• Uncle Jack is a leader, Role Model, and Great Man.
• A Culinary Journey at 608 Dahlia in Sherman Library & Gardens
• Confessions of a Republican
BLOGS
• What is Politics?
• Why Fair Housing Still Matters?
• Eric Lawrence Frazier MBA - Principal advisor
• America For Sale Part 1
• America For Sale Part 2
• America For Sale Part 3
• Fear Of Loss Part 1
• Fear Of Loss Part 2
FINANCE
• Emotional Intelligence in the C-Suite
• Debt Management Strategies
• Everything in America Is About Race
• Should I lease or Buy a Car?
EDITOR’S NOTE
By Eric Lawrence Frazier, MBA
Faith. Family.
Finance.
The Three Pillars of a Life Well Lived
Welcome to the very first edition of Faith, Family, Finance magazine. It’s an honor to present this labor of love, a publication born in the spirit of spring a time when the world feels fresh again, when flowers bloom unapologetically, and everything seems to lean forward in eager anticipation of the summer sun. There is no better month to give life to this vision than April.
April has always held a special place in my heart, and not just because it’s the season of renewal. April 25 is my birthday, and perhaps it was always written in the stars that this month would mark not only the beginning of my life but the beginning of something much larger, something that I hope will be meaningful and valuable to many this magazine.
You see, April has been a blessed month for my family. My mother was born on April 9. My father on April 28 My older daughter April 28 My brother on April 22 Three of the people who shaped me the most came into the world during this month of transformation and light. And though my wife my best friend and the love of my life was born outside of April, on June 15, I must forgive her parents for not timing things better! If it weren’t for her, none of this would be possible. She’s my muse, my counselor, and the steady force that fuels my dreams. Ruby, this magazine is as much yours as it is mine
Now, speaking of April, let’s take a moment to recognize a few other incredible individuals born in this radiant month The list is both impressive and inspiring Consider this: Leonardo da Vinci, born April 15, who redefined creativity and genius in the Renaissance. Maya Angelou, born April 4, who gave voice to millions through her poetry, her pain, and her power Booker T Washington, born April 5, whose resilience and intellect made him one of the most influential African American educators and leaders in U.S. history. Then there’s Shirley Temple (April 23), the child star who brought joy to the world during the Great Depression, and Ella Fitzgerald (April 25 same as me!), the First Lady of Song, whose voice could melt the hardest hearts.
There’s something about April it births dreamers, leaders, and artists. Visionaries and warriors of hope It births change-makers And in this same spirit, Faith, Family, Finance is my humble attempt to make a mark, to create something meaningful, something that lives beyond me.
So why this magazine? Why now?
Because in my role as an advisor whether in finance, real estate, business, or life I’ve found that people don’t live in silos. You can’t separate someone’s financial life from their family. You can’t talk about legacy without talking about faith. And you can’t truly build generational wealth if you don’t first build a strong foundation at home and a clear understanding of who you are and what you believe.
This magazine is a reflection of that truth It’s a collage of life as we really live it not in neatly divided columns, but in overlapping spheres of influence. We cover finance, yes. But we also dig deep into the meaning of faith, the power of relationships, the importance of civic awareness, and the tools needed to make sound decisions that honor your values.
If life is a three-legged stool, then I propose this: faith, family, and finance are those legs. Remove just one, and the entire foundation is shaky. A person may have immense wealth, but without faith and family, that wealth is hollow Another may have deep faith and love, but without financial literacy, stability, or opportunity, they are left vulnerable to the winds of life.
And let me take this metaphor a step further faith is the rudder. It steers the ship. Family is the hull, the body that holds everything together, giving shape and safety to our journey Finance? That’s the engine It’s what powers you through the storms and also through the calm. It determines how far you can go, how fast you can get there, and whether you can stay afloat during turbulent times.
