Four States Living Magazine September 2020

ON THE COVERSEPTEMBER 2020

In 14 years, Four States Living Magazine’s “Fabulous 40 and Under” issue has recognized over 550 people who are 40 years old or younger and are committed to making Texarkana a better place for everyone. From educators and managers to entrepreneurs and business leaders, we salute these movers and shakers whose creativity, vision, and passion enrich countless lives on a daily basis.

INSIDE: THE FABULOUS 40 AND UNDER on page 11

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE

The Way I See It An op-ed piece from the publisher

Ask the Experts

Events

Raising My Tribe

Exquisite Interiors

The Road Less Traveled

The Friends List

Scene About Town

The Way I See It...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

I feel there is a “new normal” for those of us who are out there just trying to follow the rules, respect other people’s boundaries, protect ourselves from getting sick, and be happy. This has been such an awful year. When COVID-19 came into our country and began to spread, I lost control of my feelings. My son got sent home from college in March to quarantine, and I shut our worlds down, out of an abundance of caution. Yes, I am one of those people who believe that 180,000 have legitimately died in the USA so far this year from COVID or COVID-related problems. The light of my life has cerebral palsy, and my mother is in a higher risk age group, so the way we usually live our lives, has changed drastically. We don’t eat out every single night like we did pre-COVID. You would think that the results of such would be weight loss, but not for me. I managed to balloon up about 25 pounds, thanks to COVID and Blue Bell. Dang creamery introduced Confetti Cake ice cream in the middle of a pandemic, and I somehow started consuming an entire half gallon a day of Confetti Cake. Somehow? Obviously, I was buying it by the buggy-fulls.

I am that person who has daily routines with food. I once went three years eating the exact same Subway sandwich, prepared the exact same way, from the exact same gas station Subway, by the exact same sweet lady named Wanda for lunch. Every. Day. Of. The. Week. So, once I started with the new Blue Bell flavor, I was eating it for breakfast, snacks, and sometimes dinner. Depending on whether I took an Ambien at night, I may or may not have eaten an entire half gallon in one sitting at 4 a.m. The evidence was in the trash can the next morning.

I probably need to go get my blood drawn to check on where my cholesterol numbers are. It did take a doctor’s visit to make me ditch the ice cream. It happened when I was being called back to his office and asked to step on the scales.

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Flippantly, I asked, “What was it last time?” My doctor’s nurse, who I love, smiled and said, “Are you sure you want to know?” When I glanced at my chart, I realized I really didn’t want her to say it out loud. When the doctor came in and asked what I had been up to, I told him about the Confetti Cake Blue Bell. His response, “Well, quit buying ice cream, Robin!” So, from that day forward, I have not bought any ice cream, and hopefully, I’m losing some of the COVID-25.

During that doctor’s visit, we also changed up my antidepressant, and we are monitoring my feelings and behavior. Y’all!!!! In my 50 wonderful years on this planet, I have never felt so bummed out about life. Not as a teenager with too many zits. Not as a girl who had her heart broken by some guy. Not after giving birth, when my nurse friends said to get ready for postpartum depression. And not even when my kids left for college.

If I think it’s got to do with political arguments, watching local businesses and people suffer because of a virus we can’t see or control, and the loss of events, parties, galas, and nonprofit functions that encourage fun and friendships. I miss my friends. I miss my oldest daughter, too. Ellen still lives in Canada, and literally, I can’t go see her because the borders are closed to Americans. I feel like I’ve lost control of my own happiness. I can’t even take a good vacation because of COVID-19.

As I have been writing this, I’ve thought about the millions of other people in America who also feel overwhelmed. Like me, they may have kids who are learning in all kinds of new ways, or they may be trying to juggle a million and one jobs just to survive. Being a good parent is the hardest job, but imagine the people who are juggling full-time work (possibly from home and a computer screen since March) with frantic kids who are always needing something to do. Some days, I’m doing great to squeeze in a five-minute shower and brush

PUBLISHER Dr. Robin Rogers

EDITOR

Suzy Turner

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Kim McMurry

SALES REPRESENTATIVE

Lori Rochelle

my teeth. There must be more women who are feeling just as frazzled as I am.

For those who are struggling, it’s okay to call a doctor and ask for help. Actually, I recommend seeking help if you are more depressed than ever before.

Many of us have never lived through a more stressful time in our lives. If medicine or talk therapy or yoga or mommy time-outs provide some relief to my friends out there who are relating to my complete exhaustion and depression, go get some help. I can assure you that the sun will come up tomorrow and the next day and the next. Election season will pass before Thanksgiving, and a vaccine is on the horizon. This funk of a year that 2020 has turned out to be will be gone before we know it.

So, get up and do one thing a day that you know may make you happy. The goal is to be fabulous, like the 40 people who were nominated for this month’s special edition. I’m going to start wearing red lipstick again, even if there’s not another stitch of makeup on my face. Maybe after that, I will read a book for pleasure. And then maybe I will play Spades with my card group over Zoom. I’m making a note in my head of all the things I can do that will make me happy. My business is surviving, and my family has stayed away from Coronavirus. I should be singing Hallelujah and thanking God for all of my blessings, not eating Blue Bell by the bucket. That is my new goal!

Every great person has survived hard battles. The fabulous folks under 40 we present could all share some stories I’m sure.

I hope you find peace, happiness, and a tube of red lipstick for someone who needs to feel fabulous this month. In the meantime, read about the interesting people who are doing great things for our community. As always, thanks for reading FSLM

EDITORIAL ASSISTANT

Sara Rothwell

PHOTOGRAPHER

Sara Rothwell

FEATURED COLUMNISTS

Ali Deal

Nichole Holze

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BATTLE OF THE BORDERS CENSUS CHALLENGE KICKOFF

The joint Complete Count Committee, City of Texarkana, Texas, and City of Texarkana, Arkansas, sponsored a Battle of the Borders Census Challenge Kickoff on July 28 at the Federal Courthouse/U.S. Post Office in Downtown Texarkana. Held to bring awareness to the 2020 U.S. Census, attendees donned their state’s chosen colors of Texas orange and Arkansas red. Mayors Allen Brown and Bob Bruggeman welcomed Texarkana residents to participate in the friendly challenge between the two states. The winner of the challenge will be the Arkansas or Texas side who had the higher percentage of participation in the 2020 Census during the month-long challenge.

Luz Mary Rincon, Rylie Bixler and Romero Rangel

Mayor Allen Brown and Mayor Bob Bruggeman

Vashil Fernandez and Keith Beason

Alaina and Zach Presley

Bryan Bixler, Mary Wormington and Maddy Bixler

Amanda Ables

Blaire Barlow

Brittany Barnett

Taylor Barr

Wes Bennett

Jessica Bolton

Lauren Correll Booker

Chase Brewster

Juan Ciro Bustamante

Christina Cook

Cody Deal

Damien Denmark

Rebekah Drennon

Alissa Flanagan

Marshall Freeman

Natalie Haywood

Ashley Henderson

Christy Hibbs

Misty Honea

Monica Kelley

Braxton Langdon

Silvia Martinez

Samantha Mitchell

Greg Morgan

Michael D. Odom

Mollie Payne

Nicole Raley

Andrew Rankin

Annie Rateliff

Randy Roeser

Brittany Rogers

Lauren Ross

Emily Sarine

Shivik Sharma

Matt Smith

Donnie Spriggs

Sanel Thomas

Jes Weiner

Wade Williamson

Shambrekiá Wise

AmandaAbles

Best Piece of Advice:

“IF NOT YOU, THEN WHO?”

