Forsyth Woman - December 2014

December 2014

Shopping with the ‘Girls Next Door’

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Celebrating with You

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CONTENTS December 2014

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53 Southern Ties Boutique: Shopping with the ‘Girls Next Door’

18 Gifts & Paper on Plaza

22 Holidays at Reynolda: A Piedmont Triad Tradition

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28 FEATURES

My Dream Dinner Experience

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40 Bella Hair Co.

60-67 Holiday Gift Guide

86 Gifts for the Impossible to Buy For

106 W.I.S.H Society: Women Inspring Strength and Hope

120 Holiday Shipping Without the Headache at Goin Postal

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THE TIME IS NOW.

The difference is you.

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hrough the power of collective giving by more than 800 members, The Women’s Fund

of Winston-Salem awarded nearly $105,000 at our 2014 Ninth Annual Luncheon.

CONGRATULATIONS TO THIS YEAR ’ S GRANT RECIPIE N T S :

Experiment in Self-Reliance, Inc. Family Services, Inc. Women’s Fund *ULöWK (OHPHQWDU\ 6FKRRO of Winston-Salem Horizons Residential Care Center Hosanna House of Transition The Shalom Project The Shepherd’s Center of Greater Winston-Salem Smart Start of Forsyth County, Inc.

The Women’s Fund of Winston-Salem brings together women who care about the economic and social well-being of women and girls in Forsyth County. Whether their passion is education, economic security, health and safety, or leadership, these women have come together to translate that passion into positive action through the power of collective giving. Over the past eight years, we have granted over $1,100,000 to organizations working to improve the lives of women and girls in Forsyth County.

We are a community of passionate women creating social change.

Join us Become a member of The Women’s Fund and vote on who receives our grants next year. For more information about membership, contact Sabrina Slade at 336.714.3468 or sabrina.slade@wsfoundation.org.

a community of passionate women creating social change

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Free Brenner FIT Classes Join experts from Brenner Children’s Hospital for these FREE Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family Collaborative classes. Registration is required. Unless otherwise noted, classes are held at Brenner FIT in the William G. White Jr. Family YMCA, 775 West End Blvd., Winston-Salem.

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CONTENTS December 2014

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Fashion: Q & A’s with April

58 ReDESIGNS by Ava

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IN EVERY ISSUE

Things That Make You Blush

100 The Art of Cooperation

110 Holiday Friendly Hors D’oeuvres

114 Women on the Move

124 Life Hacks

126 Local Vocals

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As the old saying goes, “Tis better to give than to receive.” That statement is so true! I love the Christmas holidays because I love to give presents! In fact, anyone that knows me know how much I like to give presents all year long, but the JOY of the holiday truly lies in giving to others!

As we wind down the year and bring 2014 to a close, I have to once again thank all of our generous supporters who helped make the Make-A-Wish fundraiser so successful! I was one of many who were graciously honored at the WISH Society luncheon in November, and while we’re long past the auction (September feels a million years away!), I wanted to make sure our readers know how grateful we are that we almost doubled our original goal.

I am very proud of this accomplishment and what it means for the Make-A-Wish Foundation. This was truly a collaborative effort from so many who gave so generously. Check out the story on page 106.

We’re still giving back in other ways, through the help of our advertisers and readers! At November’s GNO and KMO events, we collected toys to benefit Hand in Hand, an event sponsored by the Clemmons Rotary and Agape Faith Church. In their 20th year, they shared the spirit of Christmas with 275 children who need it most! They’ll be collecting until December 9th so if you missed GNO or forgot your toys, feel free to drop them by Express Oil Change & Service Center at Lewisville-Clemmons Road or Hanes Mill Road.

At our December GNO, on December 16th, we’ll be collecting new or gently used books to be donated to Winston-Salem Forsyth County Schools!

WSFCS Superintendent, Dr. Beverly Emory, who recently spoke at the Professional Women of Winston-Salem (PWWS), inspired this campaign.

She is launching an initiative to get every child reading at or above grade level. When we asked how we could help, she said they could NEVER have too many books. We know we can count on our readers to donate generously!

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THE VIEW From this Side December 2014

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Other Team Members Kim Beane, Content Editor Carolyn Peterson, Senior Staff Writer Meghan Corbett, Senior Staff Writer

Contributing Writers Jan Allison | Emily Eileen Carter | Christie Meghan E. W. Corbett | Lindsay Craven | June DeLugas Lisa S.T. Doss | Martie Emory | Molly Flinchum Molly Glazener | Justin Cord Hayes | Denise Heidel Vonda Henderson | Mary Hollingsworth | Shelley Hundley Vic Khemsara | Debbie Lanier | Ava Lewandowski Dave McConnell | Kelly Melang | Sara Migliarese Anitra Mitchell | Rebecca Olsen | Omar | Carolyn S. Peterson Rosey | Thrive Integrative Health | Elisa D. Wallace Belinda Wilson | Susan Woodall

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This month’s GNO is extra special and we are doing things up Christmasstyle! Space is limited, and registration is required, but anyone is welcome, including the fellas! We’ll be at the Historic Broyhill Center with food, beer, and wine provided by Phoenix Grille. We’ll have a DJ, courtesy of 201 Media Productions (who will also be capturing the evening on video), as well as a dance floor! Be sure to register at TinyUrl.com/FWDecGNO! Those who bring a book for WSFCS will receive an extra door prize ticket for every book donated!

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Be sure to check out our fantastic gift guide in this month’s issue, on pages 60-67. We have DOZENS of amazing items listed, as well as where you can find them! There are some great suggestions for anyone on your holiday shopping list and best of all, you’ll be shopping local, which means you’ll be supporting your local economy!

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On behalf of the entire team at Forsyth Magazines, we wish you and yours a very happy holiday season. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of your 2014!

Merry Christmas!

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Merry Christmas!

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Giving

By Vic Khemsara & Truc Ly Tran, OD

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” inston Churchill said those enlightening words above.

Everyone knows that December is a busy month with a long list of tasks to cross off, but even with all the commotion it is important to remember that it is a month for giving. In the spirit of giving, Summit Eye Care will continue our “refer a friend program.” When a patient refers a friend, the referring person receives a small gift, and the new patient receives a donation made to Crisis Control Ministry in his or her name. This ministry assists our community by providing food assistance, financial assistance, and medication assistance to people in need.

Other ways to give include donations and service. We are partnered with Lions Clubs to help collect glasses. If you have glasses that are no longer useful to you, either prescription or over-the-counter, please consider donating them to our office. These glasses will eventually be given to thousands of impoverished people all over the world. Dr. Tran received the opportunity to take the donated glasses and personally give the people in Clarendon, Jamaica the gift of sight. It was a wonderful and rewarding experience.

Another easy way to help out is to make sure you are registered as a corneal tissue donor by visiting donatelife.net. By being a registered corneal tissue donor, others in need can receive the gift of sight through a corneal transplant.

And lastly we must remember the greatest sacrifice that has been ever made is God giving us his Son, Jesus, to die for our sins. This is something that none of us come close to deserving. God’s love for us is affirmed in the quote from John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Christ lived a perfect, sinless life and died a terrible death in order to “save his people from their sins” (Matt. 1:21). He paid the penalty for our sins and bore the anger we deserved to bear. He overcame the separation that was coming in between God and us. He freed us from the shackles of sin. Because of this, God can “deliver us from this domain of darkness” and transfer “us to the kingdom of his beloved Son” (Col. 1:13). What an incredible gift!

Remember that any gift, big or small, will make an impact in someone else’s life. We would like to take this opportunity to wish all the readers of Forsyth Woman magazine and their families a Merry Christmas!

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ust as their staff has mastered the business of fine stationery

fabulous gifts. What perfect timing – as the most exciting gift season is upon us!

Since opening the store 14 years ago, owners Robyn Goslen and Mary Reynolds, together with their talented, in-store design team, have long been the experts for custom wedding invitations, personalized stationery and every other printed element needed for a memorable wedding celebration. From creative save-the-date announcements to invitations, ceremony programs, menu cards, place cards and personalized napkins, the store is known for full-service planning when it comes to marking the big day in print. With a variety of lines and price points to select from, including Crane & Co., William Arthur, Kleinfeld, Envelopments and Carlson Craft, invitation options have never been more beautiful or creative.

Now the staff is excited to show off their good taste and expertise in gifts – great news for shoppers who adore the challenge of finding a unique, special something for friends and family.

If you’re closing out your holiday shopping list or just now hitting the shopping trail, join the staff of Gifts & Paper on Plaza for their Holiday Open House from Thursday, December 4 through Saturday, December 6. Come by and enjoy a glass of “cheer”along with notto-miss specials happening throughout all three days. You’ll discover the latest designs in holiday cards from Caspari, Boatman Geller, Crane, William Arthur, Stacy Claire, Boyd, Whitney English, Sweet Pea, Checkerboard and many more, while fulfilling some wish-lists along the way.

Still need a creative idea? Surprise a loyal fan with their favorite ACC team’s holiday ornament, treat a friend to festive Jingle Nog ornaments, Lolita wine glasses (complete with Caspari cocktail napkins, of course) or Illume and Hillhouse natural candles with irresistible holiday scents. Nothing honors family holiday traditions like exquisite pieces from the Italian Fontanini Nativity line or timeless Vietri tableware. You’ll also enjoy browsing the store’s unique variety of holiday ornaments – all of which are available for free personalization.

If you’re on the hunt for more casual gifts, consider the functional, yet fun, idea of a monogrammed tote, monogrammed barware or, for the friend with a hectic to-do list, Emily Ley planners, Mom Agendas, Mainstreet Collection photo calendars and every paper connoisseur’s favorite, Anna Griffin notepads and folders. Last but not least, treat yourself to some “perfect hostess” essentials for the holidays with something from their classic collection of tablecloths, runners, dinner napkins and festive M. Bagwell holiday tableware – keeping your season bright and fun!

Come by and check out all of the new things going on at Gifts & Paper on Plaza!

Gifts & Paper on Plaza is located at 3301 Healy Drive in Winston-Salem. Hours are Monday through Friday 9:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m. and Saturday 10:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

Reach them at 336-768-9909 or visit their website at www.giftsandpaperonplaza.com. To keep up with trunk show schedules and other special events, follow them on Facebook at www.facebook.com/InvitationsOnlyHome2

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Q&A With April Submitted By Mainstream Boutique ven the most well-dressed, pulled together person you know has had a fashion challenge at some point…trust us! Here we tackle a few questions with some general guidelines to get you on your way to feeling fabulous.

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There are several easy ways to let your outfit be “you” and . still maintain a clean and professional look. Adding one bold accessory per outfit can let your personality show. A statement necklace or a cuff bracelet are very good choices without being too over-the-top. If you are wearing a basic suit, add a bit of fun with a colorful top. Just make sure it is a classic shape or a subtle pattern to keep in line with the office dress code.

Instead of a basic blazer, you can add a wrap jacket. These additions can still be conservative while giving a fresh look to your outfit.

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I have recently started a weight loss program.

. What is the best way to transition my wardrobe while losing weight?

Congrats on your journey! Transitioning your wardrobe . through size changes can be an exciting challenge. Look for pieces that have stretch to them and try to go down one size, if possible. Jeans with at least 2% Lycra are a good choice. They provide flexibility with your body movements yet maintain their shape. Tunics are a great option as they can be belted as you lose weight to show off your new shape. You may also be able to belt tops you currently own. Leggings are another good staple to have. Look for ones that are “one size fits most” as they will take you through size changes the best. No matter your size, it makes everyone feel better to wear clothing that fits them well, so buying a few versatile pieces at each milestone is a good way to maintain your motivation.

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Accessories can help any outfit feel more polished and . pulled together. There are so many different types of accessories to consider, but jewelry, scarves, belts and handbags are always good options to have on hand. Think about the overall look of your outfit and what you want to project. For example, while pearls with an LBD look classic and elegant, pearls with a sweatshirt and jeans is an unexpected twist. Once you decide the look you are trying to project, pair accessories that help you achieve that look. Amazing outfits are all about balance!

Changing up your accessories is an easy way to create many looks from the same outfit and no one will know the difference…and we love a good little secret!

How about a seasonal refresh? Leave the styling to us.

One of our stylists would love to help you put together just the right basics and specialty items for any occasion. Whether it is a business meeting, family dinner, upcoming vacation, or just refreshing your seasonal wardrobe because you deserve it… we can style you! Mainstream Boutique, located at 110 Oakwood Drive, Winston-Salem, 27103. Come see us Monday – Friday (9:30 – 7:00), Saturday (10 – 6), and Sunday (1 – 5).

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Holidays at Reynolda – A Piedmont Triad Tradition

By Mary Hollingsworth

hen Katharine Smith Reynolds prepared for the holiday season at Reynolda, she chose to decorate with red nandina berries, mistletoe and fresh greenery cut from the trees around the Reynolda Estate. When visitors explore Reynolda House this holiday season, they’ll see the Reynolds mansion decorated much the same way as Katharine would have decorated it in 1917, when the family spent their first Christmas at their country estate.

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Reynolda House Museum of American Art presents Holidays at Reynolda, a season at the Museum that includes day tours of the decorated historic house for individuals and groups, a Holiday Pops concert

by Carolina Brass, and the longstanding play “A Christmas Memory.” Holiday greeting cards from the Museum Archives will be on display, and a full place setting from Katharine Smith Reynolds’ Tiffany & Co. china will be set on the dining room table.

The highlight of the holiday season at Reynolda is the Museum’s after-hours Candlelight Tours of the historic house, offered for three nights only, December 4, 5, and 6.

“Candlelight Tours at Reynolda are a favorite activity during the holiday season,” says Sarah Smith, director of Marketing & Communications. “We see couples buying tickets for a date night, extended families gathering together for a tour, and friends sharing the experience with each other for the second or third year in a row. It’s one of the few times of the year that you can see the majesty of the Reynolds family home in the evening.”

Tours are approximately one hour long, and include stories of how the Reynolds family spent the winter months, what Katharine served for Christmas Eve dinner, and what the Reynolds family gave each other for Christmas. Tour price includes a musical performance and admission to the Museum’s exhibition, The Art of Seating: 200 Years of American Design. Smith notes that tickets are selling

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quickly, and advance purchase is recommended. Tickets may be purchased online at reynoldahouse.org, by searching “candlelight.”

For groups interested in visiting during the day, the Museum offers a discounted ticket price (per person) for general admission of groups of eight or more scheduled in advance. Plus, an insider’s tip for readers of Forsyth Woman: plan your visit in the afternoon on Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday or Sunday and you’ll hear carols played on the original Aeolian organ fill the home with music.

The organ is played at approximately 2:45 on these days of the week.

Finally, new this year, the Museum is partnering with Reynolda Village to offer carriage rides through the Estate on Saturdays, December 6, 13, and 20.

Information is available at reynolda.org.

Contact the Museum at 336.758.5150, and visit reynolda.org for more information and to plan your holiday at Reynolda.

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By Susan Woodall

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you went to see what wonderful items you could find for the fall and winter season at Hand Picked Consignments around the end of October, a little bit of panic might have set in when the store was not in its usual location in Reynolda Manor Shopping Center. Upon glancing around, you were relieved to find owner Paige Wheeler had just moved Hand Picked Consignments next to Lowe's grocery store.

“We moved to help the shopping center,” said Wheeler. “Planet Fitness is moving in [to the center] in early 2015. The center is full, and that is good for all. Customers will see we are all in one large space – very open and airy. Our consignment shop certainly has an artsy flair. During special events, you may even find live music.

So far, we have received rave reviews.”

“Our customers tell us that The rave reviews are not only for the new space, but also for what we have great holiday gifts, customers find inside. With new and consigned items coming in such as new scarves, almost daily, every visit will be gloves, hats and jewelry,” different from your last. Whether shopping for clothes, shoes, jewelry and/or accessories for holiday parties, family gatherings, travels or just wanting to add to your wardrobe, Hand Picked Consignments should be your first stop.

It is always wonderful to find just the right outfit and know you didn't break the bank buying it. As the name says, each item at Hand Picked Consignments is hand selected based on quality and style. They also have some special finds that include designer labels. Another bonus is knowing you won't see the same outfit a dozen times on other women as you might if buying from a department store.

While shopping for yourself, you also might find the perfect present for someone on your list. “Our customers tell us that we have great holiday gifts, such as new scarves, gloves, hats and jewelry,” said Wheeler. “We are also unique because we carry a great variety of local artist items – come see! Plus, we always have surprise discounts – ask anyone!”

You will also find a line of chalk paint for that special project you may have been putting off. Hand Picked Consignments is the exclusive area distributor for Dixie Belle chalk paint. With the reasonable price, great color selection, ease of application and beautiful results, you will be pleased with yourself for finally giving that long desired look to your furniture or walls and finishing it in time for the holidays.

Shopping at Hand Picked Consignments is always a pleasure, not only because of the wonderful selection, but also because of the friendly and helpful staff members who make you feel welcome.

“We have been in business for six years, and customers who have known us tell us we keep getting better,” said Wheeler. “We listen to what folks want, and we respond. I have an incredible staff; I could not be successful without the long hours and dedication of Sophie and my other employees.”

Hand Picked Consignments, located in Reynolda Manor Shopping Center, is open Monday-Saturday from 10 am - 6 pm. During the month of December, it will also be open on Sundays from 1 pm - 5 pm. Regular hours may be extended as well – just check Facebook or the website at www.handpickedconsignments.com for updates. For additional information, call 336.924.3755.

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Could It Be? choked to discover that 45% of Americans dread the holiday season. Say it ain’t so! This shocks the “merry” right out of us Christmas lovers.

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No one sets out to become Grinch-like. It’s inconceivable to the once bright-eyed child who marveled at the magic of Christmas. It’s just that, well, life almost never turns out the way we planned, does it?

As much as I cherish the sights and sounds of Christmas, I’ve counseled struggling souls and faced my own heartache enough to understand. Indeed, the holidays can be a tricky time.

Too often Christmas triggers the urge to compare. We don’t have the money others have to purchase the gifts others purchase. Our relationships feel broken and hollow beside others’ intimacies.

In the constant comparing, reality reminds us that our families are flawed. The exquisitely decorated home and elaborate gifts skipped our address. All the Norman Rockwell memories we once imagined for ourselves? Talk about fictitious fantasy!

(Come closer. I’ll let you in on a secret.) There is no perfect family at Christmas, or any other time of the year. Every person you meet experiences family dysfunction on some level. It’s the consequence of this predicament called humanity.

And money? Some of the most miserable people I know enjoy enough money to realize wealth can buy a lot of great things, but happiness?

Not a chance.

Could it be that we embark on the Christmas season with completely unrealistic expectations? Could it be that we tend to see the best in others’ stories and the worst in our own? Could it be that we unconsciously focus on what’s missing and become indifferent to the gifts present in our living?

It was 1983 . . . our first Christmas as husband and wife. Our ministry assignment required us to lead the worship service in a city far from family. Consequently, the Christmas Day menu involved stale sandwiches from a gas station on the long journey home. While other families gathered with love and laughter in the background, we kept company with an empty highway.

Our shabby car snubbed the idea of providing music and heat at the same time. We listened to Phil Driscoll’s new cassette until frostbite threatened our extremities. Then we revved the heat to full throttle in silence, repeating the process continuously.

The December 25th sun rose and dozed back to its slumber.

Meanwhile, we enjoyed no family feast, no money . . . no Christmas festivities that remotely hinted “merry.”

By Dr. Debbie Lanier

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It’s funny how time alters our view. Hearing Phil Driscoll songs inevitably transport me back to that unforgettable day. As I ponder the simplicity that cradled that Christmas, a grin overtakes me. Right there in the midst of flawed circumstances, God gave me a cherished memory to treasure all my days.

Could it be that we’ve tried to make Christmas something it isn’t?

Could it be that we’ve missed the whole reason Christmas happened?

Christ came so we’d never have to be alone. He conquered this earthen space so we’d never have to feel insecure or insufficient. Jesus reached to where we are so we could embrace His more-than-enough when life makes us feel like we’re never enough.

Could it be that right here in the middle of our flawed story, we could find the REAL STORY, making this the best Christmas we’ve ever known? Could it be?

For comments or prayer, contact Dr. Lanier at www.HopeCommunityChurch.tv.

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My Dream Dinner Experience

By Vonda Henderson

hat’s for dinner? Ninety percent have no idea what they’re going to eat when they get home from work or school. Did you know that over the past 25 years, dinnertime at home has dropped by 33%? People are busy – busy working long hours, busy with school and extracurricular activities, dance lessons, music lessons, sports, or just the day-to-day routine. What frequently gets lost in all this rushing? In many instances, the evening meal is the loser. Sitting at a table with a home-cooked meal and conversation has turned into fending for oneself with everyone eating whatever is handy. Whether a family of one or multiple members, the story is similar.

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Dream Dinners can benefit you and your family with its balanced, nutritional meals, help you save time by reducing the meal preparation time, and allow for more family time around the table. The average time to table for Dream Dinners is approximately 20 to 30 minutes. The portions are approximately 4 ounces each with the nutritional value shown on the menu selection. You save money since you use only the ingredient amounts needed with no waste.

I wish that I had tried Dream Dinners much sooner. I had the opportunity recently to give it a try. The experience was fun and I now have six meals in my freezer ready to cook.

I will admit that when I first walked in, I was a bit overwhelmed. The thought of preparing meals in a room of strangers was a little intimidating. However, that feeling was gone quickly – as soon as I sat down, one of the team members came over to ask if she could help me. She got me started by first having me wash my hands (you do that a lot as you start your first meal assembly and after each meal prep). They also provide hair ties for long hair and aprons for all.

Ah, the aprons. I did not have a particularly auspicious beginning as I put mine on without paying attention. My consultant was very kind – how she was able to tell me I had my apron on backwards without cracking a laugh was remarkable.

No doubt, she thought this was going to be some experience!

Anyway, I got my apron on right, my prep bags in my pockets and we got started.

I found that once I began, I really didn’t notice that there were other people working around me. Meals are prepared in either three or six serving sizes; all you do is turn the recipe to the right quantity and follow the steps. The recipes are set up in an easy to follow, color coded fashion. If you are supposed to add liquid, the code is a drop (easy, right?). The measuring tools are also color-coded for either three or six serving sizes. The steps are numbered and the instructions indicate which size bag you need for each step. I’d say it’s designed for any stage of cooking skill. You have a labeled shelve in the refrigerator to store your meals until you finish. The Dream Dinner team members are available to help at any point along the way.

Of the meals I selected, I would probably not have attempted at least three of them at home. That’s another benefit. You are able to try your hand at something new that might be out of your comfort zone on your own.

On Monday and Tuesday, the Dream Dinner team preps all the ingredients for the guests that week. On Wednesday, they are busy assembling meals for those who just want to drop by and pick up their selections. There is an additional cost for this, but it’s a further time savings step for many.

Dream Dinners Clemmons is located at 6276 Towncenter Dr., in Clemmons.

