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April 2016

Christina’s Dessertery Giving God the Glory

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Christina’s Dessertery: Giving God the Glory

Spring Home Section!

See pages 10 – 39 for all things related to your home including info on the 2016 Spring Parade of Homes!

Summer Camp Showcase

See pages 42 – 53 to see exciting camp opportunities! And check out pages 48, 50 and 52 for our Summer Camps At a Glance!

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For those that read my little offering each month, you know I’m in the midst of planning a wedding for my daughter, Briana. I had been pretty calm about it all until last month when I realized I was only four short months away! Guess what, now I’m only three short months away! Most everything is under control, but I have to say, I’m starting to feel the pressure! Luckily, I have a great team in place with Jennie & Kristin of Perfect Pair Events and too many wonderful friends and family to count that have offered to help. I know these next few months are just going to FLY by, so I’m doing my best to enjoy the ride!

Speaking of weddings, our April issue cover features Christina’s Dessertery. What a gorgeous and talented family! Husband-andwife-team Michael and Christina are quite the dynamic duo and together they create some yummy, magnificent creations! Be sure to check out just a small sampling of their work in their story, and if you’ve never been to their bakery in Clemmons, then you’re missing out! April is also our Spring Home issue with lots of great content for homeowners or prospective buyers and the continuation of our Summer Camp Showcase.

As always, thank you to our faithful readers and supportive advertisers! Forsyth Family and Forsyth Woman magazines were named Favorite Local Publications in the 2016 Triad Moms on Main Annual Choice Awards. We are humbled and ever grateful for your support!

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Home. It’s a concept. It’s a place.

It’s a feeling. It’s people. And from our youngest years, it’s the place where we feel grounded, centered and accepted.

Dorothy said it, and it’s true: “There’s no place like home.”

Because our homes play such an integral part of our family life, it’s only fitting that we dedicate two issues a year to the home. Welcome to Forsyth Family’s Spring Home issue. This issue is full of content relevant to our homes, including renovation, decorating and maintenance.

Home is the place where you exist as a family. If “Home is where the heart is,” join us in celebrating the house you call home! We hope you enjoy this issue!

Forsyth Family celebrates the homes in which we live every spring (April) and fall (October). If you are interested in advertising your home-related business, please email us at Advertising@ ForsythMags.com

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Bacteria Walks into Our Homes

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

It is a mindset to believe the places we spend the most time are clean, simply because we vacuum daily, while occasionally steamcleaning the carpets, and routinely scrub kitchen and bathroom floors, and entrances.

Only one factor changes the daily effort of cleaning—our shoes.

The Sole of a Shoe It is normal for most people to take off the day’s shoes in the bedroom, where they are placed in a closet shoe bag or floor rack.

These are our favorite everyday dress or comfort shoes, unlike the muddied hiking boots tucked underneath a bench in the mudroom. Before considering the long walk across rooms and up stairs to reach the closet, think about where you walk every day. Our shoes bravely stride across parking lots, sidewalks and grassy areas, through office buildings, and stand in public restrooms and at gas station islands. We walk through a variety of chemicals and lawn-care pesticides, gasoline and polluted rain water, bird droppings and other forms of human and animal waste. A microbiologist and professor at the University of Arizona assessed a new pair of shoes and discovered “440,000 units of bacteria” just after two weeks of wear.

He found strands that could cause diarrhea, Klebsiella pneumonia, meningitis and viral, bloodstream and respiratory tract infections; moreover, the deadliest bacteria of all, “E. Coli,” covered 27 percent of the shoe’s surface. Frequently-worn shoes continuously pick up new debris that feeds the growth of bacteria. Research also found that 90 percent of bacteria are transferred onto tiled flooring; yet, carpets harbor even greater percentages.

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The Members of a House Our floors are not just pathways from one room to another, they become the space where our families spend time together. A parent may enjoy sitting on the padded carpet to accommodate an older dog’s need to be close. Cartwheels and somersaults are performed there to great applause, and children need the floor space to erect great ideas with blocks or Legos.

As infants and toddlers enjoy crawling or lying on the floor, they become the most vulnerable. Eighty times an hour, children under the age of three put their hands into their mouths. Every member of the family needs a greater defense than depending on soap and water to wash away toxins, bacteria and germs, or wondering about the source of sickness.

Solutions It begins with a household promise to walk shoeless after entering the house.

(Young children will willingly comply with a daily reminder, until this notion becomes second nature.) A bench, placed near the front door or in the mudroom, will offer a comfortable place to sit and ease off the day’s shoes.

To reduce the clutter of quickly tossed pairs, consider having a plastic basket for each member of your family. This will save time and be the easiest material to clean.

Guests will need to be informed of your house rule prior to their first visit.

They can select from a basket of slippers or socks when they arrive, or be invited to bring their own house shoes. Just remember, not everyone is comfortable displaying their bare or socked feet in a social setting.

• If your feet depend on the support shoes offer, buy a pair to be worn at home.

• Researchers have proved that washing canvas or tennis shoes on the cold cycle with detergent kills the bacteria. Other types of shoes will require the soles and edges to be rigorously scrubbed with soap and a toothbrush.

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BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT there have been changes. Within the past three to four years, the number of people trending towards quartz has increased tremendously. People love the color options available in quartz (more white backgrounds, less pattern, more consistent color choices or solid color options for a more subtle design look). They also love that the surface is totally smooth, with no pitting or rough areas that granite (which is fully natural) has to offer. Quartz also is nonporous and, therefore, doesn’t require the maintenance of a sealer. The lowmaintenance factor, along with the color options and bacteria-free surface have made this is an ever-increasing option for counter choices.”

If you have ever redone a kitchen or bathroom, you know how many decisions go into the process. There are countless details to consider, and you want to make sure you get it right the first time!

Whether you want to freshen up your space or update it with plans to sell, it is common knowledge in the real estate world that kitchens and bathrooms sell homes, so make it count! Through the years, countertops have gone through many trends and changes. Bloomday Granite & Marble has been there for them all and knows the answer to any question you may have before tackling your own project.

“The trends in the stone industry have definitely changed throughout the years,” said Tonya Hunsinger. “Whether it is the changing color scheme [or] the applications in which to use granite or another type of selected stone material,

Aside from the remarkable customer service people receive at Bloomday Granite & Marble, they receive knowledgeable help every step of the way. “Granite is still by far the most popular option in today’s market.

However, the shift has begun, as quartz is definitely on the rise,” said Hunsinger.

“Each day, consumers want to know the difference between the two, which is more affordable, and what the pros and cons are for each. It seems consumers are taking the time to research their countertops and want to know their options for their lifestyle, what works best for their budget, color preferences and maintenance.”

Many customers have an idea of what they want, but aren’t sure they are choosing the right surface for their needs or resale potential. While the professionals at Bloomday Granite & Marble will never talk you out of your choice, they can help you make the right decision if you are looking for advice.

“We by no means want to sway people with one surface versus another,” said Hunsinger. “We want to learn a little background information about our clients—what are their lifestyles like, do they have kids, what are their concerns and what are their dream designs for their kitchens? We want to try our best to give

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them what they want on the design side while also staying within their budgets.

Informing our clients of the types of surfaces they are purchasing, with pros and cons of each, only helps us out in the long run. We want informed consumers, and we want to make sure we can spend time with each so that every question they have can be answered.”

This personal customer service stems from the small, family-business atmosphere at Bloomday Granite & Marble. “From the start of my career, it was apparent Bloomday stood behind their craftsmanship and was an admirable company,” said Hunsinger. “We strive to be the best, and while we know mistakes happen, we stand behind the fact that if we make a mistake, we want to ensure that we will correct the situation and make it right. Knowing that you have a great team and the best craftsmen behind you are always keys, but truly believing that your company will do what it takes to make a client happy is the best satisfaction. We want our clients to know that we are striving to make their process seamless. We are not simply trying to upsale them; we want them to be happy and find the counters of their dreams, stay within budget and get the most unique, rare material they can find. We also love when our customers refer us to their friends, neighbors and family members; that is how we know we are doing a great job!”

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Home Building Has Never Been Easier

BY VONDA HENDERSON

Isenhour Homes has been part of the home building landscape of Winston-Salem for thirty plus years and continues to act as a champion for the growth of the Triad area. As stated in their mission, “Our mission at Isenhour Homes is that we want to create remarkable homes and communities that we are proud to be part of and that our homeowners love putting down roots in which to grow their futures.”

Todd Isenhour, the founder of Isenhour Homes, has been building homes for over 35 years.

Isenhour Homes currently has 25 employees.

More than half have been with the company ten or more years.

The area of scope for Isenhour Homes’ building initiatives is quite extensive.

Presently, construction is in process in Advance, Burlington, Clemmons, Greensboro, Kernersville, Lewisville, Mocksville, Southport, Oak Island and surrounding coastal communities and, of course, in Winston-Salem.

Isenhour Homes offers a portfolio of great plans, ranging from one-level plans (ideal for those interested in downsizing) to twostory plans perfect for a growing family.

They make a practice of working with their clients to customize plans to make them their own. Cory Brannock, Isenhour Homes’ head of marketing stated, “Our customers can search our website by city, by community, by collection, by lifestyle, by bedroom, by floor plan.” This allows their clients the luxury of working with a dedicated team of professionals in a “one-stop-shop” environment. Isenhour offers an in-house design team to make selections easy, standard or custom floor plans, CAD on staff, and an on-site project manager dedicated to the client’s project, with smart home solutions incorporated into every home built.

Isenhour Homes takes pride in creating personal and lasting relationships with their clients. Scott and Alexis Snow shared from their experience, “Building with Isenhour Homes was the best decision we ever made.

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it surprisingly enjoyable!

They created a custom floor plan that worked perfectly for life with our four busy children. Their in-house designer helped us narrow down all of the many design choices and saved us hours of time and stress. Their on-site manager communicated with us constantly, and we always knew what was happening. The Isenhour staff truly became family as we trusted them with the important task of creating a home in which we would raise our family.

We are truly grateful we chose to work with Isenhour Homes.”

At present, Isenhour Homes builds on average 60 to 70 homes per year. Isenhour Homes takes great care to make each building experience personal and each home unique. At any one time, Isenhour Homes usually has about 35 homes in various stages of completion. As a general rule, it takes about six months to complete the building of a home to turnkey condition. Some factors need to be taken

into consideration regarding the time frame, such as weather conditions, availability of materials, and complexity of the design.

In general, about one-half of Isenhour homes are built specifically for a client and the other half are built to sell. An inventory or spec home is a home Isenhour Homes builds, selecting the finishes, etc. and markets to sell. These homes are often purchased during the construction process or when completed. In some cases, they may be purchased in the early stages of construction based on design blueprints. In those situations, the new homeowner has the opportunity to select the finishings (paint, light fixtures, flooring, countertops, etc.).

A continuing trend in new construction is called “open concept,” which remains very popular to new homebuyers. Another emerging trend is the desire for larger eat-in kitchens, eliminating the formal dining room concept.

Isenhour Homes is a member of the WinstonSalem Home Builders Association, Home Builders Association of Brunswick County, Chamber of Commerce of Southport, and Chamber of Commerce of Oak Island.

Isenhour Homes feels it important to have a community presence in the areas in which they build.

For questions about how Isenhour Homes can help you get your dream home, contact Cory Brannock at Isenhour Homes, LLC, 3411 Healy Drive, Winston-Salem, NC 27103; via phone at 336.659-8211; or via their website (isenhourhomes.com).

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welcome. In the early days of America, a red door signified to travelers that guests were welcome to rest and stay the night.

In Scotland, red doors meant that the mortgage was paid (a celebratory color to the world). Red is a good-luck color in Chinese culture, and many paint their front doors red to celebrate the Chinese New Year. According to legend, Albert Einstein painted his front door red so he could easily find it.

Purple:

Are you a free spirit? Do you have a sense of privilege, wealth, or royalty? If so, purple is your door color.

Purple is also associated with imagination.

Yellow:

I must admit, I don’t recall ever seeing a yellow front door. Yellow denotes energy, positivity (a sunny disposition, so to speak), clarity and joy.

It can also reflect a leadership personality.

Blue:

Blue reflects an easy-going personality. Blue is inspiring and indicates creativity. Unleash the artist within you and be inspired via a blue entry door.

Your front door is the greeting place for friends and family. It’s where you first welcome people into your home. The color selected for that front door can reflect your personality, what you value, and how you see things.

After all, you picked the color, most likely. Who knew there was so much information on door colors? Let’s open the door to that information and see what we find.

Burnt Orange: Warmth and wisdom are signified by rustic orange.

Green: Traditional values, money, ambition and growth

are the attributes associated with green doors. Renewal and rejuvenation are also attributes of green, which works well, since we go home to rest and re-energize for the next round of challenges.

Teal:

Creativity and emotional healing are the characteristics of a teal door.

Gray:

Gray doors are a canvas for all the other accents that may be on or around the front door.

Gray is a neutral, dignified choice. It will showcase wreaths and seasonal decorations beautifully.

White: White doors indicate an organized,

neat, and clean personality—a no fuss, no muss statement.

Black: Black doors are timeless and reflect a Brown: Brown doors signify consistent, reserved and conservative atmosphere. grounding and stability. Since the home is the foundation of the family, brown is a reflection of the stability within.

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Colors are also associated with architectural styles. For instance, craftsman homes often use colors such as dark reds or brown.

Victorian homes are best suited for muted, subdued colors. Art Deco works well with gray or white.

The region of the country can also have a bearing on color selection. The Federal and colonial style architecture often seen in the Northeast works well with navy, green, red, or gray. In the mid-Atlantic region, the same colors used in the Northeast work, but with a bit more oomph (or energy). In the Southeast and Coastal region, the colors are more tropical, reflective of the warmer weather; corals, blues, lime and yellow are popular. In the Midwest, warm earth tones are popular (brown, gold, green). The West and Southwest also embrace earth tones along with terra cotta, rustic orange and dark blue. In the Pacific Northwest, the shades of the coast (blue, white, gray) and the forest (green) are typical choices.

With spring coming and the need for getting things spruced up, maybe it’s time to paint your front door. What color will it be?

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2016 Spring Parade of Homes

Find Your Own Dream among these Inspiring Homes

BY MARTIE EMORY

If finding or updating your “home sweet home” is high on your springtime to-do list, put the weekends of April 23rd and 24th, and April 30th and May 1st on your calendar.

Once the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem’s 2016 Spring Parade of Homes kicks off, the creativity flows, and the ideas become reality right before your eyes. Seeing your vision realized in a new or remodeled home will surely inspire you to take the plunge yourself— whether it’s purchasing a brand new place or giving your current abode a new look.

Sponsored this year by Amanzi Marble and Granite—located in Kernersville, NC, and home to the most extensive selection of stone in the area—the spring tour is free to the public and scheduled to feature more than 30 new homes and several remodeled spaces in the Winston-Salem area, and more than 53 in the Guilford County area. The partnership between the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem and the Greensboro Builders Association broadens the tour of homes to include Forsyth, Stokes, Davidson, Davie and Guilford counties.

All featured homes have been built by members of one of these two fine professional associations, and the tour will cover a variety of locations with a wide range of price points.

It’s an exciting event dedicated to what can be a lifechanging time for families.

“Home ownership is still the American dream, and every time someone buys a home it stimulates job growth,” says Jodi Tate of the Blue Door Group of Coldwell Banker Triad, Realtors and a member of the Winston-Salem association’s Board of Directors. “The Parade of Homes provides a vehicle for the consumer to visit new and remodeled spaces and get ideas, see what’s new, and meet experts who can answer questions. People like to dream, and the Parade of Homes provides that opportunity.”

Whether you’re in the market for an entirely new home or simply looking to invest in a room addition or expansion, this is the perfect opportunity to gather new plans together.

For visitors, the highlight of every homes tour is the fun of exploring first-hand what some of the most exciting trends are in home design and décor. Each season brings a new focus, and this year is no exception, as builders offer a glimpse of emerging themes.

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Don’t be surprised to see glorious kitchens with two-tone cabinets, colored stainless steel appliances, and unique pairings of countertop and backsplash materials. Look for updated sunrooms—with traditional outdoor fabrics moving indoors—and charming, farmhouse-style entryways. You’ll see bathrooms getting more attention and evolving into actual living spaces, with statement pieces such as dramatic mirrors and even fireplaces.

Parade of Homes

Tammy Marsh, Vice President of Amanzi, says her company’s excitement about their sponsorship of the tour is two-fold. “We are excited about supporting the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem and also supporting the builders,” she explains.

“At Amanzi, we pride ourselves on providing a superior product at very competitive prices and we want all our builders to shine during this parade and leave a lasting impression on all who walk through their houses.” She also says Amanzi considers itself a partner in making these homes the very best they can be, and a dream come true for happy future residents.

For details, maps and updates on the 2016 Spring Parade of Homes, visit springparadeofhomesws.com or contact the Home Builders Association of Winston-Salem at 336-768-5942. This highly anticipated event will take place April 23rd and 24th, and April 30th and May 1st, from 1:00 p.m.–5:00 p.m. on both Saturday and Sunday.

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A Great Place to Call Home

BY CAROLYN S. PETERSON

In today’s fast-paced world of always being on the go, the concept of being part of a community has fallen by the wayside for many of us. We have where we live, where we shop, where we worship and exercise, but rarely do we do all these activities that make up our life in the same area or vicinity. Life has become more about running around chasing life and those things that fulfill us than it is about living and spending time with one’s family, friends and neighbors in a community. What if there were a place, a community, that offered everything you need from a home, to retail, to medical offices, to churches, all surrounded by 10 miles of lush, green walkways and parks designed to bring you and your neighbors together? Welden Village is a Traditional Neighborhood Development (TND) situated on 385 acres in Kernersville, NC, featuring home sites, walking trails, retail areas, open spaces for gatherings and dog parks, all in proximity to all major roads leading to everywhere in the Triad. The concept of TND isn’t new, but it has never been fully achieved in the Triad—that is, until now!

WHAT MAKES A TND SPECIAL? Alan Montgomery, the agent with Allen Tate Realtors, the marketing company for Welden Village, said, “TND stands for Traditional Neighborhood Development, a uniquely planned development that includes a variety of housing types and land uses in a defined area.

A TND usually has a variety of support facilities, civic buildings and commercial establishments to be located within walking distance of private homes. Welden Village will be woven together by a network of paths, streets and lanes suitable for pedestrians, as well as vehicles. This provides residents the freedom of walking, biking or driving to most any place in the development within minutes.”

The initial phase of Welden Village is underway and located off Highway 66, with the entrance to the commercial and retail area being off Old Salem Road. “By this summer, we will have nine homes, a sales center and a model home underway, if not close to completion. The exterior of the houses will have an Old Salem/Ardmore look and feel, each with a big front porch and fronted by five-foot sidewalks. The interior will be state-of-the-art with every attention to detail,” commented Alan.

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“ARDEN COMMUNITIES— SIMPLY BUILT BETTER” “The Arden Group will be the primary developer and builder of the houses in Welden Village.

They have long been recognized as a builder with a strong desire to build homes that increase in value as the years pass, featuring the best products available and with attention given to every detail in the building process,” Alan stated. “The Arden Group is a local builder with over 30 years of experience in building new homes right here in the Triad.”

A COMMUNITY PLANNED WITH YOU IN MIND The vision behind Welden Village is simple: create a community where friends, family and neighbors can walk through life connected with each other and nature.

What will set Welden Village apart is the “walkability” of the community, meaning that the houses are located in convenient proximity to not only other homes but to shopping and cultural activities. “Welden Village is a living community designed with people in mind and fully focused on the community. With our nine housing styles and three distinct, yet connected neighborhoods, there is a place for everyone. We will have over 40 parks, plazas, squares and other open spaces, with 10 miles of walking trails, pathways and five-foot sidewalks throughout the site. Dog parks, Frisbee parks and amphitheaters for community events will make this development nothing like the Triad has ever seen. Our plans are to celebrate every new homeowner’s purchase in Welden Village by placing a personalized brick paver at the main entrance of the walking trails. This is just one of the things we plan to create community pride at Welden Village,” Alan said. If Welden Village sounds like a place that you could call home, visit www.weldenvillage. com for more information, visit us at www.facebook.com/weldenvillage, or call Pam Mathews at (336) 782-4882 or Jerri Banner at (336) 409-0724.

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Susan Maier Colon, Realtor, Broker, GRI

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT There are many ways to tell the difference between a seasoned, talented real estate agent and an agent who should consider another career. Those who pressure a sale, act disinterested in your satisfaction, or who do not seem to care what you need at this point in your life are not in the correct business. Real estate agents like Susan Maier Colon of Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Carolinas Realty were born for this business, and it is not going unnoticed.

Susan was recently awarded Triad Business Journal’s “40 Leaders Under 40” for her impressive resume. “This year has been fabulous, both personally and professionally,” said Susan. “I earned Chairman’s Circle recognition for the fourth year in a row with my company (top 2% of agents nationwide). On a personal note, I had a precious baby girl, Leah Pressley. My son, Brayden, is now two-and-ahalf and an energetic, adorable little boy, and my awesome husband, Raul, took a new role at BB&T as a commercial lender, which he loves.”

She describes herself as hard-working, passionate and dedicated, three crucial characteristics any successful businesswoman would possess, but this is even truer in the real estate market. When asked what superpower she would love to have, her response was, “I would create a superhero that could be in multiple places at once,” said Susan. “If there were three of me, I could get everything done!”

Born and raised in Winston-Salem, Susan did not expect to return to her hometown after college. “Once the revitalization of downtown started, and the city began bringing outside businesses to the Triad, I chose to move back and become part of this exciting movement in our city! Continuing to grow our downtown

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and creating an environment that is culturally relevant will help draw and retain these young professionals. I started with BHHS (formerly Prudential Carolinas Realty) in 2006. I interviewed at many companies, but knew this was the place for me the minute I walked in the door. My company is extremely professional and provides excellent training and support. As agents, we work together and respect one another. We work hard and love what we do!”

Susan focuses on residential real estate, from foreclosures to fine homes, historical properties to new construction throughout Clemmons, Lewisville, Advance, Winston-Salem and Kernersville. “Many people don’t realize this, but buying or selling a home can be an incredibly thorough, long and detailed process,” said Susan. “Not to mention the legalities involved with paperwork and contracts. I have sold more than 400 homes during my career, and every transaction is different. If you are looking to list your house, let’s go through the proper steps and take the necessary time to get everything right before listing. I would rather wait a month for my clients to clean out their basements, neutralize the paint and update countertops than list quickly and sit on the market for months and months without interest or offers. I tell my sellers that they will not like what I have to say to them about listing their homes, but they are hiring me to be honest and real about the market we are in. It doesn’t do anyone any favors to tell someone what they want to hear just to ‘get’ a listing.”

