FACE Magazine November 2014

NOVEMBER 2014

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CONTENTS 10 COMMUNITY IMPACT

Leaders in Philanthropy

Spell-a-bration

Women of Excellence Silver Bell Soiree’

20 GRACE NOTES

Party Etiquette 101 22 RELATIONSHIPS

Thanksgiving Reconciliation 32 LIFESTYLE Simplify Holiday Shopping This Year 48 CELEBRITY ADVICE

Letting Go 50 STYLE Country Chic 66 SHOW YOUR FACE 70 MARKETPLACE

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The holiday season is upon us! Acadiana is blessed to

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have a culture that intrinsically values time spent with family, friends and community every single day of the

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year. Thanksgiving in Acadiana is a time for shared reflection and gratitude for all of the wonderful blessings throughout the year. It is also the spark to ratchet up the hospitality, enhance the ever-delectable culinary delights, and make even the most distant relative or total stranger feel warm, welcomed and instantly ‘at home’.

In this month’s issue, get tips on how to wow all your guests with a stunningly decorated Thanksgiving table and delectable side dishes. Find the perfect country chic outfit for every fall outing including a visit with out of town guests to LARC’s Acadian Village.

Going to a party soon? Did you know that ‘fashionably late’ means arriving eight to twelve minutes late max?

And of course, don’t miss Part 1 of the FACE Magazine Holiday Gift Guide, a Shopping Wonderland!

This year my husband and I are thankful to have our home filled with our

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children, extended family and friends from different parts of the country and world.

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ACADIANA LIFE LARC’s Acadian Village Honoring the Rich South Louisiana Heritage

By Audrey Coots For over 60 years, the Lafayette Association for Retarded Citizens, or LARC, has been a remarkable part of Acadiana. Spanning more than 34 beautiful acres, this organization provides advancement, career, and training opportunities for the intellectually and developmentally challenged in the community, helping them to achieve their goals and aspirations.

For over 25 years, they have also offered in-home care and residential services, providing an opportunity for independent living situations for those who may not otherwise have the opportunity to experience living independently. Residents learn how to take care of themselves and their homes, and with assistance, they actively participate in the upkeep and management of their environment- including paying their own bills and shopping for their own groceries.

Most of the residents are wage-earning employees, some employed within LARC doing things for local businesses like packaging bulk mail, or working in the on-site St. Anne’s Knights of Columbus

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This organization is also heralded for conserving so much of the rich South Louisiana heritage in George Rodrigue, painter and creator of the nationally famous Blue Dog artwork, will be honored at this year’s Noel Acadien au Village. One of the Village’s historic homes will be covered in all blue lights in honor of the much celebrated artist, who passed away in December of last year. “He left a legacy behind,” said Mary Hooks, LARC Acadian Village Director. “We want to honor his legacy.”

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LARC’s Acadian Village... This is a much-enjoyed tourist attraction, but it is also a continuation of the LARC community. LARC clients participate in the upkeep and maintenance of the grounds as well as in the daily tasks of the Mardi Gras Bead Store.

Cafeteria, where they are responsible for assisting in serving food

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and helping with clean-up and sanitation. Others are working with various companies throughout the community, receiving the same salary and benefits as other employees.They receive extensive job training and time management skills, along with other necessary job-specific skills, though LARC’s Supported Employment Program.

For those unable to perform or unsuited to career-type work, LARC offers the Lemarie Lifestyle Center, which is a day program that specializes in arts and crafts and the opportunity to socialize, make friends, hear guest speakers and enjoy other recreational activities in a safe, pleasant environment.

This organization is also heralded for conserving so much

of the rich South Louisiana heritage in LARC’s Acadian Village.

Established in 1976, this beautiful area is made up of authentic, restored Acadian architecture, as well as three replicas: a General Store, a Blacksmith Shop and New Hope Chapel. Each structure is filled with period antiques, making the whole area seem as if time has stood still and reflecting the way the world must have looked in the early 19th century. This is a much-enjoyed tourist attraction, but it is also a continuation of the LARC community. LARC clients participate in the upkeep and maintenance of the grounds as well as in the daily tasks of the Mardi Gras Bead Store. This is also a key location for locals to hold weddings and other large-scale events, offering rich, unique history.

Proceeds from LARC’s Acadian Village help to support LARC

programs, which is an added benefit of booking this location for such events. Toward the end of November, the village starts the Christmas celebrations by transforming into Noel Acadien au Village, complete with nightly entertainment, carnival rides, more than half a million Christmas lights and much, much more.

LARC is truly a highlight of Acadiana, drawing travelers in with the unique preserved heritage of the Village and offering the community wonderful, enriching programs that continue to impress and inspire.

If you’d like to know more about these programs or LARC in general, visit their website at www.lafayettelarc.org, and look for all of those Christmas lights going up November 29th to kick off the Christmas season!

Noel Acadien au Village will be operating from November 29-December 23rd from 5:30pm-9:30pm.

This annual festival, now in its 34th year, always presents fun and entertainment for the entire family.

Among the highlights are photos with Santa, carnival rides, and local cuisine, and all proceeds will benefit LARCs Acadian Village. Tickets are $10 at the gate and $8 in advance, and children 4 years of age and younger get in free.

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Mary Ellen Sonnier: Vermilion Parish Leader in Philanthropy

By Erin Holden Mary Ellen Sonnier, recipient of the fourth annual Leaders in Philanthropy Award for Vermilion Parish, believes there is a great deal that can be learned from the past.

This is the reason why she is so passionate about historic preservation that she created a museum out of a railroad freight depot from 1894. It’s called The Depot at Magdalen Place.

She describes The Depot as a “homegrown museum,” and gift shop that allows people to experience history in a really tangible way. The museum, where students of all ages often visit, is made up of two cabooses, one from 1924 and one from 1970.

Mary Ellen is a former teacher whose greatest passions are “preserving history, the feel of a small town, and preserving the treasures of the past.”

Her husband of 50 years, Charles Sonnier, nominated her, though she didn’t find out until she received the call from the Community Foundation of Acadiana. Her activities, like being co-chair of a committee to restore the historic St. Mary Magdalen Church, sponsoring students to attend 10 FACE | NOVEMBER 2014

workshops with the Acadiana Symphony Orchestra, and helping to restore the Abbeville Frank’s Theatre are all ways that she has enriched her community. The latter will be a space for Vermilion Parish residents to enjoy live events; it will be comparable to the Liberty Theater in Eunice.

It is both her enthusiasm for preservation and her love of community that brought her to create Magdalen Place, an 8,000 square foot space that serves as a venue for receptions, local school events, and a place for charitable organizations like the Muscular Dystrophy Association, Family Missions of Vermilion Parish, Father Glen Meaux’s Haiti Missions, and the Boy Scouts.

She realized over 20 years ago when her daughter was getting married that there was no venue for her reception in the Abbeville area, so the reception was held in Lafayette.

Seeing a need for community improvement, Mary Ellen created Magdalen Place, which she operates with her son Chuck Sonnier.

Originally from Bogalusa, Mary Ellen has taught the first, second, and eighth grades.

She was also a substitute teacher for many years after she had children of her own.

Her teaching life is very much tied in with her passion for preservation, because it all comes back to what people can learn from their past. Mary Ellen feels that “teaching is an honorable profession, and being a source of guidance for the children is so important.”

Mary Ellen has contributed to her community by serving on the Vermilion Chamber of Commerce board and its executive committee and the Abbeville Main Street board. She currently serves on the Allumé Society board (a non-profit group that seeks to beautify downtown Abbeville) and the Vermilion Arts Council and Museum Alliance board. She was named “Volunteer of the Year” by the State of Louisiana Main Street board in 2004 and is a lifelong member of the Abbeville Historical Society.

The best way to improve one’s community, Mary Ellen says, is to “be a part of it. When you participate in community events, you learn to love the community, and you will see the needs.”

Education, restoration, and pride in building a stronger community – to Mary Ellen, these are the things that help us “learn from the past, and look forward to the future.”

Leaders in Philanthropy Awards Luncheon Cajundome Convention Center November 14, 2014 Doors Open at 11:00 AM Program from 11:30 AM – 1:00 PM Nominations for the Leaders In Philanthropy Awards were received from the general public, and CFA’s Board of Directors Emeriti made final selections. Award recipients will be formally announced soon.

