Forsyth Family - October 2016

October 2016

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Hallelujah! One month closer to the 2016 election. One month closer to the end of mud-slinging between candidates. One month closer to political ad-free television. One month closer to finding out who our next President will be! While I am getting tired of the banter, I’m grateful we live in a country where we have a voice.

Make sure yours is heard on November 8th!

My Indian Shores, Florida, vacation in September was amazing, but as with most vacations, it ended all too soon! I had a couple firsts: kayaking in the ocean, stand-up paddleboard and a manatee. I had kayaked in a lake and river before, but never the ocean. The paddleboard was a little challenging, but I did it, and one day we even had a manatee encounter. He literally tried to get on my daughter’s float with her! I was on the beach, but after hearing and seeing the commotion from my daughter, her husband and mine out in the water, I immediately took off in the kayak to check him out. I paddled up the beach quite a ways and would see him surface, but never got as close as I wanted to. We called that our “wild kingdom day,” because we started the day visiting a Seabird Sanctuary.

Follow that up with my younger daughter’s boyfriend’s possible brush with a stingray, add in the manatee encounter, and top it off with a snake caught up in the wheel of our rental car! Needless to say it was a day to remember!!

October is our annual Fall Home Issue and the cover features the family of Ben Heinsohn, owner of Salem Windows & Doors. The beautiful backdrop was taken at the pavilion in The Village at Brookberry Farm. Information on the Fall Parade of Homes and other home-related articles and advertisers is highlighted. Like every fall, there’s no shortage of community activities going on!

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Gives More than Scares to the Community

BY LINDSAY CRAVEN 31 Years and Still Growing Strong As the leaves change colors, and days grow shorter, the woods morph into a scary place. At Kersey Valley in Archdale, they become “Spookywoods.”

Spookywoods is one of the premiere haunts in the country, being listed in the top 13 haunts in the country by Hauntworld.com in 2013 and 2014, and featured as one of America’s scariest haunted attractions on the Travel Channel.

“We are one of the only shows that base our concepts on in-house things,” said Joh Harp, Special Effects Supervisor at Spookywoods.

“We don’t base our sets or characters on something that artists sell to the haunt industry. When the customers come to see our show, it’s a fully original show. We are very proud of that fact.”

This year will mark Spookywoods 31st year in the haunted house industry, and there are several new additions to celebrate this year’s anniversary. The Apple Cider Donut Shop will offer apple cider slushies and, of course, hot apple cider donuts.

They’ve also added a new free photo-op area where customers can get a spooky picture taken with some of their favorite characters while they wait in line.

“Our concept for the midway waiting area will offer the classic characters that have

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been with our haunt since the beginning,” Harp said.

Inside the haunt, you’ll find new storylines throughout. Harp noted that there are 15 themes within the show, and they’ve worked to intensify the feeling and atmosphere for every scene this year. This year’s terrifying scenes and sets include “Burning Time,” which is set in an era reminiscent of the Salem Witch Trials.

“A mass panic has broken out, and they are accusing the local women of conjuring,” Harp said. “The customer feels as though they are on trial.”

A new addition to the wooded portion of Spookywoods is Holidayland, where even your favorite time of year can be turned into your worst nightmare.

“It will begin with St. Patrick’s Day, Christmas, Valentine’s, Easter, and then, Halloween,” Harp said. “We’ve given each holiday a set and environment and taken a good mascot for each of them and turned that mascot into a bit of a villain.”

Visitors can also make reservations to visit the Kersey Valley Escape Room.

“We built the Manor last year, and after the season was over we turned it into an escape room,” said Tony Wohlgemuth, founder of Kersey Valley. “It’s about as state-of-the-art as you can get.”

More Than Just Thrills and Chills With every year that Kersey Valley grows with more attractions, it also grows deeper roots into the surrounding community. Every year, they team with the Davidson County chapter of the Red Cross, and anyone who gives blood receives a free ticket to a sneak preview night in September. After that they offer a “buy one, get one free” coupon for blood donations in later September and October.

“We also give 100 free tickets to the Vet Tix organization for veterans and their families,” said Wohlgemuth. “We offer a 50 percent discount at onsite box office sales with military ID.” Kersey Valley is also involved in the schools. Children in the Guilford County School system who complete a summer reading program receive a free Spookywoods or Corn Maze Adventure ticket.

Kersey Valley is located at 1615 Kersey Valley Road in Archdale. For a Spookywoods and Escape Room schedule and reservations, e-mail info@kerseyvalley. com, call 336.431.1700, or visit the website at www.kerseyvalley.com.

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On November 8th, we have the opportunity to let our voices be heard in the General Election. Voting is a privilege denied to many, so please, educate yourself on the issues and be sure to vote for the candidates you feel are best qualified to lead our country, state, and community, and be the voice in our government!

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KEEP

Eric Morgan

Superior Court Judge | SupErior ExpEriEncE Highest rated candidate for Morgan Superior Court Eric Judge in Forsyth County* Superior Court Judge since 2014 • 23+ years experience as a trial lawyer ENDORSED BY • William Freeman, Superior Court Judge (Retired)

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• Bruce Boyer, Retired Kernersville Chamber of Commerce CEO

• Winston-Salem Forsyth County Fraternal Order of Police

• Doc Davis, Mayor of Walkertown

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It is important for all voters to be educated in many areas of the election process. We need to know who is running for elected positions, what they believe, and what kind of track record they have that can shed some light on what they can realistically bring to the table. One area voters struggle with finding information about is the judicial elections, yet these are critically important to our system of justice. It is important to make an informed decision about whom to vote for, because our community is directly impacted by judicial decisions.

Eric Morgan believes his experience as a Superior Court Judge as well as his career as a lawyer has allowed him to help people while seeking justice at the same time. He believes that the ability of citizens to “have their day in court” is essential to our democracy, and it is important that judges have a broad range of experience. For those reasons among many others, Eric Morgan is running to retain his seat as a North Carolina Superior Court Judge, so he can continue to serve the community he calls home.

“Before becoming a judge, I practiced law for 23 years,” said Morgan. “My caseload was mostly litigation in Superior Court. I tried numerous civil superior court cases and also took special training and volunteered with the Forsyth County District Attorney’s office to prosecute child sexual abuse cases. During my time in court, I realized that it would be an incredible honor and privilege to use my experience and legal abilities to promote the search for truth and justice in our courts by serving as a judge.”

As an incumbent Superior Court Judge, Morgan has significant experience. “My background and experience is something I draw on when hearing cases in Superior Court,” said Morgan. “From 1991 until 1994, I practiced in WinstonSalem in the litigation section of Womble Carlyle Sandridge & Rice. I then had a civil litigation practice in Kernersville, in a wide variety of areas of law, including personal injury, construction, contract litigation and business representation.

I was appointed by the Governor in 2014 to serve as a Superior Court Judge upon the retirement of Judge Ron

Spivey. My broad background and experience as a trial attorney in Superior Court has given me the experience needed to serve as a judge.”

With all the attention the legal system has received in the media in recent years, it is increasingly important to be informed and confident about your vote. “At the very core of our system of government is trust in the legal system,” said Morgan. “It is my hope that we can continue to promote a high level of trust in our courts. I look forward to continuing to be fair, make sure that parties have a full opportunity to be heard and that justice is served. I have been very honored to be endorsed by Scott Cunningham, retired Kernersville Chief of Police Neal Stockton, the North Carolina Fraternal Order of Police, the Winston-Salem Forsyth County Fraternal Order of Police, and the North Carolina Police Benevolent Association,” said Morgan. “I am honored to have the support and endorsement of William B. Reingold, Chief District Court Judge (retired) and William Freeman, Superior Court Judge (retired), and Bruce Boyer, retired Kernersville Chamber of Commerce CEO. Faith is an important part of my life, and I am an active member of First Baptist Church of Kernersville, where I have served as a deacon, as a trustee, and I have taught Sunday school for many years.”

Eric Morgan and his wife, Dawn, have three children, who are active in scouting. Their oldest, John, is an Eagle Scout and was Senior Class President at East Forsyth High School in 2016. Dawn was elected to the Kernersville Board of Aldermen in 2001 and became Mayor in 2008. She was recognized as the Kernersville Citizen of the Year in 2011 and Small Business Advocate of the Year in 2014 by the Kernersville Chamber of Commerce. Mayor Morgan is the first female in the history of Kernersville to be elected Mayor; the town was incorporated in 1871.

For more information about Eric Morgan, visit www. keepmorganjudge.com, or visit www.electncjudges.org for a complete list of the evaluations of judges by North Carolina attorneys.

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When people ask North Carolina House Representative Donny Lambeth why he doesn’t “slow down” and relax after retiring from his 40-year career with Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center, his answer is simple—there is more to be done.

schools and seeing bond issues passed while serving on the school board. Donny has been married to Pam for 43 years, and each of their four daughters lives and works in Winston-Salem, several of them in the field of education.

Donny Lambeth’s Winston-Salem roots run deep. Born and raised in the city, Donny graduated from Parkland High School, going on to earn his undergraduate degree from High Point University and his MBA from Wake Forest University.

“My wife is a teacher, my daughters grew up and were educated here in Forsyth County, and I have six grandchildren in the school system,” Donny says. “For me, improving the state of education is not just about politics—it is personal.”

Starting out as an entry-level accountant, Donny worked his way through the ranks to serve as Chief Executive Officer of Wake Forest Baptist Hospital, one of the largest medical institutions in the state. His experiences at the Medical Center, as well as his involvement on the local school board, where he served as Chairman for 18 years, primed Donny for service in the North Carolina state legislature.

Having decades of experience in the healthcare and education fields, as well as a background in finance, has provided Donny with the knowledge needed to serve as a leader in the House, where he has led the Budget and Health Committees, and played a major role in reforming Medicaid.

“At the Medical Center, at every stage throughout my career, my goal was always to put the patient first,” Donny says. “I am now in a position to make policy decisions at a state level, and my goal continues to be putting Forsyth County residents first, and thinking about how such decisions affect them.”

Donny’s commitment to Forsyth County and its residents is evident not just in Raleigh, but at home, too. He has served on several nonprofit boards, including Hospice and Leadership Winston-Salem, and has been involved in building several new

“When I started at the Medical Center right out of college, I was interested in how this institution drew residents to our area,” Donny remarks. “We’ve got a lot going for us here in Forsyth County, and I want to do whatever I can to keep that momentum going and help our community thrive.”

Donny’s life experiences—as a lifelong Winston-Salem resident, a healthcare industry professional, and a public servant in the education arena—have given him the knowledge to make informed decisions in the North Carolina House of Representatives. He will start his 3rd term this fall, and has no desire to slow down anytime soon.

Lifelong Winston-Salem Resident with a Healthcare and Education Focus:

Donny Lambeth – NC House of Representatives

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FAMILY is important to Donny, and he especially enjoys spending time with his grandchildren!

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Donnie Lambeth

There is no doubt America is the greatest nation in the world.

Each of us needs to continue working to make it a safer and better country for the next generation.

Fiscally Responsible:

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RAISING EVERY CHILD Benefits of Universal Pre-K

BY FAMILY SERVICES All children have an inherent right to realize their full potential. Yet, too many of our youngest children in Forsyth County do not enjoy the same opportunities for success. They are not ready to learn when they enter school. They start behind and constantly struggle to catch up. Too many never catch up.

We know that quality early childhood development has an enormous impact on a child’s ability to succeed in school and in life. We also know that providing the opportunity for every child to benefit from quality Pre-Kindergarten education results in positive social and economic outcomes for an entire community.

That’s why Family Services formed the Universal Pre-K Steering Committee, consisting of leaders in the early childhood development field who have created a plan for making quality Pre-K programs available to all children in Forsyth County. These experts have defined what is needed to provide and fund a quality Pre-K system. The committee presented a report of its recommendations at the Universal Pre-K Forum on September 28th, and is now preparing to launch a multi-year campaign to implement them.

Research shows that quality Pre-K programs benefit children throughout their school years and into adulthood: • Children’s brains develop most rapidly well before a child enters kindergarten. The early years in a child’s life represent a critical window of opportunity to develop a child’s full potential—socially, cognitively, and academically.

• Children enrolled in high-quality Pre-K classrooms have improved test scores, better verbal skills, more developed social-emotional skills, and longer attention spans, all factors leading to success in school.

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education services during their K–12 years.

• Children who have benefitted from quality early childhood education demonstrate improved outcomes in terms of post-secondary educational attainment, increased income, home ownership, health status, and less contact with the criminal justice system.

• They also contribute to a healthier community. As children, they receive early health screenings, develop healthy eating habits, and learn to selfregulate their emotions and behaviors.

Universal Pre-K benefits everyone and positions Forsyth County as an innovative, forward-thinking community that is attractive to businesses and families.

That’s why Family Services is also building a network of community champions to focus as never before on ensuring that all children have the opportunity to grow up to be truly remarkable and to contribute their talents to our community.

You understand what is at stake here.

You know that our children are our future. You understand that our community’s economic vitality and social well-being depend on having all our children ready for school and for life.

Family Services invites you to become a champion for our youngest children.

With your help, we can create a community of opportunity and raise every child to lead a fulfilling life. A brighter future for Forsyth County starts here.

For more information on Family Services (www.familyservicesforsyth. org) and Raising Every Child (www. raisingeverychild.org), contact Michelle Speas, Chief Development and Public Relations Officer, at mspeas@familyservicesforsyth.org or 336.778.7053.

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HOME

Home, the spot of earth supremely blest; A dearer, sweeter spot than all the rest. ~ Robert Montgomery

Home. It’s a concept. It’s a place. It’s a feeling. It’s people. And from our youngest years, it’s the place where we feel grounded, centered and accepted. Dorothy said it, and it’s true: “There’s no place like home.”

Because our homes play such an integral part of our family life, it’s only fitting that we dedicate two issues a year to the home.

Welcome to Forsyth Family’s Fall Home issue. This issue is full of content relevant to our homes, including renovation, decorating and maintenance.

Home is the place where you exist as a family.

If “Home is where the heart is,” join us in celebrating the house you call home! We hope you enjoy this issue!

Forsyth Family celebrates the homes in which we live every spring (April) and fall (October).

If you are interested in advertising your home-related business, please email us at Advertising@ForsythMags.com

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BY DENISE HEIDEL

Recently, my husband was out running errands when I decided to rearrange my office. Actually, we had discussed this matter the day before and he thought we should leave it alone. Translation: “I don’t want to move the furniture around while you change your mind 50 times.” But, I figured, as long as he didn’t have to do anything, what difference did it make?

He pulled into the driveway five minutes after I had just put the finishing touches on my newly arranged office. With a Cheshire Cat grin, I welcomed him home. When he saw what I’d done, he rolled his eyes and asked if I had hurt myself, broken anything, scratched the paint, or scuffed the floors. “Give me some credit,” I responded with incredulity (though in truth, I had scuffed the paint a little, but the chair covers it).

My husband is facing the same debacle my grandfather faced with my grandmother, a housewife with a love for decorating. It wasn’t uncommon for him to come home to find that the master bedroom had been switched with the guest room, that the smell of fresh paint was coming from the bathroom or, in one instance, that his favorite chair had been moved, which he only learned after he found himself in the floor.

What can I say? I get it honest.

Most women I know love to decorate their homes. We’re always looking for some way to pretty up our environment and make it reflective of our personal style. And we all know that a determined woman is going to get her way!

And there are so many fantastic ideas out there now, and thanks to Pinterest, inspiration knows no limits! Whether it’s just a new coat of paint, a new light fixture, repurposing an old entertainment center, or styling up a room with some cool new curtains—it’s easier now than ever to truly customize your space.

So fellas—my advice—sit back and let her drive! If you aren’t willing to get out your paintbrush and help, then either let her go for it on her own, or offer to hire a professional to help (chances are great that they may even have some great costsaving ideas!).

Whether you are a DIY’er or not – enjoy making your home your own, and allowing it to reflect your own personal style and taste!

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Love Looking at Homes?

Check Out The Fall Parade of Homes!

BY VONDA HENDERSON

Fall is in the air. The weather has cooled down. It’s a great time to check out some new neighborhoods. Visit the homes featured in the Fall Parade of Homes on Saturday/Sunday, October 15th–16th and 22nd–23rd, from 1:00 to 5:00 pm. Presented by the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem (HBAWS) and sponsored by BB&T, this is a free event, held each spring and fall. Since 1962, the Parade of Homes has been a tradition that prospective and current homeowners have enjoyed attending.

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The 2016 Fall Parade of Homes encompasses a mix of homes (both custom and spec homes) plus a couple of renovated homes (34 homes in total). A great many of us enjoy the fixer-upper shows on TV; why not see some in person? Pricing for the homes ranges from $207,900 up to $800,000+. A free resource guide will be included in the Winston-Salem Journal each Friday before the weekend showings and will also be available at the featured homes. The guide includes information about unique features of each home and the builders and trade vendors whose work is showcased in the homes. The Parade website will be active by October 5th with details, directions, etc.

You may wonder how builders and vendors are selected to participate in the Parade. Membership in the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem is the first requirement. Requests are submitted to the HBAWS and are awarded based on the criteria set by the Association. The folks at each home during the Parade may be builders or trade representatives whose work is part of the home (such as cabinets, flooring, windows, etc.), or listing agents. As Beverly Hayes, Director of Communications and Member Services, shared, “The Parade is an opportunity for people interested in building, buying, or remodeling to talk to the experts about what the process is like, what the latest trends are, and perhaps find the firm(s) that they want to work with on their new or existing home projects.”

The fall Parade is a judged event with the award ceremony scheduled for October 18th. Awards will be gold, silver, and platinum. Third-party judges will make the decisions and determine who the winners will be for 2016. Winners enjoy that special distinction and the bragging rights that go with it. Just ask Don Hamrick, the 2015 Platinum Award winner. Angela Kalamaras, Parade of Homes Chairperson, said, “These builders are the cream of the crop in the Triad and always spotlight new trends in the industry.”

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The Showcase home for this Parade is a new home built by Trent Adams of Adams Egloff Properties. The home is located in Clemmons in the Milburn development (2488 Lansford Court). As the showcase home, its sale will be part of the HBAWS operating budget for the coming year. Beverly listed some of the features of this custom home, “The home is set on almost an acre of land, with features including master bedroom and study on the main floor, open-plan designed gourmet kitchen/breakfast/great room, screened porch, deck, 3-car garage, three bedrooms and bonus room upstairs, finished basement, and attic storage.”

Some of the Parade homes will be staged, some not. About 40 percent of the homes are already sold. Homes are located throughout the area—from Clemmons, Winston-Salem, Pfafftown, Kernersville, Lexington, and Bermuda Run. It’s a great time for serious buyers to attend the Parade, as the interest rates are low, and home inventory is also somewhat low. Industry professionals are on hand to answer questions about construction, trends and other topics of interest to the novice or seasoned home buyer.

Everyone loves a parade. Don’t miss the Fall Parade of Homes! Plus—keep an eye out for the next sponsored HBAWS event, coming up in 2017. The Home and Garden Show is scheduled for February 17th–19th, 2017, at the Winston-Salem Fairgrounds’ Educational Building. Find more information at triadhomeandgardenshow.com.

For more information, contact Beverly Hayes, Director of Communications and Member Services for the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem, located at 220 Charlois Blvd. Their phone number is 336.464.8001, e-mail at beverlyh@hbaws.org, or you can find information on their website: (www.hbaws.org).

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TODD ISENHOUR & HIS LIFELONG LOVE OF HOMES

BY DENISE HEIDEL

Gaston Bachelard once said, “If I were asked to name the chief benefit of the house, I should say: the house shelters daydreaming, the house protects the dreamer, the house allows one to dream in peace.” We can only assume he was talking about an Isenhour Home. For such is certainly the case for Todd Isenhour, a local builder with over 30 years of experience.

be friendly, warm, and inviting. They are traditional homes that are customized to the unique needs of a family, without ever compromising the integrity of the construction.” Isenhour Homes are both functional and great for entertaining. Moreover, they are also creating neighborhoods replete with amenities that inspire a sense of community.

“I’ve loved houses since I was a kid,” explains Todd. “I remember lying on the top bunk of the room I shared with my brothers, drawing houses on the ceiling.” While his mother is undoubtedly pleased that he now draws on a more appropriate surface, the love for houses is deep-rooted in Todd. And it’s evident by the homes he builds.

“A great example is The Village at Brookberry Farm,” says Todd. “This is a community that is inclusive of a village center, a clubhouse, workout facility, pavilion, community pool, tennis facilities, playground, walking trail, and so much more! This is the home that is reminiscent of the era of neighbors who don’t simply live next door to one another, but are active in each other’s lives.

They are friends. This isn’t a place where people exist. This is a place where people live.”

Isenhour’s mission statement is, “We want to create remarkable homes and communities that we are proud to be a part of, and our homeowners love living in.” That’s why Isenhour Homes is committed to providing their clients with a turnkey operation that removes the frustration and headaches of building a home and expedites the process without sacrificing quality.

Todd states, “Our homes are low-maintenance and designed to

Todd loves working with families who are looking to build. “I love every phase of the process, but design is my favorite part,” shares Todd. “This is the part where our relationship is formed with our client. We meet with the homeowner(s), we listen to their vision, get an understanding of their unique needs, their future ambitions…and then we can help create a beautiful home that reflects their style and offers them the functionality they need for their daily lives.”

