Imprints Cares: Nurturing Children, Strengthening Families, Building Community
LOCATIONS
One Health Family Medicine Clemmons I 2265 Lewisville Clemmons Rd. Clemmons, NC 27012 336-716-8575
One Health Family Medicine Clemmons II 2311 Lewisville Clemmons Rd. 3rd floor Clemmons, NC 27012 336-713-8900
One Health Family Medicine/RheumatologyJonestown 312 Jonestown Rd. Winson Salem, NC 27104 336-716-7576
One Health Family Medicine/Urgent CareMocksville 1188 Yadkinville Rd. Mocksville, NC 27028 336-716-7435
One Health Pediatrics - Brookview Hills 3333 Brookview Hills Blvd Suite 201 Winston-Salem, NC 27103 336-713-8660
One Health Pediatrics - King 132 S. Main Street King, NC 27021 336-983-2531
One Health Family Medicine/Pediatrics/Urgent CareRural Hall 1038 Bethania-Rural Hall Rd. Rural Hall, NC 27045 336-716-9270
COVER STORY Imprints Cares
Woodard & Company: A Team Approach to Giving Back
Twin City Kiwanis Club: Serving Children with Consistency
Six NC Children’s Museums to Visit in 2026
Charlie Schuler: Grateful, Grounded and Still Moving at 92!
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Forsyth County Library Spotlights: Reynolda Manor Branch
For the Love of BBQ
Nurturing New Norms: Embracing Failure as a Family Value
It’s a Grand Life
The Artist’s Corner Calendar of Events
The View from My Section - A Father’s Perspective
Happy February! If January felt extra long this year, you’re not alone... which is why February always feels like a breath of fresh air and I’m so happy to be welcoming you into our February issue.
This month’s cover feature spotlights Imprints Cares, a nonprofit that holds a very special place in our hearts. Their work supporting children and families in our community is truly inspiring, and we’re honored to help share their story and impact with our readers.
You’ll also find a very special article featuring my Pop Pop Charlie, who turns 92 this month. I’m in awe of his lifelong commitment to staying active, and I truly believe that movement has played a huge role in his health and longevity. It’s a reminder that caring for our bodies (at every age) really matters.
Looking ahead, our 5th Annual Women on the Move Conference is happening next month on Thursday, March 19, at Legacy Stables and Events. While it’s a womenfocused event, it’s one I love sharing with our Forsyth Family audience as well because when women feel supported and balanced, entire families benefit. Our theme this year is TRAILBLAZE: The Path to Balance and Brilliance, and it’s shaping up to be an unforgettable day. Scan the QR code to learn more and purchase your ticket!
I’m also excited for our Galentine’s Girls’ Night Out on February 11 at Robert Hall! A fun night out with your best gals, great music, signature cocktails and mocktails and plenty of celebration. Grab your tickets by scanning the QR code on this page!
As you plan ahead, be sure to watch for our Summer Camp Section launching in our March–May issues. We’ve been running this section for several years, and it’s one of our readers’ favorite planning tools for organizing their kids’ summers all in one place.
And don’t forget about the Forsyth Magazines Podcast! You can listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major streaming platforms, or watch full episodes on YouTube at YouTube. com/@forsythmagazines.
Firmly established in their role as a trusted source in the field of asset management, Woodard & Company has built its reputation around the highest standard of ethics and total dedication to every client. As partners with individuals, families of all sizes and growing local businesses, offering peace of mind is an everyday priority for the Woodard & Company team.
“Maintaining a strong level of trust with our clients is something that’s never taken for granted here,” shares Investment Advisor John Woodard III.
That steadfast sense of loyalty – with much enthusiasm – extends into the entire community.
“It’s an immensely important part of our mission as a company and a true personal blessing to have the opportunity to give back so widely within the communities we live and work in,” he adds.
President John Woodard Jr. founded the company in 1985, with early roots and bustling locations all around Forsyth County. In 2006, Woodard & Company built its own beautiful office space at Bermuda Run in Davie County.
“We love being able to contribute and nurture both of these communities since we’ve been a strong part of both,” John III shares.
Along with many local church groups and youth athletic teams throughout both Forsyth and Davie Counties, Woodard & Company has partnered with several large organizations that offer a wide reach of services.
“We believe that, ‘To whom much is given, much is expected,’ and we love supporting causes we feel strongly about,” says John III.
Assisting clients in planning their own charitable giving is also part of the Woodard & Company mission – a service that benefits both clients and their neighbors in the community.
“Charitable giving offers important tax advantages to our clients – plus, they can donate straight from a retirement account to a particular organization using a Qualified Charitable Distribution (QCD). It’s a wise and tax-efficient strategy,” he explains.
Around the Forsyth County and Davie County communities, the company has longtime ties with The Davie Community Foundation, where CFO Joan Woodard has served as a board member. The Woodard team has been a sponsor for the foundation’s Sounds of Summer, a popular fundraising initiative that supports a variety of community projects in Davie County.
The Salvation Army of Greater Winston-Salem has been another recipient of the company’s efforts to give back, including participation in their Hands and Hearts fundraisers and, of course, their traditional bell ringing during the holidays.
Woodard & Company has also been actively involved with Cheers for Brenner Children’s Hospital – an annual evening of dining and dancing, capped off with an amazing auction. In 2025, John III joined his parents John Jr. and Joan, in serving as co-chairs of this exciting event.
Their much-respected mantra, “Always Buy Quality and Diversify,” has served Woodard & Company well for the past four decades. With assets of more than $1 billion in management, the company’s success is largely based on making thorough, informed decisions that start with establishing a client’s investment objectives. Next comes the process of determining portfolio options that best fit the client’s individual needs and goals.
That’s where mutual trust and respect come in – as the Woodard & Company Asset Management Group strives to offer their very best to every client – and to the communities where they thrive!
Woodard & Company is conveniently located across from Bermuda Run Country Club at 117 Kinderton Boulevard in the Kinderton Business Park, Bermuda Run, NC, 336.998.7000. Their office is open Monday through Friday 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Learn more about their services and continuing dedication to clients at WCAMG.com, or email woodard@wcamg.com to request a financial consultation.
Women on the Move Conference 2026 A Day That Pours Back Into You
3.19.2026
photos by JODIE BRIM CREATIVE
Between school drop-offs, work deadlines, practices, and the invisible mental load that comes with managing it all, moms are often the last ones on their own priority list. That’s exactly why the Women on the Move Conference 2026 exists—and why this milestone year is shaping up to be the best one yet.
Now celebrating its 5th year on March 19th 2026, Women on the Move has become a can’t-miss, all-day experience designed to help women step away from the daily grind and reconnect with themselves, their goals, and a supportive community of women who truly understand this season of life.
This year’s theme, Trailblaze: The Path to Balance and Brilliance, meets women exactly where they are. Through inspiring talks and real-world conversations, speakers will tackle topics every mom is navigating—boundaries, balance, productivity, leadership and career growth, personal development, and more. The day also features two powerful panels—one focused on business and career, the other on wellness—with opportunities for live audience Q&A, making the experience both interactive and deeply relatable.
Set against the stunning backdrop of Legacy Stables and Events, the conference offers a peaceful yet energizing setting that feels like a true escape without leaving town. From the moment you arrive, thoughtful details and an uplifting atmosphere make it easy to relax, focus, and fully enjoy the day.
Another standout element? The conference’s curated selection of intentional vendors. Rather than an overwhelming lineup, Women on the Move features a small group of service-based businesses chosen specifically to support women and families— resources that simplify life, enhance well-being, and continue to add value long after the event ends.
Leading the day is beloved local emcee Kristin Johnson, whose warmth, humor, and authenticity create a welcoming environment where every woman feels seen and encouraged.
