Forsyth Woman - April 2015

April 2015

John E. Fitzgerald, Attorney at Law

Dear June | Fashion | Keeping It Real | Recipes | Redesigns by Ava | Rosey’s Review | To Your Health

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Saturday, April 25, 2015 • 10 am to 2 pm Jerry Long Family YMCA, 1150 S. Peace Haven Road, Clemmons FREE ADMISSION Please bring non-perishable or canned food donations for the Clemmons Food Pantry.

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CONTENTS April 2015

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49 John E. Fitzgerald, Attorney at Law

20 Maximize Your Wardrobe with Twin City Style

22 Fly Easy. Fly from PTI.

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40 The Sparrow’s Nest: Unique and Fanciful

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46 Shelton Vineyards: Yadkin Valley Wine Making at Its Best!

56 Vienna Village Assisted Living: Celebrating 50 Years of Superior Care

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Lasters Fine Art & Antiques

76 The Color of Your Walls: Need Inspiration?

82 Bloomday Granite & Marble: Adding Unmistakable Beauty to your Home!

88 Brookstown Inn: If you’re visiting Winston-Salem, our hospitality will feel like home.

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During this interactive class, parents learn how to encourage their family to eat more fruits and vegetables without feeling like the food police. A different parenting topic is discussed each month. Classes are taught by certified Positive Discipline parent educators from the Brenner FIT program.

5:30 to 7 pm Thursday, May 7 (Food Lion, Somerset Center Drive, Winston-Salem)

Do you wander around the supermarket wondering what is best for your family? Join Brenner Children’s Hospital dietitians for a personalized grocery store tour. Learn how to compare nutrition labels, watchFit for advertising tricks and discover costBrenner saving measures. Day care not available.

Tired of not having an answer when your family asks, “What’s for dinner?” Join a Brenner FIT dietitian to learn the ins and outs of meal planning, and walk away with fun, new ideas and a personalized meal plan for your family.

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CONTENTS April 2015

26 Keeping It Real: Keep Swinging

30 Rosey’s Review: The Crosby Pub & Restaurant

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Fashion Forward: Items Every Woman Should Have in Her Closet

54 IN EVERY ISSUE

ReDESIGNS by Ava:

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Dress Your Home… Add Color

74 Things that Make You Blush: Are You An April Fool?

78 Constructing Dreams: A Starting Point

80 To Your Health:

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April is National Donate Life Month!

96 Living Gently Every Day: Community Spirit

98 Recipes: Delectable Easter Desserts Without the Guilt

130 The Last Word: Robyn Nemeh of The Lil’ Briar Patch

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THE VIEW PHOTO ARTISTRY BY MELINDA

From this Side April 2015

April is upon us, but as I write this, it’s actually still March. And we are having rain, rain, and more rain - and guess what?

More rain is in the forecast. I thought all this rain was meant for April! Maybe Mother Nature missed the memo and it means that we’re going to have a glorious April full of sunshine! One can hope, right?

Our group recently attended a publisher’s conference. This was our second one and it’s so nice to meet with other regional publishers from around the country. Each magazine has a different focus and as one of the publisher wisely pointed out, “Each magazine in this room is reflective of the publisher’s passion.” He was right!

Forsyth Woman’s focus is based on my passion for community and local business and Forsyth Family’s focus is based on Robin’s passion for families and local business. The heart and soul of Forsyth Magazines is about celebrating the people and resources within our community!

During the course of conversation, we talked about “Advertorial.” We were the only publication in the room that published advertiser-driven stories.

I don’t think either side of the discussion is right or wrong, but in several discussions with other participants, we stood by our decision. We work hard to balance the content in our publications between advertiser-driven content and informational pieces. But we believe that the advertiser content is a hugely important part of our magazines.

First of all – it’s a great way to support our advertisers. You enjoy this magazine every month because of their investment. All of our income is based on ad sales and being able to support our advertisers this way is a huge component of our business model.

Secondly – it’s a wonderful way to personalize the locally owned businesses right here in our community! When you walk into a local store, you’re no longer seeing anonymous faces that are unknown…you’re meeting your neighbor, another person within the community who is working hard to bring something of value and importance to Forsyth County!

Third and finally – because you tell us you like it! We poll our readers every year and consistently find that YOU like these stories! 92% of you reported that you like reading about local businesses.

We stand by our commitment to bring you positive stories that are beneficial to you and to your families. Our advertiser-driven content is just a part of the success of our magazines. YOU, as our amazingly loyal readers, are a critical component. You come to our events, you tell our advertisers you read their stories, and you send us your thoughts and ideas. IT ALL MATTERS! I cannot emphasize that enough! Our 10th anniversary is coming up in September and as I reflect on the last 10 years, I know it boils down to a passion that has been widely embraced by our community. And from the bottom of my heart, I thank you for being a part of it.

Our annual reader survey is coming up in April. Please read about it on page 18 and please take the survey found at tinyurl.com/2015ReaderSurvey.

We’d love your input!

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Publisher and Editor-in-Chief Keela Johnson | Keela@ForsythMags.com

Associate Editor Brooke Eagle | Brooke@ForsythMags.com

Account Executives Tamara Bodford | Kelley Carnall | Adele Casanova Brooke Eagle | Alexis Snow | Heather Spivey Carol Vaughn Surratt

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Staff Photographers: Photo Artistry by Melinda Noah Williams Media

Project Manager Denise Heidel | Denise@ForsythMags.com

Other Team Members Kim Beane, Content Editor Carolyn Peterson, Senior Staff Writer Meghan Corbett, Senior Staff Writer

Contributing Writers Jan Allison | Kim Beane | Emily Eileen Carter | Christie Meghan E. W. Corbett | Lindsay Craven | Stephanie Dean June DeLugas | Lisa S.T. Doss | Martie Emory Denise Heidel | Vonda Henderson | Erin Jelinek Vic Khemsara | Debbie Lanier | Stacy Leighton Ava Lewandowski | Kelly Melang | Sara Migliarese Rebecca Olsen | Omar | Carolyn S. Peterson | Ellen Wakefield Elisa D. Wallace | David Willard | Susan Woodall

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Forsyth Woman reserves the right to deny any advertisement or listing that does not meet Forsyth Woman standards. Submissions are welcome but unsolicited materials are not guaranteed to be returned. Forsyth Woman assumes no responsibility for information, products, services or statements made by advertisers or editorial contributors. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher is prohibited. ©2005 by Forsyth Woman, Inc.

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Don’t be April Fooled!

The Facts and Fictions of Healthy Vision

By Vic Khemsara, MD t’s important to separate fact from fiction, especially when the topic is eyesight. Knowing how to take good care of your eyes is the first step to protecting your sight for a lifetime. Below are some myths and facts about your eyes.

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Myth 1: Reading in dim light can damage your eyes.

Fact: Reading in dim light can cause eye fatigue, but it will not hurt your eyes.

Myth 2: Watching television for too long or sitting too close can damage your eyes.

Fact: There is no evidence to suggest that watching television for too long or sitting too close can damage your eyes. Young children often sit close to the television screen because they have a greater ability to focus on objects closer to their eyes than adults do.

Due to this, children hold their reading material close as well.

However, as they grow older, these habits usually change. If not, this may be a sign of myopia (nearsightedness). To detect possible eye problems, children should have regular eye exams.

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Myth 3: Sunglasses are the best way to protect your eyes from the sun.

Fact: Don't assume that wearing dark sunglasses will keep your eyes safe. UV blocking agents are what helps block the sun's harmful rays. Clear prescription lenses with UV blocking agents can protect your eyes as well as sunglasses. While the dark shading in sunglasses helps cut down on the sun's glare, to adequately protect your eyes, always choose lenses with proper UV protection.

Myth 4: Failure to use proper glasses will hurt your eyes.

Fact: This statement does have some truth for a small number of people. Some children have eye problems that can be corrected, and it is important that they wear their glasses. While corrective glasses or contacts are needed to improve eyesight, using your eyes with or without glasses will not damage them further. To see your best, don't wear anyone else’s glasses. And most importantly, get regular eye exams, so you always have the prescription that’s right for you.

Myth 5: As long as you can see well, you don’t really need an eye exam.

Fact: This really is a myth! There is a lot more to an eye exam than just checking your prescription. During a comprehensive eye exam, your eye doctor will check your overall eye health, which can sometimes show signs of other serious health conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol. Eye exams are an important part of taking care of your overall health, so make sure to see your eye doctor every year.

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Annual Reader Survey

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ear Readers,

For the last several years, it’s my privilege to organize our annual reader survey.

We’ve asked for your feedback about our magazines, our editorial, and we’ve invited you to share your thoughts and ideas. You have always provided us with invaluable information and ideas that we have embraced. You may have even seen some of your ideas appear in our publications after the survey!

When I tell you that we read them, review them, analyze them – I’m not remotely kidding. We LOVE reading your feedback and my inner nerd LOVES to consolidate everyone’s ideas and use them to figure out how we can make things better. Because if there’s one thing I can promise you – we will NEVER be complacent and assume we know everything. Our team motto is “Work smarter, not harder,” and this includes knowing that our content and our publications have to be what YOU want them to be in order for us to continue what we do every month.

I may not know who you are or what your name is, but you are important to me and to our team. We get to do what we LOVE every month because of your support. I get to work in my pajamas because of your loyalty. There aren’t enough “thank you’s” in the world to cover how much all of this means to us!

So, if you don’t mind, please consider taking a short survey and sharing your thoughts with us. We even have some prizes lined up to help motivate you!

We’ll pick our winners at the end of the survey period and announce them on our Facebook page. The winners will be also contacted via email. You can participate at this link: tinyurl.com/2015ReaderSurvey Again, our sincere thanks!

Best regards, Denise Heidel, Project Manager, Forsyth Magazines

Take the survey! tinyurl.com/2015ReaderSurvey The survey will run from March 25th – April 15th.

We want to know about YOU! What do you like to read in our magazines?

What are your favorite columns?

Who are your favorite writers?

What is your favorite content?

Our Prizes We value your time and as a thank you for taking the time to fill out the survey, we have arranged for a few prizes! The winners will be announced on our Facebook page on Friday, April 17th and also be contacted via email.

We will have TEN winners. These ten survey participants will each win one $25 gift card. Our prizes will be for the following businesses: • Accent Prone • Farrago • Five Points Restaurant • Mainstream Boutique • Midtown Dessertery • Penny Lane • Simply Sterling • Singing Bird Salon • Southern Ties Boutique • Paparazzi Hair Salon [Winners and prizes will be randomly matched; winners may not select which gift card they want to win.]

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MAXIMIZE YOUR WARDROBE TWIN CITY STYLE

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By Carolyn S. Peterson

ow many times have you opened your closet and stood staring into an abyss of blouses, sweaters, jeans, shoes, and accessories only to conclude that the only outfit you like is the same thing you wore three days ago? And how many times have you been shopping and found the perfect piece, only to realize when you got home that it doesn’t look quite right with your other clothes, so that piece quickly takes its place in the deep recesses of your closet, never to be worn again.

Twin City Style exists to help you make your closet work for you!

“Most women have a closet full of clothes, but still feel like they have nothing to wear. I want to help women maximize their wardrobes by making smart clothing purchases and using the clothes they already have in new and fresh ways,” says Erin Jelinek, founder of Twin City Style.

A Trained Eye for Fashion After graduating from Wake Forest with a BS in Business, Erin worked for Bloomingdale’s in New York City, where she was responsible for buying Calvin Klein and DKNY merchandise for the then 23 Bloomingdale’s department stores across the country.

Since returning to North Carolina, Erin has spent 15 years working for a women’s boutique in Charlotte and Winston-Salem, traveling back to New York for buying trips and working with customers to find clothes that are just right for them. With Twin City Style, she uses that experience to help clients look and feel their best.

“The heart of Twin City Style is helping clients stay true to their personal style. It doesn’t matter if something is in style; the important thing is feeling good about yourself and making sure your clothes fit properly,” Erin said.

Closet Sweeping and Closet Shopping with a Little Fun Thrown in Along the Way! In addition to shopping with or for clients, Twin City Style’s services include closet sweeping and closet shopping. Erin explains that, “a client first completes a survey that gives me a glimpse into their style: how they dress on a regular basis and what their lifestyle is like. I then follow up with a phone conversation. That way I’m fully prepared when I start working with a client and their closet.” Closet sweeping involves evaluating a client’s closet and identifying pieces to purge and gaps which may need to be filled with some strategic purchases. Closet shopping involves creating new outfits out of a client’s existing wardrobe by pairing pieces that the client may not have considered wearing together. Erin can also help determine if alterations would make a difference in making an item more wearable.

Twin City Style can also create a LookBook for a client. “I take pictures of select pieces in a client’s closet and digitally assemble outfits,” Erin notes. “The LookBook is a digital file that the client can keep on her phone or tablet to scroll through when she gets dressed. It saves so much time in the morning and is great when packing for trips.”

Twin City Style can also shop with or for a client. “As a busy wife and mom of three, I know women are busy and don’t have time to shop, or they get overwhelmed with the thought of shopping and are not able to focus on what they need to buy, or they may just not like the process,” said Erin. Twin City Style will bring purchases to clients’ homes and will even handle the returns regardless of whether the purchases were made locally or online.

For those ladies who like to talk fashion with their friends, Twin City Style offers a “Girls’ Night In,” where you can invite friends over for an evening of all things fashion. “We can talk about current trends, body types and what’s flattering and even have guests bring clothes they aren’t sure about and I can give them advice,” Erin stated. Twin City Style’s annual membership offers closet services twice a year and makes Erin available to clients for text and email consultations about possible outfits throughout the year.

“How many times have you looked in the mirror and thought ‘does this look good?’ With the Annual Membership, you can take a picture and send it to us and I’ll let you know what I think,” Erin said.

Erin is passionate about helping women look and feel their best. And with Twin City Style, she has developed a system that can help you experience the confidence and joy that comes from truly maximizing your wardrobe.

For more information about Erin or Twin City Style, visit www.twincitystyle.net. You can also contact Erin at erin@twincitystyle.net or 336-577-0936. For tips and tricks on how to maximize your wardrobe, follow Twin City Style on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter or Pinterest.

I am guilty, like many of you, of having a closet crammed full of clothes that I rarely wear because I far too often wear only the few things that have become my go-to outfits. I have gone to the store too many times, only to have my brilliant purchases joining their forgotten peers in the deep recesses of my wardrobe. So, needless to say, I was apprehensive about having Erin Jelinek see inside my closet.

Do you have a closet full of clothes but still feel like you have nothing to wear?

Despite my trepidation, Erin was wonderful. She looked through my closet and quickly made some great observations about my own style and what colors I prefer. Pulling together pieces that I had never thought of pairing, she encouraged and inspired me to think outside the box.

After trying on several outfits that I wear regularly, and several new outfits that Erin had created, Erin and I identified items to keep and others to purge from my closet. Since I tend to buy clothes in neutral colors, Erin suggested that I shop for a few scarves to add color to tops and blouses that I already have. Erin also picked up on the fact that I like the idea of off the shoulder tops, but after I buy them, they inevitably feel uncomfortable or don’t seem to fit right, so they end up going unworn. Erin was able to give me some suggestions that will allow me to wear those tops without frustration (hint- better choice in undergarment).

I love that Erin brought her fashion expertise and then genuinely listened to my personal thoughts on style when we worked together. I now have a great plan to move forward with my wardrobe in choosing new looks from the clothes I already have, while adding a few new versatile fundamental pieces. I enjoyed the process so much that I already have Erin scheduled to come back to help with my favorite clothing season….SUMMER!

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t Piedmont Triad International Airport (PTI), the airport’s leadership wants you to have the best airport experience ever. Convenience and comfort are the goals.

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The interior renovation allows passengers to wait for their flights in open, comfortable areas equipped with new furniture and free Wi-Fi. The touch-screen kiosks in bag claim allow passengers to locate nearby restaurants and hotels, and contact them to make a reservation, all with the touch of a finger.

“We have set our sights very high,” says Kevin Baker, Executive Director at PTI. “The customer experience at this airport is a priority for us.”

Being completed this summer are renovations to the ceilings in the ticketing/arrival level of the terminal building. As part of the “refresh” project, the ceilings will be raised and better lighted to provide a more pleasant experience for visitors to the airport.

From the moment you pull off the highway into the airport, to when you board your flight, your experience at PTI should be as stress free and seamless as possible. That would include providing everything needed to make travel convenient, beginning with access. Thanks to the construction of a cloverleaf entrance, highway access to PTI is a snap. The airport is easy to reach from any direction, with wellmarked entrances, ample parking and consistent shuttle service.

Travelers can get from the highway to the terminal without breaking a sweat, while enjoying the new landscaping that lines the parkway entrance.

Once inside, the passenger terminal speaks volumes about PTI’s emphasis on passenger comfort. The airport has undergone an interior renovation that the airport developed after asking staff members to put themselves in the place of the passengers who use the airport. More improvements are currently underway.

The result: easy airline check-in, up-to-the-minute flight information, automated baggage handling, touch-screen information kiosks and charging stations located under terminal seating for charging electronic devices.

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One of the obvious changes is the incorporation of large graphic displays that tell a story about the Piedmont Triad region and the events and attractions passengers can find if they are visiting here.

“We believe the graphic displays will give our patrons some ideas about things they can do during their stay,” Baker says. “And it lets them know this region is unique.”

PTI has also adjusted to the needs of the modern traveler by providing new signage and screens for tracking flights. In addition, the ticket counters have been completely updated. If passengers have questions, they do not have to look far for answers. PTI has deployed its team of volunteer ambassadors at information stations around the airport.

“Our employees and ambassadors understand that we are a customer-centered organization and they are here to solve problems for our users,” Baker says.

“We are very proud of the way they respond to passengers.”

Easy parking, easy check-in, easy screening and comfortable terminals make PTI a different kind of airport. Whether you’re traveling for work or pleasure, flying from PTI gets your trip off to a good start.

Fly Easy, Fly from PTI.

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A Jewelry and Fashion Boutique with YOU in Mind!

By Carolyn S. Peterson

they stand the test of time in quality and in look,” said Karen Hiter, Director of Marketing for HandPicked. Part of the uniqueness of HandPicked is the attention to details and to the things that make fashion popular and trendy - all at great prices.

s a child, Melanie Mauldin, Louisiana native and founder of HandPicked, an artisan jewelry and fashion accessories boutique, was fascinated by the culture of Mexico. After spending many family vacations, piled in a station wagon, soaking up the beautiful country, Melanie’s love for Mexico grew. As time went by, Melanie’s trips to Mexico continued, with requests made by family and friends to return with jewelry and items found on her adventures.

Eventually, Melanie turned her passion for the art of Mexican silversmiths into a home-based business, evolving into larger events and in 1986, HandPicked opened its first brick and mortar store in Columbia, SC. Now under new ownership of Sonya Ingram, former General Manager of HandPicked for over 10 years, the company has continued to grow and with the newest locations in Winston-Salem and Greensboro, NC, the company has 17 beautiful stores.

HandPicked not only offers unique sterling silver jewelry, but is known for its beautiful and timeless monogrammed gifts, embroidered fashions and incorporating a little bit of ‘handpicked’ into each item they offer.

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A Little Something for Everyone in One Store “Working with artisans from around the world to design classic, cool and in-fashion accessories HandPicked specializes in handcrafted jewelry, with most items being made from sterling silver. As a company, we brought sterling silver with accents of stones to the southeast and continue to grow our lines to meet our customers’ needs and wants. One of the ‘wants’ that we recognize our customers have is they don’t want to see a piece of jewelry they are wearing on everyone else. Because of that, we have HandPicked Originals, pieces in collections that are designed and manufactured by us, exclusively. There are a limited number of pieces made and once the collection is sold through, we move onto another collection.

HandPicked Originals are very unique, stylish and well crafted, so

“Beyond our beautiful sterling silver pieces, HandPicked was one of the first companies to bring monogrammed items to the marketplace.

And while we still offer everyone’s favorite classic pieces, we’ve created items that have a more trendy feel – we like to think of them as classics with a twist. Along with monogramming, we have items like scarves, t-shirts, raincoats and handbags available for embroidering. Twice a year, in April and September, we have our big ‘Semi-Annual Monogram Sale’ where all of our monogram and embroidery collections are on sale. Customers can choose from styles they have loved and new ones we are introducing,” Karen commented. With new shipments arriving several times a week, customers can drop by week to week and see something different in every trip!

Taking Customer Service to the ‘HandPicked’ Level Beyond having great jewelry, fashion and gift items, HandPicked knows that customers come back to their stores again and again for the overall shopping experience. “We know our customers can go anywhere to shop, so we pride ourselves in making the HandPicked shopping experience second to none, whether they make a purchase or not. We want our customers to shop in an inviting environment and feel like we are here for anything from suggestions to opinions.

It’s kind of like taking a friend along shopping.”

Giving back to the community is a part of the HandPicked style too.

