FIRSTConnections
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First United Methodist Church Richardson
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Volume 7, Issue 29
June/July 2012
We are delighted that you have chosen to worship with us and we hope you find First United Methodist Church Richardson to be both a welcoming and inspiring community of faith. As we look out the window, it is clear that the people of FUMCR do not know the term “Summer Slowdown.” The campus is filled with children attending Vacation Bible Camp, young adults going to a baseball game, and many others who are excited for what this season brings. Let us be reminded of open doors as we celebrate this place to gather, worship and grow with one another.
“All are welcome in this place…” We invite you to walk alongside us, as we celebrate this time in our lives. We are available if you have any questions or would like more information. We look forward to meeting you soon!
Elizabeth and Kristen Elizabeth Wilson, Director Inviting & Involving 972.996.0134 Direct ewilson@fumcr.com
Kristen Ceaser Inviting & Involving Associate 972.996.0154 Direct kceaser@fumcr.com
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503 N. Central Expressway P.O.Box 830877 Richardson, TX 75083-0877 972.235.8385 fumcr.com Senior Pastor Dr. Clayton Oliphint Director of Communication & Worship Gloria Scott Editor/Graphic Designer Elizabeth Gonzalez Communication Associate Kevin Burns Website Manager Francy Collins Contributors Bonnie Abadie Kevin Burns Bruce Calvert Ken Cesear Pavielle Chriss Larry Cottam Explorers Sunday School Group FOCUS Photo Ministry Lisa Greenwood Kevin Knox Marylee Lajoie Katy Oliphint Alys Richards Josh Schilling Pam Shamblin Alyson Sommerfelt Pamela Tomasello Emily Watson FIRST Connections (USPS 022-024) is published six times a year, bi-monthly, by First United Methodist Church Richardson, 503 N Central Expwy, Richardson, Texas 75080. Periodicals postage paid at Richardson, Texas and additional mailing offices. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to FIRST Connections, PO Box 830877, Richardson, TX 75083-0877.
I was glad when they said to me, “Let us go to the house of the Lord!” Psalm 122:1
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ave you ever felt that inner joy of anticipation about going to the house of the Lord? You know that deep down inside of your soul kind of giddy and glad feeling that something special is happening at the church and we get to be a part of it. Sometimes we lose touch with that, and our church attendance becomes routine, mundane, sporadic, or even non-existent. When we stop and focus, it helps us remember that when we participate in church we are participating in God’s story of salvation, something that should make our hearts sing. It is in our church community that we see this story coming alive right before our eyes. The summer is no exception, and this summer at FUMCR you will see God’s love come alive in countless ways. We’ll begin in June with a series called Songs of the Heart, which will take us through the Book of Psalms. Daily readings through Psalms together, and our focus on Sunday morning and evening around specific Psalms should inspire us and make us glad to be in God’s house! At FUMCR, children and youth ministries ramp up, rather than trail off, in the summer. This year, we are anticipating around 2,000 children and youth participating in our various camps, retreats, mission trips, including more than 650 special needs kids in our HEROES camps. In addition to worship and Sunday School, we have so many ways for children and youth to get excited about going to the house of the Lord! I hope you will make worship a priority (morning or evening) when you are in town this summer. My prayer for you is that you will have a deep sense of anticipation and joy as you get ready to attend. God is doing something grand and we get to be a part of it. I can’t wait to see what God has in store next! Let’s go to the house of the Lord! In Christ, Clayton Oliphint
Dr. Clayton Oliphint, Senior Pastor
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Quentin Trevor Abadie
Catherine Darlene Agarwal William Harrison Alsup Andrew Jeffrey Althaus Erika S. Armstrong Spencer Alexander Armstrong Devan Alexander Arvidson Blake John Bennett Mary Mackenna Benson Avery Evelyn Blair Jude Adams Blass
When you walk down the halls of our church, lead a meeting, speak from the pulpit, make music, serve refreshments, volunteer for mission trips, help with Body and Soul, usher, greet, bake bread, serve communion—anything that makes our life at FUMCR and beyond warm and hospitable, you are being watched. Never ever underestimate the observation powers of a child or youth. They want to see you stand up for justice and peace, proclaiming the Gospel and your part in it. They long to be a part of something meaningful, balanced and open. They will sit at your feet (or you at theirs) to talk about their faith, their searching, their questions, their fears and their concerns. They are not shy and they do expect you to participate in some way in showing them how you do “The Gospel.” That is the part you will play with these kiddos, those who have gone before and those who come after. The people of FUMCR are blessed beyond all telling to have a sixth grade confirmation class of ninety-nine. Now the real work begins, as these students grow and mature with the Church right behind, in front and beside them—guiding, listening, laughing and crying with them. We should all praise God that we have this opportunity to open up the story book of who we are as Christians, to talk about and live out the Holy mystery of our faith.
