FACE Magazine ~ Vol. 9 No. 1 ~ July 2016

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Spiritually and artistically influenced by her natural surroundings.

SUMMER

IT’S THAT TIME AGAIN Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini Tour Is ON!

SUMMERTIME SELFIE TRICKS

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Childhood WITH

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WALK-ON’S 6/28

CHARLEY G’S 7/12 RUFFINO’S 7/26

BON TEMPS GRILL 8/9

SOCIAL 7/5

BONEFISH GRILL 7/19 CHUY’S 8/2 ZEA 8/16

ON THE COVER 40 MELISSA BONIN What The Water Gave Me — Bonin’s works evoke reverie and possess a dream-like quality.

SPECIAL FEATURE 60 WOMEN IN BUSINESS Acadiana Women Highlighted

CONTENTS 08 ACADIANA LIFE Healing House Martini Tour AcA Gulf Brew La Cuisine de la Louisiana – July 24 20 ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT

Sour Sedans’ 2nd Album Released Juvenile Detention Poetry Charlie Elliott’s Book 26 HEALTHY LIVING Getting Enough Vitamin D Your Summer Workout 32 HOME Plan Ahead For A Power Outage House Therapy — Relaxing At Home Lafayette Parish Real Estate Market 22 CAREER Do You Know Your Worth?

48 LIFE & LEISURE Eye Spy: Airbnb BBQ Ideas — What To Bring 54 FAMILY MATTERS Boomerang Kids Children of LGBT Parents 64 BEAUTY | STYLE Summer Makeup and Hair Cream Contouring Summertime Selfies With Style 70 MIND | BODY | SOUL Distracted Behaviors Weekend Vacations

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H

EALING HOUSE; Hope for Grieving Children annually

hosts this event at the DoubleTree by Hilton to raise money for local families that have mourned the death of a parent or sibling. The money is raised through the purchase of tickets and a silent auction while partygoers sample the martinis and have tasty hors d’oeuvres. This year, the main event will take place on August 20 at 7pm.

Eight local restaurants are competing to determine who wins the 2016 title for Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini.

The excitement of this event is not contained to simply one night.

Every Tuesday for 8 weeks during June, July and August, the public will participate in the ABSOLUT® Tini Tuesday Tour. This tour will stop at each of the local restaurants involved in the competition

EIGHT LOCAL RESTAURANTS are competing to determine who wins the 2016 title for Lafayette’s ABSOLUT® Best Martini.

where supporters can cast their votes by tipping dollars as they sample artistic creations from Lafayette’s premium bartenders.

Patrons of the Tini Tuesday Tour will receive a complimentary signature martini with the purchase of an entrée at each Tuesday tour spot. Martini vouchers can be printed at www.healing-house. org. Voting is your way of donating to Healing House. Vote often and as many times as you want, either at healing-house.org or at each restaurant. The participating restaurants of this year’s competition included: Bon Temps Grill, Bonefish Grill, Charley G’s, Chuy’s, Ruffino’s on the River, Social, Walk-Ons Bistreaux and Zea.

When it comes time to pick the winners, the People’s Choice Award will be determined by adding up the tipped votes during the tour and the dollars donated during the final event.

The Judges’ Choice Award is established by a panel of judges who will sample the restaurants’ creation as well as interviewing them on the mindset behind their concoctions.

LAFAYETTE’S ABSOLUT BEST MARTINI CONTEST & GALA Join us for Tini Tuesdays each week prior to the main event to try each participating restaurant’s martini and cast your vote!

“TINI TUESDAY TOUR” DATES Tuesday, June 28

Walk-Ons Bistreaux & Bar

Tuesday, July 5

Social

Tuesday, July 12

Charley G’s

Tuesday, July 19

Bonefish Grill (2015 Judge’s Choice Winner)

Tuesday, July 26

Ruffino’s on the River (2015 People’s Choice Winner)

Tuesday, August 2

Chuy’s

Tuesday, August 9

Bon Temps Grill

Tuesday, August 11

Zea

Patrons of the ‘Tini Tuesday Tour will receive a complimentary signature martini with the purchase of an entrée at each Tuesday tour spot. Martini vouchers can be printed at www.healing-house.org. Join us each Tuesday and cast your vote for Lafayette’s ABSOLUT Best Martini - $1=1 Vote!

Voting is your way of donating to Healing House – vote often and as many times as you want either at healing-house.org or at each restaurant.

LAFAYETTE’S ABSOLUT

August 20, 2016, 7:00 pm

BEST MARTINI GALA:

DoubleTree by Hilton Lafayette

THE FINAL SHOWDOWN

Entertainment by Jet Seven

• Silent Auction, Hors d’oeuvres, Martini Sampling from all 8 Restaurants $125 per ticket • All guests will receive a hand painted martini glass designed by local artist, Robert “King Rob” Harris • Sponsors: ABSOLUT Vodka, Moss Motors, Delhomme Funeral Homes, Dr. Leslie Jacobs, Leading Health Care of Louisiana, Lafayette Surgical Specialty Hospital, Event Rental, Russo Group, 99.9 KTDY, & FACE All proceeds from Martinis 2016 benefit Healing House; Hope for Grieving Children. Healing House provides grief support groups each year for over 250 Acadiana children age 4-17 that have experienced the death of a parent or sibling.

Healing House is the only children’s grief center within a 150 mile radius and it provides a comfortable atmosphere where children can feel free to share any thoughts or feelings they may be dealing with in regard to the loss of a loved one.

These children learn to express themselves through artistic devices, interactive play and group discussions with other kids going through the similar situations. All services are provided free of charge to the children and families in Acadiana.

All guests will receive a hand painted martini glass designed by local artist, Robert “King Rob” Harris

For more information about Martinis 2016; Lafayette’s ABSOLUT Best Martini Contest & Gala, please see our website: www.healing-house.org or contact Kim Thackston at 234-0443 or kim@healing-house.org

Caroline & Co. Opens Second Location

After servicing Acadiana for many years, Caroline & Company has expanded by opening a second location inside Our Lady of Lourdes Regional Medical Center, located on Ambassador Caffery Pkwy. The transition of the hospital’s gift shop took place on June 13th.

Focusing on the needs of hospital employees and guests, Caroline & Co. delivers excellent customer service and offers complimentary gift wrapping for those in a time crunch. “We are so proud to be a part of the Lourdes family,” says Cryer.

Caroline & Co. offers hospital guests and patrons a variety of gifts to choose from including, but not limited to, home décor, baby & children’s items and jewelry.

Owner, Charlotte Cryer explains the new location is a smaller representation of the larger store currently located on the Boulevard.

It’s an added convenience for customers who reside Our Lady of Lourdes Regional Medical Center on the south side of town.

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Saturday, July 30 Blackham Coliseum 6pm-9pm

Gulf Brew 2016

Funds from Gulf Brew support AcA’s artist outreach projects, educational programs and summer camps, visual arts exhibits, community development

TICKETS

projects, and grant making abilities.

Acadiana Center for the Arts, and

are on sale at the

Acadiana Center for the Arts has announced the

brews, delicious food housed

will also be available for purchase

date for their biggest fundraiser, Gulf Brew. Gulf

inside the venue, live music

at acadianacenterforthearts.org.

Brew, Acadiana’s largest beer festival, will take

performances, dancing, and

place on Saturday, July 30 at Blackham Coliseum

more. AcA Executive Director

from 6pm-9pm.

Dr. Gerd Wuestemann says:

The fundraiser has been moved to a new location and back to the summer season, where it has experienced much success in the past. Tickets are on sale at the Acadiana Center for the Arts, and will also be available for purchase at acadianacenterforthearts.org.

Pre-purchased tickets for tasters are $35 and for “designated driver tickets” (non-drinkers), tickets are $15.

Ticket prices increase to $40 at the door for

“We’re bringing the brew back to summer and it’s going to feel new and fresh. This is Christmas in July for beer lovers! Gulf Brew is always a great time to bring the community together to support our mission of Fostering Art & Culture in Acadiana.”

Funds from Gulf Brew support AcA’s artist outreach projects, educational programs and summer camps, visual arts exhibits, community development projects, and grant making abilities.

This season, AcA brought celebrity performers like Randy Newman and Buddy Guy to the Heymann

beer tasters.

Center, while also filling AcA’s James Moncus Theater

Gulf Brew hosts around 3,000 guests and receives

BODYTRAFFIC, Shovels and Rope, many local artists,

incredible sponsorship from local businesses.

and more. If you are interested in becoming a sponsor

Moving back to the summer and to the air-

for Gulf Brew, please call 337.233.7060. Ask for

conditioned venue, big changes are on the rise for

Bree Sargent, Educational Director or Kelsey May,

this fundraiser. Gulf Brew will have a variety of

Marketing Coordinator.

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with thousands of attendants for performances from

ACADIANA LIFE Grumpy Grandma BONJOUR MA CAJUN FRIENDS!

One is a Yankee and the other is a Yankee.

IT’S ME AGAIN, opinionated

One is a Left wing hack and the other is a

columnist and general know it all,

Right wing hack (when convenient).

Mrs. Nettie Mae Avec Domino.

One is a money hungry woman and other is

OK y’all, so now it’s down to two

Nettie Mae Avec Domino

Presidential candidates…Hillary and Donald

grumpy@faceacadiana.com

representing each a side for President of the

One has a husband that has got naked in front of other women and the other has a wife that has got

United States of America.

naked in front of other men.

Well I ain’t happy about either one right now, but ole Nettie Mae decided to do a breakdown (like da big news dudes) to see how da candidates stack up against each other.

One will say anything to get elected and the other will do anything to get elected.

So, now dat we got da facts, my scientific conclusion is dat the

So here’s my side by side comparison of Hillary Clinton

only real difference between da two is dat one is a women and

and Donald Trump:

the other is a man…Mon dieu!!!

One is a political tycoon and the other is a business tycoon.

One is a grandma and the other is a grandpa.

a money hungry man.

Well, I’m gonna keep an eye on things and let y’all know if something changes.

Until next time ~

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ACADIANA LIFE

TI C KETS FOR 13TH ANNUAL

La Cuisine de la Louisiane Available at LARC’s Acadian Village

T

he 13th Annual La Cuisine de la Louisiane will be held at Paragon Casino Resort in Marksville on Sunday, July 24th from 5:30pm-8:30pm. A portion of proceeds will benefit LARC’s Acadian Village.

Over 30 restaurants throughout Louisiana participate in this culinary feast. Tickets are $35 each and can be purchased at Acadian Village Monday through Saturday from 10am-4pm.

This culinary fundraiser features over 30 restaurants and caterers who provide delicious samples of their most popular menu items.

Patrons will have an opportunity to bid on over 40 fabulous silent auction items, all benefiting a great cause! Paragon will offer a room rate of $89 to all ticket holders on July 24th. Offer is valid only on the night of the event. Call 800-946-1946 and mention code LACJ18 to

A culinary fundraiser FEATURING OVER 30 restaurants and caterers book room reservations. Proceeds from this year’s La Cuisine will benefit LARC’s Acadian Village in Lafayette, Bikers Against Child Abuse in Alexandria and the Avoyelles Society for the Developmentally Disabled in Marksville.

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Each non-profit organization is responsible for securing a minimum of 10 restaurants and caterers from their community to distribute sample size portions of their culinary dish.

A silent auction will also be conducted by the participating non-profit organizations.

Restaurants and caterers in Acadiana who are interested in participating can contact Acadian Village for further details.

Sponsorships and tickets are still available for purchase. Please contact Mary Hooks Baudoin, Director of LARC’s Acadian Village, at 337-504-5365 or via e-mail at mary@acadianvillage.org for more information. Visit www.acadianvillage.org or follow LARC’s Acadian Village on Facebook for updates on La Cuisine de la Louisiane LARC’s mission is to support individuals with developmental disabilities and reach their goals of self-sufficiency, quality of life and self-worth. Every day at LARC, our instructors and managers are helping people with developmental disabilities reach these goals through several departments, which include Vocational Services, Community Supports and Services (CSS), and Residential Services.

