Slooooooow Down your Fashion

BY TABATHA RENGAR

Way back in the day, circa 1987, my high school friend Mitzi and I used to go on clandestine missions to find stylish treasures at the local Salvation Army thrift shop. When someone would ask where a particularly cool outfit or accessory came from, we would tell them “Sally’s” as if it were some fancy boutique because we didn’t want to reveal our secret. Sifting through donated clothing wasn’t quite as acceptable back then. Little did we know that we were actually early participants in the Sustainable Clothing movement!

Sustainable Fashion, sometimes referred to as Eco-fashion and ReFashion, is the long overdue movement meant to create change in the world of “fast fashion” where for decades the almighty dollar has been the driving force. Fast fashion is the term for our propensity to order inexpensive clothing items online or from big box stores like Amazon, H&M, Target, WishApp, etc. We like the instant gratification factor but often the quality is disappointing so the items are worn a couple times and then thrown away. These discarded items are not only filling our landfills but the conditions that these clothes are made in are often deplorable.

Sustainable Fashion means to altar the whole system of how clothing is produced, who produces it, and how long the life span of a product is before it reaches landfill. This means dealing with interdependent social, cultural, ecological, and financial systems.

Here in the Triad, you will be delighted to learn that some of your favorite shops are taking this issue quite seriously. From partnering with sustainable companies, using recycled materials, empowering women and simply highlighting the benefits of the customer service you receive locally, they shared their thoughts about the value of Sustainable Fashion with Forsyth Woman. EMILY S. DAVIS, OWNER OF FLEET FEET:

Many of our apparel brands are produced from recycled plastic and use less fabric dyes. Some brands are also starting to get away from each unit being packaged in a plastic bag. Brands that are really working on this are Rabbit, Oiselle, and Vuori.

The fast fashion brands are mostly produced in low income manufacturing and can’t afford to focus on recycled plastic fabric or less waste. GEORGE BAM BALIS, PRESIDENT OF NITSA’S APPAREL:

The three major areas of sustainability are environmental social and economic. In the clothing industry the one place where much of the clothing is manufactured seems to ignore these issues of sustainability. Of course, I’m speaking about China where their abuses of their people and their human rights are unconscionable and where their concern for the environment is virtually nonexistent. Unfortunately, for many clothing designers and manufacturers, it is an economic reality that they must do business China. At Nitsa’s, our approach to sustainability is to source as many products as we can from companies manufacturing in nations committed to well-being of their employees and to the environment.

EMILY SMITH, OWNER OF ELLIE RAY BOUTIQUE:

One of my favorite brands that we carry at Ellie Ray Boutique is She & Sky. They offer a great selection of clothing from sizes small through 3xl. She & Sky is constantly on a mission to provide unique clothing that empowers women and celebrates the female form.

As a business owner, product quality is extremely important. If you have a great product that is well made, fits good and you believe in, it really helps build your relationships with your customers. Customers will spread the word that your clothing holds up, the type of customer service they received and even how beautiful they felt in that cute outfit we put together.

Supporting a local small business in your hometown is super important, especially nowadays. The difference between us and “fast fashion” places is you get to experience a service and let us help put that “perfect” outfit together for you. Whereas other “fast fashion” places you are just ordering from a big company, you have no clue the fit, the quality and even sizing.

MARCIE APPELT, OWNER OF STYLED GATHERING:

I carry a jewelry line by a company called Tagua designed by Soraya Cedeno. It’s fair trade, sustainable, and handmade from 100% natural materials. The jewelry collection is carved from a sustainable nut called Tagua which grows from a palm tree found mainly in the Ecuadorian rainforest. Handmade by skilled artisans, maintaining the traditions of past generations in order to provide life changing opportunities for their families and community.

SUZANNE LAKEY, OWNER OF SOUTHERN TIES BOUTIQUE:

We encourage shopping local to support your community. Southern Ties Boutique loves nothing more than working with you to find that perfect outfit for your event or date night all while learning about you and your family! It gives us great joy when customers share photos at weddings or just a night out with friends and we see the outfit we picked together. There is just something about that community spirit and we hope that is what brings ladies back to our boutique.

DONNA AND ALLY MERRIMAN, OWNER FRALEIGH’S BOUTIQUE:

Fast fashion isn’t limited to just everyday wear, we see it so often when it comes to Formal Wear too. We always hear “I ordered a dress online” “it didn’t fit right” “It wasn’t like it was pictured” When it comes down to buying a formal dress, trying on different styles and colors is what makes it fun! We pride ourselves on our one-on-one customer service and can help you not only find the perfect dress but also with shoes and accessories - to make it a one stop shop - and to have the perfect fit the first time around! A few brands we carry in formal wear are Alex Evenings, Adrianna Papell, SLNY, Jessica Howard. Brooke Eagle, the Publisher of this fine magazine, has made a commitment to stop purchasing clothing from Amazon. And although I’ve been on the thrift store bandwagon for over 30 years, I have also made a pledge to resist the instant gratification grab as I walk through Target. Here is a list to make changing to Slow Fashion fun and easy in your life.