With over 30 years in business, Isenhour Homes employees 25 people, most of whom have been with the company for ten years or more. The longevity of Todd’s team further demonstrates the excellence that serves as the company’s foundation. Their extensive list of floor plans covers every conceivable need— from starter homes, homes for growing families, easy living homes, and even those buyers looking for a golf course home or a home on the coast. Isenhour Homes can be found throughout the Triad as well as in Southport and surrounding coastal communities.

Learn more about Isenhour Homes! They are located at 3411 Healy Drive, Winston-Salem, NC 27103. Or call 336.659-8211. Be sure to visit them online at IsenhourHomes.com and don’t forget to “like” their Facebook page.

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Todd Isenhour loves what he does, and his inbox is full of accolades from happy clients!

“Todd, [we] wanted to take a moment to tell you what a wonderful experience we have had with your company and employees during our recent build. From the beginning, the process has been seamless and everyone friendly and professional.

We could not have had a more pleasant experience. We look forward to many happy years in our beautiful new home.”

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~ Travis and Cindy B. “You did such a wonderful job building our home.

It felt like home the very first night we moved in—there was no ‘nervous’ feeling…. I’ve never seen anyone who stands behind his product like you do. Everyone who works for you has been extremely pleasant, helpful and friendly. You have a great staff, which says a lot for you.” ~ Adele A. “Building with Isenhour Homes was the best decision we ever made. You created a custom floor plan that worked perfectly for life with our four busy children. The Isenhour staff truly became family as we trusted your team with the important task of creating a home in which we would raise our family. We are truly grateful we chose to work with you.” ~ Scott and Alexis S.

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Thinking of MOO-ving to the Country...?

BY LISA S.T. DOSS Miles outside the city limit, the highway leads to a two-lane road where there are fewer houses, pastoral views, cooler temperatures, and magnificent skies. With each mile traveled, the release of tension and a happier disposition may make you feel as though a magical line was crossed.

Quite suddenly, you will peer out into the great distance, looking side to side, and skyward. There are any number of reasons individuals and families desire to transition to a country lifestyle. The dreams are often grand; yet, the basic goal is to become a successful, self-sufficient grower or farmer. If you have such thoughts, there are a number of aspects to consider in your decision.

Finding Land Similar to buying the perfect home, locating the right tract of land has its difficulties. The requirements may begin with a few questions or considerations such as: • Does the acreage have a water source, such as a pond or multiple creeks?

• Is a functional cabin or house essential, or are you willing to build?

• What are the soil conditions? Silt, sand, clay, or over-farmed soil, for instance, may require improving the soil structure.

• Land with established fencing and gates and barns in good condition will save both time and great expense.

• How far are you willing to drive to buy gas or other essential supplies?

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With acreage, it is important to consider the necessity of owning a medium-sized tractor with attachments, such as a finish mower and bush hog, tiller, small bucket, and various-sized augers. Equipment will aide in the process of completing essential projects faster, and ease the ache of your body, especially your hands, back, and ears.

Intent to Develop If your intent is to purchase over tenand-a-half acres, a banking institution emphasizing “farm loans” is the one-andonly option. On a case-by-case basis, acreage including a small cabin or house would qualify for a land loan. This means if you intend to develop the land for growing berries, fruit trees or mushrooms, or becoming apiary or livestock farmers, a banking institution would support your willingness to get started.

Help Is Around the Corner Of course, not all plans succeed with the first attempt. In your first three years, you will undoubtedly question the growth of blueberry plants or how to protect your flock of chickens from predators. The beauty of living in a farming community is that your neighbors have most likely experienced the very same problems.

Established farmers will be glad to share advice and help you succeed.

Additional Resources: • By walking into your town’s market, hardware or antique store, you will receive the names of well-respected

men and women who can assist with specialized requests, such as grading, clearing land, or hauling soil or stone.

• If you need your soil tested, free classes or information, a representative from the North Carolina Cooperative Extension office will be glad to assist.

• There are wonderful farming magazines, books, and online articles that can provide detailed information for beginners.

An Unexpected Appreciation Living off the land is never boring. The “to-do list” will always have additions, and every effort will be at the mercy of unexpected frosts, late snowfalls, heavy rainfall, high humidity, or drought.

Of course, mowing may take days to finish, and larger projects, months.

Unexpectedly, you’ll love the simple pleasure of providing fresh water and feed to your hens and livestock. Well before your arrival, they will cluck and bray in anticipation. It will make sense to offer comment on their sweet disposition or beautiful features, and many will receive clever, memorable names. Fruit will become plentiful from bushes and trees, and your gardening efforts will reveal a need for new recipes and a desire to can.

The seasonal and daily routine has a sweet rhythm, which sometimes includes a lyrical symphony of clucks and quacks, brays and moos, and perhaps, the faintest sound of a babbling brook.

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BY MARTIE EMORY If you’re a homeowner in the Winston-Salem area, you’ve probably heard of P3—or know them by their official business name, Precision Paint & Pressure Washing. If not, you need to make a call to energetic owner and dedicated businessman, Marc Englebert. Your home—and your family—will thank you!

For the past five years, Marc has made keeping the homes of his customers looking immaculate his own number one goal, no matter what the season or issue or home design. After finding himself downsized in his corporate career, Marc was lucky enough to find his true calling with the move to open his own business in 2011, and thanks to his strong personal values and uncompromising work ethic, he has found himself well-suited for a career where customer service means absolutely everything.

Even though the company offers services that include professional painting, pressure washing, deck cleaning during the spring and summer months, and non-pressure roof cleaning services to customers throughout Winston-Salem and the surrounding areas, Marc says roof cleaning has grown to make up a very large portion of his business. Best of all, clients are always relieved to find out their less-than-spotless roofs simply needs a good, thorough cleaning and not a full replacement. That’s welcome news for families on a budget!

“Our roof cleaning process is the SoftWash system,” explains Marc. “Approved by the Asphalt Shingles Manufacturers’ Association (important because other pressure cleaning methods can cause serious damage to shingles), it kills the black algae, lichen, and moss that grows on the north side of many roofs.”

In fact, their pump system operates with less pressure than a garden hose.

Marc is also quick to explain that the algae itself is harmless, although homeowners find it unsightly, of course, but if left untreated the algae becomes a perfect breeding ground for other lichen and moss, which can prove to be very damaging to roofs. What appears as black streaks—often thought to be mold on roofs throughout many local neighborhoods—is actually Gloecapsa Magma or Black Algae, a condition that has gone from fairly common to nearly epidemic.

“Every neighborhood more than ten years old is littered with roofs that show black streaks, and it can extend to concrete driveways,” says Marc. P3 is also skilled at keeping those concrete driveways clean for little ones to enjoy a safer play area, and their guaranteed SoftWash whole-house cleaning system is extremely popular with customers.

Every climate that offers warm temperatures much of the year contributes to roof cleaning now being a year-round business for companies like P3. Have your roof cleaned at the very first sign of those pesky black streaks—don’t mistakenly think they will vanish on their own.

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the entire process is to plants—but is proud to say he hasn’t yet lost one!

Marc is also proud to provide every client with what he likes to call, “Worry-free service.” Prompt and professional, that dedication to integrity also includes being courteous, honest, and what has become an absolute must in terms of customer service, being 100% reliable. He knows that his customers treasure their homes as safe, comfortable havens for their families, and reliable service people gather plenty of repeat business and friendly referrals from happy clients!!

Precision Paint & Pressure Washing (P3) is located at 1045 West Bank Street, Suite C, in Winston-Salem. Give Marc a call to discuss sprucing up your home at 336-671-6016 and visit their website at P3ws.com.

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5 NEW TIPS to Prepare Your House for Winter

BY LISA S.T. DOSS The fall season is evident in the natural world through a change of temperature and a spectacular display of color. Secretly, inside trees and caves, underwater and underground, birds, fish, and animals are instinctively preparing for winter’s arrival. This year, we cannot again spend a season in slumber surrounded by our usual comforts. Allow the following five tips to change your mindset and anticipate a season of light, energy, and emotional happiness.

1. REEVALUATE INTERIOR LIGHTING: The arrival of daylight saving time shocks our systems. We are immediately affected by those dreary, shorter days without natural sunlight; therefore, consider brightening the rooms in which you spend the most time. These small changes have the potential to improve your disposition and energy levels.

Brighten dark corners by adding lights to your kitchen counters and cabinets.

Incorporate reflective surfaces, such as mirrors or metallic finishes, intended to cast light and brighten a room.

Solar tubes are an economical way to naturally brighten areas or rooms in your home while reducing the need to use electricity. Just imagine having a brighter bathroom, closet, kitchen or living room on the main level of your home!

2. DESIGN A MUDROOM: The first thing to happen when adults and children come home is for them to shed the weight of winter. Bulky and heavy coats, clothes and shoes are removed and dropped in one location, usually a couch or chair, to be picked up later. Solve the problem by adding a bench with a colorful cushion in the foyer.

Baskets placed underneath could hold favorite shoes or boots. If a closet is too far away, consider adding hooks to accommodate coats and bags.

A plastic mat extending the length of the bench offers protection and eases the task of cleaning.

3. LAYER CURTAINS TO PROMOTE INSULATION: Wrapping windows with plastic each winter can be a time-consuming process; instead, buy white fleece and divide into two panels. Pressed against the molding, this layer of insulation will protect the window against drafts in the winter, and the intense heat of the summer.

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Having a division allows panels to be pulled back and tied when windows are opened, allowing cooling breezes to pass through.

4. LET’S GET PHYSICAL: Winter is a time of movie marathons, eating “comfort” foods, and lounging with warm blankets and fuzzy socks.

The alternative is to create a fitness space in your home with mats, barbells, resistance bands, a balance ball, and a variety of workout routines.

Join forces with a spouse or friend and encourage each other to get active for a set period of time each day. By spring, you’ll be ready for outdoor adventures, gardening and yard work preparation without even needing to stop and rest.

5. COLOR IS A LANGUAGE OF THE SOUL: Appealing to your subconscious is yet another reason to rise above the winter “blues.” Every accent from pillows to vases, duvet covers and curtains has the potential to boost communication, encourage activity or heighten ideas. You’ve known that particular colors can foster your need for socialization and creative thoughts. There was a reason why you painted the kitchen red and have a golden-orange living room.

Allow the following colors to encourage a continued education in color psychology: RED promotes warmth, energy, stimulation and circulation, encourages cravings and heightens the senses and desire.

ORANGE stimulates new ideas and creative thinking.

While it is warm and cheery, it offers a feeling of freedom to the mind and body.

To promote mental acuity in the forms of learning, writing, communicating, and boosting confidence levels, the colors YELLOW or GOLD are needed.

GREEN is earth and offers balance and emotional harmony.

Beyond the annual home maintenance tasks of insulating the water heater, caulking windows and doors, and cleaning out the fireplace, you can harness the very aspect that made you surrender to the idea of a winter’s slumber. Five simple changes can inspire and promote activity, energy, and joy. Why wait?

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Hampton House Art and Framing

BY SUSAN WOODALL It is interesting to look back at the styles you chose when decorating your first home. Excited to be on your own, but sometimes with little resources to purchase items you would love to have, often you would scour yard sales, used furniture shops or your parents’ attic to put together functional pieces more than reflections of your true style. The one constant, when you finally got rid of the posters which brought some color or the print that matched the sofa, was investing in a piece of art that spoke to you and you knew would always be a prominent feature in every home in which you lived.

In the past, it was felt that the colors and style of painting had to match the furniture in the room. A contemporary piece would never be hung in a room with traditional fixtures. Over the years, this idea has changed. “Our philosophy is that sometimes art can be an expensive purchase,” said Mark Hampton, owner of Hampton House Art and Framing. “So we, as do most artists, want the person to bond with that piece of art and say, ‘Wow, that’s incredible; I’m responding to that; I’m emoting something, and I’m going to take it home. This strikes me so strongly that I’m going to hang it in a place where I will always see it.’ For us, it is much more about ‘I love what I have on my walls,’ than ‘it matches the couch.’ That was fine 20 years or more ago, people got comfortable with certain things, but now, a lot of the old hard and fast rules about color, design, etc. have gone out the window for ‘this is what I like,’ ‘I want to see this,’ ‘I’m going to put it up on my wall.’”

Although a lot of the rules regarding color and design have changed, the rules for the visual, spatial and aesthetic still apply. “When we go in to hang a piece for a customer, we ask them what they are responding to about the piece -- the color, lines, style?,” said Hampton. “If the space they want the artwork to be hung does not work spatially, we suggest ways to group or enhance it, keeping it the main focal point, without it getting lost in the space.

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look symmetrically balanced.”

Grouping artwork can be a daunting task. For some, it is hard to visualize how it will look when installed. After patching and repatching the same wall trying to get it just right, Hampton offered two suggestions. “In a grouping, we lay the work on the floor in front of the space, switch them around and consult with the customer until we find the most aesthetically pleasing look,” said Hampton.

“Another idea is to trace each frame or item in the group on brown paper or cardboard and place them on the wall using double-sided tape to see how it works spatially as well as visually. It is also important to note that, just like the art matching the sofa, frames and matting no longer need to match everything in a grouping.”

Hampton House Art and Framing has a myriad of frames to choose from to set off your art perfectly.

“Framing can be expensive, and we will work with our customers to make sure they love what they choose,” said Hampton. “We will show several different looks in matting and frames, showing styles ranging from more traditional, to transitional and contemporary. We offer guidance as to what we feel sets off the piece the best, but ultimately, it is the client’s decision as it is his or her wall it is going to hang on.”

Whether you are looking to outfit commercial space or a special place in your home, Hampton House Art and Framing should be your go-to place.

Their knowledge, wonderful service, fabulous art and frames, and their expertise makes each visit a pleasurable experience.

Hampton House Art and Framing has two locations to serve you. The Winston-Salem Gallery is located at 720 Coliseum Drive (336.723.8869) and is open Monday-Friday from 10(ish)am-5:30pm and Saturday from 11am-4pm. The King Frame Shop is located at 613-A East King Street (336-983-6688) and is open Monday-Friday from 10am-6pm and Saturday from 10am-3pm. Both locations are open by appointment as well. For more information, visit the website at www.winstonpictureframes.com.

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After Five Years of Projects at This Home, It’s Not Just a Business Relationship Anymore

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BY MERIDITH WHITAKER Chris Wrights and Richard and Christie Chance have enjoyed lunch together on the Chances’ back deck many times over the past five years.

They talk about life and family, mostly. The conversation usually begins with an update on Chris’ wife and sons. After that, Chris and Christie may spend an hour or so in the backyard brainstorming and bouncing ideas off each other for new landscaping projects— thinking through what will work, how it will look, and what will make the most financial sense.

Christie has a vision, but she always lets Chris add his professional, creative touch to the projects. Five years and a beautiful yard later, it is clear that they work well as a team.

“When Christie first called me, she and Richard had just moved here from California,” said Chris.

“Another company had removed all their front landscaping. My work began by putting in all new shrubbery in front of the house, along with a large perennial bed and rose garden.”

From there, the project list grew. Stacked stone walls were added around all the beds. A stepping stone walkway was laid, leading from the front to the back of the home. An arbor was placed at the front of the walkway and coral bells, ajuga, and creeping jenny were planted along the path.

Christie and Richard enjoyed their new landscaping so much that each spring they would think of another project to further beautify their home—such as adding additional stone walkways, a rock creek bed for rain runoff, small boulders around flower beds, and a bench for sitting. Their multiple beds are full of color, with plants like hydrangeas, hostas, ferns, lamium, and caladium. They look forward to adding a fire pit soon.

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Chris’ 14 years of experience in the industry helps to guide him when faced with new projects that require careful thought and planning. “This year another patio area was added at the top of a walkway,” said Chris.

“We had to think through it; because of the slope of the land, a block retaining wall had to be built.”

One unique challenge of the Chances’ backyard is that it is almost entirely in full shade, which limits the types of plants that will thrive there (edgeworthia, daphne, and hellebore have proven great additions).

Overcoming such challenges makes Chris’ work even more rewarding.

Gazing out from a seat on the Chances’ deck, it is almost impossible to tell that you’re sitting in the backyard of home in the middle of a neighborhood. It looks more like the view from a mountain cabin in the woods—a green, peaceful, private getaway.

As pleased as Christie and Richard are with their home, Chris is equally pleased and proud. “Some landscaping companies aren’t going to put that kind of time into planning,” he said. “They want to come in, make a plan, get it done, and move on to the next project.” That’s where Wrights Landscaping is different, he says.

In Christie Chance’s words, “Chris has an impeccable work ethic combined with a good heart. We love him.” The relationship Chris has built with Christie and Richard is much more than a working, business relationship. After years together and many back deck lunches and conversations, the three are more like family.

For more information on how Wrights Landscaping can help you with any of your landscaping needs—from simply cutting grass to re-designing your outdoor living environment, and everything in between—visit wrightsnurseryandlandscaping.com or call 336-978-0816.

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Accent with Fabric

BY VONDA HENDERSON

Suzie Phelan, the owner of “Stitches,” has over 30 years of experience in custom window treatments, bed ensembles, pillows, valances/cornices, and more. Suzie shared that her first venture into custom curtains was for herself; the ones she wanted were too expensive for her budget, so she used her sewing talents to make her own. She had learned to sew in school as part of the 4-H program. Little did she know that those classes would someday evolve into a career that she clearly enjoys. Suzie said that she launched Stitches when an elderly friend encouraged her to start her own business. “You never know where your inspiration may come from,” Suzie mused. Over the years, she’s had many repeat customers. Much of her business is by recommendation from satisfied clients.

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Suzie uses her home as Stitches’ base of operation.

She has a spacious workroom with all the sewing equipment she needs. Her 5’x 10’ work table can easily accommodate large projects. Plus, she has space in her basement to make the valence boards as needed. From sewing machines to saws, Suzie uses the time-honored saying, “Measure twice; cut once.”

That saying/philosophy works for valences and for cutting fabrics.

The trend in curtains has changed over the years.

Now, instead of heavy, lined drapes, window treatments are lighter. Suzie explained that “Less is better in terms of window treatments. Simple, minimalist window panels in a variety of fabric shades are in vogue. Panels add softness to a room and function to frame windows and absorb noise.” Whether the panels actually close over windows is optional. As with the simplicity of panels, valences tend to be of simple design with clean lines. Suzie offers assistance to her clients with measuring, consultation and fabric selection as needed.

rooms. The neutral shades add warmth to rooms while letting in natural light. Shades of gray and woodsy taupe colors are quite popular at present.

Suzie recommends adding pops of color to rooms with pillows.

Pillows serve as accent pieces and can easily be changed by season or holiday to alter the look of a room. She uses down forms for pillows, as they hold up so well over time. More expensive fabrics may be used for pillows to create unique looks.

Spring colors, fall colors, holiday pillows—all can create a new look when backed by neutrals on the windows and walls. Those same trends work well in bedrooms, too. Children’s rooms can evolve from Frozen or “Spiderman” themes to a teen’s domain with just a change of patterns and colors.

Are you ready for a fresh look for your windows? Want some color pops around your great room or bedroom? Need some suggestions or help measuring? Call Suzie at Stitches. You can reach her via her cell number (336.414.4916), her Stitches number (336.766.1614), or via e-mail at sbp.stitches@gmail.com.

Linens and cottons are the primary fabrics of choice. Color choices tend to be neutral. Think shades of ivory, light gray, cream, and beige. Pure white is usually too sterile for most

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9 TIPS FOR A CLUTTER-FREE HOME

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

In a matter of seconds, clutter silently arrives in our homes and leaves its mark. Our pattern of walking in endless circles picking up and placing items in laundry rooms or closets, dishwashers or trash cans often feels overwhelming and tires the soul. Examining the effort to maintain order has its challenges.

Everyone’s approach is uniquely individualized; however, it never hurts to learn a few new and practical strategies to help save time and feel in control of household organization.

KITCHEN 1. FORGETTING GROCERY ITEMS: It happens often. You have returned from the grocery store to realize needed items were forgotten. Post a magnetic pad of paper on your refrigerator to write down items for the next grocery run. Don’t forget to take it with you.

2. REFRIGERATOR AND PANTRY ITEMS: How long does it take to find an item in your refrigerator? Clutter occurs when the refrigerator is not purged on a weekly basis. One solution is to start labeling storage containers with discarded dates. (Lunch meats, for instance, should be tossed seven days after opening.) This rule can also apply to your pantry. It will take a second to use a Sharpie on canned and boxed goods. Large print will encourage you to choose items towards the back or eat well before you discover a box or bag expired three years ago.

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multiple utensils requires the attention of cleaning up. Meal prepping will help cut time in the kitchen and solve the daily question, “What’s for dinner, tonight?” By buying in bulk and planning meals, you will eat more nutritious meals and save money.

4. KITCHEN COUNTERS: How often do you use items on your countertops?

Move rarely used items such as blenders or food processors to the bottom shelf of your pantry. The same applies to dishes and coffee mugs, baskets and containers holding utensils.

Imagine the available space and time you will save wiping down a clutterfree countertop!

5. STORAGE CONTAINERS: Plastic storage containers in various sizes with separate non-attached lids equals instantaneous frustration. Money is wasted on replacing warped and unmatched containers; instead, invest in glass. One colored lid per size eliminates the frustration. And, the only downside is the lids must be hand washed.

Closets and Drawers 6. FOLDING CLOTHES: After taking the clothes out of the dryer, determine who has the most articles. Time will be saved and fewer steps required if clothes are folded and put away in one particular bedroom.

7. KEEP, DISCARD, OR DONATE: Clutter abounds when quick decisions are not made regarding the items in our closets and drawers. The three-second

rule works. Hold up an item and make a decision in three seconds to either keep, discard, or donate. Lingering on a decision often means you are not ready to part; however, ask yourself, “When did I wear it last?” If you cannot recall, perhaps it is time to let go.