I’ve seen too many people fail because one leg of their stool was weak. I’ve seen brilliant minds and beautiful souls struggle because they had faith but no financial understanding I’ve watched families crumble under the weight of debt, poor planning, or simple misinformation. And I’ve seen how wealth can widen the gap when it’s not anchored in values and shared purpose
That’s why Faith, Family, Finance exists. To be a resource. A place for thought leadership, practical guidance, inspiration, and community Every article, every word in this magazine has been carefully crafted to speak to the whole person not just the investor, not just the parent, not just the believer but the integrated human being navigating this complex, beautiful life
In this inaugural issue, you’ll find my own thoughts throughout yes, I wrote every article. This is personal for me I want you to know my voice, to trust that what you’re reading isn’t just theory or fluff. It’s experience. It’s wisdom born from both failure and success. It’s truth told with love and boldness.
We’ll explore how to steward your money wisely, how to prioritize your time and relationships, how to lead your family with vision, how to grow spiritually in a world full of noise, and how to build legacy not just financially, but holistically
This is not just a magazine. It’s a movement. A mindset. A ministry of sorts.
So, I invite you to take this journey with me. Read with intention. Reflect with honesty. Share it with someone you care about Let it be a catalyst for meaningful conversations and intentional living And as you flip through these pages whether in your favorite chair at home or between meetings on a busy day remember that this is just the beginning.
Like the first bloom of spring, this magazine is new, fresh, and full of potential. But it will grow. And with your feedback, support, and shared stories, it will blossom into something that continues to bear fruit season after season
Thank you for welcoming Faith, Family, Finance into your life. And thank you for being part of its birth in the beautiful month of April
May your faith remain strong, your family stay close, and your finances flourish.
With gratitude and purpose,
Eric Lawrence Frazier, MBA
Your trusted advisor in business and wealth
Why Work With Me?
WHY WORK WITH ME?
By Eric Lawrence Frazier, MBA
Your Trusted Real Estate & Mortgage Expert
For over 43 years, I have been at the forefront of real estate and mortgage lending, helping hundreds of homeowners, investors, and sellers confidently navigate the market and maximize their financial potential as a mortgage banker and broker. As the Co-Founder of Frazier Group Realty and a Real Estate Agent and Broker, I bring a proven track record of success in buying, selling, and financing properties—all while saving my clients time, money, and stress.
✅ Expertise in Real Estate & Mortgage Lending – I streamline the buying and selling by securing optimal financing solutions and negotiating top dollar deals.
✅ Hundreds of Successful Transactions—I’ve assisted first-time buyers, experienced investors, and luxury sellers build wealth through real estate.
✅ Marketing & Negotiation Powerhouse—My innovative marketing strategies with Power Is Now Media (www.thepowerisnow.com) and my strong negotiation skills empower my clients to secure the best possible outcomes, whether they are selling for maximum profit or purchasing below market prices.
✅ Data-Driven & Market-Savvy – I utilize advanced market analytics, social media, and digital marketing to attract motivated buyers and sell properties more quickly at higher prices.
✅ Time-Tested Reputation My decades of experience, deep industry connections, and unwavering commitment to client success make me a trusted real estate advisor.
Maximize Your Real Estate Success Today
Whether you're a homeowner eager to sell quickly at the highest price, an investor prepared to expand your portfolio, or a buyer seeking the best deal, I possess the expertise, resources, and proven strategies to make it happen.
�� Let’s Talk! Call me today to discuss your real estate goals and how I can help you achieve financial success through real estate.
Faith
Faith, Mental Health, and Wellness: The Spiritual Benefits of Prayer and Reflection
In today’s fast-paced and often stressful world, maintaining mental well-being can be a challenge. As individuals seek holistic ways to manage their mental health, many are rediscovering the profound connection between faith practices and wellness. This article explores the spiritual benefits of prayer, meditation, and reflection, shedding light on their positive impact on mental health and overall well-being.