1. SHOP LOCAL.

Whether you’re shopping for clothes, shoes, accessories or even art and home goods, make it common practice to think local first! Not only are you helping keep resources in your community, you’ll have the chance to speak with shop owners to learn more about their commitment to sustainability.

2. DONATE AND SHOP THRIFT.

It’s hard to think that some people just throw clothes away, but it happens. Before you donate yours, look at all the clothes you want to get rid of. Are they still in good condition? Now think of the person who will find them in a thrift store – and how happy they’ll be. Instead of going to a department store or the mall to buy new, take a look in your local thrift or vintage shops.

3. BUY NATURAL FIBERS.

Not only is it better for you to buy natural fibers (synthetic fibers can be itchy and they can make you sweat more!), but it is better for the environment. Cotton and bamboo are two examples of natural fibers that make great fabrics and clothes.

4. SHOP ON ETSY.COM.

Etsy is full of artists making great pieces: you can find hand-knitted scarves, handmade jewelry, and lots of eco-friendly products. These artists care about what they do and each piece is special. In most cases, no one will have anything like it!

5. USE EBAY INSTEAD OF BUYING NEW. 6. LEARN TO DIY.

Learning to sew is daunting but it can be a great skill to have. If you find a great skirt in a thrift store but it’s too big, you’ll be able to tailor it yourself! You can also start to learn how to turn your old clothes into something new: I love the idea of making hoodies out of old tee shirts!

7. RESEARCH THE BEST ECO-FRIENDLY BRANDS.

It’s fashionable to be green: many high-end designer lines like Stella McCartney and Loomstate have started to support sustainable fashion. There are SO many great eco-friendly brands out there that sell fabulous products. Take a list of the brands you’d like to see to your local boutiques - you may be surprised to find they are already carrying them or they might be happy to start.

8. SHOP YOUR OWN WARDROBE!

Instead of buying all new stuff each season, think about how you can make what you have look new again. Do you have accessories that you haven’t worn in years that you could use to spruce up a current outfit? How can you mix pieces together to create new looks? Be creative and have fun with it.

9. EXPERIMENT.

Don’t be afraid to use your favorite pieces together to create a new outfit – you don’t need a new bag to pull an outfit together… you might just need to experiment with your options. Don’t limit yourself!

10. GET EDUCATED… AND EDUCATE THOSE AROUND YOU!

Sustainable fashion isn’t a political idea – it is an idea to help our planet continue to thrive, something I think we can all agree is important. I know I want the world to be as beautiful for my children (and my grandchildren!) as it was for me. Sustainable fashion helps to make that dream an attainable reality.

BY KAREN COOPER

The brain is a truly remarkable part of the body. It devises ingenious ways to express thoughts and emotions, it stores all our precious memories, and it coordinates our every move. Many older adults worry about how aging will affect memory and cognitive abilities. What are the causes of the decline in cognitive function? Can they be prevented?

To keep the brain sharp as we age and even reduce age-related decline in function, we need to keep our brain active and engaged! Just as with physical health, we can give the brain a regular workout to help slow down the effects of aging which translates to more resistance against problems like dementia and Alzheimer’s disease.

“Despite the stereotypes, cognitive decline is not inevitable as you age, and adopting healthy lifestyle habits can significantly reduce your risks for dementia later on in life,” says Sarah Lenz Lock, AARP’s senior vice president and executive director of the Global Council on Brain Health.

Here are some ways to keep the brain healthy and working at optimal function as you age:

SOCIALIZING

Social isolation has been shown to increase dementia in adults. A few close friends, volunteering opportunities and even a pet can help one feel more socially connected. Even if socializing in person is not possible, take the steps needed to socialize online. One study published in 2017 in the Journal of Gerontology showed that after seniors learned to use Facebook, they scored higher on memory tests than older adults who didn’t use Facebook. GET MENTAL STIMULATION

You’ve probably heard that doing crossword puzzles helps to keep your brain healthy…and it’s true! Through research with mice and humans, scientists have found that activities that exercise the brain stimulate new connections between nerve cells and may even help the brain to generate new cells. Any mentally stimulating activity is good for your brain. Playing word games, chess, reading, taking classes, solving puzzles or doing math problems are all beneficial. Or get in touch with your creative side! Drawing, crafting or painting help stimulate brain function as well. Playing chess is a win-win for brain health. It stimulates brain cells and fosters social interaction.

EAT WELL FOR YOUR BRAIN

Good nutrition can help your mind as well as your body. Adults who follow a Mediterranean diet consisting of fish and foods such as fruits, vegetables, nuts and olive oil, while limiting red meat, lower their risk for Alzheimer’s disease by up to 40%. Some great foods to incorporate into a brain boosting diet include: fish (high in Omega 3), coffee, blueberries, turmeric and nuts. Drinking coffee over the long-term is linked to a reduced risk of neurological diseases such as Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s. The largest risk reduction was seen in those adults who consume 3-4 cups daily…so savor that cup ‘a joe! EXERCISE

Research shows that moving your body also helps your brain. Exercise also increases the development of new nerve cells and increases the connections between brain cells. The outcome is a brain that is more efficient and resilient. Exercise also lowers blood pressure, improves cholesterol, helps regulate blood sugar, and reduces mental stress, all of which helps your brain as well as your heart. Exercising outdoors in fresh air may provide another bonus. Taking in natural surroundings and daylight assists brain function by reducing stress and increasing melatonin for a more regular sleep-wake cycle.