What makes Susan truly special and ultimately extremely successful at what she does is her love for her work. “I love my first-time homebuyers,” said Susan. “They are so excited and eager to learn the process! It reminds me of myself 10 years ago! That being said, I thoroughly enjoy my empty nesters and clients looking to downsize. They are experienced in the homebuying process, but downsizing is challenging, and they need guidance to make the right and, more importantly, practical choice. My peer group is fun to work with because I can totally relate when it comes to location, schools, best neighborhoods for kids, etc., and many of them are my friends. Every accolade/award I have received is because I have the best clients in the world, and I truly believe that. People entrust me with their largest financial decisions up to this point in their lives, and I feel honored to represent them. Every transaction, no matter how big or small, is just as important, and I treat them as such. I would welcome the opportunity to discuss with Forsyth Family’s readership how they can get the best possible representation and service when buying or selling their homes!”

Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Carolinas Realty is located at 110 Oakwood Drive, Suite 110 in Winston-Salem. For more information about Susan Maier Colon, call 336.749.3992 or e-mail her at susan.colon@ bhhscarolinas.com. She can also be found on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter

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SPECIAL SAVINGS AT

BY DENISE HEIDEL Spring is in the air, and a major sale is taking place at Stratford Landscape Supply! If you, like many, are looking forward to some outdoor gardening and landscape work, you won’t want to miss this sale!

Just a few of the storewide savings available will include special savings on:

The sale commemorates Stratford Landscape Supply’s five years in business and makes up for the grand opening they never had a chance to have! “We are so fortunate that our business has survived long enough to celebrate this occasion,” shared owner Joseph Plitt.

“We always wanted to do a big kick- off grand opening event, but the timing was never right. We hope that our loyal customer base will enjoy this season as much as we will.”

• Annual spring flowers

So, what projects do you have in mind? Are you thinking of plants? Annuals and perennials are available in the ample greenhouses at Stratford Landscape Supply, as well as shrubs and trees.

Perhaps you’re considering a lovely garden path! With a great selection of stone available, Stratford is the onestop solution for anything you may need! They have four main product categories: 1.)

Shrubs and trees; 2.) Flowers and seasonal plants; 3.) Stone, including river stone, flagstone, boulders and decorative stone for gardens and patios; and 4.) Aggregates, including soil, topsoil, mulch and various types of gravel, so anything you’re thinking of doing outdoors can be found at Stratford Landscape Supply.

• Pine needles • Hardwood and dyed mulch

• All shrubs and tress • All stone The sale will run April 2nd–9th, and you’ll want to visit the store to check out the discounts! Almost two acres of inventory will be on sale, and there will be deals too good to pass up!

Experienced gardeners are going to love the savings, and newbies can rest assured they are going to be in good hands. After all, the Stratford Landscape Supply staff, including store manager Phillip Surratt (who is the resident expert on plants and plant care), are happy to answer questions, including how and when to plant, and how to maintain and keep your garden healthy.

Joseph and his wife, Chin Chin, are so grateful for the support of the community. “We attribute our success to our loyal clients. We hope this sale is demonstrative of our appreciation.”

As you begin to think about your spring and summer garden, make plans to stop by Stratford Landscape Supply to see their current inventory, but be sure to check back frequently, since inventory changes frequently.

Stratford Landscape Supply is located at 2366 S. Stratford Rd., WinstonSalem, NC. Hours of operation: Monday–Saturday, 8 a.m.–5 p.m. For more information on services and available plants, call 336-817-8163.

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Stratford Landscape has a new website which includes the convenience of online shopping.

Joseph says, “Ordering online will give our customers the convenience of having their orders ready when they arrive to pick them up, or we offer delivery service, if that’s more convenient. Customers should plan to visit the website frequently, as we will be updating it with fresh inventory. Of course, we’d love to see them at the store as well!”

NEW TO LANDSCAPING? HERE ARE A FEW TIPS TO INSPIRE YOU: • Make a list of wants. Are you designing with a kids’ play area in mind? Or family gatherings on the patio? Do you want to leave space for a summer vegetable garden? Sketch your backyard and get some ideas of where you want areas to be.

• Think of what time of day you plan to use your space.

For instance, if you are interested in setting up an outdoor patio area for summer dining, building it on the side of the house that takes the brunt of the afternoon sun may not be your best choice.

• Grab a lawn chair and visit different corners of your yard to get a feel for it.

Perhaps there’s an area that would make a great lounging space that you may not have considered before spending a little time in it.

• Don’t overwhelm yourself by trying to compete with HGTV. Start small. Enjoy the process.

• Do you have a focal point?

Perhaps there’s a gorgeous tree in the yard that you want to highlight, or maybe you have a gazebo or outdoor fireplace.

Consider your focus point and work around it to highlight it.

• If you’re planning a series of flowers or shrubs, be sure to leave ample space for growth! Don’t forget to add in the occasional splash of color to give the landscape some diversity.

• Be patient, and openminded to changing your plans. If you find that your original location for a garden isn’t in the optimal spot, do what you need to do to adapt.

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BY VOND

Welcome spring: warm weather, lovely flowers, shrubbery and trees coming back to life. Not welcome: pests that show up inside and outside homes. No worries, Pest-X is on the job!

Simon Shaw, Owner of Pest-X, has over 30 years of experience in the pest elimination business. Ideally located with offices in Kernersville and Winston-Salem, Pest-X serves the entire Triad area with a staff of dedicated professionals. Simon says that “All employees wear photo IDs and are registered, certified or licensed by the NC Department of Agriculture. We participate in annual training to update and enhance our skills.

We are members of NC Pest Management Association, the National Pest Management Association, as well as the local Chamber of Commerce. We are also trained in integrated pest management (IPM), which is a process involving minimal environmental impact.”

Simon shared several specific areas of protection and elimination that he and his team offer their customers. “Pest-X offers customers annual service agreements, which include an initial inspection and treatment with three additional treatments. The agreement renews annually, and re-treatments are unlimited within each year of service.”

Some specific areas of concern to homeowners include:

TERMITES: Termites are a substantial threat and can

cause significant structural damage. “Termites thrive in moist environments similar to the conditions that attract mold,” said Simon. “The termite prevalent in this area is the Eastern Subterranean Termite, which lives in the soil. The treatment used is environmentally friendly and preventive measures are highly recommended.”

MOSQUITOS: Mosquito season in our area runs from April to October. Pest-X has a website set-up specifically to address mosquito problems (NoMosquitoes.com). With mosquitoes all over the national news, there’s heightened concern. The Asian Tiger mosquito, the species that spreads the Zika virus, is widely prevalent throughout the Piedmont Triad. The Pest-X professionals have years of experience ridding yards of mosquitoes, so that you can enjoy outdoor living without turning into a meal for these pests.

GENERAL HOUSEHOLD SERVICES: Pest-X provides its customers peace of mind with their general household services.

Ridding a home of ants, cockroaches, rodents and other pests is what Pest-X customers have come to expect. On the first visit, the treatment will cover the inside and outside of a home, and the appointment runs about 45 minutes. Future follow-up

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treatments are generally rendered on the exterior; the goal is to stop pests before they get into your home. The interior will be re-treated as needed or requested. Baiting methods are used for many insects, as well as rodent control, and the treatments are odorless.

Peace of mind when it comes to pest elimination is of paramount importance to the team at Pest-X. They offer treatment elimination for most any pest or critter that may invade your home. Providing safety to family and pets with quality, guaranteed results is the hallmark of Pest-X.

MOLD: Mold can grow in any crawlspace with the right amount of humidity and moisture present. Scientists say that “50% of the air you breathe on the first floor of your home comes from the crawl space.” That being said, checking for mold becomes more important. Mold is a significant health concern for anyone with breathing issues (asthma, allergies and other chronic breathing conditions) and is quite common in the southeastern US. As Simon stated, “We inspect for fungal growth as part of our crawlspace inspection and if requested, a mold test can be performed. A sample is sent to a national lab, and we usually have the results within 48 hours.” Once Pest-X has results that indicate the presence of mold or fungi, they treat the area to kill the mold and prevent future growth. Once it has been removed, efforts are made to reduce the humidity/ moisture to obtain a desired result of less than 50% humidity in a crawlspace; at this level the mold will not re-grow. Without treatment, in addition to the health concerns, homeowners may be faced with decay of their home’s substructure and wood rot. The Pest-X team may also suggest proactive steps for homeowner’s consideration, such as repairs to the crawlspace ventilation system, moisture abatement options, etc.

Pest-X is not a chain or franchise; it is a locally owned small business. Call and speak with a local person today rather than an answering machine, answering service, or voice mail. Their hours of operation are Monday to Friday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Pest-X is located at 725 E. Mountain St., Kernersville, NC, and in Winston-Salem at 114-C Back Forty Drive.

Contact them by phone at one of their three numbers (Kernersville 336.996.5553, Winston-Salem 336.788.1112, or Greensboro 336.854.8044). Their website is Pest-X. com. Their specialty site for mosquito problems can be contacted at NoMosquitoes.com or 336.999.8894.

Pest-X is also on social media (Facebook and Twitter).

They will be happy to set up a service call or answer your questions.

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CLEMMONS TOWN CENTER APARTMENTS

BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT There are pool parties during the summer months with a photo booth and live music, giveaways and drawings for Air Show tickets, coloring contests for Fair tickets, patio-decorating contests, “Cutest Pet” contests and a pumpkin-carving contest. The events occur year round, so there is always something to look forward to!

“We are active with local schools and distribute treat bags to students for holidays and special occasions,” said Roth. “Our upcoming events for spring will include a complimentary fishing pole and bike check-out for the Greenway.”

Those who know Clemmons Town Center Apartments know how amazing the one-, two- and three- bedroom apartment homes are. Complete with a clubhouse, business center, pool, theater and fitness center, 208 apartments were completed in what was known as Phase 1. Now, Phase 2 is beginning and will consist of 48 additional one-bedroom apartments and 56 two-bedroom apartments. This second phase will complete the 312 luxury apartment homes available in Clemmons Town Center.

“We are currently walking distance to Clemmons Town Center shops that include restaurants such as Panera, Mossy’s and Steak Escape, Pure Barre Fitness, Utopia Salon and Spa, and much more,” said Rhonda Roth of Parr Investments. “This is Clemmons’ first apartment community that is a part of a large mixed-use development. We love being a part of this!”

Perhaps the greatest feature of Clemmons Town Center Apartments is the extra steps those in charge take to create a living experience like no other in our area. The extra amenities and special events speak for themselves!

“We have added a large pet park for our four-legged residents, and we are adding a grilling area that will be adjacent to our resident outdoor gathering area,” said Roth. “This is the only community currently with direct access to the Village Pointe Lake Greenway—where events like the Monster Dash Goblin Hop are hosted. Last year they had more than 500 attendees. Greenway has a lake and fishing pier, and the lake was stocked with more than 700 fish.”

There are also great events for people of all ages! “We have small weekly events and at least one big event each month,” said Roth. “Past and future events include monthly dinner club at Mossy’s; a Super Bowl party; community gatherings every NFL Sunday to watch games in the theater; community movie showings; a Thanksgiving potluck; Saturday morning brunch; an ‘Ugly Sweater’ Christmas party with a dessert contest; a toy drive; ‘Wine Down Wednesday,’ which is held each month with a different theme, such as ‘decorate your own wine glass’; Bingo, etc.”

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It was also recently announced that a large piece of land located next to the site of Clemmons Town Center Apartments will be developed as a mixeduse retail, residential and hospitality center later in 2016. The goal for this project is to create a “Main Street” of sorts for the people who live in the area which will hopefully turn into a centerpiece of Clemmons.

For more information about Clemmons Town Center Apartments, call 336.829.5924, or visit the website at www.parrinvestments.com.

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BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS

We all have heard that our homes are our castles. Unfortunately, our castles tend to get boring after a while. When living in the same atmosphere for an extended period, it is easy to feel blasé regarding the same old colors and general decor. Redecorating gives us the opportunity to reinvigorate our homes and make them feel new. You may believe that this is not the moment to do a complete overhaul with a large-ticket, floor-to-ceiling remodel. It is a common assumption that redecorating is a laborious and expensive chore. Thankfully, this is untrue! There are many thrifty options when it comes to breathing life back into your castle, all without breaking the bank.

Sometimes a few seemingly small changes can work magic in a space, and decorating on a budget is a chance to let your creativity shine!

Always start with what you already own!

Rotate your existing accessories from room to room instead of purchasing more. You can avoid buying a new sofa or chair by investing in a slip clover. As a matter of fact, it is not very difficult to make slip covers, saving even more money. Covers such as these are easier and cheaper than reupholstering, although that is also an option.

Paint can work wonders for rooms and for updating pieces you already have in your home. Create an accent or a feature wall by painting it a bold shade. This also immediately creates a focal point in the room. If you do not want to paint the entire room, add accents by painting the trim, doorjambs, window sills and baseboards. Large canvases fill an empty wall and make strong statements as to your taste and style. Painting (or sanding and staining) is also useful for old furniture, turning it into what appears to be a new piece, giving it a new lease on life and saving your bank account in the process!

Fabric is also useful in a pocket-book-friendly remodel. Explore the remnant tables at your local fabric stores. They are excellent for recovering pillows, adding style to drapes and the creation of many art pieces. Remnants run about a third of the price and look just as lovely. Sheets and sale-priced bolts of fabric can easily be made into attractive window treatments.

Use wooden dowels to display tapestries or lovely fabric pieces in a large space.

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When redecorating, there are a few must-see places that will keep you from breaking the bank—thrift stores, flea markets and garage sales. The items you can find there, with a little loving care, end up being gorgeous pieces with character in your home. For example, instead of purchasing a pricey new media unit, find an old armoire and paint or stain it. Plain lampshades can be turned upscale with ribbon, fabric, fringe, beads and a hot glue gun! An old framed mirror can be given a second chance with spray paint. Find plates in varying sizes, colors and designs to make an interesting wall arrangement. Repurpose old beaded necklaces to use as curtain tiebacks. For a more rustic or nautical look, use pieces of rope instead.

It is also important to add decor that coincides with your interests. After all, your home should be a reflection of your personality. For example, if you appreciate music, frame some sheet music or hang album covers on the walls. If you love to travel, frame maps from your favorite trips. Many simple changes can make your home feel new and more intimate to you and your family. Area rugs can change the feel of a room and even help redesign the layout. Use molding for frugal architectural details, giving the illusion of added dimension to walls. Utilize pieces of wallpaper to punch up an old shelving unit by papering the inside back sections.

Don’t forget to bring the outdoors in! Making use of nature in your decorating brings a breath of fresh air to a space.

Something as simple as branches in a large vase or a potted plant brightens up a room. There are so many possibilities available to the thrifty home designer! Frugal decorating may call for a little ingenuity and creativity, but the result will not fail to impress!

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CUTTINGEDGE HOME MARKETING WITH BROKER MARIA KAZAKOS

BY MARTIE EMORY

“Buying or selling a home is a very personal—and often emotional—process,” says Maria Kazakos, a local broker with Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Carolinas Realty. “In an era of automated everything, I find it rewarding to build relationships with families and to know that I’ve helped them achieve a goal.”

Family is near and dear to Maria’s heart. As the mother of three children under the age of four, she’s no stranger to family demands and deadlines, and she’s thoughtful, responsive and honest when it comes to guiding other families through the process of selling a home…and finding their next one.

Following the completion of her Master’s degree in teaching from UNC-CH, Maria taught high school locally before transitioning to real estate when she and her husband started a family.

“I have always had an entrepreneurial spirit and a task-oriented personality,” she explains. While based in Forsyth County, Maria also covers Guilford and Davie counties and says it’s only logical to market to a more expansive area, since local commutes have become so painless. There is a wider area to call home!

As is every spring, it’s a great time to sell your home, says Maria, and not a daunting task if you stick to the basics and cover what’s most important, as you prepare for that first open house. She shares her savvy marketing tips with Forsyth Family readers here!

CONSIDER WALL COLOR & LIGHTING • Paint walls neutral tones. Cooler grays have replaced warmer beige tones as the most pleasing.

• Open blinds and curtains to let in natural light.

• Add additional lighting in dim rooms if necessary.

MAKE MINOR REPAIRS

• Address all minor repairs before listing the home.

• Remember buyers will notice loose hardware, the tiniest holes, and that damaged weather stripping you’ve meant to replace.

BE SAFE

Top 5 Tips for Sellers Looking to be Market-Ready:

• Females living alone may want to consider including masculine magazines on the coffee table or a few articles of men’s clothing in the closet, so it’s not apparent that they live alone.

CLEAN & DE-CLUTTER

• Always hide valuables during showings and for the home’s photography.

• Your home should look like a hotel: warm and inviting, but like no one lives there.

PROFESSIONAL MARKETING

• Remove personal items such as photos, kids’ artwork, refrigerator magnets, etc.

• Clear out bulky furniture and overpowering decor. The potential buyer needs to be able to visualize their belongings in the house.

• Keep countertops clear, shelves orderly, and closets paired down to the bare necessities. If your closets are cluttered, it will suggest you don’t have enough storage space.

• Rooms should have one single function. Buyers need to visualize an office or a playroom, not both crammed into one.

• If the house is not sparkling clean, it appears unkempt, which leads buyers to believe you haven’t maintained the major systems of the house, either. Consider hiring a professional to do an all-over deep clean once you have de-cluttered and are almost show-ready. (Yes, that’s windows, baseboards and ceiling fan blades!)

• Avoid cooking foods with strong odors during your showings.

They linger more than you might think and overcompensating with perfumed air fresheners and scented candles can make matters worse.

• Hire a realtor who is going to present your property in the best possible light.

• High-quality photos are a must. If you don’t capture a buyer in the first 10 seconds with captivating photos, they are going to click on to the next property.

• A strong digital media presence is also key. The National Association of Realtors reports that over 80% of homebuyers nationwide shop for their home online, so a strong use of interactive and social media maximizes your home’s exposure and ensures that you stand out amid the competition.

Located in the Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Carolinas Realty offices at 110 Oakwood Drive, Suite 110 in Winston-Salem, you can reach Maria Kazakos at 336-414-4749, maria. kazakos@bhhscarolinas.com or online at mariakazakos.com.

WELCOME Maria Kazakos Realty broker MARIA KAZAKOS

Hampton House

maria.kazakos@bhhscarolinas.com mariakazakos.com (336) 760-3529

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Going Green

in More Ways

than One

If one were to observe from a distance, it might seem easy to presume that local lawn care and landscape owner, Jason Bridges, views his customer’s satisfaction as the top priority in his two businesses. Bridges owns Weed Man of the Triad, providing weed and disease control to, plus fertilization of, residential lawns. He also owns Exterior Pest Solutions, providing mosquito control, ornamental tree and shrub care, and landscape bed management. “Providing top-notch service for healthy lawns and landscapes to our customers is our goal, but with that comes our commitment to responsibility for the environment,” says Bridges. “We are a locally owned company and our entire team of over 30 employees and their families all live in this community. We pride ourselves that all our employees have a deep commitment to safely and responsibly develop healthy landscapes and lawns while being good stewards of the environment.”

When one looks just a little deeper at the Weed Man Triad and Exterior Pest Solutions operations, the company culture becomes apparent. All service technicians are required to pass the North Carolina Certified Applicators exam that provides indepth training on not only safety for humans and pets, but also on safety for soil and ground water. “We tend to use products that are derived from natural material that provide good results.

What good is a lush green lawn if your children and pets cannot enjoy it whenever they want?” comments Bridges. “Our use of organic soil amendments is one of our keys to producing the thick lush lawn homeowners want. By providing a good, natural growth medium for roots, we greatly reduce the need (and significantly reduce the rates) to apply weed control and fertilizer.

The company culture of commitment to the environment doesn’t stop with the State of North Carolina level of testing for the company’s technicians. In addition to his Degree in Turfgrass Management from the University of Georgia, Bridges brought into the company a former President of the Carolinas Golf Course Superintendents’ Association who holds a degree in Turfgrass Management, and also has had two of his top managers recently earn the prestigious Certified Turf Professional designation from the Turfgrass Council of North Carolina. “I am extremely proud of our General Manager, Drew

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Carruthers, and our Senior Technical Manager, Andrew Carter, for the dedication and hard work they put into earning their Certification.” To earn this title in the State of North Carolina, applicants are required to pass a ninesection, six-hour exam covering all aspects of the industry, from knowledge of Turfgrass to pesticide and environmental safety.

With a great deal of pride in his technical staff, Bridges points out, “There are only 68 people in the State of North Carolina who have earned the Certified Turf Professional designation.

That’s considerably less than one percent of the people employed in the green industry in North Carolina…and two of them are employed at Weed Man Triad.”

It is no wonder the companies owned by Bridges have grown so well since he bought his first Weed Man truck in 2007. “I feel people put a great deal of trust in us to not only care for their lawn, but also protect the environment. That’s a commitment we take extremely seriously.”

When one looks at the beautiful lawns and landscapes Weed Man and Exterior Pest Solutions provides, it’s obvious that the commitment to well-educated employees to protect the environment is what sets them apart from the pack.

Contact Weedman at 760.1668 or visit online at Winston-Salem.WeedmanUSA.com.

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Grab a Friend... and bring the kids for a morning of fun at

Tuesday, Tuesday, June 16th 10:00-Noon April 12

10:00-Noon

5065 Country Club Road Winston Salem, NC 5065 Country Club Road (336)448-0152 Winston-Salem, NC (336) 448-0152

Join us…

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FREE event! see all School’s out Come for summer!

KMO for ALL ages! see with all TRU Taekwondo hasCome to offer TRU Taekwondo has to offer with a variety of individual activity a variety of individual stations.

Each adult alsoactivity receives stations. Each adult also receives 4 tickets for the fabulous 4 tickets for the fabulous prize board drawings! prize board drawings!

There will also be: • Games • Treats • Fun • •Taekwondo Demo • Giveaways • and more!

Open Monday thru Friday These monthly events are hosted by 8am-2:30 ring is available 24 hours a day

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YTH FAMILY· · FORS presents

summer C A M P SHOW CA SE

Welcome to Summer Camp Season!

Could it be? Is it spring? Many families are welcoming the idea of some warmer weather and fun, outdoor activities that don’t require at least three layers of clothing. Well, on behalf of Forsyth Family Magazine, allow me to welcome you to the Summer Camp Showcase! For the next three months, we will include a special section within the magazine, highlighting some great summer camp options for your children.

Summer camp programs begin filling up early, and this is the time to start budgeting and planning for ways to keep the kids entertained during their summer break.

Whether you’re looking for a variety of day camp options, so the kiddoes stay engaged during the summer months, or you’re hoping that overnight camp will help your child develop a sense of independence, all summer camp programs offer great benefits to your child. Here are just a few of those benefits: 1. Fun (obviously) 2. Education (but cleverly disguised as fun!)

3.

4.

Social opportunities…a chance to meet new kids and make new friends

Independence...overnight camps are a great way to help your child learn how to be self-reliant and self-sufficient 5.

6.

Teamwork and cooperation with others

Self-growth and chances to challenge oneself

The opportunities are endless, and your children will savor the memories they

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Camp WinShape

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Beginner Day Camps Ages 6-17 Session 1: June 27th - July 1st Session 2: August 1st-5th 9:00AM-4:00PM

Small Fry Legacy Saddlebreds Day Camp Ages 3-5 July 6th-8th 9:00AM-12:00PM

Call today or visit our website for more information on our camps and clinics.

