a former LGBT rights activist, currently living in South Korea and traveling the world with her partner, Lindsay.

She writes about their experiences as a queer couple traveling together on her blog Dopes on the Road and posts their travel photos on Instagram at @dopesontheroad. www.gaycationmagazine.com

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There’s This Place

Break Away to Brno

By Caroline Blaha-Black

A discerning gay traveler can kick up his or her heels in the less-traveled Eastern Europe, namely the Czech Republic. Many Americans are familiar with the capital, Prague, and realize that the city has many attractions to offer to the gay community (the Mezipatra Film Festival is one). However, one often forgets Brno, the second largest city in the country and the capital of the Moravian region, located about 2.5 hours from Prague.

Brno has a thousand-year-old history, so the history buffs will be happy to visit, and it is also an old university town. Most of the inhabitants here speak basic English, namely the younger college crowd and high school students. But the city is not plagued by throngs of tourists as in the case of Prague, so there is ample opportunity to experience the Czech Republic and its culture without high prices and long lines.

Brno has a burgeoning gay and lesbian

community, and even though it is not as big as the famous capital, it is well worth visiting. Brno hosts the Stud Brno Civic Association, which lists gay communities in the area, as well as concerts and various other establishments. It also organizes HIV testing, does formal balls and helps “gays and lesbians find their place in the sun,” as their website states. Besides the many typical tourist attractions in Brno that can be found in any travel book on the Czech Republic, there are several gay-friendly establishments that are good to visit while one explores the city. Here is a list of the main ones in Brno: If you are ready to chow down on some delicious food after a vigorous day of sightseeing in Brno, Acko is a mixed restaurant (for gay and straight) located in the main part of the city, just a short walk from Mendel Square. It is known for its friendly atmosphere, Italian-style cuisine and for being centrally located. Its hours are Monday through Friday, 11a.m.-midnight,

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Have a glass of Holba or Litovel beer and meet some new friends in the Barclub H46, the oldest gay and lesbian club in Brno, which just celebrated its 22nd birthday. This bar is also centrally located in the heart of Brno. It has a happy hour on Fridays with a 10 percent discount. Open daily from 8 p.m.-4 a.m.

If relaxation is more your thing and you are looking to find some peace and quiet, get a full-body massage in the gay spa Las Palmas in Brno. The website states that the establishment is perfect for relaxation and meeting new people, and it is open daily from 4 p.m.-3 a.m. It has a strong masseur on duty, a comfy, relaxed salon—along with both alcoholic and nonalcoholic beverages. It is a little off the city center, but there is a handy map on the website that will help get you there by tram or bus.

With all this sightseeing and visiting new places,

you might be asking where to stay. There are many lovely hotels in Brno, but one stands out: Hotel Austerlitz. This three-star hotel has all the amenities that a traveler might be looking for and it’s located near Mendel Square. According to the site, a room for two in the basic economy class room will run about 1,350 CZK (Czech Koruna), the equivalent of about $55, a reasonable value for the quality of the rooms. Within close proximity of the hotel, there are many historical sites, such as the Castle Spilberk and the Cathedral of Saint Peter and Paul.

Other hotels that you might check out while in Brno are—just to name a few—Hotel Cyro, a three-star hotel located not far from the center of Brno; Hotel Europa, which is an artsy hotel built in an Art Nouveau-style; and last but not least, the upscale Comsa Brno Palace Hotel, where you can experience the culinary genius of Executive Chef Liam Claringbold.

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So, put Brno on your must-see itinerary, especially if you are visiting Prague already.

Buses from Prague Vaclav Havel Airport run to Brno most of the day, and the tickets start at about 220 CZK (about $8). Happy trails!

Gay Travel Planner Acko: www.acko-brno.cz Pekařská 80 Brno, 602 00 +420 603 398 273 Barclub H46: www.h46.cz Hybesova St. 46 Brno, 602 00 +420 724 783 997 Comsa Brno Palace Hotel: www.brnohotels.cz/comsa Silingorovo namesti 2 Brno, 60200 +420 233 920 118 Hotel Austerlitz: www.austerlitzhotel.cz Taborskeho nabrezi 3 Brno, 602 00 +420 543 214 718 Hotel Cyro: www.hotel-brno.in Anenska Str. 9 Brno, 602 00 +420 543 215 705

Caroline Blaha-Black is originally from Brno, Czech Republic, and she lives and writes in Denton, Texas. She shares her house with a husband and three cats. Her second book, Murder of Ravens, a pirate adventure, is currently being shopped to literary agents and publishers.

