First Connections Winter 2024

fi rs t co n n e c ti o n s STORIES OF LIFE AND FA I T H

FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH RICHARDSON WINTER 2024 VOLUME 19, ISSUE 1

Expectations Exceeded p.9 Saying Yes p.12 Missions By the Numbers p.20 On Both Sides of A Partnership p.23

Ash Wednesday Rev. Don Hood imposing ashes as the season of Lent begins.

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a message from our senior pastor

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ent is a 40-day period of preparation for Easter. It begins on Ash Wednesday, which this year is February 14 (Valentine’s Day!), and continues for six Sundays, culminating in Holy Week. During Holy Week, we have the special services of Maundy Thursday and Good Friday, reminding us of the last week of the earthly ministry of Jesus and his suffering, crucifixion, and death. Then on Easter Sunday, we celebrate the resurrection of Jesus and the hope that we experience because of it. To make this Lenten Journey each year is to grow deeper in our faith.

Growing Deeper will be our theme for Lent, and I encourage every member to make a commitment to be in worship and engaged for this season. Your full participation in this Lenten experience – worship, study opportunities, and the special services – will heighten your experience of Easter and deepen your understanding of faith.

These are some of our highest holy days, and I pray they will be a blessing to you.

It is an exciting time to be a part of the ministries of FUMCR!

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I think, as you look through the pages of this magazine, you will agree. With the amazing things happening around our church, there is something for everyone. I want to challenge and encourage you to take a step toward growing deeper in 2024.

Thank you all for your spirit and faithfulness as a congregation. You are truly striving to live out our mission to welcome people for Christ, grow people in Christ, and serve people with Christ. I see this on both a congregational and individual level as you put your

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faith in action. Your commitment to Christ and the church is contagious. I look forward to seeing you in worship, around the campus, or out serving in the community.

In Christ,

Clayton Oliphint senior pastor

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As a complement to our Lenten Worship Series, Growing Deeper, clergy and staff offer their thoughts.

THROUGH SPIRITUAL PRACTICES

BY MELANIE JACKSON ASSISTANT DIRECTOR, YOUTH MINISTRY

“Athletes exercise self-control in all things; they do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable one. So I do not run aimlessly, nor do I box as though beating the air;”

1 Corinthians 9:25-26 As a runner, this verse hit home. I train for races by following a specific plan that is designed to achieve my goal. I make sure I eat well, plan for the weather and get optimal sleep before each run. I am not aimless. I use my training plan and self-control to execute and achieve my goal to “receive the perishable wreath.”

What if I executed a plan for my spiritual growth?

Our faith requires this same careful self-control, planning, and practice. Faith isn’t something we can simply conjure up because we desire it, just like I can't be a better runner while sitting on the couch.

Faith is an action and requires the same dedication as training for a race.

We challenged the youth in January, and I encourage you, to decide how you would like to spiritually grow and then create a training plan to make it happen. Dedicate yourself to following that plan, and see how you feel at the end of a few months.

Run the spiritual race. It will be challenging, but the imperishable wreath is worth the dedication.

FOCUS ON DEVOTION Do activities that draw you into Scripture and understanding of God’s presence in your life through devotionals, reflection, or time in prayer.

Possibly, make a plan to read the Bible each day.

FOCUS ON WORSHIP Find your community with whom you would like to worship. It is powerful to be with others confessing sins, reciting verse, and praying with one another.

FOCUS ON COMPASSION Practice caring for others, whether it is physically, emotionally, or spiritually, within your own family or with a service organization.

FOCUS ON JUSTICE Actively fight the root causes of our social ills, whether politically or with a service group that actively helps those who are impacted by injustice.

No matter which spiritual practice you choose, take the time to create a goal. Create the plan alone or with accountability partners and devote yourself to it. Exercise self-control and don’t wander aimlessly.

Race for the imperishable wreath.

Be the athlete of your own faith.

환영합니다 hwan-yeonghabnida "Welcome"

Welcome Dr. Hyun Kyung Lee

by Michael Lightfoot, Director, Music Ministry FUMCR is pleased to welcome our new organist, Dr. Hyun Kyung Lee. Hyun and her husband, Alex, have been married for 12 years, and they have a sixyear-old son, Eugene. They are all excited to be back in the Dallas area, and Hyun feels blessed to have this position at FUMCR.