“With our ‘HeartPicked’program, we choose a local non-profit in the communities where our stores are located and focus our charitable efforts on that specific organization. We are so fortunate and blessed to do what we do at HandPicked and we want to make a significant impact in our ‘own backyard.’ Currently, HandPicked is looking for a potential non-profit partner in the Winston-Salem and Greensboro areas.

“We look forward to continuing to offer beautiful jewelry and fashions to our customers the HandPicked way. Signing up for our emails in our stores keeps you updated on our great specials and events.” Karen said.

HandPicked is located in the Thruway Shopping Center near Kilwin’s Ice Cream Shop in Winston-Salem, NC, (336) 893-7759 and in the Friendly Center across from PF Chang in Greensboro, NC, (336) 285-7622. For more information, visit www.behandpicked.com.

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Love. Easter. The gentle breeze of hope dances through the trees. Spring’s fresh blooms remind the soul that winter’s chill never lasts forever.

For folks like me, Easter is especially significant. It’s the day that sets our faith apart from every other religion. In fact, Easter reveals that Christianity isn’t a religion at all. It’s a living intimacy with a living Lord!

By Dr. Debbie Lanier

Contrary to what you’ve heard, belief in Jesus is not founded on some convoluted set of ideas. It certainly doesn’t hinge on an elaborate moral code.

Everything about this most holy faith is built upon one revolutionary reality…an empty tomb.

But here’s the crazy. Far too many Christians revel in the resurrection only once a year. They unconsciously live every other day as if Jesus is still buried in a grave. What the what?

The miracles of Jesus, including the resurrection, are not merely facts of antiquity. They reveal so much more than what God DID in the past. These miracles display what He wants to DO in your life right now. They emphasize what Jesus can do and will do when He truly becomes Lord in us.

In our sophisticated rationale, we make far too many assumptions about what is and what isn’t possible. We have a way of imposing our limits upon an unlimited God. Please remind your soul. We’re talking about the All-Powerful One here. He’s never encountered degrees of difficulty. Anything is possible.

Absolutely nothing is impossible.

I know, I know. Some of you are rolling your eyes thinking, “So, crazy lady, when is the last time you saw a miracle?” I’m glad you asked.

My family and I just returned from a week of ministry in the most dangerous, gang-dominated area of Costa Rica. These precious Christians live far too treacherous to trust in a God who no longer does the impossible. When sickness comes, they must depend upon Jesus for healing. Doctor visits are rarely an option. When these folks need food and shelter, they bank on the fact that God provides or they won’t make it. When they need protection for their very lives, either God comes through or they become another casualty of the gangs.

Throughout the week, I witnessed great faith demonstrated in ways that seemed otherworldly. I watched people get out of wheelchairs for the first time in their lives. (Yes! I did!)

I saw generations of gang leaders collapse on their knees before God, instantaneously forfeiting their arsenals. The very ones who terrorized that city now seek to rebuild what they broke. Miraculous!

I understand that such miracles sound too illogical for some folks to believe.

You don’t have to take my word for it. There were thousands of eyewitnesses who watched in amazement alongside me.

I ask you. What stops you from believing God greatly? Perhaps you’re hesitant to believe because a previous prayer seemed to go unanswered. I hear you.

I get it. But is that “rational?” What if a professional baseball player refused to get back in the batter’s box because he didn’t hit the ball every time he swung?

So you struck out. Guess what? I have too. But enduring faith keeps swinging!

You may not be able to control the where, when and how it happens; nevertheless, you can live with an unshakable confidence that GOD IS ABLE! When we strip Jesus of His God-ness, binding Him to our limitations, is it any wonder we’re bored with faith? We believe just enough to become easily distracted. We trust too little to be radically changed by the Power of The One who still performs miracles.

In times of doubt, we must remind our souls that we serve a God who is the GREAT I AM, not the GREAT I WAS. It’s time to let God out of the box. Stop confining Him to your finite understanding. It’s also time for you to get back in the box. Enduring faith keeps swinging. Now get to it. You’re up to bat!

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For comments or prayer, contact Dr. Lanier at www.HopeCommunityChurch.tv.

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least six to eight weeks to recover from surgery before taking off on a vacation.” Still, some people may not have the time or the desire to have surgery, but the physicians and staff at Forsyth Plastic Surgery can help in those cases, too.

Getting Yourself Ready for Summer!

By Carolyn S. Peterson

“For those who do not want to have surgery, we have the EXILIS technology, which is a series of treatments that can melt fat and tighten skin without any downtime or surgery.

It’s been a great addition to our practice and our patients like being able to go right back to work or on vacation,” stated Dr. George Lawson.

But no matter what you decide, the summer can be rough on your skin, so good skin care is extra important.

Good Skin Care is Year ‘Round “We advise all of our patients to use good skin care, not just in the summer, but all year long.

Treating the skin, especially on the face, with high quality products is one of the most important ways that you can stay looking younger and refreshed. In addition to using sunscreens all the time, we believe in treating the skin with growth factors and antioxidants,” Dr. Schneider said. With all the different SPFs in sunscreens, choosing the right one can be confusing.

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fter being cooped up all winter with the cold temperatures and bad weather, as soon as the days start to get longer and warmer, thoughts turn to vacations and time by the water or on the beach. That may also be the time when you think, “I want to look my best this summer, but I’m not sure where to start.” The physicians at Forsyth Plastic Surgery can help you get ready for those days on the beach, by the lake or on your trip, but the key is planning ahead and starting now.

From Products to Procedures…

No matter what your age, keeping your skin healthy is important especially during the summer when it is exposed to the sun. Unfortunately, there are a lot of skin care products on the market that really don’t do anything, or live up to their hype. “Some products are quite expensive and come in fancy containers, but they are really doing nothing of significance for your skin,” explains Dr. John Fagg. “At Forsyth Plastic Surgery, we think it is important to get your skin care advice from a professional. Our staff is trained to know what works and what doesn’t work.

Our doctors and aesthetician will work with each patient on a skin care regimen that is individualized and effective. Our main skin care products come from Obagi, SkinMedica and IS Clinical, which are effective and affordable; they represent what we think are some of the best products that are on the market.”

Facial peels and superficial laser procedures are a great way to get ready for the summer also. “One of our newest procedures is called the Rejuvapen. It is a device which uses tiny needles to stimulate collagen,” says Dr. Andrew Schneider. “It is not painful, and the results on both sun damaged skin and scars have been great.”

According to Dr. Schneider, Forsyth Plastic Surgery’s new PicoSure laser can also help to stimulate the skin and thus smooth and revitalize it. Then there are those who are considering surgery to make a change in their skin and appearance.

“When it comes to surgery, it is important to plan ahead. Some of the more popular procedures that we do, like breast augmentation or tummy tuck, require a little time to recover,” says Dr. Gilson Kingman. “Sometimes after surgery there is a normal recovery period in which the patient is swollen. It may take a month or two for the swelling to go down. For that reason, it’s important to plan ahead. Give yourself at

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“When it comes to sunscreens, it is very important to stick with those that are SPF 35 and above and that will not cause an allergic reaction,” notes Dr. Fagg. “Sunscreens have become better in the last few years and there are a lot of options. We feature some of the finest sunscreens and they go on smooth, last for many hours and prevent damaging UV rays from harming the skin. It is important, however, to reapply sunscreen often and on all parts of the body that will be getting sun, not just the face.”

The physicians and staff at Forsyth Plastic Surgery emphasize that taking care of your skin and body is a lifelong pursuit, not just something you do in advance of a season or holiday.

Forsyth Plastic Surgery is located at 2901 Maplewood Avenue, Winston-Salem, NC. For more information, call 336-765-8620 or visit www.forsythplasticsurgery.com.

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The Crosby Pub & Restaurant 6205 Ramada Dr. • Clemmons, NC 27012 • 336.766.9121 TheVillageInn.com • Open Monday – Saturday from 5 – 10 PM

By Denise Heidel, standing in for Rosey

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osey wasn’t available to do her Rosey’s Review column this month, so she asked me if I would consider helping her out. Dinner at a great restaurant to sample a variety of tasty dishes? Yes, please! And luck was on my side as the plan was to review The Crosby Pub & Restaurant, a hidden gem tucked away at Village Inn Event Center in Clemmons!

I walked in and was greeted by Norma who took care of us for the evening. She was sweet, personable, and immediately made me feel welcome. Soon after I arrived, I was joined by Dana Bryson, owner of Village Inn Event Center, her husband Keith, and Forsyth Woman magazine’s Keela Johnson. Keela and I were introduced to Crosby Pub & Restaurant’s chef, David Miranda.

Chef David trained at the Culinary Institute in Mexico and has traveled all over the world to share his culinary expertise. And he is a package deal!

His lovely wife, Heidi, is a member of the team and contributed to the success of our evening. There was no doubt that we were in for a treat!

The evening began with a basket of flaky, buttery croissants that were presented with two types of butter compounds: a garlic butter with Italian herbs, and butter with lemon and tarragon. The butter was soft and the perfect complement to the delicious croissants!

Next, we were served the Asiago Potatoes.

This is a dish that takes the simple potato and turns it into a sophisticated appetizer.

Red potatoes were halved and, with part of the flesh scooped out, the Asiago cheese blend melted perfectly and was browned just enough.

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As we studied the menu and planned to order, Keela mentioned that she could not have any gluten or dairy (I ate her Asiago Potato since she couldn’t…the sacrifices I make for my boss, ya know?). Chef David came out to the table to discuss her dietary restrictions, as well as the types of things she liked, and told her he was happy to create a dish especially for her!

While we were waiting on our entrees, Chef David prepared a new dish for us to try that wasn’t even on the menu yet (though Dana has assured us that it will be added as soon as possible!). He made two versions of a pork enchilada with cheese, corn tortilla, and avocado that was, in a word, incredible. And because he is so diligent about catering to the needs of each customer, he made a dairyfree version for Keela! The four of us scraped the plates clean.

At that point, I had to force myself to slow down. Keith recommended the pasta primavera with steak so when I was presented with this elegant dish, I was glad I had saved room! Penne pasta coated with creamy chipotle sauce, mozzarella cheese, and garlic-rosemary croutons, and topped with the most tender cut of steak I’ve ever eaten.

While I heartily enjoyed my pasta primavera that I split with Dana, Keela had salmon with roasted red pepper marmalade and sautéed vegetables. The presentation of the dish made it almost too pretty to eat, but we each tried a bite of her salmon and it was flavorful and perfectly prepared! When it came time for Keith to choose, he opted for wings!

They smelled amazing and the ranch dressing for dipping, made by Chef Heidi, was fantastic!

And then… there was dessert. Chef Heidi presented us with her signature molten lava cake with vanilla ice cream. Dietschmiet. Let’s call the whole thing off and grab a really big spoon. There’s always room for this amazing dessert! It was every chocolate-lover’s dream come true.

So Rosey, for your sake, I’m sorry you missed this amazing meal! But any time you need to send me to The Crosby Pub & Restaurant, I am there! And dear readers, please be sure to make plans to go soon! Ask to meet Chef David, Chef Heidi, and the other chefs that round out the team – Chef Araceli and Chef Romeo!

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By Ellen Wakefield

ocal boutique Style Encore has taken the consignment clothing experience to a fun and exciting new level by turning it on its head. Lucky for me, I got the chance to experience this trendy, designer shop with the perfect guide: the owner, Shannon Kemp. Shannon welcomed me into the store, and started off by inviting me to look around. And look around I did! Within minutes, I found myself feeling like the proverbial “kid in a candy store.” I began excitedly texting my girlfriends: Do you know about this awesome place? Have you been here before?

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The reasons for my excitement were numerous. As Shannon and I talked, she explained to me how the shop works, what sets it apart, and, of course, we had a long talk about the clothes. “We are not a consignment store,” Shannon began.

“We do things differently, and it benefits us, our customers, and the folks who sell to us.”

them, being excited for and with them, and assisting in creating outfits that make them feel great.” If you need guidance finding that special outfit, want to launch a new personal style, or are just fashion-challenged in general, personal styling is a great way to help find what you need. Any customer who is interested in personal styling is invited to complete a Personal Style Profile, and a member of the staff will work with her in choosing pieces based on her individual tastes and preferences. With so many brands and styles to choose from, not to mention such personalized service, women will find exactly what they need at Style Encore! No appointment is necessary, and walk-ins are more than welcome to take advantage of this service.

Style Encore is becoming well known for its Ladies Night Out events. They have hosted successful events to raise awareness and money for local organizations during Breast Cancer Awareness month and National Women’s Heart Health month. Smaller groups can also schedule an LNO, complete with snacks, shopping and lots of fun. Stay in touch with everything going on at Style Encore through Facebook, Instagram or their website at Style-EncoreNCTriad.com, and join their email list to receive updates and information.

Style Encore does, indeed, buy clothes from individuals looking to do some closet purging, but the difference is that sellers get paid cash on the spot for their merchandise, and don’t have to wait until after the items are sold. Style Encore buys clothes from all seasons, all the time, and no appointment is ever necessary.

They are looking items that are in excellent condition and styles from the past 1-2 years. In addition to clothing, Style Encore also buys and sells shoes, handbags, and accessories, making it the perfect place to get everything you need for a complete outfit, no matter what the occasion.

I had so much fun discovering this wonderful gem right here in the heart of Winston-Salem!

Shannon and the girls are awesome at helping women feel great, building them up, and having fun doing it. They are there to help you find something to wear no matter what the occasion – a first date, a new job, a new size, or, ahem…some grown-up clothes to replace the sea of T-shirts in your closet. (Not that I would know anything about that…)

An extra bonus is that Style Encore also offers free personal styling. Shannon explains that this is the favorite part of what she does. “I love helping women find something fabulous for whatever they need,” she says. “Women come in looking for an outfit for a date or formal event, for an interview or new job, or even for new clothes as they continue on their weight-loss journeys. I love helping

Style Encore is located at 243 S. Stratford Road, Winston-Salem. Call the store at 336.893.9146 or visit their website at Style-EncoreNCTriad.com. Style Encore is also on Facebook and Instagram.

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Things My Grandmothers Taught Me About Being a Southern Woman

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What makes a woman a WOMAN and what separates her from the opposite sex? Is it her hair, perfectly coiffed? Is it her dress, flowing and fluid? Is it her manner, soft and gentle? As a Southern woman living in a modern day society, sometimes the messages have been mixed. In a day where sex appeal is valued over character and women are stepping out of traditional roles, it’s sometimes hard to know what it truly means to be a woman.

house. I’m sure it must have, but all of my memories are of sunny days spent climbing the magnolia tree in her back yard or painting our nails bright reds and pinks on the front stoop. These are warm and sunny memories that probably have less to do with the weather and more to do with grace and faith inside her that transcended the exterior temperature.

Unlike many modern women, I’ve had the privilege of knowing many steel magnolias in my time: women who served as an example of womanhood for me, women for whom a gentle exterior camouflaged a backbone of pure steel and whose strength bore the responsibility of home and hearth through generations of war and sickness, graduations and marriages, tragedies and triumphs. Those with less experience might equate femininity with weakness, but I know better. Strength of character and determination of will aren’t impeded by high heels any more than good moral fiber can be covered up by Chantilly lace. As Lee Smith puts it, “The biggest myth about Southern women is that we are frail types—fainting on our sofas…nobody where I grew up ever acted like that. We were about as fragile as coal trucks.” Coal trucks in platform heels, perhaps.

Then there was my great grandmother, a product of Richmond’s high society. Weighing less than 100 pounds, she wore pearls and heels well into her nineties with a grace that age could not deteriorate. A tiny woman, her modest dress and a French twist belied a work ethic that would put most to shame. She was a master in the art of conversation, and her ear was always inclined to our interests and thoughts. Born in 1900, her life transpired through outhouses and horse drawn carriages to cell phones and jet planes with a World War and the Great Depression thrown in between. She knew what it meant to be a Southern lady. Never a harsh word for anyone, she understood that true good manners don’t divide classes of people, but make everyone feel comfortable and welcome.

My Mema was the epitome of Southern charm. Born and raised in Virginia, she went to work in the textile mills while my daredevil grandfather was off in WWII, shooting at enemy planes as a tail-end Charlie. And when he died, leaving her with two small sons, she went on to become a mill manager and raise them on her own. She bleached her hair blond till the day she died and was resplendent in purples and teals. She’d be the first to tell you a good Southern woman should be sweet as honey with a dash of sass thrown in for good measure. She knew, like any good Southern woman, that the stomach is the fastest way to someone’s heart and could always be counted on for good cookin’ and good advice. I don’t remember it ever raining at her

They weren’t perfect, neither one. They were different as night and day, but both had the intangible quality of spirit that allowed them to handle any circumstance with grace. The lessons they taught me were not because of admonishments, but because of who they were – the way they lived their lives. They were women who embraced their femininity, while maintaining their strength and grit. They understood that being a woman doesn’t mean being weak, but you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. And now it’s my turn to share my Southern heritage of strength and gentleness by living a life worthy of being remembered by the next generation. A challenge all women of Southern heritage share – a life worthy of the women who came before us.

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By Vonda Henderson

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parrow’s Nest is described on their Facebook page as featuring vintage items, furniture and local art. This is an understatement based on the imaginative array of items their shop contains.

We’re all ready for spring and so are Lisa, Erin and Kevin – owners of Sparrow’s Nest.

New this spring to Sparrow’s Nest is it’s garden area. Since it is unique and filled with one-of-a-kind creations, the area has to have a special name: Rooted in Rust. Lisa, Erin and Kevin invite you to join them for a Summer Garden Party to celebrate this new phase of their shop. Join them on Friday, June 12, from noon to 6:00 pm to introduce their new garden area. They plan to have music, snacks and, of course, a chance to shop.

The rain date, if needed, will be June 13 at the same times. Some of the features to catch your attention as you visit the garden are metal yard art pieces, such as wine bottle trees (Kevin’s creative mind at work), wire baskets (either stand-alone or fitted to hang on windows or doors) and more. You’ll also find statuary items – urns, birdbaths and planters. And no garden would be complete without wind chimes.

Also new to the shop is their custom basket feature. Just in time for Mother’s Day, have a special basket created just for Mom filled with special things you know she’ll use and love. Their melted bottles designed into cheese/snack trays are certainly unique and fit their goal of repurposing/reusing items. Mom will love them.

Along with the new items, custom designed jewelry remains a feature. Erin’s sterling silver pendants are delicately designed, yet durable for daily wear. Don’t you love jewelry that goes with everything?

Boots for wedding wear has become quite common as a bridal trend. Why not step it up a notch and have Erin customize your wedding boots to fit the theme of your big day? Stop by and discuss what your vision is and she will take it from there. Pricing for customization begins at $75.00.

Custom metal art and signage continue to be an important feature of the shop. Repurposed lighting such as the window-frame chandelier is sure to be a focal point in your home. All it’s lighting creations are up-to-date with electrical codes, while retaining their vintage charm.

Sparrow’s Nest will be part of the Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family Magazines’ 2015 Spring Consignment Shop Hop, scheduled for Saturday, May 9. Be sure to sign up so you can visit them during the Hop. Their hospitality made them a favorite on the last Hop! As always, the items featured in Sparrow’s Nest are one-of-a-kind. Each shopping experience is unique and different. When you find that something special that catches your eye, claim it for yourself or your home. And visit often to see what new ideas this creative family comes up with.

Sparrow’s Nest is located at 6253 Shallowford Rd., Lewisville, NC. It’s hours of operation are Wednesday – Saturday from 11 am to 5 pm.

You can contact Sparrow’s Nest on instagram: @sparrows_nest_est.2014, via Facebook at sparrowsnestnc, or leave a message with Lisa at 336.918.0177. Sparrow’s Nest is worth the visit!

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By Lindsay Craven he last two years have brought rapid growth and lots of new territory for Penny Lane Boutique.

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Since opening their doors the business has built a strong customer base with unique painted furniture and gift items, and offering classes teaching customers how to repaint their own furniture. In the last year the store has broken even more new ground introducing a clothing line, adding new paint lines to their inventory and launching an extensive online store with shipping.

Penny Lane Boutique’s clothing line features trendy items for teens, moms and business professionals.

“We have focused on the ladies and we also have a great selection of t-shirts that come from local companies, such as Simply Minded, Water’s Edge, The Home T and Bee Attitudes,” said Chris Hambrick, store owner. “We have increased our volume of items to monogram such as rain jackets, windbreakers, fleece and chambray shirts. We use Tangled Threads in NC for monograms and Crystal Scott has done excellent work.”

Penny Lane Boutique has carried the CeCe Caldwell mineral and clay paint line since opening two years ago and has recently added several new additions to the line. “It’s a ‘green’ product and is made specifically for furniture painting,” Chris said. “They have some great finishes in this line like glazes, metallic waxes, dark aging cream and aging dust; the options are endless. They have developed a clear coat finish called Endurance that is very durable and will seal your paint for those that don’t like to wax.”

The store has also introduced General Finishes Milk paint to their inventory.

“These paints adhere to multiple surfaces and come in great colors as well,” said Chris. “It’s an awesome paint to use on cabinetry. The paint application is similar to lacquer paint; it has a very smooth finish. Our customers are excited

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about it and it pairs well with our chalk paint.”