On-Line Registration available at

www.legacysaddlebreds.com/ camps-and-clinics.

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Spend your Summer Days at Legacy Saddlebreds with our amazing Summer Day Camps! Legacy Saddlebreds offers a variety of camps and clinics for riders of all ages and skill levels. Our camps provide a fun and safe learning experience with riding lessons, horsemanship skills training, and horsey crafts while forging friendships with fellow horse lovers.

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Forsyth Country Day

Coaching campers based on individual ability levels!

FCDS Sports Camp

Co-ed, all male, and all female offerings!

Our mission is to provide athletic opportunities in the summer months to challenge and develop rising K-10th graders graders in a variety of different sports camps. We welcome the beginner athlete to the more advanced. It is the goal of the sports camp program to help campers meet their personal, social, moral, & physical development goals. Register at: www.fcds.org/sportscamp • Ages: Young Athletes K-4th & More Advanced Athletes 4th-10th

• All advanced camps led by Forsyth Country Day School Varsity Coaches

TRU Summer Taekwondo Day Camp

• Time: 9:00-12:00 & 1:00-4:00 (before & after care available)

Register online: www.fcds.org/summer

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Summer Quest at Forsyth Country Day School welcomes you to wonderful opportunities to dream, play, & discover!

Reynolda House

FCDS Summer Quest

Course offerings include academic enrichment activities, visual arts, science, technology, leadership opportunities, and athletic classes for students of all ages.

We offer a wide variety of personal and academic enrichment activities on our state-of-the-art campus in Lewisville, North Carolina.

We can’t wait for you to participate!

• Ages: rising K-10th grade • Leadership classes for Middle & High School students • Time: 9:00-3:00 (before & after care available)

Register online:

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Summer Camp At a Glance VENTURE CLUB SUMMER DAY CAMP:

CalvaryNow.com/VentureClub • Dates camp program runs: 6/6/16 – 8/12/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 8th Grade • Price Range: $150 per week or $40 per day; scholarships available.

• Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:4 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Activities offered: o Arts and Crafts o Basketball o Bible Studies o Computer Lab o Field Trips o Indoor Games o Leadership o Music o Outdoor Games o Soccer o Swimming o Visual Arts

THE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF WINSTON-SALEM: CHILDRENSMUSEUMOFWS.ORG/CAMPS

• Dates camp program runs: 6/13/16 – 8/26/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 4th Grade • Price Range: $30 – 205 • Camp Type: Traditional Day Camp • Activities offered: o Arts and Crafts o Dance o Drama o Early childhood o Field Trips o Music o Puppetry o Reading o Videography o Writing

CREATIVE PALOOZA: CREATIVEPALOOZA.COM

• Dates camp program runs: 6/13/16 – 8/15/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 7th Grade • Price Range: $100 weekly plus a small activity fee, based on events • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:10 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Activities offered: o Arts and Crafts o Dance o Drama o Field Trips o Music

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MERRIWOOD CHRISTIAN CAMP: CAMPMERRIWOOD.NET

• Dates camp program runs: 6/13/16 – 8/13/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 12th Grade • Price Range: $215 / day camp; $344 – 370 / overnight • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:10 • Camp Type: Day Camp and Overnight Camp • Activities offered: o Archery o Arts and Crafts o Basketball o Bible Studies o Biking o Blob and Water Obstacle Course o Bounce house o Canoeing o Drama o Fishing o Football o High Ropes Course o Model Rocketry o Music o Outdoor Cooking and Survival o Paddleboats o Riflery o Rock Climbing o Soccer o Swimming o Team Building

SPORTS CAMP AT FORSYTH COUNTRY DAY SCHOOL: FCDS.ORG/SPORTSCAMP

• Dates camp program runs: 6/20/16 – 7/22/16 • Grades served: 2nd – 12th Grade • Price Range: $125 - 150 • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:15 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Specialty: Sports / Athletics • Activities offered: o Airsoft o Basketball o Bowling o Field Trips o Fishing o Football o Horseback Riding o Running o Skating o Soccer o Strength o Swimming o Tennis o Volleyball (co-ed)

YMCA Camp Hanes

WHERE FUN COMES NATURALLY For Rising K - 6th graders SciWorks

YMCA Camp Hanes 336-983-3131 or camphanes.org

30+ Kid-friendly Camps* All Under One Roof *that fit your schedule

One-Day SciCamps

(June 27 - July 1)

Week-Long SciCamps

(July 11 - Aug 12)

Before- and after-care options.

Details and registration available at

www.sciworks.org 400 W. Hanes Mill Rd. | Winston-Salem (336) 767-6730 | www.sciworks.org

Salem Gym Come to an amazing facility where anything is possible!

From Super Heroes to Princesses, Hot Wheels to American Girls, Cooking, Camping, Dinosaurs, and much more - it’s not just gymnastics anymore at Salem’s Totally Kids Summer Camps.

Come one day or stay all week.

Choose mornings, afternoons, or stay all day!

Gymnastics • Dance • Karate • Fitness

Where Confidence Soars! since 1980

Salem Gymnastics Sports Center 4870 Country Club Rd. • Winston-Salem 765-4668 • SalemGym.com

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SUMMER QUEST AT FORSYTH COUNTRY DAY SCHOOL: FCDS.ORG/SUMMER • Dates camp program runs: 6/6/16 – 7/29/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 12th Grade • Price Range: $125 - 305 • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:15 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Activities offered: o Airsoft o Arts and Crafts o Basketball o Engineering o Field Trips o Fishing o Football o Games o Horseback Riding o Leadership o Pottery o Soccer o Strength o Swimming o Tennis o Thematic Classes

LEGACY SADDLEBREDS: LEGACYSADDLEBREDS.COM • Dates camp program runs: 6/27/16 – 8/5/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 12th Grade • Price Range: $250 - 480 • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:1 (Small Fry) or 1:5 (Beginner) • Camp Type: Day Camp • Specialty: Saddle Seat English Horseback Riding • Activities offered: o Horseback Riding

REYNOLDA HOUSE SUMMER ADVENTURES: REYNOLDAHOUSE.ORG/ SUMMER-ADVENTURES • Dates camp program runs: 6/27/16 – 7/29/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 9th Grade • Price Range: $150 – 195, with member and sibling discounts available • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 2:15 or 1:5, depending on camp session and age • Camp Type: Day Camp • Activities offered: o Art o Creative Writing

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SALEM GYMNASTICS TOTALLY KIDS CAMP: SALEMGYM.COM •Dates camp program runs: 6/13/16 – 8/26/16 • Grades served: Ages 3 – 4th Grade • Price Range: Varies • Counselor to Camper Ratio: Varies • Camp Type: Day Camp • Speciality: Imagination and education blended with action and gymnastics • Activities offered: o Arts and Crafts o Dance o Gymnastics

SCICAMP: SCIWORKS.ORG • Dates camp program runs: 6/27/16 – 8/12/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 6th Grade • Price Range: $25 - 220 • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:6 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Specialty: Science • Activities offered: o Science

SUMMER CAMP FALCON: STJOHNSFALCOMS.ORG OR STJOHNSWS.ORG • Dates camp program runs: 6/6/16 – 8/5/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 5th Grade • Price Range: $22/half-day, $35/day, or $110/week • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:15 on site or 1:5 on field trips / swimming • Camp Type: Day Camp • Specialty: Christian • Activities offered: o Bible Studies o Field Trips o Swimming

STUDIO CREATE SUMMER CAMPS: 336/689.3669 • Dates camp program runs: 6/12/16 – 8/11/16 • Grades served: 1st – 9th Grade • Price Range: $135 - 220 • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:5 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Specialty: Art • Activities offered: o Arts and Crafts o Dance o Drama o Soccer

Merriwood Christian Camp

Creative Palooza Summer Camp

Join the

Summer FUN! Camp Falcon

Weekly or Daily Full Day or Half Day

Summer Camp

June 6-August 5 Ages 3 -11 7:30am -6 pm Daily

(336)

Summer Camp

725-1651, ext. 402

sdavidson@stjohnsws.org 2415 Silas Creek Parkway, Winston-Salem

StJohnsws.org • StJohnsFalcons.org

Where Learning is a Party!

• Birthday Parties • After School Art Classes • Home School Art Classes

• All New Black Light Birthdays!

• Girl Scouts

Studio Create

Leigh Ann Alexander owner / instructor

336.689.3669 | LeighAnnStudioCreate@gmail.com | 6285 Shallowford Road, Suite 180 Formerly Masterpiece Makers • Visit our new studio in the old roller mill building April 2016 | 51

TRU TAEKWONDO: TRUTKD.ORG

• Dates camp program runs: 6/13/16 – 8/12/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 4th Grade • Price Range: $175 - 250 • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:4 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Activities offered: o Arts and Crafts o Baseball o Field Trips o Leadership o Reading o Service Projects o Swimming o Tae Kwon Do

WINSHAPE CAMPS WINSTON-SALEM: WINSHAPECAMPS.ORG

• Dates camp program runs: 8/1/16 – 8/5/16 • Grades served: 1st – 9th Grade • Price Range: $175 before 5/1 and $204 after 5/1 (10% off sibling discount) • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:10 • Camp Type: Day Camp • Activities offered: o Archery o Arts and Crafts o Basketball o Cheerleading o Dance o Drama o Fast Food o Football o Gymnastics o Lacrosse o Leadership o Music o Secret Ops o Sew Much Fun o Soccer

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YMCA CAMP HANES: CAMPHANES.ORG

• Dates camp program runs: 6/13/16 – 8/12/16 • Grades served: Kindergarten – 9th Grade • Price Range: $240 Day Camp to $1579 for three-week teen program • Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:6 • Camp Type: Day and Overnight Camp • Activities offered: o Archery o Arts and Crafts o Basketball o Bible Studies o Canoeing o Drama o Fishing o Horseback Riding o Kayaking o Leadership o Paintball o Rock Climbing o Swimming o Zip Lining

Imprints Cares

Wilson Park Athletics & Training Center

...Paving Your Way to Excellence

Wilson Park Summer Enrichment Program Summer Camp Sign up is Open Call 336.722.6296 x 223 to start!

T-shirt & cool foldable water bottle included Imprints Cares Summer Camp Imprints Cares Runs end of school year until beginning of new school year

Coach Dave (far right) and Coach Derrick (far left), personal trainer to NFL Baltimore Ravens cornerback Anthony Levine (center)

• Enhancing Self-Confidence & Social Interaction • Classes for All Ages Including Summer Camps • Serving as the Premier Form of Athletic Development

7205 Topsiders Dr. •Clemmons, NC 27012 | 336-407-3143 336-766-8989

Summer Fun continues with teachers your children have learned, laughed & loved at school!

More Details on our Website!

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Venture Club Calvary Baptist JUN6-AUG12

Looking for a fun, safe, and enriching day camp for your kids this summer?

Venture Club is the place to be.

W E E K D A Y S 7:30am to 5:30pm For Boys & Girls, K-8th Grade

MORE INFO

714.5534

Janelle Gibbs • 336.722.6296 x 223 JGibbs@ImprintsCares.org ImprintsCares.org

REGISTER ONLINE

calvarynow.com/ventureclub Joseph Thomasson jbthomasson@calvarynow.com

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BY REBECCA OLSEN

If you’re looking for a reason to get some exercise, beyond the obvious health benefits, there’s none more impactful than supporting the Piedmont Down Syndrome Support Network! On Saturday, April 30th, 2016, from 8 a.m. to 12 p.m. at the Lawrence Joel Veteran’s Memorial Coliseum/Winston-Salem Fairgrounds, the PDSSN will host the 3-2-1 Deacon Dash for Down Syndrome. Come and join them in supporting and celebrating individuals with Down syndrome!

The Piedmont Down Syndrome Support Network, or PDSSN, has been providing support, community and connections for Piedmont families and community members for 31 years. In addition to educational resources through their medical outreach program, the PDSSN provides opportunities for fellowship and encouragement, with regular events like Dine Out for Down Syndrome, Exceptional Families (a parent education/ support group), Ladies Night Out (LNO), and Dads Appreciating Down Syndrome (D.A.D.S.) events. Families who find themselves faced with a seemingly uncertain future can rely on PDSSN to help them navigate often difficult and emotional times with support from other experienced, knowledgeable and caring families.

disability and their families, including their weekly Next Chapter Book Clubs, monthly Exceptional Families educational meetings, and quarterly No Limits II Dances. Also, the PDSSN is continually looking for ways to increase their impact on the community, with initiatives such as the PDSSN Learning Program, a researchbased program dedicated to improving the educational outcomes of children with Down Syndrome, being launched this spring. These initiatives are funded with events like the 3-2-1 Deacon Dash, held throughout the year, and include the annual Buddy Walk in October. This family favorite is a huge celebration with food, music, inflatables, carnival games, a talent show and more! All of their events are family-friendly and supported by local individuals, families and businesses.

The 3-2-1 Deacon Dash is a 3.21-mile race (5k + .11) and one-mile fun run. The 3.21 distance represents that individuals with Down Syndrome are uniquely born with three sets of the 21st chromosome, rather than two, like most of the population.

McNeil Cronin, who serves on the board of the organization, says, “The PDSSN

In addition to supporting families having loved ones with Down Syndrome, PDSSN has opened their doors to include individuals with other intellectual disabilities in many of their events, recognizing that most individuals with intellectual disabilities don’t have access to support organizations within our community. Many of PDSSN’s activities welcome all individuals with an intellectual

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is thrilled to be hosting our first annual 3-2-1 Deacon Dash for Down Syndrome this spring. Our goals for this event are simple; to raise awareness, increase acceptance and promote inclusion for those with Down Syndrome in our community. Whether you are a serious runner or a young family looking to have some fun, this race is for you.” Executive Director Dana Alley adds, “We hope lots of runners and families will come out to our new fun event! We’re looking forward to bringing the community together to celebrate individuals with Down Syndrome and their families.”

The funds raised through this event will make a difference by supporting PDSSN’s many social and educational programs, including community grants and member scholarships. Registered participants will receive a free T-shirt, as well as awards given to the three best times in both the female and male overall category, and to the top female and male runners in 14 different age groups. Join this great organization as they make a long-term positive impact on families in our community. You’ll never find a better reason to run!

For more information, to register as a runner or volunteer, donate to PDSSN, or buy a T-shirt, go to PDSSN.org or contact Quincy Harvey at qlharvey@tahotech.com.

Access-ABILITY Day Sunday, April 10 • 1 - 5 pm

Developed by the Ontario Science Centre

SciWorks

Design roller coasters, racetracks and superhighways while learning about force, energy, friction and stability.

Raising awareness and highlighting technological advancements for individuals with special needs.

Motion Mania is sponsored locally by

OPEN NOW THROUGH MAY 15 400 W. Hanes Mill Road | Winston-Salem | (336) 767-6730 | www.sciworks.org

Wood n’t you know it?

build it!

Children’s Museum The Children’s Museum of

summer is popping up!

Make it great with summer camps at the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem Day and week long camps for ages 3 - 4th grade

Winston-Salem’s newest exhibit is here!

Work with real tools, build forts with colorful pipes, and enjoy our fresh “toddler tool” space. Build It! is the perfect space for the whole family to imagine, create, and play.

childrensmuseumofws.org

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J. Darren Photography

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Giving God the Glory

BY DENISE HEIDEL

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“You’re treated like family when you walk through our door.

We appreciate your business, and we appreciate YOU. We hope to meet you soon.” ~ Michael & Christina Johnson, owners of Christina’s Dessertery.

Seven years ago, Christina Johnson began baking and decorating cakes for family and friends. With the encouragement of her husband, Michael, and the rave reviews of those sampling her work, a business emerged. Formerly known as “Creative Cake Designs,” Christina’s business began as an operation out of her home. As a busy mom of two young boys, making and decorating cakes came naturally for Christina.

Very quickly, her cakes were in demand and within four years, her home-based business outgrew the home. Michael decided to re-focus his career to join Christina, and together they created a family-owned bakery and re-christened the business “Christina’s Dessertery.”

The Johnsons are a family of deep-rooted faith, and they credit their success to God. Christina shared, “Everyone has a special talent, and I’ve been so blessed to take the one that God gave me and turn it into something that helps others celebrate milestones within their own families! My husband, who is a naturally gifted baker, joined me and brought his own expertise to the business. With God’s gifts, we have built something very special.”

Her words mirror the American writer, Leo Buscaglia, who once said, “Your talent is God’s gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.” Indeed, Christina embraces this philosophy. This diminutive woman is talented beyond words in creating and sculpting edible works of art, even without any formal training in cake design.

Each cake is fashioned according to the customer’s specifications. “We believe that the cakes that leave our bakery are honoring God by helping others celebrate their own blessings,” shared Christina. “We are helping couples celebrate marriage, parents celebrate new life, families celebrate anniversaries, graduations, birthdays, and so much more! It is such a wonderful thing knowing that our family can offer our small contribution to so many significant memories!”

The successes of the Johnson family have also been accompanied by challenges.

“My husband and I have learned so much over the last three years. During some difficult times, knowing we had the support of so many—family, friends, even other business owners and strangers, all of whom wanted to see us succeed—helped us to overcome many obstacles. Most of all, we’ve learned from all our experiences—the ups as well as the downs—and what we’ve learned has enabled us to improve our efficiencies and systems.” Christina continued, “Our community is also a huge part of our success. They’ve cheered us on ever since we opened our doors, and we are so appreciative.”

The Johnsons have found a way to play to each other’s strengths. Christina, as the lead decorator, also uses her creative side to market the business while Michael manages the kitchens and maintains the financials of the business. They work in tandem, as business partners, respecting one another’s roles, and trusting that each of them has the business’ best interest at heart.

Truly, the heart of this business is rooted in thankfulness.

Part of that thankfulness is owed to Michael and Christina’s extended family! With Greek and Italian backgrounds, Michael, as lead pastry chef, has brought some of their family recipes to Christina’s Dessertery! “We are grateful to our mothers and grandmothers who shared these time-honored recipes with us,” shared Michael. “We have worked hard to perfect them and present them from our family to the families within our community.”

He continued, “It’s such a great gift to have this level of family heritage ingrained in our business. It is such an honor to bring a bit of our family history to the dessert tables of so many! But this is a great lesson for our sons who are watching us operate a family business: we take what we know, and we perfect on it. We acknowledge the gifts from God and serve Him by doing our best to honor Him.” Christina’s Dessertery continues their commitment to offer a variety of completely scratch-made cakes and desserts, loyal customers know they can expect nothing less than the best from Christina’s Dessertery…made with Love.

Also, with the arrival of spring, Christina’s Dessertery will be busy! Not only because of the arrival of wedding season and a re-introduction to seasonal favorites, but because the Johnsons are welcoming a third son in May. “Our family has been immeasurably blessed; there will never be enough thank you’s for all we’ve been given,” said Christina.

In a world full of quantity over quality, Christina’s Dessertery does the exact opposite. They purposefully limit the amount of orders they take each weekend in order to give each order the attention it deserves.

All desserts are baked from scratch daily. These special, secret recipes are available in a delicious variety of flavors, and great care is taken to ensure their cakes are always fresh, moist and delicious.

In addition to a daily selection of freshly baked cakes and desserts, custom creations can be ordered, including wedding cakes, groom’s cakes, sculpted and 3D creations, quinceañera, birthday cakes, dessert tables, cupcake towers, cupcakes, cookie favors, baptism and christening cakes, and much more!

COVER AND FAMILY PICTURES BY J.DARREN PHOTOGRAPHY | OTHER PHOTO CREDIT TO CHRISTINA JOHNSON AND IN HIS IMAGE PHOTOGRAPHY BY JULIE.

Christina’s Dessertery is located at 1483 River Ridge Drive in Clemmons. For more information, visit the website at ChristinasDessertery.com, or call 336.712.0300. Christina’s Dessertery is also active on Facebook and Instagram!

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Veggie Battles: How to Avoid Being the Veggie Police

BY KATIE MAXEY, MS, RD, CHES, WAKE FOREST BAPTIST HEALTH BRENNER CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL

“You can’t have dessert until you eat your vegetables!”

“Just take one bite!”

“You can’t get up from the table until you finish your plate.”

5. Remove the pressure: The more we pressure our children to eat their vegetables, the more they will push back and avoid eating them. Once your job of cooking and providing the veggies is done, take a step back. Let your child decide whether or not to eat the vegetables you have provided. Allow your children the opportunity to spit out food if they do not like it. This allows them safety when trying new foods. If pressure has been removed, children will become curious and eventually venture out to try new vegetables. But remember to involve them in the process, offer a variety of vegetables cooked in a variety of ways, and make sure you flavor the veggies!

Does this sound familiar? You may have heard this growing up, or you may even tell your children the same thing. What is constant over the years is the struggle children have with eating their vegetables.

Here is a great vegetable recipe to try at home. Enjoy!

Stove-top Garlic Broccoli (Four servings, ready in about 20 minutes)

Many parents feel like the “food police” when it comes to veggies at meal time. If this is you, check out our tips below to help meal times become less of a struggle.

• 2 medium crowns/stalks of broccoli

1. Get kids in the kitchen: The more children are involved in cooking, the more likely they will be to give vegetables a try.

Depending on their age, your kids may be able to help you wash, peel, cut and prep veggies to be cooked. They can also help by stirring vegetables on the stove or getting them ready for the pan to roast. It may take a little more time and effort for you to teach them how to help you. However, in the long run, you are helping them become more familiar with eating veggies.

Garlic sauce:

2. Vary your veggies: When cooking dinner, aim for a variety of vegetables. Families tend to eat the same handful of meals over and over again. The same holds true for veggies. Try different types cooked in a variety of ways. Roasting is a great way to try vegetables. Roasted broccoli tastes very different from fresh or steamed broccoli. You can also use fresh, frozen, or canned veggies. Head to the grocery store and let your children pick out a new vegetable for you to cook that week.

They may not try it, but at least they are involved by picking it out.

3. Don’t be afraid to add flavor: Make sure the vegetables you are providing have flavor. Don’t be afraid to add a little fat and a few spices to flavor them. If you are steaming carrots, add some honey or a little spray butter for extra flavor. If you are roasting cauliflower, try adding a little garlic or cumin. We want vegetables to taste good, especially if children are trying them for the first time.

4. Be a role model: Are you eating your veggies? It’s hard for children to like vegetables if they never see their parents eating them. Try new veggies you have never had before, or try cooking a vegetable in a new way. As kids see you eating your veggies and trying new ones, they may feel empowered to do the same.

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• 2 Tbsp. sesame oil • 1 Tbsp. brown sugar • 3 cloves minced garlic or 3 tsp. minced garlic from a jar • 4 Tbsp. soy sauce • ½ cup vegetable broth • 1 Tbsp. corn starch

Preparation: 1. Add sesame oil to large skillet. Pre-heat skillet over medium-high heat.

2. Cut broccoli into bite-sized pieces and set aside.

3. In a bowl, whisk together garlic sauce ingredients until lumps are gone. Set aside.

4. Carefully add broccoli to pre-heated skillet and cover.

Cook for 5–7 minutes covered, stirring often to prevent burning.