어린 시절 / eolin sijeol / "Early Life" Hyun Lee was born in Seoul, South Korea, where she began playing piano at five years of age and practiced five hours each day. Upon entering second grade, she became pianist for their large church’s children’s service. Hyun’s friend played cello, and they began performing music together when they were children. She continued to play for children’s and then youth services through her graduation from high school.

Hyun received her Bachelor of Music (Organ Performance) from Yonsei University in Seoul. She earned her Master of Music (Organ Performance; Minor: Harpsichord) from Elisabeth University of Music in Hiroshima, Japan. In 2016 she received her Doctor of Musical Arts (Organ Performance/Sacred Music) from the University of North Texas.

Moving to Japan to work on her Masters degree was Hyun’s first time away from home, and she experienced some anxiety. Relying heavily on her faith in God, she completed her degree. Following her senior recital, Hyun was invited to play several concerts in the big concert halls of Hiroshima, and she was named a “Rising Star.” She still plays concerts but feels led to play in worship as this is what is most fulfilling to her.

When asked about her highest moment in music, she recalls being invited to play for the final concert on the final day of the American Liszt Society Festival at UNT. Ultimately, Hyun was asked to play the final piece of the entire festival.

This is an honor she will never forget.

가족 유산 / gajog yusan / "A Family Legacy" Hyun’s connection to the church runs deep, as she grew up in a family with a longstanding faith tradition spanning four generations. Her father and grandparents served as elders in their South Korea church. Hyun’s mother has dedicated over 50 years as pianist/organist, and her older sister has served more than 25 years as a pianist. Hyun is now in her 25th year as an organist.

Hyun comes to us from First Presbyterian Church in Midland, Texas, where she served as music associate/organist for eight years. In addition to serving as church organist, she was a highly sought after pianist and instructor for several other musical institutions in west Texas. She filled roles as Adjunct Music Faculty at Midland College, Principal Accompanist for the West Texas Symphony Chorale, and Piano Instructor at her own Dr. Lee Piano Studio with 70 students and three other instructors.

우리의 행운 / uliui haeng-un / "Our Good Fortune"

A Few of Hyun’s Favorite Things:

Following a thorough search and concluding with five finalists, our 11-person Organist Search Committee unanimously selected Dr. Hyun Kyung Lee. All of the finalists were exceptional players, and all were impressive throughout the audition/interview process. In the end, one person stood out above the rest, and we are fortunate to have her joining our music team. As well as being an accomplished concert organist, Hyun has a beautiful spirit which will serve her well in her ministry as she shares her hope to glorify God, to be a servant, and to support people in their singing. I know that you will join us in welcoming Hyun to our staff.

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Favorite Food: Pasta/Italian Favorite Korean Food: Tofu Miso Soup (Denzang Zzige) Favorite Vacation: Ocean – Her family goes to Cancun, Mexico, every year.

Favorite Color: Yellow Favorite Song: The hymn “Great Is Thy Faithfulness” Favorite Genre: Classical Music Favorite Composer: Louis Vierne (French) Hobbies: Travel, golf, baking

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expectations exceeded by Cristina Rivera and Susan Watson

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ur experience with small group study of Genesis last fall was great! We signed up to do something together that grows our faith, deepens our understanding of the Bible, and grows our community within the church. All three goals were exceeded beyond our expectations!

The class included couples and singles, friends and strangers, in-person and zoomers, and experienced and new learners all attending together. Our friendship was strengthened through the experience, and we were also able to witness how our classmates studied and learned. It was fun to hear how different people approached the readings and discussed outside of class. Our friendship has grown deeper through sharing this time together and being able to talk through and get to know the Word more.

Spending several weeks focused on one book of the Bible was enlightening. Many of us know these stories, but studying them, taking in small pieces, and then going deeper into their context was fascinating.

We learned so much about the early characters in the Bible and about the subtle ways the writer of Genesis infused God’s wisdom and the Spirit throughout these narratives. We were also able

to bring it up in many other discussions at church and out in the world. It was surprising how relevant Genesis could be to today’s topics!

