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FIGHTING BRIGHT IDEA

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When this Acadiana mother of four faced the unimaginable, she found strength and hope. The lessons of life lived day by day and a family’s priorities forever changed.

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CONTENTS

58 l THE FACE

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There are few words more dreaded than “you have cancer” – and it’s when you learn your child does. How this Acadiana mother mustered the strength to care for her family and how the diagnosis changed her life forever.

16 l GRACEFUL LIVING The women of Grace Notes bring a special touch to dealing with life’s most delicate moments.

21 l FUN IN THE SUN Keep it cool with easy eats and ideas for an outdoor gathering doable for the whole family.

27 l HOPE FILLED One couple. One chance for a baby. The Gift of Hope.

32 l YOU OUGHTA KNOW The five things cancer patients would like you to know.

36 l HELPING HAND The best ways to help those fighting cancer and how you can be part of finding the cure.

38 l WOMAN’S BEST FRIEND A dog really can be woman’s best friend.

An event just for the pet lovers.

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I decided my only career or purpose was her ...”

– Ashlee Lalonde

40 l THE MYTH The number one sun myth busted. The truth about burns and tanning.

42 l BLACK & WHITE A great party for a great cause.

43 l THE WINNER IS …

Four people making a difference in the fight against cancer. Get ready to be inspired.

50 l SUPER BRIGHT Neon done right is just what the fashionista ordered this summer.

Wearable for any age.

IN EVERY ISSUE 08 l EDITOR'S DESK 10 l HEALTH MATTERS 12 l FAMILY MATTERS 14 l COOKIE'S CORNER 4 FACE Magazine

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10 Types of Play That Can Make You Smarter Cindy Fleming, M.Ed

Owner/Director, LearningRx/Lafayette

You probably already know what types of play can make your body stronger (sports, exercise, hiking, etc.), but did you know that there are types of play that can make your BRAIN stronger?

Like the muscles in your body, brain skills (a.k.a. “cognitive skills�) can be strengthened in a number of ways: by reorganizing neural pathways to process information faster and more efficiently, by creating new connections in the brain, and by helping the brain reroute information when there is neurological damage. Best of all, your brain’s ability to adapt and grow can happen at ANY age! That’s because we now know that the brain is “plastic� – that is, capable of adapting and changing throughout life. So yes, you understand that correctly: that also means that IQ (which is basically a measurement of cognitive skills, such as logic & reasoning, memory, attention, etc.) is never “set in stone.�

is great for logic and deductive reasoning, “Battleshipâ€? and chess are great for planning and strategy, and “Spectrangleâ€? even builds math skills! r )FBE PVUTJEF " TUVEZ PG DIJMESFO XJUI "%)% m B EJTPSEFS EFÄ?OFE QSJNBSily by weak attention skills – found a link between “green timeâ€? and the severity of their symptoms. Playing outside in the presence of grass and trees (vs. indoors or in built environments) improved impulse control and concentration. r 5JNF ZPVSTFMG (BNFT PS BDUJWJUJFT XJUI the added pressure of a time limit can help strengthen processing speed. Simon, the classic battery-operated game that produces sound and color patterns helps build almost all brain skills – including auditory processing, memory, attention, visual processing and processing speed. You can also time yourself reading, doing math computations (like balancing your checkbook!) or speed-stacking cups (check out www.speedstacks.com).

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So blow the dust off the treadmill and get started on the path to a smarter you. Because just as you can change your waistline at any age, you can also change your brain. Maybe those skinny jeans will fit after all!

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here are few things in the world that make me feel better than a good tan. In my mind I know it’s nothing more than a sign of damage. But, in my heart? Well, my heart aches for bronze skin. Year round. And even more so in the summer months. I am naturally the color of a Cullen, which doesn’t quite work for summers in South Louisiana. Years ago I finally began to find that glow in a bottle. But, it took years (and a seriously insistent spouse) for my actions to catch up with my head knowledge. The older I get the more I find that I know long before I do.

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In the pages of this issue dedicated to the fight against cancer we hope to give you just the inspiration to take what you know and finally do. It is our hope that the stories, people and facts open your eyes to the difference you can make in the lives of others (and in your own). Others like our cover girl Ashlee Lalonde, whose own daughter faced cancer at the tender age of two. Today, Haven is happy, healthy and living free of cancer. But, Ashlee learned through the experience the difference someone can make by simply showing they care (as well as donating blood).

little ways to help those facing cancer that don’t feel so little to those on the receiving end. Check out our special section for all the ways you can help.

In that section, you’ll also find ways to lower your risk for cancer. There are perhaps more myths than there are truths in the way of cancer prevention.

And in honor of summer, we tackle the hottest of them all – the sun.

When it comes to summer heat (and fabulously tan skin) nothing is hotter right now than neon.

Before you cringe, take a look at page 50 for some very grown up very wearable ways to make the trend work whether you’re in the boardroom or kicking it in capris.

And a summer issue wouldn’t be complete without a nod to outdoor fun for the whole family. We have you covered in our special that covers everything for a killer outdoor shindig from how to keep wild hair at bay to what tunes to load on your iPod (thanks to JayCee Falcon) as well as a one-of-a-kind menu made just for FACE readers from the talented Manny Aguello.

So, slather on the SPF, kick up your feet and enjoy a good read. Summer has arrived.

Amanda Bedgood is the editor of FACE Magazine. Send your fashion inspirations, interesting stories and other musings to amanda@ facelafayette.com.

There are more ways than there is time to make a difference in the fight against cancer. There are opportunities to volunteer your time, a glamorous soiree via the Black and White gala and countless

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A big job that parents have to deal with, learn about, and work to prevent is eating disorders. In the United States as many as 10 million females and 1 million males are affected with an eating disorder. About 40 percent of eating disorder sufferers are between the ages of fifteen to twenty-one years old. Every decade since 1930, there has been a rise in anorexia. From 1988 to 1993 bulimia tripled in women ages ten to thirty-nine. The mortality rate among women, who suffer from anorexia nervosa between the ages of fifteen to twenty four, is twelve times higher than the death rate of any other cause.

These are some scary statistics and every day they are affecting young women and men. This article is to help educate you about what eating disorders are, how to recognize the signs and symptoms of an eating disorder, and most of all how to prevent eating disorders. Children are very influential, they pick up on everything.

They see and hear everything we do and say. Next time you are looking in the mirror saying “I’m so fat” remind yourself that those little eyes and ears are watching you and learning from you.

What is an eating disorder? According to the National Eating Disorder Association, “An eating disorder is a serious, but treatable illness with medical and psychiatric aspects. People with an eating disorder often become obsessed with food, body image, and weight.

The disorders can become very serious, chronic, and sometimes even life threatening if not recognized and treated appropriately. Treatment requires a multidisciplinary approach with an experienced care team.”

eating disorders only affect Caucasian, teenage girls who are perfectionist, people pleasers and from an upper class socioeconomic group, no longer holds true. Eating disorders are affecting children as young as 7 or 8 years old and men and women well into their 30’s and 40’s. We are seeing a rise in eating disorders among men and young boys and eating disorders are affecting people in every socioeconomic

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What are the signs and symptoms of an Can I really work at preventing eating eating disorder? Here are a few red flags that your child may be at risk for developing disorders? Yes. Listed below are a few tips of simple things that can help build the an eating disorder. confidence of your child and prevent eating 2 8.41 "'(+# 5.(#(-& "$13 (- %..# &1.4/2 disorders. because they are “fattening?” If your child suddenly proclaims he or she is now a 1. Change dinner table talk. For many young vegetarian this could be a red flag for an people, struggling with an eating disorders eating disorder. For many eating disorder can stem from parents’ own obsession sufferers, especially young children and with dieting, weight loss, calorie control, teenagers, proclaiming vegetarianism exercise, and looks. Instead of talking about suddenly makes it the latest diet or weight loss plan that you okay and acceptable may be following, use your time together by family and peers to discuss other topics. Ask your child to avoid whole food questions about school and social events, groups such as meat, take up a hobby together that does not focus on looks. eggs, fish, and dairy.

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These are not healthy behaviors for anyone, especially young children and teens.

2. Seek professional support. If your child wants to lose weight or adapt a specific lifestyle such as being a vegetarian make sure he or she is doing it for the right reasons. Schedule an appointment with a professional such as a registered dietitian who can help educate and ensure adequate nutrient intake.

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yvettequantz sets the tone for resentment, overeating or â&#x20AC;&#x153;perfectâ&#x20AC;? look. under eating, shame, and guilt; all which can lead to a serious eating disorder.

4. Encourage activities that promote a positive body image. Involve your child in activities that make him or her feel good.

If your child is in an environment where he or she is constantly being ridiculed or made fun of by a coach or teammates, change the environment. Find positive outlets for your child to thrive in.

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If you are constantly on a diet, always talking about either your own body size or other peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s body size, your child is hearing you.

The ďŹ rst step you can take in preventing an eating disorder is to treat yourself and others with love and respect and not always focus on the â&#x20AC;&#x153;image.â&#x20AC;? If you or a loved one is struggling with an eating disorder, seek out professional support. Using a multifacet approach by working with a doctor, therapist and registered dietitian can help treat and overcome this scary disease.

Yvette Quantz, LD, RD, CLT, is a Lifestyle and Sports Nutritionist and owner of Food Therapy, LLC. E-mail her at yvette@foodtherapyonlin.com and get more information about Food Therapy at www.foodtherapyonline.com.

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Cancer Society the lifetime risk of techniques. developing cancer is one in two for men other mental health professionals can play Although the research on whether and one in three for women. Obviously, psychological treatment during cancer critical team members for beating cancer an important role in cancer treatment.

Many of my articles over the years at FACE have stressed the importance of having a support team in your life, people in your daily life who actively desire and help you secure the best for you. Having the right people on your team is especially important during times of adversity. Perhaps nowhere is this truer than in a personâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s quest to beat cancer.