Home and Office 8. A COMMAND CENTER: We all have a centralized location to care for the daily mail. Without the daily attention to acknowledge bills, file important documents, or shred, this area can instantly become a place of clutter. The solution is to surround your command center with everything you need in a hand’s reach; therefore, keep your financial book or laptop, filing cabinet, shredder, and paper recycling basket all together. The task of going through the mail can be completed in just a few minutes.

Mudroom or Entrances 9. KEYS AND SHOES: In anxious screams, the words usually begin with, “I can’t find my….” and ends with keys or shoes. It happens as a member of the household is trying to leave the house. Solve the problem by providing a basket for keys near the front door. If matching shoes tend to delay departure, place baskets for each member of the household underneath a wide bench. Taking the time to sit and store will reduce clutter and ease daily frustration.

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Tiny House Movement

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS My family is fascinated by the idea of the Tiny House Movement. Recently, a local couple from Kernersville was featured on an episode of Tiny House, Big Living on HGTV, showing the process of building their tiny home. So, what exactly comprises tiny living? The concept revolves around people who are opting to downsize their lives in many areas. American homes now average around 2,500 square feet. For most homeowners, a third to a half of their income is dedicated to their house and property! It is no surprise that seventy-five percent of us are forced to live in a paycheck-to-paycheck manner. On the flip side, tiny homes are between one hundred to four hundred square feet. While that may sound ridiculously small, the concept of downsizing and living in a simpler manner can be quite attractive to many people!

Why are so many folks drawn to this lifestyle? There are many enticing reasons. Financially, living smaller can be tempting when you consider that you can “work less and live more,” which happens to be the tagline of one tiny- house television show. In general, Americans are working longer hours to make ends meet than ever before. To be able to cut those hours and spend more time with loved ones is definitely alluring! We are surrounded by mass consumerism and taught that having more equals being successful.

This concept is, at its core, materialistic and completely at odds with living a full and happy life. If the option is having twenty pairs of jeans or spending time with my child, that decision should absolutely be a no-brainer!

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The environmental benefits are also to be considered.

Our resources are being depleted at a faster rate than we can replenish them. Constructing an averagesized home requires nearly seven logging trucks of wood products, while a tiny house uses about half of one truck! Carbon dioxide emissions associated with a “normal” home rates at about 28,000 pounds every year. In contrast, a tiny house only generates around 2,000 pounds, decreasing the pollution amounts significantly. Much less energy to heat and cool the space is used, which amounts to a smaller carbon footprint. There is also a significant savings on utility bills! You can even go so far as to essentially live off the grid by using solar or wind resources for power, filtration systems, and even composting toilets.

The largest challenge of tiny house living is location!

Finding a place where building such a home is allowed is absolutely an obstacle. Most municipalities have building codes that indicate a minimum size for dwellings. Rural areas tend to have more options and liberal zoning codes. It is also possible to build a tiny home on wheels and keep it in an RV park. In fact, many tiny-house owners prefer this option, as it gives them the freedom of traveling in their own abode!

Tiny-house living forces people to de-clutter their lives and keep only what is important or necessary.

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FIRE SAFETY

BY HEATHER SPIVEY

My 9-year-old son, Jackson, and I were leaving the movie theater on this particular afternoon and, as usual, he asked if we could drive by our neighborhood fire station (which we do numerous times a day). I said yes, and one-upped it and said we should visit all of the City Fire Stations in Winston-Salem. That interested him and he could not stop talking about it until we got home to look up their locations. There are 20 City Fire Stations, and although he knows what trucks are at which stations, he didn’t know their physical locations.

Jackson methodically plotted our route and the order of visits, and our mission was set. He slept with the piece of paper and got up unusually early the next morning. Our day was literally mapped out—we were going to the first ten fire stations, which we did, but the “pop-up” storm dampened our last visit to #10 (Country Club Road). We could only drive by and not get out and take Jackson’s picture in front of the station. We had done that with the previous nine stations and got to talk with several firemen at some of the locations, like at Station #5 on Martin Luther King Blvd., Captain Marvin James at Station #18 on Peace Haven Road and three firemen at Station #11 on Waughtown Street. These men and women do so much for our community— they offer a “Safe Place” for anyone who needs one, and are ready to respond when we need them most. When they aren’t answering calls they are training and always learning ways to become even more proficient.

We also had the opportunity to talk for a few extra minutes with the firemen at our local station #7, where Rescue One resides. They shared some helpful safety tips in recognition of “Fire Safety Prevention Month.” One tip was that we should

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consider sleeping with our bedroom door closed. Studies show that houses built relatively recently are built with materials that burn dramatically faster than the materials used in older homes, thus greatly decreasing the escape time for a resident in a burning structure.

Captain Monte Cockerham adds, “Due to all the plastics and synthetic material in our furniture in our home—our house fires are burning faster. This will reduce the time the residents have to get out of the home during the fire. The smoke is deadly as well, so it is imperative that all residents keep your bedroom doors closed at night to put a barrier between a possible fire and your room. Simply closing the door of our bedrooms will slow the smoke from filling your bedroom and give people time to get out.”

Another fire safety reminder—all homes need to have smoke detectors to alert everyone in case of fire. Smoke detectors should be on all levels of homes and in hallways outside of bedrooms. Newer homes should have smoke detectors in all bedrooms.

While we recognize that October is Fire Safety Awareness Month, we should always keep fire safety top of our mind every day of the year and say thank you to these special men and women that risk their lives to save others. Our community is fortunate to have such a respectable and dedicated group of firefighters that take their jobs seriously and passionately. Their goal is to keep us safe and help protect us, as well as teach us how to protect ourselves.

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When a Door Closes, a Window Opens

BY DENISE HEIDEL PHOTO BY KYLE DUNCAN PHOTOGRAPHY

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Opening a business is always a risky move. There’s a lot at stake and, for the first few years, generally more money going out the door than there is coming in. In 2008, during the economic crisis caused by the sub-prime mortgage markets, many established businesses floundered or closed, and the idea of starting a new one seemed virtually impossible, especially one dealing in construction supply. Ben Heinsohn, owner of Salem Windows & Doors, recognized the challenges, but also saw the opportunities. He had the vision, the faith and the support of his family to take that “leap of faith.”

Thankfully for him, his family, his business, and his clients, his commitment and determination have paid off.

While working as operations manager for a nowdefunct window and door company, Heinsohn took the initiative to develop a commercial branch of that business. After working for several months to land a major historic renovation contract, by the time the customer was ready to proceed, his employer was going out of business. Heinsohn didn’t want his hard work wasted, and after a soul-searching conversation with his wife, Joy, he decided to proceed with the commercial project on his own. After all, he had the connections and knew the scope of the project; all that was lacking was an official company. That’s when Salem Windows & Doors was created.

Beginning as a home-based business, Salem Windows and Doors flourished during a time of economic insecurity; people were afraid to spend money, and home prices were dropping. However, despite the uphill battle he faced, Heinsohn persevered. Today, the company has two physical locations—their main showroom in Kernersville, and a second location, serving the High Country in Boone.

“I have taken a conservative approach to my growth plan,” said Heinsohn. “I’ve focused the foundation of my business on product knowledge, customer service and understanding the marketplace. It enables our team and me to be rooted in credibility. And where there is credibility, there is trust. Earning someone’s trust is a big responsibility, and it’s one my team and I take very seriously.”

After all, selecting the right windows and doors is a more intricate process than simply going to a big box chain store or a lumberyard. Clients want to make decisions based on trust in the products they are purchasing. They are relying

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on experts like Heinsohn and his sales team, Chris Kates and Randy Finley, to help them understand their options.

“Our team is educated on the brands we represent, as well as the competition. At a big retail store, you may work with one person one day, and that person may have limited training,” says Heinsohn. “Then, if you go back a week later, you may find that the person you talked to has either been transferred to another department the next week or isn’t working that shift. Most people can relate to the frustration of starting a conversation, then beginning the process all over again when the original person is no longer available. We aren’t like that.

Salem Windows & Doors is a business that is structured and designed to have in-depth conversations, which establishes trust and builds lasting relationships.“ Heinsohn shares, “Our clients appreciate that when they talk to me, they can call back and talk to me again. If they talked to our Kernersville sales manager, Chris Kates, or Randy Finley in Boone, they can call back and speak directly with them.

We are the same people they will work with the first time, third time and last time. Whatever it takes to make them comfortable with their decision, we are there to listen, educate and guide them towards selecting the right product for them.”

Heinsohn’s success can also be credited to his commitment to educating his clients. “I spent over four years in the classroom. As a former teacher and coach,” shared Heinsohn, “I value education and building partnerships. I recognize the importance of informed decisions. We aren’t focused

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on ‘selling’ to our clients, but instead, we want to give them the knowledge they need to make the best decision. I truly believe that is a key component of our survival in an industry that often is driven by the lowest price.”

Another big difference is Heinsohn’s willingness to listen. “My team and I are committed to learning what the client needs.

We believe in face-to-face meetings, seeing the project firsthand and personalizing the experience. For instance, it’s not enough just to know how many windows or doors they need, or the measurements of the frames. We need to know about the construction of the property. What kind of building is it?

Obviously, you wouldn’t put a steel door in a log cabin, nor would you put a rustic wooden door in a super-modern office space. When we can understand the client’s unique needs, we can make recommendations that work for them. We represent several brands, including trustworthy names, such as Marvin and Sierra Pacific. These are products that can address a variety of situations, and work within a variety of budgets.”

For this father of two, owning a small, local business offers him the best of both worlds. Heinsohn has been able to develop his business model not only according to what works for the marketplace, but also what works for his family. A family man through and through, Heinsohn knows how he expects a business to treat his wife and children, and he makes it a goal to treat his clients with the same respect.

“Whether our client is investing in new construction, remodeling, or simply replacing windows that are no longer

efficient, our customers can count on us. I’m not interested in selling windows and doors just to meet a quota. I value and appreciate that my clients have other options. Since they are willing to trust me to respond to their needs, I want to be sure I deserve that trust. That’s my number-one priority in this business.”

Salem Windows and Doors is headquartered at 400 West Mountain St. in Kernersville. You can contact them at 336.770.5777, drop by or e-mail Info@ SalemWindowsAndDoors.com. If you’re in the High Country, be sure to visit Randy at 8968 Highway 105 S. in Boone. The Boone location can be reached at 828.963.6016. Visit SalemWindowsAndDoors.com and be sure to “like” them on Facebook.

“I appreciate how promptly, and thoroughly you handled this even though it was a small job. You and your installers were all excellent.” ~ Drew V. ”We had our new windows installed by Salem Windows & Doors, and we couldn’t be more pleased with the work they did. Not only were they always on time, but they also made sure we were satisfied before leaving the job. We wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Salem Windows & Doors to our friends and family.” ~ Chris & Katie B. “I have been so pleased with the work done by Salem Windows & Doors.

When the windows and doors came in, they began immediately. I can’t say enough good about the work done for me. They are thorough and work to completion. I don’t think you’ll go wrong with Salem Windows & Doors!” ~ Bet W.

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Ask the Experts from Brenner FIT

BY CASEY FOSTER, BS, ACSM-CPT, Play Facilitator Certified through US Play Coalition Q: I want my family to be more active together.

Sometimes we walk together, but I feel like I force everyone to come along. No one really wants to walk, and our time together turns into kids telling me to stop being a drill sergeant. I want to find some activity the whole family can enjoy. Do you have any ideas for fun family activities?

Signed: Drill Sergeant Dad A: Drill Sergeant Dad, you are on the right track!

Thinking about how to make activity fun for everyone is the first step in getting your family moving. So, what are the best activities? My answer? “Whatever you find fun!” Activity does not have to be going to the gym or participating in a sport. Playing kickball in the backyard or hide-and-seek can get everyone in your family moving. You and your kids look forward to playing when you find enjoyable ways to move. And, you and your family are more likely to be consistent with activities if all of you enjoy them.

If you are looking for a fun way to play, hula hooping may be right for your family. Grab some hula hoops and see who can hoop the longest. Or, try hooping with more than one hula hoop at a time. Some families come up with their own hula hoop games and rules.

But, if following the rules creates more arguments than fun, focus more on playing and less on the rules. If your family works well with rules, try these hula hoop games: Musical Hula Hoops. Play just like musical chairs. If you have four players, set out three hula hoops. Play some of your family’s favorite music. When the music stops, hop 54 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

in a hula hoop. If you did not make it into a hoop, you are out.

Hula Hoop Scotch. Design your own hopscotch by placing hula hoops together in any pattern. Use the hoops to play the traditional game of hopscotch.

Pass the Hoop. Stand in a circle holding hands. Pass the hoop around as fast as you can without breaking the circle.

Good luck and keep your family moving!

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Brenner FIT’s first community hooping class will be Thursday, October 6th from 6 to 7:30 pm at Amos Cottage, 3325 Silas Creek Parkway, Winston-Salem. In this FREE class, you will make a hula hoop and learn how to use it. Register by calling 336-713-2348 or e-mail brennerfit@wakehealth.edu.

Brenner FIT (Families in Training), a pediatric weightmanagement program at Wake Forest Baptist Health Brenner Children’s Hospital, is here to help families find fun ways to play together. Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family Collaborative offers free cooking, nutrition, and parenting classes. Visit BrennerChildrens.org for our current class listing.

Free Brenner FIT Classes Join experts from Brenner Children’s Hospital for these FREE Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family Collaborative classes. Registration is required. Unless otherwise noted, classes are held at Brenner FIT in the William G. White Jr. Family YMCA, 775 West End Blvd., Winston-Salem.

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6 to 7 pm \ Tuesdays, October 4, 11, 25 Chicken Enchiladas During this hands-on cooking class, your family will prepare a quick meal and learn how it meets Brenner FIT recommendations. Each meal follows the Balanced Plate concept and will include a protein, grain, fruit and vegetable. Mature children are welcome with parental supervision.

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Calvary Day School

The NEW Old School

AT CALVARY DAY SCHOOL (CDS), we are blessed and excited to be celebrating 45 YEARS of Christian education right here in Winston Salem! While our name and look may be new, one thing that remains constant is our dedication to outstanding education built on a Biblical foundation. We strive to connect the hearts and minds of our students every time they walk through our doors, whether it is in the classroom or the ballfield.

Our teachers and administrators work together to ensure that every child in every grade is having their needs met through a developmentally appropriate yet challenging curriculum that is consistent year after year.

With an average class size of 18, teachers are able to form bonds with their students and have a vested interest in seeing them reach their God-given potential on all levels. The teachers work closely with parents to ensure needs are being met. But most importantly, our families come together to support each other and lift each other up. Lifelong friends are made in these halls, and it’s not just among the students!

WHAT DOES CDS HAVE TO OFFER? CDS’s Early Education program offers a wide range of multi-sensory activities designed specifically for children 2-4 years of age. These classes are offered 2, 3, or 5 days per week from 8:15-noon. Our Early Education students participate in group activities and learn science, math, art, reading readiness, and music through play and games that are designed to for this age to thrive and succeed.

Our Lower School program is where the foundation for lifelong learning begins. In grades K-6th, our students are encouraged and challenged with the building blocks of phonics, reading, spelling, grammar, math, science, writing, and Latin vocabulary. Each core class is taught in conjunction with Biblical teachings and supported by specialty classes. Our students participate in music, art, chapel, P.E., and media center each week to provide a well-rounded experience.

Once our students reach the Upper School, they really begin to soar as independent thinkers. They are taught to think critically and make God centered conclusions based on the academic knowledge they have gained.

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college preparatory curriculum. Every student in the high school uses their Google Chromebook to integrate technology into their daily learning and has access to state of the art labs. With 100% graduation rate and over $4 million in scholarships awarded to last year’s graduates alone, our students leave us prepared and confident to make a difference in colleges across the country.

Through the numerous extracurricular activities offered, our student graduate from CDS well rounded. Minds are engaged through a wide range of clubs, and hearts are changed through our service projects. Service projects range from our 2-year-old class making get well cards to our senior class mission trip to Costa Rica where they teach Vacation Bible School and work on construction projects. These service opportunities are often one of the highlights of our students’ Calvary Day School experience.

“As a parent, one of the things that warms my heart is the way that these teachers truly care about my kids and the person they are becoming. They are treated with respect and greeted with a smile. My kids are learning to become better people because of CDS.” Kelly Parker, CDS Parent While academic excellence is a priority at CDS, athletics and the arts are a big part of the overall student experience. Through athletic training and competition, we teach sportsmanship, fellowship, teamwork, and respect.

As members of the North Carolina Independent School Association (NCISAA), students are able to compete at the middle, junior varsity, and varsity level. CDS is competitive in 13 sports at various levels, such as soccer, cheerleading, basketball, cross country, volleyball, tennis, swimming, track, golf, baseball, and softball.

CDS also offers top-notch drama and arts programs. Every fall and spring the upper school students are engaged in various productions including dinner theater, spring musical, Christmas program, and other productions.

Each production is performed with excellence as an act of worship. Lower school students are also able to participate in our musical theater, talent show and music classes throughout the year.

CDS CAN BE YOUR FAMILY TOO! For 45 years, it has been Calvary Day School’s tradition to graduate students that are well rounded, have a love for Christ, and are prepared to impact the world around them. We are blessed and honored to have Alumni around the country and the world living out their personal mission thanks to the foundation and preparation they received at CDS. This school is a community; a community that welcomes new members with open arms. Our students, our families, our teachers, our staff; everyone is a member of our family. We support each other, we love each other, we help each other, we pray for each other. We would love to show you the Calvary difference and welcome you into this family!

On November 15th, we will host a Kindergarten Prep 101 event. At this event, we will help answer your questions as you navigate through preparing for Kindergarten. How do you know if your child is ready? What should you look for in a school? What is developmentally appropriate for Kindergarteners? All of this and more will be answered by a leading expert in Childhood development and education. The event is free and open to all families but especially those families of rising kindergarteners for the 2017/2018 school year.

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A Friend to Your Family and the Environment!

BY MARTIE EMORY

BOTH eco-friendly and family-friendly, ShineTime Express Carwash in Winston-Salem is something of a labor of love for Adam and Erin Bartley. Before opening in March 2016, the couple—both immersed in successful business careers— spent a couple of years planning and preparing to own their own business, something they could build together.

Adam first discovered the “express exterior car wash model,” and Erin says they both simply fell in love with the concept.

“As busy parents, we knew we would be users of the service, if only we had one in town,” says Erin. “So we decided this was our chance to make our dream of owning our business come true!”

They are proud to provide a service that’s a great fit for other busy families. “The three-minute car wash allows folks to get through fast,” says Adam. “Parents with young kids can leave them in their car seats and drive on through. Kids love the car wash because of the fun lights inside the tunnel, but also because they can chip in and help.”

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Erin says in their handy self-service area—which includes free vacuums, microfiber towels, and glass cleaner—they frequently see the whole family working together: “Mom is wiping down the dash, kids are vacuuming, and dad is cleaning the windows,” she explains.

“It’s fun to see everyone working together and having a good time.”

Adam and Erin are equally proud to show their sons the value of striving for goals and working hard. As a locally owned, familyoperated business, ShineTime also offers unique fundraising programs for community organizations, where a simple code allows twenty percent of every purchase made by your family and friends to go directly to support your group or community project.

As the biggest bonus, now more than ever, these young entrepreneurs are enthusiastic about staying true to a commitment to the environment, another mission they want to share and pass on to their sons.

“We have always been an eco-conscious family, so it was important to us to bring that into our business,” says Adam. “It’s rewarding to know that we are doing our part to preserve the natural resources of our community.”

“As members of the International Car Wash Association’s® WaterSavers® Program, ShineTime follows strict environmental standards that include water reclamation, recapturing, and recycling. The fully automated drive-through wash is eco-friendly, phosphate free, and utilizes only bio-degradable detergents.

WaterSavers ® is a recognition program that helps professional car washes promote their goal of being kind to the environment, including the following: • All excess water must be routed to water treatment or a septic field as permitted.

• Each business must install a back-flow prevention device on the potable water supply.

• Spray nozzles must be inspected annually for efficiency.

• All water-saving devices must be maintained to the specifications for the conservation of water.

Washing cars at home—picture you and your family soaking wet on the driveway—not surprisingly means that dirty water from that concrete surface winds up in rivers, streams, and lakes, carrying with it dirt, debris, and other pollutants from the concrete. Not only is the water from a ShineTime wash recycled or returned cleanly to the environment, but the washes save you valuable time, are extremely safe for your car, and perfect to protect your shiny investment!

Plus, a typical home car wash can use up to 100 gallons of water, while ShineTime uses only one-third of that amount. Isn’t that all you really need to know?

Make a visit to ShineTime Express Carwash part of your family’s weekly routine, and be sure to ask about their Fast Pass Unlimited Wash Club. ShineTime is located at 3910 Oxford Station Lane, just off Hanes Mall Blvd. in Winston-Salem. Reach them at 336-7783842 or visit them Monday through Saturday, 8:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m., and Sunday, 11:00 a.m.–7:00 p.m., rain or shine.

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Journey to the Wild West all started with Cub Scout Adventure

BY FRED PATTERSON, Old Hickory Council, Boy Scouts of America

For eight teenagers and four adults, riding horseback in the backcountry of New Mexico was a chance of a lifetime. Scouts of Troop 715, sponsored by New Philadelphia Moravian Church, planned for over two years to travel to Philmont Scout Ranch. It is a large, rugged, mountainous ranch, located near the town of Cimarron, New Mexico, covering 140,177 acres of wilderness in the Sangre de Cristo Mountains of the Rocky Mountains of northern New Mexico. Each year thousands of Scouts from all over America backpack the trails at Philmont.