Even though one of us (Cristina) is new to the church, and one of us (Susan) has been coming for years, we both got to know and pray with people we didn’t know. They have become some our new favorite people because they are all so incredible – bundles of wisdom, grace, and kindness specially packaged by God! Growing our circle in this community has been enriching,

not only for the new and deepened friendships, but also for the way it branches out and has brought us to new parts of the church, new opportunities to be part of the community, and new ways to serve and get to know God. We are both so grateful for the opportunity to learn more about God and God’s love for us through this and future studies.

We would be thrilled to get to know you in a study sometime soon!

For upcoming opportunities to grow deeper in your faith, visit fumcr.com/learn

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BY CONNECTING WITH PEOPLE

BY MALLORY PICKERING ONLINE MINISTRY ASSOCIATE Being a first time mom is never easy, but becoming a first time mom in the middle of a global pandemic was a challenge I never anticipated! I was so afraid of my brandnew baby getting sick or being exposed to germs that we ended up staying away from friends, family, and almost everyone for a long time. Living in that kind of isolation was not great for my mental, physical, emotional, or spiritual health, especially during a season of life when leaning on your village is so crucial to helping manage such a big life transition.

When I heard that I could worship online with FUMCR, I was ecstatic! The opportunity to spend time with others and knowing my daughter wouldn’t be exposed to any pandemic germs was a God-send for our little family! I was able to meet new people, create deep and meaningful friendships, and truly understand why God wants us to be in community with our neighbors. In the online community, some of my neighbors live thousands of miles away, and I’ve never met them in person, but that doesn’t make our connection any less valuable or real.

The love, support, and encouragement I’ve received through my online and now some in-person friendships are blessings I never could have expected during such a difficult season in my life.

The diverse and beautiful online congregation is made up of people from all over the world who are joining this worship space for different reasons. No matter our reasons for finding community online, we realize that we are united in our pursuit of God’s calling in our lives, “to love our neighbor as ourselves.” (Mark 12:31)

Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for bringing us together in love and worship within this beautiful community at FUMCR. Please help us to remember that we are called to meet each other with love and grace as we journey through this life. We ask these things in your son’s precious name. Amen.

Wherever you are and whenever you find our worship services, online or in-person, we hope you know that you are loved and that you belong here.

IN THE WORD The reader proclaims: “This is the Word of God for the people of God.”

BY REV. ALLISON JEAN PASTOR, MODERN WORSHIP

And we respond: “Thanks be to God.” As if a book containing thousands of pages wasn’t intimidating enough, we are also reminded each week in worship that this is not just any old book; this is the most unique, life-giving, revelatory library of books of all time. It is also one of the more confusing, challenging, upsetting works of art I have ever read. I want to read the books of Genesis and Matthew and Revelation like the novels I consume, and yet no novel has pushed me to see the world, and myself, in such powerful ways. I am reminded repeatedly that reading scripture is all about the quality of connection we find in and through it, not the quantity of words we absorb.

The library we call our Holy Bible is what we Methodists call a means of grace. God, through creativity and relationships with human beings, chose to reveal the story of salvation in precisely that: stories, passed down from generation to generation, around campfires and prayer circles and finally the written word, painstakingly preserved for you and me for a specific purpose. Through the reading of scripture, we connect to the very source of grace, God the Almighty. Scripture is a means to that end, a gift meant to convey the depth and breadth of God’s love for all of humanity.

What helps you feel connected with that love? Do you like action and adventure? Go to Acts! Read how the early Christians faced down unimaginable challenges to help build the church we are a part of today. Craving a deeper understanding of discipleship? Go to the Gospels, the biographies not only of Jesus’s life, death, and resurrection but the origin stories of his first followers. Do you find

beauty in poetry? Go to the Psalms, which show us our words to God are worthy enough to find their way into scripture, too.

The Bible is a means of grace. Release the expectations of accomplishing something with these words. Instead, allow God to invite you to dive deeper into this library of love. It’s not just a story; this is our story.

