I love creative collaborations! Creative collaboration, I believe, is the future of fashion. The idea that two creative forces can come together to create something amazing fascinates me and when it’s two women, I'm even more excited.
Our cover story celebrates the power of collaboration so it had to be Monica Awe-Etuk of Awed By Moni and Alexandria Alli of F&W Style- both fashion powerhouses- We had to bring this forward as the debut cover because this type of alliance is what in my opinion will change the fashion industry for good if it continues…and what a way to kick off an exciting fashion journey, our debut!
Monica and Alexandria collaborated on an exciting style staple and you have to turn the pages to find out.
Ituen Basi, a Nigerian fashion brand, is up for Spotlight. We focus on their exquisite and expressive craftsmanship. You get to see pieces from their last GTCO fashion weekend runway presentation. This brand will be around for a long time.
Johns Hopkins and Harvard trained Dr. Blossom breaks down reproductive health and wellness in a double dose while finance expert Hajarat talks about cash flow in fashion. Kunbi Esq. touched on sibling rivalry and ways to deal with this.
Beauty and makeup expert Oluwayemisi shares unrealistic beauty standards and ways to avoid getting sucked into endless consumerism. Danielle, our lifestyle writer is dishing on beauty tips, homemade treats and more in this edition.
Our Life Series is a true story about how Olajumoke is navigating her PhD at Johns Hopkins as a PHD candidate. It’s a raw and unfiltered read.
We brought back our very first ever shoot for From the Archives. It was our first shoot and was supposed to be the very first edition of this digital magazine, years later, we are here. Catch up on our interview with Ooni of Ife.
We have a quiz that fashion lovers should take and score themselves. It’s a packed first.
I hope FashionandCo Quarterly becomes your go-to source for fashion, beauty and lifestyle stories as we have put our backs into this debut edition.
Join us on this journey, read, enjoy and share. For inquiries, ads placements and partnership, email us at hey@fashionandco.ng
So, welcome! I’m excited to unveil the first digital issue of FashionandCo Quarterly. Not minding that we are a little behind schedule, better late than never!
Walking into a room feeling confident about your appearance and receiving appreciative glances is a great feeling. A clean, sharp, and classy look is currently in style. Achieving this look can be challenging, but don’t worry. In this article, we’ll share some tips to help you achieve it with ease.
Colours
You should choose complementary colours or softer tones for your outfits. If you love bright colours, make sure the pieces you choose go well together instead of clashing. While contrasting colours can be fun, we are aiming for a classy and chic appearance, so it’s best to stick with more neutral shades. Remember, keeping it minimal means keeping it simple.
Jewelry
Keep your jewelry simple and to the point. Choose one striking piece based on the event. Ensure your necklace works well with your neckline. For formal occasions, if you opt for a bold necklace, keep your earrings and bracelets understated and cohesive. Pay attention to the metal and stones in your jewelry.
A classic gold or silver piece can enhance your outfit effortlessly. In casual settings, a delicate chain or a single bracelet can provide a nice touch without being overwhelming. Match the tones of your jewelry to your clothing for a balanced look. The aim is to enhance your style, not take away from it. A subtle ring can be a nice touch, but avoid piling too many on one hand. Remember, less is more for and chic and classy look.
Shoes
It’s often said that the right shoes can empower a girl to take on the world, which emphasizes their importance. The wrong pair can spoil an outfit and take away its charm. Your shoe choice greatly influences your overall appearance.
It's essential to match your shoes with your outfit, considering both color and style. For a preppy look, ballet flats or sneakers work well, while heels are appropriate for dressier events. Always keep in mind your destination and activities; you want to wear shoes that fit the occasion.
A-Shaped clothes
A-shaped clothes are simple yet flattering for all body types. When you combine them with fitted cinched belts and stylish footwear, you achieve a polished and chic look. Whether you choose pants or dresses, A-shaped fits are hard to miss. Their versatility makes them essential in any wardrobe, as they glide over the hips to create a balanced silhouette that highlights your natural shape.
You can dress them up or down for any occasion. For a casual office day, wear a flowing A-line dress with a tailored blazer. For a night out, sleek A-line trousers work beautifully. The right accessories, like a statement necklace or a structured bag, can enhance your outfit further. Footwear matters too, classic pumps or trendy ankle boots complete the look. They are indeed timeless and classy to acquire.
Makeup
A clean and simple makeup look can enhance your overall appearance. Soft colors give off a classy and elegant vibe. Light pastels and muted shades can accentuate your features without being overpowering.
A light layer of foundation creates an even base, and a touch of blush adds a nice warmth to your cheeks. Subtle eye makeup enhances your eyes without being too bold. A natural lip color completes the look perfectly. This straightforward approach lets your natural beauty shine while keeping things sophisticated.
About
Danielle Anene is an HR practitioner who spends her weekdays as an HR Practitioner.
Outside of her 9-to-5, she loves to unwind by writing, catching up with friends, and binging on the latest Korean dramas and crocheting.
Whether she’s sharing stories or simply enjoying good company, Danielle values connection and creativity in everything she does.
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By Oluwayemisi Seriki
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Remember standing in front of the mirror as a teen, picking apart every "flaw"?
Yeah, me too. The beauty industry has been feeding us nonsense for decades, but social media cranked it up to eleven. Suddenly everyone needed pillowy lips, a tiny waist, and a Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) to be "hot." Filters turned skin into uncanny porcelain, and boom – suddenly normal human faces looked "wrong".
From the era of supermodel thinness to BBL, beauty trends have always been fleeting—yet the pressure to conform to them feels anything but temporary. Filters and photo editing have distorted reality so much. The result? A mental health crisis tied to body image, with rising rates of anxiety, depression, and cosmetic procedures among young people.
But the truth is Beauty isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s time to challenge these outdated ideals and embrace what makes us uniquely us.
Standards We Should Ditch—For Good
1. "Perfect" Skin is a Myth
Smooth, poreless, glass-like skin is a fantasy. Real skin has texture, acne, scars, and sunspots—and that’s normal. The 10-step skincare routine isn’t a necessity; it’s a marketing ploy. Instead: Healthy skin, whatever that looks like for you. Wash your face, wear sunscreen, and let your natural glow shine.
2. Your Body Isn’t a Trend
Remember when big butts were "gross," then suddenly everyone wanted a BBL? Or when "thick" thighs? Bodies aren’t fashion accessories. Eat well, and wear what fits NOW – not after some imaginary transformation.
3. Aging is Literally Living
First gray hair? Congrats, you didn’t die young. Wrinkles mean you’ve smiled. Society acts like 30 is "old,". Use retinols if you like, but stop panicbuying "anti-aging" creams. (Spoiler: Nothing stops time.)
4. Makeup is Art, Not Mandatory
Love a bold lip? Awesome. Can’t be bothered most days? Also, awesome. Your face isn’t a public service announcement – no one’s entitled to your contour routine.
Your Rebellion Starter Pack:
1. Clean Your Feed
Unfollow accounts that make you feel bad about yourself. Follow body-positive influencers, diverse beauty creators, and people who celebrate real, unfiltered beauty.
2. Redefine “Beauty” for Yourself
Write down what you think is beautiful—not what ads or influencers say. Is it confidence? Kindness? Strength? Start there.
3. Take Social Media Breaks
Filters aren’t reality. When scrolling leaves, you feeling worse, log off and reconnect with the real world.
4. Talk Back to Negative Thoughts
Next time you criticize your body, ask: Would I say this to my best friend? If not, don’t say it to yourself.
Finally, you Are Already Enough, in a world obsessed with “fixing” everything, stop believing you need to be fixed. Beauty isn’t about fitting into a mold—it’s about breaking it.
So, the next time you look in the mirror, try this instead: "I’m here. I’m real. And that’s more than enough." Because it is.
Now go live your life—unfiltered and unapologetically you.