Gabriela Isabel Brea Garrett Scott Buckmeier Katherine Alyssa Burnett Ethan Connor Burns Jackson Alan Calvert Ellie Joy Chance Annie Renee Coats Sophia Marie Conant Siena Brooke Copeland Calvin Lucas Cox Brenden Alexander Cesario Emma Page Dadres Hannah rose Davis Jack Robert Davis Mark Montgomery Dodson Wesley Jordan Dodson Kyle Douglas Dreyer Carter Andry Durham Sydney Michelle Ebbeler Mason Grace Fields Mason Patrick Fields Grace Marie Freeman Adam Robert Gallo Bo Austin Garner Grayson Michael Godwin Logan Alexander Gold Stella Gresham Lorelei Balverde Harrel Chloe Eileen Harris Michael Robert Harris Matthew Allen Haskell Michaela Lynn Haskell Jonathan Robert Hauber Audrey Mae Headlee Elizabeth Margaret Hodge Jake Kees Hoodenpyle Allison Christa Hornbeck Victoria Frances Hudson Emily Ann Janssen
Jennifer Elizabeth Johnson Katie Elizabeth Kee Hannah Noel Kimble Caden Stuart Kirk Jared Lee Leonard Jack Anthony Liscio Belinda Adele Lloyd Kathleen Elise Lloyd Beau Lawrence Lourcey Tendai Gildah Charmaine Machakayire Jack Meachum Macy Jordan Nicole Mahaney Allison Elizabeth Martin Megan Leigh Martin Miah Mayberry Brendan Allan McMahan Dillon Addison McMahan Evan Matthew McMullin Mikaela Elizabeth Mowell Kaitlin Marie Navarro Shannon Tinevimbo Njagu Trentman Lee Norvell Lily Alison Parker
Benjamin Richard Patterson Kristin Caroline Patterson Rachel Nicole Porter Tyler Hayden Robins Katherine Brenna Robinson Robert Ranen Robinson Madison Grace Rogers Catherine Michael Salony Lauren Elizabeth Sartin Berkley William Shofner Meredith Kathryn Sibley Chandler John Sisson Beck Andrew Sutherland Maggie Renee Sproull William Ryan Sproull Daniel Ray Stallard Carson David Tauch Josie Taylor Thomas Kent Dean Tilger Caroline Ruth Tipton Kelsey Ann Ulrich Charles John Rory Wheat Mason Parker Thomas Wilcoxen Livvy Nicole Winans Logan James Winger Andrew Lee Young
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The Student Ministries staff would like to thank all of the adult volunteers, Sunday school teachers, UMYF and grade-level counselors, retreat coordinators, and drivers for our various events. We cannot provide the ministry or opportunities without you all! A special thank you to Lynn and Paul Dempsey, David Gray, and M’Lissa and Steve Howen who have been committed to working with the graduating seniors in Sunday school throughout their time in the youth program!
