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MARCH 2012

EVERY BRIDE

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Katie FERGUSON When the going got tough, this Lafayette bride stuck around. A lesson in love against the odds and a romance you won’t forget.

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CONTENTS

58 l THE FACE

MARCH 2012

Lafayette’s sweetheart prepares for a walk down the aisle. The beautiful love story that was strengthened, not weakened, when the going got tough. And their hope for the future – together.

18 l INSPIRED

A genocide survived. A story of unbelievable forgiveness. And the chance to change your life.

20 l GET DIRTY

Head to your own backyard for healthy veggies and fruit this spring with our simple tips from this busy working mom who made time to dig in.

24 l RACE GIRLS

Race for the Cure rolls out the pink pavement for their annual event to battle breast cancer. Why you should be lacing up your sneakers.

28 l TIL DEATH DO US PART

Learn why preparing for life after the aisle is actually more important than your wedding bouquet or bridesmaid dresses. (And the questions every bride should ask now.)

33 l BEAUTY AND THE BRIDE

Makeup and hair done right for the big day two ways. An inside look at the best in beauty for the young brides as well as a breakdown for those not-too-spring chickens making their way down the aisle.

36 l YOUR STYLE

Ensure your wedding day reflects your one-of-a-kind style with our quiz.

40 l RSVP

The ins and outs of invites from Acadiana’s expert in invitations.

48 l WHAT TO WEAR

The wedding season is fast approaching and with it come a bevy of events from formal fetes to sweet little garden gatherings. We show you 8 looks – one for each occasion that may crop up when your pals say ‘I do.’

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Everyone has challenges, but it is the choices we make in overcoming those challenges that define who we will ultimately become.”

– Katie Ferguson

IN EVERY ISSUE 08 l EDITOR'S DESK 12 l COOKIE'S CORNER 14 l HEALTH MATTERS 16 l FAMILY MATTERS

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f Lafayette had a Sweetheart you'd be hard pressed to find someone more fitting of the title than Katie Ferguson.

"Everybody loves Katie. " It's hard not to. She's a kind soul with a quick wit in rare combination. And in the last year and a half has become the leading lady of her own epic love story. I’m reminded of a quote from a movie that in essence says we should each be the leading lady of our lives (not the sidekick).

When it came time for FACE's annual bridal issue there seemed no one better to grace the cover than Katie. And so, in the spirit of full disclosure I admit that I knew Lafayette's sweetheart long before our interview began. As I watched her love story unfold I knew hers would be a story FACE readers needed to hear. When the man she was dating landed in less than four feet of water in the Ouiska Chitto and broke his neck, Katie found that the most unlikely of circumstances are just the ones that can bring us together. (If we have the wisdom to slow down and listen.)

In less than two months Katie readies to make that trek down the aisle and we have the beautiful story of the journey that lead her there on page 58. The thing about Katie (and other wise brides) is that it's clear she has planned more for a marriage than a wedding day. It's something every bride should do. And it’s something our expert wedding planner Valerie Woerner did. Check out her advice on just how important planning for life beyond the petal-strewn aisle is - after all, she is a newlywed herself. For some more sage advice on the questions to ask before 'I do' check out Cookie Tuminello's column. Our straight-shooting contributor doesn’t miss the mark when it comes to a wake up call for any ladies

hoping to turn that frog into a prince. Every little girl wants to get married. But not everyone truly wants to be married. And so, we have you covered from the moment you get the ring on your finger until death do you part.

Our bridal section is packed with tips on looking fabulous on the big day no matter your personal style, age or budget. And for those non-brides we have eight looks to get you through wedding season. Today’s weddings are as diverse as brides themselves (thank goodness), which means a new set of rules when it comes to suiting up for the affairs.

A March issue wouldn’t be complete without a rundown of what’s to come at this year’s Race for the Cure. Susan G. Komen has landed in the headlines as of late and we have the breakdown straight from the mouth of local representatives and survivors on just what it means to the women of Acadiana.

And so this spring as the weather warms, we hope you take the lead and become the leading lady of your own life whether you’re readying to walk down the aisle or not.

Amanda Bedgood is the editor of FACE Magazine. Send your fashion inspirations, interesting stories and other musings to amanda@facelafayette.com.

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REACHING OUT

A new health fair slated for Walgreens on Johnston and S. College is bringing nutrition and health info to the masses. For the first time, the Acadiana Nutrition and Dietetic Association, a professional nonprofit group of registered dietitians and dietetic technicians-registered, is celebrating Registered Dietician Day with the community-wide health fair March 10. The Walgreens Pharmacy has partnered with the group to bring blood pressure checks, body composition analyses and cholesterol screenings along with various nutrition education on healthy cooking, heart healthy eating and weight management.

The group’s president, Kate Rountree, says it’s part of an effort to engage the community more.

Instead of a professional organization that offers networking and professional services, the ANDA is working to bring the community more information they need.

“Our big push is to provide some basic nutrition and health information to the public at no charge.

To understand what a dietician does individually,” Kate says.

Head out to the community health fair March 10, and for more information about the organization or to find a dietitian (for personal or corporate needs) email ANDA at eatrightacadiana@gmail.

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Taking place in the main gallery at the AcA, org. For more information click the more info tab Southern Open is open to all visual artists over below or email southernopeninfo@gmail.com. the age of 18. Entries can include painting, sculpture, drawing, photography, video/DVD and other multimedia / installations. Works A charitable event to benefit the Leukemia & that are original, completed within the past two Lymphoma Society hosted by City-Parish President years and not previously exhibited at the AcA Joey Durel and Mary Guidry, who are two of the will qualify for submission.

Nominees for Man & Woman of the Year, is slated for A juror's pick award of $1,000 and two $500 late March at Randol’s. All proceeds will go to the will be announced at the opening reception on Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

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Mediterranean Diet for a Healthy and Happy Family

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Last month I discussed the ever so popular Paleo Diet, and this month I am addressing a different “diet” appraoch - the Mediterranean Diet and Lifestyle.

The Mediterranean Diet is the perfect blend of heart-healthy food full of flavor, easy to prepare, and has been prescribed as the "diet" to live a long and healthy life.

For years the Mediterranean culture has been studied and the verdict is out! Not only does the Mediterranean diet contribute to a decreased risk for heart disease, diabetes, cancer, Parkinson's and Alzheimer's disease, but the Mediterranean lifestyle also plays a major role in one's quality of life and longevity. The Mediterranean lifestyle includes slowing down to enjoy and savor the food that is served, sharing meals as a family in both the preparation and while eating, and engaging in regular physical activity.

10 Principles from the Mediterranean Diet and Lifestyle That Are Good for Your Heart: 1. Increase physical activity. Walk more.

Take the stairs. Sign up for a walk or run.

The point is the more you move, the better it is for your heart. This is one key principle that people living the Mediterranean life do on a regular basis.

2. Eat mostly plant-based foods such as fruits, vegetables, whole grains, legumes and nuts. Focus on consuming more foods that are grown from the earth and reduce intake of process and packaged foods.

3. Use olive oil and canola oil for cooking and flavoring instead of butter and other foods high in saturated fats.

4. Flavor foods with fresh herbs and spices instead of salt.

5. Eat fish and seafood at least twice a week.

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Get additional yvettequantz protein needs from poultry, eggs, cheese, yogurt, nuts and legumes.