Hotel Europa: www.hotel-europa-brno.cz/en/ Trida Kapitana Jarose 27 Brno, 602 00 +420 515 143 100 Las Palmas: las-palmas.wz.cz Galandauerova 17 Brno, 602 00 +420 720 363 655 Stud Brno Civic Association: www.stud.cz

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ng Along London’s ’s Canal

By Ben Lambert

It’s a beautiful day; glorious in fact. The sun’s rays reach deep into the city, taking the edge off the slight chill. The sky is a brilliant shade of blue with only the odd cloud here and there. The air feels and smells fresh and crisp—perfect weather for a light sweater or blazer. My favorite.

I sit silently on the terrace of the little canalside café, sipping my espresso, watching families stroll by as a boat floats slowly down the canals.

In the distance, a dog barks and a child squeals in delight. It is a perfect, tranquil Saturday morning: in London.

That’s right, not Venice—though this area of London is called Little Venice, a decidedly residential area that few tourists ever visit. Many tourists in London aren’t even aware that Regent’s Canal exists, let alone that it runs across the entire northern stretch of London and then down the eastern side.

Regent’s Canal is very near to some of my favorite places in London. I often squeeze in a full day of walking along a small portion of the canal.

So let’s take a walk and I’ll show you my ideal Saturday stroll along London’s “hidden” canal!

We start a bit to the south and west on Portobello Road in Notting Hill. Portobello Road, home to many lovely boutiques and cafés, hosts a bustling weekend street market that meshes perfectly with the road’s more permanent residents. The street will undoubtedly be packed with people from all over the world. I start the day off by making my way to Hummingbird Bakery, a microscopic cupcake shop that makes the best Red Velvet cake/cupcake in the world. It’s worth fighting the crowds to get here.

Cupcake in hand, walk north and watch the market evolve from antiques to food and then vintage clothing. Along the way is Crazy Homies Mexican Lounge, which has a mango ceviche that

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is delicious. From Portobello Road head northeast towards Westbourne Park Station, which lies right along the canal. If you’re thirsty drop into The Metropolitan, a Victorian pub with a roof terrace right next door.

From the station it’s a leisurely 20-minute stroll east to Little Venice. Nearby you’ll find Canal Café Theatre, located above Bridge House Pub, an intimate affair with the audience seated around candlelit tables. Keep an eye out for the Puppet Theatre, a canal boat that plies the water, delighting youngsters with puppet shows.

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beautifully restored mid-19th century building that was once an upscale brothel. The place is exquisite and the food is delicious.

Once back on track, you can cross to the north side of the canal to continue your stroll, or you can board the London Waterbus. This covers the 2.5 miles to Camden Market in 45 minutes with a stop in the middle for the London Zoo. However, I prefer to walk.

Continuing eastward, Regent’s Canal heads into Regent’s Park. Along the way, stop and talk to the people who live on the canal—those boats you see are homes. Just bordering Regent’s Park you can take a quick detour north to check out Lord’s Cricket Ground. I usually prefer to skip Lord’s and head into St. John’s Wood, which is a rather www.gaycationmagazine.com

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posh little neighborhood nearby. There’s St. John’s Wood Church Gardens, bordered to the west by Lord’s and to the east by St. John’s Wood High Street, my favorite High Street in all of London for it’s uniqueness.

path north to Prince Albert Road, across which is another park, Primrose Hill. Climb up the hill for a stunning view of London and Regent’s Park. When I’ve got visitors I always bring them here, even if I don’t have time for the full canal walk.

This High Street, unlike most others, is a quaint row of stylish boutiques selling everything from designer clothing and handmade stationery to works of art and artisan baked goods. If, like me, you can’t afford any of this stuff, head to Café Rouge, a lovely chain of French cafés. Grab a table outside and people watch—by which I mean shamelessly ogle the loads of gorgeous men walking by while sipping your Kir Royale.

From the peak of Primrose Hill, go east down the hill and exit turning right, with the park behind you, and head south. There are some lovely little shops and cafés along the road bordering the park. Feel free to detour and roam along some of the charming residential streets clustered between these roads and the train tracks to the east. Keep an eye out for rock stars and other celebrities—this hamlet is overflowing with them.

