Four States Living Magazine February 2021

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ON THE COVER - FEBRUARY 2021 Newlyweds Sarah and Michael Wacha are so thankful that their relationship stood the test of time, even though much of it was initially rooted in long-distance dating. They have found true love and are thankful for their strong, deep, and meaningful commitment to each other.

(Photo by Samantha Farmer Photography) See “Pitch Perfect Love” on page 8.

INSIDE: HOME & GARDEN SPECIAL SECTION With spring right around the corner, it’s time for homeowners to clean out the cobwebs and turn their attention to their home and garden.

FEATURE STORIES Faith, Family, Friendship & Sports

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The Right Person, In the Right Place, At the Right

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A Special Kind of Love

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The House that Love Built

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Love to Last a Lifetime

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Marriage is Not A Destination; It is a Journey

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An Exciting Opportunity for Everyone

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ALSO IN THIS ISSUE The Way I See It An op-ed piece from the publisher

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Home & Garden Special Section

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Ask the Experts

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The Road Less Traveles

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Events

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A Pinch of Salt

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The Friends List

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Scene About Town

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Business Highlight

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The Way I See It...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

When I don’t have a husband to talk about in the month of Valentines, flowers, and all things sweet to eat, what on earth do I have to say? Well, I could talk about politics; lots still going on with that. Wait, h@$$ no! People go to Facebook for that craziness. Then, I thought about the COVID vaccine, because my mom, my daughters, and I have taken both doses of the Pfizer vaccine (without any side effects), but then I remembered that discussion is still up for debate in some circles, too. We made a decision that worked for us; everybody else gets to choose, too. Then, I thought about how broke I am at the moment. Dang taxes. But, then I might get on politics again, and we know what that leads back to. I’m also cash depleted because I’ve had some household expenses that occurred right after Christmastime.

First, I let my garage door crash into my trailer hitch.

That door buckled like an accordion, and before I realized it, the wheels were off the tracks of one side, and the door had flopped onto my 4-Runner. Granted, it was probably a 1975 model door with some wear and tear, but I wasn’t expecting to drop my Christmas cash at Overhead Door. Lucky for me, I’ve got a new one coming with Wi-Fi access, and I will be able to open my garage door from anywhere in the world! As if I ever get out of Bowie and Miller Counties.

My heating and air conditioning unit also had to be replaced. That’s another unexpected purchase that makes you want to sell your kids’ cars to cover the expense. My bank account is still reeling over that one.

Then, I got this puppy. I know I’ve already talked about the new shaggy, lover-boy in my life. Willie Nelson, and yes, we call him by both names, has reminded me how expensive pets can be. Of course, he goes to the vet every month for all of the checks, and I buy the fancy dog food that the vet recommended. Dear heavens, my grocery bill saw a spike when the dog joined the family. But, he’s worth it. He’s worth it, right?

What I didn’t anticipate was his fascination with wires. In

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this Zoom computer world we are living in, if your internet is splotchy, you are in trouble. I teach by Zoom three weekends a semester; that’s all. But you know Willie Nelson was going to discover those wires on the side of the house on the Friday of the weekend I was supposed to teach. Down went the WiFi. I had to move my teaching office to the Four States office while the Wi-Fi guy got it repaired. I was so glad to come home that Saturday night to a fixed internet.

This is where I tell you that I had the dogs in a different area of the house to keep them away from the repaired cables.

I had been home maybe 10 minutes and was getting some dinner, when I heard one daughter screaming at the other daughter. “ELLEN, you weren’t supposed to let the dogs out in the back yard because of the internet!”

“Oh. My. Goodness,” I thought. “I just paid a dude $200, and he hadn’t been gone even an hour.”

I ran to the back door, and what did I find? The cable wires were hanging out of Willie Nelson’s mouth; he was proudly wagging his tail. And, I knew I was too late.

I didn’t call the internet guy back for another week. There was some shame in not being able to keep it fixed for longer than 10 minutes. When he came back, he ran the internet in metal conduit, and Willie stayed out of trouble for a couple of weeks.

That brings me to today. It’s 5 a.m., and I am sitting in the kitchen where it’s super quiet, so I can write something about love. I have a space heater plugged up beside me, and a heating blanket draped over my lap. It’s been a rainy, windy, frigid 40 degrees this week. With that new heating unit that nearly cost me an arm and a leg, you would think my house would be toasty, right? Well, it would be if Willie Nelson hadn’t eaten the electrical wires between the new unit and the house.

I think it now makes sense why we have a special section this month about Home & Garden products and contractors.

I’m going to need a home improvement loan to go along

PUBLISHER Dr. Robin Rogers EDITOR Suzy Turner GRAPHIC DESIGNER Kim McMurry SALES REPRESENTATIVE Lori Rochelle PHOTOGRAPHER Dr. Robin Rogers

FEATURED COLUMNISTS Nichole Holze Donnie Spriggs CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Jeff Hart Jennifer Jordan Lindsey McMillan Vicki Melde Ellen Orr Jileen Platt Lisa Porterfield Thompson

with everything that is in disrepair. And, you know what’s interesting about repairing one thing like a garage door? All of a sudden, the door you want does not match the color of the gutters or the trim of your house. And then the stucco looks moldy or dirty, so it needs a power wash, and the dominoes start to fall. I can see the debt free light at the end of my mortgage tunnel right this minute, but a new kitchen keeps calling my name. I would love a new kitchen, but we will see how that plays out!

Love is a funny thing. If you have a special someone, remember why you fell in love with that person. Show them that you haven’t forgotten the special moments, stolen kisses, and dips in the sand that are memories from the beginning of your relationship. Look at this lovely couple on the cover. Just married, Sarah and Michael Wacha are living their best life as newlyweds. Right after this photo was taken, Lucas Wacha (Michael’s younger brother) married his sweetheart, Samantha Stancato. If you don’t follow the Texarkana Wacha family, then you have no idea that these young men are professional athletes, but over and above their professions, they are about the best young men I have ever met. For them to share their love stories for this February issue, I am beyond grateful.

Ladies, Texarkana’s most eligible bachelors are officially off the market! We wish them the very best, and I hope you love their stories like I have.

In the meantime, Happy Valentine’s Day! Find love in the little things these days, and avoid anything that doesn’t bring you joy.

And yes, I am keeping Willie Nelson, in spite of his newfound love of humping legs and drinking out of the toilet.

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N E W LY W E D S SARAH AND M I C H A E L WA C H A L O O K F O R WA R D TO M A N Y Y E A R S O F R O OT I N G E AC H OT H ER O N photo by SAMANTHA FARMER PHOTOGRAPHY

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PITCH PERFECT

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we are not bar people at all,” Long-distance relationships Sarah reminisces. Michael and carry both benefits and drawbacks. his teammate, Matt Adams, had Separation is difficult, especially in come in to unwind after a game a new relationship when a couple that evening. Sarah was there is just beginning to navigate with high school friends; they had their course. Yet, time apart all recently turned 21. “I think it offers the opportunity for deeper was nice for him to meet someone connections when together and from St. Louis who didn’t really for more reflection about the know too much about him other partnership. Temporary separation than the fact that he played for can strengthen a relationship and the Cardinals. My friends and help partners realize that they have I were all around Michael’s age, found their soulmates. so I think he just enjoyed being Michael and Sarah Wacha able to let loose a little and have understand this very well. They fun with kids his age,” Sarah have charted their own path to love relates. “We played shuffleboard and marriage through many years that night, and he bought me a of long-distance romance. When drink. We ended up going back they met one evening in St. Louis to the same bar on our one-year in 2014, neither anticipated that Michael and Sarah became engaged in Dallas on January 29, 2020. He pretended to drive to his they would marry six years later in training facility, but instead, drove around to scope out the location and call Sarah’s father to ask for anniversary, played shuffleboard, and celebrated our first year the time of COVID-19. Yet, Sarah permission. Sarah was completely surprised! together.” and Michael also knew that they Sarah explains that she and had clicked, and through the course of several years of long distance, they Michael just “clicked right away.”

“Michael had just come off an incredible committed to their relationship and found happiness. rookie season in the big leagues, and I was just home from college for the Currently a pitcher for the Tampa Bay Rays, Michael has maintained summer. We were living such different lives, but our connection was instant.” a demanding work schedule since the beginning of his professional career Sarah elaborates, “He was such a gentleman when we parted ways for the with the St. Louis Cardinals. Growing up in Texarkana, Michael was taught night. I happened to be leaving for a cruise with my family the next day so by his parents to work hard for what mattered. As a student at Pleasant I wasn’t exactly sure what would happen. I thought it was a really fun night Grove High School, Michael played basketball and baseball all four years, but definitely didn’t think I had just met my husband. However, my parents football his freshman year, and also earned a place in the National Honor bought me Wi-Fi on the cruise, and we ended up talking nonstop. The day Society before attending Texas A&M University on a baseball scholarship. we got back from the cruise, he left tickets for my brother and me. Michael Sarah grew up in St. Louis with a similar experience in a tight-knit family and I went to dinner that night, and the rest is history!” who raised good kids and valued education. Sarah’s mom taught for 34 Upon graduating from college, Sarah was fortunate to return to St. Louis years and “always spoke highly of education and how rewarding it is,” and accept a job teaching English as a Second Language (ESL) students in Sarah comments. In fact, Sarah received a scholarship from the University the district in which she grew up. She had graduated with a master’s degree of Arizona at Tucson School of Education and graduated with a degree in in Education and became certified to teach ESL students, kindergarten elementary education in 2015. through 12th grade. Michael was extremely supportive of Sarah’s teaching, Sarah and Michael met at the end of May in 2014 when she returned listening to her stories, and even helping her to learn some Korean phrases home after her junior year of college. “We met at a bar named Hair of the night before she met four young students from Korea who did not know The Dog. It’s funny nowadays telling the story of how we met, because any English.

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Sarah recalls the challenges of building her relationship with Michael during her first year of teaching and his baseball schedule. “Baseball controls where/what city you play in and for how long. Then it gets even more specific, baseball decides where you spend your spring (mid-February through March), then you move to a different city for the 162-game baseball season. So, from about midFebruary through September (and maybe October depending if you make the playoffs), Michael’s schedule is written for him. There are no personal days for a sibling’s wedding, or sick days if you aren’t feeling your best,” Sarah explains. “My district only gave us TWO personal days to use over the course of the entire school year. I am a rule follower and was too scared to take a sick day if I wasn’t actually sick. The combination of teaching and baseball could have made things very difficult, but we always knew we would do whatever it took to make things work.”

They maintained a long-distance relationship for several years, but they made it work by planning ahead their next trip or weekend.

