Tidings Summer 2025

First Presbyterian Church of Tulsa

VOL. 70, NO. 2 - SUMMER 2025

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, His mercies never come to an end.”

–Lamentations 3:22

Pastor transition: Pastor Nominating Committee PAGE 4

Missions update: H2O Project achievements PAGE 6

New members: Hospitality is working PAGE 8

First Church history: The dedication of the sanctuary PAGE 12

SUMMER 2025 Vol. 70, No. 2

Walking in step with the Spirit..................... 3 FINDING JOY IN SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES Rev. Julia Metcalf, Associate Pastor

Behind the scenes of the Pastor Nominating Committee.................... 4 A JOURNEY OF DISCERNMENT AND TRUST Excerpts from “The Transition” podcast

Building wells, saving lives.......................... 6 ONE OF FIRST CHURCH’S GLOBAL MISSIONS: THE H2O PROJECT Paul Marsh, First Church Communications

Together in faith....................................... 7 THE NSEREKO FAMILY STORY

Petra Mangesho, Communications Committee Chair

What brought them in, and what made them stay.......................... 8 NEW MEMBERS WEIGH IN ON HOSPITALITY AT FIRST CHURCH An interview with new members Mikayla and Bryce

Thank you AWANA volunteers.................... 9 RECOGNIZING THE WORK OF OUR GENEROUS SERVANTS First Church Children’s Ministry

Love Jesus, serve others, be different............10 JOHN DONNELLY'S TESTIMONY OF EMBRACING WHO YOU ARE Paul Marsh, First Church Communications

The Fourth Era continues..........................12 THE SANCTUARY DEDICATION ONE HUNDRED YEARS AGO Nick McMillan, Moderator, Board of Deacons

Parish Register....................................... 14

NEW MEMBERS AND MORE

Provided by Emma Myatt, Director of New Member Outreach and Kathy Wilson, Ministry Assistant to Member Care

Walking in step with the Spirit FINDING JOY IN SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES

By Rev. Julia Metcalf, Associate Pastor What if the life you’re longing for—one marked by joy, peace, purpose, and real connection to the living God—was closer than you think? What if there were a way to live not by willpower or perfectionism, but by walking each day with the empowering presence of God? This is the promise of Life in the Spirit.

We recently asked the question: “Who is the Holy Spirit?” A question that might feel as broad and daunting as a stranger asking, “Who are you?” across the table at a dinner party.

The Scriptures tell us that the Holy Spirit has been there since the beginning with the Father and the Son, as He was “hovering over the waters” (Genesis 1:3). Our Reformed tradition teaches that this coeternal, coequal, and coessential person of the Holy Trinity is the empowering presence of God—a presence sent by the Father through the Son not only to the disciples on the day of Pentecost (Acts 2:1–4), but to every person who confesses Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior (Ephesians 1:3).

The gift for each of us in the empowering presence of God is that we have personal access to the God of the universe, and we have a partner in our call to be formed into Christ’s image. First Timothy 4:7 tells us to “train yourself for godliness.” Thankfully, through the Holy Spirit, this training becomes less about trying harder and more about living in step with the Spirit by His counsel, comfort, and help.

Throughout our Christian heritage, believers have lived out Life in the Spirit through what church tradition calls the Spiritual Disciplines.

Spiritual Disciplines are rhythms or practices that we intentionally and consistently pursue in our lives that draw us into closer relationship with the living God. These practices—like prayer, fasting, study, worship, and others—are either taught or modeled in Scripture. They act like a garden trellis that, as branches attached to the vine (John 15:5), we are enabled to grow up in a way that looks like the person and work of Jesus.

In his book The Spirit of the Disciplines, author and theologian Dallas Willard writes: “We can become like Christ by doing one thing—by following him in the overall style of life he chose for himself.” The Spiritual Disciplines are a means (not an end) to living less and less according to the flesh and more and more in the way of the Spirit (Galatians 5:16).

Wherever you are on your spiritual journey—curious, skeptical, or committed—I invite you to explore the Spiritual Disciplines in a way that allows you to be formed more by the presence of our loving God than by anything else. Though these practices require intention and effort, they lead to freedom, joy, and the kind of life that overflows with blessing. As we abide with the Lord, the promise to us is that we—and those around us—will “taste and see that the Lord is good” (Psalm 34:8).

So, friends, let us pursue together Life in the Spirit!

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Behind the scenes of the Pastor Nominating Committee A JOURNEY OF DISCERNMENT AND TRUST

First Presbyterian Church is in a pivotal season of searching to hire our next senior pastor, a process led by the Pastor Nominating Committee (PNC). In recent episodes of The Transition podcast with Rev. Julia Metcalf, PNC members Jacob Thompson, Joel Donohue, and Kate Swan shared insights on their roles, responsibilities, and the spiritual discernment guiding their work.

THE WEIGHT OF RESPONSIBILITY

For the PNC members, the task is both an honor and a burden.

As Joel Donohue shares, “This is a heavy task. It’s a historic church, and it’s a weighty thing. But I think we’ve had a real sense of calm when we’re together. It’s as if the Spirit is reminding us that the Lord has already called somebody. We’re just going through the process to find out who it is.”

