Beyond 50 Winter 2007 Issue

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Central Okanagan

Winter Wonderland A Harley is the

Best Medicine

Rancho’s 1st

Christmas Seniors & Credit

FINDING

Ogopogo

in the snow

Kids Korner

Their Point of View

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FEATURES A Harley is the Best Medicine . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 A Passion for Sports . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34 Building Balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Central Okanagan Winterwonderland . . . . . . . 24 Finding Ogopogo in the Snow . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 Fishing, Cycling, Sailing & Baseball . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Kids Korner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Publisher’s Point of View . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Rancho’s First Christmas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30 Seniors & Credit . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 SOSS: A Place to Give and Receive . . . . . . . . . . . 32 The Grandparent Effect . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 United Way Drive Thru Breakfast . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

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ISSN# 1718-7435 Mail Publication Agreement # 41324527 PUBLISHER - Laurel D’Andrea EDITOR - Jeremy Hoemsen LAYOUT & GRAPHICS - Lori Johnson, Dragonfli Studio SALES & MARKETING - Laurel D’Andrea PRINTING - Mitchell Press WEB DESIGN - NRG Web Design CONTRIBUTORS - Lydia Baldwin, Marilyn Brown, Harry Brust, Lisa Cham, Orla Cooper, Tom Cooper, Lian Couper, Wally Dennison, Luis Diaz, Cathy Dobbin, Andrea Harkness, Karen Lee, Cheryl Miller, Colleen Pfannenschmidt, Kevin Rothwell, Andrea Schiller, Phil Smith, Nick Stokman, Jay Stone, Leslie-Ann Wilkins.

PHOTOGRAPHERS - Wayne Duchart - Photography West, Harry Brust, Becky Chapman, Heather Hollingdale, Desmond Murray, Kellee Piattelli.

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PHOTO • HEATHER HOLLINGDALE

p u b l i s h e r ’s p o i n t o f v i e w

(l to r): Dallas, Laurel, and Devon.

One of the great things about aging is how much we enjoy reflecting on the past. When we are younger, we dream about our wants, desires, and dreams. The older we get, the wants, desires, and dreams have been accomplished, and we get to look back on how we made it happen. We all have something in our life we have achieved that gives us that "warm fuzzy" feeling. In fact, most of us have a lot to be proud of but seem to forget sometimes.

We have enjoyed our entertaining children, who did actually listen to some of our advice. We have travelled, spent time with family and good friends, and with any luck, we are with the ones we love. We have, or have had, great careers; we enjoy what we do and feel appreciated. (I am not sure if you are proud of yourself right now but I just had several "warm fuzzies").

When we reflect on how our time on earth has been, it should be about how we see ourselves and not how others view us. Money, toys, houses, etc. are just things; when we reflect, they may give us a sense of accomplishment but they are low on the pole. We all have a tendency to worry about what others think and feel about us - boy, are we crazy! Think about it: I can control how I feel about myself and how I see myself. I cannot control what others think or feel. So why should we put so much emphasis on them?

The next time you look in the mirror or lay on the couch to reflect, as long as you get a warm fuzzy about your life, then I would say you have had one hell of a year.

They say the secret to a happy, fulfilled existence is to treat people the way you want to be treated. A smile goes a long way: when you walk into a room and you are smiling,

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But just ask yourself: how many times did I smile this year? When you ponder that, just know that 95% of people around you also did the same thing. That truly is a sense of accomplishment.

95% of people will smile back. Talk about empowerment!

Isn’t it great how such a simple act can accomplish so much?

Over the next couple of months, you will be reflecting on how 2006 went for you. It may not have been great financially, or work may have been a struggle. But just ask yourself: how many times did I smile this year? When you ponder that, just know that 95% of people around you also did the same thing. That truly is a sense of accomplishment.