A $90 ticket includes full-day access, lunch, snacks, and a mocktail or cocktail during the closing cocktail hour, plus the priceless benefit of meaningful connection. Whether you attend with friends or come solo, you’ll leave recharged, inspired, and reminded that investing in yourself benefits everyone around you. Ticket link: https://womc2026.eventbrite.com/
This is one day you’ll be glad you said yes to.
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Forsyth County Library Spotlights:
Reynolda Manor Branch Library – A Historic Northside Theater Reimagined as a Community Library
by SUZY FIELDERS
On the north side of Winston-Salem sits Forsyth County’s largest branch in the system. Plus, it is arguably the most unique and historic library branch in our county. After all, how many libraries are in old movie theaters?
This is the library to visit if you are looking for somewhere new to go. It’s filled with history, charm and, of course, a whole lot of books!
FROM SILVER SCREEN TO STORY STACKS
The 1960s proved to be a great time for development in the north side of Winston-Salem. The original Reynolda Manor Branch Library opened in 1964, and Reynolda Cinema opened in 1968. Both prospered into the 1990s.
However, down the road in December 1993, Carmike Classic 10 opened and cut into the smaller theater’s client base. Ultimately, this led to Reynolda Cinemas closure in the mid-1990s. In contrast, the Reynolda Manor Branch Library grew steadily and needed a new, larger home. That led to it relocating to the old cinema building in 1998.
Today, the library honors cinematic history with book posters personating movie opening posters outside and inside. The exterior still looks like a fun little cinema and provides an exciting feel as soon as you step up.
LEARNING FOR ALL AGES UNDER ONE ROOF
As soon as you walk in, you’ll notice the entire left side of the library is dedicated to youth. There are computers, tables for coloring, reading and studying, and rows and rows of books for toddlers to teens (and everything in between).
On the right side, you’ll find fiction, non-fiction and resource books. There are also plenty of DVDs available for rent. You can even grab a table for group study sessions or to spread out and work.
A COMMUNITY RESOURCE BEYOND BOOKS
One great benefit to this community at this library is a huge auditorium that fits almost 200 people. It has a small stage at the front with a large projection screen for those with AV needs. There is even a ramp up to the stage making it handicap accessible.
Additionally, the library offers a smaller, yet still roomy, conference room that has a capacity of 45 people. No matter what your group’s size, this library is a lesser known, great location for meetings, workshops and conferences.
LEARN MORE OR VISIT THE REYNOLDA MANOR BRANCH LIBRARY
Location: 2839 Fairlawn Drive NW, Winston-Salem
Hours: Monday - Thursday 9 am – 8 pm, Friday 9 am – 6 pm, Saturday 10 am – 5 pm, Closed Sunday
Parking: Ample free parking
Website: forsyth.cc/library/reynolda
Instagram: @fcpubliclibrary
INNOVATIVE CHILDCARE FACILITY
at Brookridge Retirement Community brings together quality early education, intergenerational connection, and workforce support
photos by JODIE BRIM CREATIVE
WINSTON-SALEM, NC – On March 2, 2026, Imprints Cares will open the doors to the Center for Thriving Children, a state-of-the-art childcare facility.
COMING FULL CIRCLE
When Imprints Cares was founded in 1969, it began as a childcare provider serving Winston-Salem families. Over the decades, the organization expanded its reach to include home visiting programs, parent education, and comprehensive family support services. Now, with the launch of the Center for Thriving Children at Brookridge, a ThriveMore community, Imprints Cares returns to its roots—but with a more holistic vision than ever before.
In 2024, ThriveMore approached Imprints Cares with the opportunity to create a center on land adjacent to its senior living community in WinstonSalem, Brookridge. ThriveMore saw the need for quality childcare for team members, as well as the opportunity for intergenerational connection. It was the perfect partnership.
"Our community is ever-changing, and with that, the need for high-quality childcare is higher than ever," explains Betty West, Director of Expanded Learning at Imprints Cares. "Working families need a place for their young children to thrive, to grow and learn. Imprints Cares' mission is to strengthen families and community—we can do that through the Center for Thriving Children."
This return to early childhood education doesn't represent a step backward, but rather a completion of the circle. The organization's decades of experience in family support services, evidence-based home visiting programs like Parents as Teachers, and deep community relationships now inform and enhance their approach to early care and education.
Under the leadership of Executive Director Scott Mollenkopf, who joined the organization in September 2025, Imprints Cares is entering an exciting new phase. Mollenkopf brings fresh vision to the organization while honoring its rich history and focusing on the organization's strategic future.
"Returning to Imprints' roots all these years later pays homage to our history while serving the families and our community who have come to trust the Imprints’ name," Mollenkopf reflects. "This new chapter furthers our mission of nurturing children for lifelong success."
ADDRESSING AN URGENT NEED
The timing couldn't be more critical. Forsyth County, like communities across North Carolina, faces a severe childcare crisis. Parents struggle to find affordable, quality care. Waiting lists stretch for months. Families make impossible choices between careers and caring for their children.
The Center for Thriving Children offers a solution that's both immediate and innovative.ThriveMore's President and CEO Reed VanderSlik saw the underutilized property next to Brookridge as a way to provide high-quality childcare for his own organization as well as the wider community.
The Center occupies a strategic position in the community. "Our location is central to both hospitals, our local colleges, and the downtown area where many of our businesses are located," West notes. This accessibility means working parents can drop off their children without adding significant commute time to already busy schedules.
BEYOND TRADITIONAL DAYCARE
Walk into the Center for Thriving Children, and you'll find a model that recognizes children don't exist in isolation but as part of family systems that need support. Parents won't just drop off their children; they'll connect with an organization that offers Parents as Teachers home visiting, developmental screenings, parent education workshops, and linkages to community resources. If a family needs support beyond childcare, Imprints Cares can help.
"Our model is very innovative with three strong components," West explains. "First, offering highquality childcare services. Second, partnership with a local business to support their staff with childcare. Third, building a unique volunteer program where our littles are actively involved with the elder community at Brookridge to provide interactive activities for both."
ECONOMIC ENGINE FOR GROWTH
Childcare isn't just a family issue—it's an economic imperative. Businesses struggle to attract and retain talented employees when working parents can't find reliable, quality care for their children. Absenteeism soars when childcare arrangements fall through. Productivity suffers when employees are distracted by childcare concerns.
"This community will thrive economically if our businesses emphasize and support the importance of a shared responsibility with their employees and childcare," West emphasizes. "Less absenteeism, more productivity in the workplace, an attractive pool of people to hire— this model could transform our local economy."
THE GOLD STANDARD: FIVE-STAR QUALITY
The Center for Thriving Children will operate at North Carolina's highest quality rating—fivestar licensing. But what does that actually mean
“We want all of our team members to have access to high-quality, on-site childcare at a reduced rate,” Reed said. “It’s a benefit that helps support and retain the dedicated people who make Brookridge extraordinary. This partnership with Imprints Cares truly enriches the entire community.”
- Reed VanderSlik, President and CEO of ThriveMore
for families? West describes the commitment: "All standards and education are at the highest level for our staff, enhanced staff-to-child ratios, approved curriculum by the state."
Five-star licensing represents a comprehensive commitment to excellence. Teachers hold degrees in early childhood education, and the researchbased and developmentally appropriate curriculum supports not just academic readiness but socialemotional growth, physical development, and creative expression. ThriveMore also created a new building to house the center that features ageappropriate learning spaces and outdoor play areas designed to promote exploration and discovery, with safety features will exceed regulatory requirements.
But perhaps most importantly, five-star quality means valuing the educators. "All childcare staff need to be valued and appreciated for their work," West states firmly. "Imprints, offers a competitive salary with benefits for our full-time staff. We believe that taking care of our community, our staff, and our children is our most important work."
WHERE GENERATIONS CONNECT
The most distinctive feature of the Center for Thriving Children is its location at Brookridge and partnership with ThriveMore. This isn't just about convenience—
it's about creating a community where young and old learn from and nurture one another.
