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Progress with a purpose By Stephanie Carlson Curtis Current in Carmel
Pictured, clockwise from top right, are, an endangered historical home in Carmel, two historical homes dressed up for the holidays, the Peeler home on Main Street, the 1872 home converted to Simply Sweet Shoppe and Second Story Playhouse, a Bed and Breakfast in the historic district, the first homestead in Carmel and one of the city’s historic homes undergoing renovation.
Out with the old and in with the new. This seems to be the theme developing in Carmel’s Historic Old Town. As turn-of-the-century homes and vacant structures are demolished to make way for new construction, preservationists are building a movement to advocate protection of historic properties. “With all the new development projects that have been proposed that might threaten the integrity of residential old town, preservation is obviously needed,” said Tom Rumer, historian with the Carmel Clay Historical Society. According to Rumer, recent unlawful demolitions and homes in danger of being destroyed prompted the concept of creating a preservation commission. The historical society hired Ball State’s Center for Historic Preservation to update a decade old survey. The new study designates more than 200 structures as contributing to the character of Old Town. The neighborhoods encompass an area bordered by 136th Street to the north, 4th Street to the south and spans for several blocks to the east and west of Rangeline Road. According to Carol Schleif, a member of the historical society, 86 percent of residential Old Town is eligible to be on the map of character contributing landmarks. Contributing landmarks must be a minimum of 50-years old. “We are looking at the possibility of creating a local historic district,” said Schleif, who holds a masters degree in architecture with an emphasis on historic preservation. “There has been frustration in the community with new things that don’t fit into the area and are non-contributing in nature.” The process of designating Old Town as a historic district is on track, and Rumer hopes parcel owners will support a preservation commission to protect homes built in the late-1800s and early-1900s. Rumer referred to the Peeler house, a historic cottage surrounded by construction, as an important link to our city’s past. The Quaker homeowner, Elizabeth Peeler, was instrumental in naming Carmel. “This is a grassroots kind of thing. It has to grow up out of Old Town with our guidance as a tool that owners can use to safeguard their properties,” said Rumer. “Neighbors can create their own guidelines and standards as a group. They can decide how far they want to go and what they want to regulate.” Steve Schutz, President of Builders Inc., who has been involved in Old Town developments and has restored two homes along Rangeline Road, agrees with a commission that preserves homes that are worth saving. “If a property owner has no financial ability to repair a house and it becomes dilapidated or has asbestos issues, there are health and safety concerns,” he said. Restoring old homes can present challenges as the three owners of Simply Sweet Shoppe and Second Story Playhouse found when they converted a home built in1872 to a candy store. “The wiring was so old there were burns on the inside of the walls. It would have eventually caught fire,” said Jill Zaniker. “We were excited to do our part to preserve the historical aspects of the Carmel Arts and Design District.” Zaniker welcomes the formation of a preservation alliance if it will benefit area residents and businesses. Planners envision that the commission would be comprised of professionals experienced in historic preservation, would host workshops to educate parcel owners and provide guidance for adding on or modify structures. The commission would create a petition with the input of area residents and file for an ordinance that would allow the alliance to operate in a professional manner. “We find that designated historic districts increase property values, increase occupancy rates, enhance the character of area and promote tourism,” said Schleif. “Protecting the architectural heritage gives residents a chance to recreate a lifestyle like people had 100 years ago where families lived in quaint villages and could walk everywhere. Carmel’s Old Town is a view to the past.” Stephanie Curtis is a freelance writer and photographer. If you have a story idea, please contact her at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Carmel Preservation Alliance Public Meeting 7-9 p.m. Dec. 10 Carmel Christian Church (Across from Carmel High School on E. Main) Carmel and Old Town residents are invited to learn more and offer input.