5. Once broccoli is cooked, remove the lid and reduce heat to medium-low.

6. Whisk garlic sauce once again and add to broccoli. Stir well to coat and allow the sauce to thicken about 3 minutes. Add brown sugar and stir to coat.

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“‘This, Harry, is the secret of our success,’ said George, patting the parchment fondly.” “‘And what do I need with a bit of old parchment?’ said Harry. ‘A bit of old parchment!’ said Fred, closing his eyes with a grimace.” Have you ever considered the problematic nature of a plain piece of paper? A torn corner, writing in the margin or half page is evidence of your distractions and daydreams. Scribbles and doodles, words and credos all have purpose; yet, what about the handwritten notes to friends or the blindingly intimidating blank sheet of paper, which can result in students veering off course from the need to listen, focus, or complete an assignment? In preparation for the worrisome OWLs and NEWTs quickly approaching, the Harry Potter guide first discusses what happens when the blank parchment is tapped once with a wand and hears, “I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.”

DISTRACTIONS Are you a Fred Weasley, who enjoys making his peers laugh with humorous anecdotal comments, or perhaps a Ron, who needs to complain after class about the “loads” of homework? Each supportive character has a “coping mechanism” which helps him or her relax or manage internal or external stresses. Just consider. Draco Malfoy needed a quick break from work without feeling guilty; therefore, he whispered to his allies, while Lavender Brown, for instance, wrote notes to her friends. If you rely on others to ease your stress levels, they, too, are missing valuable instruction and peer questions and comments. While it’s important to recognize when you are avoiding work, try a new approach. Utilize that piece of parchment by writing at the top of the page obvious words, such as “focus,” “breathe,” or a phrase with multiple definitions, “Mischief Managed.” Today is the day to determine your weakness and find an alternative way to adapt to stress.

PROCRASTINATION “The common room was almost empty. …Harry, Ron, and Hermione took their three favorite chairs at the fireside. …Harry gazed into the flames, feeling drained and exhausted. ‘Shall we do Snape’s stuff first?’ said Ron, dipping his quill into his ink. ‘The properties…of moonstone…and its uses…in potion-making,’ he muttered, writing the words across the top of his parchment as he spoke them. ‘There. So… what are the properties of moonstone and its uses in potion-making?’ But Hermione was not listening, she was squinting over into the far corner of the room where Fred, George and Lee Jordan were sitting…” Despite the characters’ names, the setting and the assignments, the situation may sound very familiar to you. It takes time for students to settle into “mono-tasking,” which can be defined as staying focused on one task until it is completed. While procrastination may be due to an impending long homework session, try working until one subject is completed; then, take a timed break to “apparate” into the kitchen or send a response via owl post. (Ron was smart to suggest the trio work on a more challenging assignment first. Yes, the final assignment should be your favorite subject.)

Distractions & Daydreams

BY LISA S.T. DOSS

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DAYDREAMS “Harry’s thoughts had drifted. The perfumed fire always made him feel sleepy and dull-witted. Though, he couldn’t help thinking about what she [Professor Trelawney] had just said to him. ‘I fear the thing you dread will indeed come to pass.’ But Hermione was right. He wasn’t dreading anything at all. Harry looked around; the whole class was staring at him. He sat up straight; he had been almost dozing off, lost in the heat and his thoughts.” While getting a good night’s sleep is one solution to daydreaming, another is to engage in a physical activity, such as twitching a foot or squeezing a ball in one hand.

MISCHIEF MANAGED “Harry hurried up to the third floor, slipping the Marauder’s Map out of his pocket as he went. A tiny dot was moving in his direction. Harry squinted at it. The minuscule writing next to it read…” The piece of parchment will always hold power. It can provide great information if bound into a book, change one person’s emotions from happy to angry, frightened to elated, and it has the power to reveal empowering words through your hand. “It’s our choices which show us who we really are, far more than our abilities.”

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Wake Forest Baptist Health Dermatology Clinical Studies -- Maybe One Is Right For You

BY SUSAN WOODALL Many people form opinions about people based on their outward appearances. What are they wearing, are they neat or unkempt, smiling or sullen, thin or chubby, tall or short? Another thing that is noticed is their skin. Everyone would love to go through life with a flawless complexion and perfect skin, but for many, that is not the case. Some patients’ skin issues respond to drugs, creams, ointments or injections to keep it under control. Others may find their treatments become less effective over time and, for some, no current treatments have helped their situation at all. It is for these reasons that pharmaceutical companies spend years working on new formulas and products in the hope that relief can finally be found for those suffering.

In order for a drug to make it to market, there are many, many steps that must occur. One of the most important ones is clinical trials. Wake Forest Baptist Health Dermatology has many new and ongoing clinical studies that might be right for you or someone you know who is dealing with a dermatological issue.

Although most trials involve people in their teens or older, there have been some that include infants and children.

“I think a lot of people are unsure of what clinical research really is,” said Adele Clark, PA-C, director of Clinical Studies Center.

“They hear the word ‘research’ and think ‘Guinea pig.’ Our research trials are very focused -- we just do dermatology trials.

Now, more than ever, the safety and privacy of people in these trials is really protected.

Patients have to be notified of any risk that is in the study. We are not trying to ‘trick’ participants. In some trials they will know if they are using the actual study drug. In others, they know they could receive the study drug or a placebo (no active medication.)”

Once accepted, the participant has a schedule of visits they need to follow in order for the data to be tracked accurately. Trials can last a few weeks to several months, with a small number lasting for years. “There are a lot of new medicines that come on the market,” said Clark. “Those drugs are there because people around here and throughout the country were willing to be in a trial. Most people want to find

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help for their skin condition in a trial. Other participants do trials because they want to do something good for society and help other people with their skin condition. By doing the study, they hope to help new products become available to everyone.”

Not everyone with the skin disease treatment being researched will be accepted into the trial. The company sponsoring the study has very definite guidelines that must be adhered to. For example, a person with acne may need a certain number of lesions to be accepted in the trial. For those who do make it into the study, there are benefits that include becoming educated on their condition, getting financial compensation for their time and travel, and having a free physical exam. “We may do vital signs, blood work, chest x-rays, or heart tracings before starting someone in a trial,” said Clark. “There have been people that have had something show up on one of these tests that needed a follow-up, and they may not have known about that if they hadn’t come about one of the trials. One of the primary goals is to protect the safety of the participant.”

The mission of the Wake Forest Baptist Health Department of Dermatology Clinical Studies Center is “...to provide the highest quality research data to gain FDA approval for industry-leading medicines to improve medical care for patients with skin diseases.”

“We primarily conduct trials for eczema, psoriasis, itching, acne, rosacea and toenail fungus,” said Clark. “We do have some trials for lupus and auto-immune diseases, razor bumps and hair loss. It is important to note that there are new studies involving other diseases of the skin starting all the time.”

For more information on the trials being offered, upcoming studies and how to get involved, call 336.716.3775, e-mail dermadvertising@wakehealth.edu or check the website at www.wakehealth.edu - dermatology - clinical study. The Wake Forest Baptist Health Clinical Studies Center for Dermatology Research is located at 4618 Country Club Road in Winston-Salem.

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“Out and About” in Winston-Salem…

With Wake Forest University & TED

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BY HEATHER SPIVEY

On Saturday, February 20th, over 1500 guests gathered at Wait Chapel on the campus of Wake Forest University for the 5th annual TEDxWakeForestU. TED is a non-profit organization devoted to Ideas Worth Spreading. Thirty years ago, TED began as a four-day conference in California and grew to support its mission with multiple initiatives. The two annual TED Conferences invite the world’s leading thinkers and doers to speak for 18 minutes or less. Many of these talks are then made available free at TED.com.

TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. One of the largest events on Wake Forest University’s campus, TEDx is sponsored by various administrative offices and academic departments at Wake Forest, but is entirely student-run.

The theme “Haven: Fearlessness Reimagined” encompassed the broad theme of what it means to find security and solace in each speaker’s field of expertise. Wait Chapel was filled to hear eight fabulous speakers, including Mark Hurd, CEO of Oracle; Nicole Hockley, Founder of the Sandy Hook Promise; Bradley Myles, CEO of the Polaris Project; and Ignacio Packer, Secretary General of the Terre des Hommes International Federation.

For information about next year’s TEDxWakeForestU, contact Austin Evers at everaj12@wfu.edu.

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Remember back at the first of the year when the Powerball jackpot was over a billion dollars? A lot of people took a shot at the big prize, and some of those same people were quite disappointed when their numbers weren’t chosen.

They were pursuing the thrill of being instantly rich and the ability to have and do whatever they wanted, all provided for them in one short moment—the time it takes for six ping pong balls to be sucked up into a vacuum tube. It was all pretty exciting, until after the drawing, when we all came back to reality and realized that tomorrow would be just another day.

One hundred and four years ago this month (April 15, 1912), a big beautiful ship full of passengers, many of whom had great financial means and were taking advantage of it to make the ship’s maiden voyage across the Atlantic, met with a tragic ending. The irony was, as legend has it, that the ship was deemed “unsinkable.” It was adorned with the most lavish features, from the bright multi-story chandeliers and exquisite décor, elegant fine silk furnishings, exotic sculptures, and etched glass dome ceilings, down to the fine china and silverware bearing the ship’s owner’s name, “White Star Line.” April 15 marks “Titanic Remembrance Day,” recognized around the world. Just after midnight on that fateful day, 1,502 passengers and crew on board the ship drowned when it went down after colliding with an iceberg. Although a portion of the passengers were of limited financial resources, the majority were some of the wealthiest of the wealthy. Despite all the riches they owned, I’m sure they would have given it all to have survived this tragic event.

Titanic Remembrance Day, aside from its original purpose, also serves as a reminder to the rest of us how financial and material abundance doesn’t always bring us the true joy and happiness we seek in our everyday lives. And given that, in the beginning, many of those same passengers continued to mill about casually, some even playing and kicking around the ice chunks on board the ship, it’s apparent that prosperity doesn’t necessarily make you any smarter, either.

So, although it would be nice to win the Powerball and relish in the type of excessive opulence some of those fateful passengers of the Titanic enjoyed before the icy waters of the Atlantic took it all away, there is another more personal source of joy available… our children. For those of us that are parents, we realize there is a force and level of happiness far greater than what any amount of fortune can provide, and that is the power that unconditional love offers. It doesn’t cost us financially (the love, I mean, not the children), but it does require our effort, patience and that innate desire within us to deliver. The return is ten-fold, most of the time anyway (both before and after their teenage years, that is.)

So as we see the references to this anniversary this month, let it not be just a reminder of the tragic event, but also a reminder to take a second look at the things we have and the life we’re able to live.

And if we need a further example, just look at Violet Jessop, a stewardess and nurse on board all three of the Olympic Class Vessels, who survived three separate incidents. First, on the Olympic, which was struck by the HMS Hawke, but, fortunately, didn’t sink and was able to get back to port. Then there was the Titanic, where, although working as a stewardess, she was still able to get on one of the last two remaining lifeboats and survive once more. Then finally, (yes, she sailed again, if you can believe it) working as a nurse on board the Titanic’s third sister ship, the Britannic, during World War I, when it ran into a mine planted in the waters by the Germans. Unable to get a lifeboat this time, she had to jump overboard, and despite the tremendous pull of the ocean waters from the ship sinking, she was able to make it back to the surface and survive once more. In Violet’s case, she didn’t have wealth, but she did have an enormous amount of luck, proving the adage, “I’d rather be lucky than rich!” Now, that’s a lesson worth teaching our children!

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The Benefits of Being Bilingual

involved in attending to, and transitioning between, two languages translates into students who are better at attending to sounds in language, learning new words, problem solving, categorizing, decision-making and discriminating between various types of information. There are health benefits to bilingualism, too. A 2007 study documented 4–5-year delays in the onset of dementia and Alzheimer’s for bilinguals who had been previously diagnosed.

BY REBECCA OLSEN

I work for the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County School System’s English as a Second Language department, so I suppose it’s not surprising that people often ask me about bilingual educational programs for their children.

In an increasingly globalized society, future-thinking parents are looking for ways to help their children gain a competitive edge. With an eye towards an ever-diversifying population, raising children who are bilingual seems like a logical step.

The Winston-Salem/Forsyth County School system has four schools which offer immersion programs in either Spanish or Chinese, and five schools which offer bilingual programs for native Spanish speakers. There are two types of immersion programs. One-way immersion programs, such as the Chinese program at Konnoak Elementary, are offered to native English speakers. Dual immersion programs, such as the Spanish program at Smith Farm Elementary, are open to both native English and native Spanish speakers. In these classrooms children are “immersed” in the target language from kindergarten through second grade, and then transition to a 50/50 split between English and the target language.

Bilingual programs offered are open to native Spanish speakers, who bring to school a wealth of native language skills, which can be cultivated and developed. These skills then benefit students when they transition to English, because background and conceptual knowledge are firmly established in their first language. Children in both programs benefit from fully bilingual teachers who understand the second language acquisition process, can clarify misconceptions in either language, and can monitor students having learning

difficulties in either language or both of them. In immersion and bilingual programs the end goal is the same: for children to be not just bilingual, but biliterate.

According to Leslie Baldwin, WSFCS Foreign Language Program Specialist, “In immersion programs students acquire another language through a natural process. They learn the language while learning math, science and social studies at the same time. It is amazing to see how quickly children in our immersion programs are able to communicate in Spanish or Chinese.

Recent research shows that these programs not only produce bilingual and biliterate students, but they help to close the achievement gap for all subgroups.”

Many parents are attracted to bilingual and immersion programs because they tend to be very hands-on, with lots of non-linguistic visual support, and have teachers who utilize movement and songs. Children enrolled in these programs tend to stay in them until they have aged out, thus creating a close familial classroom environment. These classrooms also tend to have more global, cultural and linguistic focuses. But the benefits don’t stop there. The exercise of learning a second language has welldocumented positive mental impacts as well. It is perhaps because of the mental exercise bilingual brains get in switching back and forth between two languages that gives them what researchers have termed “the bilingual advantage.”

Bilingual children make increased use of the prefrontal cortex, where the executive functions of the brain are carried out.

This is the part of the brain that deals with focus, attention and managing incoming information. The mental discipline

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School systems often shy away from bilingual education because they fear development of one language may be stunted by focusing on a second. For students in both immersion and bilingual programs, a dual focus results in students taking longer to learn to read and write in English than their monolingistic peers. With high stakes testing beginning in third grade, some school systems are reluctant to embrace lower initial test scores, even if research shows these students often do just as well, if not better, long-term. Another caveat is that with two languages being developed simultaneously, more responsibility may fall on parents to reinforce native language and early literacy skills at home.

Parents may also be intimidated by the thought of homework in an unfamiliar language. Forsyth County, however, has embraced the research that says these programs offer children not only an advantage, but a unique opportunity.

And while some insist the gains made by bilinguals are not as broadly applicable as previously thought, there is also research documenting that bilinguals make more money and have more job opportunities than their monolingistic peers, evidence that despite any drawbacks, there are plenty of benefits to being bilingual.

For more information about the bilingual programs offered by WSFC Schools, contact Leslie Baldwin or David Sisk at 727-2816.

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Future Leaders

BY MARTIE EMORY

Summer is just around the corner, and if you’re searching for an unprecedented experience for your child—perhaps with a little something special—you owe it to yourself and your family to explore WinShape Camps.

Established in 1985 by Truett Cathy, founder of Chick-fil-A, the WinShape Camps’ philosophy focuses on developing future leaders from a young age, with summer adventures that blend a mosaic of worship, leadership building and skills training. This one-of-a-kind day camp experience for kids who have completed 1st through 9th grade isn’t dubbed the “best week ever” without good reason! Its mission unites area churches and other local organizations in the common cause of changing the lives of area youth.

Last year, in Winston-Salem’s inaugural year as a camp site, the organization provided scholarship help for over 75 local children in need and hosted a total of 240 kids for its day camp. Held at a spacious facility on Country Club Road, the Winston-Salem camp will again be one of 90 locations hosting WinShape Camps around the country this summer. The much anticipated week—August 1st-5th, 2016—is a true community effort with ties and outreach to all areas of the city.

An amazing week of WinShape day camp offers a full range of fun Monday through Thursday from 7:45 a.m.– 5:00 p.m., and on Friday—affectionately known as Chick-fi-A Friday Family Fun Day—parents, grandparents, and other family members are encouraged to join their campers for lunch, courtesy of Chick-fil-A. Those five full days of unprecedented excitement and adventure will offer your child endless activities!

Your campers will learn and explore their potential strengths in archery, basketball, cheerleading, gymnastics, soccer, lacrosse, music, painting and crafts, plus the always popular wacky science and secret ops—all designed for various age and skill levels. As a bonus, campers also make new friends for life, strengthen bonds, nurture their budding leadership skills, and experience Christian love through Bible study and worship in a positive setting that inspires growth and encouragement.

Owner and operator of Chick-fil-A’s Thruway location, Jade Costen, shares his thoughts on what makes the experience so special: “WinShape Camps provide an appropriate age agenda for kids having completed first through ninth grade and offers an elite camp experience,” he says. “Chick-fil-A is happy to assist and provide support for this great community event that invests so intentionally in the next generation.”

Combining both day camp experiences and one-and two-week overnight camps across the country, WinShape reached out to over 23,000 campers last summer.

The happy, overwhelmingly positive result of this national endeavor has been the emergence of energetic youth striving to reach personal goals, and future leaders being molded with the arrival of each new summer session.

Join in, explore WinShape for yourself, and discover what is unique about this phenomenal opportunity. It’s no secret that some pretty amazing things can happen during your Best. Week. Ever.

For more information on WinShape Camps in Winston-Salem, e-mail winshapecampsws@gmail.com or call 1-800-448-6955 (extension 2396) to register. Learn more about the camps’ overall mission and community efforts at winshapecamps.org.

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As an investor, you may be gaining familiarity with the term “market correction.” But what does it mean? And, more importantly, what does it mean to you?

A correction occurs when a key index, such as the S&P 500, declines at least 10% from its previous high. A correction, by definition, is short-term in nature and has historically happened fairly regularly – about once a year. However, over the past several years, we’ve experienced fewer corrections, so when we have one now, it seems particularly jarring to investors.

How should you respond to a market correction? The answer may depend, to some extent, on your stage of life.

• If you’re still working … If you are in the early or middle parts of your working life, you might not have to concern yourself much about a market correction because you have decades to overcome a short-term downturn. Instead of selling stocks, and stock-based investments, to supposedly “cut your losses,” you may find that now is a good time to buy more shares of quality companies, when their price is down.

Also, you may want to use the opportunity of a correction to become aware of the need to periodically review and rebalance your portfolio. Stocks, and investments containing stocks, often perform well before a correction. If their price has risen greatly, they may account for a greater percentage of the total value of your portfolio – so much so, in fact, that you might become “overweighted” in stocks, relative to your goals, risk tolerance and time horizon. That’s why it’s important for you to proactively rebalance your portfolio – or, during a correction, the market may do it for you. To cite one aspect of rebalancing, if your portfolio ever does become too “stock-heavy,” you may need to add some bonds or other fixed-rate vehicles. Not only can these investments help keep your portfolio in balance, but they also may hold up better during a correction.

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• If you’re retired … After you retire, you may need to take money from your investment accounts – that is, sell some investments – to help pay for your cost of living. Ideally, however, you don’t want to sell stocks, or stock-based vehicles, during a correction – because when you do, you may be “selling low.” (Remember the most common rule of investing: Buy low and sell high. It’s not always easy to follow, but it’s still pretty good advice.)

So, to avoid being forced into selling, you need to be prepared. During your retirement years, try to keep at least a year’s worth of cash instruments on hand as well as short-term fixed income investments. By having this money to draw on, you may be able to leave your stocks alone and give them a chance to recover, post-correction.

And it’s important to maintain a reasonable percentage of stocks, and stock-based vehicles, in your portfolio, even during retirement – because these investments may provide the growth necessary to help keep you ahead of inflation.

Consequently, as a retiree, you should have a balance of stocks and stock-based vehicles, along with fixed-income vehicles, such as bonds, certificates of deposit, government securities and so on.

Being prepared can help you get through a correction – no matter where you are on life’s journey.

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A Quality Christian School Experience is Now Available to More Families Every parent wants small classrooms, quality teachers, and excellent curriculum in a school, but let’s face it — tuition at a private school can be expensive. You know that enrolling your child in a private school is a sacrifice. Calvary Baptist Day School is making a private school education more affordable for many families with a new variable tuition program. The school is the only private school in the Winston-Salem area to offer this program.

How Does Variable Tuition Work?

Variable tuition adjusts tuition based on each family’s financial situation. Factors like the number of children in the home and household income are considered for families who apply for the program.

“We realize there are families that genuinely desire the quality foundation provided by a private Christian school education, but simply cannot afford the tuition,” says Richard Hardee, Head of School. “Our new variable tuition program allows us to match tuition with a family’s individual financial circumstance. This needbased program is similar to those used by many private schools, colleges, and universities.”

Calvary Baptist Day School has always supplemented the price of tuition for every child with funds from donors and corporate sponsors, explains Hardee. The total cost of operating the school — from salaries for quality teachers and updated books to facili-

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ties upkeep — exceeds the revenue from tuition. This means a full tuition payment only covers about 80 percent of the actual cost of education for each child. Families who qualify for variable tuition pay a minimum of 40 percent of the cost of education for each child.

To be considered for variable tuition, a family must complete a variable tuition application. Families who do not apply for variable tuition or those who are not eligible, pay the full tuition cost.

A number of families have benefitted from the new program this year and have been very grateful that funds were available to help supplement their tuition payments.

“To provide a Christian education for my children requires more resources than I have as a single parent,” says the mother of a student who attends Calvary’s Upper School. “To ask for the help you need is sometimes a humbling experience; but in so doing, my family’s need has been met. The school has provided financially where I could not. My prayer has been answered. I am both humbled and grateful.”

Benefits of the Christian School Experience Parents often choose Calvary Baptist Day School because the curriculum is designed to weave God’s wisdom and Biblical truth into all subjects while also providing students with a strong college preparatory experience. Students are immersed in a Christ-

centered environment that will equip them to think, learn, and live from a Biblical worldview. Teachers and staff work to help students develop a Christian character that permeates actions and decisions.

“Calvary Baptist Day School reinforces the Biblical values already being taught at home and provides an opportunity for students to serve others in the community. All of this, packaged with a top-notch education, is where we want our children to be,” says Mark and Amy Jarvis, who have four children at Calvary Baptist Day School. “We are confident that all four of our children are on solid footing and have deep spiritual roots, which prepares them well for the future.

For us, the value of a Christian education at Calvary Baptist Day School is priceless.”

“Our mission to provide a strong Christ-centered education for as many families as possible goes hand-in-hand with the new variable tuition program,” says Hardee. “We are grateful that we can work with more families to make a Christian school experience possible for more children.”

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Applications are submitted directly to FAST, a third-party agency. FAST evaluates the application based on criteria set by the school and makes a recommendation to the school’s Finance Committee. Families are notified of the tuition level for which they qualify from the school’s Admissions Office.