Luncheon tickets and tables are open to the public and are now on sale. Tickets are $50 each, and tables of eight are $400 and may be purchased by contacting Erin Winder at ewinder@cfacadiana.org or 337-769-4842. Acadian Companies and Superior Energy Services, Inc. along with CFA’s Gold-level Ambassadors are presenting the event. Ambassadors give annually to the Foundation and receive benefits such as waived support fees on funds and sponsorship of CFA events such as the Leaders In Philanthropy Awards Luncheon. Please contact Raymond J. Hébert to learn more at 337-769-4848.

Additional 2014 Leaders In Philanthropy Award winners are: Bobby and Mollie Hanks,Acadia Parish; Gervis LaFleur, Evangeline Parish; Donald “Doc” Voorhies, Iberia Parish; Bob Lowe, Lafayette Parish; Dr. Joe Wilson, St. Landry Parish; Virginia Olivier Yongue, St. Martin Parish; and Johnny and Mary Lou Conrad, St. Mary Parish.

About Community Foundation of Acadiana: The organization is south Louisiana’s premier philanthropic organization benefiting our region, with a particular focus on the parishes of Acadia, Evangeline, Iberia, Lafayette, St. Landry, St. Mary, St. Martin and Vermilion. CFA’s core purpose is to connect all generous people to the causes they care about. In 2013, Community Foundation of Acadiana was recognized for the second year among the Top 100 community foundations in the country as #3 Most Active Grantmaker, #72 Most Gifts per Capita, and #74 Most Activity.

Additional milestones include $128 million in cumulative gifts and $67 million in cumulative grants. Learn more at www.cfacadiana.org.

CFA’s Gold Ambassadors are as follows: America’s Pizza Company, a franchisee of Pizza Hut; Bayou Companies / Aegion Corporation; Billeaud Companies; Alan and Shelley Breaud; Broussard & David, LLC; Channel One Digital; D.W. Elmore Family, LC; Dynamic Industries, Inc.; Fab-Con, Inc.; FACE Magazine; Fenstermaker; FraCo, LLC; Greenscape Grounds Management; Lafayette General Health; Lee Michaels; The Lemoine Company; LHC Group, Inc.; MidSouth Bank; Mildred “Mimi” McElligott; the Moody Company; Mr. and Mrs. Alfred S. Lippman; Rader Solutions; The Regional Health System of Acadiana; Mike & Cheryl Robicheaux; Stewart & Becky Shea; Spherion Staffing Service; Sunland Construction, Inc.; Taco Bell / Brenda & Greg Hamer. Ambassadors give annually to the Foundation and receive benefits such as sponsorship of the Leaders In Philanthropy Awards Luncheon. Please contact Raymond J. Hébert to learn more at 337-769-4848.

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4th Annual Spell-a-bration Challenges Community Support of The Lafayette Public Library Join the Lafayette Public Library Foundation (LPLF) for its fourth annual spelling bee for adults. Dust off that Oxford Dictionary and start quizzing your co-workers or book club in preparation for this friendly competition, taking place Thursday, Nov. 13, at the Lafayette Science Museum downtown.

Louisiana Sen. and Cajun personality Fred Mills will be returning as emcee, and signature cocktail The Stinger will be served along with food from some of Lafayette’s best eateries, including Dwyer’s Cafe, Creole Lunch House, Johnson’s Boucaniere and Prejean’s. Acadiana Beekeepers Association will also be on hand with local honey and a demonstration hive.

This year’s teams will come up with their best answers, from the simplest word such as “library” to literary stumper “onomatopoeia.” Teams in the running so far this year include returning champions Kiwanis of Acadiana, members of Friends of the Library, Shoreline Energy, PAPS Pathology, Judith R. Kennedy and Joe Hesterly.

By purchasing a ticket, supporters of the library and other attendees are invited to cheer on their favorite spellers in a game show-type environment. All proceeds benefit the Lafayette Public Library and will go toward funding an entrance to the children’s wing in the new downtown location.

About The Lafayette Parish Library Foundation: The Lafayette Parish Library Foundation is a nonprofit organization founded in 1993. It exists to receive private funds to provide moneys for materials and services not otherwise available for the Lafayette Public Library System. As the Lafayette community’s needs for resources have changed and evolved, the funding raised by the Foundation has allowed the Library to keep pace with fulfilling its mission. Your support of the Library Foundation is a gift that you are giving to your community and your neighbors. For additional information about the Foundation and the Lafayette Public Library System, visit www.lplfoundation.org.

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About the Event What: Spell-a-bration, a spelling bee for adults ages 21 and over benefiting the Lafayette Public Library.

Dress is business attire.

Where: Lafayette Science Museum, 433 Jefferson St., Downtown Lafayette When: Thursday, November 13, 2014. The spelling bee starts at 7 p.m., but guests are invited to arrive at 6 p.m. for food and drinks from local restaurants, beer, wine and signature cocktail The Stinger.

How to Purchase Tickets/Make a Donation Supporters of the library can attend by purchasing a ticket.

Tickets are available in advance for $25 or for $35 at the door.

Call 337-593-4770, email spellabration@lplfoundation.com or visit www.spellabration.com for more details, tickets or to make a donation.

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Women of Excellence 2014 The Lafayette Commission on the Needs Women hosted the 20th annual Women of Excellence Awards recognizing outstanding women in our community who have shown exemplary leadership and have gone above and beyond to motivate and open doors for women and children in our community. Additionally, each year, a program of excellence is also recognized for its contribution to the community.

Congratulations to the 2014 winners:

Maggie Trahan Simar

Darlene S. St. Romain Darlene is known for sharing her motivation with others and encouraging them to serve. Darlene kicks off each year with a school supply drive to help improve kids’ performance in the classroom then a blanket drive for anyone who may need warmth during the winter months.

Christmas brings a toy drive sponsored by her home care agency that enables children selected to receive bicycles and various toys for Christmas. Next is a blood drive through LIFE Share. Each spring Darlene promotes healthy eating to combat childhood obesity and encourages youth who will soon be adults to live healthy and long, disease free lives.

Darlene speaks at church seminars about uplifting your own church community by volunteering your talents to your ‘base’ in religion and belief and reliance on God. Darlene was named Entrepreneur of the Year by Kisatchie-Delta and was presented the 2014 Oprah Winfrey Philanthropist award by She Phoenix Productions.

Maggie Trahan Simar, wife and mother of two, is a graduate of LSU and LSU Law School. As Hearing Officer for the 16th Judicial District’s Family Court, she makes recommendations on all family filings, including custody, child support, domestic violence litigation, and other issues from divorce, custody or domestic violence litigation. She is involved with the Louisiana State Bar Association, American Bar Association Young Lawyers Council, Children and the Law Chair, and Family Law Chair, Lafayette Bar Association, Board of Directors and Young Lawyers Association serving as President, President Elect Junior League of Lafayette, Tiger Athletic Foundation at St. Pius Elementary School, Auction Committee, Krewe of Xanadu, Queen 2013, Royalty Muse2010. Maggie is a frequent guest speaker at many local and state women’s groups and organizations.

Gail A. Lee Gail A. Lee, a wife and mother of two, has mentored girls for over 20 years with retreats, etiquette classes, serving at the soup kitchen and assisting with food banks and nursing homes. Never alone, Gail always has children from the community with her to teach and motivate to always volunteer their time selflessly. Gail began her calling as a nurse 30 plus years ago and continues to give back to her community. Gail, a Eucharistic minister of 20 years, is active in numerous community organizations including Our Lady Queen of Peace Church Parish, Knights of Peter Claver, KPC Acadiana District IV and KPC Louisiana State Board Member and committee chair, Martin Luther King Jr. Association Treasurer, MLK Mr. and Miss Pageant, and Youth Director with Modern Woodmen of America.

Lena F. Charles Lena F. Charles especially enjoys her work with the elderly, as a community organizer, and an advocate for the voiceless. She humbly believes that God has called her to serve his people and gave her the skills and gifts to do His work. She believes that women can get involved in their family or community and love them into life by simply serving their needs and connecting people to people. Lena states, “We are all connected as one so there is plenty good worth and wealth to serve the needs of many. We already have everything we need and just don’t know it.”

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Sarah Todd Schoeffler Founders’ Award for Lifetime Achievement.