– LORI ABLES, AMANDA’S MOTHER

age: 36 | Realtor | Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity

In everything she has ever done, Amanda Ables has enjoyed connecting and building relationships with people on a personal level to try and help them attain whatever it is they are needing. As a Realtor at Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity, Amanda gets invited into a very intimate part of people’s lives and is trusted to help them make one of the biggest decisions they will have to make. “I have built some amazing relationships with my clients, and the warmth I feel helping people start their next chapter is honestly the best, most fulfilling thing for me,” she acknowledges.

Engaged to James Kowzic, Amanda has a son, Layne Tadlock, and a future stepson, Jayden Kowzic. Seeing the kind of young man Layne has turned out to be is Amanda’s greatest personal endeavor. Since she was a single mother for several years, she and her mother, Lori Ables, devoted themselves to making sure they instilled the best values in him. Amanda even left a career she loved with Texas Roadhouse to be present for the critical moments in Layne’s growth, and it has paid off immensely. She says, “Layne is funny, smart, respectful, kind, and seeing him come into his own makes me prouder than any material thing I have ever accomplished.”

While employed at Roadhouse, Amanda served as a corporate trainer and training coordinator. She won the national award for Training Coordinator of the Year, and was featured on the cover of the yearly training magazine, Texas Today. As a trainer for Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity, Amanda writes effective training systems dedicated to an exceptional level of service to set new Realtors up for success from the very beginning of their licensure.

Amanda serves on the board of directors of her favorite local nonprofit, Texarkana Repertory Company. She has been involved on and off the stage since she was a 12-year-old preteen. In the future, she hopes to coach Realtors on the national level by helping them become acclimated to their new careers. She explains, “I want to contribute to growing wealth, confidence, and accountability for new agents so that the reputation of Realtors can be strengthened and fortified.”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I still get intensely nervous before a performance or speaking in front of a large crowd, no matter how many times I have done it.”

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HABITAT FOR HUMANITY OF TEXARKANA HOME DEDICATION

On August 21, Habitat for Humanity Texarkana held a Home Dedication for its newest home at 3001 Norris Cooley. The work started on the home in November with 10-25 volunteers to a group. The rainy weather added delays, and as the builders entered the interior of the project, the city went into lockdown due to the Coronavirus pandemic. The number of volunteers was limited to 2 or 3 so final touches had to be hired out to trade professionals. Several long-time volunteers, practicing physical distancing and wearing masks, completed the interior, and the homebuyer contributed her sweat equity hours. Since the usual new house walk-through and dedication ceremony was not held due to the COVID-19 pandemic, this home dedication was held for those involved with the project, as well as family and friends. A tour of the home was available for those desiring a walkthrough.

John Harris, Lawanda Nelson and Paul Huckabee

Doug Dietz and Jennifer Teeters

Kelley Rose, Jaimie Alexander, Mary Wormington and Mayor Bob Bruggeman

Carol Giese, Becky Easley, Katherine Morgan and Mary Wormington Vashil Fernandez and Keith Beason

Dwann Only, Robert Greene and Jacklyn Hardy

Michelle Citty, Brittany Hanes and Robyn Stone

Name something about you that very few people know:

“My first debut in Four States Living Magazine was on the cover of the March 1999 issue as a flower girl model.”

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TEMPLE MEMORIAL PEDIATRIC CENTER DRAWDOWN AND CASINO NIGHT

Temple Memorial Pediatric Center held its annual Drawdown and Casino Night fundraiser on August 6 at Crossties Event Center in downtown Texarkana. The sold out event was broadcast LIVE on Facebook to accommodate ticket holders that were unable to attend while attendees were asked to mask up and socially distance themselves. Food was provided by Pop’s Place, and the drawing was emceed by the ever-entertaining Mike Jones. The $5,000 prize money was split five ways among the last five lucky ticket holders! Proceeds from the event go toward supporting the various programs of the Temple Center – a nonprofit pediatric therapy provider serving kids with disabilities, special needs, or functional limitations since 1952.

John Wendell, Bruce Flint and Glen Scarborough

Autumn Bohanon and Karley Feasel

Mary Wormington and Amy Schulz Becky and Robert Bunch

Chandler Murphy, Jamye DeHaan and Bertha Shipp Brenda Reid and Caitlin Sheets

Matt and Tina Griffin

Laura and Andy Butterfield with Tommy Clapp

Sydnee and Morgan Pritchett

Angela Creek and Patti O’Bannon

David and Melinda Vammen

Melanie, Beth Ann and Chad Dowd

Allison Sheats and Ariel Edwards

Lisa Dupree and Lori Pippen

Dogo Gonzalez and Brandon Cogburn

Willie and Lynn Weems with Lee Ann and Andy Doss

Lisa Buck, Ben Watts, Larinda Harjo and Jimmy Andrews

Billie Pritchett and Gina Parish

Emily Lummus, Carol Pearcy and Sandy Varner

Anella Everett and Sara Rios

TaylorBarr

age: 37 | Salon Owner/Stylist | The Beauty BARR

Best Piece of Advice:

“NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM SOMEONE YOU WOULDN’T WANT TO TRADE PLACES WITH.”

– DAVE KIRBY, TAYLOR’S BUSINESS CONSULTANT

“My days at work are spent making women feel beautiful!” says Taylor Barr, owner and stylist of The Beauty BARR. “That’s truly the thing I love about my job the most. As a salon owner, I try to provide a fun, supportive, laidback atmosphere for my coworkers to enjoy their work place. Being a stylist has allowed me a creative outlet. I’ve always loved hair, makeup, and fashion. I’m grateful to have a career that I really enjoy!”

Whether riding bikes, visiting her farm, swimming, or having a lazy day at home playing board games, Taylor truly enjoys spending her days off with her daughter, Emma, and son, Cruz. “My two beautiful, sweet, kind-hearted children are, by far, the greatest thing I have ever done!” she exclaims.

Taylor enjoys her job so much that she really looks forward to going to the salon. Creating and running a successful salon has made her a proud business owner. Opening and running the business in the historical district of downtown also makes her proud. Helping bring the downtown area back to life is one of Taylor’s goals, and she accomplishes this every day as the salon’s patrons visit her shop.

Even though it is hard for her to imagine, in 10 years, Taylor will have an adult daughter! “I look forward to seeing the amazing things she will do in life and being there to support her and cheer her on. My son will be 15, so I assume I’ll be spending lots of time watching him play sports!” she says proudly. “Professionally, I hope The Beauty BARR is still running strong in downtown Texarkana.”

Name something about you that very few people know: “Barrel racing was my first love.”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I performed on Broadway in NYC as a 17-year-old kid!”

Believe it or not, Christina Cook’s teaching career began when she was 4 years old with her grandmother as her student. She would “play-teach” her family members lessons from encyclopedias before she could even read, creating lesson plans based on the pictures. She took teaching very seriously ... assignments were elaborately decorated with “fantastic job” stickers and doodles. She explains, “Through these childhood experiences, I developed a philosophy of education that is entirely based on encouraging children to become excited about education.”

Christina believes that the most important element in an educator’s job description is to inspire students. And she has the opportunity to do just that while teaching art to approximately 465 students each week.

Finding the courage to pursue her true passion of teaching art is Christina’s greatest professional accomplishment. (She formerly worked as a Registered Nurse at Wadley Regional Medical Center and CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System in critical care and pediatrics.) In 2017, she received the honor of Elementary Art Teacher of the Year for the State of Texas, a feat in which she is very proud. She has also received the Arts Educator Award from TRAHC.

A member of Williams Memorial United Methodist Church, Christina enjoys arts outreach in the Texarkana community. She annually participates in the Women for the Arts’ Party with Picassos, has been a director of the Texas Elementary Art Meet involving all Region 8 schools, and oversees a fifth grade art club which focuses on community involvement.