Our vocational department provides work activities and employment services and CSS includes Attendant Care and Supervised Independent Living.

Visit www.lafayettelarc.org for more information.

FACE Challenge!

Word of the Month

SMIZE SMILING WITH YOUR EYES (especially in reference to taking photos)

An article in this month’s issue contains usage of the current Word of the Month. When you find it, send the article title and page number to

Example: For optimal results when taking photos, remember to not only smile, but to smize.

kisha@faceacadiana.com and you will be entered in a drawing to win FACE Magazine goodies on July 31, 2016.

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Community Comment

Grateful to be an American and proud of our troops who guarantee our freedom.

What does

–Kyleen Beebe Lafayette

Independence Day mean to you?

?

Independence Day is a reminder of many sacrifices made and a day of reflection about the value of freedom. USA! –Krista Vedeen Lafayette

Remembering those who fight for us as well as celebrating with family, food, and fireworks.

It’s a day to remember those who paid the ultimate sacrifice through blood, sweat and tears to give us our freedoms and make America what it is today— One Nation Under God.

–Sonya Richard Parks

–Lindsey Jennings Lafayette It’s a time to celebrate with family and friends, recognizing our founding fathers for laying down a foundation allowing us to enjoy life as free citizens.

And fireworks, of course!

–Ashley Choate Lafayette

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Independence Day is a time for us Americans to join hands and celebrate our freedom given to us through the selfless sacrifices made by our men and women fighting for our country.

–Sarah Gerami Lafayette

Freedom, fun in the sun, food, friends & family…and a grand finale of fireworks!!

Independence Day to me is a reminder to us all to remember the brave because we are free!

–Jessica Istre Maurice

–Stena Myers Lafayette

CHEEKY SIGNS

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MAGAZINE PROOF Okay…So I’m driving in Lafayette the other day when I notice this sign, “No Left Turn – Strictly Enforced”. No big deal, right? Well normally that’s what I’d say, but then I notice that the street before and the street after the “Strictly Enforced – No Left Turn” sign both had No Left Turn signs as well, but those two streets were not tagged as “Strictly Enforced.”

Hmm, kinda makes you think. A law is a law, RIGHT?!

Well – maybe not.

Oh brother…Until next time my friends ~

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Back In The Day 20 Years Ago In 1996 The 51st US Women’s Open Golf Championship was won by Annika Sorenstam.

Stanley Cup: Colorado Avalanche sweep Florida Panthers in 4 games.

The Montana Freeman surrendered after an 81 day standoff with FBI agents.

Ted Kaczvnski, suspected of being the Unabomber, is indicted on ten criminal counts.

Three big films were released: Cable Guy, Independence Day and The Nutty Professor, starring Jim Carrey, Will Smith and Eddie Murphy, respectively.

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1996

We are Sacred Heart The Class of 2016 of the Academy of the Sacred Heart and the Class of 2016 of Berchmans Academy were accepted to the following universities:

The 28 members of the Academy of the Sacred Heart Class of 2016 and the 8 members of the Berchmans Academy Class of 2016 earned a total of over $4.1 million in merit based scholarships.

The average ACT score for Schools of the Sacred Heart graduates for the past three years is 25.

American University Auburn University Canisius College Centenary College Centre College Colorado State University Columbia College Concordia University Irvine DePaul University Drexel University Duke University Eckerd College Florida State University George Mason University Georgia State University Guilford College Hendrix College Lesley University Louisiana State University Louisiana Tech University Loyola New Orleans Lynn University Maine Maritime Academy Michigan State University Millsaps College Mississippi State University Northwestern State University Ohio State University Queens University of Charlotte Samford University

Two SchoolS

Savannah College of Art and Design Seattle University Sewanee University Southern Methodist University Spring Hill College St. Edward’s University Syracuse University Tulane University University College Dublin University of Alabama University of British Columbia University of California Davis University of California Irvine University of Central Arkansas University of Connecticut University of Dallas University of Denver University of Georgia University of Kansas University of Louisiana Lafayette University of Louisiana Monroe University of Mary HardinBaylor University of Mississippi University of New Orleans University of North Carolina Asheville University of North Carolina Wilmington University of Southern Mississippi University of Tampa University of Tennessee University of Virginia Wheelock College Winthrop University Wofford College

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ARTS | ENTERTAINMENT Sour Sedans released their second album titled The Fix on March 29, 2016

A follow up to their debut album Taste It

By Kisha Kana

Sour Sedans Releases Second Album

Fans will notice a shift in sound from Southern-rock

to a bluesy/funk style as the band members have melted their diverse musical styles into their own sound, which has been compared to the likes of the Red Hot Chili Peppers and the Black Keys.

Sour Sedans was founded and formed when the four original members were each in search of starting a band and found each other You can catch them at their on Craigslist. Sour Sedans was founded and formed. Five next show on July 15th at years later, Flint Zerangue, Jr., Blue Moon Saloon.

Ryan Cazares and Eric Bospflug are still going strong with a replaced drummer, Thylar Cahanin joining the group a couple of years ago.

Wanting to do a record with Cahanin, the band composed The Fix based on the ups and downs of being musicians. Cazares explains, “It [being a musician] can be very rewarding, but it can also be very difficult. We absolutely love playing shows and recording music, but everything involved with that is 20 FACE | JUNE • JULY 2016

very hard work, and I don’t know if we, as a society, recognize this anymore when we can stream music almost anywhere for free.”

Sour Sedans are gaining a fan base through self promotion and a heavy presence on Facebook, equipped with show schedules and giveaways. Their music can be purchased through their website, on iTunes, Google Play, Spotify, Amazon and various other online retailers.

Playing statewide, the band members express excitement when playing locally at places such as Feed N Seed, Blue Moon Saloon and Artmosphere. They were also in Festival International’s 2015 lineup. July 2nd, they lent their talent to raise funds for the Orlando victims at Bolt Night Club.

Being from a place that has an influx of musical talent has a downfall, as some feel the community takes these talents for granted. Sour Sedans sometimes have a hard time competing with the Cajun/Zydeco genre when it comes to live performances.

“So many musicians of different genres such

as rock, folk, reggae and funk call Lafayette home but seem to go under the radar. The world craves our music, forcing us to branch out of town but we would like to see more interest locally as we love playing here,” says Zerangue.

The future of Sour Sedans lies in the hands of their diverse fans. They are well on their way to becoming a regional success performing statewide with plans to branch out to Mississippi and Texas.

In addition to their regular shows, Sour Sedans have been the opening act to big bands Cheap Trick, Fuel, Sevendust, Trapt, and Pop Evil, among others. You can catch them at their next show on July 15th at Blue Moon Saloon.

FUN FACT: Each year, Sour Sedans put together a show called “The Melting Pot Show.” They invite four other local bands to join and each band takes turns playing the other bands’ songs. Follow them on Facebook for updated information and show dates and time. You can also visit www. soursedans.com

LIVE MUSIC SCENE Acadiana is home to so many talented musicians. Our area is saturated with musical acts and on any given week, residents and tourists have the opportunity to partake in the entertainment while supporting local talent.

To catch a live show, check out these venues that are notorious for live music:

THE GROUSE ROOM (Parc Lafayette) showcases a wide variety of music from Jazz, Blues, Creole and much more; performed by bands and singer/songwriters.

FEED & SEED LAFAYETTE (Downtown Lafayette) not only has live music but offers free dance lessons on Thursday nights!

In addition to their regular shows, Sour Sedans have been the opening act to big bands Cheap Trick, Fuel, Sevendust, Trapt, and Pop Evil, among others.

ARTMOSPHERE (Downtown Lafayette) has live music Tuesday through Sunday with Karaoke starting off the week, followed by Open Mic night on Wednesdays.

WHISKEY RIVER LANDING (Henderson) is the place to be on Sunday evenings when this Cajun & Zydeco Dancehall features a different band each week.

RANDOL’S (Southside Lafayette) is the place to be if you like to dine and dance to Cajun and Zydeco music!

Use this starter list to get yourself out there and you’ll find more places to explore! Enjoy the community and friendships!

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Juvenile Detention Poetry Lafayette’s At-Risk Children Learn Spoken Word Poetry

Artist Alex “PoeticSoul” Johnson

E

very Friday, students at the Lafayette Parish Juvenile Detention Center in Lafayette, Louisiana gather to study, practice and perform spoken word poetry.

Spoken word students at the JDC face enormous psychological, social, and financial difficulties. Incarcerated juveniles are disproportionately from impoverished families, and represent our most at-risk and underprivileged children. Among detained juveniles, 24.5% of them will experience recidivism within three years.

Teaching detained children is particularly difficult with a restrictive environment and a continuously changing group of children. But spoken word artist Alex “PoeticSoul” Johnson gives these children the tools and opportunity to educate and express themselves artistically. Each week, she teaches a rotating group of kids, ages 11-17— from one to ten at a time—how to convert their fears and frustrations into positive, life-affirming art.

Most recently, a group of thirty students wrote, edited, and directed the poem “Eyes of the Sun,” which PoeticSoul then composed and recorded as a spoken-word-and-music video. In April 2016, she presented the video at the Split This Rock Poetry Festival in Washington, DC, where a national audience of poets and activists learned of our children’s efforts, returning videos and notes of encouragement. Through experiences like this, these children get to see the quality of their own hard work. They have the chance to learn that, by transforming their anger and frustration into something positive, they can produce wonderful fruit. The video can be viewed at https://www. youtube.com/watch?v=KF-x-qGSeUg&feature=youtu.be Alex “PoeticSoul” Johnson is a UL Student Senior Marketing Major and the founder and manager of Lyrically Inclined, an organization that hosts spoken word events in Lafayette, at places like the Acadiana Center for the Arts, the Festival of Words, Cité des Arts, and Black Café. She encourages the people of Lafayette and Acadiana to take this opportunity to encourage our incarcerated children, and help guide them onto a more creative and fulfilling path.

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Review by Michelle Fonseca After reading this intriguing novel by Acadiana implant, Charlie Elliott, I felt compelled to give this novel the exposure

This causes him to

it deserves.

acquiesce to her insistent marriage demands. As

The book starts out telling part of

a post-engagement

the life story of Wade Campbell,

intensification of

who in his early twenties, had

Wade’s phobias leave

been diagnosed with anxiety during

him housebound, he

his college years. This anxiety

decides to move from

diagnosis was characterized by panic

Phoenix, Arizona

attacks, which made everyday life

to a Southern California suburb near his

harder and harder for him to endure.

hometown. Wade finds a shady unlicensed doctor to prescribe a

Wade’s affliction grows over time into an agoraphobic fear of travel as well as other phobias. With a broken-off engagement from a high maintenance fiancée

concoction of medicine to assist him on the isolated drive across the desert.

two weeks before the wedding, Wade feels obligated to

While residing in California, Wade meets Sophia Syros, an

wed as a concession of his burgeoning mental instability.

unrefined raven-haired beauty who was from a different

Charlie Elliott

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Charlie Elliott is the author of the novel The Random Fraudulent Nature of Genes.

He grew up in the South Bay area of Los Angeles and attended the University of Arizona where he received a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration with a degree in Marketing. As the founder of successful online business portals such

as bison.com, Charlie is best known as an entrepreneur and businessperson, but his passion has always been writing.

an adapted passage converted to a short story received an Honorable Mention in the Writer’s Digest Writing Competition.