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In short, psychologists and other mental health professionals can be a helpful resource to patients and families dealing with cancer and all its challenges. To learn more about how psychology can help improve cancer care, visit the American Psychological Association at www.apa.org.

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This article and theme this month reminded me of my cousin Richard, who is a colon cancer survivor. He almost died from what they called sepsis as a result of a leak in the bowel after the repair surgery. As a result, he had to have a colonoscopy which meant he carried around that bag for about 6 months and lost 30 pounds. (Prior to surgery he had quit smoking and was determined not to gain weight, so he had lost 60 pounds prior to finding colon cancer.) The same weekend he came home from the hospital, his brother died of a heart attack and he was unable to attend the funeral. We (other cousins and myself) handled it for him in Baton Rouge as he was in Memphis and unable to travel.

As a result of all that’s happened to him, he is a fanatic about working out and eating healthier. I think my cousin’s attitude is what got him through the surgeries, cancer, and having to carry that bag around on him for six months. As he says, after you have lost everything in a divorce, started over again at 50+, had cancer and almost died from a surgery faux pas, the little stuff just doesn’t matter anymore. He lives every day as if it were his last. He is a very successful landscape architect in Memphis/Germantown. And

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So let me ask you this: do you realize how much of what you think in your mind is negative and defeating? If you are going to be up to big things in your life, then you are going to

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It is the foundation for attracting more of what you do want and less of what you don't want in your life.

The Law of Attraction says that you attract to your life whatever you give your attention, energy, and focus to, whether positive or negative. So simply put, if you focus on positive and good things (thoughts) in your life, you will attract more of what you do want in your life. If you focus on not enough and negative things (thoughts) in your life, you will attract more of what you don't want in your life.

In Michael Losier's book, Law of Attraction: The Science of Getting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don’t , he states: "When you make a statement containing the words don't, not or no, you are actually giving attention and energy to what you don't want. Simply ask yourself "So what do I want?"

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Cookie Tuminello, Leadership and Team Building Coach, is the founder and CEO of Success Source, LLC. Cookie can be contacted at cookie@cookietuminello.com.

2. You do have a choice.

3. You can change this.

4. You can take back your power.

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ou get the call that you don’t ever want to get. Your close friend has cancer; your brother-in-law has been diagnosed with a terminal illness; your mother has congestive heart failure. What do you say? What do you do? How come even the most confident, caring person who is never at a loss for words can feel paralyzed with the fear of doing or saying the wrong thing? Is it better to do nothing, or jump in like a bull in a china closet bringing food, love, and good cheer?

those who have the possibility of getting well. You can imagine the reaction of someone with a terminal illness who receives a “get well soon” card. Instead, if in doubt, send a “Thinking of You” card.

Cards should be mailed to the person’s home address. Cards may be sent in care of the hospital, but you run the risk of the person never receiving the card.

visit someone who has been hospitalized, then, by all means, go visit. Make sure your visit falls during visiting hours.

Keep your voice down in the hallways, as there are sick people trying to recover!

Knock before entering and then wait for a response. If you don’t hear one, knock again. Then, push the door open and peek in. If it’s all good, enter.

Before placing calls to people who have been admitted to the hospital, ask yourself, “Is it a good time to call?” or “Would this call be inconvenient?” It’s Depending on the situation and close- much better to call their next of kin or ness of your relationship, there are tried closest family member for updates or to and true rules to fall back upon. Here are check on the patient’s hospital status. a few Grace Notes to guide your actions You can always ask the family if it would so that you may offer the love and care be permissible to call the person, directly, in the hospital. that fits the occasion.

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Don’t let the first thing you say be, “How are you?” Obviously, they are in the hospital so things could be better.

Instead, try, “I’m sorry you’re not feeling well.” Don’t say, “You don’t look sick” or “Wow! You look terrible.” Stay for no longer than 15-20 minutes, unless they ask you to stay longer to keep them company. If the patient looks sleepy and can’t keep their eyes open, take your leave. Before you leave, you might want HOSPITAL VISITS If the thought crosses your mind to to ask (for the really polite), “Is there

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anything I can get for you or do for you?” preciated by those who have either been Be prepared. If you ask, they might just giving care and are just too tired to cook. take you up on your offer.

FUNERALS When visiting someone in the hospital, it is also usually a good idea to bring along a “token of esteem” for the patient and/or his family. Flowers and plants are great, as are candy baskets and pretty much anything edible. Magazines are usually better than books because they don’t require so much concentration. Note: sometimes cancer patients are not allowed to have flowers or plants (due to the smells, etc.) so you might want to ask before sending.

HOME VISITS Home visits can be a great comfort to those suffering from illness. You must call ahead and clear the time/date of your visit.

Also, don’t stay longer than 15-20 minutes unless you ask the person if they’d like your company for a while longer. They could be lonely and bored and love an afternoon visit—just check with them first.

Also, if you didn’t already bring something to the hospital for them, this would be a great time to bring a meal or small token of esteem. Meals should be cleared by family members for schedules, food allergies, and quantity. Meals are a great way of showing hospitality and are truly ap-

service begins. If you would like to attend the graveside service, wait for instructions from the funeral director. Usually, only People’s behavior at funerals can be ap- close family and friends are invited to the palling! Make sure you wear somber, mod- graveside, as it is a more personal service est, and appropriate clothing. If you are and a time for “last goodbyes.” attending the visitation, make your way to Being a good friend and loving others the reception line and wait, patiently, for are the best gifts you can ever give to anyyour turn to speak with the loved one. The one. Your gift of love cannot be purchased correct thing to say to a bereaved person or sold, and is one of the best Grace Notes is, “I’m sorry for your loss” and that’s all. you can share. Being considerate of your Move on down the reception line. If they family, friends and co-workers in their seem like they’d like to continue the con- own time of need is priceless. Our hope is versation, then wait for them to speak. If that you tuck these guidelines away, use not, move on. them when needed, and hopefully, they We usually mess up and say things we will not be needed too often. shouldn’t under stress … so be prepared and rehearse your line. It’s highly inappropriate to ask a bereaved person, “How are you?” Obviously, they’ve been better.

So, if you want to add something other than, “Sorry for your loss,” say, “I loved them (or liked working with them) very much and will miss them tremendously.”

Then, move on.

Lynley Jones and Jan Swift are partners in Grace Notes, LLC, an etiquette endeavor to help further society’s niceties. They may be reached at gracenotesetiquette@yahoo.com.

After you’ve spoken to the family and your friends, stay only as long as you feel necessary. Again, 15-20 minutes is acceptable. If you are going to attend the funeral, be seated at least 20-30 minutes before the

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Temperatures may be soaring, but long days, relaxed no-school life and that lure of the grill make it just the time to gather the family for some fun outside.

Read on to learn just how to make your summer get together totally pulled together and utterly cool. Recipes made just for our readers, the playlist to get the party bumping and the truth about how long that potato salad really is safe on the picnic table. Pack your shorts and coozy, we’re heading outside.

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Hot Fun in the Summer

Take it Whether you’re at a condo on the Gulf Coast or in your own backyard, enjoy some time with the family (and invite a few friends) al fresco. The beauty of these casual backyard fetes and block parties are they can be as kid-friendly as you please by adding a few sprin-

Beauty Stay Pretty There are few things that wreck hair and makeup like the sweltering days of summer in south Louisiana. Even at a backyard barbeque, there’s bound to be

Hair For naturally limp hair, embrace your naturally flat locks and try a stretchy headband and sleek look. The ever-popular bun is perfect for long hot days as well. But, few looks rule this summer like The Braid. Not just for the kids, braids can be the perfect way to tame wild hair or keep limp hair from falling flat. Try a side-part and small braid along the hairline then sweep into a ponytail or create a simple side ponytail and braid to keep hair out of your face.

Perhaps the best way to battle the scary hair of summer is the summer’s must have straw fedora. Find one with a multicolor ribbon and you’ll be set in style whatever your look.

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klers and some homemade ice cream (adult friendly, too). We have you covered from what to eat, what to wear, what to listen to and how to keep those delicious eats safe even in the blistering sun.

a few snapshots. Ensure you still look Instagram-worthy long after you fire up the grill, ladies.

Body For a natural glow, forget the tanning bed and go for the faux.

(Read about how even a base tan is a bad idea in our Cancer Section this month.) There are a multitude of options on the market now that don’t leave splotchy feet or rusty elbows. The key to keeping it natural: Follow directions to the absolute letter and beforehand exfoliate, exfoliate. Our favorite right now is Fake Bake. Their new Flawless self-tanner can be applied at night and you wake in the morning a bronze goddess from neck to toe. For the face, try their Fake Bake Platinum with Cell RENEWAL & Apple Stem Cell that is silky smooth and anti-aging. If it’s your first attempt at self-tanning go for a gradual one and begin three to four days prior to event. Our favorite right now is Jergens Natural Glow Express in medium/dark, JULY 2012

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Body cont. which looks great on even the palest of complexions.

Don’t forget to apply sun block regularly during your outdoor fun.

If you’re wearing self-tanner, choose an SPF without mineral oil to avoid streaking or fading your new faux glow.

Hair

“Not just for the kids, braids can be the perfect way to tame wild hair or keep limp hair from falling flat.”

If you’re spending the day outside (or even a few hours in this top with waterproof mascara. heat), that perfectly applied face of makeup is likely to turn into Long lasting foundation – A long lasting formula that can stand up a hot mess in less than an hour. A few modifications can have you to the temperatures is a must. looking fabulous long after everyone else’s mascara begins to run.

Tinted moisturizer – If you’re not in need of much coverage, toss the Our list of must-haves for outdoor fun? base for the day and try a tinted moisturizer with SPF. Waterproof mascara – Skip the eyeliner and instead use a dark sweep Lip protection – Make sure your favorite lipstick has some SPF in it. of shadow near the lash line (or find a waterproof liner as well) then Or try a lip stain topped with SPF lip balm.

Eats

Delicious bites for the backyard party A summer gathering around these parts means good food. In fact, it really is all about the food.

And there’s nothing wrong with the old standbys.