Personally, Christina feels fortunate to be married to her best friend, Coby, and has a sweet 4-year-old son, Wyatt. She enjoys spending her weekends with her family at Lake Greeson on their houseboat, fishing and swimming.

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TRAHC HOSTS ADULT JURIED EXHIBITION RECEPTION

Texarkana Regional Arts & Humanities Council hosted its 32nd annual Adult Juried Exhibition Reception on August 21 in Cabe Hall at the Regional Arts Cenmter. Art was viewed and experienced by local, regional, national, and international artists. Sponsored in part by the Yates Foundation, refreshments and desserts were served. The exhibit will be displayed through October 3.

Lisa and Brian Garner

Danny Helms and Georgia Hubnik

Gary, Gabrielle and Christopher Bachers

Yessica Smith and Marshall Alam

Gabriel Henk and Polly Cook

Betty and Doug Williams

Eileen and Bryan Stearman

Beverly Adler and Linda Larey

Tammy and Neal Harrington

John R. Colley and Drew Thompson

Amber and Travis Fenix

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I’m a crier when I see almost anything touching. In our house, I’m the one who loves babies. All of our kids called ME ‘Mama’ before my wife.”

DamienDenmark

age: 24 | District Manager | OSL Retail Services

OSL Retail Services has formed a partnership with Walmart and Sam’s Club to manage their Wireless Departments. Damien Denmark currently oversees the Walmarts and Sam’s Clubs in Western Kansas. “This is my passion, not just selling wireless services, but helping customers and growing leaders in the field of servant leadership,” he explains.

Damien has enjoyed being able to grow along with his company. During his tenure with OSL, he has served as a part-time sales rep, assistant manager, store manager, and now, district manager. He has enjoyed growing as a leader, and he looks forward to continued growth with the company.

Graduating from college after growing up with a single mother supporting a family of 5 is a feat in which Damien is very proud. His brothers and sisters went straight into the workforce to help support their family. “I am very fortunate and grateful that I was able to work and graduate with my associate’s degree in Business Administration,” he says, proudly.

“I love giving back to Texarkana! Texarkana is my home, and I will forever love it here,” he says with a smile. Damien currently serves as a board member for United Way of Greater Texarkana which partners with 20-plus nonprofits right here in the greater Texarkana area. He has also volunteered and financially supported several community events such as Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library, Bowie County Sheriff’s Office B.A.S.E Golf Tournament, and many more!

Best Piece of Advice:

Name something about you that very few people know: “I starred in a two episode TV series titled, ‘American Rival,’ that never made it to USA Network.”

“IF YOU KNOW YOUR WHY AND YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE YOU’LL KNOW THE ANSWER TO ANY QUESTIONS OR PROBLEMS YOU’LL EVER HAVE.”

– JOHN ROBINSON, DAMIEN’S GREAT FRIEND AND MENTOR

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ENCOMPASS HEALTH REHAB HOSTS PUPPY PARADE

During a time when hospitals have restricted visitors due to the pandemic, Encompass Health Rehabilitation Hospital of Texarkana found the perfect solution to help lift the spirits of its patients. On August 13, Encompass hosted a Puppy Parade for its patients through their room windows and on the exterior covered porches. Staff members and friends of the hospital brought messages of support and “paws-itivity” for the occasion.

Makenna Chafin and “Bruno”

Eunice Bonds and “Bella”

Reghan and Kaelan Carlile with “Tucker” Harrison Vann and “Gertie”

Sarah, Lexie, Carlee and Keegan Robinson with “Nymeria”

Tamera Chafin and “Lucy”

Jeff, Billie and Sydnee Pritchett with “Shipley”

Erica Hickerson, Tiffanee Watson and Belinda Nations with “Ellie May”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I had exertional compartment syndrome surgery on both of my legs junior year of high school and now have three scars on each one.”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I’m scuba certified, and I used to sell knives in college.”

photo by ANITA PEEK PHOTOGRAPHY

Name something about you that very few people know:

“My hot pink stethoscope always hangs on my rearview mirror because it is the only way I can find my car at Walmart!”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“In college, I was definitely the team clown. I would put my ‘Billy Bob’ teeth in and transform into ‘Rhonda.’ She was a hoot!”

Name something about you that very few people know: “I do not like TV, nor do I watch TV.”

SilviaMartinez

age: 24 | Transaction Coordinator/Administrative Assistant | ERA Raffaelli Realtors

Best Piece of Advice:

“GIVE YOURSELF THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET TO KNOW YOURSELF.”

—ARACELI MARTINEZ, SILVIA’S MOTHER

A soon-to-be Realtor, Silvia Martinez shadows her boss/mentor, Virginia Ann Prazak, to experience firsthand the different sides of real estate transactions, whether home purchasing or selling. “There is a joy in either transaction because I get to see different families move onto their next journey and create lifelong relationships,” Silvia says. When she is not shadowing, Silvia handles multiple transactions from start to finish by performing administrative duties that are required. In doing so, she assists the Realtors at ERA Raffaelli Realtors in making their transactions a little less hectic.

Both of Silvia’s parents immigrated to the U.S. to have a better future and to provide more opportunities for their children. “Reaching many different milestones in life, furthering my education, and having a career is making my parent’s dream a reality and making all their sacrifices worthwhile,” she explains. “Seeing their vision become a reality will always be my greatest accomplishment.”

Although the COVID-19 pandemic has slowed down Silvia’s goal of obtaining her real estate license, she has stayed very busy. She has obtained her Distinguished Property certification and has attended multiple ERA University sessions to continue her education in what the franchise has to offer and how to better serve the community.

Silvia is a member of St. Edwards Catholic Church where she assists with Vacation Bible School, Outreach Center, chauffeuring the youth group, and church renovation projects. She plans to become a volunteer with CASA for Children and has been a volunteer at the Texarkana Animal Shelter. Many in the Hispanic community often reach out to Silvia for help in translating speeches and writings.

“In the future, I see myself having completed Law School and practicing immigration, criminal, and family law, along with real estate,” Silvia says. “Virginia gives me the perfect example that although it can be a lot of work, it is very much possible when you have the strength, determination, and support to accomplish goals.”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“Despite being Hispanic and Spanish being my first language, I cannot roll my R’s to save my life.”

SamanthaMitchell

age: 34 | Escrow Officer | Capital Title of Texas

Best Piece of Advice:

“IT’S NOT ABOUT WAITING FOR THE STORM TO PASS, IT’S ABOUT LEARNING TO DANCE IN THE RAIN.”

–MICHELLE BYERS, SAMANTHA’S MOTHER

Whether sitting on a patio with her friends, snuggled on the couch with her girls, Sophie and Margaret, or watching Texas A&M football with her husband, Micah, Samantha Mitchell is in her “happy place.” She feels lucky to have two wonderful daughters who have taught her to slow down and appreciate the small things in life. Getting to discover the world through their eyes and witness them enjoy new experiences is a joy to Samantha.

As an escrow officer at Capital Title, Samantha helps people buy and sell real estate. “I love getting to take the stress off of my customers, and make it an enjoyable experience for them,” Samantha explains. “I get to work with some really great professionals in our community, whom I enjoy learning from and building new relationships with.”

Samantha has 10 years of experience in the title industry in Arkansas but she has worked for Capital Title of Texas since they opened their Texarkana, Texas, office in October of 2019. “I never expected a company this size to genuinely care so much about their customers and employees,” she explains. “Through COVID, they have proven that this is a family run company that will always put family first. Together as a team we will keep our customers our top priority.”

In her spare time, Samantha enjoys giving back to the community. She has been a volunteer with the Angel Fund Foundation, Inc.’s Putt for a Purpose, serves in many capacities at First United Methodist Church, and helps with Special Olympics.