Picture a preschooler planting seeds in a garden alongside Brookridge residents who've been gardening for decades. Imagine story time where elders share tales from their own childhoods. Envision holiday celebrations, art projects, and music activities that bring together people at opposite ends of life's journey.
West's enthusiasm for this aspect is palpable: "What I have found to be so refreshing is ThriveMore loves its elders in the same way Imprints Cares loves its children. We both have a unique sense of developmental practices that mesh beautifully together with both ages."
Research consistently shows the benefits of intergenerational programs. Children develop empathy, patience, and respect for elders. They benefit from the wisdom, stories, and unhurried presence of older adults. Meanwhile, seniors report increased sense of purpose, decreased isolation, and improved mental health when they engage meaningfully with young children.
A LEGACY FOR TOMORROW
On March 2, 2026, the first families will walk through the doors of the Center for Thriving
Children—finding not just childcare, but a community committed to nurturing the whole family and building connections that strengthen everyone involved.
For enrollment information, contact Betty West, Director of Expanded Learning, at 336-817-6373 or bwest@ imprintscares.org. Learn more at www.centerforthrivingchildren.com.
ABOUT IMPRINTS CARES
Founded in 1969, Imprints Cares strengthens children, families, and community throughout Forsyth County through evidence-based programs including Parents as Teachers, Pediatric Parenting Connections, expanded learning opportunities, and now, the Center for Thriving Children. For media inquiries contact: Carrie Pasquale, Director of External Relations, 336.722.6296.
ABOUT THRIVEMORE
ThriveMore, formerly Baptist Retirement Homes of North Carolina, is one of the most respected providers of residential and healthcare living options for older adults. Since 1951, our faith-based, not-forprofit organization has been committed to
providing quality care and a meaningful way of life at each of our campuses in North Carolina. To learn more at www.thrivemorenc.org.
For media inquiries contact: Julianna Jones, Director of Communications, 336.748.6457.
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Pan-cakes! Pan-cakes! Pan-cakes! Each year, for the past six decades, the word “pancakes” has reverberated in song as the Twin City Kiwanis Club (TCK) has hosted its annual Pancake Jamboree at the Benton Convention Center in downtown Winston-Salem.
Now known as “Pan Jam,” the event serves pancakes throughout the day, and this year, it will be held on Friday, March 13, 2026. Pancakes are served all day from 6:30 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. in the evening. More than 10,000 pancakes will be served raising more than $50,000 which is distributed to local charities serving the children of Forsyth County.
Over the past five years, TCK has given more than $200,000 to local charities, and over the past 10 years, more than $400,000 has benefited organizations that support our youth. In 2024-2025, TCK supported 30 different organizations. Just a few are listed below. Truly, “Kiwanis is for Kids.”
• Crosby Scholars
• Crossnore Community for Children
• Forsyth Jail & Prison Ministry
• Hall Woodward School
• Kiwanis International Children’s Fund
• LEAD Girls
• Salvation Army (multiple programs)
• Scouting America (Old Hickory Council)
• Second Harvest Food Bank
• Smart Start
• Western Helene Relief Fund
• Winston-Salem Street School
While the TCK has a rich tradition as one of the oldest community service clubs in Forsyth County, its foundation is found in its consistency because of strong membership and forward thinking. One of the ways it has been innovative in recent years is through its extended group of Kiwanians who are engaged in the club’s Satellite “Next Gen” group.
The Twin City Kiwanis (TCK) Satellite “Next Gen” group is simply a different way to participate outside of the main club’s weekly lunch event held at Centenary United Methodist Church each Wednesday at noon. TCK Satellite “Next Gen” members meet once a month (typically on the 2nd Thursday) for breakfast and are focused on building business relationships through networking and actual site visits to local business locations. It’s a great way to serve the community and children, while being a full-fledged member of Kiwanis.
While the Satellite “Next Gen” group is a growing segment of the club, the main group of Kiwanians who meet each week has seen tremendous consistency in its membership as well. Overall, the club has maintained on average around 75 members and is well above the average of all Kiwanis Clubs worldwide. The club is looking to achieve its third consecutive “Distinguished Club” Award in 2026 and ranks in the top 10% category of all large clubs globally.
Chartered by Kiwanis International in 1956 as the 2nd Kiwanis Club in Winston-Salem, TCK has persevered through a changing culture of civic organizations nationally and internationally. For the past 15 years, most civic organizations have seen a decline in membership. Again, TCK’s strong membership and ability to adapt to a changing corporate and social environment has been its strong suit.
With focus on establishing its signature fundraising event called Pan Jam as well as volunteering for the Salvation Army Bell ringing at Christmas time, TCK is well positioned for future sustainability. By offering its members the opportunity to gather weekly throughout the year to socialize and hear incredible community speakers, TCK offers value through relationships, community service and consistency. Now, with the establishment of its developing Satellite “Next Gen” group, the Twin City Kiwanis Club is well positioned for even stronger growth.
Would you like to visit and learn more about what being a Kiwanian means? The Twin City Kiwanis Club invites you to lunch most Wednesdays at Centenary United Methodist Church from noon to 1:00 p.m. Visit our website at TwinCityKiwanisClub.org.
ALSO, DON’T MISS PANJAM 2026!
Friday, March 13, 2026 at the Benton Convention Center 6:30 a.m. to 8:00 p.m.
Tickets are $10 for adults and $5 for children (12 & under). All you can eat pancakes and sausage! Drink included! Hope to see you there!
For the LOVE of
Smoked Buffalo Chicken Dip
Prep Time: 15 minutes | Cook Time: 3-4 hours
Yields: 15-30 Servings
Ingredients:
3-4 pound whole young chicken
3 T Fire and Smoke Society Chica Licka Bam Bam
1 block softened cream cheese
½ to ¾ cup buffalo sauce
½ cup ranch
½ green onion (garnish)
Prepare your smoker by setting the temperature to 250 degrees. Season your whole chicken with Fire and Smoke Society Chica Licka Bam Bam. Put it on the smoker until it reaches an internal temperature of 165 degrees.
Pull your chicken off and let it rest for 10 minutes. While your chicken is resting, combine one package of softened cream cheese, a half cup of your favorite buffalo sauce (use ¾ cup if you want to make it extra spicy) and a half cup of ranch.
Shred your chicken and add two cups to the above ingredients. Place in a large cast iron and put back on the smoker for 15 minutes. Drizzle ranch and buffalo sauce on top once finished, and add freshly chopped green onion for garnish.
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Instagram handle @Winstonsalem_nc_bbq
Serve with tortilla chips, pita bread, crackers or your favorite veggies.
*This can also be done in an oven on 350 degrees.
Smoke chicken until an internal temperature of 165 degrees. Let it rest for 10 minutes before shredding. Combine all ingredients in a large cast iron pan and place back in the oven for 15 minutes. Drizzle with ranch and buffalo sauce. Chop your green onion and garnish. Serve at your next gathering for an easy appetizer your guests will love.
This December, RISE Indoor Sports was filled with laughter, movement, and holiday cheer as more than 100 elementaryaged students gathered for Reindeer Games—an event that marked the first major initiative of RISE Collective, the nonprofit arm of RISE Indoor Sports, focused on creating programs and partnerships that inspire youth, families, and community wellbeing beyond the playing field. Designed to serve and support youth during their time off from school, Reindeer Games brought together students, volunteers, and RISE staff for two unforgettable days of fun, connection, and care.
In partnership with Davie County Schools, RISE Collective welcomed K–5 students from across the county. The collaboration
REINDEER GAMES Marks First Major Initiative
of RISE Collective
Bringing Holiday Joy to Local Students
ensured students from multiple schools could participate, reinforcing the event’s mission to be inclusive, supportive, and community centered.