7. Limit intake of red meat to once a week or less.

8. Consume red wine in moderation (2 drinks per day for men, 1 drink per day for women) 9. Cook as a family and eat meals together.

10. Slow down and enjoy the flavors of the food you are eating.

The Mediterranean Diet is not at all about deprivation, but instead it is about eating foods that nourish the body while still providing pleasure at meal time. ” Yvette Quantz, LD, RD, CLT, is a Lifestyle and Sports Nutritionist and owner of Food Therapy, LLC. E-mail her at yvette@foodtherapyonlin.com and get more information about Food Therapy at www.foodtherapyonline.com.

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No Amount of Magic Can Transform

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Congratulations! You’re getting married.

How beautiful is that? Your wedding day is fast approaching, and you’re so excited and in love. You have talked about everything you want your wedding day to look like and planned it down to the minute detail – right down to the color of the flowers on the cake. And you just know that you are going to live happily ever after in marital bliss. Until one day when the honeymoon is over (about three months), your honey tells you he wants a home cooked meal every night, or honey wants to live in the country and you want to live in the city, or honey wants one child and you want five. OMG!

“Do not marry a man to reform him. That is what reform schools are for.”

–Mae West What happened to your prince or princess? You just thought that after you got married everything would miraculously flow along smoothly, and those slightly annoying habits would magically disappear. Unfortunately, these things don’t change. A frog is a frog is a frog, and no amount of magic is going to transform that frog into a prince or a princess.

So, what happened? You have to plan

what you want your life together to look like long before you plan the wedding.

That stupendous day only last 24 hours, but your marriage is going to be for FOREVER. (Well, most of the time anyway.) And communication conducted with love, honesty, compassion, respect, trust and shared values are going to give you the keys to a successful marriage.

Does it mean you have to agree on everything? No, but it does mean that you have to see eye to eye on the basic things so that when they do come up you will be able to get through them.

Why is it that most couples want to just skip that step and go straight to the

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a Frog into a Prince bliss part? For the majority of people, fear is what stops them because these are hard conversations to have, and there is a lot of vulnerability involved. Then there is the fear that you may not like what you hear and one of you may leave. While that is entirely possible, it’s much better to find out now than later that your viewpoints are worlds apart on crucial subjects.

For example: LIFESTYLE: Where do you want to live?

House or condo? City or country? Meal preparation – who takes care of this task?

Household chores - equally divided or equally hated? Vacations – to the tropics or ski slopes? Cars – two of them or one

shared vehicle?

FAMILY: Children? How many if any? Educational expectations for your offspring?

Private versus public schooling? Trade school versus college?

FINANCES: Are you both going to work?

Whose career comes first? Joint bank accounts or separate? Credit cards – how many and in whose name? Who pays what expenses? Pre-nup or not?

RELATIVES: How are you going to divide up your holidays with family? (This one is always a touchy subject especially if one party isn’t exactly in love with their inlaws!)

cookietuminello Marriage is a partnership. It is about learning and growing. And hopefully you are in that relationship to learn and grow together. So, why would you want to spend your life dragging someone else along with you kicking and screaming all the way?

Care enough about yourself to create the life you want and deserve and have “The Conversation” before your walk down the aisle to happily ever after.

Cookie Tuminello, Leadership and Team Building Coach, is the founder and CEO of Success Source, LLC. Cookie can be contacted at cookie@cookietuminello.com.

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Second Time How to handle that walk

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Recent research indicates that four out of every ten weddings are second marriages for one or both partners.

If your first marriage ended in divorce, set aside some time to think before you enter into a second marriage. Honestly evaluate why your first marriage failed and think of ways to “get it right the next time.” Usually a bad marriage is not one person's “fault,” but the responsibility of both partners. Before marrying again, ask yourself what you would do differently this time if things were not going well. You might think about turning to counseling with a new spouse earlier, changing your attitude, or laying certain expectations on the table from the beginning. A goal of remarrying is not just to start again but to learn from past challenges and to personally grow from them.

Like first marriages, a “encore” wedding is a family affair and always an emotional event. Even a couple who plan to keep the day simple and informal will find themselves caught up in the hopes and expectations of other people.

If a couple is older and are paying for their own wedding they are perhaps free of parental decisions, but there are other important people to consider: children.

If there are children of one or perhaps both of the people getting married, then extra thought and planning must go into the day. It may be that the children are playing a reluctant part of the wedding plans, and as ‘children of divorce’ may have very mixed feelings about a mother or father actually marrying someone new. Seeing a parent remarry, for example, ends the child’s fantasy of her biological parents remarrying. Children may feel disloyal to one parent if they attend the wedding, and they may or may not like the person their parent is marrying. The time to have those heart-to-heart discussions about a new stepparent is well in advance of the wedding. Children, of any age, will need to air their opinions and have their views heard and also, perhaps, need to be reassured about what changes will take place after the wedding. Many parents are undecided about whether children should take part in the ceremony at all, but interestingly, children who were excluded from the celebration often feel the most resentful. Here are a few tips for including children in second weddings: • Involve them. This is a great way to prevent them from feeling alienated and to help them get excited about your marriage.

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• Encourage kids to offer input on or adult could serve as bridesmaid, • Have a child give a reading or a wedding day decisions. This will make speech if s/he desires. them feel part of the process. Ask for • If a child is musical have him or input on everything from the wedding her perform during the ceremony or day music to the favors. reception.

• If kids are artistic or into crafts, • Don’t force kids to take a role. Ask have them make favors, place cards, them if they would like to participate, invitations or wedding programs. Also and if so what they would like to do. have kids help decorate the venue.

As always, the key is communication: • A young girl can serve as flower girl with your spouse-to-be and with your or ring bearer, while a young boy can children. serve as ring bearer.

Amy Cavanaugh, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist with Center for Psychiatric Studies and the infant mental health • Preteens could serve as junior groomsman, usher, maid of honor or consultant for the Healthy Start Program of the Family Tree. bridesmaids or junior ushers. A teen best man

“Children, of any age, will need to air their opinions and have their views heard …”

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My secret to quick and delicious yet healthy cooking is keeping a well-stocked pantry – it’s like having a permanent shopping list – keeping all of your basics on your shelves, such as low sodium broths, canned tomatoes, whole wheat pastas, frozen and canned veggies – allows you to pull an ingredient out of the pantry and whip up a go-to nutritious meal in minutes with out having to stress about what is for dinner. Take advantage of the time-saving shortcuts that are available these days. One of my very favorite time-savers is rotisserie chicken! If a recipe calls for cooked chicken, grab a delicious rotisserie chicken a step is saved. There is no stress in the kitchen and if you stick with me you will see how putting a healthy meal on the table is easy and delicious! Makes 8 servings.

Barbecue Chicken Pizza This is one of our favorite pizzas so I created an at-home version. With a bought crust and leftover (or Rotisserie) chicken, this is our family favorite. Rotisserie chicken works well too.

1 pound skinless, boneless chicken breasts, cut into small pieces Salt and pepper to taste 3 ⁄4 cup plus 2 tablespoon barbecue sauce, divided 1 (10-ounce) can prepared pizza crust or Boboli crust

1 cup shredded Gouda cheese 1 cup shredded part-skim Mozzarella cheese 1 small red onion, thinly sliced 2 green onions, chopped

1. Preheat oven 425°F. 2. In large nonstick skillet, season chicken with salt and pepper and stir-fry over medium heat until done. Remove to bowl and toss with 2 tablespoons barbecue sauce.