WATCH THOSE NUMBERS

High blood pressure, diabetes, and high cholesterol are all associated with an increased risk of dementia. You can keep these problems at bay by maintaining a healthy weight, exercising regularly, limiting your alcohol, not smoking, reducing stress, and eating nourishing food. Also, talk to your doctor about getting on a low-dose aspirin regimen. This is not for everyone, but can reduce the risk of dementia for some. Be sure to check with your doctor to see if this might be right for you. Research connecting poor physical health with deteriorating brain health is increasing. While some factors affecting brain health cannot be changed, there are many lifestyle changes that can make a big difference.

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Helping the WFU Community Feel at Home in Her Hometown

Winston-Salem native Dr. Ashlee Canty will soon finish her second year at Wake Forest University (WFU) as the Inclusive Practice Manager in the

Office of Diversity and Inclusion. She holds a big title and has big aspirations for helping faculty, staff, and students at WFU feel like they belong at their small university in her small hometown. Dr. Canty grew up in a loving family on the south side of Winston, where she attended First Waughtown Baptist Church and participated in choir and flag core at Parkland High School. This may sound like a typical upbringing in a small town, but Ashlee is not a typical small-town girl. Dr. Ashlee Canty is part of a rare group of Americans who have earned a doctoral degree (less than 1.2% of all Americans have a Ph.D.). Even more special is that she recently joined an even smaller percentage of African American females with a Ph.D. Dr. Canty’s life journey took her from Winston-Salem, across 40 states, and to faraway places like Istanbul and Tokyo, and finally back home last year to her hometown, where she plans to make a difference at WFU and in her community.

After graduating from Parkland High School, Ashlee attended North Carolina State University and became active in the Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Incorporated, and several other campus organizations. Mentors, who became her lifelong friends, supported her as she changed her focus from a major in biology and minor in genetics to a master’s in the area of student affairs and a doctorate in curriculum studies.

Mentors have and continue to connect Dr.

Canty to career opportunities, from her job as a graduate assistant for Fraternity and Sorority Life to her current position at Wake Forest. As the only African American female in her graduate school cohort, Dr. Canty experienced firsthand how important it is for universities to implement intentional programs that promote student feelings of inclusion and belonging. While in school in Mccomb, IL, she could not find a hairstylist that could do her hair. “There was nothing there for black folk.” She felt the pressure as an African American female in academics to “do more with less” and to expect to work twice as hard as other majority students to get ahead. She learned to set healthy boundaries to avoid burnout while working full-time and completing doctoral studies at DePaul University in Chicago. She met her future business partner while attending North Carolina State, and they started a consulting firm, A to Z Consulting, providing guidance and strategic planning for companies earnest about building an inclusive work culture.

Dr. Canty’s journey brought her back to her hometown in 2016 to work remotely, and soon after, her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. She secured her current position at WFU in July 2020 and completed her Ph.D. in December 2020. In her role, Dr. Canty will help the WFU Office of Diversity and Inclusion to implement the newly created framework for inclusive excellence, Realizing, Inclusion, Diversity, and Equity (R.I.D.E.) across the WFU campus. She will assist with curriculum development that aligns with the framework initiatives and will assess its effectiveness. She especially enjoys working one-on-one with departments ready to recognize opportunities for growth and willing to implement change. She also understands what students need to feel like they belong. She can help students find what they need to feel “at home” as she knows our community so well. While the current city of Winston-Salem is not exactly like the Winston she grew up in, the community needs are very much the same. Disparities still exist in healthcare access, affordable housing, need for school lunches and laptops, making a living wage, resources for Veterans, and treatment for addiction and mental health. “We miss the mark as a small town when it comes to creating equitable spaces and living circumstances.” As a small, caring community, she calls us to connect with each other and live as humans. Dr. Canty’s journey back home will undoubtedly connect students, faculty, and staff on the WFU campus to our Winston-Salem community, where we all can feel like we belong.

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For The Love Of A Princess

BY GENEVIEVE CONDON

All young girls grew up reading fairy tales about the princess waiting to be saved. She’d let down her long hair or wait in distress as she was held captive. She was vulnerable and always found happiness in a man’s warm embrace. Well, screw that. I’m a Princess that waits for no man.

I refuse to let down my hair or wait for some man to find me. I won’t sit around for him because I’m the one doing the saving. Let me make this clear, my father would much rather me sit pretty and wait for some man to ask me to marry him. Me. No. I knew who I wanted to marry. I had since I was a little girl and he taught me how to ride a horse bareback and to joust like a professional. His name was Lee. We did jousting only for fun because it was a rather primitive sport but I loved it. It made sense when my father told me there was to be a competition for my hand in marriage that this would be the event. You know why? Because they’d all lose to Lee and to me.