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Young Children Are Learning From Entertainment Programming

BY LISA S.T. DOSS After the first week of kindergarten, I asked my daughter to name a few friends in her class. Quite simply, she said, “Milly, Bot and Geo.” Now, you and I both know these are the names of mighty-math cartoon superheroes on the program Team Umizoomi.

Of course, they were her friends. She participated in their adventures, counted objects, identified shapes and named pictures in great excitement in the cause of solving big community problems. Even when she is engaged in other activities, similar influential characters resonated good feelings and team effort, a validation of being able to contribute and be heard. How often do we hear professionals suggest that we limit television in our homes? Yet, the bigger picture needs to be addressed. Through diverse and ready resources, our youth has access well beyond children’s programming. Today’s entertainment has both educational value and feeds directly into their interests.

Infant to Preschoolers

In thinking about our experiences as young children, we learned about classical music from Bugs Bunny and appreciated shows such as Sesame Street, Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood and The Electric Company for simple reasons. We could sing along, participate and feel connected to the speaker. Today, it is reassuring when our children respond by excitedly offering greetings to favorite animated friends, and feel compelled to engage them in conversation. In fact, our children are focused, listening, shouting out correct answers and happily receiving praise for their participation. In addition to learning about letters, colors, numbers and words, preschoolers are remembering sequences through repetition, improving vocabulary, and learning songs to encourage kindness, friendship and etiquette practices. While Elmo from Sesame Street has influenced young children to “go potty,” Dora the Explorer has taught children words and phrases in the Spanish language. We, too, are active participants. How often have you been pulled by the hand into the living room and asked to perform the “Hot Dog” dance? Yes, countless times. As parents, we are thankful to Nina and Star, Blue and Steven, Dora and Diego, Sid the Science Kid, Princess Sophia, Super Why and so many others for their influential lessons and leadership.

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Life after Disney Junior

Sadly, many children by the age five-and-a-half have transitioned into another level of educational programming. Like you, I have discovered that Disney and Nickelodeon Junior no longer hold my child’s attention; yet, the next level is too mature. While it may appear peculiar to take the leap beyond those familiar and safe channels, parents will discover many shows are age-appropriate; however, not all cable channels have commercials that suit young audiences.

One answer is streaming videos either on your computer or television. Some companies kindly include age-level recommendations for children.

The “How-To” Generation

As parents, we find it is hard to complain when our child is watching “howto-videos” to learn about a favorite video game, such as Minecraft. With the intent of improving their technique, children are studying and asking important questions. The same applies to youth who enjoy assisting an older sibling or parent in the kitchen. Through programs such as Kids Baking Championship and Rachel vs. Guy: Kids’ Cookoff, they are learning from other children who also desire to learn proper kitchen safety, food preparation and baking techniques. Yes, the “how to” generation, comprising five-, six-, and sevenyear-olds, is delving into topics that can help them learn and grow.

Personally, my daughter loves science. Picture books borrowed from the public library have been replaced by topics about weather and life cycles, space and the planets, the human body, and a multitude of related non-fiction themes.

Fortunately, she, like so many other children, is satisfying her interests through a variety of programming. She is fascinated by How It’s Made; Bill Nye, the Science Guy; The Magic School Bus; Mysteries of the Unseen World and other documentaries. Literature combined with programming has elevated the definition of what young children are capable of learning and knowing. Three cheers for today’s youth!

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ROBIN WHITE ELLIS My daughter is the light of my eyes, the joy of my heart, and the love of my life. She is also my one and only. As such, she has always received—for better or worse—every bit of my maternal affection and devotion.

I am an Only Child raising an Only Child. Having been on both sides of this particular spectrum, I have heard the gloom and doom whispers about Only Children being spoiled brats, unable to communicate effectively with other children. I have been pitied for my lack of siblings and censured for not providing my daughter with a brother or sister. While I personally find most of those judgments to be annoyingly preposterous, there is a benefit to socializing any child early.

I grew up in a neighborhood full of adults and animals, yet without a child in sight. I had no cousins until I turned eight years of age. As a result, my imaginary friends had imaginary friends. In fact, I had an entire community of make-believe cohorts and each one came with his or her own history, family and village! This lack of socialization with “real life” peers contributed to my pediatrician’s recommendation that I wait an extra year to begin kindergarten, as he considered me “emotionally and socially immature.” My parents wisely followed his advice. The wait may have helped, but starting school was profoundly difficult for me, despite the valiant preparatory efforts of my stay-at-home mother.

It is possible, however, to avoid this “lonely Only” mentality.

Parents should begin by teaching that difficult, yet valued, art of sharing. When playing with your child, divide up blocks and take turns with each set. Model this behavior by giving and sharing with other adults in the child’s presence. Offer approval each time your little one graciously offers up an item.

Always choose praise over admonishment.

Once you have this process rolling, it is time to begin scheduling playdates. Parks and playlands are marvelous starting points, leading to having friends over to your home. I refer to this as “renting a sibling,” and it is a valuable tool because Only Children do not usually have to share their own spaces or belongings.

Simply adding another child to the comforting zone of an Only’s bedroom can be challenging to the little one unused to such a situation. My daughter was thrilled to have a friend over, but when her pal began rifling through her toy chest, her entire demeanor became unsure and edgy. She was willing to share, but having another tyke take control of her space was a foreign and uncomfortable concept. Over time, this lessened, and the two had a splendid day together.

Another significant device is to become aware of your child’s interests—not yours –and build upon them. Search out classes or playgroups devoted to these interests and introduce your child to them. Even adults tend to migrate toward people with mutual interests, and what better way to help a child “make friends” than to surround them with similarly minded children?

It is crucial to avoid compelling your child into any situation.

Introduce, yes. Push, no. My daughter has always been an introvert. Forcing her into an overwhelming social transition would only have resulted in fear, discomfort and a lack of trust between us. It is appropriate to encourage, but respecting boundaries with a child is as vital as with an adult. Children do not—and should not—fall into cookie- cutter molds based on birth-order, sex, age, parents’ interests, et cetera. I have seen “Onlies” that are beautifully imaginative, whimsical artists while others are pragmatic, outgoing leaders.

Being aware of both the rewarding and detracting factors of being an Only Child, I was blessed to create a fun mother/ playmate relationship with my daughter, while still maintaining the normal expectations of a parent. Many parents are concerned with the idea of being a friend to their child. While being a parent always comes first, Onlies do not have the built-in companionship of a sibling. It can be tricky to forge such a multi-faceted relationship, but the rewards are beyond comprehension. While it may not be functional for every family, this has continued into my daughter’s teenage years and works beautifully for us. While each child and relationship is different, the bond between a parent and their Only is a precious, incredible gift.

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To Retain or Not to Retain?

BY REBECCA OLSEN

It’s a letter no parent wants to receive—one stating, “Your child is eligible for retention.”

For a parent, this can set off a maelstrom of uncertainty and indecision. Is retention the right move for my child? Would another year allow him to mature? Will she be forever embarrassed? Will he be made fun of by his peers? These and other concerns make retention decisions difficult for families.

The legislation-backed, high-stakes testing implemented in recent years has increased retentions across the country, despite evidence from the last three decades of study which suggests that retention may not be the answer to helping struggling students succeed. Since the passage of “No Child Left Behind,” it is estimated that over two million children are retained every year at a staggering cost of 14 billion dollars. But those numbers aren’t distributed equally.

Students are most likely to be retained in first and ninth grades. Minorities, males, students of low socio-economic status and students with reading or language development delays are more likely than others to be retained.

Students who live on the East Coast have an increased likelihood of being retained over other geographic areas. Yet studies on the effectiveness of retention are mixed at best, with many citing negative psychological impacts that can be difficult for students to overcome, and short term gains that don’t last beyond two to four years. In fact, retention is one of the strongest predictors of a student dropping out, increasing a child’s risk of not graduating by 5 times or more. For students who are retained twice, dropping out is almost a guarantee. While retention cannot be identified as the sole causal factor in what is clearly a complicated issue, it has also clearly been ineffective in remediating students and helping them to succeed long-term.

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One problem with retention is it often fails to address the underlying causes of academic failure. For example, if a student has poor attendance and misses large portions of instruction during the course of a year, it would seem retention would benefit the child by giving him or her an additional opportunity to master missed material. Yet, unless the attendance issue is dealt with and improved upon, the child will continue to struggle academically in subsequent years.

These students may make shortterm gains during the year they are retained, but continued truancy will result in gaps that will plague them in the years beyond. The same could be true of a student with a learning disability. Until the underlying causes are addressed, any gains made by retention will be only temporary, a byproduct of repeated exposure and increased mastery time. Another caveat is that retention creates age disparity. While five- and sixyear-olds may be similar in size and development, age differences become much more noticeable in upper grades, especially when students begin hitting developmental and social milestones, like growing facial hair or getting their driver’s licenses. When retention occurs in older grades, there are dramatic emotional and social consequences. In a 2002 study, 6thgrade students rated retention as one of the most stressful life events, even above losing a parent.

• ADDRESS PROBLEMS HEAD ON. If your child is a struggling reader in first grade, that difficulty will impact his or her learning in every other subject area. If you have looked at a math test recently, you will note they are extremely text-dense.

Ignoring early signs of a problem or thinking a child will “grow out of it” can have a negative ripple effect on their future ability to master content.

• STAY ON TOP OF HOMEWORK. Homework gives you a glimpse into what’s going on in your child’s classroom. While no one likes to do it, monitoring homework allows you to see your child’s weaknesses and strengths, highlighting areas your child may need more extensive help in.

• COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILD’S TEACHER. The end of the quarter is not the time to find out that your child hasn’t turned in a class project or completed homework. While a report card definitely gives useful information, every nine weeks is not often enough to monitor your child’s academic progress. Open the lines of communication early and utilize them often, even just to check in.

What’s a parent to do? Prevention of academic failure is much more effective than retention after the fact.

Parents can decrease the likelihood of ever receiving a retention letter by actively participating in their child’s education in these ways:

• SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP WHEN NECESSARY. If you know your child needs help, but don’t know how to provide it, talk to their classroom teacher first. He or she should be able to provide strategies and resources.

Check into tutoring, mentoring and behavior-management programs provided by the school itself, and if these are unavailable or ineffective, seek professional help.

• KNOW THE EXPECTATIONS. You can access most school systems’ standards for learning online. By being aware of what your child should be learning and when, you can be more alert to issues or problems that may derail their progress.

• ADVOCATE FOR YOUR CHILD. Retention is one option, but it is not always the only route. Summer school, extended day, tutoring or other interventions are sometimes available if you do not believe retention is in the best interest of your child.

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The eleventh-annual Piedmont Earth Day Fair will be held Saturday, April 23rd, 2016, from 10 a.m.–5 p.m. at the Winston-Salem Fairgrounds. The largest Earth Day celebration and oneday environmental education event in the region, the festival provides familyfriendly entertainment and programming, featuring a wide-range of environmental topics, sustainable solutions and local initiatives—all free to the public.

This year’s theme is “Eat. Drink. Think.,” aimed at educating the public about sustainable food systems. “We can produce healthful food that’s good for our bodies and the planet without compromising the ability of future generations to do the same,” said Piedmont Environmental Alliance’s Board President Valerie Lecoeur. “Our goal at the 2016 Piedmont Earth Day Fair is to educate the community about ways to support and enjoy the benefits of sustainable food in our everyday lives.”

Free environmentally-themed workshops will address questions about sustainably growing, preparing, preserving and eating healthy food, including: “What is the best food preservation technique for me?” “How can I use worms to help get rid of my organic waste?” “What do all of these food labels mean?”

“What is Forsyth County doing to make sure I can eat lunch?”

Experts from the region will provide useful skills and knowledge that can immediately be put into action to positively impact our environment.

Children’s activities will be offered at dozens of exhibitor booths throughout the Fair, with top-notch interactive educational activities for children of all ages, featured at the Children’s Corner, beginning at 10 a.m. Art For Art’s Sake will invite kids to learn about the connection between our communities and nature with a fun “artivity” for all ages. The project will focus on how sustainable home gardening can create beauty AND provide natural and healthy food sources for the people and animals that live in the Triad.

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SECCA will work with kids to create sculpture from clay and plastic to make a faux plastiglomerate, inspired by artist Kelly Jarvitz, currently on exhibition at SECCA. Jarvitz’s show, “The Future We Remember,” features rocks formed from lava flowing into the ocean, and picking up trash left from our Eat. Drink. Waste.

SciWorks will help kids make small pots from recycled newspaper and learn how to plant vegetable seeds. Kids can bring their plants home to put in the yard or garden, learning where vegetables come from and how to grow food at home, while having fun playing with dirt!

“SciWorks is thrilled to once again partner with PEA for the 11th-Annual Piedmont Earth Day Fair,” said Kelli Isenhour, VP of Education and Programs at SciWorks. “The Fair is a great event that appeals to all ages and provides a positive atmosphere for environmental awareness.”

Live entertainment will include original tunes rooted in the folk, country and blues traditions of the Deep South by Emily Stewart & The Baby Teeth; acoustic music from folk singer Colin Cutler; and boogie, blues and Americana by Barrie Howard.

New this year at the Fair, high school students from across Forsyth County will participate in the final round of the firstannual Environmental Debate Tournament, hosted by Piedmont Environmental Alliance and Wake Debate. Mayor Allen Joines will join a panel of judges for the debate, in which students will discuss the merits of large-scale industrial agriculture versus small-scale organic farming.

“Debate is a fun and powerful way for students to develop their critical thinking skills, question the status quo and deepen their understanding of environmental issues. That’s why we are so excited to feature our new debate program at the 2016 Earth Day Fair,” said Piedmont Environmental Alliance’s Environmental Education Specialist Jamie Maier.

Piedmont Environmental Alliance will also display the organization’s hands-on learning program Energy Explorers. The program features Pedal Power—a human-powered energy bike that demonstrates how electricity is generated and how much energy it takes to power household items.

With more than 100 earth-friendly vendors and exhibitors, fun and interactive programming and live music, the Piedmont Earth Day Fair has something for everyone!

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New! Children’s Devotion

You Can Help

BY CINDY KEIGER

We can each do different things. Yet the same God works in all of us and helps us in everything we do. ~ 1 Corinthians 12:6 It’s that time of year: spring! Everyone loves to see the earth come alive after its winter nap. Bits of green shyly poke their heads up through the cold ground. Frogs start to peep. Maybe you’ve seen birds flying home from their vacation in warmer lands. And there are tiny flowers that won’t wait anymore. “Get out of my way, leaves!

I’m coming up for some fresh air! I’m going to make this spot pretty again.”

Maybe those pushy little flowers remind you of your parents. It’s getting warm enough to have some fun outside, but Mom is talking about spring housecleaning. And Dad has decided he needs help in the garage. What? Are they kidding?

No, this isn’t a joke. Work is important, all year long. And, unless you are a tiny baby, there is work for you to do. There might even be a Chore List on the refrigerator. Clean your room.

Do schoolwork. Rake leaves. Make a sandwich.

Shovel snow. Fix a broken toy.

From the time you were little, your mom and dad have shown you how important it is to be a helper and to do your work well. “It’s time to pick up your toys.” “Thanks for setting the table tonight without any whining.” “Please get the hammer for me.” “Good job helping your little brother tie his shoes.”

Sometimes you don’t get to choose the job you have to do. Mom calls out, “Get the clothes out of the dryer, please.” You want to grumble and pretend you didn’t hear her. But God says that whatever you do, you should do it with all your heart, as if God himself had asked you to do the work (Colossians 3:23). If God said, “Get the clothes out of the dryer, please,” you’d do it, wouldn’t you?

The Bible tells us that there are many kinds of work. You can’t do everything, but you can do something. As you try different jobs, you’ll see that you enjoy some of them and others you don’t like so much. Just remember, when the work is done, you’ll probably still have time for fun with your friends.

What’s your favorite way to help mom or dad?

Which do you like better: inside or outside work?

Can you picture God working right beside you?

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Faith & Family A Sprinkle of Thanks

BY TAMI RUMFELT

I guess my kids aren’t the only ones who haven’t quite grasped the art of appreciation just yet. I’ll never forget what happened on one of Carley’s birthdays when she was in elementary school. To save money, I decided to bake cupcakes for her class, instead of buying them at the store. Gasp!

Betty Crocker, I am not. And, as a busy mom, just finding time on a hectic Monday night to make the cupcakes was a challenge.

As I was preparing the cupcakes, Carley asked, “Did you get sprinkles?” I answered, “No… you didn’t tell me you wanted sprinkles.” “Awww…I really like sprinkles,” she responded with great disappointment.

It was too late for me to go to the store, and honestly, I was a little irritated that, instead of being thankful for the cupcakes, she was griping about the lack of sprinkles.

Then, the next day when I brought a Happy Meal and the nowsprinkled cupcakes to her at school (my sweet co-worker, Darren, supplied me with sprinkles before I made my delivery) she griped at me for being 10 minutes late.

Needless to say, I left her school feeling pretty unappreciated.

Before long, though, I realized that I treat my own heavenly Father the same way. When I gripe about my house being not exactly how I’d like it, my kids being too difficult to deal with, my job too hard or my wallet too empty, I’m saying to God that I don’t appreciate His blessings. I’m choosing to focus on what God hasn’t given me and not the many things that He has.

I’m so glad His grace is enough for my lack of gratitude!

If you recognize a lack of gratitude in your life, then let’s commit today to turn our attention to what we have and not what we lack.

And, let’s remember to regularly express our appreciation for the wealth of blessings that God has showered on each of us.

ARMS HELD HIGH There is a story in the Old Testament that offers a beautiful picture of what it looks like to support our ministry leaders. In this story, we find the Israelites at war and their leader, Moses, on a mountaintop praying for victory. Moses prays with his arms reaching upward toward heaven until he gets too tired to hold up his arms any longer. But, he notices that when he lowers his arms, the Israelites start losing the battle. His brother, Aaron, and close friend, Hur, see that he is struggling, so they come alongside him and help him hold up his arms.

They did this for hours until the Israelites arose victorious.

Like Moses with his trembling and sore arms, there’s a good chance that your pastor grows weary at times. We need to be like Aaron and Hur, first becoming aware of the struggle and then coming alongside our church leaders with support and encouragement.

There are so many meaningful ways to do this. A handwritten note, a gift card or even an offer to babysit so he and his wife can have a date night would all be so very appreciated.

Most importantly, remember to regularly and fervently pray for your pastor and ministry leaders.

By taking an active role in caring for our pastors, we are helping them have the strength they need to keep their arms and spirits lifted high.

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Turning Tables

BY TAMI RUMFELT

“It is not right that we should give up preaching the word of God to serve tables... but we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry of the word.”

Acts 6:2, 4 If you’ve ever worked in food service, you know how fast-paced and stressful a job it can be.

It takes a team of staff members, each with specific jobs, working together to get the job done. While the restaurant manager is busy making sure the business runs smoothly, the kitchen staff prepares the food, the wait staff ensures that the guests are well taken care of, and the bus staff cleans up. Can you imagine how a restaurant would run if one person tried to do it all? Nothing would get done well, and before long the poor guy doing everything would burn out.

One person doing everything doesn’t work in food service, and it doesn’t work in churches, either. Your pastor’s main job should be to study the word and stay spiritually fed, so he can, in turn, feed and nurture his congregation.

However, when he is busy with a multitude of other jobs that could easily be handled by the congregation, it takes his focus away from this priority.

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TRUE

BY REVEREND JENNIFER HAMPTON OF SUNRISE UNITED METHODIST CHURCH Last week, I took a day trip to the beach. I needed to breathe the salty air, stick my toes into the wet sand and practice yoga next to the crashing waves. My soul needed to soak up the sunshine and bask in the breeze in a way that’s only possible on a waterfront.

As I walked along the waves, I noticed the patterns of sea shells covering the sand. Some whole. Some broken. Scattered everywhere and beautiful! I thought of collecting a few and even carried a few along on my journey, but at the end of the day it wasn’t sand or seashells I wanted to bring home. Eager to have some sort of trinket as a physical reminder of a life-filled day of adventure on the coast, I ultimately decided against the shells, tossing them back onto the beach and instead, brought home a pinecone. Yes. You read correctly: a pinecone. Along with all the shells and beautiful sand, I found a lone pinecone.

Now, I’ve collected lots of shells and sand from previous beach trips, but had never seen a pinecone rolled onto shore by the waves. It seemed out of place and out of context: a familiar object in unfamiliar territory. So I immediately claimed it as my day’s token prize, exchanging the iconic iridescent shells and sand for a misplaced prickly brown thing. I understand how some might question this exchange, but I was so pleased with my find.

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It was more than just a pinecone; but for me, a symbol of unity.

To find a pinecone among seashells was evidence of a power beyond human comprehension that brings and holds all creation in order. Something holds it, all and us, all-together.

The ancient Jewish prophet Isaiah tells the story of a great vision he had of heaven. Angles surrounding the throne of God sang “Holy, Holy, Holy is God-of-the-Angel-Armies. His bright glory fills the whole earth.” The word “glory” here communicates “significance.” The angels were proclaiming that the whole earth1 is full of God’s significance!

In pinecones and seashells and sunshine and coastlines, the whole earth is full of God’s significance. God continues to reveal who God is and seeks reconciliation with all creation. In this Easter-tide, the weeks following the celebration of the risen Christ, I hope you as the Church will open your hearts and eyes to the truth of God’s redeeming love in evidence all around.

I hope you will be challenged by socially, culturally and economically “misplaced” persons, those we perceive as the pinecones of our lives in Forsyth County, and find in them the same spirit of unity and the same glory of God found in all of creation.

I hope especially you will keep on the sunny side of life as you live out the Good News that Christ is Alive.

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BY LISA S.T. DOSS I was the city mouse who relocated to rolling fields, amazing logging trails, and acreage. Growing up on his family’s farm, my husband announced one day to my horror that we were going to have chickens. I envisioned the negatives of the word “poultry,” and cringed at the thought of confined areas and mud, bird disease and strong, unavoidable odors. After a few months, my perspective changed. Happily feeding on bugs and insects, scratching away in tall grasses (and doing a better job than the weedeater), our free-range chickens became essential to our lifestyle. Visiting the coop to greet “my girls,” comprising Polish Crested, Wyandottes, Cochins and Ameraucanas, the responsibilities of watering, feeding and collecting white, brown, baby blue, and pink bespeckled eggs were not a chore. In fact, it was an enjoyable part of our daily routine. My definition of “fresh” changed the moment I cracked open an egg and saw a yoke orange-yellow in color. It’s wonderful to know where your food comes from, and the enjoyment derived from having entertaining hens.

THE BENEFITS:

Spring time is almost synonymous with gardening. Time is needed to enrich the soil with compost and other additives. And, the strenuous task of tilling is necessary. With a small brood of chickens, the effort changes and the work is minimal. What you need is a “chicken tractor”; an enclosed, predator-proof “A- framed” or rectangularshaped structure with wheels, covered in chicken wire and opened at the bottom. Covering a raised bed, the chickens will not only till and fertilize the soil (chicken droppings are rich in nitrogen), but eliminate bugs and any exterior weeds.