Sarah’s work has been instrumental in the community. Through United Methodist Church where she is very active teaching Vacation Bible School, on the Church Council and chairing the Witness- Outreach Committee, she also organized and chaired the LA Interfaith Stewardship Committee on Coastal Restoration in 1986 and helped to form the Governor’s Office of Coastal Restoration ultimately leading to a federal commitment of funds to restore and protect Coastal Louisiana.Sarah has helped displaced families as Director of the United Methodist Committee on Relief and on the board of Habitat for Humanity. She founded Family Promise of Acadiana to help families facing homelessness and created a weekend entertainment event, all part of the Southern Garden Festival as Family Promise’s major fundraiser.

She serves on the Advisory Board for The Salvation Army and chairs the Women’s Auxiliary that manages the Christmastime Angel Trees and provides school uniforms to children in need. Active in both her son's and daughter’s Scouting, she now has served on the Boy Scout Evangeline Area Council Board of Directors and is presently Boy Scout Troop 405’s Committee Chairperson. Sarah is a member of the Lafayette Garden Club, Lafayette Consolidated Government’s Cleanest City Committee, Lafayette Parish Master Gardeners Association’s School Gardening program, Tree Campus USA committee at ULL, Sierra Club, League of Women Voters and she serves on the boards for TreesAcadiana and Save the Youngsville Oak and Bayou Vermilion Preservation Association as well as PEO Chapter Y in Lafayette promoting and supporting women along their educational endeavors.

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Wanda L. Porter Johnson Wanda is a wife and mother of three and the Literacy Coordinator for STC St. Martin Parish School Board. She believes that life is not just about work, a paycheck and going home. She feels that God gave so much for us, then she should give also.

Wanda’s family has a long history of breast cancer. As President of WWSC, she helped institute a Breast Cancer Walk to build awareness for the importance of earlier detection and a fundraiser, Kings and Queens for a Cure Breast Cancer pageant. Wanda is on the Board for the African American Museum in St. Martin Parish and promotes the museum to the youth, schools, and community because she feels that every one of every race should learn their ancestral history.

Wanda along with her pastor started Neighborhood Literacy Book Club, a Saturday morning book club for kids that recently extended to the Housing Authority. She also organized the first ever Book Fair at their school and subsequent Family Literacy Nights. She is now affectionately known as the ‘Book Lady’ at school. Wanda was featured in Women Making A Difference magazine and received a Volunteer award from the City of St. Martinville. She is pursuing a degrees in Early Childhood Education and theology and plans to write a kids’ book on modern values. Wanda will be hosting events this fall on modern morals, with life lessons for girls concentrating on topics including gossip, peer pressure, body image and materialism.

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Mary Ristroph Lahey

Donielle Gaubert Watkins

Sara Ritchey

Mary Lahey, Director of Bereavement Services at Hospice of Acadiana and Spiritual Director at St. Edmond’s Catholic Church, is a Nationally Certified Counselor, Marriage and Family Therapist, and Licensed Professional Counselor and charter member of the Acadiana LPC Group. She’s received the Leslie Lancon Award and Distinguished Professional Service Awards from the Louisiana Counseling Association and the Louisiana Association for Spiritual and Ethical Values in Counseling. Former roles as school teacher and guidance counselor paved the way to become a licensed professional counselor. Joining Hospice of Acadiana as a bereavement counselor was a result of her own personal losses and grief becoming her mission and ministry for helping others through their grief. Mary developed programming to expand its outreach of free bereavement services and helped create and direct Camp Brave Hearts, a grief camp for elementary-aged children. As Director, she enhanced community education and initiated transitional counseling for people suffering from life-altering illnesses.

Donielle Gaubert Watkins is a mother, a CPA and the Co-director of the DREAMS Foundation of Acadiana. Donielle and Brian’s first son was born with Spina Bifida. As he got older, he wanted to play baseball and many other things including acting. To meet this need, DREAMS Foundation of Acadiana was created offering sports and activities for the kids, but also solace for the parents struggling with their child’s day to day problems.

Because their son wanted to act, the Watkins became involved with Christian Youth Theather (CYT) where Donielle volunteered as bookkeeper and became the Business Manager. With CYT, they created and taught a DREAMS theater class. Their family continues to help children with special needs because she feels it is their calling in life. The latest vision for DREAMS Foundation is to create a community named Unity Village Community for special needs adults to live, work and socialize.

Sara is president elect of Faith House of Acadiana and an associate professor of history at UL. She educates students on the historical and social structures that continue to exacerbate gender-based violence and lead to blaming of victims of domestic and partner abuse and to their lack of resources. Sara brings together student groups with similar missions, assisting students in Students for the Advancement of Women and Black Women Leadership Association to program events for Women’s History Month, and organizes forums and discussions on LGBTQ issues with students in GLASS. She received the 2008 Beacon Award for her assistance with students with disabilities and serves as the Graduate Coordinator for the History MA program implementing policies to assist female students as well as to increase the diversity of MA students. As a faculty advisor to Women Organizing Women and Students for the Advancement of Women (SAW), she promotes campus opportunities for women. In 2012, SAW earned the University Award for student organization community service by raising $6,000 for Faith House.

The Glenn Armentor $10,000 Pay-It-Forward Scholarship Program of Excellence Glenn Armentor grew up in poverty as one of 10 children and by the time he reached the age of 18 had already been arrested many times. Without the thoughtful intervention of friends, family and even total strangers who helped Glenn to overcome major economic and domestic adversity, Glenn likely would have spent his life as a defendant in courtrooms rather than as one of the most successful attorneys in the South. These scholarships are given to at-risk young men or women who display the spirit, work ethic and character that is deserving of a chance for a better future as well as needy adults facing exceptional hardship. The scholarships are awarded based on a combination of attributes including: student performance, drive, ability, need and desire to seek a college degree and more.

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WOMEN IN BUSINESS Adrienne Doucet Born and raised right here in Acadiana, Adrienne has a natural appreciation for the culture of this place she calls home. After obtaining her Bachelors degree in Interior Design from the ULL, Adrienne concentrated on her office management position at a local interior design shop where she gained the business knowledge to launch her dream of a career in real estate. Once she became a REALTOR®, Adrienne made the effortless decision to join Lafayette’s leading real estate firm, Van Eaton & Romero.

She hit the ground running and has been recognized for her outstanding multi-million dollar production each year since. Adrienne feels that the most rewarding and joyous part of her profession is guiding families and individuals in the most important and exciting purchase of their lives, while making it fun and educational at the same time! A bubbly personality, love of community and passion for her career makes Adrienne Doucet the best choice REALTOR® for any of your real estate needs!

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Lauren Michel With over a decade of banking and lending experience, Lauren Michel has helped hundreds of Louisiana families achieve their dream of homeownership. As a previous relationship banker, she understands the importance of affordability when purchasing a new home. Extensive lending knowledge empowers Lauren to recommend loan programs that match her clients’ needs. She offers a variety of financing options including Conventional, Jumbo, FHA, Rural Development and VA loans. Lauren is also a specialist in credit management and analysis, which affords her the opportunity to assist everyone, even those with past credit problems. Lauren uses a passionate and optimistic approach to mortgage lending. By handling every client as she would herself, Lauren ensures a smooth, informed and pleasant mortgage experience. Give her a call today and she’ll help make your dream a reality!

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Lafayette Community Health Care Clinic to Celebrate 21st Anniversary at Silver Bell Soirée Clinic Honor Sr. Betty Lyons, OSF for Her Dedication and Support Lafayette Community Health Care Clinic will host its seventeenth annual Silver Bell Soirée on Dec. 4, 2014. This special event will celebrate 21 years of providing Lafayette Parish’s working uninsured with medical, dental, and pharmaceutical services at no charge. The Clinic opened in October 1993 as the first free clinic in Louisiana and has since served as the model for five other free clinics in the state. Because of the Clinic’s pioneering visionaries, LCHCC is able to celebrate being at the heart of the community for over two decades.

The Silver Bell Soirée will be held at the Palmetto Club, from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. and will be the kickoff event for the holiday season! This social event will include hors d’oeuvres, drinks, music, and a silent auction.