The Random Fraudulent Nature of Genes was twice named a Finalist in the 2007 and 2009 William Faulkner-William Wisdom Creative Writing competition (2009 was under the title Life Unbothered). In addition,

Charlie resides in Lafayette, LA. Visit www.randomgenes.com and follow the book on Twitter @ randomgenes.

upbringing, socially and economically. He is immediately attracted to her, but a severe panic attack on their first date almost does Wade in. Her calmness and understated reaction to the attack soothes

Anxiety is as common among older adults

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Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is the most

him in a way he had never experienced. He finds he can reveal his problems to her and not feel ashamed. A relationship forms between the two as Sophia agrees to help him by taking short trips every

common anxiety disorder among older adults, though anxiety disorders in this population are frequently

weekend. The small journeys prove to be huge victories for Wade as his boundaries expand farther from his home.

associated with traumatic events such as a fall or

Their unlikely bond transforms abruptly to a future in doubt

acute illness.

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The narrative, which combines some dry humor sprinkled in

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HEALTHY LIVING

WAYS we get VITAMIN D

By Daphne Olivier

S

ummer’s here and the

It plays a role in such ailments as asthma, cognitive impairment, diabetes, respiratory infections, and various types of cancer.

sun is

There isn’t an agreed upon amount of time that

shining! The sun is one way that we

we should spend in the sun and it all depends

get vitamin D. It’s called a vitamin but

on where you live and the strength of the sun’s

actually it acts more like a hormone – sending

rays. The beauty of this is that the sun is free

messages throughout the body to several organs

and readily available. The down side is that

and tissues. It is used for more than just building

most of us don’t spend much time in the direct

strong bones. According to the Vitamin

sunlight uncovered.

D Council, vitamin D plays a role in such ailments as asthma, cognitive impairment, diabetes, respiratory infections, and various

Unfortunately, vitamin D is found in very few

foods, and the ones that do have

types of cancer.

The

skin has the ability to convert sunlight

into a usable form of vitamin D. In order for this to happen, you must spend time in direct sunlight (without a cover, shade, or sunscreen).

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mushrooms

natural vitamin D are not necessarily high in the vital nutrient. Among highest on the list are cod liver oil, salmon,

oysters

AVOID BACK SURGERY

oysters, mushrooms,

and egg yolks from a farm where chickens are roaming in the sunlight.

Aside from this small list, there are more foods that don’t naturally have vitamin D, but are fortified with the vitamin such as milk, orange juice, and cereals.

If you don’t spend much time in direct sun and you aren’t eating oily fish,

salmon

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mushrooms, and

pastured egg yolks regularly, you may need to supplement with vitamin D. Before starting a supplement it’s best to get tested and know your baseline. It’s a simple blood test that any doctor can request. Although 30ng/dL is considered normal, the optimal range is 60-80ng/mL. Supplementation can start as low as 500IU and range as high as 50,000IUs, averaging

VAX-D, the non-surgical treatment for chronic back and neck pain.

about 2000IU daily.

orange juice

Since vitamin D is a

fat-soluble vitamin it is possible to take too much, so after starting a supplement it would be wise to get retested. Keeping your vitamin D levels optimal is vital for feeling your best. Plus you get to enjoy this great Louisiana summer!

About the author: Daphne is a food passionista, farm girl wanna-be and registered yet unconventional dietitian with a private practice – My Food Coach. She focuses on unprocessed, real food and balancing the diet with your lifestyle. Visit her website at myfoodcoach.tv

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HEALTHY LIVING

TO ADD STEPS TO YOUR DAY (BPT) – IF YOU SPEND A LARGE PORTION OF YOUR DAY SITTING, YOU'RE NOT ALONE. Inactivity is one of the key factors contributing to the nation's high rate of obesity and its related health effects. Research shows 50-70% of people spend six or more hours a day sitting and 20-35% spend four or more hours a day watching TV. This type of inactivity — or 'sitting disease' — can lead to serious health conditions. For example, nearly 35 % of U.S. adults are obese, and obesity-related conditions including heart disease, stroke, Type 2 diabetes and certain types of cancer are among the leading causes of preventable death. The estimated annual medical cost of obesity in the U.S. is $147 billion.

Annual medical spending on an obese patient is estimated to be $1,429 higher than it is for a person of normal weight, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

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While those figures are discouraging, there is one easy

By getting just 30 minutes of moderate physical activity,

solution that could have a profound impact. Walking is

such as a brisk walk, at least five times a week, you could

one of the simplest, least expensive and most effective

realize significant health benefits. Walking has been

ways individuals can improve their health. It does not

shown to lower the risk of developing cardiovascular

require any special skills, expensive equipment or a

disease, hypertension and Type 2 diabetes, improve

gym membership.

muscle, bone and joint health, maintain a healthy weight, lead to better sleep and provide a mental boost.

SIX EASY WAYS TO INCORPORATE MORE WALKING INTO YOUR DAY

That's why the Blue Cross Blue Shield Association encourages individuals, groups and whole communities to take steps toward a healthier lifestyle through its WalkingWorks® program. WalkingWorks, now in its 10th

1. TAKE A WALK WITH A COWORKER

year, was developed in partnership with the President's

AT LUNCHTIME OR SCHEDULE A

Council on Physical Fitness and Sports to help Americans

WALKING MEETING.

live healthier lives and reduce unnecessary medical costs.

Blue Cross and Blue Shield companies across the country

2. SCHEDULE A WALK WITH THE FAMILY AFTER DINNER.

also host annual National Walk@Lunch day events as a way to promote healthy habits by incorporating walking into a busy work day.

3. TAKE THE STAIRS INSTEAD OF THE ELEVATOR.

So don't just sit there and let that warm weather go to waste. Take steps to a better you, and see how walking

4. WALK TO SEE A COLLEAGUE RATHER THAN CALL OR E-MAIL.

does work! *Before beginning any weight loss or nutritional program or new exercise

5. CHOOSE TO PARK FURTHER WHEN RUNNING ERRANDS OR IN THE

regime, consult with your doctor or healthcare provider.

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6. START OR JOIN A WALKING GROUP.

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HEALTHY LIVING

Being in the sun decreases tension, anxiety, and

SUMMER

stress, just like

WORKOUTS

exercise does.

By Anna Roy

Summer is here and along with that

decreases tension, anxiety, and stress, just

comes a little freedom, the addition of

like exercise does. Plus as an added bonus you

swimsuits in your wardrobe, and rising temperatures. If you live anywhere in

encouraging fitness and an active life for them too. But how can you make the most out of an

the south, those last two items may

outdoor workout without seriously hurting

result in your desire to work out but

your body?

your lack of desire to experience a heat stroke in the ever-present sun.

Summer is still one of the most popular times to get out and play sports. For example, basketball courts can be used for games such as Horse or 1 v. 1. Local parks, like Acadiana Park offer Frisbee golf courses, soccer goals, hiking trails, and fields for flag football. Tennis is another fun sport that can be played often at one of the many courts Lafayette has to offer.

My personal favorite? Walking or bike riding through neighborhoods and looking at all the beautiful homes.

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can get quality time in with your kids while

First, try not to do activities during the peak of the heat. Working out or playing outside during the morning or around sunset helps you

Definitely take a break if you begin to feel dizzy, nauseous, weak, experience muscle cramps, or if your skin becomes cool and clammy. avoid the hottest parts of the day. Training in extreme southern heat and this lovely Louisiana humidity takes a lot more out of you than you are used to in a gym or cooler weather. Know that your body probably needs to move at a

Spending more time outdoors, especially

slower pace and will need time to acclimate to

when trying to get in a good workout, is

the warmer temperature. Also, wear clothes

not necessarily a bad idea. Being in the sun

that are lightweight, light colored, and that have

moisture-wicking capabilities. Stay away from tight, dark colored clothes (especially cotton) that will only make you hotter. You should keep your skin protected from the harsh sun and prevent painful sunburns by applying a coat of sunscreen before heading outdoors! Most importantly, listen to your body. Know when you need to stop or move back inside to ensure safety. Definitely take a break if you begin to feel dizzy, nauseous, weak, experience muscle cramps, or if your skin

becomes cool and clammy.

Definitely take a break if you begin to feel dizzy, nauseous, weak, experience muscle cramps, or if your skin becomes cool and clammy.

But hydration is the absolute key to staying safe

or evening, make sure to drink lots of water in

And of course, drink plenty of H20 following your

in the summer heat. Excess heat leads to excess

the hours leading up to it; if you are a morning

workout, no matter what time of the day it takes

sweat, which leads to dehydration very fast.

exerciser, drink lots of water the day before as

place! To replenish your body even more and

When your body loses water through sweat,

well as right when you wake up! In addition,

help prevent muscle cramps, you can add items

your heart has to work harder to pump oxygen

it is very important to sip on water during your

rich in electrolytes, such as low-sugar sports

to your muscles. If you exercise in the afternoon

outdoor activities to feel and perform your best.

drinks or gels.

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HOME

Plan Ahead for Power Outages (Family Features) Summer storms are often accompanied by damaging hail, high winds, heavy rain and lightning that cause widespread power outages affecting homeowners’ peace of mind, and their pocketbooks.

Homeowners can prepare for possible power outages by establishing an emergency plan for their families.

EMERGENCY KIT Include items such as a flashlight, battery-powered weather radio, bottled water, non-perishable snacks and personal hygiene items. Don’t

“The coming of storm season often motivates homeowners to start

forget extra batteries that fit your devices and keep a portable cell

thinking about how to keep the power on and avoid the costs and

phone charger on hand. The compact Rayovac Phone Charger, which is

inconvenience associated with power outages,” said Dan Roche with

compatible with most USB-powered devices, holds enough power to

Briggs & Stratton.

recharge a mobile phone up to three times (depending on device) and

Get ready for the chance of inclement weather ahead with these tools and resources:

FIRST AID Assemble a basic first aid kit with assorted sterile, compression and adhesive bandages, rolled gauze, adhesive tape, disinfectant, antibiotic ointment, tweezers, scissors and instant cold packs. Add pain relieving medications (including children’s strength, if applicable) and a few days’ worth of any regular medications you take.

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holds its charge up to four months.

COMFORT ITEMS What constitutes comfort likely varies depending on your family composition, but may include things like stuffed animals, soothing blankets or small toys for little ones and more practical items, including pillows and sleeping bags, for older family members. Remember that a storm may leave you huddled in a confined space or without power for an extended period, so diversions such as travel-size games and cards can help pass the time.

BACKUP POWER

FIRST AID

Portable generators provide a solution during an emergency power outage to power essential items, such as refrigerators, sump

EMERGENCY KIT

pumps and lights. An option such as Briggs & Stratton’s Storm Responder Portable Generator is equipped with a digital control

COMFORT ITEMS

panel that provides everything owners need to know, including the amount of power being used, total lifetime hours of the generator and maintenance reminders. Ideal for first-time buyers, the Storm

BACKUP POWER

Responder features step-by-step start-up, shutdown and storage instructions, as well as a safety guide printed directly on the unit.

I N F O R M AT I O N G U I D E

Be sure you have a transfer switch installed in your home so you are ready to safely restore the power to your home in the event of an outage. To learn more, visit briggsandstratton.com.

While portable generators can provide users with flexibility and comfort, homeowners and renters should only use portable generators outside in order to avoid carbon monoxide poisoning.

Visit TakeYourGeneratorOutside.com to learn more about portable generator safety.

I N F O R M AT I O N G U I D E In the aftermath of a storm, having emergency information at your fingertips is one less stress to fight. Compile contact information for family members, friends and close neighbors, along with your insurance agent. Also include any relevant medical contacts or information. Stash your guide along with your emergency and first aid kits so it will be within easy reach if you need it.

Seasonal weather can bring unpredictable dangers to your home and family, but assembling the right materials ahead of time will help ensure your family is well prepared to ride out the storm.

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relaxing What else is your home really FOR?

