SOLO DATING: THE ART OF LOVING ON YOURSELF

BY DANIELLE ANENE

Learning to love and appreciate yourself as a single person is just as important as loving yourself in a relationship. Embracing self-love holistically can have numerous positive impacts that may exceed your expectations. In this edition, we will be diving into the wonderful concept of solo dating, which involves intentionally indulging in activities that bring you joy and make you feel cherished.

Now, this is not limited to single individuals. In fact, we highly recommend it for people in relationships as well. If you haven't done this before, consider this a wake-up call to create a plan and get started. Admittedly, it may feel a bit strange at first, but that's perfectly normal. We suggest beginning with small activities and gradually increasing momentum over time.

Here's a simple method for treating yourself to some quality time. Start by creating a list of the things you truly enjoy doing alone and the places you love to visit. Then, wrap up each item individually and place them in a jar. Each month, select one piece of paper from the jar and make sure you engage in that activity. This approach not only allows you to financially prepare for your next date but also ensures you have regular opportunities to indulge in self-care. Here are our simple suggestions for solo dating:

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Movies

If you're an introverted individual who feels uncomfortable taking part in leisure activities by yourself, consider going to the movies as a small way to start embracing your own space. When you're at the cinema, you can enjoy being alone and remain inconspicuous since everyone's attention will be directed towards the film. Gradually, by going to the movies a few times, you'll boost your self-assurance and feel ready to take on other types of activities.

If you're someone who loves learning, consider taking the day off to visit a local museum or art gallery. It's an opportunity to immerse yourself in different cultures and traditions and to truly appreciate the wonders of art.

Through solo dating, you have the opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of yourself. It allows you to become more in tune with your preferences and dislikes, resulting in a refreshed mindset. Most importantly, it helps you feel comfortable in your own personal space.

Dining Out

Wear your fabulous brunch or dinner attire; ladies apply makeup; and gentlemen wear that attentiongrabbing cologne. Book a table at a fancy or intriguing restaurant of your choice and have a wonderful time there. By trying this a few times, you will experience a noticeable boost in confidence and improved social interactions.