Gracious and loving God, thank you for the gift of the Bible. We confess that it can be intimidating and confusing. We find it challenging to apply these ancient stories to modern life. Forgive us for the times we allow these things to disconnect us from your story of grace. As we study the words of scripture, let us commit our hearts, minds, and souls not just to new learning, but deeper connection with you. That is what we desire above all.

Amen.

by an dy pe n dleton

It is hard for m e to say “no” wh e n I’m aske d for som eth i ng.

following dinner all the kids went and played in the gym together. It was so heartwarming. My kids found a love for serving as a result of that annual dinner, and serving didn’t feel like a chore to them or to me.

However, when it came to leading the Men of Faith Ministry, I initially said “no.” Leading up to that, I had been involved in some Men of Faith events, attended a bible study, helped with a volunteer opportunity. But I didn’t (and still don’t) feel that my experience was enough to help lead the ministry. I had recently come out of a long hiatus from going to church at all (having our first child motivated us to prioritize faith!). Being back, I’ve had countless moments listening to a sermon that make me feel like Smalls in The Sandlot when he says, “Yeah. You keep telling me that. Who is she?” only to be told, “What! The Sultan of Swat, the King of Crash, the Colossus of Clout - Babe Ruth - the Great Bambino!” and he realizes they’re all the same guy, the one who signed the baseball that they lost. The more I show up to church and spend time with the people here, the more I feel the dots connecting and the pieces coming together.

My family and I were getting more involved at the church. I began to welcome at the modern service. My wife, Meredith, found an amazing group with MAMAS. Our kids were in the children’s programs. The timing was perfect for Josh Fitzpatrick to give me a second chance to say “no” to a leadership role with the Men of Faith. Except this time, I accepted… as long as Scott Smith would co-lead with me. Since then, Scott Luginbill and Justin Duncan have “completed” our leadership team. I’d be remiss to not include Jerry Zimmerman, Glenn Ingram, and Bob Moxham for their consistent contributions to our men’s ministry, as well as many others! Honestly, it’s amazing what we’ve been able to accomplish - from feeding many people to helping people and ministries move on campus and offsite, from Bible studies to social events and having opportunities to serve with my family.

One fall, I decided to help at the Single Parent Action Network dinner. I took my oldest, Palmer, with me.

Some of the other volunteers were dads who brought their kids to serve. We prepared and served dinner as usual, and then something different happened. The volunteers sat down and ate with those we served, and

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I fall short of what God expects of me. I fell short yesterday, I did it today, and I’ll do it tomorrow. I find peace knowing that God will present an opportunity to me, and if I can say “yes” in that moment, I may become a little more like Jesus today than I was yesterday.

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THROUGH PRAYER "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Philippians 4:6-7 A connection and practice beyond words, prayer serves as a sacred bridge between the human spirit and the divine. At its core, prayer is an act of communion, a channel to express gratitude, seek guidance, cry out in anguish, find solace, and establish a profound connection with the Creator.

In moments of joy or despair, it's the conduit through which we pour out our emotions, sharing our innermost thoughts and desires.

Scripture underscores the power of prayer, emphasizing its role in shaping our perspectives and experiences.

Psalm 145:18 reminds us, "The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." During my high school years, I had the privilege of serving on a spiritual retreat weekend that reinforced the power of prayer. I witnessed prayers being answered in unexpected ways.

BY REV. SCOTT LUGINBILL PASTOR, CARING & WELCOMING

One instance stands out vividly in my memory: a close friend battling leukemia was among the participants.

Despite her health challenges, her blood cell count doubled that weekend, a miraculous occurrence that allowed her not only to participate but also to feel a sense of Christ's presence with her.

When prayer doesn't unfold as we hope, it can deepen our connection to God and God's love for us. We pray for a friend or family member who never gets well.

We pray for circumstances or that new “whatever” that never comes to fruition.

The more I pray, the more I trust that prayer doesn't change circumstances as much as it transforms our hearts, aligning them with God’s heart in mysterious and beautiful ways.

In a world often bustling with noise and distractions, prayer provides a sanctuary.