Jacob Thompson echoes this sentiment: “This is a historic church. It’s a high-functioning church, and we know the weight of the responsibility we’re carrying. But there’s also a sense of calm — a recognition that we’re not in charge of this process. God is.”

Kate Swan, the youngest member of the committee, feels the significance of the role as well: “I’m the youngest person on the committee, and to have been asked to serve spoke volumes to me.

It’s an honor, but it’s also a weight.”

DISCERNMENT AND SPIRITUAL PREPARATION

Before diving into profiles and candidate assessments, the PNC spent significant time in spiritual preparation. Kate describes a key moment: “We had an ‘advancement’ — not a retreat, because we’re advancing in faith. We needed to get to know each other better, align theologically, and unify in what we are seeking in a pastor.”

Jacob highlights the importance of being in tune with God’s timing: “We are on God's time, and what we have been doing initially coming together as a group and doing some spiritual growth exercises and activities is going to make the end product exactly what God wants it to be.”

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MANAGING EXPECTATIONS

Jacob acknowledges the challenge of managing expectations: “We have to keep in mind that Jesus Christ is the only one who perfectly fits the profile we’re seeking. The next senior pastor is going to be human, but they will be someone God has called to lead us into the next era of First Presbyterian Church.”

Joel emphasizes the need for mutual discernment: “We’re not just looking for the best candidate. We also want the best candidates to see us as the best church home for them. It’s mutual discernment, mutual call.”

THE PROCESS OF REVIEWING CANDIDATES

With the Ministry Discernment Profile What is a Ministry (MDP) posted, the committee is now Discernment Profile? actively reviewing potential candidates.

It is a document used Kate notes the sense of anticipation: “Now in the Presbyterian that the MDP is posted, we’re reading Church (U.S.A.) to outline through profiles. It’s becoming real. We’re a ministry position’s looking for the person we have a vision for — context, mission, and someone who will bring that vision to life.” responsibilities—helping Jacob describes the careful, prayerful candidates assess process: “Each meeting, we usually have whether the role fits five or six new names. We are going through their calling and gifts. each one, asking questions like, ‘Is Christ the focus of their mission? Do they have a strong reformed theological background?

Do they believe that the scriptures are the word of God?’” PRAYERS FOR THE JOURNEY

All three members emphasized the importance of prayer throughout this process. Joel encourages the congregation to pray for the next pastor: “There’s any number of things to pray for, but what really strikes me is that we should be praying for that next individual — that they sense the call.”

Kate asks for prayers for the committee: “Please continue to pray.

Pray for wisdom and discernment on our part as the PNC. Pray that the Lord’s will would be done and that we would be given patience to allow him to work on his timing because his will is best.”

In conclusion, the work of the Pastor Nominating Committee is a spiritual endeavor — one that requires deep faith, patience, and trust in God’s timing. As the committee continues to seek the next leader of First Presbyterian Church, the congregation is invited to join in prayer, trusting that God is preparing both the committee and the candidate for what is to come.

Learn about the members of the pastor nominating committee.

Allison Biggs joined First Church Tulsa in March 2020 and quickly became involved in the church’s COVID-related outreach ministries. She has served as an Elder and has participated in the Missions, Strategic Planning, 8:10 Council, and Financial Task Force committees. Allison and her husband, Trey, have three adult children and one granddaughter.

Nicole Pugh and her husband, Jason, have attended First Church since 2010. They have a daughter in middle school and a son in elementary school. The family regularly attends the 11:00 a.m. traditional service and actively participates in church life.

Nicole volunteers with AWANA and recently served on the Mission Study Team.

Joel Donohue and wife, Sarah, have four children, ages 13–17. Their family is actively involved at First Church since joining in 2013. Joel is an Elder who has served on the Next Generation and Strategic Planning committees, and currently as the Clerk of Session.

Ben Peterson started attending First Church in 2019 and joined in 2021. He has participated in three First Church mission trips and has served on the Young Adult Leadership Team for two years.

Ben also occasionally plays the trumpet in worship services.

John Frame first joined First Church in 1968, later moved away for his education, and returned in 1984 with his wife, Kitty. They have two children and three granddaughters. John is an active member of the First Church Chancel Choir and has served as an Elder. He is currently serving his second term on the First Church Tulsa Foundation Board of Trustees.

Kate Swan is a fourthgeneration member of First Church, Kate has served in many roles over the years.

Her involvement includes the Board of Deacons, the Young Adult Leadership Team, the Hospitality Committee, and Children’s Ministry.

Gary Johnson and his wife, Cindy, have been members of First Church for 39 years. They have two grown sons and two grandchildren. Gary is an Elder who has served on Session multiple times. He currently chairs the Session Finance & Stewardship Committee and also serves on the Personnel Committee.

Gary was a member of the recent Mission Study Team. He and Cindy have been members of the Harbingers Sunday School class since they joined the church. Gary also enjoys serving as a Lunch Buddy at Anderson Elementary, First Church’s partner school.