3. Coat nonstick pizza pan with nonstick cooking spray. Unroll dough and place in pan; starting at center, press out with hands. Spread pizza crust with remaining 3/4 c sauce.

Sprinkle evenly with Gouda, Mozzarella, red onion slices, chicken and green onions.

4. Bake 8-10 minutes or until light golden brown.

Nutritional information per serving: Calories 303, Protein (g) 24, Carbohydrate (g) 29, Fat (g) 9, Calories from fat (%) 27, Saturated Fat (g) 5, Dietary Fiber (g) 1, Cholesterol (mg) 58, Sodium (mg) 612.

Diabetic Exchanges: 3 lean meat, 2 starch.

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Inspired

An extraordinary woman arrives in Lafayette

By Amanda Bedgood • Photo by Mike Bedgood

Renee Helmer of Lafayette, left, with best selling author and international speaker Immaculée Ilibagiza who survived the Rwanda genocide.

Immaculee is slated to lead a retreat at the Cajundome March 16 and 17.

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To say Immaculée Ilibagiza is a survivor would be an injustice.

The striking woman survived the 1994 Rwandan genocide. She survived when most of her family was brutally murder. She survived life in hiding in a cramped bathroom with seven other women – for 91 days. She survived an ordeal that left the 115-pound university student a mere 65 pounds. Yes, she did survive. But, in the years following her ordeal she has done far more than survive. She has done more than thrive. She has changed, and is changing, the lives of millions with her message of hope and her proof that forgiveness is possible no matter the circumstance.

Immaculée may seem an unlikely candidate for the pages of FACE Magazine. She does not live in Acadiana nor was she born here. But, this month, she will lead a retreat at the Cajundome that will no doubt change the lives of thousands of women in Lafayette. It won’t be the first time.

Immaculée, who travels the globe with her message of hope, is a best selling author who has inspired millions with her story of forgiveness for those that persecuted her and murdered her family. The daughter of a devout Catholic father, Immaculée turned to the rosary beads her father gave her before she went into hiding in 1994. Rather than allowing anger and resentment about her circumstances to rule her life, Immaculée turned to prayer and began praying the rosary as a means of drowning out the negative emotions building. And so, she prayed. And prayed. And really, when you meet her, it seems she never stopped.

It’s something Lafayette’s Renee Helmer noticed upon first meeting Immaculée. Renee is now a personal assistant to the globetrotting speaker during parts of her work. She first met Immaculée at a retreat in Louisiana.

“She asked us to stand and pray for guidance on this journey. When she went into prayer – it was her whole body. Every cell. I said ‘one day I want to be able to pray like that,’” Renee says.

And for the past two years Renee has been pursuing that sort of prayer life and finding herself in a better place in every way thanks to her experience with Immaculée.

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The retreat slated for March 16 and 17 includes Immaculée sharing how what she learned during those 91 days in the bathroom can change lives. How forgiveness is always possible.

“She helps us apply those things to our everyday lives.

We don’t want there to be a genocide before we start trying,” Renee says.

Immaculée sat down with us during a visit to Lafayette to talk about why this particular area draws her near after years of speaking around the world.

“People of Lafayette care,” Immaculée says simply. “The people, the food. I really connected and I feel at home. It’s very Catholic. It’s a culture of cooking and welcome and so much like where I come from.

Faith means a lot to people here. I just feel at home.”

When Immaculée speaks there is a sense of calm that’s nearly indescribable and an air of humility rare when one considers the phenomenal breadth of her reach with best selling books that chronicle life in the bathroom and life beyond. She is a testament to how much women can achieve through the power of faith. And she says it’s something

she saw as a child in her own home.

“My mom was a pillar of our family. We (women) carry so much pain. A woman – we worry so much about our families and our husbands. I just pour my heart out,” she says of her work. “I’m hoping women say ‘it doesn’t matter if I’m told I’m weak because I cry.’ They are not. They are strong.”

Immaculée knows the strength of women. She is an example of it. As are the millions of women who were persecuted and often raped throughout the period of genocide in Rwanda she survived.

“Through God women can survive anything,” she says. “You can. You are beautiful. You are made in the image of God.” And as such, have the capacity to forgive. It’s an unlikely choice to forgive those that persecuted you and murdered your family. But, Immaculée has and it is her hope that the lessons she learned will be passed on to others.

“A woman’s strength is amazing and the love of a woman is almighty.”

To learn more about the event and buy tickets go to immaculee.com.

“Through God women can survive anything.”

– Immaculée Ilibagiza

Immaculée Ilibagiza survived the Rwandan genocide in a cramped bathroom with seven other women. The 91-day ordeal left the 115-pound university student a mere 65 pounds. In the time that followed, she chose to forgive those who persecuted her and murdered her family. She is slated to lead a retreat March 16 and 17 in Lafayette.

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For busy-bee mom of three, Jamie Duhon, a constant on-the-go lifestyle has become a way of life, yet she still fills the few hours left in each day with the gardening.

“Gardening, for me, is extremely therapeutic,” said Duhon. “I started about five years ago when after I became divorced and I have been gardening ever since. I’ve made it part of my daily routine” Usually the term “gardening” refers to a simple, small backyard task with flowers, bushes, trees and potted plants, but for Duhon gardening has evolved into a 30-by-30 foot plot.

Depending on the season, Duhon’s garden features cucumbers, bell peppers, summer squash, blueberries and this year, more than 40 tomato plants, just to mention a few.

“I started simple, with just an herb garden,” Duhon explained. “But then, after asking questions and testing things out, it just got bigger and bigger.”

Duhon’s garden has become a family venture, with her three children, Gabrielle, 16; Grace, 12 and Elijah, 7, also doing their part.

“We don’t watch TV during the weekdays,” Duhon explained.

“Distractions like that take away from family time. And ya know, we’re just outside people.”

Beginning to garden may seem frightening or overwhelming to someone who has never picked up a trowel, but Duhon said

anyone can garden, just ask questions and begin with foods you like to eat.

"Some of the best tips I've received we're just from asking around," Duhon explained. "Ask at your local farmer's market.

Literally ask 'How does your garden grow?'"

She also said there is no "right way" to garden. Just do what works for you; what works for some gardeners or farmers might not work for others; experiment, experiment, experiment.

"There is nothing better than living off the land," said Duhon. "You start to try different foods, just because you've grown them. It's a sense of independence in a world of regulations."

Some tips and tricks Duhon and other gardening experts recommend are: -Start simple. Plant vegetables and herbs you like, that you will use often.

- Do not get overwhelmed. If you're overwhelmed, your garden suffers.

- Water your garden often.

-Keep weeds out and help maintain moisture by using mulch.

- Pick ripened crops often to encourage new plant production.

Duhon's garden is a place of peace and tranquility and she said she recommends gardening to any and everyone who wants a little piece of paradise.

"Ask at your local farmer's market. Literally ask 'How does your garden grow?'"

