Forsyth Woman - November 2014

November 2014

Meet the Lil’ Briar Patch Girl!

Learn why the health of 3.5 billion women and girls must become a global priority

Novant Health Maya Angelou International Women’s Health Summit 2014: A Global Priority, Thursday, Nov. 20, and Friday, Nov. 21

Novant Health Conference Center on the campus of Novant Health Forsyth Medical Center, Winston-Salem, NC Women everywhere need access to quality healthcare that meets their diverse needs. Find out what the healthcare community needs to do to help them live longer, healthier lives.

This multinational collaboration features 40 speakers who will highlight how we can improve the health of women and girls around the world. Experts will address the importance of uniquely treating women’s health needs when it comes to war, domestic violence, the lesbian-gay-bisexual-transgender community, maternal and infant mortality, clinical trial participation, aging, obesity and nutrition.

Register at NovantHealth.org/womensconference.

Early bird special ends Oct. 31.

Melissa Harris-Perry will open the summit. She hosts MSNBC’s “Melissa Harris-Perry” show and is a professor of politics and international affairs at Wake Forest University.

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CONTENTS November 2014

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51 Meet The Lil’ Briar Patch Girl!

24 Paparazzi Hair Salon

28 Forsyth Plastic Surgery

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FEATURES

Encore! Consignments & More

44 Shopping Small Matters

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46 Lyndhurst Medical Spa

68 Budget Blinds

86 The Singing Bird Organic Salon

88 Junior League Annual Boutique Shopping Event

98 HakkaChow Asian Eats

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Free Brenner FIT Classes Join experts from Brenner Children’s Hospital for these FREE Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family Collaborative classes. Registration is required. Unless otherwise noted, classes are held at Brenner FIT in the William G. White Jr. Family YMCA, 775 West End Blvd., Winston-Salem.

Learn to Cook A Balanced Meal

Grocery Store Tour

Tuesdays, November 4 and 11 6 to 7 pm

Monday, December 1 5:30 to 7 pm

During this hands-on cooking class, you and your family will prepare a balanced meal and learn how it meets Brenner FIT recommendations for a balanced plate.

Mature children are welcome with parental supervision.

(Food Lion, Somerset Center Drive, Winston-Salem) Do you wander around the supermarket wondering what is best for your family? Join Brenner Children’s Hospital dietitians for a personalized grocery store tour. Learn how to compare nutrition labels, watch for advertising tricks and discover cost-saving measures.

Day care not available.

My Kids Are Driving Me Crazy!

Tuesday, November 18 (Family Meetings) 6 to 7:15 pm Discover how to replace punishment with respectful and effective tools to bring more joy into parenting.

Each month a different parenting topic is discussed.

Classes are taught by certified Positive Discipline parent educators from the Brenner FIT program.

Brenner Fit

Learn to Cook A Balanced Meal Tuesdays, December 2 and 9 6 to 7 pm During this hands-on cooking class, you and your family will prepare a balanced meal and learn how it meets Brenner FIT recommendations for a balanced plate.

Mature children are welcome with parental supervision.

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CONTENTS November 2014

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Keeping It Reall

38 Dear June

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58-61 Holiday Gift Guide

72 To Your Health!

102 Recipes

114 138

110 Career Notes

112 Local Vocals

116 Life Hacks November 2014 / 13

This is probably my favorite time of year.

I love the colors and the cooler temperatures, and it’s the month that reminds us of all our blessings.

Recently, some close friends of our family got the devastating news that cancer had entered their lives. As a breast cancer survivor, I am all too familiar with the terror of hearing a cancer diagnosis. Our friend Clay was diagnosed with MDS, which stands for myelodysplastic syndrome.

This cancer affects the bone marrow and prevents it from making healthy blood cells. This news hit right as Clay and his wife had built their new home. While there wasn’t much we could do to help them through the medical diagnosis, what we could do was provide them some home-based support. A team of 30 + people worked together one weekend in October to landscape their yard for them, as this was a part of their new home that had yet to receive any attention. As I watched people come together for a common cause, I was reminded yet again, of the power of teamwork and how blessed we really are. When people can look out for each other, really incredible things can happen.

Another recent reminder was the Make-A-Wish Auction and Fundraiser. While the silent auction was in September, our fundraising efforts continued through the end of October. We were blown away by the generosity of so many and even as I write this, other businesses have come forward to ask how they can be a part of our fundraising initiative! As a result, TWO wishes can now be granted to local children who are facing life-threatening illnesses.

As you go about this month, preparing for the holidays, take a moment to look around and see what you can do for another. Whether it’s someone who has received a scary diagnosis or someone who is just struggling with some unknown emotional issue… even something as simple as a smile can make such a difference. Opportunities to show support present themselves every day!

Speaking of support, a huge thing you can do is support locally-owned, small businesses on November 29th! Small Business Saturday is an annual event designed to bring awareness to the benefits that small businesses bring to the local economy! Check out more details in the article on page 44 where one of our small, locally owned businesses has shared what this day means to the community as a whole!

Finally, November’s issue also brings with it our seasonal gift guide!

Be sure to look for the fun gift ideas on pages 58-61!

As always, we’re thankful to you for picking up Forsyth Woman! We hope to see you at our monthly Girls’ Night Out on November 11th at Jeffrey Adams! Until then, please show your support to our advertisers and let them know you saw their ads and stories in Forsyth Woman!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Diabetes and Your Eyes

By Vic Khemsara & True Ly Tran, OD iabetes mellitus (DM) is a group of metabolic diseases

Dcharacterized by hyperglycemia resulting from defects of insulin secretion and/or increased cellular resistance to insulin. Type 1 diabetes mellitus results from destruction of the beta cells in the pancreas which accounts for about 10% of all diabetics in the United States. This can lead to absolute insulin deficiency. Type 1 DM can occur at any age, but is more common in people less than 30 years old. Type 2 diabetes mellitus is the most common form worldwide and the prevalence is increasing. It accounts for approximately 90% of all cases of DM in the United States and occurs more frequently in adults than in children. The incidence for type 2 increases with age, especially after age 40. Ultimately, the loss of beta cell mass can lead to insulin dependency. The third type of diabetes is gestational DM, which is any degree of glucose intolerance with onset or first diagnosis during pregnancy.

Gestational diabetes is usually diagnosed during the second or third trimester. It occurs in approximately 4 % of all pregnancies or 135,000 cases annually. Glucose tolerance usually returns to normal within 6 weeks after pregnancy ends and most women do not develop DM later in life.

Patients with diabetes can experience symptoms including polyuria (frequent urination), polydipsia (excessive thirst), increased hunger, unexplained weight loss, tiredness, a tingling sensation or numbness in the hand or feet, and blurred vision, especially after a big meal. If any of these symptoms sound familiar, then a visit to your medical doctor is highly recommended. A diagnosis of diabetes can be made based on a patient’s blood glucose levels taken by his or her doctor.

Since diabetes mellitus is the leading cause of death, disability, and blindness in the United States for people between the ages 20-74, it is important to see your primary care physician. In addition to getting a physical, an eye exam is equally important because it can identify patients with undiagnosed diabetes. Approximately 80% of blindness in this age group is related to diabetic retinopathy.

Diabetic retinopathy is when the blood vessels in the retina are damaged and fluid, protein, and/or blood is leaked. At least 50,000 Americans are legally blind from this condition. Early referral for eye care and appropriate and timely intervention lessen the risk for, and severity of, vision loss related to diabetes.

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Hospice care is about how you LIVE! A family member of a Hospice patient recently said, “Hospice didn’t just help Mom die, they helped her live fully until the very end.”

It’s never too soon to call.

If you are caring for a loved one with a serious illness, please pause in November - National Hospice Month - to learn about the compassionate care and support offered by Hospice & Palliative CareCenter.

What you should know: Calling Hospice does not mean giving up hope – it means letting hope in when you need it most.

Facing the many challenges and fears associated with end-of-life can be overwhelming. With the support of Hospice & Palliative CareCenter, those challenges can be faced with more hope. Yes, hope. Hope for living fully and comfortably at home, hope for living free of pain, hope that the entire family is being cared for, and hope for dignity and peace of mind. A study published in 2007 showed that patients who choose Hospice care live an average of 29 days longer than patients who don’t have Hospice care.

The number one comment we hear from our patients and families is that they wish they had called sooner. Hospice care is not simply for patients in the final days or weeks, but rather months of their life. That’s why it’s important to understand that Hospice is about hope, comfort, and living fully so that there is no hesitation about calling Hospice as soon as you recognize a need for support.

Anyone can make a referral to Hospice.

If you know someone who might benefit from Hospice services, let them know about Hospice & Palliative CareCenter. Once Hospice gets the call, they contact the physician. Generally, services begin immediately.

Chances are, you’ve already paid for Hospice care.

Hospice care is most often covered by Medicare, Medicaid, and private insurance. Many families find that Hospice can actually ease financial burdens associated with end-of-life care.

November is also a perfect time to think ahead about the kind of healthcare you would choose at end of life. Let Hospice & Palliative CareCenter also help you avoid a healthcare crisis by having conversations today. Learn more at www.gotplans123.org

Hospice & Palliative CareCenter serves 13 counties from offices in Winston-Salem, Mocksville, Walnut Cove and Salisbury.

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John, and their 8-year-old daughter, Maggie. Maggie is a Junior Deacon Cheerleader and one of the biggest supporters of her mom’s team. For Coach Hoover, being a basketball coach is a dream come true, but is second to her devotion to her family and her passion for mentoring young women. In addition to mentoring young women and helping them earn degrees, Coach Hoover has the vision of winning championships here at Wake Forest. She was able to reach the NCAA tournament as a player and wants to do the same now as the head coach. There are so many aspects of Winston-Salem and Wake Forest to love: the traditions, the people who make this place truly special, the prestige of the university, the family environment and the location.”

Wake Forest University Women’s Basketball Team By Meghan E.W. Corbett ith so much going on in and around the Triad this time of year, some of the best events can get missed. These include watching the women of Wake Forest University take on other great teams during the 2014-2015 basketball season.

The season will open with four straight home games, the first of which is scheduled for November 15th against Longwood at 2pm, followed by games against Tennessee Tech, Marquette and Coppin State.

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“We will play 30 games this season, with 17 of those contests being played at home,” said Coach Jen Hoover.

“A trip to the Cancun Challenge will highlight the early part of our schedule. The Deacons will take on three very tough opponents during the Thanksgiving holiday, starting with Princeton on November 27th, Charlotte on November 28th and Montana on November 29th.”

Coach Hoover plays an integral part in the success of the WFU women’s basketball team. “Coach Hoover is a legend in Wake Forest Basketball,” said Kathleen Hurley, assistant director of marketing for Wake Forest University Athletics. “She played her college basketball here at Wake Forest, and was the best women’s player to ever wear a Wake Forest uniform. Still holding the scoring and rebounding records, Coach Hoover is in the Wake Forest Sports Hall of Fame, as well as being recognized as one of the ACC Legends. A member of the class of 1991, Hoover was also a top student, being named to the ACC Academic Honor Roll during her time as a student-athlete. She returned to Wake Forest in 2012 to take over the program and has found herself at home again. For a Demon Deacon, being back at home in the capacity of leading her former team is a dream come true. It is a wonderful place for a family, and Coach Hoover shares her love of Winston-Salem with her husband of 13 years,

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Anyone who is a fan of the ACC has seen many changes to the teams, including through the years, and this year is no different!

“The Deacons' first home game in ACC play will also be the first-ever meeting with Louisville,” said Hoover. “That game is scheduled for Sunday, January 11th, and we are inviting all youth athletes in the Triad to join us. Every child under the age of 12 that wears a jersey from one of the teams they play on will be admitted free of charge. NC State, Clemson, Duke, Boston College, Pitt, Miami and Georgia Tech will also make trips to Winston-Salem this season. Also, the ACC Women's Basketball Tournament will again take place at the Greensboro Coliseum in Greensboro on March 4th-8th.”

There is immense talent on the WFU women’s basketball team roster this year. “Senior Dearica Hamby returns to the Demon Deacons after a break-out season in her junior year, in which she garnered many accolades including leading the ACC in both scoring and rebounding,” said Hoover. “Dearica is arguably the best player in the ACC, so we will be looking forward to her elite level performances for another season. We have two local players on the roster, senior Millessa Calicott and sophomore Keri Fulp. Millessa attended Mount Tabor High School, where she received all-state honors, was a member of the National Honor Society and received the Tim Duncan Award. Sophomore Keri Fulp hails from East Surry High School, where she was named Ms. Basketball in North Carolina by the Charlotte Observer and was named as her class valedictorian.”

Another great reason to go see the women of WFU basketball play is affordability. “One of the things the program prides itself on is being an affordable, familyfriendly outing,” said Hoover. “With both season pass and single game ticket options, the Deacons want everyone in the Triad to be a part of their season.

Season passes for admission to every home game this year are just $37 for adults, and there is a special $16 rate for children under 18 and senior citizens. Single game tickets are $7 per person, and parking is free for every game.

Wake Forest also offers a group rate for groups of ten or more of just $4 per ticket, which is perfect for birthday parties, Girl Scout troops and church groups.”

If you are interested in bringing a group to a game, call Kathleen Hurley at 336.758.5011. Season passes and single game tickets can be ordered online at WakeForestSports.com, or by calling the ticket office at 336.758.3322. The ticket office is located at BB&T Field, 499 Deacon Boulevard in Winston-Salem and is open Monday-Friday from 8:30am-5pm. You can also follow Coach Hoover on Twitter @WakeCoachJen.

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Not Just for “Chics” Anymore!

By Noah Williams

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fter listening to their customers for quite some time, Hip Chics Boutique decided it was time to start carrying clothing for guys. In July of this year they introduced men’s clothing lines from Southern Marsh, The Frat Collection and Urban Sunday, as well as spiritual T-shirts and sweatshirts. In addition, they offer men’s accessories such as hats, watches, socks, bow ties, and rain coats. They also carry a collegiate section, along with a variety of games, toys, and sporting items. The “Hip Dudes” part of the store provides a great selection of men’s clothing, is convenient (without the hassle of mall shopping), and will only continue to grow with time. So be sure to check out the “Hip Dudes” at Hip Chics!

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By Meghan E.W. Corbett ome companies say they are focused on community, but there are no actions that reflect their support. Companies like Paparazzi Hair Salon really do place a great deal of importance on giving back to the community and have a long list of supportive actions to prove it!

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Owner Bobbie Skinner is at the forefront of giving back. “Community is important to our business because we are a very caring staff,” said Skinner. “We support the local community by donating money to the schools and donating gift certificates and things for silent auctions to help. We also donate our time and services to help raise money for different causes like the Make-A-Wish event we did in September.” This event raised more than $10,000 for the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

Skinner’s ability to give back to the community is due in large part to the amazing support she receives from her clients and fellow staff. “We have brought together a special group of stylists that want to put others first in all aspects,” said Skinner. “We want to make a difference in others’ lives in as many ways as possible, not just in beauty. It is my vision to be able to create a group of people to keep the hometown feel in the salon instead of feeling like a number. In our fast paced world, it is nice to be able to have a place to be pampered and slow down and enjoy taking time for yourself.

There is no particular project we feel especially strongly about because they all are just as important; anything we can get our hands in and make a difference, we do!”

Not only does Paparazzi Hair Salon give back to the community through donations and supportive efforts, it gives back to its clients individually as well. “We are also here to help other small businesses grow their business,” said Skinner. “We advertise for our customers for free in exchange for being loyal customers. We want to make a big difference and touch many lives in all kinds of ways that we can.”

Paparazzi Hair Salon has so many loyal customers because of its innovative products and knowledgeable staff. “We have staff that is selectively chosen by their passion for hair and ability to put others first,” said Skinner. “Education is a big part of who we are. We use Wella color and our stylists are Wella certified. Next year, we plan to go to New York to the Wella Studio for more extensive training by some of the leading Wella artists. Wella is known for its gray coverage ability, longevity, shine and vibrancy of color. We also carry the new Wella Innosense line. After 20 years of research, Wella developed the ME+ molecule which is a revolutionary new hair dye molecule that provides the same great performance as its other Wella hair color lines, but with a reduced risk of developing an allergy.

It's gluten free and safe for pregnant women.”

One of the best features of Paparazzi Hair Salon is the emphasis on customer satisfaction and education to recreate the best looks possible on days in which they are not styled by professionals. “It is important to us to teach our customers to be more knowledgeable of their hair,” said Skinner. “This includes how to create the same style at home and to maintain the integrity of the hair in between visits. We have an extensive group with lots of education and knowledge. We can do everything from a child's first haircut to outside-the-box hair color to your mom’s weekly set; we are not above letting anyone know it either. We love doing it all, and we have grown to now offer facials, including the jet clear facial. We are the only salon in the surrounding area that is certified to offer this facial which is like a ‘power wash’ for the face. It has become a preferred facial to ones that have tried it due to its powerful results, the fact that it isn't abrasive, and that it is safe for all skin conditions. We want to be able to be a one-stop shop for all your beauty needs and offer the latest technology in all areas of beauty! Our website showcases some of this to show the range of beauty we can create.”

Paparazzi Hair Salon is located at 6000 Meadowbrook Mall Court in Clemmons.

For more information, call 336.893.7169 or visit the website at www.paparazzihairsalon.com.

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By Dr. Debbie Lanier

Oblivious to the Blessing There's no other way to say it. My husband is an NFL N-U-T! (Just keeping it real!)

It’s a year-round obsession. His computer flashes a ticker counting the days until the initial kickoff. He purchases satellite capabilities to view every game. Once the season culminates to its zenith and the Super Bowl stadium empties, my guy grieves as if an immediate family member has breathed his last. (cRaZy!) While my husband loves NFL in any flavor, the Chicago Bears especially energize his passions. (Don’t hate!) This infatuation commenced as a child. According to my expert, the Bears remain one of the "old-school" classics.

Watching my introverted husband meet fellow Bear fanatics is sheer entertainment. This reserved recluse initiates the party, chit-chatting and backslapping with complete strangers like they're blood brothers.

On game day, each member of our household flaunts their allegiance with fitting Bear attire. My husband? He's a sight! Bear memorabilia all the way down to his socks. (Told you he's a nut!)

As our family gathered around the TV cheering our team recently, the sounds and images grabbed my attention. There we stand each week, exhibiting our unwavering allegiance to eleven men on the field. We wholeheartedly lend our applause, even our admiration.

This commitment doesn’t vacillate with the scoreboard. Fair-weather fans? Not us! We prove our loyalty with money we invest, time we offer, and enthusiastic passion we extend.

But consider this. We display this daily devotion for a group of men who don’t even know our names. If we passed them on the street, they wouldn’t give us the time of day. If my family encountered severe crises, these guys would offer no assistance whatsoever. In other words, we are “all in” for people who don’t even know we exist. They proceed, clueless of our sacrifice. They soar, oblivious to

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the blessing. Our obsession sounds utterly ridiculous when you think about it like that.

Whether we realize it or not, a much deeper allegiance and applause get extended in our direction every moment of our living. Like the team members, we walk through our days totally unaware, unmoved by this unrelenting faithfulness generously offered us. If we’re honest with ourselves, we must confess that most of the time we ignore He even exists.

In spite of our careless disregard, this Lover stays the course pursuing us persistently. Not only does this God come in our moment of crisis, His attention and untiring affection reach close long before challenges arise.

The God who adores us “has become our wrap around shield.

He leans into our heart and lays His hand upon us” (Psalm 54:4).

This doting Father extends this moment-by-moment allegiance to you and me, even though we are clueless of the sacrifice, oblivious to the blessing.

This Lover comes to us in spite of our fumblings and failings. He’s no fair-weather friend. He sticks it out at all cost. (And believe me when I say there’s a cost.) We enjoy this ceaseless devotion from a God who gets the very last of our attention. He receives the very least of our gratitude.

In this Thanksgiving Season, let us contemplate the sacrifice this Lover endured just to lean into where we are. Let us live ever conscious of this unwarranted blessing.