You can contact them at 336.766.0644 or clemmonsnc@dreamdinners.com.

Give them a call and schedule your introductory session. You’ll enjoy the experience. I’m going back again to try some new dishes. See you there!

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Accessorizing for Every Occasion

By Shelley Hundley, Owner, SASS Consignment Boutique, with contributions from Tara Kelly, General Manager

At Work: It is essential for me to be comfortable at work but to also look SASSy, so I traded the blazer for a silver scarf and rhinestone earrings, and tossed the essential items I needed into a small clutch.

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hen I hear Bing Crosby croon the line, “It's the most wonderful time of the year,” I can’t help but have a warm, nostalgic feeling about the holiday season. However, when I think about the demands of holiday parties, dinners, events, and shopping that the holiday season brings, on top of my already hectic schedule, I can't help but think that more appropriate lyrics might be “It’s the most stressful time of the year.” But that doesn’t mean we can’t be fashionable!

As a woman and self-proclaimed fashionista, I don’t just want to simply look good when I go out. I want to look and feel fabulous!

With so many places to be and so many things to do, there is little time to spend getting ready for multiple events. But breathe easy!

I’m going to share with you one of the simplest ways to take a basic outfit and accessorize it for multiple occasions. Black pants and a black top should be a wardrobe staple. This outfit is both classic and trendy and yet, simple enough to accessorize a variety of ways.

A few weeks ago, my calendar included a speaking engagement in the morning, work, drinks with friends, a holiday party, and finally – a show! I packed a bag of accessories to get me through the day and off I went!

Speaking Engagement: I was invited to speak to a group of students. I wanted a business casual look, so I added a black blazer, low black heels, a casual purse, and a simple pearl necklace, bracelet and earrings set. Not only was I comfortable, I felt stylish and chic.

Drinks with Friends: After working for a few hours, I met a couple of college friends I hadn’t seen in a long time who were just passing through town. I paired my previous look with a sequined bolero, swapped out my earrings for a pair of black dangle earrings, and grabbed a vintage clutch to top it off.

My friends loved my attire and went on and on about how SASSy I looked!

Holiday Party: A local charity group I am involved with was having a holiday party and I wanted to look festive. I loosely tied a red silk scarf around my shoulders and added a rhinestone necklace for a pop of color and a bit of glam!

A Show: The holiday season isn’t complete without a night at The Nutcracker! I wanted to be warm in the cool breeze while looking glamorous! I donned a gorgeous vintage mink wrap and a vintage necklace, bracelet and earrings set. There was no doubt that wearing this made me feel oh-so-SASSy and turned the heads of many!

At the end of the evening, I was beyond tired and ready for my final outfit for the evening: pajamas! I grabbed my small bag of accessories that had kept my attire appropriate for each day’s event, and put them away in a matter of minutes.

Does this sound like your schedule sometimes? Do you feel like you could use a little help accessorizing a few outfits so that you can feel fabulous no matter where you go? Come by SASS Consignment Boutique and let us show you how you can use accessories to maximize not only your wardrobe, but your confidence and your budget!

Sass Consignment Boutique is located at 3281 Robinhood Road in Winston-Salem. Call the store at 306-5888 and be sure to find them online at SASSConsignmentBoutique.com or find them on Facebook!

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Arts / Gifts / Salon / Spa!

By Justin Cord Hayes

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he holidays can wear you and yours to a frazzle, so isn’t it great to know that there’s an oasis of tranquility in our community, just waiting to pamper you?

Denise Moseley and Kim Gleason opened Farrago just over a year ago. The name—pronounced fuh-RAH-go—literally means “a confused mixture,” but that’s not really a fair description of the business. There’s nothing confusing about a place that offers everything from art and gifts to a full array of AVEDA products to hair styling and coloring to skin care and spa treatments.

“We would never have dreamed a year ago that that we would be where we are now,” Moseley says. “Farrago has been blessed.”

Featured artists are Dave Lineback, C B Tatum, Rick Cusson, and Ceji’s

For one thing, Farrago is blessed with a great staff.

Its Belle La Vie nail technicians, Tashika Lopez Russell and Phany Chhorn, are ready to work their magic on your hands and feet, while Jennifer Ward, Amanda Wilson, and Kim Branch, Farrago’s hairstylists/colorists, are ready to give you the perfect style for all those holiday parties. You will look fabulous, even when you’re fighting crowds at the mall.

When you are tired of battling the masses, you can visit Farrago’s massage therapist, Mandy Walker Saxon, to work out all the knots left from fighting through all those holiday giftgrabbing mobs. (Both Mandy and Tashika are newlyweds, so please congratulate them during your visit!)

Farrago is also blessed with new, talented people. Meika Sherrard, a licensed cosmetologist, has spent four years perfecting her passion for skin and nails and recently has added applying individual lash extensions to her talents. “She understands the key to any spa experience is to make the guest feel warm and welcome,” Moseley says. “Meika lights up any room she enters.” And Farrago’s hair salon recently welcomed Alicia Frizzell, who enjoys doing creative color techniques, is an ace with modern color trends, and loves to focus on vibrant and sassy cuts and colors.

Farrago’s gift shop always has something new, as well. Under the care of gift shop manager Kim Gleason, the gift shop continues to grow, featuring the work of more than 20 local artists. In addition, the shop offers a variety of Fair Trade items and unique gifts from around the country and the world. Every month, Forsyth Woman informs readers of Farrago’s featured artist.

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In addition, you can keep up with the latest at Farrago by visiting the business’s Facebook page or its website, www.farragonc.com.

With every changing season, Farrago continues to be a treasure trove of unique gifts and an oasis of relaxation. If a massage, facial, mani-pedi, or new hairstyle is what you crave, then Farrago is a must-stop during the busy, frazzling holidays.

During the month of December, Farrago will be serving wine and hot ciders on Saturdays.

Consider getting a spa package for a friend and spending the day at Farrago with him or her. Enjoy knowing that both of you will leave relaxed, rejuvenated, and sporting a new look with which to dazzle all those family members and old friends who visit for the holidays.

“Please remember us for your Christmas gift needs,” Moseley says. “Keep it local. Pick out a one-of-a-kind piece or opt for a gift certificate that can be used for anything we offer. Bring your friends with you. You’ve driven by and wondered what Farrago is. Now that you know, please stop by for a visit.”

Farrago is at 2050 Griffith Road (near H.H. Gregg and the Village Tavern) in Winston-Salem. For more information, call 336-448-5605, log on to the shop’s Facebook page, or log on to farragonc.com

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Rosey’s Favorite Things of 2014

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There were many memorable dishes of 2014. Some have been favorites of mine for years, and others took me by surprise; but they are all dishes everyone should try as soon as possible! Those of us who live in the Winston-Salem/Clemmons area do not necessarily consider it to be a foodie destination. We think of larger cities or unique southern towns like New York City or Charleston. Those who have lived in other towns similar in size to Winston-Salem and Clemmons know how advanced it is when it comes to unique, satisfying dining.

Below is a list of my favorites from the past year:

have had many of these dishes more than once. Every time I go back, I hope it will be as good as I remember, and it ALWAYS is!

So, once all the Thanksgiving leftovers are gone, or you just simply can’t eat another turkey sandwich, try one of these fantastic options in Winston-Salem or Clemmons.

There’s nothing better after a long day of Christmas shopping than treating yourself to a glass of wine and a delicious meal that you don’t have to cook!

If you decide to treat yourself to the best of the best, make sure you tell your server Rosey sent you to try one of her absolute favorites!

• Phoenix Grille’s Black Bean Cakes with Corn Salsa

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• Hakka Chow’s Kobe Beef Dumplings AND Pear Hot Tea • Dream Dinners’ Southwest Pulled Pork with Confetti Cornbread • River Ridge Tap House’s Chicago Burger • New Town Bistro’s 10-Hour Braised Short Ribs AND Iced Cherry Limeade • Five Points’ Reuben • Red, Hot & Blue’s Sweet BBQ Ribs Any one of these dishes could put some of the most popular menu items at bustling metropolitan restaurants to shame.

Because there are so many remarkable restaurants in our area, local chefs truly go above and beyond to keep us coming back for more! I am not at all ashamed to say I

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Decorations are popping up around town, people are making their lists and checking them twice, and the University of North Carolina School of the Arts (UNCSA) is hard at work on their annual cherished holiday event, The Nutcracker. UNCSA’s heralded ballet The Nutcracker has received rave reviews from critics and enthusiastic audiences since the re-imagined production debuted in 2009 under the direction of Ethan Stiefel, former dean of the UNCSA School of Dance, and most recently, artistic director of the Royal New Zealand Ballet. This year’s production will feature the artistic direction of UNCSA alumnus and assistant dean of dance, Jared Redick. The UNCSA orchestra will perform under the baton of Musical Director Christopher James Lees.

In addition to the amazing dancers from UNCSA—who are the ballet stars of tomorrow— The Nutcracker also features select performances with worldrenowned guest The full performance schedule for the UNCSA production of The Nutcracker is: Dec. 12, 13, 18, 19, and 20 at 7:30 p.m.; Dec. 21 at 7 p.m.; and Dec. 13, 14, 20 and 21 at 2 p.m.

Ticket prices range from: Prime Orchestra, $83; Orchestra Center, $40-$61; Orchestra Sides and Front Balcony, $35 to $51; Center Balcony, $28-$38; Rear Balcony, $24-$29.

For the best deal in town, take advantage of the great prices on The Nutcracker “Family Four Pack” for the evening performances on Thursday and Friday, December 18 and 19. The “Family Four Pack” offer is subject to availability.

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artists—a truly special treat for the Triad. This year, two celebrated dancers from the Boston Ballet, Whitney Jensen (Principal) and Yury Yanowsky (Principal), will dance the roles of the Sugar Plum Fairy and her Cavalier Prince at the performances on Friday, December 12 at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday, December 13 at 7:30 p.m.

Whitney Jensen has been praised by the Wall Street Journal for her “precise footwork and eager energy.” In 2008, she participated in the 23rd Varna International Ballet Competition, where she won the highest award possible, The Special Distinction Medal and Diploma.

She was the first American to win this award, which has only been awarded four times in Varna’s 44-year history.

She was also presented with the International Ballet Award. Jensen joined the Boston Ballet in 2009, was promoted to second soloist in 2010, to soloist in 2011, and became a principal dancer in 2014.

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The guest artist performances will also be enhanced by Yury Yanowsky. Together, Yanowsky and Jensen are sure to electrify audiences. Yanowsky was born in Lyon, France, and grew up in Madrid and Las Palmas, Spain. Yanowsky joined the Boston Ballet’s corps de ballet in 1993, was promoted to soloist in 1995 and to principal dancer in 1999. In 1992 he won first prize at the Prix de Lausanne in Switzerland and the Silver Medal at the Varna International Ballet Competition, and in 1994 he won the Silver Medal in the Senior Division at the International Ballet Competition in Jackson, Mississippi. Throughout his career, Yanowsky has participated in numerous international ballet galas.

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Join us in celebrating one year of service to the Forsyth community, February 2015.

By Rebecca Olsen

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hen you think of The Bella Hair Co., elegant wedding upstyle’s probably come to mind. But when they’re not busy prepping brides for the most important day of their lives, the ladies of The Bella Hair Co. are busy styling regular clients with creativity and flair. Whether you’re looking for a classic upstyle, a trendy contemporary cut and color, or just want to treat yourself to some pampering, the experienced staff at The Bella Hair Co. offer a full range of enhancement products and services to help you look your best.

The hectic holidays can lead to high levels of stress, which can have a noticeable impact on your hair. The Bella Hair Co. offers Keratin Blowouts, which can infuse life back into dry and brittle hair. Keratin, a protein naturally found in

colored roots to lighter ends, resulting in a brightening effect.

For clients who just want to add a little wow-factor to their holiday celebrations or night on the town, the salon offers formal upstyle’s along with partial and full makeup applications using MAC cosmetics. You might also consider brow tinting or taking advantage of the full range of waxing services the salon offers. To really add some drama to your look, try JB Lashes Lash Extensions. Starting in 2015, the salon will offer these newly developed lash extensions which will add volume and length to your own. They are applied individually, and unlike other false lashes, last up to two months! The salon also offers gift certificates for those hard-to-buy-for people in your life and a full range of services for men, too, from cuts to waxing.

Whether you want to update your look for something new and fresh or just need a place to relax, away from the hustle and bustle of the season, the stylists at The Bella Hair Co. are ready and waiting to pamper you and help you express yourself with beauty, individuality, and style.

hair, is applied and absorbed through the roots of the hair, nourishing the hair shaft. This reduces frizz and increases softness and shine. Combined with heat, keratin treatments can last through multiple washes so that hair is healthier and more luxurious.

Need a new look for the office Christmas party? Consider making an appointment for ombre. Ombre is a coloring technique stylists use to achieve a multi-tonal look that adds dimension and depth to hair. You may have noticed many of Hollywood’s elite recently sporting this trend on the red carpet. The effect can be a subtle transition of color or a more stark contrast, but most often moves from darker The Bella Hair Co. is located at 501 Ricks Drive, Winston-Salem, NC 27103.

Contact them at 336.893.6554 or www.thebellahairco.com.

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CHRISTMAS PARTY Tuesday, December 16th | 5pm - 9pm Historic Broyhill 3540 Clemmons Road Clemmons, North Carolina Register Online at TinyURL.com/FWDecGNO Space is Limited Tickets are $20 per person Catering will be provided by Phoenix Grille DJ & Videography Services provided by 201 Media Photo Booth by Prints Charming

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We will be collecting new and gently used books for the WSFC Schools, you’ll receive an extra prize ticket for every book you bring!

A chic, colorful shopping experience!

By Martie Emory or the ladies of Lewisville, the charming, shuttered façade of Accessorize This! jubilantly welcomes shoppers with what this business is really all about: finding fun, unique pieces that simply enhance your life.

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Opened in November 2006 with an initial creative focus on women’s accessories and gifts, this popular shop has evolved and expanded with now over 1500 square feet of delightful nooks and crannies filled with more creative items than you can imagine. As you’re heading out to cross gifts off your holiday to-do list, a stop-over at Accessorize This! will greet you with gift ideas galore, such as wine accessories, wall art, seasonal gifts and much, much more.

Owner Gina Player – who was born and raised in Winston-Salem but later settled in Lewisville – spent more than 20 years in a hotel management career before landing on the perfect idea for the family business she’d always dreamed about. Just as she was realizing that Lewisville was in serious need of something new and exciting for its avid shoppers, the perfect location presented itself, and the business took off.

Once entering through the chic, tranquil purple doorway, customers are thrilled to find a colorful, stylish array of accessories for every area of life, from jewelry, handbags and scarves to home accents, wine and party accessories, baby gift items and seasonal merchandise.

Jewelry is always a sought-after purchase – as a surprise gift for someone special or as a treat for yourself – and Gina is proud to carry lines that offer pieces to reflect every personality, including Lenny & Eva, Wind & Fire, Lotus Jewelry, Susan Shaw, The Artist Jay, Silver Forest, Ginger Snaps and Lottie Dottis.

Most recently, fashion is playing an even larger role at Accessorize This! as Gina stays true to her mission of paying close attention to what her customers want from their local shopping. “Last Christmas we added a few fashion pieces and it really took off,” says this savvy business owner, who points to newer offerings of trendy ponchos, jackets and wraps – all stylish choices for your growing list of holiday parties.

“Given the customer response I can definitely see apparel as an area that will continue to grow for us,” notes Gina happily. Current fashion lines in the shop include Mudpie, Charlie Paige and Coco & Carmen.

But we’re sure there’s more to come as Accessorize This! evolves with every season to offer its loyal customers an irresistible shopping experience!

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Accessorize This!

Wonderfully Unique and Affordable Holiday Gifts Stop by Accessorize This! for a fabulous afternoon of your own retail therapy – hours are Monday 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. and Tuesday-Friday 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. The store is located at 6301 Shallowford Road, Lewisville, NC. For more information call 336-946-0211, follow them on Facebook at www.facebook.com/accessorizethislewisville or keep up with news and special events by visiting www.accessorizethisonline.com.

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Carrying on tradition, quality & style!

By Martie Emory

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nown as something of a landmark in the always-charming town of Mt. Airy, North Carolina, F. Rees Clothing is the epitome of style. When it comes to classic clothing – for both men and women – the business is still hard at work carrying on a reputation that would make its founder proud.

Established in 1946 by the distinguished Mr. Floyd “Flip” Rees, and now under the leadership of his son, Gene Rees, F. Rees Clothing offers the finest clothing and accessories for its customers who have come to expect nothing less than the best. With 60 plus years of old-fashioned good business behind them, the store and its sister stores, The Addition and F. Rees Ladies Upstairs, have earned their clients’ loyalty.

When “Flip” Rees first opened the business, formalwear options and “suit stores” were scattered.

In small-town fashion, he was well-known for opening the store for just a handful of customers at a time and offering them his undivided attention and expertise. Proudly, the professional team at today’s F. Rees Clothing continues that mission of personal service with impeccable attention to a perfect fit, free alterations and building relationships with customers and their families. This is a store where the customer always comes first.

F. Rees Clothing has two ladies’ stores in downtown Mt. Airy, featuring the largest selection of exclusive women’s apparel in the western Piedmont. Featuring such lines as Bourbon & Boweties, Lenny & Eva, Lauren James and Simply Southern, Miss Me jeans, Gabby sweaters, Pendleton Woolen Mills, Joseph Ribkoff, Tribal, Cartise and much, much more, F. Rees Clothing is a one-stop store. As always, alterations are free.

Come by F. Rees Clothing men’s and women’s stores in downtown Mt. Airy at 198 N. Main Street, Mt. Airy, NC, 336-786-6121, Monday through Thursday 8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m., Friday 8:30 a.m. – 6 p.m. and Saturday 8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m. Visit www.f-rees.com and follow them at www.facebook.com/f.reesclothing, www.facebook.com/TheAdditionatF.ReesCompany, and www.facebook.com/pages/F-REES-LadiesUpstairs.

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Credit vs. Credits: An Insight into Student Debt

By Belinda Wilson having student loans and/or credit cards isn’t necessarily a bad notion; they both help to establish and build credit, which will make it much easier for them to find an apartment after graduation instead of moving into their parents’ basement.

very May, millions of college seniors begin the transitional period into the “real world.” In the days leading up to their graduation ceremony, they begin packing up their dorm rooms while nervously anticipating their walk across the stage for a handshake and degree. But graduates these days are leaving college with more than a futon and a piece of paper acknowledging their accomplishments. The weight of their book bags will be nothing compared to a far heavier burden: student debt.

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As a mother of my own college student, I’m quite passionate about this subject.

In doing some research on the topic, I’ve learned that the average debt levels for all graduating seniors with student loans rose from $23,400 in 2008 to $29,400 in 2012 — that’s more than a 25% increase. The value of an education exceeds the costs, and affording those costs should not be a deterrent to higher education. The college experience may last four years, but for some, paying for it can take decades. This is a situation that Piedmont Advantage Credit Union has come to recognize and help remedy, with options and solutions to help parents establish a greater academic future for their children.

College campuses provide food plans, onsite fast food, and school stores which are intended to hinder students from financially-impulsive distractions like shopping malls, restaurants, bars, etc. The truth, however, is that many colleges and universities allow their students to be preyed upon by the figurative “wolf in sheep’s clothing.”

Financial companies can frequently be seen standing under pop-up tailgating tents in the “quad” with t-shirts and beer koozies in hand, hocking their promotional wares while promising the concept of “free money” in the form of a little, plastic card.

“Responsible Credit-Building 101” has never been offered in the course catalogue, so the only credit-related advice that your child receives is given by the credit card rep who fails to mention the reality of APRs or the adverse effects of only making minimum monthly payments.

Excited by the concept of this sudden amount of available funds, students sign up and get approved almost immediately. Unsurprisingly, within hours of getting the temporary card from the rep that day, the student has splurged on numerous nonessentials, and the $2,000 limit credit card has been maxed out. But the reality barely phases him/her because, as the rep told them, they can simply pay the $20 minimum payment each month until it’s paid off. After all, the 18% APR didn’t sound too bad to the student as he was trying to wiggle into the free t-shirt given to him just for filling out the application. Little did he realize that by making the $20 minimum monthly payment, it would take 10 years and cost an additional $1,598 just in interest.

As long as young adults start early — learning about fiscal responsibility and the ramifications of carrying a balance with interest — then later on they’ll have a stronger foundation to stand on once they truly “leave the nest.” In the grand scheme of things,

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You are not alone. It’s natural for parents to balk at the idea of their kid having a credit card, saying things like, “How can my son show responsibility with a credit card when he forgets homework and barely studies for exams?” or, “My daughter? With a Visa? I let her borrow my credit card one time to go fill up her gas tank, and she came back several hours later with bags full of new clothes and a $500 Michael Kors purse.”

Your cringing is probably warranted, reinforced by a past blunder in your offspring’s decision-making. But there are several options to keep the fiscal leash short and not let your child stray into serious debt.

Secured credit cards are one of the primary options most parents use to introduce their young adults to responsible money-managing.

Once they’ve proven that they can make monthly payments and keep their heads above water, the parents’ woes may subside.

But if they falter, it’s easy to get them out of a financial bind.

If it hasn’t already, the day will come. One day in mid-August, after unpacking all the items from the car — the XL twin sheet sets, the desk lamp, the mini fridge, the hundreds of bags from Bed, Bath & Beyond — they will put on a brave face and look at you.

There’s a hint of fear in their eyes as you reassure them, while barely being able to keep it together yourself. For 18 years you’ve helped guide them, shared every good day and stood by them every bad day. However, just because they’re not under your roof anymore, doesn’t mean they’ll need you any less. There will be times of anxiety in the form of missed calls, un-replied texts, international travel with friends – but with a bedrock of basic financial knowledge, at least you’ll have one less thing to worry about.

So before you head back home, enjoy that one last hug and wipe away the tears as you look back at your child in the rearview mirror. They’re going to be just fine. This is just the beginning, and you’ve given them a great start.

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There are many factors that shape your child’s future.

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Precision Paint & Pressure Washing: Reviving the beauty of the home you cherish!

By Martie Emory

ooking to brighten the exterior of your home or restore a particular room? Precision Paint & Pressure Washing in Winston-Salem—P3 for short – offers many features for restoring your home’s beauty. The most important however, is owner Marc Englebert’s commitment to customer service.

“I came into this profession through a series of events that led me from a job into a calling,” said Englebert. “After a corporate shift in my previous career left me without one, I went on the search for something more fulfilling.

In the days that followed, I was fortunate enough to begin landscaping with a group of friends. I was grateful for the work. It allowed me some time to really soul search. What direction did I want to go? Sometimes you find the answers to your most difficult questions in the most unlikely places.

For me it was landscaping with friends. Through those friends I washed my first house and painted my first room, which has turned into what is now a very successful enterprise.”