“In 10 years I will have two teenage girls, so I see myself on my knees praying, a lot!” she laughs. “I know I will still be a part of the Capital Title team, but I hope to find new exciting ways to be involved in the community and to be a really cool soccer mom.”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I’m originally from St. Joseph, Missouri, and my nickname in high school was ‘Bulldog.’ The local newspaper wrote an article about me scoring a hat trick in a soccer game and referred to me as a ‘bulldog,’ which sort of stuck. I’ve only told a few people this story because it really embarrasses my husband … oops!”

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TRINITY CHRISTIAN SCHOOL ANNUAL SPORTS BANQUET

Trinity Christian School held its Annual Sports Banquet on August 3 in the Trinity Christian Edgar Wallace Gymnasium. The banquet honored the TCS athletes for their 2019/2020 accomplishments.

Carmen Satterfield and Stephanie Carver

Dr. Greg Jones, Matthew Jones and Jayce Leeper

Shawn Cree, Hollyn Hawkins and Riley Jeane

Cade Shadrix and Joy Shadrix

Caleb Price and Dr. Greg Jones

Zach Graf, Coach Bryce Evans and Hayden Honea

Paul Anderson and Josh Hawkins

Ashley McLean and Pastor Andy Coats

Hannah Leeper, Riley Jeane and Lani Lindsey

Denise Wallace and Meg Wallace

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I am an amateur storm chaser!”

MichaelD.Odom

age: 36 | Principal | Texarkana Arkansas School District

Best Piece of Advice: “THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BELIEVING IN YOUR QUESTIONS AND QUESTIONING YOUR BELIEFS.”

The proud principal of Arkansas High School, Michael Odom’s chief responsibilities include guiding AHS’s mission, vision, and purpose, empowering his staff to make a difference, and inspiring students to persevere in an unpredictable world. “The next generation must have the skills to be successful in an ever-changing world,” he explains. “This gives me great purpose every day.

— REV. BILL ODOM, MICHAEL’S FATHER

“Arkansas High School (AHS) received the highest college readiness index of all high schools in the Texarkana Metropolitan area by US News Report 2020. I credit the incredible staff and students for this great honor,” Michael acknowledges. “The innovative AHS Collegiate Academy, Advanced Placement, and Concurrent credit programs provide our students with unprecedented access to college courses and the skills needed for success in a post-secondary education.”

Married to Ashlie, Michael enjoys being a father to his four children: Samuel (13), Elizabeth (12), Emma (8), and Annabelle (4). He loves getting back to nature, whether hiking, boating, or fishing. He also enjoys singing and playing a variety of musical instruments. As the minister of music at First Presbyterian Church, Michael is involved with various missions and projects of the church, which benefits the entire Texarkana community.

“Weaving in community involvement to the mission and vision of AHS is very important to me,” Michael explains. “This past year, I launched a new community service initiative that encouraged students to give back to Texarkana. As a result, all seniors had the opportunity to volunteer at various nonprofit corporations and elementary schools throughout Texarkana.”

Michael remembers setting a goal to be a principal by the age of 30, and he has exceeded that goal. Since that time, he has set a goal to become a superintendent so he hopes to see that goal come to fruition within the next 10 years.

Best Piece of Advice: “PRAY

ABOUT IT.”

—NETTIE EADS, MOLLIE’S GRANDMOTHER

MolliePayne

age: 31 | Bank Officer | State Bank

Mollie Payne loves being able to sit back and see all of the growth and amazing things that State Bank has accomplished throughout the years. She was fortunate to be on the “ground floor” of State Bank when it expanded to the Texarkana market. She was 23 years old when the Richmond Road location was being built. Now, she has worked alongside Chris Lannom, State Bank Texarkana Market President, for 11 years, and she is very proud to be a part of the amazing company.

When asked what her career encompasses, Mollie responds, “Banking and all things related to it.” She began as a teller in 2009 and helped open the Texas Boulevard location as Branch Manager/Loan Officer in 2017. Recently, she relocated back to the Richmond Road location to focus strictly on the loan side. “I love banking!” she exclaims. “I love the relationships and friendships I have made over the years with customers and coworkers. Our State Bank board of directors is amazing. They genuinely care and love their employees.”

Mollie also loves sports, especially softball. She enjoys spending time with her husband, Wesley, and daughters, Presley and Kennedy, whose teams she also coaches. She serves as a board member for Texarkana Youth Softball Association. Her young team hosted a free softball clinic and collected donation equipment for children in need in the spring. She is a member of the Kiwanis Club, and volunteers at many community events with State Bank including Race for the Cure®, Nash Night Out, and Salvation Army Angel Tree.

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I am constantly mixed up and mistaken for my friend and coworker, Heather Avery. We are not related but people have asked us if we are twins for years!”

AndrewRankin

age: 37 | 5th and 6th Grade Science Teacher | Red Lick Independent School District

Andrew Rankin believes education is a fundamental part of society and that it is the responsibility of public education to create productive members of society. He has taught business education courses, held roles as a campus principal at two schools, and currently is blessed to teach science at one of the best school districts in the State of Texas while being closer to home and his family. “I do what I do because I am convinced that education, as any other occupation, is a God given talent,” he remarks. “I am happy to serve in any area needed to help create well-rounded students who can make a positive difference in society.”

Since he has had many opportunities to work with new and aspiring teachers and mentor them to grow into successful educators, Andrew finds a great deal of satisfaction and success when he sees people he has worked with excel beyond what they thought possible. He adds, “Seeing others succeed is a personal accomplishment to me.”

While principal for Bloomburg Junior High and High School, Andrew and his team of teachers were able to raise their students’ performance and raised their test scores from a 65 to an 80 during the 2018-2019 school year. He continues, “I witnessed what the teachers at Bloomburg were capable of, and I am proud to say I was their principal.”

Andrew and his wife, Katren, have two sons, Eli (8) and Nate (6). He coaches soccer for two teams for Texarkana Soccer Association where he also serves as commissioner when needed. A board member for Workforce Solutions of North East Texas, he also serves as financial director and teacher at Spring Lake Baptist Church and is a security supervisor for Rhea Lana’s of Texarkana. In his spare time, he enjoys playing golf, collecting sports memorabilia, shooting guns at Texarkana Gun Barn and Range, and shooting landscape and nature photography.

Name something about you that very few people know: “I am color blind and can only see very faint blue and yellow in rainbows. Revelation 4:3 speaks of God’s throne surrounded by a rainbow. Heaven will be the first place I will get to experience the beauty of something most take for granted.”

Best Piece of Advice:

“MAINTAIN INTEGRITY, HAVE A CLEAR VISION, LEARN TO LISTEN TO OTHERS, AND BUILD RELATIONSHIPS WITH THOSE WHO CHALLENGE YOU TO BE BETTER BECAUSE LIFE CAN BE TOUGH. IF YOU STUMBLE, BE READY TO GET UP, ASSESS WHAT HAPPENED, AND MOVE ON.”

– DR. KATHY ALLEN, RETIRED SUPERINTENDENT

AnnieRateliff

age: 34 | Esthetician/Owner

| Annie Rateliff Skincare

“I’m an esthetician. I like to think I show people how beautiful they are,” says Annie Rateliff, owner of Annie Rateliff Skincare. “We live in a world of Photoshop so I do my best to normalize natural beauty!”

Although she says it might sound cliché, Annie admits that her family is her most valuable asset. “Zach and I started dating our senior year at Texas High School. He asked for my number, and I told him not to call me. The rest is history. We had to grow up together and fight for our relationship during those selfish years of our life,” she admits. “This month, we have been together 17 years and married for 11 years. While it’s like arguing with a small version of myself, our wild and precious daughter, Nori Gayle, is our greatest accomplishment.”