HO USE

TH E R A P Y

By Ren Campbell

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I

t isn’t meant to be stimulating in the adrenaline pumping way of an aerobic workout or climbing to the top of Machu Pichu. It isn’t meant to be stress-inducing, producing angst the way an argument with a co-worker or a political debate might. Nor is it meant to be a stage set where you perform for the world. Home does, however, have to work hard and function on many levels. Consider that your home’s most important job is being your haven, your place of respite, your shelter. Now, how do you know if your home is doing its job? Well, are you relaxed?

Your home’s most important job is being your haven, your place of respite, your shelter.

How do we create a home that is relaxing? Anyone you talk to about this, and I’d suggest you do, will give you a different idea. It can be very personal.

For me, to have an overstuffed lounge chair and big screen TV does not produce much more than anxiety, though I do like comfort. Some would argue that the same lounge chair and TV is relaxing for them and falling asleep in same is proof (however, studies show watching/sleeping to TV is not actually relaxing or healthy).

THINK ABOUT THESE THINGS TA C T I L E E N E R G Y

Think raw wood next to lacquer.

RESTRAINED QUIETUDE

Think limited palette, low contrast value (darkness to lightness ratio).

COMPLEX SIMPLICITY

Think monochromatic color scheme with intentional contrasting color.

SENSE OF HUMOR

Think humor, wit – being serious all the time is not relaxing.

SENSUALITY OF TIME

Think watching the passage of the sunlight through a room or garden.

KNOWLEDGE OF PLACE

Think about how comforting it is to know where you are in the world.

A P P R O P R I AT E ‘ F I T ’ N E S S

Think how your house fits in your neighborhood, town, state, continent and how the objects fit in each room and with you.

NOW DO THIS While you’re home, take your copy of FACE, a notepad and pen and go to two places in your house (Forget about your day and distractions, get grounded, then GO) 1. First, sit in your FAVORITE SPOT, wherever that is.

2. Next, go to the MOST IMPORTANT PLACE, the place you would go with guests, friends or family. These may be exactly the same; they may be different areas of one space; they may be on completely different floors.

3. Are you there? Consider this “Think List” while you’re in these places.

Do it for yourself, and if that doesn’t work for you — do it for me. As you ponder and look around with these concepts in mind, jot down whatever comes up…no filters. HINT: You really want to feel the same level of stress-free relaxation in both places!

Let me know how it goes…

About the author: Ren Campbell has practiced the discipline of architectural interior design for over 30 years. He’s been a University studio instructor and currently consults with individuals on their issues concerning their homes and how they live in them. Contact Ren with your House Therapy questions at rencamp1@gmail.com.

MAKE SURE YOUR YARD IS NOT A TARGET Mosquitoes carry disease — and need standing water to breed. A female can deposit her eggs in any amount of water, so make sure everything in your yard stays dry. Clean out gutters and empty items that hold water, such as flower pots, tires and children’s toys. To learn more about Operation Buzzkill, visit www.projectfrontyard.com/buzzkill

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HOME

ON THE PULSE A look at the current Lafayette parish real estate market

By Flint Zerangue, Sr.

I

Since the market crash in the early 1980s, most people in the Acadiana region have learned how to balance their lives and budgets to accommodate current market conditions.

t never ceases to amaze me as to how resilient the housing market is in Lafayette parish. Going back 20 years, our market has seen its ups and down, but for the most part, Lafayette parish has been consistently stable. Now, as the oil and gas industry struggles, we’re seeing some small changes in pricing and larger volumes of residential homes available for sale, but the numbers are not staggering, which makes me very optimistic about Lafayette’s long term housing market.

The inventory levels of homes for sale have expectedly increased with recent layoffs in the region, but for the most part, the market is stable.

Since the market crash in the early 1980s, most people in the Acadiana region have learned how to balance their lives and budgets to accommodate current market conditions. This is very apparent as we look at the housing numbers over the past year.

Work with a qualified Realtor® who knows the area and who can help you price your house at fair market value. Over price your home and buyers won’t even view it. Under price it and buyers may think something is wrong with it.

Comparing year to date numbers from 2015 to the same period of time in 2016, there has been a manageable drop in overall single family home sales of roughly 5% to 7%.

Clean up the landscaping, yard and entrance to the home, because curb appeal is huge. If you turn off the potential buyers before they even enter the house, you can pretty much forget about selling it.

The average days on the market (DOM) to sell a home has increased slightly from the mid 70 day range to the mid 80 to 90 day range, depending on the housing sector.

Make sure your house doesn’t have any foul odors! You’ve probably become immune to the smell of your dog or your cat’s litter box, but trust me, no one else has.

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If you’re planning on staying in the Lafayette or Acadiana area for the long haul, I wouldn’t worry about housing prices; the long term market should be fine. On the other hand, if you’re relocating or downsizing and need to sell your house, there’s a little more competition out there, so consider the following to help sell your house more quickly and obtain a better price.

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YOU ARE

CAREER

IT!

#IntentionalPositivity

A

s an international job and career

So what would life look like if you had never

After careful review, have you concluded that

transition coach, I am often asked

been born?

you do have some tangible worth in the lives of

to coach clients through salary

negotiation when they are looking for a promotion or a new job. After 30 years of assisting clients, here’s some thought-provoking

Here’s a short list of people who might be “worth less” without you

others? If not, dig deeper.

The reality is that we all have a GREAT impact on countless other people. You are worth a great deal! You are valuable! The trick is to constantly

information that might be “worth” your while

YOUR FAMILY

to consider.

Parents, grandparents, spouse, siblings,

stay humble and grateful for all the blessings

children, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews,

you’ve enjoyed throughout your life. Only then

In determining your worth, we must first

and/or cousins

can you truly determine your own worth.

YOUR FRIENDS

Remember — Your worth is not determined

BFFs, friends, and/or acquaintances

by dollars and cents. It is determined by your

YOUR WORK

efforts on a daily basis. So many people count

Frank Capra illustrated this beautifully in his

Employers, colleagues, subordinates, clients,

on you – not monetarily – but through your

classic movie, It’s a Wonderful Life. So, imagine

or even your transportation engineer (driver)

actions. Consider that when you are looking

figure out how your worth is measured. More importantly, how do YOU measure your own worth?

that you are George Bailey in the movie. As the movie concludes, George Bailey hears these words from his brother, “Here’s to George Bailey, the richest man in town!”

While on the surface, this sounds like George’s worth is based on money. In reality, his worth is based on the countless gestures and heart he has extended to others throughout his life. This is the tear-jerking climax of the movie!

unemployment square in the eyes. It will lift you

YOUR HOME Neighbors, subdivision board, church congregation

up and bring your true center where it needs to be…valuing you…Val-YOU!

YOUR ENEMIES You know who these are

YOUR INVISIBLE PEOPLE What about that person who receives a charitable gift (financial or gesture) from you someone you’ve never even met?

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COVER S

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STORY

SPIRITUALLY AND ARTISTICALLY INFLUENCED BY HER NATURAL SURROUNDINGS

By Marisa Olson Photography by Penny Moore of Moore Photography Q FACE MAGAZINE. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.

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Bonin’s works evoke reverie and possess a dream-like quality.

Renderings of natural scenes pass through her mind’s eye where the subject’s physical, outer layer is gently lifted away, revealing its spiritual nature.

What the Water Gave Me he spirits of shady oaks, Spanish moss, and the sleepy, meandering Bayou Teche, spread over the hauntingly beautiful town of New Iberia, imbuing it with a palpable, calm dreaminess. Local landscape and portraiture artist, Melissa Bonin, like so many artists and writers from the area, recognizes she was spiritually and artistically influenced by her natural surroundings.

Mrs. Cathy Indest, President of Iberia Cultural Resources Association, an Organization Member of the Iberia Preservation Alliance, and Board Member of the Bayou Teche Museum, lauded Bonin’s achievement and contribution to the community: “Melissa Bonin, an extraordinary artist, is a perfect example of New Iberia’s wellspring of creativity, marking this community as a center for art, culture, history, literature, music, preservation, and theatre. New Iberia could not be prouder of Ms. Bonin, her native daughter, and all that she has accomplished in the world of art.”

Indest’s family, renowned arts philanthropists, and themselves, native New Iberians, share with Bonin and other famous, local artists a deep connection to their community, the land on which it was founded, and its breathtaking beauty.

During periods of trial or crisis, Bonin has drawn restoration and solace from the Bayou Teche, which laps at the edges of her backyard. The Teche is where her deep relationship with the Louisiana landscape began, and from its cradle, she has explored and expanded her deep connection to Acadiana. To maintain her connection to nature, Bonin used to paddle frequently down rivers and bayous, and at Lake Martin, although she now prefers birding by the coast in Peveto Woods, or by the Cameron Jetties.

To maintain her connection to nature, Bonin used to paddle frequently down rivers and bayous, and at Lake Martin, although she now prefers birding by the coast in Peveto Woods, or by the Cameron Jetties.

Her original works can be seen at her Left Bank Gallery, located at 220 West Main Street in New Iberia.

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“I Know These Bayous By Heart” As a young girl, Bonin was shaped by the natural surroundings and by the boundaries, which were defined in her home town of New Iberia. She grew up and played on one side of the bayou, but by age 10, she began visiting the other side where her school friends lived. The Teche was both a natural and magical transition point, bridging the two banks, each side representing distinct aspects of life: On one side was home and family, the other was “the outside” world of friends, school, and the dance studio where Bonin took ballet lessons.

to look up, and from side to side, to find the way. The perspective also looked more deeply into the water. In earlier, simpler times, Bonin explains, the path through life seemed clear and unambiguous, but there were “more things to consider as my experience grew. It became clear that ‘obstacles define our path,’ and that perspective exists from many directions.”

The Process Before painting a large work, Bonin enters a state of “wonder,” and she “wanders,” quite literally: “I used to find myself at the fabric store instead of working in my studio, and would get angry with myself for wasting time until realizing this was an integral part of my process.” Even when present in the same room with others, she may seem detached, her thoughts somewhere else; but she is only absorbed and immersed on her next work.

“I know these bayous by heart…I have crossed them thousands of times. They are part of me. My bayous represent the union of those two banks. Holding the balance and moving forward with the flow of the river as the force beneath me. It is a beautiful image of life,” says Bonin. “Our sense of place defines who we are, shaping our character, our way of being. People from Louisiana are spiritually connected to the water, trees, land, and its creatures.”

Bonin paints mostly in silence, preferring to ruminate and listen to her thoughts, which, ironically, create a useful distraction: “If you focus too intently on what you are doing, you will get in your own way. I reflect on nothing in particular, just interior ramblings that allow me to paint instinctively, and do not choke up on the brush and try to control things. I guess it is a Zen thing,” she smiles.

After Katrina Bonin’s earlier works portrayed clear focal points in the distance, but in works created after Hurricane Katrina, obstacles began emerging in the foreground of her paintings: vines, branches, and ripples that sealed off the earlier, open vistas. The perspective changed, forcing one

Formerly, Bonin painted a la prima, wet on wet, with none or few preliminary sketches, and constantly moving the wet paint until the painting is done. Now her works are more complex with new challenges that she sets up for herself. Her creations require more planning, more days to finish, sometimes weeks, sometimes years. She often erases and discards.

“I used to find myself at the fabric store instead of working in my studio, and would get angry with myself for wasting

She also derives inspiration from music.

John Coltrane’s concept of Sheets of Sound resonated with her work and affected the way she applied paint. She also loves classical pieces, such as Pachelbel’s Canon and Handel’s Water Music.

time until realizing this was an integral part of my process.”

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Bonin ascribes the influence of her subconscious as the creative impetus of her work. She has avidly recorded her dreams for decades, and dream images emerge through her work.