Serving Winston-Salem and the surrounding areas, P3 is the perfect resource for interior and exterior home needs – everything from roofs to walls to deck staining. “Now is the perfect time to focus on pressure washing your roof,” said Englebert. “With the cooler weather, chemicals are able to work better to remove the black algae that has built up over the years that many people fail to take notice of.”

Englebert admits there is great satisfaction in restoring a much-loved home or business to its natural beauty. It’s an enjoyable, creative process that brings immeasurable happiness and contentment to the home owner.

“I love seeing the potential in a house, or even just one room, before I even get started,” commented Englebert. “When I first lay eyes on a project I can imagine what the end result will be and anticipate the look on the customer’s face when they are awed by the finished product!”

He enjoys telling the true story of a client who hired him to pressure wash a house they both assumed was pale yellow in color.

Turns out, it was actually white all along. After the thorough “top to bottom” cleaning, the house was more accurately described as gleaming white!

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Happy to take on any size project from a single room to an entire home, P3 also specializes in a variety of finishes and relies on the finest quality paints and products to achieve its ultimate goal: total customer satisfaction. Englebert feels that prompt, professional service results in a worry-free project for the customer. His business and ethical background has taught him the importance of both communication and keeping promises.

“We’re a Christian company with Christian values,” noted Englebert, whose end goal is a job well done. “I believe that whatever you’re doing, do it to the best of your abilities, and do it with pride.”

For more information on their services or to schedule a consultation, contact Marc Englebert at Precision Paint & Pressure Washing at 336-671-6016 or visit their website at www.p3ws.com. Hours are Monday through Saturday 8:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

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Sander Smith - Spark urphy’s Law tells us that there is a negative event coming those assets you are willing to allow to decline in Financial to our financial futures. We don’t know why or when, value? Is it 50%, 30%, or another amount? but we know it always does. There’s a reason the financial Everyone has a different comfort level and services community uses the phrase, “Past performance cannot ability to tolerate loss. What is yours? guarantee future results.”

Does it match up with how your assets are Everyone has both assets and liabilities, which come in many currently positioned, or do you need to make a different forms. Let’s focus on the assets. If you add up the change?

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By Carolyn S. Peterson

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ometimes in life we know exactly what path to follow.

We carefully plan our course and then follow it through until we’ve reached our destination, feeling empowered and in-control every step of the way.

Carolina; it was simply too far away (at least from our limited perspective!). Looking back, however, I know that God gave us the little stepping stones we needed, through TX and OK, in order for us to end up where we were meant to be.”

And then SOMETIMES in life, we have no idea where we’re headed, and yet, by the grace of God, we still end up where we’re meant to be.

Something similar can be said regarding Heather’s journey from “Stay-at-Home Mom” to “Successful Business Owner.” Heather began her retail business in October of 2006. “I had no idea what I was doing,” laughs Heather. “I thought that I could have some fun and make a little extra money by selling products at home shows and holiday bazaars. However, none of the popular homebased business options really appealed to me, so I assembled my own eclectic product line and called my business ‘Haj-Paj,’ which is the phonetic spelling for ‘Hodge Podge.’ Within a few months, I had developed enough confidence and ambition to move the business out of my dining room and into a 300 square foot retail space in Advance.” It was there that Heather’s product line expanded beyond the original jewelry, candles and mineral makeup to include children’s items, natural spa products, and fashion accessories. It was also during this time that Heather realized that she had a passion for people and the gift of serving others, as well as a knack for business. Because of this, her business continued to grow, and within a year, Heather took a huge leap of faith and moved to a much larger retail space near Bermuda Run in March 2008.

Little Stepping Stones…

For Heather Martens, the founder and co-owner of Southern Ties Boutique (formerly Haj-Paj Boutique), her journey from Colorado to North Carolina was definitely NOT what she had planned. She never thought she’d ever move far away from the family she dearly loved. “My parents and in-laws, my brothers and sisters and nieces and nephews… we were all very close,” says Heather.

“However, once I started a family of my own, that became my first priority. It broke our hearts when we moved away from Colorado, but my husband, Troy, and I both knew it was the best thing for our future.”

So in March 2002, Heather and Troy and their young family moved from Colorado Springs to Dallas, TX, so that Troy could further his career and Heather could stay at home with their children. Shortly after they moved, however, they received some unsettling news: Troy’s employer announced an unexpected merger, and there was undoubtedly going to be some unwanted fallout.

That time of uncertainty began a chain of events that would lead them to Oklahoma, where they lived for 10 months, and then, eventually, to their current home in North Carolina. “It was a very stressful transition, to say the least,” remembers Heather. “But we would NEVER have considered moving from Colorado directly to North

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And then the economy turned south.

“You never know what you’re made of, what you’re CAPABLE of, until you’re put to the test,” says Heather. “There were so many businesses, both large and small, that were closing because of the declining economy… I was so determined, sometimes to the point of being impractical, to keep my business going. To do so, it meant working harder than I ever imagined I could; and it meant a lot of sacrifice by my husband and three children (Riley, Christian, and Braeden). Surviving those years was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. However, I learned so much during that time – important business lessons and important LIFE lessons! I owe a lot of my current success to one of the most difficult times of my life. It is true what they say: What doesn’t kill you can only make you stronger.”

Not only did Haj-Paj Boutique survive, but it eventually began to thrive again. Heather relocated the boutique to its current location in Farmington (in a charming old General Store listed on the National Registry of Historic Places) in November 2011, and restructured her business model to bring aboard a few business partners. One of her partners, Karen Hash Wiles, has become a very familiar face at the store, and an integral part of the daily operations. Heather readily admits, “I couldn’t do it without her!”

Other familiar faces at the boutique include Julia Bennett and Teri Morgan (both also pictured on the cover). Julia began working for Haj-Paj Boutique in September of 2008, and has been an important part of its journey and, ultimately, its success. Teri started working part-time for Haj-Paj in November 2011, right after the business moved to Farmington, and is also described by Heather as being “wonderful and indispensable!” Additionally, Heather’s daughter, Riley, now almost 15, has started working at the shop a few days a week after school and on Saturdays. “Being able to share such an important part of my life with my daughter is so rewarding. When I look over and see her there, it makes all of the hard work and sacrifice seem worth it,” says Heather.

Being Southern is a State of Mind!

Having been born and raised in Colorado, you would think that Heather Martens was far removed from having any ‘Southern Ties’ of her own, but you’d be wrong with that assumption. “My grandmother, Helen Bobbitt Mercy, was originally from Wake Forest, North Carolina,” says Heather. “She met my grandfather, Charles, while he was in the Army and stationed at Camp Butner. They fell in love, married, and eventually moved to South Dakota to raise their family. My mother, Kathryn Mercy Langager, was number five of 10 children! Luckily, my grandmother clung to her ‘Southern ways’ and passed her Southern traditions and deep faith onto her children, and eventually, her grandchildren. My mother and father, Curtis Langager, moved to Colorado shortly after they were married, and raised a family of five children (I’m number four). While I’m technically “from” Colorado, I grew up with the strong Southern values I’d inherited from my mother and grandmother, along with a taste for Southern-style cooking and a vocabulary filled with ‘Southern Slang.’ It is hard to explain, but I feel a connection to North Carolina that goes deeper than I ever thought possible. There is no doubt that THIS is where I am meant to be!”

What’s In a Name?

Heather started thinking about changing the name of the business a few years ago. “While customers would regularly comment on how ‘clever’ or ‘cute’ the name Haj-Paj was, we would occasionally have customers who were completely confused by the name. As a business owner, that is something you never want to hear!” Heather exclaims. “Plus, I felt that the business had come such a long way since the first “hodge podge” of products. We were now a full-fledged boutique, specializing in top trends and fashions for Women and Juniors. The name ‘Haj-Paj Boutique’ just didn’t seem to fit us anymore.”

But deciding on a new name was no easy task. “We wanted the new name to somehow reflect our lives, our relationship with each other, and the relationship we’ve forged with our customers and our community.

After a lot of brainstorming sessions, ‘Southern Ties’ was pitched, and it immediately resonated with each one of us!” explains Heather. “I think it really suits us, and sets the tone for the unique atmosphere and type of boutique we offer.”

From the moment you walk through the doors of Southern Ties Boutique, you’ll be greeted with a smile and a sense of Southern hospitality and familiarity that is seldom found in the modern marketplace. “We are ‘everyday women’ ourselves, with crazy lives and hectic schedules, and with our own sets of flaws and short-comings, so we don’t take ourselves too seriously! I think that our customers appreciate the fact that we are approachable and relatable,” says Heather.

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Making a Difference It is no coincidence that many, if not most, of the product lines found at Southern Ties Boutique are ‘Made in the USA’ and/or are a part of a ‘Pay-it-Forward’ or ‘Give Back’ program.

Heather explains, “We feel it is our responsibility to make a positive difference when and where we can. We intentionally seek out products that we know will help others, especially children. Some of our favorites include TOMS Shoes, where each pair sold provides a new pair of shoes for a child in need, and the BridgeWater Candle Company that helps to feed orphans with each candle sale. It really is a privilege to have the opportunity to offer such socially-conscious products.”

Southern Ties Boutique is located just 20 minutes from Winston-Salem, at 1896 Farmington Road, in Farmington, NC. Hours of operation: Monday-Friday 10:30-5:30, and on Saturday from 10:00-4:00. For more information, call 336940-5501 or visit www.facebook.com/SouthernTiesBoutique

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he largest Winter Sport National Championships in America – the 2015 Prudential U.S. Figure Skating Championships – will take place January 17 to 25, at the Greensboro Coliseum Complex. The Prudential U.S. Figure Skating Championships will crown 20 National Champions and will feature America’s Olympians from the Sochi Winter Games that took place earlier this year.

After a series of regional and sectional competitions, approximately 375 skaters will be selected to compete in the U.S. Championships in Greensboro. National champions will be crowned in Ladies, Men, Pairs, and Ice Dance at the Senior, Junior, Novice, Intermediate and Juvenile levels.

Greensboro also served as host city for the highly successful 2011 AT&T U.S. Figure Skating Championships and set the all-time Greensboro Coliseum Complex event attendance record with more than 161,500 total on-site attendance.

Greensboro is the first city in the eastern United States, since New York City in 1945, to host the U.S. Figure Skating Championships twice in four years.

Competitive events will take place over a span of nine days next month with multiple sessions each day. The Championships will conclude with the much-anticipated Smuckers’ Skating Spectacular, an exhibition of champions from events throughout the week. As it did in 2011, Greensboro will once again stage the three major event components – Competition, Practice and FanFest – all under one roof.

“Our event schedule includes 20 competition sessions and the Smucker’s Skating Spectacular on Sunday, January 25, for a total of 21 ticketed events during the nine-day Championships,” said Hill Carrow, Chairman of the 2015 U.S. Prudential Figure Skating Championships. “The Championships are only a few weeks away and are expected to be the single largest event in the Carolinas during 2015.”

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Keep It Simple…Soon It Will Be Christmas Day! “City sidewalks, busy sidewalks….dressed in holiday style. In the air there’s a feeling of Christmas.” – Jay Livingston and Ray Evans

Tip for tree decoration.... Cluster 3 shiny ball ornaments (can vary sizes) together with a wire. Attach a bow.

Make several of these for your tree to add color and interest.

Recipe This recipe came from a Southern Living magazine from the 1970s.

When I found it in my recipe file, it brought back memories of a Christmas dinner shared with our next door neighbors in Graham, NC, who were newlyweds, and shared the same December 28th anniversary as Ed and I.

Ambrosia Salad 4 bananas, sliced 1 ½ cup diced oranges 1 cup seedless red grapes, halved 1 cup chopped dates 4 Tbs. lemon juice Combine and chill.

Dressing: ½ cup mayonnaise ½ cup cranberry sauce (without berries) ½ cup whipping cream, whipped Combine and chill until ready to serve. When ready to serve, toss the fruit mixture with the dressing. Garnish salad with flaked coconut. Serves 8

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y dad was a dairy farmer and I grew up in the country, far from any city sidewalks.

I do remember singing this song, Silver Bells, about the city all dressed for Christmas.

Even the street lights blinked red and green. Every Christmas, mom and dad would drive us to Winston-Salem. The destination was Sears, Roebuck and Company, to Christmas shop and to tell Santa what we wanted for Christmas. Remember the Sears Christmas catalog?

Or was it called a “wish book”? Who can forget the catalog full of toys that arrived weeks before Christmas? These and other Christmas memories give me “a feeling of Christmas.”

Christmas decorating will soon be finished at our house. As I unpack the decorations each year, I find myself remembering special times and people who have touched my life. Poinsettias bring back wonderful memories of my paternal grandfather who owned a florist in Elkin and who decorated with poinsettias for our Christmas wedding. A poinsettia will always be a part of our Christmas decorations.

Even the recipes I pull out of my recipe file to use during the holiday season evoke memories of past Christmases. The music, cards, food, smells, family activities, movies, etc. contribute to that “feeling of Christmas.” Although Christmas is not the same as when I was young, or when our children were home, I can be thankful for all the wonderful memories.

“Silver bells, silver bells….it’s Christmas time in the city. Ring-a-ling, hear them sing. Soon it will be Christmas Day.” Merry Christmas…..make special memories this year!

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Go Free Pants – Designed by a woman for women. This patentpending design replaces the uncomfortable cross seam in traditional pants with a smooth cotton panel sewn into the pant. Enjoy the option to wear your panties or go “commando” and feel sexy and look great with no panty lines. Go Free Pants are a healthy choice because “less is more” for ladies down there! Enjoy the freedom to Go Free! Visit www.GoFreePants.com

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Give the gift of style with a gift certificate, designer handbag, or accessories at Style Encore! It’s a gift any woman on your list is sure to love! Visit www.Style-EncoreNCTriad.com. See ad on page 35.

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Give the gift of style with a gift certificate, designer handbag, or accessories at Style Encore! It’s a gift any woman on your list is sure to love! Visit www.Style-EncoreNCTriad.com. See their ad on page 105.

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Distinctive Scentsy Warmers melt specially formulated wax with the heat of a low-watt light bulb or heating element, enhancing your home with more than 80 Scentsy fragrances safely, with no flame, smoke, or soot. Visit Scentsy Independent Consultant Sherri Weddle Bowen at www.SherriBowen.Scentsy.us to view more products.

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We've got the perfect gift for any of the women on your list. This one size fits all (0-26) vest comes in multiple colors and has many ways you can wear it. At $46, it is a gift she is sure to thank you for!

Visit www.WinstonSalem.MainstreamBoutique.com. See their ad on page 97.

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These slippers balance contemporary style with superior comfort in a variety of textures and design. Using on-trend embellishment while paying highest attention to comfort, each slipper is a paragon of style and luxury. You are sure to find one to suit every personality!

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Introducing Uno de 50....Jewels of the Mediterranean. A Spanish brand of handcrafted jewelry whose hallmark is its unique and distinctive design. This collection includes stunning bracelets, necklaces, and earrings. Visit www.HipChicsBoutique.com. See ad on page 7.

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"You Only Live Once"... take home a cool YOLO stand-up paddleboard for her, him, or you! If paddleboarding isn’t for you - check out the all-terrain Segway PT or even a 3-speed YOLO bicycle! All of these are available at Triad ECO Adventures’ boutique downtown or the warehouse across from the Gateway YMCA and UNCSA. 722.777 or www.TriadECOAdventures.com

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Shea’s Consign & Design

This collection is all about fashion that's Earth friendly.

These bags are made from up-cycled canvas and tarps from around the world with a great vintage look and an edgy oneof-a-kind style. Find them at Shea’s Consign & Design or at www.SheasConsignAndDesign.com.

10 Inner Strength Pilates Give the gift of massage for the holidays! Adele's Massage Special is something everyone will love! Purchase three 60-minute massage gift certificates for $150! Give two as gifts and keep one for yourself! Massage gift certificates must be used by April 1, 2015. Available at Inner Strength Pilates. Visit www.InnerStrengthPilatesNC.com. See ad on page 135.

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11 Fleet Feet Sports Balega ® Socks! Spoil those kids this season with socks that they really love! Best-fitting, best washing, longest lasting socks!

Seamless toe and made with polyester and nylon to make for a great fitting pair of socks. No slouch! $5 per pair, available for girls and boys. Fleet Feet Sports, 50 Miller Street (across from Whole Foods Market) or www.FleetFeetWinston-Salem.com.

12 Fleet Feet Sports Hair Buffs for everyone on your list! $8 each. Holds hair back, catches sweat, and comes in tons of patterns & designs!

Awesome stocking stuffer! Fleet Feet Sports, 50 Miller Street (across from Whole Foods Market) or www.FleetFeetWinston-Salem.com.

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Gift cards from etc. Consignment make a great gift or stocking stuffer! After all, “It’s a different store every week!”

There’s always something new to discover at etc! Visit www.EtcConsignmentShoppe.com.com. See ad on page 95.

14 Farrago One of a kind creations by C B Tatum make the best Christmas gifts. Whether it is a painted window, a metal mermaid, or a license plate guitar, you can find what you are looking for at Farrago. Photo by Dennis Kale. Visit www.FarragoNC.com.

See their ad on page 83.

15 The Sparrow’s Nest We've got the perfect gift for anyone on your list. We offer unique vintage and new gifts, clothing, accessories, jewelry and home decor. Come create a gift basket for that someone special.

Visit The Sparrow’s Nest or Facebook.com/SparrowsNestNC.

16 Kim Taylor & Co. Cute ceramic trays by Stacy Claire Boyd are the perfect gift for any holiday party. They are 4.75" x 5.75" and are food safe. They are $13 each. Visit Kim Taylor & Co or www.KimTaylorAndCo.com.

17 Accent Prone Now carrying My Saint My Hero bracelets! These make great stocking stuffers for the holidays! Visit www.AccentProne.com.

See ad on page 3.

18 Swim Gear Whether you have a recreational or competitive swimmer on your holiday shopping list, Swim Gear has loads of options, including great stocking stuffers such as goggles, shampoo and conditioner, watches, sunglasses, and more! Under-the-tree options include swimwear, water aerobics equipment, and much more! Swim Gear offers the biggest selection of goggles in the Triad and specializes in custom fits to ensure that they are suitable for any circumstance! Available at Swim Gear at 147 S. Stratford Rd or www.SwimGearNC.com.

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Dream Dinners gift cards are a perfect gift for family, friends and co-workers, as well as a customer appreciation gift or employee reward. eCard options available, and can be ordered online! Available in amounts of $25 - $500 [Please remember that we have a minimum 36-serving order requirement that may exceed the value selected and require an additional financial contribution from the recipient.

We offer an 18-serving Introductory Offer for $74.95 (for first time guests).] Visit Dream Dinners or see ad on page 33.

20 Wingo’s Celebrate a special time - either past or present – with this fine collection of sterling silver inspired by historic wrought iron gates throughout the South. Available at Wingo’s Fine Jewelry at 2503 Lewisville-Clemmons Rd or 766-8505.

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Initial Decor's Monogram Medallion Clutch is at the top of everyone's list this year! Between the fabric choices and over 60 acrylic colors, you're sure to find a combo you love! Every clutch is hand made to order right here in NC. The inside features a cash/receipt divider and two pockets for credit cards. Order one for yourself and give one as a gift! $70.99 each. Visit www.InitialDecor.com. See ad on page 133.

22 Textures Salon Rewined Candles are one of the many unique items sold in the Textures gift shop. Made with 100% soy, they are hand poured in repurposed wine bottles, and each has a fragrance that mimics your favorite wine flavor. This season’s holiday scent is Wine Under the Tree, with inviting notes of Blue Spruce and a hint of citrus. Rewined candles make a perfect gift for any occasion and sell for $25.00. Find them at Textures Salon or www.TexturesSalonNC.com.

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Bourbon and Boweties is a unique bracelet line that is handmade with semiprecious stones, geodes, smoky quartz, lava stones, shells, turquoise, jade, polished coral, Peruvian opal, agates, shotgun shells, vintage coins and many more natural stones that are all wrapped with gold plated wire. Although the stones come from around the world they are all individually “Made by PROUD Southern hands” in America! These bracelets come in a variety of sizes and colors and you can stack them up to your own liking! These bracelets start at $30.

Visit www.AccentProne.com. See ad on page 3.

24 Simply Sterling & Co. It’s your story, tell it like is with a little license from Waxing Poetic’s charming collection found at Simply Sterling & Company or online at www.SimplySterling.com, starting at $24! See ad on page 27.

25 Simply Sterling & Co. Who wouldn’t love to snap on one of these intricate works of liquid art? Made in America and made for you! These lovelies can be found at Simply Sterling & Company.

Visit www.SimplySterling.com. See ad on page 27.

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By Meghan E. W. Corbett orth Carolina is famous for mouth-watering barbeque. In fact, it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to find good barbeque anywhere else in the world. Few people know what it takes to make this southern delicacy, but the people of Red Hot & Blue know it well and serve it up year ‘round in Winston-Salem!

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“Red Hot and Blue is a full-service, casual-themed restaurant chain and caterer featuring delicious award-winning ribs, barbeque, smoked wings and southern sides and homemade desserts, such as banana pudding and bread pudding,” said COO Randy McCann.

“The atmosphere is steeped in legendary and contemporary blues music and delivers a large dose of southern hospitality in a fun and entertaining dining environment. The first Red Hot and Blue restaurant opened in Arlington, Virginia, in 1988. The founders were friends who longed for authentic Memphis-style barbeque and great blues music. Unable to find that combination anywhere in the Washington, DC area, they decided the only way to get it done was to open a restaurant of their own. Today, there are 23 Red Hot & Blue restaurants in the United States; each features blues-themed memorabilia and huge ‘Dancing Pig’ logos in their buildings.”

The Winston-Salem location opened in the fall of 2010 when the owners decided to move the headquarters from Arlington to Winston-Salem. “The Red Hot & Blue restaurant on Deacon Boulevard is very involved in supporting Wake Forest athletics,” said CEO John Walker. “I am a WFU graduate and am very supportive of my alma mater. Red Hot & Blue also has a vending booth at the Lawrence Joel Veterans Memorial Coliseum, so the authentic barbeque is available during all sporting events!”

True to its founding, Red Hot & Blue still specializes in this authentic, southern barbeque. “The core of Red Hot & Blue’s offerings is hickory-smoked meat – ribs, pulled pork barbeque, smoked-chicken, tender beef brisket, smoked-sausage, hickorysmoked wings and a line of branded barbeque sauces,” said Culinary Director Sonny McKnight. “Only the finest USAproduced meat, fresh produce and ingredients are used, and all barbeque is cooked slowly, using hickory logs, at low temperatures and long cooking times. Freshness is key. For example, the potato salad is homemade in 12-pound units every four hours so it is always fresh. Menus feature starters, salads, burgers, entrées including ribs, pulled pork, beef brisket, chicken, seafood, a variety of southern sides and homemade desserts. Since its founding, more and more delectable items have been added. Depending on location, customers are able to sample

traditional Memphis, Texas, North Carolina and other style barbeque. Red Hot & Blue personnel have made every attempt to design menus catering to local preferences.”

