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The useful magazine for families with young children in York, Harrogate, Tadcaster, Wetherby and Selby

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welcome to families I’ve just bought one of those fill-it-yourself advent calendars. It’s all part of my ‘Be Prepared for Christmas’ campaign, though I’m now wondering whether it will simply add to my ‘to do’ list. I like the notion of getting rid of the daily dose of poor quality chocolate dispensed from a cardboard Ben10/Hello Kitty calendar (bought on November 30th because there was nothing Christmassy left). However, I fear the reality might be a daily dose of slightly better chocolate being dispensed from a feltpocketed Santa.

I am hoping to be a bit more organised this year. As a last-minute sort of person I used to scorn the people who had everything bought and wrapped by the time the kids are back at school in September. Nowadays though I admit to feeling a bit envious. Maybe they’re the families who actually enjoy the run-up to Christmas rather than curse their way through the first two weeks in December as I usually do.

This year when friends ask ‘are you ready?’ in an attempt to brag about their own ultra-organised lives, I shall be.

I think I’d better start making a list...

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The deadline for the Jan/Feb 2013 edition is early December 2013

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The Mount Junior School and the York Press are holding their annual Art Competition and Exhibition for York pre-schoolers. Artists are invited to create using the inspiration from ‘Stick Man’ by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler.

The competition is open to 2-4 year-olds from all local Pre-Schools, Nurseries and Childcarers.

Entries will be on display for the public at The Mount Junior School from 27 Jan - 7 Feb with judging on Friday 1 February.

“The art competition for pre-schoolers was so popular last year that we are very happy for it to become an annual event,” said Rachel Capper, Head of The Mount School. “I hope children will be inspired by the Stick Man story and will enjoy creating their works of art and coming with their families to see their work on display here.”

Any creative art form can be entered, other than photography or video, and all winning entries will have the prize of free art supplies, compliments of The Mount Junior School, and will be published in the York Press.

For further information, contact The Mount Junior School on 01904-667500 or see their website http://www.mountschoolyork.co.uk/ junior-school-home.

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Learn to Cook - in French Linguacook offers fabulous cookery and language workshops for children aged 5 - 17 where young chefs can have fun creating their own culinary masterpieces - and improve their language skills at the same time.

Classes which are held in the historical setting of The Read School, Drax are led by Madame Ruth Ainley under whose tuition children will make a number of delicious recipes during an afternoon.

“Some will be for eating,” says Ruth, “others for taking home and sharing with the family.”

Ruth provides all the ingredients and guarantees to mix in plenty of languages and fun along the way; “Classes are the perfect place for children to both acquire some cooking skills and learn a foreign language. They’re enjoyable, educational and what’s more, somebody else clears up the mess!”

Classes are available in French, German and Italian and cater for all ability levels. Courses run at The Read School, Drax on Saturday afternoons from 16th Nov - 7th Dec and throughout the year. Workshops are also available during Christmas and February half term holidays.

For more details and to book a place call Mme Ainley on 07786 266 715 or email ainley@readschool.co.uk

Singamajigs introduce Family Jigs

Pre-school music group Singamajigs is now running a new class on Fridays in the new room at Kidzplay, Harrogate.

“Our ‘Family Jigs’ classes on Friday mornings are proving really popular,” says owner Karen Allen, “and we’re getting great feedback about the new space we’re using.”

Family Jigs is suitable for children aged 6 months to 3½ who can bring along parents, grandparents, nannies or carers - great for families with different aged siblings. Classes also run on Tuesday and Thursday at Kidzplay and through the week at a number of other locations - see website for details.

Karen is also looking for more teachers in the Harrogate area. If you love singing and working with children, get in touch with her at: www.singamajigs.co.uk 01423 552 918 info@singamajigs.co.uk

Christmas Climbing Fun

Harrogate Climbing Centre are running kids activity sessions daily over the Christmas holidays. The sessions run daily from 10am-11.30am. As well as the kids only sessions there are lots of options for family taster sessions, which are great fun for all the family and help work off the turkey!

Please note the Climbing Centre is closed on Christmas Day, Boxing Day & New Year’s Day. Contact the centre on 01423 815024 for more information or to book. Website: www.harrogateclimbingcentre.com

The Jinglebellbop - Christmas Panto Party back for its third year!

Sunday 15th December sees a fantastic Christmas show roll into Tadcaster. The Jinglebellbop will take place at the Riley Smith Hall between 1.30-3.30, less than 15 miles form York, Selby, Harrogate and Leeds.

With an audience of over 200 last year and some great feedback, Santa will be back with his helpers to enjoy another Very Merry Christmas Panto Party.

Exclusively for young families the Jinglebellbop will bring the Magic of Christmas to you and your family.

To greet you will be elves and fairies and an opportunity for you join in with the interactive stage show, craft with elves and have your face painted. There will also be an array of stage-lead musical fun including disco, action songs, fairy dancers, games and Santa live on stage - all included in your ticket price.

“This is a great introduction to panto, as the children see a live stage show, get involved and have fun without having to sit still,” said local event organiser Victoria Charles.

“New for our 2013 party will be the opportunity to dance and play with the Candy Cane Fairies and you can also help to cheer up our grumpy elf who has lost his Christmas cheer!

“Fancy dress is optional,” says Victoria, “but there will be prizes for the best dressed boppers, including a year’s membership at Tumbletots and the first half term’s fees paid, which is worth over £60!”

As well as fun with Santa and his elves, there’ll be some Christmas shopping opportunities for parents too with this year’s stall holders including Kreative Krafts and Gifts, Usborne books, Victoria Louise Nails, Tilly Rose Designs & Little Ol Handmade.

With a gift for every child, a meet and greet with Santa, bar refreshments, local traders and more, the Jinglebellbop is a must for all young families this Christmas.

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Against Bullying

National Anti-Bullying Week takes place 1822 November this year, with the theme ‘The Future is Ours: Safe, Fun and Connected.’

As always, the Anti-Bullying Week website is packed with resources for schools, parents and children, plus online workshops, practical resources and short films on how to survive bullying.

You can also join the Anti-Bullying Roadshow which tours schools, youth clubs and parents groups throughout the UK during November. Powerful, fun and exciting, the Roadshow includes music, science, strategies and up-to-date research and information on bullying.

Check out the website too for their AntiBullying Village for Kids and Teens – a virtual space created by young people for young people where you can interact with others, as well as find out about events on school bullying, violence, racism and xenophobia through workshops, young people’s conferences and exhibitions.

You can read more advice in our bullying feature on page 11. www.antibullyingweek.co.uk

Festive Fun at the Gym

The Little Gym Harrogate are offering threehour holiday camps for children aged three to eight years old this Christmas.

“Non-members and members are welcome,” says The Little Gym’s Holly Riley, “but you’ll need to act soon because places are going fast-particularly for our special Christmas Eve camp.”

“Our fantastic three-hour camps for good little girls and boys involve lots of gymnastics, crafts, snacks, Air trak and festive fun.

“We also have a special offer whereby parents can buy two camps and get a third for half price, giving mum and dad plenty of time to do all that last minute Christmas shopping!”

Flexible registrations are available and parents can book as many camps as they’d like to suit schedules. Camps are priced at £22.50 for members and £30 for non-members. Two camps a day will take place on 23, 24 & 30 December and 2 & 3 January.

Check out our What’s On pages for more details and information about the Gym’s ‘Baby’s First Christmas Event’ on 9th December.

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Author Mike Barfield, with pupils Sacha Rhodes, 7, and Izzy Ward-Brown, 8

Author flies in to Harrogate School Pupils at independent prep school Belmont Grosvenor had a close encounter of a different kind when they came face-to-face with a human-sized housefly – aka author Mike Barfield – who dropped by to share his latest book with pupils.

The Boroughbridge-based author spent a day with pupils at Belmont Grosvenor School as part of their celebration of national Book Week.

Armed with a pink ukulele, giant fly swats, fluffy toys and a venus fly-trap plant, Mr Barfield entertained youngsters from years 3 to 6 at the co-educational school, based at Swarcliffe Hall, Birstwith, near Harrogate.

SWAT – Mike’s latest book – tells the story of a just-hatched housefly called Buzzter and is packed full of scientific facts and information, as well as fun!

The author was inspired to write his book by his son who, he said, was obsessed by a Venus Fly Trap plant.

“It got me thinking about all the things that eat flies. As well as being great entertainment, Swat is also full of lots of science stuff,” said Mike.

“I have been very impressed by all the pupils here at Belmont Grosvenor – they really seem to know their science and were great at answering all my questions.”

Sophie Johnston, Head of English at Belmont Grosvenor School, said Mr Barfield’s visit had been a great success.

“The show was fantastic, it had information in bucket-fulls, great jokes and wacky costumes. The children were all very enthusiastic during the show and workshops, they were all eager to ask and answer questions as well as volunteer to be part of the act.”

For more information about Belmont Grosvenor School or to arrange a tour visit the website at www.belmontgrosvenor.co.uk or call 01423 771029.

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Yorkshire cricketer Ryan Sidebottom has launched an academy for young cricketers in York.

Families has been along to ask the dad of two how the academy will work and why he’s excited to move into coaching the next generation.

You’re still playing county cricket for Yorkshire. Why launch your academy now?

Debbie Feeney owns and run Swimtime North Yorkshire. We asked her why swimming is important to her.

“I am passionate about teaching children and adults of all ages and abilities to swim and be safe in the water whilst also making it fun and exciting,” says Debbie.

“My fiancé and I both have ‘watery’ backgrounds, so really understand the importance of being able to swim.

Ray, my fiancé, is an Oceanographer and understands the significant dangers that water can present and I have a background in Engineering and Commercial Diving so have spent a fair few years under the water experiencing first-hand the dangers and hazards that a ‘watery’ environment presents.

Debbie also spent many years as a competitive swimmer when in her younger years: “I know the importance of not only being able to swim,” she adds, “but of having good technique and stamina.”