Now Wills and Miles are close to becoming Eagle Scouts, and Eagle Scout dad George couldn’t be more proud. “Scouting has become a way of life for my family, and the values and life lessons that I learned as a boy, and those that my boys are learning now, are preparing them to be awesome young men,” exclaims George.

It’s rare, but occasionally a scout troop can apply for a horseback cavalcade excursion for ten days at Philmont. Troop 715 was given that chance!

According to George Burns, parent and an Assistant Scoutmaster, this was a dream come true for his two sons.

To find out more about the programs—and the benefits for youth and families—offered by the Boy Scouts of America, visit www.scouting.org

The Burns family joined scouting in 2008 when their two sons, Wills and Miles, joined Cub Scouting. They were excited when they came home from school that fall with a flyer announcing a “Join Scouting” night the next week. Miles was too young for that year—you have to be in first grade to join—but Wills was ready. Mom and Dad took Wills to join Scouts.

Two years later, Miles was old enough and ready to join. “It’s been a great family adventure ever since,” according to George. Of course, dad had to join in as well and eventually became the Cub Master for the Cub Scout Pack. In the next several years, the Cub Scout Pack grew to over 100 boys.

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“Our Philmont adventure this summer provided me the opportunity to share an experience with my sons that, frankly, few fathers may ever have.” In the not-too distant future, this father and his sons will all share a common legacy of being Eagle Scouts…and it all started with a flyer brought home from school!

To find a Cub Scout Pack or Boy Scout Troop in your neighborhood, visit www.BeAScout.org or call the Old Hickory Council at 336-760-2900.

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...with Bookmarks’ Festival of Books and Authors

BY HEATHER SPIVEY | PHOTOS BY Philip Mulder, Heath Combs, Gerianne Benson Bartlett and Terri Burke with Catch a Spark Photography

BOOKMARKS, a literary arts nonprofit, hosted their 12th Festival of Books and Authors from September 8th–11th. The annual event is now the largest of its kind in North and South Carolina and was a fun-filled and exciting occasion for our community. This 4-day event kicked off with international bestselling author, Azar Nafisi, sharing her newest book, The Republic of Imagination.

On Friday, there was an Eat & Greet with Terry McMillan at Sweet Potatoes, where Karen Robards spoke to a crowd at Salemtowne Retirement Community. The walking tour through downtown Winston-Salem had stops at Small Batch Beer Co., Mast General Store, and 6th and Vine and featured authors Danny Bernstein, Paullina Simons and Ross White. Festival authors also visited with 4,600 students across the Triad through their Authors in Schools initiative.

The free festival on Saturday presented 46 authors in discussion, workshops, panels and readings that had written an impressive combined 70 New York Times bestsellers. Over 14,000 guests attended Saturday’s event, with a 4-day tally of 20,000.

Sunday concluded with the Keynote Speaker, author John Grisham. More than 1,400 were in attendance at Reynolds Auditorium. 550 free tickets were distributed to students and teachers across North Carolina. Grisham was kind enough to donate his time to attend this special event in support of the new home Bookmarks is creating in Winston-Salem.

Bookmarks would like to extend a warm thank-you to their Title Sponsor, The WinstonSalem Journal, as well as Presenting Sponsors, the Winston-Salem Foundation, Our State Magazine, the Winston-Salem Arts Council, and the Blue Door Group.

There were also many other sponsors and volunteers that help Bookmarks achieve their mission of connecting readers with authors and books.

Bookmarks also shared the news of its new home, which will combine an independent bookstore, dynamic event space, and offices—to be located at 636½ West Fourth Street.

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Halloween Fun at the Museums!

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Grab that costume and join us for “spooky science” demos and experiments, Halloween Rock laser shows in the Planetarium (2 p.m., 3 p.m., and 4 p.m.), and giveaways provided by Lowes Foods Reynolda Road.

We’ll also have trick-or-treating for candy and novelty items (2-4 p.m.), so bring a bag for your treats!

Included with admission and recommended for ages 3 and up.

Explore more than 25 vehicles, trick-or-treat for novelties and candy, enjoy DJ music, fun activities, a craft, and more! Halloween costumes are encouraged. $5 for members and non-members, Museum admission included. Coupons are not accepted at this fundraiser.

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Maple Springs

PUMPKIN PATCH

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

It is finally here—the end of this brutally hot summer and the beginning of a gorgeous, crisp fall! What many argue is the most wonderful season of the year is upon us, so bring on all the pumpkin lattes, pumpkin pies, pumpkin waffles, etc.!

Pumpkins have become a staple of fall, both in décor as well as on the breakfast, lunch and dinner tables.

As in years past, the best place to get your pumpkins this year is at the Maple Springs United Methodist Church in Winston-Salem. According to the website, “Maple Springs is widely known as ‘the pumpkin church.’ Since 1978, Maple Springs has offered pumpkins for sale to the community in October. The pumpkin patch was managed and operated by youth volunteers with adult supervision and support.

Proceeds were used to support our youth ministry programs for the year. Recently, pumpkin patch operation was broadened to be a church-wide ministry.

Youth volunteers are, of course, still an important part of the program, but proceeds are now used more broadly to help fund our church-wide missions and outreach ministries.”

Some of these outreach ministries include Operation Christmas Child, Burn Unit Ministry, Food Pantry Ministry, Prison Ministry and H.O.P.E. (Helping Our People Eat) Ministry.

“Perhaps the most important part of the pumpkin patch is welcoming members of the community to our church campus,” according to the website. “We offer an open invitation to members of our community to worship, work, and serve God with us. The pumpkin patch is one way we can invite the community to make a first visit to our church in a comfortable environment for a fun time of shopping for pumpkins.”

This year marks the 38th celebration of the pumpkin patch at Maple Springs UMC. “Pumpkins will be sold October 3rd through October 31st from 11 am–7 pm on the front lawn of Maple Springs UMC on Reynolda Road near the entrance of WFU,” said Jennifer Chapman, Communications Coordinator for Maple Springs UMC. “Make plans to visit with your family and friends to find the right pumpkin(s) for your Halloween and harvest time celebrations! Many shapes, sizes, colors and varieties will be available. This year, our Pumpkin Patch will have a weekly mission focus. Community members are encouraged to take part in these weekly missions. Our mission for the first week is to prepare Holiday Meal Bags for our Maple Springs Food Pantry. Paper bags and instructions will be given out at the pumpkin patch on Monday, October 3rd–Saturday, October 8th. Completed bags can be returned to Maple Springs throughout the month of October. Other mission opportunities will include a blanket collection for the Winston-Salem Police Department and Operation Christmas Child. All proceeds raised through the Pumpkin Patch will support missions. We want to use these funds the best way possible to bless others.”

The big event is the Pumpkin Patch Palooza! “The Pumpkin Patch Palooza is Sunday, October 23rd, from 4–6 pm,” said Chapman. “We’ll have free admission and parking for an epic communitywide celebration of pumpkins,” she explained. “Activities for the Pumpkin Patch Palooza will include a pumpkin sale (of course!) with 10+ varieties of pumpkins and gourds, and prices ranging from 50¢ to $20, based on size; live music; free food with a snack supper served to attendees; a free gift from Maple Springs UMC; inflatables and games with prizes; a petting zoo with furry animals from Noah’s Place Petting Zoo; and ‘Can the Van,’ where attendees fill the food pantry van with canned good donations for the Maple Springs Food Pantry.”

For more information about the Maple Springs Pumpkin Patch, visit the website at maplesprings.org/ pumpkinpatch.

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The Class of 2020 Part Two: The Emerging Gig Economy In Part One of “The Class of 2020” (Forsyth Family, September 2016 issue), we learned about how much of the workforce is headed in the direction of being replaced by robots, and how that trend could be in full motion by the time the graduating Class of 2020 emerges. In Part Two of this series, we take a look at another developing trend that just may help smooth the waters for some of those affected by the robotic technology movement.

When I think about how much the world my children will grow old in will be different than the one I’m currently living in, I’m equally surprised at how the world I’m living in now is changing significantly every day. With the excessive downsizing trend of the last couple of decades, there has been a rise in the so-called Gig Economy created by many of those same displaced workers, either by choice or by necessity.

If you’re not familiar with the term, in the absence of any true definition, “Gig Economy” basically refers to a person hired to perform a single project or task. Often this takes place via the digital Internet marketplace. Think of it as work on demand. It can range anywhere from a short-term temporary gig to an actual permanent self-employment position. Temporaries have long been a mainstay in the workforce, but this group is different in that they are more often hired through websites and mobile applications (Apps).

This allows them to work as independent contractors. The downside is no benefits (401K, medical insurance, paid time-off, etc.). The upside is a flexible work schedule, being your own boss, so to speak, and often doing what you enjoy the most. Gigs can range anywhere from an Uber driver, babysitter, personal shopper, handyman (all levels), pet sitter, painter, mover, appliance repairman, and Information Technology support person to someone who

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creates customized videos. The possibilities are endless in this field, and the digital marketplace makes it easier now to accommodate varied payment options similar to retail.

Think it all sounds like a fad? Well, think again! Although exact figures are hard to come by, because of the immense complexity and latitude afforded this field, including parttime, self-employed and contract jobs, the U.S. Census Bureau has had to determine a methodology. They refer to these workers as “nonemployer businesses,” defined as a self-employed individual operating a very small, unincorporated business with no paid employees. According to their data between 2003 and 2013, this sector gained nearly one million new non-employer businesses. That was more than any other sector. Clearly, the idea is catching on, and when millennials (including the Class of 2020) come aboard, those that haven’t already, that is, it will boost this new trend even higher.

It’s quite interesting to see how our world is changing at a pace most of us could have never imagined, much less predicted. Equally interesting is to see how, whether out of need or necessity, huge trends, innovations and ideas can be formed almost overnight and introduced quickly via the Web. From idea conception to receipt of payment for first sale or service, the entire process takes a fraction of the time and effort it once did, and often with a much greater chance of success overall.

Trying to determine the exact future world of the Class of 2020 is like the creators of Star Trek writing a television show back in the 1960s, describing what their future will look like; odds are, your wildest dreams won’t even come close to matching the reality of what new ideas are to come.

So, regardless of whether it’s robots forcing a change in the workforce, along with current and future career decisions, or emerging work-on-demand services creating budding entrepreneurs, one thing is for certain: the Class of 2020 will have to manage their careers in a rapidly changing environment, unlike anything we’ve seen before. To that end, I wish them Godspeed, and may all their choices become successful ones.

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HOLLYWOOD QUALITY SCARES at Woods of Terror

BY LINDSAY CRAVEN

During the Halloween season in just about any town in North Carolina, you can find a haunted house where you may get a good scream or jump. Few haunts in the area can claim to provide Hollywood quality thrills and chills, though. Woods of Terror in Greensboro has been terrifying patrons for 25 years, and with each year this haunt has continued to establish itself as one of the best in the industry. “You can go to other haunted houses and get some good actors and a few good sets, but here you get the complete package,” said Eddie McLaurin, owner of Woods of Terror.

This year, McLaurin brought in the expertise of Alan Hopps of Stiltbeast Studios to train Woods of Terror actors and makeup team. Hopps has worked in the haunted house industry for 25 years. “If you interviewed 1,000 people in the industry and asked them who the best actor-trainer was, 999 would say, Alan Hopps,” McLaurin said.

This year, Woods of Terror has several new additions to further its reign of terror on patrons. The Escape of Terror will open alongside the haunt this year. It features two rooms, Mortuary and Quija. McLaurin said the United States had around 2,500 escape rooms total last year, and by the end of 2016, it is expected to be near 10,000. “The Escape Room is a separate ticket and a separate experience by reservation only. There are ten people allowed in each escape reservation. You have to find the keys and clues to escape

with a general admission ticket, or free for all access-pass ticket holders.

Every year, McLaurin morphs into his alter ego “Bone Daddy” and lurks along the midway for Woods of Terror. He carries his trusted companion “Dawn,” the albino Burmese python, and takes pictures with patrons. Last Halloween Dawn passed away from illness, so this year return patrons will meet Spawn, the spawn of the late Dawn.

Also new this year, the bravest patrons can purchase a glow necklace to signify to the actors that it’s okay to grab them as they walk through the haunt. “It’s very divided, people are very adamant that they don’t want to be touched, or they are completely on board with it, so we wanted to offer a new experience this year,” McLaurin said. “If you buy a glow necklace, then it will be a full contact haunt. The actors can touch you, grab you, pull on you to get the best scare. If the patron is not wearing a glow necklace, however, it will remain a no-contact haunt.”

This year, Woods of Terror will offer dynamic pricing.

Thursday and Sunday tickets will have significant savings, and so will buying in advance online. Friday and Saturday nights and Halloween weekend and Halloween night prices will be higher. “I’ve never had a cutoff number before, but last year we had 6,000 people come through on Saturdays,” McLaurin said. “Bringing through 7,000 people in a night would diminish the experience for our audience.

I want to keep a happy customer base, and so I have to raise my prices a bit on Saturdays to keep my nights balanced.” McLaurin promises that Woods of Terror will deliver an experience to remember to all of its patrons in its 25th year.

“We have a hundred little things that we’ve added to the show to improve the experience, but our patrons won’t be able to pinpoint what exactly it was that made their experience so much better than last year. Still, it will be there, whether it’s the scents we’ve added to the scene to put you into that place, the acute attention to detail on our set or that extra training we gave to our actors.”

KNOW BEFORE YOU GO • On-site ticket and gift shop purchases are cash only, ATM available.

the rooms, and there may be some zombies lurking around you have to look out for.”

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• Parking costs $5 and is cash only. Car-pooling is encouraged.

• Parking is less than 100 yards from the entrance and illuminated.

Woods of Terror is located at 5601 North Church Street in Greensboro. For a complete schedule and reservations, call 336.643.3558 or visit the website at www.woodsofterror.com.

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Understanding the Small Kitchen Appliance

BY LISA S.T. DOSS Before my marriage, my bundle of small kitchen appliances comprised a toaster, handheld mixer, blender, and a Pizzelle iron. What can I say? I worked long days and knew a gadget—despite its promise to be both convenient and easy to use—required my time and a handful of great recipes. Needless to say, more than a decade later, our kitchen contains a grand total of 15 small appliances, of which nine are collecting dust. My husband loves the idea of having a rice cooker, waffle maker, food saver, and crock pots of varying sizes at his fingertips. While experimenting with recipes, he enjoys taking a gadget to new and surprising levels. Therefore, instead of buying another small appliance, consider the many uses of the accessories you already have.

The Rice Cooker Essentially, the rice cooker is programmed to be a smart machine. It is designed to absorb water through its sensing mechanism, and to know the right moment to reduce heat, simmer and warm, until the rice is perfect…every time.

With such fabulous results, wouldn’t it be nice to have other dishes ding a bell upon completion, to signify warmth and perfection? In fact, people have asked that very question.

By hitting the “Cook” button twice, the rice cooker has other hidden talents, such as making soups, stews, and chilis. And, the list extends to scrambled, poached, or fried eggs, omelets, oatmeals, bread and soufflés, brownies and pancakes. In fact, the rice cooker is so diverse, it could eliminate a large number of your gadgets that may be occupying valuable shelf space. There are wonderful recipes online to help inspire a new reason to bring out your rice cooker more often!

The Food Processor With its multi-function ability to chop or grind, slice or shred, whip and mix, the food processor can replace the blender and immersion blender, smoothie maker, nut chopper, mandolin, meat grinder, and pasta dough maker.

(Granted, the magic is found in the numerous blades and discs to expand your one centralized small appliance; yet, the keyword is one small appliance.

Thankfully, the accessories box is small.)

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Experiment to determine how each disc or blade can assist you! The pulse button will mix and chop; yet, with a few extra seconds, the contents will blend and finally puree.

Yes, with those abilities, your food processor can make wonderful soups and sauces, create salsas, pestos, dips, and spreads, make pie crust or cookie dough, or grind ground meat. Need it to crush ice or blend fruit? The answer is “Yes”!

Are Numerous Small Appliances Necessary?

Aided by the features of automatic timers and alarms, we have become accustomed to our small, smart machines working on cue to help our day run more smoothly.

Perhaps, the advantage is sleeping in or the ability to multi-task. For those less-favored small appliances, which have been placed in the far reaches of our closets and cupboards unused, consider the following options.

Handheld mixers, immersion blenders, and mini-food processors simplify the cleaning process; yet, eventually, these types of small appliances will be pushed to greater limits until the motor wears out. Is it better to have several “small” appliances or invest in just one?

To save counter space, what small appliances could be removed and, especially, unplugged? For instance, would you consider using a handheld can opener, a percolator or French press?

Instead of electric griddles, grills, and presses, try using a cast-iron pan. To eliminate the worry of too little shelf space, this pan can be hung.

It’s true. There are a handful of appliances that we do not use, simply because we rely on a better, sturdier, more diverse and powerful tool. Before buying yet another small appliance, question whether you already have it.

Sometimes, the best kitchen gadget does not come with a plug.

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A Greater Message of

Halloween

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

Year after year, our children come home to exclaim exciting news. “Mom, we need to start planning for Halloween. It’s around the corner… and this year it’s going to be great!” The words arrive soon after our kids have settled comfortably into their new school schedules. In what will feel like a whirlwind, costume ideas will be mentioned, preceding the sugar- and chocolate-coated rewards of visiting almost every house in the neighborhood. Wait! Hold on!

While the emphasis is placed on two aspects, the costume and candy, October is the perfect time to inspire our youth by engaging in the rich traditions of fall, and learning about the origins of Halloween. Yes, it can be a more enriching fall season for everyone in the family!

ORIGIN OF JACK O’ LANTERNS:

HISTORY OF HALLOWEEN:

Our ancestors did not wander through pumpkin patches in search of the perfect Jack o’ lantern; in fact, it wasn’t even a pumpkin. The Irish tell the story where a man named “Stingy Jack” played a joke on the Devil. After agreeing to sit down for a drink, Stingy Jack convinced the Devil to turn himself into a coin to buy the next round of drinks. Rather than see the Devil return to form, he pocketed the coin. Bargaining with the Devil, Jack tricked his way to freedom once.

The second time he was condemned to a never-ending night. To light his way, Jack held a burning piece of coal inside a carved turnip. To scare away Jack’s spirit, Irish and Scottish children began carving their own “scary faces” in turnips, beets, or potatoes. The spirit was referred to as “Jack of the Lantern” before being simplified to “Jack O’ Lantern.”

Immigrants who brought this tradition to America discovered that pumpkins, plentiful in late October, were also easy to carve.

Halloween originated as a Celtic holiday called Samhain (pronounced Sah-ween.)

The year started on November 1st and marked the beginning of winter. It was a time of preparation. While crops were harvested and stored, livestock were either moved to closer pastures or butchered. Samhaim was based on the belief that the dead would come back to mingle with the living. To honor them, bonfires were lit and people gathered fruits and vegetables, and sacrificed animals to help the spirits on their journey. It was believed ghosts, fairies and demons passed between the two worlds.

Family Activity: Instead of a pumpkin, encourage older children to think outside the box and find an alternative fruit that would serve as a Jack O’ Lantern.

Family Activity: There’s nothing that enhances our opinion of a great holiday than thinking about eating comfort foods.

Alter store-bought pies and other baked goods, and consider making your own seasonal bread and pie, pancakes and cookies. Roasting pumpkin seeds is another wonderful seasonal snack!

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In taking the principals of Samhaim to heart, people continued to celebrate the wandering dead by setting out gifts of food and drink while wearing masks to scare away the evil spirits. We can certainly see from our Halloween celebrations today how the holiday originated and continued to evolve!

Family Activity: In considering the changes over the centuries, encourage your child to learn more about how their grandparents and other family members celebrated Halloween. There may be wonderful ancestral stories that can be shared to make one evening extra special.

Family Activity: Start a new tradition by gathering family and friends around a fire pit after an evening of trick-or-treating. Campfire desserts are extra delicious; therefore, bake cobbler or hot chocolate in a cast-iron pot (separately, of course!), or simply roast marshmallows to enjoy the gooey taste of S’mores!

Family Activity: Halloween, transitioning into November, is the perfect time to celebrate your own harvest. Small uncarved pumpkins, gourds, and other remaining autumn vegetables could comprise a centerpiece for your kitchen table. This may be the perfect time to talk about healthy foods, the warnings about eating too much candy, and express an appreciation of family togetherness.

The fall season is brimming with color, new discoveries, adventures, great history, and interesting stories and folktales. There are wonderful ways to expand the fall season, enjoy Halloween, and prepare for what’s arriving in the month of November.

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Hillcrest Vision offers personal attention and professional care to each of their patients. Ensuring that patients are informed about every aspect of their eye care is of utmost importance.

The approach of Drs. Juawana Hall and Lisa McAllister and their staff is to ensure patient comfort, providing their patients with quality eye care and the latest in eyewear options—all within a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere.

As Dr. Hall shared, her hope is that patients consider their eye exam as a part of their normal health care. She explained, “There is no other sense that you use more than sight. It affects every area of life.”

During a typical eye examination, Dr. Hall stated, “There may be areas that need to be addressed, other than not seeing well.”

Patients may not necessarily realize other medical conditions have an impact on their eye health. For instance, oral allergy medicines can dry your eyes. Daily medications for arthritis, antidepressants, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and diabetes can impact eye health. Skin cancer and issues in the eye have a connection that may present itself during an exam of the eye.