Cue the sighs and confetti because Lee, he would fight for me, even knowing how I felt about being fawned over. He loved me. I knew that with everything that I was because he respected me. My intelligence. My choices. My thoughts. And he was easy on the eyes. His long hair and chiseled face with a distinguished chin that I longed to run my teeth over. And his eyes, so dark and expressive. Trouble was, he still had to fight for my hand.

“Ladies and Gentlemen please be seated for the tournament. Whoever taps or gets their opponents to fall first wins and shall earn the hand in marriage of the lovely Princess Annabelle.” I cringed as they sold me off like cattle. They motioned to where I sat or was supposed to be sitting. My servant was a good fill-in.

I snuck away and geared up, disguising myself in full gear. I wasn’t going down without fighting for what I believed in. Laws and Procedures were one thing I couldn’t fight my father on but I was known to get around them and I had a plan. “Begin!” I rode with a passion as I immediately knocked the first contender off his horse, then the second, then the third. Murmurs ran through the crowd of who the masked man was. Little did they know it was me, fighting for my own honor. This wasn’t about Lee because I knew at the end of the day he was going to be the one I shared my life with. This was about every little girl watching, thinking that she was only able to choose a man who could fight for her and win. That she had no say in her own happily ever after. I was here to rip that veil off their eyes and show them that women were our own heroes.

“The last two standing men please prepare.” I looked at the end and saw Lee holding onto his helmet. He looked up to where he thought I was sitting and blew a kiss.

“Although I know you can fight for yourself dear Annabelle, I will fight for you because I love you wholeheartedly and would do anything to spend my life with you.” I know I didn’t need saving, or a man to complete me but Lee, he was the exception to the rule. He didn’t treat me differently because I was a Princess or a woman. He let me learn and try things, be independent yet supported me when I needed. I watched him through the slits of the helmet as he pulled back his long blonde hair and covered his face with the helmet. Then it started. We went back and forth many times, both of us dodging and weaving each other’s attempts to get the other to fall off our horse. It was a dance that Lee and I had done many times before. Then, I caught him off guard, going below his jousting stick and pinning him in the shoulder. A loud gasp sounded through the audience, my father standing up and clutching the end of his chair.

“Unmask yourselves!” He demanded.

Lee took off his mask and then I did, my long black hair flowing around me. Silence greeted me.

“I have won my own hand and marriage.” I smiled at my father, shaking his head and slumping into his seat. Lee looked stunned but smiled, placing his helmet between his arms.

“I wanted to show every young girl that you are the makers of your own destiny. Not a silly game or tournament. You. It all starts with loving yourself and knowing your worth!” I pointed out into the crowd. Women cheered and men looked confused as I stood in front of them, their princess declaring the rights of women all around.

“Women don’t need a man to complete them or to be a good queen,” I glanced up at my father who sat there unsure of what to do. “But I, Princess Annabelle, choose Lee to be my husband. Not because I need him or because someone told me I had to marry him but because I love him.” I dropped my helmet and ran into Lee’s arms.

“That was quite a spectacle, princess,” he whispered against my ear.

“Would you expect anything less from me?” I questioned.

“Absolutely not. You were a worthy competitor. Even if your form was a bit off.”

“Lee, I will have you know that I beat you far and--”my objections were halted when his lips pressed down on mine. I didn’t agree with fairytales but with my lips pressed against the man I knew was my soulmate, I did believe in one thing: happily ever afters.

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BY AMY HILL

Is your wardrobe looking a bit dull heading into the fall season? With employees returning to the office and students returning to the classroom, it’s no longer socially acceptable to live in sweatpants all day. Stow away your sweats and visit Wood & Thread Boutique to upgrade your look with stylish staples that are sure to help you get back to business.

As the owner of Wood & Thread Boutique, Theresa Burton has spent the summer sprucing up her shop with freshly painted white ceilings and walls. As fall approaches, the boutique is filling up with dresses, sweaters, and trendy Y-cut jeans. With life slowly creeping back to normal, Theresa and her daughter Emily, who manages the boutique’s social media, are happy to have noticed the inventory shifting away from primarily loungewear and graphic tees into business casual clothing and going out dresses.

Over the last year, Mondays through Thursdays were the busiest days of the week for Wood & Thread, as locals left town on the weekends for quick getaway vacations. Currently, weekends are beginning to pick back up as visitors from out of town are visiting nearby locations such as Old Salem and the Historic Brookstown Inn. Curious as to what Wood & Thread has in store? Theresa describes the shop as the perfect spot for boho chic styling from your home to your closet. From wooden and gold jewelry to blazers and bodysuits, shoppers will likely be unable to leave the store empty-handed.