Debbie & Ray’s lives changed in April 2012 when the opportunity came up to buy Swimtime North Yorkshire.

“I handed in my notice on my 16 year career to be able to follow a true passion. We’ve never looked back and have grown from under 100 children using one pool to over 500 children using 5 pools each week.”

“We can’t provide the best service we do without a wonderful ‘pool’ of teaching staff. Whilst I teach several days, we have currently have six other extremely experienced and talented teachers working with us to complete the team. All our teachers hold the same passion, drive and determination that we do.

Swimtime has just secured the pool at York Marriott Hotel with lessons running through the week and on weekends. Their other pools in the area around York are DW Selby and Sherburn High School.

01757 247047 or 07730 886436 d.feeney@swimtime. org www.swimtime.org

During the winter months I get asked to do a lot of coaching sessions in schools, but I don’t have the time to commit to as many as I’d like. This is my 17th season with Yorkshire so I’ve probably got 2 or 3 more years left playing for at county level and I’d like to move into coaching afterwards. I thought I’d start taking my coaching badges now and launch the academies so I can give something back to the game that’s given so much to me. My Dad Arnie has been a coach for 15 years so I’m looking forward to working with him and with lots of keen kids who want to reach their potential.

Who is the Ryan Sidebottom Cricket Academy aimed at?

I want to see children who love their cricket, but I also want to see youngsters who have watched it on TV and feel like giving it a go. There isn’t a lot of sport in primary schools so I hope my academy will give children a place where they can try cricket. That’s how it started for me. I went to the local cricket club in Huddersfield with my mates and absolutely loved it. The rest is history!

I want to work with any child that takes cricket seriously and has the desire to be as good as they can be.

What will happen at the sessions?

There’s a 90 minute session for 8-11 year olds followed by one for 11-15 year olds. This coaching programme has a long-term goal – we want to get the kids at 8 and keep them until they’re 16, improving year on year. We’ll be teaching technique, skills, working on fitness and giving them some mental training. We’re going to look at all areas of the game – batting, bowling, fielding with lots of game play. I can take 32 players per session and we’ll have 5 coaches so that’s a great player to coach ratio.

There will be visits from other Yorkshire players. Johnny Bairstow will do work on wicket keeping. Jack Brookes and Liam Plunkett will come and do specialist bowling sessions. I want to get around all the kids and work with them. At the end of the day, that’s what people are signing up to. It’s my name on the door of the academy and I want to make sure that I help all the kids that come along.

What do you think it means to the children to have you coach them?

I remember when I was young, meeting the likes of Darren Gough and Craig White. You couldn’t take the smile off my face. It was the joy of them speaking to me, and I couldn’t wait to learn from them. They inspired me and helped me fall in love with the sport which is the most important thing in my book. You don’t have to be the best cricketer but if you enjoy it, and want to improve then you can achieve anything.

Are you enjoying it?

The first session was daunting. Playing cricket is second nature to me but when I did my first academy session I was a nervous wreck! But I love the coaching and working with children means you get a lot back. They want to learn and they look up to me. Success for me would be to see kids come along and develop a love of the game. And if some of those kids go on to get county honours, then I’d be absolutely delighted.

Ryan Sidebottom Cricket Academy will run on a Monday evening from 6pm at St Olave’s School, York. www.ryansidebottomcricketacademy.co.uk Families Vale of York

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Peter’s Railway title

Peter’s Railway Hits the Jackpot is the newest instalment in the Peter’s Railway series of children’s books by Chris Vine, and tells the story of Peter and Grandpa’s most ambitious adventure yet!

WIN

a Lego Advent Calendar with Treasures of Wetherby

We love these Lego advent calendars which are all new designs for 2013 - with new minifigures too. Both the Friends and City Calendars are lovely Christmas scenes complete with a Christmas tree.

The Star Wars calendar also includes an exclusive Jango Fett figure.

Treasures is also selling Playmobil advent calendars.

“They’re always popular,” says Treasures’ Zhara Armstrong, “ and there’s lots of choice this year.

“As well as the more traditional Santa & Christmas scene we have Pirate, Police, Princess, Dinosaurs and new Horse Playmobil advent calendar –you’ll be spoilt for choice! Playmobil calendars retail at £17.99 To be in with a chance of winning either a City Lego or Lego Friends advent calendar go to www.familiesvoy. and co.uk/competitions follow the instructions there. terms and conditions online.

Closing date November 27th.

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In this, the fifth book in the series, Peter becomes an entrepreneur as he and his grandfather take on the challenge of extending their lovingly hand built line from Crossacres Farm to carry children to and from the local school in Yockletts.

One of the finest features of the Peter’s Railway series is the simple but accurate child-friendly explanations of how things work which are woven through every one of his books. Children are shown easy to understand explanations of things like building a railway tunnel and how railway brakes work.

“Peter’s Railway Hits the Jackpot is one of my favourite stories yet,” says the author. Children and parents alike can really see how Peter’s character has developed through the four previous books as he embarks on a big task and completes it to everyone’s satisfaction. The Peter’s Railway books are my way of passing on my passion to a younger generation and if they help ignite an engineering spark in any of my readers then I will have done what I set out to

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FREE signed book with any book ordered

You’ll receive a free extra book with every order all signed with a personal dedication to make an extra- special Christmas present.

To claim go to www.petersrailway. com and order at least one book. In the dedication box enter FAMDEC13 and any dedication you would like. Chris Vine will add an extra free book to the order signed too!

Offer closes end of December 2013

Buddy World

Buddy World is the brainchild of local dad Paul Woodward, who has worked for many years as an artist, designer and teacher.

“It’s result of over 15 years of work,” Paul says, “going back to when I used to read stories to my children at bedtime. I was often disappointed with the books available - they rarely captivated the reader and, so in turn, failed to captivate the listener.”

With this in mind Paul set out to write and illustrate a book for his children, one that would be colourful, humorous and fun to share with them. Buddy World was born with just one story about Pepe Pig; a wannabe movie star and a lovable dreamer.

Over the following years Paul wrote many more books, creating numerous colourful characters to join in his stories and Buddy World grew into an imaginary world populated by his creations.

“As technology advanced and the internet became ever faster, I decided to develop Buddy World into an interactive web experience that could be enjoyed by anyone with access to the internet, be it through a PC or games console. More recently, I’ve begun converting digital books into the ebook format which is becoming increasingly popular with children who can access them through apps like ibooks on the iPad.” A great deal of time and care has gone into making the site which Paul wanted to share with all the children who love to read, explore and have fun.

“The site is guaranteed free from violence, profanity, viruses, adverts or pop ups and visitors can be assured that it is a safe place for children to visit alone or with supervision. It also offers innocent and harmless games and activities often related to the stories you can read, usually with a subtle moral or ethical message.”

Paul appreciates that nothing beats reading a real book, but Buddy World offers a different way to access stories to read and uses modern technology to enhance the reading experience through exploration and activities. For all those situations where a book is just not practical, such as group reading or where there are no book resources, Buddy World can meet your needs.

“The site is currently aimed at the domestic market with some educational content,” says Paul, “with the focus clearly on reading for fun. The next phase is to develop Buddy World into a must-have classroom resource for schools, complete with custom made resources and activities.”

Check out the website for books, talking books, jigsaws, quizzes, puzzles and much much more - we particularly liked ‘Little Cloud’ www.buddyworldbooks.com

WIN a Buddy World Pass for your child

We have 10 passes for Buddy World to give away to Families readers readers. Visit www. familiesvoy.co.uk/competitions to enter. Closing date 31st December. Terms & conditions can be found online.

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Children will love playing out in outerwear designed for adventure.

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Lands’ End truly has something for everyone and what’s more - for your first order, Lands’ End are offering £10 off on orders over £40.

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Closing date Fri 29th Nov.

York’s magical festive experience – Yorkshire’s Winter Wonderland - will return to York Designer Outlet this November with ice skating at The Ice Factor, a new-look après-skate Café & Bar, a traditional funfair and of course Christmas shopping at the Outlet.

The Ice Factor, the North of England’s largest outdoor ice rink, forms the heart of Yorkshire’s Winter Wonderland, and is open daily (except Christmas Day). With 900m2 of real ice, the ice rink is transformed into a winter wonderland village square complete with a gigantic 30ft Christmas tree, wooden cabins and an illuminated forest. For those who prefer to watch, the raised viewing platform offers the chance to soak up the atmosphere and get close to the action.

New to Yorkshire’s Winter Wonderland this year is PapaKitchen at The Ice Factor. The rinkside Café & Bar has been transformed into an ‘apres-skate’ style chalet, complete with cosy furs, rustic tables and the warming smell of Glühwein. PapaKitchen will serve wholesome meals with a Scandilicious twist, from smokey beef chilli to wood-fired pizzas and sweet treats such as apple spiced-cake and Nutella pancakes. Skaters will also be pleased to know that Christmas cocktails and comforting hot chocolate will be available to restore energy!

And after a visit to Yorkshire’s Winter Wonderland, why not pop inside to take advantage of over 120 leading designer and high street brands at up to 60 per cent less. With plenty of free parking, it’s a great way to get some of your Christmas shopping sorted!

Yorkshire’s Winter Wonderland will be open daily from Saturday 23rd November 2013 until 5th January 2014, and is conveniently located on the A64/A19 interchange. Tickets for a one-hour ice skating session cost £9.95 for adults and £8.95 for children and concessions. Discounts apply for groups of 20 or more and special party packages are available. Further details are available at www.yorkshireswinterwonderland.com or by calling 01653 619169.

Booking for ice skating at The Ice Factor is advisable, and can be easily done through the online ticket shop at www.yorkshireswinterwonderland. com or through their Facebook page.

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How to win tickets Families Vale of York has joined forces with Yorkshire’s Winter Wonderland and has two sets of family tickets to give away.

