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Contents 6 Registry 101: Get a Move on It! 8 Real Life Insights 10 Red Barn Reverie 18 Couples Corner 22 Our Favorite Finds 24 Unlocking: Buffalo Lodge 30 Mia's Bridal 36 Ask Irene 38 Words of the Wedding Wise 41 Hooping for a Hourglass Figure 42 EA Angels: Making Dreams Come True One Wish at a Time 44 Couples Therapy: How to Fight 48 Inspiration: A Fall of Crisp & Warmth 58 Brides Tell All 63 Calendar of Events 67 Society Pages

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EA Bride Staff Âť Fall 2013 Christie Scott Publisher christie@eabride.com

Nathan Fried Lead Design & Branding nathan@eabride.com

Britney Beach Executive Editor britney@eabride.com

Treasa Hershberger VP of Sales treasa@eabride.com

Jana Marler Art Director jana@eabride.com

Christine Busch Layout Designer

A Special thanks to our contributing writers : Irene Sparks, Liz Kampschroeder, Timmy Gibson

Jenica Stubbs Social Media jenica@eabride.com

EA Bride info@eabride.com www.eabride.com Ph. 816.272.5143 Published Quarterly in January, April, July, & October.

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Model: Kelsey Knoche Location: Shawnee Mission Park Gown: Thrifted Photographer: Allison Wonderland Photographie Hair & Makeup: Corie Hair & Makeup

Advertising Inquiries: Email: info@eabride.com Copyright 2013 for EA Bride. All rights reserved.

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Letter from the Publisher

Christie Scott Publisher

As I sit here writing this letter, I’m amidst a level of chaos that only a bride and her bridal party are aware of. Most of my closest friends had already taken the plunge down the aisle of eternity long before I created the magazine. And now, in just over a week, one of my best friends will be finally saying, “I do” to her dearest. And whom did she elect to be her Maid of Honor? Yours truly. And no matter how many times I try to tell her that I’m merely a writer and marketer, I have a sneaking suspicion that she still expects me to manage the coordination when it’s all said and done.

Now, it’s one thing to write about novel ideas for your big day. Or to feature images of a great day long after the festivities have died down. It’s quite another to know you are one week from the wedding, and making sure everyone is aware of the schedule. And who is handling the drinks? Did we remember to bring enough favors for every table? What if Aunt Rhonda doesn’t want to sit near Uncle Bill? And is there going to be ample food? What time can we start setting up and who’s handling the cleanup when the music stops and everyone just wants to drop? It’s been so long since I’ve been right in the midst of all the hustle, and all I can say is kudos to the coordinators who deal with all the details!

It has been an eye-opening experience to say the least, and I’m so thankful that my bestie is simply taking it in stride and hasn’t resorted to Bridezilla measures yet! If I can do no other service for her that day other than to explain how much she should simply enjoy the day and not stress about a single thing, then I’ll say my job has been done. Okay, that, and somehow write an Emmy award-winning toast for the reception. No pressure, though.

So, that’s the message I wanted to send in this issue. When it’s all said and done, the thing you came to do that day (saying your vows) will be done, and the rest is just icing on the cake. Remember it’s all about celebrating the love two people are sharing and professing to their world. That’s really the only thing that matters. And if anything goes wrong, you know you’ll at least get a memorable story out of it!

But, if you’re like me, and have a tendency to over think and analyze every minute detail, then the second best piece of advice I can offer is to hire a planner! After all, it’s what their trained to do, and I promise you’ll be shocked at just how smoothly the day and all it’s details will flow. And if you don’t know where to go, you’re in luck, because we’ve added a couple more great ones to our pages this issue! Happy Reading!

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Move on it!

Registry 101:

Get a

Instead of asking for yet another pan, consider registering for something you both can enjoy after the wedding.

Three seasons out of the year can be spent outdoors, so why not take up hiking, tennis, or camping? You will be surprised by how fun (and physically rewarding) these activities can be! If you are already an avid outdoorsmen, take the opportunity to upgrade your equipment. Each item below has been ranked at the top of its class on ConsumerSearch.com by users, just like you.

1. Trek Belleville Bike: This comfortable bike comes decked out with all the commuting accessories you could want, including a chain guard, front and rear cargo racks, fenders and dynamopowered lights.

Price: $690

2. Coleman 6-person Instant Tent: This tens sets up quick and easy and the 6-foot ceiling gives campers room to move. The WeatherTec system protects again the elements with taped seams and strong frame poles.

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3. Shakespeare Ugly Stik Fishing Pole:

6. Head Liquidmetal 8 Tennis Racquet:

Cast away with this solid and dependable rod for smaller fish that fits all anglers of all skill levels. It features a graphite core surrounded by fiberglass, giving it sensitivity but also making it one of the strongest rods available.

This racquet is lighter than most, but still has a large head to add power. The added power helps inexperienced players get the ball over the net while they develop stronger, cleaner strokes.

Price: $80

Price: $40

4. Teton Sports Explorer 4000 Hiking Backpack:

7. Timex Ironman Sleek 150-Lap Sports Watch:

This is a very comfortable backpack, thanks to its fully adjustable torso, shoulder and hip straps. When packed to its absolute max, 40 pounds, it does a great job of holding gear while still remaining a comfortable carry.

This affordable watch covers all the workout basics: TapScreen technology, allowing you to tap the display to start or stop workout timers, hydration and nutrition alarms, interval timers, and large lap history.

Price: $80

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5. Brooks Adrenaline GTS 11 Running Shoes: This shoe features gel underfoot to provide a supported landing and an improved heel cradle ensures a snug fit. Plus, a new arch saddle gives more mid-foot support.

Price: $100

8. Giro Indicator Bike Helmet: Heads Up! This is one lightweight helmet that comes with 20 vents and an Acu Dial adjustment system. It’s also attractive and comfortable enough to use daily.

Price: $40

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Real Life Insights

By Britney Beach

Trent Alert: Dressing Illusions Going Green Tip At first, you see right through it, but at second glance, you begin to admire the delicate and imaginative design of the illusion neckline. The style of these gowns has prompted designers to find creative ways of arranging tulle atop a strapless or sweetheart neckline in a way that is comfortable for the bride and breathtaking at sight. Embellishing the tulle with lace or beading has furthermore developed this trend for 2014.