Annie absolutely loves her chosen career path and knows that she is where she is meant to be. She went out on a leap of faith to start her business in 2014, praying that she was making the right decision. She recalls, “I opened my business with zero clients. My schedule is now consistently booked 4-6 weeks in advance with a waiting list. We were able to purchase a building this year for my business, and we just continue to grow!”

Although the skincare business can be challenging, Annie enjoys helping those who aspire to be estheticians. She is always willing to answer any questions those who are just starting in the business may have, and she doesn’t mind letting others shadow her. “I didn’t have that helping hand when I started my business, and I promised myself I would always help if asked,” she says. “There is plenty [of business] to go around, so we can all be successful!”

—

“IT’S BETTER TO ASK FORGIVENESS THAN PERMISSION.”

Name something about you that very few people know: “I am not sure how fun it is for my husband, but I sleep walk, sing, laugh, and whistle. It is never a dull moment, even when we sleep!”

Best Piece of Advice:

SHERRY HARRIS, ANNIE’S MOTHER

age: 30 | Attorney | Haltom & Doan

RandyRoeser

Best Piece of Advice: “DON’T

WASTE YOUR ENERGY ON WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU. BE NICE, BE A GOOD PERSON, AND BE HAPPY.”

—CATHY ROESER, RANDY’S MOTHER

At Haltom & Doan, Randy Roeser practices on a wide range of civil litigation—from contract disputes to patent infringement litigation. He has also been taking the lead on expanding Haltom & Doan’s trademark practice, focusing on obtaining trademarks for local start-ups and companies both large and small across the country. “My practice is geared toward obtaining the best possible results for my clients and protecting their rights to the fullest extent possible, whether that be defending their rights in the courtroom or seeking trademark protection for their business’s name and/or logos,” he explains. “At the end of the day, it is all about helping our clients in their time of need.”

Although he can’t pinpoint one specific professional accomplishment, Randy thinks the greatest thing lawyers can do is give back through pro bono work and help those who would otherwise not have access to legal representation. He has been blessed to have had several opportunities to do so throughout his career, and it really reminds him of why he became a lawyer.

Convincing his wife, Haley, to get married on Leap Day was a big personal achievement for Randy. “Not only were we able to have our wonderful wedding right before all the COVID shutdowns happened, but now I only have to get her an anniversary present every four years,” he jokes. “I’ll let y’all know how that one works out!”

An avid runner and swimmer, Randy has been a member of the Texarkana Masters Swim program for the past year. He tries to run or swim in at least 2-3 races per year. Randy gives back to the Texarkana community through the Clay Eichler Memorial Fund, which his aunt and uncle, Gail and Dr. Ed Eichler, founded. Each year, the organization holds Clay’s Golf & Guitars, a fundraiser which benefits local organizations such as the ArkLaTex 100 Club, the Boys & Girls Club of Texarkana, and ScoutReach.

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I’m terrible at golf! Instead of scoring my rounds the traditional way, I score them by the number of golf balls I lose. So, I never finish a round worse than five under.”

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

CLAY’S GOLF & GUITARS GOLF TOURNAMENT

Clay’s Golf & Guitars was held on August 22 at Northridge Country Club. The evening concert was canceled due to the COVID-19 pandemic; however, the Golf Tournament took place. Proceeds from this year’s golf tournament will benefit ScoutReach.

Gayle Wright and Melissa Harris

Jon Rich, Dr. Russell Mayo and Howard Glick

Justin Arnall and Camden Westbrook

Scott Davis and Dr. Dennis O’Banion

Haley Roeser, Lacy McMillen, Brooke Morgan and Joan Carter

John Dukes, Tyler Norton, Bill Web, Jared Witten, Meredith Witten, Courtney Gray, Brandon Gray and Ryan Briggs

Robert Tyler Ashley, Eric Keenan, Jeffrey Keenan and Ross Donohoe

Lisa Sitterley and Lanita Colley

Dakota Kisselburg, Fred Markham, Lily Kisselburg, Zachary Morrill, Gail Eichler, Cade Cunningham, Dr. Ed Eichler, Meran Nakashian, Judy Morgan, Jasper Richardson and Anthony Escobar

Courtney and Brandon Gray

Andy Vance, Chris Bunda, Anthony Gallegos and Elissa Stamps

Debbie Alkire and Malise O’Banion

Connor Young and Tyler Norton

Mark Mittleman, Ryan Huntze, Jim McGee and Bob Hubbard

Chad Rains, Levi Ponder and Chuck Lincavage

Andrew McElhany, Dr. Ed Eichler, Edward Eichler and Hunter Goodman

Brenda Sutton, Karen Wacha and Lisa McGuire

BrittanyRogers

age: 33 | Program Director and PATH Intl. Certified Therapeutic Riding Instructor | Runnin’ WJ Ranch

Best Piece of Advice: “DANCE LIKE NO ONE IS WATCHING. LOVE LIKE IT WILL NEVER HURT. SING AS IF NO ONE IS LISTENING. LIVE LIKE HEAVEN IS ON EARTH.”

– AUTHOR UNKNOWN

Everyday miracles are the best part of Brittany Rogers’ job as a certified riding instructor and program director of Runnin’ WJ Ranch.

Whether witnessing small or large miracles, Brittany admits that every single one equals progress. “For example, the horse taking five steps, and my student not crying for those five steps can be a miracle,” she describes.

“My student telling their horse to ‘walk on’ when they couldn’t say it two weeks earlier is a huge accomplishment. The joy and love I see on their faces is amazing!”

Passing the challenging instructor’s test is Brittany’s greatest personal accomplishment. The process to obtain this certification consists of two written tests, a riding test, a teaching test, and a three-day workshop.

“The kid side of the job was the easiest part for me because I love them so much,” she acknowledges. “The tough part was learning about horses from head-to-toe.”

Adventuring with her boys is Brittany’s favorite reprieve from the everyday grind. Married to Jason, the Rogers’ have two sons, Jaxon (7) and Jase (4). As a family, they enjoy fishing, hunting, and just being outside enjoying God’s creation.

Brittany serves on the board of the Texarkana Down Syndrome Society, a group who is near and dear to her heart. Additionally, she helps coordinate Night to Shine Texarkana, an unforgettable prom night experience for people with special needs, sponsored by the Tim Tebow Foundation.

When she was 14 years old, Brittany worked her way up from volunteer to barn worker at Runnin’ WJ. When Sam Clem took over the reins at the ranch, he approached Brittany about becoming an instructor. After lots of prayer and consideration, Brittany finished school and began teaching in the arena. Currently, she handles paperwork and scheduling for the students and also keeps up with all of the standards that govern the ranch and keep everyone safe. In addition, she teaches several classes a week and hopes to one day become the director of Runnin’ WJ Ranch, where miracles occur on a daily basis.

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I laugh uncontrollably when I am really scared!”

LaurenRoss

age: 33 | Social Media Manager | LifeStance Health

Best Piece of Advice:

“THE GREATEST GROWTH COMES FROM OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE; TO REACH THAT, YOU HAVE TO GET UNCOMFORTABLE.”

Lauren Ross represents LifeStance Health across their social channels and builds the voice of the brand. She manages, monitors, and moderates online customer relationships, and creates campaigns and content to enhance their online presence. “I see my job as a ‘frontline defense’ as the reputation for the brand,” she explains. “So much of a business’ success can be largely positively or negatively impacted by social media. I’m here to make sure it is positive.”