Over the span of two days, Reindeer Games transformed the facility into a festive winter environment complete with games, crafts, music, and seasonal decorations. Students rotated through a variety of activity stations designed to encourage movement, creativity, and teamwork. From energetic games and relay-style challenges to hands-on crafts and holiday-themed activities, every station emphasized fun, participation, and positive interaction.
In addition to the activities, students were treated to thoughtful extras that made the event feel truly special. Each child received gifts to take home, enjoyed snacks throughout the day, and was served two full meals per day—an important component that underscored RISE Collective’s commitment to meeting both physical and practical needs. A special visit from Santa Claus brought added excitement, smiles, and memorable moments that many children will carry with them well beyond the holiday season.
A key ingredient in the success of Reindeer Games was the overwhelming support from volunteers. More than 110 local high school and college students, along with a handful of RISE’s own Silver Sneakers members, donated over 500 volunteer hours across the two-day event. Because of our partnership with Davie
County High School Athletics, many of these volunteers were student-athletes who brought energy, leadership, and encouragement to every activity station. Their role went far beyond supervision; they actively engaged with the children, cheered them on, and helped create a welcoming, inclusive environment.
For the volunteers, Reindeer Games was an opportunity to give back in a meaningful way while gaining hands-on experience in leadership and service.
“I loved getting to volunteer at the RISE Reindeer Games!” said one of the student volunteers. “It was a great and rewarding volunteer experience, where I got to see kids have so much fun and have fun myself!
I loved how I was able to form connections and bond with the kids in such little time!”
For the younger participants, it was a chance to interact with positive role models who took the time to connect, support, and celebrate them throughout the day.
A parent shared, “My shy son doesn’t typically like camps, but I was desperate for childcare. To my surprise, when I picked him up at the end of the first day and asked if he would like to go back for the second day, there was no hesitation. He loved his group leaders and had the absolute best time.”
Parents, school partners, and staff alike noted the intentional structure of the event. The organization and care behind each detail reflected RISE Collective’s broader vision of creating impactful programs that support youth development beyond the playing field.
As its inaugural large-scale initiative, Reindeer Games set a strong foundation for what RISE Collective
aims to accomplish moving forward. The event demonstrated how partnerships, volunteers, and shared purpose can come together to create experiences that uplift children and strengthen community ties.
As the final games wrapped up and students headed home with gifts in hand, the message was clear: Reindeer Games was about far more than holiday fun. It was about generosity, service, and creating joyful moments that remind children they are valued. With its successful debut, Reindeer Games stands as a powerful example of how community-driven initiatives can make a lasting impact—one child, one smile, and one shared experience at a time. To learn more about similar planned events and RISE Collective, visit www.RISEIndoorSports.com/ RISECollective.
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Indoor Adventures That Keep Curious Kids Moving All Winter
by SUZY FIELDERS
The holidays are long gone, but the cold weather isn’t.
Who else’s kids have moved well beyond cabin fever? One great way to keep them active and learning is checking out some of the awesome children’s museums we have in North Carolina. They are the perfect indoor winter outing!
Below are six options that are either right here in the Triad or potential day or weekend trip destination ideas. Some even make great train trip ideas! Tip: Marbles Kids Museum is a very doable walk from Raleigh Union Station.
Get ready to combine learning and fun – all within warm spaces!
CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF ALAMANCE COUNTY
Located just south of Burlington, all the hands-on exhibits in Children’s Museum of Alamance County promote learning a vast array of knowledge. From learning about DNA and teeth in the Health Center to discovering what past life was like in the Then & Now exhibit, the building is filled to the brim with things to explore. If you venture outside, you’ll find the My Own Backyard exhibit with a mini-Haw River, Unity Dome Climber and more outdoor open-ended play experiences.
Location: 217 South Main Street, Graham Website: childrensmuseumofalamance.org
KALEIDEUM
In 2017, Kaleideum was born after merging two of WinstonSalem’s amazing museums, the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem and SciWorks. Today, it’s located in the heart of downtown and fosters learning and innovations in all ages. Visitors can learn about all three stages of water in Wonders of Water or see outer space in a whole new way in the Digital Dome. Rooftop Adventure is a two-story playground experience.
Location: 120 West 3rd Street, Winston-Salem Website: kaleideum.org
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HANDS ON! CHILDREN’S MUSEUM
A quaint children’s museum in downtown Hendersonville, Hands On! Children’s Museum provides hands-on exhibits that cover a range of topics. Guests can play in a walk-in firetruck exhibit, dig for fossils, escape danger playing the Floor is Lava or have a full shopping experience in the Publix replica shopping exhibit. Every exhibit brings learning to life in a fun, interactive manner for all ages.
Location: 318 North Main Street, Hendersonville Website: handsonwnc.org
MARBLES KIDS MUSEUM
Found in downtown Raleigh, Marbles Kids Museum is a space filled with cool exhibits that allow you to immerse yourself and your kids into a true learning experience. From little babies working on motor skills at Peek-a-boo Bay to pretending to be a meteorologist in Around Town and even shooting hoops at Center Court, guests can expand their minds while staying active. Splash, located on the first floor, brings water fun to new levels – there’s even a sub and pirate ship!
Location: 201 East Hargett Street, Raleigh Website: marbleskidsmuseum.org
MIRIAM
P. BRENNER CHILDREN’S MUSEUM
The Our Town exhibit combines role play and make believe to allow children to remember anything is possible and to always go after their dreams. Construction Zone showcases everything that goes into building and even allows kids to wear hard hats and construction vests. This museum is known for its Outdoor Play Plaza that features two amazing climbing structures connected by a net tunnel.
Location: 220 North Church Street, Greensboro Website: mbcmuseum.com
NIDO & MARIANA QUBEIN CHILDREN’S MUSEUM
Conveniently located in High Point near all the up-andcoming spots, the Nido & Mariana Qubein Children’s Museum is filled with tons of hands-on exhibits. From the solar system suspended in the air when you walk in to STEAM Lab on the second floor, there is learning and fun for all ages. You won’t want to miss their Outdoor Adventure Zone which includes a fossil dig, a trike track and the Double Decker Carousel.
Location: 200 Qubein Avenue, High Point Website: qubeinchildrensmuseum.org
Beyond Date Night:
10 Ways Winston-Salem Families Can Show Love This February
When February rolls around, love often gets boxed into one night, one card, or one heart-shaped box of chocolates. But for families, love shows up best in the everyday moments…the ones that don’t make it into a highlight reel. This month, instead of focusing on a single celebration, consider spreading love in ways that feel meaningful, age-appropriate, and realistic for busy households.
Here are 10 simple, family-friendly ways to show love this February—no reservations required.
SPEAK THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE
Kids feel love differently. Some crave quality time, others thrive on words of affirmation or acts of service. Pay attention this month and intentionally show love in the way they receive it best.
CREATE A “LOVE NOTES” TRADITION
Leave a sticky note in a lunchbox, on a bathroom mirror, or by the front door. A simple “I’m proud of you” or “Good luck today” can have a big impact.
SERVE TOGETHER
Love grows when families give back together. Whether it’s donating gently used clothes, making cards for a local nursing home, or helping a neighbor, shared service builds empathy and connection.
HAVE A YES DAY (WITH BOUNDARIES!)
Pick one afternoon or weekend day where kids help plan the agenda within reasonable limits. Feeling heard and included is a powerful expression of love.
MAKE ONE-ON-ONE TIME NON-NEGOTIABLE
Even 10–15 minutes of uninterrupted time—no phones, no multitasking— can fill a child’s emotional cup more than an expensive outing.
SAY “I LOVE WATCHING YOU…”
Instead of a generic compliment, try noticing effort: “I love watching you practice,” or “I love how you helped your sister.” Specific praise sticks.
COOK (OR BAKE) SOMETHING TOGETHER
It doesn’t have to be fancy. Let kids help stir, measure, or decorate. Shared rituals—even messy ones—create lasting memories.