As Dr. Hall explained, “Checking the vessels in the eye is critical.

That is the only place in the body that can be examined without having to be cut open.” That makes it clear that sharing family history or existing conditions during an eye exam is an important component of ones’ overall health. And, an eye exam may uncover unknown conditions that need to be addressed.

Other conditions can also impact the eyes. “Dry eye” may be one of two types. One type results in decreased tear production and may be attributed to medication, hormonal conditions, or aging. With the other type of dry eye, tears evaporate too quickly. About 80% of dry eye patients have the second type,

making an effort to look away from the screen frequently, blinking (don’t stare down the screen), and shifting focus. A hot compress mask may also be helpful in relieving eye fatigue.

Another condition frequently associated with vision is headaches.

In children, headaches are the first indicator of potential vision problems. Pediatricians typically do not perform a full eye examination during physicals. Since children with poor vision “don’t know what they can’t see,” as Dr. Hall explained, “an eye check-up is important, especially given that 80 percent of learning is visual.” All children should have their eyes checked before starting school and every two years after that. If a child starts complaining or begins having problems in school, make an eye examination one of the first steps to finding a solution.

On average, a healthy patient needs an eye examination every two years if under 50 years, and once a year after that.

For patients requiring vision correction, Hillcrest Vision offers over 900 frames for men, women, and children. Selections include budget-friendly, stylish/fashion forward, European designs, and safety glasses. Hillcrest Vision has one of the largest selections around for children and infants. Making a decision on eyewear is important for those who need glasses to see well. Glasses are of no use if not worn; the Hillcrest Vision team wants to ensure their patients have a variety to suit every person.

Hillcrest Vision is located at 2341 Winterhaven Lane in Winston-Salem. Their hours are Monday through Thursday from 8:00 am to 5:30 pm and Fridays, 8:00 am to 1:00 pm. You may contact them via phone at 336.760.2020 or 336.253.5454, or visit their website at 222.hillcrestvision.com. Also, check them out on their Facebook page.

which can be attributed to high computer usage and staring (the normal blink rate drops by half). Dry eye condition generally requires a customized approach, according to Dr. Hall. Each patient and situation is different and requires an individualized treatment plan.

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When Your Child and Your Child’s Teacher Just Don’t Get Along

BY REBECCA OLSEN I have fond memories of my third-grade teacher, Mrs. Bailer. I thought she’d hung the moon with her leather jacket and blond hair. But if you asked my best friend Katie about that same year we were in third grade together, she would tell you a different story. Katie would describe a teacher with a hair trigger temper who seemed bent on pointing out the slightest infraction. Our perceptions of that year and Mrs. Bailer are dramatically different. As two students with very different personalities, we had very different interactions with our teacher.

There was just something about Katie that rubbed Mrs. Bailer the wrong way.

Or maybe it was the other way around.

Whatever the case, it’s inevitable that over the course of a child’s education, there will be that one teacher they just can’t seem to get along with. We’ve all been there. That unreasonable professor that places excessive demands on the class.

The teacher who seems to pick on one particular student. That instructor who thinks sarcasm is a teaching style. It’s hard to know sometimes, as a parent, when to intervene and when to let a child tough it out. Before you rush to get involved, consider the following steps.

1. First, assess the situation. Are there

circumstances that have made this week unusual? An extremely busy week, late nights, a move? Consider

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outside circumstances that could be influencing your child and his or her ability to both process, and respond appropriately to, events.

2. Give it time. If it is not an emergency,

and if this is the first time you’ve heard your child complain about a situation, check back in a few days. The situation may be circumstantial and resolve itself.

3. Do a little investigating. Is there

a pattern to the behavior? What predicates the negative interactions?

Are they all centered in one time period, like recess, or on one issue, like homework, that needs to be addressed, or are there multiple issues?

4. Reset. Sit down together and make

a list of all of the good things about your child’s teacher. Write her a note.

Try to help your child process through past interactions and focus positively on future ones. If you have identified a particular scenario that is causing problems, role-play what your child can say and do when it occurs, to help them be prepared to address it.

5. Request a conference. Make sure

to go in open-minded and get both sides of the story. Give the teacher the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes

with twenty-plus kids needing attention, teachers do get frazzled and frustrated. Teachers are under an enormous amount of pressure these days, and balancing the demands of administrators, parents, and children can be tough. When you do sit down together, come with specific examples and use a neutral tone.

6. Spend time in the class. If the issues

do not seem to be resolved after your efforts to collaborate with the teacher, spend time in the class to get a better perspective on the situation. If nothing else, your presence may increase the teacher’s awareness of his or her own behaviors.

7. If no resolution is found, request

administrator intervention. This action can be risky if your school’s administration is not professional and supportive. Approached incorrectly, the teacher may feel chastised and take his or her resentment out on the child.

Remember that while the teacher/child relationship may not be a long-term one, preserving it throughout the year is important to both parties. The ultimate goal should be to find a working solution that both parties can be satisfied with, can preserve the relationship and, in the end, allow everyone to get along.

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Pressure If you’ve ever flown on a plane, you’ve undoubtedly heard The Speech. It’s the one about emergency rows, how to buckle your seatbelt and that your cushion can be used as a flotation device. The one part of The Speech that always bugged me when I was a kid was the part about how parents should put on their oxygen masks before assisting their children with their masks. What?!? I used to think, You’re telling my mom to take care of herself first?

But, I’m a kid! She’s supposed to put ME first.

Now that I’m a lot older and a little less selfcentered, I understand that the reasoning behind the mask rule is that if the cabin loses pressure and mom doesn’t get her own mask on ASAP, she’s going to pass out and won’t be any good to anyone. I’m sure that pretty much any parent’s instinct would be to put the mask on their child first, which is why that part of The Speech is so important.

Like that kid on the plane, sometimes we can mistake self-care for being self-ish. But, when we ignore our needs for rest and recuperation, we risk burning out, at which point, we can’t help ourselves or anyone else. Your pastor is no exception. When is the last time your pastor took some time away from his many responsibilities as a church leader to take care of his own spirit, mind, and body? Does your church encourage its ministry leaders to regularly practice self-care? If not, #BeTheOne to start that conversation with your pastor and church leaders.

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So Happy!

BY CINDY KEIGER God who made the universe and everything in it is the Lord of heaven and earth. He doesn’t live in temples made by human hands. ~ Acts 17:24 God is so creative. He made all different kinds of people: red and yellow, black and white, tall or short and everything in between. He made the seasons: winter and spring, summer and fall, rainy or dry.

Summer has come and gone. Did you go to the beach or learn how to do something new? Maybe you had a family gathering with your cousins or a cookout with neighborhood friends. What is your favorite memory from this summer?

Now the cooler days of autumn are here. Leaves are changing color and falling to the ground. You might see squirrels hiding acorns in a hollow tree. You are back in the school routine, and life can seem very busy. You might already be looking forward to winter and hoping for snow.

Robert Louis Stevenson, the famous poet, wrote, “The world is so full of a number of things, I’m sure we should all be as happy as kings.” A number of things? How about a great big, humongous number of things! What are some things in this amazing world that make you happy? Who puts a smile on your face?

The more you learn about God and get to know Him, the more you will realize that He’s the one who makes life truly happy.

Some people only think about God when they go to church, but God is everywhere. Look at the verse printed above. God doesn’t live in church buildings! He made everything; He is everywhere.

God is everywhere but, because you can’t see Him, it’s easy to ignore Him or forget about Him. Think again about the things that make you happy. Now, add God to that happy thought and talk to Him. Like this: • I love to fish! Jesus, help me catch a fish today.

• Mom! Come see the rainbow over the trees. Thank you, God, for making rainbows! Thank you for making moms and dads!

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• Listen to those birds! I bet they’re praising the Lord. I should do the same.

• A new school year means new friends and new teachers. Lord, help me be a good and a cheerful student! Bless my class and my teachers.

A church building isn’t big enough to hold God. He’s bigger than the whole world and everything you can imagine. Keep your eyes open for this big, strong, super-duper God. He’s everywhere! That thought should make you happy. Oh, so very happy!

To Know and Be Known

BY TAMI RUMFELT A few years ago, my hubby and I were leaving a restaurant when a beautifully restored 1965 Mustang pulled into the parking lot. It had a shiny red body and black convertible top. I have always quietly wished I could own a classic Mustang just like the one in front of my eyes that night. As soon as Alton saw it, he said, “Oh, look, honey…there’s your car!”

Now, I’m not really a “car person.”

These days, I drive a 15-year-old Ford Focus, because it’s cheap on gas and doesn’t cost much to insure (when you have teenage drivers in your household, that’s important). Having a cool car just isn’t on my radar right now. But, sometimes, in the past, I must have shared some Mustang Musings with my husband, and he remembered that about me. I’m not sure why, but at that moment, I felt incredibly, deeply loved and abundantly blessed to be married to someone who knows me well enough to know even the little, trivial things about me.

I think we all have a desire to be intimately, deeply known. When another person takes the time, and makes the effort, to learn the intricacies of our personality, they in many ways give us value. They are validating who we are by showing us that we are worth being known. Our Creator knows that we have this yearning to be known, and He repeatedly expresses to us in the Bible that he does, in fact, know us thoroughly, right down to the number of hairs on our head.

Are you feeling the need to be known by someone who loves you today?

Open your Bible to Psalm 139. In it, David celebrates the intimate love God has for us. He says, “You have searched me, LORD, and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways.” A few verses later, David says that God’s thoughts about us outnumber the grains of sand!

It’s hard to understand how or why our Lord, the Creator of heaven and earth, of all that is seen and unseen, would also focus His attention so specifically on each one of us. But, I am so glad that He does. I am so thankful that He loves me enough to know me!

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BY REVEREND JENNIFER HAMPTON OF SUNRISE UNITED METHODIST CHURCH I grew a pumpkin! That was my new gardening adventure this year—and it was certainly an adventure. A family friend gave us giant pumpkin seeds. Earlier this spring, we prepared our garden and eagerly put them in the ground with aspirations of winning a ribbon at the Dixie Classic Fair! Sure enough, a vine crept along our back yard, huge leaves unfurled, and the round sphere slowly turned from green to orange. Until that point, until I saw orange, I was convinced it might turn out to be a watermelon instead. But a pumpkin we planted, and a pumpkin we grew.

In all honesty, I probably helped kill the pumpkin more than helped grow it. Our “giant pumpkin,” while beautifully round and the ideal shade of orange, never grew larger than perhaps a 22-inch circumference: not even NBA regulation basketball-sized, much less “giant.”

that even our most basic understanding of the nature of God was flawed, or misguided?

Part of the joy of professing faith in Christ is the acknowledgment that Christ is Lord and I am not. I do not have the answer! I’m going to get it wrong: I’m likely to get angry when sitting in traffic.

I’m likely to indulge in sugar on occasion and pout when I observe my reflection. I’m likely to have another glass of wine or perhaps say a four-letter word in frustration; all of which, some cultural Christians would call offensive or unfaithful. But at the end of the day, at the end of every day, I offer it to Christ for God’s glory through prayer; it was never about me anyway. It’s about God: “God, I offer this day to you; let me not offer anything evil. Show me your will and give me the courage to live into it.”

It turns out those giant leaves slowly traversing my yard inch by inch and overwhelming my garden plot were more than just nice to look at. Those leaves served an important function. Everyone who has finished 2nd-grade science knows leaves are the catalyst for transforming light energy from the sun into usable energy for pumpkin production; I just forgot. I pulled up the extra vine and cut off the extra leaves, also cutting it off from its source of energy.

In essence, I killed the pumpkin. An innocent mistake based on horribly wrong scientific conceptions.

Unlike the pumpkin, dependent on leaves for energy conversion, our Christian lives are guided by more than our own energy source or our actions, deeds and works (for better or worse). We believe our faith begins and ends with the faith of Christ, and are thus always aided by the work of the Spirit. Our spiritual lives are forever connected to God through the unrelenting “punametological” work that cannot be cut off or destroyed. Despite our doubts, fears, shortcomings, and misguided actions, we will always remain connected to the redemptive life of God through Christ, the True Vine, and the presence of the Holy Spirit.

I wonder how often we live a similar story with our faith. How often do we who are self-proclaimed evangelical Protestant Christians charge forward in life and faith with aspirations of greatness, reshaping culture and changing lives, only to learn in retrospect

People ask, “What is one thing you truly want to do before you die?” I respond: “I just want to be faithful to the Gospel of Christ.

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“So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God” (Ephesians 2:19).

Those words were penned by the apostle Paul as he wrote to a local church made up of people who knew what it was to be far from God, and strangers to His people. But, through the glorious work of Jesus Christ—dying to save His sinful people and reconcile them to Himself—they had now been brought near to God and made members of His family. How encouraging it must have been for the Ephesians to read that they were now “members of the household of God.” It is a beautiful example of the love that God has as the Father of His people, and the reason why Paul’s most common manner of describing the Church is to refer to it as a family.

By God’s grace, in dependence upon the Holy Spirit, and guided by His Word, Covenant of Grace Presbyterian Church (ARP) in Winston-Salem is seeking to grow a community of believers in which that image of Christ’s Church is lived out among its members, and in the community. The great desire is to see a group of sinful but forgiven people growing in the transforming knowledge and love of Christ, and thereby increasingly reflecting the purity and beauty of God’s family. To that end, Covenant of Grace is committed to a number of distinctives.

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by God, and are His means of both saving and refining His children. As such, they are the “glue” that binds God’s family together (2 Timothy 3:16; 1 Peter 1:23; Ephesians 5:26). Therefore, from the traditional morning and evening worship services to Sunday School, to the Wednesday evening gathering and other studies, Covenant of Grace strives to be a community centered around, and directed by, the Word of God. Second, Covenant of Grace is committed to being a familyfriendly community. The Bible tells parents to instruct their children in God’s Word, and children to honor their parents as they train them (Deuteronomy 6:4-9; Ephesians 6:1-4). As a result, while nursery is offered for infants on Sunday mornings, Covenant of Grace encourages parents to bring their children into the worship service. Their little noises are music to the ears of those who long to see a new generation of worshipers learning to embrace the faith of their parents.

Third and finally, Covenant of Grace is rooted in a rich tradition and biblically faithful confessions.

The Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church (ARP) was formed in 1782, making it the oldest Presbyterian denomination in the United States, with a history that reaches much further back in Scotland. Up to the present, it has remained committed to the inspired Word of God, and the Westminster Standards as a faithful outline of some of the most important teachings of that Word.

Because of this, Covenant of Grace is connected to a larger family that stretches to many other local churches throughout our denomination who share this tradition, and to many generations of those who have benefited from the Confession and Catechisms produced by faithful pastors and teachers of the past.

In sending His Son to bear His people’s sins, the Lord has shown Himself a gloriously generous, kind-hearted, and loving Father, and in coming to suffer in their place, the Son has proven a faithful and loving brother (Hebrews 2:11). Through the above distinctions, and its warm and welcoming people, Covenant of Grace is seeking to be a place where that perfect love is reflected both within, and to the world without. If that sounds like the sort of family you long to know—like the kind of family you want your children to experience—then you are always welcome to join with the “saints and members of the household of God” at Covenant of Grace.

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You would never think that a shoebox, filled with a few school supplies, maybe a T-shirt or a toy, could change a child’s life. Operation Christmas Child is the world’s largest Christmas project, using gift-filled shoeboxes to demonstrate God’s love in a tangible way to children around the world. Since 1993, Samaritan’s Purse has collected and delivered more than 135 million boxes to children in over 150 countries. Items you buy at a dollar store could be the answers to prayer for a child in a war-torn country. Such is the story of Dania Yadago.

The Message of the Box In our country, most of us don’t have an idea of what going to bed without a meal or not having any of the things we’ve grown accustomed to, like clothes, toothpaste or a pencil, feels like, but Dania Yadago does. She was born in the Middle East in a country where the majority of the population were non-Christians. After Dania and her brother were born, her family moved to a different country, still in the Middle East, and that is where Dania received her shoebox.

Dania’s family’s circumstances were very tough, and her dad worked two jobs, but it was very difficult to make a living, since her family wasn’t citizens of that country.

The place they lived in was very small, with only two bare rooms having only a few pieces of clothes on the floor to sit on or sleep in. Sharing everything from soap to toothpaste, Dania and her brother also shared school supplies. Going to bed without food was common. Anything Dania had had been passed down to her from others, and she longed to have “things” of her own. Even though the family had few tangible things, they had faith, and Dania’s parents encouraged her 86 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

to bring their needs to God in prayer…

Dania prayed to have a few items she could call her own and for her family to have a radio, for entertainment. One day at the family’s church, Operation Christmas Child arrived with shoeboxes full of a girl’s answers to prayer.

“My shoebox was beautiful and colorful, and it left me speechless when I opened it. Everything in the box was brand new; exactly what I wanted, too! It was full of pencils, erasers, hair clips, soap, toothpaste, washcloth, a beanie baby, activity book, notebook, candy canes and crayons. My favorite thing was what I called the ‘never-ending lollipop,’ taking days to eat. In the excitement of opening the shoebox, we found another surprise waiting for us. We were shocked as we found another box inside that shoebox.

My dad opened that box and found a radio,” recalled Dania. But the impact on the family’s life wasn’t about the radio at all...

For Dania and her family, the Operation Christmas Child shoebox was a clear sign that God was in control of their lives.

“We knew that God answers prayers and that His plan was much better than our plan. Out of all the shoeboxes sent to the millions of children, that one made its way to us when we most needed, with exactly what we needed. To this day, when I need something, I know and trust that God will definitely provide,” Dania said. But Dania’s family’s story was just beginning….

“After receiving my shoebox, my family returned to our native country to witness to people about the gospel of Jesus Christ; because of that we were harshly treated and left the country due to war and persecution. We left everything behind and fled as refugees, hoping to

find a country to take us in. After 14 months, the United States accepted our application and we were able to come here and start our life. Two months after arriving here, a lady from my new church asked me if I wanted to go and pack shoeboxes for children at a processing center in Charlotte, NC. I agreed to go, not knowing it was Operation Christmas Child. In fact, I had no idea that my box and others came from the USA! When I saw the Operation Christmas Child logo on the place we arrived, I jumped up and down with excitement and said to the lady I was with, ‘Wow, this is how it all happens??!!!’ I explained how my family and I had gotten a box a few years before and as I packed, I took a little longer because I wanted each one to be perfect, so the child receiving it would have the same joy that I had when I opened mine,” commented Dania. Five years later, Operation Christmas Child contacted Dania, and she now travels and speaks on behalf of Operation Christmas Child.

Today, Dania is a senior at Salem College, finishing up her undergraduate degree in Education. As she looks back on the day her box arrived, it’s hard to believe so much came in that one little box, not just things, but so much more, like the answer to prayers, hope for a better life and an understanding that God is sovereign and that He can use something as ordinary as a shoebox to do extraordinary things in the life of one girl and her family.

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Prepping for the Test for Homeschoolers

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS

Parents of school-age children are immensely familiar with standardized testing. Preparatory notes and instructions are sent home to such a degree that it could lead a person to wonder how many reams of paper have been devoted to alerting both parents and students regarding the importance of the testing process! Thankfully, outside of providing the correct bedtime, a nutritious breakfast, and a couple of number-two pencils, most parents can consider their job done. The school handles the actual testing, and the results are calculated for us.

This is not the case for families who homeschool. It can be a confusing process and slightly overwhelming.

Where to begin? When to start?

Who gives the test? Which tests are available? Where to do it? Take a deep breath because we are going to provide these answers and simplify the operation, step by step!

Knowing when to begin is the first bit of information you will need.

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students from the age of seven until their graduation. There are several options for the form of the actual tests. The subjects requiring testing are spelling, mathematics, reading, and English grammar. This website lists the approved tests, providing links, for our state’s homeschooled students: www.NCHomeschoolInfo. com/testing -requirements/ Where should your child be tested? It depends on which test you choose.

Many are designed for the parent to deliver them. Some parents feel that it is wise to have their children take the tests in a manner that will familiarize them with future classroom situations. There is a benefit to that, but it all depends on each student.

For example, how easily is your child distracted or possibly intimidated by taking tests? Younger children may perform better alone or with a small group. The older the student is, the more they will benefit from a group or classroom environment.

Preparing a homeschooled student for the day of the test is imperative. Your child should know what to expect, not only to be prepared, but also to relieve any stress involved. Testing can be unnerving for any age! It is

a good idea to run through a few practice tests, mimicking what will actually happen that day, as well as familiarize the student with the forms. Practice tests are available to order. Go so far as to be certain your child can fill out the demographic information on the answer sheet, such as their name, address, and the like. Explain the answer sheet form, whether it has bubbles or spaces to fill out. Practice timed math and reading activities. Once the actual tests are completed, be certain to file them based on their specifications.

The good news for parents who homeschool their children is that there are multiple options available.

Doing a little research on the test forms and requirements will assist you in choosing what is best for your student. As parents, we know both our child’s strengths and weaknesses.

While it may sound complicated, the tests are quite simple to order, administer, and submit. It will also give you an overview of how your child is doing in each subject, in relation to other students their age. To locate all of the testing requirements for each state, you may check www.hslda.org.

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Depression in TEENAGERS

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS

There is no doubt that being a teenager is hard! Adolescence is a quirky, unsettling, and topsy-turvy time, with many emotional, physical, social, and psychological changes. They are at a crossroad, attempting to discover who they are and where they fit in. It comes as no surprise that this stage of being somewhere between a child and an adult brings along feelings of anxiety and fear. Unfortunately, depression is not an uncommon result. As a matter of fact, recent surveys indicate that as many as one in five teenagers suffer from actual clinical depression. This number is increasing at an alarming rate.

