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CONTENTS 08 ACADIANA LIFE St. Thomas More Girls Soccer Team Wins State Championship Discover Lafayette Local Business on the Grow New Director of Lafayette International Center Appointed Then & Now—Emily Foreman Babineaux Patience and Your Career 34 LIFE | LEISURE Argentina | Land of Natural Beauty Moncus Park Construction Begins 38 FAMILY MATTERS Communicating With Teenagers Tooth Fairy Tightening Up Students and STEM Subjects 44 HOME Five Decorating Tips 46 LOCAL EVENTS & ENTERTAINMENT

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WINS STATE CHAMPIONSHIP

By Caitlin Marshall fter ten years of clawing their way back to the top, St. Thomas More High School’s Lady Cougar soccer team has finally re-claimed the title of State Champions

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STM athletics over the past decade has claimed several state titles and even more state playoff appearances. But, for the Lady Cougar soccer team, it’s been a 10 year dry streak since their last state title despite being district champs five times since and state runner-up in 2014 and 2017. Finally, after a long fought season, going 18-6-3

and undefeated in district play, the Lady Cougars clinched their 5th state championship.

“It’s so exciting for these girls, all of their hard work paid off,” shared Assistant Coach Nicole Dincau. Dincau is an STM alumni and former varsity soccer player. “We got so close to winning when I was here, so it made the win all the better.”

Coach Daniel Underwood has been with the team for the past three seasons and is elated with the girls’ win.

“We’ve been getting closer and closer over the past four years,” she stated, “four years ago we lost in the finals against Ben Franklin, then we lost out in the semi’s the next two years. And last year we lost in the finals against Lakeshore.

So this win is so special for these seniors who have fought for it year after year.”

in the LHSSA Division II State Final on February 22 against the Central Lafourche Lady Trojans in a 1-0 win.

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Something else that makes this win all the more sweet was the fact that the game winning goal came from a header. The team, according to Underwood, has always been a bit hesitant when using their heads to score in the game, but when they do, they make it count.

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“This is it, this is real,” said Emily LeJeune. Her teammates echoed her response saying after defeating Ben Franklin, they had “no doubt in their minds” they were going to win it all.

“Two of our biggest goals of the season were off of headers. We had one against Ben Franklin in the quarterfinals and, obviously, the one in the final,” said Underwood.

The senior class mutually agreed the quarter final game against Ben Franklin was a pivotal moment for their season.

Fueled by last year’s overtime loss against Lakeshore, the Cougars started off their final game strong, striking and scoring in the 15th minute of the game. Mattie Marks, a senior, is to credit for the only goal of the game.

After a beautifully placed cross shot from Peyton St. Pierre, Marks acted on reflex and headed the ball into the net, out of reach from the goalie.

In fact, thanks to her game winning header and her continued hard work throughout the final, Marks was awarded Most Outstanding Player of the game.

Caroline Morton, a senior right-back, said “Mattie scored and it really eased our nerves as a team. After that we were like ‘Okay, we got this.’” Morton, after high school, has signed to play for Nichols State and said she is so excited to get out there.

The first half of the game saw a lot of defensive work played by the Lady Cougars only allowing three shots on goal compared to their seven.

Defense was key for this Lady Cougars soccer team this season and Underwood said he always tells the girls “defense wins championships” and obviously, he was right.

“We really leaned on our defense this season.

They time-and-time again stepped up when we needed them and didn’t disappoint. We have some really strong players in the back,” praised Underwood.

Despite starting the game off with an early goal, the Lady Cougars were unable to connect

with the net again, but thanks to a stellar performance by starting sophomore goalkeeper, Paityn Gautreaux, the Lady Trojans were kept off the boards, unable to answer the Cougars’ one goal.

Paityn worked hard the second half of the game as the opposing offense had seven shots on goal, matching the Cougar’s first half performance. Within the last five minutes of the game, she killed a close, on-target free kick.

“The free kick came at her like a laser. Normally, most keepers give up a rebound opportunity on free kicks but she stuffed it and held on,” shared Underwood. Despite being such a young player and having lacked varsity experience prior to this season, the young keeper really stepped up and showed up for her team. During her three play-off games in goal, she held her opponents to zero goals the whole state tournament. If she continues to grow and play the way she’s playing, then this young player is definitely one to keep an eye on in the future.

THIS SEASON WAS SPECIAL AND BITTERSWEET FOR MANY Colleen Vidos has started for STM the past three seasons. Unfortunately, towards the end of her senior season, she tore her ACL and was unable to play the tail end of the season.

Lindsey Reaux has been team-captain for the past two years and has proven herself to be a vocal leader and like Vidos, also suffered an injury this season.

“I had to miss three of the biggest games of the season, it was so hard not being out there,” she shared. She then admitted it was bittersweet seeing her best friend unable to play after having worked so hard with her over the years and seeing her have to miss out.

Colleen Vidos proudly displays the State Trophy “We kind of dedicated this win and this season to Colleen,” she admitted.

Reaux said “We wanted to she and her teammates were do this for her.” inspired by a Bible verse this season; Ezra 10:4, “Rise up, take courage and do it.” And that’s exactly what Colleen was able to do in the final minutes of her last soccer game.

In the last few minutes of the game, Underwood decided to put Colleen in the game to finish out her soccer career the right way; by leaving everything she had on the field.

“It was something special to see,” admitted Underwood. “You ask these kids to give you so much, and watching her go out there and leaving it all on the field? That’s what it’s all about.”

Colleen, after weeks on the bench, was given one last chance and she didn’t hold back. She stepped up and cleared a ball from the corner before driving it down field, narrowly missing a goal. faceacadiana.com | FACE 9

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The St.Thomas More Varsity Girls Soccer ended the 20172018 season with an overall record of 18-6-3, was 4-0 in District play, ranked 10 in the State (LA) and 48th Nationally.

“Three women from the 2008 state championship team came visit us today,” said Assistant coach Katie Breaux. “This is the type of thing that brings the community together.”

With a community as close as Lafayette, it’s no wonder these past players came back to celebrate their team’s win.

Three seniors on the team, as mentioned above, have signed to continue playing soccer during their collegiate careers once graduating from STM.

2017-2018 ROSTER Avery Wright

Natalie Roy

Paityn Gautreaux

Emily LeJuene

Mattie Marks

Ainsely Morgan

Anna Guillory

Amelie Etcheverria

Lindsey Reaux

Claire Werther

Riley Leblanc

Kate David

Avery Quoyeser

Addison Wright

Maddie Moreau

Caroline Morton

Julia Spielmann

Lexi Cheramie

Peyton St. Pierre

Erin Bednarz

Taylor Tucker

Ann Marie Alack

Colleen Vidos

Meredith Arnold

Emily Champion

Harper Skrasek

Mattie Marks signed with Mississippi College in Clinton, Mississippi. During her time as a Lady Cougar, Mattie was honored as District Offensive MVP, was 1st team all-state and academic-all-state.