The bridal bouquet is the most beautiful arrangement of the day. But if it is not promptly and properly preserved, loses its shine within hours. Why say goodbye to such a memorable piece of your day? Be green and make your bouquet out of fabric. It won’t wilt in the heat during pictures and can be a keepsake to display by your wedding pictures.

Seasoned Insights The single most important thing that was passed on to us from our parents was the idea of integrity rather than just honesty. It seems our parents set an example in everything they did and it set us up for a lifetime of happiness.

Grace Loves Lace on Etsy

Budget Buster: A Guest’s Worth Each guest of your wedding can easily cost you anywhere from $50-$100 each. The easiest way to trim the strain on your budget is to take a second look at the guest list before mailing invitations. Narrowing down the list by even 10 people could save you up to $1000!

If there is a second reason it is a simple promise I made myself very soon after our wedding day. We never had an argument prior to the big event and I decided to never under any circumstances have the first one after we were married.

I can never remember the reason for anything unpleasant after a couple of days anyway so why let it get to me in the first place?

Finally as Catholics we had to take a course that explained the serious matter The Church considers marriage. It was mostly positive but brought out the many reasons for failure that seem to effect many unions these days.

Integrity should be the standard not the exception. Marriage is for a lifetime as the vows mention...."Til death do us part" – Bill & Cathy Harms, Married 57 years

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Photographer: Amber Lanning Photography Location: Weston Red Barn Farm Florals: Monarch Flower Co.

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Couples Corner

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Engaged Couple: Chris King & Allie Trimmell Wedding Date: November 9th, 2013

How did you two meet?

Bride: We were both out with friends at Power & Light. Our eyes met, and he gave me the cutest smile. We talked and danced the rest of the night, and he asked me out on a date before we parted ways.

Groom: I was at Power & Light with a couple of friends and saw her dancing. She immediately caught my attention and I was able to muster up enough courage to go talk to her.

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How long did it take to realize he/she was the one?

G: I believe it is good communication and being able to compromise. It is important to know how the other person feels and find a middle ground.

What do you plan to splurge on with the wedding?

Communication is key and so is a lot of laughter.

B: I knew early on. I felt comfortable with him immediately, and it was as if we had known each other forever.

G: After the first couple of dates, I realized she had the qualities I was looking for and everything just clicked with our personalities. I knew she would be my wife someday.

B: We decided to get a wedding planner. Planning can get very overwhelming and having an expert to help us with everything and bounce ideas off of has been great. The photography was also very important to me.

G: The honeymoon. We are going to Kauai, HI for a week and we couldn’t be more excited.

What has surprised you most about the planning process?

B: How fast everything books up! We aren’t having a very long engagement, so we have had to make decisions on important things, like the venue, fairly quickly.

How do you two make it work?

B: It’s a combination of things. We are supportive of each other’s goals and have grown a lot as a couple.

Communication is key and so is a lot of laughter.

G: The number of decisions that need to be made throughout the process. We want everyone to have a great time so there is quite a bit of pressure.

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What was the best thing about your wedding?

What is the best part about marriage?

Bride: Our wedding was beautiful. It was intimate, romantic and not overshadowed but any of the traditional wedding stress. It was a moment created just for the two of us and we were able to enjoy each other without any distractions.

B: The best part is when Kevin calls me his wife. I am very proud to have that title. There are still times when it doesn’t feel real. Each time I hear it I can’t help but smile.

Groom: The best thing about our wedding was the lack of stress and worry I often hear friends talk about in their past wedding experiences. When our day came the only two people I had to worry about was my beautiful bride and I.

G: My favorite part of marriage is how we push each other to be better. The desire to give one another a better life constantly motivates us to keep growing and become better versions of ourselves.

Looking back on it, what would you have done differently?

B: I would have asked the resort for a sunset ceremony. The Dominican sun at 11:30am was brutal!

G: Not a thing. Everything about it went as planned and the icing on it all was the beautiful weather we got for our day.

Newlywed Couple: Kevin & Reagan Fraser Together: 3.5 years Wedding Date: November 30th, 2012

What’s the biggest difference in your relationship now that you are married?

B: Once reality set in, I would look at Kevin and get a sense of comfort knowing that he is my family now. I had always viewed Kevin as family but once we made it official we became a family.

G: I would have to say our thinking in our relationship has changed. We now understand that practically all decisions made, no matter how big or small, require us to think about the effect it will have on us both.

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What is the hardest part about marriage?

B: For me it’s finding the balance between the ‘premarriage’ fun and the content feeling you have once you are married. We’re so happy just being together that sometimes it takes a little nudge to keep introducing new experiences.

G: The most difficult part of marriage is the selfishness that can sometimes make its difficult to compromise.

Communication is key to working around this though.

Great communication allows you to see situations from your partners point of view.

Long-Term Love: Bret & Abby Buckridge Together: 8 years Wedding Date: October 3rd, 2008 were younger then too though. It seems like now we just get each other a lot more. We also started going to church together. We try to put God into our everyday situations and we pray together.

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G: There is not much difference other than the fact that I wear a ring now and our lifestyle has definitely changed.

What do you remember most from your wedding day?

B: Seeing Bret for the first time. How handsome he looked in his tux and the look on his face when he first saw me. The music. Having all of our families there to celebrate our big day together. Taking pictures was a big part of our day. We had lots of fun memories taking pictures around Big Cedar Lodge (where we were married and where we were engaged too). It is one of our favorites places to be. It is just beautiful.

What is the biggest difference in your relationship now that you have been married for several years?

Bride: We don’t do the whole party scene anymore. We just grew out of it and realized living more pleasingly to God was far more important to us. We wanted our marriage/ relationship to be built on a rock and not on sand.

Living more for Christ is the only way to do so.

G: The number one thing I remember from our wedding day is how beautiful my wife looked and all the pictures we took.

If you could do it all over again, what would you do differently?

B: I would have spent more time on my hair, would have made it bigger and better. I would have moved our wedding outside at Big Cedar Lodge (we were married in a log cabin chapel there) the church was nice but I just wish we had done it outside over looking the Table Rock Lake at Big Cedar. Plus being a photographer, I now know that dark churches are no good for lighting for good wedding pictures. Outdoors at sunset is always the best lighting.

Groom: We are satisfied just being together in the comfort of our own home. We don’t have to always be going somewhere to have fun. We have lots of fun with just the two of us at home.

We listen to a lot more Christian music and a lot less rap and rock and roll. Haha!

Any advice for other couples?