The end of Penny Lane Boutique’s second year will mark another major accomplishment for the business: the launch of its online store. The store plans to be live by the time this article reaches readers and will feature selected items such as candles, monogram pieces, clothing and paint. The site will also be set up to enable the store to ship to customers.

“We experience many folks asking us if we ship and how they could order an item that was seen on someone else, or seen on Facebook or Instagram,” Chris said.

“I certainly hope the business increases from site traffic, especially as we continue to brand ourselves and we continue to expand our reach further.”

Penny Lane also continues its monthly paint classes entitled “Paint Your Own Piece.” This class allows students to bring in a piece of their own furniture, choose their paint color and get the opportunity to learn several painting techniques. The store provides lunch and wine.

“During the class we teach you how to use many of these products to get a desired look,” Chris said.

“We also show you demonstrations of specific techniques so you can recreate the look you want.”

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Items Every Woman Should Have in Her Closet – Part 1 lients and friends always ask me what items every

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on a daily basis. However, I do feel there are some pieces that transcend age and lifestyle. So, in an effort to shed some light on this very popular question, here is a list of five must-have items for every woman’s closet. We’ll close the loop next month with four more such items. #1 Day-to-Evening Dress Every woman should have a dress that can be worn for daytime events such as work or a luncheon. But what happens when you receive an invitation for a fancier affair on an evening after you’ve worked all day and don’t have time to change? Every woman should have a dress in her wardrobe that can be worn for both situations. The dress should be simple enough so that adding some accessories can “dress it up,” and it should still have enough style that you feel special in it for an evening out. #2 Black Pants I think black pants are something most of us know we are supposed to have. It seems like something our mothers may have even told us.

However, as much as we know this, it’s surprising that many women are missing this key piece in their wardrobes. The beauty of a pair of black pants is that, much like the day-to-evening dress, the pants can be worn to work in daytime, but can also go into evening and look quite dressy when paired with the proper top.

If you pick a classic style black pant, one that is straight cut or even with a slightly wider leg, it will last for years.

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Things have gotten so casual that many women wear T-shirts on most days. I qualify this item by saying “good” because it pays to spend a little more on a nice T-shirt every once in a while. They last longer, hold their shape and just generally look nicer. The great thing about a T-shirt is that you can wear it with jeans, but it can also be a layering piece with a scarf, jacket or even a statement necklace over it. This way, your casual T-shirt can be elevated to a nicer level of attire, giving you more options. Color on this can be flexible. I usually suggest white, gray or some other type of neutral color. #4 A Nice Blouse This can be your “classic white blouse” or a blouse in a favorite color. It can have some design detail, such as French cuffs, if you prefer. Again, a blouse like this can have a more casual look when paired with jeans or layered under a sweater, cardigan or jacket; or it can be paired with black pants or a pencil skirt and finished with a statement bracelet and clutch to dress the whole look up. #5 Statement Jacket It’s nice to have a jacket in your wardrobe that goes beyond the basic blazer. Don’t get me wrong, a blazer is a great piece to have in a closet, but a statement jacket is just a little more special. It’s the kind of jacket that you throw on with your jeans or pants and you instantly look put together. A trench coat can even fit into this category because usually there are button details on a trench that add interest. The bonus for this jacket in the South is that you can wear it as an outerwear piece on days that are not very cold, and you can also wear it as a topper to complete your outfit.

So, there you have it — five essential items for every woman’s closet. Join us next month as we talk about four more essential items for your closet and more fresh ideas on how to maximize your wardrobe.

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“When we first opened Shelton Vineyards, there were only 12 other wineries and since then I believe there are probably close to 130 now,” stated Ed. The brothers worked and got the Yadkin Valley recognized as an official AVA, American Viticulture Area, which means it is recognized along with other geographic locations as having the same climate, soil, elevation and similar properties that give wine a certain characteristic. But what sets Shelton Vineyards apart from other vineyards is the beautiful, rolling land to enjoy along with your wine.

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Yadkin Valley Wine Making at Its Best!

By Carolyn S. Peterson

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ometimes the best ideas come from a longing in the heart to do something to help others and your community. Such was the case when Charlie and Ed Shelton purchased 265 acres in Surry County in 1994 and began Shelton Vineyards several years later.

The land the brothers bought was an old dairy farm, in bad shape to say the least, with rusted tractors and broken fences – not much to work with, but in Charlie’s gut he knew he had to make an offer. He did, and he won! But building a vineyard and producing world-class, award-winning wines wasn’t exactly what the Sheltons had in mind at the time. They primarily wanted to help revitalize an area and a community that had been hit hard by jobs lost to the downward turn in tobacco farming and the furniture and textile industries. Charlie and Ed Shelton believed that if you want to make your community grow and thrive, then you needed to help and support the local people. But for four years the brothers weren’t sure what to do with their land, until they did a little research and found that the beauty of the Yadkin Valley holds more than just what the eye can see. The land is rich and fertile, and perfect for growing grapes and making exceptional wines!

“We have really made the vineyard a great destination for couples, families and groups.

The land and its surroundings lend itself to staying and enjoying the views. The amount of area that we have set aside for our guests to enjoy, including several ponds, is different to what other vineyards have. If you go to California, especially in Napa Valley, the land is so expensive that they can’t afford to have the amenities like we have at Shelton Vineyards, including our restaurant, Harvest Grill,” Ed said.

Enjoying lunch on the patio, an intimate dinner or Sunday brunch goes hand in hand with strolling the beautiful grounds of Shelton Vineyards and enjoying a glass of wine. Harvest Grill Restaurant is known for its upscale dining with a bistro style atmosphere, featuring ‘sophisticated comfort food.’ The setting overlooks the grapevines and the kitchen garden, which provides the restaurant with its fresh ingredients when in season.

There’s so much about our little part of the world that makes living here a treat and a blessing, and Shelton Vineyards is one of those special places. Put it on your list to visit soon!

‘You Build It, Add Wine and They Will Come’ The Shelton brothers did a lot of research and relied on the knowledge they had from trips visiting vineyards in Europe and the Napa Valley, and found their property had a lot in common with the climate and the soils of Burgundy, France. By the summer of 1999, Shelton Vineyards had broken ground and by 2000, the first small batch of Shelton wines had been bottled. In the beginning, there was a lot of trial and error involved for the Sheltons in wine making, but the key from the beginning was to have the right people in place to not only grow the grapes, but help grow the business. “We hired people who knew the wine business and kept our focus on the bigger picture, the end result of the wines that came from Shelton Vineyards and in making changes when needed over the years,” said Ed. From early on, the Shelton brothers were pleasantly surprised by the interest in their wines.

“We never looked at each other and questioned our decision to start the vineyards, but we were surprised at how well received and liked our wines were.

People from all over the country have tasted our wines and we have had great comments,” Ed noted. It’s not only about the rave reviews for their wine that Charlie and Ed like; it’s the fact that they helped to put the Yadkin Valley on the map where making wine is concerned, and bring jobs to an area they love.

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Shelton Vineyards is located at 286 Cabernet Lane, Dobson, NC. For more information, visit www.sheltonvineyards.com or call 336-366-4724.

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John E. Fitzgerald, Attorney at Law

By Carolyn S. Peterson

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s John Fitzgerald looks back over his 22 years as a DWI and

criminal defense attorney, he can see he is right where he is supposed to be, even if he took a rather circuitous path to get

there. “There are no mistakes in life, no wrong turns. All things happen for a reason. I grew up in East Lansing, Michigan. My dad practiced the same type of law that I do and later become a judge on the State of Michigan Court of Appeals. I knew early on that I wanted to be a lawyer like my dad. I got tired of shoveling snow up North and decided to

attend college in the South. I visited Wake Forest University and immediately fell in love with the campus, with Winston-Salem, and with Southern people, food, and culture. I received my undergraduate degree from Wake Forest in 1987. I graduated magna cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa with a BA in History and a minor in French. I then attended Vanderbilt University for my first year of law school. I really missed Wake Forest and Winston-Salem, so I transferred back and finished law school at Wake Forest in 1990. But after being admitted to the North Carolina State Bar in 1990, I took some time off to ‘find myself’ and grow up a little. I didn’t practice law for three years and instead worked at various jobs that turned out to give me valuable skills I would later use as a lawyer.”

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In 1993, at age 27, John was finally ready to practice law. He considers himself very fortunate that the late Larry Eubanks, a prominent Winston-Salem criminal and DWI defense attorney and well-known racecar driver at Bowman Gray Stadium, hired him. “I was lucky to be Larry’s associate for 7 years until he retired in 2000. He taught me so much and was an excellent mentor. He also introduced me to racing at Bowman Gray, which I am still involved with today.

Larry taught me everything I needed to be a good lawyer and to run my own practice. I am extremely grateful to him and to his wife, Debbie, for all they did for me.

‘To Everything There is a Season’ Even though John always wanted to be a lawyer like his father, his life after law school would take another path for a while. “My first job after passing the bar exam had nothing to do with practicing law. I sold life and disability insurance with a company here in Winston-Salem. People thought I was absolutely crazy to do that instead of being a lawyer. But I wanted to learn what it was like to run my own business. Selling insurance taught me how to be self-employed and also how to explain complex subjects in simple terms that people could understand.

The skills I learned from that job still serve me well today.”

“My second job out of law school was working at a local non-profit substance abuse education and treatment center called Step One, where I learned about alcoholism and drug addiction, how to identify substance abuse problems, and how to get people suffering from those conditions the help they need. Many of my current clients, especially young adults, get in trouble because they have issues with alcohol and drugs, so my time at Step One provided invaluable experience for my career as a criminal and DWI defense attorney. I think what I learned at Step One sets me apart from many other lawyers in my field. My goal is not only to help those clients in court, but to get them the help they need so they will hopefully not go back into the court system.”

“My third job out of law school was a server at Bernardin’s restaurant in Winston-Salem, back when it was still on Jonestown Road. Again, most people thought I was crazy waiting tables when I could have practiced law instead. But my job at Bernardin’s taught me how to multi-task and to think quickly on my feet, which are great skills that I now use in the courtroom.”

“Each of my jobs after law school seemed like a mistake and a wrong career choice to a lot of people. Those people were wrong. The skills I learned from those jobs helped make me the successful lawyer and business owner I am today and I am grateful to have had the experience.”

Another event John credits with helping make him a better lawyer was living in Dijon, France, for a semester while he was an undergrad at Wake Forest. “I lived with a French family and no one there spoke a word of English. French was the only language spoken in our classrooms. By the time I left, I was almost fluent and was actually thinking and dreaming in French. I am still friends with the family I lived with almost 30 years ago. I recently attended the oldest daughter’s wedding in France and their son and his friend spent several weeks at my house a few years ago. I am still reasonably fluent in French and I love France and French people. The time I spent in Dijon taught me to rely on myself. I had to learn to communicate effectively in a new language and to adapt and adjust quickly to my surroundings. Trial lawyers need to be able to think quickly on their feet because situations can change so rapidly. We have to know what to do if a judge asks an unexpected question or our trial strategy doesn’t go as planned. My time in France really helped prepare me for those situations.”

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John has been practicing law on his own since January 1, 2000, and he owns the building his office is in.

“The type of law I do works well with my personality.

I choose to do only a few types of law, which means I limit my practice to defending people charged with Driving While Impaired (DWI), speeding tickets and traffic matters, felony and misdemeanor criminal cases, and driver license/DMV issues. I limit my practice to a small number of things so I can be proficient and knowledgeable in what I do. I also only accept cases in Forsyth, Davie, and Davidson Counties. I do this so I can give each client’s case the personal attention it deserves. I have seen some lawyers spread themselves too thin, going from county to county, representing clients in all types of litigation.

I believe I am more effective doing a few types of law and going to just three counties where I can form good working relationships with judges, prosecutors, law enforcement officers, and court personnel. So much of what I do is based on my rapport with court personnel and I am proud of the reputation I have established over the last 22 years. My goal is to skillfully guide my clients through the court system, to obtain the best possible outcome in court, and to make sure that their entire experience is as pleasant and non-threatening as possible.”

John also goes to great lengths to train his staff.

They are courteous, professional, thorough, and knowledgeable about the type of law John practices.

John and his staff know that people charged with criminal or traffic offenses are often embarrassed and that they may be in danger of losing their jobs, their families, their reputation, and even their freedom.

For that reason, John and his staff treat each client and their case with the utmost respect and care.

“I am very fortunate that my assistants, Lauren Fleming and Breana Hensdale, are detail-oriented and thorough. After over 22 years in practice, I have a system that I follow for each type of case; I know how to spot relevant issues and how to come up with creative strategies to try to resolve them. My staff and I recognize the cost involved in hiring an attorney and the responsibilities we have to our clients. Each case, no matter how big or small, is extremely important to that client and their family and so we handle it the way we would want it done if it were our own case.”

My job is to effectively advocate for my clients and to protect their rights. When you go into court you have a game plan, but things can change really quickly and you need to rework your strategy. It is fascinating, like a game of chess, and I never have the same day twice. Not many people can say that about their job.”

Keeping Balance in Life In addition to being a good lawyer, John is also a successful business owner. “I do many things in my office besides practicing law. I pay the bills, plan the marketing, interview and hire employees, and maintain the building. It’s my own business, so it is important that I make efficient use of my time.

Although I work hard every day, I am fortunately able to have a life outside of the office. I enjoy playing and watching tennis.

I belong to both the Westwood Club and to the Wake Forest Indoor Tennis Center. I love going to the Winston-Salem Open tennis tournament and this year, in celebration of my 50th birthday, I will also attend the final 5 days of the US Open in New York.

“I support the UNC School of the Arts dance and music programs by being a member of the Dean’s Council there.

We are lucky to have UNCSA here in Winston-Salem and I attend as many performances as I can, especially dance and jazz ensemble concerts,” John said.

John also sponsors popular local racecar driver Jason Myers and his #4 modified car at Bowman Gray Stadium. “This will be my third year in a row sponsoring Jason’s car. I have really enjoyed getting to know Jason, his family, and his loyal fans. I enjoy and look forward to going to the racetrack every Saturday.

John loves animals, and even has an official office “mascot,” a stray cat named Gabby. “Gabby just showed up at the office about a year ago, starving and pregnant. My staff, other members of our office complex, neighbors, and I all take care of her. She insists on living outside and she greets our clients when they walk up. She is one tough little cat and my clients really enjoy her. It makes my office feel more welcoming and gives it a personal touch.”

22 Years of Satisfied Clients

A Satisfying and Unique Job John considers himself lucky to do the type of work he does. “There is never a dull moment at my office. My clients are wonderful and I love working with them. What I do is extremely rewarding. A large number of my clients are high school and college age students. I relate well to clients in that age group and I enjoy working with them and their parents. I know that kids that age make mistakes and I don’t want their futures to be jeopardized by one lapse in judgment. Working with young adults and their families may be the most rewarding thing I do in my practice of law.”

John also thoroughly enjoys his time spent in the courtroom every day.

“There’s a camaraderie at the courthouse. The judges, prosecutors, law enforcement officers, defense attorneys, and court personnel are like a big family, but we are also there to do our respective jobs.

“I am so lucky to have a loyal, devoted client base,” said John.

“In some cases, I have actually represented three generations of the same family. I am honored that my clients consistently return when they need my services and many refer their friends, family, and co-workers to me. There are many lawyers in town who practice the same type of law as I do and I am honored that my clients choose to place their trust in me time and time again to help them.”

At the end of the day, John Fitzgerald sums up what he does and why he does it quite simply. “I just like making people happy. I like helping them with their problems and guiding them through the complicated justice system. People make mistakes. It’s part of being human. I want to help my clients move past difficult times in their lives and to make a better future for them,” said John. “Knowing that I can make my clients’ lives a little better or easier helps me get out of bed every morning. I wouldn’t have it any other way.”

John Fitzgerald’s office is located at 114 South Spruce St., Winston-Salem, NC. For more information, call John at 336-777-1090 or visit his website, FitzLawNC.com.

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Historic

By Meghan E.W. Corbett

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here are many beautiful buildings in this area with wonderful historical stories behind them.

Many of them are not open to the public for events, or require admission to tour. Built in 1925, the Historic Broyhill building has been through many changes in the past 90 years, but the quality and beauty of the location has remained constant.

“Originally established as an elementary and high school, students attended Clemmons Elementary and Clemmons High School until 1956 when the last class graduated,” said Director Kristin Johnson. “In 1981, the building was slated for demolition.

With a strong appreciation for history and historic preservation, Ed Broyhill heard of the plans for demolition and decided to purchase and restore the old building. Upon completion of this first round of renovations, the Broyhill family saw the opportunity for a Clemmons Village concept furniture sale location and opened the Edgar B. Furniture Plantation. Through the 20 years, the building was home to a variety of furniture-based concepts, including the Edgar B. catalog order fulfillment center, The Old Clemmons School Antique Mall and The Old Clemmons School Furniture Liquidation Center. In 2006, after the most impressive round of renovations, the Broyhill Office Suites and Conference Center concept was born.”

This newest concept would come to be the most popular and would attract area businesses – and it was a supreme location for success.

“This ‘multi-business under one roof’ community concept afforded local business owners luxury office suites and a conference center in the heart of the facility,” said Johnson. “Today, The Historic Broyhill building continues to operate as fully functional Class A Office suites for more than 30 Triad-based businesses.”

The newly renovated space exudes charm with features such as 1920s décor with beautiful chandeliers and classic furnishings. “The newly renovated conference center hosts a variety of events, from seminars to fundraisers to weddings,” said Johnson. “The story of the Historic Broyhill building is being written each day.

We don’t really have normal business hours as most of our tenants own and operate their own businesses.

Each individual office sets its own hours. And, of course, the social events and weddings can last through the night.”

What is so exciting about this space is the constantly changing atmosphere. “There really is no such thing as a ‘typical day’ in a mixed use facility,” said Johnson. “Each day brings new opportunity.

I can say that the ‘typical experience’ for our tenants and guests is this: each morning, as our guests arrive, the smell of coffee fills the air as we brew a fresh pot each morning for their arrival. Music and conversation fills the lobby area as people gather, talk and read the morning paper while relaxing on the plush furniture. Our brides and grooms are met with friendly faces and the scents of the season with seasonal candles adding to the relaxed atmosphere. Every day and every visit, our guests are met with a warm hello and a friendly face.

That is our policy.”

Kristin Johnson knows the Historic Broyhill building more than most and is the person to talk to about special events. “I love discussing ideas, opportunities and details,” said Johnson. “I’ve been fortunate to see and be part of many events at the Historic Broyhill, and I know how best to utilize our meeting and event space. A big challenge of ours is that people are not aware of what we have to offer. So many people drive by the Historic Broyhill daily and never stop in. I invite each and every reader to stop by for a visit. Our doors are open to the public! We have so many great businesses headquartered here, so many great events going on here and so many fantastic people to get to know here. The Lewisville-Clemmons Chamber of Commerce is headquartered and meets monthly here; we have fundraisers and social events; and we feature the ENSEMBLE art gallery all throughout our hallways. It’s a great, great place!”

The Historic Broyhill is perfect for an executive office suite, a business meeting location, fundraising event location or for a charming wedding reception. For more information, call Kristin Johnson at the Historic Broyhill at 336.793.1191, extension 1. The Historic Broyhill can also be found on Facebook and at www.Broyhill.net.

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Dress Your Home…Add Color “Each little flower that opens, each little bird that sings, God made their glowing colors, and made their tiny wings. All things bright and beautiful, all creatures great and small, all things wise and wonderful; the Lord God made them all.” ~ Cecil F. Alexander Paint is the easiest, quickest, and most economical way to transform a room. If you are on a budget, yet want to make a noticeable improvement to a room, pull out the paintbrush. Maybe you are thinking of putting your house on the market to sell.

The smell of a fresh coat of paint will create a “WOW, this house is new!” signal to potential buyers. Choosing a paint color or coordinating fabrics can be perplexing.

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inter has passed and the opportunity to watch color unfold in this part of North Carolina makes me happy…..beauty is all around! The many colors of the flowers and trees, even the green grass, bring the promise of new life. Ever notice all the different shades of green in the new growth in the spring? I am fascinated with all the shades. Many times when doing a decorating project, I stress about using different shades of green together but when I look at all the greens I see God use in nature, they all go together.

I love color and live with quite a lot of it in my home. One of my favorite expressions is, “Life is too short to live with beige and white.” Whether you are aware of its effect on you or not, color plays a vital role in how you live, and even how you dress. Color can influence your thinking, your feelings, and your actions. It can irritate or calm your spirits, raise your blood pressure, and even make you hungry!

First, decorate your home with the colors you and your family love. Second, remember these helpful tips: • To make a space feel cooler and peaceful, use cool colors such as blues, greens and violets.

• To make a space feel warmer, use warm colors such as reds, oranges, or yellows.

• If your family tends to overeat, try painting the kitchen and dining room blue.

Cool colors tend to diminish appetites.

• Coral, soft teal, sage, or even a monochromatic tone-on-tone color palette can make you feel calm and serene.