Considering that teens are expected to act moody, with many peaks and valleys, it is not surprising that depression may be difficult to diagnose. This can be frustrating and frightening for parents, leaving them unsure of how to handle things for their child.

Signs and symptoms of teenage depression include, but are not limited to, the following: • Irritability • Hostility • Anger • Restlessness • Agitation • Hopelessness • Tearfulness • Loss of interest in activities 90 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

• Loss of interest in school • Withdrawal from friends • Poor self-esteem • Sleeping disturbances and/or bouts of excessive sleeping • Difficulty concentration • Fatigue • Feelings of worthlessness • Thoughts of death or suicide Teens may look to escape these feelings by experimenting with alcohol or drugs, or even becoming sexually promiscuous.

Their feelings may come across as aggressive actions or taking unnecessary risks. Sadly, these practices often create more problems, spiraling the teen into deeper levels of depression and anxiety.

If you notice these behaviors on an ongoing basis with your teen, it is imperative to take action. The many forms of clinical depression are often serious and, if left untreated, can eventually become life-altering or even life-threatening. It is vital to speak with your child’s doctor and possibly a mental-health specialist to stem the tide of these overwhelming emotions.

Therapy will help your teenager understand what is leading to their situation and how to cope. Treatment could consist of individual and family counseling. Psychotherapy gives the teenager the opportunity to explore painful feelings and situations and how

to move past these disturbing emotions.

Interpersonal therapy focuses on healthy relationships, both at home and in the classroom. Cognitive behavior therapies gently move the teen from negative patterns to more positive changes.

Sometimes medication is needed to relieve the symptoms of depression and may be prescribed in addition to therapy.

These moments are incredibly frightening for a parent! We want to jump in and fix the problem.

Unfortunately, depression is not as simple as dealing with a bully on the playground. We have to focus on listening more and talking less. Our teens do not need lectures at this point.

They need us to acknowledge their feelings gently. Your teenager may try to push you away. There is a fine line between respecting their need for solitude and not allowing them to pull away from the family. Be gentle and understanding, but also persistent.

As a mother, I feel lost and adrift when I cannot make things better for my child.

Some situations are simply out of our control, and the best way we can help is to reach out to medical professionals who are better equipped to assist us in these situations. There are many positive steps that can be taken to return your teens to themselves—healthy and happy, able to cope with the many changes facing them currently and in the future.

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Learning to Lead at Annapolis: Ally Warnimont

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT Most of us aren’t lucky enough to know someone who graduated from the United States Naval Academy. It is extremely prestigious, so much so, that nominations for admission are routinely received from congressmen, senators and the Vice President. To gain admission, applicants must meet rigorous requirements and be competitive in areas most high school students do not have to consider. Ally Warnimont is one of those impressive few to be offered admission, and she is certainly making the most of it!

“I chose to attend the Naval Academy because of all its unique opportunities, and most importantly, to serve in the Navy or Marine Corps as an officer when I graduate,” said Warnimont. “I love how the school focuses on achieving high moral, physical and academic standards as it develops the students into becoming leaders in the military.

Another main reason I chose the Naval Academy was to be a part of the swim team. Competing for the Navy is a huge honor that I could not pass up.”

Students of the Naval Academy are expected to participate in training through the summer months when most college students are enjoying vacation. “NOLS, or National Outdoor Leadership School, is one of our options for summer training,” Warnimont said.

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and the option to go spend 24 days mountaineering up and down glaciers in Alaska was definitely a challenge that sparked my interest. I was with three instructors and 12 other students as we hiked with everything we needed on our backs.”

Warnimont hoped this expedition would teach her leadership and wilderness survival skills, so she spoke with upperclassmen to learn more about it before her trip began. “I was excited to experience everything as I went and took in as much as possible,” stated Warnimont. “By the end of the course, I had learned so much more than I ever imagined. Getting to apply the leadership skills we are taught in classes at school was an incredible experience. Every day, a group of three students was the designated leader and were responsible for navigation, being caretakers for everyone else on the expedition, finding camp, making the plan of the day and so on. It was extremely overwhelming at times, especially when all of your plans get ruined by a surprise blizzard, but having to think on your feet in a real-life situation taught me so much more than my leadership textbook ever did.”

In addition to real-life training, Ally had classes built into the summer expedition. “The classes covered everything from safety while hiking over snow-covered crevasses, to glaciology,” described Warnimont. “One of my favorite classes was snow school, where we were taught how to walk up steep mountains covered in deep snow and how to perform a self-arrest with an ice ax, if we fell. While camping on ice and snow for almost a month was not the easiest or most glamorous training, it definitely was life-changing in the best way possible.”

The Naval Academy breaks the summer up into three blocks that are built into the students’ schedules. “Typically, we spend two of the blocks training, and one is for leave (going home),” said Warnimont. “My first block was NOLS,

the second block was my 3rd Class (sophomore) cruise and third block is leave. For cruise, we are assigned to shadow enlisted sailors on ships stationed in the Navy’s main bases. I had the opportunity to spend almost a month living the life of an enlisted sailor.

This is unique and very meaningful training because, as a future officer, it is important to understand the lives of the people I will be leading. Working alongside the sailors made me realize how hard they work to maintain the ship and [perform] all of the jobs needed to keep the Navy the best it can be. I learned how important it is as an officer to show you care for the sailors and to help them in any way possible while maintaining a professional relationship.

Whether or not the officers and enlisted sailors work as a team and show trust and respect, really determines the overall morale of the ship, and that is essential for a functional command.”

Ally Warnimont is an inspiration to her peers, as well as to those of us who will always be in awe of those who choose to serve our country in such a brave and patriotic way. “While going to the Academy and getting to participate in these incredible summer trainings is awesome, the main goal is to learn and experience as much as I can now, so I will be the best leader and officer I can be when I graduate,” Warnimont remarked. “After graduation, I will commission into either the Navy or Marine Corps for a minimum of five years, and will be expected to lead sailors and Marines into harm’s way, while serving our country.”

Thank you, Ally, for all you have done, and all you will undoubtedly do, to guarantee a life of freedom for the citizens of the United States of America!

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A few years ago, a friend of mine hosted a “My Favorite Things” party. It’s a clever way to entertain with your friends or as an alternative to the usual bunco, supper club or book club gatherings. With the holidays approaching, it’s also the perfect way to add a unique twist to a standard gift exchange party.

The concept for the party actually originated from Oprah’s popular My Favorite Things show. Here’s how it works…

It’s so simple. You can invite as many friends as you want or you can choose to keep the group relatively small.

The party I attended included about 15 girls. Everyone was asked to bring five of their favorite things as gifts.

Each gift [of the five] had to be exactly the same and under $5. When I arrived, I was told to write my name on five slips of paper and drop them into a bag. After some mingling over cocktails and appetizers, we all gathered in the room with the gifts. We each then drew five names out of the bag—making sure each name we chose was different and not our own.

The host kicks off the game by standing up and sharing what gift she brought and why it’s her favorite thing. She then delivers her gifts to each of the five girls whose names she drew from the bag. One of the five gift recipients then volunteers to share and distribute her favorite things, and so on and so on. At the end of the night, we all came away with five incredibly cute and

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creative gifts of our own!

Lots of the gifts at the party I attended focused on food and recipes (always great items to receive), as well as other ingenious $5 gift ideas. One person had the witty idea to purchase five wine glasses and paint the stem and bottom of the glass with black chalkboard paint (so you can write the wine glass user’s name in white chalk at the bottom). Another friend brought a “date in a bag,” which consisted of a coupon to Redbox, a bag of microwaveable popcorn and two bottles of Red Oak beer. Someone else gave away their favorite brand of lip balm. Another friend planted her favorite herbs in five different unique pots (including one that was made from an old lunchbox). One of the gifts I received was all the fixings for s’mores. And what did I bring as my “favorite thing” gift? None other than the latest issue of People magazine (my favorite fix for celebrity gossip). It was such a fun night!

After the party, I learned through online research that there are several blogs and Pinterest boards dedicated to ideas for a “My Favorite Things” party, as well as inspirations for creative gifts. Simply type in “My Favorite Things party” in Google and start planning your next event. Enjoy!

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What do x-rays reveal? This type of diagnostic tool allows your pediatric dentist to check the health of permanent teeth before they erupt; evaluate potential orthodontic concerns; detect evidence of bone disease or abnormalities, as well as areas of decay and cavities.

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When You Have a Heart for Education…

BY DENISE HEIDEL

Teaching has always been considered a noble profession. After all, these are the people educating young minds and helping them blossom into the men and women they will eventually become. The profession is one based on an act of service and is (hopefully) rooted in passion…a calling, if you will. These are people who work countless hours and often invest their own money in the best interest of their class and students. They love what they do; they don’t do it for money or glory. They do it in the hopes that they can reach the hearts of their students and inspire them. Their rewards are the looks of understanding and dawning recognition when concepts suddenly make sense, and the beaming smiles of children for whom confidence is beginning to soar.

Three such teachers have had a profound impact on my life….

Two were my own high school teachers, Mrs. Rebecca Bottoms, who taught me literature, and Mrs. Rebecca Newsome, who taught me science. The third was my son’s 3rd-grade teacher, Mrs. Renee Meeks. All three of these women have a special place in my heart, and I’m eternally grateful to each of them for the remarkable influence they had on me, and on my son.

Forsyth Family magazine has always been committed to bringing educational topics to the families of Forsyth County, but we also are committed to honoring the teachers of our community. A new addition to the pages of Forsyth Family is a column called “A Heart for Education.”

The men and women who will be represented on these pages are people who have a passion for helping kids learn. Whether they are teaching them the fundamentals of knowledge in a traditional classroom or teaching them how to steal 3rd base as a beloved Little League coach—we are looking to honor those who serve. If you know someone who has a heart for education, we hope you will nominate them for placement in Forsyth Family’s new column.

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Space will be limited. We profile up to six educational professionals each month who are setting the standard for outstanding work in the classroom, celebrating a new promotion, or deserve accolades for a job well done! “A Heart for Education” nominators should also send a high-resolution headshot of the person profiled and a biography of 200– 250 words.

You can submit “A Heart for Education” candidate anytime, but space is limited. Entries must be received no later than the 5th of the month before, to be included in the upcoming issue, and again, that is contingent on space availability. If there are any questions, please e-mail me at Denise@ForsythMags.com.

NOTE: A Heart for Education is a biography, not a story about a business. It’s meant to profile each unique educator who is nominated—to celebrate his or her accomplishments and contributions to education. Submissions that are based on a specific school or business will not be run.

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A HEART FOR EDUCATION

BY KIM UNDERWOOD

When Crystal Vandiver started high school, she was quite shy. An English teacher who encouraged her to join the debate team helped change that.

With the support of another English teacher, she began writing for the school newspaper and working as a teacher assistant. That, too, helped her become more confident.

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Vandiver credits those teachers and others with putting her on the path to becoming an educator.

“In high school, I learned to value what strong mentors can do in life and the way that education provides opportunities,” Vandiver said.

When it came time to decide on a career, she thought about becoming a teacher and said to herself, “Yes, I want this life.”

Today, Vandiver is the Program Manager for English/Language Arts (6–12) for Winston-

Danny Loflin, who is the HVAC Assistant Supervisor in the school system’s Maintenance Department, enjoys the job and the people he works with every day. Some days can be particularly rewarding.

“You go to a school where the air-conditioning system has failed, and teachers are dealing with students sweating in hot classrooms. You fix that and, when the temperature comes down to a comfortable level, you can be sure that teachers will be grateful.”

Vandiver enjoys working with both teachers and students.

“I find my energy in relationships with people,” she said.

Her friend, Anna Scott Pulliam, appreciates Vandiver’s gifts as an educator and as a friend.

As a teacher, Pulliam said, “She is really passionate and has such a drive to keep the best interests of her students in mind. She is incredibly driven.”

Vandiver doesn’t teach “at” her students, Pulliam said. She finds ways to meet them where they are and engage them. As a friend, she routinely goes “above and beyond,” Pulliam said.

to do something,” said Stephanie Kennedy, the Administrative Assistant to the Director of Maintenance.

She recalls the time she called him on a Saturday to let him know that the HVAC (heating, ventilation, and air conditioning) system at an elementary school was having problems.

“His only words were, ‘I will take care of it,’” Kennedy said.

“You’re walking through the hall high-fiving teachers,” he said. “That has happened on many occasions.”

Loflin and his wife, Darla, have two sons.

Danny Jr. is a sixth-grader at Walkertown Middle School, and Degan is 4.

Loflin, who graduated from Carver High School in 1995, is the school system’s Classified Employee of the Year for 2016–17.

People who work with Loflin describe him as a positive person who’s always willing to help.

“He is an overall great person,” said Ashley McIntosh, a secretary at Gibson Elementary.

“He is involved in the community. He loves being in the schools with the kids. He is all about reading. He believes that every child should read. He’s just remarkable.”

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Salem/Forsyth County Schools. She is responsible for helping English teachers in middle and high schools throughout the school system—and their students—to become the best they can be.

Jerrica Scott teaches sixth-grade math at Hanes Magnet School.

In her own words, this is why Scott became a teacher: “I became a teacher because I was interested in trying to make a lasting, positive, and meaningful impression on my students. I was fortunate to have some great teachers and mentors while in school, and their impact on me was life-lasting.

My goal is to make as great an impact and impression on my students as my teachers and mentors had on me.”

“I believe that my early elementary school years influenced me the most. I was not always the best student. Every day I was ‘pulled out’ for both reading and math until the fourth grade, never knowing that I was different from the other students. I was

Susan Metts enjoys making art, and she enjoys working with, and inspiring, young people. So being an art teacher is a perfect job for her.

“I love interacting with kids,” Metts said.

“I am still able to focus on art. I can teach them and, hopefully, pass on a love of art.”

Her students at Kernersville Elementary School appreciate her approach to teaching and how encouraging she is.

“She inspires me to become an artist,” said Johnny Benitez.

“She lets us take time, and she is really nice,” said Deisy Cruz-Martinez. “When I need help, she helps me. She is a very helpful teacher.”

Asked what she likes about Metts and the class, Makayla Whitsett said, “Everything!”

excited to go with Ms. Gibson; she was nice and always gave me my favorite candy, soft peppermints, after every session.”

“I loved Ms. Gibson, but I wanted to prove that I could learn. I read the same book daily until I could read it with expression and fluency. I picked another book and repeated this practice. I learned my multiplication and division facts forwards and backward all the way to 12. I studied day and night.”

“I became a teacher to inspire all students by altering their perceptions of themselves and to foster positive academic experiences…I have discovered that, if students are given the opportunity to enjoy more success, confidence will grow, as well as their willingness to take risks.”

Metts, who graduated from Mount Tabor High School in 1989, has long loved the visual arts. While a student at Mount Tabor, she took advanced-placement art classes at the Career Center. “I definitely wanted to go into the arts,” she said.

After she married, she left college before graduating. She came to have four children. Along the way, she started teaching art out of her home.

When she returned to college, she went to Salem College, completing her Bachelor of fine arts degree in studio painting in 1999.

Metts is a Nationally Board Certified Teacher. In retrospect, she said, teaching was a natural path for her.

Before he retired, her father taught math at Forsyth Technical Community College. For 53 years, her mother taught piano.

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HALLOWEEN

Halloween was HUGE when I was little.

With six kids and incredibly creative parents, I think the fervor and excitement might have rivaled Christmas. It’s like that for most children. If you have a child “on the spectrum,” it can be fun, too. It just requires a different kind of planning and creativity.

Growing up, we were that family. You know, the ones with the scary soundtracks, tombstones in the front yard, webs, ghosts, mechanized rubber swooping bats, zombies, and giant spiders. We were the Griswolds at Halloween! I realize now that while we were anxiously anticipating Halloween, families with children on the spectrum were probably anticipating being anxious. Most little ones on the spectrum want to participate in Halloween “Trick or Treating.” But without a plan, this can be especially stressful.

Parents of children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) know that their children perceive things differently from their peers. ASD characteristics often include “…social-interaction difficulties, communication challenges and a tendency to engage in repetitive behaviors.” (autismspeaks.org) ASD may have other accompanying symptoms, such as sensory sensitivity, anxiety in new situations, hyperactivity, inability to read social cues, and (what appears to be) impulsivity.

For ASD children, even everyday activities can be overwhelming. Events that aren’t overwhelming to other children may lead to “meltdowns.” However unpleasant, these are really only adaptive behaviors. Their need for preparation,

routines, and rituals is simply a way to cope with overwhelming feelings.

Once we understand this, we can easily identify potential Halloween pitfalls and plan accordingly.

one piece of candy. Taking the time to prepare your neighbors will ensure a more positive experience for everyone.

COSTUMES

Take a dry run (or two, or three…); ASD children find comfort in routines and rules.

Before Halloween talk about what they can expect and the rules of Trick or Treating.

Let them try on their costume, or better yet, encourage them to wear it around the house as much as they like! Draw a map and walk them through the Trick or Treat route several times before the event. If you can, practice Trick or Treating with an informed neighbor.

Clothing can be a daily battle for children with sensory sensitivities. Many find clothes to be too scratchy or too tight.

For some children, long sleeves or tags can be cause for anxiety. It can be very confusing. They may love a costume and hate the mask. One solution might be to create a costume from clothes you know they already like. For example, you might add duct tape stripes to an orange sweat suit to make a delightful tiger, or wear a red-and-white-striped T-shirt with blue pants and a cap for “Where’s Waldo?” My favorite costume was Sheldon from Big Bang Theory—take a permanent marker to a green T-shirt, write “Bazinga!” and you’re done!

TALK TO YOUR NEIGHBORS One mother warned her neighbors that her eight-year-old will want to go into their houses. It makes sense to him—after all, he thought, “Why not? We always go in when we knock on someone’s door.”

But you know, it’s a little different on Halloween. Another parent pre-informed his neighbors that his child was easily startled (e.g., by swooping rubber bats, masks, scary noises, etc…). Another parent, whose child was sensory-sensitive, knew their child would want to smell every piece of candy in the bowl. They suggested their neighbors hand their child

Halloween for Children with Autism

BY STACY LEIGHTON

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DRESS REHEARSAL

GO OUT EARLY According to the Almanac, sunset in my neck of the woods will be at 6:39 pm on Halloween. Plan to Trick or Treat before the sun sets. This will help to avoid older children, who prefer scary costumes, and tend to go out well after dark. This is especially preferable if your child is sensory-sensitive, as excited, sugar-amped children may be overwhelming to him or her, especially in the dark.

HAVE A BACK-UP PLAN Ultimately, even with the best planning, your little one may decide this is not for them. You’re going to need a fallback plan. Create a new Halloween tradition.

Some families will order pizza and carve pumpkins, while others watch Charlie Brown’s Great Pumpkin and hand out candy. Whatever you decide to do, just remember, it’s all about making good memories.

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St. Patrick’s Day Treats

BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION & EMILY DODSON

Healthy Halloween Treats

BY EMILY EILEEN CARTER & KRISTI JOHNSON MARION

Halloween seems synonymous with sugar and treats which aren’t known for their health benefits. However, Halloween doesn’t have to be a total sugar-fest or cavity waiting to happen; there are healthy alternatives. Even if you decide to squeeze a treat in between them, try out these healthy alternatives for a Halloween you can feel a bit less guilty about.

DELICIOUSLY DARK CHOCOLATE

APPLES

INGREDIENTS: 4 medium-to-small apples (pick your kid’s favorites)

HONEY

POPCORN BALLS

INGREDIENTS: ½ cup honey

CHEESY

WITCH’S BROOMSTICKS INGREDIENTS: Reduced-fat mozzarella cheese sticks

1 cup dark chocolate baking chips

2 Tablespoons sugar

Pretzel sticks

parchment paper

1 Tablespoon lite butter

Thinly sliced slivers of chives

wooden skewers or popsicle sticks

5 cups of warmed popped popcorn

DIRECTIONS:

DIRECTIONS:

1. Remove the apple stems and insert the sticks into the top of the apples.

1. Combine honey, sugar, 1 Tablespoon of lite butter and cinnamon in 2-quart microwave-safe container. Microwave covered with plastic wrap, at HIGH (100%), 5½ to 7 minutes.

2. Melt the dark chocolate chips in a double boiler (or you can just insert metal bowl into a pot of boiling water).

3. After the chocolate has melted, slowly rotate each apple until all sides are covered in chocolate.

4. Place on a tray lined with parchment or wax paper and set in the fridge to cool

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DIRECTIONS: 1. To make the broom part of this fun snack, slice the mozzarella stick across in thirds then use a knife or scissors to cut a fringe pattern on the lower half of the cheese.

2. Pour over warm popcorn; stir with wooden spoon until popcorn is thoroughly coated.

2. Let kids insert a pretzel stick into the cheese, making the broomstick.

3. Cool the mixture until it can be safely handled.

3. Then tie a chive around the top.

4. Grease hands with small amount of butter and shape popcorn into balls.

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The Importance of an

For students, it can be hard to build a resume. Volunteer and educational experience is a plus; however, the completion of internships can help students become a more experienced and appealing job candidate.

Today, unfortunately, having a college degree doesn’t guarantee a job for recent graduates. Employers are looking for young professionals with skills and expertise in certain areas. Most of the time, these skills and expertise come through the experience of internships.