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Family is everything to Sarah and Michael so they gathered up the entire group on their wedding day, November 28, 2020. Pictured with them are: (front) Carson Clapsaddle and Bentley Clapsaddle (Michael and Sarah’s nephews); (back) Johnny Hoffman (Sarah’s twin brother), John Hoffman (Sarah’s father), Susan Hoffman (Sarah’s mother), Karen Wacha (Michael’s mother), Tom Wacha (Michael’s father), Brette Wacha (Michael’s sister), Lucas Wacha (Michael’s brother), Charles Clapsaddle (Michael’s brother), and Samantha Wacha (Lucas’s wife). (Photo by Samantha Farmer Photography)

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Michael moved to Tampa Bay to play with the Rays, and he and Sarah planned a large wedding in St. Louis for November 2020.

COVID-19 altered their plans, and they ended up getting married in their backyard on November 28, 2020, in Jupiter, Florida, 10 days after moving into their house. They hosted family for Thanksgiving and married two days later. “Our change of plans led to the most perfect wedding and weekend,” Sarah states. “We had 15 of our closest family and friends. It was our parents, siblings and their significant others, my very best friend since preschool and Michael’s nephews. We really wanted our grandparents to be there, but it was too risky with COVID. The wedding ended up being everything we could have asked for and more. It could not have been more different than what we originally planned on doing (probably around 300 people at a country club in St. Louis) but it was so US (low-key, intimate, with our favorite people on Earth minus a few, of course). There was no pressure. We actually got to talk to our parents, talk to each other. It was perfect.” Sarah’s dad got ordained to officiate the ceremony, and Michael’s dad shared a Bible reading. The couple set up a Zoom feed so that other friends and family could participate virtually. Michael and Sarah also wrote their own vows, which they say was their favorite aspect of the ceremony.

Married life three months later continues to be wonderful. Sarah comments that it feels much the same as when they dated. “We have been looking forward to being married for so long, but at the end of the day, we have always been a team, partners, each other’s biggest fans, and committed to making each other’s lives better.” They complement each other well, playing off each other’s strengths. Sarah notes how calm Michael always is, always believing that things will work out, and how “he appreciates his roots, the people who helped him succeed.” Michael calls Texarkana his hometown and is grateful for the support of all the coaches and other people who have helped him. Michael remarks how sweet and helpful Sarah is. “She has the biggest heart and is always looking to help others. I love having her by my side and can’t imagine it any other way.”

The Wachas are spending the off-season in Jupiter and are excited to move across the state to Tampa Bay in April. Sarah is not teaching currently, but enjoys serving as the coordinating director of a nonprofit organization called Prom Series. Established by a baseball wife, Prom Series “supports foster teens across the country by building their confidence and self-worth, big league style.” Michael and Sarah also look forward to their future. They plan to host a large wedding celebration later this year and then hopefully start a family. As Sarah explains, “We can’t wait to see where baseball takes us. Baseball is all about adventures; there is no road map, so we just go with the flow.

We look forward to meeting new friends and getting to explore and live in new places.” Here’s to a beautiful life filled with much love and laughter.

Every off-season, Sarah and Michael try to take a trip to Maui, their “happy place.” This photo was taken on Michael’s first trip to the island during December 2014.

Every year from 2014-2019, Michael and Sarah have traveled to Texarkana to spend Thanksgiving with their family and friends.

In October 2018, Michael spoke to students at Prairie View Elementary School during bullying awareness month. Sarah was an ESL teacher in St. Louis while Michael was playing baseball for the Cardinals.

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN LO N E STAR CHAPTER O F DAR H OSTS ES SAY CO NTEST The Lone Star Chapter Daughters of the American Revolution recently held an essay contest for fifth through eighth grades at St. James Day School. The students were required to write an essay on the topic of the 250th Anniversary of the Boston Massacre. They were asked to imagine living in Boston and witnessing the events and the role it played in organizing the colonists against the British King and Parliament.

Alli Altenbaumer (fifth grade), Rosie Jordan (sixth grade), David Mayo (seventh grade) and James Thomson (eighth grade)

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Faith, Family, Friendship

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sports S A M A N T H A A N D L U C A S WA C H A B U I L D T H EI R L I FE TO G E T H ER O N A F I R M F O U N D AT I O N photo by MOLLY KENDRICK PHOTOGRAPHY

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It’s amazing how one day someone walks into your life, and you cannot remember how you ever lived without them. – Unknown While attending the University of Wyoming, a chance encounter at The Buckhorn in Laramie, Wyoming, was just that moment for Texarkana native Lucas Wacha. He was playing football on scholarship for Wyoming while earning his bachelor’s degree in Math and Science. Enter Samantha Stancato.

Beautiful Samantha Stancato! She was also a student at Wyoming on a golf scholarship and pursuing her bachelor’s degree in Communication. “For Lucas, there was definitely a spark,” Samantha shared. “I wasn’t so sure. We remained friends for a few months and ended up seeing each other at church a lot which is where we realized this could be a good thing.”

A love for sports definitely played a significant role in Lucas and Samantha discovering their love for each other. Samantha was born and raised in Colorado Springs, Colorado. She grew up with two sisters, Lindsey and Stefanie, and a brother, Tony. “I grew up playing sports but loved golf and basketball the most,” she recalled. “I started playing golf competitively at 7 years old. One of my favorite memories is going to the US Kids World Golf Championship in Jekyll Island, Georgia, with my family when I was a third grader.”

Lucas grew up in Texarkana, Texas, with his two older brothers, Charley and Michael, and younger sister, Brette. He too has fond memories of family time spent playing sports and competing together. Both Lucas and Samantha are very family oriented.

Their love of family and their faith also worked to create the strong bond they share. When asked what quality they most admire about each other, their answers were very similar. For Samantha, it is Lucas’s faith. “We have grown together in our faith, and he is a huge part of that,” she explained. “I also love his competitiveness. Since we are both athletes, we understand each other when it comes to our respective sports and how much they mean to us. I love how we support each other’s dreams and goals.”

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he stated. “Her faith practiced in the Catholic church also is a huge reason I’m in love with her!”

Though it took a bit longer for Samantha to know that Lucas was “the one,” she found herself wanting to spend all her free time with him. Their relationship is built on a very strong foundation of friendship. Samantha was especially drawn to the way Lucas treated her family when he first met them. It seems he definitely had her family’s approval from the start – even her little sister (who, in Samantha’s words, is “hard to please”) loved him immediately!

Lucas’s proposal of marriage was the culmination of seven years of dating.

“I proposed the same day I bought the ring,” he admitted. “It was a surprise to her for sure because I didn’t even know I was going to do it!” They were at Lucas’s parents’ house getting ready for a New Year’s Eve get together with their neighbors at the end of 2019. Samantha recalled coming into his parent’s kitchen to find Lucas there with a Crocker’s Jewelers bag. “I had asked for earrings for Christmas, so I immediately thought this was my late Christmas gift,” she reminisced. “I opened the bag and the box inside, and it was empty! I was so confused!” The next thing Samantha knew, Lucas was down on his knee holding the most beautiful ring she’d ever seen. “He was teary-eyed but asked if I would marry him, and I couldn’t believe it,” she shared. “It was the easiest answer of my life to say YES!” As most couples who planned weddings during the pandemic are quick to admit, it was definitely challenging. They worked thru the logistics rather easily – with Lucas noting he “just tried to stay out of the way until Samantha needed help with something.” The true challenge was with having family members all over the country – many of whom were unable to attend the ceremony. While they completely understood, they both missed their presence. “Thankfully, live streaming is a no-brainer these days, so they were able to be with us virtually,” they recalled.

Pandemic or not, on January 2, 2021, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, this dynamic young couple became Mr. and Mrs. Lucas Wacha. They celebrated with

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The University of Wyoming brought Samantha and Lucas together: he played football on scholarship, while she played golf on scholarship there.

Lucas caddies for Samantha during the Texarkana Children’s Charities Open Women’s All Pro Tour (WAPT) professional golf tournament that was held last year at Northridge Country Club.

family and friends with a reception at Northridge Country Club. Lucas and Samantha have taken to heart some wonderful advice on marriage.

Samantha remembered wise words from their priest who married them … uncommunicated expectations are premeditated disappointments. Lucas added the importance of patience. “I and me become us and we.”

Aside from the common bond they have in their love of sports – playing them, watching them, anything to do with sports – the words they use to describe each other further demonstrate their commitment and mutual respect.

Samantha about Lucas: loving, faithful, competitive Lucas about Samantha: beautiful, patient, understanding The future is, no doubt, bright for this young couple who have joined their lives. They plan to make Texarkana their home. “We have some dreams and goals that we are still reaching for and one of those is definitely creating a family,” Samantha said. “Texarkana is a great city and a great place to plant our roots.”

Lucas echoed her desire for children – “as many as God has in store for us!”

Experts on romance say for a happy marriage, there has to be more than a passionate love. For a lasting union, they insist there must be a genuine like for each other.

Which in my book, is a great definition for friendship. – Marilyn Monroe Lucas and Samantha – may your marriage built on your shared faith and that genuine like for each other bring you a lifetime of joy!

<<< Lucas proposed to a totally surprised Samantha on December 31, 2019, at his parents’ home.

During their honeymoon to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, Samantha and Lucas were able to relax and enjoy spending time with each other.

Samantha and Lucas married on January 2, 2021, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Texarkana.

(Photo by: Molly Kendrick Photography)

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Texarkana Moves Forward with Land Purchase

“There’s no place like home.” This oft-quoted line from “The Wizard of Oz” rings true for most. Home can mean different things for different people, but it often exudes comfort, warmth, a place of safety where we can relax and back, we are. Home doesn’t have to T H E 1 , 3 5 0 - A C R E S I T Ebe Iour S true A Nselves.

O T HIt Ecalls R usT O O wherever L be our place of origin. We can make a home out of anywhere that fits for us.

JeffPLoving, I N T H E E C O N O M I C D E V EForL O M E Nthat T Thome O Ois LTexarkana.

B O X Raised as a Navy brat by two wonderful parents, Jeff has lived all over the country, an experience that allowed him to taste and learn to cook a variety of cuisines. The influence of his French mother cooking three meals a day inspired him to do the same forwhat otheritpeople.

“I grew up competitive with her in the just loved watching On December 22nd, the City of Texarkana Arkansas will take to be in kitchen today’s and economic her cook classical French cuisine,” Jeff reminisces.

For 16 years, Jeff lived and Public Facilities Board closed on a historic purchase of development environment. worked“To in Texarkana as abuild chef,and caterer, and restaurant partner.

1,350 acres to support the region’s economic development continue to diversify our economy, weIn late 2019, Jeff received a business opportunity in Steamboat Springs, Colorado, and efforts. Just over two years ago, both Bowie and Miller need strategic property that we have control of to market spent a year there.

However, this month, he has returned home counties agreed to a joint economic development effort to prospects,” said Rob Sitterley, President & CEO of AR-to the delight of TX his clients. now known as AR-TX REDI. This was an unprecedented REDI. “Oftentimes, when an available site is privately A beloved and facehas inno Texarkana, hasorfed the community his and unified endeavor by the two states to facilitate job owned, thename community control ofJeffcost timeline. delicious fare in a variety of settings.