• To have a common thread woven room by room throughout your home, choose a favorite color and use a touch of it in every room.

• Try vibrant colors like reds and yellows in rooms where people are very social, such as dining rooms and kitchens.

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Check out www.design-seed.com Choosing the right color for your home is probably the hardest decorating decision you have to make, but the use of color is an easy and inexpensive way to bring peace and harmony to your home.

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Probably most of you remember your first experiences and experiments with color.

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CELEBRATING 50 YEARS OF SUPERIOR CARE

By Susan Woodall

rom the moment you enter Vienna Village Assisted Living, you know you are in a special place filled with warmth, compassion and caring. This is undoubtedly what Lelia Lowe and her two sisters had in mind when they decided to open a small residential home for the elderly in 1965.

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Now celebrating its 50th year of providing excellent care, Vienna Village has made gradual expansions to the building throughout the years and has now grown from the original 10 residents to accommodate 90, while keeping the feel of a close-knit community.

“By 1970, Lelia’s son and daughter-in-law, Jim and Ann Lowe, were ready to make a career change and decided to go into the senior care business,” said Cheri Malek, Director of Community Relations. “Being family owned and operated, we have a homey, family atmosphere. We like to say ‘Our family serving yours’ as we are serious about caring individually for each resident. We want each resident’s family to feel confident in the care that their loved one will receive at Vienna Village. Jim and Ann Lowe live on campus at Vienna Village and are available to consult anytime about our residents’ needs.”

“As we celebrate our 50th year, we notice how much has changed in our area, the country and the world,” said Malek. “However, the care we provide at Vienna Village has remained just as personalized and detail-oriented as it always has been. We have no entrance fees or buy-ins, and we have no extra charges.

Services commonly listed as ‘for an additional fee’ at other places are included in the monthly fee at Vienna Village, such as daily housekeeping, weekly beauty shop appointments, weekly manicures, guest meals and more.”

Owners Jim and Ann Lowe have more than 45 years of experience providing excellent care at Vienna Village and, for the last 20 years, their son-in-law, Chris Parker, has been a part of the management team. Their daughter, Heather Parker, has been involved since she was born but took a more active role as business manager ten years ago. “Vienna Village prides itself on Cheri Malek & Arlene Eddleman

maintaining a Four Star rating with the state of North Carolina (the highest rating issued to adult care homes). We have a staffing ratio that far exceeds the state regulations and industry average,” said Chris. For those looking for the ease and security a retirement home offers, but are able to manage on their own, Vienna Village also has nine independent living cottages.

Along with beautiful gardens, paved walking paths and porches for the residents and their families to enjoy, Vienna Village offers a wide variety of activities for their seniors. “I’ve really enjoyed the Bible studies, painting classes and other activities,” said new resident Virginia Steadman. “I am very comfortable here. I think if circumstances say that you can’t live at home alone, this is a really great place to be!”

Fifty years of experience and caring by the Lowe family and their dedicated staff is what makes Vienna Village such a special place.

“Our experience allows us the knowledge to take superior care of the physical and mental needs of older adults,” said Heather, who is the facility’s business manager. “My grandmother, my parents and now my husband and I have a passion for excellent care. We are diligently involved in meeting the daily needs of our residents. We acknowledge that it is hard work, but it is also very rewarding.”

These sentiments were echoed by Arlene “Cookey” Eddleman, first shift supervisor, who has been an employee of Vienna Village for 37 years. “Every day is a new experience,” said Eddleman. “The reward for working here is knowing residents are getting what they want.

We cater to every individual; and seeing him or her safe and happy is the greatest reward. We really care that they have a good day!

We also get the support from the management to be able to cater to the residents’ needs, as well as their preferences."

Congratulations, Vienna Village for 50 years of providing seniors with the excellence in care they so richly deserve! For more information about Vienna Village Assisted Living, or to arrange a tour, please call Cheri Malek at 336.945.5410 or email cmalek@viennavillage.com.

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arry and Ryan Laster weighed their options in the early part of 2011: continue to lose money taking items to auction, or start their own retail store where they had complete control over the merchandise. In late July of 2011, the doors to Laster’s Fine Art & Antiques were officially opened on Stratford Road.

Three and a half years later, thousands of furniture and art items have been sold to happy customers.

“We want you to leave with a smile on your face,” said Ryan Laster. “Our ultimate goal is to see our customers happy, even if that means we lose in the end.”

The elder Laster, Larry, has been in the antique and art business for over 40 years. He had showrooms in High Point during the Furniture Market for 30 years where he sold to interior designers and other high-end dealers from all over the world. The biggest selling items at the time were genuine leather bound books from the 1800s and earlier. Sales at furniture market began to diminish after September 11, 2001, so Larry moved the business to his home in 2003 and worked there for eight years.

Ryan, who has worked with his father off-and-on for the last decade, wants to bring a fresh, young mind deep into a business built by the older generations. Much of their current business is conducted online through eBay and their own personal website.

“Utilizing the Internet to its fullest potential is the smartest thing one can do regarding their business,” said Ryan. “If you’re not selling online, you’re missing out on thousands of dollars of lost sales. Instead of only reaching those that walk in our gallery, the Internet allows us to reach hundreds of thousands of interested individuals.”

Along with handling the online aspect of the business, Ryan has just recently started producing videos that he hopes will further educate the public regarding the art, antique, and furniture world.

“We’re starting this web series to hopefully pump some interest into the younger crowds,” said Ryan. “The majority of people we see buying from us, and are actually interested in what we do, tend to be 40 and older. Not that that’s a bad thing, but most of the younger crowd that comes in here are brought in by their parents.” The Lasters believe that the younger audience will really begin to pick up – it’s only just a matter of time.

Laster’s handles high-end estates by either placing items in their gallery, conducting estate tag sales, or selling items at auction.

They are constantly working with attorneys, executors, administrators, heirs, individuals and families performing various services based on their particular needs. Laster’s offers market value appraisals, gallery auction sales, on-site estate tag sales, commissioned consignments as well as the purchase of individual

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items or entire estate contents. They hold a professional respect toward the privacy of each client. All services and transactions will be held in complete confidence. Their goal is to achieve the highest amount for their clients.

Quality and affordability are two things the Lasters think about when picking what goes into their store. When you first walk inside their gallery, you immediately notice that this is not your typical antique store. Most items date back 100 years old or older. When they say their furniture is handmade, they don’t mean put together from out of a cardboard box. They handle solid wood furniture, typically made from mahogany, cherry, or walnut wood.

Don’t sell your items to a used furniture store – they’ll most likely pay you less than half of what your item is worth. The consignors at Laster’s receive 60% of the final sale price of the items they have consigned. Laster’s handles fine art, high-end and antique furniture, jewelry, sterling flatware, decoys, pottery, civil war items, rare books, old maps and prints, sculptures, and other accent pieces.

Laster’s Fine Art and Antiques is located at 664 South Stratford Road.

Business hours are Monday-Saturday 10am-5:30pm. For more information, visit the website at www.lastersfineart.com and don’t forget to check out their YouTube channel.

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The House in a Marriage

By Lisa S.T. Doss

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he dream of a beautiful house begins in childhood, where the tools are a sheet of paper and crayons. How many times has the same picture been drawn, emphasizing a rectangle, triangle, and a few smaller shapes? In the eyes of a child, that house with flowers and an oak tree in the foreground, and mountains and a sun brightening up the horizon seemed absolutely picture perfect. It was the dream home, the forever home, where marriage, children, and happiness would live ever after.

Bypass the college years, a good job, dating leading to marriage, and the hope of an ideal home is suddenly filled with disappointment, or complication and worry.

In today’s economy and housing market, fulfilling a dream takes time and the ability to prove you are financially trustworthy through a credit report. It is not just the newly married couple who desires to build or buy the perfect home. Every story has similarities, yet, the house in a marriage is the building block that holds the memories of people and time. While “closing day” may be “on hold,” the right home is still a dream.

Stephanie Grant had her own home when she met her husband to be. She loved the one-floor home with great high ceilings and natural light beaming from the windows above. However, her future husband had land with the potential to build a house on it.

Stephanie writes, “From the start of our marriage, home ownership has been complicated. I became a landlord, and we both lived in what we termed “temporary housing.” We both thought we’d be able to build by now, but life happened. We have managed to work while raising our three children, and saving as much money as we can over the last eight years. Since interests rates have lowered, we are starting to meet with “custom home builders” to see what options are available in our budget, and discuss financial options with several different banks. We are hopeful!”

In looking around to neighbors, work colleagues, and friends, there is a growing number of couples and families who cannot find their ideal home or are choosing to wait while opting to rent. Janice Bradley and her family moved to the Piedmont Triad five years ago. She writes, “When we moved to Winston-Salem, we decided the best option was to

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rent a house in hopes of becoming familiar with the area. Looking back, we made a smart decision. We feel secure in our jobs and our daughters are busy with school, activities, and friends. We are not rushing to find a home.

When we think about being close to work and the girl's schools, we arrive at wanting to be exactly where we are.”

This topic speaks personally to me. Eight years ago, when Kevin and I married, I became a landlord. While we planned to build a home, our focus shifted to the dream of becoming pregnant, assisted by fertility treatments. While we are still in our imperfect house nine years later, the two spare bedrooms now occupy a daughter and a son. The main hallway may have streaks of rubber cement on the carpet and red crayoned hearts on the bathroom wall, but this home has become part of our memories.

We, too, hope that we can construct our dreams instead of just wishing we had more space, a sensible floor plan, and a basement.

Talking about our dreams is important.

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Adopt a Flamingo

and Say NO to O(varian) Cancer!

By Susan Woodall ean Ebert and Charlotte Ruth met when each was being treated for ovarian cancer. Their conversations and friendship led them to the creation of No to O. Wanting to do something to help other women with the same diagnosis be able to find information and possible treatments, they, along with the support of Ebert's husband, Dick, filed for 501(c)(3) status, designed a logo and began plans for their first fundraiser.

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Now in its third year, No to O’s Flock the Yard has become a major fundraiser for the organization. If you drive by Historic Broyhill in Clemmons this month, you will find a yard full of teal flamingos that have been adopted for $20 each in support of No to O. The first year, this event raised $34,000 from individual donors and sponsorships; the following year, the total was $36,000. “These funds have provided direct support to ovarian cancer victims through grants given to local and regional organizations, to target supporting women with ovarian cancer,” said Pat Capps, Chair of No to O. Some of these include Cancer Services in Winston-Salem, Cornucopia in Durham, Wind River Retreats in Tryon, 1 in 9 in Raleigh, and sponsorships for Athena's Run in Winston-Salem and Teal Divas in Charlotte.

Although continuing its support to ovarian cancer victims, No to O has reprioritized its objective. “Charlotte Ruth died in 2013 shortly after the first Flock the Yard event,” said Capps. “In the fall of 2014, Jean and the executive committee of the Board shifted the mission toward research. The mission is now to fund collaborative research efforts focused on preventing and curing ovarian cancer; to promote awareness of ovarian cancer and its symptoms, and to provide support through local cancer services for women diagnosed with ovarian cancer.”

With the new mission in place, “in the fall of 2014, $40,000 was donated to the National Ovarian Cancer Research Fund to support a collaborative Ovarian Cancer Dream Team – announced in September and to begin work in August, 2015 – and $36,000 was

donated to the service organizations mentioned above,” said Capps.

“Long term goals are to continue the mission of No to O with priority being funding research to diagnose, more effectively treat, and ultimately cure the disease. We also want to apply for a grant to fund an administrative position and to attract younger volunteers to our Board.”

Sadly, Jean Ebert passed away in October of 2014.

Her dear friends, who are all volunteers, make up the executive committee of the Board and work passionately to see No to O flourish and grow. “Jean was a long-standing, dear friend, and I watched her enormous courage as she endured many procedures, surgeries and treatments during her six-year battle with ovarian cancer,” said Capps. “I think we all want to do whatever we can to prevent women from falling victim to this unrelenting disease.”

“I'm one of the lucky women who hasn't had to battle this cancer, and I wanted to help those who are its victims in whatever ways I could,” said Joyce Troyer, Executive Board Secretary. “Now, having lost Jean this past year, I’m more determined than ever to contribute what I can to keeping her legacy alive so that prevention and a cure for ovarian cancer can be found.”

“When Jean was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in December of 2008,” continued Dee Clark, Executive Board Treasurer, “I was heartbroken. She had been my best friend for more than 30 years. When we got over the shock, her first response was, “We have to do something, not just sit in ‘cancer pity.’’’ With the help of wonderful volunteers, we hope to become part of a worldwide effort to eradicate this terrible disease.”

The Flock the Yard celebration, silent auction, music by Martha Bassett, and more, will be held April 10, 2015 at the Historic Broyhill in Clemmons from 5-8 pm. There is no cost to attend, and everyone is welcome. Flamingos can be adopted for $20 each by going online to NotoO.org, by mailing a check to No to O, P.O. Box 25743, Winston-Salem, NC 27114-5743 or stopping by the Historic Broyhill.

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elvic floor disorders affect one out of every three women. The pelvic floor consists of the muscles, ligaments and connective tissue that help to support the uterus, vagina, bladder, rectum and bowel. Aging, childbirth, heredity, trauma, pelvic surgery and menopause contribute to the development of weaknesses in these tissues Carol Moore, MD which can lead to improper function of some or all of these organs. Common symptoms include leakage of urine or stool, voiding frequently, constipation and a feeling of having something bulging out of the vagina. These symptoms often lead to behavioral changes such as fluid avoidance, social avoidance, abstinence from sexual intimacy and a feeling of embarrassment, anxiety and fear. As the number of baby boomers entering menopause increases, so does the need for physicians specialized in the treatment of pelvic floor disorders. The very nature of these complaints is often a barrier to seeking help. Women often wonder where they might find an appropriate person for a discussion beyond the bridge table and bible study group.

The physicians at Carolina Urological Associates recognize the growing number of problems unique to the female urology patient. As a female urologist in Winston-Salem, Dr. Liz Albertson is in high demand, especially among female patients.

Dr. Albertson is highly skilled in her ability to diagnose and treat female pelvic problems. In an ongoing effort to improve patient care at Carolina Urological Associates, the decision was made to add an urogynecologist to the staff. “In doing so, we are better able to comprehensively care for women of all ages seeking attention for a wider range of disorders unique to the female population,” said Dr. Carol Moore.

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Urogynecology is a new subspecialty entitled Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery. This subspecialty board certification is offered to board certified urologists and gynecologists with appropriate postgraduate training and experience. It is a marriage of the two specialties uniquely dedicated to the female pelvic floor. Board certification allows the public to identify physicians dedicated to the treatment of female pelvic floor disorders. The American Urological Society, American Urological Society, International Urogynecology Association and the Society for Urodynamics and Female Pelvic Medicine and Urogenital Reconstruction help unite these specialists through the presentation of diagnostic and treatment strategies that demonstrate the best clinical outcomes. Extensive basic science research and clinical trials are presented in a manner which helps to form clinical practice.

“My professional experience stems from a longstanding interest in surgery and a passion for improving the quality of life for women,” said Moore. “My career started as a physical therapist. I was hired by two plastic surgeons to start a hand rehabilitation center, which still exists today.

I became their first assistant in the operating room and found my professional niche. I left them with their blessing to attend medical school at the Medical University of South Carolina in Charleston. I completed my obstetrics and gynecology residency at Wake Forest Baptist Health after two years of general surgery training in Norfolk, Virginia. I became board certified in Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery with the first class to become board certified in 2013 having dedicated my practice 10 years ago to female pelvic floor disorders. I couldn’t have been more thrilled to be considered for a position at Carolina Urological Associates.”

Carolina Urological Associates is a highly reputable center offering functional bladder testing with urodynamic studies, state of the art imaging and lab testing, posterior tibial nerve stimulation and pessaries in addition to a team of surgeons experienced in a vast complement of surgical procedures should surgery be the best solution. We are proud to offer the new services of comprehensive gynecologic care for problems associated with heavy or painful menstrual periods, ovarian cysts, postmenopausal bleeding, contraception management, management strategies for menopausal symptoms and all of the other complaints unique to women of all ages.

“Dr. Albertson and myself approach women’s issues as a team of specialists well trained in and sensitive to the complaints unique to women,” said Moore.

“Our goal is to resolve female problems in a caring and comfortable environment where sensitive issues can be freely discussed and addressed in a discreet and comfortable setting. I am proud to join the entire team at Carolina Urological Associates. It is a breath of fresh air to live again Elizabeth Albertson, MD among familiar faces and landmarks that make Winston-Salem great. The city’s growth through the years makes it an even better place to call home.”

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ore than 20 years ago, The Imagine Render Group decided to start an event called Empty Bowls. What began as an outlet for artists and art students to make a difference in their communities quickly inspired similar events across the nation that would raise millions of dollars for those in need.

“Empty Bowls is an international grass-roots effort that was founded in the early 1990s,” said Stephanie Beeman, marketing assistant for Second Harvest Food Bank of Northwest North Carolina. “At our annual Empty Bowls event for Second Harvest Food Bank, our goal is to increase awareness of hunger issues in Northwest NC. Artists create ceramic bowls and donate them to the event. The guests at the fundraiser are served a simple meal of soup and bread, then keep the bowl as a reminder of all the empty bowls in our community. The meal consists of soups donated by area restaurants, with plenty of Texas Pete® to go around. There will be a silent auction, raffle and an Empty Bowls store where people can purchase bowls, T-shirts and other items. Everyone leaves with one handmade bowl, and 100% of the funds raised at the meal go directly to providing nutritious meals to children through childhood hunger programs at Second Harvest Food Bank, including Kids Cafes, School Pantries, Summer Meal initiatives and our BackPack Program.”

The most important feature of what makes Empty Bowls a success year after year is the participation of community partners such as The Sawtooth School. “Empty Bowls is the culmination of three things we have to be proud of in Winston-Salem: Our generous people, our thriving art scene and our burgeoning foodie scene,” said Beeman. “The bowls that guests will take home are made and donated by community members and some of the most talented potters in the area – and that’s made possible in large part by the collaboration we have with The Sawtooth School. The School has been involved with the event since 2003 through Warren Moyer, the ceramics program coordinator, and each year, they supply an average of 500 bowls for the event – donating their materials, kiln space and man hours. Warren’s church is one of our partner food assistance programs. He makes many of the bowls and also organizes workshops at Sawtooth for students to make the bowls.

One student in particular, Gail Dula, makes up to 100 of the bowls singlehandedly.”

“I have made bowls each year since Warren started asking,” said Dula. “At first, I made a few each year. My husband, Steve, saw how much it meant to me, and issued a challenge: Make 100 bowls. So I did. I still get a bit emotional when I realize how far my work can go to feed the hungry. I have made 100 bowls a couple of times – I lose count as I go – but each year, I think I get pretty close. The bottom line for me is if I can do what I love doing most – work in clay – and feed a lot of hungry people at the same time, it just doesn't get any better than that!”

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years, as has the commitment received from community partners.

“Through the years, I read about similar events that were sponsored by groups of potters,” said Warren Moyer, ceramics program coordinator at The Sawtooth School for Visual Art. “I always thought it was such a great idea, so when I first heard about ‘Empty Bowls’ and was asked to participate, I was excited. I am a Christian and the Bible is very clear about our responsibility to the poor, or those who have less than we do. So, this was an opportunity to put action to my faith, use the talents I have been given, and do something I love. Hard to beat that combo!”

One in five children in the United States struggles with food insecurity. In the Triad, the numbers are even more appalling, at one in four. “At Second Harvest, we want people to know that hunger is a solvable problem,” said Beeman. “There is enough food for everyone, but it takes many members of this community with a strong commitment and a lot of creativity to come to the table and work at the realities and the logistics of sharing the abundance.

This is a generous community and an innovative one – and when we make strides in raising the awareness of hunger issues, great minds come to our table. We hope that awareness raised at events like Empty Bowls will spark the community’s engagement with the programming we already have in place, as well as inspire people to search their minds for new creative and sustainable solutions to hunger. As a community, our ultimate goal is independence and self-actualization for everyone, but in order for that to happen, the basic needs of food and shelter must be met. It’s difficult for parents to focus on job searches or learning new skills if their minds are filled with worry over where their children’s next meal is coming from.”

The Second Harvest Food Bank of Northwest North Carolina’s 14th Annual Empty Bowls presented by Texas Pete® Sauces will be held Wednesday, April 22nd from 11am-2pm at the Millennium Center in downtown Winston-Salem. Tickets are $25 in advance and $35 at the door. For more information, or to purchase advance tickets, visit www.hungernwnc.org, or call 336.784.5770.

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By Meghan E.W. Corbett aparazzi Hair Salon Owner Bobbie Skinner is an expert in more than just hair. She is a successful business owner, a strong believer in the benefits of hard work and determination, and knows that giving back to the community goes hand in hand with success.

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“Success is not an option to me; it is the only way,” said Skinner. “Once I decided to open Paparazzi, I knew that with enough determination anything was possible.

Success in life lies in the hands of the beholder. You are as successful or unsuccessful as you want to be. I believe this is a great philosophy in life.”