After establishing pop-up shops for over a year, Theresa decided to snag a spot to open the boutique in Downtown Winston-Salem - a spot she had been eyeing for months at 301 Brookstown Avenue. As it turns out, Wood & Thread was a perfect fit for the Brookstown area, as residents of nearby apartment complexes, convention center visitors, and students from Salem College and UNCSA frequent the shop. Wood & Thread’s visitors often take advantage of the boutique’s close proximity to tasty coffee shops such as Camino Bakery and ByGood Coffee, along with treating themselves to tasty Italian dinners at Di Lisio’s. Over the last three years, Theresa has grown to love the neighborhood’s familylike atmosphere and has thoroughly enjoyed immersing herself and the boutique in the Brookstown community. During the pandemic, however, Wood & Thread re-established its pop-up roots by setting up outdoor shops in parking lots alongside other small businesses to circumvent the challenges imposed by local restrictions and social distancing guidelines. Having the opportunity to work with fellow small business owners gave Theresa and Emily the opportunity to network and gain inspiration for Wood & Thread. Since moving into its Brookstown location, Wood & Thread has also persevered through the closure of Business 40, which caused a major disruption to the amount of traffic passing through the nearby community. With so many triumphs under its belt, Wood & Thread’s versatility and appealing in-store and online presence have kept the boutique thriving when times have gotten tough.

Giving back to the community and supporting local businesses are important causes to the Wood & Thread team, as many clothing and accessory brands sold in-store and online donate a portion of their proceeds to nonprofit organizations. Additionally, Wood & Thread will be a hot spot on Saturday, October 2nd, as one of the many local businesses participating in Forsyth Woman’s 2021 Tour De Boutique. To keep Tour de Boutique shoppers satiated and hydrated, Wood & Thread will be hosting a food truck serving donuts and other tasty treats, alongside one of Thirsty Buffalo’s beloved mobile bars. If it’s your first time visiting the boutique, be on the lookout for Alpha-Lit’s stunning marquis letters shining in the store window. Be sure to stop by and take advantage of the Tour de Boutique discount available for all registered shoppers.

With this being the first year Theresa and her team is participating in Tour de Boutique, they are working hard to make sure that the shop is in tip-top shape. Returning customers can expect to see brand new hardwood floors and an overall brighter atmosphere within the store in the near future. Ready to start shopping? Visit woodandthreadboutique. com to view store hours and current products online, and follow @woodandthreadboutique on Instagram to stay posted on the boutique’s newest items. Check out Wood & Thread on Facebook and be sure to register for the 2021 Tour de Boutique on Facebook by September 10th to shop Wood & Thread Boutique’s exclusive sales.

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CENTENARY UNITED METHODIST CHURCH:

EVERY DAY FOR EVERYONE

BY DENISE HEIDEL

Rev. Dr. Glenn Kinken

Since 1931, Centenary United Methodist Church has been a staple in the Winston-Salem community, serving people and families for generations while offering spiritual guidance, counseling, and encouragement. Most recently, Centenary UMC’s senior pastor, Rev. Dr. Glenn Kinken, and the church staff have made it a mission to reach the next generation in our ever-changing world.

“Our church just went under significant renovation,” said Kinken. “It was the second renovation our church has undergone in nine years, and we are thrilled with the results. Our campus is brighter and more inviting. Of course, the original architecture has been preserved, but we have made updates as part of our ongoing efforts to reach the community.

“We have stood by our church’s mission that was established years ago,” Kinken continued. “Our ministry doesn’t stop and start on our doorsteps, but we do everything we can to bring church to our community. Our doors are wide-open, and we have something for everyone – every day of the week.”

The Centenary United Methodist Church team has also partnered with a number of agencies that have allowed them to spread their reach and share the Gospel of Jesus through hands-on endeavors. Kinken shared, “We are so thankful for these partnerships which enable us to have an open invitation to the community. It enables us to grow together and reach more in need. We know more than ever the basic need for connection. So while we are proud of the work we did to move our programs and services to virtual in 2020, we know that people need fellowship. It’s how we’re hardwired by our Creator. “Our staff, members, and families are so excited,” he continued. “We have revamped opportunities for special events, music, meetings, and more through the church’s remodeling and partnerships. Our ultimate goal is to show others the way to incorporate time with God into every day. Church doesn’t just happen on Sundays, but it’s a way of life. Whether we are connecting via email with a ‘First 15’ from our faith formation program or volunteering with our ministry partners at Samaritan Ministries… serving others is what we do and what we encourage others to do too. We believe that community is intentional, and at our church, that is something we take very seriously.”

Rev. Dr. Kinken wants Centenary United Methodist Church to be known as the hands and feet of Jesus. “Everyone who walks through our doors, partners with us, or is a recipient of one of our services is a person who is loved by God. So we, too, want to ensure we’re doing our part not only to fulfill the Great Commission to share Jesus, but to also love God first, and our community.”

