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CONTENTS VOLUME 11 2019 EDITION

PUBLISHER Mary Ann Wagner

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EDITORIAL Editorial Coordinator/Writer Janice Denham DESIGN Art Director Robert Meyer

LOVE STORIES

17 Rachel & Tim: Vintage glamour, ‘mom’ memories

ADVERTISING Account Executive Laura Dacus Sales Assistant Abby Reich EDITORIAL ASSISTANCE (314) 475-1204 ADVERTISING INQUIRIES (314) 475-1201 CONTACT US St. Louis’ Best Bridal 900 N. Tucker Blvd.

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“It felt so right from the start and the initial attraction never wore off.”

25 Kristen & Cory: ‘Magical,’ together at last “When we walked out of the church together, we were so excited to have just gotten married. It was the most beautiful day outside.”

39 Amy & Emily: Mutual vision, signature emblems “We wanted it to be on a holiday weekend so people wouldn’t have to go to work the next day after the Sunday wedding.”

53 Ruthie & Patrick: Wedding at home, family focus “She is so sincere to everyone that she meets.

Her selflessness is something that is so rare in today's world.”

FEATURE STORIES

12 ‘Best of the Best’: Top teams

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44 Invitations: Couple relays personality Save-the dates start the happy song, then the theme continues with wedding invitations sent to harmonize the individual plan.

64 Snapshot: Best wishes bubble over Loving fans extend best wishes on Kendall and Tim at their warm-weather wedding in June 2018.

ASK THE EXPERTS DESTINATION

49 Couple dreams up celebration: Cancun Christianah and Tim take vows to a place “warm and faraway.”

PHOTOS

58 Smile and save face for future views Bride, groom, guests savor photo fun at wedding, carry home memories.

LOCATION

59 Vineyard stages memories Destination keeps distance minimal with sensational backdrop.

RESOURCES

60 Single provider coordinates details Multi-faceted plan and harmonious crew ease wedding decisions.

earn acclaim Favorite specialists chosen by online voting honored for providing outstanding wedding service to local couples.

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Best of the Best Magazine is printed once a year.

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The magazine is not responsible for unsolicited manuscripts, photographs or artwork. Submissions will not be returned unless accompanied by a self-addressed, stamped envelope.

21 Bouquets: Floral perfection Bouquets defined by color, texture, shape and aroma enfold the senses in garden glory.

29 Seats of Honor: Everyone holds

STYLE

61 Men tie up handsome design Groom and all his best men celebrate with looks of confidence.

NEIGHBORLY CHARM

62 Historic ballroom Romantic elegance flows with vintage character.

special place Tables set in shimmering detail welcome each guest who may be parent, pal or – new – friend or relative.

33 Gowns: Sheer glamour envelops bride Dress of the day invites the eye to see intricate

ON THE COVER Anna Wallace and Bartholomew (Wayne) Clark were married Nov. 4, 2018, at Old Stone Chapel, St. Charles.

Photograph by TROTTER PHOTO.

beading or lustrous simplicity, enchanting lace or frothy layers.

A Publication of Suburban Journals of Greater St. Louis, LLC

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AWARDS HIGHLIGHTING THE ‘BEST’ WEDDING & EVENT PROFESSIONALS OF ST. LOUIS IN 2018 Wedding and event professionals help express the joyful merging of two lives as they key a couple’s personality to their unique occasion. There may be just two people at the wedding or their invitation may reach hundreds of guests to celebrate as the couple joins their sentimental intention. For the fifth year, St. Louis’ Best Bridal spotlighted outstanding providers in the St. Louis wedding and event community whose expertise and dedication was stellar during this past

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year. “Best of the Best” awards were given Thursday, Jan. 24, 2019, to providers counted in online voting at a live music joint

the top of 19 categories.

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CONGRATULATIONS to all winners and finalists.

BACHELOR/ BACHELORETTE PARTY Cedar Lake Cellars Hamburger Mary’s St. Louis Tin Roof

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BEAUTY & HEALTH SPAS

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PRE-WEDDING PARTIES

GOWNS & ACCESSORIES Clarice’s Bridal David’s Bridal Frew’s Bridal & Formal Wear Mia Grace Bridal The Ultimate Bride Wedding Gallery

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Cyrano’s Cafe & Wine Bar

★Orlando’s Event Centers Rose of the Hill by Favazza’s Ruth’s Chris Steak House Tin Roof REGISTRIES

GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS Hermann Hill Hilton St. Louis Frontenac Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch Renaissance St. Louis Airport Hotel The Lodge at Grant’s Trail

Bed Bath & Beyond Crate & Barrel Dillard’s Wedding Registry Macy’s Target

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TRANSPORTATION Celebrating Life Cake Boutique Jilly’s Cupcake Bar Nothing Bundt Cakes Sarah’s Cake Shop Wedding Wonderland

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CATERERS

HONEYMOON & DESTINATION WEDDINGS AAA Travel Callahan’s Travel Company Gulliver’s Travel Live Life Now Travel Travel Haus of St. Louis

★ 23 City Blocks Catering Andre’s Banquets & Catering Championship Catering Favazza’s on the Hill Orlando’s Catering