Through the years, the extra menu offerings have changed with the changing demands of the local communities. “In 2012, Red Hot & Blue introduced a ‘lighter fare’ menu section in response to requests from its calorie-conscious guests,” said McKnight. “It includes eight new offerings, all 305-505 calories. New items include the grilled barramundi platter; grilled salmon (offered as a salmon platter and a salmon salad); garlic chicken and vegetable wraps; turkey salad; a turkey burger and a veggie burger. Red, Hot & Blue also offers many gluten-free menu suggestions for those guests with special dietary needs.”

Red Hot & Blue offers a dozen sauce options for its famous wings – their own barbeque sauce line including Mojo Mild, Big Mama’s Mustard, Hoochie Coochie Hot, Memphis Dry Rub, Double Trouble, Hard Luck Vinegar and Sufferin’ Sweet, and other popular flavors including buffalo, lemon pepper, garlic pepper, bourbon molasses and sweet red chili.

If you need catering, Red Hot & Blue has you covered! “Catering is a very large and growing part of Red Hot & Blue’s business,” said President Randy McCann. “Whether you’re planning a small gathering or large event, the friendly, professional and experienced catering crew at Red, Hot & Blue will do all the cooking, set-up, serving and clean-up. Regardless of size, Red Hot & Blue prides itself on its ability to cater on-site at any location. Prices, services and food offerings may vary from location to location; however, guests can rest assured that they will be receiving the same recipe for award-winning, slow-smoked ribs, pulled pork, beef brisket, chicken and other southernstyle fixings that are Red Hot & Blue’s trademark.

Red Hot & Blue is located at 613 Deacon Boulevard in Winston-Salem. Restaurant hours are 11am-9pm Monday through Saturday and 12-7pm on Sunday.

For more information, call 336.770.4227, or visit the website at www.redhotandblue.com.

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Professional Women of Winston-Salem We meet the 2nd Wednesday of every month

Use Body Language to Walk,Talk and Act Like a Leader Learn from Blanca Cobb, internationallyrecognized nonverbal communications expert Wednesday, December 10 - 11:30am-1:00pm Womble Carlyle Club at BB&T Ballpark Register online at PWWS.org

Bring food for the Forsyth Backpack Program to the Luncheon on December 10th!

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Sawtooth School for Visual Art 25th Annual Deck the Halls

By Meghan E.W. Corbett unning from December 5th through December 22nd, this year’s Deck the Halls at the Sawtooth School for Visual Art promises to be the best yet! What began as a three-day art show and fundraiser in 1989 has become the largest fundraising event for the Sawtooth School forf Visual Art.

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“The event started…with the simple title of ‘Holiday Sale,’” said Kevin Mundy, director of sales and marketing. “It featured the work of 30 to 35 artists and craftsmen. The name was changed to Deck the Halls in the early 1990s and has continued to grow in size and popularity through the years. Deck the Halls now features 80 to 100 local and regional artists and craftsmen during an 18-day period, filling nearly 3,000 square feet of display space. Many of the artists who participate in Deck the Halls teach classes and workshops at Sawtooth.”

Proceeds raised during this annual event support Sawtooth’s operations and artbased programming. “Not only is Deck the Halls the Sawtooth School’s largest single fundraiser, it also allows our local and regional artists and craftsmen to generate income for themselves,” said Mundy. “Items are sold on commission, so Sawtooth and the participating artists share the revenue.”

Deck the Halls is a great venue for acquiring remarkably unique, one-of-a-kind art pieces without the high price tag normally associated with rare artwork. “While Deck the Halls offers a broad range of unique, creative, hand-crafted items, prices are very affordable,” said Mundy. “Many beautiful ceramic items are $20 to $30, and a number of smaller items, like handmade scented soaps, cards and ornaments, are available for less than $10.”

Looking for something to enjoy year round? “While there are many seasonal and holiday-inspired items like ornaments and wreaths featured in Deck the Halls, most items are not seasonal and can be used year-round as functional pieces and/or decorative accents,” said Mundy.

Knowing all that the Sawtooth School for Visual Art does is an important part of understanding why supporting fundraisers like Deck the Halls is so necessary. “Sawtooth is the Triad’s premier community art school, offering classes and workshops for adults and children of all skill levels as it has been doing for nearly 70 years,” said Mundy. “As a nonprofit organization, Sawtooth depends on fundraising events like Deck the Halls to help fund its ongoing operations. Sawtooth teaches classes and workshops in painting, drawing, ceramics, printmaking, photography, wood, metal, glass, digital art and fibers.

Each of these art forms, along with a few others, will be represented at Deck the Halls.”

General admission to Deck the Halls is free and shopping hours are 10am-7pm Monday through Friday, 10am-4pm on Saturday and 11am-4pm on Sunday. If you would like to purchase tickets to the preview party on December 4th, call 336.723.7395, ext. 201.

Preview party tickets are $25/person in advance and $30/person at the door.

The Sawtooth School for Visual Art is located in the Milton Rhodes Center for the Arts complex at 251 North Spruce Street in downtown Winston-Salem. For hours of operation and additional information, visit www.sawtooth.org.

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My cousin, Lisa, had several favorites. One year she and her sister, Cindy, both got baby doll beds. Lisa’s favorite memory was not the doll bed, but the fact that she could sit in the bed and the bottom would fall out. Of course, she always sat in Cindy’s doll bed, not her own. Evidently annoying her sister was as much fun as having a baby doll bed. Cindy got a Mrs. Beasley doll a few years later.

Lisa loved her glasses and would snitch them on a regular basis and wear them herself. Lisa loved Cindy’s gifts.

Early gifts were always fun. One friend from years ago remembered that she and her siblings got a sled very early because of the weather. There was not a lot of snow in that area, so they got to enjoy Christmas early that year.

Folks who were young during the depression era didn’t have the quantity of gifts that later generations enjoyed. In many cases, families were much larger and gifts were likely to be shared. Mom recalled that she and her brothers knew where my grandmother hid their gifts and would play with them when she was at work. One of them was the lookout so they wouldn’t get caught.

Did you wish for a Red Rider BB gun like Ralphie? Did you get a Mr. Machine or later a G.I.Joe? What can you make with Legos? Anything evidently. Recently, I saw a headboard made of Legos. What a neat idea and a way to keep those pesky little parts off the floor.

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How about Chatty Cathy or Barbie? Both were introduced around the same time period. Barbie dolls have stayed popular for generations, but the first ones still stand out. The clothes were very well made and reflected the era with hats and shoes to match each outfit. I don’t recall any Chatty Cathy dolls beyond the original one, but the fact that she talked made her memorable.

How about Baby Tender Love? I remember my daughter got one each year when she was little. Every Christmas she did something different – the sneezing one was my favorite. She reminded me of my favorite doll, Tiny Tears. I think she became special when I was able to appreciate how hard my parents worked to be sure I got her that Christmas.

The era of electronic computerized toys mostly has me confused.

I don’t know much or anything about how most of them work, but ask any teenager (or four year old, for that matter) and they’ll help you.

Ultimately, my cousin Cindy stated it perfectly. It’s not about the gifts, it’s about quality time with friends and family. That is what makes special memories and times to share with younger generations. Merry Christmas to you! Have a blessed time with your loved ones!

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By Denise Heidel ith the upcoming holiday season, many are making plans to “pop the question.” One could say that November through February is “Engagement Season.” It is estimated that 39% of all proposals occur during these months, with the most popular dates being Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s, and Valentine’s Day. For many, it’s the optimal time of year because, thanks to many family gatherings, the engagement can be shared with the people they love the most.

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But before the big question is asked, the engagement ring is selected. Gone are the days that state an engagement ring should be a single solitaire diamond equal to three months’ salary. Today’s couples consider long-term financial plans when setting their budget, as well as the activity level of the wearer. And of course, who says it has to be a diamond at all? (Mine’s not – I opted for an emerald, which is my husband’s birthstone.)

Being the history nerd that I am, I wondered where the tradition of the diamond ring began. There have been symbols of matrimonial intentions throughout history, but the first recorded diamond ring dates back to 1477 when Archduke Maximilian of Austria proposed to Mary of Burgundy. But far from being the traditional diamond solitaire that is virtually synonymous with engagement, the ring he gave her was set with thin pieces of diamonds that had been shaped into an “M.” The diamond solitaire became popular as the engagement ring of choice in the 1880s when Tiffany & Co. introduced the six-prong setting, designed to give the diamond its best opportunity to sparkle.

The purchase of an engagement ring is just the first of many decisions when it comes to saying, “I do.” Twice a year, as we work on our biannual wedding publication, Forsyth Woman Engaged!, we see many weddings, and the engagement ring is almost always a prominent figure in any engagement picture or, after the wedding, pictured with the new wedding bands.

As we prepare for our January issue of Forsyth Woman Engaged!, we wondered about engagement rings and how they are chosen. We polled some of our readers and determined that the majority of engagement rings are chosen without input from the bride. Admittedly, we were as surprised as 41% of our surveyed brides who reported that they had not given any input into the ring that was selected, nor had they dropped any hints. The overwhelming majority were thrilled with their groom’s selection with only 12% expressing disappointment in the chosen ring.

The survey also showed that 31% of brides had given hints to the type of ring they wanted, but were not a part of the final ring selection. Only 23% picked their own ring, and 5% inherited a family heirloom as their engagement ring.

No matter how the engagement ring is selected, the stone quality or type, or the dollar value attached to the ring, for most, the ring is symbolic of a promise and commitment that makes it invaluable to the wearer.

If you’re recently engaged, congratulations! We hope you will pick up the January issue of Forsyth Woman Engaged! and if you just can’t wait for our January issue, please take a look through our past issues on ForsythWomanEngaged.com.

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To Your Health!

END POLIO NOW

By Sara Migliarese & Dave McConnell “Polio no longer exists.” o you know if this boastful statement is accurate or just wishful thinking?

On October 24, 2014, while many folks in Forsyth County were concentrating on Halloween costumes, carving pumpkins, and planning hayrides, this year’s World Polio Day was celebrated around the globe. While most of the world’s population now lives in polio-free regions, allowing the disease to gain ground could be a catastrophe. Since the Global Polio Eradication Initiative was established in 1988, the number of polio cases has fallen from 1,000 per day to less than 1 per day so far in 2014. Polio remains endemic in Afghanistan, Nigeria, and Pakistan, with the majority of cases in Pakistan. This year marks the first World Polio Day where both Southeast Asia and India were declared polio-free (India was declared polio-free three years ago). So there is lots of good news about polio eradication, but there is still some bad news.

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“Polio exists on another continent, so I don’t need to be concerned.”

While many Americans may feel this way about polio, changing this perception is crucial to continuing the progress made toward total eradication worldwide. The Global Polio Eradication Initiative is a partnership of Rotary International, the World Health Organization, UNICEF, the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, and many national governments. So while the disease may seem an ocean away, some of the organizations fighting to stop it are right here in our community. Local Rotarians donate funds, volunteer hours, and help with strategic planning in cooperation with other international and national groups, resulting in the immunization against polio of over 2.5 billion children around the world. The goal of the Global Polio Eradication Initiative of ending the disease worldwide by 2018 is well within reach. Local Rotarians are doing their best to move the world toward this goal.

“We should be more concerned about Ebola than polio.”

While Ebola outbreaks are in the local and national news much more frequently than polio, recent advances in polio eradication in West Africa are positively affecting the ability of health care workers to prepare for Ebola. Previously established systems and logistics used to help with polio immunization in West African countries are now being utilized in preparedness planning, social mobilization, surveillance of suspected cases, contact tracing, and assisting with outbreak logistics. These satellite-based, cutting-edge technologies are being applied in Nigeria as well, to stem the Ebola outbreak, where in the past they have been used to ensure that no child misses out on polio vaccination. As a result, the number of polio cases has dropped in Nigeria from 53 in 2013 to just 6 cases this year. These “Made in Nigeria” contact tracing and daily transmission mapping capabilities are currently being copied by several advanced countries with good health systems. Polio eradication efforts to the rescue of Ebola patients!

“Why work to eradicate polio?”

Melinda Mailhot, a Global Polio Eradication Initiative worker answered this question. “I don’t think there is anything more worthwhile in the field of global health than getting rid of a disease forever,” she said. “It has only happened once so far, but how much better is our world without smallpox? And how much better will it be without polio?” I hope we find out by 2018, Melinda!

Resources: www.EndPolioNow.org and www.polioeradicatation.org.

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By Jan Allison

The Golden Circle

Time for a true confession on my part. I have a crush on Simon Sinek. There. I said it. I don’t think my hubby will mind that I shared the truth. He thinks Simon is a pretty awesome guy, too. The reason for my crush? Simon helped me find my “Why” and I am forever grateful! Simon Sinek is the motivational speaker and author of Start with Why and Leaders Eat Last. A “Why” is defined as the purpose, cause, or belief that inspires you to do what you do. In October of 2008, I had the pleasure of seeing Simon speak, in person, with a small group of ladies aspiring to be successful in growing their businesses. Simon was just beginning to share his message of Starting with Why and had the luxury of time to be able to share his message in detail. Simon walked me to the very center of my being and got me to

Every single organization on the planet, even our own careers, always functions on three levels.

What we do, How we do it and Why we do it.

my Why: I CARE. In a short conversation, I was reduced to huge alligator tears that I could not control, no matter how hard I tried. Simon explained that I couldn’t stop the tears because I had gotten to my Why in my limbic brain where emotion could not be controlled. (Side note: our limbic brain is responsible for all of our feelings, like trust and loyalty. It’s also responsible for all human behavior, all decision-making, and it has no capacity for language.) That very moment I was able to define who I was as a person and will always be. Since that point, I follow my Why with a passion and take action in my own life based upon caring.

When all those pieces are aligned, it gives us a filter through which to make decisions. It provides a foundation for innovation. When all three pieces are in balance, others will say, with absolute clarity and certainty, “We know who you are,” and “We know what you stand for.” Every company or organization knows WHAT they do. These are the products we sell or the services we provide (for example: Apple’s product is the iPhone). Some companies and organizations know HOW they do what they do. The unique selling proposition that sets us apart from our competition; the things we think make us special or different from everyone else (for example: Apple’s products are beautifully designed and easy to use). Very few people and organizations can clearly articulate WHY they do what they do.

Why is a purpose, a cause or a belief. It provides a clear answer to Why we get out of bed in the morning, Why our company even exists and Why that should matter to anyone else (for example: Apple believes in challenging the status quo and doing things differently). Making money is NOT a Why. Revenues, profits, salaries and other monetary measurements are simply results of what we do. The Why inspires us. We naturally communicate from the outside-in of the Golden Circle. We tell people WHAT we do, we tell them HOW we’re different or special, and then we expect a behavior, like a purchase, to occur. The problem is that WHAT and HOW do not inspire action.

Facts and figures make rational sense, but we don’t make decisions purely based on facts and figures. Starting with What is what commodities do. Starting with Why is what leaders do. Leaders inspire.

Ready to find your Why? Visit www.startwithwhy.com for tools to help you define your why, enabling you to lead your life in a more inspirational manner.

The description of The Golden Circle is shared directly from startwithwhy.com. Simon is a master at describing his theory and I couldn’t begin to attempt to recreate a logical summary.

“People don’t buy what you do, they buy why you do it.” - Simon Sinek

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Where the community gathers to celebrate, relax and re-connect!

By Martie Emory

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t the end of another festive year the energetic staff of the Village Inn Event Center in Clemmons, NC, is gearing up for New Year’s Eve and a jumpstart into 2015. And they couldn’t be more thankful for the weddings, parties and special events they’ve hosted over the past year – and for the many friends they’ve made along the way. Their dedication to being “one venue with endless possibilities” shines through each event and the team inside the Inn has created a welcoming environment for folks to meet, connect, learn, relax and share both old and new memories.

Grateful for the enormous support from corporate and community groups, owner Dana Bryson and her team have been even more mindful of the key connection they experience firsthand between local businesses and how much they depend on each other for growth. “I depend on and greatly appreciate the support of the local community,” says Dana, who was born and raised here.

“It’s absolutely vital to continue a thriving business!”

The Inn has been in definite party mode during 2014 as several local high schools hosted reunions; civic groups like the Girl Scouts, Rotary Club and the Knights of Columbus gathered for fellowship; community teams staged sports banquets, as well as the Great Southern Atlantic Conference; the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County Council of PTAs gathered to meet, as did groups from Salem College; several charitable foundations sponsored events (including Forsyth Woman publisher Keela Johnson’s own Make-A-Wish event); and medical groups NWAHEC, Wake Forest Baptist Health and Novant held events for their employees at the Inn. Other notable events included Pink Ribbon, and the No Limits II Dance for adults with mental and physical disabilities. “We were grateful to host this event four times this year,” says Dana.

“Volunteers also made our 4th Annual Party in Pink Zumbathon a very special event. We have raised over $16,000 in the past four years of holding this event for breast cancer awareness.”

In addition, over 60 couples celebrated a marriage at the Village Inn Event Center this past year, discovering this premier, full-service venue (including a full-service event planner) to be the perfect setting to gather family and friends for a once-in-a-lifetime occasion.

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With 141 guest rooms, customdesigned menus and truly impeccable service, this popular venue is also an AAA Three-Diamond Hotel & Conference Center. If you’re traveling to the area for business or to attend a sporting event, it’s also conveniently located only minutes from downtown Winston-Salem.

As another year draws to a close, the Inn also has big plans for New Year’s Eve as they expect to expand their yearly celebration.

“Last year we were sold out in the Grand Ballroom,” says Dana.

“This year we plan to open up the Crystal Ballroom for a second room of dancing, eating and partying!” Party packages will include guest rooms as long as available, or guests can purchase tickets for just dancing and dining, including heavy hors d’oeuvres and a champagne toast at midnight.

Be sure to follow the Inn at www.facebook.com/VillageInnEventCenter for updates on New Year’s Eve activities or call general manager and director of catering, Lana Schlotfeldt, for tickets and reservations. The Inn expects to launch the upcoming new year with much anticipation and their well-known professionalism and hospitality!

The Village Inn Event Center is located in the heart of Clemmons at 6205 Ramada Drive. Call 336-766-9121 for rates, availability and packages or visit www.thevillageinn.com.

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Offers Clients Effective Cleaning with a Personal Touch

By Elisa D. Wallace

“M

aribel came to clean our house, but she quickly became a part of the family. We are so blessed to know her!” said Sheri and Richard Felton, two customers of Mary’s Professional Cleaning. The family is pleased to have Maribel and her team coming to their home often to help clean the usual family messes.

Satisfied customers agree that Mary’s Professional Cleaning is the best option for those wanting a clean house with a personal touch.

Owner Maribel Tapia is pleased that so many enjoy calling her business first when it comes to keeping their home neat. Tapia feels it is her strong work ethic, combined with extensive experience and a personal touch, which has helped build her business to what it is. “I have more than ten years of experience when it comes to cleaning houses,” replied Tapia.

Mary’s Professional Cleaning, which has been open for business for three years, offers a variety of special services.

“One of our most popular services would be our ‘Deep Cleaning,” said Tapia. A Deep Cleaning provides customers with a “hospital-like” extensive cleaning.

First, Tapia and her team remove all of the furniture and begin cleaning everything—floorboards, crown molding, baseboards, even all parts of the windows. In the kitchen, Tapia’s team cleans the oven inside and out. In the bathroom, all areas are thoroughly disinfected. Tapia said that because of their thorough work, customers are shocked after their home is “Deep Cleaned” as the water will run black for a minute or two because of the mold that has been removed. After this service, families are free of mold. Since the Deep Cleaning is so thorough, Tapia says that customers only usually need this a few times. Afterwards, usual cleaning services can be used.

have both children and pets,” Tapia replied. “We want to keep them safe from any chemicals.”

While Mary’s Professional Cleaning cleans a variety of homes— from newly constructed homes to apartments—the team’s commitment to being flexible has truly helped build a solidreputation. “We are able to accommodate to any schedule and pride ourselves in being prompt and on time,” said Tapia.

Mary’s Professional Cleaning offers competitive pricing and will be offering a special this upcoming month for customers. “For the month of December, we will be offering NEW customers 15-20% off of their first service.” Interested customers will need to bring in their Forsyth Woman advertisement to receive this discount. If interested, please contact them at either 336-448-5640 (house) or 980-263-1399 (cell). Mary’s Professional Cleaning can also be reached via email at: maribeltapia321@gmail.com and found on Facebook.

Customers like the Feltons are pleased to have Mary’s Professional Cleaning in their lives. Tapia and her team truly impressed the couple, who were not only looking for strong services and reasonable prices, but also a personal touch. “She does Tapia and her team are proud to use biodegradable products, a great job for us, but she’s also ensuring that the family’s pets and children are not affected by incredibly caring and has enriched their thorough cleaning. “We clean a number of houses which our lives as a whole!”

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Photo Artistry by Melinda: Getting to Know Melinda

By Denise Heidel

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hey say that everyone has a calling – a purpose, if you will. Some people, like Melinda Smith Lamm, discovered hers at 13 years old, when she was given her first camera. A student of observation, Melinda has spent her entire life dedicated to capturing images, preserving moments in time, and documenting memories. Her portfolio is full of photography that tells many different stories.

Melinda sees so much more than a casual observer. She watches people. She embraces both the simplicity and grandeur in nature. Melinda sees intricacies that most of us probably miss and take for granted. And in those tiny details, she sees art. “From the day I took my first picture,” says Melinda, “I’ve wanted to use my camera to find insignificant details and turn them into something beautiful.”

And she’s done an amazing job. Melinda has traveled all over the world and captured all types of people, as well as breathtaking scenes.

Her work is based on the raw talent of a born artisan. Some people are full of natural talent, and Melinda is one of them.

“I’m so grateful that I discovered photography at a young age,” Melinda shares. “If I had a typical office job, I’d be miserable. I love using my camera to meet people and every day is different! I love the adventure!”

Whether she’s taking a picture of a candid moment, or a posed portrait, Melinda loves her life behind the viewfinder. Through it, she feels she can share secrets and tell stories of moments that would otherwise be forgotten.

“I spent years never showing my work because I didn’t think anyone besides myself would like it. I was fortunate enough to have the support of people who recognized a talent that I was nervous to share. I am forever thankful to those people who were willing to identify that potential in me and help me to develop my skills.”

We are grateful, too! Melinda’s work can be viewed both on her website as well as through the pages of Forsyth Woman magazine! Melinda frequently takes pictures for us and we are always thrilled with the quality of her work!

See Melinda’s work on her website, PhotoArtistryByMelinda.com. Many of her pictures are available for purchase. To schedule an appointment or purchase a print, call her at 407.3655 or email PhotoArtistryByMelinda@yahoo.com.