On a side note, I want to thank each and every person who picked up,received,or read our first issue.I also want to express my gratitude to all the advertisers and contributors who believed in my concept.The response to Beyond 50 has been overwhelming. Keep sending in the articles, the comments, and ideas. This magazine is for the community, by the community, and about the community - all we want to do is bring it together so everyone has a chance to meet, reconnect, or be inspired by the people they work and play with each and everyday. I have had a great year because I know that I made at least 10,0000 people smile in September. Boy, what a “warm fuzzy" that is for me. I have two wonderful boys, the greatest family and friends, and now a career that I truly love. My reflection for 2006 has been a positive one.

(If you’re tired of hearing about “warm fuzzies”, just wait ‘til you hear what I have to say about Spring and ‘new beginnings’ in the March Issue…)

Laurel D’Andrea

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c h e e r s f ro m t h e e d i to r

…the Okanagan community is who came together to make this magazine such a success. The reality is that people enjoy living together in a community, and an essential part of community is communication.

It’s Sunday, October 15th and I just came in from the garden.I planted a Chinese banana tree,checked the height of the two week old seeded lawn, and brought in some potted Bengal Tiger Canna lilies in case it frosts this winter.

In honour of the east coast just getting two feet of snow, I decided I should plant some subtropicals here in the west.

We still have about 20 different shrubs and plants in pots to get into the ground before this Victoria ‘winter’, including the necessary hops vines.But according to the locals,we still have time. It just gets rainy and windy here but usually stays above freezing. Of course, by the time you’re reading this, in December or January, you’ll have a good chuckle, because you know that it was the iciest winter ever recorded on Vancouver Island, and just as everyone got used to ice skating and snowmobiling from Nanaimo to Victoria to Vancouver, the Island got sucked under North America in the “big one”, creating oceanfront property in the Okanagan just in time for the early spring tourist season.From my view, though, from way back when in October, things are still pretty warm and fuzzy. (Yes, I just finished editing Laurel’s Publisher’s Comments).

I have to say I’ve really been enjoying the stories coming in for Beyond 50. They were great for the first issue and continue to impress me for the second. I’ve learned all sorts of things in all sorts of areas, from good business to sport and mind improvement tips, to interesting travel destinations, not to mention the delicious recipes. While Laurel is the person to coordinate such an amazing community effort, the Okanagan community is who came together to make this magazine such a success. The reality

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is that people enjoy living together in a community, and an essential part of community is communication. Look, it’s almost the same word! (I’m easily amused at times…)

So keep communicating through Beyond 50 and I’ll keep on doing my best to ensure your communication is free of serious spelling and grammar errors that might hinder that communication.

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The Heart and Soul of Sandy Rice Submitted by Andrea Schiller

She is one of the most patient people I know, fielding questions left and right with the grace of a saint. If staff members or volunteers are ever lost, they look to Sandy to bring them back on track.

For me, and for countless volunteers and community members who have crossed paths with her, Sandy Rice is not only the face of the Heart and Stroke Foundation in Kelowna - she is the heart and soul. For the last six years, what she has given us and the community of Kelowna gives her wings.

Over the years, Sandy has coordinated our in memoriam program, worked as our office receptionist and sometimes even as office manager, and attended all of our special events as volunteer support - everything from ‘Big Bike for Stroke’ to the ‘Walk for Heart’. These events are especially close to her heart, as her father had three heart attacks, and since volunteering with the foundation, her husband has also had a heart attack.

Sandy is one of those amazingly grounded and positive people who is an anchor in a storm. Her smiles and laughter are infectious, her willingness to help across all facets of this organization legendary. She is one of the most patient people I know, fielding questions left and right with the grace of a saint. If staff members or volunteers are ever lost, they look to Sandy to bring them back on track.

You will find Sandy at the front desk three days a week, if not more, and whatever time she has left over, she is out living large with a close group of friends and family. She also volunteers and helps to coordinate social events at Sandpointe, one of which is the New Year’s Supper and Dance. As a member of the Red Hat Ladies, you can also see Sandy out and about in Kelowna. Not only is she is a true friend and involved community member, she inspires us all with her grit and determination to live her life to the fullest.

