五个与人相处的成功秘诀 - Five Secrets of Success with People

Five Secrets to Success with People

五个与人相处的成功秘诀

The Bible is a rich storehouse of spiritual and practical advice, and examples of strong relationships are one of the recurrent themes.

So what can we learn from the Bible about how to succeed with people?

圣经里含着丰富属灵和实用建议， 人们之间良好亲近的关系也是反 复出现的主题。 那么，我们能从圣经中学到与人 成功相处的什么功课呢？

Treat others with kindness, the way you would want to be treated.

• In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.—Matthew 7:12 NIV • We should not live to please ourselves.

Each of us should live to please his neighbor.—Romans 15:1-2 NLV • Be gentle and kind to everyone.—Titus 3:2 CEV

善待他人，以你希望被对待的方式对 待他人 • 所以，无论何事，你们愿意人怎样待 你们，你们也要怎样待人。 ──马太福音7：12 • 我们不求满足自己，每人要为着弟兄 的益处着想。──罗马书15：1-2 • 总要和平，向众人大显温柔。 ──提多书3：2

Look for the good.

• Whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.—Philippians 4:8

寻找美善 • 凡是真实的，可敬的，公义 的，清洁的，可爱的，有美名 的；若有什么德行，若有什么 称赞，这些事你们都要思念。 ──腓立比书4：8

Be adaptable.

• Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.— Romans 14:19 NIV

灵活应变 • 所以我们务要追求 和睦的事，与彼此建 立德行的事。 ──罗马书14：19

Always forgive.

• Then Peter asked Jesus, “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?”

“No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven!”—Matthew 18:21-22 NLT • Be kind to one another, forgiving each other even as God forgives you. – Ephesians 4:32, paraphrased

总要宽恕人 • 那时彼得进前来，对耶稣说：“主啊， 我弟兄得罪我，我当饶恕他几次呢？到七 次可以吗？” 耶稣说：“我对你说，不是到七次，乃是 到七十个七次！”──马太福音18：2122 • 彼此要仁慈相待，互相原谅，就如上帝 原谅了我们。 ──以弗所書 4:32

Be supportive.

• Share each other’s burdens.— Galatians 6:2 NLT • I am glad and rejoice with all of you.— Philippians 2:17 NIV

给予支持 • 你们各人的重担要互相担当。 ──加拉太书6：2

• 我……与你们众人一同喜乐。 ──腓立比书2：17

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