Centenary United Methodist Church invites Forsyth Woman readers to visit and learn more about the opportunities to connect through their ministry. They are located at 646 West Fifth Street in Winston-Salem. You can call the office at 336.724.6311 during office hours (Monday – Thursday, 9 AM –4 PM). Visit online at Centenary-WS.org. Centenary UMC is also on social media! Like them on Facebook, or follow on Instagram.

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BY AMY HILL, PHOTOS BY RANDOLPH COMMUNITY COLLEGE PORTRAIT STUDIO MANAGEMENT CLASS OF 2021

After a long workweek, there are few things finer than a glass of white wine (or four) by the lake. One Friday afternoon, I decided to unwind at Old Homeplace Vineyard with a flight of four two-ounce pours of various wines of my choosing. As a growing wine enthusiast, I found Old Homeplace turned out to be the perfect venue to kick my feet up and relax on a back porch while treating my palate to brand new blends.

Shortly after I got cozy in my wooden lounge chair with my wine flight, I witnessed Old Homeplace Vineyard’s owner, David Stone, greeting each patron outside. It was obvious that one of the most important goals of the Old Homeplace team is making its patrons feel like family. In fact, family is so deep-rooted in the vineyard’s blood that its most popular wine among customers is the Henry Lee, named after the great-grandfather of David’s wife and fellow owner, Jill. As the first wine in my flight, I was pleasantly surprised by the refreshing and crisp taste of the Henry Lee, a white blend of Viognier, Pinot Gris, and Chardonnay.

If sweet wines are what satisfy your palate, they have you covered with a wide variety of muscadine and fruit wines that will surely be pleasing. Be sure to try the best-selling Skinny Dippin’ (and to hear the story behind this one, too).

Nestled along 1,200-acre Lake Thom-aLex, Old Homeplace Vineyard is more than just a tasting room with a view. Although it’s currently the only lakefront vineyard in North Carolina, wine tasters from all areas of the state visit the vineyard to learn about the history of the vineyard’s farm, which has been standing strong since 1947. Jill’s father and vineyard co-owner, Bud Kennedy, grew up on the farm and has witnessed its transformation from growing tobacco, small grain, and corn to becoming the Davidson County staple it is today. Ever since the vineyard was first planted in 2016, Bud and his wife, Dee, have worked closely alongside David and Jill to keep the atmosphere at Old Homeplace true to its name.

Open year-round, Old Homeplace’s live music, food trucks, and picturesque space for weddings and private events keep the tasting room bustling with patrons. Guests and planners of private events can take advantage of the vineyard’s versatility, with the charming onsite barn doubling as an event center when the weather doesn’t cooperate. May through October are the vineyard’s liveliest months of the year, so those looking to book an event at Old Homeplace should look to secure the space far in advance.

When it comes to Old Homeplace’s selection of 22 unique wines, each wine is made with North Carolina-grown grapes, including nearby grapes from Chart’s Hill Vineyard in Wallburg. What really piqued my interest, however, was Old Homeplace’s New Moon wine, a Sauvignon Blanc aged in bourbon barrels. As the second wine in my flight, I immediately noticed the aromatic notes of bourbon in the glass. If you happen to prefer red wine over white, the vineyard’s Full Moon is a Cabernet Sauvignon also aged in bourbon barrels. As a somewhat inexperienced wine drinker, I’m typically wary of most red wines, but I will definitely make an exception for the Full Moon - although the 15.9% ALC of both bourbon barrelaged blends might have influenced my decision by my third pour.

I finished off my flight with the lovely Tire Swing, a rosé blend of Sangiovese and Cabernet Franc. In my opinion, you can never go wrong with a rosé wine - and the Tire Swing did not disappoint. While I was tempted to add a glass of 2017 Riesling to the mix after hearing that it won a double gold medal at the 2017 NC State Fair, I instead decided to call it a night and purchased a bottle of the vineyard’s classic Sauvignon Blanc to savor at home in my complimentary tasting glass. When you can’t take in the beauty of the vineyard’s rolling hills, horses, and southern charm in your busy Downtown apartment, having a bottle of Old Homeplace Vineyard wine waiting in your fridge will do the trick.

To stay tuned in to the latest live music, food trucks, and events happening at Old Homeplace Vineyard, follow the Old Homeplace family on Instagram at @oldhomeplacevineyard, or check out the team’s Facebook page for updates. Read more about the vineyard’s wine selection or contact David and his team to book a private event at oldhomeplacevineyard.com.

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A monthly column that keeps its finger on the pulse of Forsyth’s artists and their inspiring stories!

This month’s featured artist, Dot McCollum, takes color and whimsy to the happiest of heights creating a world all her own with the singular desire to never settle for singularity but experience a little bit of everything life has to offer!

Dorothea McCollum | Mixed Media Artist

How would you describe your work?

Whimsical, colorful and textured.

What influences your art most?

Influence comes from everywhere. I always have paper around so I can doodle something and there’s always my handy smartphone where I can bookmark or send myself a text to remember. I am drawn to bright, colorful, whimsical, happy things in life so that’s what I generally prefer to create.

You just returned from a recent road trip. Did your adventure inspire you in new ways?