Patrick Kirunda - Originally from Kampala, Uganda, Patrick came to Tulsa in 2005 and joined First Church in 2012.

He and his wife, Nicolate, have three children. Patrick serves on the committee of Tulsa International Fellowship (TIF) and has previously served as both a Deacon and an Elder. During his time on Session, he served on the TIF, Discipleship, and Missions committees.

Jacob Thompson and his wife, Holly, have two daughters, ages 17 and 21.

They joined First Church in 2017. Jacob is an Elder serving his third year on Session and currently chairs the Strategic Planning Committee. He also serves on the Discipleship Committee. Jacob and Holly lead a Bible study in the UKirk Ministry at First Church.

Amy Tingleaf and her husband, Clark, have been members of First Church since 2003 and have two children.

Amy, an Elder, has served on several committees, including Mission, Strategic Planning (as Chair), and the 8:10 Project Council (as Chair). She has contributed extensively through volunteer work at First Church.

How you can pray for the Pastor Nominating Committee • Pray that the Holy Spirit will be at work in our PNC and that we will be receptive to the Holy Spirit’s direction and guidance.

• Pray that our conversations would be glorifying to God. • Pray for protection for us from the enemy. He is real and is always at work.

• Pray for our next senior pastor that God is nudging and preparing to lead us into the next era of FPC. • Pray for patience from the congregation for the PNC as we go through the discernment process.

• Pray for unity as a PNC and congregation.

Visit our website at FirstChurchTulsa.org/PNC for latest updates and helpful resources.

Want to know more?

Send your questions to PNC@FirstChurchTulsa.org

Listen to “The Transition” podcast for an in-depth look at First Church’s pastor transition process.

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Building wells, saving lives ONE OF FIRST CHURCH’S GLOBAL MISSIONS: THE H2O PROJECT

By Paul Marsh, First Church Communications

A long-term, life-giving well that serves an entire village can be built for just $475, providing clean water to 150 people, eliminating waterborne diseases, reducing child mortality, and transforming the community for generations.

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That’s the heart behind the H2O Project, a mission initiative of First Presbyterian Church of Tulsa along with Marion Medical Mission (MMM) to address the global water crisis. MMM is a front line, ecumenical Christian nonprofit that empowers villagers in Malawi, Zambia, Mozambique and Tanzania to build shallow, sustainable wells using local materials and community-led maintenance.

“Safe water means the difference between life and death,” says Scott Rodehaver, First Church member and liaison to Marion Medical Mission.

“It’s not just about digging a well. It’s about empowering communities with the knowledge and tools to maintain it for years to come.”

The H2O Project began at First Church in 2009 as a youth-led initiative to support global clean water efforts. Steve Wilson, newly serving in youth ministry, had just returned from the National Youth Workers Convention, where a breakout session on global service left a lasting impression.

“In the breakout session, they talked about the cost of clean water and how something as small as giving up coffee or soda for a month could fund a well,” he recalled. “I thought—our youth can do this.” Inspired, Steve and a group of committed leaders and students brought the idea to First Church, eager to make a difference.

The students embraced the project with enthusiasm. That first year, the church raised $10,603—enough to build 30 wells. They chose Marion Medical Mission as their partner for its sustainability model and communityfocused approach.

New Wells per Year

Cumulative Total

Money raised by the H20 project have helped build over 300 wells since 2009.

The global water crisis is real: • Every day, 2,000 children under five years old die from diarrheal diseases—1,800 of them due to poor water, sanitation, and hygiene.

• Sub-Saharan Africa has the highest under-age 5 mortality rate in the world, 15 times higher than in high income countries.

• Half of all hospital admissions in the region are linked to waterborne illnesses.

• In Sub-Saharan Africa, women spend 16 million hours daily fetching water.

• Worldwide, with every $1 invested in basic drinking water, an average of nearly $7 is returned in saved medical costs and increased productivity.

Source: www.mmmwater.org

H2O Project volunteers gather with community members at a completed water well in Malawi, 2014.

Over time, the project expanded beyond the youth group to become a church-wide initiative. The Missions Department, under the leadership of Rev. James Estes, officially adopted the effort in 2023. Significant support has come from members like Scott Rodehaver and Mike Miller, who have helped nurture and sustain the church’s connection with Marion Medical Mission.

Steve happily adds, “And you know what? Within ten years of launching, the UN statistics actually changed. Fewer people were dying from water-related illness—not because of us alone, but because of movements like this.”

Steve credits the project’s lasting impact to its simplicity and clear results. The concept is easy to understand: give up coffee or soda for a month and donate the savings. That money helps communities access the resources they need to build their own wells. He adds, “It’s not fancy or new tech. It just works. And it’s not expensive—just some supplies, know-how, and a bit of research.”

“People may never know the names of those they help,” Steve says, “but their gifts have literally saved lives. We’re not changing the whole world, but we’re changing someone’s world.”

Together in faith THE NSEREKO FAMILY STORY

By Petra Mangesho, Communications Committee Chair In the heart of our community, Eddie Nsereko has a story– a beautiful tapestry of faith, family, and fellowship. His journey, marked by devotion and resilience, has shaped his life and touched the lives of many around him.