“What a way to end my senior year,” said Colleen, thankful for her coach’s decision to put her in. Unfortunately, given her most recent injury, she won’t be going on to play college ball, but looks forward to healing and getting better.

STAFF Daniel Underwood Head Coach

The team’s motto was Ezra 10:4 “Rise

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This state title was the first in ten years for the girls program and the news has brought past winning alumni back to their old stomping grounds.

Lindsey Reaux signed with Southeastern out of Hammond.

Lindsey, who was a two year team captain, also has a few titles under her belt; All-district defensive MVP, 1st team all-state and was an all-star selection.

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Another senior is Caroline Morton, who Underwood has labeled as “a strong player and leader,” has been 1st team all-district and has signed with Nicholls State out of Thibodaux where she plans to continue her soccer career.

Seniors were not the only shining stars of the season, in fact, two juniors have already committed to their schools of choice. Julia Spielmann and Maddie Moreau have committed to St. Edwards and Louisiana State University, respectively. Maddie has been district MVP and joined a few of

Senior Emily LeJeune and junior Claire Werther also stood out during the season and were, each on their own, honored as Advertiser Player of the week.

The Lady Cougars are sad to see their seniors go, but look forward for the seasons to come and wish their teammates good luck.

Underwood and his assistant coaches, Dincau and Katie Breaux, former Lafayette High School girls coach of 12 years, all plan on returning to the pitch next season. her teammates as 1st team all-state as well.

“She’s the real deal,” added Underwood referencing Moreau.

Way to go Lady Cougars!

Keep making Lafayette proud and good luck with all of your future endeavors!

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JADY REGARD SHARES HIS ENTREPRENEURIAL QUESTS JADY REGARD EMBODIES THE SPIRIT OF LOUISIANA. Well-known throughout Acadiana for his chief day job as C.N.O., or Chief Nut Officer, of Cane River Pecan Company, Jady brings a sense of joie de vivre to everything he does. But don’t let his fun-loving persona mislead you; while Jady Regard’s humor can be disarming, his proven track record of success

Jady moved back to Louisiana to assume management duties of Cane River Pecan Company in 2002. The company’s roots go back to 1969 when his father and uncle acquired a pecan orchard along the Cane River in Natchitoches Parish. Today, Cane River is focused on B2B, and Jady’s creative marketing tactics have led to success in the niche market of corporate gifting. Plans are in the works to open a “pie bar” which will offer up fantastic desserts made with pecans (no other nuts allowed!).

Many of you know Jady as the author of a line of successful children’s books, which started with Born to Be a Tiger, and led to five other books commemorating family love of great football traditions. Jady shared writing books has been one of the most rewarding things he’s done in life.

Other interests in Jady’s life have led to him to follow his creative bent. As a child, his father would take him to Le Petit Soldier Shop in New Orleans, which was the second oldest toy store of its kind in the U. S. As an adult, he retained his fascination with toy soldiers; while working for the Bears, he was visiting an upscale toy store and wondered, “Does anyone makes toy replicas for college marching bands?” One thing led to another and if you’re a fan of miniature collectibles, you may want to check out Jady’s Little Band Man Company. Hand sculpted in Northern England, Jady commissions tiny marching band members representing teams such as Texas A & M, LSU, Texas, USC, Michigan, Harvard, West Point, and more.

On family-owned property in Lena, Louisiana, Jady also serves as a lead guide on wild alligator hunts. Attracting visitors from around the U. S., people flock to his Bourbe Lake Hunting Club to experience a thrill-seeking

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hunt. Alligator hides can then be processed into beautiful gifts right here in Lafayette at the Hermes-owned RTL Tannery.

In a recent podcast episode of Discover Lafayette, Jady and I discussed life, work, family and his love of Lafayette. As we chronicled his various job adventures, he labeled himself “the perfect boomerang baby” referring to his many treks in and out of Louisiana before he settled down in Lafayette.

Living close to downtown, Jady and his family enjoy the 6-minute bike ride to downtown and relish their time spent soaking up the cultural diversity offered by the AcA, festivals and other downtown attractions.

Louisiana has great storytellers, and I can’t think of a better one than Jady Regard! As I listened to our interview again to prepare this article, I couldn’t help but feel immense pride in living right here, in what Jady described as “the most perfect sized town.” I hope you agree as you listen to his fascinating interview at discoverlafayette.net.

To get a better snapshot of the creative energy Jady exudes, we started with his college days working for the LSU Basketball team when Shaquille O’Neal was a star. His love of sports led him to work for the Louisiana Ice Gators and eventually the Chicago Bears.

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Jan Swift hosts Discover Lafayette, a podcast focused on highlighting the people and rich culture of Lafayette, the Gateway to South Louisiana. She is an attorney experienced in government and commercial law and is associated with Swift & Rhoades, LLP. Prior to launching Discover Lafayette, Jan served as Executive Director of Upper Lafayette Economic Development Foundation. For more information visit discoverlafayette.net

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UL LAFAYETTE STUDENTS SHINE AT 2018 SEJC CONVENTION

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ORE THAN 200 STUDENTS REPRESENTING 28 COLLEGES AND UNIVERSITIES IN THE

SOUTHEAST recently participated in the 32nd Annual Southeast Journalism Conference (SEJC) convention hosted by Harding University in Searcy, Arkansas.

The students won 12 awards, seven of which were in the Best in The South category and five from on-site competitions.

Representing UL Lafayette was a group of students on the staff of The Vermilion, UL’s weekly student newspaper.

Kailey Broussard, Leah Cavalier and George Clarke show off their awards after the 2018 SEJC Award Banquet.

Kailey Broussard, a senior journalism major and managing editor for The Vermilion placed second in the College Journalist of the Year category and received a $500 cash prize.

She also placed first as a feature writer in the Best of the South category and second in the on-site competition for news writing.

The Vermilion staff won third place overall for their public service journalism in the Best of The South.

Broussard spent weeks covering and investigating hazing-related deaths and problems that were occurring on Louisiana campuses.

George Clarke, a junior English major won first place overall for his arts and entertainment writing.

Leah Cavalier, senior journalism major and editor in chief of The Vermilion, placed third in copyediting during her onsite competition. Junior journalism major Julissa Lopez placed second in the feature writing on-site; Brianne Hendricks, a junior journalism major, placed third in current events; and LaShayla Lumpkins, junior architecture major, placed third in news feature photography. Camille Barnett, a 2017 graduate in sociology, placed fourth in magazine writing; Jared Wise, a 2017 graduate in broadcasting, tied fourth in best TV news feature reporter; and Katelynn Sprague, a junior broadcasting major, placed fifth in best TV hard news reporter.

The SEJC is composed of college journalism programs in Alabama, Arkansas, Florida, Georgia, Louisiana, Mississippi and Tennessee.