Prayer offers solace, strength, and hope, reminding us that, in life's trials and triumphs, we are never alone. May today be a day where you offer your prayers to God, embracing the power beyond mere words and experiencing the profound purpose that prayer will change you.

THROUGH SABBATH

BY DR. APRIL JOHNSON BRISTOW SENIOR ASSOCIATE PASTOR

“Remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work. But the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God; you shall not do any work - you, your son or your daughter, your male or female slave, your livestock, or the alien resident in your towns. For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but rested the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and consecrated it.”

Exodus 20:8-11 This is my son’s last year playing college basketball.

One of the teams in the conference is Yeshiva, an Orthodox Jewish university in New York City. For the past four years, his team has adjusted its schedule to non-standard days and times to play Yeshiva because they do not have games on their Sabbath.

As a parent who goes to support the team, it has been inconvenient because I have had to adjust my schedule, even taking a Sunday off sometimes to go to a game. As a pastor in the Judeo-Christian tradition, I respect, appreciate, and support this schedule shifting because it has reinforced the shifting of my mindset around Sabbath. It has been inspirational as Yeshiva’s team has modeled strict compliance and takes this age-old commandment literally to keep the Sabbath day holy - which to them does not include playing or watching sports . . . ouch!

Seven simple words, “Remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy,” yet this commandment is the longest of the ten because it answers the who, what, how, and why of Sabbath. Then, we are invited to do what God has already modeled for us, Sabbath rest.

Why is there so much emphasis on Sabbath? Both then and now, so many things challenge the notion of Sabbath and infringe on our time. Today, we are compelled to be always on - in the know, on the

go, always connected, always doing something to prove our worth. Modern technologies support all this “doing,” and because of this, our rest has become broken, we overwork, our relationships are not nurtured, and we become more frenzied, anxious, irritable, and wired.

This commandment offers timeless truths and invites us back into freedom through the sacred acts of intentionally pausing, disconnecting, being in community, and being unproductive in God’s nurturing presence. It encourages us to remember that rest is not a bonus at the end of our hard work.

Rest is an essential part of the journey toward being our best and most creative selves.

God invites you to this rest. How can you grow deeper through Sabbath?

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council corner by James Lee, 2024-25 Church Council Chair

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ur family’s faith journey at FUMCR began in 1999 at the Belt Line Road campus when Holly and I were in our late 20s. Our oldest son, Daniel, was baptized before his first birthday, and soon thereafter we were voting ‘yes’ about a campaign called Moving in Faith. We joined the Explorers Sunday School Class, where lifelong friendships were made as we took turns babysitting the little ones, watched our families grow, studied the Bible together, and basically did life together. Following a subsequent campaign, Building on Faith, we moved to our current campus and started a new class called the Believers.

Both of our sons (JD was born in 2001) became connected to FUMCR from preschool to Music Makers, ski trips, mission trips, Bible studies, and meaningful retreats like Really Living. The influence of FUMCR and relationships built here have shaped them as young men. Clayton married Daniel and Sarah last summer, and they have since found a church home in Houston. While driving JD’s truck this past week, I checked the console for an insurance card.

He had the ultimate insurance card, a Bible, lying next to an accompanying journal.

Holly and I have grown a great deal during our family’s faith journey at FUMCR. We

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have served alongside and been ministered to by so many friends and mentors, too many to name, but I would like to name a few. My experience in the early days of Men of Faith with David Blanchard, Bob Moxham, Durward Rutledge, Bert Duckett, and Deloy Snow changed my attitude towards discipling others.

Ed Murray’s leadership on Habitat builds, Rev. Joy Anderson’s leadership in mission, Andy Stern’s prison ministry, Holly’s experience with Stephen Ministry, all demonstrate what it means

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to serve people with Christ.

Marvilou Walters is still teaching me to be present and welcome people for Christ (ensuring every door is covered by an usher ).

Our stewardship campaigns remind us how every good and perfect gift comes from above.

Our family’s faith journey with Christ has been driven by our connection to FUMCR. I can’t wait to see what God’s plans are for our future together, and I’m honored to serve as your Church Council Chair!