Eddie's involvement with Victory Bible College and Harvest Church in Tulsa helped him discover his passion for worship, where he cultivated his talents as a worship leader and sound technician.

Eddie first met his wife, Debbie, on a trip back to visit his hometown in Uganda. Their connection was immediate, and they married July 2, 2005, and embarked on their journey together.

In 2008, Eddie's path led him to Tulsa International Fellowship (TIF), introduced by a friend from a Kenyan fellowship group called Ushirika. Eddie immediately realized he had found a new home after meeting Rev. Wambugu Gachungi and feeling the warmth of the TIF community. Eddie offered his talents in the worship team, playing multiple instruments, and adding his unique touch to the fellowship's worship experience.

At TIF, Eddie found more than just a place to worship; he found a family. He became deeply committed to TIF, and involved himself in numerous worship and community activities, making meaningful contributions. For Eddie, TIF is a family that supports and uplifts each other through life's joys and challenges.

Eddie's bond with TIF was solidified during a challenging time in 2020 when Debbie’s sister passed away. Pastor Wambugu was the first to offer support, conducting a memorial service and providing comfort to their family. This act of kindness confirmed to Eddie that TIF was indeed the right place for him and his family. He had found a community that stands by each other in times of need.

Eddie and Debbie have raised their children—Joshua, Jonathan, and Joel—in a nurturing, God-fearing environment. Programs like AWANA and Exodus have played a crucial role in their spiritual development. Their kids are actively engaged in service, with Joshua holding responsibility and contributing his skills to the TIF media department.

Thanks to the support and strong values of their community, Eddie and Debbie’s marriage has grown stronger. Celebrating 20 years this year on July 2, they reflect with gratitude on the blessings of missions trips and camps that have left a positive impact on their children.

Eddie's story is one of unity, a reflection of the caring and supportive nature of the TIF community. As he looks to the future, Eddie envisions a fellowship that continues to inspire and nurture, bringing people together in faith and love. His journey reminds us of the importance of community, the strength found in unity, and the enduring power of faith.

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Why they came– and what kept them coming back HOW HOSPITALITY AND WORSHIP HELPED NEWCOMERS FEEL AT HOME An interview with Mikayla and Bryce Barker

When Mikayla and Bryce Barker first walked into First Church, it wasn’t by chance—it was by invitation. But what kept them coming back?

In a season of church searching, they found more than just a worship style that fit. They found people who noticed them, remembered their names, and welcomed them into the community.

Their story is a clear reminder: Hospitality matters. It makes a difference. Here’s how it worked—in their own words.

non-denominational backgrounds, so this was a different style.

We were looking for something more reverent, less about feelgood messages and more rooted in the Bible.

Q: You live in Broken Arrow. Was driving all the way downtown for church ever a concern?

Bryce: It’s about 25 minutes for us, and we did wonder if that might be too far. But once we connected with the church, it became something we looked forward to each week. The drive doesn’t matter anymore.

Q: Was there a moment when you really felt “known”?

Q: What brought you to First Church?

Mikayla: Emma Myatt introduced us to a Sunday school class Mikayla: We got invited to the Christmas service by Michael and early on, and that helped a lot. From there, we started going to Valerie Grogan. We were already “church shopping,” and First events, meeting more people, and really becoming part of the Presbyterian was on our list, but that invitation definitely brought community. When we walked into that first us in sooner. It gave us the nudge we needed— class, people welcomed us right away and and the experience sealed it. We loved the “It is the small acts of brought us into the conversation. We felt service, and we were excited to come back hospitality that make a like we belonged. the next week.

Q: What was it about that first visit that made an impact?

Bryce: It was a tasteful blend of traditional and contemporary. The structure, the choir, the hymns, Dan’s message—it all just felt meaningful. People were incredibly kind, and we definitely felt like we wanted to return.

difference. A handshake, a smile—those things go a long way. People remembered our names, talked to us more than once.

It helped us feel noticed.”

–Bryce Barker

Q: What has church membership meant to you?

Bryce: It gives us a sense of belonging.

Being able to say, “This is our church,” means something. We’d never been members anywhere before, but going through the membership classes helped us feel rooted.

Now we feel like we have a place here.

Q: Did people remember you when you came back the next Sunday?

Mikayla: Yes—and that meant so much. I remember it was Greg Berkhouse who came up to us again, remembered our names, and introduced us to others. It made us feel like we weren’t just visitors anymore.

Q: How has being part of First Church shaped your faith or your rhythm of life?

Mikayla: We pray more—individually and together. It’s deepened our relationship with God and each other. We feel excited every Sunday. It’s not an obligation—it’s something we love.

Q: When you say you were looking for a “traditional” church, what did that mean to you?

Mikayla: For us, it meant a few things—more structure, timeless hymns, Scripture-based teaching. We’d come from Baptist and

Q: Do you stay connected with the church during the week?

Bryce: We follow First Church on Instagram and are part of the young adult group text. That group chat keeps us in the loop and helps us join in on events outside of Sundays.