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Class of 2012! Kristen Anderson Catherine Andrews Allison Anthony Anna Armstrong Stefan Babick David Bailey Luke Bailey Bradley Bailey Diego Ballentine Carter Bartolome Colin Brannan Wes Brown Andrew Bryan Laura Burton Blake Byrd Jenna Caire Cain Campbell Zach Carlton Ashley Casey Sasha Chavarria Brady Cheairs Eric Coldewey Haley Coleman Sam Coleman Jaclyn Cook Chase Cooke Carolyn Croley Emily Cromwell Jesse Dadres Luke DaMommio Sam Dempsey Collin Dickson
Kyle Doherty Maddie Dunn Rachel Emory Jake Fisher Jeffrey Fisher Lizzie Frazier Megan Frazier Adam Fuller Courtney Groos Sarah Harp Mason Harrington Davis Hartley Allison Hawkins Alexandra Heck Robyn Hedke Nick Hernandez-Sepper Kenneth Herrmann Brooke Hodges-Schneider Alyssa Hornbeck Bryn Howard Kendall Howen Jared Hughes Bradley Hulme Shelby Jaccar Ben Jessen Grace Keliher James Kelley Alexa King DJ Kuddes Alex Lajoie Brittany Leonard Luke Linsteadt
Charity Logan Kameron McAfee Jonathon McClellan Christopher McClenny Chase McCoy Megan McGee Michael Miazza Jay Miller Leslie Miller Michael Miller William Miller Stephanie Mitchell Jacob Morgan Connor Nemer Irene Njagu Megan Nolte Maggie Ofria Maximillian Olen Katy Oliphint Quinton Oliver Cameron O’Reilly Kyle Parker Quincy Parsons Joey Patchen Desiree Paulson Michael Pitts Austin Ramsey Russell Reimann Chloe Richards Ally Ritter Christopher Roehll Ginny Ross
Luke Russell Kari Scanlan Hayden Seagraves Chaz Sexton Travis Short Lee Sibley Muyoko Simango Sara Simpson Aaron Singleton Alexandra Smith Alyson Sommerfelt Shannon Southward Matthew Stephens Kyle Stephenson Katie Stroth Lexie Sydnor Avery Thomas Tori Thompson Dillon Tucker Nick Ucherek Cole Vehslage Kevyn Vermeire Emily Watson Matthew Welch Nick Westphal Amy White Emily Wingate Chance Wolfe Rebecca Woods Nick Worden
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I cannot believe that in a few months I will be in college, away from home, starting a new chapter in my life at TCU. It is crazy how the last couple of years have flown by! Throughout my high school career, some of my favorite moments have been with the youth group at FUMCR. From UMYF every Sunday night to summer mission trips, I will never forget all of the memories and friendships that I have made.
First United Methodist Church of Richardson has been a part of me my entire life. From Sunday school, and sixth grade confirmation class, to finally being active in the youth program, this church has always had plenty to offer me and was there for me every step of my life. My greatest memory through FUMCR is all the friends I have made through Christ. They are all the types of people I want to surround me in my life and the FUMCR youth always know how to have a great time! Also, if I had never met the best youth pastor in the world, Tommy Houghteling, my life would not be the way it is today. Thank you, Tommy, for being there for me and always encouraging me to be the best person I can be.
Attending: Texas Christian University
Over the years, this youth group has become a second family to me. From the moment that I joined, I was welcomed in with open arms and smiles. No one judged me and I could be myself! I have made attending UMYF and youth events a priority in my life. Every week, I look forward to UMYF and Bible study on Wednesday nights as an escape from the stresses of school and life. I know that I can count on those friends to make me laugh and help me with my struggles. Some of my greatest memories with the youth group have been on trips that we have taken. My favorite trips were Sr. High Mission Trip, Ski Trip, Costa Rica and Camping Trip! On these trips, I have laughed until I cried, made new friends, helped someone in need, been adventurous, bonded with the youth group and have grown closer to God. The youth group at FUMCR is unique-we are some of the craziest, loudest, weirdest kids around! But we are all connected by God’s love and are passionate to know more about Christ. This youth group has helped me grow in my faith. The topics and discussions we have always have me walking away with a new perspective and stronger love for God. When I think about leaving in a few months, I get a bit anxious and nervous. But I look forward to growing in my faith and continuing to live out my life for Christ. Like 1 John 4:12 says, “No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.” I will miss the FUMCR youth group very much. It will be hard to say goodbye and move on, but I have faith that God will be with me every step of the way. I would like to say thank you to the youth group for the memories, friendships and for showing me God’s love. I love each and every one of you!
Attending: The University of Texas at Austin
I have done many service projects and taken many trips through the church like Body and Soul and volunteering at various events. My favorite is the Spring Break Ski Trip. The projects that mean the most to me are the mission trips we take as a youth group in the summer. Repairing houses in Oak Cliff through C2K, driving to Galveston, Texas to help Hurricane Katrina victims and, my favorite, traveling to New Mexico to repair houses on the Native American reservation. I have met numerous gracious and loving people who really showed me why it’s worth it to help others and why I am so proud doing all those things through Christ’s name. With moving out of Richardson, I will sadly be moving my church home from FUMCR to The Austin Stone Church in Austin, Texas. My second cousin, Matt Carter, is the senior pastor there and I can’t wait to spend my Sundays watching him preach! I cannot thank this church enough for giving me all the opportunities it did, for letting me meet all the people I have met, and for guiding me towards the most amazing relationship I could ever ask for—my relationship with God.