“We are so excited for this year’s Silver Bell Soirée,” says Chairman of the Board, Karen Hardy. “Last year was a huge success. We had an outpouring of support from the community, and this year is shaping up to be just as successful. Our sponsors recognize how important the Clinic is to the community, that LCHCC is a worthy cause to get behind. When you talk to our patients, they always express gratitude for the time our volunteers put in at the Clinic. Over and over again patients tell us that we save their lives. It’s so re-affirming to hear how critical LCHCC is, and to share our patient’s heart felt testimonials. The Silver Bell Soirée is a crucial fundraiser for the Clinic, but the point-- the heart, of the event is to tell people our story—the story of the patients we serve, the medical professionals that volunteer their

time, and the community members that have supported us for over two decades.”

“We say that the Clinic is at the heart of the community because it truly is a labor of love,” adds Past Chairman Dr. Jay Culotta.

“Our founder, Dr. Terry Cromwell, dedicated so much to creating the Lafayette Community Health Care Clinic, and he spread that passion and dedication to the entire community.

The Clinic’s performance speaks for itself. Since opening our doors over 20 years ago, the Clinic has provided and coordinated medical, dental, and pharmaceutical services at a value of more than $23.2 million at no cost to our patients.

That health care translates to chronic conditions being managed, less sick days taken, more productive hours in the workplace, and a stimulated economy for Lafayette Parish.”

This year’s Silver Bell Soirée will honor Sister Betty Lyons, OSF, with the l’Abeille d’Or (Golden Bee) Award. Like the dedicated, diligent, and inspiring worker bee, Sister Lyons has been an avid supporter of the Lafayette Community Health Care Clinic for many years. The event will be catered by Bon Temps Grill, well known for their delicious Cajun dishes. For more information on tickets and sponsorship, call LCHCC’s Marketing and Development Coordinator, Kate Longoria, at 337-593-9208, ext. 222.

About Lafayette Community Healthcare Clinic: The clinic is a volunteer-driven, private non-profit organization that offers free medical, dental, and prescription services to the working uninsured of Lafayette Parish. The Silver Bell Soirée is the Clinic’s signature event, and is one of the ways money is raised for these critically needed services, as the Clinic does not receive federal or state funding.

Join LCHCC on December 4th for good food, drinks, and a worthy cause!

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Party Etiquette 101

If you’re the one planning the dinner party, Emily Post recommends a specific blend of guests to achieve the perfect dinner party:

• Two “sparklies” from different professions or backgrounds

• Four solid listeners who are skilled at drawing information from others

• One charity case

• One mystery guest who will make guests wonder who they are, where they come from, and why they are included

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Party time will soon be upon us, so here’s a refresher course on how to behave yourself at social gatherings. First and foremost, when invited to a gathering, you must respond to the invitation to give your host a heads up as to how many guests to prepare for. If you receive an invitation on which RSVP appears, you must call or write the hostess with your response. Formal dinner invitations should be responded to in writing. You should not wait to see if you get a better offer, or “feel” like attending.

Look at your calendar, check with your partner, and make a decision relaying that message quickly to the host who was kind enough to include you.

Can you ask who else was invited? Yes, but you must accept before you ask!! You may say, “I’d be delighted to attend your party. May I ask who else is invited?” If you are unable to attend and must decline the invitation, you would say, “I regret that I will be unable to join you. Thank you for the invitation.” You do not need to give personal information as to why you cannot attend. Details on your upcoming hemorrhoid surgery do not need to be divulged!

Even though your guests come from different backgrounds, you should never invite people to a seated dinner party who have no reason to get to know each other: look for a common connection that will make for interesting conversation. Cocktail parties, however, are the perfect vehicle for paying back invitations and inviting guests who would otherwise have no connection to each other.

The more the merrier!

When to arrive? Eight minutes after the start of the event is ideal—twelve, max. Fifteen minutes after is late. The hostess should be at the door greeting guests until 12 minutes after the party begins. We know, everyone drifts in to cocktail parties when they feel like it, but this is the rule for polite society.

If guests appear at your door early, put them to work! They can check that there’s toilet paper in each bathroom, vacuum, dust, etc. It’s best never to go early to a party because your hostess might be scrambling to handle last minute details.

Think about how you would feel if someone showed up twenty minutes early and you were still applying makeup or had curlers in your hair.

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The only proper way to start a conversation with someone you’ve just met is to ask a question or ask for advice.

Approaching the door—always use the sidewalk! Never cut through someone’s yard to get to the front door. Never use a side door, back door, or hop the fence. Always use the front door and knock. Even if the door is open, knock.

Gifts are expected by the host of a dinner party but not by a host of a cocktail party or buffet. Disposable hostess gifts such as hand soaps, wine, chocolate, or flowers in a vase are great ideas. Don’t show up with a bunch of flowers; they may be beautiful but your hostess will have to stop and find a vase in the midst of handling party affairs.

Seek out guests who seem lonely or isolated and start a conversation; your host will be so appreciative. The only proper way to start a conversation with someone you’ve just met is to ask a question or ask for advice. Stay away from the topics of politics, religion and sex.

Don’t ask questions of a personal nature. Stick to light and airy banter.

If you want to circulate and are stuck in a conversation, wait for the person to pause and say, “Well, it was lovely to talk to you. Would you excuse me?” You do not need to go into details about having to go to the rest room, etc.

Pay attention to the party dynamics and recognize when it’s time to go home—and go! Never be the last to leave and be ready to leave at least 15-30 minutes before the party is scheduled to end. When you leave, find the host, whisper, “I’ve had a lovely evening. Thank you for having me,” and leave.

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Thanksgiving Reconciliation When Love Revives

I was 28 when I learned I had a brother and sister I never knew about. It was at the funeral of a paternal aunt. I watched from across the funeral parlor as my father took his 40-something daughter and son into his arms. Even today as I write, tears flow.

It was a dramatic reconciliation. In that greeting, my father and the children of his first marriage came together once again following a 30-year estrangement.

Estrangements are something that can be ignored the rest of the year. However, holidays cause us to feel keenly such divisions in relationships: The lack of connection between family members; the avoiding being in the same room together; the empty chairs at the table.

As my family gathered for the ensuing Thanksgiving dinner, far more than a nice meal was at stake. Love was reviving. It was sweet; awkward; heart-warming. Six more places were set at the table—for my brother and sister, their spouses and children.

During the meal, no words of old hurt were spoken. Later, those words emerged in private, intimate conversations. My sister to my mother, “How could you…?” My sister to my father, “I was so hurt…” My brother to my father, “I’ve missed you…”

What do you say to all that pain? At 28, I didn’t know. But I know now.

And then I help them get specific about the pain they hear the lamenter expressing.

I explain that this is not an apology. Rather, it is the expression of heart-felt empathy we feel when we visit a funeral home and say to the bereaved, “I’m so sorry for your loss.”

It is not a message of responsibility; simply a deeply understanding expression of caring and love.

As partners speak these words of empathy, I watch as a sacred moment • Sometimes the lament sounds like a occurs. The communication in which pain complaint (“I was so hurt.”) is met with empathy inevitably produces a • Sometimes like anger (“How could you?”) profound experience. In fact, I’ve named this expression of deep empathy The Anthetic • Sometimes silent withdrawal Sacrament. It’s a psychological sacrament; • Many times simply tears a deep communion of hearts and souls.

It’s where Reconciliation begins.

When family members learn to

Perhaps you are facing this holiday recognize the various forms of laments season with the stress of estrangement in as cries of pain, they can begin the task your relationships. Whether large or small; of reconciliation. For what is essential in recent or long-standing, such rifts in our reconciliation is that the lamenter needs to relationships cause pain in our hearts and in receive deep empathy. They need to know their pain is seen and understood. As I work our families. If you are experiencing this, I want to offer you my empathy and say, with couples and families, I teach them an I am so sorry you are going through this hurt.

Anthetic Therapy communication skill for You deserve to have healing and love. expressing deep empathy. As the person

And I offer my holiday wish for you: with the lament cries out in pain, I guide the listener to get in touch with their caring May deep empathy be spoken in your conversations; in your family rooms; at your and empathy and to say, “I am so sorry you holiday tables. May love and peace reign. are in pain. You don’t deserve that.”

In my work as a marriage and family therapist, I’ve developed concepts and skills to help families who have suffered estrangement. What I’ve learned is that the protests and blame and words of hurt spoken by my sister and brother were what I now call a lament. A lament is a cry of pain. When a family has experienced estrangement, they will be bursting to speak their laments.