I recently returned from a 28-day road trip adventure with my kids! My goal for this adventure was to explore the plains and deserts of the southwest. I have been in love with New Mexico since I was 14 and I took two winter semesters in college at Ghost Ranch in NM. I’ve been wanting to return ever since. The warmer color palettes of the earth and rock formations in AZ, NM, UT and NV are so different from the lush blues and greens surrounding us in WinstonSalem. I captured moments by sketching and took 1,000 photos! I hope to work on some desert landscapes to bring my emotional attachment to canvas.

How have you evolved, personally, as an artist?

In 1984, when I was four, my mom entered me into a Snoopy related drawing contest at Christmas. I still have that crayon drawing framed and I vividly remember drawing it. I took extra art classes in high school and went to college for a BFA, never having a singular focus because I wanted to try it all.

I think 20 years ago I was completing projects and assignments to (A) fulfill the project criteria and (B) make something other people would like. The blanket of fear I mentioned kept me from showing myself as a professional. The last couple years I realized I needed to live my artist life like I live my actual life because time isn’t a guarantee. I will make art I love because I love making it and it will find its place somewhere. You are an Artomat artist, can you explain what an Artomat is for those who don’t know and share what you ove most about contributing?

In short, Artomat machines are repurposed cigarette vending machines that now vend artwork from contributing artists worldwide. Artomat was created by Winston-Salem artist Clark Whittington and now venues across the country can host a machine. For $5 you can have a tiny original piece.

Submitting a prototype a few years ago was my first step to throwing off my blanket of fear. I want to make art, this is a fun way to send my happy little paintings out into the world. Besides coming up with funny food related puns (which is my chosen Artomat subject matter), my favorite parts of being an Artomat artist are the online community I’ve found and the “green cards” we receive quarterly showing us precisely which machines our art has been sent to!

How do you carve out time to be creative?

It takes balance and scheduling an appointment with myself! During the school year I try to work in the studio a few hours throughout the day and I plan about a week ahead, especially since my boys are home during summer. I work in batches so while things are drying I can be working on something else instead of wasting time, literally watching paint dry. I can prime and work on 100-200 tiny paintings at a time (grouped into sets of 20 per design). Short bursts of time throughout the day and week can accomplish a lot when the paintings are so small.

What are you working on that excites you right now?

The best thing I did during quarantine was sign up for an online art group. This group is encouraging, supportive and wildly talented from beginner to seasoned pro. It’s a treat to see how everyone interprets the classes and makes adjustments to suit their own aesthetic. Tons of inspiration is soaked up here. Having this library of technique and themes has been invigorating and has really sparked my desire to try new things.

What is one piece of advice you’d like to share with fellow artists?

Your art is yours, that’s why it’s so special. Keep creating!

If you are interested in learning more about Dot McCollum you can follow Dot on Instagram @delightfullydotty as well as find her work in Artomat throughout Winston-Salem.

BY LAUREN SEPHTON, PHOTOS BY JODIE BRIM

Have you ever taken a moment to read the ingredients on your skincare products’ labels? With over 80,000 chemicals on the market today, it’s no wonder there are serious health issues on the rise. And while it’s inevitable that our bodies will become exposed to toxic chemicals throughout our lifetime, there is a step you can take to eliminate a good portion of them. Insert Beautycounter, the California-based brand with more than 1,800 questionable and harmful chemicals never used in their products and a mission to provide their customers with beauty that is “good for you.” It is the brand that is doing all the hard work so that you can keep life simple.

“There’s a lot in life we can’t control,” said Jennifer Ertl, Founding Member and Managing Director with Beautycounter. “From household products, food prep and storage, cleaning products, and the things we do in daily life. But we can choose safer products we use on our skin and our bodies - body wash, lotion, deodorant, skincare, and makeup.”

The skincare and beauty industry uses many chemicals that have no safety databacked behind them, and what’s worse is that the FDA doesn’t have the authority to remove those harmful ingredients from the everyday products we put on our bodies, as well as those of our children. Take, for example, three of the most widely used chemicals that potentially may be in a few of your bathroom essentials right now. The first being Parfum or perfume, a chemically manufactured fragrance that could affect brain health, trigger allergies, or even cause asthma flare-ups. Another harmful chemical is Parabens that have been linked to endocrine disruption. Lastly, DEA, MEA, and TEA are a set of preservatives that are most common in moisturizers and shampoos that can react with other chemicals to form nitrosamines, which could lead to the growth of cancer.

Possibly even more troubling is the fact that the FDA has no authority to recall a product even if it contains known carcinogens, as in the recent case of a well-known retailer that discovered asbestos contamination in the kids makeup palettes they were selling. The company did remove the contaminated products from their shelves, but ultimately made no effort to recall those products already sold to customers. Remember the substantial number of chemicals I mentioned earlier that Beautycounter does not use? Well, it’s called The Never List. It’s their commitment to lead a change in the beauty and skincare industry all across the marketplace. From family and friends to people they’ve just met, every face behind Beautycounter is committed to helping you make a healthier choice that works to meet your needs. They not only source ingredients carefully but test constantly. “Beautycounter goes above and beyond to continually screen and batch test our products for contaminants,” Jennifer expressed. “All things being equal, why wouldn’t you choose a highperforming, gorgeous product that is significantly safer?”