Skinner wants to be very successful, and so she is.

Her success in business allows her to be successful in other areas of life that are important to her, such as giving back. “Community is very important to me and the salon,” said Skinner. “Without the community support, our community wouldn't be as prosperous as it is. We want to help continue the growth and prosperity of our community in a positive way.” Skinner decided that Paparazzi Hair Salon would directly support Clemmons Middle School and West Forsyth High School. “These schools are great to work with and love the support of the community,” said Skinner. “We just did a 50/50 raffle for Clemmons Middle School, and we also styled their hair for their Valentine's dance and donated all the money to the school. It's fun to make a difference and see the smiles on their faces when leaving the salon refreshed and renewed. We also support all other local schools as well. We are a member of a group called BUS – Businesses United for Schools. We offer discounts to all teachers and school employees in order to help them out because we want them to feel beautiful and stay in our community to teach and assist in education.”

Paparazzi Hair Salon is successful because it gives back to the community that supports it, but more importantly, it is successful because its employees are the highest quality. “We are proud to be part of the Wella Professionals community of hairdressers,” said Skinner.

“We are continuously having in-salon educational classes to further our expertise and learn the latest trends in coloring and cutting techniques. Wella is the leading educator and largest used color line in the world.

It is continuously changing the color world and the development of color to be safer and more natural for its clients. At Paparazzi, we only want the best for our clients in all ways. We offer the Wella Luxeoil Keratin Conditioning treatment that would be perfect to revive the hair after these long winter months. It’s great even for fine hair because it won’t weigh it down like other

treatments, as it was formulated for fine hair. It is known as Liquid Luxury and smells delicious. We also offer the Keratin Complex smoothing treatment. Your stylists can help you choose which treatment will best suit your hair needs.”

Even with the best products available, it takes a trained stylist to know the best way to use them. Skinner’s staff is friendly, knowledgeable and professional in every way possible. “Our staff is very detailed in resolving any hair issues you may be having,” said Skinner. “Whether it is hair thinning, or you have a side that just won’t lay right. We can cut and help teach you how to style and overcome these issues. We want you to be able to duplicate our masterpieces at home, too. We want your hair beautiful every day between your visits to Paparazzi, and we work together, if needed, to give you the most expert results in the industry. We have a well-rounded group of educated stylists that welcome new clients to join our family. With summer around the corner, we can freshen up your summer look with new highlights. Whether you want to look ‘sun-kissed’ or bold and bright, we can make it happen without jeopardizing the integrity of your hair. Call for a free consultation today!”

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THINGS THAT MAKE YOU

By Omar & Christie

Are You An April Fool?

ongwriters have asked “Why Do Fools Fall in Love?” but maybe a better question to ask lovers is “Why do fools stay in love?” Falling in love seems to be much easier, and maybe much more fun, than the challenge of staying in love. Maybe that is the exact reason why some foolish lovers stay in relationships too long – they want to beat the odds and prove naysayers wrong. These stubborn types of “April Fools” are probably not as plentiful as the foolish woman who just wants to make things work, even when all the signs point to the need for change.

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So why do women stay too long in unhappy relationships?

Some reasons are obvious to everyone but the woman who needs the change. Her family and friends notice the negative comments and verbal abuse, but she doesn’t seem to mind.

He criticizes her dress, her job, and her cooking, and she appears to turn the other cheek to this criticism. She gets mistaken as a “widow” or as single because he is never seen in public with her. Whatever the reason might be, she remains in a relationship that does not bring her happiness. Is she an April Fool?

Some possible reasons for this “foolish” behavior could be financial in nature. Married or just dating, it may seem impossible to start over financially if the woman is dependent on her partner’s income to make ends meet. The expense of finding a new place to live, or just having less money to pay the bills, could be frightening enough to stay put in a relationship and hope for better days. Another possible scenario would be the discomfort of giving up luxuries that they currently enjoy, like the membership to the country club, the beach condo, or the lake house. It might be more painful to leave the “extras” than to leave the guy, no matter how unhappy she feels.

Then there is the security of having a partner, with the flaws and hang-ups that you already are familiar with, can handle, and can justify over-looking. He knows her “dents and scratches,” too, and doesn’t seem to mind them. Being with Mr. Mediocre is better than being alone on Saturday night.

Maybe Mr. Mediocre is a good guy with a few flaws. He does all of the things you want a good guy to do…almost. He cooks dinner, he helps with your kids’ homework, he does laundry – he just doesn’t turn you on. After the initial relationship honeymoon, the excitement faded away. Try as she may to be happy and content with her nice guy, the trainer at the gym is who she thinks about at night instead of her husband or lover.

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Sometimes women may feel as if they aren’t the only ones breaking up with Mr. Mediocre. Kids may find it difficult to deal with a break up and then you have a whole family of unhappy people. His sister may now be your best friend and your circle of support may include the same folks as his circle. Now you have to breakup with 20 people. How can that make you happier? Could this possibly be worth the trouble when there may not be anyone out there any better? The prospect of dating again turns her stomach sour and is scarier than the thought of a lifetime of unhappiness. Those awful first dates with the Match.com guy who looks nothing like his picture are not an enticement to change.

It may sound like there is no hope or reason to jump out of an unhappy relationship, but that is not the point. The point is that it is scary and difficult to change and much easier to stay a fool in “love” (if you can call it that). Your mother probably said that nothing worth doing is ever easy and she is right. Many of the reasons for staying too long in unhappy situations are only excuses and can be solved with determination and effort. All women deserve to be happy, whether single or in love, and should seek happiness with a sense of urgency, not a list of foolish excuses. It is never too late to examine your relationship with an honest and critical eye and to stop being his April Fool.

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The Color of Your Walls: Need Inspiration?

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By Lisa S.T. Doss

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re you feeling your walls could be improved with a fresh coat of paint?

Ideas may arrive from the cobalt blue skies, the array of greens in the trees and grasses, or the pastels coming alive through the budding of flowers. Before you drive to your favorite paint store, there may be one more thing to influence your selection. Experts of color psychology believe the colors used in your home correlate to “the emotional well-being of your family and you.” The first step is to consider the primary function of each room.

Then, you can determine if your desired color will promote that mood.

• Living Room and Foyer Entertaining friends or welcoming family over for a special event or holiday, you may aspire to a color that encourages people to feel the warmth and connection with others; therefore, consider using warm colors like reds, yellows, oranges or even earth tones such as browns or beiges.

For instance: Gold has connections to wisdom, and the ability to balance a person’s thoughts and feelings through positive energy and warmth. It is a color positioned between yellow and orange, and would, undoubtedly, encourage conversation.

The color brown corresponds with stability and helps to alleviate feelings of insecurity. While many consider brown to be a neutral color, it also offers warmth and softness to a room. It signifies a sense of belonging, loyal companionship, structure, and support – guests will feel enveloped by such a friendly and comforting color.

Magenta balances the “power of red” with the quiet energy of violet. Bright and cheerful, the color encourages physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual harmony. While uplifting the individual who enters the room, the color can help motivate you to put those desires into reality. So, if your current living room color has you spending Saturday afternoons watching movies on your couch, a magenta room will keep you moving and productive.

• Kitchen and Dining Room Even home decor magazines show a kitchen in reds, oranges, or yellows.

Understanding the colors’ connection to appetite and food, it makes perfect

sense to consider these particular colors for the kitchen.

Red is a color that makes your heart beat a little faster. It will increase your circulation and stimulate your appetite.

One note of warning. The “power of red” will promote stimulating conversation, intimacy, and entice you to eat more than usual. It is one reason why restaurants include red in their decor. Therefore, color consultants recommend you consider painting one wall of your kitchen red to promote healthy eating habits.

Orange is a joyous color that lifts the spirits and offers a feeling of optimism. It promotes creativity and self-expression. Those who may consider painting a kitchen orange may begin experimenting with new recipes and food related combinations. If you love having people around the kitchen table, orange will keep them talking and eating for a long time. Orange is also known to stimulate the appetite; therefore, you may also want to consider it for your dining room.

Yellow is a happy, bright and uplifting color. It stimulates the mind (aiding in memory, organization, and clear decision making), and contributes to the emotions. Those who seek to have a yellow kitchen may notice the color has provided a new enthusiasm to cook or bake with more frequency.

Yes, there is much more to share! We’ll leave the “activity” rooms and focus on spaces that need quieter and relaxing colors. While the focus will be on bedrooms and bathrooms, next month will reveal the value of blending warm with cool colors, and accent pieces.

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Constructing Dreams: A Starting Point

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hile he wanted a wraparound porch, a closed floor plan, a garage, and a basement, she had dreams of a dining room, the master bedroom located on the main level, wood floors, and great natural lighting throughout the house. We all have expectations of our wants and needs for that “next” home.

Perusing through hundreds of floor plans, suddenly, those desirable "wants" are often exchanged for the belief that “we can do it later, ourselves.” Whether you plan to build a home in the future or are looking to buy, are remodeling a room or need ideas to sell your current home, we are all in the process of constructing our dreams. With so many topics of a home to gradually explore inside and out and from top to bottom in the months ahead, there is comfort in knowing there is a wide variety of available and affordable options.

A New Construction Option One of the longest processes for a prospective home owner is new construction.

A “stick-built home” through a contractor often takes nine months, and sometimes longer to complete.

Whether the builder has a select number of plans he is willing to build, or you find one through a website, you have the greatest opportunity to build the perfect home.

As you choose THE plan, find a builder, apply and are approved for a construction loan, and spend more than six months personally comparative shopping for those permanent items in your home, there is one more construction option to consider. What do you know about modular homes? For the following reasons, it is a compelling choice.

• Similar to a company who has pre-bundled kits for the particular house you would like to build, modular homes design full and complete rooms that are pieced together. Imagine selecting a design and desiring a bedroom to be in a different location.

Yes, you can manipulate most floor plans to create the ideal home for your family.

• Prospective buyers may be surprised to view the list of quality building materials.

For an additional fee, upgrades such as foam insulation and a metal roof, along with other options, are available.

• Want an apron sink in lieu of stainless steel or thinking about the additional cost of ceramic tile in the bathrooms? You are able to pre-select every option to ensure your house meets your exact spending budget. In choosing a modular home, one great benefit is knowing the “bottom line” cost before starting.

• Since the house is factory built, there are no interruptions due to weather conditions, or coordinating schedules of outside professional services such as plumbers or electricians. In fact, the home takes 64 days to build and place on your property.

Driving down any street, including neighborhoods with mansions, you are unlikely to distinguish between a “stick-built” and prefabricated modular home. If you seek a short-term turn-key construction project built with your preferred wants and needs, consider looking into modular construction.

Looking Ahead Each month, we can explore new house related topics and consider the variety of possibilities with an open mind. Beyond the important home interior and exterior design choices, there are valuable and affordable environmentally friendly products and materials. If you are even slightly curious about solar panels, foam insulation, water saving appliances, bamboo flooring, or composite decking materials, to name just a few, this is a great time to start having the “green” conversation.

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To Your Health!

April is National Donate Life Month!

By Sara Migliarese

id you know that North Carolina is home to more than 4.6 million heroes?

You might be one of them. Over 4.6 million NC residents have registered their wishes as an organ donor through the DMV registry and can truly be considered a hero. This is the sixth largest registry in the country. With so many caring, selfless people living in North Carolina, you would think that the number of men, women, and children who are currently on the NC waiting list for an organ would be dwindling down to nothing. But sadly, that is not the case. Our state, as well as the nation, is still in need of more heroes to help the 3,135 patients waiting for one or more organs in NC! Nationwide, there are 125,319 patients still waiting for help. Here is a chance for everyone to be a hero and it’s easy to do!

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You can register one of two ways to be an organ, eye, or tissue donor.

The DMV can register you and denotes this decision with a little red heart on your driver license. If you have this heart on your license and are over 18 years of age, then that is legal, first-person consent in NC for organ and eye donation and your wishes will be followed. The second method, the online state registry, allows the person to register as BOTH an organ and tissue donor. This online address, DonateLifeNC.org, provides quick and easy registration and can also be accessed through a link to another wonderful website, CarolinaDonorServices.org. This website contains a wealth of information regarding donor statistics, the donor registration process, the medical reasons for organ transplantation, and compelling testimonials of children and adults who were saved by a NC hero who donated eyes, organs, or tissue so that they could live. Almost anyone can donate and at any age and even with existing medical conditions! The only thing that matters is the health of the organ, not the age of the donor. From personal experience, when my late husband passed away from pancreatic cancer, he was able to donate his cornea and provide sight to a fellow North Carolinian. He was a hero despite his illness.

North Carolina, as well as the nation, is in need of kidney donors. Over half of the patients on the NC waiting list are waiting for a kidney (1,748 patients). As the incidence of high blood pressure and diabetes continues to rise, the need for dialysis to treat kidney failure also rises. Dialysis takes a hard physical toll on the body, but a new kidney can replace the need for this type of intervention.

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minority populations where the incidence of high blood pressure and diabetes is higher than average. Nearly half of the people on the national waiting list for organs are minorities, while only 25% of the donors are minorities. Over 95% of the African-Americans on the NC waiting list are waiting for kidneys.

According to Beth Hinesley, Community Relations Coordinator for Carolina Donor Services, the biggest need in Forsyth County for organ donation is having more people register their wishes as an organ, eye, and tissue donor, followed by sharing these wishes with family members. Sharon Hirsch, Executive Director of Donate Life North Carolina, wants everyone to know that they can save up to 8 lives and enhance the lives of up to 50 others through organ donation! Even more important is the charge to eat right and exercise, as many of the conditions that lead to the need for a transplant are preventable. And be assured that the donation and organ matching process are strictly regulated and extremely safe, and is free to the donor’s family for donation.

One local civic organization that promotes organ donation registry is the Rotary Club, District 7690, which includes Forsyth County along with 14 other northwest NC counties. Their website, www.rotary7690.org, contains a link at the bottom of the home page that directs you to the DonateLifeNC.org registry window.

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Log into the DonateLifeNC.org registry and register to donate! At the end of the process there will be a dropdown box that says, “How did you hear about us?”

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Adding unmistakable beauty and style to your home!

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aking your house a home can be both a true pleasure and a labor of love. Improve your living spaces to enjoy with your family now, while keeping in mind that an updated house will be much easier to sell in the future.

It’s no secret that great kitchens and bathrooms are high on a homebuyer’s wish list. The quickest way to add value to a home is to revive and renew those important rooms. The staff at Bloomday Granite & Marble knows that one of the most dramatic ways to impact those spaces is by adding exciting new surfaces. In addition, the use of stone in other key spots like fireplaces, bars, shower walls and outdoor living spaces can make great style statements.

Bloomday has been helping home owners make well-informed decisions since 1945. Locally owned and operated, they are well-known in the community for providing superior service and quality workmanship. Director of Sales Gary Hennessey and his staff are available to provide customers all the information they need to help them design a space that fits both their design style and their lifestyle. It’s their commitment to customer satisfaction that makes customers want to tell their friends and neighbors about Bloomday.

Keeping up with the latest trends (neutral, subtle colors still reign), guiding their clients to updates that offer the best value, and staying within a client’s budget are all keys to Bloomday’s success. For example, Sales Representative Tonya Hunsinger notes that, “Fireplaces can easily keep a living space stuck in the past. A great updated fireplace in a room can create a more cohesive modern look.” She recommends using Dekton for fireplaces. It’s a newer material that is scratch resistant, scorch resistant and UV resistant so it will not fade.

Granite is still a favorite for kitchens and baths, but its versatility is making it a favorite in other living spaces as well. In addition, lustrous quartz is on the rise, since it offers a wide range of colors and patterns and is more serviceable than its natural stone cousin. Clients are finding that counter top updates are actually more affordable than ever.

With the rise in popularity of online communities such as Houzz, finding and sharing your design preferences is easier than ever. Both Gary and Tonya agree that having clients share actual photos of looks and styles they love is a huge help in guiding them to the perfect finished product. “Seeing their vision saves a great amount of time,” says Tonya. “Sometimes it can be difficult for people to verbalize their dream room. Seeing photos and ideas cuts right to the chase and gets the client that much closer to making their vision come true.”

Bloomday has won numerous awards, including the Angie’s List Super Service Award and Best of Houzz. Visit these sites and you can see what customers are saying about their experience with Bloomday! Arriving at your initial consultation (free, of course) with photos and ideas you’ve discovered online just makes beginning the process easier. Then, with expert advice from the Bloomday Granite & Marble staff, and their wealth of design expertise and creative flair, your home will take on a new, stylish ambiance to be enjoyed for years to come!

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A Novel Idea When Will My Life Not Suck: Authentic Hope for the Disillusioned

By Ramon Presson Reviewed byRebecca Olsen While the title of this book might turn you off, or perhaps express your thoughts exactly, this is one of the best devotionals I have ever read. Presson, a marriage counselor, takes an honest look at what it means to be a person of faith when our circumstances don’t seem to reflect the abundant life and joy Christ came to bring. While many Christian authors try to gloss over pain and tragedy, Presson has a refreshingly direct approach to answering those tough questions that arise when our expectations of God clash with the reality of our circumstances. With headings like, “Field of Dreams Gets Plowed,” “There’s Rat Poop in My Corndog,” and “Sour Grapes Make the Best Whine,” his unapologetic message is that contentment does not depend on circumstances, but is influenced by our perspective.

Ultimately, there is hope amidst our suffering because anyone can learn to be content.

Doctor Sleep

By Stephen King Reviewed By Vonda Henderson Genre: Fiction Age Range: All Doctor Sleep is the sequel to The Shining and it does not disappoint. If you’re a fan of Stephen King, you’re familiar with the riveting storylines he incorporates and the intense fear factor that sets his novels apart. He’s done it again in Doctor Sleep.

Within the first two chapters, Danny experiences visits from several of the guests from The Overlook Hotel and has to learn how to deal with them. These set up his transition to adulthood and explain his on-going battle with alcoholism. His resolve to help a young girl who has been targeted for her special skills that are so like his weaves a story with many characters and subplots. To be honest, I had to start over three times on this one as I could still recall my feelings while reading The Shining years ago – being so scared, but not able to put down the book. Doctor Sleep is the same experience, but so worth reading.

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The Historian, by Elizabeth Kostova Reviewed by Kim Beane If you like the idea of dipping back into the Dracula legend, with all the thrills and chills, but also a good dose of historical information as well, this book is for you. It is the story of a young girl who is searching her father’s library when she makes two eerie discoveries. The first is a book of blank pages with only a woodcut picture of a dragon in the middle, and the second is a set of letters that begin, “My dear and unfortunate successor…” Upon questioning her father, Paul, he tells his tale of finding the odd book when he was a graduate student. But shortly after Paul asked his mentor, Bartolomew Rossi, about the book, Professor Rossi vanished, leaving only a pool of blood in his office. As Paul and a fellow student named Helen (who is Professor Rossi’s daughter and the narrator’s long lost mother) set out to find him, they become entangled in the mystery of Dracula or, more accurately, Vlad the Impaler.

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Country Music Fans

By Vonda Henderson

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ountry music fans are a loyal bunch, no question about it.

Statistically, according to the Country Music Association (CMA), country music fans make up about 42% of the American population (or 98 million people). That’s a lot of people! Among adults from 18 to 54 years, country music ranks number one. Nationally, there are over 2,000 country music radio stations.

Among the top artists in country music today, Toby Keith continues to have a remarkable career with a vast, international fan base. In our area, Ruth is one of his biggest fans. Over the past ten years she has seen around 40 of his concerts (sometimes four or five a year). She has traveled as far as Chicago to attend a show.

Attending the one he has scheduled in Australia is not likely, but I think Ruth would be ready to go if she had a chance.

As a member of Toby’s fan club, Ruth views his concerts as a chance to catch up with friends she’s made over the years who are also avid attenders. She describes the shows as mini-reunions for those living in that particular region. As she stated, “If you’ve already driven hundreds of miles to see the show, you’ll drive a hundred more to see a friend.”

Ruth has been a fan ever since she heard Toby’s hit song Should’ve Been a Cowboy, written by him, in 1993. The song was the number one country song of the ‘90s.

This June, Toby will be inducted into the Songwriter’s Hall of Fame. According to Ruth, he has always considered himself a songwriter, first and foremost.

Ruth met Toby in person once at a fan meet-and-greet. Beyond getting to meet

him in person, however, the other event that she considers special is the Fan Club Party of 2013 in Indianapolis, Indiana.

This was a celebration of his twenty years in country music and after the evening’s concert, he joined the party and played whatever his fans wanted to hear for a special two-hour acoustic session. After a full concert, to come to a party and play just for them speaks to the value and special place his fans hold.

Toby Keith’s love and pride for America and its military is well documented.

On a regular basis, special tickets and seating are available to military personnel, especially if the concert is near a base.

He typically acknowledges military service, past and current, during his concerts.

Toby’s standard encore songs are American Soldier and Courtesy of the Red, White and Blue. A segment from one of his shows has been part of a USO support appeal.