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OUR TAKES It is our position that American citizens should read and understand the constitutions of the United States and Indiana. We all can use a refresher course on what the founding fathers intended for the generations that followed the launch of this nation. Continuing this week, we are running an excerpt from an article of the U.S. Constitution. Today, we offer Article II, Section 1: “The President shall, at stated Times, receive for his Services, a
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It is our position that our culture needs a refresher course on the reason for the season. As most of us know, the holidays should be a season of caring for others. That most simple fact was forgotten over Thanksgiving weekend in New York, as the world watched when a WalMart worker was trampled to his death by eager shoppers trying to be among the first early-birds to enter the store. What was their desired pursuit? While the demeanor of the crowd resembled the bread lines in the Russian Revolution of the Bolsheviks, the members of this Wal-Mart mob forgot that they were not standing in line to avoid
winter starvation. Their objective was the opportunity to potentially find a great deal on a flat screen TV, or perhaps a Wii electronic game system, or even Tonka Truck set. How can death be the result? Perhaps a revised definition of holiday giving could be considered. In these difficult economic times, the gift list might include helping an elderly neighbor to decorate for Christmas or to shovel snow. Couldn’t it be a gift to allow a fellow shopper the opportunity to take the last must-have toy on the shelf to make their child’s Christmas? Now that’s a gift worth giving.
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eople regularly defend bad The system is unfair, they rail. I grew up behavior – on all fronts. They shoulder-to-shoulder with my own poor defend dads (and moms) who white trash cousins. They sold dope and abandon their children. They subsequently have been in and out of defend those who jail. With my parents behind are dishonest and disloyal in me, I worked hard, found a every imaginable way. Maybe way, went to school and got we don’t know the circumthe heck away from those stances. Maybe there was more folks. Some of them respect to the story. Sure, and maybe me for it. Others hate me for cows talk about us behind our the same. At the end of the backs. It reminds me of the day, I don’t feel any obligayoung naturist killed a few tion or ownership whatsoever years ago by grizzly bears. He for their bad actions. Does refused to believe the warnings that make me unsympathetic, of those more experienced in pathetic or both? Do we feel the wild than he. Until he saw blessed to have the life that we the “bad” action himself, he do or guilty because of it? For Terry believed it untrue. The death me, I cling to my family and and consumption of both he my God. Shouldn’t we spend Anker and his girlfriend will hopeour energy defending those fully prove to be cautionary to others. As who are trying to do right rather than a rule of thumb, if one cannot be trusted excusing those who have most certainly by those to whom they have pledged loy- done wrong? alty, does it make sense to think that they Terry Anker is an associate editor of Current could be trusted by anyone else? in Carmel. You may e-mail him at terry@curToday, we regularly support thieves rentincarmel.com. and drug users. Because of this or that they should not be held accountable.
Back in the day, it almost was romantic for musicians to record songs about their automotive favorites. Chief among those efforts were gems such as “Little Deuce Coupe” and “409.” The Beach Boys handled those with a driving sort of cool that transcended concert venues, leading streams of buyers into car dealerships. Can you imagine - we can’t; we tried, but we can’t - any musical act these days throwing its total weight behind any domestic auto? Really. John Mellencamp came up with a commercial (literally) success with “Our Country,” a nice melody and decent lyrics, but it was tied to General Motors (motion-sickness bag, please). • • • As for GM’s grand plan, we’re convinced that in the end the dinosaur of the industry will be unable to compete in the marketplace. Period. Its management, board of directors and union do not care about the customer, and that was the culture 30 years ago, the antecedent to its doom. The right thing to do is to let the company go belly-up, file for bankruptcy protection and have it restyle itself as a customercentric, high-quality, union-less titan of
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I agree with Jodi Kuchar I very much agree with the comments made by Jody Kuchar in the Dec. 2 issue of Current in Carmel. I find your sarcasm annoying, negative and not very productive. I keep reading you paper thanks to great contributors that you have, like Danielle Wilson. Why don’t you two learn from her?
Her writing is hilarious and funny. Irreverent, yes, but always pleasant. She is able to get to her point with humor in a gracious way. You often seem too bitter! As President elect Barack Obama would say: “You can disagree without being disagreeable”!
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domestic automotive change. As we suggested last month, the foreign automakers’ hold on quality in the marketplace is now all but a stranglehold. America deserves better. • • • Here’s a “didja”: Did you know a Christmas tree cost less last year than the same style and size of tree in 1980? Stunning, but true. Seems the tree farmers up yonder had to compete with the fakefir industry. So that sticky, needle-dropping pine you bought in 1980 for $25 went last year for $22. • • • Is it just us, or do you find that you, too, are treated like an “intruder” when you go into a big-box store looking for pre-purchase answers? Service with a smile? Yeah, right.