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The French would use the word ‘mélange’ to describe it. An to meet the artist, view more works as well as enjoy the swanky eclectic mix of old and new, art and style. And Johanna Villarreal vibe of the Oil Center Gardens,” Johanna says.

That swanky vibe is one that Johanna knows comes from a of the Oil Center says there is no better word to label Lafayette’s little of this and a little of that. historic district.

“We’re the design district. It’s all local with local culture with a But, the Oil Center’s executive director is doing more than touting the Oil Center as the area’s design district. She’s helping it modern twist,” she says noting the combination of shops young become that mélange of all things art and style with a new event and old with patrons young and old alike milling through them.

“You get the blend of everything,” she – So Swank. The first of its kind event will says. launch March 24 in the Oil Center GarThat everything includes the standby dens on Coolidge Boulevard with artist shops in the Oil Center as well as an infuJoseph Jilbert’s exhibit. Jilbert begins each sion of new blood. (According to Johanna piece with but one piece of metal. a new restaurant and another new design "The metal tells me what it wants to place are slated to move in soon.) And at be," Jilbert says. "It can be a 1-inch piece, the So Swank events there will be a marand, all of a sudden, it’s a 25-foot sculpriage of all of these things. And a chance ture." to check out some incredible art.

It’s just the kind of artist to kick off “We’ll have a tent with chandeliers and what will be a regular event (a few times soft seating and wine and cheese,” she a year) that will give the Oil Center a new says. collection of sculptures with plans in the While the first events will be centered future for other diverse avenues of art.

Oil Center Executive Director on sculptures, Johanna says the possibil“Jilbert’s giant whimsical metal sculpites are endless in what kind of art can be tures will line Coolidge Boulevard in the Oil Center’s first outdoor sculpture exhibit, just one of many to brought to So Swank in the future.

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Pretty in Pink Story by Sarah Blanchard

Race for the Cure readies for the big run

For the past 13 years, the Acadiana Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure floods the streets with supporters and breast cancer survivors, all plastered in pink and racing for a different reason.

This year, despite recent Komen controversy, the race will continue with help from dedicated supporters.

“Race for the Cure is more than just a walk or run— it’s an event with a festival-like atmosphere,” says Susan Allardyce, volunteer public relations chair for Komen Acadiana. “There’s a breast cancer survivor ceremony, a sponsor expo with giveaways, a children’s area with fun activities, a shopping area and the third-annual Jambalaya Cook-off.”

This year’s race will be held Saturday, March 17, in Girard Park for the third consecutive year in this location. Since its beginning in May 1999, the race was held in Downtown Lafayette, but Allardyce said the race simply outgrew the location.

“It’s a great location that has allowed us space to grow and offers a beautiful course for our 1-mile fun run and certified 5K race,” said Allardyce. “The park has also been a fantastic place to host our Jambalaya Cook-off.”

The festivities, which begin at 6 a.m., will include a 1-mile fun

walk beginning on the corner of St. Mary Street and McKinley Street. Breast cancer survivor Rachel Wickman, 37, says she and her family will most likely participate in this race, rather than the 5-mile walk.

“I always did the race just for my grandma. It was something that was important to me. Obviously now, it’s a little closer to home,” Wickman says.

Wickman says she is gathering a team of family, friends, coworkers and other survivors to participate with her in the race.

Although she participated in the race in previous years, this will be her first year completing the race not only as a supporter, but as a cancer survivor.

“This is the first year I get to go and be on the big stage with my balloon,” she says about the cancer survivor ceremony. “That will be kind of different.”

Traditionally, at each Race for the Cure the local Komen affiliate chooses a special race-day honoree, sponsored by New Balance. Delores Blair, who was nominated by her friend Neppie Trahan, was chosen as this year’s honoree, where she will be outfitted in New Balance gear and speak to race attendees.

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“I’m very touched that my friend put my name up in the first place,” says Blair, 64, who was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2000 and has participated in the race since. “I think the race is great, and it’s wonderful to see so many people participating.

Last year they had about 10,000 people. It’s a great sport for our community.

“I’m hoping the latest controversy with Komen does not prevent people from coming because it’s a great cause,” says Blair.

“Hopefully they will have as many people or more as last year.”

According to Allardyce, despite the recent backlash against the national Komen foundation, the Acadiana race remains important in raising funds and working with local sponsors.

“Last year Komen Acadiana granted $408,000 to local nonprofits who provide breast health education, screening and treatment to the women and men of Acadiana,” says Allardyce. “Our goal is to continue that mission as we make our grants for 2012-2013. The money we raise at race will largely determine how much we will be able to grant in the upcoming cycle.”

Allardyce says after four years she continues to volunteer with the organization because it’s a “special organization” to her because both her grandmother and her husband’s grandmother are survivors. She says she believes the organization, primarily run by volunteers, is making a difference in the lives of men and women fighting breast cancer.

“Without Komen, the science and medicine that treated these women’s cancers wouldn’t exist,” says Allardyce. “Komen is the largest non-government contributor to breast cancer research in the world. How could I not want to help give back to an organization that had a hand in saving these women? Knowing my

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personal breast cancer risk, I want to know that the research to find a cure will continue for me and for all women.”

For more information about the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure and registration information visit www.komenacadiana. org.

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Late registration for the race begins the day of the event at 7 a.m. before the survivor ceremony kicks off at 8 followed by the aerobics warm-up at 8:20 a.m. A one-mile fun run and walk starts at 8:30 a.m. and the 5K run/walk is at 9 a.m. An awards ceremony, entertainment and the race day expo follow the race and events include a jambalaya cookoff.

(The fee to participate is a donation of $25 for adults and children 13 and older before March 8 and $30 after March 6; the fee for children 12 and under is a donation of $20.)

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Where your dollars go and why supporters stand by their cause Story by Sarah Blanchard

In the aftermath of the Susan G. Komen for the Cure foundation and Planned Parenthood controversy, local Komen supporters hope the controversy does not distract from the local affiliate work within Acadiana.

“Unfortunately, the recent controversy has upset some in our local community, and our volunteers are concerned that we will lose support for our upcoming race,” says Susan Allardcye, volunteer public relations chair for Komen Acadiana.

The national Komen foundation, the world's leading breastcancer-research advocacy group, announced it would cut support for Planned Parenthood, which used approximately $600,000 from Komen annually to pay for breast-screening exams for people who could not afford medical assistance. Three days after the announcement, Komen reversed the decision.

“We were not affected by any of the controversy that was in the news recently,” says Allardyce about the Acadiana affiliate. “Komen Acadiana has never donated funds to Planned Parenthood.

Our affiliate takes pride in knowing that 75 percent of the funds we raise stay here in the six-parish area we service.”

Allardyce says the remaining 25 percent goes to Komen’s National Research Grant Program, which can only be used for breast

cancer research.

Some critics cited the decision to cut funding as solely political and based on the pressure the Komen foundation faced from antiabortion groups throughout the years. Planned Parenthood was the only grantee among 2,000 other organizations whose funding was cut when the Komen foundation adopted a new policy preventing the foundation from funding any group under formal government investigation.

“So much of the public opinion out there is now colored by what’s happening at other affiliates across the nation – not what’s happening here in Acadiana,” says Allardyce.

Acadiana native and breast cancer survivor Rachel Wickman said although she is not pleased with the Komen controversy, she will continue to support the organization.