After your drink, walk 10 minutes south and enter Regent’s Park. The canal runs along the northern edge and covers almost the entire width of the park. Just before reaching the London Zoo cross to the north side of the canal and follow the

Staying on Regent’s Park Road or Gloucester Avenue (on the east side of the neighborhood) takes you back to the canal. From here, you can continue east to Camden, where you’ll find the Camden Locks and Camden (Lock) Market. Just

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past Camden Pier, Chalk Farm Road crosses the canal. Climb up to the bridge and head south towards Camden Tube Station. Along the way to Camden Market you’ll find Toot Suite, a fun little candy store.

Camden Market is well known on the tourist track, but it is fun nonetheless. If you’re here in the evening, head south past the Tube Station and check out Blues Kitchen, a lovely, spacious bar that often has live music. Electric Ballroom, just north of the Tube Station, is also a fun place. Regardless of where you go, be sure to keep an eye out for the often epic street art to be found in Camden. Some of it is hidden along alleyways and some of it is hidden in plain sight, you just have to remember to look up.

From here, you can catch a bus or train to anywhere in London. So head back to your hotel or to one of London’s many gay bars, put up your feet and relish in the fact that you’ve done something most tourists (and few locals) ever do.

Ben is a former attorney, avid foodie, full-time slowmad and cultural explorer. He likes street food, street art, photography and random off-beat adventures. In his spare time he writes, maintains a blog and does consulting work. Find him at highsocietyhobo.com. www.gaycationmagazine.com

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What Was I Thinking?

Stories submitted by Gaycationers about crazy experiences that left them scratching their heads and opining, “What was I thinking?”

The Not-So-Solo Traveler

By Ben Lambert

I whirl around just in time to meet the open palm swinging at me. His open palm slams into my face, sending my Ray Bans flying. He releases my arm causing me to stumble sideways, carried downward by the weight of my backpack as he bolts back into his tiny flat. If I needed any more convincing that travel romances with locals are a bad idea, this certainly did the trick.

The fact is I know such romances are never a good idea and I avoid them religiously. Then you meet a local who seems sweet, loves to travel and doesn’t seem to want anything more than likeminded companionship from you. It’s then that the side effects of long-term solo travel take over— mainly the lack of meaningful intimacy—and you make the stupid decision to get involved.

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You tell him that this can’t be a serious thing.

You tell him you’re traveling, there are visa issues and you can only stay so long. You tell him that you wish things were different but there’s nothing you can do. Then you tell yourself that it will be OK because you’re both going into this with open eyes.

You’ve made full disclosure. The expectations have been set. When you jokingly say over drinks one night, “Maybe I should just stay with you for the next few weeks,” you’re only half serious. When he says, “OK, can you bring your stuff tomorrow?” you’re genuinely shocked but secretly happy. Then you show up at his place the next day bags in hand.

I knew this wasn’t the best idea, but I’d already told myself the lies. He really did seem like a kindred spirit and I missed the admittedly subtle www.gaycationmagazine.com

warning signs. When he told me that on his recent holiday in the Philippines he booked the resort’s photographer for two entire days to essentially do a continual photo shoot, I chalked it up to quirkiness. I mean, it does sometimes suck that any time I want to be in a picture, I either have to make an awkward selfie pose or ask some other tourist for help. So sure—why not, right?

Then there’s the fact that he was incredibly sweet (at first) and had one of those addictive smiles. Not to mention that he was beyond cute, had a rocking body and one of the largest, um, personalities that I’ve ever seen in person. Plus he seemed genuinely interested and never once asked for my money.

This is Thailand where money boys abound, so that last part is actually a pretty big deal.

For the first few days things were great and I even contemplated extending my visa. Then his craziness started to show through. Initially, I dismissed these things because you do have to be a little crazy to let a guy you hardly know shack up with you for a few weeks. Then after two weeks of little things here and there, he blew up because I mentioned a cute guy had just been giving us the eye as we walked along the moat in Chaing Mai. I’d had enough and let him know it. Turns out he could dish it out all day long but he couldn’t www.gaycationmagazine.com

take it. A frosty night ensued, which was all the proof I needed. Before going to bed, I pulled out my phone and booked a hostel down the street.

The frostiness continued the next morning, so I silently packed my bags while kicking myself for being so stupid. I’d been so nice to him—I’d stupidly bought him a nice birthday gift (that was worth my entire day’s budget). Just as I was finishing packing up, he deigned to speak and was a total bitch. I’d had more than my fill so I told him off again, albeit in a somewhat nicer manner.

When the tears started to flow and he began begging me to stay, I actually sat my bag down and comforted him! I was still leaving but I’m just that goddam nice. Once the tears were gone it was back to frosty bitch, so I picked up my bag and headed to the elevator. He followed.