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Gifts for the Impossible to Buy For

By Vonda Henderson

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e are all blessed at some point in our life with a friend or family member classified as “impossible to buy for.” You may be in that category yourself – most of us have been at one time or another.

These people are the challenges at every giftgiving season.

We struggle to come up with something to delight or surprise them. To maintain and perhaps save your holiday spirit, here are some ideas or directions to consider in order to find the perfect gift for those beloved family and friends who fall into this category.

As a first step, review the gift ideas contained in this edition of Forsyth Woman. The team has put together some great ideas from our advertisers. You may just find the perfect gift right in that section.

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Luxury Gifts: Luxury gifts don’t necessarily cost a lot - they’re those things that you probably enjoy, but don’t always schedule for yourself.

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Event Gifts: These are fun because, most of the time, you get to go, too. For sporting enthusiasts, the arts inspired, or movie buffs, Winston-Salem has a lot to offer.

• Tickets to a favorite play • Season tickets for the sports fan • NASCAR tickets for the racer in your life • Museum passes • Movie passes • Concert tickets Giving Back Gifts: These are opportunities to share the gift of charity and reaching out to others. They are great ways to teach our children important values.

• Volunteer at the soup kitchen • Spend the day helping at a food bank • Give your time to someone who may need a visit • Adopt a cause for the next year and schedule family time around it Lessons Gifts: These are stretching your wings kinds of gifts.

Perhaps your impossible to buy for has something they’ve always wanted to try. A lesson or two in some of the following might be perfect.

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• Ballroom dancing • Art classes Embrace the challenge of finding something special. You’re probably enjoy the giving as much as the receiver.

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Setting the Table, Minus One

By Lisa S.T. Doss

ow often do we wish acquaintances or strangers the hope of a merry Christmas? The words feel so natural; however, not everyone may feel enveloped by the words. Many are coping with loss or the change of a beloved tradition. An empty chair at Christmas is a challenge that many face. In response, we find that we want to help, to reach out, and support our family member or good friend. Through the stories of women facing a great change this Christmas, we may find insight, and hopefully, answers, too.

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Finding New Traditions The tradition of family was an important part of Amanda Wells' Christmas tradition. It was a gathering of parents and siblings, brother and sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews. After losing her parents, the family tradition combined the past with the present. Amanda writes, "The Christmas after my mother passed away, neither my sister nor brother wanted to do anything.

The kids decided we should eat tacos for dinner; so now, we rotate houses and eat tacos, of all things. It's important that I use mom's cookie cutters and her favorite recipes. We laugh and cry a little, too. We've had two rough Christmases without her, but this has become our new normal. She wouldn't want us to sulk because she loved Christmas. I wish I could say it becomes easier; instead, we have learned to live without her a little better!"

Discovering Hope in Separation Stacey Long, separated from her husband in the early part of 2014, shares her thoughts about this new transition in her life. "Being away from one's children at Christmas feels very wrong, and it never occurred to me that I might experience it. My parents, despite separating when I was young, always spent Christmas Day together. Reflecting back, the day as a family was always meaningful to me. One day, I hope to achieve the same. I'd like our kids to remember Christmas as a family occasion, not a splintered gathering.

I'm learning that Christmas doesn't end with a marriage, it just changes. If you love the festive season, like I do, you'll have an unwavering belief that the best gifts have yet to come."

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Maintaining Tradition Via Technology Michelle Wall, a military wife and mother, has spent many holidays and special occasions while her husband was deployed overseas. She writes, "Christmas is especially difficult for our kids who are ten, five, and two years old, so I try to make it easier on them by following through with our family traditions as much as possible. We always decorate the tree while jamming to Christmas carols, and we always do some Christmas baking that never turns out exactly right, but the kids love it! We include Rob as much as possible. Technology has made it easier for us to stay in touch. We can send pictures and chat through Skype when his internet service cooperates. We'll send pictures of our decorations and care packages, and he'll send us things as well. The kids know their dad is at work in Afghanistan, and they miss him.

I hope that all military families with a loved one overseas can focus on the positive, and keep the Christmas spirit alive within themselves and their families."

Granting Christmas Wishes In her late eighties, my grandmother decided to stay home for Christmas.

My mother, sister, and I must have sounded relentless in our request that she spend the holiday in company. Looking back, I regret not listening to her wishes with more understanding. She did not want to endure the long hours of traveling in winter or risk being exposed to an illness. However, she clearly had a Plan A (to have dinner with a nephew who lived in town) and a Plan B (to enjoy the Christmas shows throughout the day). Not only was she wise, she was smart.

Each of us holds our own expectation of Christmas. While it should include our loved ones, the day presents challenges when a significant person is missing from our table.

It is important that we listen and, for those who need the day to be about reflection, offer support to them through prayer and peace.

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Locking Your Love

• Carving initials into a tree.

• Tattooing your name on his arm.

• Wearing each other’s class ring.

• Wearing his picture in a locket around your neck. ave you ever shown your commitment to a boyfriend through any of these outward signs of a promise of love? Depending on your generation, you may have even worn his football letter jacket to mark your territory. “This guy is mine. Hands off, you hussies.” Why do humans need to demonstrate to their peers that they are in a committed relationship and that they are worthy of love? Teenagers may wear each other’s class rings or spray paint graffiti on an overpass as a status symbol or to demonstrate their popularity.

Young adults don’t wear each other’s class rings, but they may change their Facebook status to “in a relationship” or change their Facebook profile picture to a “couple selfie.”

A step further might be placing pictures of your honey in your office, around your home, and carrying a picture in your wallet. When you start mailing out Christmas cards with your picture as a couple on it, you might as well get married. Skip that whole engagement business and run right to the Justice of the Peace.

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If you are not quite ready for that sign of commitment, then let us introduce you to a newer method of promising your love to one another called “love locks.” This is not a brand new trend, but a practice that started, according to some love lore, as early as the World War I era. Love locks involve carving or writing your initials on a lock, attaching the lock to a bridge (or sometimes another structure), and then throwing the key away to symbolize the “locking of your love.” Two single people enter one side of the bridge,

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attach their lock and throw away the key, and then leave the other end of the bridge in a love relationship that is locked for life! One explanation of this practice involved a young couple in Europe who were separated by World War I. The young woman waited faithfully for her soldier, who fell in love with another woman while deployed for battle. The young lover died of a broken heart.

Other young females in her town started the love locks in an attempt to avoid the unfortunate fate of their friend. In the early 2000s, love locks became a phenomenon in Italy, Germany, and France, as well as other countries. You may have seen news reports this year showing some bridges in Paris holding as many as 700,000 locks around the city.

Love locks can be found in the USA in California, Washington, and even in Wilmington, North Carolina.

We discovered love locks in the most unlikely place of East Texas during a morning stroll on a community walking trail that contained several bridges over a

small creek. We noticed one bridge was decorated by dozens of padlocks of various shapes, sizes, and colors that were labeled with initials, dates, and hearts. Curious about this observation, we asked a passerby about the locks, and he replied that, “That’s how the young folks say they are hooked up now.” We thought this was a great idea!

It’s much cheaper than an engagement ring, it’s longer lasting than graffiti, it causes less commotion than a new Facebook profile picture, and it makes a clear statement about love and commitment. So, Omar and I went out and bought a gold Master lock in East Texas, professed our love on the outside of the lock with gold paint, attached our lock to the bridge, and threw the key into the creek, never to be unlocked again. Now, we are looking for a “love lock bridge” in Forsyth County, and we will be happy to provide you hints about the location of it in a future article! Between now and then, we hope you find your own special way to show commitment to Mr. Right, if you have one, or we hope Santa brings you Mr. Right if he is still missing from your holiday season.

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Making Your Holidays a Little Merrier and a Lot Less Hectic!

By Carolyn S. Peterson There’s no doubt that the holidays are hectic. From the last minute shopping, to the family and friends that come by to visit, to those parties we like to have, you can get overwhelmed with it all – especially the food preparation. The less you have to worry about, the better and more enjoyable your holidays will be.

Simply Southern Cuisine can take care of your food needs, from delicious side dishes that complement your feast to catering your entire event.

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For the past 10 years, Simply Southern Cuisine has been part of many holiday dinners in the Triad area. “We try to make life a little simpler for our customers, whether they come by for our daily ‘Food to Go’ items, to ordering ahead for any event they have planned. On our everyday ‘Food to Go’ menu, we have baked spaghetti, BBQ chicken, chicken casserole, chicken pie, chicken pot pie and lasagna, to mention a few. Then our side dishes include broccoli casserole, green beans, hash brown casserole, macaroni and cheese, squash casserole and sweet potato casserole, along with a few others. Our ‘Food to Go’ items are available any time during our regular business hours, pick up only. We have these items in serving sizes from individual, to 2-3 people and 4-6 people,” said Lisa Miller, owner of Simply Southern Cuisine. For those times when larger portions are needed, Simply Southern Cuisine has their ‘Special Order’ menu.

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“Our ‘Special Order’ menu items are prepared in 9 x 11 pans with entrees serving 12-15 people and side dishes with 15-20 servings. For these dishes we require a 24 hour notice and all the details are on our website. Any of the ‘Food to Go’ dishes are also available as ‘Special Order’ items, with the 24 hour notice. During the holidays, these larger portions are great for any family gatherings, as well as the corporate holiday events,” Lisa commented.

Holiday Meals with All the Trimmings Simply Southern Cuisine offers ‘Holiday Packages’ with a main course and all the sides that make a meal complete. “Our ‘Holiday Packages’ are meals where our customer can choose ham or turkey or both, which serves up to 15 people. We also offer sides, dinner rolls and a dessert. Because this is pick up only, the items are prepared fresh and will need to be baked before serving. But for those who want everything taken care of, we cater and can provide everything from the hot food, to the wait staff, to the paper products or china,” stated Lisa.

To get a good idea of her customers’ catering needs, Lisa has a questionnaire that takes all of the guessing out of the many choices in having an event catered. “There are so many different options – from the choice of food, to whether the event is casual or formal, to whether wait staff will be needed – so having a set of questions addressing those options cuts down on a lot of the confusion between what the customer wants and needs, and what we can offer them. With the answers to the questions in hand, we are able to tailor and individualize each event, making it special to our customer,” Lisa said.

Simply Southern Cuisine has two locations: 3570 Clemmons Road, Clemmons, NC (336) 712-4636 and 12201 N. NC Hwy 150, Suite 2, Winston-Salem, NC (Hickory Tree Shopping Center) (336) 293-4877. For more information, visit www.mysimplysouthern.com.

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Christmas Trivia

By Rebecca Olsen

The children were nestled all snug in their beds, . while visions of these danced in their heads.

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The halls are decked at Christmastime with boughs of this.

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Jesus was born in this town.

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Santa’s favorite late nightsnack.

When Santa comes to town you better not do these two things.

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New York City Six geese a-laying Cry or pout

On the 6th day of Christmas my true love gave what to me?

Where did “The Miracle on 24th Street” take place?

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Santa Claus can be found kissing mom under what?

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Which little Who-girl catches the Grinch in the act of stealing Christmas? . .

A Star A Red Ryder BB Gun The Nucracker

This ballet is a Christmas favorite.

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St. Nick’s belly shakes like a bowl of what?

In A Christmas Story what did Ralphie ask for?

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This reindeer’s nose outshines them all.

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The wise men followed what to the stable?

All though it’s been said many times, many ways…

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Santa came to say what?

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The shepherds saw what in the sky the night Jesus was born?

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Moreover, Dr. Young identifies health as a positive vitality, not merely the absence of disease, and emphasizes those factors that encourage the enhancement of a vigorous physiology. The outcome is a patient-centered, personalized approach for healing that takes account of the whole person (body, mind, and spirit), including all aspects of lifestyle. It emphasizes the therapeutic relationship and makes use of all appropriate therapies, both conventional and alternative.

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Located on Reynolda Road near Wake Forest University, the offices of THRIVE INTEGRATED HEALTH provide a warm and open backdrop. An initial appointment at THRIVE is a 1 ½ hour session where Dr. Young starts from birth, working up to the current condition of the patient, listening for clues that may be contributing to the patient’s problems. Then Dr. Young performs targeted testing and, based on those results and the patient’s history, determines a personalized treatment plan.

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Christmas Around the World

By Rebecca Olsen

hough many traditions, such as the lighting of candles, singing carols, and feasting, take place around the world, each country has its own way of celebrating the Christmas season. See if you can identify the country of origin for these celebrations held around the world! [answers at bottom]

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1. This country was the first to create the artificial Christmas tree, made of feathers died green.

2. If your Christmas celebration isn’t complete without plum pudding, mince pies, and brandy, you’re awaiting the arrival of Father Christmas in this country.

3. If you attend midnight mass followed by le Réveillon (a breakfast feast), as you await the arrival of Père Noël, you might be in this country.

4. Although this country is too far north for Christmas trees to grow and they must be imported, it is close to Santa’s workshop!

5. If it is the old lady La Befana who flies down the chimney on her broom to fill your stocking, rather than Santa Claus, you might be in this country.

6. Good children can expect gifts from the thirteen Yule Lads to fill their shoes, but naughty children may find a potato instead in this country.

7. Children in this country also leave out their shoes, but their wooden clogs are filled with hay and carrots for Sinterklaas’ horses.

8. In this country, dancing carolers are masked to look like bears, stags, and goats.

They expect treats or money in exchange for their performance.

9. If you celebrate Novena beginning on December 16th with nine days of family gatherings with prayer and singing, you might be in this South American country.

10. If you celebrate Christmas with a smorgasbord of ham, salted pork sausage, pickled herring, pickled pigs feet, lutfisk, rye bread, dried codfish, liver pate, and rice porridge, you must be in this country.

11. If Santa’s sleigh is pulled by six white kangaroos or “boomers” in the middle of summer, you must be here.

12. The poinsettia, or Christmas Flower, is native to this country.

13. In this country, people celebrate by making a sweet bread called bolo-rei, made with sugar, fruit, and nuts. These round loafs, or “king cakes,” were originally a Portuguese tradition, but now can be found in this African country.

14. In this country, good little boys and girls await Santa and his reindeer to bring gifts and cheer on Christmas morning!

Answers: 1. Germany; 2. England; 3. France; 4. Greenland; 5. Italy; 6. Iceland 7. Holland; 8. Romania; 9. Columbia; 10. Sweden; 11. Australia; 12. Mexico 13. Angola; 14. United States

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The Art of Cooperation : 30-Day Challenge

By Denise Heidel

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you’ve ever seen the 1995 film “The Brady Bunch Movie,” you may be familiar with the line spoken by Mike Brady, “Alone, we can only move buckets. But if we work together, we can drain rivers.” This line has always made me laugh, but it actually has a pretty powerful message about cooperation. As I write this, we have just concluded the midterm elections and as I think about one political opponent bashing another… Or one political party essentially calling the other a “big fat dummy-head,” I think about how much more powerful we could be as individuals, cities, counties, states, and a country – if we could all just learn the art of cooperation.

The thing is, our individual ideals, no matter how different, have something in common: each of us believes ours are the right ones.

Okay. So you believe you’re right. How do you effectively convince someone of your position? What method works better? Educated discussion? Or insults and belittlement? It’s really a no-brainer which method is more effective, however, if my Facebook wall is indicative of a national trend, we have no tolerance for any ideas other than our own. There’s no respectful discussion being had – instead, it’s a matter of “I’m right, you’re wrong, and if you don’t agree with me, you’re stupid.” The lines are drawn in the sand and it’s {political} warfare.

But, let’s remove politics from the equation for a moment…

What would our family lives be like if husband and wife did not learn cooperation in their marriage? What would our businesses be like? What would our classrooms be like? The answer is simple – we would be in chaotic, unreasonable, uncooperative environments.

Cooperation is a significantly undervalued attribute. But I think most people look at cooperation as a compromise, and they fail to see how, with cooperation, so much more can be accomplished.

Cooperation isn’t about conceding values, but rather, taking an active and decided measure to figure out how our differences can

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work together. It’s about saying, “I believe this way and you believe that way. That’s okay, but where can we coexist and make things better as a whole?”

This is true in politics… parenting… marriage… relationships…

Really, our whole lives. Because without cooperation, we all end up going nowhere really fast.

Midterm elections are over, but the campaign for your votes is far from over. We’re entering a major campaign year for a new president in 2016. Maybe if we all take a moment to embrace the art of cooperation, we can do more good within our communities and (is it too bold to say it?) our country as a whole. Consider the following and let’s all embrace cooperation over the next 30 days: • Respect different beliefs and values, even if you don’t share them.

• Don’t assume that someone’s personal value is indicative of his or her level of intelligence.

• Name-calling is never allowed.

• Try to understand someone else’s point of view. It doesn’t mean you have to change your opinion, but make a concerted effort to try to understand matters from a different angle.

• Instead of focusing on the differences, try to identify the things that are in common as a starting point.

Cooperation is an effective tool because the foundation of it lies in respect. The great thing about our country is that our forefathers stated clearly that we have all been “created equal” with “unalienable Rights.” These words, stated in our Declaration of Independence mean that each of us has the right to our own opinions and choices. It says nothing about one political party being better than another. So, I end this missive with a question your mother probably asked, “Can’t we all just get along?”

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A Novel Idea Mr. Penumbra’s 24-Hour Book Store: A Novel

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If you like quirky characters, secret societies and puzzling mysteries, this book’s for you. Jobless web-designer Clay Jannon ends up working the night shift at the most peculiar bookstore.

A hole in the wall nestled beside a strip club on a virtually abandoned street, the store’s owner, Mr. Penumbra, doesn’t seem too concerned about selling books. Instead, his focus is the mysterious clientele that return day after day, night after night, to borrow ancient tomes from the topmost shelves of the stacks.

Clay’s job is to keep a record of these visitors; what they wear, their demeanor, and their choice of books. When Clay lets his curiosity get the best of him, his investigation into Penumbra’s strange library leads to an age-old secret, and the sinister society desperately protecting it. Twists and turns will keep you guessing what’s coming next in this one, right to the end!

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By Ashley M. Carmichael Reviewed By Vonda Henderson Genre: Christian Fiction Age Range: All Valerie’s Vow is the first novel written by local writer Ashely Carmichael. It is an uplifting tale of courage in the face of a terminal illness and its impact on a friendship. The story centers on Valerie and her memories of her friend, Beth, who kept her faith and courage while battling breast cancer. Although Beth has gone to her Heavenly home, Valerie’s life remains in limbo and her faith is wavering as she struggles with her grief. While the story is about the friends’ desire for Valerie to find her way and keep her faith strong, it also provides additional views of how grief can be a crippling emotion or, in Valerie’s case, result in renewed faith and vision for her life dreams. It’s an inspirational story and I look forward to new works by this new author.

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Genre: Fiction Christian writer Karen Kingsbury puts her magnificent storytelling abilities to work once again to give us a better understanding of those who knew Jesus, even before his ministry – his family. We learn more about the incredible faith and trust Mary had when she learned she was chosen to give birth to the Son of God. We get to know Joseph, Jesus’ stepfather, and explore the emotions he must have felt when he learned that Mary was going to have a baby. We get a better understanding of Zechariah and Elizabeth, as uncle and aunt figures in Jesus’ life. We learn about the childhood friendship between Jesus and John the Baptist. We feel empathy for the conflicting emotions that Jesus’ brother James must have felt by his brother’s ministry. Ms. Kingbury is masterful at weaving the possibilities of all that these people experienced and she allows the reader to see them not as Biblical characters, but true flesh and blood people who demonstrated true faith. Each chapter includes a study guide that invites the reader to personal reflection and challenges.

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Additionally, when selecting the right container, wide-mouth jars are easier to fill.

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• Before pouring the "dry" ingredients into the jar, mix thoroughly first. Otherwise, some ingredients are likely to separate and change the overall taste.

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• Be aware that recipes including brown sugar and marshmallows will begin to harden after three weeks; therefore, let your recipients know some desserts or meals will need to be used by a particular date.

• Using sifted flour can help to save space in the jar.

hile the hustle and bustle of shopping occurs miles away, there is, indeed, delight in stirring up Christmas gifts right in your own kitchen. There are countless family members, great friends, colleagues, and wonderful neighbors who would appreciate receiving a "ready-made" nutritious meal contained in a beautifully decorated jar.

With minimum cost and hundreds of possibilities, you can give a jar of homemade goodness to almost everyone on your shopping list.

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Katherine Lawson writes, “In lieu of gifts, each year our families give a homemade gift in a jar. It is a way for each of us to be creative without the excessive spending. I often have extra to keep in our pantry or give to an unexpected visitor. While some family members receive foot and hand scrubs or wonderful desserts, the grandparents, great aunts and uncles love the homemade meals in a jar. My cousins and I know that we are helping them. All of us love this idea, and it is much more appreciated than a gift card.”

Recycling Glass Jars Many of us have a secret collection of glass jars awaiting the right moment to be used. They were saved because of their unusual shape or size. If you ever wondered what to do with your spare jam or pickle jars, the answer has now been revealed. It also may be a good time to clean out your recycle bin. Remember, repurposed jars require additional efforts such as:

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• A canning funnel will help the layers to settle, along with an easy tap to the glass. After pouring a layer, tightly tamp.

• Layer ingredients from powdery, at the bottom, to the largest ingredients, such as pasta shells or chocolate chips, near the mouth of the jar.

Final Touches Once the “gift” is packaged, the final step is to decorate.

Hand towels and/or festive material tied with ribbon or twine add to the jar's appearance. Do not forget, the recipient will need the recipe, as well as the final instructions to either cook or bake your homemade gift. For those creating gift baskets, save a spot for one jar or delight the recipient by filling it with a variety of meals and desserts.

“Meals in a jar” is the perfect gift, whether you feel comfortable canning or just enjoy blending dry ingredients together. In your research, you may find completely appetizing recipes like “pumpkin spice pancakes,” “very veggie tortellini soup” or “chocolate chip oatmeal quick bread.” The experience may influence your desire to make meals in a jar for other holidays and special occasions, too. This Christmas, however, spread the gift of love through delicious home-made, time-saving meals.

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By Susan Woodall ecently, 10 women were honored by Make-A-Wish Central and Western North Carolina as the inaugural class of the 2014 Triad W.I.S.H. Society. These outstanding women were nominated for their professional and philanthropic achievements. Each accepted the challenge to raise a minimum of $6,000, which is the average cost of granting a wish to a child who has been diagnosed with a medical condition that is considered to be lifethreatening. The freshman class of honorees raised more than $62,000 with more donations arriving daily.

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"A wish come true helps children feel stronger, more energetic, more willing and able to battle their lifethreatening medical conditions," said Amy Brindley, President and CEO of Make-A-Wish Central and Western North Carolina. "For many of them, it marks a turning point in their fight against their illnesses. For the doctors, nurses and other health professionals, the wish experience works in concert with medicine to make their patients feel better, emotionally and even physically.