It’s time to stop forgetting and fighting the gift. He’s a Lover that never fights you; He fights for you. He’s a Protector who longs to become your wrap around shield. Savor the sacrifice. Treasure the blessing. You’ve never been so loved! (One more thing.

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One of the most popular laser treatments at Forsyth Plastic Surgery is fractional CO2 laser resurfacing. “With the CO2 laser, we can smooth deeper wrinkles on the face and tighten skin around the mouth and eyes,” says Dr. Gilson Kingman. “Downtime is only a few days, and most of our patients think the results are worth the few days of healing.”

The office also has lasers to remove unsightly hair and veins. “Our lasers can effectively reduce unwanted hair in almost any area of the body,” says Dr. Fagg. “The laser attacks the root of the hair follicle so no more hair is produced.”

Forsyth Plastic Surgery: A complete medical laser center … to make you look as young as you feel.

By Martie Emory hen you’re ready to look as young as you feel, there’s nothing that compares to experience and trust. As the most established plastic surgery group in the area, Forsyth Plastic Surgery operates at the Plastic Surgery Center of North Carolina, a facility catering to cosmetic surgery patients. That’s their specialty – and the experience of their four board-certified surgeons speaks for itself.

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Proud to offer many laser procedures that are comfortable, reliable and reasonable, the staff also includes certified aesthetician Jessica Shea, and registered nurses with specialized training in the field.

“We have always wanted to stay on the cutting edge of technology and lasers certainly represent some of the most advanced and sophisticated equipment available,” says Dr. John Fagg. “With our current lasers, we can do many things: remove tattoos, tighten skin, smooth wrinkles and even reduce unwanted hair.” The newest laser is the PicoSure Laser by Cynosure that removes tattoos and brown spots due to aging.

“We are very excited about this incredible new laser that has truly amazing technology,” says Dr. Andrew Schneider. “We can now remove tattoos with less pain, fewer treatments and less cost.”

The PicoSure uses laser energy to break the tattoo pigments into small pieces that can be absorbed by the body over time. “Usually four to eight treatments are needed,” notes Jessica. “Very few offices in the state have this laser.” Its state-of-the-art technology allows the laser to fire for only a trillionth of a second. That means the energy is directed through the skin at a rate so fast that it’s not damaged – only the tattoo pigment is damaged -- and the body gets rid of it. Many patients see the tattoo lighten by 50% after just one or two treatments.

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“Laser hair removal has been something that we have been offering for over 10 years, and the technology continues to improve,” says Dr. George Lawson. “We can now treat almost all skin types. If someone has unwanted hair, or just doesn’t want to shave or wax an area, then laser hair reduction can be terrific.”

Laser vein reduction is also popular. “Many of our patients have small red veins on the face that are bothersome,” says Dr. Schneider.

“With our VersaPulse laser we can usually get rid of them in one or two sessions.”

Stressing that safety is always a main concern throughout the practice, Dr. Kingman notes how powerful lasers can be. “We make sure that eyes are protected and would never do a laser procedure on someone who is not a reasonable candidate. We have always believed that we should own the lasers, rather than rent them a few hours every month. So because we own them, we develop the expertise with each one and know what they can and can’t do.”

Forsyth Plastic Surgery is located at the Plastic Surgery Center of North Carolina, 2901 Maplewood Avenue, Winston-Salem, NC. Their Kernersville location (with limited hours) is located in Suite 201 of the medical office building adjacent to the Kernersville Medical Center. For appointments and more information call 336-765-8620 and visit their website at forsythplasticsurgery.com.

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November: The Month of Fall Festivals

By Elisa D. Wallace November. This month not only brings us the mouthwatering holiday of Thanksgiving, it also brings us a wide array of fall festivals. Winston-Salem and the surrounding areas proudly host a number of interesting festivals.

From delicious food to fine arts and crafts to unique sightseeing activities, these celebrations are sure to please all festival lovers.

November 1st: Weathervane Winery’s Annual Chicken Stew: Free and family friendly, this celebration is the winery’s way of showing appreciation for their patrons.

Featuring music by Lyn Koonze, the event, which takes place on their grounds in Lexington, will run from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. on November 1st. Their infamous chicken stew will be offered from 11 a.m. until it runs out!

November 1st: Colfax Persimmon Festival: All things persimmon and a host of other traditional farming practices are celebrated on a historic farm on the border of Colfax and Oak Ridge. This fantastic festival features food, music, demonstrations, and encampments from the Civil War and Revolutionary War. Join impressive craft vendors and more throughout the day. The event asks for a $5 donation to the Shriners for off-site parking and shuttle service; handicapped parking closer to site available upon request.

November 1st: Statesville Pumpkin Fest: Featuring games, rides and activities, such as Pumpkin Bowling, Pumpkin Painting, a Pumpkin Pie Eating Contest and even Pumpkin Smashing. There will also be over sixty arts and crafts exhibitors, alongside three entertainment stages.

The festival runs from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.

November 22nd-23rd: The Piedmont Craftsmen’s Fair: Celebrating more than 120 of the finest artisans from across the southeastern US, the 51st Piedmont Craftsmen’s Fair will be held on November 22nd through the 23rd.

The fair presents a sampling of the finest work available, artist-designed handmade home goods, wearables, jewelry, furniture and decorative items. Interested in attending?

View these unique, one-of-a-kind items at the fair, which will be held this year at the Benton Convention Center in downtown Winston-Salem.

November 22- Jan. 1st: Tanglewood Park Festival of Lights: Entering its 22nd season, the Festival of Lights at Tanglewood Park is open nightly from 6-11 p.m., starting Nov. 22. The Festival of Lights patrons can listen to festive tunes, including original compositions from the UNC School of the Arts Music Technology students, on interactive musical displays. This year, there will be over 80 displays along the route. To make the show more eco-friendly and brighter, a majority of displays now feature the low-energy LED Lights.

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By Martie Emory

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think what sets us apart from other consignment stores is what we look and feel like: a regular retail store and boutique,” says Angela Mitchell, owner of Encore! Consignments & More in Mt. Airy, North Carolina.

Angela and her staff – which includes her daughter Kayty – make it a priority to make their business feel like home. “One of the best things for me and all of the girls that work here is the new friendships that have been gained,” says Angela. “We have an amazing customer base that comes in once or twice a week, sometimes just to chat!”

Featuring hard-to-resist home accessories and unique accent furniture, along with children’s, juniors’, men’s and women’s clothing, Angela thinks the shop covers a variety of tastes, but ultimately reaches a niche of ladies age 25 and older.

Nurturing the entrepreneurial spirit that she inherited from her mother, Rosie Wall, who has owned her own beauty salon for over 30 years, Angela opened the store in February 2011 after much thought, prayer and support from her husband of 25 years, Chris. He had owned his own business for 20 years so they knew the basics of setting up a successful corporation. High school sweethearts, Angela and Chris are also parents of three children and for their 23-year-old daughter, Kayty, who has faced some educational challenges, the business venture was a perfect work atmosphere for her to share her love of people and socializing, while keeping up with inventory and assisting customers with purchases.

When the dream of opening a consignment store first began to take shape, Angela spread the word about her intentions and began accepting items in her basement in order to build a sizeable inventory to get things started. “I wanted to start strong with items that would appeal to customers right away,” says Angela. The store now limits what they accept to items current within the last four years, their consignment period is 60 days and they accept clothing Monday through Wednesday, with no appointment necessary; they know what customers want and their staff works as a closeknit team. Angela works in the store on weekends and tirelessly “behind the scenes” while Sasha oversees signage and display (including the welcoming display windows!); April manages the front giving each customer personal attention; Brittany organizes inventory, and welcomes customers with her friendly smile; and Kayty works with inventory and enthusiastically greets customers – her specialty. All the girls love advising customers as they put together new, fun outfits!

Come visit the shop and you’ll find brand names such as American Eagle, Chico’s, Ann Taylor, Coach, BCBG and much, much more. Best of all – you’ll want to come back.

Encore! Consignments & More is located in New Market Crossing at 635 W. Independence Blvd, Mt. Airy, NC. Call them at 336-719-0440 or follow them on Facebook at www.facebook.com/encoreconsign2011.

Hours are Monday – Friday 9:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. and Saturday 9:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

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Make-A-Wish Silent Auction & Fundraiser

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s a member of the Forsyth Woman family, one of the greatest benefits I enjoy is being surrounded by amazing people. This includes writers, account executives, advertisers, designers and, especially, our leader and publisher, Keela Johnson. This month, Keela took on a huge challenge to raise as much money as possible for the Make-A-Wish Foundation in order to grant the wishes of local children battling serious illnesses.

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As Rosey, I had the pleasure of attending this fantastic event at The Village Inn and Conference Center, tasting all the wonderful food provided by some of our magnificent partners, and telling you all about it in the hopes you will go to these restaurants and indulge a little yourself!

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Black bean cakes – This is one of my favorite food items in Winston-Salem!

I have loved Phoenix Grille’s black bean cakes since before Phoenix Grille existed…they are remarkable!

Red skin half potatoes with Asiago cheese – If you have not treated yourself to dinner at the Village Inn, you need to! Everything on the menu is absolutely delicious, and that is in no way an exaggeration.

Artichoke/spinach dip with pita bread – Delicious, as always!

Red, Hot & Blue Wings – Mild buffalo, sweet red chili and dry rub – yum! These guys know how to make wings…saucy or dry…you can’t go wrong!

Corn muffins – Moist, flavorful and satisfying!

New Town Bistro Traditional and chipotle roasted red pepper hummus with pita bread and carrots – It was so wonderful to have a couple lighter options around the room that I could eat a bunch of without feeling so guilty…though New Town’s hummus will make you think you are indulging!

French onion puffs – Even the seemingly simple dishes have so many unique flavors and fun twists…wonderful!

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Pot roast sliders – Does Jeffrey Adams do anything badly? I don’t think so…at least I’ve never been able to find anything. They make me want pot roast EVERY day!

Macaroni and cheese – Enough said…yum, yum and yum!

Peach cobbler – That last bit of summer was the perfect way to end the season…and make me look forward to peaches next summer!

6 Layer Buffalo Chicken Dip – Queso cheese, chicken, blue cheese, black beans, cheddar cheese and sour cream served with red, white and blue chips. Whoever invented nachos is a genius…hands down!

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Bruschetta with toast rounds – Light, cool and refreshing!

Chocolate covered strawberries (milk and white chocolate) – Dessert time? Don’t mind if I do!

Christina's Dessertery Scratch-made treats, including chocolate and vanilla cupcakes and another cake way too pretty to cut – do I even need to describe further? We all know Christina’s Dessertery is amazing and everything made there is insanely good…is there any chance they get sick of us all going on and on about how awesome they are? Probably not… Straight from the oven to you, Christina’s is YUM! YUM! YUM! If you visit any of these fantastic restaurants (and you should as soon as possible) please be sure to tell them Rosey sent you! If you would like to contribute to the fundraising efforts for the Make-A-Wish Foundation, please visit tinyurl.com/KeelaWish.

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Retirement Community Changing and growing with more options to call home!

By Martie Emory rom assisted living care and skilled nursing to apartments and customizable cottages, Salemtowne Retirement Community prides itself on offering the type of lifestyle they know their residents want and deserve. Come for a visit, a tour of the entire campus or make the choice to call Salemtowne home, and you’ll sense the difference, shaped by positive attitudes and shining outlooks everywhere you turn.

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Now changing and growing yet again, with plans underway for a new skilled nursing center, a memory care assisted living household and more programs designed to reach the greater community, Salemtowne is also excited about new (they call them life changing) renovations for residents.

Several cottages are now under construction with wonderful additions to support their residents’ wishes to feel as much like home as possible.

One particular cottage, featured here, has garnered tremendous response and two more are currently under construction. Director of Admissions Nikki Burris details a bit of the cottage re-do, focusing on updates that have never before been included.

“We took down a wall that divided the kitchen from the great room to give an open concept feel to the home,” she says. “This improvement led to a bigger kitchen and wonderful bar area for guests to be a part of what’s happening in the kitchen – typically the heart of the home.” The kitchen updates also included stainless steel appliances, quartz countertops and recessed lighting.

For this particular renovation, solar tubes were also added to the great room, offering abundant natural light in an otherwise windowless room. The master bedroom was expanded to allow for a variety of possible placements for a king-size bed, and a second closet was added, as well as a walk-in shower and double vanity in the bathroom. Will this resident feel more of the comforts of home? Absolutely.

Mirroring their strategy of focusing on health, wellness and maintaining independence, Salemtowne is also proud to offer the groundbreaking new program, Navigation, to the community. This program is designed for adults 62 years of age and older who are relatively healthy and who want a personalized plan for their retirement on their own terms, without moving from their current homes. Navigation by Salemtowne affords participants many of the benefits of a traditional brick-and-mortar retirement community while allowing them to still maintain their current residence. Most importantly, members of the program will also have the benefits of a personal Wellness Navigator to oversee every aspect of their health care.

For over 40 years Salemtowne has offered an engaging environment for older adults seeking to live life on their own terms. Their campus is especially beautiful in autumn so plan a visit today to see and hear about all the new options available.

For more information on Salemtowne Retirement Community or the new Navigation program call 336-767-8130 or visit www.salemtowne.org.

They are located at 190 Moravian Way Drive, Winston-Salem, North Carolina.

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To The Max–How to Maximize Your Wardrobe Submitted By Mainstream Boutique While you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, you CAN teach old clothes new tricks by wearing items already in your closet in new ways. By simply pairing an outfit with different shoes and accessories, or mixing it up with something unexpected, you can completely change the vibe and personality of the look.

Let’s look at one of the easiest pieces to re-invent: the LBD…Little Black Dress. Almost every woman has one (or should have!) in her closet. Wear the dress on its own with heels and some great jewelry and you are ready for practically any event, from date night to a business meeting. Give the dress a new look by adding a punch of color with a stylish cardi or vest. Make the dress appropriate for a more casual event by wearing it with a fun, colorful scarf and cowboy boots. Pairing the dress with leggings and boots is another great option as the weather gets cooler. This look can take you to work, brunch with the girls, or even make you look fabulous while grocery shopping!

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Start maximizing your wardrobe by playing dress-up in your own closet. Reinvent new looks with pieces you currently own and take note of pieces you may need to purchase. Scarves, accessories, leggings, and shoes are wardrobe maximizing staple items to invest in to help you create new looks. Remember to be open-minded!

If you remain open to possibilities, you will start to recognize the many different ways to style your clothing and have all your friends wondering how you created such a unique wardrobe!

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Small Business Saturday is November 29!

Shopping Small Matters

By Denise Heidel

hen you walk through the doors of Accent Prone, it’s immediately clear that owners Justin and Cheri Lingafelt are passionate about style. And after a few minutes talking to them, it’s even more evident that they are passionate about their community.

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Being small business owners in their hometown is vitally important to them. Cheri says, “We absolutely love being able to give back to the community that we grew up in. Each day, I might be met with a new customer who may have been my kindergarten teacher, my church youth group leader, my dance teacher, my childhood neighbor. We make connections and friendships with people in the store every day!”

Justin and Cheri are very excited about Small Business Saturday, which is an annual event in November (this year, November 29th). This is a day on which shoppers are encouraged to shop small… small, locally-owned businesses like Accent Prone!

Cheri shared some really powerful data. “When you shop at a small business, the money you spend goes right back into your community. The money spent might go towards the public school system, parks, police officers and fire fighters, or pay the salary of a close friend or neighbor. The small business advocacy group, The 3/50 Project, reports that out of every $100 spent at a local retailer, $68 will return to the community through taxes and payroll.” Compare this to the $43 that stays in the community when $100 is spent at a national chain store, or $0 out of $100 when it is spent online!

This substantiates the need for awareness! Small businesses are the backbone of a community. “Small business owners will support other small businesses,” says Cheri, “by using local banks,

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accountants, local print shops, etc. Doing so creates a ripple effect and keeps local money in the community where so many can benefit from it.”

In order to support Small Business Saturday, as well as give even more back to the community, Justin and Cheri are turning this year’s Small Business Saturday sales into an opportunity to support the local Salvation Army. 20% of all sales at Accent Prone on November 29th will be donated to this wonderful organization.

Cheri has a soft spot for The Salvation Army that goes back to her childhood. “When I was a little girl, I watched my family choose a child’s name from The Salvation Army Angel Tree. It’s a tradition I’ve continued into adulthood and every year, I choose a child for whom I can purchase clothes, toys, and things they need.

But I struggle, because there are so many kids in need!

Justin and I hope that through this fundraiser on Small Business Saturday, we can raise enough to donate a significant amount of money that will help more children and their families!”

Justin and Cheri would love for you to visit them at Accent Prone on November 29th, but they emphasize the importance of supporting all local business owners! As the holiday shopping season begins, please shop at as many small, locally owned businesses as possible… retail boutiques… local markets… local restaurants… local gas stations… the hundreds of business owned and operated by Forsyth County residents just like Justin and Cheri! Simply look through the pages of Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family for a great selection of local businesses you can support! Not only will you support the local economy, you’re more likely to find unique, one-of-a-kind gifts for everyone on your list. Help the local business owners this holiday season and support them on Small Business Saturday, and for that matter… make it a point to support them at any opportunity throughout the year!

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“The purpose of opening the spa was to be able to offer our patients an environment of relaxation and beauty. We wanted to expand our services at Lyndhurst based upon patients’ needs. We had patients wanting these services in a safe environment where they felt they could trust the technician, whether it be a facial, waxing, injection, laser treatment, etc. In an effort to meet their needs, we created the spa.

It is our hope that all patients of Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates and women of the community will come and try our services. Our goal is for you to leave with an unforgettable relaxing experience,” stated Dr. Jacobs and Jennifer Cerny. Many women of the area are familiar with the history of Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates and the expert care they have received from the physicians and staff at the practice for over 43 years.

Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates Medical Spa New Medical Spa Meeting Patients’ Needs

By Carolyn S. Peterson

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oday’s woman has stressors from the moment she awakes to the minute she settles in for a night’s rest. No matter what role you have in life, from mom to working woman to everything in between, life is busy and the last person most of us take care of is ourselves. The truth is, if you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of anyone else. To help their patients address their overall skincare health and to help bring a little relaxation in their lives, Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates has opened a Medical Spa offering services from facials, to waxing, to body treatments and almost anything to bring a little peace into your hectic world.

“Lyndhurst Medical Spa is dedicated to helping our patients live the happiest, most rewarding lives possible while achieving timeless beauty. Our mission is to provide a unique and unforgettable experience that leaves everyone looking and feeling their best while conquering their skin care goals,” said Meredith Hartman, LE, Medical Aesthetician. Currently Lyndhurst Medical Spa is treating females who have skin issues ranging from teen acne to fine lines and wrinkles in maturing skin. The spa services are designed to help women with not only their skin issues, but to give themselves a little ‘me’ time in their day.

The spa offers services such as facials, waxing, body treatments, facial peels, JetClear Microdermabrasion, LED Light Therapy and non-invasive cosmetic treatments such as cosmetic laser, Strata Pulse IPL, Botox® cosmetic, Juvederm® and Sclerotherapy.

Dr. Bradley Jacobs currently oversees the medical spa. He, along with Jennifer Cerny, ANP-C, administers Botox® and Juvederm® cosmetic injections. Dr. Jacobs also counsels and treats patients on Schlerotherapy. Deborah Parrish, LPN, CUA, is the spa’s laser technician who specializes in hair removal, skin rejuvenation and vascular lesions. She is able to customize specific cosmetic laser treatments for her patients. Medical Aesthetician, Meredith Hartman, LE, treats all types of skin conditions as a certified PCA Skin Professional. She also provides relaxing facials and will take care of all of your waxing needs. The Lyndhurst Medical Spa is not only available to patients of Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates, but to other women in the community.