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BUSINESS ON THE GROW CHRIS’ POBOYS BREAKING GROUND ON NEW BUILDING

By Samantha Ronkartz Chris’ Poboys, a Lafayette favorite for more than 35 years, has broken ground on a new building that will replace their existing Ambassador Caffery-Robley Drive location inside the Complete Stop.

Owner, Jamie Stelly explains, “…we had the opportunity to build a larger, more modern facility that would provide more seating and better accommodations for our customers, so we did it.”

The new building is located right across the street from the current location on Robley Drive and at approx. 2800 sq. ft., will more than double the size of the existing location. In addition to more seating, customers can enjoy a call-ahead pick-up window and a small outdoor seating area.

THE NEW RESTAURANT IS SCHEDULED TO OPEN IN THE FALL OF 2018.

SUSHI MASA COMING

By Erin Trahan

NEW CHURCH’S CHICKEN RESTAURANT COMING TO LAFAYETTE

By Erin Trahan Construction is now underway on a new Church’s Chicken™ fast-food restaurant at the corner of Ambassador Caffery Pkwy and West Congress, next to the Jambalaya Shoppe and Albertsons Food Store.

According to a spokesman for the general contract (C. M. Miciotto & Sons, Inc.), the new location is a stand-alone facility and has the same ownership as the Church’s Chicken on Evangeline Thruway. Construction is expected to be completed in approximately four months.

Headquartered in Atlanta, Georgia, Church’s Chicken is an American chain of fast food restaurants specializing southern-style fried chicken, seafood, and delicious biscuits.

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A new “All You Can Eat” sushi restaurant is coming to Lafayette.

Sushi Masa, with other locations in Baton Rouge and Pensacola, will soon occupy the former Copeland’s building at 3920 Ambassador Caffery Pkwy. The facility is currently undergoing renovations in preparation for the grand opening which is expected to happen later this year in possibly May or June.

Sushi Masa is known for providing an outstanding dining experience through its delicious Japanese-fusion cuisine and commitment to excellent service. With food always fresh and made-to-order, Sushi Masa offers a unique dining option known as the “All You Can Eat,” as well as the traditional www.facebook.com/SushiMasaBRLA a la carte option.

According to the company website, Sushi Masa hopes to become a cornerstone in the Lafayette community, as they have at their other locations.

SHI SHI BOUTIQUE HAS A NEW LOCATION!

By Samantha Ronkartz Contemporary meets classic chic at Shi Shi Boutique with clothing to fit almost any need.

After a change in ownership, this boutique, once located in a stand-alone building in River Ranch, is now located inside the Acadiana Mall between Pandora Jewelers and Express.

JEWELIE’S BOUTIQUE IN LAFAYETTE

HAS NEW OWNERSHIP Jewelie’s Boutique in Lafayette has a new owner—Stacey Hebert.

According to a recent post by the company, Stacey was born and raised in Broussard, Louisiana where she comes from a family of small LOCAL business owners. Shopping local and supporting local businesses in Acadiana has always been close to her heart.

The move, according to owner Shara Green, was something that needed to happen. “The SHARA GREEN, OWNER old location was visible, but unless it was your intended destination, it often was overlooked by shoppers. Now, it is in the center of the mall and easily accessible for customers,” said Green.

Shi Shi Boutique was purchased by Shara Green in March of 2017. Shara is an Acadiana native, registered dietitian and has always had a passion for fashion.

To learn more, visit their new Acadiana Mall location or www.shishilafayette.com

Stacey has always loved shopping at Jewelie’s Boutique so it was an easy decision for her to say YES to being the new owner. She realized right away that she was in luck with no need for change! The same great employees that served her when she was a customer would be staying on board to continue to serve customers of Jewelie’s Boutique!

Kalaco Solutions LLC, a web services and Internet marketing firm, has transitioned from a home-based business to a new office space in Lafayette. Their new location is at 334 E. Farrel Road, Suite E in Farrel Square near Women’s & Children’s Hospital.

Stacey Hebert will continue to carry the same brands and offer the same great discounts that you have loved over the years. The location of Jewelie’s Boutique will also remain the same, 407 Rena Drive in Lafayette.

“Moving to an office allows us to better serve our clients,” said Karen Lagrange Cox, owner of Kalaco Solutions. “We are focused on serving businesses in Lafayette and the surrounding area, so the new location gives our clients more convenient access to Kalaco Solutions and all the services we provide.”

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ACADIANA LIFE Melanson attended Teurlings Catholic High School in Lafayette and then graduated from Georgetown University in Washington, D.C. with a Bachelor of Science in Foreign Service (BSFS). He has an extensive international business background.

ROBIDEAUX APPOINTS DIRECTOR OF LAFAYETTE INTERNATIONAL CENTER

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ayor-President Joel Robideaux has appointed Robert Melanson as the new director of the Lafayette International Center.

Melanson replaces Philippe Gustin, who retired last month. As Director of International Trade and Development, Melanson will enhance Lafayette’s international standing by hosting visiting foreign delegations, leading trade missions abroad, overseeing the facilitation of interpretation and translation services for organizations within the community and the promotion of export-driven economic growth for Lafayette and the surrounding area.

in the office since the beginning of February, working alongside Gustin and the rest of the staff to prepare for the transition.

Robideaux said of Melanson, “I am excited to have Robert take the helm of the International Center. Philippe leaves a legacy of noteworthy accomplishments that have made Lafayette more attractive to international trade and tourism. I am confident that under

Robert’s leadership, Lafayette will continue that legacy and will expand our efforts in global business outreach.”

“In returning to my hometown of Lafayette, I am eager to draw on my skills and experience to bring the maximum benefit to my community, stated Melanson. “It is my professional and personal mission to ensure that now more than ever, Lafayette will hold its own among the cultural and economic players in the international arena.”

Prior to accepting the position at the Lafayette International Center, Melanson dedicated himself to volunteer work serving the south Louisiana area, including tutoring mathematics for Volunteer Instructors Teaching Adults (VITA); interpreting English/Spanish for AcadianaCares, With a strong commitment to trade, Lafayette stands to develop new markets for expanded production and enhanced relationships with our trade/tourism partners.

an organization devoted to assisting those affected by HIV/AIDS, substance abuse, poverty, and homelessness; and participating in retreats held within the Louisiana State Penitentiary with Kairos Angola, an international prison ministry.