Abour the author: Kathryn Elliott, Ph.D., is Director of Anthetic Psychology Center. She specializes in marriage and family therapy, equipping couples to repair and revitalize their relationships. She is co-author with James Elliott of Disarming Your Inner Critic. Her latest book, Hearts Entwined: The Love Letters of Therapist Soulmates is available on amazon.com and barnesandnoble.com. You can also get a copy at Anthetic Psychology Center, 337-234-8221.

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TRAVEL

Exceptional Family Christmas Vacations

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…and as schools are set to provide ample time off during the holidays, many families are opting for an all-out Christmas vacation, with an opportunity to expose young minds to new traditions, cultures, and ways of celebrating the season. Family resorts in recent years have caught on to this travel trend and have created some truly magical Christmas programs. From carefully curated menus to tasteful silver bells Continental United States The Ranch at Rock Creek | Phillipsburg, MT

If you’re dreaming of white Christmas adventure that will appease the little kids & big kids alike, then The Ranch at Rock Creek, 6,600 acres of pristine snow-covered ranch land in western Montana, will certainly fit the bill. What’s exceptional about this resort is that in addition to traditional downhill skiing at nearby Discovery Ski Basin, you can also take advantage of on-property snowmobiling, snowshoeing, cross country skiing, horse-drawn sleigh rides, snow shoeing, ice skating, ice hockey, and snowcat tours right outside your doorstep. You’ll also enjoy spending time with the kids making gingerbread houses, decorating cookies, making ornaments, building snowmen, complete with visits from Santa and his Elves. And it’s all included as part of Rock Creek’s holiday package, along with your luxury accommodation, all gourmet meals, snacks, beverages, guides, gear and airport transfers.

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lining beachfronts, they pull out all the stops to make for a magical and memorable vacation for the entire family. Moreover, the vast majority of resorts offer inclusive rates over the holidays, meaning all meals and activities are already included. That’s sweet Christmas music to many ears.

The following are three exceptional locales to spend the holidays whether you prefer your toes to be in ice-skates or in sand.

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family resorts in the Caribbean. Passports are not required making it an easy destination for large multi-generational holidays. You’ll be greeted by festive music and moko jumbies (stilts walkers) on the dock, and although you’re in the tropics the conspicuous stockings hung on palm trees and colorful ornaments strewn throughout the resort are clear reminders of the season.

What makes Caneel Bay exceptional for families for festive break is that their Christmas program includes activities specifically designed for every age group from child to teen to adult. So while your 5-year old is taking a watercolor painting class, and your 12-year old is paddle board racing, you can enjoy a private yoga session followed by a gingerbread cocktail seaside.

European Marbella Club | Marbella, Spain

The famed European Christmas markets draw visitors worldwide each year to shop. One of the most unique, cultural destinations for the entire family to enjoy this experience can be found in Marbella, Spain where the deep Spanish customs are still authentically intact. Coincidentally one of the most stylish family resorts in all of Europe, Marbella Club Hotel, is located just down the road from Old Town Marbella. Here you’re able to peruse markets, happen upon Christmas concerts

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and beautiful public nativity scenes, meet Santa to hand-deliver those Christmas lists, and then sit down for tapas at the end of it all.

Because of this southern Spanish city’s location it affords yearround moderate temperatures and blue skies so all of the typical watersports & resort activities are available to the entire family, along with an award-winning kids’ program highlighting culinary, horticulture, pottery, and art classes. There’s even an aroma workshop where children can create their own personal fragrance from the garden.

While the younger ones are tended to, you can perfect your tennis game, he his golf game. And it would be remiss to not mention the Thalasso Spa on property offering a full range of beauty treatments, as well as personalized multi-day regimes for relaxation, well-being, detox, and rejuvenation. An exceptional holiday you won’t soon forget.

Destination holiday travel has continually been on the rise in recent years as more and more folks look to create new traditions with their family. Resorts around the world – domestic, Caribbean, European – have answered with exceptional packages and programs epitomizing the Christmas spirit.

About the author: Lafayette-native Lila Fox lives in Madisonville with her husband and is owner of Constant Tourist Travel, a travel consultancy catering to the discerning traveler worldwide. She is a specialist in European travel, with a penchant for pairing city experiences with countryside experiences often blending in soft adventure and bespoke culinary. For more information about planning your next trip with Lila, she can be reached at lila@smartflyer.com.

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The Thanksgiving Table This Thanksgiving, bring the festivities into full effect with some of our favorite dinner table ideas. We have pulled together a few key elements that will “wow� your guests!

Layout Style Will you be hosting a simple dinner for family at your dining table? Or is the whole of the family and friends coming to mingle and mix over a more banquet-style event? Consider how everyone will be seated around the table. A large central centerpiece will undoubtedly look fantastic, but in a more practical sense, can make conversation difficult for those seated on opposite sides of the table. Will you be serving your food at the table, or will it be laid out in a more buffet-style serving? Those who enjoy passing the mashed potatoes around the table to their loved ones will want to leave room for turkey and the variety of home cooked dishes on the table. For those who prefer a more banquet-style dining experience, there is more freedom for larger centerpieces and more detailed place settings.

Centerpieces Our favorite trend this fall is repurposing our decorative Halloween pumpkins. Take your un-carved pumpkins and turn them into beautiful and festive centerpieces for your Thanksgiving table. Simply hollow out the pumpkins much like the first step of a jack-o-lantern, and place inside a bouquet of fall-toned flowers.

Chrysanthemums, Gerber daisies and roses are all wonderful choices and in season during fall. For a more unique look, pick a variety of interesting succulents to incorporate into the mix. These repurposed pumpkins make beautiful centerpieces that are eye-catching, self-contained, and easy to make.

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Napkins With all the food served and enjoyed this time of year, be sure to have napkins on hand. These napkins, however, serve a dual purpose. Napkins are a great way to add color and design to the dinner table. Even the simplest place setting can be dressed up with a single napkin. Select napkins based on the colors in centerpieces and dishware. A simple fold, or napkin wrapped in twine or a neat napkin ring will bring beauty and style to the table.

For more elaborate napkins, there are numerous websites with step-by-step instructions for the most complicated designs.

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EAT WELL Thanksgiving Lagniappe Give your guests something to talk about this holiday season. Whether your Thanksgiving table is a cornucopia of tried-and-true traditional favorites or a mélange of the unexpected, these delectable recipes from Junior League of Lafayette are sure to please.

Autumn Salad

Serves 6

If you are looking for a salad to prepare that is easy and delicious, an Autumn Salad from Something to Talk About (pg. 117) is a nice choice.

The dressing is packed with flavor and uses a local Abbeville product, Steen’s Cane Syrup. After adding the blue cheese and candied pecans, this salad will wow any Thanksgiving guests.

Crunchy Candied Pecans 3 tablespoons butter ½ cup sugar 1 ½ cups pecan halves For the dressing, combine the cane syrup, mustard, vinegar, oregano, basil and Cajun seasoning in a bowl and mix well. Whisk in the olive oil gradually. For the pecans, line a baking sheet with foil and butter the foil. Melt the butter in a heavy 10-inch skillet over medium heat. Stir in the sugar and pecan halves. Cook for 4 to 5 minutes or until the sugar melts and turns a rich golden brown, stirring constantly. Remove from the heat. Spread the pecan mixture on the prepared baking sheet. Let cool completely. Break into small pieces.

For the salad, toss the salad greens with the desired amount of dressing in a large salad bowl. Top with the blue cheese and candied pecans.

Salad 6 cups mixed salad greens (green-leaf lettuce, Boston lettuce, red-leaf lettuce, Romaine) ½ cup crumbled blue cheese

Dressing ½ cup cane syrup ¼ cup Creole mustard 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar Pinch of oregano Pinch of basil 1 teaspoon Cajun or Creole seasoning 2/3 cup olive oil

Easy Pumpkin Swirl Serves 8-10 This lovely the lovely Easy Pumpkin Swirl from Something to Talk About (pg. 97) is a breeze to put together and is full of sweet, creamy icing. This dessert makes a beautiful addition to the Thanksgiving table alongside pumpkin and pecan pies.