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DISC JOCKEYS

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★BEST Transportation Fun Tyme Limousine JED Transportation Platinum Transportation TUXEDOS & FORMAL WEAR

LUXURY VENUES Cedar Lake Cellars The Franklin Room Lumen St. Louis Event Space St. Charles Convention Center The Caramel Room

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VENUES

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★AGE Entertainment Applause Productions COMPLETE Weddings + Events Patrico Entertainment TKO DJs EVENT DÉCOR

PHOTO BOOTHS Applause Weddings COMPLETE Weddings + Events Fish Eye Fun Strike A Pose Trotter Photo

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Always In Bloom An Affair To Remember Kate & Company Twisted Lilies Weinhardt Party Rentals

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FLORISTS Always in Bloom Lawrence Florist Roses & Mint Schnucks Florist & Gifts Walter Knoll Florist

PHOTOGRAPHY Abbie Takes Pictures COMPLETE Weddings + Events L Photographie Strike A Pose Trotter Photo

Callahan’s Tuxedo Macy’s Men’s Wearhouse Savvi Formalwear Suits 4 Men

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It was a night of applause for finalists and winners of Best of the Best Awards, when St. Louis’ Best Bridal recognized local wedding and event professionals.

Clockwise, from top left, The Ultimate Bride tied for first place in gown and accessories and Savvi Formalwear captured the category of tuxedos and formal wear. | Guests sat down to an inviting dinner and later took home cell phones holders. | A Representatives of the BEST Transportation team accepted the award for transportation. | An ever-charming crew at Belleza Bridal & Hair Salon accepted the award for beauty and health spas. | The team at Travel Haus of St. Louis, winner among honeymoon and destination weddings, prepared for the evening. | Trotter Photo specialists stepped in front of the camera to smile with two awards for photography and photo booths, which they also provided at the Best of the Best event.

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achel decided to concentrate on building her new insurance agency, so she messaged Tim to take or leave one last chance to redeem their fizzled overtures to online dating. A second try at Sasha’s on DeMun sparked instant chemistry. The strong-willed Leos learned to balance trust in each other and sometimes let the other “take the wheel.”

Tim proposed after Thanksgiving dinner 2017 in Georgia while her family secretly chilled the champagne. The Coronado embodied their art deco vision of vintage gold glamour in candlesticks abloom with ostrich feathers, memorial frames, table decor and draping. In the next “crazy” year, they became engaged, Rachel sold her house and moved into their “together” home, which they rehabbed, and they planned and celebrated their wedding.

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RACHEL WHEN DID YOU TAKE THIS RELATIONSHIP SERIOUSLY?

We started dating 4/6/16. Tim took me to his family’s Mother’s Day gathering with his immediate and extended family the next month. It was a really nice gesture to include me, given my mom passed away in 2006, and Mother’s Day is always a really hard day for me. Apparently I passed the test because he stuck around.

DID YOUR 200 GUESTS TAKE HOME MEMENTOS?

Mementos were photo-booth pictures with our wedding logo and a koozie that said, “We swiped right,” on one side and “Tim and Rachel, 11.17.18” on the other.

HOW DID YOU FEEL AFTER THE CEREMONY?

Overwhelmingly happy. We both looked at each other and said, “Hey hubby,” “Hey wifey,” with the biggest smiles on our faces.

TIM HOW DID YOU PICK THE PROPOSAL SETTING?

Rachel had remarked how important it would be to share this wedding with her family, with her grandpa in Florida and family spread out across the country. What could be more special than proposing when we could share that authentic moment?

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ‘SNAPSHOT’ OF THE DAY?

The first look. The minute I turned around and saw Rachel, I was reminded I made the right decision all over again. I was so nervous, but so calm at the same time when I saw her.

WHAT SIGNIFICANT ITEM DID RACHEL WEAR? TIM

A neighbor/relative of my parents really knocked it out of the park. Judy took Rachel’s mom’s wedding dress and made wedding-day necessities out of that one dress. Rachel’s dad and brother and I had handkerchiefs made from it, the ring bearer’s pillow was covered in it and flower girls’ baskets were lined with material from the dress.

RACHEL

It was all good for my dad and my brothers. It incorporated my mom in ways that people close to us would recognize. Lace from the dress was wrapped around the stems of my bouquet and a small photo of my mom on her wedding day hung above my hands.

WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT YOUR MATE? TIM

I’d call it love at first date. It felt so right from the start and the initial attraction never wore off. She has a wicked sense of humor, a great laugh. Rachel is a true original: beautiful, strong-willed, independent, hilarious and driven. The balance of opening her business while spending time with me showed how much she cared.

RACHEL

I love how he’s adamant about talking things out. I love how he’s always eager to learn new things. I love how he loves my family more than anything. I love/hate how strong-willed he is.