NORMALIZE APOLOGIES
Love also looks like accountability. When parents apologize, kids learn humility, repair, and emotional safety.
MOVE TOGETHER
Go for a family walk, dance in the living room, or toss a ball in the yard. Movement boosts mood and connection for everyone.
END THE DAY WITH GRATITUDE
At bedtime, ask one simple question: “What was your favorite part of today?” Reflection helps kids feel seen, and helps parents slow down, too. February doesn’t need to be bigger, louder, or sweeter to be meaningful. Often, love shows up quietly in consistency, attention, and shared moments. When families focus on connection over perfection, that’s when love lasts far beyond Valentine’s Day.
Triad Area Events in February
February offers a variety of interesting and exciting events for families to experience in and around the Triad. Here are some of the top offerings:
J’Nai Bridges, Mezzo Soprano
Secrest Artists Series, Brendle Recital Hall, Wake Forest University
Feb. 5, 7:30 p.m.
Tickets $25
J’Nai Bridges is a two-time Grammy Award-winning American mezzo-soprano. Bridges will perform an allFrench program featuring works by composers such as Ravel, Bizet, Chausson and Debussy.
The Electric Light Orchestra Experience
Steven Tanger Center, Greensboro
Feb. 12, 7:30 p.m.
Tickets start at $47
The Electric Light Orchestra Experience is a multimedia concert celebration of the music of Jeff Lynne’s ELO. The concert features EVIL WOMAN, a 12-piece band complete with violins, viola and cello co-existing with electric guitars. Classic Rock intersects with Pop – just as Jeff Lynne intended.
A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum Theatre Alliance, Jamie Lawson Auditorium at the Ihrie Theatre, Winston-Salem
Feb. 13-15 and Feb. 20-22
Tickets $25
In one of the greatest musical comedies of all time, three households reside next to each other in ancient Rome. Just outside their doors the exploits of a Roman slave, a soldier, a courtesan and a lovesick young man devolve into uproarious chaos.
Be Mine: A Valentine’s Playlist
Winston-Salem Symphony, Reynolds Auditorium
Feb. 14, 5 p.m.
Tickets start at $10
This program will feature cherished favorites for classical music lovers. The early-evening concert will be the perfect start to a romantic night on the town. The repertoire will include Gershwin, “Crazy for You Overture,” Bernstein, selections from “West Side Story” and others.
Mark Twain Tonight! with Richard Thomas
Steven Tanger Center, Greensboro
Feb. 19, 7:30 p.m.
Tickets start at $53
Richard Thomas, an Emmy-Award winning actor, brings to life Mark Twain, America’s greatest humorist. Originally written and performed by Hal Holbrook, Thomas is the first and only actor authorized to perform since the original.
Presley Barker
Reeves Theater, Elkin
Feb. 21, 8 p.m.
Tickets start at $25
Presley Barker is from Wilkes County, located close to one of his heroes: Doc Watson. He has opened for and shared the stage with Clint Black, Billy Strings and Ricky Skaggs.
Winter Dance
UNCSA, Winston-Salem, Freedman Theatre
Feb. 26-March 1, Various times
Tickets $25
Experience a dazzling display of classic and contemporary works, featuring a program led by some of today’s most vibrant choreographers.
Charlotte’s Web
Yadkin Cultural Arts Center
Feb. 28-March 1, two times
Tickets $18
“Charlotte’s Web,” based on the classic book by E.B. White, is a beautiful play about friendship featuring madcap and endearing farm animals.
NURTURING NEW NORMS:
by TARYN JEREZ
Each month, this series introduces fun and impactful healthy habits to help families with kids and teens prioritize physical, mental and spiritual well being – fostering a lifestyle of shared growth and lifelong wellness. Healthy habits built together are the ones that last a lifetime.
How many times have you failed at something only to feel shame or guilt take over? Somewhere along the way in your childhood, you were made to feel like success was the best or only option. The truth is, failing is a skill, and some of the most successful people in history understood that. We often shield our kids from mistakes, avoid getting hurt or help them avoid disappointment, when letting them find growth in their failures is the best gift we can give!
It doesn’t matter if you’re five or 50, learning how to move past failure is a skill that makes all the difference in how we move through life. Imagine asking yourself, “what could I learn?” instead of "what if I fail?” This line of thinking opens a person up to explore new interests, volunteer for new opportunities, use their voice and push themselves out of their comfort zone. Teaching the kids in your life that failure is always on the table and that’s more than okay gives them the understanding that progress looks messy usually before it looks successful.
The world needs less perfectionists and more risk takers willing to try!
SIMPLE WAYS TO GET STARTED
Here are three ideas on how to teach failure as a family value while still holding up success and growth as another:
1
Embracing Failure
AS A FAMILY VALUE
TALK ABOUT YOUR OWN FAILURES
Even when it feels uncomfortable, let your kids see you fail. Share with them when something doesn’t go as planned at work, with a friend or on a personal project. Share how it makes you feel, what you learned from it and how you’re planning to adjust or move forward. Exhibiting your own failures shows your family members how you’re handling them and can how they can learn from you.
2
CREATE LOW-PRESSURE SPACES TO FAIL
Most people – especially children and teens – aim to do their best when they put their mind to something. Allowing yourself to be bad at something takes practice, so give your kids permission to do just that! Try something new as a family where none of you are experts, like cooking a brand new recipe or trying a new sport or art project together. “When kids see that it’s safe to fail at home, they’re more willing to take risks elsewhere,” says Parents Magazine
3
DON’T LET RESULTS ORIENTED “WINS” WIN
Of course, you want to see your son’s sports team come in first place or your daughter get winning grades. It’s more than okay to want our children to win at things, but what if we shifted perspective to praise their effort, curiosity and persistence just as much? Growth is always the goal, and failure is part of growing. Adopt language that reinforces that value in your family comes from trying, learning and going out of our comfort zones.
CREATING PRACTICES THAT LAST A LIFETIME
Children who grow up learning that failure is not only an option, but feel supported in their journey along the way, develop next level confidence in life. As your family embraces failure as a family value, remind yourself that you’re not lowering expectations for one another, you’re encouraging resilience, curiosity and effort over outcome!
Your kids are going to be able to walk into adulthood with a different mindset than their peers. When the ever changing world demands adaptability from them, they won’t freeze –they’ll be able to meet it unafraid of stumbling and with the confidence to adjust and learn each step of the way.
Questions to Ask about Medications
What to Ask, Whom to Ask and How to Feel Confident About Medications
by SUZY FIELDERS
Whether you need it for yourself or your child, short term or long term medications are often complicated. One important factor with questions related to medications is you have two different contacts to ask questions, the prescribing doctor and the pharmacist. Knowing which to ask questions will save you a lot of time and frustration! That’s why part 7 of this series is questions to ask about medications and whom to ask.
WHAT TO ASK THE DOCTOR ABOUT MEDICATIONS
Taking new medications can feel daunting, especially if it’s a medical issue you’ve been dealing with for a while. All you want to do is feel better, and fast. However, asking questions prior to taking anything will ease a little bit of that unknown and prepare you for this next step. Like other medical issues, medications will also have specific questions related to your prescription, but here are some overall questions to consider asking:
• What symptoms will this medication alleviate?
• How long will I need to take it?
• If this is a chronic or ongoing issue, will I need to take it again at some point?
• If you take other medications or supplements, does this medication interact poorly with any of those?
• What if the medication doesn’t help?
• Do I need a follow-up appointment after taking the medications to check in?
WHAT TO ASK THE PHARMACIST ABOUT MEDICATIONS
It’s important to remember that the pharmacist is the person with training in all things related to medications. However, they do not know your medical background like your doctor does. They can help you with most questions related to the medication itself, but not necessarily with why you are taking the medication.
• How should I store this medication? Some medications need to be refrigerated or kept at certain temperatures.
• If you didn’t ask the doctor, you can also ask them about drug interactions with your other prescriptions.