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ABOUT THE ARTIST

Spirit Waters Bonin’s works evoke reverie and possess a dream-like quality. Renderings of natural scenes pass through her mind’s eye where the subject’s physical, outer layer is gently lifted away, revealing its spiritual nature. Bonin does not present the viewer with scenes of water or trees, but the essences of water and trees, thus facilitating an authentic, powerful encounter between the viewer and the nature spirits that inhabit her paintings.

artists, and great masters into powerful muses with whom she (figuratively) interacts in dreams: “Sometimes, I will have a wonderful dream about an artist that I respect greatly, and then I know that the next day in the studio will bring a gem.”

Bonin has studied and exhibited in both the United States and abroad. At sixteen, she attended the University of Southwestern Louisiana, studying art with Elemore Morgan, Jr., Herman Mhire, Tom Secrest, and William Moreland. Thereafter, she studied fine art in Europe, and upon returning to the United States, continued her fine art education at Bennington College and the Massachusetts School of Fine Art.

Bonin explains: “I strive to paint the essence of my subject, that one thing that — if you removed it — would no longer be what it is. I try to hone it down to the one thing.

It could be a certain flicker of light shooting from the object, and that is all it might take to communicate that one thing.”

The waters of Bonin’s paintings assume shape, movement and depth through luminous color. Often, their surfaces are broken and disturbed — or illuminated — by a flash or play of light, or veiled and obscured by lattices of cypress branches.

Bonin’s spirit waters impart the illusion of flowing across the canvas, or that, even when waters rest still, a deeper rhythm undulates below.

But whether the water’s surface is solemn and enigmatic in one work, or sparkling and serene in another, one senses always the lurking disquiet that belies the primordial beauty.

Bonin ascribes the influence of her subconscious as the creative impetus of her work. She has avidly recorded her dreams for decades, and dream images emerge through her work. Her psyche has transformed dear friends, fellow

Melissa Bonin is a major Acadian artist whose landscapes and portraiture have been featured in Southern Accents, Lagniappe, Southern Living, and Louisiana Life magazines and many more. Bonin draws from her native Louisiana landscape to produce original works that can be seen at her Magazine Street Gallery in New Orleans, and her Lafayette Satellite Gallery.

She currently lives and paints in Lafayette and travels back and forth between the two galleries. Among her many accomplishments, she received the Woman In Business Award 2015 and the Bunk Johnson Award. Works have appeared in Television Series, and also Live Performance of Zachary Richard’s Attakapas and as a selected artist in the book of Louisiana Artists A Unique Slant of Light, Louisiana Endowment for the Humanities, John Kemp In the world of art influences, Bonin acknowledges Whistler, Rembrandt, Sargent, O’Keefe, Monet, Joan Mitchell, and Freda Kahlo.

Her Favorite Works Bonin includes among her favorite works, Favorite Things from the Coltrane Series, and her self-portrait completed days after her son’s birth, which inspired Bonin to dedicate her life to her art: “My son’s birth made everything more important and urgent.”

Among her personal influences, Bonin counts Iyanla Vanzant, with whom she has personally studied, and Opal Broussard, whom Bonin regards as a “positive, creative and life-affirming spirit from whom I draw daily inspiration.” Also, her dear friend Judy Rizzo, who has given tremendous, unwavering support from the beginning of her career to this day Bonin has exhibited her paintings throughout the United States and abroad. Her work is on display in important private collections of Blake Lively, Emeril Lagasse, Roger Ogden, Christian LeBlanc, Ryan Reynolds, Governor Kathleen Babineaux Blanco and many more.

LIFE AND LEISURE Many people have found apartments in Paris with amazing views for the fraction of the price of a hotel!

EYE SPY

By Kristi Guillory

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t’s summer time, aka vacation time! Several nights in a hotel can be pricey. Some people are turning to other options for accommodations, such as Airbnb.

property within a week of your trip to make sure the home will still be available and to find out which items will be in the home for your use, such as clean linens and toilet paper.

SAVE MONEY

I spoke with several people who have used the service. Many mentioned bad experiences simply because of a lack of communication.

One couple arrived late at night to a home with no toilet paper or blankets for the beds. This could’ve easily been avoided by experience and communication. The overseas opportunities were wonderful according to the people I interviewed. Many people found apartments in Paris with amazing views for the fraction of the price of a hotel!

Airbnb is a program that can be accessed from the web or downloaded as an app on your smart phone. Hosts can rent out space in their home to travelers; a portion or the whole house. For many people this is ideal when traveling for longer stays so that they can have the option to use the kitchen and eat in some nights to save money.

It’s also beneficial to have an entire house when traveling with children. Have you tried getting a toddler to nap with several people in a hotel room? It just doesn’t happen, friend!

Each experience varies by owner, and reviews are very helpful when choosing accommodations.

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MAKE MONEY Airbnb is much like VRBO (Vacation Rentals By Owner) and if you are interested in renting out your property, it’s easy to get set up. You simply create an account and then create your listing

RESEARCH AND COMMUNICATION ARE ESPECIALLY IMPORTANT WITH AIRBNB. including pictures and pricing. You then set the dates it will be available and can even list a preference for the types of renters you wish to host in your home. Once your listing is complete you will be verified by Airbnb and users will be allowed to find your home through searches.

As with any endeavor, research is key, as are safety precautions. FACE Magazine would love to hear about your personal experiences with Airbnb! Email comments to editor@ faceacadiana.com.

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7 Steps to PATIO PERFECTION

Wall decorations, outdoor rugs, decorative planters and flower pots, wind chimes and statuary all work together to create a look you’ll love throughout the spring and summer.

(BPT) Daffodils bloom brightly by the back door, temperatures are balmy, cookout season is on the horizon and you’re ready to give your outdoor living space a breath of fresh air. Great patios and decks enhance your enjoyment of spring and summer, and boost home value, so it’s well worth the investment to update and upgrade your home’s exterior living space.

2. REPLACE CUSHIONS ON YOUR CURRENT SET.

Patio (or deck) perfection can be within your reach this season. Simply follow these seven steps to create an outdoor environment where you’ll be proud to entertain all summer long.

3. ADD A WATER FEATURE

1. UPDATE YOUR PATIO FURNITURE Whether your current patio set is worn out, you need more seating or are just in the mood for a whole new look, new patio furniture can change the way you feel about your outdoor environment — and how much time you spend there! Whether you want traditional wicker, durable metals or exotic woods like Eucalyptus, you can find the right dining set, settee, chaise lounge, glider, ottoman, coffee table, rocker or swing among the 50,000 individual home decor items carried by every At Home store.

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If your current patio furniture is in good shape but just in need of some freshening, it’s easy enough to give it new life with small tweaks like updated patio cushions. Cushions are the crowning touch to catch the eye on patio furniture, and you can find hundreds of patterns, shapes and styles of patio pillows and cushions at At Home.

One of the best ways to create your own oasis can be with a water feature.

Easy to find and simple to set up accessories like a fountain can bring the harmony of water to your outdoor environment. For example, those with a waterfall feature immediately create a feeling of Zen and help drown out the noise of everyday life.

4. MAKE SOME SHADE When you need a break from the sun, but aren’t ready to head indoors, shade can help you stay outside so you can enjoy the fresh air longer. You can add shade in many ways, from installing a retractable awning over the deck or patio to strategically planting trees or climbing vines on a trellis.

And of course, the simplest way to add shade is to use patio umbrellas, which are available in a wide range of hues, patterns and styles.

5. HEAT UP YOUR GRILLING STATION What outdoor environment would be complete without a great grill?

Accessories make grilling fun and easy, and ensure you’ll look and operate like a pro when whipping up summer fare. From grilling mitts to barbecue tool sets, burger and kabob grilling baskets, grill toppers and even taco shell baskets, you can outfit your grill station with everything you need for a great grilling experience.

planters and flower pots, wind chimes and statuary all work together to create a look you’ll love throughout the spring and summer.

The perfect patio — and hours of outdoor enjoyment — is within reach this spring and summer. To find an At Home store near you, visit www.athome.com.

6. LIGHTEN UP When you’re having a great time outdoors, who wants to go inside just because it’s dark? Add some lighting to your outdoor living space to create ambiance and allow you to enjoy your patio long after the sun goes down. You can invest in hard-wired patio or deck lights, go ecofriendly and easy with solar lights, or choose from an array of batterypowered or candle-fired lanterns.

7. USE DECOR TO CREATE A THEME Just as your home’s interior has a design theme, choosing a theme for your patio or deck can pull the look together. Whether your taste is Boho Chic, Tribal or Weekend Getaway, you can find decor items that underscore the theme. Wall decorations, outdoor rugs, decorative

Add some lighting to your outdoor living space to create ambiance and allow you to enjoy your patio long after the sun goes down.

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WHAT TO BRING TO A

BARBECUE PARTY

that the host will actually A P P R E C I AT E You’ve been invited to a friend’s barbecue, and, in a fit of misjudged generosity, you’ve offered to bring something along.

You could just take some beers or a bottle of wine. Or how about this time you make an effort -- just a little — and try one of these alternatives instead. Do a great job, and you’ll be surprised by the positive reactions you receive.

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ARINATED MEAT

There’s no barbecue without meat, so bringing some more along is a pretty safe option. But the last thing you want to do is bring more of the same pre-packed burgers the host has stocked right up on anyway.

So, a great option is some lovingly-marinated meat. Something tasty and a little bit different will be sure to create interest, and will seem like you’ve really made an effort. But if you can spare the ten minutes it takes to stick the marinade and your chosen meat in a bow — and the fridge space to let it do its thing — then it’s really not much effort at all.

Pork or chicken loves a marinade, or if you want to push the boat out, go for rump steaks for a really generous touch.

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FANTASTIC SAUCE

For a slightly more left-field alternative, a fresh, home-made sauce can be a really unexpected, and welcome, addition. Drop something versatile on the table that guests will want to put on everything. Whip out a South American inspired fresh chili and lime salsa, or a tasty classic smoky barbecue, and then stand back as the first few adventurous souls give it a try…then see how quickly it disappears as word gets around.

If your sauce is good enough, it’ll end up making its way onto every guest’s plate, and you may even steal a little focus from your host’s food. Oops!

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KILLER SALAD DONE RIGHT

This humble accompaniment is often overlooked at an event where meat is invariably the main attraction, the reason being that, more often that not, the salad is either thrown together as an afterthought, or store-bought. The answer? Go all out for brightly coloured, interesting looking vegetables that’ll not only taste great, but also make your salad impossible to ignore amongst the sea of brown meat. Avoid polarizing ingredients that could alienate people (you may like to throw anchovies in there, but just this once, think about leaving them out), and for the dressing, go for big flavor. By-and-large at a barbecue, people are taking a break from eating healthily, and you can be sure no-one wants to join in with your particular fad diet of the moment. Don’t forget, they’ll be tasting your delicious salad without knowing the calorie content, and in this case, ignorance is bliss.

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RESHLY BAKED BREAD

One for the specialists this, as it takes a little more effort and know-how. It’s seriously worth it, though. After all, nothing impresses more than being able to proudly declare that yes, you baked it yourself. A basic bread recipe will do fine, but you can be as adventurous as you want, or your skills allow.

There’ll be few who can refuse a wonderfully soft buttered roll with their pile of meat, or, for a little (but not much) more fuss, mouth-watering home made garlic bread is all-but guaranteed to be a major success. If you can time you arrival so the bread’s still warm from the oven, the admiring glances will be sure to come thick and fast.

So the next time you’re invited to a barbecue why not ditch that big bag of chips and go all in.

You might even find your little addition turns out to be the star of the show

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HURRICANE SURVIVAL KIT

FAMILY MATTERS

WATER - at least 1 gallon daily per person for 7 to 10 days.

STORM

Food (non-perishable/canned)- at least enough for 3 to 7 days— non-electric can opener

ACTION PLAN Hurricane season is officially here until November. You may have survived several seasons and know what to do in the event of a hurricane. But, your children may be clueless.