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MISSIONS BY THE

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HOUSEHOLDS RECEIVED FOR A TOTAL OF FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE THROUGH THE PIN FUND

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POUNDS OF FOOD FOR NETWORK’S FOOD PANTRY

$29,720

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TOTE BAGS TO AREA SHELTERS AND ORGANIZATIONS

FAMILIES IN NEED RECEIVED CHRISTMAS GIFTS THROUGH OUR ANGEL TREE PROGRAM

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FUMCR MEMBERS HELPED BUILD A HABITAT FOR HUMANITY HOME IN DALLAS

INDIVIDUALS VOLUNTEERED WITH OUR SUMMER READ WITH ME PROGRAM

VACATION BIBLE CAMP PARTICIPANTS COLLECTED $2406.77 AND PACKED 9000 MEAL BAGS FOR RISE AGAINST HUNGER AND DONATED 1121 HYGIENE ITEMS TO NETWORK OF COMMUNITY MINISTRIES

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MEMBERS PREPARED AND SERVED LUNCHES FOR

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STUDENTS WERE SUPPORTED THROUGH OUR PARTNERSHIPS WITH SKUINSKLOOF SCHOOL IN SOUTH AFRICA AND KAFODZIDZI SCHOOL IN GHANA

DURING OUR PARTNER SCHOOL WORKDAYS,

$59,548

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NEW FRIENDS NEW LIFE CLIENTS

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WAS GIVEN IN “SHARES” TO

VOLUNTEERS ASSISTED TEACHERS AND STAFF IN PREPARING FOR THE YEAR

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FUMCR MINISTRIES AND NON-PROFIT AGENCIES DURING NOV. AND DEC.

NUMBERS... 2023 871 466

ELEMENTARY STUDENTS WERE IMPACTED BY MENTORING, TEACHER SUPPORT, AND BOOKS AT OUR PARTNER ELEMENTARY SCHOOLS IN RISD

BOXES OF COOKIES

WERE PURCHASED DURING COOKIE CAPER TO RAISE

SENIOR ADULT MINISTRY 400 COLLECTED AND DONATED COATS

A GROUP OF

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$509,321

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500 BEFORE

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MEMBERS VOLUNTEERED TOGETHER WEEKLY TO ORGANIZE AND STOCK FOOD AT NETWORK’S FOOD PANTRY

PREPARED AND SERVED VOLUNTEERS A MONTHLY MEAL FOR

FOR MISSION TRIP SUPPLIES

& TOYS CHRISTMAS

PEOPLE TRAVELED TO PANAMA ON A MEDICAL MISSION AND SERVED

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$4671

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INDIGENOUS PEOPLE

YOUTH SPENT A WEEK SERVING OTHERS OVER THE SUMMER

RICHARDSON AREA SENIOR ADULTS THROUGH NETWORK'S SENIOR PROGRAM

IN APPORTIONMENTS SUPPORTED UNITED METHODIST MINISTRIES LOCALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY

MEMBERS PARTICIPATED IN RISD’S WE READ TOGETHER PROGRAM

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SINGLE PARENTS AND THEIR CHILDREN WERE SUPPORTED MONTHLY THROUGH SPAN

$49,647.55 WAS RECEIVED IN ADVENT/CHRISTMAS OFFERINGS FOR

NETWORK OF COMMUNITY MINISTRIES AND METHODIST CHILDREN’S HOME

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THROUGH PRESENCE [May God] “equip you with everything good for doing his will, and may he work in us what is pleasing to him, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory for ever and ever.”

Hebrews 13:21 As an associate pastor in Caring Ministry, people often ask me about my experiences and “takeaways” from doing this ministry. Sometimes this is in the context of visiting those with dementia. I reply that even though they may not remember that I came to see them after I’ve departed, while I was there, they knew someone came to seem them and it brought them joy to know they still had worth and were remembered, even if only for a few minutes. Sometimes we all need Christ in the flesh. And God has chosen to work through us. When we are present for someone in need in Christ’s name, we live up to C.S. Lewis’s reference to Christians as “little Christs.”

Fortunately, most of the occasions we have to care for others do not require extensive training. If we wait until we’re perfectly equipped

BY REV. DON HOOD PASTOR, CARING MINISTRY

for caring, we’ll miss countless opportunities to be the hands and feet of Christ to others. At its most fundamental level, step one in caring is to SHOW UP! Some call it the power of presence.