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“At Lyndhurst Medical Spa, we are dedicated to enhancing our patients’ beauty with PCA Skin care. PCA Skin offers professional treatments and daily care products that not only treat but help diminish the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, acne, rosacea, hyperpigmentation and dull dehydrated skin. With the help of PCA Skin, we are able to target troublesome skin conditions using a progressive, not aggressive, philosophy. We believe that healthy skin is beautiful skin,” Meredith said.

Lyndhurst Medical Spa is located at 3015 Maplewood Avenue, Suite 205, Winston-Salem, NC. For more information, call Meredith Hartman at 336.765.9350, ext 420 or visit www.lyndhurstgyn.com for a list of services.

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Always Ready, Always There!

By Lisa S.T. Doss he men and women of the National Guard are humble heroes. With notification of just 24 hours to three days, guard members are mobilized to assist in the rescue or safety of people in the states, or deployed internationally in support of a federal mission or defense operation. Regardless of the type of emergency, members of the Air or Army National Guard felt a calling to serve. In the month of November, we especially celebrate, remember, and offer prayer to our veterans and enlisted men and women. It is a time to promote understanding of our military, and help someone fulfill a deep desire to serve.

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Not everyone feels comfortable joining a branch of the military. Consider, perhaps, the National Guard as a “halfway point.” Members are able to live a civilian life, but also train and prepare just as their active duty counterparts do, in order to be ready at a moment's notice for deployment.

“The National Guard means more than just service to state and country to me,” writes retired Master Sergeant Christy Brown of the North Carolina Air National Guard.

“It becomes a second family. You will gain more than you will ever lose, such as knowledge, experience, and the kind of friendships that will never go away. It is different than active duty military where you change duty stations every few years, and have a new batch of comrades to hopefully befriend. In the National Guard, you stay connected with the same people until you separate or they do. You are able to see the people in your unit every month during a weekend drill exercise. You share a bond that you cannot get anywhere else. It is not the same as a part-time job, and leaving is not the same as quitting that part-time job.

After 20 years of military service, I retired knowing my brothers-and-sisters-in-arms will continue to have my back.”

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To become a member, guardsmen attend basic and technical training alongside active duty members. Quite differently, upon completion, soldiers or airmen return to a “home unit,” and begin training.

“After six years of the active military forces, the Air Force, I transferred into the North Carolina Air National Guard. I had a civilian job and spent one weekend a month and two weeks a year with my unit. Across 26 years, Active and Guard, I traveled extensively to over 30 countries around the world. The National Guard is a great option for someone who wants to help the community, go to college and train during drill exercises, continue with their civilian job, and do something much bigger than themselves,” shares retired Master Sergeant Kevin Doss.

Career Options The ASVAB, or Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery, is designed to assist in determining a recruit’s career options. Beyond the skills obtained at a civilian job, guardsmen can expand their skill sets, gain leadership through experience, find purpose in helping others after a disaster, and realize the word “commitment” expands to a new meaning.

Family Support Deployments often create dual feelings of fear and worry. It is the mission of the National Guard to promote a network of services, programs, people, and agencies in support of service members and their families. While guardsmen count on their “guard family” to offer support, the “Family Readiness Support System” also extends its level of service and protection to the families. Separations between the guardsmen and the family are fewer in number, and typically are shorter than a year. In the states, the “troops” are sent in emergency situations. Power outages, hurricanes, or ice storms, for example, initiate a call to disperse generators to rest homes or hospitals, and include medical personnel and man power.

This Veterans Day, we remember our military men and women. For those National Guardsmen, they have a unique responsibility to transform from a civilian to the uniform, which represents honor, service, and country.

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Meet The Lil’ Briar Patch Girl!

By Denise Heidel

onfucius once said, “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” If anyone can attest to the truth of those words, it’s Robyn Nemeh, who is known as “The Lil’ Briar Patch Girl.” Make no mistake about it – Robyn is a very hard worker who has managed to combine her gardening talents, with an eye for design, as well as a creative and entrepreneurial spirit, and morph it all into a boutique-styled oasis!

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Located behind Jimmy’s Seafood at 2055 Van Buren Street, The Lil’ Briar Patch is a cozy cottage filled with unique, one-of-a-kind items and surrounded by beautiful floral and greenery. Robyn has carved out a niche and any preconceived notions about what to expect on a first visit to The Lil’ Briar Patch are almost always set aside upon arrival. This is a store at which you can expect the unexpected. Like plants?

Find locally-grown plants at The Lil’ Briar Patch.

Like wine? Find a great selection at The Lil’ Briar Patch.

Like artisan jewelry and scarves? Find one-of-a-kind pieces at The Lil’ Briar Patch. Like to attend how-to workshops? Reserve your seat at The Lil’ Briar Patch.

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The point is – The Lil’ Briar Patch has been created by a woman who blossoms when she has an opportunity to surprise and delight her customers. This is truly a shop unlike any other.

And Robyn wouldn’t have it any other way. “I personally select every item that goes in the shop,” said Robyn. “Whether it’s a birdhouse or a wind chime or a beautiful handmade necklace, I look for one-of-a-kind items for the store, and often, The Lil’ Briar Patch is the exclusive source for those items.”

In addition to hand-selecting every item in the shop, Robyn also samples every wine and every food item offered. Robyn shares, “I love to cook, so I often create recipe ideas to share for most of the food items we sell.”

Robyn is noted for her talents with container gardening. She excels in plant design and can customize any container for her customers. But she’s not above sharing her expertise! The Lil’ Briar Patch frequently offers container gardening workshops, and her students can select from a range of containers available from the shop, or bring their own. Classes can even be scheduled for private one-on-one sessions, or a private group.

The charm of The Lil’ Briar Patch can also extend beyond the store itself as Robyn offers inhome design consultation, as well as holiday decorating.

The Lil’ Briar Patch has become a favorite local hang out for many in the area. When spring arrives, the wine will flow again with weekly live music in the wine garden! This event is enjoyed each Thursday evening between April and October and is a family-friendly event attended by all ages. The eclectic audience members share a love for good wine, good music, and good atmosphere! In fact, the atmosphere is so charming, that the wine garden is frequently rented out for private parties or weddings!

Robyn is a woman who thrives on her creativity and when she is able to make someone happy through her creative efforts, that is when she is truly the happiest. “I love to see people’s reactions to the things I create for them,” she gushes. “The smiles on their faces are exactly why I do what I do!”

“I get up every single day and I do what I absolutely love,” said Robyn.

“I have been so blessed. I cannot believe how fortunate I am to not only have a job that I love so much, but to be surrounded by people who support me and help make it happen!”

Robyn knows that no one is an island and she is grateful to so many people who support her business.

Specifically, she is grateful to her mom, Brenda, and her sister, Tracy, who help her run the shop; Kim Carswell, a very talented floral designer that creates many of the beautiful custom arrangements with Robyn that you will find in the shop; her dad, Ralph, and Jim, Kirsty, Mike, Missy, Phil, Roger and WC who are amazingly supportive volunteers that help with various Lil’ Briar Patch Projects; and of course, “The Lil’ Briar Patch Kids” – also known as Dave, Emily, Missy, Jeff, and Zach – that help out every Thursday night and every single time she dreams up a new project to create!

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Be sure to “like” The Lil’ Briar Patch on Facebook so you can stay up to date on all upcoming events, including regular events such as: • Classes and workshops • Ladies’ Night Out on the 2nd Tuesday of every month • Live music in the wine garden every Thursday (weather permitting, April – October) The Lil’ Briar Patch offers: • Locally grown plants and flowers • Onsite expertise for plant maintenance and companion gardening • Home and garden décor • Jewelry

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Smokin’ HarleyDavidson Offers More than Just Motorcycles

By David Willard

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ower, exhilaration, and freedom.

These are all words used by motorcycle enthusiasts when they speak about riding. However, there is yet another word, if you ask the owner and management of Smokin’ Harley-Davidson of Winston-Salem. The word is family, and according to Smokin’ Harley, it is what sets the Harley rider apart from the rest.

Smokin’ Harley-Davidson, located at 3441 Myer Lee Drive in Winston-Salem, celebrated its fifth anniversary in May, and boasts the area’s largest inventory of Harley-Davidsons. Owner and onsite manager Ray Perry, a 26 year Navy veteran, worked with Harley-Davidson for 13 years before taking over operations at Smokin Harley-Davidson, and minces no words when asked for the secret of Smokin’s success. “Customer service is the key. A customer can buy a bike anywhere, so it’s important to give them the best experience possible. We want them to be loyal to the dealership, not the deal,” says Perry.

Another important ingredient in the successful mixture at Smokin’ is good management, according to Perry. “I have an outstanding management team who knows what it means to come in and put in a good day’s work and still have fun,” he continues. “They have the freedom to make decisions, and I want them to because I believe in them,” he adds.

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Of course, one thing that the dealership does not have to sell is the popularity of the brand Harley-Davidson.

In 1903, William S. Harley and Arthur Davidson presented to the public the first production Harley-Davidson® motorcycle.

Since that time, the Harley-Davidson name has grown to iconic status in American pop culture, and even the world. A big reason for that growth and loyalty is the family and culture you become a part of, according to Perry.

“Once you are a Harley owner, you become part of a family. If you see another Harley rider anywhere, you’re going to go talk to them. At my Navy retirement, I spoke of my extended family, my Navy family, and then my Harley family because that is how important the bond is.

However, even with a good team in place and a brand with an immensely loyal following, Smokin’ Harley-Davidson sets out to even further win a customer by offering a huge collection of Harley clothing, rider apparel and gear, and memorabilia. In fact, they offer something for everyone. The Motorclothes Manager for Smokin’ is Jan Hawkins, and her passion for riding and the brand show through in her approach to marketing Smokin’ Harley’s large inventory of gear and gifts. “Between November and December is a huge time for us. We sell a lot of merchandise during that time. We have clothing for men and women and carry items that range from jewelry, items for the man cave or office, games and accessories and anything leather,” says Hawkins.

“We truly offer something for everyone, and if we don’t have it here, we can order it and have in a few days,” concludes Hawkins.

Obviously, becoming a Harley-Davidson owner means a lot more than just receiving a title for a new motorcycle. The owner becomes part of a community and culture.

That culture has a rich history of loyalty and camaraderie that continues to grow today. Not only does Smokin’ HarleyDavidson acknowledge and accept that, they embrace it and make sure every visit is not only a memorable experience, but a time to be with a family that knows the importance of the ride and the need for community.

Smokin’ Harley Davidson is located at 3441 Myer Lee Drive, Winston-Salem, NC. More information is available online at www.SmokinHarley.com or call (336) 722-3106.

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Keep It Simple…Be Thankful!

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. ” ~ Melody Beattie The result is easy-to-live with changes that can jump-start your decorating projects while stretching your decorating dollars. Sometimes it just takes another set of eyes to see your home in a new light, whether you are working with what you have, or starting from scratch.

Decorating Tip Many of you will be decorating your Christmas tree this month to get ahead of the holiday rush.

Here is a tip to help you create a beautiful Christmas tree:

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his has been a busy year.

I have done interior redesigns, paint/color consultations, kitchen and bath updates, AND fabric consultations, along with window treatments and lots of shopping for furniture and accessories…….and I have written my monthly article for the magazine. As a small business owner, I wear many hats. Keeping up with my family, home and business definitely keeps me on the go.

When decorating your trees, add a beautiful topper. A topper sits atop a tree in place of, or in conjunction with, a star or an angel, etc. This is the focal point of your tree…..so make it beautiful! A topper can be large and sometimes outrageous. You can’t go wrong creating a topper as long as you follow this rule: More is better! Toppers are accented with long feathers, stars on wire, glitter sticks, florals, netting or ribbon, etc.

At the season of Thanksgiving I am thankful for ReDESIGNS by Ava, a business where I am able to use the talents God gave me to encourage and help others create a beautiful home.

I am very thankful for each job and each opportunity to meet a client.

Seeing a decorating project come together is very rewarding. I am truly blessed!

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I am honored that you read my column each month. It is my pleasure to share decorating ideas to help you create a beautiful home. Give ReDESIGNS by Ava a call for an Interior Redesign or help with your next decorating project. Get to know more about ReDESIGNS by Ava at www.TinyUrl/meetAva

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Did you know? …..that my redesign consultations cover more than how to arrange furniture, accessories and art? …..that color consultations cover more than the selection of a room’s wall color? …..that I cannot only tell you how, but also show you how, to rearrange your furniture, art and accessories on the spot? …..that I can help you make informed choices when picking tiles, countertops, finishes and other items when you start a remodel or build a new home?

My consultations are chock full of information you can use right away.

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A new shipment of Susan Shaw jewelry just arrived at Kim Taylor & Co! Hand cast 24-kt. gold and sterling silver plated metals. Visit KimTaylorAndCo.com!

➌ Hip Chics Boutique

The perfect fusion between fashion and technology, the Mighty Purse is the essential accessory! Used as a clutch purse or inside your handbag, the Mighty Purse contains a lightweight battery that fully recharges any smart device. Then simply recharge it via any USB port. It's that brilliant and that simple. Charge on the go! Available at Hip Chics. Visit HipChicsGifts.com or see their ad on page 15.

➍ Hip Chics Boutique

Bourbon and Bowetie are unique bracelets that are handmade in America from semiprecious stones, as well as geodes, smoky quartz, lava stones, shells, turquoise, jade, polished coral, Peruvian opal, agates and more! The natural stones are wrapped with gold plated wire. Each bracelet is uniquely “made

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This one size fits all (0-26) vest comes in multiple colors and has many ways you can wear it. At $46, it is a gift she is sure to thank you for! Visit Mainstream Boutique at WinstonSalem.MainstreamBoutique.com or see their ad on page 67.

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Initial Decor's Monogram Medallion Clutch is at the top of everyone's list this year! Between the fabric choices and over 60 acrylic colors, you're sure to find a combo you love! Every clutch is hand made to order right here in NC. The inside features a cash/receipt divider and two pockets for credit cards.

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The Giving Keys are necklaces made with real vintage keys that are engraved with words of inspiration. The Giving Keys have a “pay it forward” concept, so that after you receive the key, you are supposed to give it away at some point to someone you feel needs the message. The keys are gender neutral and supported by celebrities such as Taylor Swift and Ryan Gosling. This company employs those that are transitioning out of homelessness, helping those in need while being uniquely stylish. The Giving Keys start at $35.

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➑ Simply Sterling & Co. It’s your story…tell it like is with a little license from Waxing Poetic’s charming collection found at Simply Sterling & Company or online at SimplySterling.com, starting at $24!

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➒ Simply Sterling & Co. To inspire or be inspired…why not do both? Get wrapped up in Lenny & Eva’s vast collection of uplifting Sentiments & Findings found at Simply Sterling & Company or online at SimplySterling.com, starting at $8.75! See their ad on page 31.

➓ Accent Prone Roman Glass Jewelry is made of fragments of 2000 year old glass discovered in an archaeological excavation in the Holy Land. The Coloring of the glass is created from a chemical interaction with the soil over the course of 2,000 years. All of the glass is set in sterling silver. Each piece of jewelry is oneof-a-kind and makes a great present for any loved one in your life. Available at Accent Prone. Visit AccentProne.com or see their ad on page 45.

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extra helping hands – she jumps in and helps with my kids so that I can get more hours in. She also knows every aspect of the business, so it can run smoothly when I step away to be with my family.”

The bulk of Initial Decor’s business comes to them from their website, Initialdecor.com, but they also offer their line in boutiques as far west as Texas, and the duo is expanding their retail locations every week.

Initial Decor uses top of the line acrylics and woods to create its products. Jewelry is made from hand poured acrylics and sterling silver or gold plated sterling silver sheets. Wood monograms and home décor pieces are cut from ½ thick birch plywood.

Initial Decor also creates specialized items for weddings and Greek life. Their newest item, a monogrammed clutch, is perfect for sorority members or as a bridesmaid gift.

“Our Single Wood Initial with Quatrefoil border is a popular choice for a wedding gift,” Michelle said. “Other popular wedding items are the Guestbook Monogram – guests actually sign the large border – our Mr. and Mrs. Wall hooks, and the Diamond Brides Wall Hook.”

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ombining function, family and a personal element, Initial Decor brings customers custom made personalized jewelry, accessories and home decor.

Initial Decor is run by a mother and daughter duo, Clare Hunckler and Michelle Stokes.

“I have been a business owner of Hunckler Fabrication for many years with my husband. We are patent holders and innovators,” Clare said.

“With Michelle’s creativity and my business experience, it was a natural step to go into business together.”

The two developed Initial Decor in 2012. “What sparked the inspiration for Initial Decor was the decision to take wooden monograms to the next level,” Michelle said. “One way we achieved this is by turning to laser technology, which we believe produces a highly superior product than traditional wood cutting machines.”

Michelle and Clare’s first creation for Initial Decor was a wildly popular monogram hook. Clare and Michelle felt that blending everyday items with a beautiful and personalized aspect like a monogram was a unique and untapped market. The hook’s wild success proved them right.

“Taking an everyday necessity like a hook, and blending it with a something as beautiful and personal as a monogram. This is where we came up with the phrase ‘Products Inspired by Everyday Living’” Michelle said. “We bring to the market original designs, such as personalized magazine holders, hooks and monogram clutches. We have merged the monogram, which has been around for many years, with products we use every day.”

Michelle and Clare have found that the family element of their business has allowed them to share common goals and the understanding that family always comes first. “The family element is what drives our business,” Clare said. “We set realistic goals together for our business and are happy with our growth and know where we are going.”

Michelle agrees that having a business partner who shares and understands her family demands makes her career life much easier.

“She understands the challenges of raising a family while having working deadlines that have to be met,” Michelle said. “She will always be the

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Clare and Michelle said that Initial Decor prides itself on its customer service. “We know the value of a positive shopping experience for our customers,” Clare said.

“Whether it be a direct customer or one of our boutiques, we take the steps to ensure our products are of superior quality. When our customers purchase from Initial Decor, they will receive a product that has met our high standard of quality. Customer satisfaction is important because we understand that a happy customer is the best advertising.”

See what Initial Decor has to offer by visiting www.initialdecor.com, checking them out on Facebook or on Twitter @Initial Decor.

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Remembering Special Moments

By David Willard

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pecial moments, and the memories that last from those moments, are some of the things that make life an adventure. It is the goal of photographers, scrapbookers, writers, and poets to capture those moments so they can be remembered – or even relived – in the mind of an individual later. John and Erin Travland have found their own unique way to celebrate those moments, and in the process, honor their own precious moments with their children.

John Travland was an engineer, a father of four and a husband who, in 2012, wanted to find a way to honor his children and show his pride as a father. The result, two years later, is Avery-Reese, a company that is dedicated to honoring moments that shouldn’t be forgotten. Named after their two youngest sons, Avery and Reese, AveryReese uses simple and classic materials, along with craftsmen’s hands, to celebrate life’s precious moments.

“We have four children whom we are very proud of,” says Erin Travland, who has now taken the helm of Avery-Reese. “In 2012, my husband was looking for a way to display his pride as a father (and probably to help him remember all of our children’s birthdays, as well), and he couldn’t really find anything that was significant/ classy/appropriate enough. He really liked the idea of a leather strap (similar to the ones on vintage watches which he is also fond of) with some sort of laser etched metal. Being an engineer, he set out to design something for himself. Over the next year, he taught himself to do the leatherwork, refined the design and materials, and ultimately arrived at what we have now,” she continues.

The results of this journey are pieces of jewelry that truly meld classic leatherworking and metalwork into pieces that are true testaments to life’s enduring moments.

Consisting of a leather band made from English bridle leather and metal billets that are machined from stainless steel and laser engraved to the customer’s request, the Avery-Reese bands are designed to stand the test of time.

The bands demonstrate a combination of good engineering and a love for the craft.

“He has an engineering background and has always enjoyed working with his hands—and I like jewelry,” adds Erin. “The trick was to design something that would be masculine enough that a guy would actually wear it, but yet versatile enough for a female, as well. I think

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leather and stainless steel is a good combination to accomplish just that,” she continues. “It’s always great to get unsolicited emails from customers describing how thrilled they are with their pieces. I like knowing that this is going to be something special to someone—not just another piece of jewelry with little or no meaning.”