OTHER BENEFITS:

• Concerned about your health? Caring for chickens is therapeutic, and you reap the rewards from the fresh organic eggs, enriched with Vitamins A and E, omega-3 fatty acids, beta-carotene, and containing less cholesterol and saturated fat.

• Bananas or other fruits getting soggy? Wondering what to do with the excessive amount of lettuce in your garden? Chickens love a treat. You can supplement their diets with vegetables, fruits and berries.

• There are some educational lessons children can learn from the experience. Raising backyard chickens will teach youth to appreciate fresh foods and the responsibilities of caring for outdoor animals.

THE COOP:

In Forsyth County, residents can contain up to five hens, no roosters, in a three- square-foot coop along with a ten-squarefoot enclosed run. The annual fee is 100 dollars. The question becomes, “How creative are you?” The traditional permanently standing chicken coop has two disadvantages, maintenance and the lack of a constant, grassy, bug-enriched area for the chickens. The solution is to consider creating an enclosed run that can be moved, even in a circular pattern. (Flying, fourlegged and slithering predators will need to be considered in

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your design.) There is a wide array of chicken housing ideas available, especially online. Based on your own criteria, environment and available space, you will find the right coop to easily collect eggs, clean and change water, and offer feed.

WHAT KIND OF CHICKENS?

There are many sources to buy chicks; for instance, in a feed store or farm, mailed to you from a “hatching” company, and various sources online. If you do not want the trouble of raising chicks, there is the option to buy a hen weeks older and able to live outdoors; however, the price is greater. Great egg-layers are Rhode Island Reds, Leghorns, Buff Orpingtons, Ameraucana and Cochins. Keep in mind, hens will begin to lay in the spring and stop when there are less than 12 hours of daylight.

CHICKEN 101 CLASS:

For those who need a little more formal instruction in the care of hens, Forsyth Technical Community College offers a class, “Chicken 101.” This class, introduced in the fall of 2015, features information on everything from the best- laying hens, health maintenance and nutrition, to predators. The first class included working farmers, entrepreneurs and those who wished to gain insight into raising chickens. The course met across six classes, one night a week, and participants were able to construct and take home a chicken tractor.

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Kids: The Untold Story

BY HEATHER KEENAN WITH TRIAD MOMS ON MAIN

The joy of having kids is immeasurable. From the moment their sweet little newborn bodies are placed into your arms, it is love at first sight. They are so beautiful with their perfect baby noses and lips, you feel as though you could just eat them up. There is nothing more satisfying than smelling a new baby. And all of those things are what you are told when you are pregnant.

What no one seems to mention is that all of that angelic-ness does not last. Kids are, in one word, gross.

I get it, I do—it isn’t their fault that they’re walking germ balls. That does not, however, make them any less gross.

Those perfect-smelling infants change, and they change with a quickness. In no time at all, the spit-up sets in with the projectile poop. That’s right, projectile. If we are honest, it doesn’t go anywhere but down from there.

By the time those sweet babies are in preschool, they have basically turned into a walking Post-It note. They stick to everything, and no one seems to know what exactly the stickiness on them even is. Truth be told, you probably don’t WANT to know what the stickiness on them is. They touch and retouch everything 350 times an hour and proceed to then lick their hands for no good reason. I am assuming the reason is to remove said stickiness. They wander from room to room in your house slinging saliva and snot as if its fairy dust. If it can show fingerprints, they will touch it. They use their food as finger paint. I could go on, but I think you get it.

Then, they hit the Pre-K years, and you imagine how clean your life will be because they are big kids now, and big kids cannot possibly be as germ-inviting as preschoolers. Right? Wrong.

Now it is just a whole new level of nasty. Sure, they can use the bathroom alone, but that whole wiping thing is a bit tricky. You could let them wing it and do it on their own, but trust me when I tell you, that mess will catch up to you when you are least expecting it, and it will not be pretty.

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What is that I see? Grade school?! Oh, for sure, the sticky will end there. My child will be showering on her own and brushing her teeth. She will be the poster child for self-hygiene. I am hilarious, aren’t I? While by this point the drooling, due to not being aware enough to swallow spit, is gone, they still have a long way to go. For reasons beyond my mental capability, they enjoy running their hands along every wall, rail and store shelf they see. They are their own Swiffer Sweepers. Dust? No problem, they’ll get it. Spilled creamer on that aisle? They’ve got you covered. They’ll just store those germs right there on the cuff of their sleeve for that mega sneeze they are about to have. Wipe! There, all better.

Sure, it would be nice for veteran moms to warn the newbies about the foulness that will be brought into their lives by that wonderful bundle of joy, but I get why they don’t. They don’t, because dealing with all things bodily function is a small price to pay to have such love in your life. You may be wearing the same stain-covered sweatpants for the fourth day in a row, but you are loved, more than you will probably ever know. Those rugrats may not have the words to express what we moms mean to them, but it is a lot. We mean everything to them and they show us with wet, sloppy, snot kisses and sticky hands. How lucky are we? The luckiest.

So, while I am envisioning a time where the only snot, pee and poop I deal with is my own, I will comfort myself with the knowledge that this, too, shall pass, and when it does, I just might miss it. Maybe.

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Before you hand your child that next sports drink, take a moment to consider the effects on their young teeth. With warmer months ahead of us, we often reach for a sports drink to help with replacing fluids and electrolytes lost from activities. According to kidshealth. org, “The average young athlete can and should get all the necessary nutrients and hydration by eating healthy foods and drinking plenty of water before, during, and after exercise.”

Studies by the Academy of General Dentistry, however, show that sports and energy drinks, with their high acidity levels, can erode the tooth enamel. This irreversible damage can lead to teeth becoming overly sensitive, and make teeth prone to cavities and decay.

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Ironically, this is one time we caution against brushing too soon. If teeth are brushed within an hour of consuming a sports drink, it can spread the acid on the tooth enamel and actually increase the damage—so rinsing with water first and brushing after an hour will usually do the trick!

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Homeschool Prom

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS

More than ever before, parents are choosing to homeschool their children. As the little ones transition into teenagers, most parents become concerned about their teen missing out on the enjoyable aspects of the high school experience.

Upon consideration, perhaps the most memorable of these moments is prom night. The idea of “prom” conjures up sweet memories of a magical night full of pleasure, laughter, dancing, friends, lovely dresses and classy tuxedos. The good news is that there is no reason for a homeschooled student to miss out on prom night. There are several options open to a homeschooler. They may attend a local prom as the guest or date of a student attending that particular school. Also, many homeschooling groups and organizations hold their own proms every year. These can be found via an online search of the groups in your state. If all else fails, why not hold your own prom? It doesn’t have to be overwhelming and to prove it, below are a few tips for hosting your homeschool prom: • Your first step is to decide on the theme or mood of your event. Should it be whimsical or sophisticated? Casual or elegant? Once you have decided, come up with a title for your evening, a theme song and the ambiance desired. This will set the stage for all of your future decisions.

• Decide on a budget and a guest list. Are you including just a few of your child’s friends or selling tickets to other local homeschoolers?

Will non-homeschoolers be allowed to attend?

If given enough time, you can even host fundraisers to assist with costs.

• Find your venue. You can rent a room at a local community center, a ballroom at a nearby hotel, or a church fellowship hall (although there may be rules against dancing, depending on the church). It could even be held in a nice backyard.

No matter where you decide, be certain about their rules regarding food, music and dancing before booking.

• Refreshments! Depending on your budget, it could be possible to hire a caterer or purchase platters from restaurants. It is even possible to have a signup sheet for parents to provide food.

You can opt for a full dinner or keep it as simple as punch, cookies, fruits and other appetizers.

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• It is time to decorate! Again, this will depend largely on the theme or mood you have chosen for the event. Crafty parents can even make their decorations, but if that sounds a bit overwhelming, party stores are beautiful alternatives! You will probably want to have tablecloths, centerpieces, twinkling lights and flowers at the minimum.

• Let’s dance! If the money is available, hiring a DJ is a great option! You will have to give instructions on the type of appropriate music you and the teenagers prefer.

• Say cheese! Pictures are a must-have for prom night! Hire a professional or find a parent who enjoys photography. Let attendees know ahead of time how much picture packages will cost. Set up a lovely backdrop and take pictures as they enter... before dancing has ruined coifs and makeup!

• Set guidelines for the students before the event on the proper dress code...for example, no exposed midriffs or low necklines. Set up a required conduct list, requiring attendees to be respectful in behavior and dance moves. Make it clear that provocative dancing is banned and certainly no alcohol, tobacco, drugs, or weapons are allowed!

• Create a website or Facebook event for your prom. Prepare fun door prizes or gifts, such as small memory books, photo albums, personalized keychains, mugs, et cetera, with the prom theme and year printed upon them.

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SUBMITTED BY CARRIE ERICKSON, MD Ford, Simpson, Lively & Rice

Unfortunately, there are only so many hours in each day. Our hectic work, academic and extracurricular schedules severely limit everyone’s (especially our children’s) quantity and quality of sleep. There are general ranges for the amount of sleep required based on age, but remember that everyone is different and what is important is that your child is happy, alert and able to function appropriately during the day. Below are some strategies for how to achieve this goal.

Sleep Environment:

Sleep Routine:

• Get comfortable. Make sure that the

• Consistent bedtime. Try to go to bed and get up at the same time every day, including weekends.

• Remove distractions. No TVs in the

• Consistent nighttime routine. Do the same activities (put on pajamas, brush teeth, read a book, go to sleep) in relatively the same order every night. Try not to have this routine drag out too long.

mattress, bedding and pillows are comfortable.

bedroom. Studies have shown that kids who have a television in their bedroom on average sleep less than those who don’t. Do not watch any stimulating TV or play any video games for up to two hours prior to bedtime. No cell phones, unless they are completely off.

• Soothing sounds & music are

good.

Keep the volume low.

• The darker the room, the better.

Darkness helps with sleep and the release of melatonin, which is our body’s sleep hormone.

• Keep the room cool. Lower room temperatures at night encourage sleep.

• Consider aromatherapy. Soothing scents such as lavender have been shown to promote sleep.

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• Stay calm. Try to read something calming or inspiring prior to bed. Consider keeping a journal and write down any negative or stressful feelings and let them be until the next day. Avoid fighting or arguing prior to bedtime, if possible.

• Incorporate a warm bath or shower prior to bed. Studies have shown that people who are passively warmed prior to going to sleep (not warm from a hot room or heavy exercise) sleep better than those who go to bed cold.

Daytime Routine:

• Morning light. Exposure to bright light in the morning helps regulate your wake cycles.

• Limit napping. Avoid or limit naps during the day if having any sleep issues at night.

• Exercise. Being physically active during the day and avoiding strenuous exercise too close to bedtime promotes better sleep.

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April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month

BY STACY LEIGHTON Who hasn’t seen a child misbehaving in public? Maybe it was ours? Just last week I heard one such rag-a-muffin (meant as an affectionate term) giving his mother the business in the cereal aisle. Captain Crunch was the point of contention. When his mother said the fifth, final and very firm, “No,” this little guy yelled, “I’m going to call Social Services on you! This is child abuse.” To which I sighed inwardly and thought, “No, it’s not.”

In 1983, a presidential proclamation first declared April as National Child Abuse Prevention Month. Well, of course, we should prevent it every day of the year, but this is an opportunity to educate ourselves and acknowledge the importance of families and communities working together to prevent child abuse.

In the United States, there are more than 3 million reports of child abuse (involving more than 6 million children) every year. The US has one of the worst records among industrialized nations.

If that’s not scary enough, according to www.dosomething.org (citing statistics from Childhelp.org), take a look at these: • Approximately five children die every day because of child abuse and neglect.

• Of these children, over 70% are below the age of 3.

• Children who experience child abuse and neglect are 59% more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28% more likely to be arrested as an adult, and 30% more likely to commit violent crime.

Denying your child a sugary cereal is NOT child abuse. So what is it? “Child abuse and neglect occur when a parent, caretaker, or another person in a custodial role (e.g., clergy, coach, teacher) acts, or fails to act, in a manner that results in the death, serious physical or emotional harm, or sexual abuse or exploitation of a child; or that presents an imminent risk of serious harm to a child.” (Office for Victims of Crime: Child Abuse and Sexual Abuse, March 2015).

Every parent alive has, at one time, reached his or her wits’ end. Every parent has wished someone would give THEM a “time out.” This is human. But what we do when we reach the end of our patience is a skill worth mastering. Without this skill set, there is a danger of falling into abusive patterns, like neglect, withholding care and emotional abuse, or worse. If your parenting role models were less than “model,” seek help. Do not be afraid to ask; everyone could use more tools in their toolbox.

SO, let’s talk about spanking. Is it okay? You may frequently hear someone say, “Well, my parents spanked me and I turned out okay.” However, it’s a matter that can easily go too far and bottom line - spanking is hitting, and hitting is not okay.

Adults have a greater capacity for logic and reason and a larger vocabulary. Reason dictates that we use it. The word discipline is a derivative of “disciple,” which means “learner.” Therefore, the question to ask is (always), “What am I teaching?” Am I teaching my child about making better choices, so that one day, when I am not able to guide them, they will have the ability to make good choices? Or am I teaching them that hitting something or someone is the answer?

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Most adults are three times the size of a child and physical punishment can become unintentionally excessive, causing severe pain and injury. Even if a child is not injured, physical punishment can harm the relationship between a parent and a child. Parents, caregivers and communities—it’s up to all of us to protect children. If you need help, or if a child you know needs help, please consider these additional resources:

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THE NATIONAL CHILD ABUSE HOTLINE Trained counselors are available 24/7, in 140 languages through translators.

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Call 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453).

Or visit www.childhelp.org.

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Humane Society of Davie County’s

20th Annual Cause for Paws

Always keeping its heartfelt focus on the animals who need love, care and forever homes, the Humane Society of Davie County is gearing up for its annual Cause for Paws scheduled for Friday, April 22nd, 2016.

Plans for this year’s extra-special event include honoring the memory of long-time friend and supporter of the organization, Perce Musselman, who passed away recently. A veteran of the U.S. Army and retired from 35 years in Human Resources at Ingersoll Rand, Mr. Musselman had been honored with many community service awards through the years, including the Governor’s Award for Outstanding Volunteer Services. He was active in several groups around Davie County, and his steadfast compassion and love for others will be especially missed at the Humane Society.

With Cause for Paws’ new format, this event includes a catered dinner from the Savory Spoon and an exhilarating vintage Hollywood variety show. The Humane Society of Davie County has put together a winning combination of talent that’s sure to make this year’s fundraiser another shining success.

Cause for Paws will take place in the Loft at WinMock at Kinderton on April 22nd, with doors opening at 6:00 p.m. and dinner beginning at 6:30 p.m. Tickets are available for $75.00 per person, all for a fabulous evening of food and entertainment (a cash bar will also be available) and a long-term positive effect on hundreds of homeless animals.

The renowned entertainment team of sister sensations Gracie & Lacy promise a dynamic performance of music, comedy, vintage costumes and amazing choreography to support this active group’s efforts to rescue and pair abandoned animals

Perce Musselman with compatible homes. Besides aiding heartwarming tales of rescue and adoption, proceeds from Cause for Paws also assist the Humane Society of Davie County in its campaign to spread the word on animal rescue throughout the community, as well as conduct spay and neuter clinics. They also work diligently to provide education on the general care and welfare of cats and dogs throughout the area.

Supporters who donate $100.00–$250.00 on the website (causeforpaws.causevox.com) will be recognized as a Friend of the HSDC in the event program. Various levels of giving and their benefits can be found on the group’s fundraising page, along with a variety of opportunities to become involved in their quest to match pets with people for a lifetime of love and companionship!

Visit Causeforpaws.causevox.com to order tickets or read more about the event. WinMock at Kinderton is located at 168 E. Kinderton Way, Bermuda Run, NC, 27006. Contact the Humane Society of Davie County at 336-751-5214 or visit their office at 291 Eaton Road in Mocksville, NC. Adoption Center hours are Tuesday through Friday from 11:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m. and Saturday from 10:00 a.m.–2:00 p.m., and you can view current dogs and cats up for adoption on their website davienchumane.org.

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St. Patrick’sDelights Day Treats Pecan

BY KRISTI JOHNSON MARION & EMILY DODSON

Whether you pronounce it (Peh-KAHN) or (Pee-can), this nut is a Southern staple. Pecans are a powerful and delicious nut, packed with over nineteen vitamins and minerals and full of protein and anti-oxidants. April is “National Pecan Month,” and what better way to celebrate the powerful pecan than to try these easy and delicious pecan recipes with your kids?

PECAN TURTLES

BY KRISTI MARION JOHNSON These hit all the right spots: sweet, salty, crunchy and chewy.

And the fun turtle shape is always a hit with the kids!

PECAN SANDIES Ingredients:

• 2 cups pecan halves • 1 11-oz. bag of wrapped caramels • 2 Tbs. heavy cream (or milk) • 1 tsp. vanilla extract • 1 12-oz. bag of semi-sweet chocolate chips • sea salt

• 2 cups all-purpose flour • ¼ teaspoon fine salt • 1 cup butter, at room temperature • ½ cup powdered sugar • ½ cup granulated sugar • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract • 1 cup finely chopped pecans • Parchment paper

Directions:

Directions:

Ingredients:

1. Spread the pecans on a baking sheet in a single layer. Bake at 375º about 5 minutes, until warm and fragrant. Set aside to cool.

2. Unwrap caramels and place caramels, cream and vanilla extract into the top of a double boiler. Heat until the caramels have melted. Stir as needed.

3. As the caramel melts, heat the chocolate chips in the microwave at 50% power for 30-second intervals. Stir between intervals and stop when chips are almost fully melted. Stir until smooth. (Be careful not to overheat the chocolate, as it easily burns.)

4. Line baking sheet with parchment paper or use a Silpat liner.

Spoon a small amount of melted chocolate onto the baking sheet, spreading with the back of the spoon into 2” circles. After making 3−4 circles, arrange five pecan halves around the dab of chocolate, in a star-like pattern, creating the “turtle” head and legs. Continue making circles, 3−4 at a time, adding pecans until the sheet is full. Place in the fridge for a few minutes until chocolate has set up.

5. Remove from fridge. Add a teaspoon or two of melted caramel at the center of the “star” of pecans. The caramel should be melted just enough that it will fall off a spoon, but not so runny that it just rolls right off the pecans into a puddle. If the caramel is too thin, remove from heat and allow to cool just a bit. Once the caramel has been added to each turtle, place baking sheet back into the fridge for a few minutes to set up.

6. Remove the tray from the fridge. Spoon a bit of chocolate on top, covering as much of the caramel as possible.

7. Sprinkle with sea salt and return to fridge to set up. When fully cool and set, remove from the backing sheet and store in an airtight container at room temperature.

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1. Pre-heat oven to 350° F. Line baking sheets with parchment paper.

2. In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour and salt.

3. With an electric mixer, beat the butter and sugars on mediumhigh speed until light and fluffy.

4. Add the vanilla, reduce speed to low and gradually add the flour mixture, mixing just until dough is crumbly—then add pecans.

5. Let the kids help roll large tablespoons of the dough into balls and place on parchmentlined baking sheets; space 1 inch apart.

6. Bake until the edges are golden, 18 to 20 minutes.

7. Cool slightly on the baking sheets, then transfer to wire racks to cool completely.

BLUEBERRYPINEAPPLEPECAN DUMP CAKE Ingredients:

• ¾ cup butter, melted • 1 (20-oz.) can of crushed pineapple • 1 (20-oz.) can of blueberry pie filling • 1 box of yellow cake mix • 1 cup of chopped pecans

Directions:

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. 2. Grease a 13 by 9-inch casserole dish with baking cooking spray.

3. Melt ¾ cup butter in the microwave.

4. Let the kids help pour the pineapple with juice into the casserole dish, and then evenly spread blueberry pie filling on top.

5. Kids can help dump dry yellow cake mix over blueberry and pineapple bottom.

6. Sprinkle with chopped pecans.

7. Finally, drizzle with melted butter and bake for 35 to 45 minutes until edges are lightly browned.

Grocery List:

all-purpose flour | box of yellow cake mix | butter can of blueberry pie filling | can of crushed pineapple chopped pecans | granulated sugar | heavy cream (or milk) | pecan halves powdered sugar | salt | sea salt | semi-sweet chocolate chips vanilla extract | wrapped caramels

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Identifying Poisonous Snakes in North Carolina

BY LISA S.T. DOSS Even contained behind glass in an exhibit, the sight of a snake immediately creates a feeling of fear. Despite knowing the black racer and king snakes eat mice, rats and venomous snakes, we simply avoid the slithering legless lizard because it is the safest answer.

Of the 37 different species in North Carolina, the task of identifying a harmless snake is challenging. For instance, at first glance, many of us would panic to meet a snake patterned with alternating red, black and white or yellow bands; yet, the Scarlet Snake is harmless. To understand our immediate danger, it is important to learn and teach your children the following rhyme, “Red touch black, friend of Jack; Red touch yellow, kill a fellow.”

Each year, 8,000 people are bitten by a venomous snake, and approximately 15 victims do not survive. While it is unlikely you will cross a deadly snake along park trails this spring and summer, the ability to recognize six of the most venomous snakes found in North Carolina could save your life.

Copperhead: At 36 inches, the Copperhead is considered a small snake, and

is the color of chocolate milk with a chocolate kiss or hourglass banding pattern. Like many of the North Carolina venomous snakes, the copperhead also has a sensory pit located between the eyes and nostrils to detect warm-blooded prey. Termed a “pit viper,” the copperhead’s bite has the least potent venom and fatalities are rare; however, a bite will require immediate medical attention and perhaps cause extensive scarring. Copperheads are prevalent in our location, and it is advisable not to disturb if encountered.

Eastern Diamond Rattlesnake: One of the largest venomous snakes, it can reach eight feet in length. This particular rattlesnake is recognizable by patterns of large black diamonds across its golden-colored body. Although it may live in dry, sandy woodlands or coastal habitats, the Eastern Diamond Rattlesnake is found in our region. This pit viper feeds on household pests such as rats and mice, squirrels and birds. Similar to the behavior of all snakes, the goal is to escape from human contact; yet, if cornered, it will shake its tail and strike one-third of its body length. While antivenin is widely available, one bite has the potential to kill our red blood cells and cause extensive tissue damage.

Canebrake Rattlesnake: Referred as the Timber Rattlesnake, this

subspecies has orange or brown cross-bands across a tan body, and can reach up to six feet in length. Found throughout North Carolina, this pit viper seeks areas where it can feed upon small rodents; therefore, it will thrive in fields, rocky hillsides and areas of wood such as stumps or abandoned barns. While it desires a secluded life away from humans, the Canebrake’s bite is fatal.

Pigmy Rattlesnake: Based on its “spotted” red, black, or brown markings, the Pigmy rattlesnake extends just two feet in length. It enjoys burrowing underground, hiding in leaf litter or basking in the sun. The tiny rattler is often mistaken for a buzzing insect; therefore, most unsuspecting victims are bitten multiple times. While this pit viper is not lethal, the pigmy is known to be exceptionally aggressive towards humans.