For the cake, preheat the oven to 375 degrees. Combine the eggs and granulated sugar in a bowl and beat until fluffy. Stir in the pumpkin. Combine the baking mix, cinnamon, pumpkin pie spice and nutmeg in a bowl and mix well. Add to the egg mixture and stir just until mixed. Stir in the nuts. Pour into a 10x15-inch baking pan lined with waxed paper or parchment paper. Bake for 13-15 minutes or until the cake tests done. Dust a clean kitchen towel with confectioners’ sugar. Invert the cake onto the towel. Remove the waxed paper. Roll the warm cake in the towel as for a jell roll from the short side and place on a wire rack to cool. For the filling, cream the confectioners’ sugar, cream cheese, butter and vanilla in a bowl. To assemble, unroll the cooled cake carefully and removed the towel. Spread the filling over the cake and reroll. Chill until serving time.

Cake 3 eggs 1 cup granulated sugar 2/3 cup canned pumpkins ¾ cup buttermilk baking mix 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice ½ teaspoon grated nutmeg 1 cup chopped nuts Confectioners’ sugar

Filling 1 cup confectioners’ sugar 8 ounces cream cheese, softened 6 tablespoons butter, softened 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

About Junior League of Lafayette: Members are given the opportunity to help those that may need it—whether it is helping a young child adjust to foster care or building a playground for children. Junior League of Lafayette’s cookbooks have also touched many lives along the way. These cookbooks provide financial support for the League to carry out their Mission to promote voluntarism, develop the potential of women and improve the community through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. If you would like to purchase a Junior League of Lafayette cookbook, please call Junior League Headquarters at 337-988-2739 or go to www.juniorleagueoflafayette.com.

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How to simplify holiday shopping this year

Does the prospect of holiday shopping make you dance with joy, or tremble with dread?

Americans seem pretty evenly split into both categories, a CBS News poll found last year.

(BPT) Love it or hate it, holiday shopping has to happen. The National Retail Federation says more than 90 percent of Americans celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah or Kwanza. So why not take some steps to streamline your holiday shopping, and make it as easy and cost-effective as possible?

Timing is Everything Certain items will be deeply discounted on Black Friday, such as

Plan early—and firmly Even if you love it, last-minute, directionless holiday shopping can create stress. That’s why for some American shoppers, the holiday shopping season starts as early as Sept. 30. Start by making a holiday shopping list as early as possible. Your list should include every person you have to shop for, a budget allotment for his or her gift, and at least two good gift ideas. Be sure to include a few generic items that can work as reciprocation for unexpected gifts you receive, or for anyone who may slip your mind until the last minute.

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Once you have a plan and budget in mind, stick to it. While some flexibility can help you take advantage of a great deal, sticking to a plan can help you avoid overspending—and ensure no one goes without this holiday season.

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home goods and everyday items like coffee makers and cameras.

Other items–like electronics and even cars– are likely to go on sale as the end of the year approaches and sellers strive to clear out Research when a particular item you want is likely to go on sale.

You might even be able to find a friendly sales clerk who will alert you to an upcoming sale.

While Black Friday will always be a great deal-finding day for stoic shoppers willing to brave the crowds, Cyber Monday is also a good time to find hassle-free deals. The Monday after the long Thanksgiving weekend traditionally yields great prices on clothing, home goods and electronics for online shoppers. And anyone will find the best prices–albeit fewer choices–immediately after the holidays.

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Research when a particular item you want is likely to go on sale. You might even be able to find a friendly sales clerk who will alert you to an upcoming sale.

Pick a payment method that pays off for you Consider how you’ll pay for your holiday shopping. Many people like the convenience of credit cards, but then you have to keep track of all of them. Meanwhile some shoppers prefer to carry cash to avoid overspending, but lost or stolen cash is gone forever.

Another option that’s both convenient and trustworthy is PayPal. PayPal is there to help alleviate holiday shopping stress and is accepted in-store, online and via the mobile app at some of the major national retailers and local merchants. Shoppers can use PayPal to help avoid long lines, receive special offers based on their location, and pay quickly online, in-store and when dining at participating locations.

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for you, do it—shamelessly. If it’s easiest to buy gift cards for everyone on your list, have at it; virtually every online and brickand-mortar retailer now offers gift cards. PayPal offers a select few merchant’s digital gift cards, too. With your smartphone, you can now maximize your time and schedule to purchase and send a gift card at a later date or instantly for a last minute gift. You can even buy them from websites that sell gift cards from a variety of merchants, and grocery stores generally have a display dedicated to gift cards. Put them in a pretty package or simply hand them over in an envelope, gift cards remain one of the most-desired holiday gifts.

Be shameless about negotiating and taking advantage of shopping incentives like free shipping. While many online retailers already offer free shipping on holiday orders, you have nothing to lose by asking for it if a merchant doesn’t offer it.

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HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE

Part One

The holiday season and time for gift giving is fast approaching. There is a wonderland of shopping, right here in Acadiana!

Visit these fine retailers and local boutiques to get the perfect gift for everyone on your list.

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Shop at The Birds Nest this holiday season and find the perfect present for everyone on your list! Choose from unique gifts, home décor & accessories, local art, jewelry and baby & children’s items. Shown: Santa Bella Jewelry, GiGi New York Leather Accessories and Nest Fragrances.

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Quality, custombuilt furniture along with an Interior Shop makes Bare Wood a one-stop shop for holiday gifts. Home and yard décor, such as the Evergreen Bird Bath or the Charmed Life Serving Tray with interchangeable glass charms, are great ideas for that special someone.

715 Bertrand Dr., Lafayette, LA | 337-234-5639 Clothing

Shoes

Accessories

Lafayette, LA

715 Bertrand Dr. - 234-5699

2207 Kaliste Saloom Rd., Lafayette, LA | 337-534-4252

Smart Profile is an “all-in-one” facial cleansing device.

It’s unique functionality and features make it highly effective for all skin cleansing needs and it addresses specific areas and individual skin care concerns. This smart-enabled device has the ability to communicate specific protocols and variable speeds to provide the most effacious cleanse.

Bevo’s caters to junior and misses customers. With two locations, they offer an ever-changing selection of clothes, shoes, and accessories such as the Replica coin necklaces available in silver or gold.

4498 Johnston St. Lafayette, LA 337-981-4449

331 Doucet Rd. Lafayette, LA 337-769-7546

With the largest showroom in Louisiana, Capitol Cyclery offers high quality bicycles of all types, as well as full service bike repair, even if the bike was bought elsewhere. Their friendly and knowledgeable staff is dedicated to helping find the bike that best fits your needs and budget, such as the 29er Raleigh Talus with hydraulic disc brakes for $549.

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When shopping for exquisite jewelry, there is only one name that comes to mind, Paul’s Jewelry. With a large selection of fine jewelry, their associates are dedicated to making your experience the best in Acadiana. Visit them for the Zeghani by Simon diamond cross with 14k gold chain or the 14k brushed gold floating diamond pendant.

325 Oil Center Dr. | Lafayette, LA | 337-233-6975 600 Silverstone (at Camellia) | Lafayette, LA | 337-981-7600

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1. Brightly Twisted Scarf 2. PJ Salvage Waffle Robe 3. VSA San Benito Magdalena Necklace

Pamper the ladies on your list with our clinically advanced, rejuvenating skin care products, guaranteed to make them glow for the New Year! Gift Cards available.

1245 S. College Rd., Bld. 5 | Lafayette, LA | 337-235-6886

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1. Milly Shrug/Jacket 2. Marc Jacobs Watch 3. Chanel Earrings 4. Ralph Lauren Boots

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A high-end designer women’s andchildren’s consignment, The Clothing Loft has everything to dress you smartly from head to toe.

On The Boulevard | 117 Arnold Blvd | Lafayette, LA | 337-984-4141

Shop Jewelie’s Boutique for superior service and selection.You’ll appreciate their knowledgeable, friendly staff and complimentary gift wrapping.

They’ve been dedicated to the fun of dressing and accessorizing well since 2004.

407 Rena Dr. | Lafayette, LA | 337-984-8009

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1. Underwraps Hidden Pocket Scarf – Hide your phone, ID, keys, or flask.

2. Akola Collar Necklace – Colorful & lightweight, handcrafted from paper beads and re-purposed metal.

3. China Baroque Jewelry – One of a kind jewelry handcrafted from pieces of antique china.

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1. Glo Minerals Keepsake Collection, Train Case, Time Capsule, Lip Gloss Tin.