“I’ve said it this way before—I don’t necessarily agree with everything they do and everything they support, but they do a lot of good for a lot of people,” says Wickman. “They’ve raised awareness to a level that is unprecedented. No one else has raised the awareness of breast cancer like they have, regardless of what they decide to spend their money on.”

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The Truth About Words of wisdom from a newlywed

Wedding planner Valerie Woerner has a special sense of just how to make that big day in a woman’s life absolutely one-of-a-kind. But, it’s her advice on preparing for far more than just that one day that she shares in this bridal issue. After a year of marriage and countless weddings planned, Valerie explains just why and how women need to plan for more than the big day – they need to plan for a life.

Planning your wedding as a wedding planner should be the single coolest thing I’ll get to do right? Wrong! Our wedding day was absolutely amazing and perfect in every way. But what came after was what I was truly looking forward to! And honestly, the “after” is the reason I got into this business in the first place.

While we were planning for our wedding day, we really prepared for our life together.

Brides, it crucial to spend time preparing for after the big white dress. I think sometimes it’s hard to imagine anything as big as that one day, but there is.

Tyler and I have been married for 16 months now. It has truly been the best time of my

life. And I don’t miss being the bride-to-be at all. I’m enjoying being the wife. So here were some of my favorite pieces of advice given to me before the wedding that has made this year so amazing.

MARRIAGE IS WORK Every time I heard this before I was married, it always sounded so depressing. But now I understand what they meant! It doesn’t mean “work” like the work you put into a job you barely like. It means “work” like the work you put into your passions. A painter works hard for their paintings but the effort they put in is so worth it to them. The rewards of that painting are a million fold the effort it took.

The same goes for marriage. The work you put

in will never compare to the joy you will get out of it.

MARRIAGE IS AS MUCH OR AS LITTLE AS YOU PUT INTO IT A successful marriage is not about what you take out of it. The second I start to look to Tyler to fulfill things only God can, I become frustrated with him. He just wasn’t created to meet my every need. If you are looking for someone to do that, hire a personal assistant.

We were created to partner together and encourage each other. By doing that, our own needs are actually met. We are innately happier when we are living unselfishly. Test that theory out. You won’t be disappointed! If, on the other hand, you’d prefer to live self-

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SEEK OUT POSITIVE STORIES ABOUT MARRIAGE We definitely had more than I bet most people have thanks to great parents, and several friends who have recently got married, but even utter the word engaged and you get an earful about needing to live it up before doomsday.

During your engagement is a time to seek out encouragement and wise counsel.

You need to go into your marriage knowing the amazing journey that awaits and encouraged that you can do it!

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ishly taking everything you can from your positive. spouse and not giving back, marriage can FIGHT KIND be a rough unpleasant road.

I had a twin sister growing up so I knew how to fight mean. I was determined to NO ONE IS PERFECT This has been my “marriage tip” for the not let Tyler and I’s disagreements escalate last few bridal showers I went to. It’s not that way. We do have arguments but we lovey dovey and sounds a little derogatory are getting better and better at expressing but the truth in it is positive! The stereo- ourselves. These talks now become an optype for women is that they are constantly portunity to learn and grow closer together trying to change their husband. Marriage rather than tear us further apart. You have is not a pet project of trying to perfect to be willing to communicate clearly and your husband. As soon as we realize that rationally though. Try to understand the is not our role, the more we can appreci- other’s perspective. Your goal can’t be to ate them for their positives instead of only hurt the other person. Our words are powrecognizing their flaws. Doing that in it- erful and what you may say when an arguself is a choice. For example, Tyler is a bit ment gets heated, may linger long after in indecisive about choosing a place to eat. your spouse’s mind. A great tool in underSometimes I get frustrated with that fact standing the way men and women think when we are trying to pick a restaurant differently is the book “Love & Respect.” but another way I can look at it, is that I was amazed at how the author seemed he is also super flexible with things I may to have taken a page from our story. Some have a stronger opinion. Reminding myself things are just universal when it comes to of his positive traits makes me fall more men and women. in love with him. Basic truth: Focus on the

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Here Comes the Bride

By Lynley Jones and Jan Swift

There are few events in life as filled with do’s and don’ts as those surrounding weddings. Learn just how to navigate it all with nothing but grace with this bevy of tips from our ladies with Grace Notes.

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h, love is in the air,” as the legendary Tom Jones has sung so passionately. And with that love comes the much anticipated wedding ceremony in which the beloved couple share their bonding in a very public way. Here are a few Grace Notes to help the lovebirds, as well as their family, friends, and colleagues, enjoy the excursion down Lover’s Lane. You may

want to check out Tom Jones on YouTube for background music and inspiration as you ponder these tips!

Invitation Did you know that each guest can add between $163 and $199 to the overall cost of a wedding in Lafayette, according to www. costofwedding.com? When the wedding invitation arrives in your mailbox, respond as soon as possible. Just because you can’t de-

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Let’s say you’ve been invited to four wedding showers for the same bride. Do you have to attend all four—and are you expected to give a gift for each shower—including the wedding? Absolutely not. Traditionally, the wedding gift should be something along the lines of china, crystal or silver.

Shower gifts are typically items that “stock” the house or linen closet, such as towels, sheets, pots, kitchen gadgets, etc.

Speaking of showers, they are never to be hosted by family members. Surprise! Showers should be given in honor of the bride by friends of the family. Additionally, showers for second and successive weddings should never take place unless there is an extenuating circumstance.

Ceremony Turn your cell phone off during the ceremony. Avoid taking pictures as the flash from your camera may interfere with the professional photographer's equipment. Don't talk or make any noises during the ceremony. Speaking of noises, those wedding programs can make lots of noise, so don’t fidget with yours.

If the ceremony follows religious traditions that you don't believe in, be quiet and respectful. If you arrive late, do not walk before the bride or make a spectacle of yourself. Instead, wait until after the bride has walked down the aisle---without peeking---and quietly enter through a side aisle if possible. Experience has taught us that it is not graceful to run up the aisle at the last minute in front of the wedding party only to realize there are no seats available. Memorable perhaps, but not graceful.

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cide whether or not to go doesn’t mean you have the right to make the bride and her family guess at how many guests to confirm for the reception. The little cards or RSVP information that come with the invitation allows the couple to finalize their plans which includes the food quantity to order from the caterer, issues related with booking a hall large enough to accommodate the guests, managing and booking guest houses for the invitees, planning the seating arrangement, etc.

Do not bring anyone with you to the wedding, even your children, if their names are not included on the invitation. Don't even ask the couple, as they set their guest list according to their budget and space limitations, and who they thoughtfully selected to attend their special day. Rest assured, if you don’t recognize any of the names on the invitation, you don’t have an obligation to attend—or send a gift. If you recognize the parents’ names but didn’t even know they had a child, then you can opt to go or not to go, depending on how well you like the parents.

Reception Talk to the couple to congratulate them and offer your best wishes, but avoid taking up too much of their time. If you’re not sure what to say, try this:

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Attire It’s not about your comfort, it’s about wearing the appropriate outfit for the wedding you are attending. The proper attire for one wedding may not be the same as another. The proper attire depends on the location, time and formality of the wedding. Afternoon weddings are typically much more casual than an evening affair, although men should still wear a suit or nice slacks and a sports coat. Sometimes, the invitation (and the wording on the invitation) will give you clues.