• How much of this medication does my insurance cover? (This question is best posed to the staff at the pharmacy, not necessarily the pharmacist.)
• Is there a certain time of day I should take this medication?
• Do I need to take it with food?
• What are the side effects of this medication? Are there any warning signs for these symptoms I should look for?
Hopefully these questions – and their answers – give you more peace of mind. In the final part (8) of the series, which comes out in March, I’ll cover “Questions to Ask Your Own PCP (Primary Care Provider).” As busy moms, it’s important we take care of ourselves, too!
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Charlie Schuler
Grateful, Grounded and Still Moving at 92!
by CAROLYN SHORE-PETERSON
As Charlie Schuler approaches his 92nd birthday, he doesn’t talk about slowing down. He talks about what’s next for him. For Charlie, movement has never been a phase of life… it’s been the theme, shaping not only how he ages, but how he thinks, connects and finds joy in each day.
A LIFELONG START TO STAYING ACTIVE
Charlie’s relationship with fitness began early. “I was in my preteens and a skinny kid,” Charlie recalled. “Charles Atlas was my hero. He was built strong.” When he told his mother, she ordered him a barbell set for Christmas. With a friend, Charlie started working out and never really stopped.
“At first, it came naturally,” commented Charlie. “Then I got married and had a daughter and a son. I did everything with my son, from baseball to football and wrestling.” Moving became family time, and activity became woven into everyday life.
VARIETY OVER PERFECTION
From gymnastics and parallel bars to sailing, softball, bowling, golf and beyond, Charlie never limited himself to one pursuit. “I was always active. My goal was not to be the best but better than most. Too much effort to be the best,” Charlie stated.
That mindset freed him to explore. One of his most memorable and legendary habits was walking around his neighborhood on his hands. “Walking on the hands followed the barbells. When we were strong enough, it led to the handstand, which led to the parallel bars. I had a routine on the parallel bars,” recalled Charlie. As for what the neighbors thought? “As far as I know, they didn’t say anything,” Charlie said.
For Charlie, variety wasn’t about novelty, it was about possibility. “I wanted to try them all. I learned that you could do anything if you put your mind to it,” stated Charlie. And that is just what he did!
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GROWING OLD GRACEFULLY
Charlie doesn’t romanticize youth, nor does he resist change. “Grow old gracefully. There’s a time for everything,” Charlie commented. That philosophy carried him through a long career of 33 years with Bell System and a life rich in pursuits of earning a Master’s License from the US Coast Guard, golfing and bowling for more than 30 years, becoming a licensed builder in South Carolina and even writing. As Charlie’s body changed, he adjusted; not by quitting, but by adapting and choosing another activity.
LIFE AT ALMOST 92 YEARS OLD
Today, Charlie enjoys playing pool and corn hole, activities that keep him moving while strengthening his ties in the community. Having something to look forward to each day, Charlie said, is “fantastic.” It’s all a part of aging gracefully and being grateful for each day.
HEALTH, LONGEVITY AND MINDSET
Ask Charlie what he credits for his long life and good health, and his answer is immediate: “Staying active. I exercise every day, except Sunday,” Charlie stated.
Mindset, Charlie believes, is just as important as movement. Your body follows your mind; thus, if you think you are fantastic, you will be. That belief carried him through serious challenges, including a major surgery after his colon twisted closed, resulting in a three-and-a-half week hospital stay. Staying active helped him recover and kept his mind sharp as well.
FOOD, HABITS AND BALANCE
Although Charlie doesn’t follow a strict diet, he is mindful of what he eats. “My relationship with food is balanced and honest. I weigh 152 pounds and have never been over 180, but I do like my sweets,” said Charlie.
ADVICE FOR EVERY AGE
For anyone who thinks it is too late to start living an active lifestyle, Charlie shares a well known company’s philosophy, “Just do it.”
“Change your attitude. Think positive. Start easy, but start,” Charlie stated.
The word “fantastic” is more than a motto, it’s a way of life and even appears on both of Charlie’s car license plates…FANTSTC and FANTSTK.
GRATITUDE AND WHAT’S NEXT
As Charlie celebrates his 92 years, he is clear about what matters most. “My wife and family,” he said without hesitation.
And what still brings him joy each day? “Seeing what God has for me today.”
At an age when many talk about winding down, Charlie Schuler is still moving forward, proof that staying active isn’t about defying age, but embracing life, one positive step, or handstand, at a time.
Mark Miriello, OD Juawana Hall, OD Seth Jones, OD
Valentine’s Day Date Night Quiz
Answer these 5 questions and we’ll tell you your perfect Valentine’s vibe— from cocktails to dessert.
1. YOUR IDEAL VALENTINE’S ENERGY IS…
A. Cozy, candles, no crowds
B. Relaxed, easy, still cute
C. Dress up, make a night of it
D. Spontaneous—we’ll figure it out
2. PRE-DINNER DRINKS LOOK LIKE…
A. A bottle of wine or craft cocktails at home
B. Margaritas, local brews, or a neighborhood bar
C. A downtown cocktail lounge or wine bar
D. Mocktails, coffee, or straight to dessert
3. WHAT ARE YOU WEARING?
A. Sweater, comfy pants, fuzzy socks
B. Jeans, boots, effortless cute
C. A real outfit—heels or a jacket involved
D. Whatever was clean
Your Results
MOSTLY A’S: THE ROMANTIC NIGHT IN
Intimate, cozy, and low-key perfect
• Drinks: Wine or cocktails at home
• Dinner: Takeout or a home-cooked favorite
4. DINNER EXPECTATIONS?
A. Home-cooked or takeout—zero stress
B. A solid, dependable favorite close to home
C. Reservations made weeks ago
D. Apps, bites, or something totally unplanned
5. DESSERT IS…
A. Chocolate + Netflix at home
B. A shared dessert or milkshake stop
C. A plated dessert, espresso martinis encouraged
D. Drive-thru, bakery stop, or “dessert tomorrow”
• Dessert: Chocolate, cheesecake, or something homemade
Perfect if you want connection over crowds.
MOSTLY B’S: CASUAL & CUTE
Effortless and fun
• Drinks: Local bar or neighborhood spot
• Dinner: Casual restaurant in the suburbs
• Dessert: Split something sweet or grab ice cream
No pressure, just good vibes.
MOSTLY C’S: FANCY DATE NIGHT ENERGY
Go big—it’s Valentine’s Day
• Drinks: Downtown cocktail or wine bar
• Dinner: A reservation-only, dress-up restaurant
• Dessert: Don’t skip it—order the dessert AND the drink
Perfect for couples who love a full night out.
MOSTLY D’S: THE “LET’S WING IT” COUPLE
Unbothered and unpredictable
• Drinks: Wherever looks fun
• Dinner: Apps, tapas, or bar hopping
• Dessert: Bakery, late-night stop, or rain check
Valentine’s rules don’t apply here.
Letting Go
of the Perfect Parent Myth
Somewhere along the way, many parents absorbed the idea that doing it “right” means doing it perfectly. Perfect lunches. Perfect schedules. Perfect responses in the middle of a meltdown. And yet, most parents know the truth: perfection isn’t just unrealistic—it’s exhausting.
In a time when families juggle work, school, activities, and everything in between, the pressure to be a “perfect parent” can quietly steal joy from everyday life. This February, as love is in the air, it’s a good time to talk about something families rarely hear enough: good enough really is good enough.
The perfect parent myth tells us that we should always have patience, never raise our voices, pack balanced meals every day, limit screen time flawlessly, and somehow still have energy left over. Social media doesn’t help. We see curated snapshots of calm mornings and smiling kids, without the spilled cereal, forgotten permission slips, or tears in the carpool line
But real parenting happens in the messy middle.
Letting go of the perfect parent myth doesn’t mean lowering standards or caring less. It means understanding that parenting is a long game, built on connection, not constant correctness. Kids don’t need parents who get it right every time— they need parents who are present, responsive, and willing to repair when things go sideways.