COOKING TOOLS / FUEL PAPER PLATES / PLASTIC UTENSILS / PAPER CUPS TRASH BAGS AND DUCT TAPE – useful for clean-up, or patching leaks in an emergency AN AX to use if you stay and need to escape from your house - or other uses BLANKETS / PILLOWS, ETC. CLOTHING – seasonal / rain gear/ sturdy shoe

By preparing your children for a hurricane, you not only

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give them tools to ensure their safety but will help to ease

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their possible anxiety about storms.

TOILETRIES / HYGIENE ITEMS / MOISTURE WIPES

HOLD A FAMILY MEETING Everyone should be together when discussing your family’s storm action plan. Set aside 30 minutes to an hour without any distractions. Set up your meeting agenda by answering the following questions: • What are hurricanes? You can obtain information online or from your local news station, equipped with a hurricane tracking chart.

• How do we prepare for a hurricane? Discuss boarding the windows, getting sandbags, hurricane kits, food and water.

Consider getting these items ready to survive for 3-7 days to have ready instead of scrambling at the last minute.

BUG SPRAY, CORTISONE for bug bites • How do we stay in touch? Each family should have their one point of contact, with texting as little as possible to conserve cell’s batteries; and having a freshly charged wireless charger prepared when the electricity goes out.

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• What do we do in the event of tornadoes? Hurricanes come with hail and tornadoes and your kids should know the safety precautions in the event of those. Decide what part is the safest place in the home and how to protect oneself.

Practice the routine twice a year.

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You can relay stories of your own hurricane experiences and allow your children to ask questions. As long as you are confident in your plan, they will feel more at ease knowing the family is prepared.

TARP to cover holes if needed BLEACH WATER PURIFICATION TABLETS WATERLESS SOAP – saves water for drinking

RADIO – Battery operated and NOAA weather radio BATTERY OPERATED TELEVISION, with extra batteries.

CASH KEYS to house, cars, boats etc TOYS, BOOKS AND GAMES IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS – in a waterproof container or watertight resealable plastic bag — insurance, medical records, bank account numbers, Social Security card, etc.

TOOLS - keep a set with you during the storm. A pocket knife, nails, a hammer and rope are important elements.

Towels and buckets are useful too if you develop a leak.

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preparing for

Open Up Communication Encourage Good Money Habits Advice From Financial Planner Shomari Hearn Whatever rules you and your child agree on, be sure to treat them as an adult.

BOOMERANG KIDS can be adult children of any age who return home because of job loss, divorce, or various other difficulties Many young grads will move back in with their parents after getting their college degree. It’s often not easy on either party. Boomerang kids typically raise a host of financial and family issues, says Shomari Hearn, a certified financial planner with Palisades Hudson Financial Group’s Fort Lauderdale office.

That’s why open communication and setting some basic ground rules are important.

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have both become used to some level of independence. You may be torn between feeling supportive and worrying about enabling bad behavior.

Discuss your rules and expectations with your child when they first return to the nest. Better yet, do it during the planning stages ahead of the move back to minimize potential conflict.

Your conditions for living at home might include maintaining or actively seeking employment, paying rent, or helping out with a certain amount of house or yard work. For a younger adult child, it may be necessary to establish guidelines about alcohol use, smoking, and overnight guests. Discuss how long your child expects to stay.

Check Your Budget Reevaluate your own finances when your adult child moves back in, Hearn adds. How will having an additional person eating groceries, consuming utilities, and perhaps driving your vehicle impact your cash flow?

Don’t let yourself get into financial trouble because you failed to reassess your own budget while helping your child. This holds true for all sorts of gifts, but it can be harder to say no when you share a living space and witness your child’s struggles firsthand.

If your child has a job, strongly consider charging rent. That will help them responsibly manage their money. If you don’t need the money, you can place it in an account that can be used for your child’s future needs.

Build Good Money Habits When a child moves in, you have a unique opportunity to enforce good financial habits.

Encourage your kid to save, especially if you’re not charging rent because of student debt payments or other reasons. This will give them an emergency fund, a nest egg for when they eventually do move out, or a resource for paying down student debt sooner.

or try to make them ask your permission to come and go. Ground rules that are reasonable will be much less likely to cause strife.

If your child is employed and his or her employer offers a 401(k) plan, talk to your child about why it’s a good idea to participate. If his or her employer doesn’t offer such a plan, mention and perhaps help your child to set up a traditional or Roth IRA. Even if your children can only save a little, you can help them to establish good saving habits that will serve them well later in life.

Your adult children’s choices are largely their own, and while the home is yours, avoid trying to actively parent the way you did when they were minors or teenagers. Don’t demand to know where they are at all times

You will need to respect their independence and their choices, but they also need to respect your home. It will be easier for you both to have a conversation up front, calmly and in the abstract, rather than in a heated confrontation later, when competing expectations collide.

Your child has changed since they moved out and so have you. It is a relationship you will both need to actively navigate. Whatever rules you and your child agree on, be sure to treat them as an adult, Hearn says.

More perspectives on managing relationships with adult children are in Palisades Hudson’s recent book, Looking Ahead: Life, Family, Wealth and Business After 55.

Shomari Hearn, CFP©, EA, is vice president of Palisades Hudson Financial Group, based in its Fort Lauderdale, Florida, office.

G LF 4aCAUSE Goal: Raise $500,000 for the construction of the “Acadiana House” group home at St. Mary’s Residential Training School for individuals with special needs

Monday, September 12, 2016 - 6:30pm - 9:00pm • Tee-Off Party & Auction at SOCIAL • $20.00 per Person Food/Drinks, Silent Auction, Raffle Baskets, Wine Pull and Celebrity Signing

Tuesday, September 13, 2016 • 4-Man Scramble of 2-Man Teams • $125 per Player • 12 Noon Registration & Lunch • 1:00pm Helicopter Mulligan Ball Drop • 1:30pm Shotgun Start • 6:00pm Awards Ceremony

To purchase a sponsorship or register a team online please visit : www.cfacadiana.org/golf4acause

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Childhood WITH

AN LGBT PARENT

Adult perspectives on their growing up experiences

WAS IT A BIG DEAL OR NOT A BIG DEAL ?

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ictoria Clarke and Eleni Demetriou’s recent research in Psychology & Sexuality delves deep into adult accounts of being a child of an LGBT parent. They examine the findings of past research that such children accept diversity, have the advantage of parental openness, pride in facing prejudice and overall a family unit centred on love just like any other family. They give voice to the children’s experiences through adult eyes and ask "Was it a big deal or not a big deal?"

In the 1970s, authorities went so far as removing children from the custody of their lesbian parents.

We have now moved on sufficiently to refute prior homophobic assumptions that LGBT parents negatively affect their children’s psychological, moral and social well-being. Indeed family ‘process’ over ‘structure’ has taken precedence when concerning child development.

However, there is a notable lack of qualitative research based on the experiences of children in LGBT families during their formative years. Clarke and Demetriou hence conducted a survey of 14 adults, 13 of whom were born to a heterosexual relationship in which one partner outed as gay, lesbian or trans. Participants were invited to 58 FACE | JUNE • JULY 2016

recount their stories of childhood, and the present, in relation to opening up about their families and the effect on their own adult relationships and sexuality.

to having a parent of each gender (regardless of sexuality), having a strong biological link to parents and in one case stressing the masculinity of his gay father.

The results endorsed previous findings of positive influences in childhood; tolerance, acceptance, honesty, respect and broad mindedness. Many downplayed the importance of parental sexuality in their upbringing and attached more importance

Others described the love and security in their family unit as paramount, exactly as any family would wish for; a strong counter to negative claims and parallel to conventional families.

Could these adults be striving to make sense of their families in a hetero context? Striving

We have now moved on sufficiently to refute prior homophobic assumptions that LGBT parents negatively affect their children’s

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On the other hand, some participants acknowledged challenges they lived through; bullying, strict secrecy (between parent and child in some cases), fear of public disclosure and judgement. These negative experiences did (and in some cases still do) create feelings of difference, shame, sadness and depression. Despite this, participants were protective of their parents and

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Participants' recollections minimized differences between themselves and other families and those who had issues account them to fear of discrimination.

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The authors conclude, “Adult children of LGBT parents clearly reject the notion that they have been ‘damaged’ by their LGBT parents’ sexuality/ gender identity and by being a member of a nonnormative family… (they) present their families as ‘just like’ other families and…downplay the significance of their parents’ sexuality/gender identity…participants located the source of any difficulties they and their parents had experienced in a heterosexist, homophobic and transphobic social context.”

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WOMEN IN BUSINESS

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The Entrepreneurial Spirit of Acadiana

HE BUSINESS WOMEN IN ACADIANA ARE TRULY AMAZING. From their creativity

and resourcefulness to their amazing career accomplishments, Acadiana’s business women are special. Honing in on their individual talents, each woman provides valuable services to

the community while providing for themselves and their families.

Featured here are just a few of the many locally women-owned and/or women-operated businesses. We hope you will help maintain the Acadiana entrepreneurial spirit by supporting these businesses today!

MARGO HUVAL DUGAS Margo Huval Dugas is an equity partner in the law firm of Tuten Title & Escrow, LLC, a full-service real estate closing company.

Born and raised in Shelly Daigle, Trina Fanguy, Lindsey Pitre, Courtney Guidry, Lafayette, she is proud Jennifer Autin, Jordan Fanguy, Nancy Brown, Gina Reese, Stephanie Weaver, Margo Dugas, Katie Waxley, Julie Mok, to call it home. Margo is a 2009 graduate Annie Bonaventure. Not pictured: Ashley Coffelt, Tammy Clark, Bernice Kennemer of the University of Louisiana at Lafayette with a Bachelor of Science degree in Finance. She went on to earn her law degree from the Southern University Law Center in 2012. Upon graduation, she served as a law clerk to the Honorable Judge James R. McClelland in the 16th Judicial District of Louisiana. In August, 2013, she joined Tuten Title & Escrow as an associate and quickly climbed the ranks. Margo’s favorite part of her job is making people’s dreams of homeownership a reality. She finds it immensely gratifying to experience a first-time

homebuyer’s joy at having achieved the American dream. Margo is married to Eric Dugas, also of Lafayette, and together they are the proud parents of Benjamin, who they welcomed to their family in November 2015.

Tuten Title & Escrow is co-owned by Margo and her business partner—and the firm’s namesake—H.L. “Rye” Tuten, III. The firm and its partners have enjoyed a tremendous amount of success in a short amount of time. Margo and Rye attribute that success to the amazing support staff of women they have behind them. Tuten Title employs a full-time staff of sixteen (16).

Without these women working diligently behind the scenes to ensure that each file closes on time and that everyone involved has a memorable experience, Tuten Title’s success would not be possible. The staff works diligently each day to make sure the day-to-day operations are handled properly and that each file is given the attention it deserves.

Lafayette (337) 524-1703 | 326 Settlers Trace Suite 101 • New Iberia (337) 456-3370 | 230 W. Main St. | www.tutentitle.com

GINA CAHEE PRINCIPAL’S LIST PRESCHOOL This retired elementary school principal of 14 years continues to prepare children for academic success! Gina Cahee and her husband, Gerald Cahee own two successful locations of Principal’s List Preschool in Lafayette/ Maurice area and in Youngsville.

The former Elementary Teacher and Principal of the Year, does not operate your “average” daycare, but she owns what she calls, “Lil Schools”! They teach their students at a very young age and prepare them very well for the challenges of today’s schools. Children ages 6 weeks to 5 years fill the creative classrooms daily. Children are singing, dancing, and learning all of their academics in a creative, fun way. They are tracing the letter B in sand, role playing, enjoying read a louds, exploring science, speaking in other languages, and just engaged in the learning process. She also provides after school pickup/care and a super summer camp for older children.