On the home page of the website for Avery-Reese, there are three words used by Erin to summarize the business and the heart behind the jewelry: faith, pride, and hope. “Faith, pride, and hope are really what we have seen customers reflect in their choices when it comes to the custom etching—the pride of being a parent, being a spouse, or reaching personal milestones in their life,” she concludes. It is that sentiment that goes into every piece for John and Erin, and it is that sentiment that makes their pieces unique. After all, life and special moments are meant to be lived and remembered.

See what Avery-Reese has to offer by visiting Avery-Reese.com or check them out on Facebook!

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Salem Gymnastics is ‘Gettin’ “Jiggy with It” in New Irish Dance Class

By Kristi Johnson Marion

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othing awakens the spirit quite like rousing Irish dance music accompanied by the clicks and stomps of a team of high-jumping precision Irish dancers.

Among their diverse course listings, Salem Gymnastics is proud to now offer an Irish dancing class for its students, taught by Anna Cumbie of Lismore Academy of Irish Dance.

What is Irish Dancing?

Hundreds of years ago, Irish dancing developed in Ireland as a form of cultural dance steeped in tradition. Irish dancing is easily recognized by its signature straight and still upper body, while the dancers perform quick intricate movements, jumps and kicks with their feet.

Irish Dancing at Salem Gymnastics Salem Gymnastics owner Beth Morphis first saw Anna dancing at the annual St. Patrick’s Day Festival in downtown Winston-Salem.

“As the dancers took the stage, my daughter sat front and center, mesmerized by the dances she saw. She loved hearing the rhythms their feet made and looking at the beautiful dresses,” said Beth.

“I was impressed with the precision and professionalism of the dancers. These girls were sharp! I thought Irish dance could be a good addition to our offerings.”

“At Salem Gymnastics, we believe that children are made to move, and that when they learn to move well, they lay the foundation for a lifetime of healthy living. Anna's approach to Irish Dance and love for children fit right into our philosophy.”

The Irish Dancing class at Salem Gymnastics is held Thursdays from 4:00-4:45 p.m. This introductory class will teach the basic techniques of Irish dancing, including reels, light jigs, single jigs, slip jigs, and figure (team) dancing. This class is open to boys and girls age 5-18. Adults interested in taking Irish Dancing may take classes at Anna’s studio, Lismore Academy of Irish Dance.

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Benefits of Irish Dancing for Children Not only is Irish dance a fun form of fitness, improving muscle tone, stamina, core strength, balance, posture, flexibility and coordination, all to the tune of spirited cultural music, it also promotes self-confidence and can build a healthy competitive nature in kids if they decide to compete. Irish dancing

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improves cognitive ability as they remember the series of intricate steps, and team dancing helps them learn to collaborate with dancers of different ages. Though being Irish is not a prerequisite to enjoy and benefit from Irish dancing, if there’s even a trace of Irish blood in them, Irish dancing builds a sense of heritage and family roots.

About the Instructor Anna Cumbie has studied Irish dance since the age of 8, after seeing the Irish dance show “Riverdance” on PBS. She quickly signed up for classes at Rince Nah' Eireann school of Irish dance in Winston-Salem, where she studied under many instructors and through which she competed all over the world. Irish dancing enriched her connection with her own Irish heritage, and gave her the opportunity to dance in Ireland and all over the world.

Since the age of 12, Anna knew she wanted to teach Irish dance herself. She now owns her own Irish dance school, Lismore Academy, where students of all ages and levels can learn Irish dance. She named the school after the town of Lismore, Ireland, and its castle by that name, which she fell in love with after many visits while traveling for competitions. She also teaches classes in Advance and Lexington, NC. Salem Gymnastics is located at 4870 Country Club Road, Winston-Salem, NC. Course descriptions, more information and easy registration are available online at www.salemgym.com or call (336) 765-4668.

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After a verbal agreement fell apart during that company’s potential sale, Chad was left with nothing but a 15-year old white jeep to his name. He was no stranger to the level of adversity that necessitates hard work, however, and it’s been a continuing driving force every day since.

Convincing his brother and three close friends to make a small investment and create their own window company, after only 4 months, they knew they were onto something great.

The idea was simple: offer consumers free inhome consultations, expert measuring services, and professional installation of window treatments, all at competitive prices. Budget Blinds was born.

Chad Hallock (CEO and Co-Founder), David Lewis (CTO and Co-Founder), Todd Jackson (COO and Co-Founder), Brent Hallock (Executive VP and Co-Founder), and Tony Forbes (Executive VP and Co-Founder).

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Greek Bake Sale– Great Food for Great Causes

By Vonda Henderson

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he 57th annual Greek Bake Sale is coming soon and you don’t want to miss a chance to enjoy the delicious meals and desserts prepared for you by The Ladies Philoptochos Society.

The bake sale will be on Saturday, November 15, from 8:30 am to 7:30 pm at the Greek Orthodox Church, 435 Keating Drive (off Country Club Rd) in Winston-Salem.

The Ladies Philoptochos Society has a rich history within the local community and on a national level. This is one of the largest ladies’ philanthropic religious organizations in the country. The Greek word Philoptochos means “friends of the poor” and their national mission statement focuses on aiding those in need through fundraising, promoting participation in the Greek Orthodox community, outreach programs and conducting their endeavors with discretion, courtesy and kindness. A full 100% of the profits earned from the bake sale go directly to charities, both local and national.

Since the 1930s, the Winston-Salem Ladies Philoptochos Society has given back to the community through food.

It has been a means of bonding for the women and a way to help those new to the United States learn English and acclimate to their new country, while preserving the rich heritage of their Greek backgrounds. Approximately 28 charities benefit from the proceeds of this bake sale.

Meet Olga Vlahos who has participated for 55 years in preparing the food for the bake sale. She recalls first working at the bake sale when the church was located downtown. Originally, women of the Society would bake pastries out of their homes and set-up sales tables at shopping centers around town. Olga recalled some of the

many families that have been helped over the years by the funds raised through the bake sale, stressing that the help is always discretely given and provided with dignity to the recipients.

Olga started working by preparing pasties and is now the lead for preparing galactobouriko, a custard creation with phyllo and syrup. This is now her specialty. Typically, each dish planned for the sale has one or two leads who direct the preparation for that particular dish. In addition, 20 to 30 other ladies help in preparing the food. For the younger generations or those new to the Greek community, this is one of the best ways to learn how to prepare the dishes. There is a definite art to making Greek food and this hands-on training is the perfect environment to learn. The skills are handed down by generation, ensuring that these talents, as well as the philosophy of sharing and reaching out to the community, continue. Young people (some as young as 12) help out by working the day of the bake sale.

Preparing the food for the sale is no small task – it takes about eight weeks to prepare for the event, with some dishes created the day of the event. The teams gather every Tuesday morning to create the dishes and pastries loved by many over the years.

This year, the bake sale is chaired by Leigh Cortesis and Maria Mathes. The chairpersons, who change every two years, are responsible for organizing the entire event, from ordering the ingredients to the final sale.

For the upcoming sale, there are three (3) meal selections, at least six (6) traditional pastries (such as Baklava and Sweet Bread), 40 to 50 cakes, plus raffles for gift baskets and gift cards to locally owned Greek restaurants.

Frozen Spanakopitakia (spinach filled phyllo) and Triopitakia (cheese filled phyllo) are sold by the dozen and would be perfect for your holiday parties.

The gift baskets vary. All foods are made from scratch.

For more information, call 336.765.7145 or to place an order, call 336.765.FOOD. Stop by the sale and enjoy the fabulous food prepared for many worthy causes in our community.

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BATTLE OF THE SEXES

By Sara Migliarese & Dave McConnell

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escribing myself as a boy who grew up to be a sports enthusiast is an understatement. If a sport involved a ball, not only did I have an interest in it, but I also seemed to excel in it. I also loved to watch sporting events. Basketball, football, and baseball were my favorites, like most kids at that time. When the Olympics, Mohamed Ali fights, or Arnold Palmer-Jack Nicholas golf battles were on TV, I was watching them. One epic contest I remember watching was the “Battle of the Sexes” in May, 1973. This match-up involved a former Number 1 male tennis player, Bobby Riggs (retired and in his 50s), and Billie Jean King, a female player nearly half of Riggs age and at the top of her game in the world of women’s tennis. Riggs had boastfully challenged the female star to a winner-take-all $100,000 contest in the Houston Astrodome, to be nationally televised. Billie Jean not only accepted the challenge, but convincingly won the match in straight sets (6-2, 6-1). The brash and cocky Riggs faded into obscurity and is now only remembered as the “Man that got beat by a woman” (not the first time for a man to lose the battle of the sexes)!

Fast forward over 40 years and I now find myself teaching strength and conditioning classes at the YMCA. During casual conversation with two members of my class, Patti Mangual and Jayne Sharp, I was invited to come out the play a round of golf with them at their home course, Bermuda Run. I had to think about this for a minute. When I joined the coaching ranks in 1979, I was a casual golfer. But like most coaches, golf quickly became a weekly routine which lasted into the 80s. My golf game became pretty good! In 1990, I accepted my first head football coach position at RJ Reynolds High School and became a first-time father in the same year. I realized that it took a lot of time and sacrifice to be a good husband, father, and coach. Along came another child, little league baseball, Pop Warner football, church, school activities, helping with homework, chores around the house, and many other duties of putting two kids through college. This left no time for golf. But the fact that I had not played golf in 24 years did not stop me from accepting the ladies’ invitation. I not only agreed to play them, but I challenged them to a friendly “Battle of the Sexes” contest. The Bobby Riggs mentality in me was confident that I could pick up another male hacker and maybe (if they were lucky), the ladies could keep it close.

Another member of our exercise class, Larry Harbin, was the perfect partner.

Larry typically played golf about every 10 years on special occasions.

The Battle of the Sexes was set!

The Friday morning of the big match started out to be the perfect day to be on a course and there was just

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enough chill in the air to remind us that fall was around the corner.

I walked into the clubhouse and noticed something on the wall that told me the day might not be so easy. Patti Mangual’s name proudly topped the leader board from the previous night’s golf competition. A little shaken, I reminded myself that this match was against two women. Larry, on the other hand, just glared at me and asked, “What have you gotten us into?” When our opponents arrived, I asked Patti about her victory the night before. She replied, “I played well and Jayne did not play last night, but she usually wins.” I started to worry that these women might actually beat us. I did not have to wait long to find out.

Recapping the match starts with the ladies hitting the ball down the fairway while Larry and I found every tree, rough, sand trap, and water hazard on the course.

After one hole we were one shot back; after two holes we were two shots back.

The women had us closed out on the front 9 after only 6 holes, so we naturally pressed and lost. The back 9 was no better. We lost both the front and back 9, three presses, and the match. The women were thankfully gracious, although they occasionally reminded me of my overconfidence prior to the match. As we walked off of the 18th green, Jayne turned to me and said, “Thanks for all of the hard workouts. I can hit the ball much farther now.” Normally I would take this as a compliment, but it did not feel like one on that day.

Just as Bobby Riggs had done 40 years ago, I had run my mouth and was having to eat humble pie as a result. It’s never too late to learn important life lessons.

Though I never considered myself a sexist, I suppose the fact that I assumed I could never be beaten by a female in a sporting event might make me sound like one.

I now publically admit that women can stand up to men in all aspects of life!

I would, however, have trouble believing that a woman could beat me in a football throwing contest. Any takers??

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Holiday Traditions Renewed

By Jan Allison

I I seem to get reflective each time the seasons change, thinking about the season that just passed, and what lies ahead. When fall arrives, I’m all-consumed with everything pumpkin. Yet in the back of my mind, I know that the Christmas holidays are just around the corner, and the mental to-do list kicks into full gear.

Unfortunately, one of the items on that list has gotten neglected in my Holiday traditions. With no good excuse, in the past couple of years I have not sent Christmas cards. I would tell myself I didn’t have enough time or that postage was too expensive. However, I recently ran across this fact from Hallmark research: “Nearly 3/4th feels when they receive a holiday “Nearly 3/4ths of greeting.”

consumers who send holiday cards do so because they know how good it feels when they receive a holiday greeting.”

That one line just rocked my world – it is so true! I love getting Christmas cards in my mailbox each year, and seeing how friends and family that I may not be in constant contact with are doing. I enjoy the pictures of families and take to heart the well wishes received. With my love language being gift giving, how could I have forgotten how important this simple gesture can be to so many?

Therefore, I am recommitting myself to send my Holiday greetings for 2014 and wishing all a joyous New Year! Won’t you join me?

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‘Susie’s Hope’

Donna Lawrence & Susie A Partnership of Second Chances and Hope Wins HERO Dog Award By Carolyn S. Peterson

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or a story to have a happy ending, sometimes its beginning is one of sadness and desperation. Such is the story of Susie, a pit bull mix dog, whose story began when, at eight weeks old she was beaten, burned and left for dead by her owner in Greenfield Park, Greensboro, NC. Her injuries were life threatening, with unbearable suffering, but a good Samaritan called animal control and Susie was taken to the Guilford County Animal Shelter. For weeks Susie endured daily treatments for her burns, as well as healing from a broken jaw and having her teeth knocked out. As Susie healed, a local woman, Donna Lawrence, began helping with fostering the puppy. It wasn’t long before Susie had won Donna’s heart, even though a neglected and abused dog had attacked Donna a year earlier, which left her scarred physically and psychologically. Susie and Donna were on a path to make a difference in not only each other’s lives, but in the cruelty laws of North Carolina, as well as to touch the lives of burn victims and share their story, bringing an understanding of what hope and forgiveness look like in this world.

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As Susie’s healing continued, the man that hurt her was arrested, but because of the law at the time in North Carolina, his sentence was only eight months of probation – no jail time for first offenders. “Because Susie’s story had gotten the attention of the media, the citizens of North Carolina were outraged and we began a campaign, rallying support, to change the law to a class H felony which allows judges in our state to impose an active sentence on people convicted of animal cruelty, increasing the penalties to a maximum 10 month jail sentence. This law was named ‘Susie’s Law’ and Susie’s paw print is on the law signed by then Governor Perdue, going into effect on December 1, 2010, just two years after Susie’s journey began,” recalled Donna.

But Susie’s story didn’t end there. Susie became a certified therapy dog, visiting hospitals, schools and churches with Donna, sharing their message of being kind to animals, treating animals with respect, and how forgiveness can change a life forever.

As Donna said recently, “Susie greets everyone with a wag and a smile, never thinking back to what a human did to her. She lives in the moment, showing that forgiveness and grace are the greatest gifts.” It would be a wonderful and inspiring story if it ended there, but there was much more ahead for Donna and Susie.

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The inspiring story of Susie led Donna Lawrence to write a series of children’s books, and to an awardwinning movie, ‘Susie’s Hope.’ “The movie ‘Susie’s Hope’ recounts the story from me being attacked by a neighbor’s pit bull that I was caring for due to neglect on the owner’s behalf, to Susie’s burning, healing and adoption by me and my husband, Roy, to the passing of Susie’s Law. The movie is one of unexpected second chances and compassion and of how Susie and I both suffered from vicious attacks, hers from a human, mine from a pit bull, facing our mutual fears and learning to conquer them together,” Donna commented. From the movie, Susie’s story literally took on a life of its own and she was nominated this year for the American Humane Association’s Hero Dog award. The movie is available for purchase online at Walmart, Best Buy, and Family Video.

A Simple Little Dog Takes on Hollywood After an online voting campaign, as well as voting from a combination of a panel of animal advocates and celebrity judges, Susie won recognition in her category of Therapy Dog and landed in the top eight. Ultimately, Susie won the overall top prize and was named American Hero Dog at the 2014 American Humane Association Hero Dog Awards, a star-studded event at the Beverly Hilton in Beverly Hills, CA. “I’m just blown away by this honor.

There were so many amazing dogs with great stories and when they called Susie as the winner, I just wanted to cry,” Donna told TODAY.com after learning that her dog had won. Bedecked in pearls and a purple tutu, Susie received a standing ovation on September 27, 2014, taking it all in stride – but now taking the subject of stronger animal cruelty laws to a national stage. In the end Susie and Donna’s story is pretty simple if you think back to a little puppy set aside as trash. “You see, Susie and I shared something in common. We both were healing from attacks we didn’t bring on ourselves.

We were miracles, overcoming our fears, finding each other. Susie and I went from being victims to living a victorious life and now we are inspiring others with the power of love, hope and forgiveness.

More important, we want everyone to know that one person or even one dog can make a difference in this world,” stated Donna.

For more information on Susie or Susie’s Hope, visit www.susieshope.com or the nonprofit website, www.SusiesHope-NC.org. The Hallmark Channel will air the awards show on Oct. 30, 2014 at 8 pm ET.

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Camp Dogwood for the Blind & Visually Impaired

By Denise Heidel amp Dogwood for the Blind & Visually Impaired was established in 1967 by the North Carolina Lions. The NC Lions are part of Lions Club International, the largest service organization in the world. Camp Dogwood is a picturesque retreat and event center located on Lake Norman in Catawba County.

The scenic property extends for 65+ acres, and boasts accommodations for up to 116 people. But the best part of the property is the purpose behind it.

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Ten weeks a year, between the first week of June and the second week of August, the property is a recreational retreat for North Carolinians with blindness and visual impairment. Susan King, Director of the program, says, “There are wonderful programs all over the country to serve disabled youth, albeit, never enough, but the adult disabled population is very underserved. We are proud and honored to offer this unique experience for disabled adults!”

Affectionately dubbed “a stationary cruise,” because guests are assigned a guestroom, attend meals in the dining rooms at scheduled times, and have a variety of recreational options to choose from during their stay, the Camp Dogwood experience offers many of the types of activities you’d find in a traditional camp setting: boating, fishing, tubing, swimming, arts and crafts.

However, the experience is tailored for adults and includes art classes, educational seminars, bingo, dances, bowling, and shopping.

This summer, campers had additional opportunities to visit the Hickory Museum of Art for a special “hands on” tour, and Buffalo Beals Animal Park, where they were able to interact with various animals.

Beyond fun and games, campers can attend educational and informational seminars and workshops, as well as computer classes. Susan King points out that “Some of our campers have never turned on a computer, or maneuvered a mouse. We show our campers with low vision and blindness how to use a computer and adaptive software.”

The Camp Dogwood staff works tirelessly to make the week a memorable experience. Each week, they serve up to 88 campers.

The NC Lions subsidize the cost of the program and only ask campers to pay a fee of $125.00 for the week. This fee includes the room, meals and all activities. For those who struggle with the subsidized rate, local Lions Clubs often sponsor campers so that the program is available to all.

Many campers return year after year. It is common to encounter campers that have attended for over a decade. There are even a handful who have attended each year since the camp’s inception.

The camp is open to anyone who has a minimum 20/70 vision.

Campers are required to be able to perform their own self-care.

If a camper needs assistance with personal care, they should bring a caregiver with them. If personal care assistance is needed, a caregiver should accompany the camper (at a rate of $175 per week).

For youth, the Lions partner with the nonprofit Raising Cane to bring Camp Abilities to Camp Dogwood. Camp Abilities is a sports centered camp for blind and visually impaired youth ages 11-17 years. For more information about Camp Abilities please visit their website www.RaisingCane.org.

Individuals who are deaf/blind also enjoy Camp Dogwood. The North Carolina Deaf Blind Associates hold their annual retreat on the campus each September. They enjoy many camp activities and add others like jet ski rides, paddle boating, and cooking classes.

The other 42 weeks of the year are devoted to running a retreat center and meeting facility. Revenues earned from meetings and events support the Lion’s primary mission – ten weeks of camp programs and the campus serving persons with blindness and visual impairment.

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Learn more about Camp Dogwood for the Blind & Visually Impaired, or The Meeting & Retreat Center at Camp Dogwoood by visiting www.NCLionsInc.org or calling 800.662.7401. x230.