Alyson Sommerfelt
Attending: Texas Christian University
Over the past two years I have devoted a lot of my time to the youth program at FUMCR. It all began because I wanted to go on a summer mission trip with my best friends, but little did I know that it was going to be one of the best decisions I have ever made. I had found a group that I finally felt comfortable around and be around in order to grow in my faith. Every time I go to a youth function I feel surrounded by people who love and care about me. The youth group was a place where my faith was free to grow. Over the years I have made sure to participate in all that I could, including most of the trips, Wednesday night bible study, and Sunday night youth. My favorite part about all of these activities is the singing. Weather we are singing the fast crazy songs or the slow calm songs I always feel like I am growing closer to God and the people around me. It is one of the best feelings I have ever felt. It is something I will definitely miss. Being a part of this youth program is something that is really important to me. I hope to take all that I have learned to college with me to continue to build my faith. 8
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f it has been built—chances are that Mike Proch has taken it apart. Proch, a member of First United Methodist Church Richardson for over 20 years, remembers being a very inquisitive child growing up. He loved to investigate and figure out how things were put together. His father was trained as a woodworker and began teaching Mike about furniture making at an early age. While learning about woodworking, Proch also discovered a love for electronics. “When I was teenager, I started working with the old tube televisions, taking them apart and figuring out how they worked. I started offering a repair service to help my neighbors and make some money, but it was all driven out of my love for electronics.” That love of electronics took Proch on to study Electrical Engineering at the University of Houston and then to Dallas to work for Texas Instruments. Proch retired from Raytheon after a distinguished career where he eventually served as a vicepresident.
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You may have seen some of Mike’s woodworking creations around our church campus. Many areas in the sanctuary have been modified by Mike to make their utility more versatile. Also, Mike has constructed the wood poster frames around campus, helped build sets and props for Music Makers, and has handcrafted many tools the staff use on a weekly basis. Mike is also very active as a volunteer in the Media Ministry volunteers. When you begin to take apart all of the pieces of involvement of this FUMCR member, you begin to see that it is a servant’s heart that fuels his passion.
I see the talents and blessings I have in my own life, and I realize that it’s not by my own doing. God is present. And I want to give back in meaningful ways. ~ Mike Proch
Although he established his career in electronics, it is his background in woodworking that proves useful in his volunteer life. Proch began working with Habitat for Humanity through the Richardson Area Interfaith while a member at FUMCR. The Richardson Area Interfaith is an alliance of several Richardson churches that pool their resources to consistantly participate in building a Habitat house each Spring and Fall. To date, this group has completed 32 homes. In the beginning, Proch began working on the Habitat homes on Saturdays—a day set aside for church volunteers to participate. However his participation with Habitat grew once he retired in 2008. “I started working with the Wednesday crew, who would go to the worksite mid-week to prepare the work area for the next group of volunteers coming on Saturday.” Proch’s increased involvement led to more responsibility. He began to work as a team leader, guiding the volunteers in constructing an entire housing project, and returned to the professional workforce when he was made the Chief Operating Officer of the Dallas Area Habitat for Humanity this past February. Proch says he believes in the Habitat model for helping others because it not only strives to help people, but it helps all people involved connect with one another in ways that promote growth, healing and fun.
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Beginning in June on Sundays Dr. Oliphint will be guiding our thinking to the book of Psalms in the Old Testament. To the modern day Christian it is often thought to be a book of songs and prayers, but our minds and hearts will be opened to see this collection of writings as instructions in the faith. A daily reading from the Psalms will be available to the congregation This study will be followed by all worshiping communities at FUMCR.
In conjunction with our summer series, we recently asked several members of the congregation to tell us their favorite hymn and WHY? Here is what they said...
