June 2020 Tapestry

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The First Baptist Church of Redlands

T A PE S T R Y

Jun 2020

Wo v e n To g e t h e r I n L o v e : C o l o s s i a n s 2 : 2

Issue No. 6

As We Wait Shawn A Message from Pastor

Years ago when our kids were young and it was hard to find extended time alone to spend with God, Rod and I worked it out so we could each get away for 24-hours of solitude and silence about 3 times a year. I would generally go to a Catholic retreat center. When I would arrive, I would get settled in my room and then I would get lunch in the dining room of the center, where they would have a section of the room designated for those who were practicing silence. After lunch, I would go back to my room and take a nap. After that I would take a walk around the grounds, sit and read scripture, pray and wander without much of an agenda. One time I found a hammock chair hanging from a tree and I sat there for a couple of hours just thinking and praying and opening myself up to what God might say to me at that time. What I discovered in those retreat times, is that it took time for the noise in my head to subside. All those thoughts of “I need to call so-and-so,” “I forgot to do such-and-such,” “What did they mean when they said…?” I needed time to adjust to the place I was staying, to not being at home or the office, and to just letting go of all that stuff that I could do when I got back. I had an image in my mind of all the noise pouring out of my ears, until it was “quiet” in my head. It was at that time I could allow my thoughts to go where the Spirit led and that I was open to hearing what God had to say to me.

Henry Nouwen talks about this in his book Making All Things New. He likens it to the person who leaves their door open so that anyone can come in at any time. Then the person decides to shut the door and people keep coming by and knocking, wondering what is going on with the door shut. After a while, people quit knocking when there is no answer. (I know, you’re thinking that they probably called the police because they were worried that the person was hurt, but you get the point). Occasionally, I would take students on retreats to teach them various spiritual disciplines. We would designate a significant part of the day for solitude. I would give them suggestions on what they might do during that time— walk the labyrinth, meditate on a particular scripture, sit somewhere and become aware of the sights and sounds around them, or just relax and do nothing. It was their choice. Somewhere in the middle of that time we would meet again for lunch and then go out afterward for more solitude. I always found it funny to see if I could predict which students would look forward to going back into solitude and which ones would fight it. Some of them said, “I already did everything. What am I going to do now?” When I suggested they do nothing a look of panic would come over their faces. Some of them would just say forget it, and I would see them hanging out with each other, laughing and having a good


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