STORY by JANICE DENHAM | PHOTOGRAPHY by JOY LYNN PHOTOGRAPHY

THE DATE: November 17, 2018 THE BRIDE: Rachel Nicole Williams THE GROOM: Tim Robert Betlach THE BRIDE’S PARENTS: Brian K. Williams and the late

Christine A. Williams THE GROOM’S PARENTS: Robert and Nancy Betlach THE CEREMONY AND THE RECEPTION: The Coronado THE OFFICIANT: Richy Doggett THE WEDDING DRESS AND THE BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES:

Mia Grace Bridal THE RINGS: Adler’s Jewelry THE FLOWERS: Floral Design by Kim Derleth THE CAKE: La Bonne Bouchee THE BAND, OTHER ENTERTAINMENT: Jeff Smith with Rockstar DJs THE PHOTOGRAPHER: Joy Lynn Photography THE VIDEOGRAPHER: The Film Perspective THE MEN’S ATTIRE: Jos. A. Bank THE INVITATIONS: Shutterfly THE PLANNERS: Tasha Irving Davis with Butler’s Pantry,

Kim with Floral Design by Kim Derleth, and the bride THE HONEYMOON DESTINATION: “Dreams of Tahiti” cruise with

Windstar, booking with Donna Beck of Cruise Planners THE NEWLYWEDS’ HOME: University City THE HAIR: Katie Wiesehan with House of Rogue Salon,

Columbia, Ill. THE MAKEUP: Jose Deleon Makeup, Chicago, Ill. THE PHOTO BOOTH: 2 Chics and a Photo Booth THE REHEARSAL PARTY LOCATION: Guido’s Pizzeria and Tapas

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GARDEN GLORY A bride who loves pink and purple holds tight to a LAWRENCE FLORIST bouquet of pale Ocean Song roses, stock and wax flowers, all in lavender, plus bursts of Florigene purple carnations. Dusty miller and light stems contrast the color explosion. For a table, individual stems star freeform in a clear glass vase.

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WILD CRESCENT: Greenery is lushly grounded with Italian ruscus, variegated Italian pittosporum, silver dollar and seeded eucalyptus, red-tinged succulents and the wooded fern greens of plumosa.

Below, TROPICAL: Orange pincushion protea, red ginger plumes and orange mini calla lilies add passionate drama to green hydrangea. Monstera leaves and lily grass reach out with bold greenery.

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alling Cory a “big man on campus” only stated the obvious. Kristen started a conversation with the 6-foot 8-inch basketball forward while he was seated at a Halloween party in 2012, early in a season when the Texan stood tall to lead the Saint Louis University Billikens in blocked shots. They texted for a month, hung out again and started dating a month later. When Cory’s professional sports future led him to Germany, they guarded a long-distance relationship for five years. Their future thrived on late-night conversations and summer and winter visits during free time for each. After traveling the world together, Cory chose to propose on a beach, what Kristen called their “happy place.” It was Miramar Beach, Fla., during her family’s vacation photo session. Since the wedding, they both live in France.

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KRISTEN YOUR WEDDING IN A SINGLE WORD?

Magical.

DID YOU PICK A SPECIAL LOCATION FOR PICTURES?

We decided to get our pictures taken at Forest Park. We spend a lot of time in Forest Park in the summer when Cory is home. We love – well, more of a love-hate – to work out on Art Hill and walk or run all around the park.

WHAT WERE WEDDING DETAILS?

Our colors were dusty blue and gray. We wanted to keep the style classic and beautiful – nothing over the top. I loved the muted colors of the bridesmaids’ dresses and in the flowers. About 120 attended.

CORY WHAT SPECIAL SONG WAS YOUR FIRST ‘MR. AND MRS.’ DANCE?

“No One” by Alicia Keys.

TELL ABOUT THE PROPOSAL.

It was on the beach in front of Kristen’s family. Her mom decided at least six months before the trip that everyone would wear white for a photo shoot. Her family knew I planned to propose. They struggled – especially her dad – to keep the secret, but it turned into a great surprise for her.

WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT YOUR NEW HUSBAND/WIFE? CORY

I love her beautiful smile whenever we are goofing around. The way her eyes change colors in different lighting. Her kind heart. The way she looks after and cares for me. Also, how she challenges me and supports me with anything.

KRISTEN

I love how kind-hearted and genuine he is. He could never talk poorly about someone and he looks for the good in everyone. I love how calm and laid back he is, but he is also the most determined and hardworking person. I also love how he makes me laugh all day every day.

RECALL A MOMENT OF SUPER HAPPINESS. CORY

Walking into the reception, we both looked so excited and happy. It was a really cool moment for me to see our friends and family be so happy for us.

KRISTEN

When we walked out of the church together, we were so excited to have just gotten married. It was the most beautiful day outside. Our family and friends surprised us by lining up right outside and waving white streamers. Everyone was all smiles.

STORY by JANICE DENHAM | PHOTOGRAPHY by TROTTER PHOTO

THE DATE: July 21, 2018 THE BRIDE: Kristen Medcalf THE GROOM: Cory Remekun THE BRIDE’S PARENTS: Dave and Patty Medcalf THE GROOM’S PARENTS: Wilson and Valeria Remekun THE CEREMONY: Shrine of St. Joseph THE OFFICIANT: The Rev. Peter Fonseca THE RECEPTION: Statler Ballroom, Marriott St. Louis Grand THE BRIDE‘S & BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Clarice’s Bridal THE RINGS: Diamonds Direct THE FLOWERS: Wolf’s Flower Shop THE CAKE: Icing Cafe THE BAND, OTHER ENTERTAINMENT: Millennium

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Seats of honor RADIANT Glowing with elegance, every seat is a place of distinction, whether it is saved for parent or pal, teacher or neighbor. Gold-on-gold linens, tableware and vintage brooch with accent feather invite guests’ total attention.