One of the most powerful ways to release perfection is by embracing repair. When parents apologize after snapping or acknowledge a mistake, children learn something invaluable: relationships can bend without breaking. Modeling accountability teaches emotional intelligence far more effectively than never making mistakes at all.
Another step is redefining success at home. Instead of asking, “Did I do everything right today?” try asking, “Did my child feel safe, supported, and loved?” Some days that might look like a home-cooked dinner and a meaningful conversation. Other days, it might look like drive-thru and a movie on the couch— and that’s okay.
Letting go of perfection also creates space for parents to care for themselves. Burnedout parents are not bad parents; they are human parents who need rest, support, and boundaries. When kids see adults prioritize their well-being, they learn that caring for yourself is not selfish—it’s necessary.
Perhaps most importantly, releasing the need to be perfect allows families to enjoy each other more. Laughter comes easier when expectations loosen. Joy sneaks in when the pressure lifts. Parenting becomes less about performance and more about partnership.
The truth is, your kids won’t remember whether every lunch was organic or every birthday party was Pinterest-worthy. They will remember how it felt to be in your home. They’ll remember warmth, consistency, and love—even when things weren’t perfect.
This February, consider giving yourself the same grace you give your children. The goal isn’t to be a perfect parent. The goal is to be a real one.
It’s a Grand Life Grand
What’s Up With February?
by SUSAN WOODALL
Writing a monthly column is interesting. Some months I know exactly what I am going to write about. Then, there are months like this one.
As I look around my house, I see the manger scene that has always been a major fixture since I was a child. Our fireplace mantle is decorated with greenery, ornaments and deer holding our stockings. There are candles in the windows and wreaths and garlands festooning the doors and porches. Tables are filled with candles, nutcrackers, Old Salem miniature homes, shops and the church. Our Christmas tree still stands bringing me joy and will until January 6th.
You see my issue. For those reading this, it’s February for you, but just about to be January for me. I don’t have eyes to the future, so I can’t write about current news or weather. So, what should my topic be? Maybe, it’ll just be about this and that. I’ll start with the month itself. What do we know about February?
February – the only month with 28, except every four years, days. The only month with a groundhog predicting whether there will be an early spring or six more weeks of winter. Sadly, February finds a number of people suffering from seasonal affective depression caused by reduced sunlight and gloomier weather. This can manifest itself in sadness, loss of interest, sleeping and eating more, and difficulty concentrating. People who suffer from this find light therapy to help. My husband and I went to Iceland one November. Not only did it snow almost every day, but it was dark by 4:00 p.m. and didn’t get light until 10:00 a.m. We loved the country, but I’m not sure I would ever get used to the short days.
I never realized, until I was doing some research on the month, that there is something you can celebrate every day of the month. Besides Groundhog Day, Presidents’ Day and Valentine’s Day, there are 25 other options that might strike your fancy. These days include celebrations for carrot cake, homemade soup, pizza, dog biscuits, flannel, world hippo and changing your password. I think my favorite, however, is quiet day. There wasn’t anything listed for February 29th. Why waste something on a day that only comes around every four years?
So, another question is, why did poor February not have 30 or 31 days like all the other months? Surely two of the seven that have 31 days could each have given one to February. This is the fault of the first king of Rome. The calendar used to begin in March and end in December. The days between the two had nothing to do with harvest so were considered unimportant. The second king made the calendar more accurate by lining it up with the lunar cycles. Apparently, Romans found even numbers to be unlucky, so January was granted 31 days leaving poor February with 28. This made the calendar 355 days. This led to the calendar being out of sync after several years. The Julian calendar added ten additional days making every month, except February, have 30 or 31 days. This made it a strictly solar calendar. To balance the then 365.25 days, every four years, February has 29 days or a leap year where there are 366 days.
What do I do with all this new found information? Well, if any of my grandchildren ask why February is a messed up month with only 28 days, I’ll know how to answer. Asking on February 9th would be good – according to the calendar, that’s pizza day!
“It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.” - Henry David Thoreau
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LOCAL EVENTS
*Event details are subject to change. Please check event websites & social media pages for updates as the dates draw near.*
NOW THROUGH FEBRUARY 28
NATURE’S RHAPSODY: DEAN ROLAND JOHNSON EXHIBIT
Salem College’s Elberson Fine Arts Center, 430 Leaders Avenue in W-S. After receiving a MFA from Pratt Institute, he taught art in college for several years. During that time, he exhibited and received several museum purchase awards. While his professional journey has taken many paths, the common thread has been all things visual. This exhibit features botanical paintings inspired by his love of nature. Dean has been painting with passion since childhood. Please join us for the Artist Reception on Friday, January 9th from 5-7pm.
FEBRUARY 4
RIBBON CUTTING CEREMONY AT THE GODDARD SCHOOL OF WINSTON-SALEM
9am, 4517 Country Club Road in W-S. Open to the public! Visit goddardschool.com for more information.
FEBRUARY 7
GALENTINES BRUNCH AND BOUTIQUE BASH
11am-3pm, Bobby Boy Bakeshop. Grab your besties, daughter, sister, aunt, mom, grandma, neighbor or come solo and make friends here! We’ll start the fun at Bobby Boy Bakeshop with a private brunch buffet. While sipping on hot cocoa and enjoying the most delightful pastries, The Love Farmer will present a wellness and relationship workshop sharing self-care techniques, information on love languages and attachment styles, relationship advice and more! Afterwards, you’ll hop on the trolley for shopping at some of downtown Winston-Salem’s best boutiques (Just Be, Boho Depot, Half Past Three and Evelyn Rose) and enjoy from a selection of activities such as an xpress mani or pedi from European Day Spa, painting ceramics at Uncorked Masterpiece, making perfume, candles or soap at Lizzie’s All Natural Products, or sketching with Artist Miss Julia Tesh! You’ll end the day with lots of fun memories, photos and a bag full of goodies from our gift bar! You won’t want to miss this! This is an alcohol-free event, so girls as young as 12 are welcome (and encouraged)!
FEBRUARY 7
FROST FEST AT COGNITION
2-4pm, 119 North Salisbury Street in Mocksville. Step into a sparkling winter world where the museum fills with snowy magic, hands on fun and exciting activities for the whole family. Start in our outdoor flurry zone where gentle snow drifts through the air and creates the perfect winter vibe. Inside, kids can jump into snowy crafts, explore science stations, play snow bingo, meet some of their favorite characters, snap fun photos and enjoy full access to play in the museum. Tickets range from $10-$25/person with kids under one year getting in free.
FEBRUARY 10
ST. JOHN’S LUTHERAN CHURCH AND SCHOOL TOUR
9:30am, St. John’s Lutheran Church and School, 2415 Silas Creek Parkway in W-S. If you’ve ever wished school felt like a place where your child is known, valued and encouraged every single day, here’s your chance to see it for yourself. On Thursday, January 15th, parents of two-year-olds, preschoolers and rising kindergartners through 5th graders are invited to experience St. John’s Lutheran School in W-S during a regular school day. Tour begins at 9:30am with visits to classrooms in action and a chance to meet the teachers.
Can’t make it that day? Call 336.725.1651 to schedule a private tour.