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Meet Mikayla & Bryce Hometown: Bryce is from the Oklahoma City metro, and Mikayla is from Dallas.

Relationship: They met at the University of Oklahoma in 2019, were married in November, 2024.

Careers: Bryce is a mechanical engineer at AAON in Tulsa.

Mikayla is a meteorologist at FOX23.

First Church Fun Fact: They were invited to a Christmas service—and kept coming back.

Personality Types: Mikayla: Outgoing (“never met a stranger”) Bryce: Friendly and reserved Hobbies: Bryce enjoys nature photography and video games.

Mikayla loves baking sourdough bread and reading.

Q: What would you tell someone who’s thinking about visiting First Church?

Mikayla: You’ll feel loved and welcomed from the moment you walk in. The leadership is solid. You’ll sense the community immediately.

Q: What advice would you give longtime members who want to be more welcoming?

Bryce: It is the small acts of hospitality that make a difference. A handshake, a smile—those things go a long way. People remembered our names, talked to us more than once. It helped us feel noticed.

Q: Final thoughts?

Mikayla: We’re just so happy to be new members. We’re excited to see where this church goes—and to be part of it.

Swiethrving Joy!

Thank you to our AWANA volunteers for their time, love and energy.

12 YEARS OF SERVICE Shannon Thomas (Cubbies) Eva Waita (Cubbies) Cindy DeVore (Sparks/T&T) Kevin Waita (Sparks/T&T) 9 YEARS OF SERVICE Janet Drisko (Cubbies) Tom Hillis (Sparks/T&T) 8 YEARS OF SERVICE Aubrie Chaney (Cubbies) Kate Swan (Cubbies) Juddy Kanyeki (Sparks/T&T) Allan Kanyeki (Sparks/T&T) Nicole Pugh (Sparks/T&T) 7 YEARS OF SERVICE Grace Shelton (Cubbies) Jenni Dollahon (Sparks/T&T) 6 YEARS OF SERVICE Carol Rowland (Cubbies)

4 YEARS OF SERVICE Grace Masaku (Puggles) Cindy Weierbach (Puggles) 3 YEARS OF SERVICE Judith Risa (Babies) Lillian Waita (Babies) Scott Barnhart (Sparks/T&T) Nyambura Muturi (Sparks/T&T) Bradley Seibert (Sparks/T&T) 2 YEARS OF SERVICE Rebecca Smith (Cubbies) Andy Hand (Sparks/T&T) Margaret Holdridge (Sparks/T&T) Nicolate Kirunda (Sparks/T&T) 1 YEAR OF SERVICE Kristin Harrington (Babies) Caroline Briggs (Cubbies) Adam Jones (Sparks/T&T)

Let’s not underestimate the power of noticing someone new. For Mikayla and Bryce, a simple invitation opened the door, and sincere kindness made a lasting impression.

May we all look up, reach out, and welcome well—because it works.

Help extend a warm welcome by attending a New Member Gathering—an easy, informal way to connect with newcomers. These quarterly events are held in Miller Library and all members are encouraged to participate. Find out more at FirstChurchTulsa.org/Newcomer

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Love Jesus, serve others, be different JOHN DONNELLY’S TESTIMONY: TRUSTING GOD & EMBRACING WHO YOU ARE

By Paul Marsh, First Church Communications John says, “Even though we talk about me being different, I never felt different here. People welcomed us—genuinely.” Also, Rev. Estes’ theological approach resonated deeply with John, and he describes it as “a slower, more peaceful pace.”

Patricia Hall, former Director of New Member Outreach, made a lasting impression on John. Despite him postponing her invitations to join the church, she remained kind, consistent, and gracious.

“Every time I saw her, it was genuine love. She’s one of the reasons I thought to myself, ‘Okay, maybe I do belong here.’”

John and Sonya joined the church in 2024 and immediately got involved with the ministry team, serving with Rev. Estes and Eric Baird on the 2024 mission trip to Ireland.

Seasons of calling and conviction

First Church member John Donnelly wasn’t expecting a holy nudge on an ordinary morning in downtown Tulsa. But when he pulled into the Powerhouse parking lot at First Church, his eyes landed on a mural he had seen before—but this time, he saw it with new clarity. The words and images spoke directly to his story, as if God were saying, This is for you.

The mural on the outside of the Powerhouse is colorful and full of Christian imagery: salt and light, seeds scattered, Christ holding bread and fish, Scripture, Daniel and the lion, the call to follow Jesus. And above it all, in bold letters: Love Jesus. Serve Others. Be Different.

“Looking at the mural, I thought, That was my heart.

That was me,” John said. “God was confirming: this is where I placed you.”

For John, the mural wasn’t just art. It was a message. A divine affirmation arriving during a season full of questions and transitions.

At a time when he wasn’t entirely sure of his next step, those words became both invitation and confirmation.

“Be different. Looking at me, I already am different. But that was the point. God was telling me to embrace that—to be who He made me to be.”