A wish improves children's state of mind; replacing fear with happiness and helping them feel like normal kids again."

Each of this year's honorees became official fairy godmothers and each was presented with a beautiful, framed wand. Among the recipients, Lindsey Auman was announced the Woman of the Year. Auman, a North Carolina native, raised $11,850 for Make-A-Wish. She works tirelessly giving back to her community and has been recognized by several organizations for her efforts.

Accepting the nomination as a W.I.S.H. Society Honoree was an easy decision for Auman. “I was touched personally seeing a child’s wish granted at the 2014 Derby event for Make-A-Wish," said Auman. "The opportunity for me to bring that same happiness to a child who is in need of something super special is what made me accept the honoree role. Being the W.I.S.H. Society of Make-A-Wish Central and Western North Carolina Woman of the Year is, in a word, humbling.

I don't fundraise or do any philanthropic work for attention for myself, but rather to gain attention for causes that I care about. All of the other nine honorees are incredibly impressive women, who did earnest and thoughtful fundraising and are women of the year in their own rights. I think we would all agree that our real admiration is for the Wish Families and Wish Kids who, through love and strength, are inspiring all of us to greater depths of hope and appreciation."

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The Central and Western North Carolina chapter of Make-A-Wish granted 246 wishes last year with a goal set for 260 this year. "We do not receive funds from the government; all of our funding comes from private donors, foundations and corporate partners," said Brindley. "Our most popular wish is to go to Disney World®, but we have many requests for room makeovers, shopping sprees, travel to other destinations and new gaming systems. Our wishes fall into five categories: I wish to be, I wish to have, I wish to go, I wish to meet and I wish to give. We grant a wish, on average, every one and a half days. Our service area includes four major medical centers: Levine Children's Hospital, Hemby Children's Hospital, Mission Hospital and Brenner Children's Hospital.”

Forsyth Woman magazine Publisher and Owner Keela Johnson was among the honorees. For those who are fortunate enough to know her, this comes as no surprise. Her boundless energy and determination to give back to her community made her nomination a perfect choice. "Community is something that is very near and dear to my heart," said Johnson. "After all, this is the community that has embraced and supported my business throughout the years!

So, it’s important to me to find ways to give back. This year, I chose to focus my energy on supporting the Make-A-Wish Foundation, through the W.I.S.H. Society initiative. I was so touched by the stories of these courageous children and the battles they fight every day. I am in awe of their parents and siblings, families and friends, who support them and smile through such difficult situations. I feel humbled and blessed that my children are healthy, and I cannot imagine the fear these families face. As a parent, I wanted to do what I could to support those who are facing life-threatening illnesses. While I can’t cure cancer, and I don’t know how to help remedy the physical illnesses of these children, I have the power within me to raise the money needed to give someone priceless memories. So, how could I possibly say no? But in the end, it was not as simple as me raising money for W.I.S.H.; I ended up so much richer on the other end of this. The experience of working with the W.I.S.H. Society and the families they support has been life changing. The people I have met have been the very definition of generosity, and the outpouring of support has left me speechless.”

Perhaps the most poignant moment of the ceremony came from a nine-year-old wish recipient, Ryan. After telling the audience of how his wish to be a dolphin trainer had been granted, he handed the microphone to his father who told about Ryan's diagnosis of an aggressive form of cancer called Medulloblastoma. A moment later, Ryan asked for the microphone back and said, "I don’t know if you guys know, but thousands of people have already died from cancer.

But, I’m living my life for all of those people.” So incredibly profound from one so young.

To learn more about how you can help make a child's wish come true through donations or volunteering, contact the Greensboro Make-A-Wish office at 336.778.2522, or visit the website at www.nc.wish.org.

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Farm and Nature Preserve

By Susan Woodall argie Imus is a very busy woman. Not only does she own and run the unique Minglewood Flowers, Plants & Gifts shop in Winston-Salem, but she also helps manage Minglewood Farm and Nature Preserve, which has recently been granted non-profit 501(c)(3) status. Although she loves both ventures, now that the farm is an official outdoor learning center, it has led her to the decision to sell Minglewood Flowers, Plants & Gifts.

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“Minglewood Flowers, Plants & Gifts is on the market,” said Imus.

“We have created a wonderful niche here in Winston-Salem for flowers and gifts. Orchids are a big business for us, along with a nice variety of botanical themed gifts, from diverse cachepots, soaps and lotions, to unique home decor. We really step it up for the Christmas and holiday seasons, adding great holiday décor – ornaments, trees, fresh greenery from the mountains, scarves, candles and so much more. We are looking forward to a very busy holiday season!”

Selling the shop at this time of year creates a good opportunity for a new owner. “Coming in after the holidays, they have time to make it their own,” said Imus. “I have done all the hard work creating and laying the groundwork for this business. Minglewood Flowers is located in one of the very best neighborhoods in Winston-Salem, very conveniently located on the corner of Robinhood and Reynolda Roads.” While it makes her sad to leave her shop, the business she has built for 10 years, and the friends she has made, she looks forward to seeing everyone up on the Minglewood Farm and Nature Preserve for a visit, whether it’s a farm tour, a seasonal walk through the woods, a creative workshop or a farm-to-table meal.

It has been a dream of Margie's and her husband, Bill, to open their farm for the purpose of educating the public, “Our mission for Minglewood Farm and Nature Preserve is to be a resource of outdoor learning for schools and the surrounding communities,” said Imus.

We have always had groups out to visit – school children, senior adults, garden clubs – and we have enjoyed their visits very much.

So we are very happy to open our doors to the public to be able to share our farm in this manner. After successfully farming and properly managing our land for more than 20 years, we are able to do this. I now need to be home full-time to assist in the day-to-day management of the Preserve. Minglewood Preserve will offer tours of the farm and the native woodlands and trails. We want to be able to cater to the individual class and focus on the teacher’s needs. The preserve is made up of 65 acres, on a dead end dirt road. We farm around 10 acres, including the greenhouses. We are located in the northeast corner of Surry County, in the community of Westfield, 10 miles north of the town of Pilot Mountain.”

Although Margie knows that the decision to sell the shop is the right one, it is still a difficult one. She looks forward to seeing the store she envisioned continue to flourish and grow under a new owner. With its prime location and excellent customer base, this business will not stay on the market for long. All interested parties should contact Margie for more details.

For more information and inquiries concerning the sale of Minglewood Flowers, Plants & Gifts or to schedule a visit to Minglewood Farm and Nature Preserve, contact Margie Imus at margie@minglewoodpreserve.org. To learn more about the farm and preserve, visit www.minglewoodpreserve.org.

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Holiday Friendly Hors d'oeuvres

By Elisa Wallace & Emily Eileen Carter While the holidays bring a feeling of cheer and contentment, they also bring a feeling of stress.

The month of December is by far the busiest time for attending soirees, from the company Christmas party to a neighborhood get-together. If you are not quite ready for this busy party season, or are feeling unenthused about returning to your boss’ party with the same dish you brought last year, have no fear! Forsyth Woman is here to help you with new innovative holiday recipe ideas that are sure to make you the toast of the festivity!

Caper and Smoked Salmon Spread

Cheese Straws

Ingredients:

Ingredients: 1⁄2 cup butter, softened

1 cup (8 ounces) cream cheese, softened

Easy Crockpot Cranberry Meatballs

1/2 cup sour cream

Ingredients:

1/2 cup drained capers, chopped

1 14-ounce can cranberry sauce

1/2 cup finely chopped red onion

1 12-ounce bottle/jar chili sauce

1 teaspoon grated lemon zest

Directions:

1 2-pound bag frozen, pre-cooked, cocktail-size meatballs

1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice

1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C). Grease a cookie sheet.

Directions:

2. In a large bowl, cream butter and cheese. Stir in flour, salt, milk and cayenne pepper, and mix well.

2. Combine sauces and pour over meatballs.

4 cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese 2 cups all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon salt 1⁄8 teaspoon cayenne pepper 1 Tablespoon milk

3 On a lightly floured surface, roll the dough out to 1/2 inch in thickness. Cut into 2 inch strips and sprinkle with ground red pepper.

Place strips on prepared cookie sheet(s) 1 ½ inches apart.

4. Bake in preheated oven for 10 to 15 minutes, or until crisp.

Bacon Wrapped Dates Ingredients: 1 (8 ounce) package of pitted dates 4 ounce almonds 1 pound sliced bacon

1. Place meatballs in a slow cooker.

3. Cover and cook 4 hours on HIGH.

Sweet Snowballs Ingredients: 3 ounces best-quality bittersweet chocolate, coarsely chopped 3/4 cup all-purpose flour 3/4 teaspoon baking powder Pinch of salt 1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, softened 1/2 cup sugar

Directions:

Fine sanding sugar (for sprinkling on top of cupcakes)

1. Preheat the broiler.

3 tablespoons low-fat buttermilk

2. Slit dates. Place one almond inside each date. Wrap dates with bacon, using toothpicks to hold them together.

1/2 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

3. Broil 10 minutes, or until bacon is evenly brown and crisp.

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2 large eggs, plus 1 large egg yolk Directions: 1. Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Line 14 cups of 2 standard (12-cup) muffin tins with foil liners. Melt chocolate in a heatproof

1/2 pound smoked salmon, chopped

Accompaniment: rye crackers Directions: 1. Stir together cream cheese and sour cream in a bowl until smooth, then stir in remaining ingredients.

2. Make ahead: Spread can be made 4 days ahead and chilled, covered. Let stand at room temperature 1 hour before serving. bowl set over a pan of simmering water, stirring. Let cool completely. Sift flour, baking powder, and salt into a bowl; set aside.

2. Put butter and sugar into the bowl of an electric mixer. Mix on medium-high speed until fluffy, 3 to 5 minutes. Reduce speed to low. Mix in buttermilk and vanilla. Add flour mixture in 3 batches, alternating with the eggs and yolk. Add melted chocolate; mix until smooth.

3. Spoon batter into liners, filling about onethird full. Bake until a cake tester comes out clean, about 12 minutes. Let cool in tins on wire racks.

4. Assemble the cupcakes: Spread a thin layer of frosting on each cupcake. Using a large spoon dipped in hot water, place a smooth mound of frosting on top of each cupcake. Sprinkle with sanding sugar. Let stand until frosting is set, about 3 hours.

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Celebrating

the Benefits of National Hospice Month

By Meghan E.W. Corbett

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ospice has touched millions of lives around the world at the moment of greatest need, and this November, National Hospice Month brought awareness to countless individuals of the great impact this remarkable industry has around the world. “The goal for National Hospice Month is to help the community to become more aware of end of life care and what it entails,” said Sheila Jones, Director of Marketing and Development at Mountain Valley Hospice and Palliative Care. “This way they are informed about what their families need before they need it. It helps for them to know about what services hospice offers and, when the time comes, they are more prepared.”

Hospice of Surry County was created for people in need of focused care during the last months of life. “At first, we only served the Mount Airy area,” said Jones. “The volunteers saw the benefit of what they were doing and realized that they needed to do more; so they increased it to the county and then it just kept growing from there. Now, we are called Mountain Valley Hospice & Palliative Care.”

Mountain Valley Hospice upholds all the personalized care that those familiar with hospice have come to expect. “We treat the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of the patient,” said Jones. “We provide care in the patient's home or at the Joan & Howard Woltz Hospice Home. We are dedicated to keeping patients comfortable and pain free, so as to improve their quality of life in the time they have remaining.

We believe that helping family members is an essential part of our mission, and we believe that the quality of life is as important as the length of life. We are totally transparent, welcome family visits, questions, and conferences, and we employ checks and balances to make sure that our team members spend as much time as possible with every patient. At Mountain Valley Hospice, medication is prescribed as directed by the patient’s own physician and in collaboration with the patient's family. In addition, our medical director oversees the admissions process to ensure that each patient warrants hospice services. We also have an extensive compliance program which ensures that we are following Medicare guidelines and other regulations when providing services.”

Lack of ability to pay should never be a factor if a loved one needs hospice care. “We bill Medicare, Medicaid and private insurances for services provided, but we do not turn down anyone based on insurance or inability to pay,” said Jones.

“We are a 501c3 non-profit organization, and we receive gifts from the community in forms of memorials and donations.

We also do fundraising events and write grants to take care of patients.”

Because Mountain Valley Hospice is a non-profit organization, it thrives on the generosity of others through monetary donations or simply donations of time. “We are always looking for volunteers to sit with patients, run errands for them, etc.” said Jones. “They also walk dogs, prepare a meal, read the paper to patients or just visit and help a patient cope with what they are facing. Volunteers are also needed to help with office tasks. We would love for them to commit to 2-3 hours a week.

Also, making donations helps us to keep the services going; services like Grief Support, We Honor Veterans, Pet Peace of Mind, Transition and most of the KidsPath are not covered by insurance, so donations help us to continue these services.”

If you would like to help Mountain Valley Hospice during the holiday months, or any time of year, gifts and monetary donations can be mailed to 401 Technology Lane, Suite 200, Mount Airy, NC 27030. For more information about hospice services or Mountain Valley Hospice & Palliative Care, call 888.789.2922, or visit the website at www.mtnvalleyhospice.org. Those who are able can adopt a Mountain Valley Hospice family and provide a meal to them as a Christmas gift. Items can be purchased and donated from a wish list that can be found on the website.

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Mary A. Alspaugh Salemtowne Volunteer Awarded 2014 Outstanding Volunteer Fundraiser Mrs. Mary A. Alspaugh of Winston-Salem, longtime volunteer and advocate for Salemtowne Retirement Community, has been selected the recipient of the 2014 Outstanding Volunteer Fundraiser by the North Carolina Triad Chapter of the Association of Fundraising Professionals (AFP). This recognition was presented during the 22nd Annual National Philanthropy Day Awards Ceremony at the Grandover Resort in Greensboro on Monday, November 10th. This Triad event is a part of the much larger National Philanthropy Day® celebration.

Mary Alspaugh has been involved for over 50 years in community volunteer activities. After retirement in 1994 with twenty years of employment with the North Carolina Baptist Hospital, she began to focus her life on full-time community service. Mary volunteers over 1,000 hours per year. Mary states, “Serving the community has always been a high priority for me. I am fortunate to have been involved with a variety of organizations that benefit a wide range of people in need, and fundraising for non-profit organizations. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community, and devote yourself to creating something which gives you purpose and meaning.”

Mary’s volunteer efforts have run the gamut at Salemtowne, led by her spearheading Salemtowne’s annual Bridge Tournament & Luncheon, raising over $35,000 in its 11 years. In addition to her leadership with Salemtowne and its residents, Mary has supported other local organizations, including Brenner Children’s Hospital; Old Salem Gardens and Museums; Twin City Stage; Southeastern Center for Contemporary Art (SECCA); WinstonSalem Symphony; Ardmore Moravian Church; and the Ardmore & Home Moravian Church Circle.

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Elaine Round Elaine Round was initially drawn to yoga in 2007 when a gym director gently prodded her to join a class. Physically humbled by the experience, yet left with an unexpected feeling of calm, she decided to explore this yoga thing further. Two years into her practice, she enrolled in the Sunrise Yoga Teacher Training Program as a way to deepen her knowledge of yoga. After completing the program, she pursued an additional 40 hours of training with Roger Cole in Restorative Yoga, which is currently her main teaching focus. With this training (and influences from many others), she brings to Sunrise Yoga Studio a class designed to allow the body and mind to let go. She has graduated from the Sunrise Yoga Teacher Training program as a 500-hour Certified Yoga Teacher.

“Our bodies have an innate ability to relax, given the right circumstances,” says Elaine. “Restorative yoga uses a series of easy, supported poses held for a long time under the right conditions (including the use of many props) to tip the balance from ‘fight or flight’ mode into maximal relaxation. Yogis developed these poses over many years, but science tells us that, under the conditions set in restorative yoga, immediate effects on heart rate, blood pressure and brain activity are possible. Emphasis on complete muscular relaxation and comfort are emphasized to achieve a quiet state of mind and body. The classes are in the style of Iyengar teacher, Roger Cole, and Relax & Renew author, Judith Lasater.

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Carolyn Couch Carolyn Couch really is on the move! With over twenty years of experience in career counseling and coaching for students and adults, she has moved from a career at Wake Forest University to running her own company, currently located in Clemmons. The Next Step Career Coaching, LLC, is how Carolyn shares her expertise in helping students select careers/college majors, professionals manage their careers, and non-professionals re-enter the workforce. Not only does she help her clients chart a course for getting into their desired career or position, she coaches them on all aspects of the job search, including writing resumes, prepping for interviews, salary negotiations and more. And by the way, Carolyn is also a trained life coach – which, since one’s career and life are very intertwined, is useful in helping her clients create the lives they want.

Previously, Carolyn served as the Associate Director of Career Education and Counseling at Wake Forest University. Along with running her practice, she currently serves as an Online Career Counselor at the University of North Carolina – Chapel Hill. Her clients include professionals from a wide range of industries, such as sales and marketing, finance, banking, law, public relations, consulting, healthcare, government, education, operations management, nonprofits, ministry, media, and research.

Carolyn has a Master’s Degree in Counseling and is certified by the National Board for Certified Counselors. She is also a Certified Master Coach. Visit Carolyn's business at www.thenextstepcareercoaching.com.

Diane Conterno-Neese Make A Wish - Wish Society Honoree Employer: Advanced Direct Inc. Fun Fact: Diane is currently the VP of Fundraising for The Guild of Family Services of Greensboro, and will serve as President in 2015.

Why I’m An Honoree: It is such an honor to be nominated and to be in a position to bring awareness and funds to our local chapter.

Jill Lackey Allegacy Federal Credit Union, one of the largest credit unions in North Carolina, announced it has hired Jill Lackey to lead its newly formed Allegacy Consulting Group which is part of the Allegacy Business Solutions division. Lackey serves as vice president of Allegacy Consulting Group providing coaching, human resource consulting, talent and team development and organizational development to Allegacy business partners. One area of her consulting will focus on instituting or improving wellness initiatives and culture within those organizations.

Lackey founded Talent Development Solutions in 2009, a consulting firm providing coaching, leadership and organizational development and team development services. Allegacy recently acquired the company and Lackey now offers her 25 plus years of experience and coaching to Allegacy’s business partners.

Lackey is a graduate of Corporate CoachU and is one of just 419 Master Certified Coaches in the United States, a distinction earned through the International Coach Federation. She earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and Business from East Carolina University and is a Senior Professional in Human Resources (SPHR).

“Allegacy is dedicated to integrating organizational health – physical, mental and financial – into our products and services for our retail and commercial business partners,” said Rick Leander, president and managing director, Allegacy Business Solutions. “For several years now, Allegacy has earned a reputation as being a leader in corporate wellness, organizational culture and development, and Jill’s expertise aligns perfectly with our commitment to helping businesses achieve holistic results through extensive collaboration with our team.”.

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Readers Speak..

Each month, in the Readers Speak column, we ask our readers a different question through an online survey. Everyone who participates is included in a drawing to win a $25 gift card! Congratulations to Kelly Gutierrez who was this month’s winner!

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For the December issue, we asked our readers to tell us about gift giving.

We asked the following questions:

1. Do you have a special gift planned for someone this year?

Other answers included a cure for cancer, a cure for dementia, good health, a college education, pontoon boat, and a motorcycle!

64% yes, 36% no

Thank you to everyone who participated in this month’s survey!

2. Which kind of gift is better?

93% want something small and from the heart, 7% say the bigger the better

3. What was the gift you most wanted as a child?

Answers were varied and included: • An Easy Bake Oven • A pony • Roller skates

• A piano

• Cabbage Patch Kid doll

• A desk

• Record player A particularly moving response was from Monika who would been perfectly happy to just go snow sledding at the park with her brother!

4. If you could give any gift in the world to the person you love most, what would it be?

“I’d give my husband his dream car.”

– Jennifer

“A cruise to Alaska for my parents.” – Christine

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Next month’s question is about New Year’s resolutions… New year. New slate. New habits. That’s what many people think of when it comes to New Year’s resolutions. We want to know what you think about it! We have four questions for our readers:

1. What do you really think about New Year’s resolutions?

2. Do you write New Year’s resolutions for yourself?

3. How successful have you been at keeping them?

4. What are your New Year’s resolutions?

Results will be published in the January issue of Forsyth Woman!

Visit TinyURL.com/ReadersSpeakJan15 to participate! Those who participate in our Readers Speak survey be in a drawing to win a $25 gift card. Our winner will be announced on our Facebook page on December 5th and the winner will be contacted by email.

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Not All Skiing Goes Downhill

any folks enjoy hitting the local slopes of the High Country of North Carolina when it snows, but some just want to get away from it all, finding their Currier and Ives moment on some cross country skis or snowshoes. The High Country area offers great venues for these types of wintery sports, and you can find the beautiful scenery and quiet peace in the snow through the power of your own two feet.

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Think of cross country or Nordic skiing like hiking on skis.

The skier’s feet are attached at the toe with a kind of slide and glide movement, moving them “cross country.” Simply put, if you can put one foot in front of the other, you can cross country ski. It is always a good rule of thumb to start a cross country ski tour on flat trails, as downhill requires a little more experience (and learning how to stop). The Boone area of the High Country offers several great options for the beginner, including their Greenway trail during times of heavy snowfall. Many cross country skiers enjoy the 24 miles of snowy carriage trails of the Moses Cone Park area of the Blue Ridge Parkway, including the trails around Price Lake. When snow hits the High Country, portions of the Blue Ridge Parkway are gated, giving beginner cross country skiers the muffled landscape and sweeping views that create ambassadors for the sport. One of the favorites of the High Country, the Grandfather part of the Parkway with the Linn Cove Viaduct, offers a great beginning skiing experience with beautiful Parkway views.

There are several resources available for a tour, a trip, or just general information. The High Country Ski Shop in Pineola, south of Linville, rents all the gear needed for beginner cross country skiing trips. The Nordic Ski Association offers a ski report of local trails, including closures of the Blue Ridge Parkway for cross country skiers. ExploreBooneArea.com also offers a Nordic snow report while First Tracks in Boone offers cross country equipment. For a day trip, think about a nice lunch in Boone (Daniel Boone Inn for the family style buffet or Proper for the best fried chicken), and then head over to the

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trails of Rocky Knob bike park or Greenway Trails for a great cross country experience.

Snowshoeing is also an alternative to the downhill slopes of local ski resorts. Think of snowshoeing as hiking through the snow. New lightweight snowshoes make those large, wooden, tennis racket-looking shoes a thing of the past, and also make snowshoeing great exercise. Most of the flatter terrain that works for beginner cross country skiing is also great for beginner snowshoeing. But the benefit of snowshoes is that you are not limited by your terrain – if you can hike it, you can snowshoe it.

Each of the above trails offers snowshoeing, but beginners had hit harder terrain with snowshoes. On Beech Mountain, all trails are available for snowshoeing, and Buckeye Lake Recreation Center offers snowshoes for rent. With the addition of the Emerald Outback Trail System, Beech Mountain offers terrain for the beginner to the advanced snowshoe adventurer.