From Timothy’s Restaurant to Brick creation and attraction of private capital.

Time is everything in a deal.”

House Burgers to Twisted Fork, Jeff has showcased his culinary expertise and “Before AR-TX REDI was created, the region Since the purchase is complete, AR-TX REDI has versatility the sit-down venue. He taught cooking classes and run was divided by state lines,” said Arkansas Secretary already inbegun the process of has sitealso certification which a successful catering business, Chef on the Run. For the latter, of Commerce Mike Preston. “Today, this investment includes an environmental assessment, identifying Jeff creates delicacies for private multi-course dinners, large catered demonstrates the commitment by local leadership to erase permitting timelines, infrastructure costs and moreevents, with and family meals.

To the greater Jeff is Cooperative known as a professional virtuoso borders and invest in projects to increase our competitive its partners at theTexarkana Arkansasarea, Electric Corp. in the kitchen.

To his many friends and fans, he is known simply as Cheffrey. advantage in today’s economic development marketplace.”

The process will take approximately 3 to 6 months to One year ago, Jeff wanted to make a change and try something new. He The need for AR-TX REDI was clear. Economic complete. movedArkansas to Steamboat Springs to open a restaurant called The Periodic Table. development has become increasingly competitive with State Representative Carol Dalby said, “It wasn’t the best experience,” Jeff remarks.

“I went on to be an evolving world economy, especially given the global “Economic development projects are won based on athe executive chef for a men’s 90-day Beginning rehab facilitythe (Three Strands) until COVID hit.” Jeff pandemic, and the level of technological disruption in variety of factors. process of creating a was unemployed for a little while, and then chose to open Chef on the Run every industry from manufacturing to health care, from certified, shovel-ready site will increase our region’s profile. in We Steamboat Springs.for “It the was extremely hard,”byhethe comments.

“I did build up education to logistics. are grateful commitment City and a nice following with my private cheffing, but not constant enough.”

While Every day companies are making data-driven decisions County to make this 1,350-acre project a reality.” the beauty of Colorado and its fly-fishing spots appealed to him, it was time on where to locate, expand and unfortunately eliminate A certified site will decrease business uncertainty by forproviding Cheffrey to home. due diligence, the understanding communities. These decisions are based on bottomthecome necessary Jeff will be operating the Run projection out of the Collins Home on Olive line advantages and the mitigation of risk. So how can of timeline and costsChef and on consistent of market Street, beginning this month.

He is ready to resume life in Texarkana.

“When a community like Texarkana leverage 1,350 acres into a entry. However, community leaders warn this is not a I left, I leftit behind a lucrative business, good While friends,having and anaenvironment competitive advantage? “build and they will come” scenario. that I loved.

I’m excited to start-up my business again cooking By purchasing the site on the Arkansas side of the certified site will improve Texarkana’s marketability,(catering, they classes, private dinners).

I thought for sure somebody would step in and do region, the community can begin the process of mitigating will need to continue efforts such as workforce alignment it, but COVID-19 has made it a difficult year.” risk for a large-scale job creation project. and development, business retention efforts and fostering current plan is to promote family meal pickups at the Collins Home “Today’s economic development landscape is highly aJeff’s conducive regulatory environment to help create new in a COVID-friendly manner.

These meals include salad, entrée, sides, rolls, competitive. By starting the process to create a shoveljobs and investment in the region. ready, publicly owned site we are enhancing Texarkana’s profile as a region committed to transformative growth for our residents,” said City of Texarkana, Arkansas Mayor Allen Brown.

And a commitment of $4.1 million by the City of Texarkana, Arkansas, and Miller County officials does not go unnoticed. The leadership’s willingness to bring this purchase to fruition shows their commitment of

“As the country and our region reopens and recovers from COVID, there will be a significant shift in manufacturing with many companies looking for US locations. By having a shovel-ready site, we will be seen as a market interested in mitigating risks and increasing speed to market for the business while increased revenue for our community,” said former Arkansas State Highway Commissioner Prissy Hickerson.

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The Right Person, In the Right Place, At the Right Time LY N D Y W H E AT ’ S L I F E L O N G PA S S I O N O F C A R I N G F O R T H E E L D E R LY I S E V I D EN T I N B OT H H ER P ER S O N A L LIFE AND PROFESSIONAL LIFE

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For last year’s Christmas trip, Lyndy and Randy took their family to visit Gatlinburg, Tennessee.

As if being a mother to three girls and one boy, and being an experienced nurse, and being a dedicated wife, friend, employee, and community member wasn’t enough, Lyndy Wheat recently took over as administrator of Magnolia at The Oaks, a memory care facility in Texarkana, in the fall of 2020. “I truly love Alzheimer/ dementia residents,” Lyndy said. “Every day is new and different, and we love to jump into our residents’ world no matter where they are mentally today and love them up.”

Lyndy did not start her career with this kind of role in mind. In fact, in the beginning she planned on becoming a teacher. “I grew up Genoa and attended Genoa Central School,” Lyndy said. “I went straight to Texarkana College out of high school. I ended up becoming a CNA while I was pregnant with my oldest daughter, Lauryn, and began working for Ark-La-Tex Home Health and Hospice as an aide. It was this point in my life I found my passion loving and caring for senior adults.”

Lyndy quickly enrolled in the LVN Program at Texarkana College, with a 3-month-old at home, no less. She found herself leaning heavily on her family support system as she found her footing in the nursing world. “I was living with my parents, Pam and Gary Green, while I went to school,” Lyndy said. “They’ve always been a huge part of my support system. Growing up, they attended all my basketball games and events during high school. I was also very close my entire life to my maternal grandparents, Alvin and Lawanah Tefteller.”

Lyndy recalls days spent with her grandfather as a child, and attributes much of who she is today to their time spent together. “My Papaw was 13 years older than my grandmother,” Lyndy said. “Therefore, he retired in the ’80s from RRAD and got to babysit me until I started kindergarten while my parents worked. He and my daddy played a huge part in the young lady I am today. These two men taught me work ethic, character, integrity, and most importantly, love.”

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Randy and Lyndy took a trip to Wisconsin for their 10-year anniversary.

Randy and Lyndy took their kids – Isaac, Abby, Bella – on their first helicopter ride while on vacation in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee.

after the passing of Lyndy’s grandfather.

“She is a very stubborn independent 83-year-old but after losing my grandfather, she needs us more now than ever as she learns to navigate life after losing my precious Papaw of 57 years of marriage,” Lyndy said. “He took very good care of her to the point that we joke about how well he spoiled her, and now we are helping her learn to navigate life and take care of the things he always took care of. For instance, he always took care of all the finances, or as he would call it ‘bookkeeping,’ any maintenance, and repairs around the house. We have even had to help her learn to pump her own gas because Papaw never let her car get below a half a tank.

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Gary Green, Lyndy’s father and best friend, taught her to love the outdoors and to live life to the fullest.

“I believe with all my heart that God called me 20 years ago to be a nurse because of my heart, and the love and relationship I’ve always had with my grandparents.

My Papaw always called me “his toot toot,” a nickname that I still hold dear today.

He was one of the most kind, most gentle, and most honest men I have ever had the opportunity to know and love. He was my earthly example of what the love of Christ is supposed to look like.”

Lyndy cares for her residents in much the same way she does her own grandmother.

In fact, her residents’ families commented that she is a one-of-a-kind administrator that makes a daily difference in their family members’ lives. “I love interacting

with the residents above every aspect of being an administrator at the Magnolia.

Every resident that moves into my building gets a small piece of my heart, and when one moves out or passes on, they stay with me,” Lyndy said. “I believe that for us to provide the best care possible, we must get to know the residents and their families. It’s hard enough for families to place their loved ones in a facility, especially when they have a diagnosis such as Alzheimer’s/dementia. My goal is to have an open-door policy, meaning I personally want families’ honest input on how we are doing. The status quo isn’t good enough for me.”

“It’s the way our administrator looks at our residents and sees beyond what the eye can see,” the facility’s Facebook says. “It’s the connection she makes with them. We are so thankful that God placed the right person, in the right place, at the right time. Thank you, Father, for placing Lyndy right where she is meant to be.”

The post goes on to add comments the facility has received about their administrator from family members. They describe Lyndy as “a great leader, doing a great job” and more. “I think about my residents 24/7,” Lyndy said.

“When I am not in my building, they are always on my mind.”

Upon graduation from Texarkana College’s LVN program, Lyndy went to work at Wadley Regional Medical Center on the medical surgery floor. She ended up working in many areas of the hospital, including Cardiology, Obstetrics and Gynecology, Pre-Operation and Recovery, and more. She then transitioned into school nursing, where she spent six years working for Fouke and Genoa Middle and High Schools. Her first job after school nursing was for Integrity Home Health of Arkansas where she fell in love once again—this time with home health and hospice care.

“My passion led me to work with Heritage Home Health and Hospice as a field nurse for home health, then I became a community liaison for the last three years,” she said. “During my work at Heritage, I learned what the heart of home health and hospice truly looked like. I spent a lot of time marketing and nursing in all the assisted living/memory cares in Texarkana and began learning how they work and run. This experience led me right where God wants me to be at this season in my life/career.”

Lyndy leads a team of skilled professionals at Magnolia at The Oaks that not only provides care to residents, but also plans entertainment and stimulating activities for them to participate in. This not only makes the residents happier but gives comfort to their families as well.

“Our residents are my number one priority,” Lyndy said. “I strive to take care and love each and every one of them as if they were my own parent/grandparent.

This is my true heart and passion.” The love Lyndy has for her residents is clear.

She is making a daily difference in many lives in her position as administrator of this facility.

At home, Lyndy is busy raising kids and being a devoted wife. This April, she and her husband, Randy, will celebrate 12 years of marriage. Together they have four children: Lauryn Bivens, 21; Abigayle House, 18; Isaac Wheat, 10; and Isabella Wheat, 8.

During Easter 2009, Lyndy enjoyed some special time with her Granny (Lawanah Tefteller) and her sister, Chevi Moore, who is 12 years younger than her and works as a wound care nurse at CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System.

“I accept calls from staff and families at any time of the day or night,” Lyndy said.

“They all have my cell number and know I will answer any time. I am so grateful for my precious family and the fact that they know my heart and how much I love people. I know it is frustrating for my kids and husband because there are days where I go to work at 6 a.m., work the floor all day long, and get home after 6 p.m.

Praise God for their patience with me and grace. I am so thankful for my husband.

He knows me and my heart and loves me even when I have nothing left at the end of a day.”

Lyndy’s grandparents, Alvin and Lawanah Tefteller, with her and Randy at their wedding in April 2009.

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN KN I G HTS O F CO LU M B U S CO U N CI L 2 6 5 0 PR ES ENTS CH ECK TO O PP O RTU N ITI ES , I N C .

The Knights of Columbus Council 2650 presented a $2,000 check to Opportunities, Inc. on January 19. Monies were raised from the 11th annual Red Beans & Rice Dinner that was held as a “to-go” event in October 2020 at the Parish Hall of St. Edward’s Catholic Church. Their financial support will benefit children and adults with disabilities in our community.