But, we had to give you some options to really wow the crowd at your next backyard get together. And so, we headed to local innovator of all things epicurean Manny Aguello of Jolie’s for a menu that’s

both delicious and just a little daring. Watermelon on the grill? You betcha.

Corn on the cob with Pepper Jelly

1 cup olive oil Pinch of kosher salt Couple turns of a pepper grind

3 ears of sweet locally grown corn still in husk ½ cup of preferred pepper jelly Heat grill and place corn cobs on to roast. Rotate every 5-7 minutes, remove from heat. Pull husks back and twist them to form a handle. Place back on the grill for 5-7 minutes, rotating every so often till kernels for a roasted golden color. Place on a platter and brush with pepper jelly.

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A South Louisiana gathering wouldn’t be complete without a killer dessert to quench that sweet tooth. Pastry chef Jordan deVries whips up a oneof-a-kind treat to round out the day. Fire up the grill!

Cut ends off of watermelon, slice in half and stand it up to cut 2 inch thick slabs, remove rind from each plank of watermelon and trim them down to a rectangle. Cut each rectangle into 2 – 3 squares and slice each square diagonally. Place watermelon triangles on the grill for no more then 45 seconds on each side, place onto a platter in a single layer and set in the fridge. While watermelon is cooling off, whisk together champagne vinaigrette in a small bowl. Place champagne vinegar in the bowl, together with the Dijon mustard, pinch of salt, and black pepper. Begin to whisk, slowly adding olive oil. Roughly chop mint leaves and stir them into the dressing. To finish, drizzle the champagne vinaigrette over the chilled grilled watermelon. www.faceacadiana.com

Parsley and garlic sweet potato “fries”

½ tablespoon celery salt

3 Louisiana sweet potatoes 1 bunch flat leaf parsley 4 garlic cloves ¼ cup olive oil Kosher salt Fresh ground black pepper

Mix ingredients together in a small bowl, serve along side chicken.

Almond Brickle Cheese Cake

Wash, peel and slice sweet potatoes into strips. Preheat over to 350.

Toss sweet potatoes in a couple tablespoon olive oil, sprinkle with salt and pepper, bake for 40-50 minutes in a single layer. While potatoes are cooking, crush garlic cloves with the back of a knife and finely chop. Rinse the flat leaf parsley, roughly chop it and place into a small mixing bowl along with the garlic and the remaining olive oil. When potatoes are done roasting, toss with garlic parsley and serve warm.

“Fire Bird” with celery salt mayo 6-8 pieces chicken thighs 1 cup Tabasco chipotle sauce 1 cup Cajun garlic power sauce 1 cup Worcestershire 1 cup honey (preferably local, pure honey) Mix sauces and honey into a bowl and toss in chicken, allowing it to marinate over night or up to 2 days. This recipe calls for smoking the chicken, however grilling it a medium heat works just as well.

Please grill or smoke to an internal temperature of 160.

For the celery salt mayo

Crust: 8 sugar cookies (can make them or buy them) ½ cup graham crackers 3 tsp butter Combine all ingredients. Press the mixture down into the bottom of a spring form pan about 11/2 to 2 inches up the sides.

Filling: 24 oz Philadelphia cream cheese ¾ cup sugar ¾ tsp almond extract 2 whole eggs 1 egg yolk ¾ almond brickle chips (Heath Bar packaged Bits ‘O Brickle) Mix cream cheese, sugar, and almond extract. Add eggs one at a time to make sure that the eggs are incorporated. Fold in brickle chips and pour mixture into crust.

Butter Caramel: 8 oz Sugar Butter 4 oz Heat sugar over moderate heat until melted and is a golden brown color. Add butter and stir vigorously so the butter emulsifies with the sugar.

Pour the caramel over the cheesecake and using a knife swirl it into the cheesecake mixture. Bake at 350 degrees for 40 minutes* Cool then refrigerate.

1 cup mayonnaise ¼ cup prepared horse radish 2 tablespoon apple cider vinegar ¾ teaspoon black pepper ¾ teaspoon cayenne

* A good way to tell when the cheesecake is done is when the mixture shakes like jello (it will also firm up more when cooling)

Safety First

Keep it Cold, Keep it Hot

To keep guests talking about your recipes and not that upset tummy from a questionably cooked chicken thigh or the cheese that may have sat a little too long, follow our simple tips.

It’s Hot and it’s Cold To keep the growth of food borne bacteria at bay it’s crucial to keep your eats out of the danger zone between 40 degrees and 140 degrees. If it’s more than 90 degrees outside (and it always is around these parts this time of year), do not leave food out for more than an hour. If less than 90 degrees ditch it at the two-hour mark.

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to keep food out is a simple ice bath. Fill a large bowl with ice and place a smaller bowl with the food in it on top and then cover when guests are done serving.

Keep hot food hot by keeping it on the grill if it’s not serving time yet. Move it to the side of the rack away from the coals to prevent overcooking.

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THE BEATS

A party that will keep the neighbors talking (in a good way, not a call the cops way) needs a soundtrack. Careful music selection creates that something special people canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t quite put their ďŹ nger on. We turned to a genius of all things music â&#x20AC;&#x201C; JayCee Falcon of 99.9 KTDY â&#x20AC;&#x201C; for a breakdown of how to get the party started with songs appropriate for any age (keep the Thong Song for your Spring Break at Fort Walton, please) and ideas on how to create a vibe that equals laid back fun.

By JayCee Falcon Every event is diďŹ&#x20AC;erent. Anyone can put a playlist onto an iPod and "let it roll" for the duration of the party, and it might work out just ďŹ ne. If you want to be certain that the music will be right for the party, be sure to hire (or at least consult with) a professional DJ. Having the 'human' element there to gauge the mood of the partygoers can make all the diďŹ&#x20AC;erence in the world when it comes to the 'success' of the party.

7. If your party is to be a totally social event (a meet-and-greet for the neighborhood) without any dancing or adult beverages or swinging from the light poles, then you would want to play a mixture of music that includes Country, Top 40, and Regional songs (Cajun, for our area). Be sure to steer clear of any controversial music, and make sure that your songs are â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;edited for airplayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; (meaning they do NOT contain profanity).

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The Gift of Hope offers one couple the chance to conceive

By Amanda Bedgood

brought the idea up when he was they eventually learned Colby had a approached by a national organization low sperm count, which was resolved to participate on a national level with with medicine. And yet, still no baby. something similar.

“They said there’s no reason why “It would be a scholarship for IVF you shouldn’t be pregnant and we “I’ve never had any problems and I and they choose who the couple kept trying and trying,” Shawna says. thought it would be easy and take a would be and we could get a couple She switched doctors. She had more few months,” Shawna says. from Ohio or something like that,” treatments.

Shawna Cormier never thought she would have trouble getting pregnant.

And yet, six years after she and her husband, Colby, decided to start a family they are still waiting.

But, like many women Shawna soon learned that having a baby was going to be more of a challenge than she could have conceived. And more costly. Today, though, the couple is filled with renewed hope after winning the Gift of Hope that will give them a free IVF treatment and the chance for a baby.

“That’s the only thing standing in the way of some people having a baby – because insurance doesn’t cover something that’s really wrong with them,” says Amelie Storment, who has been instrumental in bringing the Gift of Hope to fruition.

“They said there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be pregnant and we kept trying and trying,”

“It’s an emotional rollercoaster.

When the treatment doesn’t work … it’s devastating. It’s like somebody rips your heart out,” Shawna says.

“Everybody around you gets pregnant and you want to be happy for everybody. And you feel like a horrible person because you want to be happy for them and you’re not.”

Amelie says. “There are so many Shawna is not alone. More than 7 people right here that can’t afford to percent of women are infertile and have the procedure done.” more than 7 million women have They got Women’s and Children’s used infertility services. Of infertile Hospitals involved and kicked off The couples, about a third of them find no Gift of Hope in Acadiana for local explanation for the condition.

couples. Each year, a couple is chosen “They can’t find a reason why we Her husband, Dr. John Storment of from Acadiana to receive a free IVF are not pregnant,” Shawna says.

Fertility & Women's Health Center, treatment.

“Hopefully this works.”

“All the letters. It’s so heartbreaking.

They want a baby so badly and their bodies can’t do it,” Amelie says. “Many have spent thousands on ovulation meds or surgery and still haven’t been able to solve the problems.”

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The Cormiers are grateful for the opportunity and Shawna says she has been connecting with other women in the mean time.

“It’s an awesome thing for them to do for infertile couples. You don’t hear much about it. But, I’m not shy about it. If I can help someone else … since going through this women message me on Facebook and ask me The Cormiers have just questions and we become friends. such a story.

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The Voice of Hope In the wake of her sisterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s disappearance, one woman steps up

By Amanda Bedgood Charlene Shunick, 24, is able to speak frankly about a subject that would leave most young women in a puddle of tears. She has, by necessity, become the voice (and in some ways the face) of a massive eďŹ&#x20AC;ort to ďŹ nd Lafayetteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s missing Mickey Shunick.

In case youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been living under a rock, Mickey Shunick, 22, went missing on May 19 after leaving a friendâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s house on her bicycle in the Saint Streets area. It was in the wee hours of a Saturday morning she was last seen and by Sunday a volunteer search eďŹ&#x20AC;ort was underway that began in the front yard of a friendâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s home and eventually grew to such proportions they had to move to Blackham Coliseum in the following days. People searched on foot for days, hung ďŹ&#x201A;yers, came out in droves for a beneďŹ t concert. People prayed. Are still praying.

And now, more than a month since Mickey went missing, they are still searching with such fervor itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s clear that when they say they believe, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s more than lip service. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t think sheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s gone,â&#x20AC;? Charlene says.

A social media team dedicated to bringing Mickey home works around the clock. They estimate that her face has been seen by 8 million people who have read or reblogged about Mickey. They have Facebook pages, accounts on tumblr and instagram. â&#x20AC;&#x153;People know about her. But, we need to make sure everyone knows about her,â&#x20AC;? Charlene says.