FEBRUARY 11
FORSYTH WOMAN MAGAZINE’S GALENTINE’S GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT
5-7pm, Robert Hall, 874 N. Liberty Street in W-S. Grab your girls, and enjoy a DJ, photo booth, cocktails, mocktails and included appetizers! Tickets are $15 per person. Purchase tickets at girls-night-out. tripleseattickets.com
FEBRUARY 15
CANDLELIGHT: VALENTINE’S DAY SPECIAL @ MILLENNIUM CENTER
6:30-7:30pm, The Millennium Center, 101 West 5th Street in W-S. Candlelight concerts bring the magic of a live, multi-sensory musical experience to awe-inspiring locations like never seen before in Winston Salem. Get your tickets now to discover the music of Valentine’s Day Special at Millennium Event Center under the gentle glow of candlelight: tinyurl.com/candlt-valentines-day-speci-73
FEBRUARY 19
HOMESCHOOL DISCOVERY DAYS: HEARTBEATS & HEALTH
2-4pm, 119 North Salisbury Street in Mocksville. Join us for Heartbeats + Health, a homeschool program designed for K–5 students (all ages welcome). Kids will explore the amazing ways our bodies work and learn about the heart through hands-on activities and interactive experiments. Registration is required, and spots are limited. Cost: $10-$12/child. This is not a drop off program. Bring your curiosity and join us for an afternoon of learning, movement, and fun designed just for homeschool families!
FEBRUARY
21-22
WINSTON-SALEM HOME SHOW @ THE W-S FAIRGROUNDS
10am (both days), Winston-Salem Fairgrounds, 332 Deacon Boulevard in W-S. Save time by meeting a wide range of companies under one roof. Discover new ideas and interesting products for your home. Find the best resources in home improvement, landscaping and design services. Visit HomeShowNC-WF.com for more information.
FEBRUARY 28
DADDY DAUGHTER DANCE
6-8:30pm, The Family Life Center, St. John’s Lutheran Church and School, 2415 Silas Creek Parkway in W-S. This is the 20th anniversary of this event, and we would like to invite any past participants to join in this year as we celebrate the last 20 years. For more information, visit stjohnsws.com, stjohnsfalcons.org or call 336.725.1651.
FUTURE
MARCH 19
FORSYTH WOMAN MAGAZINE’S 5TH ANNUAL WOMEN ON THE MOVE CONFERENCE
9am-4pm, Legacy Stables & Events, 4151 Thomasville Road in W-S. Join Forsyth Woman Magazine for a day full of impactful presentations, networking, shopping, food and drinks, and more! Visit WOMC2026. eventbrite.com for more information.
APRIL
17
CHEERS TO THE 5TH YEAR OF TRIPLE CROWN CASINO NIGHT
5:30pm, Legacy Stables & Events in W-S. Our 5th annual event returns, and this year’s event is packed with even more excitement, action and chances to win. Join us for Pretty in Pink Foundation’s signature Triad fundraiser – a high-energy night where every spin, roll and bid supports breast cancer patients right here in NC. Enjoy casino games, a live auction, a gourmet dinner, a diamond giveaway and more!
APRIL 30
WINE, WOMEN & SHOES
5:30pm, Legacy Stables & Events. Gather your friends for a night of fashion, wine and purpose where every table is a party! Fill a table of 10, and we’ll toast your group with a complimentary bottle of champagne. Rally your friends, and turn your table into the best party in the room. This event returns for the third year, bringing together women from across the Triad for an evening of style, celebration and giving back. From wine tastings and shopping to a seated dinner, every detail supports Ronald McDonald House Charities Piedmont Triad. Tickets on sale at winewomenandshoes.com/rmhcpt.
MAY 1
SPRING PLANT SALE AT THE ARBORETUM AT TANGLEWOOD
8am-2pm. Arboretum Volunteers and Educators at Tanglewood (AVET) will hold its annual spring plant
sale. Enjoy the beauty of the gardens while making your way to one of Forsyth County’s premier plant sales. Selections include herbaceous perennials, flowering shrubs and trees, native plants, milkweed, annuals, herbs and more; plus, new for this year is carnivorous plants. The Arboretum Volunteers and Educators at Tanglewood organize this fundraiser which provides support for the NC State Extension Master Gardener℠ (EMG) volunteer program in Forsyth County. Proceeds from your purchase help maintain the Arboretum at Tanglewood Park and fund the monthly Adult Education lecture series held at Tanglewood Park throughout the year. Shop early for best selection. Sales are cash or check only. For additional information, call 336.703.2850.
The View from My Section – A Father’s Perspective
When You Know It’s “The One”
by A. KEITH TILLEY
It usually hits you during a quiet moment –waiting in line for a latte, folding laundry or scrolling TikTok past midnight. Is this real? Is this the person with whom I could build a life? We’ve all heard the standard checklist – compatibility, shared values, timing, chemistry, aligned love languages (thank you, Dr. Gary Chapman); these matter. But, more and more, relationship experts and long-lasting couples keep returning to one surprisingly simple idea.
You usually know someone is right for you when your life feels like it expands around them, and you feel like a better version of yourself for having them in it.
Psychologists Arthur and Elaine Aron describe this as “self-expansion,” a concept backed by decades of research. In simple terms, the healthiest relationships are the ones where your partner inspires growth, not stagnation. It’s surprisingly practical. Being with the right person makes you feel more capable, more motivated and more like…you. As Oprah once put it, “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” She wasn’t talking about romance, but she might as well have been.
It also aligns with findings from The Gottman Institute, which notes that couples who consistently “turn toward” each other during everyday moments and respond with interest, presence and encouragement build stronger emotional foundations. Their studies show that couples who turn toward each other at least 80 percent of the time during small bids for connection tend to experience significantly greater long term stability. It doesn’t have to be grand gestures. It’s often as small as paying attention. According to their long term observational studies, couples who notice and respond to these bids for attention and awareness, even with something as simple as a warm glance or a genuine follow-up question, dramatically increase trust and relationship satisfaction. These small interactions compound over time, creating a buffer that helps couples weather stress, conflict and major life transitions. Imagine that.
This shows up in how your partner responds to your ambitions. Maybe you casually mention a job you’re curious about, or a dream you thought you’d outgrown. A supportive partner doesn’t shrug or shut it down; they lean in. Psychologists who study relationship dynamics say couples who celebrate each other’s goals enthusiastically, known as “active constructive responding,” build stronger trust and connection over time. It’s not dramatic. It’s consistent. It’s someone who believes in your direction, even when you’re still figuring it out.
couples handle stress and joy as a unified team, and it’s a strong predictor of relationship stability. It doesn’t mean they fix everything. It means you don’t have to face everything alone.
Michelle Obama once said, “You want to be with someone who is going to make you better.” And when that’s true, it’s not subtle; you feel it in dozens of small, steady ways.
Even Albert Einstein hinted at this idea when he indicated that love isn’t accidental or random. It’s a pull created by connection, shared meaning and the ways two people help each other grow.
You notice it socially, too. The right partner doesn’t make you shrink or overthink. They help you feel grounded, worthy, confident and cared for.
Two prominent psychology researchers, R. Chris Fraley and Phillip Shaver, known for their extensive work on attachment theory, indicate that secure partners help regulate stress and strengthen emotional resilience. You don’t suddenly become flawless at navigating social situations, but the awkward moments don’t own you anymore. And, when you slip up, the right person helps you process it without shame.
Then there’s the emotional part, the part that’s almost impossible to fake. You start wanting to tell them everything. The big wins. The meltdowns. The messy middle. Relationship researcher Guy Bodenmann describes this as “dyadic coping,” where
Even though Plato’s old story about humans being split in two and searching for their missing half is romantic, love today isn’t about finding someone to complete you. It’s about finding someone who expands who you already are. Someone who helps reveal strengths you didn’t know you had. Someone whose belief in you makes you believe in yourself differently.
Rumi, the 13th-century Persian Muslim scholar and poet, had a way of capturing this feeling centuries ago: “What you seek is seeking you.” It’s poetic, but it also mirrors what psychologists keep finding; healthy love feels like alignment, not distortion.
So, how do you really know?
You know when your growth feels encouraged. You know when your goals feel possible. You know when your mistakes become learning moments, not weapons.
You know when life gets a little easier, not because it’s simpler, but because someone is actually walking through it with you.
And, maybe most importantly, you know when being with them helps you step more fully into who you’re meant to be.
That’s not just romance. That’s partnership.
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