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When a client is referred to the clinic by their physician, many have never heard of the term lymphedema. Lymphedema is a “fancy” word for chronic swelling. “Regular“ edema, as a result of an acute injury to the body or system failure, such as congestive heart failure, results in accumulation of fluid in the affected area that will be reabsorbed by the body. On the other hand, lymphedema is a result of damage to the lymphatic system resulting in the pooling of protein rich fluid that the body is unable to remove. Damage to the lymphatic bodies can occur with surgery, injury, radiation and/or chronic stress upon the system from prolonged fluid retention.

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Holiday Shopping Made Easy is your one-stop shop during the holiday season!

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he holidays are a busy time of year, full of friends, gatherings and gifts. It can also be a stressful time if you find yourself unprepared. Thruway Center has everything you need to make sure your holidays are an overwhelming success.

Featuring stores that specialize in the latest fashion, Thruway has men’s and women’s clothing stores that keep you in style regardless of the occasion. Whether you are attending a cocktail party, corporate gathering or family get-together, Thruway has what you need from head to toe.

If you are hosting the holiday party or visiting friends, the menu is always an important detail. Home to Harris Teeter and Trader Joe’s, Thruway is a convenient place to plan the meal or pick up the perfect bottle of wine for your host. Both locations offer unique items and incredible pricing that is sure to wow guests and leave them thinking you spent a fortune.

With December just around the corner, it’s never too early to start planning your gift list. Thruway offers gift options for the athlete, gardener, fashionista, foodie, decorator, kid or kid at heart and many, many more. Why bother spending time fighting the crowds this holiday season? At Thruway Center you can find everything you need.

While you’re at it, sit back and enjoy a tasty treat from Kilwin’s Ice Cream and Fudge or Dewey’s Bakery. There are several destinations to enjoy a meal, dessert or glass of wine. Bonefish Grill, The Loop Pizza Grill, and The Carving Board are few of the places to enjoy a nice relaxing meal. If you’re in a hurry or in the mood for a delicious milkshake, Thruway Center also offers options from oriental food to places like Chik-Fil-A, Moe’s Southwest Grill and McDonald’s. The Juice Shop is another delicious option for a meal on the go. After all your hard work shopping, you deserve it!

Join the participating merchants at Thruway Center for the Annual Holiday Open House on December 6th. Check with stores for specials or ‘like’ Thruway Center on Facebook. Thruway is the convenient place to do your Christmas shopping.

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Winter is Coming!

Now is the perfect time for a new bike and trainer from Clemmons Bicycle!

By Karen Holbrook

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he year is winding down and Clemmons Bicycle is looking to make room for 2015 models.

Serving local cyclists, mountain bikers and casual riders for over 40 years, Clemmons Bicycle is excited to offer closeout sales on the 2014 inventory, just in time for the holidays.

Just because the weather is getting cooler doesn’t mean all the hard work and conditioning from the hours of summer saddle time have to go to waste.

With the new line of indoor bike trainers, cyclists can train in the heated confines of their home.

There is no better way to start the 2015 season than on legs that have maintained their stamina through the winter months.

Another reason to stay in shape with an indoor trainer is to be ready to hit the freshly groomed and manicured trails at Tanglewood Park.

Tanglewood is the perfect place for riders of all ages to improve, no matter the skill level. The crew at Clemmons Bicycle, along with many volunteers, will work all winter long to perfect the trails and give riders the best, and safest, experience possible.

“The [mountain biking] trails are in the best shape they’ve ever been in,” said Clemmons Bicycle coowner, Josh Tucker. “Tanglewood Park is a great place for the whole family. Whether you ride the trails or the new greenway, it’s a great place for any rider.”

What better way to get your name on the “nice” list during this season of giving than to enrich a child’s life with a bicycle for Christmas? Clemmons Bicycle, along with other local bike shops, have partnered with the Piedmont Flyers in their “Bikes for Kids” campaign.

Each year the Piedmont Flyers uses the club's proceeds from membership dues, events and donations, to purchase bike shop quality bicycles and helmets for children. A shiny new bicycle under the tree is just one way to make the holiday season special for a girl or boy this season.

Those interested in donating to the program, or joining the Piedmont Flyers Cycling Club, can find more information on the web at piedmontflyers.com.

Clemmons Bicycle is located at 2703 LewisvilleClemmons Road in Clemmons. Store hours are Monday-Friday 10-6 Saturday 10-2 and closed Sunday. For more information regarding their services, brands, the shop and events, call 336.766.5564 or visit Clemmons Bicycle online at clemmonsbicycle.com.

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You and a Guest are cordially invited to Winston Salem Dermatology Thanksgiving Open House Thursday, November 6, 6pm-8pm There will be a wine tasting, great food, music, vendors and tons of giveaways The event is free, please RSVP to Pam Cook at pcookk@aol.com or by phone 336-416-4831 Cellar 4201 is a boutique style, family owned 5-acre vineyard in the Native Yadkin Valley Region.

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THINGS THAT MAKE YOU

By Omar & Christie

The Fork in the Bed Instead of the Fork in the Road

t’s a well-known and accepted fact that most adults thrive on 7-8 hours of sleep a night; some need a little more and some need a little less. This might be a very doable, easy goal to accomplish if you sleep by yourself each night (or only with your dogs or cats). If you are a woman in Forsyth County and are actively dating, then you may have encountered what we are calling a “fork in the bed” (akin to a “fork in the road”) – that time in your dating journey when you decide that you are ready to sleep with Mr. Right, but are wondering if the two of you can sleep together after you “sleep together.” Mr. Right has successfully shifted through each of your deal-breaker filters up to this point, like smoking, drinking too much, or swearing too much. Now he is ready for the ultimate litmus test of making it through a romantic night together and waking up the next morning in the same bed.

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For instance, depending on how much you love your sleep, snoring may make the difference between a long term relationship and a short term fling. After all, one in three men is a habitual snorer and has some degree of obstructive sleep apnea. You never anticipated his snoring on your first romantic night and surely didn’t realize it would make the neighbor’s dog howl at the moon. And this one example tops the tip of the iceberg.

In addition to snoring, Mr. Right might also sleep walk, grind his teeth, talk in his sleep, or have restless leg syndrome. He sure did appear to be Mr. Right while he was awake, but now he is Mr. Dead to the World and you are Ms. Sleepless in Seattle.

But just wait – there are several other endearing qualities that could interrupt your good night’s sleep. Hygiene could hijack your relationship. Single men may not realize that sheets need to be washed more than once a month and that dog hair or cat hair in the bed is not an aphrodisiac for most women.

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Waking up with a wet nose in your ear and your arm around a furry body, but not the one you were expecting to hug, may make for a rough morning.

While some bedtime habits may be absolute filters, others may represent frustrations that need to be addressed during the daylight. These could include needing the TV on to sleep, eating a late night snack in bed, reading in bed with the light on while you try to sleep, or keeping the room atmosphere at sub-zero temperatures as your teeth chatter. This may have you sleeping in thick flannel pajamas under three layers of blankets as he sleeps nude on top of the covers.

Dating in today’s world can be a minefield even without the unknown surprises surrounding getting a good night’s sleep next to Mr. Right. You may face the fork in the bed, where you need to decide between adjusting to this new sleep environment or moving on to someone else. Either way, communicating your frustrations or needs for sleep can help you take the right fork in the bed.

If you choose to work on this aspect of your relationship, it is helpful to know that several sleep habits that keep you awake can be treated medically, either through sleep studies or a consult with his primary care provider. Perhaps a compromise can be found on the room temperature or sleeping attire. Only you can determine how many of his sleep habits are too many to tolerate, realizing that some might not change. And some might be out right deal-breakers (like dirty sheets, which could be a hint at other hygiene issues).

While it may only take some women one night to determine if the relationship is worth pursuing or not, other women may be more tolerant and work to find solutions to their sleepless nights. Dating is not easy.

Finding the right guy is not easy. And when you think you have found him there may be issues that require effort and communication. It is worth the effort when you discover the man who completes you and lets you put your cold feet on him in the middle of the night.

Good night! Sleep well!

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THE SINGING BIRD ORGANIC SALON: Sharing a promise of inner and outer beauty, thanks to eco-friendly products!

By Martie Emory hen clients leave The Singing Bird Organic Salon in Clemmons there’s no doubt they feel beautiful – inside and outside. Lucky them, they also know they’ve just experienced color treatments that are completely certified organic, 100% vegan and cruelty-free – a beauty bonus for their health, too.

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Thanks to a promise that current owner, Lauren Clodfelter, made to the shop’s previous owner when she took over the three-year-old business in January 2014, the salon remains dedicated to offering the safest, most eco-friendly products from Organic Color Systems. This revolutionary line not only contains no ammonia, but also no resorcinol – a pigment banned in Europe due to its negative health effects – or parabens or any other toxic and carcinogenic ingredients common in other color products. For the hair itself, these products also maintain your hair’s own levels of moisture and protein, with results that are not only better for overall health, but that also produce amazing results!

Lauren is honored to carry on the mission of the salon’s previous owner who searched for alternative products during the time her own mother was fighting breast cancer, hoping to locate a coloring line that wouldn’t simply be putting unnecessary chemicals right back into her body. The salon was able to bring these much sought after products to clients in Clemmons, and

Lauren is dedicated to continuing the path the previous owner started towards healthier hair color choices. Also safe for pregnant women (Lauren herself is due in December!), as well as for cancer patients, it’s a commitment that Lauren and her fellow stylist, Shannon Woodward (also a mom), plan to promote as much as possible. Both are certified organic hair colorists and every single product that comes into the salon is researched and tested.

“In my research and experience, I have learned some of the most disturbing things about everyday products sold in stores,” says Lauren. “I am thrilled to have the ability to make my dream a reality without sacrificing the integrity of a client’s hair or the environment. I could never imagine putting these things on my own child.”

The Singing Bird Organic Salon offers a traditional variety of beauty services, from cuts and styling to all-over color and highlights, along with brow and lip waxing and lash and brow tinting. Both Lauren and Shannon work by appointment only, but clients are encouraged to view their schedules and book appointments online.

Known for its cozy décor and eco-chic atmosphere, clients are treated as friends and family here.

“I love the fact that when I wake up in the morning I can be happy to go to work and be excited about catching up with the clients scheduled that day,” says Lauren. “At the end of the day, I have never walked out of this place unhappy or unsatisfied with the way the day went!”

The Singing Bird Organic Salon is located at 6341 Cooke Avenue, Suite B, in Clemmons, N.C. Call 336-778-2234 for more information, visit their website and book an appointment online at www.thesingingbirdorganicsalon.com or follow them on Facebook at www.facebook.com/TheSingingBird.

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Junior League Annual Boutique Shopping Event

By Meghan E.W. Corbett

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very year, the Junior League amazes area residents with fantastic events that are meticulously planned and successful. This year, they are at it again, and the 2014 Boutique Shopping Event is set to be the best one yet!

Like many wonderful events, the Boutique has changed throughout the years to accommodate shoppers and to encourage the best turnout possible. “The first several years were Boo-tique, a holiday market that was held in late October to coincide with Halloween,” said Boutique Co-Chair Katy Ringeman. “It was a great idea, but people in the community were not ready to start holiday shopping yet, so we shifted to Boutique, a holiday shopping event and changed the date to mid-late November. This timing has been more popular with consumers and vendors.

We have a wonderful group of return vendors and new vendors that we can't wait to see this November! We have made other smaller tweaks along the way as we realize and learn what the consumers really want and what brings people through the door.”

Obviously, this event is a huge undertaking and requires nearly year-round planning to run smoothly. “We have 14 members on our Boutique committee, but many members of the Junior League of Winston-Salem contribute and volunteer in different ways,” said Boutique Co-Chair Susan Colon. “We are thrilled to announce that we are 100% sold out on booths!

A few of our wonderful vendors are Aria Handmade, Cloister Honey, Dewey's, Jack & Jill Designs, Kim Taylor & Co., Collared Greens, Mainstream Boutique, cherryBLOX and Janice Cain.”

This year marks the fifth annual Boutique Shopping Event. “It’s the most wonderful time of the year,” said Colon. “The fifth annual Boutique holiday market extravaganza will take place Friday, November 21st and Saturday, November 22nd in the grand ballroom at the Embassy Suites/Benton Convention Center in downtown Winston-Salem. The lineup of vendors for shopping at this year’s Boutique holiday market offers unique gift giving options

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for everyone on Santa’s list. In addition to fabulous shopping, Boutique will offer attendees demonstrations from the Home Depot, entertainment, kids’ activities, a special visit from Santa and more!”

The Boutique Shopping Event hours are as follows:

Boutique: Holiday Market Happy Hour Friday, November 21, 2014 4-6pm

Girls’ Night Out! Bubbles, Baubles, Bags & Sweet Bites Friday, November 21, 2014 7-10pm $30.00 or 4 tickets for $100.00 (prior to event) $35.00 at the door *Each ticket purchased comes with one free holiday shopping ticket for Saturday.

Shopping Day Saturday, November 22, 2014 9am-6pm $5/adult; $2/child age 6-12 The Girls’ Night Out Event has proved very popular in past years complete with silent auction, entertainment, food, bubbles (sparkling wine) and shopping! Hopefully, with each year that passes, the event will continue to grow in popularity and revenue for the Junior League of Winston-Salem.

“It is our hope that Boutique will grow and become more successful each year and become one of the Junior League of Winston-Salem's largest fundraisers,” said Ringeman. “Boutique is an event that is still fairly new in its fifth year running, so we are hoping over time that Boutique becomes more established and well known to shoppers and vendors.”

For more information, email Katy Ringeman at boutique@jlws.org, call 336.749.3992 or visit the website at JLWS.org/Boutique where you can also purchase tickets in advance.

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ress for Success is one of the most respectable and honorable organizations in existence today. The goals of this organization are truly heartwarming, and those who have benefitted from the dedicated team behind it are forever grateful for the assistance.

“Dress for Success is an organization that gives women a hand up and never a hand out,” said Executive Director Glynis Bell. “What I know makes us different from other organizations is the personal touch that we use to serve our clients. We treat them like the mothers, sisters and girlfriends they are; we make them feel special. When I see a client who comes in with her head hung low and frustrated about her job search or life leave our boutique smiling with her head held high, we know that we have made a positive impact on her life.”

Many people in our community have supported Dress for Success Winston-Salem, and that support has gone a long way to further the organization and allow those behind it to offer more and more to those in need. This includes the move to a brand new space! “Our new location is located in The Winston-Salem Center for Arts and Education at 375 Buxton Street (off 6th Street),” said Bell. “Our new space will allow us the opportunity to provide increased and more efficient client services. It will allow us to have a greater presence in the community. The location is near a bus stop which is important to many of our clients who rely on public transportation. We are also sharing the building with other great organizations like Leadership Winston-Salem, Authoring Action and The WinstonSalem Street School. This will allow us to partner with other organizations providing great services for our community. We started working on getting into the space in September of 2012, so we are excited to see our progress pay off.”

Dress for Success Winston-Salem hosted an open house on October 16th to show off the new space, further connections with those in the community and raise money with a little help from the local Lincoln Mercury Dealership who offered to donate $50 to Dress for Success for everyone who test drove the new Lincoln MKC during the event.

There are many ways to get involved in the efforts of Dress for Success. “We will be conducting our second annual direct mail campaign and end of the year appeal, as well as the second annual Giving Tuesday luncheon,” said Bell. “This is the opportunity to support non-profit organizations’ work by donating and supporting them on this day. It's the non-profit version of Black Friday and Cyber Monday. The date for this year’s Giving Tuesday will be December 2.

More details to come on the time and location of this event.”

Those who are able to volunteer are always welcome at Dress for Success! “Our organization is 99% volunteer driven, so we are always looking for volunteers who have a talent or time that they would like to share with us,” said Bell. “There are opportunities to volunteer as an image coach/personal shopper, a career coach, an inventory specialist or a Dress for Success Ambassador.

Monetary donations are always welcomed, as well as donations of business-appropriate clothing, shoe and accessory donations!”

For more information about Dress for Success, email winstonsalem@dressforsuccess.org, call 336.970.0374 or visit the website at www.dressforsuccess.org and like them on Facebook!

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Sharing a Passion for Wine and Life

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pen for business since 2001, after producing their first wines in 2000, RayLen Vineyards & Winery is a perfect spot for tasting, touring or simply relaxing on the porch with a passionate staff waiting enthusiastically to share their love of good wine.

A talented quartet of women – including owner Joyce Neely – lend their talents to making RayLen a mustvisit for travelers to North Carolina and a favorite libation for wine lovers from all over.

ELIZABETH DOVER Having been at Raylen for three seasons, Elizabeth Dover brings vineyard experience both locally, and in New Zealand and Australia to her position of assistant winemaker. Working more “behind the scenes,” she loves the act of creating a delicious product. “I love watching the grapes come in and figuring out the processes we are going to use to make a stellar wine from those grapes,” says Elizabeth. “I also get really nerdy about Chardonnays and making different styles of Chardonnay.”

JOYCE NEELY Inspired by travel to Italy, but also by long-time friends who had also discovered the thrill and beauty of wine making, Joyce Neely and her husband, Joe, named RayLen after their two daughters (Rachel and Helen) and proudly declare they are a true mom-and-pop operation.

“We are very grateful for a professional and dedicated staff who works as much for the love of the industry as anything,” says Joyce. Facing the challenge of swaying wine lovers, and inspiring them to keep an open mind and give North Carolina wines a try, Joyce says it’s not hard to find one of their wines to suit the tastes of new followers. She’s also proud of the vineyard’s energy consciousness: their solar installation is growing and in fact, about to quadruple. As for the enthusiasm she and the staff feel every day, Joyce says it’s a joy to see the product evolve in the capable hands of awardwinning winemaker Steve Shepard. Joyce is also dedicated to finding more ways to bring her own love of winemaking to the community. She and Joe continue to travel as much as they can “to learn from the competition.

SARAH KELLY An avid artist and traveler, Tasting Room Manager Sarah Kelly loves the diverse customer base that RayLen attracts. “Going through a complete flight with an individual or even a small group gives you at least 30 minutes with the customer,” she says. “With the right questions, you can learn a lot about someone.” Living just outside the Chianti region in Italy as part of her undergraduate studies led Sarah to explore wines from a geological perspective, and she immediately wanted to be involved with North Carolina wines as a career.

KARYN HOWARD SMITH RayLen’s savvy Events and Marketing Coordinator, Karyn Howard Smith, is the creative organizer behind the vineyard’s special events – there’s at least one a month, but usually two or three. From the Full Moon Festival in July to Sunset Musical Flights and premiere parties to introduce the newest vintage, Karyn loves the sense of family that the staff has created within itself – she’s been with the vineyard for almost 10 years – and the sense of family and celebration they extend to their customers.

Pictured left to right: Elizabeth Anne Dover, Sarah Kelly, Joyce Neely, and Karyn Howard Smith

RayLen Vineyards & Winery is conveniently located just off I-40 at 3577 Highway 158 in Mocksville, NC. For information on tastings, tours and events call 336-998-3100 or visit raylenvinewards.com. Their Thanksgiving Open House will be held Saturday, November 8, 2014, from 11:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. with food and wine pairings of Thanksgiving classics.

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.U. Westermayer once said, “The Pilgrims made seven times more graves than huts. No Americans have been more impoverished than these who, nevertheless, set aside a day of thanksgiving.” In this country, we set aside a day every year to be thankful, though ideally, we’re making thankfulness a daily occurrence. I think that most people want to assume they are grateful for what they have. After all, it doesn’t take much to realize just how fortunate we really are (just read the news).

But based on how materialistic we are as a society, are we really thankful? If we are, then why do we need “more stuff”?

Why can’t we be happy with what we have?

My husband and I just finished listening to Dave Ramsey’s audiobook, “The Total Money Makeover.” We decided to put his technique into practice and we are working on being content with what we have, instead of spending money on things we don’t need.