The Role of Faith in Mental Health
Faith and spirituality have long been intertwined with personal well-being. Numerous studies have shown that individuals who actively engage in faith practices often experience lower levels of stress and anxiety. The simple act of prayer or meditation can bring comfort, providing a sense of connection to something greater than oneself
Prayer: A Pathway to Peace
Prayer is not just a religious obligation but a powerful tool for mental health. It serves as a way to express thoughts, worries, gratitude, and hopes, fostering a sense of peace and purpose. Whether practiced individually or in a group setting, prayer can reduce feelings of loneliness and foster a sense of community and support.
Meditation: Mindfulness Rooted in Faith
Meditation, especially when rooted in spiritual practice, encourages mindfulness and self-awareness. Reflective prayer or meditative worship helps individuals focus on the present, reducing mental clutter and promoting clarity This practice can lower blood pressure, reduce symptoms of depression, and encourage positive thinking.
Worship and Community Support
Participating in worship services offers a dual benefit: spiritual enrichment and community support. Being part of a faith community fosters a sense of belonging, reducing feelings of isolation. Sharing burdens and joys within a supportive environment can positively impact mental health
Reflection: Nurturing the Inner Self
Reflection, whether through journaling, prayerful contemplation, or spiritual retreats, allows individuals to process emotions and life experiences. This intentional pause cultivates resilience, gratitude, and a deeper understanding of personal growth.
Integrating Faith Practices into Daily Life
To harness the mental health benefits of faith, individuals can create simple, consistent routines. Setting aside time for daily prayer, meditative scripture reading, or community worship can transform stress into spiritual growth. Incorporating these practices mindfully can enhance emotional resilience and well-being.
Conclusion
Incorporating faith practices like prayer, meditation, and reflection into one’s life can significantly benefit mental health and wellness. As more individuals seek holistic ways to nurture their minds and souls, the timeless practices of faith offer both solace and strength. By embracing these practices, one can find peace, purpose, and profound spiritual well-being.
Let’s be real You’ve probably found a few homes you like online, even if we haven’t chatted about them yet.
But here’s the thing: You can’t control when the right home shows up – but you can be ready for it
Truthfully, if you’re just browsing, you should still get pre-approved.
Even if you’re not ready to buy right now, that’s okay. Let’s just have a conversation to make sure youre set up for success when the right one comes along
What’s one of the smartest things you can do even before youre ready to buy? Get pre-approved.
While it may sound like something you can wait and do until after you’re serious, waiting too long is a mistake
Doing this essential step early on gives you clarity on what you can borrow, your realistic price range, and what your future monthly payment could be. When you know your numbers – and you’ve been cleared financially by a lender – you can act quickly when the right home hits the market
Even if you’re just thinking about looking or casually starting a search, DM me and let’s chat. This way, you’re not falling in love with homes that are outside of your price range – or missing out on ones that aren’t
Jamie Foxx
Open Letter to Jamie Foxx: Reflections on Faith, Suffering, and Purpose
�� Did you see the Netflix special "What Had Happened was?” It was emotional and captivating, and Jamie Foxx's performance was fantastic However, in sharing his story, Jamie made a statement that unintentionally offended many people. In this open letter, I want to offer my perspective on what Jamie said about his brain bleed and stroke.
Please check out The Eric Frazier Show, where we discuss Faith, Family, and Finances. I’m Eric L. Frazier, MBA, and today I want to address something important that Jamie Foxx shared with the world. His vulnerability is admirable, but there's a deeper truth we need to understand about suffering and God's purpose in our lives. ����
Jamie, My Brother...
Jamie, my brother, I need to say this: God did not choose you to have a brain bleed and stroke to slow you down. God did not punish you for your actions by giving you this traumatic experience. You’re not unique in this suffering. It happens to thousands of people every year. Your story is deeply personal, but it doesn’t mean God singled you out for any special reason.