Cottonmouth: Colloquially termed a “water moccasin,” the cottonmouth

enjoys swimming with its head well above the surface and feeding on fish, amphibians, reptiles and birds. The stripe alongside the head is its recognizable feature, as well as its white mouth. While it is a pit viper rarely seen in our area, there is one fact to remember—the cottonmouth’s bite is fatal.

Coral snake: Of the six venomous snakes found in North Carolina, only the coral snake resides in the sand hills. While rare and seldom seen, the bands are black, red and yellow. Thus, the rhyme is correct, “red touch yellow, kill a fellow.”

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The Selection by Kiera Cass

Ages 13–17 | REVIEWED BY REBECCA OLSEN In this modern day love story, America Singer is one of 35 girls chosen in a contest, reminiscent of TV’s The Bachelor, to compete for Prince Maxon’s heart and the crown of Illéa. Relegated to the lower levels of a caste system that ensures the poor stay poor and the rich stay rich, The Selection offers America and her family a chance to escape the hard-scrabble life they’ve always known.

The only problem is, she’s in love with someone else, and even the promise of wealth and power can’t change her heart. That is, until she discovers Maxon just might be the man of her dreams.

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Ages Baby–Toddler | REVIEWED BY EMILY EILEEN CARTER Most everyone is familiar with the classic baby book, Good Night Moon. This take on that famous book introduces different trucks and machines to the reader and takes them through the day and their different jobs. From dump trucks to bulldozers, we get to see these machines in action throughout the day. The finale is saying “Good night” to them after a long day’s work. My 2-year-old boy, who is currently obsessed with anything with wheels, loves this book. He enjoys the bright pictures of various machines, saying their names and, of course, tucking them into bed!

In the Noisy Forest by AZ Books

Ages Baby–Toddler | REVIEWED BY EMILY EILEEN CARTER This noisy book is superb interactive reading fun. Given to my son by his aunt when he was a baby, this book has been a longtime favorite. With bright forest scenes replete with labeled woodland animals, this book takes readers through seasons and times, night and day in the forests. Along with information about animals and ecosystems, each page has a question on a flap, and behind hides a new animal with a noise to surprise the reader. My son’s current favorite is the “Cuckoo” bird page, and he carries the book around the house repeating, “Cuckoo, Cuckoo!”

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How to Use a Power of Attorney to Care for Your Aging Parents

BY VANCE R. PARKER, J.D., M.B.A., Vance Parker Law, PLLC

It’s common for aging parents to need some help with their business and legal affairs. Adult children frequently reach this conclusion at the beginning of a new year, after they have spent time with their parents over the holidays.

Many adult children choose to assist their parents by opening joint bank accounts with them. However, this is not the best option, because it can result in unwanted legal problems that can later become intractable. Joint accounts are normally set up with “survivorship” rights, so that if the parent dies, the remaining child on the account is legally entitled to the remaining assets. If that child has siblings, this child’s inheritance of the account assets outside the will may be in direct conflict with how the parent’s inheritance is divided in the parent’s will document.

Even if the parent does not have a will, N.C. laws of intestate succession, which govern inheritance for people without a will, may directly conflict with the adult child’s receipt of the remaining joint account proceeds following the parent’s death. Either problem may be difficult to fix, and can create unpleasant disagreements that lead formerly congenial family members to litigate against each other. The best solution is to use a durable power of attorney (also called a “financial power of attorney” or a “general power of attorney”—a durable POA (in short) which offers the most economical and legally straightforward method to assist aging parents with their business and legal affairs. The person who signs the durable POA document, called the “principal,” grants significant powers to an agent or agents, allowing them to manage the principal’s business and legal affairs. In order for this document to be legally valid, the principal must be mentally competent, or have “capacity” (the mental ability to comprehend both the nature and consequences of one’s acts) when he or she signs the document. Before the document may be used by the selected agent(s), it must be properly recorded in the appropriate county Register of Deeds office.

It is a frequent misconception that durable POA documents are designed only to allow the agent to assist an aging parent following his or her incapacity (mental incompetence). Most become “live” when the principal signs and executes the document.

Thus, these documents allow the agent(s) to start helping the principal right away, without waiting for the principal’s incapacity. If used correctly, this type of durable POA provides the most flexibility to both parent and child.

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Banks and other financial institutions are very familiar with durable POA documents and accept those that are properly and professionally prepared.

Beware of versions of durable POA documents available on the Internet.

Legal fees to an estate planning attorney or elder law attorney for properly prepared, executed and filed durable POA documents are normally very modest. Unless you are a legal professional, you can’t judge the quality of a form that you download from the Internet.

When a bank receives a POA document, it is carefully reviewed by the bank’s legal professionals, who will only accept a document that is proper in every way. If the bank rejects your Internet durable POA when your family needs it, and your parent is no longer competent, the family may then be forced to resort to a much more expensive and complicated guardianship proceeding before a family member is able to legally take care of the impaired parent’s business and legal affairs.

Estate planning attorneys and elder law attorneys normally try to screen out improper family members from serving as agents or “fiduciaries” on behalf of their clients. (For example, I have had to remove a family member addicted to hard street drugs from serving as a fiduciary for a client.) A durable POA becomes highly dangerous in the wrong hands— it can give away the principal’s keys to his entire financial portfolio. It is essential to keep the durable POA in the hands of only honest and proper agents.

Another more costly alternative is to create revocable living trusts, with children serving as co-trustees with the parents. This type of estate planning is more expensive and complicated, and should only be conducted with the assistance of an experienced estate planning or elder law attorney.

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EMERGENCY KITS – STORM KIT

BY LINDSAY CRAVEN

Emergency kits might inspire fear at the first mention of their name, but they aren’t necessarily tied to instances of disaster. Thanks to handy sites like Pinterest and Etsy, there’s inspiration for ways to create kits for both real emergencies or for those little emergencies that life throws at us daily. This column will explore ideas of items that could be essential for various types of emergency kits, so that you can be inspired and start your own. It’s storm season, so this month we will help you prepare an emergency kit that will assist you if a big storm hits your neighborhood.

A FIRST AID KIT is, of course, essential. For a kit like this, you’ll probably want to assemble your kit instead of buying a pre-assembled one at the store.

Some essential items you’ll want to include are sterile gloves, burn cream, antiseptic ointment, gauze and bandages, scissors, waterproof adhesive tape and pain relievers. Make sure you put all of your first aid items in a waterproof sealed package inside of your kit container.

To assemble this month’s kit, I recommend grabbing a FIVE-GALLON

BUCKET from your local

hardware store. This container will allow you to keep your items dry and sealed, unless an unfortunate incident occurs that calls for you to use them.

A staple for any survival kit is going to be light sources. This one is no different. It’s best to include multiple

LIGHT SOURCES.

Grab a high-quality emergency flashlight, but also include glow sticks and candles for situations where you don’t necessarily need stronger light sources, so you can save the batteries in your flashlight. For extra safety, you can grab flameless candles instead to help reduce the risk of accidental fires. Most dollar stores carry flameless candles in large packs now.

Make sure to include an

EMERGENCY RADIO. This

addition to your kit will help you keep up with the progress of the storm, if more storms are moving towards you or where rescue efforts are taking place near you. You’ll want to include at least one package of batteries for your radio to ensure it lasts until you’re in a safe location.

If you’re stuck in a rescue situation where you might need assistance, but can’t yell out or can’t be heard, you’ll want to have access to something to help you get noticed. Include a WHISTLE or other noisemaking device in your emergency storm kit and stash it in your pocket if you ever have to break open your kit.

This seems rather silly and probably a no-brainer, but a lot of people overlook the simple items when preparing for an emergency. TOILET PAPER is going to be a necessity whether you’re stuck in the aftermath of a storm or if you’re in a shelter where supplies are low, and people are packed in.

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WASHCLOTHS and bottled/

jugged water in your kit. This will be helpful for quick clean-up sessions in a pinch. They’ll also be useful if you have an injury that needs more coverage than a bandage can provide. Make sure you wash these cloths after purchasing, and then store them in your kit in a sealed and waterproof package.

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By VONDA HENDERSON

The flying monkeys will be circling Winston-Salem very soon, and the road will be golden as Twin City Stage presents The Wizard of Oz. This production will embrace the presentation most of us grew up with, the iconic film version of The Wizard of Oz. Viewing the film has become a family tradition for many; now, we have a wonderful chance to see the characters come to life right before our eyes. This is the first time that Twin City Stage has staged a production of The Wizard of Oz. It’s going to be an exciting show. The costumes alone are going to be amazing.

Justin Hall, Twin City Stage Costume Designer, shared that, “The costumes will be on a bigger scale, so that everyone in our 500-seat theater will be able to see all the details. Dorothy’s costume will have more sparkle; the gingham pattern will be larger-sized blocks. It will be a Technicolor experience.” Similar to the film version, the opening and closing scenes will be in gray scale; therefore, Justin plans to create those costumes in shades of gray to achieve the proper impact to the audience. “Dorothy’s dresses will be created in black & white and Technicolor.” The timing of the costume changes alone will be challenging—30 to 45 seconds per change. Justin and his team plan to create most of the costumes themselves and will repurpose others already in existence. Justin stated that he’s been shopping at local hardware stores, as well as fabric stores, for the Tin Man

costume, which will incorporate foam, paint and metallic fabrics. Justin shared that, “The Good Witch’s gown will be a quinceanera dress created in Mexico.”

In addition to creating the costumes, Justin and his team need to be mindful of the characters who will be flying on stage and take into consideration the safety harnesses that will be worn with the costumes.

Justin has been with Twin City Stage for the past five seasons. A native of Atlanta, he has a love of classic films, which drew him to his career choice.

He also performed on stage, but his love of design drew him to costume designing about six years ago.

Maureen Daly, Twin City Stage Executive Director, has been with the company for two-and-a-half years.

She has lived in North Carolina for over twelve years and also has stage experience, but is a director by training.

Maureen shared, “The Wizard of Oz has 19 young performers and 21 adult performers. We had 160 people audition for the various roles, from the lead characters to Munchkins, citizens of Oz, Flying Monkeys and the Wicked Witch of the West’s army of Winkies. The community response for tryouts was remarkable.”

Bland Wade, Twin City Stage Scenic Designer and also Head of Properties for NC School of the Arts stated that, “The greatest challenge for the scenic design is in three parts. The largest part is paying homage to such an epic film and one that everyone knows. The second is the physical restrictions of the space. The Twin City Stage is a small venue and lends itself well to intimate settings, but becomes a challenge for large productions with 25 different scenes and a large cast. Lastly, with a limited budget, I spent many hours researching how the original film’s scenic designers accomplished the visual effects without the use of computer-generated imagery that we are now accustomed to in all aspects of the entertainment industry. I am bringing to this production some very old school stage illusions that we hope will create that magic and keep it fluid without the usual stop and shift of scenery.

The design of this production will take us

from a black-and-white, three-dimensional real world of the Gale farm and move us into the colorful, surreal world in the Land of Oz.” The play will run from April 15th through 17th, April 21st through 24th, and April 28th through May 1st at Twin City Stage, 610 Coliseum Drive, WinstonSalem, NC. Show times are Thursday and Friday at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday and Sunday at 2 p.m.

The box office opens on Monday, April 4th, 2016, at noon for this production. Call 336.725.4001 for tickets, or book online at twincitystage. org. Visit the magic that is The Wizard of Oz!

Steven LaCosse, will direct the production, assisted by Randy Simmons. Margaret Gallagher will music direct. Bland Wade will design the set, with lighting design by Daniel Alvarez. Costumes will be designed by Justin Hall, with wig and make-up design by Caitlin Molloy. Melissa Peller will stage manage the production, assisted by Kevin Hampton. The cast is as follows: Isabella Ellis/Logan Welborn - Dorothy Asher Ellis – Uncle Henry/Emerald City Guard Cessily Evans – Miss Gulch/The Wicked Witch of the West Donovan Fansler – Professor Marvel/The Wizard of Oz Josh Gerry – Hickory/Tinman Jonathan Grice – Zeke/Cowardly Lion Shannon Lashley – Aunt Em/Glinda, the Good Witch of the North Jed Macosko – Hunk/Scarecrow Sam Clary, Yling Diep, Logan Funderburk, Elizabeth Googe, Maurice Graham, Paul Gunter, Emma Hennigar, Vivian Hines, Sienna Lambert, Caroline Petronzio, Joshua Sarfert, Jackson Scott, Lee Sheran, Faatimah Tagwaa, Ben Taylor, Anaijah Williams, Austin Willard - Munchkins Marge Clark, Joshua Fansler, Kaelyn Fansler, Caleb Gerber, Charity Hampton, Katie Hines, Karina Macosko, Rob Taylor, Mary Upchurch – Ensemble

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Film Festival

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This year, RiverRun International Film Festival will showcase 165 films from 44 countries in 11 days from April 7th–-April 17th at various venues in Winston-Salem. RiverRun will set the stage to show various documentaries, narrative features and animation for all ages. Following the screenings, many filmgoers will have the opportunity to participate in Q&A sessions with the filmmakers or cast.

SATURDAY MORNING CARTOONS: RiverRun’s popular Saturday Morning Cartoons’ screenings of new animated shorts are free, thanks to support from Salem Smiles Orthodontics.

• Saturday, April 9th and 16th, at Hanesbrands Theatre–FREE. Festivities begin at 9 a.m., film screening at 10 a.m.

Prior to the screening, enjoy a short performance by Peppercorn Children’s Theatre on Saturday, April 9th, and art activities provided by SECCA on Saturday, April 16th.

• Outdoor Screening of Jumanji: Saturday, April 9th, at Bailey Park–FREE. Enjoy a free outdoor screening of the 1995 Robin Williams hit Jumanji. The event will feature a free photo booth and food for purchase from The Porch Kitchen and Cantina.

Opens at 6 p.m., film begins at 8 p.m. (or sunset). Director: Joe Johnston–Rating: PG When two kids find and play a magical board game, they release a man (Robin Williams) trapped for decades in it and a host of dangers that can only be stopped by finishing the game. Sponsored by Mast General Store with support from Wake Forest Innovation Quarter.

• The Dark Crystal: April 10th at 4:30 p.m., UNCSA Main Theatre–FREE: Thanks to a partnership with the Jim Henson Co., we are screening this 1982 masterpiece about a creature who embarks on a quest to find the missing shard of a magical crystal to restore order to his world. Screened on a 70mm print from the UNCSA Moving Image Archives. Rated: PG

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BY HALEY HALTOM

FILMS WITH CLASS: These three eye-opening, social-impact documentaries educate young minds with stories from filmmakers around the world, followed by discussions with the filmmakers.

Presented by Wells Fargo.

• The Anthropologist: April 14th, 7:30 p.m., aperture cinema This film, directed by Daniel Miller, considers the fate of the planet through the lens of Margaret Mead and her study of behavior, and modern-day climate scientist Susie Crate. The narrative is enhanced by the perspective of the two women’s daughters, one now an adult and one a teenager.

• Help Us Find Sunil Tripathi: April 13th, 5:00 p.m., Hanesbrands Theatre Director Neal Broffman chronicles the tragic search for university student Sunil Tripathi, who disappeared in 2013, in this stark case study on the constructive and destructive power of social media. His family and friends turn to online resources to find their beloved Sunil, which then turns on them in a cruel twist.

• My Love Affair with the Brain: The Life and Science of Dr. Marian Diamond (Directed by Catherine Ryan)–April 12th, 5:00 p.m., Hanesbrands Theatre Enrichment & plasticity—capabilities of the brain we now take for granted – were the scientific battleground where Dr. Marian Diamond changed forever our paradigm for understanding the brain. She is a beloved professor, worthy role model for women in science, and all round brainwhisperer. Discussion with filmmaker to follow the screening.

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When Sparkle Girl puts cream cheese on her bagel, she carefully spreads it so that no bagel peeks through the surface and that the cream cheese is of uniform depth. When she is done, the surface is so smooth that, if it were ice, it could be used for skaters in an itsy-bitsy version of Disney on Ice. When I put cream cheese on my bagel, I glob it here and there and don’t smooth it out. Small bits of the bagel remain exposed.

Elsewhere, there are tiny mountains. One of my bagels could be used for the extra-rugged challenge in a teeny-tiny snowmobile competition. I do that solely because that’s the way I like my bagel. For one, I enjoy coming upon bonus blobs of cream cheese as I eat it.

Unfortunately, my technique deeply offends Sparkle Girl. Could I please, please, please, spread it out so that she can eat her bagel in peace? she asks. When I can, I like nothing more than accommodating Sparkle Girl, Doobins and Garnet. But asking me to eat a bagel covered with a boring vista of smooth cream cheese is asking too much.

BY KIM UNDERWOOD

The other day, we were having pancakes for breakfast. Watching me butter the pancake the same way I put cream cheese on a bagel, Sparkle Girl asked me whether I seriously intended to eat my pancake that way. I looked down at the shards of butter scattered over the surface.

“Absolutely,” I said.

“Unbelievable,” said Sparkle Girl.

I couldn’t begin to say why, but that reminded me of a time when I was in my 20s and lived in an apartment with two roommates. One day, they sat me down and told me that my habit of leaving cupboard doors wide open after I got something off the shelf was driving them crazy.

“Like the way you don’t push in your chair when you get up from the table,” Garnet said.

An excellent example of a similar lapse, I thought. I also thought about how handy it is that our kitchen has open shelves above the counter where the plates and glassware are stored, so I’m never in danger of not closing a cupboard door. (The same cannot be said of the cupboard doors under the counter.)

Anything else that I do that drives them crazy? I asked.

“That would be an essay, not a column,” Garnet said.

From Doobins’ reaction, I surmised that he could put together something to rival the old World Book Encyclopedia.

Anything, in particular, she would like to mention at the moment? I asked.

You don’t put things back when you get them out of the refrigerator, Garnet said.

Sparkle Girl agreed.

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They had me there. I definitely have a tendency to leave the half-and-half on the counter when I’m the last person to add it to my coffee.

They love me anyway, they said.

I didn’t ask any more follow-up questions. I simply poured syrup on my pancake and began eating it, secure in the knowledge that, although listing my good traits might not call for writing an essay, surely they would fill a well-illustrated brochure.

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Birthday Parties on a Budget

BY ROBIN WHITE ELLIS

Before I became a mother, my image of a child’s birthday party was based largely upon my own celebrations as a tot. My memories involve our dining room decorated with streamers and balloons, homemade cakes and games of Pin the Tail on the Donkey. It is no exaggeration to proclaim that birthday parties for children today have transformed into a maelstrom of decadence and lavishness that is a bit jarring. At the tender age of nine years, my daughter was invited to a classmate’s birthday shindig that included a limousine to transport the giggling girls from place to place. Another parent erected a carnival in their backyard with bouncy houses, pony rides, a petting zoo and several clowns.

To be fair, I confess that I, too, have fallen under the spell of the mega-party. Expensive celebrations at Chuck E. Cheese, skating rinks and the like have lightened my own bank account over the years.

Seeing those little eyes light up in excitement and joy is worth a great deal to a parent! Some years, however, can provide quite a challenge, as wallets may not be as full as in years past. It is at that point that “Mommy Guilt” or “Daddy Guilt” can become your worst enemy. We want our children to have the best, and occasionally fall into comparisons. If little Jane had fireworks at her party, we feel shame at not producing the same for our own child. It is imperative to put all of this in its proper perspective. Before panic sets in, cease considering what you cannot afford and ruminate instead upon what you can do, even with a smaller budget. You may end up creating a smash hit that is more personal and pleasurable for everyone involved.

Here are some tips to keep your child’s party both affordable and enjoyable:

Cake

Professionally made cakes are pricey. Opt for homemade with small dollar-store toys for decoration.

Paper Products If your daughter has her heart set on Disney Princesses, compromise by purchasing the Princess plates augmented by less expensive, generic pink cups, napkins, etc.

Food Do not offer a full dinner. Hold the

party in the afternoon and provide lemonade, cake, and ice cream.

Location There is no need to rent out a

costly venue. Set the celebration at your home or a nearby park.

Invitations Create them using craft supplies you already own.

Activities

Instead of hiring a clown or renting a bouncy castle on a shoestring budget, prepare your own games, such as freeze tag or a scavenger hunt.

Party Favors Take individual photos with the birthday child

and, using dollar-store materials, have the children decorate picture frames while you quickly print off the pictures. Each child goes home with a fun memento!

Themes are magnificent options for homegrown parties! A theme makes everything look cohesive and well-planned, while also providing an easy guide for preparations. For summertime birthdays, hosting a luauthemed party is a nice idea. Have the children wear bathing suits and bring towels. Purchase a few inexpensive leis, faux tiki torches and string lights. The activities could include water balloons, a slip-and-slide and a hula hoop contest. Perhaps your child would enjoy a Treasure Island theme instead, with a pre-planned scavenger hunt to find the gold-coin chocolates! Offer the little ones costume eye patches, temporary tattoos and pirate hats. A three-legged “peg-leg” race will keep everyone in smiles. Even a simple overnight camping party in the backyard with a few friends will leave your son or daughter with delightful memories.

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Keep in mind that a fun, thoughtfully planned party will succeed as well as any powerhouse bash that empties your pockets. Utilize your family and friends! If Uncle Joe knows how to make balloon animals, put his skill to good use at the party. Let your child help with the preparations. Whether making the cake together or setting up the decorations, spend some time prior to the celebration collaborating. It builds up the excitement and makes your child feel special. Children do not need a gala. All they want is to feel important on their special day and to have fun with their friends.

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“The future belongs to young people with an education and the imagination to create.”

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BY VONDA HENDERSON

Arbor Day in the United States is part of our national heritage. When J. Sterling Morton and his family settled in Nebraska from Detroit in the late 1800s, there was a significant lack of trees on the plains. Morton planted trees and encouraged his neighbors to do the same, stressing the value of trees for practical reasons, as well as aesthetic. Trees functioned as windbreakers on the plains and kept the soil in place, plus becoming a fuel source and a primary building material. In 1872, Morton proposed Arbor Day to the Nebraska State Board of Agriculture. On the first Arbor Day, celebrated in Nebraska, one million trees were planted.

Nowadays, National Arbor Day is celebrated on the last Friday of April (April 29th, 2016). The United States is not the only country to celebrate a love of trees. Other countries include Israel, with their New Year’s Day of the Trees; Korea, with Tree-Loving Week; Iceland, Student’s Afforestation Day; Canada, Maple Leaf Day, celebrated as part of National Forest Week in September; Mexico, Day of the Tree in July; Japan, Greenery Day in late April and India, National Festival of Tree Planting.

Why plant trees and why celebrate? Trees have many benefits that we take for granted. Trees can • Fight Climate Change. An acre of mature trees absorbs carbon dioxide equivalent to a car traveling 26,000 miles.

• Create Clean Air. Trees absorb pollutants and filter the air by trapping particulates in their leaves and bark.

• Provide Oxygen. An acre of trees provides enough oxygen to support 18 people.

• Act as Cooling Agents. Trees in a city environment can reduce o the temperature by 10 F and release water into the air through their leaves.

• Heal. Simply looking at or being out in nature has healing properties for us. Gazing out on a crop of trees can provide a mental break and fight off fatigue.