While Sandy is our office angel,there are numerous other BEYOND 50 • WINTER 2007

volunteers who help the Heart and Stroke Foundation successfully meet its goals,so we can continue our mandate of health promotion, advocacy, and providing funding for top-level research in BC. Over the next few months, we are gearing up for Heart Month,when the Celebration Breakfast kicks off the February campaign. Next comes our Curlathon, and throughout the month of February, leadership volunteers and canvassers work together to ensure many feet are on the street to build awareness and collect donations on behalf of the Heart and Stroke Foundation of BC and Yukon. If you would like more information about volunteering and would like to hear Sandy’s warm smiling voice on the line, please call 860-6275.

WelcometoKelowna.com also likes to recognize special people in our community. Our angel Sandy will be featured as the Person of the Day on Friday December 15th. To view that page please go to www.welcometokelowna.com In addition to featuring Sandy, Dot Com Media has graciously donated a gift certificate to Giannz in North Glenmore so Sandy can enjoy a little "me time" Do you know someone that goes above and beyond the call of duty? Or maybe you know someone that just has a great smile. If so Please email nikki@welcometokelowna.com to nominate a future Person of the Day. Then keep watching the WelcometoKelowna.com Person of the Day We are also looking for submissions for the Angels Among Us department, if you know of anyone who you would like to see recognized please email us at submissions@ beyond50mag.com or call us at 250-878-9194 and we will feature them in an upcoming issue.

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Not Quite the Beaten Track: 3 suggestions for winter getaways Submitted By Cathy Dobbin

If you see seven people on a beach at one time, you have a crowd.

As a travel agent, I’m often asked my recommendations for places to visit, places that are a little different from what many of us are used to. Sometimes this can be a hard question to answer, as everyone has different expectations.

However, I recently attended a seminar that focused on the South Pacific. I came away from the seminar wishing I were basking in the sun on one of the many white sand beaches offered by the Cook Islands. A Cook Islander saying is,“If you see seven people on a beach at one time, you have a crowd.” Unlike some of the more visited beach destinations,the Cooks sound like a fabulous destination for the traveller seeking quiet and solitude. And there is still a sprinkling of activity provided by the main town of Avarua and outlying areas. Rent a scooter for the day, trek through the centre of the island to the other side, visit the markets, sample delicious restaurants, attend a church service, or just walk along the seemingly endless beaches. There are a variety of activities to keep one busy - or not. There are hotels ranging from moderate, self-contained units that can cater to long-term visitors, to more luxurious, short-stay accommodations. Many of the packages can be custom designed to include visits to outer islands such as Aitutaki – from what I’ve seen, a must see!

For a twelve-night package including air from Vancouver to Rarotonga, with a side visit to Aitutaki, prices start at $3,901.

Another destination gaining in popularity is the Mexican destination of Huatulco, located on the coast of Oaxaca on the Pacific side. Huatulco boasts nine beautiful scenic bays 8

for the beach lover, with the clean white powdery sand we all dream of sinking our toes into. Huatulco has been compared to the Puerto Vallarta of 20 years ago. This destination is very inviting, offering lovely natural surroundings flanked by the Sierra Madre Mountains. A one-week, beachfront, all-inclusive package from gateway Calgary starts at $1749 plus taxes/fees per person.

Costa Rica is also a unique destination to visit. It is an incredibly diverse country, appealing to all tastes. Eco adventure tours are very popular and can include hiking, wildlife refuges, river rides, hot spring relaxation, horseback riding and much more. Depending on the person going, I’d recommend mixing a one-week eco adventure tour with a one-week beach stay to experience the best of all worlds.

There are charters offered from Vancouver to Liberia, one-

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Submitted by CATHERINE DOBBIN of United Travel 2000 Ltd, Westridge Mall, Westbank. Catherine has been in the travel business for over 18 years as agent and owner, and is always happy to help with any of your travel needs.

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Building Balance Submitted by Jay Stone

…realize that you can improve your balance even as you age, and research shows doing so can lessen your chance of falling.

Jocelyn and Jay.

Are you not as steady on your feet as you used to be? You are not alone. As we age, many of the factors that help us maintain good balance decline; eyesight, strength, reaction time, endurance, and flexibility all tend to diminish as we grow older, and this places us at an increased risk for falls.