Through her job, Lauren is able to turn a passion project into a career. “I’m so proud of the work LifeStance Health is doing to bridge the gap of access to mental health care,” she says. “It’s a cause I’ve been passionate about for years.” LifeStance Health gives teletherapy access to over 2,300 healthcare providers while accepting insurance and offering telepsychiatry services to people who otherwise may not have access to that level of care.

Lauren’s greatest personal blessing is her family. She is very thankful for the life she and her husband, Jason, have built together and loves spending time with her girls, Emerie and Nora.

A proud board member of the Texarkana Symphony Orchestra, Lauren truly appreciates the exceptional talent and hidden gems that are involved with the TSO. She is also a member of Williams Memorial United Methodist Church and volunteers with the Williams School. “I still am extremely proud of the work CHRISTUS St. Michael is doing in our community,” she says. “I still volunteer for them when I am able.”

Lauren looks forward to whatever life throws at her in the future. She admits that some of the best things that have ever happened in her life are things she never planned or anticipated, so she tries to live “one day at a time.”

–SUE JOHNSON, LAUREN’S MENTOR AT CHRISTUS ST. MICHAEL

Name something about you that very few people know: “I once won a karaoke contest for my exceptional rendition of ‘Gangster’s Paradise.’ No autographs, please.”

EmilySarine

age: 39 | Administrative Assistant to the Associate Pastor, Larry Sims | First Baptist Church Texarkana

At First Baptist Church Texarkana, Emily Sarine takes care of the behindthe-scenes details of the Senior Adult Ministry and any senior adult trip that may be scheduled. She also manages and edits the church’s newsletter, Generations, along with graphic artist, Micah Dorsey, and the pastor’s assistant, Carol Ann Mattingly. She explains, “We are really a team at FBC, so whenever anyone needs help with anything, we all jump right in. I love working here.”

Name something about you that very few people know:

Best Piece of Advice:

“NEVER BE PART OF THE PROBLEM. ALWAYS BE PART OF THE SOLUTION.”

— LARRY SIMS, EMILY’S BOSS AND DEAR FRIEND

Emily and her husband, Ross, grew up together and were great friends throughout high school. “I married the love of my life!” she says. Ross was her escort on the Homecoming court but they never really dated until college. “We also have the most wonderful son, Jack, who is growing into a really amazing person. Ross and I think that he inherited our recessive kindness genes because he is much sweeter and gentler than we are! God has truly blessed me with these two and with provision for my health and theirs.”

A member of the FBC choir and active in the Pleasant Grove PTO, Emily also likes to volunteer during activities in which Jack is involved. Since Ross is a member of the Pleasant Grove ISD School Board, Emily constantly prays for the board, administration, teachers, staff and students of PGISD. “I was a member of the committee who successfully campaigned for the construction of the new elementary campus for Pleasant Grove, Margaret Fischer Davis Pleasant Grove Elementary School,” she says.

In 10 years, Emily hopes to be enjoying more time with Ross and visiting Jack wherever he may be after college graduation. She concludes, “I want to continue to be active and supportive of our wonderful city and serving wherever the Lord calls me to next.”

“I am a Type 1 diabetic and have been for 37 years. Most people would never guess I have a chronic illness upon meeting me. The Lord has truly blessed me with health and the ministry of hope for people of all ages who are diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. While it is a tough illness, it has not stopped me from accomplishing any of my goals in the least. It’s just a different normal than most.”

ShivikSharma

age: 33 | Financial Services Professional | Independent Broker

Best Piece of Advice: “BE PREPARED AND ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST TO BE TRUSTWORTHY, LOYAL, HELPFUL, FRIENDLY, COURTEOUS, KIND, OBEDIENT, CHEERFUL, THRIFTY, BRAVE, CLEAN, AND REVERENT.”

— DR. RANDY BROWN, FORMER BOY SCOUT TROOP 16 SCOUTMASTER

Name something about you that very few people know:

“To me, life is one big winding journey with many different paths, some tougher than others. Sometimes the greatest miracles in life can come from helping pick others up along the journey, and that is what I truly love doing in life. I was always told to be a part of something bigger than myself and help my fellow Americans.”

MattSmith

Best Piece of Advice:

“GET YOUR MONEY UP FRONT, AND GET THREE QUOTES WHEN YOU BUY SOMETHING.”

– HIX SMITH, JR., MATT’S FATHER

At Smith’s Ready Mix, Matt Smith oversees sales, quality control, management, and fleet service/maintenance. A familyowned business, Matt has worked for his father since he was 11 years old. “I have always enjoyed working for and learning the business from him. We have been in business for 73 years, so carrying on our family’s business and handing it down to my kids gives me a lot of satisfaction,” he says. “I also enjoy working with the customers, employees, and equipment that we use to produce and deliver concrete. I take pride in the projects that we supply concrete to and love explaining to my family and friends how many loads of concrete it takes to get a bridge, warehouse, or feed mill built.” Solving problems that come with his business and construction projects they are involved in is a challenge Matt takes on full force. Being a part of the solution is important to him.

Helping out with his family’s business means the world to Matt. “My Dad had open heart surgery in 2016. My sister and I were able to keep our company going and thriving, during his absence,” he continues. “It was gratifying to be able to take over for him and make him proud of what he’s taught me and Shana to do.” Snagging his wife, Laura, having three healthy children (Rowdy, Ruby, and Landry), and becoming a foster parent are Matt’s greatest personal accomplishments.

Matt and his team have donated concrete to several schools and nonprofit organizations throughout the years, including Pleasant Grove baseball team, Ashdown baseball team, T.A.P.D. basketball court, Nashville football/baseball teams, Genoa FFA/Construction Program, Randy Sams’ Outreach Shelter, Texarkana Razorback Trap Shooting Team, and The Stone Foundation. They also send a mixer truck to be used during the Junior League of Texarkana’s “Touch a Truck” event, and sponsor several baseball and softball teams.

Matt looks forward to bringing his children into the business in the future. He concludes, “I’ll still be leading the Smith’s Ready Mix team, probably until I die.” age: 38 | Owner/General Manager | Smith’s Ready Mix

Name something about you that very few people know: “I went and got a $3 hair cut when I was a senior in college at a cosmetology school in Russellville. The girl basically gave me a chili bowl, so when I got back home, my roommates buzzed it off with some clippers. I’ve been bald ever since. A good barber is worth the money!”

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I am a classic perfectionist, and I completely hate it.”

Experts Ask the

JOEY MARTIN

Owner,

Express Employment Professionals

Despite High Unemployment, Is Your Company Still Struggling With Employee Turnover?

In a time of record unemployment due to the COVID-19 pandemic, hiring decision-makers say their company has had extended job vacancies resulting in less motivated employees, loss in revenue, and lower employee morale. The primary reasons current employees leave a job is:

1. Had a better offer

2. Work hours not suitable at this time

3. Lack of advancement

4. Low pay

5. Benefits

If workers are happy with the culture, and they like working with their boss and coworkers, they will overlook the other reasons for leaving their job. Workers don’t quit their jobs, they quit their boss.

870.773.1313 | 3206 Jefferson Ave. | Texarkana, AR

EVENTS | CALENDAR

SEPTEMBER 2020

SEPTEMBER 7

The Muses Gala Opera Troupe will perform in Cabe Hall at the Regional Arts Center during a 7 p.m. performance. Tickets are available through the Perot Box Office by calling 903-792-4992.

SEPTEMBER 14

The 31st annual Opportunities Invitational Golf Tournament will be held at Texarkana Country Club. Tee off will take place at 12 noon. For more information, call 903-791-2270 or visit: www.oppinc.org

SEPTEMBER 19

The Just Love and Kindness Golf Tournament and Auction will be held at Texarkana Golf Ranch. This tournament will be held in conjunction with Texarkana Arkansas Police Department’s P.R.I.D.E. Academy. To sign up, contact Robb at 903-278-2590

or Hunter at 903-334-7401 or visit: www.justloveandkindness.org.