Colleges and universities across the country are beginning to push for one or multiple internships to be a graduation requirement. Some schools already require this for course credit. While in college, I completed three internships, but only one for credit. The other two were done to gain more experience and help me decide my career path. The experience and skills I learned in all three internships are skills I still use today.

According to a recent study by the National Association of Colleges and Employers (NACE), 95% of employers factor in candidates’ experience when hiring. Also within the study, almost 36% of the surveyed employers hired graduates from their own internship programs. Lastly, NACE’s statistics showed that 67.7% of students completing internships were offered full-time positions after graduation.

first-hand the possible career they are considering. Also, it gives them a chance to see what careers they don’t like. Maybe they thought they always wanted to be a doctor, but after an internship in a doctor’s office, they might change their career path. This understanding of the field and its work also helps determine a student’s coursework in college.

Besides gaining experience, internships build confidence and motivation. A student will feel more confident already having some knowledge of the career world when entering into their first job.

Also, students can develop good work habits and see how a typical day might go.

Internships don’t have to be completed in an office setting. All internships are done at the company’s job site. For example, if you are interning with the zoo, you will be outside most of the day with animals, compared to being in an office setting, such as a law office.

Need more to show you internships are important?

These periods allow students to “test drive” a career. Most people will choose to intern in a career path they are looking into or know they want to peruse. These test drives tell a student if this is how they want to spend their career. Do they like the job’s atmosphere, hours, etc.?

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Internships are considered a win-win for both employers and students. For employers, they are given a group of young professionals who are motivated to succeed. The company will be able to see how the intern might act as an employee.

Also, the students can fill positions and assist with projects, while providing new ideas to the company. Employers

are investing their time in students and expect a return in the student’s hard work and contribution.

As for the interns, working with employers gives them a chance to network and gain mentors. Most internships will provide the students with a supervisor who guides them throughout the entire time, offering them advice. After the internship is complete, it is helpful to maintain these mentor relationships. Sometimes after college, these relationships can help the student get a job, or the internship will turn into a full-time position. Another reason to maintain a connection with your mentors is to gain further recommendations for post-graduate education or jobs.

There can also be a global aspect to internships. Some can be completed in different states or different countries.

Financial aid, housing, and stipends can be offered to help cover the expenses involved in certain internships. Also, another plus side to the experience is that some internships can be paid.

College can be a fun and exciting time.

Within those four years, students will learn new skills and gain valuable experiences.

Some of the skills and experiences will come from internships that will help the soon-to-be graduates decide their career path and make them a better candidate when applying for jobs.

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THE FAIRYTALE CAKE By Mark Sperring Age Range: Toddler/Preschool/K | BOOK REVIEWED BY EMILY EILEEN CARTER My toddler has been obsessed with birthdays lately. Never mind the fact that his own birthday is over six months away. He loves to sing the “Birthday Song” at all hours of the day and talk about birthday cakes, candles and more. So when we went to the library recently, the librarian kindly helped us pick this gem of a book. This bright and fun book takes readers on a journey with your favorite fairytale characters from the Three Little Pigs to Red Riding Hood, Rapunzel and more. The treacherous trip begins with baking the cake, and the reader then follows it along with favorite fairy tale friends until it reaches its final birthday destination.

LOCKWOOD & COMPANY: THE SCREAMING STAIRCASE (BOOK 1) By: Jonathan Stroud Ages 13-17 years old | REVIEWED BY REBECCA OLSEN Ghost hunters are needed to help wipe out an epidemic that has plagued London for more than 50 years. The only ones talented with the “sight” are children. After years of experience, Lucy Carlyle arrives in London looking to join the staff of a profitable agency. After several disappointments, she arrives at the door of Lockwood and Co., to meet the professional but young Antony Lockwood and the less than tactful George Cubbins. Lucy is immediately hired, ready to help Lockwood fulfill his dream to become the best Psychic Investigation Agency in London. The only condition is, they must be hired for a great, notable case. Readers will love the independent and determined nature of the trio, and appreciate that the main story is told from Lucy’s perspective. Be prepared, readers, you’ll visit haunted houses, receive interesting clues, and experience dangerous feats alongside Lucy and Lockwood! Once you complete the first book, you can immediately delve into unresolved questions by reading The Whispering Skull.

A LITTLE PRINCESS By: Frances Hodgson Burnett Ages Toddler/Child | REVIEWED BY EILEEN CARTER A Little Princess was a favorite of mine as a little girl. And I admit that my love for the story has carried into my adulthood. I think the story has appealed to me because it is so like a fairy tale. In fact, our main character, Sarah, frequently talks about magic, fairies, princesses and the idea of the world around her as a fairy story. This book is an iconic classic that should be on the must-read list for any little girl who dreams of fairy tales. A simple, charming story, A Little Princess emphasizes the value of treating others as you want to be treated...that money isn’t the most important thing...and that the richest gifts and possessions come from the heart.

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FAMILY ROLES IN TRANSITION: Parents and their Adult Children

BY STACY LEIGHTON

“One thing I have come to know: all adult relationships are voluntary— at all times. If a relationship is not voluntary, then it ceases to be a relationship and becomes a hostage crisis.”

~ Larry Tolson, The Empathy Trap Book

In the many years I have worked with children and families, there has never been a shortage of parenting complaints: colicky nights, terrible two’s, temperamental teens, and my personal favorite, “Oh my college son? I think he is majoring in Beer Pong.” Even if we can relate, we will likely roll our eyes and smile.

We say things like, ‘This is just a phase’ and ‘Don’t worry, they’ll grow out of it.’ But what do you say when someone tells you, “I wish I had a relationship with my adult child.” This is not a phase; adult relationships are voluntary, or they are a hostage crisis.

If you have a terrific relationship with your adult children, good for you! Seriously, it was well earned. Parenting is tough work, and as they grow and change, so, too, does your relationship.

Sometimes just keeping up is an Olympic event, and you won the gold! I encourage everyone to ask their children what they think is the secret. I did. In fact, I asked many of their friends who also call me “Mom,” and a few parents, too. It was an eye-opener!

LISTEN MORE THAN YOU TALK “When I have a problem, I don’t want my parents to solve it.

My parents are good at listening. They know I can work it out for myself.” We are so used to advising that this can be a tough one. Try to listen without judging, listen without expression at all, if possible. If you feel you must speak, ask them, “What do you think you should do?” Grown-up children need your emotional support. In recognizing their ability to problem-solve, you boost their independence and promote their personal responsibility.

CHOOSE TO REACT DIFFERENTLY “My Mom is cool, my friend talks to her, not his Mom. He says, ‘You know how my Mom gets, she yells, or gets sarcastic, and she always says, I told you so.’” You may not think you do. Perhaps it was so long ago you forgot, but they remember. Our voice resonates in their heads long after they are grown. Tell them you want to be available to them. Promise not to be upset, judge, 108 / ForsythFamilyMagazine.com

or say, “I told you so,” because you want an adult relationship with them.

PRACTICE RESPECTFUL BOUNDARIES “I love calling my Mom or going home to visit. She knows I’m busy, and she doesn’t make me feel bad when I don’t call or visit.” Guilt and intrusion are never going to win hearts. As hard as it is, we need to respect their personal boundaries and be happy when they call or visit. Make your time together about quality, not quantity, and they’ll want to come back. This distance you’re feeling is hard, I know, but it is necessary as they establish their own identity.

CREATE OPPORTUNITIES BY SHARING COMMON INTERESTS “We used to do fun things together. Now it feels like dinner and 20 questions.” Want to spend quality time with your grown kids?

Get ballgame tickets, tickets to a play or another event you think they will enjoy. You can rebuild relationships with shared common interests. If they have a love interest in their lives, be sure to buy an extra ticket. Conversation will follow.

IT’S OKAY TO DISAGREE “I’d call them more often if I didn’t think everything was going to be a fight.” Our children are not us. Naturally, we are going to disagree about something. Pick your battles wisely and stay calm.

If you know there is a sensitive subject that will likely lead to an impasse, agree that it’s okay to disagree and, if possible, let it go.

Every parent and child have a dance. Sometimes we get out of step, and we may need to change some of our old routines.

Believe it or not, if we give them space to be their own person, they will come back into our lives. Hang in there, relationships like this are worth the effort.

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EMERGENCY KITS

BY LINDSAY CRAVEN

– Bride Kit

Emergency kits might inspire fear at the first mention of their name, but they aren’t necessarily tied to instances of disaster. Thanks to handy sites like Pinterest and Etsy, there’s inspiration for ways to create kits for both real emergencies, and for those little emergencies that life throws at us daily. This column will explore ideas of items that could be essential for various types of emergency kits, so that you can be inspired and start your own. This month we’ll put together a kit for the bride in your life on her special day.

To compile this emergency kit, grab a cute travel bag that your bride will love so much she’ll want to keep it for the honeymoon. If you have a little extra money to throw into your kit, you might consider getting your travel bag monogrammed with your bride’s new initials.

Wedding hair is a beast to maintain.

It usually involves a complicated updo or those lovely effortless curls that aren’t effortless at all. Make sure your bride has plenty of hair products to help keep her beautiful “do” flawless all day and evening long. If the wedding takes place during warmer months and humidity is an issue, consider grabbing a spray that smooths and shines.

A wedding day tear can completely unravel the mood for the whole day.

Pack a small sewing kit for your bride and you may just save the day.

Make sure to grab a kit that includes scissors, needles, thread, buttons, and safety pins for those “make it work” moments.

Weddings are stressful; especially if you’re a bride who feels like the entire event rests on your shoulders and hinges on every decision you make. There’s bound to be a little sweat and, of course, a little body odor. Pack a travel-size deodorant in a

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gentle scent for a quick touch-up the moment before the trip down the aisle.

Your bride is going to be insanely popular on her wedding day. Whether it’s the out-of-town relatives who need directions for the third time, 20 or so lastminute clarifications from the wedding planner or the 1,000 pictures she’ll take to remember the happiest day of her life. Include a charger compatible with your bride’s phone, so she can recharge throughout the day.

A wedding can certainly be hard on your feet. Whether it be your bride’s lovely, but painful, heels or dancing the night away at the reception, it’s best to be prepared. Grab an anti-friction stick and some moleskin strips, so you’re prepared no matter what. If your prevention methods fail, you can include some soothing blister-cushion band-aids.

Your bride will no doubt have a flawless makeover done early on in the day that she’ll have to maintain it throughout the day.

To help prevent a shiny, greasy nose and forehead, pack your bride some blotting strips to keep her fabulous all day long.

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BY MEGAN TAYLOR My favorite season of the year, hands-down, is fall. What’s not to love about cool weather, colorful scenery, and the seasonal traditions? Each year when autumn rolls around, there are several things I must do. Below are ideas from my fall bucket list.

1. Take a drive/walk to see the fall foliage: We live

within driving distance of the Blue Ridge Parkway and can make an easy day trip to see the colors of the season.

Another way to take in the views is simply driving around your hometown and surrounding areas. Or walk through downtown, parks, or Old Salem to experience the beautiful scenery.

2. Attend a fall festival/fair: Once I go to the Dixie

Classic Fair, I know fall has arrived. Other events include the Autumn Leaves Festival in Mount Airy, Harvest Day at Old Salem, and the Apple Festival at Historic Bethabara Park.

3. Bake: Apple pie, pumpkin pie, homemade applesauce, caramel apples—the list goes on and on for all the delicious fall foods. One of my favorite things is baking during the season. Don’t know what to bake? A simple google search or Pinterest will bring up hundreds of recipes. Just a hint: pumpkin chocolate chip cookies are delicious.

4. Go to a pumpkin patch: There is nothing better than finding the perfect pumpkin to carve. Hawks Pumpkin Patch on Clemmonsville Road and The Farm at The Children’s Home are favorite local pumpkin patches.

5. Carve a pumpkin: Do you like a friendly face or a

scary face? It’s up to you, because after you get that perfect pumpkin from the pumpkin patch, you can take it home and carve it. Growing up, we always carved a pumpkin and also painted one. Let your kids have fun with creating their favorite book or cartoon character by using paint, markers, yarn, and other craft supplies on the pumpkin.

6. Decorate for the holidays: Many stores throughout the

area have been selling fall and holiday decorations since the middle of summer. Seeing these items always gets me into the decorating mood. Take one Saturday and turn your house into a fall oasis. Some of the decorations can even become DIY projects, such as this fun

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scarecrow. All you need is one shirt, one pair of pants, a hat, an old pillowcase for a face, old newspapers, safety pins, narrow rope, small amounts of straw, raffia, or dried grass, and permanent markers or felt scraps for the facial features. Button and zip the shirt and pants and tie the ends of the arms and legs with the rope. Stuff full with newspaper and use safety pins to attach the two pieces of clothing at the waist. In the pillowcase, add stuffing and form into the size and shape of a face. Use the permanent marker or felt to create facial features. Tuck into the neck of the shirt and secure with safety pins.

Add the hat. To finish, stuff some straw or raffia into the openings (such as arms and legs) and glue if necessary.

7. Watch Halloween movies: Freeform’s (formerly ABC

Family) 13 days of Halloween is the perfect place to start your Halloween movie marathon. To make the marathon complete, watch older fall movies, such as all-time favorite, Hocus Pocus. You can’t get through the season without watching It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown, at least once.

8. Watch football: No matter who your favorite team

is, it’s the time to root for them. High school, college, pro—everyone has a favorite. Let’s just hope the Carolina Panthers have as good a season as they did last year!

Super Bowl LI material? I think so! Also, spend some time outside with your family and friends playing your own game of football.

9. Jump in a pile of leaves…and then rake them up:

Fall is one of the seasons to be a kid again, and with being a kid comes the chance to jump in a pile of leaves.

However, the adult responsibility sets in when you have to rake them up afterward.

10. Go trick or treating: Who doesn’t love putting on

a costume and being someone else for a while?

Halloween gives you a chance to step outside of the box and do just that. Plus, if you go trick-or-treating, you’ll get candy. Another option would be dressing up and handing out goodies to children that stop by your house on All Hallow’s Eve.

11. Have a bonfire: What better way to celebrate fall

than with a cup of apple cider and s’mores in front of a bonfire? Bundle up with your hats and scarves. Gather your family and friends as you toast the new season!

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We have one dog—“Joy”—and two cats—“Blitz” and “Sherbert.”

When Garnet, Sparkle Girl and Doobins went to the beach with Garnet’s parents and other family members, I stayed home with the animals. It was the first time I had done that. I thought it would be fun to have the house to myself, and, as long as the house wasn’t a disaster when the family returned, all I had to do was walk Joy and give the animals food and attention, along with some bonus attention to make up for everyone else not being around.

I was so wrong.

Before Day One was out, Joy, Blitz and Sherbert had—each in his or her own way—informed me that they fully expected not only to receive every single smackerel of attention that they routinely receive from the four of us during the course of the day, but also oodles of extra attention to make up for the fact that they were missing Garnet, Sparkle Girl and Doobins.

I enjoyed giving Joy extra attention because she is most definitely Garnet’s dog and it was a luxury to be able to sit and lavish as much attention on her as I wanted. I ended up feeling bad, though, because it wasn’t enough. Joy started following me around the house, something that she normally doesn’t do. I would give her more attention and she would follow me around some more.

Sherbert loves to be rubbed. Normally, after I rub him for a while, he heads off looking for new adventures. This time, though, no matter how much attention I had already given him, whenever I sat down, he would come looking for more. When I sat down at a computer, Sherbert would jump up and walk back and forth across the keyboard demanding more rubs.

I would rub him and put him down. He would jump back up. At one point, I ended up putting him in the basement. Although I felt bad about banishing him, it became clear that was my only hope of getting anything done.

Blitz, who can be maddeningly crafty on any day, thought he could get away with bamboozling me while everyone else was gone. The regular time for the animals’ evening meal is 5 pm. As the time approaches, Blitz and Sherbert come into the kitchen and swirl around their dishes in a way that Garnet once noted looks like sharks swimming. She was right. That’s exactly what it looks like.

At 3 pm. on the first day, Blitz came in and—in the meow he created to give everyone the impression that he is on the verge of starvation—announced that it was time for supper.

I looked at the clock.

“No, it’s not,” I said. “It’s only 3 o’clock.”

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“No! No! It’s time for supper,” he informed me in an anguishfilled meow.

He did that every day the family was gone.

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We did have fun, of course. Every day, the animals made me smile. I will never tire of starting each day by watching Joy run in a circle when I put down her bowl of food in the morning. For their daily naps, the cats can be counted on to find at least one new entertaining position.

I certainly was glad to see Garnet, Sparkle Girl and Doobins walk through the door, though. And only a little bit of that came from knowing that I would get some help with Joy, Blitz and Sherbert.

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BY MALLORY HARMON Initiated by the Clemmons Community Foundation, Women Who Care is a nonprofit, volunteer-run organization, dedicated for the past three years to improving the lives of local children and families, one child and family at a time. derrickcarrollcreative.com | 336.414.3387 The School Supply Drive, in partnership with Staples, started when Laura Grimes, who is current a member of Women Who Care, realized there was an overlooked need. She understands that the very best thing the community can do for students in need is gather school supplies, so that they can face their education confidently and well prepared.

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Recently, Women Who Care has begun to examine more opportunities to get involved in the community. Their newest inspiration focuses on helping the Clemmons Food Pantry to collect adult hygiene products, another overlooked need.

Kirsten Russ, who has been a member of Women who care for approximately three-and-a-half years, says, “I believe in the power and ability of women to change the community for the better. Clemmons and Lewisville are wonderful places, but there are areas that can be improved.”

Women Who Care appreciates partnerships with area businesses and organizations, such as Staples, Clemmons Food Pantry and the Winston-Salem/ Forsyth County Schools, in order to foster positive, long-term benefits for families in Lewisville and Clemmons.

For local women who would like to get involved, visit Women Who Care through their Facebook page and plan to attend the New Member Meeting on January 25th, 2016, at the Clemmons Village Inn and Event Center.

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Pets are a part of our families, and for many, the heart of the home. The members of our team are all big advocates for pets and pet adoption. We hope you will consider giving one of these sweet animals a “fur-ever” home with you!

“Tam Tam” is a blonde, female, domestic long-hair-mix. Her estimated date of birth is 08/06/2015. Tam Tam is a sweet and friendly cat. She loves cuddling with everyone, and she is playful. She is spayed and up-to-date on vaccinations. If you are interested in adopting her, fill out an adoption application at www.davienchumane.org or call the adoption center at 336.751.5214.

Tigger – This handsome boy would be perfect for a busy household! He is a 6- monthold domestic shorthair who loves nothing more than to watch over his surroundings.

He is an independent guy, so he would do well with a family that has a busy lifestyle, but still wants a kitty to love! If you are interested in adopting him, call the adoption center at 336.721.1303.

“Flower,” is a female Terriermix. Her estimated date of birth is 10/29/2015. She is pretty as a beautiful field of wildflowers.

She would do well with older children and needs an active home. She will be spayed and up-to-date on vaccinations before adoption. If you are interested in adopting her, fill out an adoption application at www.davienchumane.org or call the adoption center at 336.751.5214.

Maggie Mae – This sweet 9-month-old Labrador-mix wants to give you all her love! She is timid at first, but will open right up after some love and TLC. She is good with any-aged human as well as other cats and dogs, and can’t wait to join your family! If you are interested in adopting her, call the adoption center at 336.721.1303.

“Stormie” is a male Pitbull-mix.

His estimated date of birth is 04/26/2012. Stormie is a sweet and outgoing pup. He knows how to “sit” and “shake.”

Stormie is neutered and up-todate on vaccinations. Stormie walks well on a leash and is friendly with kids. If you are interested in adopting him, fill out an adoption application at www.davienchumane.org or call the adoption center at 336.751.5214.

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Jackie – This sweet girl cannot wait to meet her new family!

She is a 2-year-old lab-mix who enjoys cuddling and hanging out with her people. She has not been tested with other animals, but we provide meet and greets, if you’d like your pets to meet her before you take her home! If you are interested in adopting her, call the adoption center at 336.721.1303.

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CELEBRATIONS

The journey continues for Kernersville Mayor, Dawn Morgan, and Judge Eric Morgan! 24 years strong, and they still love traveling through life together!

Happy Anniversary!

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Happy 18th Birthday Jake Lang!

We all love you and are very proud of you!

Congratulations to Michael and Liliana Morris, who were joined by Liliana’s son, Hayden, at their June 10th wedding!

Best Wishes!

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BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT

By now, you probably are aware that Honky Tonk Smokehouse is a great spot to pick up dinner for your family or stop in to eat lunch with your co-workers. What you might not know is how much catering owners Sam and Susan Platt do out of their restaurant on Jonestown Road. They can be a go-to resource for many types of events.

Is your staff too busy to stop for lunch on Saturdays? Call HTS a day ahead and order box lunches to be brought in. Will a salesperson or educator be providing food for an office “lunch and learn” or an after-work staff meeting? Suggest that they call Honky Tonk and treat yourself with a great meal. Will holiday shoppers demand a lot from your employees? Reward your team with a buffet, whether that’s for lunch, dinner, or even late-night meals for your third-shift crew. Do you want to thank your best customers for their business? Impress them with a feast served by friendly staff. Maybe you will be hosting a “Business After Hours” or other networking event and want sliders or chicken wings finger food. Using HTS for your business meals is always a good choice to get great food, an on-time delivery, a nice presentation, and all the details covered.

Are you ready for some football? If you will be tailgating, call ahead to Honky Tonk Smokehouse and they’ll have your order hot and ready when requested. If the gang is coming to your house to watch a big game, let HTS do the cooking and spend your time cleaning your house instead. If your child’s team wants to have a place to celebrate after a game, these folks can take care of you.