Dub Cooper, Grand Knight, said, “COVID-19 definitely presented some real challenges for the 2020 Red Beans and Rice Fundraiser. Historically, most people who purchase plates are members of the Church, so, this year we added a Friday lunch offering to capitalize on the many people working in the proximity of the Church. We also offered free city-wide delivery. These changes allowed us to still reach our donation goal, and we are grateful for everyone who participated.”

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BUSINES S HIGHLIGHT E XPR ES S EM PLOYM ENT PRO FES SI O NAL S ’ FI F TH AN N UAL TOY D R IVE Express Employment Professionals in Texarkana, USA, recently hosted its fifth annual toy drive, because “COVID Can’t Stop Santa.” Staff members from Express chose to support Child Protective Services and children who are placed in foster care through this year’s drive, noting that the foster care population has increased tremendously over the years, and the children they served are frequently overlooked and often are the ones in the most need. Toys donated to CPS/Department of Human Services are used at the time of placement and throughout the year for birthdays, Christmas, and other holidays. Children in Miller, Bowie, Little River, Hempstead, and Cass Counties benefitted from this event. Express surpassed its goal of 1,500 toys with a total of 2,001 toys. Red River Credit Union, Commercial Manufacturing, Jack Yates Drywall, Texana Bank, Ocean Canyon Properties, JCM Industries, Humco Holding, White Sign Company, Miller County Treasurer, Caraustar Atlanta, Housing Authority of Texarkana, Texas, and Guardians of the Children MC Sulphur River Chapter assisted Express Employment Professionals with this toy drive as well as other individuals in the community.

Heather Buster, Brittany Gabert-Rafael, Cydney Saulsbury, Angela Simmons, Nick McEntire, Melissa Mooneyham-Buster, Elaine Chriestenson-Kelton, Micayla Curtis, Meagan Luther and Cindy Ortiz

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a special kind of

LOVE

by J I L EEN P L AT T “Can I get a hug, too?”

This was T.L. (Terry) Taylor’s introduction.

He had seen Angela Kinley from afar. When she hugged his brother at a church revival in Paris, Tennessee, in December 1979, he knew he needed to say something. Angela’s response to Terry was, “No … I don’t know you like that.”

Terry wasn’t one to turn from a challenge.

“I knew I would ‘accidentally’ run into her at school,” remembers Terry. As a freshman, Angela was surprised this handsome senior was interested in her.

The next day “I guess I was feeling flirty … and asked if he still wanted that hug,” states Angela. Then Terry asked if he could carry her books for her. They both said yes, and that was the first of many yeses the couple would say to each other and their future, despite an unpredictable beginning.

An athlete and distance track star in high school, Terry received a scholarship to Austin Peay State University (APSU), an hour away.

From January until Terry left in August, they spent almost every day together. “He would run the two to three miles to my house,” states Angela. “I was excited to see her,” remembers Terry. “And I could get in extra running practice.”

The anticipated day came for Terry to leave. “I thought my world had stopped,” says Angela. “I cried for several days … It was a very lonely time for me.” The couple mailed letters to each other often and called

The Taylors attended a celebration at the Church of the Living God (C.W.F.F.) to celebrate their pastor and his wife’s 19th anniversary.

when they could. To cope, “I threw myself into my studies,” Angela explains. She also became involved in her school and church choirs. Angela later became a Sunday school teacher for early elementary kids and loved it.

Terry started college life, running four to five miles at 5:30 every morning. He attended classes for half a day, then track practice again at 2 p.m. “I struggled [with the freedom] to go … to class the first semester, and my grades suffered,” says Terry. With stern encouragement from his track coach and “not wanting to tell Angela that I wasn’t taking care of my business,” Terry swiftly corrected his behavior. “My final two years I was on the Dean’s List and a Class Student Body Senator,” states Terry.

He remained on scholarship and ran for the track team all four years.

Angela graduated from high school in 1983 and attended APSU. Terry was happy to have her near. “We enjoyed outdoors a lot … walking, going to the park, hanging out on campus, just being together,” remembers Terry.

In May of 1985, Terry graduated with a bachelor’s degree in History and a minor in Health/P.E., also receiving his teaching certification. The very next month, while parked in front of her house, he said to Angela, “I want you to marry me.” Angela saw the ring, screamed, then ran inside to tell her mom she was engaged. “I left Terry

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in the car,” exclaims Angela. “I hadn’t even said yes yet!”

The couple married on June 7, 1986, with the sun shining after a rainstorm.

“People say if it rains on your wedding day that it’s a sign of good luck,” says Angela. “I don’t know about that … but the Lord has surely been good to us.”

It was important to both that they finish their educations. “Our parents worked hard in the local factories and hospital to make a living,” Angela explains. “We wanted to have the opportunity to work in a profession of our choice.” Terry sought a master’s degree in Administration and Supervision, while Angela worked on her bachelor’s degree in Health Education with a minor in Psychology.

Education isn’t cheap, and the couple, even before marrying, helped each other financially. “I worked through high school and sent money to Terry when I could,” states Angela. Terry was a resident assistant in the dorms, a grad assistant to the track team, and delivered and arranged flowers for a flower shop. “When he had money, he would send it to me,” remembers Angela.

“We kept on encouraging each other that one day it would all be worth it.”

Terry graduated with his master’s degree soon after the wedding and was offered a position at their alma mater high school. The decision wasn’t easy.

Angela remained at APSU while Terry moved back to Paris. He taught three history classes and coached ninth grade boy’s basketball, football, and varsity boy’s soccer. “I was the only girl married in the dorms,” states Angela. This arrangement continued for a year and a half, typically seeing each other only on weekends and holidays.

Angela finished college in December 1989 and began working various jobs, eventually becoming a County Health Educator. She visited local schools and community centers teaching healthy habits, correct car seats for babies, smoking cessation classes, and much more.

On July 1, 1993, Terry and Angela welcomed a baby girl to their family.

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During the Bishop’s Banquet Night of Elegance in Tulsa, Oklahoma, Angela and Terry took the time to have their photo taken.

Angela and Terry dated for six years before they married on June 7, 1986.

a lot with coaching “he got up every night … and gave bottles and changed her diapers.”

The following year, Terry became the varsity boy’s basketball head coach. He also began the process to become an ordained minister. “My initial thoughts were ‘no, not me,’” says Terry. But “when the Lord speaks clearly, [there’s] nothing else to do but say yes.”

After three years of tutelage under a pastor, Terry was ordained as a minister in The Church of the Living God. Soon after, he was offered a position to pastor a church in Texarkana. “I didn’t feel I was ready,” explains Terry. Also, life was good for the family in Paris, and Terry enjoyed teaching and coaching.

The family waited a year, and in 1989, when the offer came again, they agreed.

Angela trusted the process, but knowing she would be leaving all they knew, she questioned, “Are you sure God said ‘preach’… not ‘teach?’”

Their decision to trust God and move has not only benefited them but has benefited the Texarkana area. Angela has served as a substitute teacher at TISD, and a paraprofessional at Theron Jones Elementary School. She attended Texarkana College and TAMUT to achieve her teaching certification and master’s degree, and has worked as a Pre-K teacher at Nash Elementary since 2001. “Teaching the little ones is my passion,” states Angela. She has continuously served on the Praise and Worship team at their church.

Terah graduated from Texas High School, attended and graduated from the University of Houston, and now serves as an assistant teaching aide at Spring Lake Park Elementary.

Terry has continued to pastor The Church of the Living God in Texarkana since 1998 and has worked in various teaching and integral leadership capacities at North Heights Jr. High, College Hill Middle School, Texas Middle School, Texarkana Arkansas School District, and the Collegiate Academy at the University of Hope-Texarkana. He wrote a grant to open the Washington Academy Charter School, serving as director for seven years. “I loved the teaching and the development of young minds … and to help mold [youth] into productive citizens [is] rewarding,” states Terry. He currently works as Associate Principal at Arkansas High School. “He goes where he’s needed,” expresses Angela. “His administration in the school is equal to his administration at the church.”

This summer, Terry and Angela will be married 35 years. They both agree that laughter is a component of lasting marriage. “He loves to joke around … and I love to sneak up and scare him,” laughs Angela. They have proven repeatedly that they are willing and ready to say yes by showing a commitment to God, a commitment to education, and a commitment to each other.

While in Long Beach, California, before the national church convention, Angela and Terry stopped for a bite to eat at Bubba Gump Shrimp Co.

The Taylors’ daughter, Terah, has followed in her parents’ footsteps and also works in education.

Angela admits that Terry always makes her smile as is evident in this photo taken while she was getting ready for work one morning.

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BUSINES S HIGHLIGHT CH R I STU S ST. M I CHAEL H E ALTH SYSTEM AN N O U N CES N E W PR ES I D ENT CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System is pleased to announce, Jason Adams steps into the role of President of the healthcare ministry on February 15, 2021. The announcement comes after Jason Rounds shared the news of his departure, effective February 12.

Jason Adams

“Since 1916, area residents have trusted CHRISTUS St. Michael to meet their healthcare needs and will continue to depend on our dedication to our founding mission with Jason Adams, a wellrespected leader at the helm,” said Chris Glenney, Senior Vice President of Group Operations, CHRISTUS Health and Chief Executive Officer of CHRISTUS Health Northeast Texas.

Adams brings with him more than 20 years of healthcare knowledge, including a wealth of senior leadership experience in operations, enterprise planning, financial accountability, professional services and overall business development in healthcare and complex multi-hospital systems.

“I am humbled to be selected for this role as President of CHRISTUS St. Michael,” said Adams. “As a native of Arkansas, I feel like I am coming back home. I look forward to the exciting things to come for our patients, Associates, and physicians as CHRISTUS St. Michael continues to grow and provide faith-based, quality care for our community.”

Adams’ early experience in healthcare administration included serving as Assistant Administrator at Memorial Hermann Fort Bend Hospital, where he had operational responsibility for all ancillary services. In 2005, Adams joined Universal Health Services in Las Vegas, Nevada, as Chief Operating Officer at Spring Valley Hospital Medical Center and then Valley Hospital Medical Center. He later served as Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer for Cape Cod Healthcare in Hyannis, MA, before joining CHRISTUS St. Vincent as Regional Chief Operating Officer in 2013.

CHRISTUS Good Shepherd Health System welcomed Adams as System Chief Operating Officer in 2017. As COO of CHRISTUS Good Shepherd, Adams led dayto-day operations of both Longview and Marshall hospitals as well as implementation of successful strategies to maximize quality and drive expansion of services. During his tenure, Adams and the senior leadership team led a comprehensive turnaround plan in less than 18 months. Under his leadership, CHRISTUS Good Shepherd also realized significant improvement in Associate engagement, patient satisfaction, quality scores, and operational efficiency.