Table settings provided by TWISTED LILIES LLC Photography by TROTTER PHOTO

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BLUSHING Navy complements pink and rose gold for romance w it h te x t ure dominat ing t he fanciful scene. Blush pink shell charger and rose gold cutlery reflect a navy runner nestled in a blush pink crush cloth. Down to the last shimmering detail, a starburst holder corrals a sleek napkin beside a blue etched glass.

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STUNNING Tiffany blue and silver spark a relationship of tasteful elegance. Versatile to its core, the timeless combination uses relationships to advantage. Silver rims see-through glassware and generous flourishes on fine china. A clear beaded-rim glass charger and sparkling napkin holder reflect mildmannered opulence.

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This page, A bride’s day of joy starts as she arrives wearing an ALLURE BRIDALS strapless gown with beaded lace appliques adorning net over stretch lining. Its sweetheart neckline in front and semi-open back smoothly transition the slim fit-and-flare gown. Lace panels extend onto the skirt and swing into a chapel train.

Previous page, Rich, soft and lustrous peau de soie gives Pacifica wedding gown by MORI LEE its simply elegant sensuality.

A sheer inset accents a curved V-neck of the sleeveless bridal ball gown with spaghetti straps. Covered buttons extend from a sheer low back onto a box-pleated skirt. Side seam pockets are concealed in cascades flowing from a slim waistband.

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Beaded embroidery and Swarovski crystals trim the edge of the tulle bodice of this vintageinspired MAGGIE SOTTERO Brinkley Lynette design and shine glamorously, first on showy rows of illusion cold-shoulder sleeves and then loop fashionably to trim the V-back. Tiers of chic organza are finished with horsehair to sway along and dance in mermaid style. Crystal buttons cover a zipper closure.

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The marriage of two grapes, Chambourcin and Norton, because when two become one amazing things happen.

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AMY PAKETT

EMILY BORNSTEIN

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esides each other, chocolate and food were two of their favorite things. Soon after meeting in October 2014 at Jewish Federation of St. Louis, their attraction exceeded beyond “coworker.” A first dinner date at Eleven Eleven Mississippi ended with dessert at Baileys’ Chocolate Bar. Guests often shared their cooking adventures. Amid sunflowers on 11/11/16, Amy proposed on a bridge in Lafayette Park. Musicians played the Beatles’ “All You Need Is Love.” Baileys’ opened early for them on the way home, where Emily had prepared an in-house scavenger hunt to lead Amy to her own ring. Rustic and modern elements embellished Jewish traditions: a ceremony under a chuppah, breaking of a glass, kosher feast and dancing amid warm wishes of “mazel tov.” Each danced with her dad to strains of “You’re Just Too Good to Be True.”

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AMY WHAT REINFORCED YOUR LOVE OF EMILY?

There were little things. One day when we were dating, she went into the kitchen, emptied the dishwasher, then she put my laundry away. She always wanted to make little things easier in my life.

HOW DID YOU STYLE YOUR WEDDING?

We wanted it to just feel like us and reflect our style together. The Caramel Room matched the aesthetic of mixed modern and rustic. We were both really involved in the process of achieving our vision of a celebration surrounded by family and friends. Colors were coral and blush with accents of navy and gold. Emily had seven attendants, I had six – a mix of relatives and close friends.

WHAT SYMBOLIZED BOTH PAST AND FUTURE?

At the first point in the ceremony where we drink wine twice from a cup, we used one that Emily’s grandparents used in their wedding. The second was new to bring us into our new marriage.

DID SOMETHING TIP THE SCALE ON FUN?

Bringing in the band from Nashville brought the wedding to life. Having a wedding planner and amazing vendors made the day so special and allowed us to be “present.”

EMILY HOW DID YOU PICK YOUR WEDDING DATE?

We wanted it to be on a holiday weekend so people wouldn’t have to go to work the next day after the Sunday wedding. For good weather, we planned it over Memorial Day. WHAT IS A FAVORITE MEMORY?

Being able to step back and look at all the people who were there for us, who really care about us and shared that with us.

WHERE DID YOU SIT AT THE RECEPTION?

We had a mini version of a farm table made with our signature wedding emblem carved into it and used it as a sweetheart table. Now it is in the entryway of our home. The ketubah, which two close artist friends designed for us and the witnesses to sign at our wedding, hangs above the table.

DID GUESTS TAKE HOME A MEMENTO?

Bissinger’s opened the chocolate shop and we sent 230 people home happy with chocolates.

WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT YOUR NEW WIFE? AMY

I love that Emily goes through life as her authentic self and makes the lives of everyone around her better. She is generous and thoughtful, creative and compassionate.

EMILY

She’s bubbly and brightens up any room with her smile. She cares so much about other people – sometimes too much – and will do anything for her family and friends. She’s passionate about the things she takes on.