John sees his life as a series of God-ordained seasons—each one shaping him for the next. Beginning with a broken childhood, his path has been anything but ordinary: he had been a construction worker, educator, fireman, first responder, law enforcement officer, youth pastor, missionary, and bishop for two decades in the Church of God. God’s calling came into sharp focus when John chose to live on the streets of Tulsa for ten days, immersing himself among the homeless to better understand those he felt called to serve.

“I didn’t know how to love people well because I had too many judgments in the way. I needed to hear their stories. I needed to learn how to see people.”

That experience gave John a guiding conviction: “I don’t know you until I know your story. That’s where real ministry starts.”

Though he often calls himself “a jack of all trades, master of none,” John’s journey has prepared him for a wide-open kind of ministry—one that happens on a street corner, in a hospital, or over coffee. Looking back, he admits, “I wish you could look forward and see the destination of your journey. But being here—right now— is enough.”

“Some seasons of my life were about building. Others were about protecting. Still others were about healing or restoring. All of those seasons, God used to bring me to this place—to make me who I am for this season.”

Finding a home at First Church John and his wife, Sonya, have served on medical missions for many years. It was on the mission field in Mexico 12 years ago that they met a new pastor from First Presbyterian in Tulsa, Rev. James Estes.

When the Donnellys returned to Tulsa, they visited First Church—and instantly felt something that drew them in: a sense of family.

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Understanding the value of God’s gift John’s passion for ministry flows from something deeper than duty. “When you understand the value of the gift God has given you, you won’t hesitate to love Him and follow Him.” He’s quick to point out that God doesn’t wait for perfection. “It doesn’t matter if you have a high school diploma or a seminary degree. If you love God with all your heart, soul, and mind—He can use you.”

Sonya and John Donnelly

The Powerhouse mural, painted in 2022 by artist Josh Butts, catches the eye of passersby with its bold message: Love Jesus, Serve Others, Be Different.

Youth ministry has been a heartfelt calling for John, which grew from his own lack of a church upbringing. After coming to faith, he was determined that his children—and all children—deserve a chance to know God. “Adults are making choices, and they ought to know better,” he says, “but kids deserve an opportunity.”

For John, youth ministry is never about entertainment. It’s about discipleship—helping young people know who God is, what He can do in their lives, and that “God is no respecter of persons.”

Love Jesus. Serve Others. Be Different.

God used those words to shape John’s next chapter. Maybe He’s using them to shape yours too.

And if you’ve ever wondered whether God can use someone like you, just remember John’s words: “I am pretty sure I’m the only Presbyterian with dreads. How about that?!”

It’s a reminder that God calls us uniquely—and sometimes does so with a sense of humor. His purpose may surprise us, but it always fits exactly who He made us to be.

Unapologetically You No matter where you come from or what your story holds, your identity in Christ is not a mistake. As John puts it, “You are unapologetically you in who God has made you to be.”

Even when your life is shaped by hardship or chaos, it doesn’t diminish your value or your capacity to love God deeply. “I came out of a crazy environment,” John says, “but that doesn't diminish the love I have for God and who He is to me.”

Wherever you are in your journey, know this: God can redeem every chapter—and in Him, you can find belonging. “In the midst of all of this, I found a home.”

John’s story isn’t just his testimony—it’s God’s invitation. To see people with grace. To embrace your quirks, your calling, and your personal journey.

“I know I’m not the man I was. But I am who I am—and God can use that.”

Whether you feel ordinary or overlooked, John’s story is a reminder: God sees you. He can work through your scars and your seasons. And sometimes, He uses three simple phrases painted on a wall to open your heart to something more: Love Jesus. Serve Others. Be Different.

Facts about the Donnellys • Live in Chouteau, OK. • Sonya is a surgical nurse.

• Attend the 11 a.m. Stephenson Hall worship service.

• Actively involved with the Missions Team at First Church.

• Served on mission trips to Ireland in 2023, 2024 will go again in July 2025.

• John leads summer student devotions at Camp Loughridge.

• John regularly serves Navajo Indian communities in New Mexico through SouthWest Indian Ministries.

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The Fourth Era continues: THE SANCTUARY DEDICATION ONE HUNDRED YEARS AGO

By Nick McMillan, Moderator, Board of Deacons On May 18, 1925, the Tulsa Tribune announced the “Fourth Era to Begin” for First Presbyterian Church, Tulsa (FPC). FPC was just 40 years old, and its new sanctuary was the third built and consecrated for worship by the church. In the article, Rev. Dr. C. W. Kerr, pastor from 1900-1941, identified the formation of a congregation “from the door of the J. M. Hall store” to the official organization of the church by “13 members, all Indians” as the first milestone in FPC history.

After its official organization in 1885, the church met in the First Mission School until its second era beginning in 1900, defined by the building of the “little church at Fourth and Boston,” having “150 chairs in it and two homemade benches.” In 1911, FPC moved to Seventh and Boston, its third milestone, before moving into the “magnificent Gothic church” that was built beside it in 1925.

The week before the dedication of the new sanctuary, Dr. Kerr dedicated the original auditorium at Seventh and Boston as a Presbyterian chapel, declaring its site as Holy Ground: “It is Holy Ground because of the wedding vows taken here and the funerals preached from it. For 203 of our membership have joined the innumerable hosts in these 14 years.”