About
Oluwayemisi Seriki is a beauty writer and industry strategist with a flair for decoding trends and business innovation. As a contributor to Misykona Blog, she merges her expertise as an LVMH-certified professional (Retail, Branding & Operations) with hands-on experience collaborating with MAC, L’Oréal, and Maybelline.
She is the creator of Nigeria’s Beauty Business Summit. She empowers professionals through strategic insights—always advocating for sustainability and cross-cultural growth in beauty. Follow her on Instagram @justmisy, Tiktok @ justmisykona, Twitter @Misykona and LinkedIn Oluwayemisi Dada Seriki
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OONI OF IFE TALKS STYLE, HIS LIFE IN THIS INTERVIEW
By Olamide Olarewaju
Credits Photography: Agbaji Udoka for FashionandCo
Creative Direction: Olamide Olarewaju
The Ooni of Ife is stylish, modern, youthful, full of life, and inquisitive, among other qualities. He's expectedly regal and kind. If you loved the youthful Ooni of Ife from a distance, there's a good chance you'll like him even more after meeting him--he has that impact on people. This is our first 'From the Archive' piece. He was our first-ever interview.
From The Archive will appear from time to time to showcase our previous interview subjects. The interview project marked the beginning of FashionandCo Magazine, and now that we're here, we don't want you to miss out on these moments. You can also read in the blog
The Ooni of Ife was a successful accountant, real estate developer and entrepreneur before becoming the 51st Ooni when he assumed office on October 26th, 2015. You wouldn't know how much fun the king is unless you saw him; make no mistake, he's not the easiest guy to see, especially since he receives visitors from all over the world every minute of the day while he's at the palace and travels when he's not.
He was our first cover muse for this shoot. We spent a few days in the palace before we were able to do this shoot since we couldn't get him to agree to a few hours at a time. We shot this interview (complete with a creative brief)! I laughed at the idea of instructing THE Ooni of Ife to pose for specific images (you should see the brief) for an interview, but after some back and forth and research on the monarch, I made a few calls and was well on my way to Ile-Ife with my crew (trust me it wasn’t that simple).
Grooming: Zaron Cosmetics
Three days later, we left the palace cheerful, charged and fulfilled. Not everything in the brief went as planned, but it was humbling to have the busy revered king allow us to take control of him every time we shot. He's also very stylish; you can't miss him wearing his embellished staff and crown with various outfits; he has an eye for nice hues and fits, and with his statement fringed hem Aso-Oke sash, he's created a statement piece in different cuts and fabrics. (He is dressed head-to-toe in made in Nigeria pieces). I still smile every time I remember Ooni’s face when I mentioned “…let’s touch up your face a bit…” his eyes lit up when he echoed “touch my face? You want to touch my face”!
Excerpts:
Q – You’re quite the stylish king, understated yet regal who picks out your outfits?
A – I do that myself. No one styles me! That’s who I am. I like to look good, stylish and different in everything I do and that reflects in my unique style and the way I dress.
Q – You’ve managed to make colourful embellished staff and crown standout details in your outfits, what's the idea? How many do you have?
A – I have quite a lot and they are all made here in Nigeria. I plan to put them up for an exhibition later on in life as a reminder of our tradition, the tradition of Ile-Ife.
Q – How has being an Ooni changed you?
A – I am more guarded, there are things I can’t do, there are a lot of dos and don’ts! I must be the number one cultural ambassador. I have regulations that have to be in tune with tradition.
Q – Have you always known you’d be an OONI at any point (after all a lot of princes never became king)
A – There was a prediction before I was born and to the glory of God, the prediction became a reality. There are several predictions in life that don’t see the light of the day but I think God loves me. It’s the reason why my formative years were properly guarded and guided. It wasn’t my parents that raised me, I was raised by many elders because of the peculiarity of my birth. Kings are born, not made.
Q – Being an Ooni is revered especially because a lot of history is linked back to Ile-Ife, what’s the one thing you’re out to do differently in your time?
A – Simple, to make tradition meet modernity. Our tradition right now is going into oblivion/extinction, there has to be a renaissance of our heritage, a cultural rebirth. I want to bring the ‘good modernity’/modality which is like the in-thing. It’s important not to lose your heritage, I want to bring that back. I want to set things socially, economically, traditionally amongst others. Those are my watchwords for Ife and the Yoruba race.
Q – What are the things you miss?
A – When I wasn’t king I loved riding horses because my Oriki (praise name) is directly linked to owning horses (Omo Elesin Merindinlogun..) I used to chant this so I told myself when I made money I must buy horses, they are expensive to maintain and to the glory of God, those prayers were answered before I became a king. I have a resort in Lagos on the Island; Inagbe Grand Resorts that was where I started rearing horses before I built the resort. I loved rearing horses as well as buying them but when I got to the throne I couldn’t anymore. The Ooni of Ife is ‘Elesin Magun’ meaning we have horses but we cannot ride.
Q – You’re an accountant and also a real estate developer and entrepreneur are you able to still manage these roles in a way or the other
A – Unfortunately, not at the moment.
Q – So far, your reign has been modern, you’re in sync with a lot, Youths love you and vice versa. How do you keep up?
A – It’s natural, I love youths and their vibe. I am passionate about Nigerian youths; male and female, I see myself associated with them. I am an advocate for youthful things.
Q- On January 17th, 2016 you broke a record; the antagonism between Oyo and Ife when you visited the Alaafin, you’re naturally seen as pro-peace and progress, what’s the motive behind this?
A – To make peace in Yoruba land. Ife is the spiritual hub of the Yorubas so it’s very important for everyone in Yoruba land to come together. I’m for peaceful co-existence.
Q – What do you want to be remembered for?
A – Peace. The emancipation of the Yoruba race, progress for Nigerians.
Q – Your memorable moments so far as king?
A – Everyday fulfilment, giving people hope by just sitting down and listening to people who never thought they could meet a king. Being in the midst of people.
Q – Any regrets so far with everything that has happened since becoming king?
A – No one is perfect, I don’t dwell on things.
Q – You have so much energy? How do you cope with the daily happenings in the palace and everything you do daily?
A – It’s the grace of God and passion. I’m very passionate about what I do, I set my mind to what I want to do. I’m very driven.
Q – Do you get to sleep at all (with the number of people waiting daily to see Ooni, we had to ask)?
A – I sleep very little. I have an opportunity I shouldn’t misuse so I’m constantly up attending to things.
REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH: THE HEARTBEAT OF WELL-BEING
By Doctor Blossom Maduafokwa
Let’s talk about reproductive health, not in hushed tones, not with medical jargon, but as something vibrant and vital to our everyday lives. Reproductive health is about more than just having babies (or not having them). It’s about the full spectrum of well-being related to our reproductive systems, our relationships, and our rights. It touches every stage of life and plays a central role in how we thrive as individuals, families, and communities.
A Global Turning Point: Cairo, 1994
The big spotlight moment for reproductive health came at the International Conference on Population and Development (ICPD) held in Cairo, Egypt in 1994. For the first time, 179 countries came together and boldly declared that reproductive health and rights are human rights. The conference shifted the global conversation from population control to peoplecentered development.
The Cairo conference defined reproductive health as a “state of complete physical, mental and social well-being in all matters relating to the reproductive system.” This means people should be able to have a safe and satisfying sex life, have the ability to reproduce if and when they choose, and access the information and services they need to make these choices confidently.
The Full Package: Components of Reproductive Health
Reproductive health isn’t just one thing, it’s a whole constellation of services, rights, and education.
1. Family Planning and Contraceptive Services
Access to safe, effective, and affordable methods of contraception empowers individuals and couples to decide if, when, and how many children to have. It supports healthier families and opens up opportunities, especially for women, to pursue education, careers, and personal goals.
2. Maternal and Newborn Health
Every pregnancy should be safe. This means access to skilled care before, during, and after childbirth so that mothers and babies thrive. It’s about antenatal care, safe delivery, postpartum support, and preventing avoidable deaths.