A less well-known organization that is supported by Toby is the Toby Keith Foundation, a children’s cancer treatment center, built as part of the Oklahoma University medical center. The daughter of one of his band members developed cancer, and Ally’s House, part of the treatment center, is in her honor. It’s a place for families to stay while their children are being cared for at the center. If interested, you can find more information on these organizations at tobykeithfoundation.org and allyshouse.net.

Yes, country music fans are loyal. It’s also special to know that the country music artists are loyal to their fans and give back in ways that benefit others.

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There’s no doubt that romance is alive and well here, as you can lose yourself in tales of the past, savor superb cuisine and stroll through the picturesque courtyard. With specially designed packages, the inn is a perfect escape to a simpler, more serene time, yet ultra-convenient to lively downtown Winston-Salem.

For the corporate traveler with discerning taste, the Brookstown Inn is also a gem as the impeccable staff also caters to professionals visiting the area on business but who also want to experience the city’s wealth of artistic and culinary delights.

All the while, everything about the lovely Brookstown Inn is a reflection of the four elements that best define the city of Winston-Salem itself: history, art, culture and culinary excellence. Dating back to 1837, this noted landmark stands at the very location where the industrial revolution began in the city. A “living” art exhibit displayed in the lobby guides guests through its rich history as they marvel at the inn’s detailed structure and design. The courtyard blooms in spring to create the perfect setting for weddings or other occasions and, for corporate events, the newly renovated, 70-guest room inn features a grand ballroom that can accommodate up to 150 guests.

In addition to recently updated rooms and a hot breakfast buffet, guests can relax with room service provided by Willow’s Bistro or indulge in Italian cuisine at DiLisio’s right next door. Starting on Wednesday evenings in mid-April, live music and wine and cheese will be available in the courtyard from 5-7pm. Fine dining on 4th Street and intriguing stops in the Trade Street arts district are also within walking distance.

Brookstown has created packages for a variety of tastes. The Garden Getaway Package includes walking a few short blocks to the Old Salem Museum & Gardens and strolling through the Single Brothers and Miksch heirloom gardens (think: heirloom vegetables soon to be turned into mouth-watering cuisine by Chef Jared at the nearby Tavern in Old Salem.) Then, just a short drive away, are the magnificent Reynolda Gardens, a masterpiece of blushing roses, beautiful succulents and a true haven for bird watchers. Complete your garden getaway with time well spent at the Paul J. Ciener Botanical Gardens and return to the inn for your evening wine and cheese and, of course, your nightly milk and cookies. Later, take home a complimentary jar of locally handmade Beta Verde jam.The River Run Package is a fabulous getaway to Winston-Salem where you’ll enjoy red carpet treatment at the RiverRun Film Festival and explore groundbreaking films as well as meet filmmakers and film industry experts.

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While encompassing the entire United States may not seem exactly local, it is Note Worthy’s goal to stock as many specialty gift items as possible that are made right here in the USA. It’s an even bigger plus if these distinctive gifts are made in the Carolinas and the knowledgeable, energetic Note Worthy team is proud to showcase several popular products that are truly local.

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Aiding the Environment: Composting

By Lisa S.T. Doss

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uch can be learned from the statement, “You could be growing instead of throwing.” Have you ever thought about what is discarded in your kitchen trash? Envelopes and grocery store fliers; potato, carrot, banana, and celery peels, stale bread and rice; egg shells and coffee grounds. Every single item mentioned is decomposable. Why not allow the “organic materials” to return to the soil? You may be thinking of reasons why you cannot compost; perhaps, you believe your yard is too small or you don’t have a garden? While the mineral enriched “black gold” would influence the growth and health of fruits and vegetables, you would never need to buy another bag of soil to add to flower pots, or boost the soil around your shrubs or flower garden again. The most important fact is that you would be aiding the environment. Composting doesn’t require the purchase of a “tumbler” system – all you really need is a location with direct sunlight and your household’s promise to participate.

The “Container” While some people compost without the aid of a “bin,” a container will help your compost pile retain heat and moisture.

You can use inexpensive materials like old pallets, scrap lumber, chicken wire, or concrete blocks to create a simple enclosure.

Otherwise, you can buy a ready-made system online, or at any type of lawn and garden store.

Placement Is Important Now that you have decided to go forth with composting, finding a well-chosen site relatively close to the house may be the hardest part.

A few points to consider: • How far are you willing to walk to “dump” a bucket of kitchen scraps?

• If placed next to the garden, think how easy it will be to collect the harvest and toss the excess into the composter. There will no longer be a need to worry about bringing bugs into the house, or discarding bulky organic waste.

• The composter can receive some shade; otherwise, you will need to ensure the contents are somewhat moist during the hotter days of summer. On the flip side, if there is too much moisture, the decomposition process will result in a putrid odor. There are easy fixes if this occurs, though, such as turning the pile or adding “good browns” like dried leaves or shredded newspaper. A good compost should always have a “sweet” smell.

What Else Is Compostable?

The list of compostable items is truly grand. Beyond the rinds, seed pits, and peels, you also can compost the following items: wood chips paper towels outdated seeds shredded newspaper pencil shavings stale bread flower petals cardboard

matches Post-it notes lint from the dryer pet and human hair wood ash sawdust Kleenex tissues old spices vacuum bag contents leaves grass clippings houseplant trimmings nut shells receipts cereal boxes

This list, of course, continues...

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The Kitchen Bucket In slicing vegetables or cutting fruit, it will be so easy to reach underneath the sink and grab the “food scrap bucket.” While size is a personal choice, the bucket should be lidded, washable, and include a handle for convenience. Remember, you will want to dump the bucket frequently, and sometimes daily depending upon the amount of waste that is generated. Worried about gnats or fruit flies? By placing a wet paper towel on top of the scraps, you can prevent them, and you are eliminating a slight odor, too.

Elementary aged children may enjoy decorating the bucket with pictures or writing names of items that can or should not be composted. In no time, everyone in the family will find composting a natural process. Even a child as young as three will participate with great enthusiasm, shouting for everyone to hear “I put a banana peel in the bucket!”

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Celebrating Carrots.. . and Macaroni

By Vonda Henderson

April 4 is International Carrot Day. Let the fanfare begin. . . . ho-hum.

Nothing.

Why is it that babies seem to love carrots all mushed up, but not once they get a few years older? You can always tell if a baby loves carrots because their hands take on an orange tint.

First of all, who decides on these celebrations and picks the day?

I don’t really think there’s a mad rush to go out and celebrate the carrot anywhere.

What does macaroni have to do with carrots? Nothing, but it does counterbalance the “I’m not going to eat those carrots, I’ll sit here ‘til they root to the table but they’re not getting past my lips,” stance that many kids take.

There are a few rather obscure facts I discovered during my research on carrots (not involving recipes) that may be of interest, however.

• During World War II, the British started a rumor that their pilots were able to shoot down German planes more accurately because they were eating huge amounts of carrots to improve their eyesight. According to research, the British did not want the knowledge that they had achieved advancements in their radar systems to become known to the enemy. Therefore, they launched what has now become an urban legend. The British themselves bought into the story to the point that backyard gardens cropped up (pun intended) all over.

• The other fact is even further back in history – BC, to be exact.

Evidently, there are properties in the seeds and leaves of carrots that were used to counteract poisons used in that time period.

Carrots as poison prevention? Who knew?

For those who really like carrots, my apologies – I’m not a big fan. I do like them in carrot cake and have been known to justify eating carrot cake because there’s a vegetable in it. Admit it, you’ve done the same thing, haven’t you? And, they make a crunchy addition to a salad – those little shreds that someone probably sacrificed their knuckles to create.

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So, let’s talk macaroni – a kid’s favorite meal it seems. That blue box of macaroni has magical powers because it is actually something that kids ask for and will eat as much as you’ll let them have. It’s a side dish that never goes wrong. You can have a full, five-course meal you spent hours preparing and your child will ignore everything else for the bowl of macaroni. They claim the entire bowl for themselves. The shape of the noodles is also important. Are they regular noodles, spirals, animal shapes, etc.?

No change in flavor. It just proves that presentation does matter to kids, right?

It’s ironic that the cheesy powder is the same color as carrots.

Maybe to add some nutritional value, we should grind up a carrot or two and mix it into the cheese. Wonder if anyone would notice?

Never mind, I’ll just celebrate carrot day with a slice of carrot cake!

Here’s to the carrot!

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Community Spirit

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e live in a world of violence, self-indulgence and entitled behaviors. Our daily news can be

both overwhelming and depressing. But how

different could things be if we all embraced a few positive changes? What are the endless possibilities that could come about if we found ways to support, encourage and empower one another? Each month, we’ll explore a new way to embrace a way to live more gently, and hopefully, create a ripple effect in the lives around us.

April: Community Spirit Month Wise Words: “While the spirit of neighborliness was important on the frontier because neighbors were so few, it is even more important now because our neighbors are so many.” ~Lady Bird Johnson

The Forsyth Magazines team recently attended our second Publishers Conference. As we met with other organizations around the country, who similarly provide publications in their respective cities, the subject of community was a huge part of our discussion. We collectively agreed that community was the foundation for all of our respective publications!

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Being a part of a community is much more than just having an address within certain lines on a map.

“Community Spirit” is a call to action that includes participation and volunteering. Wikipedia defines the term as “a group of people working together to help improve the community they live in.” As April is Community Spirit month, it’s a great time to look for opportunities to be involved! Whether you’re looking for like-minded people who are interested in sports…

Or, you love reading and want to be a part of a local book club… Or, you feel passionately about a certain cause, and want to volunteer your time to an organization that shares your view… Community spirit, at its core, is a verb and requires action – involvement and participation.

The amazing thing about being involved in a community is that while you may be giving of yourself, you will most likely get so much in return! You will have the opportunity to meet other people and make new friends.

You may find new businesses and services from whom you can benefit. You will feel the satisfaction of being a part of something bigger than yourself. You will lead by example, showing your children the value of being a part of a community. You will develop and take pride in your town. The take-away from being involved in a community is both significant and priceless!

Forsyth Magazines are full of ways to be involved in your community. As you read our magazines, prepare to be inspired!

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Delectable Easter Desserts Without the Guilt

By Elisa Wallace & Emily Dodson

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very spring season, many friends and family gather for their annual Easter brunch or luncheon. At these gettogethers, a wide variety of sweet treats are offered. However, with the warmer weather on the horizon, some guests may be health conscious. Bathing suit season is, after all, mere weeks away. Please your guests by creating a memorable dessert menu with a sweet, but light, ensemble. From Easter Bunny cookies to Old Fashioned Carrot Cake, Forsyth Woman offers Easter dessert recipes which are fresh, bright, and light enough to satisfy all guests.

OLD FASHIONED CARROT CAKE Cake Ingredients: 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour (about 6 3/4 ounces) 1 1/3 cups granulated sugar 1/2 cup sweetened flaked coconut 1/3 cup chopped pecans 2 teaspoons baking soda 1 teaspoon salt 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon 3 tablespoons canola oil 2 large eggs 2 cups grated carrot 1 1/2 cups canned crushed pineapple, drained Cooking spray Frosting Ingredients: 2 tablespoons butter, softened 1 (8-ounce) block 1/3-less-fat cream cheese, softened 3 cups powdered sugar 2 teaspoons vanilla extract Additional grated carrot (optional) Cake Preparation: 1. Preheat oven to 350°.

2. To prepare cake, lightly spoon flour into dry measuring cups; level with a knife.

3. Combine flour, sugar, coconut, pecans, baking soda, salt, and cinnamon in a large bowl.

4. Stir well with a whisk. Combine oil and eggs; stir well.

5. Stir egg mixture, grated carrot, and pineapple into flour mixture.

6. Spoon batter into a 13 x 9-inch baking pan coated with cooking spray.

7. Bake at 350° for 35 minutes or until a wooden pick inserted in the center comes out clean.

8. Cool completely on a wire rack.

Frosting Preparation:

Preparation:

1. To prepare frosting, combine butter and cream cheese in a large bowl.

2. Beat with a mixer at medium speed until smooth.

3. Beat in powdered sugar and vanilla just until smooth.

4. Spread frosting over top of cake.

5. Garnish each serving with grated carrot, if desired.

RASPBERRY THUMBPRINT COOKIES Ingredients:

1. Combine the lime juice, sugar, and ¼ cup water in a small saucepan.

2. Bring to a boil and cook until the sugar dissolves.

3. Transfer to a bowl and refrigerate, stirring occasionally, until cool.

4. Divide the cake, strawberries, and mango among individual plates.

5. Add the zest to the lime syrup and drizzle over the fruit and cake.

WHOLE WHEAT RASPBERRY BARS Raspberry Filling Ingredients:

3/4 cup (3 ounces) grated almond paste 2/3 cup sugar 5 tablespoons butter, softened 1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract 1 large egg white 1 1/4 cups all-purpose flour (about 5 1/2 ounces) 1/4 teaspoon salt 6 tablespoons Raspberry Refrigerator Jam Preparation: 1. Preheat oven to 325°.

2. Line 2 large baking sheets with parchment paper; secure to baking sheet with masking tape.

3. Place first 3 ingredients in a bowl; beat with a mixer at medium speed for 4 minutes or until light and fluffy. Add vanilla and egg white; beat well.

4. Lightly spoon flour into dry measuring cups; level with a knife.

5. Add flour and salt to almond paste mixture; beat at low speed until well blended.

6. Turn dough out onto a lightly floured surface, and shape dough into 36 (1-inch) balls. Place balls 1 inch apart on prepared baking sheets, and press thumb into center of each cookie, leaving an indentation.

7. Bake at 325° for 10 minutes or until golden.

8. Remove cookies from pans; cool on wire racks. Spoon about 1/2 teaspoon Raspberry Refrigerator Jam into center of each cookie.

ANGEL FOOD CAKE WITH LIME DRIZZLE AND FRUIT Ingredients: 1/4 cup fresh lime juice, plus 1 teaspoon lime zest 1/4 cup sugar ¼ cup water 1 store-bought angel food cake 1 pint strawberries, hulled and sliced 1 mango peeled, cored, and cut into bite size pieces

1 package (6 ounces or 1 1/3 cups) raspberries 1/4 cup sugar 2 tablespoons corn starch 2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice Bar Ingredients: 1 1/2 cups old-fashioned or quick-cooking oats 1 cup whole wheat flour 2/3 cups packed brown sugar 1/3 cups walnut pieces 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1/3 cups canola or vegetable oil 1 large egg Preparation: 1. Preheat oven to 350°F. 2. For the raspberry filling, combine raspberries, sugar, corn starch and lemon juice in a small saucepan.

3. Stir over medium heat until mixture comes to a boil.

4. Simmer, stirring constantly, 2 minutes until sauce is thick and translucent. Remove from heat.

5. For the bars combine oats, flour, sugar, walnuts, and cinnamon in a food processor.

6. Process until oats and walnuts are finely ground.

7. Add oil and egg; pulse to evenly combine, scraping sides of the bowl 8. Press half of the crumb mixture evenly on bottom of a 9 x 9 inch baking pan.

9. Spread raspberry filling evenly over crumbs.

10. Top with remaining crumbs and pat down gently.

11. Bake 25 minutes or until golden brown.

12. Cool completely in pan. Cut into bars.

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Do It Herself: Renewing This Old House

By Lisa S.T. Doss he older homes of Winston-Salem have great appeal and charm. As a homeowner, you fell in love with the style of the kitchen cabinets, the large rooms and windows, and the beautiful woodwork. With so much to love, you have your share of home repairs. From a cupboard door opening at will to a jammed drawer, there is no need to contact a handyman. What if the answer is a quick and clever solution? Whether you have one repair or ten, each “do it herself” task can be completed in no time.

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Door Dead Bolt Sticks Upon Entering If the lock will not allow your key to enter the chamber or release it, this may be a moment when you think you need a locksmith. No. What the lock needs is lubrication.

Do not use oil. It will attract dirt over time and cause a recurring problem. The solution is a small tube of “powered graphite lubricant” found at a local hardware store. One tiny squirt and you will no longer have difficulty locking or opening your door.

Cupboard Door Remains Open Depending on the age of the cabinet, it may be time to upgrade and purchase a “heavy-duty magnet catch.” While easy to install, you may have questions about installation (especially if replacing an old latch with a new magnet catch).

Someone from your local hardware store will be happy to assist you, and they will likely have the item you need. In addition, a magnet catch may solve the problem occurring with your medicine cabinet.

Unable to Open a Drawer?

Remove the drawer. If there is damage to the “slides,” you will be able to buy easy-to-install drawer slide replacements at the hardware store. (Perhaps it’s time to introduce yourself. You will be popping in frequently.) Take pictures of your “slide” or have it on hand to help ensure you purchase the right one. Once the drawer is cleaned and thoroughly dried, spray the “tracks” with WD-40. You may want to consider one additional step.

Rub a block of paraffin wax along the wooden sliders. It will work miracles!

Deep Scratches on Woodwork If you wish to conceal the deep scratches on your woodwork, try using a “wood finish stain marker” or a “treated cloth” on your furniture, trim, and floors. Either item can be found at any hardware store in a variety of colors.

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Need a Light?

Whether you have a room that requires instantaneous light, such as a basement, attic, or, especially, a closet, there is a simple solution. The device is called First-Alert in-socket motion detector.

After screwing the device into the socket, followed by a light bulb, the system will turn on and off by motion. While the cost of the device ranges between $20 and $25, it will provide light in most situations. Depending on the width and height of your closet, this device may not be the solution you need. On the other hand, it may become a lifesaver if you forget to pull the chain or hit the lever.

Stuck Window?

This job will require a putty knife (used in painting) and a rubber mallet. (Be extra careful if all you have is a hammer.) Place the putty knife between the window and the frame, and gently tap on the knife’s handle with the rubber mallet. Move the knife along the edge of the window frame until the window loosens and opens.

No house is picture perfect, but slight flaws add character and charm to your unique home. Like the many people who have resided at your address over the decades, they, too, had to fix the window, a drawer, and a door.

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Elizabeth Chmelo Salemtowne Hires Director of Life Enrichment Elizabeth Chmelo has joined Salemtowne Retirement Community as the new Director of Life Enrichment. Chmelo is joining Salemtowne from Wake Forest School of Medicine where she was a program manager, designing and implementing evidence-based community wellness programs for older adults. She also served as the liaison between the Wake Forest Baptist Health Sticht Center on Aging and Forsyth County Aging Agencies. She graduated from Wake Forest School of Medicine with a Master of Science in Clinical & Population Translational Science, and also from Wake Forest University with a Master of Science in Health-Exercise Science. She is a certified Clinical Exercise Specialist through the American College of Sports Medicine with a background in physical activity as it relates to the prevention of chronic disease and disability, and the promotion of quality of life in older adults.

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Hannah Stanley Hannah C. Stanley of Butler + Burke, LLP, has been promoted to senior associate within the firm. Hannah, a native of Mount Airy, has been with Butler + Burke since 2012. Prior to joining the team there, she was a staff accountant with Green & Company, PLLC in Clemmons and also a staff accountant for Larco Construction in Winston-Salem.

Butler + Burke has proven to be a perfect fit for Hannah and her ‘people person’ nature. “The absolute best thing about Butler + Burke is the people – both co-workers and clients,” she said.

She also loves her specific work as a tax accountant. “I started working on taxes my very first day here, and it just clicked – I love it,” she said. “Those that told me that the most learning would come from experience could not have been more right!”

Outside of Butler + Burke, Hannah and her husband, Brett, live in Boonville and are active members of Fairview Baptist Church in Dobson. Other than getting through tax season right now, she is spending her time preparing for the birth of their first son, who will arrive this May. “Things like decorating nurseries and deciding what stroller to buy are currently on the top of my list of activities outside of the office!” the mom-to-be beams.

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Gabie Vosler Gabie Vossler is an award winning hairstylist and makeup artist licensed in both North Carolina and California. After attending cosmetology school in Huntington Beach, CA, she immediately started training under celebrity stylists in Costa Mesa, CA. Gabie still attends continuing education classes for hair color, cutting, styling, and makeup application to stay up with the latest trends and techniques. Gabie attended coloring and cutting classes under Kim Vo, a Beverly Hills celebrity stylist known for his work on famous clients such as Courtney Cox, Britney Spears, and Nicky Hilton, just to name a few. Gabie’s most recent accomplishment is winning a national contest held for hairstylists by Nioxin and Shape Magazine for a $14,000 party to be held at her salon location, Glass Door Salon and Spa; she will also have a feature in the magazine. Gabie appeared on Fox 8 in June 2014 to give her expert opinion on how to choose the proper hair products, and again in January 2015 to discuss the 2015 hair trends. Gabie has been featured on top beauty blog sites such as “My Beauty Bunny,” “The Blush Diaries,” and “The Fusion Chronicles.” When off work, Gabie volunteers doing hair and makeup for events such as the “Red Ribbon Runway,” and the Bevello fashion show. Her specializations are in blonding, color, cutting, long hair, bridal hair and makeup, and keratin treatments.

Gabie is adamant about giving her clients superior service, as well as talking about realistic results in her consultations.