“Morning has Broken” I like it because it was one of the first hymns that I could sing because it wasn’t too high. It also reminds me of my first church, First United Methodist in Conway, AR. ~Marylee Lajoie~
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One of my favorite hymns is “Sweet, Sweet Spirit” on page 334 in The United Methodist Hymnal. There are a couple of reasons why. It so accurately reflects the feelings Melanie and I have each and every time we come to worship in this Sanctuary. I never hear or sing those words without being reminded of being with my grandmothers, both devout Christians, sweet gentle souls, and when in their presence I was wrapped in unconditional love. ~Larry Cottam~
My favorite hymn would be “How Great thou Art.” I’m a truly blessed person. I thank God everyday for the many blessings he has given me. I look outside at the beautiful day and thank God. I look at my wife and kids and know that my wonderful God has blessed me. This hymn touches my soul when I sing it knowing that he is truly great and wonderful. ~Ken Ceasar~
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Psalms I’m so glad you asked! With Easter just having passed, I can tell you one of my favorites is “He Arose” by Robert Lowry...the words of the verses tell the story of Jesus our Savior in such a soothing and soulful way, then the chorus breaks into an exciting, uplifting refrain, “He arose a victor from the dark domain… He Arose, He Arose, Hallelujah, Christ Arose!” I really like the overall change in tempo. ~Kevin Knox~ I smiled when I read your request. It brought me back to when I was a child visiting my grandparent’s church, First Methodist in Van, TX. My sister and I were the only ones in the children’s Sunday school class that morning. Through the thin walls we could hear my grandmother’s Sunday school class singing “Bringing in the Sheaves.” Not a one was on key and my sister and I snickered when we heard my grandmother’s distinctive voice. Love that song, and still smile when I hear it. ~Pamela Tomasello~
Summer Reading List
Monday, June 4
Psalm 1
Tuesday, June 5
Psalm 8
Wednesday, June 6
Psalm 10
Thursday, June 7
Psalm 19
Friday, June 8
Psalm 23
Monday, June 11
Psalm 30
Tuesday, June 12
Psalm 32
Wednesday, June 13 Psalm 40 Thursday, June 14
Psalm 42
Friday, June 15
Psalm 46
Monday, June 18
Psalm 51
Tuesday, June 19
Psalm 62
Wednesday, June 20 Psalm 63 Thursday, June 21
Psalm 84
Friday, June 22
Psalm 90
Monday, June 25
Psalm 100
Tuesday, June 26
Psalm 103
Wednesday, June 27 Psalm 121 Thursday, June 28
Psalm 139
Friday, June 29
Psalm 150
“In The Garden” inspires me with the joy of God’s love and Amazing Grace; it assures me that “You’ll Never Walk Alone” and gives me hope that I may be “in that number When The Saints Go Marching In!” ~Alys Richards~
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eneral Conference 2012 brought nearly 1000 delegates from all over the world to Tampa, Florida for 12 days. The General Conference is the only body that can speak for the United Methodist Church. As such, it gathers every four years to discuss theology, governance, mission and ministry. Sixteen years ago, we clarified that the church’s mission is to make disciples of Jesus Christ. Four years ago, we further clarified that those disciples would be about the transformation of the world and that there are four areas of focus as we go about our work as a church: 1) forming new places for new people, 2) developing principled Christian leaders, 3) ministry with the poor, & 4) eliminating preventable diseases, like malaria. All of this clarity is essential, of course, to any organization’s ability to effectively live out its purpose. Kudos for the UMC! Can you tell the other shoe’s about to drop? At the 2012 General Conference, there was concerted effort to dramatically restructure the general church in order to better live out our mission: streamline governance, align resources, create a more nimble oversight body to make decisions between General Conferences. You know how it works; it happens with every organization: you get clear on your purpose, then you align your structure to best live out that purpose. Well, what we discovered is that we have constitutionally bound ourselves so as to make it nearly impossible to streamline our structure. We’re in a crazy kind of grid-lock—needing change and unable to enact it. We left discouraged, disheartened, and extremely frustrated. Not unlike the disciples who walked away from Jerusalem after Good Friday despondent over the death of the One they were sure would bring about a new world, we walked away from Tampa uncertain about our future. But just as it was for those first disciples, this is not the end of the story. Louis L’Amour says,“There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.” These words, shared by Don Underwood, head of our NTC delegation and pastor of Christ UMC Plano, have become a touchstone for all of us as we have walked away from Tampa. This is just the beginning! After all, we believe in a God who makes a way out of no way! So, with renewed fervor, we are going back to our churches ready to make a difference, to make disciples, and to transform our corners of the world, refusing to let the gridlock of the general church hold us captive to status quo. We celebrate some of the things that were accomplished: n Designated $7 million over the next 4 years to the recruitment and training of young people for ministry. 12
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n Eliminated the security of appointments for Elders freeing bishops to make appointments that best serve the mission field [our own Rev. Gary Mueller was instrumental in insuring that safe-guards were in place to protect pastors in this process]. n Reduced the size of the General Church Agencies’ governing boards in an effort to be good stewards and help them be more efficient. Reduced the General Church budget for the next 4 years by 6.5%. n Celebrated the launch of 650 new churches and faith communities in the past four years, with over 100,000 new worshipers. Even in the miasma of our human structures, there is much to celebrate. God is clearly at work! Through the work of local churches, lives are being changed and we are getting a bit closer to the world that God imagines. Here at FUMCR, we see evidence all around us. May we always be about the work that God is doing. May we re-commit ourselves to partner with God in welcoming people for Christ, growing people in Christ and serving people with Christ. It makes all the difference!