“Jason Rounds’ contributions to CHRISTUS St. Michael are significant, and we are grateful for his many years of service to CHRISTUS St. Michael,” Glenney said. “I know Jason Adams will continue the commitment to our mission of extending the healing ministry of Jesus Christ, and I’m confident that our ministry will benefit from his strong experience, expansive skill set and dedication to achieving healthier communities.”

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TIPS FOR

Organizing A HOME • Everyone has that one drawer that is out of control. Use drawer organizers to stash your keys, batteries, pens, etc. so that they are easily within reach.

• Nowadays, most all homes are full of small appliances. Use cord keepers to get them under control and help declutter your counter space.

• Instead of keeping your furry friends’ pet food in the bag that is oftentimes hard to maneuver, find a sturdy, wide-mouthed plastic container to put it in. Oftentimes, you can even find one that a scoop will fit into, also.

• If your drawer space is limited, hang your kitchen essentials, like pots and pans, on any surface space that is wasted, like the side of cabinets.

• Decorative baskets are a must-have in every home. Organize them on the shelves in the utility room and use them to store paper goods.

• If your garage is also used as a storage space for yard tools, build a work

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station to one side, adding shelving and hooks to store the bigger items, like the broom, rake, and trimmers.

• Beauty products often get thrown in the vanity drawer without any sign of organization. Get rid of that frustration by using some bins to organize makeup.

You’ll be surprised how much easier your morning routine will be.

• Pantries are very useful in the kitchen; however, sometimes, they wind up being a catch-all. Adding a shoe organizer to the back of the door to house spices and cooking essentials is easy and very affordable.

• Non-slip hangers are a great addition to any closet space. They keep tops from falling off the hanger, and are even rounded on the corners to keep those “bumps” off the shoulders of blouses.

• Hang your favorite accessories on a pegboard within reach. Earrings, sunglasses, necklaces, etc. can be hung on small hooks to keep them from getting tangled and broken.

The House that Love Built M O N I C A A N D R I C K Y WA S H I N G T O N BEGIN THEIR NEXT CHAPTER IN THE HOME OF THEIR DREAMS

by S UZ Y T U R N ER We’ve all heard the old adage: opposites attract. Some couples dare to differ with that opinion while others accept it as the truth. Monica and Ricky Washington actually fit on both sides of the equation; while they are very different (he is quiet and laid-back while she tends to be bubbly and outgoing), their personalities also are very similar (both of them are kind, caring, and genuine).

Monica grew up in Memphis, Tennessee, and attended public school there. She went to LeMoyne–Owen College, received her master’s degree from the University of Memphis, and her Ed.S. from Walden University.

“I am the only teacher in my family,” she explains. “My family is made up of mostly medical professionals and other careers. My mom said she would never go into the field of education but I always had the bug to teach. My career really started in 1998 at Chickasaw Middle School.”

Ricky grew up in Douglasville, Texas. In 1990, at the age of 20, he had a major car accident where he sustained injuries that left him requiring the use of a wheelchair. He attended Texas A&M University-Texarkana then moved to the Dallas area. He lived there for a couple of years, met Monica, moved to Memphis, finished his master’s degree, and began teaching.

In 1999, before online dating was even a “thing,” Monica (who lived in Memphis, Tennessee) and Ricky (who lived in Carrollton, Texas) met online in a chat room. Because she didn’t want to give out too much information to anyone in the room before learning more about him, Monica’s profile read, “I have one of the most important jobs in the world.

I am overworked, underpaid, and underappreciated.” Ricky immediately guessed that she was a teacher.

After years of long-distance dating and many miles traveled between Memphis and Dallas, Ricky moved to Memphis to be closer to Monica.

They married on August 27, 2005, and lived in Memphis for seven years, then they moved to Queen City, Texas, and renovated a home there.

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Before their house was complete, the Washingtons checked out the screened-in back patio which is now one of their favorite spots.

>>> Monica and Ricky attended the NEA Foundation Education Gala in 2019, where Monica served as the keynote speaker.

photos by KIM MCMURRY

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acres.” Ricky then worked as a teacher for Texarkana Independent School District and continued working there for 11 years. Monica also served as a teacher at TISD for 10 years.

After living in Queen City for four years, the couple bought a beautiful home in Linden that was fairly-accessible and situated on nine acres with a pond and a pool. “We sold that house, lived in a rental house for a year, and then built our new dream home here in Douglasville. This home was a longtime coming!” Monica explains.

Ricky currently works as a teacher for Queen City Independent School District. He acknowledges, “I really wanted to work somewhere closer to home because I was tired of making the drive to Texarkana every day. This is my third year to teach at the middle school in Queen City.” For the past four years, Monica has worked for BetterLesson, based in Cambridge, Massachusetts, serving in many various roles.

First, she provided instructional coaching by beaming into classrooms to assist teachers all over the world (including some in Egypt and Canada). Then she was assigned to a team whose focus was cultural responsive teaching and equity in education. Most recently, her role has changed, and she now mostly supports principals and superintendents as part of inclusive and responsive education practices.

Building their dream home has been an ongoing process for the Washingtons. “Since Monica and I married, we have always talked about building our own home,” Ricky says. “We bought a few homes but have always wanted to build our own. Initially, we were going to build on my grandparents’ land, but that didn’t work out. I am a country boy at heart. In February, I found this 20 acres for sale in Douglasville that had only been on the market for maybe 10 minutes.

I called the realtor, started asking questions, we toured the property, and fell in love with it. The rest is history! We knew this was where

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Since Monica works remotely, Ricky helps her by assembling a piece of furniture which will go in her office.

we were going to build our dream home.”

Because of the large rainfall that occurred in this area during early 2020, and a few other delays, the contractor, Shep Granberry with Graco Homes in Atlanta, Texas, wasn’t able to get the property cleared and the foundation poured until May. The first week of December was actually when Monica and Ricky were ready to move-in so their beautiful three bedroom, two and a half bath Craftsman style home has been home to them for the last two months, and they couldn’t be happier.

This custom home is perfect for the Washingtons and their individual needs. “Since I use a wheelchair for mobility, I wanted the house designed around me. I wanted access to everything,” Ricky explains. “I didn’t want anything tight. Our builder did a great job making this home accessible. He built little ramps into all of the thresholds that you hardly even notice are there. Doors are oversized. The shower is huge.”

Monica loves the screened-in patio situated off the back of the house.

Whether sitting reading a book or enjoying an afternoon nap on the weekends, this area is her hideaway. Since Ricky loves to cook, the outdoor grill is built lower to the ground for him to easily reach and is surrounded by vast storage space. French doors lead out onto the patio area, allowing the Washingtons to open the doors and welcome fresh air inside.

Since the wheels from Ricky’s wheelchair can easily wear out carpet, durable vinyl plank flooring is found throughout the home. Massive closets contain lowered racks and rods and have plenty of space for Ricky to roll in and turn around before rolling out.

Granite countertops and stainless appliances are located in the open kitchen area. A functional island is centered in this area with plenty of space for Ricky to travel around the sides. In their previous home, the microwave was way out of reach for Ricky so they chose to keep this one at eye level, offering him easy access.

Instead of having a two-story home which was in the original house plans, Ricky and Monica chose to turn the area designed for the staircase into a roll-in pantry. An additional pantry is home to many of their smaller appliances, including the slow cookers and the multi-cookers.

As one enters the home, Monica’s comfortable home office is on the left. Since she works remotely, this area is perfect for her. She can sit and have virtual conferences with educational professionals while watching deer frolic and play in her front yard. A half-bath is situated close to her office. “The half-bath is what I consider my own little project,” she says. “I put a little special touch in there, including a very pretty sink that I love. I even named her ‘Sassy Sink.’ It wasn’t quite in the plumbing budget, but we made some adjustments because I had to have it.” Ricky chimes in that her lavatory has gotten “so much conversation” on Facebook.

“We love our space here!” Ricky exclaims. “We are in the country and don’t have any neighbors right next to us. We love the land. It provides a place for me to be able to hunt and a place for us to ride four-wheelers.”

The Washingtons’ 2,600 sq. ft. home is custom built just for them.

Big porches with a mixture of stone and hearty plank siding provide a low maintenance option for them since they both stay incredibly busy. They have future plans to plant trees and colorful landscaping, add sidewalks, and lay a concrete driveway. Not only is this home a custom creation for Monica and Ricky; it also allows their four fur babies room to roam freely and not be confined to a small area. With a half-grin Ricky also points out, “At some point, we will probably build me a chicken yard, too.” You can take the boy out of the country, but you can’t take the country out of the boy.

The Washingtons’ custom home in Douglasville.

>>> During a family gathering on January 11, 2020, Monica and Ricky took a photo with his sister, Juanita.

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TO A COZY LIVING ROOM No matter the size of the living room, everyone wants their home to feel cozy and comfortable. These tips provide easy and convenient hints to help homeowners when tackling some small home improvement projects. are key.

1stepRugs No one likes to have freezing cold feet when they on bare tile or wood floors. Cozy up the space with a large area rug.

to earth tones.

2 Stick Our eyes are accustomed to the calming colors

found in nature. It soothes our mind and gives the room an outdoorsy feel. Try shades of blue, green, and brown to cozy up your space. pillows add comfort.

3 Throw This one is all about comfort. Throw pillows make

an afternoon nap more refreshing, a family movie night more inviting, and a room look more polished and pulled together. Make sure to have some throw pillows on your couch. are a must-have.

4 Blankets A blanket is a must for cooler months. Snuggling up

under a blanket while a fire is crackling in the fireplace is the epitome of comfort.

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Transform a room with wall décor.

This seems like an obvious one, but it’s critical to brighten your space with some sort of wall décor. Bare walls seem unfinished and cold, and that’s the last thing you want in a cozy living room.

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OUTDOOR LIGHTING Perfect for every season Cozy up during the cooler seasons with a bonfire and a blanket. It’s the perfect way to experience the crisp air and the warm heat on your skin.

String lights:

Tea Light Candles:

Lanterns:

Solar lights:

Read a book under the string lights that you’ve hung up in your yard. They’re affordable and add that perfect flair. Try hanging them up in a tree along with a hammock for an enviable reading nook.

We aren’t talking about those LED camping lanterns, but rather a rustic farmhouse lantern. The rustic country theme is a huge hit with many, and they add a beautiful glow to an outdoor living space at night. Add them to your patio, and enjoy the glow and some family time.

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Candles are always a go-to for outdoor lighting, but rethink them by presenting them in ways that are unconventional. Place them in an empty lantern or a birdcage. You can even float them in water.

If you have trouble seeing the edge of the driveway or the walkway to the front door at night, line the concrete with solar lights. They charge during the day and provide just enough light at night. They are very practical, and they look good, too.

tips to

ROCK your curb appeal The outside of the home is the first thing everyone sees while pulling into the driveway or driving by. These simple suggestions will increase the value of your home, and can be accomplished with very little time and effort.