Marin Dawson-Caswell, D.O. is boardâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;certified in pediatric medicine and is currently accepting new patients.

For immunizations, newborn or general care for infants through adolescence, and medical care for special needs children, contact Dr. Dawson-Caswellâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s office at 337-334-7551.

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The group has set up shop in the South College shopping center where people can come and get ďŹ&#x201A;yers to post. There are more online that people can print themselves and hang anywhere in the 6.1+#_ $./+$ 2 % 1 Ă&#x2018;4-& 2 $6 $ + -# -# 1$+ -# 1$ 6.1*(-& to bring Mickey home, Charlene says. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s crazy. But, we are more than grateful for that,â&#x20AC;? she says.

There have been few fruitful leads in the case. The family has hired a private investigator and the foot searches by volunteers were called oďŹ&#x20AC; after weeks of searching. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have anywhere that we can send people that wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t impede on what law enforcement is doing,â&#x20AC;? Charlene says. www.faceacadiana.com

Charlene wakes each day hoping that today is the day. The day she sees her sisterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s face again.

For prayer, positive vibes, for people to send the love to Mickey. On the one-month anniversary she asked on Facebook that everyone â&#x20AC;&#x153;Every day you wake up and do the exact same thing and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s been would take such a moment at midnight. She later learned that that way for more than a month now. It is surreal,â&#x20AC;? Charlene says. people left on porch lights across town. â&#x20AC;&#x153;To show they are thinking of Mickey. Lighting the way home for Some things have changed as the days go by. Charlene is able to speak about the search without breaking down. She has now her,â&#x20AC;? Charlene says. become a face as recognizable as her sister in some ways. In the days following Mickeyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s disappearance, their parents werenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t able to talk about it. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I wanted to makes sure that since we look a lot alike that if people saw me around Lafayette they wouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t think they found her. My parents couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t do it and my brother is very shy. Now I can do it without bursting into tears. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t care what I look like. I just want people to stay positive and keep sending us the love and Mickey the love,â&#x20AC;? she says.

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s that love and attitude that must fuel the eďŹ&#x20AC;orts of Charlene and Mickeyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s loved ones each day as they search for the anthropology student.

And while Charlene is nothing but positive, she is honest. And she is living a personâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s worst fear.

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s an example of just the kind of thing thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s been happening since Day 1, she says. People continue to take their eďŹ&#x20AC;orts to the next level and pour out their love for Mickey. And even if Charlene doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t say it, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s clear sheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s poured out everything to ďŹ nd her sister. When Mickey disappeared, Charlene was home for one week before heading back to Dallas for an internship.

The 24-year-old never made it back to Texas. She spends her days working to bring Mickey home.

Hoping the next phone call is the big break.

â&#x20AC;&#x153;People know about her.

But, we need to make sure everyone knows about her.â&#x20AC;?

â&#x20AC;&#x153;When we get a call from the P.I. that we have a really good lead itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s like anything yet? Anything yet? But, it can take days or weeks for leads to work themselves out. This isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t CSI: Miami.

Things take time. We are waiting. But relaxing and letting them do what they do best.â&#x20AC;?

And as they wait, Charlene is remaining the relentless voice of â&#x20AC;&#x153;Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s really any personâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s worst nightmare. Not knowing whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s going hope. on. If sheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s okay. If sheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s getting food. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;tâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; know why anyone â&#x20AC;&#x153;Today is the day Mickeyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s going to come home. Mickey would be would do this to another person. Let alone to Mickey,â&#x20AC;? she says. doing the same thing for me. And more.â&#x20AC;?

Each week, Charlene will ask for a collective moment for her sister.

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Dr. Bradley J. Chastant has been a pioneer in the research and development of an innovative frontal sinus stent that has proven successful for his patients for over 10 years. As one of only a few doctors in the region using this advanced procedure, Dr. Chastant and his physician associates at Acadian ENT are constantly seeking new ways to diagnose and treat allergy related health issues.

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FIGHTING There is no shortage of people diagnosed with cancer.

It is estimated that in 2012, more than 1.6 million people will hear “it’s cancer.” There is a shortage, however, of funding and effort to beat the disease that will claim more than 577,000 lives this year.

In Acadiana, there are thousands of people each day living with and beating cancer. There are also thousands working to make their lives easier, to raise money to find a cure and to spread awareness about how certain cancers may be prevented. And, in our annual section devoted to cancer we talk to them all.

Whether you’re fighting cancer and looking for some inspiration, or your friend is in chemo and you have no idea how to help or you want to know the facts about what really can make a difference in your risk for cancer – we’ve got you covered. The more we talk about and understand this disease that destroys so many lives, the better chance we have of beating it.

Turn the page, read and start talking.

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You Oughta Know 5 Things Cancer Patients Want You to Know

By Sarah Barbato

If objects in a mirror are closer than they appear, then real life is even closer.

And real life is ďŹ lled with people who are facing cancer directly and indirectly.

Maybe your hairdresser was just diagnosed. Or your friendâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dad is having radiation daily. Maybe your nephew is getting treatment. Or your workout buddy has lost her hair. What do you say? How do you respond?

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s hard to know, and there is no magic answer. So I gathered feedback from both cancer survivors and professionals on how to respond to someone walking through the various stages of cancer.

5 Things to do or say to the person

who has cancer:

that a â&#x20AC;&#x153;normalâ&#x20AC;? conversation that isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t about cancer is often needed.

Isolation is a common feeling for cancer patients, so all polled survivors said they Â&#x2DC; = 2/$"(Ă?" .Ăľ$1 3. '$+/ (2 ,.1$ $ 2(+8 appreciated knowing someone cared accepted than a generic oďŹ&#x20AC;er: - What can you eat? Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d like to bring enough to ask questions and oďŹ&#x20AC;er to help. Here are a few positive ways to a meal.

- Do you need a ride to treatment? respond: - Can I sit with you at the doctorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Â&#x2DC; ="*-.6+$#&$ 3'$ 2(34 3(.-k Ă&#x2021;, 2.118 oďŹ&#x192;ce? to hear that news.

- Can I run an errand for you? Pick up Â&#x2DC; .++.6 4/ 6(3' 04$23(.- .% ".-"$1-k a prescription?

- How are you feeling today?

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Share books, magazines and DVDs. Drop side eďŹ&#x20AC;ects on his or her appearance. if I canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t reciprocate right now. oďŹ&#x20AC; ďŹ&#x201A;owers.

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person who has cancer:

Putting words to feelings is a challenge What bothers one person may not for most people, and it is even harder bother another, so take your cue from to share those words with family and the patient. If he or she opens the topic, then it is okay to continue. Otherwise, these topics are usually best to avoid: Â&#x2DC; >.-Ă&#x2021;3 2' 1$ 23.1($2 .% %1($-# .1 relative who has struggled with cancer.

No two journeys will be alike. Â&#x2DC; >.-Ă&#x2021;3 04$23(.- .#Ă&#x2021;2 1$ 2.- .1 (2 will with the patient.

â&#x20AC;&#x153;Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t share stories of a friend or relative who has struggled with cancer. No two journeys will be alike.â&#x20AC;?

Â&#x2DC; $,$,!$1(-& ,$ 6(3' " 1# .1 /'.-$ call really cheers me up. Â&#x2DC; (%$ , 8 -$5$1 !$ Ă&#x201E;-.1, +Ă&#x2026; %.1 ,$ again, but Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m learning to accept a new normal. Â&#x2DC; .1&$3 2*(-&] Ă&#x201E; '8pĂ&#x2026; #.-Ă&#x2021;3 *-.6_ Instead, I must ask, â&#x20AC;&#x153;What can I learn?â&#x20AC;?

And in time, I hope youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll let me share it with you.

Hopefully, the above feedback will serve as a guide to help you maintain Â&#x2DC; >.-Ă&#x2021;3 .Ăľ$1 /+ " 3(-& 23 3$,$-32 24"' your relationships while making a as â&#x20AC;&#x153;youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be ďŹ ne.â&#x20AC;? positive diďŹ&#x20AC;erence in the life of someone %1($-#2_ á43 3'$ %.++.6(-& 2$-3(,$-32 facing cancer this year. Â&#x2DC; >.-Ă&#x2021;3 &(5$ 4-2.+("(3$# #5("$ Sarah Barbato is the marketing coordinator at Miles and wishes came from various on treatment plans, nutritional Perret Cancer Services where she learns ďŹ rsthand about conversations with those ďŹ ghting, the challenges of those ďŹ ghting, surviving, and living supplements, herbs, diets, etc. with cancer in Acadiana. Sarah enjoys all forms of surviving and living with cancer. dance, especially ballet. She spends her free time taking Â&#x2DC; =5.(# #(2"422(-& //$ 1 -"$_ '$ teaching dance classes or volunteering through her Â&#x2DC; % 8.4 2$$ ,$] /+$ 2$ #.-Ă&#x2021;3 5.(# ,$_ or church. patient is probably self-conscious about Your friendship means a lot to me even weight gain/loss and other treatment

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FIGHTING Today, about 12 million living in the United States have or have had cancer. With Louisiana’s cancer incidence rate higher than the national average, we are especially affected here at home.

With such an important issue facing the people of Acadiana, it’s up to our community to take action. Read on to learn about some of the individuals volunteering and making a difference— and to figure out how you can too.

MILES PERRET CANCER SERVICES Just ten years ago, Miles Perret Cancer Services was established to serve the community of Acadiana. Over the decade, it has become a comprehensive resource center dedicated to “helping families fight, survive and live with cancer.”

“Having lost my sister to breast cancer then 4 months later losing my mom to ovarian cancer, I know first hand what cancer can do; that is the reason I volunteer,” she says. “I know how wonderful the center is, as well as their services. I am happy to help in any way I can, Donna Guidry began volunteering for Miles Perret in especially since helping them means helping so many 2008, when her husband was diagnosed with cancer. people in our community.”