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teachers, preschool teachers, Bridgeport camp counselors, and participants on adult or youth work camps. The group serves food to the homeless at Body and Soul at St. Paul UMC several times year. During the Summer, while the regular Children’s Sunday School teachers are on break, Explorers volunteer as a class to teach a couple of Sundays.
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he Explorers Sunday School group at FUMCR started in 1991 as the “Young Couples” class. When the church started another “Young Couples” class a few years later, the original class voted on a new name. The class has been known as the “Explorers” ever since. Johnny and Penny Hamlett, still active today, were one of the founding couples. The Explorers is a self-taught group. Members lead our group once or twice a year. At the beginning of each year, we choose several books to study during the year. Books and teacher’s guides are purchased. Variety is added to the book study by having outside speakers such as pastors, and representatives from workcamp crews, Kairos Ministry, UMW, the Bethlehem Center and other organizations. Curriculum varies. Some months are regular Bible study, while other weeks offer discussion of contemporary issues and current events. The group never lacks for lively discussion. Members like it that way! Through the last two decades, members have travelled through life together—raising children from infancy through college. One year in the late 1990s, there were nine pregnancies! Now members are more likely to be caring for aging parents and guiding children through high school and college. Although the group was originally for couples, all are welcome! Not all current members are married. This group has also been blessed with three members who over the years have decided to become UM pastors that now serve at other churches. Explorers are involved in many organizations, commitees and volunteer positions at FUMCR. These include United Methodist Women, the Board of Trustees, the Mission Work Area, Chancel Choir, Childrens’ Sunday School teachers, Confirmation
In the Spring, our group empties out their garages to sell their unwanted “stuff ” at a large fundraiser, the Pearce High School Band garage sale. The class raised over $1,500 this year, which will be used to support local, national, and international missions at the International Christmas Market in November. Class members also volunteer outside the walls of FUMCR by participating in the PanCan Walk, American Cancer Society Relay for Life, and the JDRF Diabetes Walk. Each month, the women have a “ladies night”, where they meet at a restaurant, or engage in a fun activity such as painting classes or live theater. Occasionally men get together for “Think Tank” at a restaurant, play Whirlyball or catch a Rangers game. “Supper Clubs” are held throughout the year, that meet at a different hosts’ house each month for dinner and conversation. This popular social event helps everyone get to know each other a bit better. The year ends with the annual Christmas party, with plenty of food and desserts. The highlight is a wild gift exchange of wrapped Christmas ornaments, which members can “steal” from each other as gifts are opened. Our group also has an annual retreat. Traditionally this was a weekend family getaway to Lake Texoma, now, due to more commitments with active, older children, retreats are compressed to one-day, complete with homemade ice cream. If you are 30, 40, 50-something, and you don’t have a Sunday School group to call home, the Explorers would love to have you join us. We meet in Room 211 at 9:45 am each Sunday. For information, contact Bruce Calvert at silentfilm@verizon.net.