In the week prior to the current sanctuary’s dedication, FPC held what was, at the time, the largest banquet in Tulsa’s history. At the banquet, hosted in the new dining room of the church, the Associate Secretary for the Board of National Missions for the Presbyterian Church, Rev. Dr. A. F. McGarrah observed that FPC had built “three churches in 25 years and each twice as large as its predecessor.”

He also stated that, for several years prior to 1925, the average Sunday school attendance was between 1,600 and 1,800, and he predicted that in three years it would be 2,000 and the average church service attendance would be 2,500.

At the time, FPC was the eighth largest church in the denomination based on a membership of more than 2,800, and McGarrah predicted, “it will be in third place within five years if it continues its present growth.” (At its membership peak, FPC reached 2nd in 1948 with a membership of over 5,000, and is currently ranked approximately 30th in the denomination, with 1,602 members) SUMMER 2025/ PAGE 12

The First Mission School where church services were held in 1884.

First Presbyterian Church at Fourth and Boston, built in 1900.

First Presbyterian Church’s next home was at Seventh and Boston, built in 1911.

The present “magnificent Gothic church” was built in 1925 adjacent to the previous church.

View of the Sanctuary in 1925.

At the 100th anniversary of the Sanctuary in 2025, pastors guided the congregation in a powerful recitation of the church’s original dedication words.

Recounting the week long dedication celebration DEDICATION SUNDAY, MAY 24, 1925

THURSDAY, MAY 28, 1925

The new sanctuary was officially dedicated “to the Glory of God and service to mankind” by Rev. Dr. H. C. Swearingen, former Moderator of the General Assembly, in a sermon delivered on Sunday May 24, 1925. The formal opening of the new building included a week of dedicatory events, with a different ceremony each day.

On Thursday evening, the church staged an educational pageant written for the occasion called, “The Search for the Light,” to tell of the progress of religion. The followers of various world religions pass before “America” and her people, with “Christianity” entering when the angel chorus announced the birth of Christ.

This entrance was followed by the “Church,” with this part taken

by Dr. Kerr.

MONDAY, MAY 25, 1925

On the Monday following Sunday’s dedication, selections from Handel’s Messiah — “perhaps the greatest oratorio ever composed” — were performed in the Sanctuary. The Tulsa Tribune reported on the event, describing, “From the hopeful promise to a people in distress …through the pathos of the crucifixion … to the triumphant shout of the Hallelujah chorus, the program last night held the audience entranced.”

TUESDAY, MAY 26, 1925

Tuesday evening, the church kept an open house and invited the whole city to inspect the new building. The tour was preceded by a short program with addresses and congratulations from both Mayor Herman Newblock and the University of Tulsa’s President, Franklin Dill, who, recognizing the church’s prominent role in the community, stated, “the school has ever looked to this congregation for support and guidance in its work.”

WEDNESDAY, MAY 27, 1925

Wednesday featured a dedication of memorials, given to perpetuate the memory of a loved one, including furnishings ranging from drinking fountains to a classroom, a communion table, and tower chimes. The ceremony was preceded by an address by J. M. Hall, the “Father of Presbyterianism in Tulsa,” who recounted that the wife of a carpenter organized the first Sunday school class in 1883, and in 1884 the first mission school was established by members of the Presbyterian faith. From 1887 to 1901, his wife, Mrs. Hall, was superintendent, teacher, organist, and member of the mission choir.

As part of its Sanctuary Centennial celebration, FPC presented a “living history” tableaux directed by Amy Tingleaf. The presentation featured congregation members who brought to life key moments from church history—from 1885 to the sanctuary’s dedication. Bill Savage portrayed special guest Dr. Kerr.

FRIDAY, MAY 29, 1925

On Friday, a dedicatory organ recital was given by Ernest Prang Stamm, a concert organist of St. Louis. Stamm was a favorite musician of Tulsans ever since he was organist at the First Christian Church in Tulsa. His recital varied from “the dainty and amusing whimsy of ‘The Musical Snuff Box’ to Yon’s stirring work, ‘Hymn of Glory,’ dedicated to the American Legion.” Rounding out the week’s dedication events, an encore rendition of Handel’s “Messiah” oratorio was given in the afternoon on Sunday, May 31.

The Tulsa Tribune summarized the congratulations to FPC of that week’s dedicatory addresses: “A beautiful church perfectly equipped, with a congregation not given to quarreling with other congregations over expressions of faith, and a pastor who for more than a quarter century has entered into the religious and civic life of Tulsa with the same enthusiasm and executive ability with which he guided his own congregation.” A hundred years later, may we, in this same spirit and tradition, come to the sanctuary to “Enter to worship–depart to serve.”

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Parish Register

The sacrament of baptism INFANT BAPTISMS

Mackenzie James Boone, daughter of Jackie and Drew Boone, was baptized on April 6.

New members May 2025 class

Aurora Rose Bowman, daughter of Jessica and Phillip Bowman, was baptized on November 3.

Valerie Hart McAfee, daughter of Kelsey and Matt McAfee, was baptized on November 10.