For your chance to win, you’ll need to answer the following question: Who opened Yorkshire’s Winter Wonderland in 2012?

1) Torvill & Dean 2) Team GB Medal-Winning Olympians 3) Keith Chegwin Simply visit www.familiesvoy.co.uk/competitions and follow the instructions to be in with a chance of winning.

Closing date 21st November 2013.

So - get your skates on and don’t miss out!

Terms and Conditions: Winning ticket valid from Saturday 23rd November 2013 through to Sunday 5th January 2014. Subject to availability. This offer is non-transferable and non-refundable. Pre-booking of this offer is not permitted. Family ticket valid for 2 Adults & 2 Children or 1 Adult & 3 Children. Valid for one use only. Full terms & conditions online.

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Cool, addictive, educational and fun, Bizzy Bitz is a must for every family! With a simple ball and socket system, Bizzy Bitz is set to capture the world with its infinite possibilities. With brightly coloured pieces and a wide variety of shapes, children of all ages and stages can create absolutely anything with Bizzy Bitz.

Bizzy Bitz are offering two lucky winners the chance to win a super maxi box of Bizzy Bitz.

To enter, go to www.familiesvoy. co.uk/competitions.

Terms and Conditions apply. Closing date for the competition is 2nd December 2013. www.bizzy-bitz.com Families Vale of York

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Clare Spencer is a local GP with experience in obstetrics and gynaecology. She lives near Harrogate with her husband and 3 children.

Clare juggles life working part time and being a mum.

lue ear

- As the temperature has dropped and winter is approaching, I have seen more and more children with coughs and cold. One of the other conditions that increases in the winter months is glue ear. This is a really common condition where the middle ear becomes filled with fluid.

First a quick anatomy lesson on ears. The ear is made up of the outer ear, middle ear and inner ear. The outer ear is the outside ear you see (called the pinna) and the canal.

At the base of the canal is the eardrum – or tympanic membrane. Under this is the middle ear where the smallest bones in the body (the ossicles – a great trivia question) transmit sound to the inner ear. The inner ear is where sounds transmit to the brain and where you also have the equipment to keep your body balanced. The middle ear has an important narrow tube which connects to the back of the throat called the Eustachian tube. This opens when we swallow, chew or yawn, allowing fluid to drain as the middle ear is usually filled with air. In glue ear it can become filled

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with fluid. This means that the tiny bones cannot transmit sound properly, so hearing is muffled and reduced. The most common cause is blockage of the Eustacian tube with mucus, for example in viral infections.

Glue ear is very common. It is more common in children whose parents smoke, who were bottle fed or who have a sibling with glue ear. It is rare in children who are older than 7 or 8yrs, as the Eustachian tube widens with age.

SYMPTOMS Children with glue ear can have dulled hearing and so you may notice they say ‘pardon’ or ‘what’ more often, or need the TV turned up louder. If the reduction in hearing is not noticed, this can lead to issues at school. Not hearing the teacher can lead to frustration, behavioural issues and falling behind in the classroom. There can be speech and language issues. Studies have shown that there is unlikely to be developmental delay in most children with glue ear, but always see your doctor if you have any concerns. There may be pain but this is mild. Small children may pull at their ear. The pain can dramatically increase if the gluey secretions become infected.

Glue ear usually gets better by itself. Half will be better after three months and the vast majority will be better within a year.

To diagnose glue ear, it is advisable to see your doctor. They can look at the ear drum and organize hearing tests to find out how bad the hearing loss is. Children may then be referred to ear, nose and throat specialists (ENT) if it’s not getting better by itself.

TREATMENT The ENT specialists have a number of options available. They may advise no action for the first 3 months to see if symptoms get better by themselves.

Balloon treatment may be offered where a special balloon is blown up by the child blowing through their nose. This is called auto-inflation. It puts back pressure into the nose, and may help to open up the Eustachian tube and allow better drainage of the fluid. The child needs to do this regularly until the fluid clears. The research studies that looked into this treatment found that it seems to help in some cases, but not all.

If the glue ear is severe, or not getting better by other means, grommets may be inserted. The child is put off to sleep, a tiny cut is made in the ear drum to allow fluid to drain out, and then the tiny tube called a grommet is inserted. They usually stay in for approximately 12 months and fall out as the ear grows. They sometimes have to be re-inserted. If the child has lots of colds, the adenoids may be removed as they are small clumps of tissue near the Eustachian tube that may contribute to its blockage.

Unfortunately there is no evidence to show decongestants, antibiotics, steroid and other medications work. Hearing aids are another option as a short term measure while waiting for the glue ear to go away by itself.

Your child may needs lots of patience and understanding. Having muffled hearing can be incredibly frustrating. Speaking clearly, looking at the child in the face, and cutting out background noise can help. Keeping the school informed is also very important so they can be understanding too.

Further information There is good information on the internet and don’t hesitate to discuss any issues with your doctor. www.nhs.uk/conditions/glue-ear/ http://www.gosh.nhs.uk www.patient.co.uk

bullying L i n g u a c o o

Mixing Languages with Cooking

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Sadly, in spite of lots of publicity and much greater awareness of the problem, (especially in schools), bullying is on the increase. Wendy Bollen has worked as a counselling psychologist in schools with many hundreds of children and young people and by far the most common problem is being bullied. She has written an e-book with advice on how deal with the problem in a different way.

This November anti-bullying week is being held from 19- 23 and whilst it is great to raise awareness about the problem, what children really need is practical help and advice on how to deal with bullies.

Wendy has done a lot of research into the causes and effects of bullying and delivers training to schools on the most effective ways to tackle this problem.

She realised that the advice usually given by teachers didn’t work. Pupils are often told to ignore unkind comments, but that often leads to increased attempts by bullies to upset their victim. Based on her own experiences and those of the young people she works with Wendy has come up with a rather different approach which empowers pupils by teaching them how to stand up to a bully.

“Most children don’t want to involve a teacher, but they do want to do something. I teach kids strategies to help them stand up for themselves by using assertive body language and practicing smart replies. If you can show a bully that you really don’t care that they’ve said something horrid and even better, say something funny back to them it takes the wind out of their sails.”, explains Wendy.

Here are Wendy’s top five tips on how to deal with bullies: • Look confident-stand up straight and look them in the eye if they say something to you. If you look scared a bully is much more likely to pick on you.

• Stay calm and practice slow breathing. If you feel less anxious you’ll look more confident.

• Even if you feel upset, don’t show it until you are out of sight. Bullies enjoy seeing their victims upset, so by letting them see you upset you are rewarding them and they are likely to continue.

• Likewise don’t let them see you’re angry- the aim is to show bullies that you’re really not bothered by what they say.

• Use humour- a witty retort is unexpected and shows bullies that you are confident and don’t care what they say to you. In fact, you think it’s funny.

Standing up to bullies is important says Wendy, especially with a smart retort.

“An example would be to say, “ I’m flattered that you spend so much of your time thinking about me!” or “I’m sorry, I’m busy right now, can I ignore you later?” Wendy stresses that how you say it is just as important as what you say.

“Stand straight, look them straight in the eye, say it clearly with a smile and then quickly walk away. Don’t hang around waiting for them to say something else.”

She also emphasises that there are some things to avoid saying. “Never say anything about someone’s Mum! This is likely to escalate the situation.”

Based on her work with pupils, Wendy has written a self-help book for youngsters on how to beat the bullies. The Little Book Of Retorts is set out in sections, which include information on the reasons behind bullying, why people become victims and techniques for dealing with fear and anxiety. Importantly Wendy emphasises that children don’t have to have experienced bullying in order to benefit from the book.

“Prevention is far better than cure and if children appear confident and untroubled by insults they are unlikely to become a victim.”

The book is suitable for kids aged from ten up to sixteen and is ideal for children starting secondary school this autumn. Costing only £1.91 it is available as an ebook from Amazon Kindle, ibookstores, Sony and Apple but can also be purchased in PDF format from the website.

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shy:

by E. Dolton

say goodbye to being

How to help your child overcome their shyness Christmas parties and family gettogethers at this time of the year can spell a worrying time if your child is shy. Take Holly’s experience with her 6 year old son, Thomas, “Thomas is a lovely little boy but when he met anyone he hadn’t met before he was unable to speak, he lost all his manners and just looked at the floor.” This is not unusual. Shyness is a perfectly normal trait in childhood, but when lives become restricted by shyness, we must take action as there is no question that shyness robs us of opportunities that other people take for granted. The good news is that there are a lot of practical things that can gently encourage a shy child to be more outgoing.

Mixing in society Start by inviting one friend over for half an hour at home, then moving to more friends, more time and then outside the home.

Children learn social skills from watching others so model the kind of interactions you want to encourage: be warm and friendly with people you don’t know, introduce yourself to new people, ask people for help, and compliment friends.

Drama queens (& kings) Shyness doesn’t necessarily mean low self-esteem; it usually comes from fear or feeling worried about what other people think. Simple acting techniques from drama classes soon equip children with the ability express themselves more clearly in front of others.

Equally, presenting ourselves in a confident manner by sitting up straight

and making eye-contact, even when we don’t feel like it, will make any child feel bolder because of the positive way others will react to them.

Facing up to it Perhaps the most effective way to help your child to be less shy is to talk openly with them about it. Refer to situations that are daunting and empathise “sometimes I feel worried about speaking up at work, but I always make and effort and feel good afterwards”. Holly added that she “used to read books to Thomas that had themes of facing fears or overcoming challenges”.

Dress Rehearsal Watch what situations trigger shyness in your child then role play them later at home, giving hints on how they can feel more courageous when next out in public. “Thomas always felt nervous going to birthday parties, so we decided to set up a party scene at home, using his favourite toys and acted out the different scenarios: giving the party boy their present; saying hello to other children; asking the adult where the toilet is; saying thank you on leaving. It worked a treat”, said Holly.

A karaoke machine or sing along DVD will encourage your child to be more adventurous with their speech and movement. Record them pretending to be a news reader, or presenter interviewing their ‘celebrity’ friend.