STORY by JANICE DENHAM; PHOTO by L PHOTOGRAPHIE

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Lovebirds sing a happy song with the first note of excited information they share among esteemed relatives and friends to keep them in the information loop about the day when they will publicly entwine their lives. A save-the-date with basic facts may or may not reflect the invitation to come, but will hint at their emerging personality. Allowing six months or more for delivering this verse respects the busy lives of prospective guests and allows them time to plan to attend even a far-off wedding. Those paying for the event usually issue invitations reflecting wedding tone but wording may include others responsible for individuals or the match. Responses, made by mail or online, are vital for approximating the number of guests to be seated and fed. After the wedding, life winds down into two-some bliss, but expressing thanks for the memories should be a priority.

Opposite, For their May 2018 wedding, Amy Pakett and Emily Bornstein amplified a professionally designed monogram with their initials intertwined in a hexagon. The personalized prism shaped everything from invitations and place cards on plate chargers to Emily's engagement ring as well as a custom sweetheart table they shared at the reception. They mailed save-the-dates a year prior to the wedding. Letter fonts colored black and gold added whimsy and simplicity to merge styles – Amy's more modern, Emily leaning toward rustic – in color choices of softly blushing pink. With the invitations, they used gold string to attach a card with their gold-printed first names to the RSVP card and envelope and enclosed small squares with email and online RSVP information in a black envelope for easy storage.

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Above, From the outset, Tim Smith and Christianah Akinduro spread warm anticipation of a sunny, tropical wedding in January 2019 among supportive relatives and friends, including those unable to join them in Cancun, Mexico. A save-the-day resembling a luggage tag, with contact information for their travel agent, arrived in 67 mailboxes in April 2018. A "First Class Ticket" invitation enthusiastically reinforced interest in July. Its accompanying RSVP card, built like a smaller luggage tag and due three months before the wedding, alternated response lines for "Yes! Can't wait to feel the sand between my toes" or "Sorry to miss it, will toast from afar." Of 132 invited, 50 guests who attended were welcomed with gifts and a card of welcome outlining a weekend "itinerary."

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Right, Rachel Williams and Tim Betlach reflected the importance of their wedding with glamorous sentimentality, start to finish, in "lots of gold in everything that was in writing with an art deco theme – from menus to seating chart to ceremony handouts," Rachel said. Save-thedate magnets, incorporating blush pink to set a dazzling tone for the in-town wedding, were sent in simple white envelopes six months prior to the wedding. Invitations followed in the same combination of gold and black on blush pink. For their big day, souvenir koozies, flowers and other details picked up floral tones colored a darker “merlot.” A month later, they sent Christmas cards with a photo of the lovely bride and her handsome groom taken on their wedding day in Forest Park.

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After Christianah Akinduro and Tim Smith exchanged vows on Jan. 5, 2019, in Cancun, the bride could not imagine any other way to get married.

lady” proved handy on their first date to Olive Garden Restaurant, now a favorite destination.

Her drive and commitment impressed Tim.

“The moment I knew that I would one day marry Christianah was when I watched her spend time with my mom at our frequent visits

“She was running her own startup company

every week. She would color with her, massage

“I wanted a bohemian, relaxing type of

and going to college. As a confident, strong

her head, do many things, all the while having

wedding – boho-chic,” she said. “At the end of

woman, that attracted me. She also had an

the patience of an angel,” Tim recalled.

the day, it‘s what you actually want and that is

infectious personality that exuded positivity,

what ultimately matters. You are in a fantastic

something I needed in my life.”

location with friends and family, you already

His “sense of humor and his heart”

After many ups and downs of life together, Tim felt free in May 2017 to focus on their future together. Ring in hand for several

have said hello to everyone and you don’t have

captured Christianah, whose was 7 years old

months, he scuttled a plan to propose on a trip

to miss eating your own cake which, at our

when her family moved to the United States

to Napa, Calif., when their “dream home” in

wedding, was gluten-free.”

from Nigeria. “His mom had early onset

Oakville became theirs.

It took more than eight years to find a

dementia, so when we first dated, he put his

“I was cooking bacon, so grease was

landing pad for their big day. Mutual friends,

mom as his first priority. To be there for his

all over my shirt, and I wore a head wrap,”

Christianah’s trainer and her boyfriend, first

mom was very admirable. I thought this man

Christianah said of her looks at his sudden

introduced them at a soccer game where

would be a great friend, judging the love and

surprise. Tim added, “She was a mess of tears

Tim was playing. On a double-date later,

compassion he showed.” Mary Lou Smith

twice,” once for the proposal and secondly for

they finally noticed each other. Gift cards

passed in 2013 after the couple had spent

their new home.

his grandfather gave him to use “on a special

many loving hours with her.

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and far away from St. Louis, where I have lived my entire life.”

Recommended by a trusted friend, Mike Schellhase and Travel Haus of St. Louis steered their course. Mexico's beautiful sites and minimal three-hour flight won their favor. All-inclusive and luxurious, Royalton Riviera Cancun Resort and Spa appealed to families as well as adults-only guests, some of whom extended a three-day stay into a week of tropical vacation.

Mike provided more than guidance and arrangements. He guided Christianah in computing cost comparisons between a hometown wedding and a far-off destination for 50 special guests for her doubting parents, who lived in Nashville, Tenn. Her parents' desire to return to the location proved their success.

The bride chose mauve, navy, soft cream and plush pink to flatter her six attendants and a junior bridesmaid, Tim’s niece.