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Disclaimer: It is late, I rambled and I pray I made sense! :)
Hello Clayton. I hope this email finds you well. I like to send you an email from time to time to update you and praise His name is everything that involves HEROES. I am a quieter man in my faith, but my faith holds strong and I know that the Lord has made all this possible through him. Everyday, I praise His name thanking him for bringing us to you. Seven years ago that I received a call from a parent that said I needed to contact this “nice lady” at FUMCR (the infamous Allyson George) and that she may have a room for us to use for the week to pilot an enrichment camp. I was all for it, especially since a local school district discontinued their summer enrichment programs. I will be honest, I went in to this as a little side job and nothing more. Wow, was I completely wrong, and what a blessing to be SO wrong. The summer of 2005 served five students, who all still attend camp annually, myself another teacher and a music therapist. We had the tiny room at the very west end of the second floor to work in and the camp was a hit. Word spread like wild fire and in the disability community, word of mouth will make you or break you. Fast forward a few years. We serve around 40 students a week, have lost a few staff, yet gained around 20. We are at four weeks of summer camp. This is when our great, current leadership team began to fall in to place. Each and everyone of them brings an invaluable piece of knowledge, passion and drive to the table to make HEROES run effectively. Not only do we have our our leadership team, but your staff as well. I will name some, but please know that we are aware that ALL of FUMCR plays an intricate part of HEROES existence. Your staff that keeps us going on a daily basis consists of Liz, Allyson, Frank, Dianne, Cathy and Wayne, plus many more. All the staff at FUMCR makes HEROES feel like a part of the family. Present Day: As of today, we serve (have served) over 400+ families in the DFW metroplex. The Lord has worked wonders in bringing this all together. This summer we plan on serving 100 campers week and will be in most of the rooms upstairs. We are beyond thrilled, excited and thankful. We are already 3/4ths full for the summer. If this does not say what amazing God’s work is, I am not sure what does. We are the TRUE blessed ones. We are lucky enough to work with individuals with disabilities on a daily basis. It is amazing to see the progress each and every student makes, the friendships they build and the relief in their parent’s eyes knowing 14
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that they are in good hands. We will most likely have a staff of around 75 throughout this summer. We have a waiting list for campers and staff. Isn’t this AMAZING! The parents: We serve students, whose parents are at the end of their rope. They have children that not many places will accept, can not handle, or do not care to attempt to see the belief that all, can and will, be a successful young adult. We believe that ALL will be a successful, contributing member of society, no matter what disabilities they possess. I would like to share a few stories of our campers and I apologize if I go to far, but want you to see what an amazing staff we have. We have one young man that lives in a residential facility down in Huntsville. His parents and attending school district can not handle him and he requires round the clock supervision. Does he attend HEROES? Absolutely! We also have a young man that is 15. He has autism and has never had a bowel movement in the toilet. For the first time in his life 2 months ago at a HEROES weekend retreat, he used the restroom appropriately. He is attending camp this week and the first thing the mom said as she walked up the stairs is “He is still doing it!” with a big grin on her face. You see, if you don’t live this kind of life, assisting your adult child in all their self care, it may not be a big deal, however, to the parents that we serve it is HUGE. We also serve a young man with a trach. Let me tell you, this scared me at first. His mother showed us how to change out a trach vent, suction him, and signs of aspiration and choking. This is what we believe in and something I will NEVER falter from, “We turn no one away!” Our population is the most under-served and segregated as is. We do not want to create a box and exclude someone that doesn’t fit in quite right. On a more personal note, as you know I have three children. Both my boys have some significant disabilities. It is a daily battle and struggle just to make it through. My two-and-a half-year-old son is getting ready to go under his fifth surgery for additional issues they keep finding and my 16 year old is deteriorating and is in the beginning stages of heart failure. Clayton it is hard! Because of Christ’s work through FUMCR, you have reached out to us and because of that, we have been able to reach out to hundreds of families. Personally, FUMCR and it’s generosity and love for us and HEROES has given me hope that my sons will be ok. That there is something good and trustworthy out there to serve my two sons. Every morning I open my eyes and the first thing I say before I stand up is “Lord, give me the strength to face the day.” He answers and supports this with FUMCR and HEROES. Today for example, being able to use the new van with the lift on it. I had tears in my eyes as it lifted our first student up to prepare to leave. Because the church has allowed us to use all the vans, especially this one, when we are in session,
you all have helped us preserve the dignity and respect of our students who rely on us for most or all of their basic needs. It is AMAZING! Here is what we currently support at HEROES: • Camps (summer, winter and spring break) • Life Planning (supporting families and students map out their individual futures to become that successful contributing adult) • Weekend Retreats (once a month, serve our older students in the First Center for the entire weekend to build our independent living skills) • Weekend Sleepovers (younger students once a month at the First Center to give these parents a breather and rest) • We will be piloting our Lake house Retreat in June before camp starts. We will be taking ten young men to a lake outside of Austin for five days • Our parent Liaisons are working on a once-a-six week “Parent Connection” for information and brainstorming and networking. My hopes, dreams and prayers for the FUTURE! My dream is to stay partnered with FUMCR to serve people with disabilities in this capacity, as well as a few others on our leadership team. My dream is to run a day habilitation for young adults after they are through with the public school system. Where do they go? Well, there is not much to offer for them and most just sit at home and do nothing. What a way to promote life long learning at a day hab to work on vocation, rec & leisure, and friendships. Anyway, I apologize for all my rambling and I could go on forever. Please know that myself, leadership team, staff and most importantly the families of students we serve, thank you from the bottom of our hearts. Words can not even describe the gratitude we have and we are eternally thankful. Because of FUMCR, we are able to serve families in this capacity. Because of FUMCR we are humbled in His grace. You have opened your arms to us and support us, which enables us to open our arms to the disability community and serve them. We serve them aggressively for success with God’s grace, strength and passion to do so. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
SUCCESS STORY This example is just one of the HEROES success stories, made possible by Josh and the HEROES team with the support of the FUMCR community. Read on!