Mrs. Cahee opened the first Principal’s List Preschool nine years ago because of the need for a quality preschool in the area. Through her years as a teacher and principal in Lafayette Parish, she has won numerous awards and has the knowledge of what it takes to educate children.

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DR. CYNTHIA GLASS Dr. Cynthia Glass, Board Certified Plastic Surgeon, is the owner and Medical Director of Coccolare Medical Spa. She completed Medical School at LSU Medical School in New Orleans in 1980. After becoming a Board Certified General Surgeon in 1986, she entered a Plastic Surgery Residency and after completed it in 1988 she became Board Certified in Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery the following year.

Dr. Glass’ goal in treating patients is to understand what the needs and concerns are of each individual and offer possible solutions to help him or her reach their goal via products, services, laser treatments and more. Patients are consulted one on one and given knowledge on possible treatment methods to help achieve the patient’s goal in a costly and effective manner which allows patients to feel more comfortable and educated with his or her choices.

Dr. Glass and Coccolare Spa have recently upgraded laser machines, offering the most advanced technology to clients in Acadiana. Whether it’s for correction of skin or elimination of cellulite or Tattoo Removal or simply relaxation Coccolare offers the solution to your skin care needs.

Mention this article at your next visit to Coccolare Spa and receive a FREE consultation.

337-769-7546 | 331 Doucet Road | www.coccolarespa.com

JANICE SIMAR & SANDY SIMAR ANGERS Janice Simar & Sandy Simar Angers are residential REALTORS® for Van Eaton & Romero. Janice has been serving the community for over 26 years. She is a Top 10 realtor at Van Eaton & Romero & a top residential selling agent. Sandy, inspired by her mother’s business model, decided to join her at Van Eaton & Romero in 2013. Together, Janice & Sandy have cultivated a formidable mother and daughter real estate duo, THE SIMAR TEAM. Working as a team they are committed to making sure someone is always available for their clients. One of the most rewarding aspects of Sandy’s career is working with her mom: “I do not know anyone who works as hard as my mom, she has taught me a tremendous amount about real estate, but more importantly she has instilled in me the importance of hard work & integrity.”

Both Janice & Sandy agree that their biggest measurement of success is their client’s satisfaction with their experience. If you or someone you care about is thinking of a move please consider THE SIMAR TEAM. They’d be honored to put their experience and expertise to work for you.

Janice 337-278-3215 | Sandy 337-577-2298 | www.thesimarteam.com 6 DeGualle Square | Lafayette | 337-267-4081 Office | Licensed in LA.

HEATHER SWILLEY A Lafayette native, Heather Swilley is a mortgage consultant at Assurance Financial in Lafayette, that loves the opportunity to help people purchase a home, whether it’s a starter home or their dream home. Having a core belief in providing excellent customer service, she makes herself available to answer any questions her clients may have so they understand the loan process from beginning to end.

Her favorite thing about her job is meeting and getting to know new people. “I don’t just provide a service, I form relationships with people so that I can customize the loan based off of their needs,” she explains. Heather’s interest in the mortgage business began when she was designing Assurance Financial’s print advertising. She started to learn more about the business and decided to make the transition from advertising to the mortgage industry.

Swilley is a graduate of UL with a bachelor’s degree in Marketing and Research and is knowledgeable in VA, USDA, FHA, Conventional and new construction loans. She is also a member of Acadiana Homebuilder’s Association and enjoys networking with business people in Acadiana.

Assurance Financial (NMLS #1252210) | 1215 Camellia Blvd. | Lafayette 337.456.8745 Direct | 337.981.9322 Office | www.LendTheWay.com

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The Entrepreneurial Spirit of Acadiana

MARIA PITRE “No matter the monetary value of the property, it is our mission to provide the best customer service and thorough job performance, for each client’s dream is priceless.” This is the mission statement of SURE Title & Abstract, Inc., owned by Maria L. Pitre, Attorney at Law. This locally owned full service title company has the ability to handle real estate closings anywhere in the state of Louisiana and also provides general legal services.

With a background in banking, new construction, and more than ten years of closings and title work, Maria uses her strong work ethic and experience to deliver outstanding customer service throughout the closing process. She strives to communicate and is always available to address concerns for her clients.

Among other organizations, Maria is actively involved in the community through One Acadiana, Youngsville Chamber of Commerce, Acadiana Mortgage Lender’s Association and Realtor’s Association of Acadiana. Also a member of Louisiana Land Title Association and American Land Title Association, SURE Title & Abstract is Best Practices Certified, specializing in residential and commercial property. Maria expresses, “We want our community to benefit from the great care we take in handling their real estate transactions.”

337-451-5959 | maria@thesurechoice.com | 210 Magnate Dr., Ste. 202 | Lafayette

ADRIAN GUIDRY Adrian Guidry is the owner of Adorn, a women’s boutique & artisan jewelry studios in Lafayette. Long known for their stylish women’s clothing, accessories and handmade jewelry, Adorn is a great place to find unique outfits and one of a kind jewelry and accessories.

Adrian is a skilled artisan jewelry designer and loves creating unique pieces for her retail and wholesale clients. She is a member of the Louisiana Crafts Guild and is certified by Geological Institute of America. She is also an Artist at the Farmers & Artisan’s Market at the Horse Farm (Lafayette Central Park) on Saturdays.

Over the years, Guidry has been chosen as an artist at Festival International and Festival Acadien. She takes great pride in representing Louisiana as an Artist Guild member at festivals and in galleries and events. Last year Adorn Jewelry was selected at the LPB annual fundraiser in Baton Rouge.

So if you’re looking for something special and truly unique, visit Adrian at Adorn Boutique & Studios, you’ll be impressed with what you find.

106 Westmark Blvd. Lafayette | 337-534-8524 | www.adornforwomen.com

MELISSA KEATON Missi Keeton is a loan officer for Assurance Financial in Lafayette. She received a Business Management Degree from LSU and has been in the mortgage lending business for 15 years now. The married mother of two is known for her work ethic and commitment to her clients and agents. Unlike most working people, she never shuts off and is available 24/7.

Missi prides herself on helping clients achieve the dream of homeownership, stating, “I move heaven and earth to help clients improve their credit to qualify for financing a home”.

Specializing in helping clients with credit issues, Missi takes the time to develop a plan of action in order to prepare each client to buy a home. This characteristic sets her apart from other loan officers. It’s a passion and commitment backed by Assurance Financial, a company that Keeton dubs “fantastic to work for and staffed with the most knowledgeable professionals in the industry.”

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The Entrepreneurial Spirit of Acadiana

CHARLOTTE DUCOTE & JANA HICKEY Charlotte Ducote and Jana Hickey are a mother-daughter real estate team with Keller Williams Realty Acadiana dedicated to serving their clients. Their success comes from their sincere desire to build a business based on client satisfaction.

Charlotte began her real estate career 9 years ago after retiring from the education field. Jana joined her as a business partner three years later and they formed The CJ Group. Charlotte’s technology background and Jana’s flair for design has proven to be a winning combination for their clients. They absolutely love being able to work together on a daily basis and share their passion with others. Family is always first with these two ladies!

Community involvement is very important to them which is expressed in their website name LiveLoveLafayette.com! Jana was recently honored by participating in the Lafayette Education Foundation’s ReProm court and was also included in the recent Kitchen Tours sponsored by the Junior League of Lafayette.

Charlotte is a sustainer in the Junior League and a member of the Youngsville Chamber of Commerce. ​ When you’re ready to buy or sell your home, this team goes above and beyond the norm to be sure that your expectations are exceeded!​

Keller Williams Realty | Acadiana l cfcduc@gmail.com l www.LiveLoveLafayette.com Direct: 337.849.9736 l Office: 337.735.9393 l 900 S. College | Lafayette | Licensed in Louisiana

MARY MCCULLOUGH Mary McCullough is a loan originator for Assurance Financial. She brings 20 years of mortgage advising experience to Lafayette and the rest of Acadiana. A native of New Orleans, Mary moved to Lafayette in 2009. She is a devoted mother to her 4 year old daughter Mollie and enjoys crafting, cooking and making soaps.

Working diligently, Mary takes pride in her work. She is always available, including nights and weekends, to discuss options, answer questions, and show clients just how easy it can be securing a loan for their dream home.

The most rewarding thing about Mary’s job is the fact that she is assisting people and families achieve one of their greatest goals every day – by helping people work through the mortgage process and ultimately purchase a home or property. Mary’s expertise aids clients in achieving a piece of their very own American dream.

Assurance Financial (NMLS #297929) | 1215 Camellia Blvd. Lafayette 337-366-7517 Cell | 337-456-8756 Office | www.LendTheWay.com

VIVIAN ROULY One of the favorite gift shops in this area for inspirational gifts, baby clothing, toys, first communion and baptism gifts, home fragrances, candles, oils, jewelry, handbags and much more is Vivian’s Décor & Gifts, LLC. Vivian’s employs only the finest, friendliest and helpful personnel she can find, and you will note that they are always ready to assist your every need. Through careful marketing research, Vivian’s Décor & Gifts, LLC has established a reputation for carrying the highest quality gift items and home decor that can be obtained, at prices that will fit everyone’s budget.

You can be sure that when you shop here, you will finish your buying in the shortest time if you are in a hurry, or you may take the time to just look around at your leisure. The products you buy will be the best and the prices will be right. Here at Vivian’s Décor & Gifts, LLC gift certificates and complimentary gift wrapping are available. We accept cash, Debit Cards, MasterCard and Visa.

Look up, look down, look all around, for there are many treasures to be found.

(337) 839-0820 | 1212 Albertson Pkwy. | Broussard

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BEAUTY | STYLE

Look and Feel Your B E S T This Summer (Family Features) After months of being crammed in closed-toe shoes, it could be time to give your feet a little extra love. Or perhaps it’s time to lighten up your locks, update your wardrobe or give your skin a little more color. Beyond how these little things make you look on the outside, they also make you feel great on the inside.

PAMPER YOURSELF You can give your body some extra attention through a wide variety of feel-good activities. Take advantage of these ideas to pamper yourself during flip flop weather: RELAX WITH A MASSAGE. No matter if it’s 10 minutes or an all-day

treatment, massages are incredibly relaxing and can help improve blood circulation – reducing pain and helping your body distribute heat.

RESTORE YOUR NAILS. Not only can getting a manicure and pedicure

make your nails look great, but they’re a great way to relax and offer health benefits such as skin exfoliation, callous removal and fungal infection prevention.

RECHARGE YOUR HAIRDO. Getting your hair done can help you get a

great new seasonal look and build confidence – not to mention repair damage such as split ends, heat damage from blow dryers or curling irons or use of the wrong products in your hair.

REFRESH YOUR WARDROBE. Part of pampering yourself is wrapping

your body in comfortable, attractive clothing. Go on a shopping spree to update your closet, or at least buy a new outfit for an upcoming event.

MAKING A SPRAY TAN a part of your spring beauty routine will help

get you ready for summer not only with a healthy glow, but with more confidence. For more information, visit PalmBeachTan.com.

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SUMMER

Makeup and Hair

Embrace the humidity in Cajun country and use it to your advantage to go for a more natural, bohemian look this summer!

Eyes

Hair

Use a powdered brow definer rather than a pencil. Powder works best in summer.

Skip eyeliner and shadow all together for a more natural look.

Liner will likely run in this heat.

Curl lashes and apply 2-3 coats of waterproof mascara. This will open up and draw attention to your eyes.

Cheeks Use your favorite blush or bronzer on the apples of your cheeks where the sun naturally hits your face.

Foundation Add a couple of drops of your foundation to your moisturizer to make your own tinted moisturizer and apply all over your face, blending down the jaw line with your freshly washed hands or a makeup applicator.