What is the most surprising difference between dating and marriage?

B: 1. Do everything you do with this in mind, “Would I like it if he did that?” 2. Keep God in your marriage and everyday lives. 3. Pray together

B: We actually fought a lot more when we were just dating, as funny as that seems. Of course we

G: Keep God in your lives and you will have a great marriage.

G: I thought our wedding day was pretty perfect. If I had to change something it would be to choose a different location at Big Cedar.

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We scoured the popular website, Etsy, high and low to find you some of the best items and ideas out there to kick your wedding up a notch. Made of sellers boasting all sorts of creative craftsmanship, there are a bevy of things to sort through. They say it’s all in the details, and these are a few that will leave your guests awestruck and wishing they could hit redo on their own days. Plus, most of them make for some pretty great keepsakes long after the big day is done.

1. Custom Wire Wedding Cake Topper Seller: FCandCompany Photographer: Callahan Foose Price Point: $26 2. Mr. & Mrs. Vintage Forks for the Cake Cutting Seller: woodenhive Photographer: Jana Marler Price Point: $25

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3. Bridal Party Survival Kits Seller: thepaperynook Price Point: $4 4. Rustic Wooden Card Box Seller: BoaAndBoo Photographer: Amanda Steiner Price Point: $65

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Unlocking: Buffalo Lodge Where your Dream Destination awaits‌ just off the beaten path.

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Picture taking a scenic drive down a country road. You make a few turns and end up following a path that takes you into a country paradise, with tall grasses in the distance, and buffalo grazing all around you. Before you sits a beautiful wooden lodge, complete with huge windows to stream in all the scenery, and utter seclusion as far as the eye can see. This is the essence that is Buffalo Lodge.

Custom built and sparing no detail, Buffalo Lodge is a brand new space that opened in the summer of 2013 and is located just outside of town, near Kingsville, MO. With an indoor art gallery, a gorgeous stone patio, and wraparound porch, this is the perfect oasis for any couple wanting to do a little something different for their big day.

Michelle Maier, Event Director for the facility, even opted to have her own wedding here. It’s safe to say that seeing is believing, and once she stepped foot onsite, she was sold.

Not only does the lodge boast four beautiful bedrooms that can house a couple and their bridal party the night of the event, but they have an airplane hangar off to the side that can create an elaborately rustic wedding worthy of any brides praise. And to say this is just the tip of the iceberg would be an understatement.

Picture hardwood floors throughout the main floor, marble floors spanning the master bath, vaulted ceilings, copper countertops, a private deck off the master bedroom, a huge fire pit perfect for roasting s’mores, and the list goes on. Not only have they paid attention to every detail before you even set foot on their property, they even go the extra step in providing the ultimate experience upon arrival. This includes your beds being turned down at the end of the night, and any amenity you would need to make your stay as cozy as possible.

And that’s not all. The owners, Amy and Michael, have big plans to build a brand new event space called The Roosevelt, that will debut in 2014, giving them the opportunity to offer their guests two different and amazing spaces all separated by a tree line, so you still have the seclusion and serenity you came to find. It’s like a perfect destination location that is still within driving distance for all your nearest and dearest.

Yet, even if you’re not yet getting married or have already tied the knot, this location makes for quite the retreat, whether it’s a family reunion, company gathering, bachelorette party, couples getaway, and everything in between.

Do something different, dare to step out of the ordinary, and free yourself to roam with the buffalo. To book your stay, or see the place for yourself, please visit www.buffalolodgekc.com or call 816.462.3757.

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Facts Sheet: 1. The Lodge can sleep up to 10 guests 2. The property is a 200 acre buffalo ranch 3. You can host a party from 75 guests all the way up to 300 4. You can bring in professional vendors of your choice 5. There is a day-of coordinator on site to assist with everything

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Just the way you want it. We use all-natural ingredients, with an emphasis on organic and local.

From over-the-top elegant to just plain yummy, we cater to your every whim.

our name says it all. food creations by Mary Berg 913.829.0133 mary@delishcatering.net www.delishcatering.net

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Question: My question is in regard to social media. My girlfriends and I have all received at one time or another either a facebook message or tweet with an attached photo of someone doing something “funny” at a wedding or wedding reception. Sometimes the photos are of the bride and/or groom and they are not always flattering. I am getting married next summer and I don’t want my guests to send out photos of us at our wedding and reception. Is there a tactful way to ask my guests not to send a facebook message, tweet or photo of our wedding and reception?

By Irene Sparks Irene Sparks is Kansas City’s wedding and reception expert. She is the owner of Hawthorne House, an award winning, full-service wedding and reception facility located in Parkville, Missouri. Over the past 14 years, she has advised thousands of brides, grooms, and their parents on creating the ideal wedding and reception while solving stressful etiquette problems. To view her wedding and reception facility, please visit thehawthornehouse.com.

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Answer: The use of social media has become a real concern for many brides, grooms and their families. Unfortunately not everyone uses good judgment when it comes to sending out photos or comments via social media. Add alcohol into the mix and sometimes the end result can be hurtful. Most brides and grooms hire a professional photographer or videographer to capture their special day. These professionals know how to capture lasting memories through photos and videos. That is why we use their services and pay for their abilities.

My suggestion would be to either make a tactful or funny sign that is placed in the entry of your reception venue that reads “Please respect the wishes of the bride and groom and refrain from sending facebook or twitter messages, as well as photos of their wedding and reception” or it might read “Please allow the love birds to tweet their own messages and photos”. Most of your guests will respect your wishes. If you don’t want to go with a sign another option would be to include a printed card in your invitation that expresses your wishes.

Good luck and please let me know how you decided to handle this issue as I am hearing more and more about this concern.

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Question: My daughter and I found the perfect venue for her wedding reception. It is beautiful and professionally managed. We would like to reserve the venue, but we don’t understand their policy regarding the host bar we plan to provide our guests.

We believe we will have about 120 adult guests and about 25 children of various ages. The venue we would like to reserve has a minimum on the number of guests that we must pay for on all food and beverages regardless of their age. That minimum is 150. We understand that we have to pay for the 150 on the meals and all non-alcoholic beverages, but we do not understand why we have to pay for 150 on the alcoholic beverages since about 25 of our guests will be children. The manager of the venue said they use an industry standard to determine how to charge for host bars and they are not charging for alcohol for children. He said “it all evens out in the end”. What do you think of this policy and do you believe it to be an industry standard?