SEPTEMBER 19

The Arkansas Game & Fish Foundation will host a Trapshoot Tournament from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Presented by Farmers Bank & Trust, the event will be held at the Trapshooting Range on Southern Arkansas University’s Governor Ben T. Laney Farm (833 Columbia Road 13 in McNeil, Arkansas). Proceeds will benefit the Arkansas Game & Fish Foundation and the SAU Trapshooting Team. For information, contact Candace Rankin at candace.rankin@ myfarmers.bank or 870-235-7003.

SEPTEMBER 26

To Reach Every Youth (T.R.E.Y.) will host its seventh annual Golf Tournament at 8 a.m. at Texarkana Golf Ranch. Breakfast and lunch will be provided. Contact Vicki Westmoreland at 903293-4771 for more information.

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SEPTEMBER 26

The Miller County Fair & Rodeo, “Rona Style,” will be held at the Miller County Fairgrounds. Activities will feature vendors, a livestock show, home arts, live music featuring The Shelton Band, and a rodeo. Visit the Miller County Fair Association Facebook page for more details.

OCTOBER EVENTS

OCTOBER 10

The Caddo Area Council, Boy Scouts of America, will host its annual Scouting for Food program. Call 903-793-2179 for more information.

Name something about you that very few people know:

“I can speak Malayalam (a south Indian language) fluently because that is the language we spoke at home while I was growing up.”

—

S. TRUETT

Best Piece of Advice:

“NO GOAL IS TOO HIGH IF WE CLIMB WITH CARE AND CONFIDENCE.”

CATHY,

FOUNDER OF CHICK-FIL-A

SanelThomas

age: 26 | Franchise Owner/Operator | Chick-fil-A Central Mall

The Chick-fil-A restaurant located in Mesquite, Texas, was where Sanel Thomas first worked at the age of 17. Even though it started off as a part-time job in high school, he grew to love the brand, the people, and serving guests.

“It has had a huge impact on my life, and I try to share those values and lessons with my team,” he explains. “I am very passionate about people and helping them achieve their dreams and goals. Our founder used to say that we are in the people business, disguised as a chicken restaurant, and I believe this 100%.”

The first person in his family to graduate college, Sanel has worked hard to become an entrepreneur. His greatest professional accomplishment is being selected to be the franchise owner of Chick-fil-A Central Mall in 2019.

Being involved with the local school districts and donating food to various organizations and businesses throughout the community in times of need are several of the ways that Sanel helps give back to the Texarkana community. He is also involved with Greater Texarkana Young Professionals and occasionally volunteers to do speaking engagements with local high schools and colleges to share his journey to entrepreneurship and overall leadership principles that he has learned over the years.

In his spare time, Sanel enjoys hanging out with friends and family and traveling. He even finds the time to play sports and work out, too. When asked about his future, he shares, “I hope that over the next 10 years we continue to grow the business here at Central Mall inside and outside the restaurant using various different platforms. More importantly, I hope I am spending the majority of my time influencing the next generation of leaders.”

Name something about you that very few people know: “I play the ukulele.”

Best Piece of Advice:

“GIVE IT YOUR ALL UNTIL THE JOB IS DONE, AND FINISH STRONG. HAVE FUN, AND DON’T LET ANYONE EMBARRASS YOU FOR HAVING FUN OR BEING SILLY.” —JOHN FLINT, JES’ FATHER

JesWeiner

age: 30 | Muralist and Portrait Artist | Self-employed

While driving in downtown Texarkana, one can’t help but notice all of the colorful murals which have recently added vibrant life to the area. One of the talented artists who has created three of these one-of-a-kind masterpieces is Texarkana native, Jes Weiner. “Shine Bright” and “Love Thy Neighbor” located in the Kress Gap, off of Broad Street, and the TXK Logo, facing the front doors of the Perot Theatre, are the creations that Jes brought to fruition. “I believe the murals add color, value, and life to a part of town that was loved but tired,” Jess describes. “I think when people see them, they are reminded that downtown Texarkana is worth investing time, money, resources, effort (and for me personally, a nine-hour road trip). I will never stop coming back to invest in my hometown. It’s worth the risk because the people of Texarkana are worth it.”

Jes and her husband, Ian, are the parents of three children: Zion, Ivan, and August. “This will sound cliché, but my greatest personal accomplishment is truly the birth of my children. Building babies is HARD, and birthing them is harder, and RAISING them is even harder!” she admits. “But any parent reading this knows that every bit of it is worth it.”

Well-known for painting murals and custom portraits, Jess “adores” painting murals. A blank wall, or even a run down area of town, instantly transforms into a hot spot for tourism, photography, and events when murals are added to the area. “I love seeing the transformation that a space makes with just a little (or a lot) of paint. You instantly add value to a place and its surrounding areas when you take the time to beautify it,” she acknowledges.

All three of Jes’ Texarkana murals are very special to her, but the one that took the most “effort and guts” was the TXK Logo mural. “Fifty hours on a boom lift was both physically and mentally taxing. I measured everything twice. Did the math twice. It had to be RIGHT,” Jes recalls. “It was a commissioned piece, and it wasn’t my original design so there was no messing it up. No room for error. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done but I am still overflowing with pride and gratitude that I had the opportunity to make the big stamp on downtown TXK.”

photo by MICAH BLOSSER

RAISING MY TRIBE

by A li D e A l

COVID-19 .... it’s the gift that keeps on giving. I have found myself in some amusing situations during this time. For instance, all of the masks I ordered to keep my family “safe” and out of harm’s way during this pandemic ... well, they arrived straight to my doorstep all the way from CHINA. Major fail! By trying to keep my child safe, I send him to school with a mask covering his mouth and nostrils that was made in the very place this virus originated. The very air my kids are breathing IS China. And suddenly I realize, everything I buy is made in China. Come on people, we are better than this. We are all doomed when the masks on our faces are made out of Coronavirus.

Another instance, The Cookie Lady arrived in Texarkana. You have to be a tired mom of three who has run out of ideas of entertaining kids since March to wait in line for an hour for a limit of six cookies. It sounds like a great plan, until it isn’t a great plan. Fifty minutes into our cookie wait time, my gas light appeared. As I counted down the miles until empty, I prayed, “Lord, let me get my cookies and get to a gas station. And if I do run out of gas, Lord please let it be a casual day at the bank. And not a day that my husband is wearing a suit.” I got down to one mile until empty. I started panicking and at this point, even the kids started praying because we are jam-packed in the line. There was no escaping and people were stressed out about getting their hands on these cookies.

Our country’s addiction to sugar is not helping this virus by the way, and here I was waiting an hour-plus for sugar. As I have mentioned before, my husband and I have some college kids that hang out at our house frequently. I don’t know why, but it comes in handy in the most random of times. I’m always preaching to them about finishing school and getting jobs ... blah, blah, blah. Anytime, I start getting all high and mighty on them, God humbles me. Who ended up saving me? The college kids. Thank God they were sitting at home doing virtual classes because one “just happened” to be near, “just happened” to have a gas can, and “just happened” to arrive on the scene as my car wouldn’t go anymore in the line backed up down State Line. Thank God they don’t all have full-time jobs because every once in a while I need them to bail me out.

Here is where we are now in this ever-changing TV sitcom that is my life. This morning, my oldest has strapped a mask from China around his face and is walking out the door for school. God bless him! My middle is quarantined for two weeks as a child in her class tested positive. God bless me! So, I’m a virtual learner teacher for the next two weeks. Yea! I spent last week working as a sub at the school trying to help out. We are all just doing the best we can here. However, pretty soon, I’m predicting mental illness as a major by-product of COVID-19 ... exposed or not!