Lights, camera, action Trying new activities in a gradual way helps overcome shyness. Holly had always

been encouraging Thomas to try out new things, “I knew Thomas had achieved an improved level of outgoingness when in the end-of-term football lesson, Thomas waited 30 minutes for his turn to kick a ball through the cones and straight into the goal - in front of everyone. He has really come out of his shell.”

Taking trays of nibbles round guests, being photographer at a family occasion, going into a shop and asking for the price are all great ways to take their mind off their shyness. But don’t force them into doing things that make them uncomfortable, play to their strengths.

Your child’s shyness will vanish if he is encouraged to get better at things he already excels at.

Above all, being calm will sooth many a shy child. Relax Kids (www.relaxkids. com) sell a range of CDs that provide ‘chill skills’ that relax children and as a result boosts their confidence.

Our attitude is crucial We all want our children to outgrow their shyness and latest research indicates that how parents respond to shyness is what makes the difference. Labelling our child as ‘shy’ would certainly be discouraged; they often turn into self fulfilling prophecies. In the same sense, we should always avoid dismissing any feelings of shyness e.g. “don’t be silly, big boys don’t get shy”. Comments like this lead children to feel that their worries are not valid, leading to anxiety. Be supportive by combining empathy with confident assertions, “Ahh, I can see you’re feeling a bit worried, but I’m really confident you’ll be able to handle it”.

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A child’s ability to comfortably relate to a wide variety of people is one of the most important ingredients to happiness and success. The thing to remember is that the majority of children will find their way through all of this with a bit of guidance, and will soon be waving their hands in the air to answer questions, belting out songs during group sings, and being the first in the queue for trying new things.

“I’m shy, paranoid, whatever word you want to use.”

Johnny Depp

“I was just genuinely shy. I’d always been a shy kid.”

Elton John

I know this sounds strange, but as a kid, I was really shy.

Painfully shy.”

Jim Carrey

Shaking off shyness for a child with SEN Children with learning disabilities need to be given a healthy dose of praise and constructive criticism to develop into shy-free, confident adults.

Positivity - A child with learning disabilities is prone to undergo more stress and frustration than the average child. Praise all victories, big and small Provide simple responsibilities in social situations – distraction from feeling shy Pair your shy child with another child in each important setting Coordinate your efforts with those of other relevant adults Help them find his or her areas of strength - explain the significance to them and offer many chances to use them Discuss the various aspects of your child’s life with them: school, friends, homework, teachers etc.

Sources www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/advice/factfile www.babycenter.com www.psychologytoday.com/blog

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It’s a parental right of passage to dress up your son or daughter as a reindeer or a shrunken Ever wondered what you’d look like as a Christmas Elf? Santa. As well it being Wonder no more and instead, head to very cute, it also provides www.jibjab.com and begin the transformation. This us parents with some super clever online tool allows you to upload photos of photographic ammunition for you and your family and then a video of you, the future. For those of you with dancing as elves, is created. I recommend compliant/younger children, enjoy doing this on a day when the spirit of the moment. And make sure you Christmas has deserted you, only to be take plenty of photos. replaced by a mountain of stress. I challenge you to be glum when witnessing you and your family dance, as elves, to ‘Rockin’ Robin’.

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Whether you have the Angel Gabriel or the 5th sheep under your roof this Christmas, take the time to enjoy your child’s nativity. Ignore the crowing parent who is mother to Mary for the 3rd time.

“I’ve made her go straight into character and so she’s living in the shed and sleeping on hay.” Embrace the breadth of characters now at the bedside of Baby Jesus and pray that whatever your child is cast as, there’s an outfit that can be bought in the dress up aisle at the supermarket. But most of all enjoy the moment.

Too soon it won’t be the sheep and the cows you’ll be fretting about. It will be Here at Families Vale of York the countdown to the birds and Christmas begins when we take to the ice at Stockeld the bees.

Park. It’s great exercise which means you’re able to treat yourself to cake and coffee without any guilt. There’s also the chance you’ll see that parent you avoid at the school gates fall flat on her backside while attempting a graceful glide across the real ice rink. Well worth wrapping up for!

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purchase festive attire

watch one of our top 5 christmas movies

Nothing lifts the spirits on a cold winter Sunday more than settling down to a festive DVD. I’ve done a straw poll in and around Families HQ and we’ve come up with our favourite five.

Find them, watch them and have a very happy family Christmas.

The Snowman The Polar Express How the Grinch Stole Christmas The Nativity Elf

ban the christmas list

have a christmas clear out

There are certain inevitable facts about Christmas.

You will receive an item of clothing that neither suits nor fits you. You will not have the batteries needed for 50% of the items your children open on Christmas Day. And the amount of ‘stuff’ in your home will double Call me Scrooge, but I’m no fan of Christmas overnight. With that in mind, why not have a prewish lists. I think it fuels the idea that this Christmas clear out. Sell what you can on Ebay - it’s a time of year is all about getting stuff and great time to get rid of items and make some much that isn’t the spirit of Christmas I want in needed cash. Encourage your children to fill a box my house. No good will come of giving a with toys they no longer play with and take it to child a plain piece of paper and an Argos your local charity shop. As well as clearing catalogue. In fact a survey in the aftermath some space for the new arrivals, it’s a of Christmas 2012 found that the most way to introduce the concept of asked for wish on the lists of British children thinking of others to your little was a brother or sister. Next was a reindeer. elves.

I think those are requests that even Argos would struggle with. If you don’t ask them to write a list, Do you remember the days when a half they’ll be delighted with whatever Santa leaves eaten mince pie and an empty glass of sherry under the tree. Trust me. were proof enough that Santa had been? Life has

tracksanta

moved on and the Twitter generation needs more.

You can now receive personal communication from the overstretched OAP, see photographic evidence that ‘he’s been’’ and even keep an eye on old St Nick as he circumnavigates the globe. To ‘arrange’ a personal message from Father Christmas, go to www.portablenorthpole.com. To track Santa from 1st December go to www.noradsanta.org and Real magic doesn’t have to cost see a picture of him in your home at the earth but it will make your child’s www.icaughtsanta.com. Guaranteed to Christmas one to remember. Spend time add some real magic to the Christmas dressing the tree together or making countdown.

Christmas biscuits. Time is something we have in such short supply in our lives but it’s well worth finding it this Imagine NOT sending cards. For a And finally, remember that time of year. moment, park the anxiety you’ll feel Christmas is not about presents when that first envelope drops on your Create new traditions. Santa’s or perfectly cooked turkeys. doormat. Instead, think of the time you’ll elves started leaving a Christmas It’s about time and family. Your save penning 50 cards to people you only Eve hamper at our front door children will have forgotten what communicate with at Christmas. We’re last year. It’s filled with they were given by Easter, and not suggesting severing all ties with your inexpensive items like a your family will have erased the friends and family over the festive period, toothbrush, a festive DVD, memory of the burnt parsnips but but trying something different. Why not take some jolly pyjamas and no one will forget the fun they had. a fun packed picture of your family (perhaps a silly mug for a night in the festive attire mentioned above) and email time hot chocolate. It it out with good wishes to the people on your kicks the festivities Christmas card list. You’ll save money. You’ll off in a truly save time and you may save a little bit of your magical way. pre-Christmas sanity.

make it magical

forget the christmas cards

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Christmas BOOK REVIEW Reviewed by Jan Deykin The Winter Sleepwalker And Other Stories

By Joan Aiken, illustrated

by Quentin Blake Published

by Jonathan Cape RRP £12.99 Hardback ISBN 9780857550484

A fabulous collection of eight stories in the fairy tale tradition with modern twists and satisfying endings. We relished the nasty witch in ‘Blazing Shadows’ reaping her well-deserved fate and the treacherous village folk in ‘Furious Hill’ who would surely pay for their actions.

Add in for good measure some missing mothers, metamorphosis into a snake, plenty of royalty and sleepwalking bear and the result is a well rounded collection of intriguing stories perfect to curl up with during the long winter evenings. A great book to share for 9 – 11 year olds.

The Tomten

By Astrid Lindgren, illustrated by Harald Wiberg Published by Floris Books RRP £10.99 Hardback ISBN 9780863151538

While everyone sleeps through the deep winter snow, the mysterious Tomten silently checks on the animals in the farm, reassuring them in a ‘silent little language’ of the summers to come.

The people have only ever seen the small footprints he leaves in the snow. Adapted from a poem by Viktor Rydberg, Pippi Longstocking author Astrid Lindgren writes evocatively of long cold winters and the benevolent guardianship of the Tomten.

A lovely, feelgood picture book with traditionally styled illustrations that show the Tomten as a genial gnomelike figure. Delightful!

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No Christmas stocking is complete without a book or two. We take a look at a seasonal selection guaranteed to brighten up your bookshelf.

The Smelly Sprout

By Allan Plenderleith Published by Ravette Publishing RRP £5.99 Hardback ISBN 9781841613222

A poor little sprout is abandoned on Christmas day. First he isn’t wanted for the Christmas dinner and is thrown into the snow. Next a Christmas tree rejects him then even a noseless snowman doesn’t want him. Will he ever find a warm welcoming home? This little picture book is very funny and you can’t help feeling sorry for the little sprout they all call smelly. Perfect for popping into a stocking, whether you like sprouts or not; also look out for ‘The Christmas Carrot’ with the opposite problem!

Christmas Stories

By Michael Morpurgo Published by Egmont RRP £9.99 Softback ISBN 9781405268950

Four beautifully told Christmas stories from Morpurgo, vividly brought to life by award-winning illustrators.

Charlie loves the farm but doesn’t want Gertrude the Goose to be his Christmas lunch. Next we are plunged into the world of a desperately sad princess who needs a miracle.

Third is a poignant re-imagining of a Christmas in the first world war trenches and finally a retelling of Jesus’s birth from a young shepherd’s perspective complete with empathetic Angel Gabriel.