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he most overused and underemand meet the needs of citizens. ployed word of 2008 has to be Attempts by business, government and “transparency.” individuals to enact transparency are often The use of the word has been laughable. It seems sometimes that as long picking up steam over the past as the word “transparency” appears in some few years and likely increased company’s annual report or in a rapidly as a result of the politician’s speech that a higher accounting scandals and level of accountability to stakesubsequent passage of the holders has been achieved. In Sarbanes-Oxley Act of 2002. some cases, efforts as transparency With corporate malfeasance, often are actually covert. Financial economic challenges and the statements so long and filled with presidential election filling the jargon that no consumer could evening news this year, use of ever use them to determine a this word has taken on a new company’s financial status is often level. But the use of the word exactly what the authors intended. is so highly overused, people The intent of all of these uses of are tuning it out. transparency is noble and necesCompanies are trying to sary. And there is nothing wrong Sue be more transparent so that with providing more information, Finkam potential investors better unallowing consumers to make a derstand financial statements more-informed choice. Being and want to invest. Healthcare is trying to more transparent in action provides a founbe more transparent so patients can comdation for trust, which is the basis for every pare price and quality of service to make successful relationship, business or personal. an informed choice as to where they seek What do you think? Can we still aspire care. Higher education is working to be to transparency, or is it just rhetoric? more transparent and accountable so parSue Finkam is interested in making a difference ents have reliable information from which in the community through healthy conversathey can compare institutions. Taxpayers tion. You can participate in the conversation want transparency from government so as by posting a comment on her blog at www. to ensure they understand how tax dollars youarecurrent.com. are used to fund projects, provide services
DISPATCHES Monon Center Customer Appreciation Week - The Monon Center at Carmel’s Central Park (111th and Range Line Rd.) is hosting a week full of fun activities all this week (Dec. 8-13) during normal business hours 5 a.m. - 10 p.m. Monday - Friday, and 7 a.m. - 8 p.m. Saturday. There will be tables throughout the Center with goodies spotlighting all the facilities activities. The fitness table will feature “Ask a Trainer” daily 8:30-10:30 a.m. and 5:307:30 p.m., and Saturday 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Visitors may ask anything fitness related. For further information on any of the Center’s activities, call 317-848-7275.
House Decorating Contest - To enter the Carmel Parks Department’s holiday house decorating contest, complete the contest form at www.carmelclayparks.com. The home must be located within Clay Township of Hamilton County. The awards will be announced Dec. 17 at 7:30 p.m.
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am the daughter of a life-long gun is next, followed by muzzle loader. Democrat who started out with the If there are any deer left in January after Peace Corps and went on to become a second archery season, they get to live a public defender. I married the son so they can have babies and produce next of a staunch Republican who joined fall’s crop of targets. Added onto the days the Marines before going into actually hunting, you need at banking law. Needless to say, least two to three to set up tree we grew up in somewhat difstands at strategic locations ferent political environments. and another couple to fire your Another key difference between rifles and perfect your aim. Let’s our fathers is the desire to hunt. not forget a morning at Gander My dad gags when he has to Mountain to buy a new comchange a dirty diaper and gets pass or those insulated boots queasy over a paper cut, while you’ve had your eyes on. my father-in-law positively glows Alright, I’ll admit, I’m a little when he’s slicing open Bambie’s bitter. I’ve even thought about mom and watching her guts spill joining my husband’s posse to out over the ground. see what all the fuss is about. My husband isn’t quite as But I’ve got too much of my Danielle conservative as his father, (with dad in me to want to kill anyWilson his vote for Barack Obama, thing, I loathe the cold, and I my liberal indoctrination is don’t relish the thought of swillalmost complete), but, unfortunately, he ing whiskey in a cabin over beer nuts and did inherit his love of hunting. So every fart jokes. November with the opening of deer So what’s a poor defenseless wife to do? season, I’m stuck at home with four kids I can’t say no. He loves hunting too much while he’s off trying to procure meat for for me to