For example, if the invitation states "black tie," that means women should wear formal evening gowns and men should wear tuxedos. Strapless dresses or dresses with thin straps should be avoided, or covered with a wrap, if the ceremony takes place in a house of worship. White is not appropriate, although ivory or black is acceptable. If you are traveling to an out-of-town destination, you may want to check with the locals to ensure that your choice fits in with the locals. Your apparel should be nice, but not over-the-edge so that it competes with the bride's gown. People talk, so make sure you’re dressed to fit in, not stand out, or worse, chance a “wardrobe MARCH 2012

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“Thank you for inviting us/me, and congratulations on your wedding.”

Remember that everyone in attendance is there to celebrate the couple.

Talk to everyone who's sitting at the same table as you, even if you don't know them. Deep, personal conversation isn't necessary, but small talk is polite. Avoid going to the dance floor before the wedding couple: it’s their party and tradition dictates that the bride and groom enjoy their first dance together as a married couple and create a memory to be cherished for a lifetime.

Gifts Whether or not you plan on attending the wedding, send a gift to the couple. Delivering the gift ahead of time makes it easier for the couple, as they won't have to worry about arranging to have the gift brought home. Cards or money can easily be

lost or stolen during the hustle and bustle of a wedding, as well. Contrary to popular thought, a registry is a “wish list” and you are never required to purchase from that list, With that said, it is thoughtful to select a gift from the couple’s registry, or, contribute to their honeymoon or house down-payment fund if such as request has been made.

should never be looked at as an opportunity for a personal fundraiser.

It is never appropriate for the bridal couple to include registry information on the invitation. This information may be shared by word of mouth or on the wedding website, but remember that the focus is on the occasion, not the goodies.

Kindness and consideration dictate that the registry gift list contain items that accommodate all budgets. Have you ever requested to see a couple’s wedding pattern only to learn that the salad plates cost $200.00? A wedding

Lynley Jones and Jan Swift are partners in Grace Notes, LLC, an etiquette endeavor to help further society’s niceties. They may be reached at gracenotesetiquette@ yahoo.com.

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Beauty andthe Bride Look stunning on the big day (whether you’re 20 or 50) There is perhaps no day in a woman’s life that can compete with her wedding day when it comes to the importance of appearance. You may be promising eternal love and devotion for better or for worse (all that stuff that matters on the inside) – but, if there is any day you want to look your absolute best from the outside it is this day. And so we have you covered at whatever stage in life you choose to make the trek down the aisle with experts that break down how to wear what.

Perhaps the first and most absolute rule of your wedding day beauty routine is to do something that looks like you. That speaks to who you are. The second and nearly as important rule is to remember, “more is not more.” If you’re a drama queen on a daily basis with faux lashes and striking red lips, by all means keep it going for the nuptials. But, for the average or natural gal, this is definitely not the day to go over the top.

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Model (and bride to be) Brittani Bass lent us her beautiful face and hair to show just how it’s done. The experts at be. Salon gave Brittani a look that is beautiful and at once still Brittani.

Jennifer Clay was on hair. She started with a medium curling iron using only small sections of hair and applying Aveda Air Control hairspray. After the entire head was curled she went through each curl individually and separated them with her fingers. Then finished with Aveda Control Force hairspray.

Simone’ Broussard provided the makeup starting with Aveda’s sheer tinted moisturizer.

The tinted moisturizer is a combo of foundation and moisturizer with an SPF of 15. The perfect choice for a beach wedding and to keep skin looking fresh. She dusted Brittani with mineral powder and applied Amazonia Bronzer.

For the big day, no matter the time of year, try a bronzer to keep the face naturally warm in photos. For eyes, she used Aveda’s Shadows that Glistened in illumination, spark and amethyst.

She defined the eye with a brown liner (cacao liner) and topped with black forest mascara. In lieu of lipstick try a glaze that has a fresher feel.

On Brittani they used Raspberry tea.

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Ageless

The art of bridal makeup and dressing at any age Story by Louisa Alten and Rhonda Allison

New contributors join FACE this month with words of wisdom if you’re walking down the aisle at any age.

Whether it’s your second marriage, you’re not a spring chicken or you just want a timeless look for those photos (which will be around long after the flowers wilt), Louisa Alten of Forever Younger Show and Rhonda Allison Clinical Therapies breakdown the best in beauty for brides.

2 - Avoid a white dress, it is less forgiving. Choose a dress that is ivory, cream or blush to create a more flattering, age-appropriate look.

3 - Avoid big princess dresses. Choose a tailored, pare down look, a fitted bodice with a straight skirt can take pounds off of a figure.

Your bridal day is one of the most memory-filled days of a woman’s life. Your bridal pictures hold those memories for years to come. Here are a few points to keep your pictures looking timeless and forever younger.

BRIDAL MAKEUP AT ANY AGE 1 – Avoid trendy makeup on your special day. It will date your wedding pictures – cat eyeliner and glitter eye shadow. Choose, instead, soft smoky shadow over a pencil around the eyes. This will hold your look twice as long and not smudge.

2 – Avoid matte red lipstick. It can look harsh in pictures and overpowering. Choose instead when doing red, a sheer transparent red or a gloss with red in it.

3 – Avoid dark colors in blush or bronzers. They will tend to look heavy. Choose instead brighter and lighter blush colors for a fresh, clean look.

4 – Avoid using mineral powder alone. It will reflect light and can make the face look ghostlike. Choose instead a lighter liquid base or cream that dries to a powder or a translucent powder that won’t cake on skin.

FORTY (OR MORE) AND FABULOUS For the bride-to-be who is in her 40s or older, here are some tips to look forever younger on your big day.

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Your Style The options for wedding themes are as varied as the brides themselves.

Whether you’re a garden girl looking for a good time with simple touches, a vivacious glamazon destined to shine (and sparkle) or a vintage vixen that longs for days gone by – the options are endless. Find out which bridal style fits your vibe with our simple quiz. You just may be surprised.

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Which Bride Are You? I’d love to walk down the aisle in: a. A tea-length party dress perfect for mingling and games b. An all lace gown or '50s inspired flowy chiffon gown c. A stunning ball gown or chic form-fitting number

For my cake, I’m most inspired by: a. Incorporating French macaroons and tea instead of cake b. Simple two-tier cakes with antique cake stand c. Five-tier cakes with lots intricate details

For centerpieces, I’d love: a. Old tea tins of flowers or potted plants and herbs b. An eclectic mix of milk glass and silver c. Candlesticks! They’re dramatic and I love the candlelight.

The perfect way to exit would be: a. Being showered with aromatic lavender b. Guests waving vintage flags as we walk through c. Confetti and sparklers or even a fireworks show Dawn Earles

For my accessories, I have to have: a. Pearls. My motto is “Keep it simple and classy.” b. The old locket my grandmother gave me. c. Diamonds! The brighter, the better.

My dream wedding location is: a. Antique Roseville or my parent’s backyard b. The restored Opera House of the South c. Eleven Hundred at City Club of River Ranch

Dawn Earles

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You’re a garden girl. Light and fresh are the order of your day. Look for colors that are crisp with details to match.