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2. Archipelago Candles & Room Spray in Joy Scent, a holiday blend of orange, cinnamon & spice 3. Dermalogica Buy 3 or more service gift certificates and receive 20% off!

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223 Doucet Rd., #B1 | Lafayette, LA | 337-984-9972

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The Remarkable Promise Gift Package (left) makes it easy to receive the gift of custom jewelry that you design yourself.

It all starts with you dropping the hint at www.diannaraejewelry.com/hint The Odyssey Collection (below) features a rustic and refined look that is both ancient and stylishly contemporary. Crafted exclusively at Dianna Rae Jewelry.

500 Settlers Trace Blvd.

Lafayette, LA | 337-706-7316

Shop superior quality care and a dedication to achieving a beauty that is uniquely you at La Belle Center for Cosmetic Surgery. Stop in for excellent gift ideas such as Glo Minerals Revive Hydration Mist, Resolution MD Cellulite System or Obagi 360 Regiment.

4906 Ambassador Caffery Pkwy Lafayette, LA 337-247-9776

Find unique gifts, boutique clothing, front door parking and free gift-wrapping at Get Wet Shop. Pick up gifts like Elf on a Shelf, Poo-Pourri Bathroom Spray for your gentleman or the Blingsting Pepper Spray Purse Charm.

3229 Ambassador Caffery Pkwy. | Lafayette, LA | 337-981-7946

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The Clarisonic Smart Profile, sold exclusively by physicians & spas, is the brand’s elite “all-in-one” facial cleansing device.

Makeup, bruses and accessories are easily contained in this quilted cosmetics mat that crinches closed into a travel-ready clutch.

1103 Kaliste Saloom Rd, Suite 300 | Lafayette, LA 337-456-3282

Allure Enhancement Center offers quality services at affordable prices. From our luxurious spa services to our medical aesthetic injectables, they have something for everyone.

500 Juliette Place, Ste. B | Lafayette, LA | 337-412-6334

Tabb’s has a great selection of styles for tweens and women, including jackets, sweaters, leggings, Palazzo pants and shoes from Volitile and Steve Madden.

105 Englewood Dr., Ste. 104 Lafayette, LA Next to Robert M’s 337-456-8603

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1921 Kaliste Saloom Rd #104 Lafayette, LA 337-534-8527

If you need gift ideas for that hard-to-please someone, Pieces of Eight’s knowledgeable staff is ready to help you select unique gifts such as the butterfly, snowman or partridge in a pear tree ornaments from the beautiful Michael Aram line.

902 Coolidge Blvd. | Lafayette, LA | 337-232-8827

Located within our hometown pharmacy, you will find an incredible gift shop with exquisite candles, baby items, ULL, LSU & Saints merchandise, home décor and jewelry. Fill your Christmas list with Shelley Kyle perfumes, Scent Savvy lamps, Forever in Your Heart jewelry and a large selection of scarves and hats.

103 E. Main St. | Broussard, LA | 337-839-8880

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Little Town is big on style, selection and service. They now offer a new line in expanded sizes from x-small through 3X. Visit them to browse this reversible lightweight jacket, rabbit pompom wrap and statement necklace for your holiday needs.

1116 Coolidge Blvd., Ste A | Lafayette, LA | 337-268-9499

Elena’s is a one of a kind boutique specializing in fashionable natural fiber clothing in vintage to high end styles along with versatile bags, hats and other accessories.

Choose gifts from unique jewelry lines such as UNO de 50 and others.

1116 Coolidge Blvd.

Lafayette, LA 337-234-4555

With only top of the line medical grade products, we offer Clarsonic Pro for Face & Body to customize your cleansing experience. Also, to improve the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles and pores, any woman would love Regenica Day Repair and Reginica Overnight Repair.

117 Rue Fontaine | Lafayette, LA | 337-347-6482

Give something a little unexpected with Happy Socks for men and women.

Their funky take on a classic stockingstuffer is sure to bring a “happy’ grin to everyone’s face!

Gifting a special guy this season? Help him show some southern pride with a Ragin’ Cajuns cap from Southern Marsh and sleek flask to stash his spirits by State Traditions.

101 Arnold Blvd. | Lafayette, LA | 337-984-7749

Steal the show when you present this bold Vince Camuto bag to a very lucky lady. Stash some sweetly scented TOCCA perfume inside for an extra surprise!

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500 Juliette Place, Ste. B Lafayette, LA 70506 337-412-6334 223 Doucet Rd., #B1 Lafayette, LA 70503 337-984-9972

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Coco Eros' boutique

4906 Ambassador Caffery, Bldg M, Ste. 1 Lafayette, LA 70508 337-247-9776

Bevo’s

Dermatology Center of Acadiana

1116 Coolidge Blvd., Ste A Broussard, LA 70518 337-268-9499

Barewood Furniture Center

715 Bertrand Dr. Lafayette, LA 70506 337-234-5639 2207 Kaliste Saloom Rd. Lafayette, LA 70508 337-534-4252

The Bird’s Nest

331 Heymann Blvd.

Lafayette, LA 70503 337-233-5000

Brother’s ‘ON THE BOULEVARD’ 101 Arnold Blvd.

Lafayette, LA 70506 337-984-7749

Caroline & Company 113 Arnould Blvd, Lafayette, LA 70506 984-3263

Capital Cyclery

4498 Johnston St. Lafayette, LA 70503 337-981-4449

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1245 S. College Rd., Bld. 5 Lafayette, LA 70503 337-235-6886

Little Town

Paul’s Jewelry

Dianna Rae Jewelry

325 Oil Center Dr. 337-233-6975 600 Silverstone (at Camellia) 337-981-7600

Dr. Duplechain / Laser Skincare of Louisiana

902 Coolidge Blvd.

Lafayette, LA 70503 337-232-8827

Elena’s Dress Shop

1921 Kaliste Saloom Rd., Suite 104 Lafayette, LA 70508 337-534-8527

500 Settlers Trace Blvd.

Lafayette, LA 70508 337-706-7316

1103 Kaliste Saloom Rd., Ste 300 Lafayette, LA 70508 337-456-3282 1116 Coolidge Blvd.

337-234-4555

Get Wet Shop

3229 Ambassador Caffery Pkwy.

Lafayette, LA 70506 337-981-7946

Pieces of Eight

Spa Les Jardins

Tabb’s

105 Englewood Dr. Lafayette, LA 70503 337-456-8603

Towne Pharmacy 103 E. Main St. Broussard, LA 70518 337-839-8880

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CELEBRITY ADVICE The Company We Keep Do you have people in your life who seem to shroud themselves in drama? It’s almost as if they need to be in the middle of an unbearable catastrophe in order to function in their day-to-day lives. Take a moment to look at the company you keep and evaluate how many drama lovers you find.

We are a reflection of the people we surround ourselves with. Look within and decide whether you are a part of the crowd that creates and lives among the drama. If we’re all being really honest, we would be nodding our heads, knowing we fall victim to this. See whether any of the items below resonate with you.

Someone is always out to get you -- the co-worker who dropped the ball on his portion of the project, the older man who cut you off, the server who forgot to leave the tomatoes off your salad.

Is your first reaction to get angry with these people?

Many of us feel as if their intent was to offend or upset us. We yell at them, flip them the bird or whisper bad things about them behind their backs.

When we really think about it or maybe even ask them, we discover it wasn’t about us at all -- so why do we take it upon ourselves to be so bothered?

now is very different from the way our grandparents did. Texts and tweets and emails -- these allow for a lot of lapses in emotion and judgment. Without eye contact and voice inflection, we are left with a big window to interpret how someone is communicating. If you find yourself upset by the wording of an email, first stop and ask yourself why you’re bothered, and then reach out to the person and ask for clarity. There are so many times I find myself in this situation and then come to find out I was manifesting feelings and emotions that were never meant by the sender.

Reading into something that isn’t there. Times have changed, and the way we communicate

The conversation inevitably turns to someone who is not present—crazy Aunt Sally

and her decision to adopt an 11th cat or the neighbor whose recycling bin is always full of wine bottles.

The second you find the conversation turning into a judgment against someone who isn’t around to share in the conversation, you’re entering a terribly toxic zone. Remember that the person you are speaking negatively about is your mirror. Stop pointing the finger at that person, and look internally to understand why his or her life choices bother you.

Once we can let go of some of the entirely unnecessary dramatic and toxic behavior we hold on to so tightly, our lives will feel a whole lot simpler— resulting in a whole lot of happiness.