Perfect as a gift and sure to be brought out every year to read aloud.

Reviewed by Shaheen Merali Little Tomte’s Christmas Wish

By Inkeri Karvonen & Hannu Taina Published

by Floris Books RRP £10.99 Hardback ISBN 9781782500162

Little Tomte has a very special tree outside his house, and the tree is full of changing surprises over the seasons. In winter, snow gathers on the branches and it is at this

time that Little Tomte begins to wait for Christmas by singing songs and baking, but the carols don’t sound right on his own and he doesn’t have the things he needs for the pastries and porridge. Then Tomte has an idea... he begins making candles and hanging them on his special tree, and then watches as the real spirit of Christmas comes to life.

A beautiful story that leaves you feeling warm and fuzzy, perfect for the season!

A Star to Guide Me – Illustrated Prayers for Children Illustrated by Ruthild BuschSchumann Published by Floris Books RRP £6.99 Hardback ISBN 978-178250-004-9 A Star to Guide Me is a collection of prayers for children. It is comprised of traditional prayers (unless otherwise stated); these have been simplified and rephrased to make them accessible for children and are accompanied by beautiful illustrations by Ruthild BuschSchumann, a popular illustrator of children’s books. It makes an ideal first prayer book for young hearts and minds to be used throughout the day and at bedtime. If you are looking for a meaningful gift for that special child in your life then this is a great choice.

Silver Bells & Cockle Shells – Illustrated Classic Nursery Rhymes Illustrated by Henriette Willebeek Le Maire Published by Floris Books RRP £12.99 Hardback ISBN 978-178250-005-6

Ever started singing your children their favourite nursery rhyme but then ended up humming it because you don’t remember the words? This beautiful vintage book should help! The watercolour illustrations are graceful and elegant and each complements the rhyme perfectly.

With thirty full-version classic nursery rhymes including all-time favourites such as Jack and Jill as well as other not-so-common ones, this book is a perfect gift for a baby or young child.

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Zhara Armstrong runs Treasures Toy Shop in Wetherby. We asked her for a selection of gifts to suit all ages and budgets this Christmas.

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Treasures Christmas Offers Treasures has some fabulous offers planned for this Christmas. First is Treasures 12 Fantastic Offers with huge savings to be made on popular gifts such as Duplo’s Amazing Letters (down £10 to £14.99), the Sylvanian Log Cabin (half price at £22.50) and Wow’s BumpetyBump Bernie (also half price at £10).

In addition to this will be the 2 gifts for £15 offer. There’ll be loads to choose from -perfect for parents wanting to add some additional presents to go along side the ‘main’ Santa present. It’s also great for grandparents who might have a number of children they want to buy for.

It’s easy to mix and match too - you’ll not be restricted to two toys from the same range - so you can choose a Transformer Beast Hunter and a set of Sylvanian Triplets for £15, or a Hama Robots set and the Alex Paper Monsters.

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Doc McStuffins Doctors Bag - win This is from theof friends hit Disney TVLinkee series ‘Doc favourite in town,Set which will over even the trickiest and relatives!

McStuffins’. The Doctor’s Bag Set ishas be a best seller.

I expect willsubstance be onandmany prethe proved world’s firstto crowd-sourced family quiz game, bringing it style, school girls’ Santa lists. Priced at £19.99.

Age range: 3 this + Yuletide after famously turning down backing shouty-outy-goodness to any home

2. Friends Dolphin Cruiser - Fantastic new addition to this very successful Lego range, from Duncan Bannatyne in the BBC2 Dragon’s Den earlier this year.

it is a big set so will keep Friends Lego fans busy building over the Christmas holiday. Priced at Created by three friends who thought trivia games £59.99. Age range: 7 – 12 years needed a spruce up, Linkee (12+) is perfect for out-

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4. Bigjigs Mallard Train Set - Bigjigs and Brio trains sets are very popular at Treasures. ages and abilities playing together. It’s a super-simple shouty-outy quiz game with a twist. The twist being

The new Mallard Set from Bigjigs includes a viaduct and a ticket office, village folk youtwo don’t junctions, win by answering the questions but by and trees to complete the country setting. The Mallard working Train out Setwhat is the licensed and helpsForto support answers have in common. the National Railway Museum in York. Consists of 42 play pieces.

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Ringo, the Linkee would be, The Beatles. Simple huh?

New Tidlo Country Kitchen - This is the best I kitchen I have seen and will be part Just polish off the turkey and trimmings, open the box of our Christmas window here at Treasures. It’s designed with a taller work surface so there’s and Linkee is ready to play, with no complicated setno fear of your child growing out of this kitchen too soon. It also features an oven and hob up or instructions. What’s more, if you’re gifting a relative with a sharp eye for slick with clicking dials, storage cupboards, Belfast sink, clock and utensil shelves and three kitchen design, Linkee looks the part beneath any tree – a real Christmas cracker. utensils. There’s a plastic bowl in the sink, salt and pepper shakers and even washing up liquid.

Priced £125. Age range: 3yrs+ The true genius about Linkee is that it’s anti-genius: this isn’t about who’s the cleverest The Kitchen Accessory Set with pots andit’spans can connections be bought separately in the family, about making and thinking fast. So forgetpriced those bitter£23.99 but if you buy these together Treasures have a Christmas package deal: The Country Kitchen and the Kitchen Set bought together will be £133.99 - a saving of £15.

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V2 Hexbugs - Great fun and on offer in store. I’ve chosen both the Barrel Run and The Hurricane. £39.99 Age Range: 3yrs +

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Linkee - Super family game, recently featured on Dragon’s Den when the Linkee creators gave a strong performance. Linkee is a ‘shouty-out’ family trivia quiz game destined to be Christmas 2013‘s game sensation. Dean Tempest the joint founder of Linkee is a local too - from Wetherby.

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13 instruments and many ways to play. You can be the conductor of your own orchestra by selecting up to 6 instruments to put in the pit where you can hear them all play together. Swap and change the instruments as you wish and hear the musical transformation and with 15 songs to choose from and 13 instruments the combinations are endless. There are different lights to show different sections of the orchestra like the strings section, brass and percussion.

The included book has teachers notes, composers and lyrics too! We have this on the counter at Treasures for customers to play and everyone loves it! Priced at £69.99 it is a big present but it is worth the price tag. Age range: 3 years + Families Vale of York

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GIFT GUIDE Why not buy your presents from independent traders, small businesses and self-employed people this Christmas? You’ll be supporting people just like you and in the process bag yourself some original and beautiful gifts.

What a Cutii

Local business The Cutii Company creates beautiful jewellery and accessories for children and adults.

We particularly like these gorgeous Cutii-Wraps.

“The signature Cutii-Wraps are the core of the Cutii jewellery range,” says Cutii’s Jill Dawson. “They are created each season and co-ordinate with neckwear and earrings.

We also have a large range of Cutii Charms for both adults and children compatible with Pandora bracelets & bangles.”

Jill can make your bracelet to size and include charms of your choice to suit your budget - or match an outfit. This pink bangle comes in sizes ranging from 13cm - 20 cm so would be perfect for little wrists.

You’ll also find lots more gift ideas for your family and home online including this traditional bunting - lovely for a young child’s bedroom.

‘This Noel bunting is created from the new range of padded bunting flags,” says Jill.

“The letters are individually drawn and handcut before being sewn onto co-ordinating fabrics. I love fabrics and incorporate beautiful designs from Moda, Cath Kidston and Sanderson into the traditional Cutii bunting and the new padded range.”

For more details visit Facebook/thecutiicompany email: contact@cutii.co.uk

Books are also available to buy separately at £7.99 each and the small bear at £11.99.

Give your children a head start in French this Christmas

With the Tour de France coming to the region in 2014, why not help your child to learn French with Camembear, the cute and cuddly teddybear?

Headstart Languages has the perfect Christmas gift to get you and your child started with simple French numbers and colours. The ‘Camembear @ home’ pack includes Camembear himself and 2 child-friendly books each including an accompanying CD with songs and actions - for just £24.99.

The pack, which was seen on Look North earlier this month, complements ‘Learning French with Camembear’ an innovative programme for Early Years Foundation Stage and Key Stage One children. Developed by Yorkshire mum Leanne Jefferson, the programme is now being used in over 30 schools across Yorkshire.

To get your pack, ask your child’s school to register to place a group order (schools will benefit – ask for details) or order direct (small P&P fee).

For orders, to register your school for group ordering or information about getting “Learning French with Camembear” into your school contact: enquiries@headstartlanguages.co.uk 0845 5194881 www.headstartlanguages.co.uk

Personalise Your Present

4littleart’s brand new range of keepsake boxes will make an original gift this Christmas. Whether for a special Grandma, Mummy, Daddy or simply a loved one they are the perfect place to keep all those fabulous Christmas memories.

You’ll find a full range of personalised gifts including Christmas decorations, clocks, canvasses, prints and door plaques on their website - perfect if you’re looking for something just a little bit different for someone special. Prices start from only £5.99 including free P&P in the UK. The last Christmas order date is Wednesday 11th December.

Visit www.4littleart.co.uk or email info@4littleart.co.uk

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With brightly coloured pieces, a simple ball and socket system and a wide variety of shapes, children of all ages and stages can create anything with Bizzy Bitz.

Bizzy Bitz is the only toy in the world which, with only its basic shapes, can create accurate models of absolutely anything and everything. It also has an advantage over traditional construction toys in that children can build much more accurate models such as animals, or household objects - rather than being limited to building houses or transport which are block-shaped. What’s more if a piece goes missing you can always build hundreds of things from the remaining pieces.

Bizzy Bitz have seen children as young as 3 years old making cars, necklaces and little people, whilst kids as old as 13 have created detailed worker lorries, aeroplanes, clocks and exquisite candelabras.