3. Prevention and Management of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs), and HIV/AIDS
Reproductive health includes protecting people from sexually transmitted infections and ensuring compassionate, stigma-free care and treatment. It’s also about keeping conversations around these topics open, informed, and empowering.
4. Adolescent Reproductive Health
Young people need accurate, age-appropriate information about their bodies, relationships, and rights. Safe spaces to ask questions, make informed choices, and grow up confident in their identities are key.
5. Infertility Prevention and Management
Many people struggle in silence with fertility challenges. Reproductive health services also mean access to care for those trying to conceive, ensuring that those dreams are supported with science and sensitivity.
6. Safe Abortion and Post-Abortion Care (where legal)
In places where it is permitted, access to safe abortion services and care afterward is a critical part of saving lives and ensuring dignity.
7. Gender-Based Violence (GBV) Prevention and Response
Reproductive health cannot be fully achieved without addressing the shadow of violence. Services must support survivors with medical care, psychological support, and justice while communities work to break cycles of abuse.
8. Sexual Health
Let’s not forget pleasure! Sexual health is about embracing sexuality with confidence and safety, free from fear, coercion, or discrimination.
Why Reproductive Health Matters to Everyone
Reproductive health is foundational to gender equality, economic progress, and sustainable development. It’s about giving people choices and control over their lives. Whether it’s reducing maternal mortality, preventing teenage pregnancy, or combating HIV/AIDS, reproductive health services are lifelines.
And yes, it's for men too, from sexual health and management of erectile dysfunction to supporting partners in family planning, men play a crucial role in achieving reproductive health goals.
A Final Word
Reproductive health is personal, powerful, and political. It belongs in our homes, schools, clinics, workplaces, and yes, in the pages of magazines. Let’s keep the conversation going, loud and proud. When we protect and prioritize reproductive health, we build healthier lives and stronger societies.
About
Dr. Blossom Maduafokwa is a well-known Public Health physician at Lagos University Teaching Hospital. She holds an MBA from Lagos Business School and has master's degrees from Johns Hopkins and Harvard. Dr. Maduafokwa has also completed further training at Georgetown, Columbia, and Stanford Universities. She is a fellow of the West African College of Physicians and has received notable awards, including the Dr. M.P. Otolorin and Dr. M.Y.I. Salami prizes for her excellence in Public Health and Epidemiology.
She works with the Nigeria Center for Disease Control and Africa CDC to create a legal framework for Infection Prevention and Control (IPC). Dr. Maduafokwa serves as the Executive Director of Tecon-NigerBlossom Group, which offers oil and gas services, and is part of the Chartered Institute of Directors in Nigeria.
A fitness lover, she runs Blossom’s Fitness Hub and is a licensed Zumba instructor and marathon runner. Dr. Maduafokwa is married and has four children.
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SKIN BY ZARON: MY MUST-TRY, FAVOURITE, AND LEAST FAVOURITE PRODUCTS!
By Olamide Olarewaju
Acne Control Glow Face Wash
This is the perfect go-to anti-acne cleanser imo.
kin by Zaron is the skincare brand of Zaron Cosmetics; Africa’s fastest-growing makeup brand for women of colour. The cosmetics brand unveiled a thorough line of well-researched products (what i think from outside looking in) and it’s exciting.
I have tried these ones and more from their skincare range and I’ll be sharing my honest view of these products from their early drop in no particular order:
Vitamin C Brightening/Moisturizing Body Lotion
This is by far my best lotion in recent times. I think it deserves a standalone review! It’s lightweight and non-comedogenic (you can literally feel it). Deeply moisturizing without being greasy or any overbearing fragrance so it’s perfect. It is a good ‘complexion maintainer’ (if there’s a word like that).
I like the feel and after months of using this, I know it’s definitely one to keep on my beauty shelf. I use this after showering day and night.
Major ingredients include ascorbic acid (Vit. C – obviously), mother of pearl extracts, Niacinamide, Alpha Arbutin, Collagen, and Kojic Acid amongst others. These are powerful ingredients to keep skin youthful, brighter and intensely hydrated. And it delivers on those in my opinion.
It is formulated with Salicylic acid, Tea tree oil, Citric acid, Niacinamide, and Aloe Vera Extract to deeply cleanse and remove acne-causing dirt and impurities without disrupting the skin’s protective barrier. It is gentle, deep cleansing and won’t dry out your skin. It’s a gentle wash suitable enough to be used daily. I love the mildness
Definitely a favourite of mine.
Exfoliating & Hydrating Glow Face Wash
I’m not crazy about this formulation for my face tbh
It’s intensely nourishing and not in any way too much. The skin instantly absorbs it and stays plump and hydrated immediately you can feel it. It’s best before you start with makeup and it’s even better on a lazy Saturday when you just want to chill with your face bare but moisturised. It’s the best product of all time for me!
It contains glycerin and other anti-oxidants I believe. This is my best skincare product ever!
Ultimate Glow/Brightening Toner
This product absolutely didn’t work for me at all. It felt ‘rough’ against my skin in ways I can’t describe. Continuous use broke me out terribly and I had to stop using it. I tried it again after a few weeks and it was the same so I discontinued it and haven’t touched it since then!
There’s something in there that doesn’t exactly do anything for my face. It washes without drying your skin, yes. The fragrance isn’t overbearing and the granules in the formulation are mild but something there doesn’t quite do it for my face. BUT… I tried it once on my bikini area and pits and it’s perfect to exfoliate plus tackled the discoloration/hyperpigmentation in that area!!! So I use this for just those areas and I love the results!
It has Glycolic Acid, Citric Acid, Aloe Vera Extracts as well as other ingredients.
Skin Regenerating Hydrating Serum
This is the truth! An absolute favourite of mine.
I have a few more products to try from the new drops/formulations and will surely come back with reviews after months of continuous use.
One thing I applaud though is the research I know has gone into creating skin by Zaron. The products speak for the work that has gone into them.
Have you tried out any
Skin by Zaron products? Put me on!
Skin by Zaron is definitely shaping up to be my go-to skincare brand and I’ll let you in on why in a moment.
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THE POWER OF TWO HOW COLLABORATIONS WILL SHAPE THE FUTURE OF FASHION with Alexandria Alli and
By Olamide Olarewaju
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othing excites me more than seeing women collaborating! You will find me brimming with pride when women are winning creatively and in every way. The fashion landscape is constantly changing, but one force is driving its growth and shaping its trajectory, in my opinion: collaboration.
Beyond fleeting partnerships, spur of the moment buzz for social media virality, creative partnerships are sparking real innovation and it looks like it's the way to build and grow. Fashion collaboration goes beyond simply putting two logos on an existing product.
We see some fashion brands collaborating, creating creative synergy, crisscrossing audiences with one off collaborations, whether with their products or on the runway during fashion season, and it’s worth exploring in this day and age when everyone is leaning towards being more fashion responsible.
One of my favourite collaborations has to be Dye Lab’s with M.O.T. It was unexpected, yet it clicked. The former has also in the past collaborated with Heineken, Anya Hindmarch and I like it for them.
In my opinion, a successful collaboration should involve shared creative input, a clear understanding of goals, and be mutually beneficial. It should be a synergistic partnership in which individual aesthetics, creativity, uniqueness, and, in recent times, the audiences of the parties involved are combined to create something fresh and impactful.
The recent synergy between Alexandria Alli, the visionary behind F&W Style, and renowned fashion influencer Awed by Moni piqued my interest. I instantly connected and couldn’t wait to understand how this happened. I loved it! (So much we rested our planned debut cover story to tell this one)
Awed By Moni (Monica Awe Etuk is a top fashion influencer I have been following for yearsss ; she’s grown and morphed into an icon (and I don't use that phrase lightly) who understands fashion in all of its forms.