In the Boone/Blowing Rock area, the Mast General Store and Footsloggers sells snowshoes and all the gear needed for a Nordic experience. Experts help beginners make sure they are adequately clothed in snow gear, and have poles if needed for snowshoeing, and also give advice on other items needed for nutrition and hydration. When planning a trip to the High Country, users are encouraged to watch videos on cross country skiing/snowshoeing, and then search websites such as the High Country Nordic Association or ExploreBooneArea.com for snow reports and available trails. As skill levels improve, a great backcountry area that receives as much snow as Beech Mountain Resort is Roan Mountain, with a portion of the Appalachian Trail. It offers very enjoyable advanced trails for the skier/snowshoer. Sometimes you don’t want to wait in line for a lift – you just want to get back with Nature and let the trail guide you – so put on some cross country skis or snowshoes and enjoy!

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Holiday Shipping Without the Headache at Goin’ Postal

By Meghan E.W. Corbett hristmas shopping is in full swing! Many of us make a list of those we wish to buy presents for and set a budget to avoid overspending at the end of the year. We think about gifts, holiday food and costs associated with entertaining guests, but how many of us consider the cost to ship all those gifts and Christmas cards to those we will not see during the season of giving? Probably not many.

Luckily, Goin’ Postal has everything you need to ship efficiently and economically!

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“Goin’ Postal is different from the post office because we are like a post office convenience store with a choice and a variety of ways of shipping packages that you don’t find at your post office or other shipping locations,” said Owner Vic Bragman. “After finding out the zip code, weighing and measuring the packages, we can give you the choice of how to send them.

We found that if a package weighs more than 8 pounds, it usually costs less to send it FedEx Ground than through the post office; so then the tracking is better (we email you the tracking number when it is picked up here, and another email is sent when it arrives) and they are insured up to $100 automatically.

If you need something there next day, we usually send it FedEx Express although there are other options for Express, too (two-day and three-day guaranteed). Having the choices in one place makes more sense than visiting the individual carriers’ locations, as we have FedEx, UPS, United States Post Office and DHL International. Also, we do everything the post office does, and we sell stamps the same price as the post office and have pick-ups every day after around 12:30 pm.”

When you choose a local business, you tend to get better, more personalized service.

This is especially true at Goin’ Postal. “Unlike the post office, we can help you find the right kind of box to use and pack it for you,” said Bragman. “We have golf club boxes, laptop boxes, different sized art boxes, guitar and bicycle boxes, as well as many other sizes and shapes of boxes. If we don’t have exactly the right size, we can custom-make a box. Often, if we are able to reduce the dimensions of a box, we can also reduce the shipping cost, sometimes dramatically.”

Cutting costs is what makes Goin’ Postal a fantastic option for your shipping needs year ‘round. “We try to cut costs for people where we can, so we don’t charge to tape up packages or even to pack up awkwardly shaped items or artwork unless it is a fairly large project,” said Bragman. “We often have donated boxes and packaging that people give us, so we can use them at no cost to the customers, which is especially useful for eBay users or when items are returned to companies.”

In addition to shipping and mailing, Goin’ Postal offers copying, shredding and other services to save you time! “We still do color copies for 30 cents as well as faxing, mailboxes for rent, gift items for sale, greeting cards, Quick Study Guides and, of course, we sell a variety of different sized boxes,” said Bragman. “We offer shredding services for 99 cents a pound, so this is important to save time, as well as wear and tear and jamming of your home shredders. Also, it is much better to shred confidential documents than for them to be accessible, so we have two large, locked bins where the shredding goes. We then have the Shred-Safe Company come out to shred everything. We now offer Bill-Pay services for Duke Energy payments (we can only accept cash or check for these) as well as other bills you may need to take care of, like City of Winston-Salem Water, Piedmont Natural Gas, Windstream and many others. Duke Energy payments post the same day and each bill pay is $1.50.”

A key element to a successful business is a successful staff. Vic and his colleague, Priscilla Surratt, understand and anticipate customers’ needs for all the services offered at Goin’ Postal. “Priscilla is a tremendous asset to us here at Goin’ Postal,” said Bragman. “She has worked here for more than 4 years and has great customer service skills, is extremely knowledgeable about packing and shipping, and serves as a Notary Public, so we have a Notary here at all times.”

This Christmas, let Goin’ Postal make your holiday shopping and shipping needs easier. Just make sure you pay attention to this year’s deadlines for on-time delivery! “We try to advise everyone to ship out packages early because then the estimated times for Ground shipments don’t get longer than normal and, of course, it is less expensive to send Ground or Priority Mail than any type of Express shipments,” said Bragman. “The deadlines for the Post Office are First Class Mail and Priority Mail on December 20th, Priority Mail Express on December 23rd and Standard Post on December 15th. FedEx Home Delivery deadline is December 17th as well as FedEx Ground, FedEx Express Saver on December 20th, FedEx 2nd Day is December 22nd, FedEx Standard and Priority Overnight is December 23rd (same for UPS).”Goin’ Postal is located at 6255 TownCenter Drive (behind Panera Bread) in Clemmons. For more information, call 336.712.0505, or visit the website at www.goinpostal.com.

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Giving Back for the Good of Others

The Salvation Army Offers Many Ways to Give Back This Christmas

By Molly Flinchum

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ou can tell it’s the Christmas season when you’re going to the mall and out in front of the door is a man ringing a bell and asking for donations. Maybe you feel kind and drop some leftover change in their bright red kettle. The Salvation Army is famous for this method of charity, and it seems that anyone you ask will say that they’ve heard of this nonprofit group. While the name is easily recognized, do we really know who the Salvation Army is or what they do? Random citizens of Winston-Salem were directly asked this question, and their replies were the following: “I know that it’s like Goodwill.”

“They have kettles out at Christmas and ring bells.”

“They do food drives.”

“Not much really.”

The Salvation Army is so much more than a bell chiming outside the mall; it is a nonprofit organization seeking to help everyone it can, and the branch in Winston-Salem offers many services for the community. Examples of these services include The Center of Hope, the only family emergency shelter in Forsyth County, and the Salvation Army’s Emergency Financial Assistance Offices, which gives emergency assistance payments for those in need. The Salvation Army also has an Academy of Music and Arts, which is an afterschool and summer program of music lessons for children ages 8 through 17. Add these programs to the Boys and Girls Clubs, the Family Store, Community Centers, and Disaster Services and you’ll see that the Salvation Army doesn’t just ring bells – it blesses the lives of our community.

One program that the Salvation Army is currently running for the Christmas season is the Angel Tree. To participate, an individual chooses a child’s wish list that is located at the Angel Tree in Hanes Mall. The individual then shops for the “angel” and returns the gifts to the Angel Tree.

These Angel Tree gifts help provide Christmas presents for children whose families can’t afford to celebrate the season. In 2013, the Salvation Army provided 23,300 people in Forsyth, Stokes, and Yadkin Counties with assistance for the holidays.

The Salvation Army is looking to the Triad to help them in their quest to show love to the community. “Even if you never need the Salvation Army, the Salvation Army needs you,” said Abigail Linville, the volunteer and resource coordinator. You can bring the holidays to those in need by participating in these Salvation Army’s events: 122 / ForsythWoman.com

• Adopt an Angel: Pick up a wish list at the Angel Tree in Hanes Mall and shop for presents for a child in need.

• Fill a Stocking: Pick up empty stockings at Chick-fil-a Restaurants and Mattress Firm stores in the Triad and fill them with gifts for a boy or girl.

• Volunteer at the Christmas Center: Volunteers are needed to get the toy shop ready, as well as to sort Angel Tree gifts and package toys to distribute.

Participate in the spirit of giving with the Salvation Army. The holidays are all about what this nonprofit does year around: giving to those around us and providing for others. Next time you find yourself at the store and a man is ringing a bell in front, remember all that the Salvation Army does for your community and smile as you put your change in, knowing it will provide for those in need. To get involved with the Salvation Army, please call 336.245.2083, or email Abigail.Linville@uss.salvationarmy.org.

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Life Hacks –

Tips and Tricks for Making Life Easier

By Lindsay Craven

There are countless problems you encounter on a daily basis that can put a little speed bump in your day. Life hacks are those “a-ha” moments where you find the simplest solution to your daily problems, oftentimes using items immediately at your disposal. Each month this column will take you through some creative hacks to use in all different areas of your life, to make your day to day as simple as possible. This month, we focus on some nifty tricks that will make your Christmas a little easier.

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In the craziness of the holiday season, you likely have three or more rolls of wrapping paper floating around the tree as you make each gift flawless for the big unwrapping. Those rolls can get quite unruly and there is a simple and free solution to keep them neat and organized.

Grab an empty toilet paper roll and cut up one side then simply slide the toilet paper roll over your wrapping 2 paper roll.

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All of the small decorative items at Christmas can add up quickly and wreath hangers are no exceptions.

Instead of investing in a fancy over-the-door hanger, why not grab a clear adhesive hook and some decorative ribbon and make your own? Simply hang the hook upside down on the back of your door, loop your ribbon around your wreath and attach it to your hook. Voila!

A beautiful and inexpensive Christmas decoration!

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Many of us have jumped on the artificial tree bandwagon thanks to the convenience and lack of cleanup involved, but sometimes these trees can leave a lot to be desired in fullness. There’s a simple and relatively inexpensive solution to this problem, however. Grab a couple packs of shiny green garland and layer them into in the gaps of your tree.

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2. Festive Goodies Baked Christmas goodies are always a nice personal touch to your parties or a great, but affordable, gift for family and friends. Christmas-themed cookie cutters can be a great resource, by why limit yourself to just festive shaped cookies? Fill those cutters with cake and brownie batter and make all of your holiday treats fun and beautiful. Make sure to flour or spray your cutters well so your batter doesn’t stick. You can also break those cutters out on Christmas morning and shape up your Christmas pancakes.

Gifting baked goods for the holiday always provides a personal touch, but the cookie tins and decorative boxes can get quite expensive.

Why not use items you already have on hand?

Hang on to your empty plastic wrap and aluminum foil containers and cover in festive wrapping paper, line with tissue or wax paper, and fill with your best baked goodies. Simply seal with decorative ribbon to finish it off.

When it’s time to pack up all the Christmas décor, why not 5 pack smart so next year is much more simplified? Start by removing your Christmas ornaments and putting them in plastic cups to keep them organized and untangled. Then wrap your string lights around a hanger before tossing them 6 into your storage bins.

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LOCAL VOCALS

By Carolyn Peterson

EASY STREET APOTHECARY B eing able to bring the genres of rock, blues, jazz and funk together is the mark of a great band and Easy Street Apothecary (ESA) does just that! Plus, as band member Carlos Tolbert said, “Our sound is a combination of several genres, but the music is always danceable!”

With just a little over a year of playing local venues, Easy Street Apothecary has found not only their niche with their sound, but a loyal fan following. ESA is made up of five talented artists who have a passion for sharing their music.

Carlos Tolbert - Sax, Flute, Clarinet Originally from White Plains, NY, Carlos is an expert improviser and can play any style of music. He has played everything from blues, to jazz, to funk, and is now bringing his sax, flute and clarinet to ESA. Tommy Jackson - Vocals, Guitar Moving to Winston-Salem from New Orleans, LA, Tommy brought the New Orleans style with him to ESA with his vocals and guitar. His songwriting skills have taken him to recording studios from New Orleans, to Dallas, to London, England and back.

TJ Holt - Upright Bass As a Winston-Salem native, TJ has played music in bluegrass, rock and punk bands over the years. He also went to school to study sound engineering. TJ’s skills as an upright bass player give him a very unique sound, which blend well with the originality of the band.

Josh Casstevens - Electric Guitar Hailing from Elkin, NC, Josh has a great ear to listen to the other musicians in the band. His hybrid style, combining rock, funk and jazz, makes him a chameleon with the electric guitar, being able to blend in with any band style.

Jonathan McMillan - Drums, Percussion As a drummer, Jon has the ability to conform to any room’s acoustics, playing louder, yet tastefully, in larger venues and softly in more intimate settings. He combines the traditional set-up of the drums, along with incorporating percussion instruments as well, giving him a sound not heard very often.

“ESA performs a variety of music from several different genres most closely associated with New Orleans’ styles, combining elements that make our music very danceable and fun to just listen to. When we play music from other bands, we play music from Paul Simon, Dr. John, The Black Keys and Squirrel Nut Zippers, however we strive to create an original style of our own when

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playing covers to give an experience not seen or heard before,” commented Carlos.

Throughout this past summer, ESA performed weekly at the Second and Green Tavern in Winston-Salem. Other highlights for the band include playing at Ziggy’s for their second anniversary, writing and performing a set of original music composed for the play ‘Elephant’s Graveyard’ by George Brant at the Winston-Salem Theatre Alliance, and playing for a number of local events in the area, both public and private.

ESA looks ahead to going back into the studio to record their new material, as well as their continued weekly performances at the Second and Green Tavern. “We hope to expand our regional following, and are planning to travel to venues in Charlotte, Wilmington and Boone, NC and thereabouts,” Carlos stated.

For more information on Easy Street Apothecary, ‘like’ them on Facebook and also check out www.bandcamp.com page, typing in Easy Street Apothecary to join the band’s mailing list.

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The Holiday Tightrope

By Denise Heidel

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Christmas season brings with it joy, happiness, holiday goodwill, and often, a great deal of stress, anxiety, and lots of family drama. The holidays are hard! It’s not as simple as waking up and just enjoying the holidays with our family and loved ones. One of the most common issues people face is the annual balancing act of trying to squeeze in every side of the family within a 24 – 48 hour window.

I’ll use myself as an example… My parents are divorced. My ex-husband’s parents are divorced.

When he and I were married, we had four sides of the family to meet between Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and their homes ranged from Winston-Salem and Kernersville, all the way to Mt. Airy and Climax. We visited them all in two days’ time, and squeezed in our family Christmas wherever we could. When our son was four, we separated. And now, I’m remarried… and my husband’s parents are divorced. To add further complications to the logistical nightmare of the holidays, my birthday is Christmas Day so that must be factored in as well.

If there’s anyone in the world who is well acquainted with holiday tightrope walking, it’s me.

I’ve been performing that balancing act for well over 20 years. I know the anger and jealousy of recently divorced parents and the disappointment associated with long-standing holiday traditions being changed due to divorce or marriage. I know the constant worry of trying to be everywhere for everybody, without hurting any feelings, and at the same time, trying to find some semblance of joy in a holiday that feels overwhelming, and anything but fun and relaxing! Through my experience, I’ve come to several conclusions:

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1. You have a right to enjoy your holidays.

2. Communication is a key factor for making it all work – and the earlier those conversations can take place, the better the chances of lessening the holiday drama.

3. You will never make everyone completely happy.

4. Some traditions have to be changed.

5. At some point, you have to make a decision and be firm in your resolve.

6. Compromise is a lovely idea, but for most multi-faceted families, compromise only works if each party is getting their own way.

See # 3 – you will never make everyone happy.

I wore myself out for years before I finally got so frustrated that I said, “Enough is enough.” I was still a single mom during the first Christmas I made that decision, and while my son spent Christmas Eve and Christmas morning with his dad, I sat at home in my pajamas by myself, knitting, watching movies and drinking coffee, and having the best Christmas I could remember in years. By the time I picked up my son on Christmas afternoon and headed to my mother’s house, I was feeling the true joy of the holiday.

These days, as much as I want to see everyone in my family for Christmas, I do what is realistic instead of feeling like I need to build a time machine or get sucked into a time continuum in order to meet everyone else’s needs. I learned that if I cannot enjoy the holidays for myself, it mars my experience with everyone else. I used to spend the holidays bitter and resentful to the people who were only guilty of wanting to spend time with me. How terrible is that? To be frustrated with the people I love most because they wanted to see me for the holidays? It was a hard decision to make, but once it was made, I stood firm in my resolve of what I could and could not do for the holidays. Since then, my holiday happiness has increased tremendously and the time I spend with the various branches of my family during the holiday season is a much better experience all the way around.

My advice to anyone doing the holiday balancing act is to establish boundaries and be realistic about what you can and cannot do. There are so many holidays to be enjoyed! I personally am not a fan of the alternating years scenario, but I am a big fan of I-Spend-Thanksgiving-Here and I-Spend-Christmas-There and Let’s-Get-Together-For-New-Year’s. Whatever scenario you come up with, make sure you take time to enjoy your holidays and realize that, until scientists perfect human cloning, it’s simply impossible to be in more than once place at a time.

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Supermodel Astronaut Challenge: I Am Enough!

By Lisa S.T. Doss

“You know who I think are the real Supermodel Astronauts?

Women who raise children, make their way in a man’s world, face their fears, survive or overcome, and break the cycle!”

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usic is a powerful tool. The lyrics of a song can be thought-provoking, provide empowerment, and, in this particular case, inspire a global initiative. Singer, writer, producer, and composer Ellen Tift of Worldwide Grove Corporation wanted her song, “Supermodel Astronaut,” to be a vehicle for a larger purpose, and reach women far and wide. She leaned on her friends to help create a video, and relied on the popularity of YouTube and social media websites to “share” her message. In the video, Tift uses “cue cards” to say, “Every day we are sold unattainable images and standards by the media. These unrealistic ideas often make us inferior. How often do you feel like you are not good enough? How much mental and emotional energy is wasted every day with negative self talk? Just a few seconds here and there can rob us of our happiness, creativity, peace, and joy of the moment.

I challenge you to embrace this one simple truth: I am enough.”

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Indeed, since the debut on October 20, 2014, “Supermodel Astronaut” has ignited a positive reaction from women around the world.

Tift was “absolutely thrilled” to receive messages from Greece, Pakistan, and Russia.

“Women feel so much pressure to be perfect, but if our focus is on who we think we should be, it completely cancels out the joy of celebrating who we are.

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wSpread this over a lifetime and that’s a big deal. The truth is, real women are beautiful just as they are and we say they are ‘Supermodel Astronauts’ for all they do each day,” writes Tift.

The pledge asks you to stop: • thinking and verbalizing critical words about yourself and others • comparing yourself to the people found in magazines, television, or movies • allowing past failures, disabilities, or unkind words or opinions define you • allowing your insecurities to prevent you from connecting with other people.

And asks you to promise to: • practice self acceptance, grace, and forgiveness • make choices that support physical, emotional, and spiritual health • show other women grace through words, thoughts, and good deeds • encourage other woman by reaching out, listening, and sharing •

live authentically

Tift asks, “Can you say ‘I am enough!’ and mean it? Once we believe we are enough, it changes us. We will have self acceptance, self-grace, and self-love. And when we know “we are enough,” we don’t need to tear other women or girls down.”

Women were asked to post pictures of themselves holding their own cue cards. Tift reflects, “Some women really had to process the impact of holding a sign. It was a mini-crisis. It only reinforces the need for this type of message to be spread.” Women overcame their fears, and posted pictures displaying “beautiful diverse smiles” and the words “I am enough” in a dozen different languages.

Step forward and join the cause. Including the hash tag “#SupermodelAstronaut” will connect you with others in this global revolution. How many women do you know who will write, “I am enough!”?

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Hey,You Throw Like a Girl!

By Kelly Melang

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eslie Monteith and her two daughters proudly exclaim that they “throw like a girl” and that “there’s nothing soft about it – it just leaves a bigger bruise!” The forces behind the Forsyth Softball Club, they have put together a volunteer organization bringing softball to middle school girls of the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County school system. “Softball has always been a love of mine, from my middle school days of wearing the jerseys and competing, to playing with family and friends. When my daughters hit middle school, we found out girls softball wasn’t offered in the Winston-Salem/ Forsyth County school system, so we decided to just organize it on our own. Schools play each other at high school ball fields around the county,” says Leslie.

Forsyth Softball Club is looking to expand their middle school teams from five schools to seven this coming season. “We feel getting the word out early helps us touch those parents in schools not represented, letting them know we are here and if they are as passionate about softball, as we are, we can make their school team happen. You’d be amazed at the creativity behind starting some of the current school teams and the lengths parents go getting their children to the ball field for a sport they love,” Leslie adds.

Forsyth Softball Club is a parent volunteer organization that is not part of the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County school system. Its goal is to add softball as an available sport to middle school girls. “At this year’s end of season banquet, we had four players from our inaugural 2009 season speak. It was inspiring to the girls listening as some are now committed to play softball at Division I colleges, while others are moving into softball clubs at the college level, when they graduate in 2016. The speakers were passionate about

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softball, as passionate as our players, coaches and volunteers are today. There is a future in softball here in Forsyth County; we give girls a skill that lasts a lifetime.”

Forsyth Softball Club models its season so it fits in with the other sports offered by area middle schools. “This year, our end-ofseason tournament at Glenn High School was action-packed!

Every game had you on the edge of your seat and it was exciting watching the determination of all the teams to win. The Lady Jaguars of Southeast Middle School eventually won and were honored at our end-of- season banquet held in October,” says Leslie. “We time this specifically so girls interested in moving on to school volleyball don’t have any type of overlap between sports.”

What can middle school girls expect with the Forsyth Softball Club? “We organize teams for each school and we play on fields rented from the WS/FC school system, making them regulation fields. Our umpires are professionals, and everyone plays by North Carolina High School rules. Our mission is teaching softball skills to all levels, while also teaching sportsmanship, empathy, fair play, and teamwork within the fun of a great game at the ball field,” says Leslie.

So grab your cleats, your mitt, bat and ball and think about joining the Forsyth Softball Club in the Triad area. If you are thinking of joining or starting a team at your middle school, or are interested in coaching, contact Leslie Monteith at forsythsoftballclub@yahoo.com or call 336-406-3504.

Especially if you do throw like a girl, Forsyth Softball Club is looking for you!

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Charity Miles: Free iOS and Android This free app that monitors the distance of your runs, bike rides and walks and turns that hard work of yours into donations. Founded by Gene Gurkoff in 2012, he set out on a mission to raise money and awareness for Parkinson’s disease, honoring his grandfather who has the illness. Gurkoff practices what he preaches, too. He’s an avid marathon runner and has completed 6 Ironman Triathlons!

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Christmas Carol Conundrum

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It’s that time again! You’ll be hearing your favorite Christmas carols in stores and elevators all over town. How well do you really know those songs that seem to stick in your head, long after the Christmas season is over? See if you can name the Christmas tunes below!

1. “Troll the ancient Yuletide carol” 2. “Me, I want a hula hoop” 3. “For the holidays, you can’t beat home, sweet home” 4. “Jingle bell time is a swell time, To go gliding in a one-horse sleigh” 5. “Bless all the dear children in thy tender care” 6.“You'll be doin' all right, with your Christmas of white” 7. “Down to the village, with a broomstick in his hand” 8. “All is calm, all is bright” 9. “You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen” 10. “She thought that I was tucked up in my bedroom fast asleep” 11. “I really do believe in you; Let's see if you believe in me...”