Answer: I certainly understand your concern about purchasing alcohol for anyone under legal drinking age, but let me assure you there isn’t a venue around that I know of that would risk their liquor license in order to charge for alcohol for children. It is indeed an industry standard to charge for a required minimum number of guests for host bars. Some of your adult guests may not drink any alcohol, some may drink one or two and some may drink, well you know……more than their fair share. So, like the manager said “it all evens out in the end”. If you have ordered an alcoholic beverage in a restaurant or bar lately you know alcoholic beverages can be very costly. A host bar that requires you to pay for a minimum number of guests can certainly be cost effective and to your advantage. Even when it is believed that “many of our guests won’t be drinking” you may be surprised at the number of alcoholic drinks consumed during a four to 6 hour reception by those that do! Hope this helps and I hope you can reserve that “perfect venue” for your daughter’s special day.

Wedding Wise...

Your wedding is NOT the time to experiment with hair color from the grocery store. Six months prior to your big day discuss your color ideas with a reliable stylist. Your hair color should be done no more than 2 weeks prior to the wedding, that way you look great for everything leading up to the day.

– Jenny Thomas, Last Tangle Salon

Think outside the box. With everything. You want your guests leaving saying ‘man that was perfectly them!’ So implement what you love into your wedding. It’s ok and SO admired and inspirational to see a creative wedding. Looking for simple? Try a backyard wedding. Or a poolside wedding where your family can all potluck yet have fancy displays for the food. Thinking destination? Have an open house reception back home for your family and friends to come eat some cake and see your new place! Just remember, YOU have the right to do anything you want on your wedding day. The sky is the limit!

– Jana Marler, Jana Marie Photography

Don’t wait until the last moment to get waxed.

You should schedule an appointment least once or twice before doing it for the wedding. This will allow you to be certain that you don’t have allergies related to waxing. You will also be able to see how long it takes for your skin to react after the process. Once the week comes of your wedding schedule your waxing 2-3 days in advance.

– Malena, The Wax Pot

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Setting aside the argument of whether children should or should not be included in a wedding invitation, some brides choose not to exclude kids from their celebration. Those children may be a valued member of their very close knit family. Other times, couples don’t want to discourage their close friends with children from attending, especially those who may live out of town and have no choice but to bring their kids along. Regardless of motivation, if you plan to have children at your wedding reception, here are two important considerations.

Be cautious of your guests when scheduling the start time of the ceremony and reception.

Having a break between the two can leave guests wondering what they should do until the beginning of the reception. If there is several hours of dead time, then set up a private room at a restaurant or pub to allow family and friends to gather and visit while you are taking photos.

First, make certain that your DJ is given advance notice that children may be attending, especially if you expect more than six children under the age of 10 years old. Second, knowing that children can sometimes become a dinner-time distraction as they transform a dance floor into a noisy, impromptu play area, make certain that your DJ is prepared to entertain those kids with fun activities or kid friendly dances. With the proper DJ entertainment, guests will enjoy twenty minutes or so of cute “Ahhh” moments that are not only memorable but are great photo opportunities, as well..

– Britney Beach, The Cotillion

– Ron Ruth, Ron Ruth Wedding Entertainment

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Keep your rehearsal dinner nice and intimate.

Look for a venue that can comfortably accommodate all of your guests. Crowded and noisy restaurants can often be distracting (and expensive); think outside the box and choose a place where you and your friends and family can dine, relax and socialize on your timeline in preparation of your big day!

– Brooke Morehead, Prairiebrooke Arts

When you are trying to find the perfect shade of a color for your wedding; run by the hardware store and grab a couple paint swatches in your color family. Then, you are able to see those in all lights and choose which one is the exact shade to fit your vision.

– Christine Saxer, Celebrations of Love

Expect the unexpected and be flexible. When there is a chance of rain for your outdoor wedding, have a back up plan and remember that the most important thing about this day is that you are joining hands with the one you love and with whom you will spend the rest of your life. Focus on the big picture when things don’t go as planned.

– Tamara Schranz, Staley Farms Golf Club

Budgets, everyone has them and everyone needs them especially the bridal couple and their families. With that being said, try to stick to your budget parameters to keep your costs down. In those rare instances you go over but trying to stay the course will help eliminate your stress levels.

– Sharon Ko. Town Pavilion

Hooping for a Hourglass Figure

Do you remember being a little girl and dreaming about your wedding dress?

What it would look like? How you would look in it? Many brides daydreamed when they were young about their perfect day…and often find themselves planning their wedding hoping to fit into the perfect dress. I train several brides who come to me with the goal of having their perfect dress fit like a glove.

We come up with different training programs to help meet their needs; one program that has grabbed bride’s attention is hula-hoop training. How many of us spent hours swiveling our hips with a hula-hoop not knowing how effective that thin plastic toy could be at helping to shape our waistlines.

Its so simple it almost seems too easy! Grab a hoop and swivel away and over time that waistline starts to take shape!!! OK it’s not quite that easy…but with a few “twists” here is a snapshot of an effective way to fit into that dress!

We used a weighted hoop that was filled with water for extra resistance. In combination with overall strength training and cardio using this hoop a few minutes a day has helped shrink the waistlines of some of the brides I am preparing for their debut in their special dress. And its silly fun! It helps strengthen not only the core muscles but side obliques as well, or those “hourglass” muscles that help shape waistlines. So while you are getting stronger your body is starting to take shape in preparation for the big reveal on your wedding day!

by Liz Kampschroeder Certified Personal Trainer Daisy1chick@gmail.com Amazing Fitness Hoops Donita 913-707-7453

As a trainer I am constantly trying to come up with new and exciting ways to keep brides motivated on their fitness journey. This can be challenging when clients come to me that have big goals ahead of them and the deadline of a wedding day fast approaching. The one common thread I have found is every bride remembers being a little girl with dreams of her wedding day. So taking that sense of wonder and adventure and combining it with the basic exercises that we considered “fun” at age 10 and voila! The hula-hoop workout! When this has been combined with lunges, squats, some upper body resistance, and a clean eating plan the results are happy brides at their dress fittings!

So if you are planning your big day, or participating in someone else’s keep this “child like” workout idea in mind as you create your plan of attack for fitting into the perfect dress!

Happy hooping!