"In today’s fast-paced industry, no one succeeds alone. Designers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs should actively seek collaborations that amplify their impact. It’s a win-win for growth, visibility, and long-term success"
- Alexandria
Alexandria Alli sits atop leather goods brand F&W, thanks to her innovative bag designs. She has produced for various brands, and she certainly knows her onions in the field.
Their collaborative piece is the coveted MONI Clutch. A result of what can happen when visions are combined. While the clutch is in itself a statement product, the intricate attention paid to it - from the perspective of a fashion girl and a leather goods designer combined to make it what it is.
So, collaboration in whatever capacity, will forever have an advantage and in the fashion industry, it will definitely be what will propel it towards even more groundbreaking things.
As the fashion industry navigates an increasingly interconnected world, the MONI Clutch serves as a compelling call to action for designers, influencers, and creatives to embrace the transformative potential of collaboration to shape the exciting future of fashion.
I spoke to Monica and Alexandria about their collaboration…
1. Alexandria and Monica, huge congratulations on your collaboration. The Moni Clutch is a stunning accessory. What was the spark that started this collaboration? What specific creative visions did you each bring to the table?
Monica - Thank you! This collaboration honestly felt like a natural next step. Alexandria and I have always admired each other's work and respected what the other brings to the fashion space. The Moni Clutch was born from that mutual respect—and a shared love for elevated, intentional design. I brought my perspective as a content creator, stylist, and designer who understands how women actually wear their accessories—on the go, day-to-night, from events to errands. I wanted a clutch that didn't just photograph well, but functioned beautifully too. Alexandria brought her expertise in craftsmanship, silhouette, and sourcing quality materials. It was truly a fusion of both vision and functionality.
Alexandria - The Rose Clutch has always been a favorite among F&W girls—many buy it in multiple colors, and Monica herself owns several. During a visit to our office, she noticed a rose-themed decor piece and suggested incorporating that concept into the clutch to make it an even bolder statement piece. From there, we collaborated seamlessly—Monica sketched and designed the custom roses, while we handled the manufacturing and technical details. The result was the Moni Clutch, a true fusion of our creative visions.
2. Collaborations are becoming increasingly important in this fast-paced fashion industry. How do you think this collaboration has helped your individual brands’ reach and introduced you to new audiences?
Alexandria - This collaboration has expanded our reach in such an exciting way! Monica’s audience—her loyal followers and fellow influencers—have been introduced to F&W Style, while our longtime supporters see this as a powerful fusion of two brands they love. It’s strengthened connections on both sides, creating a moment where fashion, influence, and community come together to celebrate something beautiful.
Monica - It's been amazing to see how our audiences have responded—both of our brands bring something unique to the table, and that synergy has introduced us to new customers who may not have discovered us otherwise. Collaborating allowed us to cross-pollinate our communities. I brought in the content creator and fashion enthusiast who craves wearable luxury, and Alexandria brought in a refined, accessoriesfocused customer base that values craftsmanship. Together, we expanded our reach and deepened our connection to both audiences.
3. Fashion collaborations often combine different styles. How did you navigate the process of merging your unique style/aesthetics while keeping the integrity of your brands?
Monica- Communication. We talked through every detail. From the shape, to the hardware, to the exact shade of the clutch. We both have distinct styles, but we share a commitment to quality and elegance. For me, the clutch had to be fashion-forward but functional. For Alexandria, the construction had to be impeccable. We made sure the final product felt like a true reflection of both of us—and neither brand was diluted in the process.
Alexandria - Monica and I have complementary styles—we both love bold fashion, but she brings an edgier vibe while I lean more feminine. That balance shines in the Moni Clutch, where sleek studs meet beautiful florals. The pops of red and white tie it all together, making the bag the perfect fusion of our aesthetics. It was a seamless blend of our styles, and we had so much fun creating it!
4. The Moni Clutch represents a fusion of your talents. What challenges, if any, did you go through during the design and production process. How did you overcome them?
Alexandria -This collaboration was truly seamless, but like any production process, timing was our biggest challenge. There were some delays that required us to adjust our launch dates, but thanks to our strong team, we navigated it smoothly. In the end, everything came together beautifully, and the Moni Clutch had an amazing debut
Monica - As with any design process, timing and perfectionism were our biggest hurdles. We both care deeply about the final product, so there were a lot of back-and-forths—refining the silhouette, perfecting the finish, making sure it met both our standards. We overcame it through patience and by staying grounded in our shared vision.
5. Social media plays a huge role in brand growth. How has this collaboration used social media to promote this collaboration and connect with your followers?
Monica - Social media has been the heartbeat of this collaboration. From teasing the design process to sharing the story behind the clutch, we invited our communities in from day one. We leaned into video content, behind-the-scenes, and of course—styling moments. I also used my platforms to show how versatile the clutch is in real life: how to wear it, where to wear it, and how it fits into your everyday luxury wardrobe.
Alexandria - Social media is the fastest way to connect with our audience, so we launched the Moni Clutch with a dynamic campaign across Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. Our city-chic shoot at The Candler Hotel in Atlanta showcased the bag’s style, function, and versatility, bringing the excitement of this collaboration to life for our followers.
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6. For aspiring designers and bloggers, what key advice would you offer regarding the importance of strategic collaborations for career success in the fashion industry, Alexandria? Monica?
Alexandria - Strategic collaboration is a gamechanger in the fashion industry—something I wish I had embraced earlier in my career. Partnering with others who complement your skills or expand your reach creates powerful opportunities to share resources, networks, and expertise. In today’s fastpaced industry, no one succeeds alone. Designers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs should actively seek collaborations that amplify their impact. It’s a winwin for growth, visibility, and long-term success.
Monica - Don't collaborate just to collaborate. Be intentional. Look for partners who share your values and bring something different but complementary to the table. A great collaboration should elevate both brands, not compete. Know your audience, protect your brand, and lead with creativity—not trends.
7. Looking ahead, how do you see collaborations shaping the future of the fashion industry globally? What trends do you anticipate emerging?
Monica - Collabs are the future—especially in a saturated market. Consumers want to feel connected to the story behind a product, and collaborations give us a chance to tell richer, more layered stories. I see more niche partnerships forming—between designers and creators, fashion and tech, even fashion and wellness. The trend is shifting from mass appeal to meaningful alignment. People want pieces that feel personal, exclusive, and thoughtful.
"A great collaboration should elevate both brands, not compete. Know your audience, protect your brand, and lead with creativity "
- Monica
Alexandria- Collaboration is here to stay! We’ll see even more brands—especially women-led ones— partnering to create unique, innovative designs and expand their reach. Influencer collaborations, in particular, will continue to thrive, allowing brands to connect with millions almost instantly. This trend will drive creativity, offer more fabulous fashion choices, and accelerate brand growth globally.
8. How does collaborating with another creative, as opposed to working on a solo project, influence the final product and the overall creative process?
Alexandria - Collaborating with another creative brings a fresh perspective that elevates the entire process. Instead of working within your own vision, you’re blending ideas, styles, and expertise to create something truly unique. It pushes creativity, introduces new design elements, and results in a final product that feels richer and more dynamic. The Moni Clutch is a perfect example—our combined aesthetics made it a statement piece that neither of us would have created alone!
Monica - It pushes you—in the best way. When you're working solo, it's easy to stay in your comfort zone. Collaborating with another creative stretches your perspective, challenges your assumptions, and forces you to think bigger. The Moni Clutch wouldn't have turned out the same way if I'd done it alone. Having another visionary to bounce ideas off of only made the final product stronger.
9. What role does community play within your collaborative process? How important is it to have a strong community when growing a brand?
Monica - Community is everything. Our audience has always been part of the process—whether it's giving feedback, sharing how they style the clutch, or just celebrating the wins with us. Without a strong community, you're designing in a vacuum. The power of this collaboration was amplified because of the women who support our brands, trust our taste, and show up again and again. They're the reason we do this.