If you have naturally oily skin and this is too shiny for your liking, you can dust loose translucent powder onto your face with a big powder brush.

Give your hair a rest from heat elements such as blow drying and flat ironing but let it air dry.

Spritz with sea salt mixed with water for beach waves. Straight haired friends may have to wrap hair overnight in small buns to achieve a wavy look.

Lips Create your own lip gloss with a lip liner close to your natural lip color, apply and blend coconut oil with your finger.

If you’re not into the natural look for everyday wear, try it on for size on weekends and on vacation. You will be surprised at how many compliments you’ll get on your slightly enhanced au natural look.

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2

CREAM CONTOURING

C

ONTOURING IS A GREAT WAY TO DEFINE your

facial features and create dimension. You have most likely heard of contouring

APPLY THE CONTOUR PRODUCTS

using powders, which is

After I apply my foundation, I apply contouring products onto where I need them. I use a concealer that’s darker than my skin tone for the contour shade and a concealer that is a shade lighter than my skin tone as my highlight shade.

the most common way of doing it. But, cream contouring has become popular as well. Here’s how I achieve that contoured look using cream products.

1

FIND THE HOLLOWS OF YOUR CHEEKS What you are going to want to do first is find the areas where you should apply a contour shade to create the look. A trick to do this is to use a pencil or a makeup brush and roll it down your cheek until you find the hollows of your cheek. You will feel your pencil/brush roll into that indent. The hollows of your cheek are usually found from near the top of your ear to the corner of your mouth.

I apply the darker concealer to the hollows of my cheek bones, around my temple area, and to the sides of my nose to help my nose appear thinner. The lighter shade of concealer is used in the places where you would like to highlight your face to make it seem lifted and defined. I like to use the Dot Technique to apply my concealer because I find it helps to limit the amount of product used and it is easier to blend out.

3

4

BLEND, BLEND, BLEND… I like to blend my highlight shade out first because I find it easier to blend out the contour shade after the highlight is done. You can use a brush or a sponge for this step!

5 FINISH YOUR LOOK

…BLEND, BLEND, BLEND After my highlight shade is blended, I then go in with a brush and blend out that cream contour.

6

After I bake, I go in with powder contour shades and lightly dust it right on top of where I applied the creams.

This helps “set” the cream products and stops it from sweating or smearing off throughout the day!

BAKING Baking (see my baking article in FACE’s January 2016 issue) is crucial to contouring because it helps to clean up the contour and create a sharper edge, which really helps with the effect of a defined face. I use a dry sponge and load it with translucent powder and pat it on my face where I want the contour to look cleaner. After a few minutes, use a brush to dust off that powder and your contour will look a lot sharper.

About the author: Madelyn Meaux lives in Lafayette and has a passion for makeup.

This is an edited excerpt from her beauty blog, which can be found at www.meauxbeauty.blogspot.com.

BEAUTY | STYLE

SUMMERTIME SELFIES with Style It’s a trend that isn’t going away any time soon and everyone wants to get into the act from

HERE ARE A FEW

celebrities to politicians.

EASY TRICKS

However, not everyone is a

for snapping amazing selfies every time.

master at capturing that picture perfect selfie. There is a certain art to taking attention-grabbing photos that includes a bit of

HOLD THE CAMERA ABOVE YOUR HEAD

creativity, a certain skill set,

This will give your selfie an artsy feel, while giving a good view to show off your cute outfit (A selfie stick is helpful).

and a little practice to get

TILT YOUR HEAD AT AN ANGLE

fashionably fabulous selfies.

This trick highlights your cheekbone, make your eyes look bigger and gives off a totally adorable vibe.

Everyone has a “better side”. Know your best angles.

Photographer: Geovanni Velasquez Fashion Stylist: Tracee Dundas

Practice your smile, smizing, pouting, sexy or any other facial expressions you wish to convey in your photos.

Your expressions should be second nature and be effortless.

Swimsuits: Mod Clothing (Red); Target (Black)

EXTEND YOUR NECK FORWARD

Sunnies: St. Charles Vision, New Orleans Jewelry: Kendra Scott, New Orleans

This will help remove a double chin, accentuate your jawline. It will probably feel weird, but it will dramatically improve your photo.

Hat: Fleur de Paris, New Orleans

KEEP IT INTERESTING

Model: Jen Freitas provided by ABOUTFACES MTM

Angles, cropping in, close-ups and shooting body parts can capture the attention of your audience better.

SAY CHEESE

Location: W Hotel French Quarter

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FIND THE RIGHT LIGHTING

USE A SELFIE STICK

Good lighting is key when taking any kind of photograph, and selfies are no different. The right lighting can make or break what could be a great photo. Avoid dark or dimly-lit areas, harsh fluorescent lighting or lighting that cast a shadow on the face.

This little gadget is super helpful to insure a great shot. It extends your arm length for a more interesting photo.

DON’T TAKE IT TOO SERIOUSLY Don’t be stiff and stuffy.

HAVE A SIGNATURE POSE When you feel great, it will show in the photograph. Find a signature pose that will help you feel confident no matter what the situation.

WEAR SUNGLASSES Wear your favorite pair of sunnies, hat or other accessory for a fashionable blogger or celebrity vibe.

CONSIDER THE BACKGROUND It’s the whole package that makes for the best picture, not just the face. Check your surrounding to see what’s happening in the background. Incorporate an interesting background for added impact.

Have fun!

Be Yourself!

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Top 5 most DISTRACTED BEHAVIORS…

and how to change them (BPT) - With the average attention span only lasting eight seconds, and the need to multitask to keep up with an onthe-go lifestyle, it’s no wonder so many of us are easily sidetracked

personal safety and security,

Texting while walking

Walking your dog at dawn and dusk

offers valuable tips to combat the

Did you know that nearly 60 percent of

Fido requires multiple daily walks to stay

five most distracted behaviors.

pedestrians use a smart phone while crossing the

healthy. If your schedule only allows for

street, according to the National Highway Traffic

exercising him in the early morning or late

Administration? Combine that with the average

evening hours, you may find yourself walking

Running with headphones

five seconds a driver’s eyes are off the road while

in the dark when you’re overtired, which

texting, a statistic from the U.S. Department of

can delay reaction times when they’re

Transportation, and the results can be deadly.

most critical.

Don’t walk and text. If you need to take a call,

Keep dogs on short leashes for more control

Whether training for an upcoming marathon

move to the side until your call is complete.

in heavy traffic. If you walk your dog in

or jogging around the block, we often take

Always be aware of your surroundings. A

the dark, wear light colored clothing with

the time to develop the perfect playlist to

distracted pedestrian can be an easy target for

reflective strips so drivers can see you. Nite

keep us going, but don’t consider the risks of

potential criminals.

Beams are equipped with LED safety lights

during routine tasks. Mace, a globally recognized leader in

tuning out the outside world. Before you press

that provide high and instant visibility up to

play, consider your personal safety: leave the

The National Crime Prevention Council suggests

1,400 feet or a 1/4 mile from every direction.

headphones at home, especially at night. If

you switch directions or cross the street if you

Available in wrist, arm and leg bands for

you’re streaming music through your smart

think someone is following you. If the person

you, and collars and leashes for your dog,

phone, make sure the volume is low enough to

continues to lurk, move quickly toward an open

these bands will help to provide safety

hear the traffic around you.

store, restaurant or lighted house.

for everyone.

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Navigating the parking lot Whether working late or tackling weekly errands, busy parking lots and garages can be dangerous if you are distracted by an armful of bags, children or technology. Leave the balancing act for a secure location to ensure you safely get in your car and on the road.

Before making your way to your vehicle, be sure your keys are in hand. Pay attention to your surroundings and other vehicles entering and exiting the lot. Consider walking alongside the aisle instead of taking the stairwell, or ask a security guard to escort you to your car. To buckle a child into a safety seat, get into the backseat with the child and lock the doors rather than doing so from outside the vehicle.

Zoning out on taxi and Uber rides One of the perks of not driving is the ability to use your travel time to multitask, like getting a jump start on your day by checking work emails.

While you may enjoy not paying attention to the road, don’t let productivity goals get in the way of your personal safety. Be aware of where you are being driven.

If you are traveling at night, do your best to avoid dark or isolated stops. Remain aware of your surroundings as you exit, with keys in hand when you depart. For added protection, include the compact and easy-to-use Mace Brand KeyGard on your key ring.

Keep dogs on short leashes for more control in heavy traffic. If you

Whether walking, running, driving or riding,

walk your dog in the dark, wear light colored clothing with reflective

incorporate these tips into your everyday habits to help keep yourself safe and secure throughout

strips so drivers can see you.

the day.

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TRAVEL TIPS

FOR 3-DAY WEEKENDS (BPT) – The arrival of warm weather signals the season of three-day weekends and more people are using that time to travel. Whether it’s three glorious days off due to a holiday, summer office hours or simply cashing in on precious PTO time, weekend warriors are taking advantage.

This weekend travel trend may be attributed to more people “working to live” rather than “living to work.” In fact, 68 percent of Americans would rather embark on a bucket-list trip than get a big promotion, according to a Hampton by Hilton survey.

These trips don’t have to break the bank, especially when flying isn’t always essential for a memorable adventure. Hopping in the car this summer is a cost-effective, easy way to jumpstart your vacation.

According to AAA’s 2016 Your Driving Costs study, gas prices in the U.S. are at a record low. With that in mind, this summer is the ideal season for road trips.

“You don’t need a full week to enjoy a vacation.

Many of the best times I’ve had with my family have happened on three-day travel adventures,” says Kristen Hewitt, sports reporter and blogger at www.MommyInSports.com.

This weekend mindset has inspired a new travel segment known as the Seekender. Seekenders are bold adventurers who take advantage of the weekend to pursue their passions. Sound like you? Check out Hewitt’s favorite travel tips to get the most out of every moment of your next three-day trip:

TARGET THE FOUR-HOUR MARK You don’t want to spend two days of your threeday vacation traveling, so pick a destination you can access in four hours or fewer. Following this rule ensures you have as much time as possible to enjoy your destination. Plus, if you travel with kids, they’ll be much more mellow and you’ll avoid those “Are we there yet?” moments.

PACK RIGHT, PACK LIGHT Resist the temptation to over-pack by packing for versatility. Don’t forget to add a few accessories that transform outfits quickly, such as statement jewelry and summer hats. A simple packing trick to get the most out of the space in your carry-on is to roll clothing. You’ll fit more in and eliminate wrinkles!

FREE UP THE ITINERARY It’s tempting to pack as much as possible into three days, but you’ll end up stressed and exhausted by the end if you do. For long weekends, select one main activity you want to do — such as a tourist stop, museum visit or day at the beach — and leave the rest of the time open for casual exploration. Spontaneity often inspires the best adventures.

STAY ON BUDGET AND EAT WELL If you can cut down on your food bill, your entire trip will be more affordable. Look for a hotel that offers free breakfast so you can start your day with a full belly. For example, Hampton by Hilton guests enjoy hot breakfast and freshly brewed hazelnut coffee at no extra cost. When out and about, never underestimate the appeal of a picnic in a park — a more affordable alternative to restaurant dining.

More of what Matters...

Indulge your wanderlust and begin planning your next three-day weekend trip. For inspiration, follow Hewitt’s Seekender adventures on HamptonSeekender.com and join the conversation on social media at #WeGoTogether.

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SHOW YOUR FACE Celebrating Father’s Day | June 2016 Acadiana Fathers Submitted by readers and fans

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SHOW YOUR FACE Healing House | Hope for Grieving Children Lafayette’s Absolut® Best Martini Unveiling Party

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SHOW YOUR FACE Healing House | Hope for Grieving Children Lafayette’s Absolut® Best Martini Unveiling Party

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