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EA Angels: Making Dreams Come True One Wish at a Time It was a night of pure enchantment. It was late July, the weather was perfect, and it seemed everyone had stars in their eyes as they filled The Faultless Event Space for an evening filled with paying it forward. There was a flurry of excitement as everyone circled around all of the silent auction items in anticipation of the grand event: The Live Experience Package Auction.

The Make-a-Wish Foundation put this soiree together in a valiant effort to raise the funds necessary to grant wishes to children suffering from serious ailments, and who couldn’t otherwise be afforded the opportunity to live out their childhood dreams. The Foundation, aware of the EA Angel’s program, reached out to see if we could put together a package for participants to bid on, of which the proceeds would be entirely donated to the Foundation.

Fortunately, we are surrounded by a great group of professionals, who love giving back to the community at large. And while our EA Angels projects are usually designated for deserving couples planning a wedding, we couldn’t resist the opportunity to help another amazing cause, and enlisted the help of those we knew would also rise to the occasion. In fact, we had such a outpouring of support on this mission, we were able to put together two incredible packages.

The first was entitled the “Signature Soiree.” On behalf of Irene Sparks, owner of The Hawthorne House, she donated her exquisite facility and decadent food for any available evening left in 2013.

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For anyone wanting to have an amazing fete for themselves and 100 of their nearest and dearest, complete with Entertainment service donated by Jon Bartlett of Remix DJ’s.

The second experience was called “The Pampered Romance Package”, and included professional hair and makeup services by Melissa Blayton, just in time for the couple to get a professional photo shoot courtesy of Jana Marler with Jana Marie Photography. They will be transported back and forth thanks to Pech Limousine, and finish off the night with a six-course meal and wine catered by a Private Chef and server, courtesy of Delish Catering.

And thanks to the brand new Buffalo Lodge, they don’t have to cut their night short, as they have graciously donated a private stay for the duo at their lodge, leaving the two of them to reminisce about the events of the day well into the wee hours of the night!

At the end of the event, we were proud to say that our packages raised the most money for the Make-a-Wish Foundation. It is truly a community effort and we’re so thrilled to work with so many amazing professionals who realize that not one person can do it all, but when we come together as a whole, great things inevitably happen!

If you have a couple or cause to nominate for an EA Angels experience, please visit us at www.eaangels.com

The Angels: Irene Sparks of The Hawthorne House: Donated the use of her facility for an event.

Jon Bartlett of Remix DJ’s: Donated three hours of entertainment Amy Billings of The Buffalo Lodge: Donated an overnight private stay at The Lodge.

Jana Marler of Jana Marie Photography: Donated a Beloved Couples Photography package Pech Limousine: Donated transportation for the duration of the date Mary Berg of Delish Catering: Donated a six-course meal with a Private Chef and wine service.

Melissa Blayton, Celebrity Makeup Artist: Donated professional hair and makeup for the photo shoot.

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Couples Therapy:

How to All couples who live in close proximity fight! It can be normal and even healthy. What matters is HOW you fight. Just like in a boxing match there are rules or guidelines that both opponents much abide by. The same should apply to couples. Each relationship should have a rulebook on how to fight fairly.

Here are some simple rules, but they will vary with each individual depending on their background, personality, and temperament.

Rules for everyone:

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1. No screaming 2. No name-calling 3. No hitting 4. No throwing things 5. Leave your gloves on at all times When you fight it’s important to be thinking, “WIN, WIN”. Remember, you are on the same team. It’s not about winning the argument, or putting the other in their place. It’s about coming to an agreement that works for you and your partner. Too many times when we are fighting we are thinking in our mind, “I am going to set them straight, or get them to understand me.” The problem is that your partner is typically thinking the same thing … when instead you BOTH should be SEEKING to understand each other rather than be UNDERSTOOD. We fight, or should fight, to RESOLVE issues, not to put the other down!

Let’s be real here; no two people are exactly alike, and that means there are going to be times in the relationship that you do not see eye to eye, and that is okay. You can have a wonderful relationship without agreeing on every single issue. Mutually you must come to an understanding or common ground, but you can still be an individual with thoughts of your own!

Bottom line: Don’t lose heart if you and your partner are disagreeing, it’s all part of the process of getting to know one another, just make sure to fight fairly, set the rules (what is expectable in the fight, and what is not) and live by those rules!

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Exceptional moments call for exceptional spaces Kansas City’s finest reception establishment, The Baltimore Club provides the luxurious elegance your wedding deserves.

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They say hindsight is 20/20. This is especially true in terms of weddings.

Couples spend months planning for their special day, only to look back and realize what they would have done differently if given the opportunity.

Suddenly, when the lights go out at the end of the night, the could’ve, would’ve, and should’ve’s become crystal clear… one day too late.

That’s why The Flux Society, a group of high-end professionals committed to bringing their best work to every bride, opted to hold a Bridal Panel, and invited EA Bride to take part. The goal was to hear from brides who had

recently gone through the experience and find what happened throughout their planning process that would enable them to better their own craft. What resulted was a night of enlightenment and education straight from the source.

On the eve of August 19th, the beautiful event space, Black on Burlington, was gracious enough to host a group of professionals eager to be educated. We all mingled, sipped a few cocktails, and indulged in far too many hor dourves compliments of Above and Beyond Catering, before it was time to get down to business.

Hosted by Jon Bartlett of Remix DJ’s and Craig Loftis of Elite Sounds Entertainment, they rounded up a vibrant and insightful group of recent brides, including Amie Bartley, Claire Reagan, Rachel Green, and Claire Shaver. Poised and ready to answer anything thrown at them, the interrogation began.

By the end of the questions, we walked away with a much clearer picture of what was most important to our target market, the bride. Some of the biggest points we noted were: 1. Although the wedding budgets ranged from 20,000 – 45,000, the areas most felt they overspent were on food and beverage.

All in the Details: Above and Beyond catering always serves something scrumptious and this night was no exception. They provided the partygoers with: Bacon Apple Jalapeno Wontons with a Chili Honey Glaze Risotto Cakes with Smoked Tomato Cream Artichoke Toasted Baguettes

2. Videography came up more than once as the area brides wished they’d invested more of their big day dollars.

3. Many didn’t realize until after the reception just how important the DJ was in making or breaking the reception.

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4. The biggest disappointment overall through the process was the lack of follow-up on the part of the professionals. When they didn’t get a call back, they moved on.

5. Brides love samples of professional work. Whether you’re a florist or photographer or caterer, make sure you have a full collection of your work to showcase.