"The trend is shifting from mass appeal to meaningful alignment "
- Monica
Alexandria - Our community is at the heart of everything we do, especially when it comes to collaborations. We love bringing them along for the journey—whether it’s sneak peeks of design sketches, behind-thescenes moments, or the excitement of launch day. Keeping our audience engaged and involved makes them feel like part of the process, which strengthens the connection between our brand and the amazing women who support it.
10. What do you believe is the most important element for a successful collaboration within the fashion industry?
Alexandria - The most important element of a successful collaboration in fashion is alignment— both in vision and values. When two brands or creatives share a common goal and bring their unique strengths to the table, the synergy is undeniable. Clear communication, mutual respect, and a shared passion for creating something special are key. That’s what makes a collaboration not just successful, but truly impactful.
Monica - Mutual respect. You have to trust each other's expertise and value what each person brings to the table. A successful collaboration isn't about ego—it's about shared vision, clear communication, and a commitment to excellence. When you move with integrity and intention, the result will always speak for itself.
Life Series
PHD-ING ABROAD: SURVIVING CULTURE SHOCK, IMPOSTER SYNDROME, AND A MILD JOLLOF RICE CRISIS
By Olajumoke Olarewaju
When I packed my bags and boarded that long-haul flight to the United States, I knew I was signing up for an adventure. What I didn’t fully grasp was just how much my PhD journey would stretch, shape, and redefine me. Being an international student is a mix of excitement, culture shock, imposter syndrome, and unexpected triumphs; all rolled into one.
Starting a PhD is a bold move for anyone but doing it in a new country adds an extra layer of complexity. I left behind familiarity: family, friends, food (oh, the food!) ; to chase a dream. The first few months hit me hard. The excitement of starting a PhD quickly collided with the reality of cultural differences, academic pressures, and the gnawing loneliness of being thousands of miles away from home.
Simple things like understanding the American grading system, keeping up with fast-paced conversations, and even figuring out what to eat felt overwhelming. The reality of visa restrictions also meant I had to be extra mindful of my work hours and finances. Some nights, I lay in bed wondering, "Did I make the right choice? Can I really do this?"
Then, slowly, I started to find my rhythm. I learned to laugh at my mispronunciations instead of cringing in embarrassment. I found a tiny restaurant that served decent ayamase, and it felt like a little victory. WhatsApp became my lifeline, late-night voice notes from my mom (God rests her soul) , check-ins from my siblings, and virtual hangouts with old friends kept me grounded.
Imposter syndrome? Check! Burnout? Double check! I won’t sugarcoat it. There were days when I wanted
to quit. Every critical feedback on a paper felt like confirmation that I wasn’t good enough. Days when research didn’t make sense when rejections piled up, and when I questioned why I chose this path. But with time, I realized that I wasn’t alone in these feelings, many PhD students, regardless of where they were from, faced the same battles. But I also learned resilience.
I learned that failure isn’t a dead end but a detour. I found mentors who reminded me that I belonged. I embraced therapy, prayer, and Nollywood YouTube channels (shout out to Bimbo Ademoye and Omoni Oboli) to keep me sane.
This PhD has been more than just an academic pursuit, it has been a test of resilience, faith, and self-discovery. I’ve learned to balance ambition with self-care, to fight for my place in spaces that weren’t always welcoming, and to celebrate every small win. I’ve found joy in new friendships, in learning from diverse perspectives, and in knowing that I am shaping my own path, one step at a time.
To anyone on this journey, here’s my advice:
1. You belong. No matter how many times doubt creeps in, remind yourself that you earned your place here.
2. Find your people. A solid support system, friends, mentors, and family will make all the difference.
3. Take breaks. Rest is not a reward; it’s a necessity; even God rested.
4. Celebrate the small wins. Every milestone matter, even the tiny ones.
5. Keep the bigger picture in mind. This is a chapter, not the whole book.
I’m still on this journey, still learning, still growing. Some days, the weight of it all feels unbearable, but then there are moments, small but powerful, that remind me why I started. This PhD is more than just a degree, it’s a testament to resilience, courage, and the unshakable belief that dreams, no matter how daunting, are worth chasing.
To my fellow international students, I see you, I feel your struggles, and I believe in your strength! We’ve got this. One step, one term/semester, one breakthrough at a time.
About
Olajumoke Olarewaju is a PhD candidate at the Bloomberg School of Public Health, Johns Hopkins University. Her expertise is in health communication and social and behavioral sciences, researching the intersection of pregnancy experiences and substance use.
She is passionate about how storytelling can drive healthier choices and improve health outcomes; she’s on a mission to make academic research more relatable and impactful. When she’s not immersed in research, you’ll find her de-stressing in the kitchen, experimenting with mum's recipes, or writing her way through life’s chaos.
Life Series explores people's real-life experiences from all walks of life. Email us at hey@fashionandco.ng.
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CASH FLOW SECRETS FOR FASHION BUSINESSES
You might have amazing designs and a great brand, but if you don't manage your money well, your fashion business won't last. The key to long-term success isn't just creativity; it's understanding and controlling your cash flow.
In the fashion world, managing your money is super important. You need to have enough money to buy materials, pay suppliers on time, and cover your daily business costs. But many fashion businesses face challenges like seasonal sales, high inventory costs, and customers who pay late.
To overcome these, you need to understand how money flows in and out of your business.
Understanding Your Money
Cash flow management is simply about tracking the money coming in and out of your business. You need to know how to handle the money you owe (payables) and the money people owe you (receivables).
Fashion is different from other businesses because sales change with the seasons, you might take preorders, and you often sell wholesale. This affects when you get paid and when you have to pay.
Key Things to Keep Track of
1. Production Costs: You often have to pay for materials and manufacturing upfront. Building good relationships with suppliers can help you get better payment terms. It is important to know the cost of every item you produce, including labor and materials.
2. Sales Income: This comes from selling your products online, in stores, or wholesale. Late payments from customers can cause problems. Have clear payment terms and consider offering incentives for early payments.
3. Inventory Costs: You need to balance having enough stock to sell and not having too much stock that costs you money to store. Keep track of what sells best and analyze trends to predict future demand.
4. Running Costs: These are your everyday expenses, like rent, marketing, and salaries. Do not forget to track small expenses, they add up. Also, consider the cost of returns, and damaged goods.
Tips for Keeping Your Business Healthy
1. Make a Money Plan: Predict your sales and expenses so you know how much money you’ll have. Use tools and data to help you. Review this plan regularly and adjust it as needed. Consider multiple scenarios, like best-case and worst-case.
2. Manage Your Stock: Only buy what you need and check your stock regularly to avoid wasting money on storage. Consider sales or discounts for slow-moving stock, and explore options like consignment.
3. Get Good Payment Deals: Try to get longer payment terms from suppliers and offer discounts for customers who pay early. Have clear contracts with your suppliers and customers, outlining payment terms and conditions.
4. Find Different Ways to Make Money: Sell online, have pop-up shops, or work with other brands to get more income. Explore different market segments and consider offering complementary products or services.
5. Use Money Tools: Use accounting software to keep track of your money easily. Learn how to use the software properly and leverage its reporting features. Use investment platform apps etc.
6. Talk to Your Suppliers: Build good relationships with them. This can help you get better payment terms and avoid surprises. Communicate clearly and frequently about your needs and challenges.
7. Keep Records: It is important to keep all records of sales and expenses. This will help you to track your business performance and make informed decisions.
8. Seek Advice: If you are unsure about financial management, seek advice from a professional. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and learn from experts. Consider attending workshops or online courses to improve your financial literacy.
By understanding your money and following these tips, you can make your fashion business successful and long-lasting. Remember, financial health is just as important as creative talent. A strong financial foundation allows your creative vision to flourish.