About the author: Jenny McCarthy is an advice columnist, model, television host, comedic actress, New York Times best-selling author and activist.All Rights Reserved © Creators Syndication 2014.

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Once we can let go of some of the entirely unnecessary dramatic and toxic behavior we hold on to so tightly, our lives will feel a whole lot simpler—resulting in a whole lot of happiness.

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A Tour of Duty in Public Service Mandi D. Mitchell

By Nicole LaCour | Photography by Moore Photography Š FACE Magazine, All Rights Reserved

“When I think about myself…the two buckets of my life are family and community.”

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Mandi D. Mitchell has fond memories of summers in Churchpoint with her grandmother, riding along as she delivered food for Meals on Wheels.

An easy smile crosses Mandi’s face

Pamela Lewis and Janet Hyatt nudged

as she thinks about those summer days of

Mandi forward, giving her no doubt that

her childhood. She may not have realized

she could pursue a science career and

it at the time, but those days laid the

achieve anything she wanted to. While

groundwork for the pillars of Mandi’s life.

these women were speaking to her of

possibilities two other women in her

“When I think about myself…the

two buckets of my life are family and

life, her mother and grandmother, were

community,” she said.

showing her by their own actions the

values that would guide her life.

Math, science and personal integrity

are the other pillars in her life, ones that

combine with her love of family and

most inspirational figures in my life. I look

dedication to service to make for a rather

back now, I didn’t really realize it, but they

unusual career path.

were instilling in me the importance of

being helpful to those in need. I’ve never

Mandi is an engineer and a lobbyist.

“My mom and my grandma are the two

She’s worked for the Army Corp of

seen more unselfish people than my mom

Engineers, BellSouth (AT&T), owns her

and grandmother.”

own consulting firm, and is now serving in

what she calls her, “tour of duty in public

mom to Mandi and her brother she

service,” as the Director of Governmental

worked as a “roustabout” in Lafayette’s

Affairs for Louisiana Economic

oil and gas industry, carrying out manual

Development (LED).

labor alongside men before entering her

profession as an educator. Mandi learned

So how does an engineer become a

When Charmaine Ford was a single

lobbyist? Well, first she had to become

early on that sacrifice and hard work are

an engineer.

tools for achieving your goals.

Mandi was always good at math and

When Mandi spent a summer in Xavier

science. Attending Alice N. Boucher,

University’s SOAR program, her love of

N.P. Moss and then Northside High

science was solidified and she found her

School, Mandi was lucky to have strong,

calling, or at least one of them. SOAR

encouraging women in her life, who

stands for Stress On Analytical Reasoning

recognized her abilities and encouraged

and Mandi was in her element, immersed

her. Educators like Ms. Francis Shaw,

in logic and reasoning.

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“I had fun and it helped me to realize

her home “south of I-10,” as she puts

that it was a good fit for me.” So she

it. She saw little room for advancement

became an engineer, receiving her

in the network operations side of

Bachelors from the University of New

business, so she went back to school and

Orleans (UNO) in 2000.

earned a master’s degree in business

administration in 2003 while still working

Far from being an introvert, Mandi

exercised her natural ability to organize

at BellSouth. Recognizing her potential,

and lead early in life by throwing

Bill Oliver, then-President of Operations

herself into as many clubs and service

at BellSouth invited her to apply for

organizations as she could, building

the position of Regional Manager of

on those values she learned at home.

Governmental Affairs, essentially a

Collecting food, picking up litter, tutoring

lobbyist for BellSouth. Mandi found her

her juniors, Mandi made service a part of

second calling.

her life. In college she began a lifelong

affiliation with Delta Sigma Theta, a

successful at her craft, she decided to go

service and leadership-based sorority at

out on her own and founded a consulting

UNO. She served as vice president and

company. Her firm served clients such

president and was selected as Delta of

as the Chamber of Commerce, United

the Year for her dedication to the sorority.

Way, Louisiana Realtors Association

and Louisiana Oil and Gas Association.

After a couple of years working for

By 2009 Mandi had become so

the Army Corp of Engineers, Mandi

Through her work, she built a strong

accepted a position at BellSouth (AT&T)

reputation with lawmakers as a

as an electrical engineer. There she

trustworthy source of facts and with her

joined the Telephone Pioneers of America, clients as an effective influence in proa community service organization of

business issues.

BellSouth and the BellSouth Network of

African American Telecom Professionals

Mandi is quick to dispel the myth of the

or BNAT for short. There she worked to

popular image of a D.C. lobbyist. For her,

raise money for a variety of charities

a lobbyist is first, an educator, providing

in New Orleans and volunteered with

a service not just to her clients but to

Habitat for Humanity. Within these

lawmakers as well. Mandi said she relies

groups, Mandi’s flourishing leadership

on two main weapons when it comes to

skills excelled as she moved beyond

influencing lawmakers.

college extracurricular activities.

she said.

“I would find things to get into and

So what does it take to be a lobbyist?

“I arm myself with the facts,”

ways to give back to the community,”

she said.

integrity. Often Mandi will provide both

sides of the issue to a lawmaker, so they

Clearly Mandi had become more than

Her second weapon is personal

an engineer. Soon, others would recognize know ahead of time what arguments the her extraordinary set of abilities.

opposition will present.

As an engineer at BellSouth,

Mandi faced a challenge many South

You have to have access, build a good

Louisianans do. She wanted to move

relationship and be armed with the facts.

up, to advance her career but she didn’t

It starts with integrity.”

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“Lawmakers don’t have a lot of time.

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As a lobbyist Mandi used both her

Services, a clinic providing health care to under

intellectual training as a engineer where

or uninsured.

the world of facts and figures are black and

white along with the more nuanced skills of

said is becoming of greater importance to her.

community service where having access means

Growing up with modest means and perhaps

ignoring office hours and sessions dates and

fewer opportunities than more “privileged”

seeking out lawmakers through networking

children, Mandi’s path could have been

opportunities and community events.

different.

Her private work eventually caught the

Public education is an issue that Mandi

“You know, I could’ve been written off,”

attention of Stephen Moret at Louisiana

she said.

Economic Development (LED) and he recruited

Mandi to serve “from within” as a government

and she flourished under the influence of a

employee, advocating for Louisiana businesses

lifetime of mentors who saw value in the range

through incentive and stimulus-based

of skills she exhibited. Now, she hopes to fight

legislation. Although with this new role she

the misconception that not all children can

is no longer a registered lobbyist, her role at

achieve equally. Mandi hopes to focus more

LED centers around educating lawmakers on

at the “ground level,” by finding a way to be

policies that support LED’s mission of providing

directly involved in students’ lives.

quality jobs in our state. She’s completed

two legislative sessions with LED and is now

feel the pull to go “north of I-10,” or become

preparing for the goals of the 2015 session,

a high-powered, K-Street, D.C. lobbyist.

which include tweaking existing programs so

That would take her too far from her beloved

that Louisiana remains competitive nationally

Lafayette where the most important thing in

and globally.

her life is: her family. Sundays are spent with

her daughter Mandalyn and an extended family

Asked if she ever feels frustrated by the

Instead, her innate abilities were encouraged

Despite her earned stature, Mandi doesn’t

politics that inevitably comes into play in a

of siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and

career dedicated to influencing public policy and

nephews. Over food, music, and laughter her

Mandi remains the optimist.

family continues the tradition of mentoring the

next generation.

“What I love about democracy,” she said, “is

it can be a bit frustrating at times, but in the end

it all works out for the best.”

public office one day, maybe a school board or

city council seat? For now, her answer is, “not

Never forgetting her commitment to service,

She is often asked if she might run for

Mandi uses her access to lawmakers and

yet.” If she ever does, you can bet that she will

skills as an influential force to advocate for

be a formidable force for positive change in

community issues like healthcare and education.

her community as she continues to grow as a

She is on the board of Lafayette General Health

professional bringing her unique combination of

Systems and was instrumental in establishing

a scientific mind and dedicated leadership to all

a Lafayette location of SWLA Center for Health

of her endeavors.

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October 25, 2014 | Blackham Coliseum To benefit Compete 4A Cause, Unity Village Community

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10th Annual Buddy Walk

October 25, 2014 | Photos by Philippe Mott To benefit Down Syndrome Association of Acadiana

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