take it away. And I suppose he the coming winter. What-ever. He just is helping to manage the deer population wants to have an excuse to drink beer with in Indiana, which in turn keeps predators his brothers/friends/dad and play with at bay and car accidents down. I just pray shot guns and Bowie knives. each year that he’ll meet his quota quickly And that’s fine. I get it. Though I can’t - kill a buck on his first morning out, folpossibly fathom how sitting in a tree stand lowed by a doe that evening - and not for five hours in the sleet and rain is enjoy- shoot himself or a friend anywhere vital. able, I understand the need to get away I’m also secretly glad that with age, the from the parent action and reconnect with early mornings in freezing temperatures the home team. I myself would prefer are becoming less and less appealing to a lovely spa in Tempe, but to each his him. own. And if it were just one or even two If all else fails, I can hope that our weekends a year, I’d be thrilled to wash his children, the girls included, will inherit camouflage thermal underwear and safety- the hunting bug, just as my husband did. orange knit cap. Hell, I’d even buy the Then Daddy can spend quality time with beef jerky and case of Bud Light. But that’s his little shooters every November while the problem with hunting. It’s never just a I’m off getting that desert facial. Peace out. couple of Saturdays. Danielle Wilson is a Carmel resident and conOctober is bow season, which means tributing columnist. You may e-mail her at you can relive your childhood fantasy and email@example.com. hunt deer with a bow and arrows. Shot-
Nothing appealing about hunting
DISPATCHES St.Vincent Opens New Immediate Care Center - On Dec. 6, St.Vincent Physician Network opened its Immediate Care Center at 10801 N. Michigan Road in Zionsville. The new Immediate Care Center will be staffed by board-certified family medicine physicians who care for both adult and pediatric patients. The primary care office is conveniently located for patients from Boone, Hamilton, Hendricks and northwest Marion counties. Walk-in appointments are accepted, and the office will have extended hours Monday-Friday from 5-9 p.m.; weekends from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.; and 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. on every holiday except Christmas.
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of alleged child abuse or neglect. Located in an old-fashioned, Carmel Maple Glen Elementary School teacher farmhouse - decorated inside with chilAngela Alexander has taught third-grade dren’s colorful handprints on the wall and for three years. a bookshelf of clothed Build A Bears - the She understands not all teaching and center aims to reduce the trauma to chillearning is done in the Westfield classdren who visit. room. As a result, she recently took 83 Chaucie’s Place’s mission is to improve Maple Glen third-graders to the “Build A the quality of evidence gathered to quickly Bear” store at the Castleton Mall. and efficiently resolve cases through the The field trip was use of a multifor each student disciplinary team to build a bear and certified and donate it to forensic interviewthe Carmel-based ers. Thousands Chaucie’s Place. of forensic inter“They each had views have been $20 to build a bear, McKenna Janes, Megan Wampler, Hannah conducted at so that was a math/ Rasnake, Annalise Snyder Chaucie’s Place. economic lesson. Including the They donated the bears, so they learned Indiana Department of Child Services, public service and how important it is to Chaucie’s Place multi-disciplinary team benefit other children” says Alexander, includes 10 Hamilton County law-enforceadding her students have also completed ment agencies, as well as the Hamilton community service work with Open County Prosecutor’s Office. Doors. “The place is beautiful,” says Alexander. Chaucie’s Place, named after a Hamilton “When children of suspected abuse go County child who committed suicide after there, one person takes their statement child abuse, started in 2001. It provides instead of them giving it in court. They are a neutral, child-friendly, home-like envigiven a bear. You want to make that phase ronment where a single, comprehensive for them as gentle as possible. They have investigative interview takes place in cases been hurt and it has to be scary for them.”
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Re/Max Legends Group Assists Toy Drive - For the past eight years, WRTV-6 has been collecting toys for Hoosier children during the holiday season and Re/Max Legends Group has joined the effort by acting as a drop-off site for toy donations. New, unwrapped toys for boys and girls in any age group will be collected at the Re/Max Legends Group office through Dec. 18 and delivered to the station. Anyone wishing to donate toys may drop them off during business hours at the Re/Max Legends Group office, 5645 Castle Creek Parkway, Indianapolis. Anyone with questions, can call 317-849-7653.