She started by helping with the newsletters and later Even if you can only donate an hour of your time, Miles assumed the responsibility of answering phones at the Perret is always looking for the help of more volunteers. main office. Working for Miles Perret about eight hours Whether you can assist with office support during the a week has been “life-changing.” Donna says it has been week or help periodically at fundraising events, even such a blessing to meet the patients that come in and to the smallest act can have a big impact. With the Games witness their progress over time. Many of them come of Acadiana coming up next month, make sure to check to Miles Perret without being able to utter the word out how you can contribute at www.milesperret.org/ “cancer,” and they leave with a newfound hope. The volunteer. experience has made her look at life in a different way.

Marsha Smith, who has been involved with MPCS events since 2008, can also attest to the power of volunteering.

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AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY The American Cancer Society serves over 5,000 communities nationwide in its mission to eliminate cancer. Through research, advocacy, education and service, ACS strives to produce “a world with less cancer and more birthdays.”

in a special way. Another is the organization’s Road to Recovery program, which assists patients with transportation to their medical appointments.

“The people who need rides are so grateful for our help,” says program coordinator Michelle Thibodeaux, One of the organization’s programs offered here in who became involved with Road to Recovery a year ago.

Acadiana shows cancer patients how to look and feel The patients, many of whom don’t have kids or family their best during treatment. Look Good Feel Better members nearby, or whose loved ones are too busy with provides women with free tutorials from experienced work to drive them to their appointments, are thankful beauty professionals on how to apply makeup, cope for whatever help they can get. with hair loss, care for their skin and nails, and Despite that the program is new to Lafayette, there are therefore feel more confident in their appearance. Lisa more rides being facilitated here than in New Orleans, Fournet, a breast cancer survivor and former Look Good Baton Rouge and Shreveport. Even if you don’t have Feel Better attendee, is now giving back by offering her much time to contribute, ACS can use more volunteers. cosmetology services to the program.

Some volunteers may drive patients four times a week, “God put me here for a reason,” she says of surviving some may help once a month. Regardless, Thibodeaux cancer and why she chooses to volunteer. is grateful for the contribution of her volunteers.

Lisa makes her beauty sessions enjoyable. They cut up, “Everyone involved is so wonderful,” she says. “Being laugh, and take photos; it’s a chance for the women to involved in this program and working with the patients get away and have fun. and drivers warms my heart and soul!”

“Ladies come in down on themselves,” she says. “Some If you would like to serve as a Look Good Feel Good or of them have never worn makeup before. When they Road to Recovery volunteer, contact Shimeka Chretien leave with their new look, they feel happier. The name Bass at 237-3797 extension 1. Also, be sure to check out of the program is perfect.” other ways you can get involved at www.cancer.org/ Look Good Feel Better is just one of several of the involved.

American Cancer Society’s programs helping survivors

SUSAN G KOMEN FOR THE CURE Susan G Komen is the largest grassroots network of survivors and activists in the fight against breast cancer.

The organization is committed to raising awareness, educating the community, and fundraising to provide screenings and treatments to women with breast cancer. With up to 75% of the funds it raises supporting local projects, Komen Acadiana is making a powerful impact on our community.

“Medical expense is the biggest concern of patients, but people should know that there are ways to be treated.”

It wasn’t until after she began treatment that Anderson discovered that Komen had actually provided the funds to cover her expenses. Now, she looks forward to volunteering for Komen to help the organization change others’ lives, as it did hers.

To find out how you, too, can begin volunteering, visit www.komenacadiana.org or call Heather Blanchard at 993-5745. Whether you would like to join a committee, assist with fundraising events, host your own fundraisers or help with health fairs, there are many Anderson was referred to a program through UMC, ways for the community to get involved with Komen in under which she could begin treatment at no cost to the fight against breast cancer. her. “It was huge weight off my shoulders,” she says.

Crystal Anderson knows exactly the extent of that impact. When in 2009 she was diagnosed with breast cancer, she remembers thinking “How am I going to pay for this?”

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WoMan’s Best Friend Companionship comes in a pint-size pup

By Amanda Bedgood

T

here is perhaps no relationship like those with the furry friends in our lives. The loyalty, the companionship, the unconditional love. It’s a rare combination and one that is of great benefit when we face the most trying of times. Gay Nell Lormand knows this.

The little lady adjusted eventually to life with the Lormands and then in 2008, Gay Nell was diagnosed again with cancer.

“Animals are so sensitive. They sense when we’re upset. When we’re hurting,” Gay Nell says. And Lady certainly did.

This Lafayette mother of two and two-time The second diagnosis of breast cancer survivor of breast cancer knows just the was found just as the first – by a regular difference a pet can make in the battle against mammogram. Neither Gay Nell nor her doctor cancer. felt anything. And she says she’s fortunate that In 2005, Gay Nell faced three huge blows. She it was caught early enough for treatment. was diagnosed with diabetes. She was diagnosed “Getting a mammogram is the difference with breast cancer. And she lost her dog, Sadie. between living and dying,” she says.

All in the span of a month.

The second bout with cancer meant a double “I was shocked, blown away, that I had cancer. mastectomy. And a lot of recovery time in bed And we lost Sadie. She was 15 and a half,” Gay as she faced complications.

Nell says. “We got her when my daughter was “This time I had Lady Gumbo,” she says. “She nine and she was the smartest, sweetest little was always touching me. She backed up next to dog. It was devastating.” me to sleep. It’s just a comfort to have that. My That December, Gay Nell had a lumpectomy followed by aggressive treatments – four months of chemo followed by 35 radiation treatments.

Her two children had both moved out and visited often; her husband was by her side. But, “we didn’t have Sadie.”

“Anyone with a dog knows they are a huge part of our lives,” she says.

Gay Nell survived cancer and the grueling months of treatment and by 2007, the Lormands decided it was time to add another new member to the family.

“They’re not just a pet. Not just a dog,” she says.

That spring they found a new dog with ARF – a sweet little pup named Lady Gumbo who had been terribly abused. It took months for Lady to be comfortable around Gay Nell’s husband (or any >ĂĚLJ 'ƵŵďŽ ƐƚĂLJĞĚ ďLJ ďƌĞĂƐƚ ĐĂŶĐĞƌ ƐƵƌǀŝǀŽƌ 'ĂLJ EĞůů >ŽƌŵĂŶĚ͛Ɛ male for that matter) and rebuild trust. ƐŝĚĞ ƚŚƌŽƵŐŚ ƚŚŝĐŬ ĂŶĚ ƚŚŝŶ͘ 38 FACE Magazine

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husband was able to work from home and my daughter and son are The experience, less than a year after the Lormands adopted Lady in and out all the time. But, Lady was with me all the time. Like an Gumbo, truly bonded the two. And Gay Nell is forever grateful for the companionship she felt with sweet little Lady by her side. extension of me.”

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A one-of-a-kind event for your canine pal

n August 4, the Cajundome Convention Center will fill It’s the perfect chance for pet owners to gather and rally for a with dogs of all sizes in the fight against cancer. Bark for common cause. And show off their furry friends. All in the cool Life, in year two, is the canine version of Relay for Life (American convention center.

Cancer Society’s signature event) that brings the best of two Liz says they are also working on a dog calendar competition. worlds together as pet-lovers raise money to fight cancer.

Owners will pay per dog they enter and online voting at a dollar “It’s a fun event to come out to, walk your dogs, a lot of a vote will determine the top 12 dogs that will then be made into interactive games and competitions,” says Liz Webb, who is both a calendar with proceeds going to fight cancer. the community promotions chair for Bark for Life and the sales Bark for Life is a $10 donation per dog to participate or the day of manager of the convention center. the event $25 a pup. Find Bark for Life on Facebook and be on the The event will include a sort of pageant for pups with contests lookout for a chance to enter your canine cutie in the calendar for best trick, cutest costume and cutest dog. Rescue groups will contest. Go to www.relayforlife.org/lafayettebark to enter your dog and get more information about Bark for Life. be on hand with foster dogs as well.

“The focus is on cancer. And there will be all kinds of fun and games,” she says.

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Liz & Lady

iz Webb wasn’t looking for a dog five years ago. It’s hard Doberman. I open the cage and he hugs me,” she laughs. “He’s a Doberman and lab mix. And he ended up adopting him. Sweetest, to believe now. most loving sweetheart.”

“I said ‘I’m way too busy. I don’t have time for one,’” she says.

And so, the girl who wasn’t looking for a dog has become quite But, five years ago she found herself at Petsmart with her the dog lover. mother, who was looking at rescue dogs and the rest is history.

“Lady and I made eye contact from across the room and I was like ‘I’ve got to have this dog,’” she says seriously.

Liz took her for a trial from the foster parent and quickly knew she wouldn’t be giving the dog back.

“She’s everything I didn’t want. A small, white, little yappy dog with a lot of energy,” she laughs.

Today, Liz is working for rescue organizations fostering dogs and picking up pups that are going to be put down. She finds them homes. And once, even found her own man friend one in the process. >ĂĚLJ ĂŶĚ ĂƚŵĂŶ ĂƌĞ ĚŽŐƐ ƌĞƐĐƵĞĚ ďLJ >ŝnj tĞďď͕ ǁŚŽ ŝƐ ŶŽǁ ŚĞůƉŝŶŐ ŽƌŐĂŶŝnjĞ

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Sun Smarts The truth about burns, tans and skin cancer

By Jenna Simard With summer here and in full swing, now seems like the perfect time to soak up the sun. Whether you enjoy relaxing by the pool, hanging out on the beach, or playing with the kids in the yard, now more than ever it is important to protect your skin by practicing sun safety. In light of this month’s issue, here is the bottom line on skin cancer and some ways that you can reduce your risk while still enjoying the vacation season.

removed possibility. In actuality, according to the American Cancer Society, skin cancer is the most common cancer in the U.S., leading to 3.5 million diagnoses each year. It affects more people than do all other cancers combined. And its reach is growing by the day.

There are two types of skin cancers: non-melanoma and melanoma. Nonmelanoma cancers—like basal and squamous—are the most common, occurring in 2 million cases every year. A smaller percentage of skin cancers is defined as melanoma, the most dangerous form of the cancer.