Bryce Barker

Mikayla Barker

Ronald Briggs

Aphrida Chikatipwa

Alexander Langholz Seibert, son of Lauren and Dylan Seibert, was baptized on October 30.

William Henry Shipley, son of Margo and Reid Shipley, was baptized on December 8.

Alice Marie Stember, daughter of Courtaney and Austin Stember was baptized on March 16.

Mae Olivia Welch, daughter of Reagan and Taft Welch, was baptized on March 9.

Gideon Chikatipwa

Jordan Chimento

Alex Field

Paul Njonjo German

Greyson Kenneth Williams, son of Clare and Jon Williams, was baptized on March 30.

YOUTH BAPTISMS

Anna Margaret Flynn and Madelyn Lyall Flynn, daughters of Sarah and Brian Flynn, were baptized on February 16.

June Kirui, daughter of Cecilia Chelulei, was baptized on April 27.

Peris Kamore

Richard Manganya

Richard Mungai

Naomi Njonjo

Neema Eva Masaku, daughter of Grace and Urbanus Masaku, was baptized on April 27.

Justice McIntosh, son of Breana and Jacob McIntosh, was baptized on March 23.

Michelle Ngugi, daughter of Moses Ngugi, was baptized on April 27.

Caleb E. Shelton, son of Grace and John Shelton, was baptized on March 23.

Brooke Smith

Lindsay Smith

Joseph Wainaina

Ritta Wainaina

We welcome visitors to First Church Tulsa and offer special events and classes designed specifically for newcomers and those wanting to become members.

Newcomer Gatherings: Newcomers, whether new or longtime worshipers, are invited to join us for coffee, bagels, and fellowship as we get to know each other and learn about First Church. Gatherings are held quarterly.

Membership Classes: Interested in becoming a covenant member? Our membership classes, led by facilitators and pastors, help you learn about the church, how you can become involved, and provide resources and support to help you grow in your faith at First Church. No need to attend a Newcomer Gathering first. Classes are held quarterly.

Details for both newcomer gatherings and new membership classes can be found at FirstChurchTulsa.org/newcomers.

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The celebration of Christian marriage: Rudo Makaha and Thomas York were married on December 14.

Naomi Njonjo and Paul German were married on December 23.

The joy of new life! We welcome: Levi King, son of Lydia and Jake King, was born on January 13.

Jack Edward Schneberger, son of Bonnie and Adam Schneberger, was born on February 5.

John S. Kirunda, son of Nicolate and Patrick Kirunda, was born on April 21.

Annie Eloise Myatt, daughter of Emma and Dalton Myatt, was born on April 28.

Harvey Gray McIntosh, son of Breana and Jacob McIntosh, was born on May 24.

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With gratitude for the resurrection: Michael J. Hopkins, a member since 2014, died on April 22.

Kay Inhofe, a member since 1948, died on March 22.

Michael L. Kauskey, a member since 2023, died on March 8.

Thomas A. Marberry, a member since 1991, died on March 6.

Thomas J. Marsh, a member since 1993, died on March 3.

Lyle Proffitt, a member since 1997, died on March 6.

Michael D. Schnake, a member since 1978, died on December 29.

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Historic Call and Response from the Sanctuary Dedication, 1925 Pastor – To the Glory of God, our Father, by whose favor we have built this house; to the honor of Jesus Christ, the Son of the Living God, our Lord and Saviour; to the praise of the Holy Spirit, source of life and light; Congregation – We dedicate this house.

Pastor – For worship in prayer and song; for the ministry of the word; for the celebration of the Holy Sacraments; Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Pastor – For sympathy and fellowship with the needy; for education and the clear-eyed search for truth; for the essential unity of all believers in Christ Jesus; Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Pastor – For the building of character: for the giving of hope and courage to all human hearts; for the promotion of Temperance, morality and justice; Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Pastor – For the sanctification of the family, for the guidance of childhood, for the salvation of men;

Pastor – For missionary endeavor at home and abroad; for world-wide evangelism and for world-wide peace; for the abolition of war and the establishment of ordered justice; for inter-racial good will and international brotherhood, in a high conviction that, at last, though all else pass away, love never faileth:

Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Pastor – For the fostering of patriotism, for the training of conscience, for aggression against evil;

Pastor – To the training of the boys and girls of coming generations that here they may study God’s Word, make confession of Christ and be led into the paths of purity and usefulness;

Pastor – For the comfort of those who mourn, for the strength of those who are tempted, for help in right living; Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Cong. – We dedicate this house.

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Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Pastor – To the knowledge of the Bible, that the Word of God may be preached from its pulpit, taught in its class-rooms, and lived by its membership; Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Pastor – To the memory of our beloved dead, that their faith may be reproduced, their consecration emulated and their hopes fulfilled; Cong. – We dedicate this house.

Pastor and Cong. – We, now, the people of this church and congregation, compassed about with a great cloud of witnesses, grateful for our heritage, sensible of the sacrifices of our Fathers confessing that apart from us their work cannot be made perfect, do consecrate ourselves anew to the worthy worship of God in this place and to the constant service of God and man; do dedicate this building in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.

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