About
Hajarat Usman is a financial expert who has worked in the banking sector for years and is a chartered accountant with expertise in both conventional and Islamic finance.
As the author of Young Money Masters, a book on financial literacy for children, and the CEO of Databridge Accounting, Hajarat Usman blends financial knowledge with practical insights to help individuals make informed financial decisions. Connect with Hajarat Usman on facebook.
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MAKING HOMEMADE COCONUT CANDY
By Danielle Anene
hen I was a kid, I loved buying groundnut candy, which we called "sisi pelebe," from the school tuck shop. I have such fond memories of rushing out of class during the break time to get some from the lady selling snacks. The mix of nuts and sweetness was so satisfying and crunchy. I completely forgot about this treat until I visited someone recently and was offered it again. Trying it brought back such joy that I decided to make it myself. To my delight, it’s quick and easy to prepare. In this edition, I’ll share the recipe for this snack so you can enjoy it at home too.
WTo start, gather your main ingredients: 1 kg of peanuts (you can use either raw or roasted) and 500 g of granulated sugar. You will also need foil paper, some oil, and a rolling pin along with a flat surface to work on.
Once you have all your ingredients, it's time to start preparing. First, sort through the peanuts to remove any dirt or stones. Place them in a pan and roast on medium heat, stirring frequently for about 30 minutes to prevent burning. Once the peanuts are nicely toasted, remove the skins. If you want a smooth candy, blend the peanuts. If you prefer a chunkier texture, put the peanuts in a bag and crush them with a rolling pin. Set aside when done.
Next, melt the granulated sugar by pouring it into a pan and heating it on medium-low. Stir until it turns golden brown and becomes a thick syrup. Be careful not to raise the heat too high, as this can burn the syrup. Once it reaches the right consistency, add your nut mixture and continue stirring at a low temperature. Keep mixing until the peanuts are fully coated with the caramelized sugar, then set it aside.
You can either spray your foil with a nonstick oil or coat it with oil. Next, pour your hot candy onto the foil and flatten it using a rolling pin until it reaches your desired thickness. Once it's flattened, cut it into your preferred sizes. Make sure to do this while the candy is still hot, or it will harden and be difficult to cut.
If you're using already roasted candy, you can skip the roasting step and go straight to crushing it with the rolling pin before continuing with the rest of the steps.
There you have it, your homemade groundnut candy! Enjoy!
Peanut candy
Granulated sugar
Caramelized sugar
NUTRITION AT DIFFERENT
AGES: WHAT TO EAT AND WHEN FOR A HEALTHIER LIFE
By Doctor Blossom Maduafokwa
They say age is just a number, but your body definitely keeps count when it comes to nutrition. From your first spoonful of mashed bananas to your golden years of sipping antioxidant-rich teas, every stage of life calls for a slightly different plate.
The good news? Eating well at every age can be delicious and easy once you know what your body needs. Let’s take a tasty tour through the decades of nutrition!
Baby Steps: Nutrition for Infants (0–2 Years)
Welcome to the world, little one! In the first six months, breast milk is all a baby needs. Yes, exclusive breastfeeding - just breast milk, no water, nothing else - is one of the life-saving interventions for reduced infant mortality.
It is packed with the perfect blend of nutrients and antibodies. At six months, it’s time for “complementary feeding” that’s baby-speak for introducing solids. Think pureed fruits, soft veggies, and iron-rich cereals like fortified pap. No salt, no sugar, just gentle goodness.
Tip: Always introduce one new food at a time to watch for allergies.
Growing Strong: Children (2–12 Years)
This is the age of picky eaters and endless energy. Kids need a balanced diet of carbs, protein, healthy fats, fruits, and vegetables to fuel their play and learning. Calcium (think milk, yogurt, and dark leafy greens) is vital for building strong bones. Iron keeps their blood healthy, and don’t forget fiber for happy tummies.
Fun idea: Make meals colorful - turn veggies into smiley faces or fruit into rainbow skewers!
Teen Time: Adolescents (13–19 Years)
Ah, hormones and growth spurts! Teens need extra calories as well as protein and micronutrients like calcium as their bodies grow and change. Iron is especially crucial for girls starting menstruation.
But beware the lure of fast food - junk can’t fuel the brain for exams or the body for sports. Opt for snacks rich in calcium and vitamin D, like yogurt or fortified orange juice, to support bone growth.
Hack it: Smoothies, grilled sandwiches, and wraps are quick and healthy wins for busy teens.
Prime Time: Adults (20–50 Years)
Whether juggling work, family, or both, adults need a variety of whole grains, lean protein, fruits, and vegetables. For women of reproductive age, folic acid is a must, while iron helps with blood cell formation so your green veggies are a must. Individuals should always watch their salt intake and keep cholesterol in check.
Choose protein-packed snacks like nuts to maintain energy levels and support muscle development. Also, fiberrich snacks like fruits should be incorporated to aid digestion and maintain heart health.
Easy fix: Prep meals ahead. Batch-cooked beans, stir-fries, and hearty salads can save the day.
Golden Goodness: Older Adults (50+)
As metabolism slows, fewer calories are needed - but nutrient needs go up. For ladies, menopause drags down our metabolism even more. This is the point where we must reduce total calorie intake to match our nutrient needs. Think calcium and vitamin D for bones, fiber for digestion, and B12 for brain health. Select food and snacks high in omega-3 fatty acids, like almonds and fish, to support joint and heart health. Hydration is key - even when you don’t feel thirsty.
Simple joy: Soft, easy-to-digest meals like vegetable soups, stews, and porridges can be both comforting and nourishing.
The Bottom Line Nutrition isn’t one-size-fits-all - it evolves as we do. Listening to your body, enjoying a variety of whole foods, and keeping mealtime fun and relaxed are the real secrets to health at any age.
"To eat is a necessity, but to eat intelligently is an art." - François de La Rochefoucauld
About
Dr. Blossom Maduafokwa is a well-known Public Health physician at Lagos University Teaching Hospital. She holds an MBA from Lagos Business School and has master's degrees from Johns Hopkins and Harvard.
Dr. Maduafokwa has also completed further training at Georgetown, Columbia, and Stanford Universities. She is a fellow of the West African College of Physicians and has received notable awards, including the Dr. M.P. Otolorin and Dr. M.Y.I. Salami prizes for her excellence in Public Health and Epidemiology.
She works with the Nigeria Center for Disease Control and Africa CDC to create a legal framework for Infection Prevention and Control (IPC). Dr. Maduafokwa serves as the Executive Director of Tecon-NigerBlossom Group, which offers oil and gas services, and is part of the Chartered Institute of Directors in Nigeria.
A fitness lover, she runs Blossom’s Fitness Hub and is a licensed Zumba instructor and marathon runner. Dr. Maduafokwa is married and has four children.
In 2025, skincare isn’t just something we apply; it’s also something we eat. Being a big fan of Asian beauty, I’ve always admired their stunning glass skin. At first, I assumed it was due to the many products they had at their disposal. However, I soon realized that their diet plays a significant role as well. This year, I want to share some tips on how to enhance your beauty routine from the inside out.
We all know that eating fruits is essential for our health, but many aren't aware of how they can help us look radiant and youthful. Fruits can contribute to a glowing complexion and a more vibrant appearance as we age. Here are some ways to incorporate retinol, niacinamide, and hyaluronic acid into your diet:
Kiwi
If you want glowing, healthy skin, make sure to include kiwi in your shopping list. Kiwis are packed with vitamin C, essential for skin health. This vitamin helps brighten your skin tone and minimize dark spots.
Additionally, kiwi has vitamin E and antioxidants that protect your skin from aging. Eating kiwis also provides your body with natural hyaluronic acid. For a delicious treat, pair them with Greek yogurt, which is great for your gut thanks to its probiotics. Enjoy!