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DO SOME LANDSCAPING. A home’s landscaping is the first thing that a person sees while pulling up to a home, and that first impression is vital. Landscaping makes the outside of the home more inviting, and most money spent on it is a true investment.

BE CONSISTENT. You don’t have to have grass in your yard to be the most beautiful house on the block, just be consistent in your choices. Choose flowers that complement the house’s exterior as well as the design aesthetic you have inside. Is your home French country? Try some crepe myrtles. Plantation style? How about a host of vibrant roses or clematis to bring out the white columns.

LINE YOUR WALKWAY. Whether it is with a simple flower bed or a row of lights, adding that extra bit of interest to your yard can make a vast difference.

A FRESH COAT OF PAINT IS IN SEASON. Renew and reinvigorate your exterior by splashing on a new coat of paint.

DON’T SHUN SHUTTERS. Shutters polish and add character to the exterior of a home. For stone houses, dark stained wood shutters can frame the windows and draw attention to the house.

LIGHT YOUR HOUSE. Having a house that can’t be seen in the dark is not only a waste of all the work you’ve put in to have stellar curb appeal, it is a serious security issue. Having some up-lights shining on parts of your house will allow the house to be seen by passersby as well as provide that extra security measure.

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Container Gardens:

What is a container garden?

A container garden is just what the name implies: a small garden in a flower pot. Imagine having a single planter overflowing with delicious vegetables that are easy to maintain.

Why:

They save space, money, and time compared to a standard garden.

They are easy to place anywhere and maintain.

It’s a simple way to add curb appeal to any house.

How:

Find a container. (This can be of any type, from a 5-gallon bucket to a fancy planter … even a horse trough. Just make sure that the container is large enough for the plant’s roots to grow.)

Drill a hole in the bottom of the container for excess water to drain.

Fill the container with potting soil.

Hint: Don’t use regular soil, because the plants will not grow as large or as fruitful. Use specialized potting mix that contains plant nutrients.

Fill your container with plants!

Tips:

1. Don’t be afraid to mix flowers and veggies in one pot.

2. Perennial flowers and vegetables come back every year, if you are being economically-minded.

3. Tall plants look best in the center back; short plants look best in the front.

4. If you want a purely aesthetic container garden with almost zero maintenance, try using succulents. They only need to be watered once every few months.

Best plants for a container garden:

Tomatoes Any herb (Oregano, Basil, Rosemary, Mint, Lavender, Chamomile) Zucchini Squash Chard/Lettuce/Sorrel/Kale/Cabbage Carrots Snapdragons Chives 50

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Adding Color All Season Long

SCENE ABOUT TOWN CARO LYN TH O R NTO N M EM O R IAL N U RSI N G EN D OWED SCH O L ARS H I P ESTAB LI S H ED AT UA H O PE-TE X AR K ANA The family of Carolyn Thornton recently donated $20,000 to establish the Carolyn Thornton Memorial Nursing Endowed Scholarship at the University of Arkansas Hope-Texarkana.

The donation is given in memory of Carolyn Cox Thornton, a longtime nursing instructor at Red River Vocational-Technical College (now UAHT). “Because she was born in Texarkana and lived in or around Hope for most of her life, mom had a deep connection to this area and the people here,” Carolyn’s daughters said. Ms. Thornton helped better the lives of many students through education as an instructor in the Practical Nursing Program at Red River Vo-Tech for 25 years. As a testament to her love for her profession and dedication to her students, Ms. Thornton was named the Hempstead County Teacher of the Year in 1991. “All the Thornton girls and their children were blessed to have her as our nurse, teacher, mother, and grandmother.

Our family sincerely hopes this scholarship will inspire each recipient to strive to make the most of life’s opportunities and to be a kind and caring nurse,” the family said.

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LOVE to last a LIFETIME

by EL L EN O R R Charlotte and Carl Nyman met at Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana, in 1974. He was studying electronic engineering; she was studying home economics. “We met at an establishment called The Keg,” Charlotte recalled. “He bought me a beer, and I spilled it on him.” In January of 1975, they married (“My mom had said I needed to marry a home-ec teacher,” Carl said).

Upon graduation, Carl began working offshore for what was then the Conoco Oil Company, and Charlotte began her career as a teacher. The couple spent most of the next decade living in Louisiana before moving first to Hobbs, New Mexico, and then to Midland, Texas—both moves made for Carl’s career. Then, in 1994, he took a job in Russia, working for 28 days and then having 28 days at home.

“They’d asked me to go overseas earlier than that, but with kids, you want to stay at home and make sure they go to the proper schools and get a good education,” Carl said. “I decided to go to Russia when I did mainly because my daughter [Jennifer] was starting high school, and I could work [the month-on, month-off] rotation, and she could stay in [American] school.”

(The Nymans’ other child, Eric, had already graduated.) Over the course of nine years, Carl spent every other month working in Russia.

“When he was in Russia, I only got to talk to him maybe twice a month,” Charlotte recalled, “so when we were together, we made it meaningful. And when he was gone, I had to take care of everything, but when he came home, I had to step back and let him take on his role.” (During this time, Charlotte was not only running the household; she was also teaching. During her 24 years in education, Charlotte taught every grade from kindergarten to sixth, plus home economics.)

In 1996, the family moved to Texarkana, where Charlotte had

Carl and Charlotte were married on January 4, 1975, and recently celebrated their 46th wedding anniversary.

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relatives and which was equidistant from her parents in Muskogee, Oklahoma, and Carl’s parents in Vicksburg, Mississippi. “And, really, we came here because of the lakes, so Carl could go fishing,” Charlotte said.

In 2003, the couple, having become empty-nesters, moved together to Venezuela, where they lived for four years before returning stateside. Carl would again work oversees—three years in Indonesia—but the family’s home base remained the Ark-La-Tex. “We have lived longer in Texarkana than we’ve lived anywhere else,” Charlotte said.

Through numerous relocations and cumulative years of longdistance connection, Charlotte and Carl’s relationship prevailed.

They have been together—geographically or just spiritually—for some of life’s greatest challenges. Their daughter, Jennifer, was born with neurofibromatosis, a genetic disorder that causes tumors to form on nerve tissue. “She went through several surgeries [as a baby], and with that kind of thing, you just have to close ranks and be a family,” Charlotte said.

Similarly, Carl has experienced his share of health issues. In

January 2001, immediately following the infamous ice storm, he suffered a heart attack and required bypass surgery. “If it wasn’t for Charlotte being around, I probably wouldn’t be around,” Carl put succinctly. In 2018, he was diagnosed with cancer—a sarcoma tumor in his left thigh.

Through four months of chemotherapy and radiation, “[Charlotte] was the one who kept me going,” he said.

Charlotte and Carl, retirees since 2003 and 2010 respectively, stay busy. Besides both being longtime members of Hardy Memorial United Methodist Church, they each have plenty of individual interests.

Charlotte is involved in various local nonprofits, including Women for the Arts and the Salvation Army Women’s Auxiliary. An avid volunteer who enjoys helping others, Charlotte was honored for these efforts in Four States Living Magazine’s Tribute to Women issue in 2013. She also is heavily involved in the Delta Kappa Gamma Society, an international organization for key women educators. A member since 1998, she is currently serving a six-year term on the Alpha State Texas Educational Foundation Board.

Carl, meanwhile, is a ham (amateur) radio operator, “almost fulltime,” he said. Using Morse code, he communicates with people all over

Spending time with their grandchildren is special to the Nymans. Here, they are enjoying ice cream and cotton candy with James, Elizabeth, and Crickette in Hershey, Pennsylvania.

Last year, the Nymans celebrated their 45th anniversary with dinner and dessert at Ironwood Grill.

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During July 2017, Charlotte and Carl took a vacation trip to Hawaii and attended the Delta Kappa Gamma Society International Convention.

the world. For example, in the first two weeks of 2021, he made contact with 140 different stations on every continent and in 44 states. “A lot of it is talking about your radios and how you’re setting up,” he said. “You might talk about your location, the weather, what you do, where you work. It’s mostly informal chitchat. And you know, when you talk to people overseas, they may not know, they might not be able to speak English, but in Morse code, you can talk to them. It’s kind of the international language, [through which] you can at least tell them what kind of radio you have and how strong your signal is in connection.

It’s just a lot of fun.” He is a member of Four States Amateur Radio Club, as well as a Morse code club.

In 2021, Charlotte and Carl are hopeful that they will be able to see their two children and several grandchildren, who live in Lubbock, Texas, and Silver Spring, Maryland. “We love our grandbabies, that’s for sure,” Charlotte said. “Typically, we see them about four times a year, and [due to the COVID-19 pandemic], we have not gotten to see them in over a year. We miss them.”

Until a family reunion is safe, the Nymans will remain near home, only occasionally venturing out to camp. “At home, we work in the flower beds together, we mow the yard together, we clean the house together,” said Charlotte. After years of travel, upheaval, medical uncertainty, and time apart, Carl and Charlotte each treasure even the most mundane parts of life, made rich by the life partner by their side.

On February 14, 2019, Carl rang the bell after completing 15 radiation treatments at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston.

The Nymans visited Northwestern State College while they were in Natchitoches, Louisiana, to attend the 2019 Christmas light festival.

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Marriage Is Not

A Destination;

IT IS A JOURNEY

by J EFF H A RT I love to post pictures of my wife and me on social media. I always call her “my bride.” Technically speaking, she is not a bride.

That is a woman who gets married on a wedding day. But I will say until the day that I die that she is my bride! What we have, honestly, is an absolutely, completely incredible God-ordained relationship that is far better than I ever, ever imagined that marriage could be. I promise you with all my heart, my bride is my best friend. I would rather be with her than anybody in the world!

Before you gag at our Hallmark love story, that’s just part of it.

What we have in our marriage is a journey; it is not a destination.

In other words, we have not arrived, and that is all that we ever have. What we also have are challenges, hardships, and struggles to overcome. I had to realize that love is an unconditional commitment to selflessly serve, truthfully communicate, fearlessly protect, gracefully forgive, compassionately heal, and enduringly remain in relationship with and for the sake of another.

One thing I have learned in 31 years of marriage is that a husband and wife must support each other in everything. A husband and wife must function like two wings on the same bird. They must work together in partnership or the marriage will never get off the ground. People always ask us the secret to surviving 31 years of marriage, and the answer has always been the same. God must be first in both of our lives. The more you love God, the more capacity you will have to love each other. In a Christ-centered marriage, Jesus is your one, and your spouse is your two.

Matthew 22:36-37 says, “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.”

Kristi and I have had the opportunity to counsel many couples over the years, and we always tell them that “divorce” is never an option. The vows you say before God are a covenant

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Jeff and Kristi were married in 1989, and to this day, he still calls her “my bride.”

commitment before God. So, we all must remove the exit strategies! A “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” 1 Corinthians 13:7 If you are reading this and are not married, if you want a Christcentered marriage in the future, then start living a Christ-centered life now! Seek out those that have marriages that have stood the test of time for advice. Our marriage mentors have taught us about submitting to one another, forgiving one another, honoring one another, respecting one another, and serving one another. This also includes praying together and for one another. The family that prays together stays together. I encourage you to pray for your spouse every day. You may say, “I do not know what to pray?” My advice is to keep it simple. Here is a prayer I pray every day: “Dear God. Give us wisdom and clear direction in all we do today.