The Lafayette International Center was created as a division of the City of Lafayette in October of 1989, and officially opened its doors to the public in April 1990, in Lafayette’s former city hall. Through the efforts of the Lafayette International Center, Lafayette is moving forward with a solid commitment to international trade and tourism development. A variety of Melanson attended Teurlings Catholic trade-related resources are located in the High School in Lafayette and then Lafayette International Center, allowing graduated from Georgetown University optimal interaction with local and visiting in Washington, D.C. with a Bachelor foreign trade development officials of Science in Foreign Service (BSFS). and business people. With a strong He has an extensive international commitment to trade, Lafayette stands business background. Over the course to develop new markets for expanded of his career, he has worked on four production and enhanced relationships different continents and speaks Housed in Lafayette’s former city hall, The Lafayette International with our trade/tourism partners. For more multiple languages, including French Center is located in downtown Lafayette, at the corner of Jefferson information, visit www.lecentre.org.

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[ THEN AND NOW ]

By Scott Brazda

“In your FACE Magazine cover story back in December 2015, you said, ‘There’s nothing special about me.’ You still think that?”

Emily Foreman Babineaux pauses after hearing my question, then looks away for just a second. “Yeh,” she answers. “Just a mom, working. Trying to raise my kids as best I can.” She laughs. “And I’m still boring, too!”

If ‘boring’ means: successful real estate agent, community-minded citizen and parent of an ever-growing wonderful family, then my guess is most of us will take ‘boring’ just about any day of the week.

“We’ve had another child — our third, a daughter — and she’s now one.” That means Emily and her husband, Charlie, are now outnumbered at home and have had to step up their parenting games.

“I find that with three children, we’re no longer in ‘man-to-man’ defense, we’re in zone,” she says with a smile.

And the opposition, so to speak, has ever-developing personalities.

“Evangeline is our first-born, and she remembers everything; Deano, our son, is kind-hearted but I have to watch him a bit (he’s a little ‘canaille’); and Ebby, who’s one, is so sweet and she just loves to rest her head and cuddle.” There are nothing but smiles as she talks about her children, although she is quick to add, “I now have three car seats and there’s no more room! We are complete!”

Even with her trio of children on board, Babineaux continues to have a passion for making a difference. “I love being a part of the Junior League of Lafayette, where we re-evaluate the needs of our community and find a niche, a place where we can make a difference with our many volunteers.” Most recently the raffle chairwoman for Tinsel & Treasures, Babineaux, however, now finds that her available “free” time is being redirected.

“I think that’s why I’m not on as many service boards right now,” she relates. “I mean, I want to do good things in our community, but I want to give it 100 percent, too, so I’m trying to limit my time so I can be fully committed to something.” And that something comes in the shape of Evangeline, 6; Deano, 4; and Ebby, 1. “At this stage in life, I find myself getting more hands-on at the kids schools. I’m on the St. Mary’s board, I’m on some boards at Fatima, just to help out.”

Now there is a little time for fun; in fact, it allows Emily to mix being a supportive wife with enjoying something that is pure south Louisiana. “My husband, Charlie, has gotten much busier; in fact, he was recently the captain at Mardi Gras in the Krewe of Bonaparte, so I want to make sure I’m there for him, too. It’s all fun stuff, it’s all good; but I don’t want to spread myself too thin.”

Still, the 36-year-old Babineaux remains one of Acadiana’s most-respected real estate agents, and the work — while not at the furious pace it once was — remains steady.

“Even with the economy, there’s always a need; someone’s either moving out of town, or someone has a growing family or someone’s downsizing,” she explains. A big key to her continuing success has been the power of relationships. “I’m lucky enough that there are always friends and family that come to me or send friends to me. Even if I’m meeting someone new, it’s through a referral, it’s through connections.”

The real estate game in Lafayette, or, at least in Emily Foreman Babineaux’s corner, has experienced a bit of a change in the last couple years: Her father, Randy Foreman, left the hustle and bustle of formal wear and become an agent as well. “Selling Mary Ellen’s was rather bittersweet - he had worked there since he was 19 - but he was on his feet all day and as he entered his mid-60s, I think dad wanted more family time. Plus, his gift is with people, and he’s amazing at making connections.”

So, what now? Down what paths does Emily see herself going? “Well, I’m definitely in my lifetime career and I hope I can keep helping people,” she says. “I want to watch my kids grow and thrive, just be there for them.”

And? “I just want to do some good whenever I can.”

Emily’s original cover story may be read at www.issuu.com/faceacadiana

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“PATIENCE, GRASSHOPPER!” In the 1970s, there was a TV show called “Kung Fu”. Kwai Chang Caine (named Grasshopper) was a half-American half-

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Chinese character in the old west who had been trained as a monk in China.

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always focus on mental training and at least once an episode would tell the eager student, “Patience,

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Grasshopper.”

One of the biggest hurdles to overcome in a

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successful career search is waiting for the right job opportunity to become

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available… waiting on the decision maker to contact you about an interview …

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waiting on a decision … just plain waiting!!

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PREPARATION is essential during your job hunt. Nothing will give you more confidence than having done your homework.

Do you remember how confident you felt in school when you had studied for a difficult exam? If you knew the material, you walked into the test with confidence and generally succeeded.

The same holds true here … research your job market, the company, who is hiring, your competition, demographics, salary, dress code, etc. Dig deep early on, and it will help poise you for success now and later!

ATTITUDE will make or break your search. Looking at the bright side of every situation will serve you well. A “woe is me” attitude is not helpful in the job search. It can translate into unhappiness, negativity, and will turn others off. Keep an attitude of gratitude.

TIMING is crucial in an effective job search. Spend your time wisely, and it will come back ten-fold to you. Ex: Don’t send out résumés the week of Thanksgiving expecting to be hired before December. Keep your expectations realistic. Snail mail, time zones, and commuter traffic can mess up timing. Allow extra time for family emergencies, because they always occur.

INTUITION will always lead you in the right direction. Listen to your gut - that little voice inside your head. If it feels wrong, IT IS! If it feels right, keep move forward. A woman’s intuition is a powerful thing.

ENERGY utilized at its best will keep you strong and focused.

Being mentally and physically ready with the right level of energy will help you through the process. Drink water throughout the day to help your healthful routine. Exercise, take breaks, and be sure to get enough Zs at night.

NEGOTIATE for what you want from your job. Be willing to give up a bit of salary for better hours…or be open to forego a larger base pay for better health insurance coverage and other benefits. Consider job location as a possible negotiating tool.

CONTINUE to pursue your dreams without letting people dissuade you. Remember to put on your “armor” around people who transfer negativity your way. Identify these people and keep your guard up. The old saying, “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer” is not always the best scenario when job hunting.

Enthusiasm will always help in a great job search. It can get you through the low points and help you soar to success.

learn how it will help you through the process.

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Laurie J. James is one of the only 12 Master Career Directors globally. She co-founded and presided over the Professional Resume Writing and Research Association from 2000-2004. PRWRA rebranded to Career Directors in 2005. Laurie has created 10,000+ job-winning resumes in her career. She is a credentialed resume & LinkedIn profile writer, seasoned public speaker and award-winning career image coach. Visit her at www.lauriejjames.com.