Ashley Conrad Ashley Conrad is the new President/CEO of Youth Opportunities, a Winston-Salem based agency that helps children with special mental health needs. With 17 years of experience in the mental health field, Conrad brings a proven track-record of effective leadership to Youth Opportunities. For more information on the organization, visit www.youthopp.org.

Conrad comes to Youth Opportunities from its affiliate organization, Charlotte-based Alexander Youth Network. For the past six years, she led the Partners Region of the Alexander Youth Network, which covers Gaston and Cleveland Counties. As that area’s Executive Director, Conrad oversaw the operations and accountability of two day treatment facilities, several different types of therapeutic foster care, and community-based services including intensive in-home and multi-systemic therapy. Known for streamlining processes and empowering her workforce, Conrad’s leadership improved Alexander Youth Network’s capacity to serve more children, more effectively in this area. She currently serves on the Partners Behavioral Health Management Provider Council and Utilization Management Committee.

Before her tenure at Alexander Youth Network began, Conrad started her management career coordinating a day treatment program for Thompson Child and Family Focus in Charlotte. She has worked in direct care, having served as a school therapist, and has community relations experience. She has a Master’s Degree in Organizational Change and Leadership from Pfeiffer University, where she graduated in 2010 with honors. She is also a graduate of the University of North Carolina at Wilmington.

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Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself

By Stacy Leighton

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2. Remember it’s not about YOU – you are not under attack. Most conflicts are simply a lack of understanding about another’s perspective or action. Take yourself out of the equation.

Ever heard the saying if you don’t know who it is, it could be you?

Quick quiz:

3. At a disagreement impasse? Switch sides, an exercise often used in team building where each party must argue the other’s point.

This prompts us to ask questions and seek understanding, rather than pushing our own agenda.

n just about every workplace, community or clique there are very specific personality types. Think about your workplace and picture the Peace Keeper, the Crowd Pleaser, the Ringer and the Ranter.

• When you're in a bad mood, do you wait for someone to say the wrong thing so that you can give them a piece of your mind?

• Do you find most people can be stupid and irritating? “Yes, and it’s up to me to tell them, sometimes in person but mostly I’ll tell someone else or rant about them on social networks.”

• How often do you find yourself arguing with others? “All the time! I'm always having a disagreement or falling out with someone.”

• Do you make excuses rather than apologizing for lashing out at bystanders? “Look, I yelled at you because this report that management requested is ridiculous!” (Not an apology) Everyone who breathes feels ‘anger’ but it’s what you do with it that can be constructive or destructive. Without the right tools, it can become a habit that is detrimental to your health. Sustained stress levels weaken your immune system (due to an overproduction of cortisol) and make you susceptible to any number of chronic ailments. Not to mention the havoc it creates for your co-workers and career aspirations. Here are 8 ways calm people suggest to derail that runaway train: 1. Breathe in, slowly and steadily, to a count of 4 and then out to a count of 4. Repeat this as many times as you need to before speaking. In crisis, your heart will race, adrenaline will surge and your better judgment could be impaired. This technique will slow down the process long enough for you to formulate a more diplomatic response. If you need more time make an excuse for a brief ‘time out’ then come back and try again.

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4. Choose to react differently. Wayne Dyer has said that, “When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.”

That guy who cut you off in traffic? He probably wasn’t even thinking about you. Maybe his wife is in labor or he just got a call from hospice. Maybe a little compassion is in order? True or not you’ll never know but you will feel better.

5. Watch out for negative thinking self-sabotage. Try this: You like your job right? You like getting a paycheck? You can’t do it alone (or shouldn’t want to), you are a team. Fake it if you have to until it becomes a genuine response.

6. Take better care of yourself. When we are hungry, our brain misfires. Too much caffeine? You know what to do. Eat regularly, avoid skipping breakfast and working through lunch, and only drink decaf after noon.

7. Improved self-care = emotional balance. Get a minimum of 7 hours of sleep each night. When we are tired, our pain receptors are more acute and our judgment is impaired. Sleep helps regulate serotonin. Get some form of exercise daily, which boosts noradrenaline, improving mood, heart and brain functions. And laugh more! This releases oxytocin, the hormone that tells the brain all is well and everyone is on your side.

8. Plan, be prepared when you can (avoid living in a fire drill), and don’t be afraid to ask for help.

(P.S. To all “Peace Keepers” – please feel free to post this in your break room.)

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Inspiring health, wellness and beauty!

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hat began with Cherita Irving’s love for makeup has blossomed into a spa business offering over 150 different services with one ultimate goal: Cherita wants her guests to leave feeling pampered and beautiful or, as is her motto, “Be. You. tiful.”

After more than 10 years immersed in the corporate world, Cherita followed her creative passion which already included proficiency as a nail technician. She’s now a licensed aesthetician with seven years of experience in the skincare industry. Also under her belt are credentials as a nail educator, aesthetics educator/sales management, and she is anxious to continue growing her Winston-Salem studio which opened in 2013. Clients have embraced her passion and focus on customer satisfaction with rave reviews.

Most recently, she’s made wax distribution and education for other professionals an additional business, Oasis Wax Supply, while maintaining her focus on Brazilian waxing for both men and women in her spa.

“As we’re approaching bikini season, now’s the time to start waxing bikini areas, under arms, legs for women and the chest and back areas for men,” says Cherita.

Her true love for health and wellness is the inspiration behind the variety of services she offers, including manicures and pedicures, body treatments, a wide range of facials, detoxing, makeup, eyelash extensions, brow sculpting/tinting and of course, waxing. Her

training in medical aesthetics has allowed her the opportunity to utilize the most advanced, corrective treatments in the industry, along with IPL laser modalities.

Operating by appointment only Tuesdays through Saturdays, Cherita truly caters to each and every client and her spa “packages” are all custom-designed based on client preferences. If you want to combine a facial with a mani/pedi, that’s no problem. Or mix it with a fabulous body treatment? The choice is up to each individual person, making the spa experience truly a personal indulgence. Oasis on 5th also offers its own version of Girls’ Night Out, where with four guaranteed guests, the space can be reserved for an evening of pampering. We provide the clients’ choice of services – along with food, wine and chocolates.

Oasis on 5th is also excited to launch a new venture on April 1– Oasis Wax Supply – designed for licensed cosmetologists and estheticians to purchase the best products on the market and to continue their education. Cherita will be offering free, hands-on “Dip, Sip & See” workshops for professionals to experience her product offerings (for more information on these events follow them at www.facebook.com/OasisWaxSupply) As spring and summer approach and our thoughts turn to baring a bit more skin, Oasis on 5th is the perfect solution when some very important “me” time becomes a necessity!

To experience Cherita’s love of beauty, health and wellness for yourself, call 336-406-8901 for an appointment or book online at www.vagaro.com/OasisOn5th. Oasis on 5th is located in downtown Winston-Salem in the historic West End district at 1068 West 4th Street, Lower Level Offices, Suite B & C, in Winston-Salem, NC.

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Sexual Assault Awareness: She said... He said...

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ne phone call parents never want to receive is one informing them that their son has been arrested for allegations of sexual assault on a female.

As a mother of sons, I considered the act of keeping my boys safe a primary role as a parent. When my sons were very young, there was no way I allowed them to go into a public restroom alone. When a friend asked my teenage son to babysit her four children, two of whom were girls, my response was a resounding “no.” My common sense guided me to avoid placing my sons in situations that might compromise their safety or potentially have a harmful impact on their lives. As parents, we never lose that desire to protect our children. At some point, children become independent, and parents are no longer able to provide that safety net for them. But, there are conversations in which we need to engage our children to help them avoid some potential pitfalls.

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Because April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, I was considering the topic of this article. I asked myself what would be the most helpful information to relate to you, as parents who share my concern for the wellbeing of our children. From the age at which our children are mature enough to understand healthy sex education, they are old enough to understand what constitutes unhealthy sex. If we look at the rising incidence of sexual assault, we can assume that somewhere in these escalating numbers is a young girl or boy who just didn’t understand the boundaries. Maybe the boundary was not made clear or was misunderstood. So, let’s begin here. Let us begin having these conversations with our children before they start dating. To help your child avoid a situation that could potentially devastate a young life, make sure he or she clearly understands what constitutes sexual assault, the definitions of consensual and nonconsensual sex and the potential ramifications of having sexual activity without expressed permission.

I’ve provided some very basic explanations to aid in the discussions with your children.

What is nonconsensual sex? Sex that is not consensual is any sexual activity that does not have each person’s verbal agreement and permission.

What is consensual sex? Giving sexual consent means each person involved has verbally agreed and granted permission to

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the sexual activity. Consent involves a mutual decision-making process in which each establishes his or her personal boundaries, communicates these boundaries verbally and shows respect for the other’s stated boundaries.

Central to understanding sexual consent are some important distinctions. Simply stated: A clear, verbal “yes” means “yes.”

A clear, verbal “no” means “no.”

The absence of a clear, verbal “no” does not mean “yes.”

Saying nothing does not mean “yes.” Even when a person exhibits interest and desire to have sexual activity, he or she must clearly verbalize “yes” to constitute “agreed” and “granting permission.”

Body language, nonverbal cues or past sexual interactions cannot be assumed to mean “yes.”

A previous sexual history does not apply to current or future sexual interactions.

Never assume you have permission, and ask if you are unsure whether or not you have sexual consent.

Consent for one sexual act does not imply consent has been given for a different sexual act. Sexual consent can be given and later withdrawn. Once sexual activity has begun, if a partner changes his or her mind and withdraws permission, consent is canceled and the sexual activity must come to a stop.

Keep in mind that there are certain circumstances that may make permission impossible. If someone has consumed alcohol or engaged in drugs, there is no clear consent, even if the word “yes” is verbalized, because cognitive ability to make decisions has been impaired. An underage person cannot legally give consent; in North Carolina, age of consent is 16. Certain disabilities may also preclude consent.

If you are unclear on whether sexual activity is consensual or not, interpret lack of clarity as a “no.”Hopefully this information will be helpful in raising your child’s awareness of what constitutes healthy consensual sex and minimize any chance of a misunderstanding resulting in unfortunate consequences.

You can find more information online at www.nsvrc.org/saam. More information is available at the Forsyth County Family Services website located at www.fsifamily.org. You can also call the Forsyth County Family Services Sexual Assault hotline which is available 24/7 at 336.722.4457, or call the National Sexual Assault hotline at 800.656.HOPE.

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Life Hacks –

Tips and Tricks for Making Life Easier

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There are countless problems you encounter on a daily basis that can put a little speed bump in your day. Life hacks are those “a-ha!” moments where you find the simplest solution to your daily problems oftentimes using items immediately at your disposal.

Each month this column will take you through some creative hacks to use in all different areas of your life to make your day-to-day as simple as possible. This month we’re going to have a little fun in the spirit of April Fool’s Day. These life hacks may not change your day-to-day, but hopefully they’ll bring you a smile!

1 1. Want to increase the battery life on your phone? Simply put it down and walk away. Your battery will deplete much slower as you go about your day interacting with your contact list face to face (and holding off on those 30 selfies you take each day).

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2 2. A dog who constantly pulls on his leash can be quite frustrating, but worry no more! The easiest and most affordable fix is to simply speed up your pace.

You get more exercise, 3 you’ve probably put down that phone as suggested above, and Fido gets to explore at a more comfortable speed for him.

5. Adding vodka to your shampoo can strengthen your hair, prevent dry scalp and stop dandruff. It can also make you smell like a raging alcoholic, make friends and family concerned about your welfare, and make your boss convinced you’re storing a bottle in your desk drawer.

6 6. Stuck behind a broken down car or a wreck? Try flailing your arms, throwing obscene gestures, yelling and blowing the horn. This is sure to speed up the situation and get the traffic moving in the right direction.

7 3. You’ve got a pot of water on the stove and a deadline to get dinner done in 30 minutes. Place a wooden spoon across the pot, pull up a chair and stare at the pot intensely.

This will ensure that nothing happens and the water will boil when it darn well feels like it.

4. If you find yourself in an awkward or uncomfortable situation, simply moonwalk away from it. It will appear as if you’re walking towards people, when really you’re walking away. Don’t worry, no one will think you’re crazy.

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7. You can avoid cutting your hand when slicing up vegetables by having someone else hold the vegetable in place while you slice. Your fingers are untouched, while they question why they ever trusted you!

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LOCAL VOCALS

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Letters from Home

ach era in American history has a certain music or sound associated with it and the 1940s is known for its jazz and big band styles. This time in history was also the era of World War II, so music conveyed the uncertainty of our country, while still remaining upbeat and positive about the future. Letters from Home is a nationally known group that resides locally in Winston-Salem and shares songs from that era, taking their audiences to a simpler time. “Letters from Home gets our inspiration from the true greats of the 1940s. We especially relate to Gene Kelly and Donald O’Connor, but also pull inspiration from Rosemary Clooney and Vera Ellen, Frank Sinatra and Sammy Davis, Jr., The Nicholas Brothers, Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers. It’s so important for us to keep the performance style of the 1940s alive,” said Erinn Diaz of Letters from Home. The two ladies who make up ‘Letters from Home,’ Erinn Diaz and Serah Haley, both grew up in Winston-Salem, and can’t remember a time when music wasn’t part of their lives.

Erinn Diaz To say Erinn Diaz came into this world in an unusual way would be an understatement. “I was born in a car in Aurora, Colorado, during a snowstorm and life has been a whirlwind since then. My family moved to this area when my dad took a position with Piedmont Airlines. Theatre, dance and music has been a part of my life since the age of three. I grew up at the Little Theatre of Winston-Salem (now Twin City Stage) and was involved in every production there from age 10-17, when I moved to Florida to start my professional theatrical career. I am the creator and choreographer of Letters from Home and oversee my non-profit organization, Spring Theatre, a theatre company I founded in North Carolina in 2013.” Erinn has worked on over 250 theatrical productions nationwide, as well as being in several TV shows and movies. She co-founded First in Flight Entertainment with her husband and manager of Letters from Home, Nelson Diaz. The company now has offices in both Chicago and North Carolina. Her resumé doesn’t stop there, though. Erinn is also a published author, a national tap dance champion and has worked on cruise ships and toured with Cirque productions.

Serah Haley When Serah’s dad was called to the ministry in North Carolina, her family relocated to the Winston-Salem area. Much like Erinn, Serah grew up with music. “My entire family is musical and I grew up singing with them, traveling across the country; we still enjoy playing and singing bluegrass together. In high school I founded RJ Reynolds’ first female a Capella group, Syncop8 and directed UNC’s oldest acapella group, Tarheel Voices. After graduation, I poured myself into serving in education, moving to Chicago with my husband, Mathew. We returned to NC, where I taught at Forsyth Country Day School, and where I implemented two early education programs,” Serah commented. Though Serah is now full time with Letters from Home, in her ‘free’ time, Serah helps her dad, Kevin Frack, on the family farm, Terra Sol Farms. She also supports her husband’s local business, Haley European Motors, and loves to spend time with her family, including her stepson Nathan and a chocolate Lab named Sydney, and leaves time for her favorite thing of all…eating!

The two talented women originally met performing in a community theatre musical in high school, but after the show, lost touch. Some eight years later, at a Sunday dinner with the family, Erinn’s dad, Pat Dearth, a Coast Guard veteran, suggested she start a group, performing music from the ‘40s. By chance, on Tuesday of that week, Erinn and Serah were reunited, and Letters from Home was born.

Letters from Home has performed in over 20 states across the country in a wide variety of venues such as VFWs, retirement homes, parades, theatres, air shows, conventions and memorials. “Even though we enjoy going to big theatres and performing for large crowds, the greatest joy we have is seeing the faces of our audiences as they are touched by the music from the greatest generation. It has

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always been the mission of Letters from Home to honor our veterans, active military and their families by paying tribute to the music and style of the 1940s. We want to continue to honor as many as we can and hope to perform on a USO tour as well,” Erinn stated.

For more information on Letters from Home, including tour dates or to purchase one of their three albums, ‘I’ll Be Seeing You,’ ‘Sentimental Journey’ and ‘In the Mood,’ visit www.LettersFromHomeSingers.com.

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Online Banking is Thriving Industry

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“The fact is, online banking is here to make personal finances easy and a part of a person’s daily life.”

oday’s technology forces our society to move at a faster pace.

It is constantly expanding and controlling business directions, personal lives, and even personal experiences. It can be a source of peace of mind in our lives, while at the same time, a source of doubt and worry. This is especially true for anyone dealing with new technology and applications. Nowhere is this truer than in the area of online banking.

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with improvements and advancements in ATM software, online services and banking technology that makes this area even more exciting. People have more ways than ever to enjoy instant access to the details of their current checking and savings accounts. This ranges from the latest in mobile technology to the newest offering from bank ATMs, so today's bank customers have more control at their fingertips than ever before.

When you mention online banking, it is usually mentioned with the words “new technology.” However, online banking has been in place for years, and continues to grow exponentially in popularity. In fact, 2012 data obtained from the Pew Research Center showed that 63 million Americans bank online, while 81 percent of those who manage household finances banked online at least once over a 12-month period. In fact, online banking is no longer confined to sitting in front of your personal computer at home doing your personal finances.

One of the biggest benefits of online banking is instant access 24 hours a day, seven days a week. A person can act instantly or be aware instantly of any occurrence regarding the money in his or her bank account. In this fast paced world, the ability to react quickly or know your financial information instantly can be crucial.

It is becoming increasingly popular and advantageous to access online banking information from a smartphone device.

In fact, a recent survey found about 60 percent of adults in the U.S. owned smartphones as of December 2013, and half had used mobile banking in the past 12 months, according to a Federal Reserve Board survey in March of 2014.

It’s very clear that obtaining bank account information on the go is becoming increasingly important to Americans.

This increase in use and eagerness to get info on the go means developers and financial institutions are working overtime to give customers what they want. Banking services have seen real advancements in recent years,

Of course, the obvious fears of online banking have been highlighted over the past year with the hacking of retail giants, such as Target, and other wellknown entertainment giants, such as Sony. This has pushed the banking industry, and indeed the financial industry, as a whole, to really scrutinize the security aspect of online banking.

This, along with the increased popularity of the industry, can prove to be nothing but positive things for customers and their personal financial planning.

When the total picture is analyzed, online banking can only be seen as not only a popular industry, but a vibrant and growing one as well. Even with all the fears of new technology, fear of identity theft, and of course, privacy issues, the industry is still alive and well. The fact is, online banking is here to make personal finances easy and a part of a person’s daily life. Whether it be at work, at lunch, or on the go on the smartphone, online banking is becoming as important as the morning joe.

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Unlike New Year’s Resolutions, which are generally forgotten, broken and discarded by now, spring calls for action.

Get out and do something. Break out the grills and drive your neighbors hungry with the smell of burgers drifting on the breeze. Visit local parks and spend the day outside before the summer heat arrives. A blanket on the ground, a packed lunch, kids, dogs and Frisbees – now that’s a fun, relaxing day to enjoy and a great memory to make.

Open the front door to let the sun and breeze in and escape the closed off feeling of winter. Reconnect with neighbors and friends. It’s just easier to manage in the spring.

Daylight hours seem longer – you can actually get home before dark and still have time to get outside for a while. Spring – we’ve missed you!

Welcome back!

Spring is just around the corner, although today it appears to be hiding and taking its own sweet time about getting here.

As I gaze out on yet another snowy day, I can’t wait!

What is it about spring that calls for a feverish need to clean up, clean out, and generally spruce up yourself and everything your path?

My thought is that as spring arrives and we can stop wearing bulky coats and sweaters with gloves, hats, and scarves, we just enjoy lightening our load. All that is really a lot to lug around just to go outside. Picture spring as light, airy, warm, fresh smelling. Puts a smile on your face, doesn’t it?

Open those windows and let the spring air flow through. Thankfully, turn the furnace off and give the heating bill a break for a while.

It’s this time of year that I remember clothes hanging on the line and smelling so good when you fold them away. I strip off the sheets, air out the mattresses and turn them. At least we don’t go out and beat rugs on the line – I’m quite sure I can skip that ritual.

Spring-cleaning can take on a life of its own. Maybe it’s an outgrowth of putting away Christmas things (if you haven’t yet, now would be a good time!). Cleaning out garages, things that clutter up and pile up and seem to have their own growth spurt can go. But leave my craft closets alone. I may re-organize my craft supplies, but the likelihood of my throwing any of it away is pretty much zero. There’s always a need for that scrap of cardboard or bit of yarn. You crafters understand, I know!

I love the spring flowers that pop up here and there. Crocus and daffodils just signal the start of warmer days. I remember as a child a house above my grandparents’ home that had a field full of daffodils; it was magnificent. If you have a green thumb, you can enjoy planting a bed of color to enjoy. Myself, I enjoy other people’s gardens. My talent for flowers is more the silk type unfortunately. The phrase “plants come here to die” comes to mind.

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Nutrition and the Brain Your brain is like a car. A car needs gasoline, oil, brake fluid and other materials to run properly. Your brain also needs special materials to run properly: glucose, vitamins, minerals and other essential chemicals. For example, the fuel (energy) for your brain is glucose. You can get glucose by eating carbohydrates or other foods that can be converted to glucose.