“Although you work by email, you have two people instead of one working to get things done,” Christianah explained.

Their planner was in Canada and onsite coordinator lived in Cancun. It is a mindset, she said. “You look at flowers, other things you choose. They take control of things to get it done.

We worked back and forth, always asking after proofing and review if the decision was final.”

The bride and a friend, Lori Austin, designed and created save-the-dates, invitations, RSVPs, welcome bag cards and more. Special people, including those unlikely to attend, received invitations by mail. “We still wanted them to know we loved them and appreciated their support in our lives,” the groom said. Attendees earned weekly Facebook updates.

Private transportation, planned by Travel Haus, whisked guests from airport to resort. The couple settled in with six suitcases a few days early. The wedding party carried silk bouquets and came to the bride or groom’s room before the wedding to relax, not get caught up in details. Christianah said, “The bridesmaids were shocked at how relaxed the day was. No one had to do any running around. Spending time together like that, you just build relationships.”

They were married in an “artsy” Sky Terrace gazebo, had cocktails near the beach and the reception was on a private rooftop where they saw only sky and surf.

“Learning and appreciating different cultures is important to us, especially since Christianah was born in Nigeria,” Tim noted. A mariachi band entertained at the rehearsal party on the beach and Mexican DJs led the reception party.

Personalizing maracas for guests, a Mexican artist added two butterflies, representing faith and power, and flags from the United States and Nigeria. The bride and her mother danced to a native Nigerian song which thanks a mother for molding a child into the person she has become.

Tim surprised his bride at the reception with news that they would extend their trip with a week in Costa Rica.

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Determining a destination Mike Schellhase, owner of Travel Haus of St. Louis

Questions abound over what to expect and anticipate when considering a faraway place for your wedding. Here are a few answers.

Q. What does a travel agent bring to planning a destination wedding?

A. Daily relationships with all the wedding planners, resorts and destinations let us work directly to take care of timing and details.

The value of those relationships can make things happen, even while operating in different cultures. We take the concern out of your worries.

Q. Where are today’s prime destinations from the Midwest?

A. It is best to set sight on a plan 11 to 14 months before the date, especially in the busiest months of October (tops), September and May. 1. Mexico, by far, leads the lineup. The Yucatan region of Quintana Roo, Cancun and Riviera Maya are first, and Puerto Vallarta and Cabo follow.

2. Jamaica.

3. Punta Cana, Dominican Republic.

Q. What should a couple have in hand when asking for advice and inspiration?

A. All these help a travel pro offer appropriate options.

1. About how many will go? Will children attend? This helps match you with a destination and resort.

2. Do you want your ceremony to be symbolic (highest percentage, with legal ceremony in United States) or civil (married under the law of the destination country)? Some resorts have Catholic chapels, but local law prevails, so a couple may need to arrive several days before an actual civil wedding. In Mexico, both the prospective bride and groom need a blood test on the property in advance and any divorce decree must be translated into Spanish and in-hand 30 days before the wedding.

3. What fits you best? Plan like just the two of you are going on vacation. Worry about everyone who will or will not attend lowers the quality of the bridal couple’s experience.

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uthie’s profile on a dating website intrigued Patrick, a native St. Louisan. The newcomer from the Philippines came to the United Stations knowing only her family. With college degrees and work ethic established for both, he wanted to investigate her adventurous heart. They met and ate at an outdoor café in Kirkwood Plaza. Feeling matched in personalities, Patrick introduced Ruthie to his mother a week later. Falling in “unexpected love,” they quickly gravitated toward marriage and skipped a formal proposal. They treasured a simple lifestyle, so being married in her aunt’s home measured up for a ceremony on an elevated hearth, dinner prepared by cousin-chefs and relaxed evening surrounded by family. Each read vows he or she had written and relatives alternated readings, including a blessing written by Ruthie’s father in the Philippines.

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RUTHIE DID THE WEDDING SITE HOLD SPECIAL MEANING?

We held it in the home of my Aunt Rowena and her husband, Dennis. That house is amazing and she likes to host a party. We love it there. Our goal was to have a simple but remarkable wedding. We only had 45 guests, so it was what we wanted and we were so happy. Other relatives have been married there, too, so it is almost a tradition. My cousin, Kris, started the ceremony. Both families participated.

HOW DID YOU SELECT DETAILS?

We were married in the “red room” of my aunt’s house, so that provided the decoration. I already had chosen a wedding dress, but five days before the wedding, I saw this amazing one with a train hanging in a store. It fit perfectly in my size. It was more amazing than my previous one. An aunt offered to buy it, so I switched from red to silver shoes and Patrick wore a silver tie instead of a red one. I selected three white roses, three in light purple and some greenery for my bouquet.

PATRICK WHOSE PRESENCE MADE YOUR WEDDING DAY COMPLETE?

My grandfather, Robert Durbin. We call him “Bobo.” He is not in good health, so it took a lot of effort for him to attend and he delivered a heartfelt speech. A total of five grandparents from my side attended.

YOUR WEDDING IN A SINGLE WORD?

Simple.

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE MEMORY? RUTHIE

When I was walking down the hallway towards him, I saw him with teary eyes and by that time I felt so special because it is so rare to see Patrick being emotional.

