OND October B 2014 Vol 68 No 17

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VOL. 68, NO. 17

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OCTOBER 22, 2014

Congress crowns year of celebration Grace-filled weekend defines and celebrates the gift of marriage

KEYNOTE PRESENTATIONS:

By Katrina Genereux Staff Writer, OND CROOKSTON, MINN. - God’s grace and mercy poured into the Crookston Inn and Convention Center on Oct. 3-5. The Marriage Congress was truly the culmination of the Diocese of Crookston’s Year of Marriage. The event consisted of speakers and experiences meant to celebrate and add to people’s understanding of the Sacrament of Marriage, no matter their state in life. As participants gathered and mingled in the ballroom, Clara and Con Dietz of St. Lawrence, Mentor, were reading married Saint biographies. When asked why they chose to come, Con said, “We want to enrich our marriage. It is something we always work at.” Summer residents at Maple Lake, the Dietzs usually live in Arizona for seven months of the year. They stayed until October this year just to attend the Marriage Congress. At 7 p.m. on Friday, Oct. 3, the Congress officially started with the enthronement of the Holy Family Icon in the ballroom at the Crookston Inn and Convention Center. Bishop Michael Hoeppner processed the icon to its place of honor on a candle-lit stand at the front of the room. He then asked for the intercession of the Holy Family and blessing upon the Marriage Congress. After the enthronement and Bishop’s welcome, Fr. Robert Schreiner, the weekend’s Master of Ceremonies, welcomed everyone gathered for the beginning of the Congress. He then introduced and invited Danielle Rose to the stage to deliver her keynote address entitled: May Our Marriage be a Monstrance. Danielle, in turn, introduced her husband, Mitchell Hesley, and their less-than-four-week-old infant daughter, Agnes. Danielle, with the help of Mitchell and Agnes, shared the story of her journey to the Sacrament of Marriage with Mitchell on April 6, 2013. She illustrated her story by sharing her music. “God wants to use the gift of every marriage to enthrone His presence in the world and in the church,” she said. “A monstrance can be ornate or filled with jewels or tiny or huge, but it exists to display and make Jesus present. Marriage has the capacity to do that. Jesus can use us and use our marriage to make Himself, the reality of His presence, of His love, tangible to someone who doesn’t know His love. Marriage has the capacity to be like a perpetual adoration chapel walking around the world so that wherever we are, people could encounter Jesus by seeing the way we love and serve one another.” Danielle continued, “If we, in the vocation of marriage, love each other for our own sake … that love will fall short very quickly. Each one of us … can’t claim to love perfectly or be worthy of perfect love from our spouse. We live out our vows in marriage not only to honor our spouse … but we live out our vows to be able to be a gift to Christ himself because as we live out our marriage and as we serve our spouse, that is the way we are actually loving and serving Christ Himself.” Jacqueline Thomas of Sacred Heart, East Grand Forks, said her favorite part of the Congress was “… The exchange between Mitchell and Danielle. That’s the best talk I’ve seen. The words didn’t matter; their love was visible.” On Saturday morning, Amanda Zurface, Coordinator of Justice, Marriage & Family Life for the Diocese of Crookston, introduced Fr. Thomas J. Loya and welcomed him forward to deliver his keynote address entitled: Marriage: the Primordial Sacrament. Fr. Loya is one of the founders of the

DANIELLE ROSE

MAY OUR MARRIAGE BE A MONSTRANCE “The monstrance exists to have an empty space in its middle, all of the beauty around it exists to have this empty space in the middle … It exists to empty itself out to make a space for the Lord to be present and that’s what marriage is too.” We exist in the Sacrament of Marriage to empty ourselves out completely for one another so that Jesus can be made visible, so that His love and His presence can be made known. “Marriage has the capacity to be like a perpetual adoration chapel walking around the world so that wherever we are, people could encounter Jesus by seeing the way we love and serve one another.”

FR. THOMAS J. LOYA

MARRIAGE: THE PRIMORDIAL SACRAMENT

“We need to understand what ‘Catholic’ is to understand what marriage is. … Catholic is not a religion. Catholic is about the invisible, inexplicable, ineffable, immeasurable, infinite God who becomes expressible through the visible. … Catholic is about seeing that. We offer ourselves back to God in praise and thanksgiving at the Mass. Only humans do this. When we are at Mass and at the Eucharist, it is the most human moment of our lives. “The first commandment was for a couple to be married; God told Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply. The Bible begins with nuptials and ends with the Wedding Feast of the Lamb. Marriage was the first commandment and the primordial sacrament. More than one can only become one because of how we are made … because we are male and female.”

DAVID RINALDI

KEEPING YOUR KIDS CATHOLIC

“When we were baptized, when our kids were baptized, they received the Holy Spirit, but God doesn’t possess our body in a way that he takes over and makes us do holy things. … The Holy Spirit is a gift and our kids have this gift, but unless they cooperate with that gift, … the spirit is tied up. Our job as parents and grandparents is to help our kids cooperate with the Holy Spirit so that the Holy Spirit isn’t tied up within them but that the Holy Spirit is free to help them … act like the men and women they were created to be.” Going to Mass, receiving the sacraments and daily family prayer are some of the keys to helping our kids make this happen.

CONGRESS: Continued on Page 3

INSIDE

VOL. 68, NO. 17:

Pg. 3 - Marriage Congress Event Summary Pg. 4 - Diocesan Catechetical Task Force Coverage Pg. 5 - Pilgrimage to Holy Family Icon at the Cathedral

Pg. 8/9 - Marriage Congress Photo Spread Pg. 13 - National Vocations Awareness Info Pg. 16 - Prayer and Scripture Calendars for Nov.


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