Although curable in its earlier stages, it can lead to death and indeed causes three-fourths of the annual deaths related to skin cancer.

We all have heard that too much sun can have damaging effects on our health. Yet, many of us are not taking proper action to assure that we’re avoiding these negative consequences. We’ve heard that sun exposure can cause skin cancer, but for some being diagnosed Above all risks for contracting skin may seem cancer – which include having family like a far- members who have been diagnosed and having a fair complexion— unprotected or excessive exposure to UV radiation poses the greatest threat. In other words, sunlight and tanning booths, the sources of the “healthy glow” we strive to achieve each summer, put us at risk for skin cancer when we fail to use proper protection.

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YOUR K z Besides cancer, over-exposure can also cause premature aging of the skin, a weakened immune system, and eye problems. So how can we defend ourselves against the effects of UV radiation? Christopher Hubbell, M.D., of a Jeune Medical Spa helps clear up the misconceptions we have about sun exposure and explains how we can keep protected. Next time you plan on going outside this summer, make sure you’re staying safe by adhering to the following tips:

you know which one is most effective?

First and foremost, look for products labeled “Broad Spectrum.” This newlyregulated label informs consumers that the product protects against both UVA and UVB radiation, both of which can cause cancer. The FDA states that, when used properly, Broad Spectrum sunscreens “will help prevent sunburn, reduce the risk and cancer, and reduce the risk of early skin aging.” Also, be mindful of products labeled as “waterproof” or “water-resistant.” Before this year, brands could falsely market

recommends an SPF of at least 30 for proper safety.

4. Wear a hat and sunglasses For added protection, accessorize! To shield the scalp and face, wear a hat. Dr. Hubbell recommends a wide-brimmed hat for more coverage. To protect the eyes, sunglasses are a must. Make sure that you choose a pair with UV ray protection, not just one that looks good with your outfit.

sunscreens as being water or sweatproof. Now, the FDA requires that they use the term “water-resistant,” which indicates that the product is effective for either 40 or 80 minutes.

5. Know the facts For those of you still anxious to get a couple shades darker this summer, perhaps you should reevaluate the way you look at tanning. “A tan is a psychological fixation,” says Hubbell.

“It’s something that society feels is attractive and healthy-looking, but is actually a sign of damage to the skin.”

Despite common perception, tanning and burning both induce aging and skin cancer; sunburn is not a gauge for how much damage you experience. The idea that having a “base tan”—that is, getting your first couple sunburns out of the way—before going on vacation will protect you from further damage is a harmful myth that can have serious consequences for your health.

When determining which SPF to use, never choose less than 15. That SPF 8 “tanning lotion” may prevent you from getting burnt, but in fact it can be more harmful than you think. When you don’t see your skin burn right away, you 3. Be SPF-savvy may end up spending more time in the There are countless types of sun sun than you should, leading to greater protective lotions and sprays, so how do damage. The American Cancer Society

Next time you plan on going outside, consider the facts and use these tips to protect yourself. Doing so could be the difference between being diagnosed with skin cancer and living free of cancer.

“Sunshine can be a part of living a full, healthy life,” says Hubbell, “but it’s all about being smart and minimizing the risks.”

1. Avoid the mid-day sun According to Dr. Hubbell, above all the most important measure of prevention is avoidance. Nothing can protect your skin better than lack of exposure. If you must go outside, try to evade the sun at its high period, 10 am to 4 pm.

Plan your day around this time so that you minimize the harmful effect of exposure.

2. Wear sunscreen, no matter what Thinking about going outside without lathering up first? Forget about it.

Wearing sunscreen is absolutely crucial if you do plan on spending some time in the sun. Dr. Hubbell recommends applying to cool, dry skin at least 15 to 30 minutes before exposure. And use plenty of it. A thin layer of sunscreen is not enough to do the job. Coat the skin, making sure not to forget about the back of the neck, ears and hands, and reapply throughout the day.

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“Besides cancer, over-exposure can also cause premature aging of the skin, a weakened immune system, and eye problems.”

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Black & White A night of glamour for a great cause

By Amanda Bedgood

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n August 18, the American Cancer Society they have a research department. will roll out the black and white carpet for “As we mature the cancer center here in Lafayette, another night of serious glamour and a lot people don’t have to go outside of our community of fun for a seriously worthy cause. and get the treatment or the research,” he says.

Last year’s first ever Black and White Gala brought It’s research that is saving lives. It’s just the kind of out the best to Acadiana Center for the Arts and thing that gave Allyson’s own father more time. this year promises to be no different with a slew of unique auction items, entertainment and “He (dad) was diagnosed in March of 2009 and with delicious eats. Event Rental is on hand to create an ever evolving therapies and medical care, we had unforgettable vibe in the gorgeously renovated arts one of the most amazing summers of our lives.... center downtown. Two honorary chairs of the event he lived that summer ... we all did,” Allyson says. with a passion for the cause are ready to helm the “Everyone should get involved in the fight against one-of-a-kind soiree. And four worthy recipients in cancer because I would dare say that there is no the fight against cancer will be honored in ACS’s one whose life has not been affected by it, whether annual Spirit of Hope awards.

The cause of ACS is one near and dear to both Allyson Pharr of Acadiana Ambulance and Craig Ortego of The Cancer Center of Acadiana at LGMC, who are serving as honorary chairs this year. Both know first hand how cancer wreaks havoc on a person, on a family.

“The Gala is the perfect event to showcase all that is being done and the wonderful people involved in this effort.

It inspires us all to be a part of the solution, get involved, get off the bench.”

– Allyson Pharr

“I lost my best friend to cancer.... My father died on December 11, 2009 after a heroic battle with colon cancer. We talked everyday for as long as I can remember,” Allyson says. “If it weren't for the research and efforts afforded through the American Cancer Society and the support network, we would have lost him much sooner and the quality of his last a patient, a loved one, a best friend. Cancer has no months would have been near unbearable.”

Craig, who is the VP at the Cancer Center of favorites and no natural enemies so it is up to us to Acadiana at Lafayette General Medical Center has fight this disease, for the future of our children and a heart for those fighting cancer as well. And more our children's children.”

Cancer is, simply put, a black and white thing. And the gala gives people a chance to not only honor “I’ve always had a passion for those that need the those fighting cancer, but become one of those most help,” he says. people making a difference in the cause.

Many of those people include the dozens that are treated at the Cancer Center where they see 40 to “The Gala is the perfect event to showcase all that 60 patients a month. The mission is to provide those is being done and the wonderful people involved in patients with the best continuum of care possible, this effort,” Allyson says.” “It inspires us all to be a which means partnering with organizations like ACS. part of the solution, get involved, get off the bench.”

“American Cancer Society spends a lot of money on And have a blast doing it. than 30 years of experience in healthcare.

For more information, to buy tickets or to volunteer It’s a priority at the Cancer Center as well where go to blackandwhitegala.org or call 337-237-3797.

cancer research,” Craig says.

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Spirit of Hope 4HE FOUR WINNERS OF THE 3PIRIT OF (OPE !WARDS EMBODY THE MISSION OF THE !MERICAN #ANCER 3OCIETY IN THEIR OWN UNIQUE WAYS !ND EACH HAVE GONE ABOVE !ND BEYOND

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Linda Rose

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“It’s amazing g tto o see tho h se gro oupss grow so mu uch an and it giv gives es me a ton no off “And “An d then I wan w ted t d my fo focus to focu to be be th that. at. I enj enjoye oyed d it it so so muc uch,” she sa says. ys “It app on n of life. fe. e Ea Each ch day da I thi think nk of how b bless ssed ss ed I am beca becau use th hey ey ar ar are “It It’s ’s not no o on nly try trying ing n to ma ng m k kee a diffe ifferen rence c from m a bu busin siness e persp ess rs ective fr from om appreciation ppy to o se se ea see e ch c a and d it it’s ’s fill fi ed my lif i e with if with i to onss of o joy,”” she h sa says. ys. the st stand andpoi point oint off pro provid v ing vid g ma mammogra g phy an nd imag imaging in to ow women. It’s what hap moree can mor can you y do o in yourr com c mun mu unity to educate and prrovi o de tho those s serrvices es to LLin in nda spends nds ds lo l ng n hou hours rss go going g abo ovee an and n be nd beyon ond, d, but it it’s ’ss all in n a day’s da work wom o en tha th t can’ n’tt affor ff d them them m an a d thatt became the focus. and u ” for a woman a who an wh tr t ulyy h hass a passi ssiio on n for or fig fi htiing can cance cer wi with th wom women e in n na.

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And as fo f r thee awa ward? rd? “I “ do don’t ntd deeser serve it bec b ause use I lo love v wh ve wha at I do do to too o mu much,” sh he laugh laugh ughss.

Today, Today To y, wh while l tthe nati le nati ationa onal disc sccour oursee iss cer ce tainly nlyy el elev evated ted e , there is stil till much uch c she ch tto o be don o e in the on the wayy off pr preeve v nti n on.

“I don’t don’t nee need d any any oth th her e rew ward fo for itt. t. It It’’s an incrredi It’ dible ble ho h nor no . Whe hen h een you’ve be n in in this this field ld for f so lo ong ng it’ it’s like it l ke w winni wi nning ng g an n Emm Em y.

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“W We arre lowering We g mort m r ali ality ty bec b caus a e wom au o n are see ome seeing ng ho ow importa mpo porta r ntt itt is is bee and d th the fant fant n ast sttic resear earch, ch,”” sshe he say says. sa 44 FACE Magazine

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Diane Broussard 3URVIVOR

For Di D anee B Brroussard, a cancer dia diag gn gnosis wasn’ n t a matte tte terr of of if, f but ra atheer fac f ing two ob bout utss of cancer er, r, D Dian Di ane reeal alized sh he want w ted to put ut he herse seelf lf bac b k into when.. wh a com comm mmuni unity ty that had ad d don done so much m ch fo for her. h Sh She ra an for clerk of court cour co u forr Vermil Ver mil ilion ion Pa Paris r h (an and nd wo won.) n.)