PATRICK

All of us – my family and Ruthie’s family—standing around the kitchen sunroom immediately following the ceremony. We listened to my grandpa, my dad and Ruthie’s uncle each give a speech about that day.

WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT YOUR NEW HUSBAND/WIFE? RUTHIE

I love being around him. With his presence alone, there is nothing that I could ask for more. I love it how he makes me happy without putting out too much effort.

We do pretty much everything together.

PATRICK

I love how silly she is but also how much she cares about others. She is so sincere to everybody that she meets. Her selflessness is something that is so rare in today’s world. I love her cooking. I love hanging out with her just at home. We are content being together, just the two of us, on a Friday night.

STORY by JANICE DENHAM | PHOTOS by FAMILY and FRIENDS

THE DATE: February 23, 2019 THE BRIDE: Ruthie Rae Reyes THE GROOM: Patrick Jon Sanner THE BRIDE’S PARENTS: Raymundo Reyes and the late

Ruth Reyes THE GROOM‘S PARENTS: Mary Sanner and Jon and

Karen Sanner THE CEREMONY AND THE RECEPTION: Residence of

Rowena and Dennis Bennett THE OFFICIANT: Kristoffer Simpson THE WEDDING DRESS: Windsor Fashion and Clothing THE RINGS: The Modern Bride THE FLOWERS AND THE INVITATIONS: Designed by the bride THE CAKE: Brittany Pellegrino THE FOOD: Brittany and Kevin Pellegrino THE PLANNERS: Rowena Bennett and Rossini Almira THE HONEYMOON DESTINATION: Philippines in early summer THE NEWLYWEDS’ HOME: Creve Coeur THE REHEARSAL PARTY: Bennett residence

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The Secret to Great Wedding Photography - Trotter Photo The secret to great wedding photography is just the right combination of both inspiration and

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Our experience allows us to take the stress out of

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the unknowns involved in wedding planning. We

says Josie Stone, owner of Trotter Photo.

use in person meetings, engagement sessions, and

“It’s such a special moment that makes

continued communications to learn more about

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5 foolproof ways to ensure a stress-free wedding Cedar Lake Cellars transforms every single wedding into an extraordinary experience. Our year-round winery and event venue – situated on more than 380 scenic acres – offer quality service and reliable excellence to our guests and their loved ones.

As one of the area’s top-rated wedding venues, we at Cedar Lake Cellars would like to share some sure-fire tips to guarantee a day of happiness, as well your happily-ever-after.

CREATE A SHOT LIST Don’t miss a picture-perfect opportunity throughout your magical day. Our advice: Compile a list in advance of all shots you would like taken by your photographer. Include the faces and the places (for us it would include our beautiful lakes, luscious vineyard and landmark Big Red Barn, to name a few) you need captured at your dream wedding.

ENLIST A COORDINATOR No need to get frazzled at your once-in-alifetime nuptials. By enlisting a day-of coordinator, you can enjoy your wedded bliss without a care in the world. Other venues may provide some type of assistance, but we go one step further than the rest – thanks to our professional in-house expertise in all things wedding. We allow you to breathe in the moment while we handle all the nitty-gritty details.

PREPARE A SURVIVAL BAG Safety pins? Check. ... Tweezers? Got them.

Every bride needs a survival bag for all last-minute

tasks, particularly when it comes to bustling your wedding dress. There is no such thing as being over-prepared for that special day. Our wedding coordinators have a complete list of essentials they are ready to share with you.

BREAK IN YOUR HEELS Comfort is key when it comes to your bridal shoes. Break in your heels before your day in the spotlight so you can stroll down the aisle, stand at your ceremony and dance for the very first time as a married couple. We guarantee this one small pre-wedding tip will allow you to create blister-free memories.

FOCUS ON YOUR DAY (and Forget the Details) You picked your venue. You’ve got your music. All vendors – ranging from the florist to the bakery – are in the bag. Yet, you are focusing on silly mishaps that are out of your control because a bridesmaid may forget her shoes or a groomsman may give a less-than-stellar toast. Forget about all those little flaws. Remember you are celebrating this special occasion with your dearly beloved plus your adoring family and friends.

A wedding should be a seamless experience.

With the help of experts like those at Cedar Lake Cellars, you will definitely enjoy your most joyful celebration.

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‘We Do’ Weddings!

At Complete Weddings + Events, we pride ourselves on taking care of all the details for your special day. We are specialists who make certain your entire wedding process is perfect from the moment you say “yes” to assuring that you and your guests have a blast at the reception, then remember the day forever with pictures and video. We have you covered!

Complete Weddings + Events has helped clients in St. Louis and surrounding areas with weddings, mitzvahs, school dances and company parties for more than 30 years! The staff’s personal attention has customized service to more than 2,000 events annually, gathering countless awards.

“From the moment we connect with a couple, our goal is to determine the vision for their special day and perfectly tailor fit our packages to meet or exceed that vision. We offer options within each service to line up with a variety of budgets to further help make planning their wedding with us simple and affordable,” says Scott Bernstein, operations director.