As I listened to the basic principles of Dave Ramsey’s plan, I felt deeply ashamed. I have wasted so much money on stuff I didn’t need… things I’ve long forgotten… things I never use… Why couldn’t I just be happy with what I had? Why couldn’t I just be thankful for the things I’ve been blessed with? No matter what my salary has been at various points of my life, I’ve never gone hungry. I’ve always had a roof over my head.

Water has run freely from the faucets and, other than the time our furnace went out, heat or air has always been a mere flip of a switch away.

I’ve never gone without. But somehow, I’ve shamefully allowed myself to look beyond the fact that my needs were all covered, and ignored what I should be most thankful for: a family who loves me, amazing friends, and food and shelter to cover all my needs.

I’ve told my readers before that I often write this column as much for myself as I do for you and this month is no different. Please join me this month in my 30-day challenge: Learn the art of being thankful for what you have. I think this is especially important as we enter the holiday season. What would things be like for you in 30 days if…

• You start every morning off by identifying something you are thankful for • You end every day by identifying something you are thankful for • Say “Thank you” often

The Art of Thankfulness:

• Before you spend money, decide if it’s a want or a need • When you have extra money to spend, give it to a charity and be thankful for your ability to be generous to those in need • Smile often – smiling is contagious and makes everything better – you’ll be able to better identify your many blessings

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• When you have a bad day, make sure you take a few moments to be thankful for the positive (there’s always something in any situation for which to be thankful!)

By Denise Heidel

Thankfulness is something we frequently talk about, but how often are we putting it into practice? This Thanksgiving season, I’m making a commitment to be thankful every day, for every blessing in my life, both big and small. Someone once said, “Hem your blessings with thankfulness so they don't unravel.” I’m taking their advice to heart.

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You do not have to be a Buddhist or even know how to spell “Buddhist” in order to gain a better life via its brand of psychology. If you want less stress, more inner peace, and more happiness in your life (and who doesn’t?) then Jack Kornfield’s accessible and anecdote-filled book is a great way to get started on that path. Along with meditation (which, again, does not have to be a spiritual practice), Kornfield’s book can help you learn how to treat your anxiety and self-incrimination with compassion. The Wise Heart will help you gain mindfulness, which is really just a form of paying compassionate attention to the world around you and your place within it. Kornfield’s book helps you transform delusions, such as the belief that external things can make you happy, into recipes for true happiness. The Wise Heart is filled with practical advice that can start to change your life immediately.

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By David McCullough Genre: Biography Reviewed By: Lisa S.T. Doss A few days ago, I read the final words of the memorable biography detailing John Adams’ extraordinary life as son, student, and lawyer, beloved husband and father, congressman, president, and political advisor. Through his love of conversation and talking, John Adams recorded many personal thoughts through journal entries and letters to many individuals, especially his "best friend" and wife, Abigail. Beautiful sentiments of his views on women, marriage, separation from wife and children, and Independence Day, for instance, allow the reader to see the true heart and fierceness Adams had for his family and country. Readers will learn about larger than life historical individuals like Benjamin Rush, George Washington, and Adams’ son, Quincy Adams. Extraordinary details are written about how the bonds of friendship between Thomas Jefferson and John Adams were established, waned, and grew stronger in the years of retirement. Beyond all his stubbornness, Adams believes he would never have achieved his status in American history without his Abigail.

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Reviewed By: Denise Heidel Gone With the Wind has endured for 78 years and this year marks the 75th anniversary of the film. Margaret Mitchell's Pulitzer-prize winning novel takes us into the life of Scarlett O'Hara, a spoiled, rich plantation belle who pouts when she doesn’t get her way and schemes to make her wants a reality.

Though ill equipped to deal with the harsh realities of war, Scarlett has the tenacity to fight back, overcoming both tragedy and heartbreak. Margaret Mitchell herself summed up the book in one word: gumption. Love her or hate her, no one can deny that Scarlett O’Hara is a determined character, full of fire and vigor. Far from perfect, our flawed heroine faces challenge after challenge, and while she believes she has overcome struggles all on her own, her ah-ha moment reveals her own weaknesses and vulnerability. If you’ve only ever seen the movie, be sure to read the book. Some truly amazing characters who didn’t make it into the film really add to the legend that is Gone With the Wind.

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Authentic Asian and Fusion Cuisine You’ll Love

By Meridith Whitaker you find yourself arriving at the same restaurant destination weekend after weekend out of habit, here is a new one to add to your must-try list. HakkaChow has been serving up homemade Asian cuisine since February of this year.

And when they say “homemade,” they mean it. All of their classic, authentic, and fusion dishes are made from scratch, meaning that nothing is bought premade, like at many restaurants. HakkaChow’s appetizers are a special work of art; handmade dumplings, spring rolls, and egg rolls are carefully prepared with the dedication and heart that makes their traditional Asian food look, feel, and taste truly authentic and adventurous.

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If you’ve ever driven by the location on Hanes Mall Boulevard and wondered about the name, here is a piece of trivia to impress your friends: the word “Hakka” in the restaurant’s name refers to the ancestry of the two owners, Hai-Fang and Caroline Chung, who are descendants of the Hakka people, one of the subgroups of the Han Chinese. Hai-Fang and Caroline were born in Calcutta, India, after their parents had moved from Mei Xian, China to flee oppression from the rising communist government.

They followed their dream to serve great Asian food and, after owning and operating several Chinese restaurants over the course of 30 years, decided to open HakkaChow in Winston-Salem, in collaboration with Freddy Lee, brother of Caroline Chung and owner of Bernardin’s and Bleu. Skills in food and business run in the family in both directions; Hai-Fang’s brother is Lucas Chung, owner of Szechuan Palace, which has been voted the best Chinese restaurant in Winston-Salem.

To get an idea of the type of food and the restaurant atmosphere, think P.F. Chang’s. But on the other hand – don’t. HakkaChow offers much more than the chain restaurant and features a variety of Asian cuisine such as Indian, Thai, Japanese, and even some Korean dishes, in addition to local and international wines and cocktails at their full bar.

Vegetarian and gluten-free dishes are available, and others can be prepared as such upon request. The owners’ vision at HakkaChow is to provide high quality Asian food in an aesthetic atmosphere with the utmost level of hospitality. Stop in to enjoy a variety of from-scratch Asian dishes in a modern contemporary setting with your friends, family or co-workers, and this unique dining destination may just become a new weekend favorite.

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100 / ForsythWoman.com Answers A. Billy Graham (evangelist) Charlotte, NC; B. Andy Griffith (actor), Mount Airy, NC; C. Andrew Jackson (7th US president) Waxhaw, NC D. Sugar Ray Leonard (boxer), Rocky Mount, NC; E. Chris Paul (basketball player), Winston-Salem, NC; F. Julianne Moore (actress), Fayetteville, NC; G. Dale Earnhardt, Sr. (NASCAR Driver), Kannapolis, NC; H. Dolley Madison (4th US First Lady) Greensboro, NC; I. Jame Pressly (actress) Kinston, NC

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Thanksgiving Done Light!

By Elisa Wallace & Emily Eileen Carter

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he average American consumes nearly 4,500 calories during his or her annual Thanksgiving Day feast, nearly twice the recommended daily caloric intake. Though Thanksgiving is certainly a time to be gracious and eat favorite comfort foods, there is nothing wrong with doctoring some recipe favorites to cut the calories, but keep the flavor. These lighter recipes will still have you feeling grateful without the guilt.

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GOLDEN YUKON MASHED POTATOES WITH SHALLOTS Ingredients: 6 tablespoons minced shallots 2 teaspoons olive oil 1/2 cup low fat, low sodium chicken broth 2 teaspoons minced fresh thyme Ground black pepper to taste Salt to taste 3 small Yukon Gold potatoes 1/2 cup evaporated skim milk

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4 pounds Brussels sprouts

1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C).

1/2 cup unsalted butter 4 small red onions, cut into strips 1/4 cup red wine vinegar 2 tablespoons white sugar Salt and pepper to taste 1/2 cup coarsely chopped pistachios Directions: 1. Place Brussels sprouts in a steamer basket over boiling water. Cover saucepan and steam 8-10 minutes or until Brussels sprouts are tender, yet crisp.

2. Melt the butter in a deep skillet, add the onions and 3 tablespoons vinegar; cook until onions brown.

3. Add the Brussels sprouts, sugar and remaining vinegar. Sauté over medium heat until the Brussels sprouts are lightly caramelized.

4. Season with salt and pepper to taste and garnish with pistachios.

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2. Place the shallots, oil, broth, thyme, pepper and salt in a small casserole dish. Cover and roast until the shallots are very soft and brown, about 45 minutes. Remove the casserole from the oven.

3. Cook the potatoes in a large pot of boiling water until soft, about 20 minutes. Drain and place the potatoes back in the pot over low heat to dry.

4. Heat the milk over medium low heat. Add it to the potatoes and beat with a mixer. Add the roasted shallots and beat again until potatoes are smooth.

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2. Beat eggs, brow n sugar, cinnamon, salt, nu tmeg, cloves, and ginger in a bowl un til blended. Stir in milk and pumpk in until mixture is smooth; transfer to a 9-inch glass pie dish. Sprinkle with pecans.

3. Bake in prehea ted oven for 15 minutes; reduce he at to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) and continue baking until set, 30 to 40 minutes more. Cool for at least 1 hour before slicing and serving.

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Making Clemmons a Better Place to Live By Sara Migliarese

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he Clemmons Community Foundation Inc. (CCF) has been changing lives in and around Clemmons, North Carolina, for eleven years.

Through the CCF offshoot group, “Women Who Care,” additional needs of Lewisville-Clemmons residents will be met. It has contributed funds and “manpower” to a wide scope of projects that directly impact citizens in need. Below is a partial list of Foundation grants provided during the period of July 1, 2013 to June 30, 2014: • Cancer Services, Inc. to support area families • Purchase of 4 defibrillators for sheriff cars serving the Clemmons area • Arts for Life for children facing serious illnesses • Meals on Wheels • Clemmons Food Pantry • Clemmons Community Day-Healthy Kids Day sponsor • YMCA Camp Hanes camperships • Women Who Care • Clemmons Rotary Christmas Tree Sale to support YMCA playgrounds • Clemmons Jerry Long YMCA annual campaign • Salvation Army • Lewisville-Clemmons Chamber of Commerce • Clemmons Rotary Bicycle Project • Clemmons Rotary Golf Tournament sponsor • Southwest Forsyth Little League Capital campaign • Lewisville Titans football helmets • West Forsyth High School Athletic Booster Club for upgrades to football complex • West Forsyth High School student scholarship

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The CCF has also sponsored several civic events in partnerships with West Forsyth High School (voter registration), Clemmons Civic Club (Meet the Candidate Night), local churches, and local health care providers that address CPR skills and defibrillator training. Through the CCF offshoot group, “Women Who Care,” the needs of single mothers are being met in the Lewisville-Clemmons area. Local realtor Wendy Taylor commented that, “The Clemmons Community Foundation acts like the United Way of Clemmons with all the services that it provides and people it supports.”

Each year the CCF bestows grants to local non-profit applicants. Last year, the grants totaled more than $130,000. Board President Joanna Lyall leads a 13member Board of Directors comprised of civic leaders who volunteer their time and expertise to select grant applications which address potential improvement in services for children, adults, families, elderly, and organizations that contribute positively to the community (and don’t forget about dogs! CCF helped to support Tanglewoof, the dog park at Tanglewood). Ms. Lyall, who is the Director for Corporate and Community Programs at Wake Forest Baptist Health, has been instrumental in the development of the “Women Who Care” group and will tell you more about this initiative in next month’s issue of Forsyth Woman magazine.

Be sure to look for her article!

Interested donors can contribute to this foundation in a tax-deductible way through both donor-designated and general donations. The CCF is funded entirely through private donations which can be made via the CCF website at www.clemmonscommunityfoundation.org. Donors may also email the CCF at info@clemmonscommunityfoundation.org or call at 336-546-8011 for further information. Donations may be made anonymously and can include houses, cars, trucks, boats, stock/bonds or cash.

If you happen to live in or visit the Clemmons area, keep an eye out for Clemmons Community Foundation support signs at schools, ballparks, dog parks, and playgrounds. The Foundation is continuing to make the Clemmons area a better place to live.

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Lauren Fletcher Cotts Employer: Iredell Memorial Hospital Fun Fact: Lauren granted her first wish as a Chi Omega while studying nursing at Queen’s University.

Cyenthia Barker Employer: First Citizens Bank Fun Fact: Cyenthia is a member of the Greensboro Symphony Guild, a mentor for the Women's Resource Center, and the 2015 Co-Chair for Clay Smith's Hope Chest.

Why I’m An Honoree: Make-A-Wish touches lives in our community and I feel compelled to bring more awareness to a wonderful organization.

Why I’m An Honoree: I am honored to be amongst such a wonderful group of women who are able to inspire others while granting wishes to children with life-threatening medical conditions.

Diane Conterno-Neese Employer: Iredell Memorial Hospital Fun Fact: Lauren granted her first wish as a Chi Omega while studying nursing at Queen’s University.

Why I’m An Honoree: I am honored to be amongst such a wonderful group of women who are able to inspire others while granting wishes to children with life-threatening medical conditions.

Dottie Rollins Employer: Retired from Make-A-Wish Fun Fact: Dottie was Make-A-Wish Central and Western North Carolina’s first paid employee.

Why I’m An Honoree: Make-A-Wish has meant so much to me throughout my life. I started as a volunteer for 4 ½ years and then had the honor of being the Executive Director, Director of Wish Programs and Director of NASCAR Wishes.

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Zarmena Woods Employer: Gold’s Gym Fun Fact: Zar was named Personal Trainer of the Year in 2011 by Gold’s Gym. Why I’m An Honoree: I am very excited to meet like-minded woman who are professionally successful, and able to still give their time and efforts to building a better community. I am also excited to raise money to grant a WISH to a child! I love this organization and am so excited to be a bigger part of it.

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Fun Fact: Gina is a wish mom to daughter Mia. Why I’m An Honoree: This is such a special honor. As a mother and wife you just do what you have to do for your family, but I had no idea that people had been inspired by our journey in this way.

Logan Welborn School: Forsyth County Day School Fun Fact: Logan organized and runs "Team Lilly", a Walk For Wishes® team in honor of her little sister.

Why I’m An Honoree: Logan wants to raise funds to honor her younger sister Lilly, who was diagnosed with Dravet Syndrome. Lilly received her wish to meet Barney in April 2012. Logan recounts the experience as a time of relief for her entire family and wants to ensure other children receive their wish.

Fun Fact: Keela has completed several triathlons and 5K races.

Why I’m An Honoree: I have always had a soft spot for Make-A-Wish. I have supported many charities through the years, but I think that being able to help support a child's wish would be the most amazing experience. I am happy and proud to use my business as a springboard to raise awareness!

Lindsey Auman Charity Involvement: Operation Smile, Relay For Life, Family Services of the Piedmont, Art a’la Carte, Big Hair Ball Fun Fact: Lindsey is currently a yoga teacher at Dancing Dogs Yoga and is aspiring to earn her Baptiste Certification.

Why I’m An Honoree: I was touched personally seeing a child’s wish granted at the 2014 Derby event for Make-AWish. The opportunity for me to bring that same happiness to a child who is in need of something super special is what made me accept the honoree role.

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Fun Fact: Cynthia was named among the "Most Influential Women in Corporate America" by Savoy magazine in 2012.

Why I’m An Honoree: I am moved by the strength and faith the children and families have while dealing with these terrible diseases and feel like this is one way I may be able to make a difference in their lives.

Why I’m An Honoree: I am humbled to be honored and I hope this event will bring attention to the many children who are still waiting to have their wishes realized.

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Readers Speak..

ach month, in the Readers Speak column, we ask our readers a different question through an online survey. Everyone who participated was included in a drawing to win a $25 gift card! Congratulations to Vernola Jackson who was this month’s winner!

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For the November issue, we asked our readers to tell us about Thanksgiving.

We asked the following questions:

1. What is the absolute must-have on your Thanksgiving table?

Responses were varied but some of the most consistent answers were cornbread dressing, cranberry salad, ambrosia, creamed onions, potatoes, and pumpkin pie!

2. Gravy on the turkey? Yes or no?

When it comes to gravy on the turkey, our readers are equally divided with 50% voting yes, and 50% voting no.

3. Do you go shopping on Black Friday?

We have some serious shoppers with 62.5% of our readers going shopping on Black Friday! Be sure you’re shopping local and don’t forget about Small Business Saturday on November 29th!

Thank you to everyone who participated in this month’s survey!

Next month’s question is about Gifts… We all know the adage that it’s better to give than receive, so with that in mind, we have four questions for our readers:

1. Do you have a special gift planned for someone this year?

2. Which kind of gift is better? Small and from the heart, or the bigger the better?

3. What was the gift you most wanted as a child?

4. If you could give any gift in the world to the person you love most, what would it be?

Results will be published in the December issue of Forsyth Woman!

Visit TinyURL.com/ReadersSpeakDec14 to participate! Those who participate in our Readers Speak survey will be in a drawing to win a $25 gift card. Our winner will be announced on our Facebook page on November 5th and contacted by email.

4. What are you most thankful for this year?

Our responses included:

“I am thankful for my loved ones and God's blessings on each of us; can't forget my Forsyth Family and Forsyth Woman mags (thankful for them, too)!” – Vernola J.

“A healthy family and a growing, successful 3 year old!”

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By Elaine S. Wilder, CPRW, CEIP inding a job is a job! Think of it as a game – if you know the rules, you can play. Having been in the business of résumé writing and interview coaching since 1989, I have

observed many changes in hiring practices and career marketing tools (the résumé, curriculum vitae, cover letter, reference page, salary history page and portfolios). Below are some questions asked by my clients. I believe the answers may be helpful to you if you are a job seeker.

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Absolutely! You are not the only one with “nerves” over phone interviews. The purpose of the phone interview is for the interviewer to decide whether to invite you to the next interview — which is hopefully an in-person one. The Internet makes it easy for you to apply for a job anywhere in the world, but the company is not going to incur the expense of bringing you in for an in-person interview unless you are a good fit — and often that is determined through one or more virtual interviews. You may have two (or more!) virtual interviews before your first in-person interview.

Traditionally, virtual interviews (usually phone interviews) were used to conduct a pre-screening for an in-person interview and to answer any questions not addressed in the résumé.

But, today, phone interviews are also replacing some in-person “first interviews.” You may be asked the same questions on the phone you might have expected would be asked in a face-to-face interview.

So prepare like you would for an in-person interview.

Virtual interviews are generally shorter than in-person interviews — they may be as short as five minutes, or last up to an hour.

The typical phone interview lasts 20-30 minutes. When the phone

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interview is scheduled, that is the time to ask how much time to allow — and then add 30 minutes to it, just in case.

The Phone Interview So many first impressions are made on how a jobseeker looks.

But what if the first job interview is a phone interview?

This can actually be an advantage to a phone interview — it focuses on content, not appearance. What matters is what you say and how you say it. Phone interviews can be an advantage for jobseekers concerned about age discrimination or being judged by how they look.

Phone Interview Preparation As with an in-person interview, preparation is key. Prepare just as well for a phone interview as you would for an in-person interview. Otherwise, you might not get the chance to get a faceto-face interview. When scheduling a phone interview with an interviewer, find out: 1) The time of the call (and clarify any time zone differences); 2) Who is calling whom (and on what phone number); 3) How long to expect the call to last; 4) Any specific preparation required for the call; 5) With whom the call will be (name, job title).

On a piece of paper, write down the job title you are applying for, the company name, and key points you want to remember to make. Create a “talking points” outline. These are key points you want to cover in the interview. This outline can include: 1) Position and industry-specific accomplishments; 2) Unique assets you possess as an employee; 3) Information about the company that you learned from your research that ties into your skills, abilities, and qualifications.

If you would like to receive The Tough 20 Interview Questions & Answers, please e-mail me at eswilder@cs.com. Please put Forsyth Woman in the subject line.