6. The best form of communication with the couple is via email.

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Listen & Learn Expert Wedding Series: How to Have an Extraordinarily Fun, Memorable & Stress-Free Wedding Day Berg Event Space 1525 Grand Boulevard Entrance in back 6:00pm Join us to explore creative ways to make your wedding the fun and unique day you dream of. Get answers to all of your planning questions. $20 per couple (can be bride and groom, bridesmaid, mother, etc.)

November 2, 2013 WING Bridal Show Holiday Inn, 200 McDonald Drive Lawrence, KS 66044

KC Unveiled The Cotillion 1717 Burdett Crossing Blue Springs, MO 64015 11:00am-3:00pm Finally- one bridal show that has it all! Come to find inspiration for your vision, connect with professionals to make it happen, and register to win the grandest of giveaways!! Skip those busy shows and come try a boutique event. You will find that KC Unveiled allows you to speak oneon-one with wedding professionals inspired by your love story. KC Unveiled- the personal bridal show experience Pre-register online at www.cotillionweddings.com or call 816-228-0900.

Don’t miss out on a chance to meet some of the best professionals Lawrence has to offer! Everything you need for your big day all in one place! RSVP to planningidos@ aol.com

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Real stories of married and engaged Kansas City couples written in their own words.

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Jay & Katrina Kraber Wedding Date: October 6th, 2012 Photography by: Deanna Johnson

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Our love story started after Krissy Budish, a co-worker of Jay’s and a client of mine played matchmaker. She gave us each other’s info, and we connected through Facebook and eventually met face to face at the Chiefs Monday Night Football Game. There was an immediate connection, and we spent the rest of the evening together. I knew I had a keeper when on my way to drop him off that night it was pouring down rain, and on the highway I ran over something that got stuck underneath my car. When I pulled over, on the side of the busy highway, he immediately got out of the car, in the pouring rain, looked under the front of the car, sat down, and proceeded to put both feet on the front bumper and yanked out a huge chunk of a semi tire out from underneath it.

It was pretty hot to see him pull off such a manly move in the monsoon of rain. I was praying I would have many more moments with this man.

The next day we met for brunch and got to know each other a bit better. Jay, was a pilot, who worked out of the downtown airport, and a small town guy from Albia, Iowa. And myself, a stylist and business owner, who worked out in south Overland Park. I was from a small town as well, Wright, Kansas. We both seemed to have had a very similar upbringing, built on family tradition, strong values and morals. Jay was everything I was looking for in a man. Tall, dark and handsome, no kids, never married, had a job, went to church, opens doors for me, liked my little dog, I could go on and on, he was every check on my list, and then some. He probably would tell you he fell for me after he found out I could cook and bake! After many dates, Chiefs games, meeting each other’s family, there was no question that we would stay together for the long haul.

Ceremony & Reception Venue: Belvoir Winery Gown: Bridal Extraordinaire Menswear: Bridal Extraordinaire Hair: Bella Hair Co-Michelle Makeup: Nerium Int’l - Laura Stanion Caterer: Catered Elegance Florist: Clara’s Flowers DJ/Band: Sean Cockrell Cake/Cupcake Decorator: Sweet Pea Cakes Rental Provider: Big T Tents & AAA Party Rental

Jay had a work trip flying to Turk’s and Caicos, in March of 2012, he had me fly down and meet him there. After a few days and nights of fun on the island, we had one very special night. Jay took me out to a nice dinner, and then back to the hotel. When I walked into the room there was tropical flower petals, strawberries, and champagne! I knew something was about to happen.

We hung out for quite some time on the balcony, enjoying the ocean view, drinking the entire bottle of champagne, and still nothing. Finally when I was ready to call it a night he was down on one knee and proposed. Six months later, after lots of planning, we married at Belvoir Winery on October 6.

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Chris & Bobbie Kaiser Wedding Date: June 8th, 2013 Photography by: M&E Photo Studio

Their story began in college. The two met on Halloween night.

Chris sported a Tigger costume and Bobbie was, ironically, not feeling well and dressed in a nurse costume. They talked briefly and felt comfortable right away. The two did not meet again until the following year in August, when they moved into the same apartment complex. Their first official lunch date started off slowly, as Chris was starving and as a result was not much for conversation. However, after the food settled he started to open up. Right away the two spent most of their time together, sharing most meals and driving to class and the library together.

Bobbie graduated the following May and moved back to Kansas City. Since Chris had a year left of school, the two maintained a long distance relationship. After Chris’ graduation, he started working for a company in St. Louis (his hometown). This position eventually offered an opportunity for him to transfer to Kansas City. Together again at last! The couple moved into an apartment together. After getting comfortable with the idea of living together, they introduced a new member to their household. His name is Dexter. He is a crazy, hilarious, stubborn, sweet terrier mix they adopted from a local dog rescue.

In November of 2011, Chris and Bobbie accompanied Chris’ family and a family friend to visit his aunt in Sydney, Australia. During the trip, Chris planned to propose to Bobbie. Seeing as it rained for eight days straight, he was running out of time to pop the question before the end of their ten-day trip. While on a rainy, soggy hike in the Blue Mountains the two came to a lookout point, only to experience three feet of visibility and a view of dense fog. Chris decided it was time to propose. He got down on one knee and said, “I have been waiting all week to do this,” and then he pulled out the ring! His family exclaimed from behind them, as they were surprised as well. It was a perfect moment they will remember forever.

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Next came the wedding planning. Bobbie’s main focus was to create a warm, relaxing setting for their big day and Chris wanted to make sure it was fun and memorable.

Incorporating family and friends, along with showing their personalities through details, made their day special. Kansas City was represented well by serving Jack Stack BBQ and Boulevard beer. A wide variety of soft, organic colors were used to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. The couple’s love of travel was reflected by naming the guest tables after the great cities of the world. A small St. Louis Cardinals cake was served to represent Chris’ love for his hometown team.

DJ Elwood kept the night moving with fun, lively music. With help from many people and an exceptional wedding planner, their wedding day was everything they had hoped for and a memorable experience for family and friends.