Complete is unique. We offer DJs with broad experience, expert photography, highquality videography, a photo booth that delights celebrants and guests, and lighting/ design services under one convenient roof. This simplified process brings together top-notch professionals who specialize in their respective areas. A bride or groom only needs to call one person and take care of five vital pieces of their wedding day.

The ease and convenience offered to a client with only one point of contact at Complete Weddings + Events is complemented by bundling services that offer advantageous package pricing and discounts. These can save a bride and groom several thousand dollars and keep the bridal budget on track. Engaging a photographer, videographer, DJ and photo booth – plus lighting to transform the venue with your theme vision – falls in the competitive price range of a photographer alone.

Complete first was known for providing music, but the gradual addition of other specialties has transformed the company into an event team which untangles details and visions and sets them straight on the path to a successful occasion. A smoothly run event flows with experience and insight.

For instance, a DJ must know how to step up as master of ceremonies, but deliberately pace the flow with ideas, introductions and directions while reacting to the crowd and its star couple. It starts with personal interest in the bride and groom’s wedding vision, which we try to implement from our first meeting.

Stop by our office in Creve Coeur or contact Complete today by phone or through our website to discover why this is the nation’s largest and most requested, locally owned, wedding and event service company.

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How to select the groom’s attire The groom’s choice of formalwear is as much a once-in-a-lifetime experience as the bride’s search for the perfect wedding gown. After all, the groom’s attire is not your basic everyday outfit. When it’s time to “dress up” for the wedding, most grooms are at a loss. The process, however, does not have to be difficult. Grooms have a wider selection than ever and include wedding suits in slim, modern or regular fit in sizes 3 to 70. Savvi Formalwear offers a free groom’s try-on to give you confidence in selecting wedding attire by seeing what looks best on the groom before you place an order.

Today’s groom may opt for a wedding tuxedo, then change to a reception coat to make his own fashion statement. Coats are available in bright colors, plaids, checks and paisleys for variety and fun on his wedding day.

When selecting your formalwear specialist, it’s important to choose one that stocks tuxedos and suits locally. You want a formalwear specialist who can handle your wedding party’s last-minute changes. If your best man’s tuxedo is too small, it is next to impossible to get a replacement from halfway across the country on a Friday afternoon.

With local inventory at its centrally located warehouse at 6185 Delmar Boulevard in the University City Loop, Savvi Formalwear can quickly fix any problems without shipping something from out-of-town. Since men often delay trying on their tuxedo until the last minute, a local tuxedo company also can replace a coat or trousers within hours rather than days.

Encourage all men in your wedding party to try on their attire early and make sure everything fits so they – and you – can relax and enjoy all the

festivities as best-dressed hosts and guests!

The level of formality, color and styling of the men’s attire should follow the stylistic lead set by the bridal gown. Once upon a time, grooms were bound by strict etiquette when it came to their formalwear. The rule was cutaways in the daytime, and white tie – black tails accessorized with white pique vest, shirt and tie – after 6 p.m. While tradition certainly has earned its well-deserved place, don’t feel bound by any regulations as you decide on wedding formalwear. Feel empowered to follow your heart and select the style that speaks to your personality as a couple, while still coordinating the formality of the bride’s gown with the groom’s wedding attire.

In fact, most couples choose to have a contemporary formal wedding and add their own unique touches. Brides coordinate the groomsmen’s tie and pocket square color with the bridesmaid’s dresses. Popular single-breasted tuxedos are available in black, tan, blue and several shades of gray in super fabrics, with a softer hand. You can also find slim-fit tuxedos and wedding suits, flat-front pants and fitted tuxedo shirts for the fashion-conscious groom.

The traditional formal shirt is pleated and available in laydown and wing collar, but a more contemporary look in formal shirts is also available without pleats.

Formal shoes are a must. Black patent, black matte, brown or cognac formal shoes all look great.

You can rent a pair with your tuxedo and ensure that the entire wedding party matches for that picture-perfect wedding!

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Old school ambience in historic Soulard EARLY HISTORY

renovated into a banquet space in 1982.

The Franklin Dramatic Club was founded in

Thankfully, the architectural integrity

1871 as a means of bringing the men of Saints

of this Victorian era space was lovingly

Peter and Paul Parish Together. The group per-

preserved, and The Franklin Room was

formed plays in the old parish hall which was

opened for business.

built in 1871. By 1900 The Franklin Players were a well known thespian organization in Saint

NEW OWNERS

Louis. The new parish hall, also known as Goller

Chef Doug Swaney purchased the Franklin

Hall, was named after Monsignor Goller and

Room in 2010. He and his wife Michele love the

built in 1905. The Franklin Players Continued

history, beauty and character of the room. Chef

to perform there into the 1950’s. There is still

Swaney has modernized the kitchen, the menus

a large bust of Benjamin Franklin presiding over

and the style of service, while keeping the histori-

the stage.

cal and architectural aspects of the room intact.

The Swaneys are dedicated professionals who

TRANSFORMATION

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From the 1950’s to the 1980’s, Goller Hall was used for various group activities until it was

forward to meeting you and helping create your perfect event.

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Guests use their hearts and bubbles to celebrate the past merging into the future at the wedding June 2, 2018, of Kendall James and Timothy Beavers at the Carriage House of Fox Run Golf Club in Eureka.

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