Colorful, fun florals and too-cute dresses for bridesmaids are right up your alley. Consider an entourage of supportive ladies in a range of citrus hues, a bouquet filled with a variety of garden flowers and men in linen suits.

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You’re a vintage woman. Old romance is the ticket from a historic location to incorporation of family heirlooms.

Vintage done your way can have a more casual rustic flair or sophisticated Parisian twist – it’s your day after all.

Find a dress with details from your favorite era – romantic 1920’s lace gowns, flirty full skirts from the '50s – and try a beauty look to match a la Old Hollywood with finger wave, red lips and a birdcage veil.

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Photos by Courtney Dellafiora with styling by Courtney Dellafiora and Valerie Woerner

Buy * Sell * Lease Mostly C’s Hello, glam gal. You are the center of attention today (and every day, right?) so there’s no reason not to shine, sparkle, bling. A night wedding is likely your best bet thanks to the instant drama of a more formal affair. Lookat-me ball gowns and chic body-hugging mermaid dresses both work for the queen of the day. For bridesmaids, try a sophisticated black gown that looks straight from the runway. Photos by Dawn Earles

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Art of the How to get the most from your invitations

By Valerie Woerner

It’s the first thing your guest will see to get a glimpse into your big day. But it’s also thrown away soon after. How can you get the most out of your invitations while sticking to a budget? I’ve got several tips that I offer brides when helping them pick their invitations.

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ally depends on personal preference. Weddings today are getting much more custom to the couple instead of following a list of rigid rules. Knowing the rules before you break them is always a good idea. Someone will probably disapprove and may even voice that to you. YOU decide which rules are worth keeping.

Each company is different but you should allow for the process to take 2-3 months before you plan to send your invitations out. Ensure you have all your wording ready to go. Make sure ceremony times are finalized and locations are finalized before sending information.

Ordering Always, always, always order extras. As an invitation designer myself, I have brides ask to order 20 more or even 50 more after they receive their order. Parents may have added to the list or numbers were miscalculated. Reprints can be really pricy because of the size of the order and setup fees that printers have as well as any rush fees if you are on a Addressing deadline. This will also allow you to have a few keepsakes While hand addressing is still considered the most as well. thoughtful form, there are other options for those who barely passed first grade penmanship (like myself ).

Etiquette Print addressing - Most invitation shops or designers ofI am often asked questions that begin with the phrase fer this service. The text can even be printed in a font to “Emily Post says ... do I have to ...?” match the invitation itself to keep everything cohesive.

Can they stray from her etiquette rules? Possibly! It re-

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Invite Postage Take a full set of your invitations to the Post Office to weigh before ordering stamps. Invitations that have pockets, unique shapes or many pieces included, all require extra postage so finding out the precise cost beforehand can avoid spending too much on postage or worse, not enough.

What do I include?

With the use of technology today, it can be hard determining what information is vital to include in your invitations. formation, attire (if specified), registries and even to RSVP. Should you have a direction card, a map, hotel information?

Registries There are a few factors that can help determine this.

It’s best to not include registry information on the invite.

Know your audience If you do not have a website to share this information, many Is your guest list primarily 20-somethings glued to their guest will receive registry info through showers prior to the iPhones? Or older relatives accustomed to having information wedding. Depend on this or word of mouth to let guests know. in the invitation? Go with the majority. If that means sending everyone to the website, consider giving more information to the select few who may not use computers.

If you are getting married at a familiar location and have primarily in-town guests, a separate reception card is rarely necessary. If, however, you are getting married on a particular spot that may be part of a larger entity a simple map or directions may be needed for everyone to arrive on time.

Website Are you going to create a website for the wedding? If so, a simple card to point guests to your site is all that is needed.

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High Style The bridal gown is more fashion forward than ever. On the brink of edgy with a bountiful dose of romance, these pieces are elevated. One of a kind. You. Think threedimensional details, yards of rich lace and (for the brave) stunning feathers.

Model Katherine Gordon • Photography Mike Bedgood • Hair Josh Clark, be. Salon • Makeup Jennifer Clay, be. Salon • Styling Amanda Bedgood • Location The Victorian

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High Drama The little black cape is the perfect surprise for the bride with style who still loves a little tradition. A simple lace dress with dramatic belt is beautiful on its own. Add the cape for instant drama. From Sposa Bella, 340 Kaliste Saloom Road.

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Blooming Beauty Three dimensional details like these floral accents are a standout option. From Blanc, 1921 Kaliste Saloom, Suite 107, Park Lafayette.

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Nothing says drama like white feathers. A traditional shape paired with the most modern of embellishments. From Blanc, 1921 Kaliste Saloom, Suite 107, Park Lafayette.

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Absolutely Lovely A simple shape is all that is needed with a gown made entirely of lovely lace. From Sposa Bella, 340 Kaliste Saloom Road.

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What to Wear:

Wedding Edition Few events spark the “what do I wear?” question like a wedding. From beach gatherings and sweet garden flings to sumptuous ballroom affairs and formal fetes we show you how to show up in style when your pals say ‘I do’ from that first engagement soiree until the last grain of rice is tossed.

Model Megan Martinez • Photography Penny Moore • Hair Dane Castille, be. Salon • Makeup Nicole David, be. Salon • Styling Amanda Bedgood

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Rehearsal Dinner

A dramatic neckline in this black and white dress with belt is the perfect look for a rehearsal dinner. From Little Town, 1116 A-1 Coolidge Blvd., Oil Center.

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Beach Wedding

If the love birds are saying ‘I do’ on the sand try a long vivid dress that’s appropriate for nuptuals as well as the after party. From Vanessa V. Boutique, 5520-E Johnston Street.

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Formal Wedding

If an affair at The Cathedral is on the calendar look for a regal purple and dramatic one sleeve. From Park Lane, 1921 Kaliste Saloom, Suite 117, Park Lafayette.

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Garden Wedding

A fluttering dress is the ultimate in pretty dressing. From Knotting Hill, 201 Settlers Trace Blvd., River Ranch.

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Bridal Tea

An afternoon gathering to honor your bridal pal means something that’s at once casual and yet appropriate. Try a citrus hue and dramatic necklace.

From Vertigo, 201 Settlers Trace Blvd., River Ranch.

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Bachelorette Party

For the serious pre-wedding party a little something shorter and snugger than the usual is perfect. From 7 Chics, 201 Settlers Trace Blvd, Ste 3003, River Ranch.

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Bridal Shower

Spring’s new florals are the perfect print for a sweet bridal shower. From Jewelie's Boutique, 407 Rena Drive.

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Engagement Party

Celebrate the happy couple with an equally happy-hued dress like this color block vivid pink and orange. From Brother's on the Boulevard, 101 Arnould Blvd.

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Un deni able How an unexpected accident that could have halted some romances opened the door for an epic love.

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When Katie Ferguson talks about her upcoming wedding, the months of preparation and most certainly the challenges she and her fiancé have faced she says ‘we.’ A lot. It’s a subtle thing. Something, however, that is impossible not to notice. It’s an indicator of not only what’s to come as she begins life as a wife in less than two months. It is indicative of what has been. A journey that she and fiancé Barry Guidry began together in some ways and a journey, no doubt, they will finish together in every way, every day.

People love Katie Ferguson. She’s just that kind of gal. One of those smiles that lights up a room with a heart behind it that is just as genuine. If you know Katie, it’s not surprising that when the going got tough with her nowfiancé she did more than just stick around.