Help us to show Your love to each other and shine Your light into the world. Keep us close to You, away from temptation, and always in Your will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Remember, marriage is not a destination; it is an ongoing journey.

Sharing that journey with my best friend is the best decision, I have ever made, other than accepting Christ as my Savior! That is why she will always be “My Bride.”

Married for 31 years to Kristi (Waldrum) Hart, Jeff Hart is a man of many talents. He serves as a supply pulpit preacher, ST software consultant, and Texarkana Arkansas Board of Director for Ward 6. Jeff has a way with words (both written and spoken) and is one of 300 Certified Zig Ziglar motivational speakers in the world.

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Owner, Express Employment Professionals

Director of Marketing, Cornerstone Healthy Living Community

Are You Embracing The Heart of a Champion?

What makes up the heart of a champion? Resilience, hardworking, proactive and driven.

Character is what creates a champion.

Resilient – One of the key facets of a champion is the ability to overcome setbacks and effectively navigate obstacles. A champion has a never-quit mindset that drives him or her to the finish line.

Take Responsibility – To be a true champion, you must understand the importance of stepping up, taking responsibility for specific actions. Stay humble, encourage your team to be the best they can be. If the great leaders in history allowed fear of failure to keep them from stepping out and pursuing a dream, our society would look immeasurably different.

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As an adult child, talking with your parents about making big changes is difficult. With the following tips, you can begin the conversation about their senior living choices: 1. Be prepared by creating a list of your concerns and observations; 2. Educate yourself about options available and their benefits to share with them; 3. Don’t overload yourself or them with too much information all at once; 4. Most important, listen to their concerns and fears, and show them you understand and want the best for them.

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Texarkana Arkansas School District Assistant Superintendent for Secondary Education Dr. Robin Hickerson and North Heights Junior High School Principal Theresa Cowling

An Exciting Opportunity for Everyone A R K A N SA S M I D D L E S C H O O L TO O FFER A N I D E A L E D U C AT I O N A L E N V I R O N M E N T F O R 6T H - T O 8 T H - G R A D E S T U D E N T S

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The AMS cafeteria features a running Razorback etched all the way across the serving line.

In March, for the first time in almost 40 years, students of Texarkana Arkansas School District will have class in a brand-new facility. Arkansas Middle School, currently under construction on Jefferson Avenue, will replace College Hill Middle School and North Heights Junior High School, uniting all 1,000 of the district’s 6th-, 7th-, and 8th-grade students under one roof. “[Superintendent] Dr. Becky Kesler is to be commended,” said Dr. Robin Hickerson, Assistant Superintendent for Secondary Education. “Thanks to her, we have been able to do all of this with zero cost to our taxpayers,” through refinancing, restructuring, and grants, she explained.

The building is organized into three grade-level wings, plus a wing for fine arts classes. Walls, floors, and hardware are various shades of white and gray, conveying modernity, while windows in every classroom keep things light and warm. “Of course, we love our pops of red throughout,” Dr. Hickerson said, referencing the Razorback-red accent walls, bleachers, acoustic panels, bathroom tiles, and more.

Functionality has, of course, been a driving factor behind design and construction decisions. Dr. Hickerson, Principal Theresa Cowling, and other faculty members have played integral roles in ensuring the space will best serve the district’s students. The school’s two band halls, for example, were designed in part by district band directors. Band students will have access to individual practice rooms, built-in shelving F E B RUA R Y 2 021 . fourstatesliving.com

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Rendering of Arkansas Middle School (Courtesy of MTG Engineers & Surveyors)

units for storage, and direct access to outside for marching practice.

Down the hall, the broadcast journalism room, comprised of a classroom and dedicated recording studio, is quite an upgrade from the makeshift space the young broadcasting team has utilized in the past. “We already brought [the broadcasting students] to look at the space,” Mrs. Cowling beamed. “They are so excited. We hope it will be a point of pride for all of our students to have such nice facilities throughout.”

Student athletes, too, will be well-served on the campus, which features a full-sized basketball court, state-of-the-art weight room, and outdoor practice fields. Tennis courts will likely be built as well.

Connected to the gym by a moveable partition, the cafeteria is large, airy, and light. The kitchen is equipped with premium appliances. The serving line is a favorite feature.

“It’s kind of silly to be so excited about this, but they etched the running Razorback, which we love, all the way across the serving line,” said Dr. Hickerson. “We hope the kids like it as much as we do.”

The building is situated on 30 acres of beautiful land; through the many windows, both untouched pine forest and manicured landscaping can be seen. Located just north of Interstate 30 on Jefferson Avenue, “the school is in the city but has a country feel when you’re outside,” Dr. Hickerson said.

“Each wing has quick access to an outdoor space equipped with picnic tables,” said Mrs. Cowling, “which can be used for conducting class outside or just for students to hang out. Additionally, we’ve intentionally left certain, low-lying wooded areas alone and are hoping to reach out to Arkansas Game and Fish, as well as the Master Gardening Club, to help utilize those [as learning spaces],” she explained.

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with the various trees and water sources on-site.”

Whether inside or out, science lessons at AMS will be conducted in the ideal environment. The school’s science labs are large and outfitted with built-in demonstration tables and multiple water sources. And, thanks to a magnet grant, they and all other classrooms will be filled with “the most fabulous” colorful, modern, high-quality furniture that is both utilitarian and visually appealing, said Mrs. Cowling.

While these details might seem insignificant, as educators, Dr. Hickerson and Mrs. Cowling appreciate the importance of environmental design. Every decision has been made with intention, from the polished concrete floors (sleek and easy to clean) to the water bottle filling stations that accompany the hallway fountains.

This project, which officially began in January 2020, has been “such an exciting opportunity” for everyone involved, said Mrs. Cowling. “Most people who have been in the business as long as I have have never had such an experience.

It’s been wonderful.”

Dr. Hickerson agrees. “It’s all just so exciting. Every time we tell the story it becomes more and more exciting,” she admitted.

Construction was motivated primarily by aging facilities— specifically Union Elementary and College Hill Elementary, both of which are closing after this school year. (Those students will be relocated to what are now North Heights Junior High and College Hill Middle Schools.) However, the need for new facilities provided an opportunity for the district to clarify and enact their vision for the district’s early adolescents.

“The goal is to provide a very well-rounded experience,” said Mrs. Cowling. “It’s important to me that the kids get all of it—academics, arts, physical education. It’s all about finding one’s passion.”

Dr. Hickerson agreed, adding, “We talk about our graduates and what we want for them when they leave the district. There are many doors through which they can walk,

and here they start making those decisions. We want them to be able to pick a door and be equipped to be successful whatever they choose—if that’s college, the workforce, the military. This is a perfect place to prepare them for those next steps.

“We’re so proud of our graduates, both recent and distant,” she continued. “We think this [new campus] is going to strengthen what we’re able to provide for our students— and in turn our community. Part of our dream is for our graduates to feel like they can have a rich life and that their children will have a great place to go to school, right here in Texarkana, Arkansas.”

Arkansas Middle School is scheduled to open to 7th- and 8th-grade students on March 1st, 2021. Sixth graders will be welcomed onto campus in August 2021.

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PREVENTION IS KEY S P E C I A L H E A LT H R E S O U R C E S ’ D R .

J O S H TA L L E Y E N C O U R A G E S H E A LT H Y O R A L H YG I EN E F O R A L L C H I L D R EN

by L I N D S E Y M C M I L L A N Josh Talley, DDS, is a native of Lewisville, Arkansas, and knew from a young age that he wanted to be a dentist. He helped at his father’s dental practice in various roles starting at 12 years of age. His father is Dr. Roger Talley who ended up practicing in Texarkana for 10 years after moving from Lewisville. Josh continued to help in his dad’s office while he was studying at Southern Arkansas University in Magnolia. Josh received his degree in Biology with a minor in Chemistry and then completed his master’s degree in Biomedical Science. In 2011, he entered dental school in Chicago at Midwestern University. After graduation in May 2015, Josh accepted a job at Special Health Resources, a nonprofit integrated care clinic which offers a variety of healthcare services. The dental clinic has been open two and a half years and is swiftly growing.

Based out of Longview, Texas, Special Health Resources has clinics across northeast Texas, and their main local location is at 300 East 6th Street in Texarkana, Arkansas. It is located inside the UAMS building adjacent to the All For Kids health clinic. In addition, a Special Health Resources adult clinic is located at 1102 Main Street in Texarkana, Texas, where Josh goes twice monthly to provide dental services. Josh practices general dentistry, and at this time is the only dentist at their clinic. He has a staff of both dental assistants and office personnel who work hard to accommodate new and existing patients for most dental services.

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thing the clinic doesn’t provide is implants and orthodontics.

He refers to local oral surgeons, and the clinic is prepared to handle a wide range of both emergent and nonemergent services in a timely and professional manner. They have six spacious treatment rooms and two full-time dental assistants. Dr. Talley and staff pride themselves on providing the best care possible with a small office feel where new patients are always accepted and treated within a reasonable time frame.

One thing unique to Dr. Talley’s dental clinic is their connection with TX/AR Medicaid and Medicare, along with a sliding pay scale based on the patient’s income while offering many different payment options. Special Health Resources is a federally qualified health center which also takes private

insurance, Delta Dental, etc. The clinic is open Monday-Thursday from 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Josh refers the clinic as a “hidden gem for Texarkana where patients become family” and where he wants patients of all ages to feel comfortable and at ease. He recommends seeing children as early as six months of age so as to get them acclimated with dental checkups and to establish healthy habits early on. “Prevention is key. Per the CDC, between the ages of 5-11, children have on average one untreated cavity.” In addition, Josh encourages parents to be informed of good dental health so they can assist their children keep up healthy oral hygiene. Poor dental health is often linked to other health issues such as heart disease as chronic dental problems affect cardiovascular health over time. Dr. Talley sees the Special Health Resources dental clinic expanding in the future and notes that so many in the ArkLaTex are unaware they are there. He hopes to spread word of the clinic in particular reference to pediatric dentistry since February is National Children’s Dental Health month. Josh is a resident of Texarkana, Texas, and has been married 11 years to his wife, Ashley. Their son, Cooper, is 5 years old and daughter, Abigayle, is 3. In his spare time, Josh enjoys hunting, fishing, and anything outdoors, especially with family.

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN B EDS FO R KI DS PRO G R AM R ECEIVES H ELP FRO M E AG LE SCO UT CAN D I DATE CAD E CU N N I N G HAM AN D TE AM Cade Cunningham, Caddo Area Council Troop 13 Eagle Scout candidate, and his support team have recently constructed newly-built beds in support of the Beds for Kids program. These beds are distributed to children in the community who do not have a bed of their own. The beds were constructed with supplies donated from Red River Lumber, as well as funds raised from giveaways, sponsored by Dot’s Ace Hardware and Strategic Maintenance Reliability. Mattresses, bedding, mattress pads, and pillows were also purchased.