We often have anxiety and doubt that we can be effective representatives of Christ’s love. But if we stay fixated on our anxieties, we block our ability to see what God can do through us.

Jesus does not ask us to guarantee our complete success. If so, who would qualify? But God does equip us. You may have heard the phrase, “God doesn’t call only the equipped; God equips the called.” If we are in Christ and he in us, we will, through that exchange, grow deeper into that relationship the more we love and serve our neighbors.

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by Tim Griffy, Children First Committee

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s a long time FUMCR member, Sharon Erickson has been both aware and proud of the church’s longtime partnerships with Mark Twain and Greenwood Hills Elementary Schools. And that was well before she became principal of Mark Twain in the summer of 2023!

Although in her 8th year as a principal in Richardson ISD, this is the first time she’s had a faith partner supporting a school she’s leading. Bonus: it’s her own church doing the supporting!

Sharon grew up in Bowie, Texas, and is a graduate of the University of North Texas, where she met her husband, Brian, in her freshman year. They are both RISD educators of more than 25 years and are the parents of two boys, who are graduates of JJ Pearce. It’s safe to say that the Erickson family’s RISD roots run deep. Before coming to Mark Twain, Sharon started as an elementary school teacher and then served as principal of Spring Creek and Audelia Creek Elementary Schools. When she found out that Mark Twain’s previous principal was leaving, she asked to be considered for the opening. She saw MTE as a unique and special opportunity.

Her time in the position has only

Principal Sharon Erickson with volunteers Lisa and Robert Grinsfelder reinforced that perspective.

When speaking about the role that FUMCR plays at Mark Twain, Sharon’s enthusiasm was obvious. “I wasn’t able to be there during the [church] workday in August before school started because I was at my son’s graduation, but when I returned and saw how much work was done to support our teachers and staff to prepare for the new year, it just blew me away.” Volunteers are spending valuable time with students through the district's We Read Together program. Also so important, Sharon says, are the

books that the church provides to each of her students. She said that seeing the joy of a student picking their own book out and saying, “You mean it’s mine; I can keep it?” absolutely makes her day.

Asked to sum up the partnership between Mark Twain Elementary and our church, Sharon put it quite concisely.

Smiling, she said, “FUMCR loves Mark Twain, and we love you right back!”

To learn more about our school partnerships and ways to be involved, visit fumcr.com/childrenfirst

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annual campaign 2024

In a time where we see loneliness and divisiveness in many corners of our world, some may find themselves asking where they belong… truly belong. This sense of connection with others doesn’t necessarily come with a membership card or a checked box on a form but, instead, by the opportunity to show up, as you truly are, and be welcomed, loved, and celebrated.

When we reflect on the 137-year legacy of First United Methodist Church Richardson, it’s easy to see the buildings, programs, and events. As we know, that is only part of the story.

During the messy, thriving, scary, funny, and unknown seasons of life, our doors stay open to all. Not only to worship together and grow in our faith, but to see one another and find a place to belong.

Dianne Weideman

Director of Finance dweideman@fumcr.com 972.996.0106

As we live into 2024 and the opportunities it offers, we are grateful for the pledges and contributions toward our operating ministries that we have received. If you have not had a chance to let our business office know of your intended giving, we hope you will consider what gifts you will give to FUMCR. It is not too late to make a pledge. Your financial gifts, regardless of size, make a difference every day. When we come together, our contributions make life-changing impacts in creating spaces and moments for all to find belonging.

You can learn more and pledge online: fumcr.com/annual As always, if you have questions or need anything from the Business Office, our team is happy to help.

Stachia Brothers Contributions Manager sbrothers@fumcr.com 972.996.0131

Karen Jones Accounts Payable Manager kjones@fumcr.com 972.996.0133

Memorial and honorary gifts are a special way to celebrate a life, birthday, anniversary, special occasion, or just to say thank you. Below are the gifts given September 1 – December 31, 2023.

In memory of...