Each year, one quarter to one third of all adults experience at least one fall, and these falls often cause serious injuries.

At no time of year is the risk of falling higher than during our Canadian winters. In wintertime, we are faced with having to walk on slippery ice and snow that compresses unevenly beneath our feet. We have to wear more clothing to keep warm, and this clothing can impair our movement and balance. Even our houses may be a little more dangerous as entryway floors can be slippery from melted snow.

None of this is any reason to be fearful; in fact, fear of falling is actually associated with more falls. People who are scared of falling limit their activity,and this can cause further loss of strength and flexibility. Instead, people need to be cautious and aware of risky situations that can lead to falls, such as slippery sidewalks.Also realize that you can improve your balance even as you age, and research shows doing so can lessen your chance of falling.

Risk factors for falls include increasing age, medication use, cognitive impairment, and sensory deficits. The causes are diverse and therefore often require a multidisciplinary approach to treatment. This can mean a review of your medical history and current medications by your physician, and an assessment of postural control and physical function by a physiotherapist.For people over 65 with a history of falls or a high risk for falls, programs such as Stepwise offered by Interior Health provide such a thorough approach.

The majority of people I see in my practice aren’t at a high risk for falls; many participate in more risky exercises 10

such as hiking on rocky paths,snow shoeing,or skiing. Such activities are quite demanding, and these individuals would benefit from better balance. I strongly recommend that a balance program be part of their normal exercise routine.

This will help them stay active now, and build a better base for the future.

To help with your balance, try this daily balance exercise program. First, while holding the back of a chair, sink, or counter top,practice standing on one leg.Gradually increase the length of time until you are able to balance for one minute. As your balance improves, you can progress to not holding onto anything for support. If you find this easy, take this exercise further by performing it with your eyes closed.

Next, while holding the back of a chair, sink, or countertop, practice standing on your toes and then rock back to balance on your heels. Hold each position for six seconds, and repeat the movement several times. Finally, standing on your right leg, lift your left leg straight out to the side. Hold this position for two seconds, and return to double leg standing. Repeat this ten times per leg. Not only will this exercise help with balance but it will also help strengthen the hip muscles. To make it harder, you can add an ankle weight to the leg you are lifting.

I hope these exercises are helpful and that you stay injury free this winter. Remember to keep active, work on your balance, and if you are having falls or frequently feel unsteady, please get your balance checked by your health care provider.

JAY STONE is a partner at Sun City Physiotherapy who holds his certificate in Sport Physiotherapy and in Acupuncture. He frequently writes a column in the Capital News. Reach him via email at scphysio@telus.net or by calling him at the Glenmore Sun City Physiotherapy office 762-6313.

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The Grandparent Effect Submitted By Luis Diaz

PHOTO • HARRY BRUST

They’re the ones with the gentle word about how to hold a stick, how to shoot a puck, how to keep your head up when you’ve had a bad game.

At your next minor hockey game, look around and you can see the history of the game. No, not the ancient arena steeped in minor hockey lore. No, not the dressing rooms with their ancient plumbing, the sweat of generations of players lingering in the air. And no, not the trophy cases with hardware from tournaments past. Look a little closer,in the stands,and see that lady with the blanket on her lap,her white hair in a bun, and the gentleman sitting next to her, a rolled up program in his hand, the lines on his face marking his years - they’re cheering on the littlest kid on the ice. That little kid’s a tiger, their grandson or granddaughter, and he or she loves the game just like Gramps and Nana did when they played long ago.

Hockey is the common religion in Canada, transcending sport. Grandparents (and Great Grandparents) are the living history of the game, the tellers of tales - you know, the “I remember when…” or “Did I ever tell you about the time I…” They’re the ones with the gentle word about how to hold a stick,how to shoot a puck,how to keep your head up when you’ve had a bad game. “Maybe you just need a piece of gum or a hard candy to help get that bad taste out of your mouth,”Grandpa might say.