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Hileman joins Carmel Family Care - H. James Hileman, MD, MS, joins Carmel Family Care and Methodist Medical Group (MMG), a Clarian Health Partner. Dr. Hileman is a board certified internal medicine physician specializing in arthritis, cholesterol, diabetes, high blood pressure and sports injuries. “We’re pleased to have Dr. Hileman on board with us. He’ll make a great addition to the practice, and we’re looking forward to enhancing the health of our community together,” said Dr. Laura Johnson, who joined MMG in September. Crafted bowl to go to winner of Carmel Green Award - When Citizens for Greenspace, a 20year Carmel citizen’s organization, receives the inaugural Carmel Green Award on Dec. 10, they will also receive an extraordinary piece of art – a wooden bowl and pedestal crafted by local artist Jennifer Shirley. Ms. Shirley, from Indianapolis, has been turning wood since 1999. She uses mostly indigenous Indiana hardwood for her pieces. The wood for this unique award was recycled from a Carmel cherry tree.
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carmel utilities wins award The City of Carmel Utilities received a Laboratory Excellence Award at the 72nd Annual Conference of the Indiana Water Environment Association (IWEA) held Nov. 18-20, in Indianapolis. The Laboratory Excellence Award is awarded for outstanding achievement in the implementation of laboratory technique and administration. The awards may be given to municipal facilities for each classification. Candidates for the award are determined by the Laboratory Committee and are based upon a graded evaluation of each laboratory that requests a site evaluation.
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Brainard forced to give in on Keystone Mayor Jim Brainard has agreed to an amended proposal for Keystone Avenue funding that would delay construction on at least one intersection. Two City Council committees are set to review BRAINARD the $28.5 million request, which is down from $52 million in November. The new amount, added to the $90 million granted to Carmel by the state, would pay for construction on five intersections. Officials said they hoped to complete the 106th Street and 126th Street intersections and begin construction at 136th Street and 131st Street. That would delay the projects at Carmel Drive and 116th Street, which will require simultaneous construction because of their proximity to one another. Brainard said he would revisit those projects in a year. Criticism of Brainard continued at the Dec. 1 council meeting with speakers calling the Keystone project a “laughingstock.” Brainard promised last spring the project would not exceed $90 million. He also underestimated the cost of the Regional Performing Arts Center by about
$45 million. “I think you should be embarrassed,” said Carmel resident Pat Lease. “You’ve let this problem fester and get way out of hand.” City Council wasn’t free from blame, either. Recent reports said it knew for months Keystone would exceed its budget and failed to inform the public. But council members said they never intervened because, until recently, the project didn’t involve city money. “We’re not blind,” Councilman Eric Seidensticker said. “We can see the costs and expenses. But knowledge of something does not mean you go out and wave a red flag.” The council Finance, SEIDENSTICKER Administration and Rules Committee and Utilities, Transportation and Public Safety Committee will discuss the issue at their upcoming meetings on Dec. 18 and Jan. 12, respectively. Council President Rick Sharp said residents should not expect a quick resolution. “Hasty action led us to this problem,” he said. “I don’t want to make the same mistake. There is a lot we need to understand before we can make a decision.”