Cade Cunningham and Anthony Escobar

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BY NI C H O L E H O L ZE

FIVE THINGS TO DO IN HOT SPRINGS When we first moved to Texarkana, one of the very first day trips was to Hot Springs, Arkansas. The quirky town has since stolen our hearts, and we are frequent day trippers to the charming city. This year, Hot Springs National Park is celebrating its Centennial, and they will have special events throughout the year, including a monthly photo contest! See their website or social media pages for more information (nps.gov/hsnp). While there are far too many fun things to name in one article, here are my top five for Hot Springs!

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Garvan Woodland Gardens.

While these gardens are fairly well-known, our favorite places are the award-winning tree house in the children’s garden and the Singing Springs Gorge. Pro-tip: the very tip-top of the tree house is an excellent spot to hang out for a snack.

The gardens are beautiful yearround, but I would stay away in the peak of summer heat.

Kollective Coffee + Tea. This coffee/tea shop is well-known for being host to the longest running poetry night in the country! Every Wednesday, for over 30 years, the community has gathered for an open mic poetry night. Recently, the meetups have moved to virtual but they’re still happening. They also serve Onyx coffee, have a wide selection of loose leaf tea, and have an amazing vegan menu.

Kollective Coffee + Tea

Garvan Woodland Gardens, near the Singing Springs Trail

<<< Treehouse at Garvan Woodland Gardens

Never afraid of a long drive, Nichole is a homeschooling mom to two and wife to Ryan. Coffee, always, and black please. You can probably find her scheming up their next road trip while hiking in the woods. Experience-based learning and good books abound in their homeschool, as they chase the spark of curiosity where it wanders on the road less traveled.

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Mid-America Science Museum.

This has been one of our favorite places to visit. We go at least once per year. The interior of the museum is phenomenal but the exterior grounds are just as great. Be sure to check out the DinoTrek and a Tesla coil show.

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DinoTrek at Mid-American Science Museum

Hot Springs National Park. We absolutely love our National Parks, every one of them. Though Hot Springs National Park is a bit different, we have enjoyed visiting and learning. They offer two junior ranger programs and plenty of educational information.

(Note: Fordyce Bathhouse is closed due to COVID-19 restrictions.)

The hiking trails and campground at Gulpha Gorge are open. Fun fact: did you know that every fourth grader in the US can receive a FREE family National Parks Pass? You can fill out the forms online (look up Every Kid in a Park) and pick up a plastic pass at the National Park Store in Lamar Bathhouse.

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Northwoods Trails. Arkansas is rapidly becoming THE mountain biking hot spot for the US. The Northwoods trails cover 26 miles of world-class biking, just over five minutes from downtown Hot Springs.

Northwoods Trails (Photo courtesy of Visit Hot Springs)

A few of our other favorite things: crystal digging at Ron Coleman, getting our fortune from Zoltar on Central Avenue, Lake Catherine State Park, Lake Ouachita State Park, Superior Bathhouse Brewery, The Waters Hotel, and Fox Pass Cabins.

For more fun places to stay, check out: www.arkansasbnbs.com.

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EVENTS | CALENDAR

FEBRUARY 2021 FEBRUARY 1 - APRIL 10 The 19th annual Regional Celebration of African American Artists Exhibit will be displayed in the Regional Arts Center, located at 321 West 4th Street in Downtown Texarkana.

Come explore the African American artists’ exhibits which will include quilts, fabrics, and fibers. Call 903-792-8681 for more information.

FEBRUARY 1 - APRIL 15 Over $137,500 in cash will be awarded during the Millwood Fishing Challenge. The Arkansas Game and Fish Commission has released 100 yellow-tagged fish in Millwood Lake.

The tags include a phone number and a prize number on them. If a fish is caught, the angler must call the phone number on the tag and present the fish with the yellow tag attached, along with the badge number. To obtain the rules or for more information, visit: www.ashdownarkansas.org or call 870-898-2758.

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FEBRUARY 5 A Winter Sock Drive for the Homeless, hosted by Bearded Sinners Beard Club of Texas, will be held at 7 p.m. at Hopkins Icehouse and will benefit the Randy Sams Shelter. Musical entertainment will feature Not Dead Yet and Smokey and the Brandon.

Admission is an unopened pair of socks or $5 at the door.

FEBRUARY 13 The Texarkana Symphony Orchestra will present “Masterworks II: Simple Gifts” during a 7: 30 p.m. performance in the Perot Theatre. Some of the most cherished and quintessential repertoire for American orchestras will be performed and will feature clarinetist, Alexander Bedenko. For tickets, call the Perot Theatre Box office at 903-792-4992.

MARCH 2021 MARCH 6 The Texarkana Symphony Orchestra will present “The Amazing Orchestra”

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during a 7:30 p.m. performance in the Perot Theatre. Experience the symphony through the eyes of a child!

A concert for the whole family, this performance will introduce all to the vast world of symphonic music and features pianists Mary Scott Goode and Robin Thomas. For tickets, call the Perot Theatre Box office at 903792-4992.

MARCH 13 The ArkLaTex 100 Club will host its fourth annual Pull for Heroes Sporting Clay Tournament at Rocky Creek Outdoors in Texarkana, Arkansas.

Last year’s tournament collected approximately $35,000 to purchase tactical/protective equipment, fund special training, and assist surviving dependents of those men and women who pledge to protect our lives. For more information or to register, visit: www.thearklatex100club.org.

MARCH 23 Pleasant Grove ISD’s Margaret Fischer

Davis Elementary School will host its Kindergarten Registration from 5-6 p.m. at the new campus, located at 2800 Galleria Oaks. New students and their families will be able to meet the teachers and tour the campus during this time. Call 903-838-0528 for more information.

A Pinch of Salt

by D o n n ie Sp riggs

INGREDIENTS: 10 garlic cloves 1-1/2 teaspoons salt 1/2 teaspoon pepper 2 tablespoons olive oil

We have officially made it through the first month of 2021. Doesn’t it feel good? I am sure someone is reading that line saying, “Oh, maybe for you but not for me blah, blah, blah.” Okay, Karen! We get it ... some of us are trying to stay positive for 2021 because, well, we survived 2020. We should all feel lucky about that!

Last month I am sure you thought there was going to be some huge healthy write-up about how we should be fit and whatnot. Let me be very clear when I say there will rarely be anything that is just downright healthy in my articles. Sorry, not sorry. I enjoy the little things in life, and that is food.

So, this month was a tough one for me. I was thinking about Valentine’s Day and about us being in the midst of COVID but ... I also thought something for the family since some are possibly eating in. I eventually just chose the Valentine’s Day option of two because, let’s be real, mom and dad probably need a break! The best meal to eat while getting away from the rugrats is of course a nice, marbled steak! I prefer local so when shopping for hand-cut steaks, I think of DeLaughter’s Grocery in Maud, Texas, or steaks from yours truly at Silver Star Smokehouse.

Even though garlic is not the best smell for Valentine’s Day, it is the best taste when cooking.

DIRECTIONS: 1. Pre-season steaks with a salt and pepper mixture the night before or the morning you cook them.

2. Crush garlic cloves with salt and pepper. Stir in oil and Worcestershire sauce.

3. Grill steaks, covered, over medium heat 5-7 minutes on each side or until meat reaches your preferred temperature. For medium-rare, a thermometer should read 135°; medium, 140°; medium-well, 145°.

4. Brush generously with garlic mixture during the last 4 minutes of cooking.

Serve with roasted sweet potatoes (covered in butter) accompanied with sautéed asparagus (which can be cooked in the same pan as steaks to get that extra flavor).

If you are feeling really classy, a glass ... or maybe a bottle of Conundrum pairs GREAT with this meal!

Follow me on Instagram @ pinch_of_salt20

Donnie Spriggs is a longtime resident of Texarkana, Texas. He has been in the restaurant industry since he was 16 and has been with Silver Star Smokehouse since 2014. He is a student at Texas A&M-Texarkana where he is part of the BAAS program.

He loves people but likes food even more, mainly because food makes people happy!

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the F R IE N DS list

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friend List.

Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better.

The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

AARON CEDILLO age: 34 Occupation: Sales Representative

MEAGAN CEDILLO age: 34 Occupation: Nurse

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

At what business could you max out a credit card?

At what business could you max out a credit card?

I would take my entire family and all my friends on a vacation, ask for menus with no prices on them when we ate at restaurants, and have candid pics made with captions to remember it all by. (Oh ... and buy a Sonic ice maker for my house on the way to the airport, obviously.)

I love coloring with my kids, inventing slime with my daughter, Beckett, while ignoring the destruction to everything it almost touches ... or I’m usually on Pinterest looking for the next meal I can attempt to make and totally fail. #nailedit

Freeze my age and adopt seven more kids, so that I can be (semi) young and raise them all!

CB2 ... it’s everything I always wanted in home décor every time a new magazine comes out ... how do they do it?

I would build a neighborhood out of the city limits with new houses for all of my family to live in ... Cedilloville.

I always enjoy wrestling and playing on the floor with Meagan and our two kids.

I would have dinner with everyone who has passed in mine and Meagan’s families.

Herschel Supply.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life.

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

“How to Fake Being a Grown-up.”

“Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs.”

“The Crown!” I’m one of those girls that has always been fascinated with Britain’s royalty!

Argentina ... it looks so beautiful and seems to have a little bit of everything there.

Chef ’s Table. The in-depth stories behind each episode are second to none!

I would like to go to China to see the Terracotta Army.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick?

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick?

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

Google Maps (I’m useless otherwise.). Target Pickup (Don’t knock it until you try it.). MyCamera.

I love watching any sport my son, Maddox, plays. I get VERY INTO IT, even though I don’t know a lot of the rules. I think I may enjoy basketball the most.

Amazon Music. Messages. ESPN.

My favorite sport to watch is whatever sport our son is playing at that time! But, if I had to choose just one, football would be it, and my favorite team is the Pleasant Grove Hawks!

“ B U I LT O N A F O U N D A T I O N O F L O V E ”

T E L L U S W H AT AT T R A C T E D Y O U T O A A R O N .

T E L L U S W H AT AT T R A C T E D Y O U T O M E A G A N .

Aaron is, of course, tall, dark and handsome... but if you take a minute to listen to what this guy is quietly saying, you will probably pee your pants from laughter. He is so quick and clever; he is never caught off guard! This is what ultimately won my heart in no time, and still to this day, he can put a smile on my face and a laugh in the room wherever we go.

I met Meagan while working in the Operating Room which is filled with pressure, life and death situations, egos, etc. To not only excel at her job in that atmosphere, but to do it while being respectful and compassionate to her patients and coworkers will always be unforgettable to me!

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