• Mark the Seasons. Perhaps not in every part of the nation, but those who see little change of season sure enjoy visiting in the fall when the trees show off their colors. Spring flowering trees, summer greenery, fall foliage and snowy frosting on branches mark each season with a distinctive look.

Imagine driving through a neighborhood with tree-lined streets.

Looks friendly and well established, right? It’s likely more enticing to buyers, as well. Trees can muffle traffic noise and may help increase property value.

• Conserve Energy. If three trees are planted strategically around a house, they can cut air conditioning needs by 50% in the summer. Wouldn’t that be a great benefit to a homeowner’s budget?

Beyond all the environmental and financial benefit of trees, they’re a part of childhood memories. I recall a swing hanging from a big tree in my grandparent’s yard and how much fun is was to push higher and higher. Maybe your initials are carved within a heart on a tree somewhere.

• Conserve Water. Trees can slow water evaporation from lawns. They also slow water runoff and keep soil in place.

Enjoy Arbor Day and consider planting a family tree of your own.

• Defuse Ultra-Violet Rays. Trees shield us from strong ultraviolet rays and make time outdoors much more pleasant.

“The creation of a thousand forests is in one acorn.”

• Provide Food. A single apple tree can yield 15 to 20 bushels of fruit per year. Plus, the birds and wildlife get food and shelter from the canopy a tree provides.

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BY MEGHAN E.W. CORBETT No matter what you are in the mood for, Omega House delivers!

Every time you dine there, you get a different, yet delicious meal! Options range from steak and Greek souvlaki to hot dogs and onion rings. Owners John and Vickie Ioannou also serve breakfast all day—you can’t beat that!

“Our menu has something for everyone—including Greek and American food, senior and junior plates and quality seafood and steaks,” said John. “Everyone loves our baked chicken over rice (which is a ½ chicken, not ¼ like most other places serve), that is served on Fridays and Sundays; our Greek-style oven roast beef that is so tender, you do not even need a knife to cut it, which is served on Thursdays and Sundays; our hand-breaded fried pork tenderloin; chicken and dumplings; our beef tips over rice; and on and on. I mean, how do you pick the most popular? I guess if I had to choose one, it would be the oven-roasted beef. We also have awesome salad choices for Mom, top-notch steaks for Dad, fresh ground chuck burgers and all-beef hotdogs for kids, and so on. Of course, Mom can have steak if she wants to! Freedom of choice at Omega House!”

What makes Omega House truly special is the home-cooked quality of the food. The authentic Greek touch is evident throughout the menu, but each dish is given the same madefrom-scratch attention! “Home-cooked quality is important because we consider our customers our family and want to serve them good quality, home-cooked meals, as you would do if they visited you at home,” said John. “We want everyone to leave Omega House happy and full and to dine with us repeatedly with the assurance that they will be happy and full with every visit.”

Additionally, the service you receive at Omega House is second to none. “Our staff is friendly, attentive and respectful to all and will do everything possible to make sure our customers’ visits are pleasant,” said John. “If there is anything anyone needs, all they have to do is ask, and it is done.”

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Once you dine at Omega House, you will be a customer for life…much like many of their customers are now. “We have many regular diners that have been coming here for years,” said John. “They have their favorite booths, tables or bar stools that they prefer to sit in whenever they come in. Some come in on a daily basis; sometimes more than once. Our cooks pretty much know what they are going to order when they see them walking in the door or across the parking lot, and before they even sit down, they proceed to prepare their food! They come back day after day and week after week, not just because of our great food, but because we treat them like our family. They can have a conversation with each other because they are acquainted from dining here together for so long. It’s a place where everybody knows your name. It’s like the show Cheers, complete with jokes, anecdotes and everything else. It’s great!”

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NOW THROUGH JUNE 5 GREENSBORO SCIENCE CENTER

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NOW THROUGH APRIL 15

FRIEDBERG MORAVIAN CHURCH CHICKEN PIE SALE, BAKE SALE & BAZAAR

8am-2pm, 2178 Friedberg Church Road in W-S. Frozen chicken pies, baked goods, handmade crafts and local vendors. Breakfast and lunch items available.

May pre-order chicken pies. www.friedbergmoravian. org

NOW THROUGH MAY 15 “MOTION MANIA” EXHIBIT AT SCIWORKS

10am-4pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Visitors of all ages can test their design skills as they create roller coasters, race tracks and superhighways -- all while learning about friction, force and energy!

Included with museum admission. www.sciworks.org

eat, drink, enjoy repeat DINING SPECIALS: Every Monday & Wednesday 35 Cent Wings (dine in only) Tuesday Endless Pasta - $9.95 & NEW Half Price Wine Night!

Thursday $5.00 - Classic Burger Night Friday & Saturdays Best Prime Rib in Town!

Sunday Brunch

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MUSIC & SPECIAL EVENTS: Every Monday Night Mike Bustin 6-9pm

Every Tuesday Night Trivia - $100.00 Cash Prize Every Wednesday Karaoke with DJ Chris 7:30-Til 4/1 - Heavy Tones - 9-12pm 4/2 - Evan & Dana - 8-11pm 4/7 - Jon Shorter - 7-10pm 4/8 - Surry Line - 9-12pm 4/9 - Knuckles Deep - 9:30-12:30pm 4/14 - Paint Nite - 7:00pm 4/15 - Russ & John - 8-11pm 4/16 - Exit 180 Band - 9-12pm 4/21 - Jon Shorter - 7-10pm 4/22 - James Vincent Carroll - 8-11pm 4/23 - Thim & Them - 9-12pm 4/24 - Beach Party on the Patio - 2pm 4/28 - Paint Nite - 7pm 4/29- The Mulligans - 8-11pm 4/30 - Too Much Toni - 9:30-12:30pm Like us on FaceBook - Follow us on Instagram & Twitter to keep up with other daily specials or events.

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NOW THROUGH MAY 27 (TUESDAYS-SATURDAYS) HINA MATSURI: DOLL’S DAY IN JAPAN

10am-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University, 1834 Wake Forest Road in W-S. This miniexhibit will focus on the Japanese celebration of Doll’s Day on March 3rd through the display of a traditional doll set. Families often mark the celebration by setting up a display of dolls representing the imperial court. http://moa.wfu.edu

NOW THROUGH JUNE 2

CENTRAL TRIAD HOME EDUCATORS – MIDDLE SCHOOL CO-OP CLASSES

9am-2pm, 2935 Cole Road in W-S. Cost: $10/child per class. www.CentralTriadChurch.com

APRIL 2-9

STRATFORD LANDSCAPE SUPPLY 5th ANNIVERSARY SALE (see pg33) Help celebrate their 5th anniversary with an amazing sale!

APRIL 4

NOVANT HEALTH BARIATRIC SOLUTIONS SURGICAL SEMINAR

7-8:30pm, Novant Health Forsyth Medical Center – Conference Center, 3333 Silas Creek Parkway in W-S. Are you considering bariatric surgery? If so, Novant Health Bariatric Solutions is here for you. Join James Dasher, MD, and Thomas Walsh, MD, for a free seminar to learn about our surgical weight loss options. www.nhbariatricsolutions.org

APRIL 5

HOMESCHOOL/SMALL GROUP DAY AT SCIWORKS

10am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Programs for homeschoolers and small groups.

“All About Animals” (grades K-4) at 10am and “Fur, Feather, Scale & Slime” (grades 5-9) at 11am. Group admission rates apply, and pre‐registration is required.

Call 714.7105 to register. www.sciworks.org

APRIL 5 & 8

“OTTER ENCOUNTER” AT SCIWORKS

11:30am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. As part of Forsyth Creek Week, meet the SciWorks otter curator and learn about these amazing animals, including their diet, natural history and playful nature.

Then watch as they enjoy a special enrichment activity! Included in admission. www.sciworks.org

APRIL 8

FLOCK THE YARD AUCTION AND PARTY

5-8pm, Historic Broyhill in Clemmons. Flock the Yard auction and party to support No to O, a local ovarian cancer awareness organization. Adopt teal flamingos and help to “flock” the yard. The party will include live music, food, drinks, flamingos and fun! http://notoo.org/

CHEERS! A TOAST TO CHILDREN’S HEALTH

6:30-9:30pm, 900 Old Salem Road in W-S. Raise your

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glass and support Brenner Children’s Hospital! More than 150 wines to taste from around the world, NC brews and creative cuisine from some of our best local restaurants and caterers! Reservations are available only in advance. Cost: $75/person for grand tasting; $130/person for the cellar and grand tasting. brennerchildrens.org

APRIL 8-9

BROWNIE/JR GIRL SCOUT CAMP-IN AT SCIWORKS

5:45pm-9am, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Overnight camp-ins includes activities related to scout requirements and a planetarium show or Discovery program. Visit www.sciworks.org for more information and to register. Cost: $40/person.

APRIL 9

RIVERRUN INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL SATURDAY MORNING CARTOONS

9-11am, 209 Spruce Street North in W-S. RiverRun’s Saturday Morning Cartoons shows a colorful array of animated shorts for all ages. Presented by Salem Smiles Orthodontics, this free screening will be preceded by a short performance by Peppercorn Children’s Theatre. riverrunfilm.com

HOME GROWN COUNTRY STORE SPRING FLING

9am-5pm, 7180 Reynolda Road in Pfafftown. The biggest event in Pfafftown! A fun-filled day loaded with more than 50 vendors. From arts and crafts, to produce markets, embroidery, refurbished furniture, direct sales representatives and much, much more.

All things local to our town! www.facebook.com/ events/1738787363011117

PROJECT WET TEACHER WORKSHOP AT SCIWORKS

10am-4:30pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. SciWorks is hosting a free “Project WET” (Water Education for Teachers) workshop. Project WET is an interdisciplinary water science program for formal and informal educators of K-12 students. For more information, call Kelli Isenhour at 714.7106. www. sciworks.org

APRIL 10

“ACCESS-ABILITY DAY” AT SCIWORKS: “BUILDING COMMUNITY AND RAISING AWARENESS”

1-5pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Discover some of the latest advances in assistive technology, meet therapy animals (including horses from Riverwood Therapeutic Riding Center), try out an off-roads wheelchair and more! Included with museum admission. www.sciworks.org

APRIL 11

GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT

5pm…until! Bleu Restaurant and Bar, 3425 Frontis Street in W-S. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. Enjoy ½ price appetizers until 7pm as well as a $3 margarita special! Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways!

APRIL 12

KIDS’ MORNING OUT

10am-12pm, TRU Taekwondo Center, 5065 Country Club Road in W-S. An event for kids of all ages! Come see all TRU Taekwondo has to offer with a variety of individual activity stations. There will also be games, treats, fun, Taekwondo demo and giveaways! Free event! Each adult attendee will receive four tickets for our fabulous prize board.

APRIL 12-JUNE 14 THE WEIGH FOR YOU

6-7:30pm, 3333 Silas Creek Parkway in W-S. The Weigh for You is a comprehensive 10-week weight management program led by licensed experts.

The series promotes effective weight management through proper diet, exercise, stress management and education. Cost: $150/person.

APRIL 14

SCIENCE CAFÉ AT RIVER RIDGE TAPHOUSE

7-8:30pm, 1480 River Ridge Drive in Clemmons.

Learn about the latest groundbreaking research in free programs, co-sponsored by SciWorks and

Reynolda Gardens. CEU credits available. This month: “MicroRNAs in Leishmania braziliensis using Bioinformatics” by Dr. Johanna Porter-Kelley. www. sciworks.org

APRIL 15-17, 21-24 & 28-May1 THE WIZARD OF OZ @ TWIN CITY STAGE (see pg112)

APRIL 16

RIVERRUN INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL SATURDAY MORNING CARTOONS

9-11am, 209 Spruce Street North in W-S. RiverRun’s Saturday Morning Cartoons shows a colorful array of animated shorts for all ages. Presented by Salem Smiles Orthodontics, this free screening will be preceded by art activities provided by SECCA. riverrunfilm.com

SHREDDING EVENT SPONSORED BY BERMUDA RUN GARDEN CLUB

9am-1pm, 120 Kinderton Boulevard (off Highway 158), Bermuda Run Town Hall parking lot in Bermuda Run. Proceeds go to various Davie County community programs supported by the Garden Club. Cost: $5/ brown grocery bag or equivalent size box. Cash only.

Rain or shine.

AMERICAN GIRL® FASHION SHOW

10am-4pm, 301 West 5th Street in W-S. Calling all American Girl® fans! The Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem is hosting the fourth annual American Girl Fashion Show™ at Benton Convention Center in downtown W-S. http://agfshow.org/

MUSIC AT THE MUSEUM FAMILY DAY

1-4:30pm, Museum of Anthropology, Wake Forest University, 1834 Wake Forest Road in W-S. Join us as we celebrate the music and dance traditions of Indonesia, Australia, New Zealand, Samoa and Papua New Guinea with an event for all ages. There will be musical performances and opportunities to learn traditional dances. http://moa.wfu.edu

ROCK LASER SHOWS IN THE SCIWORKS PLANETARIUM

6:30-8:30pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Shows are $6/person each or see both for $10/ person. Doors open at 6pm, and seating is first come, first served. No advance ticket sales. (Exhibit galleries and outdoor parks will be closed.) R.E.M. at 6:30pm and the Beatles at 7:30pm. www.sciworks.org

STARGAZING AT SCIWORKS

8-11pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. As part of the NC Science Festival, join SciWorks and the Forsyth Astronomical Society for a free astronomy observation in the SciWorks parking lot using professional-grade telescopes. If weather looks bad, call 767.6730 after 5pm. www.sciworks.org

APRIL 16-30

“DRAWING BIRDS: IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF JOHN JAMES AUDUBON” CLASS AT SCIWORKS

10am-4pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Follow in Audubon’s footsteps as you observe wild birds, make sketches and field notes, and transfer bird outlines to etching plates. Explore drafting, dry point etching, printmaking and watercolor washes.

Beginners welcome! Cost: $165/person. www. sciworks.org

APRIL 19

NOVANT HEALTH BARIATRIC SOLUTIONS SURGICAL SEMINAR

6:30-8pm, High Point Chamber of Commerce, 1634 North Main Street in High Point. Are you considering bariatric surgery? If so, Novant Health Bariatric Solutions is here for you. Join James Dasher, MD, and Thomas Walsh, MD, for a free seminar to learn about our surgical weight loss options. www. nhbariatricsolutions.org

APRIL 21

WEST FORSYTH HIGH SCHOOL BAND’S JAZZ GALA/SILENT AUCTION

6:30-9pm, WinMock at Kinderton, 168 East Kinderton Way in Bermuda Run. Come join us for a silent auction fundraiser while enjoying wonderful jazz music performed by the West Forsyth High School Jazz Bands. Tickets are $15/person and may be purchased

at the door or online at http://westband.ludustickets.com

APRIL 22

20TH ANNUAL CAUSE FOR PAWS

6-9pm, 168 East Kinderton Way in Bermuda Run. Come and enjoy an entertaining evening of dazzling music, laugh out loud comedy and showstopping choreography with the power sister duo Gracie & Lacy. Make plans to spend a wonderfully pleasurable evening with us. Cost: $75/person. www. causeforpaws.causevox.com

APRIL 23, 24, 30 & MAY 1

SPRING PARADE OF NEW & REMODELED HOMES (see pg22-23)

1-5pm, Saturdays & Sundays. Visit SpringParadeofHomesWS.com for more info

APRIL 23

FRIEDBERG MORAVIAN SPRING CRAFT SHOW

7:30am-2pm, 2178 Friedberg Church Road in W-S. Author Michele Marlene Manderine will be selling her hand-painted (cat) handbags, knitted cat toys, “Remi, The Ragdoll” photo greeting cards, original hand-knit people and pet Afghans and whimsical hand-drawn cat greeting cards.

GET YOUR REAR IN GEAR 5K RUN/WALK AND ROGER FOWLER MILE OF HOPE

9-11:30am, Bailey Park, 445 North Patterson Avenue in W-S. Join to help raise funds for colon cancer awareness efforts in the W-S area. Money raised will stay in our community to encourage screening and education for the nation’s number two cancer killer. Cost: $35/adult; $25/student. http:// events.getyourrearingear.com/site/TR/GYRIG/ General?pg=entry&fr_id=3020

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PIEDMONT EARTH DAY FAIR

10am-5pm, Winston-Salem Fairgrounds. The 11th Annual Piedmont Earth Day Fair is a family friendly event for the entire community. Admission and parking are free! www.peanc.org

PIEDMONT CHAMBER SINGERS PRESENTS -LIBERTY: A PATRIOTIC-THEMED CONCERT

Lewisville House

7:30-9pm, 501 Miller Street in W-S. PCS presents Randall Thompson’s The Testament of Freedom, based on four writings of Thomas Jefferson. Joining Piedmont Chamber Singers will be the Twin-City Choristers, the Winston-Salem Girls’ Chorus and Parkland High School’s chorus. Cost: $25/adult; $20/ senior; $5/student. www.piedmontchambersingers. org

APRIL 27

EMPTY BOWLS (see ad pg111)

11am-2pm, Benton Convention Center

APRIL 29-JULY 2 ARTQUILTSVOICES

6-8pm, Page-Walker Arts Cary & History Center, 119 Ambassador Loop in Cary. PAQA-South (Professional Art Quilters Alliance -- South) will present its members-only exhibit ARTQUILTSvoices. We use our voices to communicate with those around us. www. paqa-south.org

APRIL 30

NEW HOME UNITED METHODIST CHURCH CRAFT SHOW

7:30am-1pm, 5125 Shattalon Drive in W-S. Author Michele Marlene Manderine will be selling her handpainted (cat) handbags, knitted cat toys, “Remi, The Ragdoll” photo greeting cards, original hand-knit people and pet Afghans and whimsical hand-drawn cat greeting cards.

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MUTT STRUT 5K FORSYTH HUMANE SOCIETY

Sherri H. Holloway

8am-1pm, Shallowford Shopping Center in Lewisville. If you are looking for a 5K that can be run competitively, walked or rolled, this race is for you (and your furry family members). Cost: $30/person. www.forsythhumane.org

WS YOUTH CHORUS SPRING CHORAL CONCERT

7PM, Ardmore Baptist Church, 501 Miller Street.

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Activities Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem. . . . . 55 Greensboro Science Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95 Legacy Saddlebreds. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81 Salem Gymnastic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49 SciWorks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55 Studio Create . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 TRU Taekwondo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81

Attorney Carl Hearn . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 105

Automotive TJ’s Body Shop . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 117

Bakery/Confections Christina’s Dessertery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93

Beauty / Styling V’s Barbershop . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 83 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics . . . . . . . . . . . . 99

Childcare Imprints. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 YMCA . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46

Churches Sunrise United Methodist Church . . . . . . . . 88

Dentists / Orthodontists Chermak & Hanson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 65 Kingery & Kingery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 79 Nickolas Kephart, DDS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75 Salem Smiles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73 Southern Dental Associates . . . . . . . . . . . . 103 Tina S. Merhoff and Associates Pediatric Dentistry. . . . . . . . . . 69

Education Calvary Baptist Day School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 77 St. John’s Lutheran School. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 97 St. Leo’s Catholic School. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 105 The Piedmont School. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 101

Financial Edward Jones Financial . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Truliant Federal Credit Union . . . . . Back Cover

Health & Fitness

C3 Fitness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 85 Dream Dinners . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 91 Gotta Get Thin. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 Momentum Fitness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 97 TRU Fitness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81 YMCA . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46

Home

Lyndhurst Gynecological Associates . . . . . . 83 Psoriasis Research Study . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 79 Summer Family Care . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63 Wake Forest Baptist Health Brenner Children’s Hospital. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61 WomanCare . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 101

Mental Health

Old Vineyard Behavioral Health Services. . . 71

Ace Security . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25 Bloomday Granite . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Budget Blinds. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 Busy as a Bee Concierge . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35 Chamberlain Place. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 Clemmons Town Center Apartments. . . . . . 21 Dero’s . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 Hampton House Art & Framing . . . . . . . . . . 37 Isenhour Homes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 JMR Landscaping . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Maria Kazakos, Broker . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Moore Self Storage. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31 No Mosquitoes.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Pest-X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 R.S. Parker Homes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 Salem Windows & Doors. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31 Stitches . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39 Stratford Landscape Supply . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33 Susan Maier-Colon, Broker . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 Weedman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39 Welden Village . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

Photography

Home Medical Care

Retail

Home Instead Senior Care. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4

Insurance

Ireland Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Landscaping

JMR Landscaping . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Stratford Landscape Supply . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Medical

Acne Research Study . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 79 Cornerstone Health Care . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 97 Forsyth Family Eye Care. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71 Hillcrest Vision . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95 Home Instead Senior Care. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics . . . . . . . . . . . . 99

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J. Darren Photography. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56

Radio Stations

WBFJ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89 WMAG . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 127

Real Estate & Housing

Chamberlain Place. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 Clemmons Town Center Apartments. . . . . . 21 Maria Kazakos, Broker . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Susan Maier-Colon - Berkshire Hathaway. . 27

Restaurants

Chang Thai . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Christina’s Dessertery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Hakkachow Asian Eats. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Honky Tonk Smokehouse . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Mac & Nelli’s . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125, 128 Midtown Café & Dessertery . . . . . . . . . . 5,125 Omega House . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Tanglewood Pizza Grill . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Which Wich. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Clemmons Bicycle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 105 Dero’s . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 Hip Chics Boutique & Gift . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 91 M&G Barnware. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 117 Rolly’s Baby Boutique . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73 Thruway Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75

Retirement Community

Homestead Hills . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

Service

201 Media. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95 Busy as a Bee Concierge . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35 Hauser Rental . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 109 Lin Taylor Marketing Group. . . . . . . . . . . . . 105

Nu expression . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107 Perfect Pair Events . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123 Triad Mac. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 109

Storage

Moore Self Storage. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

Summer Camp Showcase

Creative Palooza. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 Furies Sports Camp-FCDS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46 Imprints. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 Legacy Saddlebreds. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Merriwood Christian Camp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 Salem Gymnastics . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49 SciCamp. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49 St John’s. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 Studio Create . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 Summer Adventures at Reynolda . . . . . . . . 47 Summer Quest-FCDS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47 TRU Taekwondo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46 Twin City Stage. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 Venture Club Calvary Baptist . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 WinShape Camps . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 YMCA Camp Hanes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49 YMCA . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46

Technology

Nu expression . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107 Triad Mac. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 109

Upcoming Events

Cause for Paws – Humane Society of Davie. . . . . . . . . . . . . 101 Earth Day Fair . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131 Empty Bowls – Second Harvest Food Bank . . . . . . . . . . . 111 NC Wine Festival. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 Peter Pan – Ballet and Performing Arts Centre . . . . . . 67 Race for the Cure . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 115 RiverRun International Film Festival . . . . . 115 Spring 2016 Parade of Homes . . . . . . . . . . . 23 The Wizard of Oz – Twin City Stage . . . . . . 113 Triad Dog Games . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119 Winston-Salem Youth Chorus. . . . . . . . . . . . 67 WS Dash . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121

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