Dad got you your first stick, Gramps showed you how to tape the blade, Mom drives you to all your practices, and Nana hears all the stories brought home from an exciting tournament game. Grandpa keeps you honest about your game and how hard you are trying, while Nana gives you encouragement and support, always reminding you that to BEYOND 50 • WINTER 2007

win or lose is second to the enjoyment of the game. More than all the things they do, they’re living examples of love and respect for the game and its players. This makes them the role models that all kids need in order to learn how to make their way on the ice and in life. This is the Canadian constant - north, south, east and west, Montreal to Toronto to Vancouver. The histories of our families are wrapped around the game, the times it measures, the generations it engages.

Grandparents are the bridge to the game as it was, the link to how Dad learned to play, how Mom skated when she was a kid, the ones who know how, where, and why, and who did what and when. They are there for the reminders that you shoot just like your Dad, you skate just like your Mom, that your passion for the game is the same as both of your parents.That passion is only exceeded by the joy your Grandparents get from watching you play, learn, and grow and by their love for you.

The Grandparent Effect is the glue that binds us all, old and young,the lovers of the game who practice our religion (hockey), generation after generation. Sons and daughters, mothers and fathers, we know that truth can be measured in the ringing of a puck off a post, a great save, the lining up to shake hands to honour the game and its players; it’s the same today as always.These things make hockey as timeless as, well, as timeless your Grandparents.

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Seniors and Credit Submitted By Phil Smith

“It’s not so much what you owe - it’s what you owe for.”

I’ve been in the Credit field for over 45 years, and I’ve encountered many types of borrowers and credit situations, some good and some bad. Individuals should use credit for any worthwhile purpose: to enhance their life style, for investments, or to enjoy material things now and be able to pay for them in an orderly fashion in the future. One of my former Credit Managers once quoted,“It’s not so much what you owe – it’s what you owe for.”

Having said that, one of the most difficult types of credit borrowing involves seniors, those seniors who borrow or co-sign for their children or relatives. People on fixed income, like many seniors, have a good idea of their monthly expenses and any extra funds are usually for things like home repairs,transportation costs,and medications,not to mention the cost of emergencies that may arise. When a person commits his or her fixed income to borrowing for outside purposes or co-signing, he or she can be placed in a potentially difficult situation. They may be borrowing funds to assist other family members although they do not receive any financial benefit from the borrowed funds, or they may be co-signing. Either way, they may be called on to make payments that were not in the budget.

An experience from a few years ago helps to illustrate the importance of knowing exactly what you’re getting into.

This elderly gentleman and his wife walked into my office and sat down. Right from the beginning of the interview, I could clearly sense that this fellow was under pressure to borrow funds. There was even a sense of embarrassment evident in his mannerisms. His wife sat beside him, not saying a word.

I asked this nervous gentleman what the purpose of the loan was. He explained that he needed to borrow $10,000 12

to assist his son in a business venture.

I asked him how old his son was and he said he was 37.

My next question was,“Do you have any other children?”

He replied that he had two daughters.

My next question was,“And what are you going to do to help them?”

This fellow’s wife immediately burst out of her silence and struck her husband on the arm. “See, I told you – if we help one, we should help them all.”

As a lender, I could see that borrowing in this case would severely impair this elderly couple’s ability to maintain their standard of living, not to mention maintaining an amicable relationship in this family.

I pulled out my business card, handed it to him and said, “Tell you what. I am turning you down for this loan. If your son has trouble with that, ask him to give me a call.”

The couple immediately got up from their chairs and could not thank me enough. It was evident that I had removed a great load off of their shoulders, not to mention the guilt that their son had placed on them by pressuring them to borrow for him.

Needless to say, I never did get a call from the son and this couple was eternally grateful.

The case of direct borrowing is when the proceeds of the loan go to the children or relatives. Borrowers usually do not tell the lender what the funds are for. Most times the reason for this type of borrowing is simply for personal expenses. In these cases, the benefactors of the loan proceeds do not sign or become involved in the loan contract. A good business practice on the part of the actual borrower is to have the individuals who received the benefit BEYOND 50 • WINTER 2007

of the loan proceeds sign a promissory note to the borrower. This creates a contractual obligation for them to repay the funds. This promissory note may become a significant document in the event of sorting out funds for the beneficiaries of an estate.