Visit www.bizzybitz.com where you’ll find boxes to suit various age groups For a chance to win some Bizzy Bits - see our competition on P9

Rocket Muffin

We love these gorgeous girls’ dresses from new clothing c o m p a n y Rocket Muffin.

Rocket Muffin children’s clothes are made with 100% organic cottons using wonderful, retro inspired prints in an amazing colour pallet from their fabric partner Birch Fabrics.

Designs are developed with final year degree students at Birmingham City University, giving them access to inspiring new British design talent and a first step into the commercial world for the students.

The company launched with five Spring/ Summer dresses and they have have just taken delivery of their Autumn/Winter dresses. Rocket Muffin only make a limited number of each style so the range is continually refreshed. Prices start at £12 and sizes are from age 2-9 years old.

You’ll find them at www.rocketmuffin.com and also at Not On The High Street www.notonthehighstreet. com/rocketmuffin

Candy Bows

This Christmas local internet based company Candy Bows has stocked up on satin and velvet bows with lots of sparkle to match special Christmas outfits. Perfect as a stocking filler or for gifts between friends, Candy Bows hair clips are beautiful - and the they stay in place!

Candy Bows has a huge range of hair wear and other accessories including bow holders, headbands, tutus and tee shirts.

“We love these Christmas pettiskirts and matching tops,” says Candy Bows Charlotte Mackenzie, “and these delightful angel tutu and wings sets are perfect for any nativity plays in the run up to the big day.” www.candybows.co.uk

Dreaming of a Onesie Christmas?

Our friends at Say it Personally are on a mission to solve your Christmas shopping dilemmas.

They are offering an Early Bird deal of 10% off any of their hampers, gift sets or alternative bouquets if bought before 30th November – and will deliver them to your chosen address with a gift message in time for Christmas.

Look out for their girls’ and boys’ night in hampers. Girls get a chocolate scented candle, a fair trade chocolate lolly from York retailer Choc Affair, vanilla almonds from Harrogate-based Nutty About and a selection of fruit vodka. For the boys there’s Choc Affair chocolate, Wold Gold beer, Yorkshire crisps, Mini Nibs cheese straws and Indian spiced Bombastic Macadamias.

Alternatively Choc and Sock bouquets make a lovely present for friends, sisters, or even as a thank you for a teacher.

We also love the ‘Gifts From Yorkshire’ range which includes a Christmas Hamper, perfect for reminding Yorkshire ‘ex-pats’ what they’re missing!

Order online then just sit back… and relax! www.sayitpersonally.co.uk

The All-in-One Company is one of the only companies in the world which lets the customer be the designer of their very own, high quality all-in-one onesie – perfect for Christmas!

Using the online all-in-one builder you can design an extra special gift for the ones you love this festive season. Mix and match gorgeously soft fleece fabrics in a huge range of colours and designs. Add animal ears and tails before choosing from extras such as keep safe pockets, mittens and feet to keep hands and toes toasty. You can also personalise your onesie with an embroidered name or message of your choice.

Each all-in-one is then handmade by a team of onesie specialists in Northumberland, which is why The All-in-One Company encourages ordering early in the run up to Christmas as wait time could be up to 6 weeks.

If you’d rather wait to share the design experience with family, friends and little ones, they have beautifully packaged gift vouchers which make perfect presents.

Alternatively, if you just can’t wait, there’s a choice from a range of pre-made snuggly allin-ones at www.the-all-in-one-collection.co.uk which are dispatched within 3 working days www.the-all-in-one-company.co.uk

Twin Your Pet

The People’s Trust for Endangered Species is releasing its annual Christmas catalogue full of gift ideas for friends, family and even your own furry friends through their pet twinning scheme. The campaign allows you to twin your domestic cat or dog with one of their wild, and increasingly endangered ancestors in Africa. By twinning your pet you will help enable and sustain important research and training in the field, while receiving a certificate and special ID tag for your cat or dog to wear with pride!

Photo: Philip Petrou

www.ptes.org/shop

A Christmas gift with a difference Are you looking for the perfect Christmas present which offers good fun, is interesting and challenging, good value for money, and long lasting? Do you want something that is educational and fun for you and your children to enjoy together?

It’s a tall order but local children’s football coaching class Footballtots has the perfect Christmas present for 2013.

“Our weekly sessions are great fun and a fantastic way to help pre-school children get ready for school and learn football skills in the process,” says coach Brian Macnair, ‘making our classes the perfect Christmas gift to be enjoyed throughout the year. What’s more the benefits will last a lifetime.”

Footballtots is a new and exciting football play programme designed to develop every child in every way. The focus of classes is for children to have fun and learn fundamental skills in the process. Classes aim to develop children socially, educationally, physically and technically as the programme has been designed to incorporate focused skills with games to ensure children develop in a fun and physically active environment.

“Children love to run and at Footballtots every child gets the chance to enjoy moving with confidence and control,” adds Brian.

“However, we also manage to help children learn structure and follow instruction meaning the educational building blocks are developed over time. We start with the basics in all elements of our programme but very quickly Footballtots demonstrate knowledge and ability way beyond the early years expectations.”

In association with Families Magazine, Footballtots are launching their 2013 Footballtots Christmas hamper:

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• Spring 2014 term (12 sessions) • Complete Footballtots football kit • Footballtots bag • Footballtots sticker book – needed in every session • Footballtots football Total cost £99.00

We will send you the football kit, sticker book and football all ready for placing under the Christmas tree!!

For more details contact Jenny MacNair on 07595 297639 or e: info@football-tots.net.

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theatre 16 NOV DON’T LET THE PIGEON DRIVE THE BUS

JUNCTION www.junctiongoole.co.uk 01405 763652

19 NOV – 7 DEC SCROOGE

THE GRAND THEATRE & OPERA HOUSE, LEEDS 0870 121 4901 www.leedsgrandtheatre.com

20 - 23 NOV PETER PAN

YORK GRAND OPERA HOUSE 01904 671818

20 - 24 NOV DISNEY ON ICE DARE TO DREAM

Photo: www.yourstrulyphotography.co.uk

SHEFFIELD MOTORPOINT ARENA 0114 2 56 56 56 www.motorpointarenasheffield.co.uk

22 NOV - 12 JAN SLEEPING BEAUTY

30 NOV - 18 JAN

14 DEC - 26 JAN

THE JUNGLE BOOK

HARROGATE THEATRE 01423 502116 www.harrogatetheatre.co.uk

WEST YORKSHIRE PLAYHOUSE 0113 213 7700 www.wyp.org.uk

23 NOV

1 DEC

SCROOGE

LEEDS CITY VARIETIES 08456 441881 www.cityvarieties.co.uk

27 - 30 NOV THE FLINT STREET NATIVITY

JUNCTION www.junctiongoole.co.uk 01405 763652

28 - 30 NOV WHAT THE LADYBIRD HEARD

ST. GEORGE’S HALL 01274 432000 www.bradford-theatres.co.uk

30 NOV - 12 JAN JACK & THE BEANSTALK

LEEDS CITY VARIETIES 08456 441881 www.cityvarieties.co.uk

TREASURE ISLAND

HELMSLEY ARTS CENTRE 01439 771 700 www.helmsleyarts.co.uk

2 DEC – 5 JAN JACK & THE BEANSTALK

WAKEFIELD THEATRE ROYAL AND OPERA HOUSE 01924 211311 www.wakefieldtheatres.co.uk

3 DEC - 4 JAN LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD

HULL TRUCK THEATRE www.hulltruck.co.uk 01482 323638

3 - 7 DEC JOSEPH AND THE AMAZING TECHNICOLOUR DREAMCOAT

ALHAMBRA THEATRE BRADFORD 01274 432000 www.bradford-theatres.co.uk

ALADDIN

ALHAMBRA THEATRE BRADFORD 01274 432000 www.bradford-theatres.co.uk

16 DEC - 4 JAN CINDERELLA - NORTHERN BALLET

THE GRAND THEATRE & OPERA HOUSE, LEEDS 0870 121 4901 www.leedsgrandtheatre.com

19 - 20 DEC DICK WHITTINGTON

NATIONAL COAL MINING MUSEUM

by Pocket Panto www.pocket-panto.co.uk

20 - 21 DEC ALADDIN

JUNCTION www.junctiongoole.co.uk 01405 763652

20 - 30 DEC DICK WHITTINGTON

YORK BARBICAN www.yorkbarbican.co.uk

5 DEC - 5 JAN JACK & THE BEANSTALK

HULL NEW THEATRE www.hullcc.gov.uk 01482 300 300

6 DEC - 11 JAN RAYMOND BRIGGS’ FATHER CHRISTMAS

WEST YORKSHIRE PLAYHOUSE 0113 213 7700 www.wyp.org.uk

7 DEC – 5 JAN CINDERELLA

THE GEORGIAN THEATRE ROYAL, RICHMOND 01748 825252 www.georgiantheatreroyal.co.uk

Table tots baby & toddler nearly new sales 2 NOV Titus Salt School, Higher Coach Road, Baildon SHIPLEY, BD17 5RH

9 NOV Cottingham High School, Harland Way, HULL, HU16 5PX

7 - 14 DEC

16 NOV

JACK & THE BEANSTALK

JOSEPH ROWNTREE THEATRE www.jrtheatre.co.uk

Lock Lane Sports, Centre, Lock Lane, CASTLEFORD, WF10 2JU

9 – 29 DEC

23 NOV

RAPUNZEL

Barlby High School, York Road, Barlby, SELBY, YO8 5JP 2-4pm

10 - 14 DEC

24 NOV

LAWRENCE BATLEY THEATRE 01484 430528 www.lbt-uk.org

ALADDIN & HIS WONDERFUL LAMP

HELMSLEY ARTS CENTRE 01439 771 700 www.helmsleyarts.co.uk

13 DEC - 5 JAN SNOW WHITE & THE SEVEN DWARFS

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YORK GRAND OPERA HOUSE 01904 671818

Catterick Leisure Centre, Gough Road, C.Garrison, CATTERICK, DL9 3EL

30 NOV Kettlethorpe High School, Standbridge Lane, WAKEFIELD, WF2 7EL www.tabletots.co.uk tabletots@live.co.uk 07706 22 77 42

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We’ve ordered everything according to start date – be sure to look out for all the events which run for several weeks / weekends too. And be sure to check before you set off. These were correct as we went to print but may have changed.