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VALERIE GOTCH GARRETT SERVING ACADIANA FOR 24 YEARS

By Erin HOlden Photography by Moore Photography ©FACE Magazine. All Rights Reserved.

“My mother and grandmother put more emphasis on who I was as a person, not the color of my skin.�

They always told her that she could be whoever she wanted to be in life.

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VALERIE GOTCH GARRETT KNEW THAT SHE WANTED TO BE A LAWYER AS EARLY AS AGE SEVEN.

“It was probably when I was sitting at home as a little girl watching Dr. King and Thurgood Marshall,” she recalls. She remembers seeing her mother and grandmother cry while watching the news after Dr. Martin Luther King was shot.

“I was very aware of the sadness and how it affected my family. My family knew that a race problem existed, but it wasn’t the focal point. My mother and grandmother put more emphasis on who I was as a person, not the color of my skin.” They always told her that she could be whoever she wanted to be in life.

Unfortunately, Valerie did have people in her life who did not give her this level of support. In the fourth grade, she came home crying because of an experience that many African American children during segregation undoubtedly had. The teacher was asking all of the students what they wanted to be when they grew up, and Valerie said that she wanted to be a lawyer. “They told me that it wasn’t possible,” she says, “one: because I am a woman and two: because I am African American.” She always wanted to be a lawyer, but having heard these kinds of discouraging comments more than once “planted a seed of doubt” in her mind about her abilities.

This all changed when her mother made the decision to send her to private school. She went to Immaculate Heart of Mary, where she found encouragement from the priests and nuns who taught her. She later went to high school at the Holy Rosary Institute, an educational

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institution that began teaching young African American women in 1913 and opened its doors to young African American men in 1947. Her experience here reinforced her need to serve her community and help others.

“I won the 8th grade humanitarian award because I was always helping other kids,” she says. “I always knew that I wanted to serve.”

Valerie went to law school later in life after trying different areas of study and career paths. She studied marketing and public relations at UL Lafayette (then the University of Southwestern Louisiana). She also studied upper elementary education She says that and taught at Holy Rosary. During practicing law “was her college years, she worked several jobs – she worked on actually something I the yearbook, The Vermilion (UL’s newspaper, The Daily Advertiser, the was destined to do.

Paul and Lulu Hilliard Art Museum, I wanted to be like and Travel Host of South Louisiana.

It was at the latter that she met Thurgood Marshall Frances Love, a local business and save the world.” woman who inspired her.

“Frances was bold enough to take me, and I didn’t see people who looked like me,” Valerie says, “but I could be who I wanted to be. Frances was strong, meaningful, and she got things done.”

When she first began law school, Valerie had pneumonia, two children to care for, and financial difficulties that could have prevented her from fulfilling her goals. It was difficult, but she always remembered the work ethic and fortitude of her mother and grandmother, who were both important influences in her life. Her mother often did without so that she could have the things she needed; seeing her work hard instilled in Valerie that she should always push

herself to succeed. She also had help from Mr. Ernest Nabors and a local business owner.

The condition of this aid with her educational and personal financial obligations was that she commit to helping others upon completion of her degree.

After 24 years of practicing law, Valerie can look back on her journey with a new perspective. She realizes that when she was a child, she allowed someone to make her think that she could not achieve her dream of being a lawyer; she has not let anyone’s doubts affect her in that way since. She says that practicing law “was actually something I was destined to do. I wanted to be like Thurgood Marshall and save the world.”

She says that her vision of what she wanted to do with her law degree changed over time. “When I decided to do juvenile work, I originally wanted to be a prosecutor,” she explains. “My first trial was in federal court.

The case involved a woman who was fired, and it was believed that she was fired because she was African American and a woman.” Judge Rebecca Doherty, who presided over this case, said that Valerie would make a great litigator.

“I worked my way up through the system to felony, got a pay bump for capital work, and had a case right out of law school.”

Another memorable case for Valerie was a murder trial, State of Louisiana versus Gross, a case for which Thornton Gross was charged with the murder of a young girl. As a defense attorney, Valerie had to look at graphic images of the crime scene and read disturbing accounts of what happened.

“They said, ‘You’re not going to be able to take it,’ but I did,” she remembers. “They told me I couldn’t, so I did! I wasn’t raised to think like

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Along with her law career, Valerie stays very active on many boards and committees, all of which are dear to her heart because they champion causes that have touched her life personally.

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that. The one time I did, it diverted my path, and I’ve never let that happen again. ‘No’ is an incentive to ‘yes.’”

Valerie thinks back on the case and how it unfolded, saying that “they initially charged him with second degree murder. The more I talked to him, the more I realized he didn’t do it.”

When she presented her case to the jury, she says that “they believed he was innocent because I believed he was innocent.

He was acquitted.”

She has found defense work to be gratifying because she is making a difference in people’s lives who often get lost in the system. “We are defenders of the constitution and, if you believe in it, you can do it,” Valerie says.

Along with her law career, Valerie stays very active on many boards and committees, all of which are dear to her heart because they champion causes that have touched her life personally. Among these 17 boards and committees are the Lafayette Autism Society, Susan Komen Big Wig, and she has just recently gotten involved in the Junior League of Acadiana. She even ran for Division E Judge in Carencro in 2014.

She often does pro bono work because, she says, “we can’t just go home and do our jobs and not make the world better. “

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“Be comfortable.

Be hardworking.

Be able to voice your position, and don’t be afraid to be a woman.

Just be who you are.”

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“I enjoyed knocking on doors and seeing people I’ve met before…I had even taught some of them in catechism! I hope to run again in 2020.”

Valerie also serves as the Lafayette Airport Commission Chairperson, a position that she is honored to hold. This position entails working with state, local, and federal officials to “educate and prepare local minority business owners within the community on how to become DBE Certified, which will have an economic impact on this community,” she says.

She has five children, two of which have autism and have surpassed medical odds. She has six grandchildren, and she makes sure to be an

active presence in their lives. She was there for all of their births.

With her own law practice (Valerie Gotch Garrett, APLC), community involvement, and vibrant family life, it is hard to imagine being able to balance it all with a smile, but Valerie does. She has five children, two of which have autism and have surpassed medical odds. She has six grandchildren, and she makes sure to be an active presence in their lives. She was there for all of their births.

When asked how she does it, Valerie answers, “I get up early in the morning. I recognize that there’s more than being a lawyer. I want to inspire young women; it is important for me to give back.” She often does pro bono work because, she says, “we can’t just go home and do our jobs and not make the world better.

I was raised Catholic, and we were taught to serve. If you love something, you’ll find the time.”

Valerie values her work environment and what she is able to do for her community

through it. She primarily focuses on family law, and the joy she gets from this comes from helping children.

“I have a great team of women who believe in service,” she says. “I understand the needs of people and that it is hard sometimes. I find myself focusing on the children. I ask, ‘What would you like to see for your child?’”