In a situation of co-signing or indemnifying a debt for a family member, the lender has the responsibility to refer the borrowers to an outside lawyer for independent legal advice.These are situations when the co-signers (or indemnitors) receive no benefit from the funds borrowed.

The Solicitor reviews the file and ensures that the co-signers are made aware that in the event of default of the contract, they will be held fully responsible for the debt and any additional expenses. These types of ‘borrowing guarantees’ apply to personal loans as well as to mortgages.The Solicitor then prepares a Certificate of Independent Legal Advice that is delivered to the Lender confirming that he has reviewed the file, outlined the responsibilities of the guarantee with the guarantors, and that they are comfortable with and fully understand what they are contracting into.

One of the issues with these types of contracts is that over time, one of the guarantors may pass away. This may leave the survivor to deal with the debt in the event of default.

We are all placed in difficult situations and the best advice I can provide is: Be Cautious. Other family members can be resentful when one receives benefits and they do not. And really, the last thing we need as seniors is for a Banker to be calling and asking us for payments for a defaulted loan – especially one that a family member pressured us into borrowing for them in the first place.

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‘Tis the Season for Wise Giving Submitted by Kevin Rothwell

Beware of fake charities using similar names to wellestablished organizations.

When in doubt, contact the organization you trust to find out if there is any affiliation.

As a time for giving and sharing,Christmas is traditionally when Charities increase their fundraising efforts. Every year, leading up to Christmas, many of us are overwhelmed with requests to support various charities and organizations. For me, it’s important to support our community and other worthwhile causes. Today’s charities are competing for limited resources, while facing an ever-increasing demand for their services at the same time as ever-rising costs. We only need to turn on the television to see the horrific images of the aftermath of Hurricanes Rita and Katrina to be reminded of some of the tasks that charities handle.

Like you, I am very particular about where my hardearned cash is spent. I certainly don’t want my charitable donations to end up in the pockets of some scam artists.

For every legitimate organization raising funds for a valid cause, there are those individuals who impersonate charities in an effort to take advantage of some poorly informed individual. Then, there are those that may give an unacceptable portion of the donation to the actual cause.

Here are some tips I personally follow to ensure that the money I donate goes to a legitimate cause: • Find out if the charity is registered with the Canada Revenue Agency,by phone at 1-800-267-2384 or go to their website at http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/tax/charities/menue.html. If the charity is registered, you can look at its information returns and determine how the charity is spending donations.

• Don’t give money at the door or over the phone. Call the organization’s number in the phone book to find out if 14

the person at your house was from their organization. Do not succumb to pressure to give money on the spot; maybe allow someone to pick it up later when you are certain. A legitimate charity will welcome your money at any time.

• Ask the charity how much of the donation is given to the organization and how much to the fundraiser,and make sure that split is acceptable to you.

• Beware of fake charities using similar names to wellestablished organizations. When in doubt, contact the organization you trust to find out if there is any affiliation.

Fraud artists often take advantage of real names to hide their intentions.

• Be skeptical if someone thanks you for a pledge you don’t remember making. Be on the alert for invoices claiming you’ve made a pledge when you have not. Some unscrupulous people use this approach to obtain your money.

• Always ask if your contribution is “tax deductible” meaning you can deduct your contribution on your tax return. Request an official receipt showing the amount of your contribution, the name of the charity, and the charity registration number.

The BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU offers further advice and information for determining if a charity is legitimate. If you have any questions, contact the BBB at www.interior.bbbvan.org or 1-888-803-1222.

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A Day in the Life of a Commissionaire Submitted by L. Wilkins and A. Harkness

…such as the Commissionaire who was monitoring a state-of-theart alarm system that kept mysteriously sounding off. After process of elimination, it was discovered the alarm system was so sensitive, it was being set-off by mice in the field surrounding the building.