Christmas Magic at Stockeld

Photo: www.yourstrulyphotography.co.uk

There’s magic in the air at Stockeld Park again this Christmas with the return of the Christmas at Hogwarts weekend on November 16th & 17th.

A must for all Harry Potter fans, the weekend of wizardry promises to leave you spellbound as you try your hand at broomstick training and meet Harry and Hagrid for an enchanting show in the forest.

Once you’ve been allocated your house by the Sorting Hat you’ll be able to see live owls, plant magic beans and enjoy tribute acts throughout the weekend.

The Christmas fun will also feature two special charity events for Martin House Hospice, including a Guinness Book of World Record attempt on Saturday 9th November, when the park hopes to set a new world record for the largest gathering of Santa’s elves. Stockeld’s Santa Dash will take place on Dec 1st. “Over the past few years, the Christmas Adventures has become one of the most anticipated family seasonal festivities in the region,� says Amy Thornton, General Manager at Stockeld Park, “and this year it’s set to be bigger and better than ever before.�

New for 2013 Stockeld Park has launched a two day Yorkshire Gift fair which will showcase local products, crafts and gifts, and provide visitors with perfect gift ideas just in time for Christmas. The event will be held on 22nd & 23rd November 12.30 – 18.00 and is free to enter.

The fantastic Make a Wish Entertainment team return to Stockeld Park to perform the pantomime Cinderella on Sunday 24th November. Set in the park’s marquee this pantomime promises to be a great family show and is guaranteed to get visitors in the festive spirit.

As always, throughout Christmas the four Adventure Zones will feature a variety of activities, including the only artificial Nordic ski trail in the UK, an outdoor skating rink, illuminated Yew tree maze, plus a giant witch’s hat and T-pot slide - both designed and built by the park’s in-house team of artists and technicians.

Add in a festive cake and hot chocolate in the cafe, a browse around the wonderful Christmas shop and a visit to Santa’s Grotto, Stockeld Park should definitely be on your wish list this Christmas. www.stockeldpark.co.uk

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WEEKENDS IN DEC SANTA SPECIALS

NORTH YORKSHIRE MOORS RAILWAY 01751 472508 www.nymr.co.uk

9 NOV WORLD RECORD ATTEMPT

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk This winter Stockeld Park is going on an ‘Elf drive’ as it attempts to break the Guinness World Record for the largest gathering of Santa’s Elves in aid of Martin House Hospice. The official count will take place at 11am.

9 & 10 NOV SANTA & REINDEER SLEIGH PARADE

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk FREE event - meet Santa and his reindeer. Santa’s new log cabin will be open from midday.

9 NOV - 24 DEC SANTA’S GROTTO

Weekends from 24 Nov - 24 Dec 10am - 4pm & weekdays 10-14 & 17 - 21 Dec 1-6pm SANTA’S WINTER WONDERLAND

THE FARM SHOP Willow House, Wigginton Road, York, 01904 766822 www.thefarmshopyork.co.uk

24, NOV, 1,7,8,10,14,15,21 & 22 DEC EMBSAY & BOLTON ABBEY STEAM RAILWAY

SANTA ON THE TRAIN www.embsayboltonabbeyrailway.org.uk

29 NOV-24 DEC (various Dates) STEAM RIDE WITH SANTA

NATIONAL RAILWAY MUSEUM 0844 815 3139 www.nrm.org.uk/christmas

SANTA’S GROTTO 11AM – 3.30PM

BREAKFAST WITH SANTA

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk Join Santa for a yummy breakfast & gift.

Visit our website to see our jam-packed programme of Christmas events www.leeds.gov.uk/museumsandgalleries

CASTLE HOWARD www.castlehoward.co.uk

16 NOV 11am-1pm & 2-4pm

23, 24, 30 NOV 1,7,8 DEC 9-11am

Magical Ch ris tmas Weekend at Lotherto n Hall

AN AUDIENCE WITH FATHER CHRISTMAS

30 NOV, 1, 7, 8, 14,15 DEC 11.30 -3.30

Treasures of Wetherby

s Chris tmase 500 Years of wsam at Temple Ne

23, 24,30 NOV 1,7,8,14,15,21,22 DEC

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk

Father Christmas

14 & 15 Dec

NOSTELL PRIORY & PARKLAND 01924 863892 www.nationaltrust.org.uk

30 NOV 1,7,8,14,15,21,22 DEC SANTA’S GROTTO

ABBEY HOUSE MUSEUM, LEEDS

NORTH OF ENGLAND’S LARGEST OUTDOOR ICE RINK FUNFAIR âœś CHRISTMAS SHOPPING âœś SANTA’S GROTTO NEW * * %#. " ( BAR & CAFÉ

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23 NOV 10AM -2PM

SANTA’S WINTER WONDERLAND

ST EDWARD’S PLAYGROUP CHRISTMAS FAIR

BRIMHAM ROCKS

days out Until 12 January 2014 Through the Magic Mirror: the World of Anthony Browne

LEEDS CITY MUSEUM Don’t miss this exciting free exhibition, specially designed for children. Step through the magic mirror and enter the amazing picture world book of Anthony Browne. www.leeds.gov.uk/magicmirror

6,13,20,27 NOV & 4 & 11 DEC BABY BEATS WORKSHOP

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk Parents and tots assemble and join Fairy Enchantica from Make a Wish Entertainment as she hosts 40-minute indoor music workshops.

SANTA’S GROTTO

BENINGBROUGH HALL& GARDENS www.nationaltrust.org.uk 01904 472027

FOUNTAINS ABBEY & STUDLEY ROYAL WATER GARDEN 01765 608888 www.fountainsabbey.org.uk

30 NOV, 1, 7, 8, 14,15, 21,22 DEC SANTA SPECIALS

KEIGHLEY & WORTH VALLEY RAILWAY 01535 645214 to check availability. www.kwvr.co.uk

30 NOV, 1, 7, 8, 14,15 & 21-23 DEC SANTA’S GROTTO

EUREKA! THE MUSEUM FOR CHILDREN 01422 330069 www.eureka.org.uk

30 NOV, 1,7,8,14,15,21, 22,23 DEC 9.15AM & 12PM BREAKFAST & LUNCH WITH SANTA

CANNON HALL, BARNSLEY 01226 790427 www.cannonhallfarm.co.uk

30 NOV - 23 DEC SANTA UNDERGROUND

NATIONAL COAL MINING MUSEUM www.ncm.org.uk 01924 848 806

30 NOV, 1, 5 - 8, 12 - 24 JAN ICE FACTOR SANTA’S GROTTO YORK DESIGNER OUTLET www.theicefactor.co.uk

1,7,8,14,15,21,22,23 DEC SANTA CRUISES

YORKBOAT 01904 628324 www.yorkboat.co.uk

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7,8,14,15,21,22 DEC NARNIA CHRISTMAS GROTTO

ROCKPLEX CENTRE, PRIORY STREET www.rockchurch.org.uk

7, 8, 14,15 & 21,22 & 23 DEC 10 AM – 3 PM SANTA SPECIALS

DUNCOMBE PARK 01274 835 588 wwwyorkshirefairs.co.uk www.duncombepark.com

11 NOV WAR HORSE FILM MATINEE

LUNCH WITH SANTA

14 & 15 DEC 500 YEARS OF CHRISTMAS TEMPLE NEWSAM www.leeds.gov.uk/ templenewsamhouse

17 DEC TEMPLE NEWSAM HOUSE

CRAFTY CHRISTMAS CARDS www.leeds.gov.uk/ templenewsamhouse

1920’s CHRISTMAS EXPERIENCE

NUNNINGTON HALL 01439 748283

23 NOV - 22 DEC CHRISTMAS AT CASTLE HOWARD

01653 648333 www.castlehoward.co.uk

THE LITTLE GYM, HARROGATE www.thelittlegym.co.uk

23 NOV – 5 JAN ICE FACTOR

YORK DESIGNER OUTLET The ice rink will be turned into a winter wonderland village with decorative cabins, a traditional funfair, rides, games, stalls and a 30ft giant Christmas tree.

Food and drink available as well as Santa in his grotto. www.theicefactor.co.uk

15 - 17 NOV

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk Pantomime with Make a Wish Entertainment. 3 X 60 minute performances at 1pm, 3pm & 5pm.

LIVING NORTH ESSENCE OF CHRISTMAS FAIR

YORK RACECOURSE www.livingnorthfair.com

16 & 17 NOV CHRISTMAS AT HOGWARTS

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk See our feature on p 21

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk Join Santa and the elves from Make A Wish Entertainment for a spectacular party.

23, 24,30 NOV 1,7,8,14,15 DEC

24 NOV

7,8,14,15,20-24 DEC 11am 3pm

10 DEC 11.30AM

ST NICHOLAS TOUR

YORK WALKS 01904 622303 www.yorkwalk.co.uk

BENINGBROUGH HALL& GARDENS 01904 472027 www.nationaltrust.org.uk

22 & 23 NOV

THORP PERROW 01677 425323 www.thorpperrow.com

23 NOV & 7 DEC

The Little Gym Holiday Camps

MURTON PARK 01904 489966

SANTA’S MAGICAL GROTTO

CASTLE HOWARD 01653 648333 www.castlehoward.co.uk

NSPCC CHRISTMAS SHOPPING FAIR

CHRISTMAS CRAFT & GiFT FESTIVAL

STORYTIME WITH SANTA

CHRISTMAS CRAFT & PRODUCE MARKET

8 NOV

10-11 NOV 10am - 4.30pm

7, 8, 14,15, 21,22 DEC

23 - 25 NOV

3, 24, 30, 31 DEC & 2, 3 JAN 9.30 - 12.30 & 1.30 - 4.30

CASTLE HOWARD 01653 648333 www.castlehoward.co.uk

30 NOV, 1, 7, 8, 14,15, 21,22 DEC 1-3PM

ST EDWARD’S CHURCH HALL, YORK Entry £1 including a raffle ticket.