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“At th he timee I tho thoug ughtt ‘if ugh ug ‘if I don’tt win, I don’t win wi ,’” she says ys of her her new new w attitu tude de tow ow ward d li life fe. “I se seee life f di d ffe ffer erent ntly. ly. It reeall al y is a gift. t.. I kno ow that so sounds Diane was 28 years old wit ith h th three ree ch child dren r (7, 4 and 2) and a breast cancer co nyy but th corny that’s real eally how w it is is.. You You wan wantt to savo v r every momeent. n ” diagnosis.

She he pause used d after her sec econd ond bo outt wit ith h ccanc an er. Sh anc he had timee to think t abou boutt “I only knew on one otheer pers per on n tha t t had been through th gh ch chemo emo and there was whatt wa wha was really impor orrtant. tant Tim me to prray ay. ay no nausea meedic dicinee ava avvailabl ai abl ble. e. It was pretty rough,” Di Diane ane sa says. ys “A lot of prayi aying. ayi ng g. A lo lot a lot of prraying, ayi y ng, n ” shee sayys with a hal halff laug augh. h h.

And while it wa wass roug ou h, Dia ane ne knew she wasn’t dying ng.

Throug ough h the dia agn gno g nosis is, Dian i e real alize al ize zeed that att sh shee had h a chan chan ance c to mak ce ke a “I thought it was somethin ng I was going to go through ng gh lik ike my mom went diff ffere erenc nce in otther peopl peeop e’s livess an and d she beg eg gan wor w kin ng to raise mone neyy to through,” she remembers. figh fig ht canc can er. Fo F r eigh g t years shee hos gh hostted a lun unche un cheon on n in hon h or of her mo othe t r th Diane was not the first (orr last) woman in her familly to face breast cancer. er (w ( o died frrom (wh om o ova arian rian canc can err aft afteer bea ea ati t g brea tin brea reast st can canccer),, she sh was the firs fi t Her mother was diagnosed ed d at a 29 and her own wn daughter at 27. cha airm i an for Veermi ir m lion Parish’ sh’ h s Rela ay for o Lif Lifee even veent and she sh belie ieves ves e th t at a Every fem fema ale ale le in i her mo other’ ther er’s family on n her father’s side had db breast canccer cur uree will w l be b fo found und und. nd. And above alll she she hope pes es her her dau daughterr is the da he la last st wom woman an in and mo ost dieed. d. Her Her m moth her surviveed. he d. And so di did d Diane.

D A he And An herr daughte teer. She Sh her he family fa who ho o will ill hear ear th he word ordss “you “you uh have ha vee cancer.” ca sayys it it was som so ething ng she had expeect cted e to fac acee and d wh while it was a cha hall ha ll nge lle g , “I hav h e two gra ha anddaug ghte h rs, ht s,,” shee say ayys. s. “To “To me, rese esearc arch h is is the key. I imagine it was wasn’t n’’t so somethin h g that a chan at changed ch d he her. Shee had ha a a dou ouble ma aste stecto ct my cto m and n the da dayy we we won’t need ma ammo m gra am ma ach hine i s.”” looking back on n itt now, w “it “i ’ss all al a bllur.” al Sh She he im i agines nes e a day wh wheen cancerr is to o he herr gran andch child ildren re what polio io is to this The h n 15 years late aterr a lu lump mp p was was fo wa ound in n heer che he t wall. hes g er gen eratio ra ion.

“T They said I’m m sor orrrryy to sa ay itt’s ay ’s ano notherr kind nd off br b east can ncer. And An nd that’ss really rea re eall lly ly “I’m m hopi op ng g I can a put alll my pink k ri rib bbo b ns bo n awa way,” y,” sh she says.. when myy life l ch hang anged. an e Fo or th the beetter,” she he sa says ys. ys Until then, she’s figh Unt ghtin ng.

In her er d diagn ag ose os s the the co ommuniity poure om r d the hemselves ou ut. And A in th he wake ke o ke of JULY 2012 FACE Magazine 45 “I got that pit feeling in n my sto oma mach,” ,” she she says. s

Ike Segura

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“It’ss ama amazin zing,”” he sa sayys of h how ho ow peopl peoplee giv give an a d work or toge togetherr fo forr the the cau cause se And he help lp he h hass. Since 20044, when whe he went to his first Relay for Life, fe, Ik Ike has in the t ir com mmunity. “We We try tr ha hard rd at it. There are new w cha challe llenge ngess that that co come me become ome tthe go-to for getting everyything don ne. ne e. His wife is an integral part rt of up p eve e ry day. Thee pu pub blic d doesn oesn’t ’t kno know what it ta takes kes be behin hind d the the sce scenes nes.

Relay Rel ay as a chair c and they have ve a team m, wh hich ch hh hap ha appens to be the number one Everyt Eve rythin ryt h g iss the hin ther erre when yyo you u get g the th re.” in fun fundra draisi ising in the markett. Friend ends and n Fa Fam mily lyy fo f r Hope H e works year-rou o nd d Including ing ng g Ik Ikee, who wa wass there t before any anyone one el else se arrrive ived d and and wil willl be be ther therre to mak makee a di differ fference in the fig figh ht againstt ca cance cer. r Bu But ut,, it is the event its ut tself elf of Inc lon n g a f ft fte t r t they hey all al l l ea eav e.

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Dr. Luiz Meza -EDICAL 0ROFESSIONAL

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An in many ways, he alr And al eady has. as. Th he beloved ph hysi y cia ys cian n has h bee been n prac ractic icing ing the Even when there is nothing Ev g else tto do for them. Hope – I neve ever too took k away awayy for mo more re tha than n 46 46 year ye s and in onc ncolo olog gyy for 36 of thosee ye g y ars. It’s a fiel eld d he was Eve from anybody.” dr wn to becaus dra becausee of of its i difficul c ty nott in n spite of it. exhausted, Dr. Meza a say sayss th here ere is is a fa faith ith “II wan w t to be clos losee to people an and ta ake ke charge of problems an nd I fo ound d th th in Whenever medical effortss have been ex that in God to continue. It’s tha at faith that must touch his pati at tient entss, s, at tim times, es, mo more re onc ncolo ogy. Ma ade me m feel likee I was sp pecializing in the difficul ullt a ult and nd d imp imp impossible,” than anything else he do oes for them. m hee say says. s. no no nowledge, comp m assion and d jus ust st be being ing th there ere fo forr the the The difficu fficult lt and the impo mp ss ssiblee ha havee changed sin inc nce Dr. n r Mez Meza a first fi do onn ned his “You have to have kn ne la ab co oat. In mo more than 30 year e s,, he say ays he’ss leear ar ed arn d an ent n irely new ew w ssc scien ien en nce c patient.” as bre reakt akthro hrough ugh after break akthro ou o ugh has cha ug ha ange ng ged his work k to fight ca cance ncerr. nc nce r.

With such a personall approach, it’s clear Dr. Meza con connec nects ects wit with h his his pat patien ients. ts.

And n so, there surely ar are hard days when a patientss die dies. s.

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“You are not respo onsible for the cancer. You are there ere to tr treat eatt th them em and ut you di did d that that wo worrk rk with with them them While Whi le the technolo ogy an nd treeatmen mentt changes, c th here are som s e thin so in ngs g tha th ha h at are treat the disease. Iff you fail you feel guilty but and your job is fin nished. I always y have God to my si side de to gui guide de me in eve every ry timele tim eless. ss Li L ke Dr. Me Meza’ z s hear he rt for his patients. decision I’m ma mak kiin ki ng. g I did my veryy best b an nd noth othing ing to ap apolo ollog gize abou gize about. t. Iff “Hope.

“Ho pe I always ys em emph phasiz sizee hope o dealing wit with h canc ancer err pa patien pat ients ien ts. s. Re Regardless someone dies, itt effec ff ts me, I’m huma um n.” .”” of the their ir mak m e up, p, it iss a des desp spera eratee sittuat uatiion na an nd hope is the one thing that But, the doc c to o or r k kn ows w that his profession on iss not ot your your ave averag ra agee job. job. create cre at s faith in n the them m,” he says. “I don do ’t wan an nt th them to ha ave fai fa th th in me. But, faith fai th they can an be hea ealed led.. An nd d I’m m not sur ure ur rree th that a makes mee qual qu lifi ified for this “It’s a differen nt kind nd of job. job A diffe d fferent kind of do docto ctorin ring.” g.”” honor. hon o ” And a differeent nt kind d of doct oc or.

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Fair Success The insider’s guide to Acadiana’s can’t-miss recruiting event By: Danielle M. Dayries DMD& Associates Career Consulting, Outplacement and Resume Writing Firm

As the annual LEDA Job Fair is quickly approaching, it is time to start preparing for this essential part of your job search strategy. The event, which is scheduled for August 15, is the largest recruiting event in Acadiana, and thus an excellent opportunity for you to seek out your dream career. It is also an opportunity for companies to screen a large number of candidates, and thus it is crucial that you fully prepare yourself in order to make a positive lasting impression. The following insider’s guide to career fair success will give you the strategic placement above the competition.

Preparing Before the Event Reviewing the career fair website (www.

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lafayette.org) in advance will provide you with the names of companies attending so you can research them in advance and develop a strategic plan of executing the event. By reviewing a list of companies attending you can decide which organizations are of most interest to your job search and perform basic research on the business. This will enable you to make a “plan of attack” for the actual event. As it is a large event and can be overwhelming, create a schedule to interview with the companies you are most interested in first. This will allow you to enter the interview fresh, focused, and energetic.

preparing answers to basic interview questions. A mock interview from another professional or career counselor is an excellent way to strengthen the impression you give and interviewer. Since a career fair is a busy event, it is pertinent that you are able to make a quick, positive impression. Therefore, your elevator pitch (that short summary statement to quickly explain why you are perfect for the position) should be reviewed and perfected.