For over 78 years, Commissionaires BC has been dedicated to providing employment opportunities for professionals of all ages, who bring their experience from the military or police services to our clients. We provide our clients complete security solutions by integrating highly trained, experienced personnel and advanced technology.

Many of our security duties are done ‘behind the scenes’, discreetly getting the job done to ensure smooth operation for our clients. But who would have thought such serious work could be so enjoyable? Even though the security industry is a serious business, there are always those unforgettable moments and stories that bring on smiles and laughter.

For instance, one Commissionaire (who is just beyond 50 years old!) was assigned security duty to ensure a number of Ferraris and Lamborghinis were intact and untouched during an overnight stay in Kelowna. The adage ‘like a kid in a candy store’ comes quickly to mind. For one Commissionaire, it was the best night he’d had in a long time! Can you imagine the sheer enjoyment of absorbing the luxurious details of these unattainable goods? The Commissionaire felt a real sense of power in protecting this property, as if they were his own fleet. One owner of a Ferrari realized how much the Commissionaire had enjoyed his duty so she took photos of him standing proud and mailed them directly to him.

There was also the time a Commissionaire was on duty at

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our local Ski Resort. He received a call from a resident who was complaining that there were strange activities happening in the main parking lot. Dutifully, the Commissionaire jumped into his 4X4 Jeep, knocked the snow off his boots, and headed down to the main parking lot. Upon arriving at the parking lot, there was definitely some interesting action taking place – a photo shoot was in progress. The funny part is that everyone was in the nude!

Unfortunately, no pictures were available. Come to think of it, the security report was rather vague. However, we guarantee the Commissionaire diligently monitored the situation to ensure everyone was safe!

Many little humorous incidents take place in the line of duty, such as the Commissionaire who was monitoring a state-of-the-art alarm system that kept mysteriously sounding off. After process of elimination, it was discovered the alarm system was so sensitive, it was being set-off by mice in the field surrounding the building. Or the time a Commissionaire was called to attend an emergency in the ladies washroom,where an elderly woman from the Prairies was disgraced and outraged at the thought of having to pay for water. The Commissionaire politely explained that the water is free and it comes automatically when you place your hands under the faucet. Apparently, she had never seen or heard of an automatic faucet!

Just another day in the life of a Commissionaire!

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Why work for us?

Commissionaires BC is dedicated to providing meaningful and rewarding employment to everyone who works here. Additionally, because we are a Not for Profit Society, our focus is on ensuring the maximum return to every Commissionaire. Founded almost 80 years ago, we offer a wide variety of positions to former military and police personnel as well as to others of good character. Our culture is one dedicated to each and every Commissionaire’s success.

When you work for Commissionaires BC, you’re really working to help make BC a safer, friendlier place – and working with a well trained team that supports you every step of the way from classroom training to on the job training, not to mention competitive compensation and excellent benefits.

As a Commissionaire security officer you’ll have the opportunity to work in a variety of environments – each with its own range of rewarding experiences – that make every day on the job different. From border crossings to corporate sites and courthouses and holding centers to city streets, you’ll discover a new kind of job satisfaction – and enjoy continuing opportunities for both professional and personal development.

By joining Commissionaires, you can be assured you are joining a team of professionals dedicated to providing a high level of service to our clients and support to each other.

Benefits We offer an extensive benefit package that includes, but is not limited to: >Group AD & D insurance, with loss of wage protection and 24/7 coverage for business or pleasure; >Group life insurance (shared cost); >Group extended health, dental and prescription drug plan (shared cost); >TD asset builder group RRSP; >Pay rates among the highest in the industry; >Free uniforms and dry cleaning of most uniform items; >Optional critical illness coverage; >Optional additional life insurance; >Bonus vacation pay; >Statutory Holiday pay not worked; >Paid bereavement leave; >Gratuitous pay-in-lieu; >Four hour minimum callout; >Flexible working conditions; >Free training to veterans.