In your special, you said, “I am Jamie MF Foxx. Stuff like this is not supposed to happen to me.” But did you know that every year, nearly 795,000 people in the U.S. suffer a stroke? That’s not unique. ��
A brain hemorrhage, or intracranial hemorrhage, is when a blood vessel in the brain ruptures. This accounts for about 13% of all strokes. It can happen to anyone, anytime. It doesn't mean God is punishing someone or trying to wake them up. God doesn’t need to test us in that way. His love for us is constant and never wavers.
Understanding Suffering & God's Intentions
Many people misinterpret the story of Job, believing God uses suffering to test faith. But that’s not true. God doesn’t inflict harm on us to see how we’ll respond. Jesus Christ already took on the burden for our sins. ����
God’s desire is not to test us through suffering, but to love us and help us grow in faith. He is always present, showing us mercy and offering healing, not punishment.
Jamie, You're Not Alone
Suffering happens to everyone, and it’s important not to blame God for it. God is good, and everything He does is good.
God isn’t using Satan or any other forces to test our resolve. He wants us to love Him and trust in His plan for our lives. Suffering is a part of living in a broken world, but God provides us with strength to endure.
A Wake-Up Call: What Can Jamie Foxx Do Now?
Jamie, you have an incredible influence and platform. You can use your voice to help others who are struggling and suffering. I recommend that you form a 501(c)(3) church, continue sharing your story, and provide real support for those who need it the most: the homeless, the sick, the hungry, and those suffering from addiction and mental illness. ��
You are the church, Jamie. The church isn’t just a building. It’s the community of believers you are part of that community And it’s time to lead with purpose and use your influence to change lives for the better. ��
Call to Action: Let's Make a Difference
Jamie, if you're reading this, I would love to help you create this movement Together, we can bring healing, hope, and change to millions of people who need it. Let’s make a real impact in the world, one step at a time.
Do you think the housing market is about to crash? The experts (and the data) say otherwise
Home prices are still rising at the national level, just not as fast as they were in recent years. And that’s not a sign of a crash. It’s a sign of more balance.
As more homes hit the market, buyers have more options, and that slows down how quickly prices rise It’s not falling prices It’s a healthier pace of home price growth. How does knowing prices are still rising, but more slowly, affect the way you’re thinking about your next move?
So far, the average individual tax refund this year is $3,170. Of course, your number may be different
But, if you’re getting a refund this year, you could use it to help with some of the upfront costs of buying a home, like your down payment or closing costs.
Because every dollar gets you one step closer to your goal – and your refund could give your homebuying savings an extra boost What would having your own home mean for you or your family this year?
Family
Navigating Family Conflicts: Communication Strategies That Work
Family conflicts are a natural part of life. No matter how harmonious a family might be, disagreements and misunderstandings are inevitable However, the way we navigate these conflicts can make a significant difference in maintaining strong, healthy relationships. Here are some effective communication strategies to help resolve family conflicts with compassion and respect.
1. Practice Active Listening
One of the most powerful tools in conflict resolution is active listening. This means fully concentrating on what the other person is saying without interrupting or formulating a response while they are speaking. Reflect back what you’ve heard by saying, "I hear that you’re feeling..." or "It sounds like you’re saying..." This shows that you value their perspective and are willing to understand their point of view.
2. Stay Calm and Collected
It’s easy to let emotions take over during a conflict, but maintaining a calm demeanor helps keep the conversation productive Take deep breaths, pause when needed, and avoid raising your voice. Demonstrating emotional control sets a positive tone and helps de-escalate tension.
3. Use "I" Statements
Instead of blaming or accusing, express your feelings using "I" statements. For example, say, "I feel hurt when..." rather than, "You always..." This approach reduces defensiveness and promotes a more open, honest conversation.
4. Focus on Solutions, Not Blame
Once everyone has shared their feelings, shift the focus toward finding solutions. Collaboratively brainstorm ways to address the issue rather than dwelling on who is at fault. This approach fosters teamwork and strengthens family bonds.