Her advice for women who are looking to do what she does is this: “You have to be who you are. You don’t have to be hard and overdo it.” A female defense attorney can feel as if she has to be very stern in order to do the job, as she explains. “At first you will want to disappear…I remember I always put on a pantsuit to blend in with the men, but then I realized that it is how I carry myself that brings a response. I remembered that I had four sons and any one of them (the defendants) could be like a family member.

Be comfortable. Be hardworking. Be able to voice your position, and don’t be afraid to be a woman. Just be who you are.”

Originally from Lafayette, Valerie thinks of how the area has changed over the years, and how her career has reflected this progress over time. Even so, there are still changes she would like to see in our community.

“I would like to see the northside not be the northside and the southside not be the southside,” says Valerie. “We need to be considerate of everyone’s needs and merge together as one. Churches have to be more involved in this change, as they were when I was growing up. We have to get back to that. We have to get back to being one Acadiana.”

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LIFE & LEISURE

ARGENTINA A LAND OF NATURAL BEAUTY

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ew and old worlds collide living in perfect balance here; from the ancient vineyard lands of Mendoza in the foothills of the Andes Mountains to the thriving nightlife of Buenos Aires and the breathtaking natural wonder of Iguazu Falls.

Argentina’s culture is as diverse as its landscape, and yet is simple at the same time. A passion for food, wine and expression is at the heartbeat of the Argentine people, and when you travel there, you’ll understand that’s exactly what you went there to find.

Nicknamed ‘Paris of the South’, the capital city of Buenos Aires has a unique mix of European architecture

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Palermo has a fresh trendy vibe with late night dining, underground music venues, and dancing dives. San Telmo is famous for its large street

CULINARY market and colorful artistic feel.

It’s here that you’ll find fresh churros and yerba mate sold street side as tango dancers whirl by. La Boca is a vibrant area sitting at the mouth of the Matanza River.

It’s known for its vibrantly colored buildings and the sizzle of Argentine beef on an open flame on nearly every street corner. and modern design. The bustling city center exudes the enduring influences of the Italian and Spanish immigrants that settled modern day B.A. Each of the well-known barrios (neighborhoods) have their own distinguishing characteristics. To name a

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few, Recoleta is a more historic and upscale area with beautiful plazas, expansive parks and swish hotels. It is home to the famous Recoleta Cemetery where Eva Peron (aka Evita) is buried.

Known widely as the home of Malbec, the Uco Valley in the Mendoza province is an incredible destination for wine lovers and nature enthusiasts. Modern wineries in an ancient landscape create an interesting opposition to what one might picture to exist there. With

the Andes Mountains sprawling in the background and acre upon acre of plush vineyards before you,

wines that are home to this valley region are earthy, complex

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there stands an array of sandstone and cement fortresses that seem to rise straight out of the earth.

Inside is the lifeblood and traditions of the earliest Patagonian people and the fruit of their land. The

and simply divine. Travelers also come to the Uco Valley specifically to feast at Francis Mallman’s Siete Fuegos (Seven Fires) which reveals his refined collection of open flame cooking techniques inspired by the Argentine gauchos.

Iguazu, an indigenous term meaning ‘Big Water’, aptly describes the

renowned waterfalls that are among the world’s most visually and acoustically stunning natural sites. In the northeast Misiones Province, Iguazu constitutes the international with its immense plains, vast border between Argentina and deserts, tundra and forests, the Brazil before it flows into the mystic mountains, winding rivers mighty Parana River. Across a width and thousands of miles of ocean of nearly 2 miles, the Iguazú River shoreline sink into darkness… drops vertically about 265 feet in that’s when your evening begins. a series of powerful cascades. As a site described to dwarf Niagara Falls, it must be seen in person to Lafayette native Camille Autin’s personal experiences have drawn her closer to her fully appreciate.

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As the golden sun sets on the ‘land of silver’

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PHOTOS: LAFAYETTE CENTRAL PARK, INC., FACE MEDIA GROUP

Moncus Park to begin phase 1 construction Lafayette Central Park, Inc., (LCP) and Lafayette Consolidated Government are finalizing the pre-lease conditions required to enact the lease for Moncus Park, in order to begin construction. Trahan Construction has been contracted to build Phase 1, and has obtained a building permit after park plans were approved last month. Construction will begin as soon as possible, with limited access to the park while work is underway.

According to EB Brooks, the following will being constructed during phase one of construction; entry driveway off Johnston street, a new two-way bridge over the coulee, a fenced in dog park, treeline promenade, wetland pond, and new parking among other amenities. Phase one is expected to take about a year and the back end of the park will remain closed until construction is complete. The front of the park where the weekly market takes place, will remain open. Subsequently, tree houses, a market pavilion, and a mini golf course is to follow.

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Phase 1 development will be focused within the front 60 acres of the new 100-acre park property. Pre-construction mobilization can be seen currently on the park property and the orange tree protection fencing has been put in place in order to guard the natural beauties.

Water quality protection fencing has also been put in place in order to reduce any run offs which might go into the coulee that runs through the park during construction.

While access will be limited, all efforts will be made for the weekly Lafayette Farmers & Artisans Market to continue as scheduled on Saturday mornings. A groundbreaking ceremony is planned for March 27 at 5:30 pm under the Live Oak Grove along Johnston Street. All are encouraged to attend! Parking will be limited, additional parking is available in the South College Center parking lot.

Information about the ceremony and updates on construction will be posted on both the park’s website and Facebook page.

For more information visit moncuspark.org.

Source: Lafayette Central Park, INC.

MONCUS PARK MASTER PLAN “We are excited to be partnering with Trahan Construction to build Phase 1 of Moncus Park.

They have a lot of park construction experience, and recently completed both of the new parks in Youngsville and Broussard. Even though we won’t have sports fields like those parks, we are positive that they’ll bring their professionalism and expertise to our project as well,” says Lenny Lemoine, the Chairman of LCP. Troy Trahan, President of Trahan Construction, based in Lake Arthur, LA, says, “We consider it an honor to be selected to work with the Moncus Park Board of Directors and staff, as well as the architects and engineers, to bring this project to life. We are excited and looking forward to breaking ground.”

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FAMILY MATTERS

C O M M U N I CAT I N G W I T H

T E E N A G E R S

Sometimes, we as parents assume that the absence of problematic behavior means that everything is okay with the teen.

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WHAT TEENS WANT y wife and I helped raise

over thirty-five foster children and many of them were teenagers. We also adopted a six year old boy with severe ADHD and raised three children of our own. I was pleased that God had blessed us with three great children so that I could have more time to help the more needy children and teens. My wife and I even won a Foster Parents of the year award.

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asked me if they needed to be bad to get my attention. That was a wakeup call for me! I didn’t realize the extent I was neglecting my own children, as I was frequently busy dealing with the problematic behavior of our adopted and foster children.