Mango
Mangoes are a top choice among seasonal fruits. They are rich in vitamins A and C. Vitamin A aids in repairing and renewing skin cells, while vitamin C boosts collagen production and helps protect against UV damage.
Mangoes also have antioxidants that can slow down aging and keep your skin looking youthful. Adding mangoes to your breakfast, whether as chunks or as juice, is a tasty way to support your skin health. Eating mangoes means you're also getting benefits similar to niacinamides and hyaluronic acid.
Niacinamides are beneficial for your skin, but have you considered the advantages of eating fruits like avocados, mangoes, bananas, and pineapples? These fruits are rich in Vitamin B3, which provides niacinamide.
EATING YOUR SKINCARE
By Danielle Anene
Cucumber
Cucumbers are not only great for keeping you hydrated and aiding digestion because of their high water and fiber content, but they also boost your skin's health with vitamin C. This can help brighten your complexion, reduce pigmentation, and improve elasticity. You can enjoy them on their own or mix them with other fruits.
Don't forget about greens and herbs, either. Spinach, kale, and lettuce are fantastic, along with herbs like cilantro, thyme, and parsley, which support hyaluronic acid production. Don’t forget your bell peppers which are great source of Vitamin A & C, fiber and antioxidants. Try having a bell pepper salad mixed with apples and cucumber along with your rice or pasta. Its a beautiful combination.
If you're cautious about what you put on your skin, this article will teach you how to incorporate good skincare into your diet.
Citrusy fruits like Lemon, Orange, Mandarin Orange, Tangerines, Etc. They are high in Vitamin C, which is vital for collagen production. Collagen helps keep your skin firm and elastic. Oranges, in particular, contain folate, which aids in making new skin cells and repairing damaged ones, leading to smoother skin. Packed with antioxidants, these citrus fruits can strengthen your immune system, fight chronic diseases, and enhance your skin's appearance.
The abundance of Vitamin C not only supports your body’s defenses but also encourages collagen production for improved skin elasticity and a youthful look.
Kiwi
Mango
Madarin Cucumber
Sibling rivalry is one aspect of parenting that young parents must prioritize at the early stages of parenthood. It is a growing phenomenon to see siblings who seem close, loving, and happy as children become estranged as adults, fighting, hating, and refusing to see eye-toeye on any issue.
It is almost becoming clichéd to hear siblings say they don't know anything about their brother or sister, haven't seen each other in years, and are not on talking terms. Unfortunately, this is the pathetic twist modern family dynamics has taken.
It is therefore of utmost importance for young parents who are planning to embark on their parenting journey to pay attention to this trend, lest they repeat the mistakes of earlier generations. While some level of sibling rivalry can be a normal and natural part of growing up, excessive or persistent conflict can have negative effects on mental health, self-esteem, and relationships, especially when left unchecked or exacerbated by parents.
Sibling rivalry is a complex and multifaceted issue. Its root causes vary from one family to another. If we must agree, most sibling rivalries are fostered by the carelessness, indiscretion, and sometimes emotional recklessness of parents.
These errors, once made, impact negatively on the overall well-being of our children's mental wellness and self-esteem, especially in relation to their status within the home and in relation to their siblings.
We find siblings in such instances:
1. Competing unhealthily for parental love, attention, and validation.
2. Feeling jealous and resentful of each other's accomplishments, possessions, or relationships
3. Engaging in verbal and/or physical conflicts, often triggered by perceived injustices or differences
4. Engaging in unnecessary rivalry, trying to outdo each other in various areas.
Parents inadvertently contribute to sibling rivalry when they:
1. Play the favouritism card, thereby creating a feeling of resentment and jealousy amongst the children. This can take place in the form of:
b. Excessive attention on one child while ignoring the others
c. Celebrating the success of one child while downplaying that of others.
d. Inconsistent discipline or parenting styles, which can lead to a feeling of confusion and emotional conflict for the children.
2. Judge disputes amongst the children with bias and with little or no sense of fairness or justice.
3. Ignore, downplay, fail to identify, and address certain anomalies in the family dynamics because it benefits the selfish interest of one or both parents above the emotional wellness of their children.
4. Deliberately display a lack of interest or actually lack the capacity to genuinely resolve disputes fairly and effectively.
5. Encourage an unhealthy sense of entitlement in some children, (sometimes because of the circumstance of the birth of that child or close resemblance of that child to either parent or a loved, but long-gone grand or great-grandparent), leading to an imbalance in treatment meted out.
6. Place high expectations on one child in terms of discipline, forthrightness, academic excellence, leadership, etc., more than the others, thereby creating pressure and tension amongst siblings.
The following are the effects of unchecked sibling rivalry in adult years:
1. Feelings of abandonment, unworthiness, and inadequacy in personal life.
2. Lingering resentment and anger leading to estrangement towards siblings and sometimes the enabling parents in adult years.
3. Trauma leading to bad relationship choices.
4. Anxiety, depression, and poor conflict resolution skills in personal and professional relationships.
5. Increased conflict and aggression in personal and professional relationships.
6. Poor mental health.
To save our families from this social menace, it is suggested that parents should imbue in their kids the right family values at the onset, such as:
1. Good and effective communication skills. Siblings must be encouraged to freely and positively communicate their feelings, strengths, struggles, and weaknesses to one another without inhibitions.
SIBLING RIVALRY - HOW TO SAVE FAMILIES FROM THIS SOCIAL MENACE
By Kunbi Sijuwade-Peretz, Esq
2. Loyalty to family. Siblings should be encouraged to prioritize a sense of loyalty, undying love, and commitment to the family unit, irrespective of circumstances. They should be taught to have each other's back, even in the most annoying or seemingly "undeserving" circumstances.
3. Good conflict resolution skills. Siblings should be encouraged to learn to fight and disagree with each other without allowing their disagreements to go to the root of the love that binds them together as a family. This cannot be overemphasized. Our children must be taught the art of reconciliation of differences as often as the situation requires.
The family unit must be nurtured and shielded from disintegration by all means within our capacity.
About
Kunbi Sijuwade-Peretz, Esq is a seasoned litigation lawyer of 19 years post-call experience with special expertise in the area of family law. She's a keen social observer and commentator, offering insightful guidance on human relationships, marriage, and family dynamics. With a sharp analytical mind and passion for social commentary, Kunbi provides thought-provoking perspectives on social issues.
Her expertise makes her a trusted voice, providing valuable commentary that shapes our understanding of complex social issues.
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Fashion&Co Quiz
WHAT’S YOUR STYLE
PERSONALITY?
Fashion is more than just clothes; it's a way to express yourself! Take this fun quiz to discover your unique style personality and get inspired to revamp your wardrobe.
Instructions: Answer the following questions honestly, choosing the answer that resonates most with you. Tally up your points for each letter (A, B, C, or D) at the end to reveal your style persona!
1. What's your go-to weekend outfit?
A. Comfy leggings, an oversized hoodie, and sneakers.
B. A flowy sundress with sandals or a cute jumpsuit.
C. Tailored jeans, a crisp white shirt, and loafers.
D. Something edgy like ripped jeans, a band tee, and leather jacket.
2. Which accessory do you gravitate towards?
A. A cozy scarf or a baseball cap.
B. Delicate necklaces or statement earrings.
C. A classic watch or a structured handbag.
D. Bold rings or a studded belt.
3. What is your favorite colour palette?
A. Neutrals like black, white, and gray.
B. Pastels and soft, feminine hues.
C. Classic and timeless colors like navy, beige, and camel.
D. Dark and moody tones like black, burgundy, and forest green.
4. What's your ideal vacation destination?
A. A cozy cabin in the mountains.
B. A tropical beach resort.
C. A bustling European city.
D. A rock concert or a music festival.
5. Which fashion icon inspires you the most?
A. Someone like a relaxed and stylish celebrity known for their casual looks.
B. A glamorous and elegant actress or influencer.
C. A sophisticated and chic public figure.
D. A rebellious and unconventional musician or artist.
6. What shopping philosophy do you live by?
A. Comfort and practicality are key.
B. I love finding unique and trendy pieces.
C. I invest in timeless and high-quality items.
D. I'm always looking for something edgy and different.
7. What's your favorite type of footwear?
A. Sneakers or comfortable boots.
B. Sandals or heeled boots.
C. Classic pumps or loafers.
D. Combat boots or platform shoes.
8. How would you describe your personal style in three words?
A. Casual, comfortable, and practical.
B. Feminine, romantic, and playful.
C. Classic, sophisticated, and elegant.
D. Edgy, bold, and unconventional.
What Your Scores Say: Count how many times you answered
Style Results
• Mostly A's
The Effortless Chic: You prioritize comfort and practicality, but you still manage to look stylish. Your wardrobe is filled with versatile pieces that can be dressed up or down. You value quality basics and effortless style.