Beautycounter is redefining the skincare and beauty industry through fastforwarding thinking that puts safety front and center. But beyond that, they are always putting the needs of their customers right along its side. Now, you may be wondering, why is it necessary to have a good daily skincare routine? Well, you’re shedding skin cells throughout each day, and safe, effective products can keep your skin glowing and in good condition over the years. By creating an effective routine that works for your schedule, you can treat wrinkles, help prevent acne, and keep your skin looking its best!

“My favorite product is the Overnight Resurfacing Peel + Allbright Vitamin C Serum combo - I call it the glow duo!” said Jennifer. “Overnight Peel delivers skin-smoothing gentle acids that work overnight to give you a smoother, more even complexion, and our C-Serum has 10% vitamin C complex, Turmeric root extract, and Camu Camu fruit extract (they call it superfruit for a reason!) for visibly brighter skin. This combo is perfect for anti-aging concerns and for keeping breakout-prone skin clearer and brighter. At age 48, this combo is my daily go-to for the most glowing skin.” And contrary to belief, you don’t need a drawer full of products to keep your skin naturally glowy. Just a few of the right products will get the job done!

To learn more about Jennifer, discuss any questions, or request free Beautycounter samples, find her on Instagram at @NCJennifer or visit her Beautycounter page at www.beautycounter.com/jenniferertl.

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BY AMY HILL

Heading to the dreaded DMV soon to take care of business? Here are the five types of people you’re likely to run into along the way.

THE IMPATIENT PERSON

As usual, the line at the DMV is wrapped around the waiting room as everyone is standing patiently for their turn. The man in front of you seems to be waiting a bit less patiently than most, however, as he begins rocking back and forth and looking around the room in exasperation. You start scrolling through social media on your phone to make sure your head is down and away from potentially making eye contact with him. This man doesn’t care that you’re acting busy on your phone and instead turns around to start chatting. “This line is ridiculous, ain’t it?” he asks. To appease him, you smile and nod in agreement, but immediately resume scrolling. With a renewed confidence that someone else has agreed with his sentiment, he starts ranting on and on about how this is the worst DMV out of all the DMVs he has visited. Why does this guy have to go to so many DMVs? You think to yourself. You continue to keep your hands and eyes glued to your phone and hope for the best until you reach the front of the line.

THE CLUELESS GUY

As you inch closer to the front, you notice that there is quite the hold up as an employee is desperately trying to explain the rules of the new REAL ID requirements to an unprepared young man who only showed up with his driver’s license. “I’m sorry, sir, but all of the paperwork you’re supposed to bring is listed online,” says the employee. The young man, refusing to take responsibility for his lack of research ahead of time, begins complaining about how he doesn’t have a passport and has no clue where his birth certificate is. Everyone in the waiting area is watching the young man become more and more frustrated, making an uncomfortable waiting situation even more unpleasant. After a few more pleas with the employee to bend the rules for him, he gives up and is forced to leave with no REAL ID in hand. THE DISGRUNTLED EMPLOYEE

When it’s finally your time to shine, you walk up to the employee’s desk and lay out all of your documents on the table for the employee to gather. You smile and say hello, but the employee is not happy. She barely smirks and asks you to sign a few forms. You can barely understand what she’s saying, but you are too afraid to ask for clarification because she does not seem to be in a great mood. While it would be nice to have a friendly employee greeting you after waiting for so long, you can’t blame her for being miserable.

THE FIRST-TIME DRIVER

After you’re taken back to a desk behind the waiting area, you see a young woman at a computer nearby taking the written portion of her driver’s license exam. You discretely watch as she second-guesses every multiplechoice answer on the screen due to nerves. You’re internally rooting for her, as you’ve been in her shoes and know how nerve-racking the experience can be. Unfortunately, after she completes the test, she learns that she has not passed. Her eyes begin to well up with tears. She heads back to the waiting room to find her mother, who is now consoling her and letting her know that she can “always come back and take the test again” in a few weeks.

YOUR OLD HIGH SCHOOL CLASSMATE

After your time at the DMV has finally come to an end, you’re heading out the door when you are approached by a familiar face. “Amy Hill?” he asks. “What are you doing here?” Quickly remembering that he attended high school with you, you tell him that you’re just here to renew your driver’s license. Even though you’d like nothing more than to drive to Taco Bell to emotionally eat after your stressful experience at the DMV, you allow your former classmate to briefly reminisce on the only class you recall having with him. As the conversation comes to a close, he asks, “Did you know you can renew your license online?” Baffled, you cannot believe you wasted so much time instead of checking the website before showing up at the crack of dawn. Now I’m the unprepared one, you think. You warmly say goodbye to your former classmate and take advantage of your renewed license by heading straight to the drive-thru.

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