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our Carmel firefighters have Christmas Assistance Program for CFD. been busy this holiday season The program actually consists of three doing more than just fighting parts all coordinated and managed by Fire fires. With your help, 260 needy Department personnel. As mentioned, families in our area will receive food and gifts are collected and distributed generous donations of food and on Dec. 13. A lot of volunteers gifts, and will go to bed knowget involved, including the ing they live in a community Boy Scouts and employees of that cares. The annual Carmel Carmel Financial. Fire Department Christmas The third phase of the Assistance Program is well unChristmas Assistance Program derway with delivery scheduled is a fun-filled day for a busload for Dec. 13. of kids starting at the Carmel The annual event matches Meijer Store. Volunteers accomsponsors with families or indipany some 50 kids around the vidual children that are regisstore looking for just the right tered with the Good Samaritan coat, boots, mittens or hats. Organization of Hamilton Keith told me about the need County. Many of the children in our community and how Jeff already have a list ready to go it is sometimes overwhelmfor Santa or Santaâ€™s helper. ing. But there are families like Worrell Some lists are lengthy, but one the one with an adult special little 8-year-old boy this year skipped the needs daughter. Their wish list was void list, choosing instead to make a simple of brand-name gadgets or the latest fads. request. â€œAll I want for Christmas this year They simply and humbly asked for any is a Christmas tree,â€? he wrote. Rest assure, help possible with a â€œGod Bless Youâ€? for the Carmel Fire Department will make all that CFD does. I will second that. sure that appeal becomes a reality, as well Jeff Worrell is a local business owner. He as a cherished memory long into the little recognizes volunteers on â€œConnecting with boyâ€™s adult life. That is what motivates Public Education Carmelâ€? on cable channel 16. Contact him at email@example.com Officer Keith Freer to head up the
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DISPATCHES Starting the Day - Natural medicine guru Dr. David Williams recommends the following five steps to start your day on the right foot: • Get up a half-hour early. • Take a good probiotic. • Limber up with a fullbody stretch. • Eat a hearty breakfast. • Devote five minutes to morning dental care. - drdavidwilliams.com Boost Your Brainpower - “If you want a sharper mind, actively start caring for your brain and acting for its betterment, says Daniel Amen, MD, author of Magnificent Mind at Any Age. Here are 10 steps and 10 suggestions. • Break your routine (brush your teeth with the other hand). • Hydrate your mind (more water, less alcohol and caffeine). • Clock seven hours of shut-eye (lack of sleep inhibits learning, concentration and memory, sleep seven hours for higher brain function). • Make your brain purr (deep, very slow breathing for 10 minutes; say a relaxing word while exhaling). • Dance, dance, dance (stimulates a variety of brain systems). • Limit TV time (more than two hours per day increases risk of Alzheimers). • Join a reading group (social thinking and sharing bolsters cognitive functions). • Fight pain the smart way (ibuprofen lessens Alzheimers risk; acetaminophen, however, inhibits liver production of important antioxidents). • Kill the ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts inflame anxiety and stress hormones kill brain cells. Write them down, devise plan to eliminate them). - BestLifeOnline.com Pressure Socks - Swollen feet, achy legs, chickenfoot veins? Varicose veins? Poor blood flow in our feet, especially as we age, is the common culprit of these symptoms. Natural healing expert Dr. David Williams recommends Jobst Compression socks for all-day support and long-term blood flow improvement. “I love to uncover simple, low-cost solutions for common problems,” says Dr. Williams. “And this is a good one.” Jobst “SensiFoot” ($20) and “Medical Leg Wear” ($35) socks provide exacting, stimulating pressure and relieve these common blood flow problems. - drdavidwilliams.com
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he holidays can be a busy time with many extra social events and activities that put extra demand on our daily routine. With so much going on, it may seem difficult to stick to your normal workout routine, but it is still possible to fit in fitness and stay active even with a hectic holiday schedule. Here are some ways:
favorite holiday TV shows. • Shovel snow yourself instead of hiring someone to do it for you. • The holidays are a time to spend with family and friends, so why not have them join you on a walk or go caroling throughout the neighborhood. You can also get everyone involved in a game of tag, building a snowman or a snowball fight.