Martha Aldridge by Reid and Tanya Pfluger, Abby Jeter

Frank Miller by Bonnie Edwards, Jean von Hoffmann, Cori Pratt, Bill and Betty Corbin

Melissa Brumfield by Gary and Jessica Jacobs, Marilyn Broyles and Family, Barbara Luce, UWF Ruth Circle

Ron Morton by Denise Baker, Jerry and Diane Brunson

Byron Byars by Patricia Byars

John Mueller by Elaine Mueller

Bob Davis by Elizabeth Small and Stan Herrin

Brownie Newton by Sylvia Deadwyler

Marlene Dibrell’s grandson, Benton Seybold, by the Sophia Sunday School Class

Church Petri by Jerry and Susie Haralson Ken Presley by Chip and Jennifer Rawlinson

Gene Francis by Carolyn Jones Gloria Reynolds by Jennifer Reynolds Eric Hartman by Terri Hartman Martha Holley by the Green Family Elizabeth Masterson by Demetra Pennington, Mary Ann Denison

Mary Ann Ruff by the Salter Family, Harriet and Wayman Garnett Charlotte Whitesides by Marsha Mayo Linda Waters' brother, Doug Coker, by Robert and Brenda Hanus and the girls

In honor of...

Mike and Dolores Spence by Amy Spence

Ted Griffy by the three Bienfang Children

Mary Lightfoot by Joy Turner, Jean von Hoffmann, Mike and Linda Proch, Bonnie Edwards

Jim and Ann Makins by Scott Makins, Patrick Makins and Family

Pat and Robin Kelly by Ted Griffy

Jim Myers by Bonnie Edwards

Pavielle Jenkins by LaRuth Morrow

Sam and Sharon Asmah by Marc and Debra Mason

Ted and Janet Thompson by Teddy, Michelle, and Family

Joy Anderson by Kay Fleming

Mike Lightfoot, Caitlin Molechat, and Kim O’Neil by Susie McCoy

Willis/Fisk Family: Morgan Willis, Mandi Willis Fisk, Matthew Fisk, Harper Grace Fisk, and Hadley Fisk by Jeff and Susan Fisk

Pam Shamblin by Sue McAlister

AN INVITATION ACCEPTED

BY SAM BEN ASMAH BUILDING SERVICES SUPERVISOR Then Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house, because he too is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek out and to save the lost.”

Luke 19:9-10 Zacchaeus, the chief tax collector, felt lost and rejected because of his sinful behavior.

He heard about the miracles and the redemptive power of Christ, summoned his courage, and took the initiative to try to see him personally. Only Jesus could bring him relief with hope and new life.

Jesus saw him at the top of the tree and called him by name. My friends, Jesus saw Zacchaeus fully for who he was with his sinful thoughts and continuing corruption. Jesus also saw that he had a heart earnestly seeking him. Jesus inviting himself to Zacchaeus’s home was no less than an offer of forgiveness, mercy, salvation, and acceptance by God! The gift of sharing a meal was pure grace. Yet Zacchaeus could have declined the offer. God's grace is not about forced entry. Zacchaeus's acceptance of Jesus into his home (and life) meant that his whole way of being had to change. Christ came to seek and save. That’s the main purpose of his life, an offer so

amazing and so divine! We must make the decision to yield to God’s mercy and receive the gifts of salvation. For Zacchaeus, the decision was a no-brainer: what he had to give up was nothing compared to what he was being offered by Christ.

Do we find ourselves in the story? Yes, indeed. We may be like Zacchaeus. We also may be part of the crowd when our attitudes or actions become a barrier to people seeing Christ. People who do not know Christ as their Savior are “short in stature” spiritually like Zacchaeus. The good news is, like Zacchaeus, people who sincerely desire to see Christ can break through the resistance to gain sight of him and be seen by him.

Oh, yes, Jesus is calling us daily to come down from our tree of pride, selfishness, deception, prejudice, and hate. He knows us by name, and the invitation is open to be new in Christ every day!

Loving and merciful God, we hear you calling us to come down and turn away from our selfish interests. We are ready to accept your request to come to our house and eat with us! Thank you for offering us salvation through Christ our Lord. Amen.

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