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absence of problematic behavior means that everything is okay with the teen. I was so thankful my children brought this to my attention. From then on, I made every effort to spend time with them. I now understand the miscommunications and misunderstanding of teenagers. Also, I remember when my youngest son told me that he did not want me to be his Therapist or his Financial Advisor; he wanted me to be his dad. Sometimes we over incorporate our careers or our interests in the lives of our teens when all they want at times is for us just to be their mom and dad.

A survey was conducted with high school English students who were in the talented and gifted program. They were asked how they wished their families communicated with them.

Their wishes fell into four categories.

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TEENS WANT YOU TO BE HONEST WITH THEM. The truth will come out sooner or later anyway, so let’s be honest with them. Sometimes, we as parents like to pretend that everything is okay when it is not. As we share our struggles with our teen, we are being truthful and are modeling for them how to navigate the struggles one may face in life.

TEENS WANT TO KNOW THAT THEY ARE LOVED. Love is communicated through our words and actions. Along with saying “I love you”, we can give them hugs and pat them on their back. We can make our homes a safe place where they can share their hearts and know they will not be judged or shamed. They need to know they are loved even when they don’t meet our expectations. Our love for them should never be contingent on their behavior.

TEENS WANT GUIDANCE. They don’t want to be lectured. A brief response is usually adequate in that the teen already knows what they did wrong. Teens don’t want to be yelled at because this makes them want to fight back. If you’re angry or upset let the teen know so the situation can be addressed and corrected in a non-toxic and nonpunitive way. Teach your teen how to set and maintain clear and healthy boundaries. In providing guidance we must remember that each teen is unique and our guidance must be tailored to their uniqueness. Be careful of unrealistic expectations.

TEENS DON’T WANT YOU TO KEEP BRINGING UP THE PAST. Parents should only deal with one issue at a time. Stop using words like “always” and “never” in describing the undesirable behavior in your teen. Stop the sarcasm because it is toxic to the relationship. Help your teen create a vision of their future.

Never stop talking to your teen. Enjoy them and their uniqueness. In our culture, we are pulled in many directions. Families can become really busy and we also can become complacent when it comes to our teenagers. We have to remember that we are not only raising teenagers, but we are also raising future moms and dads. Try to develop healthy family traditions that they will cherish and pass on to their children.

Don Short is the owner of After Hours Counseling located in Lafayette, LA. His practice focuses on clients with marriage, relationship and family issues. He is a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors. Contact After Hours Counseling 337-781-4565 or www.afterhourscounseling.com.

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FAMILY MATTERS

TOOTH FAIRY’S COIN PURSE LIGHTER THAN USUAL

By Caitlin Marshall

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fter many successful years, it looks like the Tooth Fairy’s coin purse has tightened up after an all-time high payout in 2016. Kids shouldn’t rely on their tooth fairy funds for all their financial needs after the average cash gift has dropped to $4.13 a tooth in 2018.

Despite the average tooth price taking a dive, the Tooth Fairy still dished out a hefty $271 million across the nation in 2017 for all the teeth lost.

Luckily, those looking for a cash payout post losing their first tooth are still bringing in an average of $5.70, only a two cent drop from the previous year’s average.

According to the Original Tooth Fairy Poll, the Tooth Fairy visits 84 percent of the nation’s households with children. While cash seems to be the Tooth Fairy’s go-to gift, leaving cash behind at 95 percent of her stops, 47 percent of parents have reported the Tooth Fairy gifted their children a small toy or game. The Tooth Fairy is also known to have tried her hand at writing notes, 35 percent, and has even left tooth brushes behind, 31 percent of the time.

There seems to be a regional influence in how much the Tooth Fairy pays out. The WEST sees the highest payouts with $4.85 per tooth, nearly a $2.00 decrease from the average from the first tooth lost ($6.76). The NORTHEAST is a close second at $4.35 ($6.45), followed by the SOUTH giving $4.12 a pop ($5.68). The MIDWEST is at the back of the pack averaging $3.44 a tooth ($4.37).

All information and statistics come from Original Tooth Fairy Poll and PR Newswire.

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FAMILY MATTERS HELPING OUR YOUTH BECOME INTERESTED IN STEM SUBJECTS

SCIENCE

By Savannah Ludwig

TECHNOLOGY ENGINEERING

The United States has developed as a global

learn by studying science, technology,

leader, in large part, through the genius

engineering, and math—subjects collectively

and hard work of its scientists, engineers,

known as STEM.

and innovators. In a world that’s becoming increasingly complex, success is driven not only by what you know, but by what you can

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do with that knowledge. Now, more than ever, it is essential that our youth become equipped with the knowledge and skills to

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In Lafayette Parish, we are fortunate to have STEM programs that specialize and teach a wide range of subjects that can significantly enhance a child’s ability to not only survive as an adult, but thrive.

solve tough problems, gather and evaluate

The Lafayette Parish School System’s Magnet

evidence, and make sense of information.

Academy’s offers numerous opportunities of

These are the types of skills that students

choice for our youth.

HERE IS A LIST OF ONLY A FEW OF THE MANY PROGRAMS NOW AVAILABLE Elementary Schools

J. Wallace James – Arts & Technology L. Leo Judice – Environmental Science

Middle School

David Thibodaux Middle – STEM Academy Carencro Middle – Biomedical Academy Judice Middle – Business Academy

High Schools David Thibodaux High School – STEM Academy Northside High School – Broadcasting and Journalism Lafayette High School – Health Care Academy

Source: U.S. Department of Education STEM programs are helping shape the future of our country. Set an early foundation and stress the importance of science, technology, engineering, and math with your child. Encourage

them from a young age to participate in hands-on STEM activities. Those with an interest or aptitude in these subjects will continue to pursue these paths as they learn and grow.

For more information visit: www.lafayettechoice.com.

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Five Decorating Tips that you will Want to Copy

By Natalia Castro

Interior designers have mastered a few tricks that can make your space look fantastic. Here are five tips that you will want to copy to help make the most of your next room arrangement and design without spending too much.

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REMOVE THE DISTRACTIONS WITH YOUR PAINT HUES Painting bold accent walls used to be in fashion. Accent walls can be done well. It is better to keep your paint color choices similar and straightforward when you decide to repaint the walls. You will want to remove drastic changes from one room to the other. It is a good idea to pick neutral paints colors that give your decoration options flexibility As you paint each room you can add a slightly different shade to each one. Painting in neutral, simple hues will create a synergy with your decorations and provide an elegant look and feel.

LET IN THE LIGHT Let there be light. Dark shady rooms may work well for a restaurant or bar, but for your living areas, you are going to want to bring in the sun. Minimize your window coverings in favor of more light. Cleaning your windows is an inexpensive task you can do to increase the brightness of your room. Modern lighting has more options than older lightbulb technology and can create natural looking light when other natural lighting options are not available. Make a quick and easy improvement to your rooms and increase the brightness.