When the man she was dating broke his neck and faced the possibility of life as a quadriplegic, Katie showed up.

And she never left.

There would be a series of random meetings between the two including Katie literally running into Barry when her heel caught in the grass at Rhythms on the River. After yet another unexpected run in, Barry got Katie’s number and the two made plans at last. But, with both leading busy lives (Barry was actually in Libya working for some of the time) the two didn’t quite connect until January 2010 when Barry stood her up (a first for Katie) for breakfast.

“I don’t wake up early – ever,” Katie says honestly with a laugh.

But, with their schedules, a breakfast date was the only option. After arriving early and waiting an hour with no Barry, Katie headed to work where she was greeted by an email sent

by Barry at four in the morning. A situation that Barry, who was with the National Guard at the time, had to deal with came up at the barracks and not wanting to wake Katie he Katie met Barry sent an email. in the fall of 2008 After a phone call when he returned and apology, the to the area after two began dating more than 20 years away. But, it would be a few years before the casually. two really connected. Upon their first meeting “That was when I started paying attention,” (Katie’s best friend is married to Barry’s Katie says of the months that followed. “But, childhood best friend), Katie was seeing we were both crazy busy and just letting it someone and yet remembers some of the happen.” smallest details of Barry that night.

Then in June of 2010, Barry retired from the “I can tell you everything about him. And military and headed to the Ouiska Chitto for he was only there like 30 minutes,” she says. a canoe trip with his pals to celebrate. It was Months later the two would meet again a weekend like any other, they assumed, and at a gathering where Barry was slated to be made plans for a date when Barry returned. introduced to someone else. Barry told their Neither could have known the series of events mutual friend with certainty that it was Katie that one weekend would set into motion. who he wanted. The friend let him know it Barry and his friends took turns at a rope wasn’t the best time to pursue her. And so, he swing over the river that weekend. And in a said he would wait. freak accident, Barry landed in less than four

“I loved and cared for him as a friend and it was so special.”

“If it’s meant to be it’s meant to be and it feet of water, nearly headfirst. It would be three hours before he would arrive at LGMC. was,” Katie says.

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A mutual friend called Katie to see if the two were still dating and delivered the news.

“I had talked to him Saturday,” Katie says remembering the shock of the news. “At the time they thought he would be a complete quad.”

Katie visited Barry in the hospital, who she says even in those early days following the accident when it seemed he would be a quadriplegic, was an optimist.

“He said ‘I will walk again’ and I said ‘I have no doubt,’” Katie says frankly.

The two decided then to call the casual romance quits for the moment. Neither knew where Barry would end up for treatment or what the future held. Things were murky at best when it came to where Barry would live or the road he was facing. But, there was one thing that very quickly became crystal clear to Katie.

“I could breathe easier in his hospital room,” she says.

It would be weeks before better news of Barry’s injury would emerge and plans were made to transport him to New Orleans. As his family scattered to prepare for the departure, Katie spent the night at the hospital with him. She didn’t have a family to get home to and because she wasn’t making the trip didn’t have to pack or prepare.

“He said ‘I will walk again’ and I said ‘I have no doubt.’”

“It was a beautiful night,” she says remembering how it felt to spend time with her then friend. “I loved and cared for him as a friend and it was so special.”

Less than two weeks later, Katie visited Barry for the weekend and soon their friendship turned again to romance in spite of their plans to put things on the back burner.

“There’s too much here. We can’t not try.

Katie Ferguson and Barry Guidry are slated to wed this April after Barry proposed just weeks before the first anniversary of an accident that some thought would leave him a quadriplegic.

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“There’s too much here. We can’t not try. It’s not the most opportune time.

But we have to give it a whirl.”

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“The fortunate thing about adversity is that it causes you to act – to be more than even you think was possible.”

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It’s not the most opportune time. But we have to think was possible,” Katie says. “For me, that was the neatest part. I’m realizing that I’m give it a whirl,” she says.

And things only got less opportune. Barry stronger, more flexible, more tolerant and more would soon head to Atlanta for treatment and patient than I could have imagined.”

And as she prepares for the wedding that sense Katie flew to visit every other weekend. She got an apartment that is wheelchair accessible for of grounded peace is clear. There is no bridezilla when he returned to Lafayette and just before the attitude. It’s clear that Katie is preparing for a first anniversary of the accident Barry proposed. marriage more than a wedding day (or, in her To say things have been easy would be case, a series of wedding events including a disingenuous. But, to say they have been worth swamp tour and good old Cajun fais do-do). And in a nod to the 40 years of marriage her parents it, is accurate. will celebrate, Katie is planning to wear her “It’s a journey that has been tough at mother’s wedding dress. moments. But we’ve been able to touch people And so, in April, the girl with a one of a kind – meet people. Just because you have a disability smile won’t be starting a new life as much as she you don’t have to stop living.” will be continuing In the months a journey that has following the been years in the accident, Katie says making. A journey Barry jokes he’s worn that has done more his tux more than than better herself ever. Barry gives and those closest to motivational speeches her, an experience and is determined to that has allowed walk again. His goal one couple to touch – to run the Crescent countless others as Classic. they seek to give Katie says Barry hope wherever and practices the three P’s in his pursuit to walk whenever they can. again. Prayer, pushing and patience.

“Everyone has challenges, but it is the choices “He pushes his body as hard as he can. At we make in overcoming those challenges that therapy at Lourdes, he doesn’t ever stop,” she define who we will ultimately become.” says. “Recovery is not over night. It’s everyday miracles. He can vacuum and fold clothes and wake up in the morning and dress himself.”

“Recovery is not overnight.

It’s everyday miracles.”

In fact, Barry can feel his legs. And it’s painful.

“He never once complains,” Katie says with a sense of admiration. “He makes my life easier.

When people come to see him, they don’t know what to expect. The only difference is he’s in a chair.”

And despite the challenges that a chair can present, Katie says there is nothing in their life that’s not better. Barry, she says simply, has blessed her life. And he has, in many ways, changed it.

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showyourface PREMIER NYE PARTY Dec. 31 – Lafayatte

Lafayette’s Premier New Year’s Eve Party was, once a again, a decadent invite-only affair with hosts Richard and Crystall Young, Don and Tish Johnson, Bart and Elizabeth Bernard, Matt Dugas and Mary Guidry. The order of the evening was “A Night of Magic and Mystique.”

LES DEUX DOUZAINES PARTY

Dec. 14 – Home of Kevin and Faye Bowen The Les Deux Douzaines, the founders of what is now the Lafayette History Museum and Planetarium, gathered with members and invited guests for its annual Christmas party celebration.

Refreshments were provided by committee members.

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Oct. 29 – City Club

A shindig for the Krewe of Bonaparte brought out the wildest in dressing as it celebrated 40 years. The costume party also included the year’s newest members.

COTEAU SOIREE

Jan. 11 – Abacus Jubilee Room Alumnae and friends of the Academy of the Sacred Heart gathered in January for a casual and fun Coteau Soirée at Abacus’ Jubilee Room. Classmates of all ages gathered to enjoy drinks and hors d’oeuvres while Headmistress and fellow alumna Sr. Lynne Lieux shared updates on the school’s current programs and advancement.

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