Meaningless niceties were exchanged as the numbers slowly ticked upwards. “I hope you have a nice and successful life,” I said genuinely.

“Safe travels,” he said.

Then the doors opened and he went off his rocker.

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to his room. I stopped, dropped my bag and braced myself—fully intent on busting the door down so I could confront him. Fortunately, I remembered the security cameras in the hallway. I calmed down and left, the handprint on my face throbbing.

As I hit the streets, the full realization of what an idiot I’d been settled upon me. I turned back and looked up to see him standing on the balcony watching me. As I turned the corner, disappearing from his life forever, my only thought was What the hell was I thinking?

Ben is a former attorney, avid foodie, full-time slowmad and cultural explorer. He likes street food, street art, photography and random off-beat adventures. In his spare time he writes, maintains a blog and does consulting work. Find him at highsocietyhobo.com.

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Cruising Corner Packing for an All-Gay Cruise

By Gregory L. Kiep You are all booked on your fabulous and exciting gay cruise vacation and now face the daunting of task of knowing what to pack. Don’t fret! As a gay cruise veteran, I have come up with five great tips that will make packing a breeze: 1. Choose coordinating/complimenting colors to save on luggage space.

Think smartly about your clothing selections to save yourself the hassle and airline fees. (Most airlines charge at least $25 per bag!) Choosing options that you can mix and match in the same color families can save you a lot of space. Plus, this allows you to bring a couple pairs of shoes to match all outfits. (And leaves a little room for those camouflage stiletto heels you’ve been eyeing.)

2. Don’t be afraid of costumes.

Costumes are part of the fun, trust us! Atlantis and RSVP throw themed parties every day on the cruise and this is a great way to express yourself and be a part of the experience. While costumes are certainly not necessary, it can be a great way to share some laughs (and capture some great photos) with your friends. Think outside the box!

3. Invest in a luggage scale.

These handy devices can save you a headache at the airport. For under $20 at most stores, these scales can tell you where you are in weight for each suitcase. When you are packing to come onboard, don’t forget to leave yourself some room for souvenirs for yourself or loved ones back home.

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4. Bring a day’s worth of clothing (and a swimsuit) in your carry-on.

Most people have had their luggage delayed by an airline for one reason or another in their travels.

Always be prepared and put a set of clothing and a swimsuit in your carry-on so you have it with you at all times. Especially when you are flying in the day the ship leaves, this can save you a lot of stress.

Airlines and cruise ships are historically great at helping if there are any problems and making sure luggage is delivered to the next port, but this can make this unfortunate experience less annoying than it already is.

5. Dress for comfort.

Gay cruises are a casual environment with no formal dinners or nights like traditional cruises. Be comfortable and have fun! The goal is to relax and enjoy the ship, so feel free to leave the tuxedo at home. At dinner, it is requested that you wear an appropriate sleeved shirt and no swimsuit, but is pretty laid back about it the rest of the time.

I hope these tips give you a little piece of mind when you are packing for your all-gay cruise. I can’t wait to see you (and all your fabulous outfits) onboard! Let me know where you are heading, I just may be there!

Gregory grew up in Cincinnati, Ohio, and lived in Hyde Park and Downtown during his 24 years there.

Upon receiving his MBA from Xavier University, he launched a marketing firm specializing in LGBT lifestyle services and products. Working with Atlantis Events and RSVP Vacations, he has traveled the world on more than 30 cruises. When he is not on an adventure, he calls Boston home.

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Travel series “Trip Out” Showcasing Luxurious Destinations & Events for the LGBT Community

Hosted By: Kristin R. Thomas

www.TripOutTV.com

The other kind of gay cruising.

Caribbean Windjammer

MAY 31 - JUNE 6, 2015 INTIMATE

Our private charter is host to just 24 guests, not 2,400 passengers.

And our crew of ten is always ready to attend to your needs.

RELAXING

Kick off your shoes while you feel the warmth of the Caribbean sea breezes.

Leave the world-class DJ behind and enjoy the sounds of island tranquility.

INCLUSIVE

Surrounded by like-minded gay men, let the camaraderie fuel your sense of adventure with breathtaking hikes on the islands of Nevus and St. Barths, snorkeling the crystal clear waters of St. Kitts or floating on a noodle in the shadows of our ship. And it’s all included, no sticker shock bar tab at the end of the week! Pricing includes all onboard meals and snacks, beverages, beer and wine, snorkel gear, guided hikes, taxes and port charges.

Only 3 Cabins Remain

OutingsAndAdventures.com or call 727.776.5213 for more information