12. “He sings a love song, While we go along” 13. “Come they told me” 14. “Where the tree tops glisten, And children listen” 15. “Hang your stockings and say your prayers” 16. “Prospero año y Felicidad” 17. “But if you'll really hold me tight, All the way home I'll be warm” 18. “Somebody snitched on me”

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NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 29 SING WITH THE GOLDEN TRIAD SHOW CHORUS 7-10pm, 611 Oakhurst Street in Kernersville. Golden Triad Chorus is a wonderful group of fun-loving, talented ladies who share the love of harmony and the unique art of barbershop music. Looking for new members. Come and see if we are the right fit for you! www.goldentriadchorus.org

NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 31 THE ART OF SEATING: TWO HUNDRED YEARS OF AMERICAN DESIGN 9:30am-4:30pm, 2250 Reynolda Road. The Art of Seating tells the dynamic and engaging story of furniture design and production in the United States. Museum admission required.

NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 31 HOLIDAYS AT REYNOLDA 9:30am-4:30pm, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Take a step back in time to an early 20th-century holiday season at Reynolda. The historic 1917 home of R.J. and Katharine Reynolds will be decorated with magnolia leaves, nandina berries and other greenery. Cost: Museum admission. http://reynoldahouse.org/calendar/event/holidays-at-reynolda

DECEMBER 2 HOMESCHOOL/SMALL GROUP DAY AT SCIWORKS 10-11am, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Programs for home-educated children and other small groups. “Melting Pot” (grades K-4) at 10am and “Carolina Skies” (grades 5-9) at 11am. Class fee includes museum admission. Pre registration is required; call 714.7105 to register. www.sciworks.org MONKEY HOOPER FITNESS 11-11:30am, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. With Monkey Hooper, kids learn early that fitness should be fun! Enjoy structured activities like dancing, games, parachute play, obstacle courses and more. Free with museum admission.

SWINGLE BELLS CONCERT IN OLD SALEM 3-7pm, 900 Old Salem Road in W-S. Put a little swing in your Christmas with this Jazzy concert featuring Martha Bassett and friends. Cost: $5-$18/person.

DECEMBER 4 ARDMORE MORAVIAN CHURCH TO HOLD CHRISTMAS BAZAAR 5-8pm, 2013 West Academy Street in W-S. Annual Christmas candle tea and bake sale. Tours will run every 15 minutes.

Traditional Moravian crafts such as candle making, cookie baking, tin and Moravian star making. www.ardmoremoravian.org DECK THE HALLS AT SAWTOOTH PREVIEW PARTY 6-9pm, 251 North Spruce Street in W-S. Get first crack at the finest selection of fine crafts and art in the Triad. Enjoy complimentary hors d'oeuvres with beer and wine at the bar as you shop through beautifully unique items handcrafted by more than 70 local and regional artists. Cost: $25/advance; $30/door. www.sawtooth.org

DECEMBER 4-6 CANDLELIGHT TOURS 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Hour-long tours of the 1917 historic house featuring stories from a Reynolds family holiday, refreshments and a children’s chorus.

Cost: $15/members and students; $20/nonmembers (advance purchase recommended – call 758.5150).

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December 2014 DECEMBER 4-13 CANDLE TEA (PRESENTED BY WOMEN’S FELLOWSHIP OF HOME MORAVIAN CHURCH) Times vary. Events occur at Single Brothers House in Old Salem, corner of Main Street and Academy Street. Guests enjoy the sounds, sights, smells and tastes of traditional Advent preparations in early Salem, a Moravian town founded in 1766. The putz, with its carved Nativity figures and miniature replica of early Salem, is a highlight. Cost: $5/adults; $1/children 12 and under. homemoravian.org/candletea

DECEMBER 5-22 DECK THE HALLS AT SAWTOOTH – FINE CRAFTS & ART SALE 10am-7pm, 251 North Spruce Street in W-S. This annual sale of fine crafts and art featuring the work of more than 70 local and regional artists is Sawtooth School’s largest fundraiser.

Items for sale include pottery, jewelry, cards, scented soaps, wreaths, ornaments, scarves and more. www.sawtooth.org

DECEMBER 6 BREAKFAST WITH SANTA 8-10am, Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem at 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Celebrate the season with a morning filled with Christmas spirit! Enjoy crafts, cookie decorating, story time and a visit from the man in red!

Cost: $17.08/member; $19.22/nonmember (registration required). http://conta.cc/WERSaR CHRISTMAS TREASURES SALE 8am-12pm, 3535 Spangenburg Avenue in Clemmons. All gently used holiday related items including ornaments, lights and many other decorations. Half of the proceeds will be donated to the Clemmons Food Pantry. Call 766.9739 to donate items. clemmonsmoravian.org FROHLICHE WEIHNACHTEN 1:30-4:30pm, 2147 Bethabara Road in W-S. Experience German Christmas traditions through food, music and crafts. www.bethabarapark.org CHRISTMAS AROUND THE WORLD 3-7pm, Main and Mountain Street in Kernersville. Grab your passport, and enjoy doing a quick tour around the world in downtown Kernersville! Participating shops will have passports (while supplies last), and when you visit each store, you experience the holiday in the country they represent! www.DiscoverKernersville.com

DECEMBER 9 ANGEL BEAR YOGA: CELEBRATE THE SEASON 11-11:30am, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. We'll read the book Jingle Bells as we travel around the world to see how children celebrate the holidays in other countries. Free with museum admission.

FLIGHT SIMMERES’ WORKSHOP 7-8pm, 121 Pineview Drive in Kernersville. Just an excuse for flight simmers' to get together and share knowledge and ideas.

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DECEMBER 11 HOLIDAY POPS CONCERT: CAROLINA BRASS 7:30-9pm, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Carolina Brass takes audiences on a musical sleigh-ride through favorites of the season. Advance purchase for holiday events is strongly recommended (758.5150). Cost: $10/members; $15/nonmembers.

AMERICA WITH THE PIEDMONT WIND SYMPHONY 7:30-9:30pm, LJVM Coliseum, 2825 University Parkway in W-S. Celebrate Christmas with hits like "A Horse with No Name," "Tin Man," "You Can Do Magic" and more along with your holiday favorites. Conducted by Robert Simon.

Cost: $35-$75/person. www.piedmontwindsymphony.com

DECEMBER 12 FESTIVA FAMILY FRIDAY AT SCIWORKS 4-8pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Explore the museum, "Moneyville" exhibit and enjoy holiday music, crafts, laser shows and more for only $1/person (free for SciWorks members). Visit with special guests...including Santa himself!

THRIVE’S HOLIDAY SPA NIGHT 5-9pm, 2512 Reynolda Road in W-S. Start the holidays off with an evening of rejuvenation and festive promotions.

There will be wine, holiday treats, juicing, mini-facials, hand/arm massages, [Comfort Zone] product giveaways and much more. RSVP at jamie@thrive4health.com

DECEMBER 13 SALEM CHRISTMAS 10am-5pm, 900 Old Salem Road in W-S. Join us for our annual celebration of Moravian traditions throughout the historic town of Salem! Historic buildings will open. Cost: $13-$26/person. www.oldsalem.org/salemchristmas.html ELF TEA PARTY 10:30am-12pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Make your elf costume, sing silly songs, enjoy story time and create elf-themed crafts! Enjoy making elf donuts and reindeer food to put out! Registration required. Cost varies. 723.9111

DECEMBER 6-7 VINEYARDS OF SWAN CREEK HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE 11am-5pm (6th); 12-5pm (7th), 450 Groce Road in Ronda.

Join us as we celebrate the season with a complimentary sample of Raffaldini Vineyards peppermint chocolate wine-infused brownie and apple cider. Additionally, we will have many gift ideas available for your holiday shopping convenience. www.raffaldini.com

DECEMBER 8 KIDS’ MORNING OUT 10am-12pm, 6285 Shallowford Road, Suite 180 in Lewisville.

Join us for a special “reservations only” KMO! Studio Create is offering a “Make and Take” Christmas art project! Don’t miss out! This is a limited opportunity and the price – bring an unwrapped toy of $10 value or greater to be donated to Toys for Tots. *Due to the limited space for this month's KMO, registration will be required. Only 40 children will be able to participate in this special event. The KMO will be separated into two sessions. You will be notified via email if you are selected for the 10-11am slot or the 11am-12pm slot. Snacks will be available, as well as the Forsyth Family prize board!

Register online at tinyurl.com/FFDecKMO. For questions about the event call, 689.3669.

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DECEMBER 14 AN AFTERNOON OF HOLIDAY CHEER 1-4pm, 450 Groce Road in Ronda. Carol along with the Raffaldini chorus, enjoy light refreshments and a 3pm visit from the Italian Christmas character, La Befana. This mythical woman will read her story fireside for all to enjoy. www.raffaldini.com A CHRISTMAS MEMORY 3-5pm, 2250 Reynolda Road in W-S. Original adaptation of A Christmas Memory, Capote's tale of his own humble childhood holiday traditions. Advance purchase for holiday events is strongly recommended (758.5150). Cost: $10/members; $15/nonmembers. reynoldahouse.org

DECEMBER 16 PRESCHOOL PROGRAM AT SCIWORKS: “OH DEER!” 10am-12pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. “PIPP (Parent-Involved Preschool Program) Squeaks” is for children ages 3-5 and their parent/adult caregivers.

Pre-registration required (call 714.7105). Cost: $7/members; $15/non-members (includes museum admission).

GIRLS' NIGHT OUT 5-9pm, Broyhill Historic Event Center, 3540 Clemmons Road in Clemmons. Grab a friend, neighbor, co-worker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need Girls’ Night Out. (guys are welcome too!) Enjoy drinks and heavy hors d’oeuvres from Phoenix Grille for $20/person – register at tinyurl.com/FWDecGNO. Also, register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! For every book you bring to donate to the WSFC Schools, we’ll give you an extra prize board ticket! Sponsored

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DECEMBER 17 PIEDMONT WIND QUINTET PERFORMANCE 6:30pm, Rural Hall Branch Library. Certainly you want to relax a little before the last minute rush of holiday shopping.

The soothing power of music is well established; it has a unique link to our emotions; it can be an extremely effective stress management tool. 703.2970

DECEMBER 20 LIVE DRIVE-THRU NATIVITY – “A CHILD IS BORN” 6-8pm, St. John's Lutheran Church & School, 2415 Silas Creek Parkway in W-S. Complete with children's petting zoo and children's angel choir. Free admission. Collecting nonperishable food for 2nd Harvest Food Bank. www.stjohnsws.org DECEMBER 20 & 23 DROP-IN GINGERBREAD HOUSE WORKSHOP 10am-1pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Join us while supplies last! Make and take a mini gingerbread house for $6.40. Build your creation with a mini milk carton, graham crackers, icing and a variety of sweet treats! Museum admission not included.

DECEMBER 22-23 CREATIVE HOLIDAYS 9am-4pm, 400 Leisure Lane in W-S. Children ages 4-12 spend the day at Miller Park playing games and creating gifts! This fun event is $15 for one day or $25 for both ($5 increase for registration after December 5th). www.WePLAY.ws

DECEMBER 27 PETER AND THE WOLF CONCERT AT OLD SALEM 11am-1pm, 900 Old Salem Road in W-S. Take a break from the holiday hustle and bustle to enjoy this beloved musical fairy tale with the whole family. Cost: $5-$10/person. www.oldsalem.org/peter-and-the-wolf.html

DECEMBER 29 SCIWORKS’ WINTER DAY CAMP: “WINTER WONDER LAB” 9am-4pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Banish the post-holiday blues with some science fun at SciWorks' Winter Day Camps! Ages 6-12. Before- and after-camp childcare

options available. For camp descriptions and registration information, visit www.sciworks.org. Cost: $40/members; $45/nonmembers.

DECEMBER 30 SCIWORKS’ WINTER DAY CAMP: “CON-STRUX” 9am-4pm, 400 West Hanes Mill Road in W-S. Banish the post-holiday blues with some science fun at SciWorks' Winter Day Camps! Ages 6-12 -- camp descriptions and registration information, visit www.sciworks.org. Cost: $40/members; $45/nonmembers.

DECEMBER 31 NOON YEAR’S EVE CELEBRATION 10am-2pm, 390 South Liberty Street in W-S. Join us for a countdown to Noon Year’s Eve! Create your very own sound shaker in the Art Studio beginning at 10am. At 11:40am, we’ll gather together for fun songs, silly activities and a story time. Free with admission to the museum or membership.

DECEMBER 31-JANUARY 1 NEW YEAR’S EVE 2015 CELEBRATION 9pm-2am, 6205 Ramada Drive in Clemmons. Doors open at 9pm, appetizers 9-10:30pm, full cash bars, party favors, countdown and champagne toast at midnight! The O.S.P. Band, Phase Band & DJ Mr. Bill Productions! Cost varies. www.TheVillageInn.com

FIRST SUNDAYS FAMILY FIRST 2-5pm, 2250 Reynolda Road. In this workshop, participants will take inspiration from George L. K. Morris’s Wall-Painting (1936) to create an abstract masterpiece using wallpaper and acrylic paint. For children in grades 1-6 accompanied by an adult. Cost: $8/members; $10/non-members. Registration required. reynoldahouse.org

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FOURTH TUESDAYS NEWCOMERS & NEIGHBORS OF GREATER WINSTON-SALEM 9:45-11:30am, Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1416 Bolton Street in W-S. Monthly interest groups include book, lunch bunch, bridge, day and evening card, dinner and wine. FREE initial meeting. $35 annual dues. If interested, contact Barbara at wsnandn@aol.com.

WEDNESDAYS (NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 31) SELECT YOUR STUDY SERIES 6-7:30pm, 6000 Meadowbrook Mall, Suite 1 in Clemmons.

Weekly yoga class taught by Valerie Kiser in which the topic varies week to week. Topics could include things such as specific pose work or pose type, a therapeutic theme, etc.

Cost: $16/person. Visit www.SunriseYoga.net for details.

FIRST AND THIRD WEDNESDAYS CLEMMONS KIWANIS CLUB MEETING 7:30-8:30am, Holiday Inn Express, 6320 Amp Drive in Clemmons. We provide the opportunity for individuals to learn about our community and be a contributor to improving the lives of our children. 245.8406

THURSDAYS REYNOLDA THURSDAYS 4:30-8pm, 2250 Reynolda Road. Sharon Andrews and Michael Huie bring their words to life in a staged reading of the letter correspondence between Alfred Stieglitz and Georgia O’Keeffe. Members/students free; nonmembers/$5.

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SATURDAYS (NOVEMBER 29-DECEMBER 20) SATURDAYS WITH ST. NICHOLAS 10am-3pm, 924 South Main Street in W-S. Bring your family to the Old Salem Historic District, and start a new holiday tradition! Enjoy the beautiful historic neighborhood accented by holiday decorations and special programming for children and the young at heart. Cost: $7/person. www.oldsalem.org/saturdays-with-stnicholas.html

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201 Media.....................................113 D Dalton’s Crossing ..........................125 A Accent Prone.....................................3 Davie Flooring & Cabinets ...............21 Accessories Access......................129 Dawson Tree Service.....................140 Accessorize This! ............................45 Diet Center.....................................133 Aesthetic Images.............................52 Dream Dinners ................................33 Alexander’s Automotive.................123 E Allegacy Federal Credit Union ........148 Earheart Healthy Weight Loss............4 Andrea Robinson, DDS......................5 Electrolysis, Etc .............................140 Avery Reece ..................................133 Encore Consignments & More!........81 etc. Consignment Shoppe ...............95 B F Becky Davis - Massage Therapy ...133 F. Rees.............................................75 Bella Hair Co....................................41 Fabian’s Restaurant...............105, 140 Best Bet Painters ...........................141 Farrago ............................................83 Bloomday Granite..........................147 Fitness Edge..................................113 Brenner Fit .......................................11 Five Points.......................................51 Brookstown Inn ...............................31 Forsyth Community Magazine .......131 Burklee Printing................................93 Forsyth Plastic Surgery....................47 Busy as a Bee Concierge ................77 Forsyth Veterinary Hospital ............111 C Fourth St. Art and Frame ...............129 Charleston Custom Painters ..........113 Fraleigh’s.......................................101 Chermak & Hanson Orthodontics..121 Fresh Air Carpet Care ....................140 Chris’ Lawncare ............................123 G Christina’s Dessertery ...................117 Gifts & Paper on Plaza...................119 Chrystal Yates................................141 Goin’ Postal............................121,141 Clemmons Bike Shop....................125 grassroots Aveda.............................35 Complete Rehab..............................89 H Craige Brawley Liipfert & Hair Bomb .....................................129 Walker, LLP .....................................19 HakkaChow .....................................71

Hand Picked Consignments.............25 Hauser Rental................................137 Hillcrest Vision...............................123 Hip Chics...........................................7 HomeWatch CareGivers...................35 Honky Tonk Smokehouse..............133 Hospice ...........................................87 Hot Yoga..........................................95 House Matters...............................135 House Matters Lawn Care .............127 I Ideas .............................................129 iFix Cell Phone Repair....................121 Initial Decor ...................................133 Inner Strength Pilates.....................135 Ivy Arch...........................................81 J Jeffrey Adams .................................23 Jim Wilson ......................................95 John E. Fitzgerald, Attorney at Law....9 June DeLugas Interiors....................39 K K. Leigh’s Collection......................129 L Laster’s Fine Art & Antiques..........127 Leather & Lace Acoustic Duo........109 Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics ..........12 Lil’ Briar Patch .................................17 Lucky Bones ...................................49 Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates....6 M MacRae Coin & Currency..............133 McIntosh Total Home Repair .........141 Mainstream Boutique.......................97 Mary’s Professional Cleaning ..........73 Merlot & Van Gogh........................129 Minglewood...................................121 Moonlight Designs...........................71 Moore Self Storage........................137 Mountain Valley Hospice ...............135 N New Town Bistro ...........................101 Next Step Career Coaching............127 Noteworthy......................................73 Nu expression..................................79 Nutcracker.........................................2 O Oasis on 5th..................................111 P P3 Painting & Pressure Washing ..101 Pam Boyle - Allen Tate.....................93 Paparazzi Hair Salon........................31 Parr Investments..............................23 Penny Lane Boutique.......................47 Phoenix Grille...................................99 Photo Artistry by Melinda..............137 Piedmont Advantage Credit Union ...49 Pope Sand & Gravel ......................140 Prints Charming.............................119

Professional Women of Winston-Salem (PWWS) .................69 R Raylen Vineyards...........................105 Red Hot & Blue................................87 ReDESIGNS by Ava .........................59 Reynolda House ..............................75 River Ridge Taphouse....................103 Rodan + Fields .............................133 S Salem Gymnastics ........................119 Salem Smiles Orthodontics ...........125 SalemTowne Retirement Center.......91 Sander Smith - Spark Financial........51 Sass Consignment Boutique............37 Sawtooth School for Visual Art......143 Sewingly Yours..............................101 Sharon Reid, DDS............................29 Simply Southern Cuisine ...............117 Simply Sterling & Co. ......................27 Singing Bird Salon.................105, 141 Smokin’ Harley Davidson ..............119 Southern Ties Boutique ...................15 Starboard Accounting....................125 Studio Create...................................83 Style Encore ..................................105 Summit Eye Care.............................16 Sunrise Yoga .................................111 Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure.73 T Thrive Integrated Health.........117, 141 Thruway Center...............................91 Tina S. Merhoff & Associates..........77 TJs Body Shop........................83, 141 Todd’s Easy Moves .........................33 Treasure’s Décor Consignments......21 U “U” Bounce Party Rentals .............140 Urban Chic ....................................129 US Figure Skating Championships...57 V VCA Animal Hospital West...............99 Village Inn Event Center ...................85 Vow To Be Different .......................140 W Wayne Collins Electric ...................127 Winston-Salem Dermatology...........59 Winston-Salem Journal .................141 WomanCare.....................................29 Women’s Fund ................................10 Women’s Wellness & Fitness ........111 December 2014 / 145

1. How did Studio Create come into being? Were you always an artist as a child? Studio Create was created because adult and children need to be creative the old fashioned way. My own niece and nephew would spend hours on mine craft, yet when given the chance to paint, draw or sculpt, you could see the joy and excitement build. As a child, I loved to visit the “toy closet” at my grandmother’s house. She was a wonderful seamstress, and the closet was filled with scraps of fabric and buttons...the grandchildren were given full reign to create costumes, doll clothes...whatever we wanted.

This type of creativity was a part of our daily lives.

2. Tell us a little about your Christmas creations and how you get your inspiration. I always draw inspiration from nature

Kelly Melang always gets the last word with the women of Winston-Salem!

and family. One of my favorite traditions is to provide a blank table runner and permanent markers or fabric paints and challenge the family to draw the things they are thankful for, or their favorite holiday memories, while the meal is being prepared. This is such a wonderful keepsake. I also love to take a family walk, challenging teams of kids and adults to create decorations from items gathered during the walk.

3. What advice would you give women thinking about getting into art? My advice would be to relax and enjoy the process.

Art is so personal, it is hard for me, balancing creativity and business.

I’ve been very fortunate to have a great support system of family and friends who are wonderful mentors.

4. How do you change your classes for the holiday season? I offer special holiday art classes and day camps for kids and adults to come to the studio and create seasonal holiday items.

5. What is the greatest obstacle in working with school age children? The greatest obstacle working with schoolchildren is storage space. I see so many things as future art projects – but where to put them? I also have a hard time throwing away treasures my students create and leave behind. If I had a bigger studio space, I could fill it to the brim.

6. What sets Studio Create apart from other businesses?

I truly want artists of all ages experiencing the joy of being creative.

Art is like yoga for your brain. I love being a part of that process!

7. Where would you like to see Studio Create in 5 years?

I would love to see the studio thrive and grow. I have tons of ideas for classes. I have also been inspired by the actions of my students.

In my two years with Studio Create, students participated in two art shows for charity. What a gift, watching students sell items we created, or giving them to their chosen charity organization. I hope I can continue growing that portion of my business.

Leigh Ann Alexander Studio Create he Last Word, in the holiday mood, contacted Leigh Ann Alexander of Studio Create for a few questions. Studio Create is a wonderful way for children and adults to explore “low tech” creativity in a “high tech” world. They get their hands dirty in different art media, from sculpting to painting, to creating art with objects of nature. Leigh Ann was right in the middle of scheduling holiday-themed classes and camps, but gave us a few minutes.

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8. If you could nominate one local woman for President of the United States, who would it be and why? Maya Angelou would have been a wonderful president. Luckily, she was a gifted writer and her prose will inspire us forever. Keela Johnson would also be an amazing president! She gets the job done, helping countless women in business in our area.

9. Finally, what is your guilty pleasure? What to choose?

Sleeping late every time I have the opportunity, or belting out Neil Diamond songs at the top of my lungs, it’s a hard choice.

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