DATING IS A NUMBERS GAME Before you pick the "perfect" one for your partner, you need to be sure of what you require in them. You need to know what qualities your partner must-have. Also, you must know the type of relationship you long for. And how exactly do you realize what you need in your partner? The more people you meet, the more you know what you want. This is why dating is a numbers game! And we are losing at it because the numbers game is being done wrong in the dating world right now. Dating is a numbers game purely, and sadly, everyone around us is playing it the same, which is why the majority of us are losing. Correctly "online" dating is ruining the whole idea. You are signed up on an app, granted a magical 30 seconds to set up your very first impression so that you can get a call back from one of the best guys/girls (who seem best from behind the screen only and the algorithm) and you are too eager to grab the chance. You would either be overlooked, or you will get the call. Whatever it is, you need to hold your breath for those 30 seconds and wait. Therefore, we have just turned around the meaning of dating! Online dating apps have ruined the entire idea of it. Dating is a numbers game, but everyone is doing it wrong. You want to know how? Well, continue reading as I disclose the reality of this number game and how is it supposed to be related with numbers! How is dating a numbers game? When we say that dating is a numbers game, we do not mean that you are going to be online on a dating app, with 25 messages in your inbox, feeling utterly loved. No; you are doing it horribly. When you meet your so-called first love or "crush", you talk to them. You spend time together, and maybe you click, and perhaps you don't. 90% of the people who fall in love during their teens, hardly go through a year or two being together. You are lucky if you have passed that time or have married the girl/guy of your dreams. Anyways, that one person tells you everything that you need to know about your requirements or demands of a relationship. You understand what you would never want in your partner and why you would not want it. You will also realize the "type" of relationship you want. Out of the first relationship, you are going to be scared to dive into the dating pool again, but sooner or later, you will be back there. You will find someone else, more carefully, keeping in mind the qualities that you evaluated from your first partner. You will make sure that maybe the guy/girl you find is not bossy or is not dominant or anything that you wish for. For a lot of people, the second guy/girl is not it. They can’t find magic and settle. Sadly, not everyone gets the right partner yet again. This is when you meet someone else, and you are however back again trying again, careful about what you want. It means that you still haven't found what you want, and you have learnt more from the other relationship.
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