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LOCAL VOCALS

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and members, Vince Myers, Dawn Myers, Ryan Dunn, Ben Miller and William Poe, were all born and raised in and around the Winston-Salem, NC area and share not only a hometown, but a love of sharing bluegrass and classic country music with their audiences! “Everyone in our band loves music and any opportunity to play and sing. Performing gives you an awesome feeling, but the best part about it would have to be seeing our audience enjoy our music. If they are happy and tapping their feet, dancing and singing along, then it makes our singing and playing all worthwhile,” said Vince Myers, banjo and vocals for Hazy Ridge Bluegrass.

Vince Myers - Banjo and Vocals Growing up in his dad’s guitar case, figuratively speaking, Vince Myers has had a love of music from as far back as he can recall.

“Growing up, my dad, Roger Myers, played in a few bands and we went with him everywhere he played. I took up the banjo when I was 18 and have played in several bands over the years, including Tommy Drifter and the Lost Travelers and County Line Daredevils. I have always wanted a band of my own, so this past February, my wife, Dawn Myers and I began Hazy Ridge Bluegrass and started looking for others to join the band,” said Vince.

Dawn Myers - Vocals For Dawn Myers, singing in church was where she developed her love of music. “I grew up singing with my mom in church and have sung in the choir and other groups in my church for 28 years.

I have always wanted to be in a group, traveling and performing.

I was given the chance to sing with the Howell Osborne Band for six months and then Vince, my husband, and I decided to form Hazy Ridge Bluegrass. We perform traditional bluegrass gospel and some classic country with a bluegrass flare,” Dawn commented.

Ryan Dunn - Bass Fiddle and Vocals Much like Dawn, Ryan Dunn, grew up singing in church and listening to bluegrass. “In my freshmen year of high school, I started playing the bass with some friends who loved bluegrass as much as I did. I can also play the mandolin and guitar. When Vince contacted me about playing in the band, I was excited to join them in their new journey and be able to share the music I love with others,” Ryan stated.

Ben Miller - Mandolin and Vocals The church was also the place where Ben Miller got his love for music. “I started playing the guitar at 15 and the mandolin at the age of 28. I have been singing in church for years and have helped lead the praise team at church. I found out about Hazy Ridge Bluegrass through Dawn’s cousin, whom I go to church with, and it wasn’t long before I was part of the group,” said Ben. “I have also written some songs that Hazy Ridge is performing at their shows!”

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William Poe - Lead Guitar, Banjo and Vocals Loving to ‘pick and jam’ is how William Poe, Navy veteran, describes his love of playing in Hazy Ridge Bluegrass. “I have been playing the banjo for 18 years and the guitar for three. Over the years, I have sung in several bands, playing not only guitar, but also the banjo, mandolin and bass. There’s nothing like getting together and performing with these guys and seeing our audience join in,” Will commented. Will found out about Hazy Ridge Bluegrass Band through Ryan Dunn. “Ryan and I went to school together and have been playing music together since we were in high school.”

When needed, Vince’ dad, Roger Myers, steps in and plays the mandolin and guitar. “Roger is always willing to help us out and that means a lot to us all,” stated Dawn.

All bands have influences that they credit for helping them develop their own sound. “There are many bands that we like, but our main influences have been The Stanley Brothers, Lonesome River Band, Seldom Scene, Ricky Skaggs and The Isaacs. The next few months we are busy playing at festivals, private events and parties and we are very fortunate how audiences have received us and our music. Our future plans are to keep on keeping on, and sing and play as many places as we can, letting the world know who Hazy Ridge Bluegrass is and what we are all about,” Vince commented.

For more information on Hazy Ridge Bluegrass, visit www.hazyridgebluegrassband.webs.com and ‘like’ them on Facebook for upcoming events.

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Giving Back for the Good of Others

Lessons from Winston-Salem’s Living Classroom

By Rachel Glasser

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question of why The Farm at The Children’s Home should be saved has been in local media for about ten months now.

Some say that The Farm offers an outlet for locally grown produce to the community. Others say it offers a solution to food insecurity in the area, providing an affordable option for those in need. Still others point to the possibilities for community building and outreach that the farm offers, heralding it as a possible event space and educational resource for local schools. Kim MacPherson, Experiential Coordinator at The Children’s Home, answered the question with the story of a little girl who, when taking part in the spring gardening, insisted that all the seeds be planted, even some dried up old strawberries.

“You’ve got to give them a chance,” she cried.

“If we hadn’t been given a chance, we wouldn’t be here!”

Through several educational and therapeutic programs, the staff at The Farm is working hard to facilitate these chances for both residents of The Children’s Home and of the community. The Farm offers a place for today’s kids to be pushed out of their comfort zones, and develop new skills through working in the gardens and caring for the animals. When transplanted out of familiar spaces and into nature, The Farm can become anything from a living classroom, to a therapeutic community, to a place of fun and play. The message that the staff at The Farm hope to convey is that the opportunities are limitless, if many hands take part in the rebuilding effort.

The garden is the primary educational opportunity at The Farm, acres of thriving plants and nutritious soil are fallow ground for local biology classes, botany classes, or even families looking to get out and experience nature together. Tom Priest, local businessman and volunteer at The Farm, believes there are many benefits in this different form of education. “We want to show children where food comes from,” he said. “It doesn’t come out of a box sitting on the shelf at the grocery store. There is a beginning.”

However, the benefits of the garden are not simply educational – staff members who work directly with the children describe the emotional healing that this type of work facilitates as well. Kim MacPherson remembers another young girl who had faced a terrible trauma, one so heartwrenching that she refused to speak. It was in the garden, over trays filled with tiny seeds that she finally opened up again. The combination of shared labor, a safe and removed environment, and ears ready to listen were just what she needed. And though far too many seeds were planted that season in an effort to keep her talking, “It was just amazing to witness,” said MacPherson.

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The Farm also offers an animal therapy program, with horses, chickens, goats, and even llamas providing endless fun and skill-building opportunities for kids and adults alike. Laura Gentry, an Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association certified instructor, has led the program for many years. She believes that, though the results are less tangible than berry patches or vegetable gardens, animals have the capacity to reach kids in places no human can access, bypassing defenses and teaching children how to love something again.

“Giving them something to love, and getting that love back from the animals is crucial,” echoed MacPherson. “It’s often what they’re missing in their lives.”

It is sometimes difficult to differentiate teachers from students at The Farm. When describing the animal therapy program, Tom Priest said that it was the animals who become the teachers. “They use the animals as an illustration of human characteristics,” he said, with a wry smile. “If they have someone who is acting like…a donkey…up there, they use that moment as an illustrated point.”

On the other hand, Kim MacPherson said that the kids become the teachers, for it is impossible to know how best to reach them if you don’t stop to listen. “It gives them so much hope. You just don’t even realize how much,” she said.

The staff at The Farm is currently laying the groundwork to expand their program offerings, but they need your help. State budget cuts have left The Farm dependent almost entirely on community support, a blessing in disguise for the volunteers who now get to enjoy all The Farm has to offer, and help preserve it for the next generation.

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There are countless problems you encounter on a daily basis that can put a little speed bump in your day. Life hacks are those “a-ha” moments where you find the simplest solution to your daily problems, oftentimes using items immediately at your disposal. Each month this column will take you through some creative hacks to use in all different areas of your life, to make your day to day as simple as possible. This month, we focus on cooking and baking hacks for Thanksgiving.

1 the frozen butter into your flour and gently toss flour to coat. Most recipes call for two sticks of frozen butter but make sure you research before you start grating.

1. Cleaning Potatoes If you’re hosting a large family gathering for Thanksgiving and you have more than one dish that calls for potatoes, this will save you tons of time. Toss all of your potatoes into the top rack of the 2 dishwasher. Choose the rinse only cycle and skip the dish detergent. Once the cycle has run through dry them off and you’re set to go.

5. Space Saver If your kitchen is anything like mine, then you’re not working with a lot of counter space. To make up for it, you have to get creative. One simple way to do that is to whip out one of your kitchen drawers and lay your cutting board across it. Now you have an extra flat service on which to work.

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2. Wine Glass Biscuit Cutter If you don’t have a lot of supplies for preparing the Thanksgiving meal this year, there are all kinds of tricks to get you around it. If you don’t have a biscuit cutter for your fresh made biscuits, then grab a wine glass and lightly flour the rim. Using the rim, cut the dough. Voila! Perfectly shaped biscuits with no last minute trips to the store.

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3. Easy Potato Peeling This can save you hours if you have lots of dishes requiring potatoes this Thanksgiving holiday. Drop your potatoes, unpeeled, in boiling water and cook like you normally would. Prepare a large bowl of ice water and have close by. Once potatoes are finished boiling, drop them directly into the ice water bath and let sit for five seconds. Remove the potatoes and grab the potato with both hands in the center and twist. The potato peel will come right off!

4. Tasty Biscuits and Pie Crusts You can add some delicious flavor to your pies and biscuit dough by freezing some sticks of butter and grabbing a grater. Coarsely grate

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Baking can get messy and when 5 Thanksgiving rolls around, you will probably have lots of desserts going at once. It’s always a good idea to keep things as neat and clean as possible, so try this to keep things moving along smoothly.

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The 45th Annual

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There are so many wonderfully unique and creative items for sale at this year’s Davie Craft Corner. Those with immense talent come together for this annual sale of handmade crafts, photography, florals and more!

“This event features a select group of talented crafters with traditional, contemporary and unique items, all handmade by members of the Davie Craft Association,” said Beth Holcomb. “Items such as florals, baskets, weaving, vintage crafts, woodworking, jewelry, paintings, photography, sewing, needlework and Christmas items are just some of the many beautiful items available for purchase. We also have items for our furry friends, including treats and clothing.”

Members of the Davie Craft Association come from all over the Triad and surrounding areas to offer the best in local creations. “Our artisan members represent many counties such as Davie, Davidson, Forsyth, Iredell, Rowan, Stokes and Yadkin,” said Holcomb. “These members bring you the best in handcrafted items. Plan on coming out to purchase some wonderful items for yourself and for your holiday shopping. Nothing beats a quality handmade item made in the USA.” There will also be some special guests in attendance. “Dempsey Essick, well-known artist, is our featured celebrity, and his beautiful paintings and prints are on display and for purchase,” said Holcomb. “It's always a delight to see his latest hummingbird painting and to try and find the hidden ‘hummer’ in the picture. He also carries a line of unique, creative gifts featuring his talented artwork. Stop by his booth to do some shopping and get him to autograph your purchase.”

Shoppers won’t go hungry either! “Don't leave hungry as the Village Cafe can provide you with breakfast, lunch and dinner,” said Holcomb. “A bakery is also set up inside, featuring delicious goodies for purchase. Why spend time in your kitchen when you can purchase these delicious items already prepared for the holidays? It's a one-stop shopping event.”

This event also supports the local community in a big way! “Shopping local helps support the area economy, and the Davie Craft Association gives back to the community through community benefit services and a local high school scholarship,” said Holcomb. “Admission is only $1 for adults. We look forward to seeing you at this event. You'll be glad you came and shopped. The 45th Annual Davie Craft Corner will be held inside the Brock Gymnasium located on North Main Street in Mocksville.”

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American Service Canines – Helping Our Veterans

By Vonda Henderson

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hen most people think of service dogs, it’s likely they envision a dog for the blind, guiding someone across the street. That idea is changing as many service dogs are now being trained to help our veterans adjust to new life situations from the trauma of war experiences, both physical and emotional. These dogs are trained to perform a variety of services to provide help with everyday activities and to improve quality of life.

The American Service Canines organization is comprised of veterans at the foundation and board level. The Executive Director is a local resident, Melissa Reavis, who served eight years in the US Army and who is a Desert Storm veteran. Other members have served in Vietnam, Desert Storm and Somalia. They possess a clear understanding of what combat can do to a person. It is truly alarming that one veteran with post traumatic stress (PTS) commits suicide every 65 minutes, per the Veterans Health Administration. The goal of American Service Canines is to help veterans as they return home, and reduce these statistics. Some have had personal experiences with service animals and can attest to their value.

Presently, there is a shortage of trained service animals. Training is costly and takes time. It takes approximately six months to train a service dog. The total cost of temperament testing, veterinary care, food, training, transport and other expenses associated with assistance dog training and placement currently approximates $15,000.

Through American Service Canines’ training program and community donations, the cost of providing certified service/facility dogs is defrayed to accepted applicants.

Each dog is trained specifically for a veteran’s needs.

The services offered by American Service Canines are free to veterans. The organization uses an application process, which takes from one to six weeks with the primary goal of ensuring that they can meet the objective (i.e., need) of that particular veteran. Over the past ten months, twelve service dogs have been placed with veterans.

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What do these dogs do? One German shepherd, who was placed with a veteran having balance and coordination difficulties, has been trained to help get him back on his feet in the event of a fall. Some dogs carry medication, some help in stabilization, some are companion pets, and some are emotional support dogs. One dog is trained to help in getting in and out of bed, as well as retrieving blankets if they slide to the floor. They are trained based on the commands necessary to provide service to the veteran they will help.

How can we help? There are a number of opportunities. Past military service is not necessary, just a willing hand and heart.

You can: • Volunteer your services or time • Act as a foster family for a dog • Surrender your dog (perhaps already trained as a service animal) • Provide dog supplies or equipment • Act as a Hero Sponsor to a veteran • Sponsor on a corporate level, veterinarian care, or training • Sponsor a fund raising event • Send your contribution through PayPal to americanservicecanine@gmail.com Presently, personal financial gifts are not tax deductible. These are personal gifts of caring to veterans who have served and protected us and who now need our help. Remember, this is free to the veteran. For additional information, please contact Melissa Reavis at 336.945-6837. She will be pleased to discuss how you can join this worthwhile endeavor and pay it forward to our veterans.

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Don’t Keep Up with the Jone$e$

By Justin Cord Hayes

Envy over the success of people you don’t even like isn’t the only reason for you to thumb your nose at keeping up with the Joneses.

• You can teach your children that success isn’t measured by money and possessions. Sure, all parents say this to their children, but how many parents actually set an example that not only will increase their children’s confidence—regardless of where they go for their postsecondary education—but also keep them from enduring future envy and penury?

• You won’t be one paycheck away from disaster. If you’re so busy making sure you and your kids have the latest, greatest gadgets (that will be obsolete in, oh, four to seven months), then chances are you don’t often visit your savings account. It’s lonely. And it’s trying to keep you from being out on the street. Get reacquainted with it this holiday season. Bob’s big house? You know he can’t really afford that McMansion monstrosity.

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Oh, Jane’s son is headed for the University of Pennsylvania!

You’re not sure you can afford to send your kid to community college. Look at all the tinsel and wreaths adorning Bob’s new house. They’re gorgeous! And, geez, Bob’s house is so much larger than yours. Hey, Sylvia’s Christmas gift from her husband is a week in the Bahamas!

Your last “vacation” was spent in Peoria with Aunt Liz, who chain smokes even in her sleep and who stopped attending those pesky AA meetings months ago.

In short, you’re in the grip of just the latest version of “keeping up with the Joneses”: Facebook envy.

Well, to heck with that. Keeping up with the Joneses is a waste of time, whether you’re comparing yourself to your neighbor or to that guy you went to high school with, and never even really liked all that much even then, and whose “friend request” you can’t remember granting in the first place.

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• You can look forward to your own Bahamas trip someday. OK, so Sylvia’s husband got her that trip. She’s still the same person everyone avoids at the office. The Bahamas aren’t going to cure her of unpleasantness. However, if you save now, then you might be able to spend your retirement jetting to the Bahamas or roaming the country in your super-deluxe RV. Just don’t tell Aunt Liz about the RV so that you can keep the “new car” smell intact.

• You’ll have more free time right now. If you’re working just to pay the interest charges on your panoply of credit cards, then the words “time off” are likely not in your vocabulary. If you’re living frugally, then you won’t have to work incessant overtime. Let your Facebook friends work on Christmas and on New Year’s Day. You’ve got the financial security to take off a week or two.

• You can simplify your life. Long before the multitudinous and expensive distractions of 21st century life were even in the developmental stage, nineteenth-century transcendentalist Henry David Thoreau exhorted Americans to embrace “simplicity, simplicity, simplicity.” It’s good for the soul. It focuses your mind on what’s really important (family and true friends, not on material success).

• Your surplus can become someone else’s financial lifeline. All those people who’ve told you that it’s better to give than to receive? They were right! It’s not just some blather and blarney trotted out during the holidays to make most of us feel lousy about being so selfish. Altruism is the surest path to inner peace and enlightenment.

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Is Your Vehicle Prepared for Winter Weather?

By Lisa S.T. Doss

orecasting future weather conditions comes in a little trusted book titled, “The Old Farmer's Almanac.” While there is reassurance in being well informed, this winter can be can be easily handled with some forethought and preparation.

Reading the phrases “bitterly cold temperatures” and “very stormy weather” seem reminiscent of last winter. How many days did we have temperatures in the teens, and prayed over challenging roads in hopes to reach our destination without incident? While adults may find comfort from the words “delay"” and “closed,” we cannot predict what may occur on the road miles from home. Under the banner of “safety” and “peace of mind,” prepare family and work vehicles with essential items should they be needed.

Driving With Children If you are a parent who travels frequently with your children, stock a backpack with essentials just for them. A hooded sweatshirt, gloves, and a hat will serve your children well, especially if you are waiting for road-side assistance. Socks can be worn on the hands to provide extra warmth. Young children would appreciate having a flashlight to reduce that sense of anxiousness, and could play pretend games underneath a blanket for a distraction. Food will help pass the time, too. Consider items that would not be susceptible to freezing such as crackers or trail mix with extra M&Ms!

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After watching a scenario from the news or a television show, how often have you exclaimed, “What would I do if....?” Having a plan in place, especially if you often travel with children, an older family member, or animals with needs, would reduce that moment of panic and allow all passengers to remain calm. Many of our habits need to change during those severe months. This winter, consider maintaining your gas tank at half-full, wait to check cell phone messages and calls, and pay closer attention to the names of road signs while driving.

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Many people view their vehicle as a “light” extension of their home. There is a case of water in the trunk, toys strewn on the seat or floor of the back seat, cereal bars or crackers in arm's reach, as well as a handful of tools in the glove box. As a matter of fact, you already have a few of the "essentials" needed. The beauty of an emergency kit isn't based on keeping everything in one “gigantic” box; instead, make sure your car has everything it needs to survive an emergency situation. Make use of those side pockets with hidden compartments, areas underneath and behind your seat, too. Recording the items and location on an index card and protected in a Ziploc bag may offer sound reassurance when memory fails.

As a driver, you need to surround yourself with a few key items such as: • a flashlight and extra batteries • a fluorescent distress flag designed to wave from a window's exterior • a cell phone charger • a small medical kit, perhaps, placed underneath the seat • a multi-tool such as a Leatherman and a pocket knife

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While dire situations do occur, remember: • The vehicle serves as a great shelter; therefore, stay inside, especially if you have passengers. When describing your location and vehicle to 911, it will be easier for help to directly come to your aid, versus trying to locate you in a blizzard, for instance.

• For safety reasons, only run the engine for 10 minutes of an hour. Slightly open a window to prevent deadly carbon monoxide gas from circulating the interior.

• A dome light will serve as a beacon; therefore, keep it on.

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Items kept in the trunk are based on a driver's comfort level.

If you envision yourself using cat litter for traction, it would be beneficial to keep a full bag in the trunk. For those who travel the elements, it may be advantageous to learn how to apply tire chains while the weather is still pleasant.

• program into your phone the name and number of a towing company

Who knows? Good preparation may result in a semi-mild winter with no reason to complain!

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Local Heroes: One Woman’s Incredible Motivation to Share Her Secret to Recovery

By Rachel Glasser

Kristin O’Leary The program implemented at Hawley House is a very structured one, based on a therapeutic community model and the twelve step program. Kristin O’Leary asserts that this rigor is in place for a reason. “Making it easy for them is not going to help them when they get out,” she said. “The biggest thing they leave with is hope, a future, goals, and reuniting with their family.”