• Try to keep your exercise routine going as much as • Use your shopping trips as possible. If you are running a mode of physical activity. It short on time, you can try a is hard to find a good parking condensed version of your spot during the holiday frenzy, usual workout. If you do not so park towards the back of the have time for 30 minutes of parking lot and walk briskly continuous exercise you can to the store entrance. Take the Dr. Eve Olson Wellness do 10-minute spurts of cardio stairs instead of the elevator or several times throughout the escalator or walk up the escaladay. You can also try a cardio tor if it is not crowded. and strength circuit. It combines short By keeping fitness a priority and workbouts of higher-intensity cardiovascular ing it into your day wherever possible, you exercise in between strength training can stay fit and prevent holiday weight exercises with minimal rest periods. gain. This way you can get a full workout in a shorter amount of time. • Do jumping jacks, jog or march in place, or walk up and down stairs during the commercial breaks of your
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Marie Lucy Klein Kuszewski, 71, of Carmel, passed away Nov. 29. She was a graduate of Marquette University. Marie worked as a chemical abstractor for DuPont and as a technical writer for Princeton Gamma-Tech before retiring in 2001. She is survived by her husband, James Kuszewski of Carmel; children, John (Diane) Kuszewski of Damascus, MD, Judy (Ian) Welsh of Buckinghamshire, England and Bob (Laurel) Kuszewski of Winchester, MA; six grandchildren and a brother, Carl Klein of Wilmington, DE. Family and friends gathered on Dec. 4 in Leppert Mortuary, Smith Carmel Chapel. A Mass of Christian Burial was held Dec. 5 in Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church, 1045 W 146th Street, Carmel, of which Marie was a parishioner and was involved in various ministries within the parish. Please visit www. leppertmortuary.com where you may share a memory, sign the guest book or make a memorial contribution to Birthright of Cicero, 50 South Peru Street, Cicero, IN 46034. Marie Grace Mitchell, 86, of Carmel, passed away Dec. 4, 2008 in St. Vincent Hospice after a courageous struggle with Parkinson’s Disease. She was born on Nov. 24, 1922 in Kane, PA, to the late David and Dorothy Smith. In addition to her parents, Marie was preceded in death by her husband, Charles F. Mitchell, Sr.; son, Charles F. Mitchell Jr. and brother David Smith Jr. Survivors include her daughter, Charlene (Brooks) Heaton of Louisiana; daughter-in-law, Mary Scamardo Mitchell of Carmel; two grandsons, Joshua (Nicole) Williams of Taylors, South Carolina, and Christopher Mitchell of Carmel; great granddaughter, Ella Williams and several nieces and nephews. Family and friends gathered Dec. 6 in Leppert Mortuary, Smith Carmel Chapel. Burial followed in Carmel Cemetery. Please visit www. leppertmortuary.com where you may sign the guest book, share a memory or make a memorial contribution to St. Vincent Heart Center, 10580 N Meridian Street, Indianapolis, IN 46920
ISTEP results now online - The Indiana Department of Education is launching an online system called “Indiana Parent Network” as the new way for parents/guardians to receive ISTEP+ results. Carmel Clay Schools will mail the individual access codes to parents of students in grades 3-8 to explain how to use this new system. If you have a problem with, or question about, this system after trying to access your child’s ISTEP+ results from this past fall, contact the “Indiana Parent Network” site, firstname.lastname@example.org.
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Grimble earns award - Carmel High School media specialist Bonnie Grimble has been named recipient of this year’s Peggy L. GRIMBLE Pfeiffer Award for outstanding service from the Indiana Library Federation Association for Indiana Media Educators. Grimble was presented with the award at the federation’s dinner at the Westin Hotel in Downtown Indianapolis. “No one is more deserving of this award,” said Sue Moeschl, director of information services for the Carmel Clay Schools. Swim lessons coming in January - The Carmel Aquatic Center is offering swim lessons starting in January. Swimmers must be at least 3-years-old and potty trained. The weekday sessions will run two days a week (a total of six classes) for three weeks. Fee: $60 per session per child. Registration will be held in the CHS Aquatic Center lobby, entrance #21N at Carmel High School, from 6-7:30 p.m. on Dec. 10, and from 10 a.m.-noon on Dec. 13. Knerr named finalist for award - Clay Middle School math teacher Amy Knerr has been named one of Indiana’s two math finalists for the Presidential Award for Excellence in Mathematics and KNERR Science Teaching. As a state finalist, Knerr is a candidate to be Indiana’s math recipient of the Presidential Award. One math and one science winner from each state will receive an award of $10,000 and a trip to Washington, D.C., where these teachers will be honored at a variety of events.
By Brandie Bohney Current in Carmel
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Possessive pronouns with gerunds
You don’t have to be the town gossip to have an affinity for talking about others’ actions. You do, however, have to understand how to use possessive pronouns with gerunds in order to do that talking without making a grammatical error that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand on end. But before I go wild about this hair-raising error, I need to back up and explain gerunds a bit. I once had a student who thought that gerund sounded enough like geriatric to mean that it was a type of word that only old folks use; they aren’t something you’ll find exclusively at retirement homes, however. If you, too, aren’t sure what a gerund is or how to use one correctly with pronouns, read on: Gerunds are verbs that end in -ing that function as nouns: Swimming is his favorite sport. Gertrude really enjoys fishing. He’s looking forward to trying sushi.