Always witty and fun, Ali Deal is a part-time hairdresser/counselor and full-time mom to three children. She enjoys writing and sharing stories about her crazy everyday life in the “House of Deal.” Among her many talents, she serves as a partner-in-crime to her husband Cody, pancreas to John Morris, nurse to Rosemary, and baby whisperer to James.

EXQUISITE

INTERIORS

TRANQUIL. CLASSIC. WELCOMING.

by SUZY TURNER photos by KIM MCMURRY

Pristine and flawless, this 20-year-old 5 bedroom, 5 bath Country French-style home is nestled amongst 50 wooded acres in Texarkana, Texas. Upon entering, guests are immediately drawn to the open arrangement which exhibits clean lines and sharp edges. With Jason Eppinette’s construction experience and Hollis Boyette’s eye for design, this home’s renovation was exactly what owners, Mishal and Dr. Hayden Hemphill, desired.

Bold white columns separate the living spaces from the public areas. Large archways lead into the elegant formal living area. A comfortable seating arrangement makes it the perfect place for relaxation or for watching TV. Large abstract paintings bring color into the neutral palette. With the decorating assistance of Susan Slimer and Bryan Callaway, the furniture and accessories provide the perfect mix while offering an easy transition between the living room and kitchen areas.

Quite possibly Mishal’s favorite room in the house, the updated open-concept kitchen is a chef’s dream. White cabinetry, some with antique glass fronts, wrap around three walls. The soaring vaulted ceilings feature unique exposed wooden trusses. An interior balcony overlooks the kitchen, providing a favorite hangout spot for “Lou,” the Hemphill’s Bengal kitten. Stainless steel appliances, quartz countertops, and a tile backsplash add to the practical function of the room. A custom range hood by carpenter, Chris Sanchez, completes the visual flow of the modern kitchen.

Adjacent to the kitchen, a butler’s pantry offers adequate supplies for Hayden’s morning coffee routine. Lighting from Logan Electric illuminates the transitional space which also displays Mishal’s china and crystal stemware collections.

The master bedroom lends an air of simplicity, as well as elegance. Large floor-to-ceiling windows offer a picturesque view of the back half of the property, as well as a spectacular view of the creek. Tall storage cabinets are featured in the spacious master bath. Tile flooring adds functionality to the room, while quartz countertops and a pedestal tub turns it into an updated, tranquil spa retreat.

The back patio features an outdoor kitchen, complete with a picnic table and outdoor fireplace. Numerous chairs are arranged around a cozy fire pit so family and guests can enjoy the outdoor space, even during the cooler months. Landscaping and hardscaping by Dana Cox, owner of Cox Exterior Design & Development, provides the perfect setting for watching otters, minks, beavers, and raccoons frolic and play in the Hemphill’s beautiful backyard.

Elegance abounds in this regal, yet comfortable, modern home which features unique architectural design elements and strategically placed nooks and niches. A reading room, library (complete with a hidden bookshelf that retracts into the attic for easy access to storage space), TV room, and man cave complete this home, which is absolutely gorgeous, both inside and out.

THE ROAD Tra veled less

BY NICHOLE HOLZE

Arkansas may be most wellknown for its diamond mine; however, there is another shiny specimen that we prefer to hunt.

The Ouachita mountains hide a beautiful secret: one of the world’s richest deposits of quartz crystal. From Mt. Ida to Hot Springs, there are more than a handful of places for the public to dig for their own treasures, both in the actual mine or in the tailings piles. Mt. Ida is the self-proclaimed quartz capital of the world; and while that may not be true, it is certainly the quartz capital of North America.

Of all the places we have visited to dig for quartz, Ron Coleman crystal mine just outside of Hot Springs holds our top spot for best results. I’ll never forget the first time we visited, having just gone (unsuccessfully) mining for diamonds the week prior. My daughter’s loud exclamation that the ground was glittering was enough to make it worth the drive. We have since been more times than we can count, each time bringing back a bucket full of treasure with us. Our best find? Mother’s Day 2019. My husband unearthed a massive cluster that was almost too heavy to carry and full of beautifully clear points. We also found a clear point that filled up my palm, and it sits in a place of honor on my table centerpiece. For the adventure-inclined, there is also a zip line over the commercial mine and mine tours available.

Wegner Crystal Mine in Mt. Ida offers a similar tailings digging experience, or you can pay a bit more, and they will take you right into their commercial mine to dig. Even if you don’t want to go dig, it’s worth a visit to their gift shop. Take a walk around, and check out the massive crystal points they’ve unearthed.

For a more wild experience, check out Crystal Vista. It’s an abandoned

commercial mine located on top of a mountain not too far from Wegner Mine. It’s a bit over a mile of straight up hiking to get there, but once you’re up, there are prime Arkansas views along with a true treasure hunter experience as you dig right into the mountainside.

Things to consider: Wear old clothes; your clothes will get stained with the iron rich dirt that is part of the mine. Wear old shoes, or even rain boots. Bring more water than you think you’ll need. Gloves are helpful; basic gardening gloves work well. Use a five gallon bucket to haul in tools and haul out treasures. Hand gardening tools make great crystal digging tools. Snacks, lots of them, and probably a picnic lunch. Also bring a change of clothes for the ride home. One more note: many of these mines have no shade, and it can be brutally hot in the summer. Late September is the perfect time to go. We like to visit all winter long when the crowds are less, and the weather is cool. Happy digging!

Hiking to Crystal Vista

Ron Coleman Entrance

Quartz Crystal

Never afraid of a long drive, Nichole is a homeschooling mom to two and wife to Ryan. Coffee, always, and black please. You can probably find her scheming up their next road trip while hiking in the woods. Experience-based learning and good books abound in their homeschool, as they chase the spark of curiosity where it wanders on the road less traveled.

Crystal Vista

Comparing Crystals at Ron Coleman

the FRIENDS list

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friend List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

PORCHA HAWKINS age: 34

occupation: Marketing Director, Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? Call my mom and tithe.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? I watch YouTube tech reviews or tutorials, read, or listen to music.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

Peace, love, health, and prosperity for all people.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

Definitely Amazon. All of the Amazon memes are about me.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “Spirited Away.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

I don’t watch much TV, but when I do, I like to watch my all-time favorite show, “The Golden Girls,” on Hulu, or some other ’80s-’90s sci-fi/fantasy movie.

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

One of the Nordic countries because seeing the Northern Lights in person is high on my bucket list. I would also love to go on a tour of ancient castles around the world.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick?

Excluding communication apps: Bible, Books, YouTube.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

I watch baseball – Texas Rangers.

JUSTIN MAGNESS

age: 32

Occupation: State Farm Agent

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? I would buy a Vineyard in Sonoma County, California.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? I would pass the time by watching TV, listening to music, or reading.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

For all to know the rest that comes with having a relationship with Jesus Christ.

At what business could you max out a credit card? Golf USA.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “It’s a Wonderful Life.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

I am all caught up on the shows I watch, but my favorite show on Netflix is probably “Ozark.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

Rome, because there is so much neat history and architecture that has always intrigued me.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick?

Only having three apps on my smartphone would probably be the best thing for my productivity ... haha! If I could only have three I would choose Apple Music, YouTube, and my work email.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

The Dallas Cowboys for football and the New York Yankees for baseball, and I love both equally. I know I was only supposed to pick one sport but that is kind of like asking who your favorite kid is!

“ FABULOUS 40 AND UNDER ”

WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE MAKES A PERSON “FABULOUS”?

A person who uses his or her gifts, strengths, and resources to build up the community and contribute to the success and well-being of others.

A person is fabulous if they are confident in who they are.