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n the corner of a tree lined street in the heart of Winston-Salem stands a pale yellow house with white shutters and a front porch made for rocking away sticky summer evenings. A cracked sidewalk leads visitors from the street to the front door, and as it opens, echoes of laughter from around the dinner table welcome all that enter. “There’s no place like home,” a pretty girl in a blue dress once told the world as she clicked her heels and wished for a better life. At Hawley House, the only licensed long-term substance abuse recovery center for women in Forsyth County, any resident will tell you that change takes more than wishful thinking. Director Kristin O’Leary would tell you that it takes a family – for the same honesty, open-mindedness, and willingness to grow together that characterizes those relationships, also paves the way to a successful recovery.

Unlike other treatment centers in the Winston-Salem area, Hawley House is a nine to twelve month recovery program affiliated with the YWCA that not only facilitates successful sobriety, but also provides tenants with the training they need to become productive members of the community once again. When describing the program’s levels of recovery, Kristin O’Leary emphasized that, at each stage, the physical and emotional needs of the women in the house are of primary importance. Doctor’s appointments and necessary medication are immediately addressed upon arrival. North Carolina Vocational Rehabilitation Services then assists women with outlining career goals, supplementing fees for necessary school or training. A licensed substance abuse counselor further aids the women in their emotional and physical rehabilitation, facilitating individual and group therapy sessions that participants are still expected to attend in the six month aftercare program.

Success in the long term, and large-scale life change, are the goals of the Hawley House program. Each step prepares women for the future by building resumes, training in interview etiquette, and providing education that not only creates a successful life without addiction, but also reaffirms self-esteem and self-worth.

“We want them to know that there are people in this world that love them,” said O’Leary.

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With an 87% complete sobriety rate, and the successful reunion of at least thirteen families in the last year, it is clear that Hawley House is not a typical recovery center. O’Leary is essential to this success, her own experiences equipping her fully for the task of leading these women on the path to recovery.

“The most important part of my being a director here is that I’ve experienced addiction myself,” she said tearfully, explaining that a difficult childhood had driven her to this dangerous form of self-medication.

“I’m not happy that it happened to me, but I’m glad I’m able to help others through my experience.”

Having served in the military, the medical field, and as a retail manager, O’Leary has since made it her goal at each stage in her life to support both her family and her community in any way she can. Currently doubling as the director of Hawley House and leading Prison Ministry in the Forsyth County Jail, she works to combine these programs with the goal of helping as many women as possible achieve their potential, and provide better lives for themselves and their families.

She organizes weekly dinners for inmates and house tenants, making a lasting impact on the lives of these women through inmate referrals to other agencies upon release and aftercare for house tenants. “We never let go…they always have us as a support,” she said with a smile.

Maya Angelou famously wrote, “Leaving behind nights of terror and fear / I rise / Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear / I rise…”

When confronted with the challenges life throws our way, it can be difficult to rise above them alone. Hometown heroes like Kristin O’Leary, and programs like Hawley House, stand as reminders that no one need face their burdens alone, and that family, sisterhood, and love that breaks down the walls we build is crucial to success in both recovery, and in life.

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Teenage Pregnancy Prevention is Not Just for Girls

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s is the case with most big societal issues, the factors contributing to teen pregnancy are complicated. One organization cannot solve the problem alone, which is why The Women’s Fund has made it our priority to support a variety of programs that are tackling this complex issue from different angles. Many focus on young females as their target audience, but one program stands out from the rest by teaching and mentoring young males – those young males that we hope turn out to be great fathers many, many years from now.

Thanks to a grant from The Women’s Fund, the Wise Guys sexual health and education program has expanded throughout Forsyth County schools and community-based organizations, teaching 11-17 year old males values like self-esteem, sexuality, and decision-making as it relates to responsibility and teen pregnancy prevention.

Jennifer Brown, Hanes Middle School Site Supervisor for Youth Opportunities, said that her students responded well to the program. “Our boys looked forward to Mr. Jessup’s arrival each week,” she said. “They were able to gain a better awareness of their own physical bodies and sexual health and responsibility. Many of these boys would not hear these things or have a positive male role model in their lives if it was not for this program.”

For many of the program’s clients, the impact is huge. It provides a rare opportunity for teenage boys to have open and honest conversations about real life issues in a respectful environment. While many adolescents tend to act impulsively, Wise Guys gives them an opportunity to carefully think through serious topics, learn from an older male, and lead their own discussions. By teaching healthy concepts of masculinity and manhood, as well as correcting misguided ideas on pregnancy, STIs [sexually transmitted infections], and contraception, the Wise Guys program is working to transform the lives of these young men and empower them to make better decisions. Their decisions and attitudes, both now and in the future, will have a direct impact on the women and girls The Women’s Fund serves. As we look ahead to continue our mission of creating social change in WinstonSalem, the Wise Guys program serves as a reminder that big societal issues like teen pregnancy affect all of us, and collaboration among many groups is the only way to create that change.

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The Women’s Fund of Winston-Salem is a community initiative of The Winston-Salem Foundation. It seeks to improve the lives of women and girls by building a community of female philanthropists who provide grants to local programs and initiatives that address the root causes of social issues impacting women and girls in Forsyth County.

The Women’s Fund embraces a model of inclusiveness to involve women and girls from all socio-economic backgrounds and beliefs.

The Fund offers membership to individuals and groups of women and girls. Participant scholarships are awarded to women and girls who are active in the community, but do not have the resources to join.

The Fund’s community and grassroots grants programs are intended to fund programs that focus on creating social change – changes in the knowledge, attitudes, thinking, and practices of individuals, groups of individuals, the larger community, and the systems and policies of organizations and institutions. Since 2007, The Fund has awarded over $1,000,000 in grants to projects benefitting women and girls in Forsyth County, covering areas such as health, financial planning, teen pregnancy and self-esteem.

The 9th Annual Women’s Fund Luncheon, themed “The Time Is Now. The Difference Is You,” will be held on Wednesday, November 19 from 12:00 to 1:30 at the Benton Convention Center.

The Women’s Fund will announce the 2014 grant recipients as voted on by the membership. Wanda Starke of WXII will be the emcee. Tickets for the luncheon are $25 and may be purchased on The Women’s Fund website, https://womensfundws.org, through November 3.

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REYNOLDA THURSDAYS: THE ART OF SEATING 4:30-8pm, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Gather at the museum for these casual evenings with music, refreshments, interesting programs and admission to The Art of Seating: Two Hundred Years of American Design. Cost: $5/person. reynoldahouse.org

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SEMINAR: TAKE A CHAIR! AMERICAN SEATING SINCE THE COLONIAL ERA 10am-4pm, 924 South Main Street in W-S. This day-long seminar will begin with a morning study of period southern chairs in the collection of the Museum of Early Southern Decorative Arts at Old Salem Museums and Gardens. The seminar will then reconvene with lunch at Reynolda House.

Cost: $65/person ($60 for members of Reynolda House, MESDA, Old Salem). Includes lunch. reynoldahouse.org

LIFE AFTER DEATH: THE DAY OF THE DEAD IN MEXICO 10am-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University, 1834 Wake Forest Road in W-S. The bilingual exhibit’s centerpiece is a traditional ofrenda, an altar with food and beverage offerings, flowers, sugar skulls and photos of deceased family members. The exhibit also includes a photo essay and skeleton folk art. moa.wfu.edu

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PAWS IN THE PARK 4:30-9pm, 4061 Clemmons Road in Clemmons. Join The Humane Society of Davie County for an exclusive opportunity to enjoy the magical holiday light display in Tanglewood Park with your best four-legged friend beside you! Paws in the Park will include music, food and shopping. Cost: $25/person. pawsinthepark.causevox.com

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6TH ANNUAL BETTY KOCH EPPERSON 5K WALK FOR ANEURYSM AWARENESS 2-6pm, 1425 West 1st Street in W-S. Some survivors speak of their experiences and to hear more information about the signs and treatment of brain aneurysms from neurosurgeon Dr. Don Heck. There will be a raffle at this event. To make a donation, go to www.bkewalk.com.

GALLERY CONVERSATION: LOVE & LOSS 12-1pm, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Join a conversation about love and loss with Exhibition Curator Kathleen Hutton.

Due to limited space, registration is required.

Register at http://reynolda-house-museum-of-americanart.ticketleap.com/gallery-conversation-love--loss/.

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NOVEMBER 4 HOMESCHOOL/SMALL GROUP DAY AT SCIWORKS 10am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Programs for home-educated children and other small groups. Class fee includes admission. Pre-registration required.

Visit www.sciworks.org for more information.

CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE 10am-7pm, 2575 Old Glory Road, Suite 100 in Clemmons.

Come and get in the Christmas spirit! Cupcakes and light refreshments will be served. Live music by Lisa Woods from 3-6pm. Save 20% on your entire purchase, including Christmas items. www.junedelugasinteriors.com

NOVEMBER 5 IKEBANA DEMONSTRATION 11am-12pm, 4201 Manor House Circle in Clemmons. Jack Smith, extension master gardener volunteer, will lead a demonstration on Ikebana, the art of Japanese flower arranging. Free; registration required. www.forsyth.cc/ces

GIRLS' NIGHT OUT 5 pm…until! Jeffrey Adams on Fourth, 321 West Fourth Street in W-S. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy ½ price selected wines and drink and appetizer specials. Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Receive an extra prize board ticket for every new, unwrapped toy you bring for the Clemmons Rotary Toy Drive. Sponsored by Jeffrey Adams on Fourth, Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Woman Engaged!

KIDS’ MORNING OUT 10-Noon, Kids are out of school! FREE event, LJVM Coliseum, 2825 University Parkway, WS. Come spend the morning at the home of Wake Forest Basketball complete with fun basketball activities*, crafts, photos with the Deacon and refreshments! *appropriate tennis shoes required. Please enter via the “Windsor Club” entrance. Receive an extra prize board ticket for every new, unwrapped toy you bring for the Clemmons Rotary Toy Drive

NOVEMBER 13 GALLERY TALK: THE ARCHITECT SITS 12-1pm, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Phil Archer, co-curator

of The Art of Seating: Two Hundred Years of American Design, will speak on the architect as furniture designer, referring to the work of Frank Lloyd Wright, George Nelson, Greta Grossman and Frank Gehry. reynoldahouse.org

NOVEMBER 14 BREWS & BARRELS FOR BELLE 6-10pm, 606 Millwood School Road in Greensboro. Beer.

Wine. Food. Cure CF. Let's make this a night to remember!

Enjoy samples of beer, wine and food from more than 20 local businesses as you support a worthwhile cause – the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. Cost: $40/person. www.facebook.com/bbforb

NOVEMBER 14-DECEMBER 20 (SELECT DAYS) CHRISTMAS BY CANDLELIGHT TOURS AT OLD SALEM 7-8pm, 511 South Main Street in W-S. Old Salem offers historic candlelight tour experiences that will put you in the holiday spirit. Take a guided tour through the Old Salem Historic District where the customs and traditions of Christmas in Salem will be brought to life.

Cost: $18-$25/person. www.oldsalem.org/christmas-candlelight-tours.html

NOVEMBER 15 GIFTED GALLERY’S ART FESTIVAL 9am-3pm, 4401 Providence Lane in W-S. Gifted Galleries is an art gallery that showcases and celebrates artwork of our students. This free event will not only showcase works of art, but also consist of entertainment, interactive art classes, community vendors and much more. www.topprioritycareservices.com.

DAISY DAY AT SCIWORKS: “HOORAY FOR ANIMALS” 10am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Daisy Scouts can learn about animals (and earn part of the “Three Cheers for Animals” Journey Award) through art projects, fascinating stories and live animal programs. Pre-registration required. Cost: $12 for scouts; $5 for adults. www.sciworks.org SPARROW’S NEST ONE-YEAR ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION 10am-6pm, 6253 Shallowford Road in Lewisville. We will be celebrating our anniversary with refreshments and raffle prizes. FREE event.

HEARTS UNITE ZUMBATHON 1-3pm, 501 West 5th Street in W-S. All proceeds will benefit Forsyth Family Services. We are binding together to help end domestic violence. Raffles and door prizes!

Cost: $15 in advance; $20 at door. www.facebook.com/events/1536904583190137/ ?notif_t=plan_user_joined WALK FOR WISHES 6-8pm, 4201 Manor House Circle in Clemmons. Walk for Wishes is a community 5K walk powered by the fundraising efforts of teams to supports the Make-A-Wish Central & Western North Carolina mission to grant the wishes of local children with life-threatening medical conditions.

Cost: $20/adult, $10/kid (age 6-12), FREE for kids under 6. walkforwishesnc.org STAR-GAZING AT PILOT MOUNTAIN 6-10pm, Pilot Mountain State Park. Join Forsyth Astronomical Society and SciWorks staff for a free observation at the summit parking lot of Pilot Mountain State Park. Telescopes provided. In case of bad weather, call SciWorks after 5pm on November 15th for an update. (Rain date is 11/22.) www.sciworks.org

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NOVEMBER 20 “CAROLINA LIVE! – OUR MUSICAL HISTORY” 6:30-8:30pm, SECCA, 750 Marguerite Drive in W-S. Presented by Carolina Music Ways. The lively revue features local musicians tracing NC music from Moravian brass bands through modern R&B. Cost: $15/person. www.carolinamusicways.org BETHABARA CONCERT BAND HOLIDAY CONCERT 7-9pm, 2569 Reynolda Rd in W-S. Come inside Maple Springs United Methodist Church to enjoy a holiday concert by the Bethabara Concert Band. Canned food donations welcome. FREE event. www.bethabarapark.org

NOVEMBER 28 HOLIDAY STORY TIME 5-6:30pm, 127 West Mountain Street in Kernersville. Santa and his helper elf are stopping by Kernersville to find out what little girls and boys would like for Christmas! Parents can enjoy a small staged reading in the room right next door, put on by members of Kernersville Little Theatre. FREE event. www.DiscoverKernersville.com

FIRST SUNDAYS FAMILY FIRST 2-5pm, 2250 Reynolda Road. In this workshop, participants will take inspiration from George L. K. Morris’s Wall-Painting (1936) to create an abstract masterpiece using wallpaper and acrylic paint. For children in grades 1-6 accompanied by an adult. Cost: $8/members; $10/non-members. Registration required. reynoldahouse.org

SECOND TUESDAYS (NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 30) FLIGHT SIMMERES’ WORKSHOP 7-8pm, 121 Pineview Drive in Kernersville. Just an excuse for flight simmers' to get together and share knowledge and ideas. FREE. 403.3268

FOURTH TUESDAYS NEWCOMERS & NEIGHBORS OF GREATER WINSTON-SALEM 9:45-11:30am, Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1416 Bolton Street in W-S. Monthly interest groups include book, lunch bunch, bridge, day and evening card, dinner and wine.

FREE initial meeting. $35 annual dues. If interested, contact Barbara at wsnandn@aol.com.

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WEDNESDAYS (NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 31) SELECT YOUR STUDY SERIES 6-7:30pm, 6000 Meadowbrook Mall, Suite 1 in Clemmons.

Weekly yoga class taught by Valerie Kiser in which the topic varies week to week. Topics could include things such as specific pose work or pose type, a therapeutic theme, etc.

Cost: $16/person. Visit www.SunriseYoga.net for details.

FIRST AND THIRD WEDNESDAYS CLEMMONS KIWANIS CLUB MEETING 7:30-8:30am, Holiday Inn Express, 6320 Amp Drive in Clemmons. We provide the opportunity for individuals to learn about our community and be a contributor to improving the lives of our children. 245.8406

THURSDAYS REYNOLDA THURSDAYS 4:30-8pm, 2250 Reynolda Rd. Sharon Andrews and Michael Huie bring their words to life in a staged reading of the letter correspondence between Alfred Stieglitz and Georgia O’Keeffe. Members/students free; nonmembers/$5.

Reynoldahouse.org

SATURDAYS (NOW THROUGH NOVEMBER 29)

PRESCHOOL PROGRAM AT SCIWORKS 10am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Rd in W-S. “PIPP (Parent-Involved Preschool Program) Squeaks” is for children ages 3-5 and their parent/adult caregivers. Pre-registration required. Cost: $7/members; $15/non-members (includes museum admission). Call 714.7105 to register. www.sciworks.org

TOUR DE FOOD WINSTON-SALEM 1:30-4:30pm, 321 W. Fourth Street. Explore the culinary delights, and taste the best of downtown W-S. You will enjoy everything from local frozen custard to down home BBQ while you meet the chefs, owners and artisans who create it all. Cost: $47/person. 406.6294

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SATURDAYS (NOVEMBER 29-DECEMBER 20)

NANOSCALE SCIENCE DAY AT SCIWORKS 9am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Rd in W-S. "Nanoscience," the study of structures and materials on the scale of nanometers (one-billionth of a meter) comes alive for students as they visit demonstration tables throughout SciWorks. Included with museum admission. www.sciworks.org

SATURDAYS WITH ST. NICHOLAS 10am-3pm, 924 South Main Street in W-S. Bring your family to the Old Salem Historic District, and start a new holiday tradition! Enjoy the beautiful historic neighborhood accented by holiday decorations and special programming for children and the young at heart. Cost: $7/person. www.oldsalem.org/saturdays-with-stnicholas.html

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1. How did you get involved with ekissa?

As the founder of ekissa, I can't really say it was something I planned on doing from childhood. Having twice adopted internationally, my eyes were opened to the world-wide pandemic of orphans. While the opportunity of adopting has been a blessing from God, I felt God was calling me to a much larger picture of orphan care. God planted a desire within me, to take a look at the multi-dimensional causes of “orphan-hood" and to help make change.

2. What advice would you give to younger women thinking of starting a mission or doing what you do?

Kelly Melang always gets the last word with the women of Winston-Salem!

While ekissa is a “mission,” I believe ekissa can better be characterized as a mission of "communication." Communication is an "exchange" – an exchange of activity, connections, access, words, emotions, etc. I would advise younger women to recognize the value of listening. Regardless of socio-economic level, skin color, country, race, ethnicity, religious practices, or sexual orientation, we're all human! Everyone needs to be heard and respected. We have something to learn from one-another. It is in listening that we gain respect from others, which then yields trust, acceptance and reciprocity to promote exponential progress and ultimately, sharing the gospel.

3. Do you find that being a woman makes certain parts of your charity work difficult?

The greatest obstacle I face as a woman is the same here in the US as in Uganda. That obstacle is that of being heard/taken seriously by men. In the US, women have often been presumed to act from emotional points of view, which tends to negate validity. In Africa, there is a tremendous disparity in value among the genders. Due to this, often we will have our male board members be the front-runner, or the "face" of ekissa. A great idea may come from a female; however, because of her gender, no one may have "ears to hear" the particulars. Although, if the same idea is presented by a man, others are more eager to listen.

4. What sets you apart from other women?

Rather than focusing on differences, I prefer to focus on similarities or togetherness. There is enough parading of differences, and way too many stages performing the "elevation of self." We are all uniquely different, yet equally alike. We were beautifully created to continue displaying the love and creativity of Christ.

5. Where do you see ekissa in five years?

I see ekissa more deeply involved in relationships with the indigenous people of Uganda, while they continue to build a more hopeful tomorrow.

6. If you could nominate a local woman for President, who would it be and why?

Sarah Hales s we pause in life and give thanks, The Last Word is happy to introduce Sarah Hales, founder of ekissa, an orphan care ministry leading small, short-term mission trips to Africa. ekissa, which translates to “mercy” in native Ugandan, is currently fundraising for an urgent need in helping maintain housing for 15 children. To donate or receive more information, visit www.ekissa.com

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7. How would you like to define your legacy?

Human...made lots of mistakes...played hard, worked hard, loved deep...because Christ FIRST loved me!

8. What is your guilty pleasure?

Warm chocolate chip cookies, fresh out of the oven.

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