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Ceremony Venue: Christ Community Church Reception Venue: Berg Event Space Wedding Planner: Plush Productions – Britney Beach Gown: The Gown Gallery Hair & Makeup: Brook George Caterer: Jack Stack Florist: Dalton’s Flowers DJ: Sean Elwood Photo Booth: Plush Photo Booth Videography: Brandon Power Media

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Sarah & Michael Duma Wedding Date: September 15th, 2012 Photography by: Click Photography

Michael and I first crossed paths at a mutual friend’s house during the Winter of 2008. Although today we recall being immediately attracted to one another, our interaction that night was brief. After having his courage bolstered by a number of beers, Michael attempted to make an impression on me by acting foolish. While my laughs were “at” and not “with him” on that night, that brief encounter planted a seed that would blossom into something great.

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Michael’s sight, I did the embarrassing all-alone-like-no-one-is watching dance moves in my car. I had never had this feeling before!

Michael proposed on my birthday, May 6th, 2011. Michael had planned for us to meet up with friends that evening to celebrate “my birthday” on a party bus. Before we headed out for the evening, he said that it was time for my birthday present. He handed me a large box, and I proceeded to open it. It was a sewing machine. I was ecstatic! He had remembered

me telling him that as a little girl, I always asked for a sewing machine but had never received one. I thought that this was AMAZING! When I went to kiss and thank him, he reminded me that I had dropped the card. I opened the card and began to read. Michael had written a bunch of sweet love-nothings, with the last line saying, “Spend the rest of our lives together???” I looked up with tears rolling down my face, and Michael was on one knee, and asked, “Sarah, will you marry me?” I said, “YES”!

I had never been the girl who thought about her wedding day. I never cared to attend weddings. In planning, Michael and I began by making a list of all the things needed to simply “pull it off.” Before long, our list was out the door and we were touring venues and tasting cakes. Somewhere along the way, those not so important items become important. We have never been so grateful to have such supporting family members, friends, and incredible vendors.

Without the hours of work they put in, we could not have enjoyed such a wonderful day.

Trusting your instincts on who you choose to surround yourself with on your special day is priceless. On our wedding day, every person who said that they understood exactly what our vision was, said that they would do whatever they could to make the day just perfect, did just that. I was taken back to the butterflies from our first kiss, and I did the all-alone-like-no-one-iswatching dance moves. Only this time, I was able to do it with the love of my life.

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Ceremony & Reception Venue: The Hobbs Building Day of Coordinator: Feasts of Fancy, Dana Sterner Gown: Bridal Extraordinaire Maid of Honor Dress: Emily Hart Bridal Menswear: JoS. A. Bank Hair & Makeup: Bold Beauty Makeup Caterer: Feasts of Fancy Florist: Final Touch Studios DJ/Band: Pro DJ KC Cake/Cupcake Decorator: Jesus Magna Bar Service: Gomers Travel Agent: UCruiseVacation

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Laura & Ryan Smith Wedding Date: August 18th, 2012 Photography By: Jana Marie Photography

Ryan and I were introduced by our mutual best friends in 2006. Initially, timing was never our thing. I moved to New York City and he stayed in KC. When I moved back from NYC in 2009 Ryan and I reunited. Sparks flew at a party and we’ve been together ever since.

The night Ryan proposed to me was one the best nights of my life. Seeing that he was a former police officer and the ultimate prankster, he decided it would be a good idea to somehow intertwine the two with our engagement.

Driving down Roe, unbeknownst to me, he arranged for a fellow police officer to pull us over. The police officer claimed we were speeding. Ryan began to talk back to the officer (please note- this is not recommended) and refused to accept the fact that he was speeding.

The officer was furious that Ryan was talking back and had him step out of the car. Meanwhile, I was nervous because it was out of character for Ryan to be acting like this. Next thing I know, I see Ryan in handcuffs. The policeman asked me to step out of the car and gather Ryan’s belongings as he was going to take him down to the police station. I reached in Ryan’s coat pocket to get his wallet and ended up pulling out a little black box. I then realized that Ryan wasn’t actually handcuffed, he was just holding the handcuffs behind his back. He then got on one knee and asked me to marry him. I was so shocked and surprised. Naturally, I said yes and jumped for joy. I was also delighted that he wasn’t actually going to jail. We then went to a surprise engagement party that he had planned for us with all of our family and friends.

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The wedding planning period went by fast. I wasn’t big on details and planning so I hired a fabulous wedding planner. She walked me through every step. My job was just to pick out the few options that she recommended. She made the experience so much fun and low stress.

The wedding day was magical.

Everything was perfect and exactly like I had envisioned it would be.

My favorite colors - red, black and white - took over the Midland Theatre. The vendors made everything seamless. The cake was out of this world and the flowers made the red décor of the Midland Theatre pop. The band was singing all my favorite tunes. They even played my favorite Lionel Richie song without skipping a beat. The night ended with a nacho bar filled with queso and sour cream. Our favorite!

All of our family and friends were there to support us and help us celebrate. It was an unforgettable magical night.

“It was an unforgettable magical night.”

Wedding Planner: Megan Allen; Soiree Event Designs Ceremony & Reception Venue: The Midland Theatre Gown: Altar Bridal Maid of Honor Dress: Bella Bridesmaid Menswear: Men’s warehouse Invitations: R.S.V.P Photo Booth: Banana Who? Booth Makeup: Mary Shalee Hair: Brianne Bustamante Caterer: Kansas City Catering Florist: Branches & Twigs Ceremony Music: Helios String Quartet Band: Atlantic Express Cake: Icing on the Cake Favors/Gifts: Meierotto Midwest Jewelers EABride.com

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Brian & Samantha Kaiser Wedding Date: May 18th, 2012 Photography By: Element 35 Samantha and I met in the summer of 2008. Despite living fairly close to one another, and both working as restaurant servers, we shared no mutual friendships. What we did share in common was a frustration with our dating life to that point, leading us to take our respective searches online. Spurred by a string of bad relationships which never seemed to materialize as anything particularly meaningful, I took to OkCupid.com, swallowing my pride and ignoring whatever stigmas were associated with online dating. I still remember the first time I saw her page.

“Samiamram”. We were into similar music and movies, and had a similar dry, sarcastic humor. I messaged her something witty (I use that phrase loosely) about how important she must feel being a part of the “OkCupid Hotlist”, and instead of some curt dismissal, she came back with a similar jab at something on my profile. It was meant to be.

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in our relationship. Something in my liquid-courage-fueled ultimatum clicked with Samantha, and since the cab ride to see her that night we have been inseparable.