YORKSHIRE GIFT FAIR

23 NOV ADVENT FAIR

YORK STEINER SCHOOL www.yorksteinerschool.org

SNOW WHITE

24 & 25 NOV DICK WHITTINGTON PANTOMIME

THE CHRISTMAS ADVENTURE at STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk

28 NOV - 1 DEC ST NICHOLAS FAYRE

YORK CENTRE One of the country’s most popular Christmas markets.

28 NOV - 1 DEC 10AM - 5PM DICKENSIAN FESTIVAL

LIGHTWATER VALLEY 0870 458 0040 www.lightwatervalley.co.uk

Aladdin & the Twankeys Thu 12 Dec - Sat 01 Feb York Theatre Royal Panto is all set to return this year with the irrepressible ‘Dame Berwick Kaler’ taking the lead in this year’s offering ‘Aladdin and the Twankeys’ As the country’s longest serving dame, Kaler will be celebrating his 35th year at York Theatre Royal by playing a Widow Twankey like no other, in his opinion one of the best panto Dame characters there is to play.

Martin Barrass will return taking on the dual role of Wisehopper (the oldest man in China) and Mankee Poo (Aladdin’s identical twin) whilst Suzy Copper, Sian Howard and A J Powell promise to make this year’s perfomance a riot of fun.

If you’ve not seen the York Theatre Royal Panto yet, you’re in for a treat. But you’ll need to get your skates on - tickets sell out fast! www.yorktheatreroyal.co.uk

29 NOV, 6,13,20 DEC

8 DEC

CHRISTMAS MUSIC

CAROLS BY CANDLELIGHT

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk Enjoy the sounds of Christmas with live music.

30 NOV 12 - 6PM THE MAGIC HATTER

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk Meet ‘The Magic Hatter’ who will performing festive magic. Two shows at 1.30 & 3.30pm. Free.

30 NOV, 1,7,8,14,15,21, 22,28,29 DEC 3.30pm - 5pm MUSIC AND LIGHTS

FOUNTAINS ABBEY & STUDLEY ROYAL WATER GARDEN 01765 608888 www.fountainsabbey.org.uk

1 DEC SANTAS ON THE RUN

STOCKELD PARK 01937 586101 www.stockeldpark.co.uk Santa dash in aid of Martin House Hospice.

1 DEC 10:30 – 5PM YORK DOES VINTAGE

THE MERCHANT ADVENTURERS’ HALL, YORK£1 entry www.britaindoesvintage. co.uk/york-vintage-fair

1,8,15,22,29 DEC 1-3pm WINTER ARTRAGEOUS BENINGBROUGH HALL& GARDENS 01904 472027 www.nationaltrust.org.uk

4,9,10 DEC 7.30 PM CAROLS IN KIRKGATE

MERCHANT ADVENTURER’S HALL, YORK 01904 654818 www.yorkcastlemuseum.org.uk

4 - 22 DEC YORK FESTIVE FAYRE

FOUNTAINS ABBEY 01765 608888 www.fountainsabbey.org.uk

8 Dec 1pm-5pm Christmas Fayre

NORTH DUFFIELD VILLAGE HALL Rides, Stalls, Food, Raffle, lots of childrens activities and of course - Santa!

9 DEC 10 - 11.30AM BABY’S FIRST CHRISTMAS

THE LITTLE GYM, HARROGATE The morning includes structured activities for the little ones in the gym, festive nibbles, raffles and prizes.

Children’s photographer Helen Lishman will also be there to capture the fun, giving parents the chance to purchase an extra-special present after the event. Tickets for the event are £5, and can be purchased by contacting The Little Gym on 01423 701560. www.thelittlegym.co.uk

12 DEC ONCE UPON A CHRISTMAS DAY

FOUNTAINS ABBEY Christmas theatre.

01765 608888 www.fountainsabbey.org.uk

14 DEC THE MUPPETS FAMILY MATINEE

BENINGBROUGH HALL & GARDENS 01904 472027 www.nationaltrust.org.uk

14 & 15 DEC The Magic Hatter’s Christmas Cracker

THE HIVE STUDIOS, MANOR ACADEMY, York www.magichatter.co.uk

14- 15 DEC FESTIVAL OF ANGELS

YORK – THE QUARTER

PARLIAMENT STREET, YORK

15 DEC 1.30 – 3.30

5 DEC

RILEY SMITH HALL TADCASTER www.jinglebellbop.co.uk

ELF

YORKSHIRE MUSEUM CINEMA A special screening of the movie with buffet. Tickets priced at £15 will raise money to pay for the care of buildings & collections. www.yorkvenues.org.uk

5-6 DEC 7PM YORK MINSTER’S CHRISTMAS CAROL CONCERT YORK MINSTER 6,7 & 8 DEC CHRISTMAS FAIR

RIPLEY CASTLE 01423 770152 www.ripleycastle.co.uk

7 & 8 DEC CHRISTMAS MARKET

KNARESBOROUGH

Jinglebellbop

15 Dec CHRISTMAS CAROLS

RIEVAULX ABBEY 01439 798228 www.english-heritage.org.uk

15 DEC 11AM - 4.30PM From Yorkshire With Love

The Merchant Adventurers’ Hall, YORK With over 30 Yorkshire based independent businesses selling contemporary crafts, artisan foods, vintage homeware and affordable art the hall will be bursting at the seams with locally produced unique, quality, handmade products!

beta mum

I can - just about - remember life in the BC years No, not actually Before Christ, although the valleys of frown lines in my forehead might suggest otherwise. But I vaguely remember a time, long, long ago, when I wasn’t a laughing stock. When my armpits were always silkily hairfree, when my twinkly toenails were neatly painted in perky shades and when I trotted off to my office, every bit the consummate career girl. It was a time, my friends, Before Children.

A friend of mine is an accomplished female firefighter – a rare and impressive breed. But her son almost scuppered her career before it even started. My friend – we’ll call her H – had married a firefighter, and after much thought, decided to join him in the service. Even today, there are few women in the job and back then they were as rare as hen’s teeth. But H had passed the rigorous selection process and been offered a place – in fact, she was to start the very next week.

Her son - barely two years old - somehow managed to lock her, from the outside, in the toilet.

‘Darling, open the door.’

‘Can’t, Mummy. No key.’

‘Darling, where’s the key?’

(Proudly), ‘In mine pants.’

OK, can you get the key out of your pants and open the door.’

Pause for much rummaging.

‘Mummy? Can’t find key.’

H’s mother was at work 20 miles away and her husband was at work – obviously at the fire station.

‘Darling, can you run and get the phone? And remember to come straight back with it!’

She heard the trotting off of little feet and then, thankfully, their return.

‘Phone, Mummy!’

‘Good boy. Can you remember the number you dial to call if there’s an emergency? Yes, clever boy, that’s it! Find the 9 and press the 9. Yes, now do that again, and again.

Ask the nice lady for the fire brigade and then tell them your daddy is a fireman and is at the fire station.’

Brilliant, thought H. Such an easy number and her son could simply relay a message for Daddy to nip home and let Mummy out of the toilet.

‘Yes, mine Mummy is stuck in the toilet. Yes… MUMMY! Are you OK? Yes, mine Mummy is talking and is OK.’ ‘Darling – tell her Mummy is FINE and that Daddy is a firefighter and is at work on Blue Watch.’

‘Mine Daddy is a firefighter.

The keys are in mine pants… Don’t worry Mummy. The lady says don’t worry.’

Suddenly, emerging from the distance, H heard a horrifying and familiar sound – the WOO WOO WOO WOO of the fire engine siren. Peering out of the window, she watched the wagon screech to a halt outside and her husband jump hurriedly from the driver’s seat. He and his colleagues stared up at the toilet window, from which she was looking, smiling apologetically. They sniggered and waved – all except her husband, who shot her a murderous look, thundered up the stairs and TRIED THE TOILET DOOR. ‘It’s locked,’ she explained helpfully.

‘Where’s the key?’

‘In his pants.’

Thankfully, the key was swiftly recovered (it had got tangled in the elastic of his little joggers) and H was duly rescued, amid much good-humoured banter from everyone except her embarrassed husband.

The following week H is at the training centre, eager and earnest and keen to make a good impression on her first day of training for her squeaky new career. She’s focussing hard and, in a room full of men, is really concentrating on being cool and professional.

‘Now,’ says the training officer, ‘Onto the shouts themselves. Unfortunately we do get some strange calls from members of the public. I’m now going to play just one of those calls, so you can get an idea of what we’re up against.’

He hits a button and echoing round the training room, H hears the piping tones of her small son, declaring: ‘Mummy’s stuck in the toilet. The key is in mine pants.’ Mortified, she feels herself turning more deeply scarlet than the fire engine that had arrived outside her house. Should she keep the professional demeanour or admit that this was actually her son?

She swivels an eye to the side, to gauge reaction, without drawing attention to herself. Only to see everyone in the room turning purple with suppressed laughter, which then explodes into huge guffaws of hilarity.

‘Oh, you bunch of so and so’s!’ she yelled (or words to that effect). She was definitely now one of the lads.

Jacey Lamerton is a York-based designer/maker and runs Get Your Frocks Off!, which specialises in creating must-haves from cast-offs. Her affordable, wearable clothing and accessories are upcycled from unwanted fabrics. Get info, discounts, nonsense by following Get Your Frocks Off! on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest. More wit and ramblings appear on the blog - getyourfrocksoff.wordpress.com.

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