Before the job fair, you should also prepare your resume and portfolio, assuring it is perfectly polished. There Strengthen your interview skills by should be no grammatical or spelling

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errors and the resume should be filled with key, action words that are targeted to each organization. Be sure to bring several clean copies of your standard resume as well.

The night before the job fair should be spent reviewing all of your research, preparing your best conservative, professional attire, in addition to gathering your resume, portfolio, and something to take notes. Furthermore, it is most important to be well rested for the next day.

Executing the Event The actual event is your time to execute your career fair plan and use all of the research and materials you have prepared. As you network with recruiters, establish rapport through a friendly smile, firm handshake, and direct eye contact. This is an excellent time to grow your network with career professionals and fellow job seekers as well. As you grow your network, the potential growth and success of your career expand as well.

Gather as much information as possible

from each company, asking relevant questions, but avoid spending too much time with one recruiter as he has several other individuals to interview and there are several other recruiters for you to

“… create a schedule to interview with the companies you are most interested in first. This will allow you to enter the interview fresh, focused, and energetic.” meet as well. Collect business cards and take thorough notes, in order to ease the follow up process after the event.

network, it is time to follow up on all of your great networking. Send thank you notes to all of the recruiters you met, thanking each for his time and assistance in your job search. Also note the qualifications and potential which you possess and how they can contribute to the organization’s success. Following up with a phone call after a thank you letter is also an excellent way to increase your chances of securing a second interview.

In addition to following up within your network, take the time to reflect on your personal performance. How might you improve your next job fair? Also continue to seek out future events that can contribute to expanding your network and finding your dream job.

As the owner and operator of the local career consulting and outplacement firm, Danielle M. Dayries & Associates, Danielle has assisted her clients to successfully prepare market themselves in the job search as they build a new career. Contact Danielle at careeradvisor@cox.net, (337) 504-5576, or dmdcareerconsulting.com.

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Simply Done

A simple tank dress in this season’s new length is bold enough on it’s own. An eclectic vintage necklace and modern ring are all that’s needed. From +NOTTING (ILL 201 Settlers Trace Blvd., River Ranch.

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Color Color

Pair a neon top with a bright contrasting skirt, keep the jewelry simple and go edgy with a bag thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s also full of color. From 6ERTIGO 201 Settlers Trace Blvd., River Ranch.

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Bold Strokes

A painterly dress with hi-lo hem and colors rich and bold is accented with simple gold accessories and a wedge that reaches mile high.

From ,A -ARQUISE Parc Lafayette.

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CITRUS TWIST

When in doubt about pairing neon colors, go for a citrus combo pairing oranges and tangerines with yellows or lime greens. From *EWELIEgS "OUTIQUE 407 Rena Drive.

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All Business

A wild hue pairs with a serious shape for a look thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s perfect for the boardroom without ever being boring.

Pair with a bold blue bag. From 0ARK ,ANE Parc Lafayette.

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IN THE BAG

Two neons can be better than one when grounded by fresh white pants and a muted neutral tank. Contrast is the order of the day with the bright green topper and statement bag. From "ROTHERgS ON THE "OULEVARD 101 Arnould Blvd.

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POP GOES THE COLOR

A wild print needs but a pop of neon in the accessories. A neon green skinny belt and sweeping long yellow earrings show little neon equals big drama. From 6ANESSA 6 "OUTIQUE 5520-E Johnston Street.

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The Road Ahead When Ashlee Lalonde’s daughter was diagnosed with cancer, she took life one day at a time.

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“I just needed it one day at a time. You don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel.”

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Haven was always “the healthy one.” Haven is the third child of Ashlee Lalonde and her fiancé Daniel Lafleur and rarely went to the doctor. But, a “virus” in the spring of 2009 would change all of that.

administration and was focused on making the most of her career. The diagnosis would change that, too.

“Then one day Daniel brought Haven to one of her in-office appointments. And then they came As the symptoms began to mount, Daniel began pick me up for lunch at work after and the second to suspect his daughter had more than a virus. I saw her I told him to turn back around and bring He happened to be studying pediatrics in nursing her to Lafayette,” she remembers school and realized his daughter likely had cancer By this time, months into treatment, Ashlee of the blood. could spot a fever. With Haven’s immune system “I thought ‘ya’ll are crazy. She doesn’t have at nil, a fever is a huge concern. cancer.’ She was our healthiest child. I was in a lot “They get very ill very fast and cannot resist of shock,” Ashlee says. infection. By the time I got off work and got there.

On March 19, 2009 Haven, at the age of two, … Haven was hospitalized.” was diagnosed with leukemia.

It was one of the scariest nights for Ashlee and “They said ‘it’s the best kind.’ What do you mean one that forever changed her.

I’m lucky? My baby has cancer,” Ashlee says. “I “Her fever would not break. Only get terrifyingly was mad at the world.” higher every thirty minutes. We would literally put Ashlee felt angry in those first days after the her in a bed of ice – no clothes – and she was so diagnosis. hot. We kept alternating her towel in the freezer “I wanted to scream at everyone. It took awhile provided in our hospital room every three minutes. to get stable. Then the support and the out pour … It felt like a heating pad,” Ashlee says.

I again had faith in humanity,” she says.

Haven couldn’t keep medicine down.

She shook so violently Ashlee feared she was seizing.

The doctors gave a road map for Haven’s treatment that would cover months and months of chemo. The family was lucky, Ashlee says, that Haven’s treatment could be done in Lafayette at Kid’s Specialty Hospital. But, the treatment would “Haven would just prove grueling on Haven’s body and Ashlee’s stare blankly at me. I heart. thought she was going “They had a road map and I just needed it one to die that night.”

By the time I got off work and got there. … Haven was hospitalized.”

Her fever did eventually break but returned to high temperatures again and again for a few days. Eventually her kidneys began acting up and they had to stop chemo on multiple occasions. It was these What’s not a blur, however, was Daniel. The moments that opened Ashlee’s eyes to where she nursing student missed but three days of school felt she should be. during Haven’s treatment. And spent hours “I decided my only career or purpose was her. If studying on the couch in her hospital room.

I missed issed out on any precious time I would never day at a time. You don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. The chemo was intense. Her lips would be black and bleeding. There’s throwing up.

Numbness in the feet. Hallucinating. It was scary.

It’s still a blur,” Ashlee says.

“He was there all the time. He’s my hero,” Ashlee says. “I didn’t understand and he would explain it all.”

He was also a great support as Ashlee questioned why and struggled to make sense of a life that she had never expected for her family.

“What did I do wrong? You blame yourself,” she says.

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“She was our healthiest child. I was in a lot of shock.”

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off she would come check on her. They would Ashlee’s fast-paced approach began to change and her play cook. Haven loved her so much. They priorities and concerns about what they could have in way became our second family. The bond you get with the staff … there’s nothing like it.” of materials things began to change. forgive myself,” she says.

And while the hospital staff made a huge “I just wanted to spend every moment with her,” she difference for the family, the community says. stepped up as well. Ashlee can’t count how The family was fortunate to have a support system many people insisted on picking up their tab at that helped care for Taylor, now 11, and Talon, now 6 IHOP – Haven’s favorite spot to fill her tummy. during those long days and nights at the hospital. But, as Or her birthday cake courtesy of Miles Perret a mother, Ashlee felt torn.

Cancer Services and Gambino’s that was a “You feel their physical and emotional need for you and larger than life Rapunzel – her favorite. Or the you feel held prisoner. When they want you to venture out VIP treatment they got at Disney. Friends had a of the room but your child with cancer can not leave due to precautions … “

“I decided my only career or purpose was her. If I missed out on any precious time I would never forgive myself.”

Cancer, Ashlee says, robbed them all of so much.

“Time is so precious with your other children,” she says.

If cancer made Ashlee question the world, it was the people who gave so much of themselves after the diagnosis that affirmed her faith anew.

“Our kids weren't a job they were so much more. It was our home.

If we were there on a holiday, H a v e n w a s n ' t forgotten,” Ashlee says.

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po’ boy sale to raise money for treatment. will help other children see another day.”

Daniel’s nursing school classmates sold their scrubs to help the cause. People showed up for the family in ways they could never have imagined.

“Many people always asked me if Haven needed anything and what could they do for us. Giving blood is the best gift you can ever give,” Ashlee says. “It’s saved her life and many many others. That is something no one can put a price tag on. That is the most precious gift anyone has ever given.

Even if not a match. It’s in her name and

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“Our kids weren't a job they were so much more. It was our home …”

rode the bus for the first time to school.

Something she hoped and dreamed she would be able to do. It helped Haven go from the girl who pranced in a tutu at the hospital, to that ballerina on stage for her first recital. It was not just a dream come true for little Haven. It was a dream come true for Ashlee as well.

“We appreciate every moment we’re given. Every holiday. And every birthday.”

It helped Haven see days like when she

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showyourface BID ON A BACHELOR June 14 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Scandals A bevy of eligible bachelors were on the auction block at The Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Shelter's annual Bid on a Bachelor event. Cool cocktails and hot men were the order of the evening in a shindig that raised money for a worthy cause.

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showyourface RED CARPET RUNWAY June 14 – Dunn’s Furniture and Interiors Fashion and furry friends met at $UNN S &URNITURE AND )NTERIORS TO benefit Lafayette Animal Aid and Acadiana Symphony and Orchestra.

A fashion show from Artesia, Maven -ENSWEAR AND 0ARTNERSg ,4$ brought out stunning models showing off pets in need of a home.

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showyourface HEART BALL May 11 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Heart Hospital The American Heart Association rolled out the red carpet for their annual soiree under a beautiful white tent. $ELICIOUS EATS AND A SILENT AUCTION kicked things off before live music and dancing rounded out the evening.

XANADU SOCIAL May 12 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Route 92 The Krewe of Xanadu recently enjoyed delicious crawďŹ sh and great friends at their Spring Social at "Route 92" in Youngsville as an ofďŹ cial wrap to THE -ARDI 'RAS SEASON Plans are already underway for the new season.

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