In almost every case, we can substitute a so-called normal noun for the gerund: Baseball is his favorite sport. Gertrude really enjoys trout. He’s looking forward to his first sushi.
Now that we have that settled, the real meat of this column is using pronouns in conjunction with gerunds.
That’s where your gossipy side comes in. If you want to explain how you feel about someone’s actions, you may use a construction like this: I was really offended by his leaving. It’s the need to use the possessive pronoun his that is the equivalent of a giant grammatical pothole. You can get stuck there, and many people do. Many people (I think I could say most English-speaking people, but I don’t have the stats to verify most) want to use subjective or objective personal pronouns instead of possessive pronouns. If I just lost you in jargon, let me give you an example to clarify. This is how many people construct the combination: I was really offended by him leaving. Because leaving functions as a noun, this construction is ridiculous. If you need proof, insert a different noun: I was really offended by him socks. Ridiculous, isn’t it? So this type of gerund usage requires possessive pronouns. Actually, even if you use a proper noun or common noun, you still need the possessive form: Jim appreciates Sally’s being proactive in her sales approach. The dog’s barking surprised Allen. So if you must indulge your inner gossip, use the appropriate possessive noun or pronoun with that gerund. The hair on the back of my neck will appreciate the rest. Brandie Bohney is a grammar enthusiast and former English teacher who developed a mastery-learning system of teaching grammar to high school seniors. If you have a grammar-related question, please email her at email@example.com.
Teaching children that prejudice is wrong
rejudice, as most behaviors, is a learned behavior. Are we subliminally teaching our children subtle prejudices? Do we make fun of someone’s weight, what they are wearing, not play with someone because she/he isn’t athletic, call people names because of their skin color, ignore someone who is in a wheel chair, not let our daughters play with race cars because she is a girl and not let boys take dance lessons Becky Kapsalis because he is a boy? Ask YiaYia When we ‘prejudge’ we form our opinions based on insufficient knowledge, irrational feelings or inaccurate stereotypes - by definition - prejudiced. How to teach our children to overcome prejudices? • Teach them to treat people the way we want our children to be treated. • Teach our children to form opinions of people based on how well they know them or how they make them feel before deciding whether or not to like them.
• Teach them to learn to stand up for people who are being mistreated. To not go along with the crowd when someone is being treated unfairly based on prejudices and get the attention of an adult if the situation puts them at risk. • By having family discussions on any experiences our children may have had with prejudice and how it affected them or the family. • Discuss what prejudice is and what kinds of behaviors demonstrate prejudice. • Have open discussions on ways in which the child deals with instances of prejudice and how they can safely handle the situation at home or school. • By helping our children become aware of their behaviors or language that may be of a prejudiced nature. • While watching TV together, for one week, keep listings of television programs having language, dialogue or actions that demonstrate prejudiced behavior. Finally, follow and practice all of the above yourself. Being the example is the best lesson taught. Hugs! Have a parenting topic or question? Submit it to Ask Yiayia, aka Becky Kapsalis, Certified Parent Coach, at firstname.lastname@example.org or call 810.9358.
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Sounds of Christmas - King of Glory Lutheran Church, 2201 E. 106th St., Carmel, will celebrate A Festival of Lessons & Carols at its annual Sounds of Christmas on Dec. 14 at 6:30 p.m. Come see and listen to all the musical ensembles that call King of Glory home, including vocal choirs of all ages, hand bell choirs, liturgical dance and the Sounds of Glory singers. Ellen Handlin and the Drama Team will offer several favorite Christmas scriptures in a unique story telling fashion and all will join voices in favorite carols of the season.
Special Holiday Events - The Monon Center at Central Park is hosting several holiday themed events this week. Here is a listing. If you have questions or need more information, call the Center at 317-848-7275. Daddy Daughter Dance at Central Park â€˘ Dec. 12, 6-9 p.m., $15/person, banquet rooms Breakfast with Santa â€˘ Dec. 13, 9-11:30 a.m., $15/ person, banquet rooms Childrenâ€™s Candy Cane Hunt â€˘ Dec. 13, 12 noon, free, Central Park Fetch the Fruitcake â€˘ Dec. 13. 12:30 p.m., free, Central Park Grinch Scramble (West Park) â€˘ Dec. 13, 7 p.m., free
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