5. Acknowledge Emotions
Sometimes, just acknowledging emotions can defuse a conflict. Saying, "I understand that you’re feeling frustrated" validates the other person’s experience. Validation doesn’t mean you agree, but it shows that you care about how they feel
6. Take Breaks When Needed
If the conversation becomes too heated, it’s okay to take a break. Stepping away for a few moments can help everyone regain composure Agree to resume the discussion after a short break to ensure emotions don’t overwhelm the dialogue.
7. Seek Support When Necessary
Sometimes, conflicts may be too challenging to resolve on your own In these cases, seeking the guidance of a family counselor or mediator can provide an unbiased perspective and effective strategies for reconciliation.
Conclusion
Conflict doesn’t have to tear families apart. By practicing active listening, staying calm, using respectful language, and focusing on solutions, families can navigate disagreements in a healthy and constructive way. With commitment and empathy, communication can become a bridge to deeper understanding and stronger relationships
It's peak homebuying season, and that could mean more competition for you
If you’re ready for a home you’ll love, don’t just hope for the best. Work with an agent who can help you make a strong, smart offer that stands out. They know simple strategies to boost your chances based on what’s working for other buyers in your area
What’s one thing you’d want to know before making an offer on a home?
While you may be tempted to skip the home inspection to try to make your offer stand out this spring, just know that’s a gamble that may not pay off Even though a home might seem move-in ready, an inspection could uncover underlying problems you didn’t see in your walk-through. And information is power.
It helps you avoid unpleasant surprises Plus, if any issues are found, your agent can help you negotiate with the seller on the repairs
What questions do you have about what to expect from an inspection?
Uncle Jack is a leader, Role Model, and Great Man.
“Let
Me Tell You About Uncle Jack"
By Eric Lawrence Frazier, MBA
My wife is the niece of Jack Costa, who was married for 30 years to her beloved Aunt Dorothy Costa. I loved Uncle Jack. I love Aunt Dorothy. ❤ What a beautiful couple they were and what a powerful example of enduring love, strength, and commitment they still are to all of us. ��
Aunt Dorothy wasn’t just Jack’s wife she was his rock, his best friend, and his fiercest protector ���� She walked with him through joy and pain, through good days and hard ones She cared for him tenderly until the very end, and even now, she stands tall as the heart and soul of our family. ����
When Uncle Jack passed on New Year’s Day 2025, our entire family flew up to Oakland for the memorial service. ���� It was held at Chapel of the Chimes, and let me tell you it was packed. Not a dry eye in the place. �� Not because we were mourning without hope but because we were overwhelmed by the depth and beauty of a life so well lived, and a love so richly shared. ��❤
So let me tell you about Uncle Jack—and the extraordinary woman who stood by his side. ����
“A Vapor, Then a Legacy: The Life and Love of Uncle Jack Costa”
“What is your life? It is even a vapor, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.”
James 4:14 (KJV) ��
On January 1, 2025, while the world was counting down a new year, Jack Costa quietly completed his journey on earth having lived 103 years and 24 days ���� His life was not only long in years but deep in meaning, rich in struggle, and triumphant in love. ���� He was the kind of man who didn’t just pass through time he shaped it. ��⏳
Born into Adversity, Raised for Greatness
�� December 8, 1921 Alameda County, California
Jack was born into a world where the odds were never in his favor Alameda wasn’t just majority white it was openly hostile to Black residents. The Ku Klux Klan had 85 members locally and even held a convention in the area. ⚠ Life for a Black family wasn’t just difficult it was dangerous ��⛓
Jack came from first-generation Black immigrant roots. He spoke Portuguese and Creole, a West African dialect of Portuguese languages that connected him to a proud and resilient heritage. �� �� He was raised on a small farm, where he and his family raised chickens, goats, and rabbits, trading for the things they couldn’t grow or afford. ��������
There was no safety net. There was no luxury. There was only faith, family, and hard work.