It’s time to start planning your holiday dinners and parties.

Whether you need one item for a covered dish supper or a full dinner for a party or family gathering, just make one call and leave the cooking to the experts. They take special orders throughout the year for any of their meats, sides and desserts,

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but on some holidays, they go even further. In November, they will smoke whole turkeys that customers have specialordered. They open Thanksgiving morning for pickup of preordered items, so you can bring your dinner home hot and fresh and put it on the table. On Super Bowl Sunday, they open for a few hours before the game for pre-ordered favorites, such as chicken wings, brisket sliders, or even veggie trays with their house-made dill dip.

One of the biggest events in most people’s lives is their wedding.

Too often, the reception afterward can be enormously costly and not very memorable for the couple or their family. If you want your reception to be one that your friends talk about for a long time, for good reason, give the folks at Honky Tonk Smokehouse a call. Owner Susan Platt will meet with you to plan out all of the details so important to the success of your reception. Once you choose your menu, you can turn your focus to other facets of your big day, confident in the knowledge that Susan, Sam and their team will show up on time with their delicious food and “make it right” attitude, and will stay until the last guests have been ushered out the door. You will have a hard time choosing from their wonderful menu items, but if there is a special dish that you always wanted for your wedding, challenge their team, and I bet they can make it happen for you. Check out their customer reviews to see what others have said about the success of their events.

Honky Tonk Smokehouse is located at 145 Jonestown Road in Winston-Salem. They are open Tuesday–Saturday from 11:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m. For more information, call 336.794.2270, visit their website at www.HonkyTonkSmokehouse.com, or follow them on Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/ honkytonksmokehouse, to find out about special events at the restaurant. For catering, call Susan Platt at 336-391-3890 or e-mail info@honkytonksmokehouse.com. You’ll be glad you did.

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NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 28 (WEDNESDAYS) REFUGE RECOVERY MEETING 6-7pm, 983 Mar Don Drive in W-S. Refuge Recovery offers hope to those suffering from addiction in a mutually supportive atmosphere of compassion, kindness and acceptance.

This is a weekly group for people in sobriety who want to learn more about meditation and mindfulness! http://bit.ly/1Tz17Ft

OCTOBERBREAST

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month!

Breast cancer has touched many lives as well as mine losing my grandmother at a young age,. it is in honor of our family and friends who we have lost or celebrating the survivors Mac & Nelli’s will be dressed in Pink all month long!

If you are a survivor, please come and see us so we can celebrate with you! Lori Shaver Donations will be made to The Susan G. Komen Northwest NC with special fundraising events all month!

WEEKLY DINING SPECIALS

MONDAY - 35 Cent Wings - (dine in only) TUESDAY - AYCE - Pasta - $9.95 Half Price Wine By the Glass WEDNESDAY - 35 Cent Wings - (dine in only) THURSDAY - $5.00 Classic Burger Night FRIDAY - AYCE - Peel & Eat Shrimp - $12.95 FRIDAY & SATURDAY - Prime Rib SUNDAY BRUNCH - Bloody Mary & Mimosa Bar

Mac & EVENTS Nelli’s WEEKLY

MONDAY - Monday Night Football - 10 TV’s TUESDAY - Trivia & Game Night - $100 in Cash Prizes WEDNESDAY - Karaoke with DJ Chris THURSDAY - WSJS Live Talk Radio Show with Scott Hamilton 3-6 | Live Guests Thursday Night Football - 10 TV’s Thursday - October 20th Paint Nite FRIDAY & SATURDAY - Live Music SUNDAY NFL Sunday Ticket - We Show ALL Games

LIVE MUSIC SCHEDULE

OCT. 1 - The Mulligans 8-11pm OCT. 3 - Mike Bustin - 6-9 pm OCT. 6 - Hoots - 7-10pm OCT. 7 - Evan & Dana 8-11pm OCT. 8 - NOJO Slim 9-12 OCT. 10 - Mike Bustin - 6-9pm OCT. 14 - Southern Eyes - 9:30-12:30am OCT. 15 - TBD - 9-12pm OCT. 17 - Mike Bustin - 6-9pm

OCT. 21 - James Vincent Carroll - 8-11pm OCT. 22 - Lassiter Union 9-11pm OCT. 24 - Mike Bustin - 6-9pm OCT. 27 - Hoots - 7-10pm OCT. 28 - PINK PARTY Mike Bustin - 8-11pm OCT. 29 - Russ - 8-11pm OCT. 31 - Mac & Nelli’s 2nd Annual Halloween Party - Prizes!

Check our Facebook for Special Events & Times

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NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 29 (THURSDAYS) PARENT TO PARENT 6-7:30pm, 983 Mar Don Drive in W-S. A free support group for parents of substance users. The first 45 minutes provides education about addiction from a counselor with 25 years of experience! The remaining time is open discussion to support fellow parents. Every eight weeks, the educational portion of the group restarts so that all attendees have ample opportunity to benefit from the educator. http://bit.ly/1XWufqf

OCTOBER 1 FALL OPEN HOUSE 7:30am-4pm, 1088 West Dalton Road in King. Now is the best time to plant! We are growing a wide selection of plants for sale -- trees, shrubs, mums, pansies, fall vegetable plants and violas -- one of the largest in the Triad. Hot dogs from 11am-1pm. www.mitchellsnursery.com PROJECT LEARNING TREE EDUCATORS’ WORKSHOP AT SCIWORKS 9am-4pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. An interdisciplinary environmental education program featuring hands-on activities exploring plants, geology, recycling, water, wildlife and more. Workshop and materials provided at no cost to participants through partnership. www. childrensmuseumofws.org ART IN THE AFTERNOON 1-3pm, 251 North Spruce Street in W-S. Sawtooth School for Visual Art opens the doors to all its studios for a free community open house featuring demonstrations, hands-on art activities and information on fall classes and workshops for adults, teens and kids. www.sawtooth.org

OCTOBER 1-31 PUMPKIN PICK HAYRIDES Times vary. Tanglewood Park Stable in Clemmons.Enjoy a scenic tractor-driven hayride through Tanglewood Park with a stop at the pumpkin patch where everyone can choose a pumpkin and have lots of photo opportunities! All rides are by reservation by calling 766.9540. Cost: $9/person. tanglewoodstables.com

OCTOBER 1-JANUARY 8 ENGINEER IT! EXHIBIT AT SCIWORKS 10am-5pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Participate in the Design-Build-Test cycle through hands-on discovery. Try out DaVinci’s interlocking bridge and the Exploration Table. Experiment with racetracks, paper airplanes and helicopters, gravity and more! Included with museum admission. sciworks.org

OCTOBER 3-31 THE PUMPKIN PATCH AT MAPLE SPRINGS UMC (see page 67)

OCTOBER 4 HOMESCHOOL/SMALL GROUP DAY AT SCIWORKS 10am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Programs for home-educated children and small groups in grades K-9. Pre-registration is required, and group admission rates apply. Limited to 20 students.

Call 714.7105 to register. sciworks.org

OCTOBER 4 LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE ANNUAL SPEAKER SERIES COMMUNITY LUNCHEON & LEADERSHIP WORKSHOP (see pg103) 11am-5pm, Benton Convention Center, 301 West 5th Street in W-S. Discover the secrets to more happiness and success. Featuring World Renowned Speaker and New York Times/International Bestselling Author of The Happiness Advantage, Shawn Achor. Presented by Dewey’s Bakery. BestLifeSeries.org.

OCTOBER 6 AUTUMN IN THE ATRIUM 6:30-9pm, 575 North Patterson Avenue in W-S. Celebrate iCan House’s eight years of innovative services; wine and hors d’oeuvres, entertainment by Karon Click and the Hot Licks, playing upbeat jump swing and blues music, a silent auction including original artwork and a wine pull raffle. Cost: $40/advance; $45/door. www.facebook. com/events/208750479527481

OCTOBER 7 LIVE2LEAD (see pg127) 8:50am-1pm, Old Town Baptist Church, 4386 Shattalon Drive

OCTOBER 8 SHREDDING EVENT SPONSORED BY BERMUDA RUN GARDEN CLUB 9am-12pm, 120 Kinderton Boulevard (off Highway 158) in Bermuda Run. Shredding event sponsored by the Bermuda Run Garden Club. Rain or shine. Proceeds go to various Davie County community programs supported by the Garden Club. Cost: $5/ brown grocery bag or equivalent sized box; cash preferred. bermudarungardenclub.org STARGAZING AT SCIWORKS 7:30-10pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Join SciWorks and the Forsyth Astronomical Society for a free astronomy observation in the parking lot using professional telescopes. In case of bad weather, call SciWorks after 5pm for an update. sciworks.org

OCTOBER 9 LEGACY SADDLEBREDS COMMUNITY YARD SALE (see page 61) 1-4pm; 4151 Thomasville Road –All proceeds go to St Jude’s

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GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT 5pm…until! Providence Restaurant, 5790 University Parkway (DoubleTree by Hilton) in W-S. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy complimentary hors d’oeuvres, exclusive prix fixe menu and custom Girls’ Night Out craft cocktails! Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways!

FARMINGTON UNITED METHODIST CHURCH COMMUNITY FALL FESTIVAL 4:30-7pm, 1939 Farmington Road in Mocksville. Free community event! Chicken stew, live music, games, pumpkin patch, car show, outdoor movie, bazaar and more.

Great event for all!

2ND ANNUAL MONSTER DASH & GOBLIN HOP (see page 131) 2-5PM; FREE event at Village Point Greenway in Clemmons

OCTOBER 11

BRADLEY METHOD NATURAL CHILDBIRTH CLASSES 6:30-8:30pm. Bradley Method natural childbirth classes last 12 weeks and provide thorough preparation for natural childbirth. Topics include nutrition, exercise, relaxation, coaching, 1st and 2nd stages of labor, birth planning, complications and more. Cost: $325. www.bradleybirth.com/lanette.tyler

KIDS’ MORNING OUT 10-12pm, FREE event at Legacy Saddlebreds, 4151 Thomasville Road in W-S. Free event! Come check out the beautiful, brand new facility at Legacy Saddlebreds. Pony rides, several activity stations and hayride! Each adult attendee will receive four tickets for our fabulous prize board.

OCTOBER 13 SCIENCE CAFÉ AT RIVER RIDGE TAPHOUSE 7-9pm, 1480 River Ridge Drive in Clemmons. Learn about the latest groundbreaking research from a regional scientist in these free informal programs, sponsored by SciWorks and Reynolda Gardens. Visit sciworks.org for speaker and topic.

OCTOBER 14 TRAIL OF TREATS 5-7pm, 4403 Country Club Road in W-S. Join us for games, prizes, spook house and more! Wear your costume, and bring a bag for all your goodies!

OCTOBER 14-15 FRIENDS OF THE LIBRARY BOOK SALE 10am-6pm (Fri.); 10am-3pm (Sat.), 6490 Shallowford Road in Lewisville. Book sale at the Lewisville Public Library offering auditorium full of multi-categories of books at reasonable prices. Saturday afternoon is “bag day” when you can fill a bag for only $5! All proceeds go to the Lewisville Library!

OCTOBER 15 BUSINESS AND PROSPERITY WITH DEMETRIA CLARK 9am-7pm, 3030 West Gate City Boulevard in Greensboro. Are you ready to up-level your business?

Is it time to start thinking about following your dreams to another career, and you aren’t sure where to start?

Your host is a business dynamo and best selling author; join us, and take the next step. Cost: $100. www.demetria.com

OCTOBER 15-23 (SATURDAYS & SUNDAYS) FALL PARADE OF HOMES 1-5pm, 522 North Stratford Road & 528 North Stratford Road in W-S. June DeLugas Interiors and Custom Homes by Hamrick team up again. Come tour this lovely home for free. Light fixtures, window treatments, finishes/ colors and furnishings by June DeLugas Interiors! junedelugasinteriors.com

OCTOBER 17-JANUARY 2

OCTOBER 18 FREE ORBERA WEIGHT LOSS SEMINAR 6-7pm, 875 Bethesda Road in W-S. Dr. Randy Peters of GAP will be presenting a free seminar regarding Orbera, a nonsurgical, FDA approved procedure to assist those who have struggled to lose weight. Find more information at gapgi.com or by calling 336.448.2427.

OCTOBER 21 ST JOHN’S FALL CARNIVAL (see page 87) 5-7:30pm 2415 Silas Creek Parkway 6TH ANNUAL PARTY IN PINK ZUMBATHON TO BENEFIT SUSAN G. KOMEN NWNC 7-10pm, 6205 Ramada Drive in Clemmons. Presented by Women’s Wellness & Fitness, Studio ZT and Village Inn Event Center! Cost: $15/advance; $20/door. www.

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OCTOBER 22 WAKE-UP WALK (See page 19) 8-10am @ Bailey Park. Family Services Community walk – WakeUpWalk.org SPOOKY GINGERBREAD HOUSE WORKSHOP 10am-1pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Make-and-take a mini gingerbread house for $6.40 -- while supplies last! Build your creation with a mini milk carton, graham crackers, icing and a variety of sweet fall and Halloween-themed treats!

Museum admission not included but required. www. childrensmuseumofws.org WESLEY MEMORIAL UNITED METHODIST FALL FESTIVAL 11am-3pm, 1210 Bolton Street in W-S. There will be a BBQ lunch served until 1pm. This is donation-based, and proceeds will benefit The Salvation Army. There will be games, a movie, music and a pumpkin patch! All are welcome!

TRICK-OR-TREATING AT SCIWORKS 1-4pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Grab that costume and join SciWorks for “spooky science” demos and experiments, Halloween Rock laser shows in the Planetarium (2pm, 3pm and 4pm) and giveaways from Lowes Foods Reynolda Road. sciworks.org

PUMPKIN PATCH PALOOZA 4-6pm, 2569 Reynolda Road in W-S. Join us for an epic community-wide celebration of pumpkins! Pumpkin Patch Palooza will feature free food, live music, games, prizes, inflatables, petting zoo and more. Make plans to attend, and invite your friends! www.maplesprings.org/pumpkinpatch

OCTOBER 24

NOVANT HEALTH BARIATRIC SURGICAL SEMINAR 5:30pm, Novant Health Kernersville Medical Center -Conference Center, 1750 Kernersville Medical Parkway in Kernersville. Are you considering bariatric surgery?

If so, Novant Health Bariatric Solutions is here for you.

Join James Dasher, MD, and Thomas Walsh, MD, for a free seminar to learn about our surgical weight loss options. www.nhbariatricsolutions.org

OCTOBER 27 NOVANT HEALTH OOOH BRA LA LA 5:30-8pm, 1750 Kernersville Medical Parkway in Kernersville.

Join Novant Health for our Oooh Bra La La breast cancer awareness event! This “girls’ night out” celebrates breast cancer survivors while also providing information on early detection and treatment. Food, wine and entertainment!

OCTOBER 28 SENSORY FRIENDLY NIGHT AT THE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM: HALLOWEEN ADVENTURE 5-7:30pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and sensory processing differences are invited to have a fun, enjoyable and interactive learning experience in a comfortable and accepting environment! www. childrensmuseumofws.org/

OCTOBER 30 TRUCK & TREAT AT THE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF W-S 1-5pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Explore more than 25 vehicles, trick-or-treat for novelties and candy, and enjoy DJ music, fun activities, a craft and more! Halloween costumes encouraged.

Cost: $5/members and non-members (museum admission included). www.childrensmuseumofws.org

NOVEMBER 1 FAMILY SERVICES BENEFIT LUNCHEON WITH ROBERT D. PUTNAM (see page19) 11:30am – Downtown Marriott. Tickets available at RaisingEveryChild.org

NOVEMBER 5 DERO’S HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE

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ACTIVITIES

Ballet and Performing Arts Center ............. 77 Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem ...... 65 Graylyn ...................................................... 73 Legacy Saddlebreds ................................... 61 ProShots .................................................... 49 Pumpkin Pick Hay Rides ............................ 95 Salem Gymnastics & Swim ........................ 93 SciWorks .................................................... 65 SportsPlex.................................................. 95 Studio Create ............................................. 91 We Jump U Bounce ................................... 75

AUTOMOTIVE

Shine Time Express Car Wash .................... 59 TJs Body Shop.......................................... 115

BAKERY/CONFECTIONS

Christina’s Dessertery ......................116, 127

BEAUTY / STYLING

Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics .................... 105 Oval Office ................................................. 69 V’s Barbershop........................................... 79 Village Nail Spa ......................................... 89

CHILDCARE

Imprints ..................................................... 97 YMCA ......................................................... 85

CHURCH

Covenant of Grace ..................................... 87 Maple Springs UMC .................................. 67 Sunrise UMC.............................................. 82

DENTISTS / ORTHODONTISTS

Chermak & Hanson ..................................... 4 Kingery & Kingery ................................... 101 Kephart Dentistry....................................... 89 Salem Smiles ........................................... 105 Southern Dental Associates ..................... 121 Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry ....................................... 2

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EDUCATION

Calvary Day School .................................... 57 St. John’s Lutheran School......................... 87 St Leo’s Catholic School ............................. 93 The Piedmont School................................. 97

FINANCIAL

Mitchell Wealth Management Group.......... 3 Truliant Federal Credit Union ....... Back Cover

HEALTH & FITNESS

C3 Fitness ................................................ 111 Dream Dinners .......................................... 87 Gotta Get Thin .............................................. 7 YMCA ......................................................... 85

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ACE ............................................................ 41 Bloomday Granite...................................... 21 Budget Blinds ............................................ 35 Busy as a Bee Concierge ............................ 47 Chamberlain Place .................................... 35 Clemmons Town Center Apartments ......... 45 Contract Business Solutions ...................... 93 Dero’s......................................................... 29 Hampton House Art & Framing ................. 39 Home Builders Association........................ 25 Isenhour Homes ........................................ 27 Long and Foster Real Estate ....................... 33 P3 Precision Paint & Pressure Washing ..... 47 R.S. Parker Homes ..................................... 23 Salem Windows & Doors ........................... 53 Stitches ...................................................... 43 Susan Maier-Colon, Broker ........................ 47 Two Men and a Truck ................................. 37 Weedman .................................................. 39 Wright’s Landscaping ................................ 49

HOME MEDICAL CARE

Home Instead Senior Care........................... 9

INSURANCE

Ireland Insurance....................................... 33

LANDSCAPING Weedman .................................................. 39 Wright’s Landscaping ................................ 49

MEDICAL

Forsyth Family Eye Care ............................. 75 Hillcrest Vision ........................................... 91 Home Instead Senior Care........................... 9 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics .................... 105 Lyndhurst Gynecological Associates .......... 79 Summer Family Care ................................. 11 Wake Forest Baptist Health Brenner Children’s Hospital ...................... 55 WomanCare ............................................... 97

PHOTOGRAPHY

Kyle Duncan Photography ....................... 109 Photo Artistry by Melinda ........................ 119

POLITICAL CANDIDATES

Donny C. Lambeth ..................................... 17 Eric Morgan ............................................... 14

RADIO STATIONS

WBFJ .......................................................... 83 WMAG ..................................................... 117

REAL ESTATE & HOUSING

Chamberlain Place .................................... 35 Clemmons Town Center Apartments ......... 45 Long and Foster Real Estate ....................... 33 Susan Maier-Colon Berkshire Hathaway................................... 47

RESTAURANTS

Chang Thai ............................................... 127 Christina’s Dessertery ......................116, 127 Hakkachow Asian Eats ............................. 127 Honky Tonk Smokehouse ........................ 127 Mac & Nelli’s ....................................127, 128 Midtown Café & Dessertery ..................... 127 Omega House ......................................... 127 Tanglewood Pizza Grill ............................. 127 Which Wich ............................................. 127

RETAIL

Clemmons Bicycle ................................... 115 Dero’s......................................................... 29 Devora Designs.......................................... 39 Hip Chics Boutique & Gift .......................... 61 M&G Barnware ........................................ 101 Rolly’s Baby Boutique ................................ 73 Thruway Center .......................................... 77

SERVICE 201 Media ................................................. 91 Busy as a Bee Concierge ............................ 47 Carl Hearn................................................ 115 Colin Allured ............................................ 119 Lin Taylor Marketing Group ..................... 115 Nu expression.......................................... 107 Passion for Pets ........................................ 126 ProShots .................................................... 49 Triad Mac ................................................. 113

TECHNOLOGY

Nu expression.......................................... 107 Triad Mac ................................................. 113

UPCOMING EVENTS

Autum in Old Salem .................................. 10 Dark in the Park, Bethabara Park ............... 85 Fall Parade of Homes................................. 25 Family Services Wake Up Walk .................. 19 Fear Factory................................................ 69 Live to Lead .............................................. 127 Living Your Best Life................................. 103 Monster Dash and Goblin Hop ................ 131 Paws in the Park....................................... 113 Pumpkin Patch Palooza ............................. 67 Pumpkin Pick Hay Rides ............................ 95 Southern Charm at the Farm ..................... 45 Spooky Woods ........................................... 13 Tanglewood Farmers Market ................... 113 Woods of Terror.......................................... 71

2nd Annual

October 23 Village Point Greenway 3210 Village Point Drive

2 PM - 5 PM OPEN

FREE EVENT Parking at Frank Morgan Elementary School Children are invited to dress in their Halloween costume and “goblin hop” along the greenway.

Local businesses and organizations will have tables along the greenway with kid’s activities/ games. Each table will provide a giveaway for the participants.

Event Sponsored by:

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