MAKE SURE YOU SCALE HANGING ITEMS TO THE SIZE OF THE WALL. A general rule of thumb for hanging pictures is that the middle of the art piece should be hanging at eye level. If you have a massive wall, consider increasing the size of your painting, picture or decoration. This scaling can be done with one large item or created by combining smaller decorations by placing them grouped.

UPDATE OLD THINGS One of the cheapest and most creative things you can do is to update your old items. By reusing fixtures and furniture, you already have in your house you can save money and have fun. You can take light fixtures or old wood furniture and give them a facelift with a can of spray paint. Spray paint technology has dramatically improved, and you have many different options for colors, hardness, and textures.

GET ADVICE Professional advice can help get you moving in the right direction and vision.

Consult a professional interior designer if you are wondering where you need to start. They can help you avoid other design mistakes and may save you money and help your home or office look fantastic.

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APRIL

EVENTS & ENTERTAINMENT

SATURDAY, MARCH 10

SATURDAY, MARCH 17

♦ Family Adventure Day 2018; Benefiting Healing House – Healing-House.org

♦ 3rd Annual Celtic Bayou Festival; Warehouse 535, all day

♦ HopeFest 5k; River Ranch Town Square, registration starts at 7:15 am race starts at 8:00 am ♦ Yoga in the Galleria; Paul and Lulu Hilliard University Art Museum, 11:00 am ♦ Cajun Comic relief XXVI; The Heymann Performing Arts, 5:00 pm ♦ 2nd Saturday Artwalk; Downtown Lafayette, 6:00 pm ♦ Performances by Scenic World, BRNDA, & Poppies; The Platform at Dat Dog, 9:00 pm ♦ Scarab – The Journey Experience;

MARCH

The Grouse Room – Parc Lafayette 9:30 pm

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♦ Performances by Shrugs, Sabra Guzmán, Kia Cavallaro, and Adron; The Platform at Dat Dog, 8:00 pm ♦ Performances by Cedryl Ballou and The Bayou Trendsetters; Feed n Seed, 9:00 pm ♦ Performance by Zoso, a Led Zeppelin Tribute band; The Grouse Room, 9:30 pm ♦ Patty in the Parc; Parc International – Downtown Lafayette

MONDAY, MARCH 19 ♦ UL Lafayette Fashion Show; Acadiana Center For the Arts, 6:00 pm

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 21

SUNDAY, MARCH 11

♦ Artist Talk with Keith Duncan; Paul and Lulu Hilliard University Art Museum, 6:00 pm

♦ Shadows-on-the-Teche Plein Air Painting Competition; Shadows-on-the-Teche, 9:00 am March 11-16

THURSDAY, MARCH 22

♦ Performances by Monika and California Cousins, The Platform at Dat Dog, 6:00 pm ♦ Stop the Clock Cowboy Jazz; Feed n Seed, 6:00 pm

FRIDAY,MARCH 16 ♦ 3rd Annual Celtic Bayou Festival; Warehouse 535, all day ♦ Acadiana Symphony Orchestra Presents: Music and Dance: From Shakespeare to Virtual Reality; The Heymann Performing Arts, 7:00 pm ♦ Performances by Geno Delafose & French Rockin’ Boogie; Feed n Seed, 8:30 pm ♦ An Evening with Gerard Delafose & The Zydeco Gators; The Platform at Dat Dog, 9:00 pm ♦ Grammy Award Winning Lost Bayou Ramblers; The Wurst Biergarten, 9:00 pm

♦ Bob’s Burgers Trivia Night; The Wurst Biergarten, 6:00 pm ♦ Save Ze Ta Taz: 9th Annual Zonta Club Art Bra – Hosted by Zonta Club of Lafayette – more info at: facebook.com/ZontaLafayette

FRIDAY, MARCH 23 ♦ Toughest Monster Truck Tour; Cajundome, 7:30 pm ♦ Clay Cormier & The Highway Boys; The Grouse Room, 9:30 pm

SATURDAY, MARCH 24 ♦ Lafayette Children’s Carnival Superheroes; Wonderland Performing Arts; Lafayette Children’s Museum, 12:30 pm ♦ Toughest Monster Truck Tour; Cajundome, 7:30 pm ♦ Stoned vs. Drunk vs. Sober – A Stand-up Comedy Showcase; The Wurst Biergarten, 8:00 pm ♦ Lafayette Ballet Theater Presents Snow White; The Heymann Performing Arts, 7:00 pm

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 28

THURSDAY, APRIL 12

♦ Guns in the Hands of Artists; Paul and Lulu Hilliard University Art Museum, 6:00 pm

♦ Rhythms On The River; River Ranch – 5:30-8:30 – Louisiana red

THURSDAY, MARCH 29

SATURDAY, APRIL 14

♦ Rhythms On The River; River Ranch – 5:30-8:30 – Tab Benoit – Festival International Partnership Concert

FRIDAY, MARCH 30 ♦ Good Friday

SATURDAY, MARCH 31 ♦ Atchafalaya opens for Autumn Wild; The Grouse Room, 8:00 pm

♦ The Big Easel Art Festival; 9 am – 4 pm – River Ranch town square

THURSDAY, APRIL 19 ♦ Rhythms On The River; River Ranch – 5:30-8:30 – Wayne Toups & Freddie pate

FRIDAY, APRIL 20

♦ The Good Dudes; The Wurst Biergarten, 9:00 pm

♦ Toast of the Town Gala: Benefit hosted by Maddie’s Footprints – 7:00 pm to 11:00 pm Le Pavillon – Parc Lafayette

THURSDAY, APRIL 5

SATURDAY, APRIL 21

♦ Rhythms On The River; River Ranch – 5:30-8:30 – Souled Out Band

♦ Bubbles & Brunch: An Outdoor Brunch Experience – 10:00 am to 4:00 pm - ticket info socialentertainment.net

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APRIL 25 - 29

♦ Cycle Zydeco – Louisiana’s Cajun & Creole Cycling Festival – a four day cycle festival ride from Lafayette to New Iberia, Breaux Bridge, and Sunset for a 170 mile heritage-rich ride. cyclezydeco.org

♦ Festival International de Louisiane; Downtown Lafayette – festivalinternational.org

APRIL 6 - 8 ♦ Scott Boudin Festival: Scott LA – Lion Club St. – scottboudinfestival.com

SATURDAY, APRIL 7 ♦ Acadiana Po-Boy Festival; Parc San Souci, all day event ♦ Acadiana Bird Fair; Lafayette Event Center, 10:00 am

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♦ Walk for Hope 2018 – Autism Society of Acadiana – 8:00 am - Noon - Blackham Coliseum

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 11 ♦ Styx and REO Speedwagon with special guest Don Felder – Cajundome 7 pm

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