Your brain must manufacture the right proteins and fats to do things like grow new connections or add myelin, the fatty sheath, to axons. It does this by digesting proteins and fats in food and using the pieces, that is, the amino acids and fatty acids, to make the new brain proteins and fats. Specifically, lean protein, complex carbohydrates, and foods rich in omega 3 fatty acids (large cold water fish, such as tuna and salmon, walnuts, Brazil nuts, olive oil, and canola oil) are essential to brain function.

Diet and the Neurotransmitters Certain foods contain precursors (starting materials) for some neurotransmitters.

If a diet is deficient in certain precursors, the brain will not be able to produce some neurotransmitters. Neurological and mental disorders may occur when the balance of neurotransmitters is upset.

Grocery shopping anyone? Here’s your list! Examples of neurotransmitter precursors include: Aspartic Acid - Used to make aspartate; found in peanuts, potatoes, eggs and grains.

Choline - Used to make acetylcholine; found in eggs, liver and soybeans.

Glutamic Acid - Used to make glutamate; found in flour and potatoes.

Phenylalanine - Used to make dopamine; found in beets, soybeans, almonds, eggs, meat and grains.

Tryptophan - Used to make serotonin; found in eggs, meat, skim milk, bananas, yogurt, milk, and cheese.

Tyrosine - Used to make norepinephrine; found in milk, meat, fish and legumes.

Hormones in the Brain “Chemically imbalanced” - what does that mean?! There are two main hormones in the brain: serotonin and noradrenaline. Serotonin aids in the management of emotions, including aggression, and noradrenaline regulates responses to fear and anger. Normally, these two hormones work in harmony with each other. But when traumatic events or chronic stress throw the balance between these two hormones out of whack, the result can be a host of behavioral, emotional, and cognitive problems.

Stress Management Scientists have only recently discovered how stress negatively affects brain function. Research has found that people with chronically high levels of cortisol (hormone that occurs when under stress) experience more cognitive, motor, and social delays than others. Stress hormones have been shown in animals to be directly toxic to memory centers. Brain cells can die with prolonged stress.

Managing stress effectively is essential to good brain function.

The Importance of Sleep In a similar way, sleep deprivation also decreases brain activity and limits access to learning, memory, and concentration. A recent brain imaging study showed that people who consistently slept less than 7 hours had overall less brain activity. Sleep problems are very common in people who struggle with their thoughts and emotions. Getting enough sleep every day is essential to brain function.

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Eat well, stay hydrated, maintain low to no stress levels, and get no less than 7 hours of sleep each night. Easy, right? You can do this. Good luck!

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NOW THROUGH MAY 29 (TUESDAYS-SATURDAYS) EXHIBIT: UNDERSTANDING OUR PAST, SHAPING OUR FUTURE 10am-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University, 1834 Wake Forest Road. This exhibition focuses on Cherokee language and culture, using audio recordings as the basis for presenting a story in words and text. www.moa.wfu.edu

NOW THROUGH AUGUST 29 (TUESDAYS-SATURDAYS) EXHIBIT: AT HOME ON THE PLAINS 10am-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University, 1834 Wake Forest Road. This exhibit showcases Plains Indians objects from MOA’s permanent collection. Exhibit highlights include beaded moccasins from the Cree and Lakota Sioux tribes and two rare Comanche painted hides, on display together for the first time. www.moa.wfu.edu

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SCIENCE OF SOUND DAY AT SCIWORKS 10am-1pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Participate in the “Strike, Shake and Scrape: Science of Percussion Instruments” presentation, build a percussion instrument to take home and test your musical skills in the instrument petting zoo where you can try out a variety of instruments. www.sciworks.org

SHELTON VINEYARDS SPRING FLING 10am-6pm, 286 Cabernet Lane in Dobson. Free admission, tours and tastings! Local artisans and craftsmen will be here with their handmade items. There will be something for everyone, so bring the entire family! www.sheltonvineyards.com

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5pm…until! Hakka Chow Asian Eats, 615 Saint George Square Court in W-S. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy appetizer specials including $5 lettuce wraps and $5 crab wontons as well as drink specials including $5 sangria and $3 draft beer. There will also be sushi specials! Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Sponsored by Forsyth Woman, Forsyth Woman Engaged! and Hakka Chow Asian Eats.

APRIL 16-19 FAIR TRADE ORIENTAL RUG EVENT: TEN THOUSAND VILLAGES 10am-6pm, 1564-A Highwoods Boulevard in Greensboro. For just a few days, Ten Thousand Villages will be home to more than 300 high quality hand-knotted Bunyaad rugs. These rugs are all hand-knotted in Pakistan by fairly paid adults. www.tenthousandvillages.com

APRIL 17 INTRODUCTION TO ORIENTAL RUGS SEMINAR 7-10pm, Jefferson Village, 1564 Highwoods Boulevard in Greensboro. Join us for our Annual Oriental Rug Event, featuring more than 300 hand-knotted rugs all made by fairly paid adults, and learn more about how these beautiful products are made.

APRIL 17-18 HEART OF THE TRIAD QUILT GUILD’S 2015 QUILT SHOW 9am-5pm, C3 Church, 300 NC Highway 68 South in Greensboro. Quilts featured will be traditional to modern to art and even a challenge quilt. Quilt shop vendors and the guild’s boutique will offer great items for quilters.

Cost: $5/person. www.hottqg.com

CONSIGN IN STYLE 10am-8pm, 1615 Westover Terrace in Greensboro. The Triad’s best women’s fashion consignment sales event to shop and sell! www.consigninstyle.com

APRIL 18 SPRING OPEN HOUSE 7:30am-4pm, 1088 West Dalton Road in King. Come see our wide selection of spring flowers, vegetable plants, herbs, flowering hanging baskets, huge fern hanging baskets, perennials, container plants, geraniums, trees and shrubs. www.mitchellsnurseryandgreenhouse.com

SHREDDING EVENT SPONSORED BY THE BERMUDA RUN GARDEN CLUB 10am-1pm, 120 Kinderton Boulevard (off Highway 158), Bermuda Run Town Hall Parking Lot. $5 per brown grocery bag, equivalent size box or hard drive. Cash only.

Proceeds go to various Davie County community programs that the Garden Club supports. 650.5518

APRIL 19 MOUNT TABOR’S UMC EVENING CONCERT SERIES: GIANNI BRASS 6:30-8pm, 3543 Robinhood Road in W-S. Join us as we celebrate our veterans and enjoy big brass renditions of patriotic music.

APRIL 23 WOMEN OF VISION LUNCHEON 12-1:30pm, Anderson Conference Center, WSSU in W-S. YWCA’s Women of Vision Luncheon and Awards Ceremony recognizes some of our area’s most outstanding female achievers in the areas of business, education and community service. Cost: $45/person. www.ywcaws.org/events/women-of-vision-2015

APRIL 25 CRAZY K’z AT SUMMIT SCHOOL 9-11am, 2100 Reynolda Road in W-S. The race will start and finish on the Summit football field. It will run through the new cross-country trails. Cost: $15/person. www.crazyrunning.com

Weekly Dining & Drink Specials:

10am-2pm, Jerry Long Family YMCA, Peacehaven Road in Clemmons. Vendor booths and activities for kids.

Free event. www.lewisville-clemmons.com

Monday - Wing night is back!

35 cent wings! -$2 PBR

PREGNANT IN THE PIEDMONT 10am-2pm, 3333 Silas Creek Parkway in W-S. Visit displays from OB/GYNs, pediatricians, chiropractors and everything in between to make mom, baby and family happy and healthy! www.pregnantinthepiedmont.com

2015 PIEDMONT EARTH DAY FAIR 10am-5pm, 421 West 27th Street in W-S. Free event full of enrichment activities for children of all ages, environmental seminars and demonstrations, live entertainment throughout the day and a variety of food and beverage options. www.peaNC.org 8-10:30pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Join SciWorks staff and the Forsyth Astronomical Society for a free astronomy observation in the SciWorks parking lot using professional-grade telescopes. www.sciworks.org

APRIL 25-26 & MAY 2-3 SPRING PARADE OF HOMES 1-5pm, multiple locations. New homes and remodeled homes on tour. www.hbaws.net/spring-parade-homes

10am-6pm, 286 Cabernet Lane in Dobson. Join us at Shelton Vineyards for the Southeast's largest display of vintage automobiles. Bring your lawn chairs or blankets, a picnic basket if you like, sip some wine and enjoy viewing these beautiful cars! www.sheltonvineyards.com

12-4pm, 450 Groce Road in Ronda. Join Raffaldini Vineyards for our first Italian Auto Show and view timeless classics of Italian style to contemporary concepts of Italian culture on display on the lawn surrounding Villa Raffaldini. www.raffaldini.com

SHELTON VINEYARDS PICNIC ON THE WINERY PATIO

APRIL 30-MAY 2 28TH ANNUAL USED BOOK SALE

6pm-12am, 301 West 5th Street in W-S. Since the program’s inception in 2000, The Hispanic League has awarded 250 scholarships, totaling more than $490,000 to local, academically outstanding Hispanic/Latino students. Tickets: $91.25/person; $767/table of eight. www.hispanicleague.org/spanish-nite-2015

Mac & Nelli’s

Tuesday - Wine night! $10 tasting Sampling of select wines featuring local vineyards – paired with fresh fruit & cheese.

Wednesday - Hump day half price appetizers, $2 well drinks, $2 PBR drafts Thursday - Burgers & beers $5 burgers and $2 PBR Friday & Saturday - Our famous Prime Rib weekends!

Sunday Brunch - 9am-2pm - $1 Mimosa’s Open til 9pm

STAR-GAZING AT SCIWORKS

APRIL 26 ITALIAN AUTOMOBILE SHOW

SPANISH NITE GALA AND SCHOLARSHIP AWARDS

Enjoy delicious food from our large menu selection. Quality and unsurpassed service await you at Mac & Nelli’s

CLEMMONS COMMUNITY DAY/HEALTHY KIDS DAY

SHELTON VINEYARDS BRITISH CAR GATHERING

11:30am-2pm, 286 Cabernet Lane in Dobson. Come enjoy a picnic lunch by Chef Paul on the Winery Patio.

Lunch will feature a British theme in honor of the British Cars here today. Two seating's available (11:30am and 1pm). Reservations required. www.sheltonvineyards.com

New Location!

Same Great Menu!

9am-9pm (30th and 1st); 8am-1pm (2nd), Education Building, Winston-Salem Fairgrounds. All proceeds of the sale benefit the ministry programs and services for older adults in the greater Winston-Salem/Forsyth County community.

Special Events & Live Music: Every Monday & Thursday Mike Bustin - 6:30pm-9:30pm April 3 - Uncle Herbie & Joey Mac - 9pm-12am April 4 - Joey Whitaker - 8pm-11pm April 5 - JOIN US FOR EASTER SUNDAY BRUNCH April 10 - Jim Mayberry - 7:30pm-10:30pm April 11 - The Invaders - 7:30pm-10:30pm April 17 - The Rockers - 9pm-12am April 18 - Mike Bustin - 8pm-11pm April 24 - Lauren Light- 9pm-12am April 24 - Eddie Clayton & Will Jones 9pm-12am

336.529.6230 4926 Country Club Road Winston-Salem, NC 27104

macandnellisws.com TO INCLUDE EVENT/PROMOTION, VISIT FORSYTHWOMAN.COM & SUBMIT AN EVENT THROUGH THE CALENDAR LINK.

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Easter Countdown

By Rebecca Olsen

1. How many billion jelly beans are produced each year?

a. 1885

2. The 2007 Cypress Gardens Easter Egg Hunt in Winter Haven, Florida was the largest in

b. 3 times

the world, with how many eggs?

3. How many millions of marshmallow Peeps, bunnies, and eggs are consumed at Easter each year?

4. How many White House Easter Egg Rolls have taken place on the White House lawn?

5. What percentage of parents will buy or make an Easter basket for their children?

6. How many months can milk chocolate be stored?

7. How many days is the season of Lent?

c. 80% d. 70 million e. 1800s f. 5th g. 87% h. 2.1 billion

8. What percentage of people eat the ears off their chocolate rabbit first?

i. 24.2%

9. How many million chocolate bunnies are made a year?

j. 16 billion

10. Peter Carl Fabergé created the first Fabergé egg in what year?

k. 89%

11. Jelly beans didn’t become an Easter candy until when?

l. 1948

12. What percentage of parents include healthier snacks in their children’s Easter baskets?

m. 8-10 months

13. Chocolate Easter eggs have been around since when?

n. 6 minutes

14. What percentage of parents filch candy for themselves out of their kid’s Easter basket?

15. How many billions do people spend on Easter candy each year?

16. How many minutes does it take to make a marshmallow Peep?

17. How many times could you circle the earth with the jelly beans eaten at Easter?

o. 501,000 eggs p. 70% q. 137 times

18. What percentage of Easter candy purchased is chocolate?

r. 1930s

19. Judy Garland and Fred Astaire starred in the Easter Parade in what year?

s. 90 million

20. What day does Easter fall on this year?

t. 40 days

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Gotta Get Thin ...........................................9

Photo Artistry by Melinda .......................91

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Piedmont Advantage Credit Union...........47

Handpicked...........................................115

Piedmont Club ......................................119

Hanes Brands .........................................62

Prints Charming ....................................115

Handpicked Consignments ...................111

PTI ............................................................3

Hakka Chow............................................39

Professional Women of Winston-Salem .67

Hauser Rental .......................................117 Hidden K Stables - Derby Day.................95 Hillcrest Vision ......................................107 Hip Chics Boutique ...........................45, 87 Homestead Hills / Ridgecrest..................25 Homewatch CareGivers ..........................55

R Red, Hot & Blue! .....................................85 ReDESIGNS by Ava.................................55 ReMax-Delana Joldersma .......................99 River Run International Film Festival ........73

Hospice Hope Run................................113

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House Matters ......................................107

Salem Academy....................................105

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Salem Gymnastics................................109

IFix Cell Repair ......................................113

Salem Smiles Orthodontics.....................97

Inner Strength Pilates ............................107

Salemtowne Retirement Center ...............65

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Sass Consignment................................105

Jeffrey Adams.........................................53 John E. Fitzgerald....................................12 Josh’s Jog ............................................101 June DeLugas Interiors ...........................35

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Saura Farm & Landscaping.....................83 Sewingly Yours .....................................111 Sharon Reid, DDS ...................................57 Simply Southern Cuisine.........................83 Simply Sterling & Company..............17, 67 Singing Bird Salon.................................125

Kelley Carnall - Rodan+Fields ..............119

Southern Ties Boutique...........................29

Kinnaman’s Furniture ................................5

Sparrow’s Nest .....................................109

201 Media...............................................83

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Starboard Accounting ...........................109

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Davie Flooring & Cabinets .......................93

Laster’s Fine Art & Antiques .................105

Studio Create ..........................................91

Accent Prone ..........................................23

Dawson Tree Service ............................124

Leather & Lace Acoustic Duo ...............126

Style Encore............................................33

Diet Center ............................................119

Lewsiville Laser & Aesthetics..................15

Summer Family Care...............................31

Dobson, Town of.....................................85

Lil’ Briar Patch.........................................71

Summit Eye Care ....................................16

Dream Dinners......................................121

Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates ...........6

Sunrise Yoga...........................................97

Accessorize This!....................................97 Aesthetic Images ....................................48 Affordable Reliable Life Insurance .........125

Dustmaster ...........................................124

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Mac & Nelli’s ........................................127

Thrive Integrated Health...........................99

American Custom Leather.....................119

Electrolysis, Etc.....................................124

Mainstream Boutique ..............................41

Tina Merhoff & Associates......................37

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Empty Bowls /

Make a Wish - Wishes in Flight...............45

TJ’s Body Shop ....................................117

Second Harvest Food Bank.....................89

Mary’s Professional Cleaning..................97

Becky Davis - Massage Therapy...........119

Todd’s Easy Moves.................................99

Encore! Consignments & More ...............81

Marzano Capital Group ..............back cover

Best Bet Painters...................................125

Truliant Federal Credit Union ......front inside

etc. Consignment Shoppe / etc.Home.....37

Midtown Café & Dessertery....................61

Bloomday Granite ............back inside cover

Event Trio ..............................................119

Minglewood ..........................................113

Alexander’s Automotive ........................117 Alzheimers NC ........................................93

Bob Holtzclaw - Certified Appraiser.......125

F Brenner Fit...............................................10 Brookstown Inn.......................................87 Broyhill..................................................113

Monkee’s ................................................27

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Moonlight Designs ..................................89

“U” Bounce Party Rentals.....................124

Fabian’s Restaurant ........................95, 125

Moore Self Storage .................................79

Farrago....................................................77

Mountain Valley Hospice.........................79

Financial Divorces, LLC /

Twin City Style.........................................21

V VCA Animal Hospital West ......................77

Forefront Investment Counselors.............79

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Fitness Edge............................................91

New Town Bistro...................................115

Village Inn Event Center...........................81

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Five Points...............................................43

Noah Williams Media ..............................71

Vow to be Different ...............................124

Carolina Urological Associates................43

Flow Auto................................................19

Note Worthy............................................99

Castle Lights ...........................................75

Forsyth Plastic Surgery ...........................59

Nu expression .........................................69

Chermak & Hanson Orthodontics .........111

Fourth & Trade ......................................119

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Oasis on 5th .........................................111

Burklee Printing .....................................121 Busy as a Bee Concierge......................109

Chris’ Lawncare......................................65

Fresh Air Carpet Care ............................125

Vienna Village..........................................47

W Wayne Collins Electric...........................115 Winston-Salem Journal.........................125 Woamtec ..............................................105

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WomanCare ............................................27

Clemmons Bicycle ..................................95

Pam Boyle Real Estate ............................61

WS Dash...............................................123

Clemmons Community Day ......................7

Goin’ Postal...........................................125

Paparazzi Salon.......................................53

Connect Marketing ..................................75

Goldman Center for Facial &

Parr Investments .....................................41

Christina’s Dessertery...........................101

Craige Brawley Liipfert & Walker, LLP.......4

Plastic Surgery........................................11

Penny Lane Boutique ..............................59

Y Yadkin Cultural Arts Center......................57

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1. How did you get into the business of gardening? Was this a love that started when you were a child? Or something you fell into? “I grew up loving interior design and especially flowers.

I guess you could say it ran in my family. I helped my mother decorate houses at 12 years old, and my grandmother loved flowers.

By the time I was 17, I was planning wedding flower arrangements.

I came into the Briar Patch in 2009 working as a home décor consultant while pursuing a nursing degree. Imagine my joy when offered the business, doing something I loved, when the owners moved to Florida. To me it was a no-brainer, and I’ve never looked back.”

2. What advice would you give women thinking about getting into gardening and floral type businesses?

“I think my advice is for anyone thinking about starting a small Kelly Melang always gets the last word with the women of Winston-Salem!

business – you cannot do it all yourself. Have a great support system in place. My family helps me with everything I do, from helping with our live music series to helping me find recipes for all the different gourmet items in stock. My second word of advice is to find your niche, anyone can open a small business, but find something that sets yours apart from the rest – something that draws your customers to you.”

3. What do you think is the greatest obstacle for women today in your industry? “My personal greatest obstacle is making people aware that The Lil’ Briar Patch is so much different than the original Briar Patch. We’ve gone from a garden center to offering so much more – great gourmet food, fine local wines, unusual and artistic home décor and, of course, our floral business. Of course you can always find a great centerpiece, container garden or just simple arrangement here.”

4. What sets you apart from other businesswomen? “I can say that I am the hardest worker I know, but I think every small business has a strong engine behind them making them work. I think it is my desire to grow The Lil’ Briar Patch outside of its garden center brand to make it part of the community…something more.”

5. What would you like your legacy to say? “I hope that people say that I always put others first, and that I made them smile. If you needed me, I was there.”

6. Where would you like to see The Lil’ Briar Patch in five years? Robyn laughs. “Putting money in the bank. No really, I’d love to see it a part of the community that people go to for gifts, flowers and music. That people mention our name and others say ‘I LOVE that place.’”

Robyn Nemeh of The Lil’ Briar Patch fter way too many snow days, spring is finally here; we can hear the birds singing and the flowers peeking out from the ground. Robyn Nemeh of The Lil’ Briar Patch is busy restocking her store with gourmet foods, great wine, fun home and garden décor and, of course, custom designed flower arrangements. She was gracious enough on a busy Friday afternoon to take a few minutes with us.

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7. If you could nominate one local woman for President of the United States whom would it be and why? “I’m not trying to brown nose, but I’d nominate Keela Johnson. I’ve never met anyone who advocates small business as much as she does, and we all know that small business is what drives our economy.”

8. What is your guilty pleasure? “Oh my goodness – the water!

If I am not here working, I am wake surfing at the lake or on my boat at Harker Island. My 19-year-old son lives there and gets to use my boat more than I do. It’s not fair.”

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