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FlightsInStilettos ® Magazine Founder and EIC Kinyatta E. Gray answers questions regarding relationships, friendships, marriages, and everything in between from ordinary people just like you who are open to her wisdom, sincerity, common sense, and sometimes humorous responses. Question: My ex-boyfriend (child’s father) is in a relationship with another woman and I don’t want my child around his girlfriend. What should I do? S.P., Washington, DC

Answer: I can empathize with the fact that he has moved on, and perhaps you have not moved on as fast as you'd like. Examine where those feelings are coming from. Are you trying to control his life? Do you secretly want him back? Has the new girlfriend given you any reason to feel uncomfortable with her being around your child? Next, think of your child. Think about what message this sends to your child if they can't see their dad. I have always believed that the more people that are allowed to love my children, the better. Examine your feelings, put them into the proper perspective and do what's best for your child. Imagine you falling in love again and your child’s father expresses the same thing to you – for no good reason at all. It’s not a great thought when you’ve moved into your new “happy” place. Let Go, Let God and Live.

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