• Mostly B's
The Romantic Dreamer: You're a romantic at heart, and your style reflects that. You love flowy fabrics, delicate details, and feminine silhouettes. Your wardrobe is full of pretty dresses, skirts, and blouses.
• Mostly C's
The Classic Refined: You appreciate timeless style and invest in high-quality pieces that will last. Your wardrobe is full of classic staples like tailored pants, crisp shirts, and elegant dresses. You have a sophisticated and polished aesthetic.
• Mostly D's
The Bold Rebel: You're not afraid to take risks with your fashion choices. You love expressing your individuality through edgy and unconventional pieces. Your wardrobe is full of statement pieces that reflect your rebellious spirit.
Now that you've discovered your style personality, check out tips on how to build a wardrobe that perfectly reflects your unique style on www.fashionandco.ng
A, B, C, and D.
ITUEN BASI
For this debut issue, Fashionandco explores the vibrant world of Nigerian Fashion brands, shining a light on the exceptional talent of Ituen Basi.
A name synonymous with bold prints, impeccable tailoring, and a deep respect for cultural heritage. Ituen Basi has carved a unique niche in the industry, captivating audiences locally and internationally.
This brand has continuously championed the beauty and richness of Nigerian textiles and aesthetics in its designs. She expertly blends traditional techniques with modern designs, creating collections that feel both familiar and refreshingly new.
Her use of vibrant colours, intricate patterns, and meticulous details speak to a deep understanding of her cultural heritage while her sophisticated cuts and silhouettes ensure worldwide relevance.
Her early collections were lauded for their creative use of Ankara, transforming this otherwise ordinary fabric into high-fashion statement pieces. Her iconic "Ankara Queen" collection was a cultural moment that showed that indigenous fabrics could be both modern and luxurious.
Ituen Basi's work has always honored Nigerian womanhood, with silhouettes that are both beautiful and inspiring. Not one to shy away from making a bold statement. Her designs are vibrant and unapologetically feminine.
Beyond the timeless bold pieces, Ituen Basi has shown a strong dedication to sustainability. In an age when consumers are more aware of responsible consumption and the impact of fashion, her emphasis on local sourcing, ethical production processes, and the longevity of her designs places her brand as a pioneer in slow fashion production.
Collection after collection, she prioritizes quality craftsmanship and timeless appeal over fleeting trends, creating pieces that can be cherished and passed down, in stark contrast to the disposable nature of fast fashion.
As consumers increasingly seek out sustainable and culturally rich options, her brand is a testament to the compelling vision for Nigerian fashion's future, one that values heritage, craftsmanship, and mindful consumption.
Looking ahead, Ituen Basi is poised to be a continuous significant force in the growth of slow fashion in Nigeria. We believe that she will continue to innovate, inspiring a new generation of designers to follow slow fashion principles without losing their identity.
Fashion Quote
The African fashion industry is a great source of creativity, legacy and innovation. The insightful quotes of some of these African designers gives an insight into the mindset that inspires their work, and their unwavering commitment to empowerment, storytelling, and celebrating the continent's cultural variety.
As we admire the elegance and authenticity woven into every thread of their creations, let these quotes inspire us to embrace the spirit of African fashion and its profound impact on the global fashion narrative.
1. “Fashion is about empowering the individual. It’s about being comfortable and feeling confident in your own skin.” – Ozwald Boateng
Ozwald Boateng, the British-Ghanaian designer known for his impeccable tailoring, emphasizes the transformative power of fashion. His quote reminds us that at the heart of African fashion lies the desire to empower and uplift, instilling a sense of pride and self-assurance in those who wear it.
2. “African fashion is not just about clothes; it’s about celebrating a rich tapestry of cultures and traditions.” – Lisa Folawiyo
Lisa Folawiyo, the Nigerian designer behind the luxury brand Lisa Folawiyo and Jewel by Lisa, beautifully captures the essence of African fashion. Her quote reflects the deep-rooted connection between clothing and heritage, as African designers draw inspiration from age-old traditions and infuse them with a contemporary twist.
3. “African fashion is a fusion of past, present, and future, creating an unbreakable link between generations.” – Alphadi
THESE FASHION QUOTES BY AFRICAN DESIGNERS HIGHLIGHT AFRICAN CREATIVITY AND ELEGANCE
Alphadi, often referred to as the “Magician of the Desert,” hails from Niger and has been a prominent figure in promoting African fashion on the global stage. His quote encapsulates the dynamic nature of African fashion, where the echoes of history seamlessly blend with modern innovations.
4. “Fashion is a canvas for storytelling, and every piece we create tells a tale of Africa’s resilience and creativity.” – Amaka Osakwe (Maki Oh)
Maki Oh, a Nigerian designer, is renowned for her intricate designs that weave together African narratives and contemporary aesthetics. Her quote highlights the profound storytelling aspect of African fashion, where each garment becomes a living testament to the continent’s diverse stories and experiences.
5. “African fashion is an invitation to explore the intricate beauty of our cultures and to celebrate the limitless possibilities of design.”
– Amaka Osakwe (Maki Oh)
Amaka Osakwe, the visionary behind the brand Maki Oh, sheds light on the multifaceted allure of African fashion. Her quote underscores the invitation that African fashion extends to the world—an invitation to immerse oneself in the cultural mosaic and embrace the boundless creativity it offers.
6. “African fashion is a movement that redefines beauty, challenges norms, and fosters unity among diverse communities.” – Taibo Bacar
Taibo Bacar, a Mozambican designer, beautifully captures the revolutionary spirit of African fashion. His quote emphasizes how African designers are at the forefront of dismantling conventional notions of beauty and embracing inclusivity, while also forging connections between people across borders.
7. “African fashion is a symphony of colours, textures, and patterns, harmonizing the old with the new.” – Duro Olowu
Duro Olowu, a Nigerian-born British designer, celebrates the harmonious blend of elements that define African fashion. His quote paints a picture of a vibrant and everevolving fashion landscape that bridges generations and cultures.
Heru Shizi at the Lagos Fashion week 2022
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GET TO KNOW ENADIA
Enadia is a fast-rising womenswear brand based in Lagos, Nigeria.
They especially enjoy experimenting with different prints! You’d love their uber-chic Ankara styles.
Enadia’s overall appeal is playful, fun, chic, and tidy, and their designs are not expensive. With new drops, the self-proclaimed designers of “African-inspired clothing” always have something new to show.
Their various designs have a playful chic yet timeless feel to them. This fast-rising brand has something for everyone, and if you like Ankara, Adire, and other prints, you’ll be in fashion heaven.
They also craft simple evening dresses with details just enough to make you turn heads your way.
Body-skimming dresses with playful and somewhat timeless details, matching sets to show off your gorgeous pins, mini, midi, and maxi dresses, and more are frequently featured in this brand’s collections. Their fit is great too
They are definitely worth checking out and adding to your wardrobe.
You won’t have to break the bank to get their designs, and that works as well.
Check them out on Instagram @shopenadia
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