We had always shared a common interest in travel and Spanish culture (Samantha worked at the Spanish tapas restaurant La Bodega when we met). In May 2010, we traveled to Barcelona for vacation. I knew before the trip that I wanted to propose to Samantha, and this vacation provided the perfect opportunity. In Barcelona, we visited Parq Guell, a Gaudidesigned park overlooking Barcelona’s skyline, which is dominated by the massive La Sagrada Familia cathedral.

I asked Samantha something about wanting to visit Barcelona again in the future, when the cathedral would be finished, and wanting it to be with her as my wife—I don’t really recall the specifics of the proposal because I was in an anxiety-induced catatonic state— and she said YES! We were married two years later at the Simpson House in Kansas City. Sticking with our love for Spanish culture, we served paella and other tapas to 120 of our closest friends and family. It was the most wonderful day of our lives, and I feel blessed every day to have found my Samiamram.

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Charlie & Marisa Whitfield Wedding Date: June 8th, 2013 Photography By: Shades of Gray

Charlie and I met at The University of Kansas on Saint Patrick’s Day in 2006. A mutual friend introduced us and instantly there was a connection! Through the remaining of our college days, we found time to spend together over meals; lunch in the Tri-Delta dining room, and dinner in the School of Engineering library. Some of our favorite memories come from the road trips we took together, talking for hours.

As a couple, we were faced with one of life’s toughest challenges early in our relationship.

However, our foundation of a strong friendship and with our incredible family and friends, we grew stronger together. We have also been blessed with so much love, laughter, fun, and surprises in our relationship! After six years of dating, and a lot of secretive planning on Charlie’s behalf, he asked me to marry him in front of 5,000 people!

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Wedding planning was a whirlwind of excitement and nerves, but the wedding day made it all worth it! On June 8, we tied the knot and danced the night away with our family and friends! We are enjoying life as newlyweds, living in Lenexa, KS with our three dogs, Cassie, Sophie, and Stella. Not a day goes by when one of us doesn’t comment on how much fun we had at our wedding. It was truly the happiest and most memorable day of our lives!

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Jamison & Samantha Shaw Wedding Date: October 6th, 2012 Photography By: Sarah Dickerson Photography

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My husband & I met while attending college. Our love story is definitely unique; I can’t wow anyone with the cliché love at first site fairytale, but I love our story nonetheless! We lived in the same dorm our freshman year, he lived directly below me and my roommates and they loved to annoy us.

Between dorm life and a few classes, we became instant friends.

We were the classic “almost” couple several times on and off through the first couple years of college, it was obvious there was something there but the timing never seemed right. The beginning of our junior year he wanted to take it to the next level, I turned him down. This cycle went on for quite a while, the typical “I’m not ready for anything serious, I don’t want to ruin our friendship” kind of thing. His persistence was impressive to say the least, so I finally gave into a date. One date and it was over, I knew I could never find a more kind-hearted, genuine man. Persistence does indeed pay off and I’m so thankful that he never gave up on me!

Shortly after graduation, we moved in together.

One evening we were headed to a family friend’s farm, there was a trailer he was thinking about

buying (or so he said). This also happened to be a farm that I’ve always thought would be an amazing setting for a wedding. After we arrived, Jamison started talking about our future wedding. He asked “Well, what do you think? Could you say ‘I Do’ out here?” I turned around and he was down on one knee and said, “If so, let’s start with a ‘Yes’ first” and asked me to marry him!

We had a nine-month engagement. The planning process can be stressful and a lot of work, especially when you’re doing a lot of it yourself but the satisfaction is worth it! Enjoy this time with your fiancé; it’s a lot of fun. The best advice I have for bride-to-be’s: Your fiancé will give his opinion on things the truly cares about, he does NOT care what color napkins you order!

We had a gorgeous, country/rustic, DIY kind of wedding. My husband is a contractor by trade and built the entire set-up for the ceremony himself, out by a beautiful pond. Our reception was the combination of a tent and old barn, which turned out awesome. The most important thing to remember is: Don’t let yourself get caught up in the logistics and planning on the big day. Something is bound to go slightly wrong or you’ll run into some unforeseen circumstance, who cares! The day only happens once and the most important thing is that you’re marrying your best friend. The details you’ve worked so hard to make perfect no longer matter, they’ll sort themselves out. It’s over in a flash, so enjoy every second of it. OH! And hiring a videographer is the BEST money you could spend!

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Austin & Alyssa Winnett Wedding Date: June 2nd, 2013 Photography By: Chels Marie Photography

My wife, Alyssa, and I first met each other at church when we were in eighth grade. Though I’ve always been known to be a hopeless romantic, “love at first sight” did not apply to us, since I wore weird Hawaiian shirts and she had funny hair. Little did we know, we would eventually become enamored with each other. Eventually.

and kisses, it was still difficult. After these two years, I decided something had to change. So I decided to ask her to marry me. I had known even before we started dating that she was the one for me, so it seemed right at this point.

We’ve been friends for around nine years, first as friends of friends, but then we developed our own friendship by going on a bunch of missions trips together. We dated various people and still remained friends. However, when my girlfriend and I broke up, things changed.

I proposed to her at the place where I first told her how I felt about her. I made a word search puzzle for her to complete, in which she would circle words that were things I loved about her or our relationship. I then made a hangman game on the sidewalk, in which the answer was “Will you marry me,” and she got it on the first try.

We thought we would cry at this point, but on a 107-degree day, all of our water was being used to sweat.

It became obvious to me that Alyssa was incredible. From her ridiculous jokes to her captivating singing, she had me. This wasn’t necessarily a good thing though, because she was in a serious relationship with another guy.

But did that stop me? No way!

A couple months afterwards, they broke up. I was pretty psyched about it and I continued to pursue her, but to no avail. She just didn’t get it. I dropped hints left and right, but she never thought I was interested. But in August of 2009, she was about to head to Kansas State University for college, and I was bold enough to tell her how I felt about her. She then friend-zoned me and said, “I see you like a brother.” But no way I was going to give up that easily! After a year of frustration and perseverance, I finally got her to give me a chance.

We dated for two years and lived three hours apart, and while it helped us develop a relationship that wasn’t just based on hugs

On June 2, 2013, we had the wedding we had always dreamed of with the people we had always wanted, and to the person we had always hoped for. Her father was the one who married us, which made the day even more special. She had always seemed like an unattainable dream, and it still feels like a dream now that she’s my wife. I’m fine with living a dream for my whole life.

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