Taken from a recent email from Josh... Ok HEROES leadership. Need your help. My heart is super heavy right now and I can not let it go. I met a family on Monday that has moved in from out of the country. Girl is 11 and boy is 8 and they have significant disabilities and multiple medical issues. They can get to school next week, but until a GI doc sees them to write orders for tube feedings mom will have to come up and do it multiple times a day. The kicker is mom is blind and does not speak English. The girl also has a vns for seizures and needs doctor orders for school to be able to use it. Children’s can not see them until mid June. So we have single mom who is blind at home with her two children with severe medical and cognitive disabilities. Anyone know of a GI doc that can pull some strings and see them ASAP?
Hello. I had the privilege to spend the morning with the Cartegena family as a HEROES employee today. We found a doctor to write temporary orders, they will begin school next week, they moved their doctors appointments up to the next few weeks and we are working with them with Medicaid and the Scottish Rite connection. I know we are full for the summer, but we will find a way to make things work as I have offered a scholarship for each child. It is important for mom to know of the good out there as she is new to the country. Thank you for the prayers and responses. Without you, we would have not been able to help them so quickly. Here is a picture of the beautiful family.
The Schilling family (L to R): Kiersten “Kiki” (5), Jackie, Nick (16), Josh, and Ethan (2 1/2). F irst C onnections
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t is Sunday evening, and Connor Stavinoha and I are eating snack supper between Junior High and Senior High UMYF. We have both been here since around nine am participating in various activities, and if one did not know better, they would think Connor was a member of the youth staff. Connor helped welcome the newly confirmed youth this morning by helping run games, playing the bongos during worship, and getting to know the sixth graders. He also assisted with setting up and participating in the summer trip sign up luncheon; and this evening, he has played games with the Junior High youth and led music with Tommy during worship. While it may sound like a lot for a youth to do, this is a typical Sunday for Connor! Before running off to participate in kick ball with the Senior High group at Oliphint field, I asked him a few questions… Pavielle: Tell us about yourself. Connor: I am a sophomore at McMillen High School. I play baseball, am a member of the Plano East drum line, and like to play guitar and golf. Pavielle: How long have you been involved at FUMCR? Connor: I have been here since 4th grade. I come as much as possible and serve in a variety of roles. Pavielle: Tell us more about the roles you play. Connor: This year, I am a junior counselor where I work with 7th and 8th grade youth. I go on trips with them and help out during UMYF by leading games and worship. I also play the bongos during praise and worship on Sunday mornings before Sunday school and during Junior and Senior High UMYF. Occasionally, I sing and play the guitar when the other musicians are not available. I am also an active member of the Council on Youth Ministry. Pavielle: What has been your motivation for being so active in the youth group? Connor: I love how our group feels like a family where I can be open with everyone and be myself. Pavielle: What do you want to do in the future? Connor: I want to be a youth pastor. Pavielle:What led you to that decision? Connor: I was inspired to go into ministry because of my role model, Tommy Houghteling. Tommy has been like a father to me, and I want to be available to others where they feel comfortable to talk to me in the same way and have an impact on others’ lives.
Pavielle: You have also led youth lessons for your peers during UMYF and Sunday school to begin practicing getting a message across and sharing your story with others. What was your most recent lesson topic? Connor: My last lesson was presented in front of the youth at UMYF. The topic was living a Christian lifestyle and serving as a role model to others. Pavielle: What has been your favorite experience as a member of the youth group? Connor: (enthusiastically) Mission trips—all of them! I am really looking forward to going to Joplin, MO and Santa Fe, NM this summer on both trips and for the opportunity to build relationships with the Junior High youth. Pavielle: You are a gifted youth who shares your talents and freely gives of your time to make this youth group a more welcoming and fun place. You are truly a blessing to the program and fill in wherever you are needed. Thank you for all that you do! F irst C onnections
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