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Digital Cameras 101: Transferring Pictures from your Camera to your PC Submitted by Tom Cooper

You'll never have to look for your transfer cable again…

Have you been taking your digital camera or memory cards to Wal-Mart, COSTCO, or Shoppers Drug Mart so they can burn a CD or make prints of some of your favourite images?

Are you ready for the next step? If you are, I’ll explain in basic terms in this article how to transfer your files directly from your camera to FIGURE 1 your personal computer (PC).

There are two options for transferring files: 1) Using a memory card reader, which could be either part of your FIGURE 2 PC or one you bought separately and can leave connected to a USB port more or less permanently (Figures 1 and 2); or 2) Using the transfer cable that came with your camera when you FIGURE 3 bought it (Figure 3).

TRANSFER USING OPTION No. 1: Insert your memory card into the appropriate receptor slot.

There will only be one way to insert your card so do it gently.

Only a small amount of pressure is required for it to slide in. Once it is fully inserted, your PC will “detect” 18

FIGURE 4

that you have done so and will display an opening dialog box on your screen.

Click NEXT. This screen is followed by a confirmation of the files you wish to transfer (Figure 4). A suggestion: FIGURE 5 Transfer all of your images and do any deletions later on your PC. Note the boxes for all images are checked off? The next screen (Figure 5) lets you decide where you wish to store your images AND allows you to erase your memory card after the transfer has been successfully completed. Note the window indicating where the files will be transferred to by default... Documents and settings/ cooper/My documents/my pictures. If you wish to put them elsewhere, click BROWSE and find somewhere else.

Click NEXT and the transfer and card clean-up takes effect on-screen.

Click NEXT when the transfer and clean-up are finished.

The last two screens are self-explanatory.The first one, the “Publish, Order Prints or Nothing” screen, you will decide what you want to now do. I usually select Nothing, click NEXT... and end the whole process with the “Finished”screen.

Once you have completed the transfer, remove your memory card and put it back into your camera.

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TRANSFER USING OPTION No. 2: This is to transfer images using the transfer cable supplied with your camera when you purchased FIGURE 6 it. Locate your cable (Figure 3). It will have a USB connector at one end and a unique connector at the other which will slip into a socket in the body of your camera (Figure 6).

Each camera's connectors are in different places but look for a rubber or plastic cover which can be removed somewhere on the body of your camera. It may say DC IN, DIGITAL and AV OUT as my Canon does. Get to the connector by taking off the protective cover (it usually has a hinge on it of some sort to prevent it from dropping on the floor and getting lost).Typical connectors would be a DC IN connector, another to connect your AV cable to view on a television screen (AV OUT) and a third to connect to your PC (DIGITAL). You will know the one you need by simply looking at the end of the transfer cable and looking at the plugs on your camera body. The connectors are not the same shape so there is no danger of connecting the wrong cable (or the wrong end of a cable) to the wrong connector on your camera.

Here is the sequence to follow once you have located the plug: Make sure your PC is turned ON. Turn your camera ON (in REVIEW mode and not SHOOTING mode).

Plug the USB end into a free USB port on your PC. Plug the other end into your camera.

Your PC will now “detect” that there is a device connected. From here, it should display in sequence all of the screens we saw above with the card reader in Option 1.

And that's all there is to it!

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A note about USB memory card readers that you buy separately and plug in yourself: They should cost from $15-$20 for a single card reader (Figure 2) to maybe $30-$35 for a universal one (Figure 1).

Once plugged into a USB port, they can remain attached to your PC more or less permanently. You'll never have to look for your transfer cable again or have to hook up your camera and deplete your camera's battery supply while you transfer files again. These card readers, whether universaltype ones, or single card ones, are not powered nor do they require any software to be installed - just plug it in! They’re also portable if you want to transfer files to another PC. Hope this takes some of the mystery out of transferring files. Now go out and shoot more pics!

Still have questions about transfers or other digital camera problems? Drop me a line at tom.cooper@shaw.ca Beyond 50 Magazine presents: “Digital Camera Day” Saturday, January 20th and Saturday, February 17th. Pete the Computer Guy of the Right Click Computer Training Centre will be running sessions throughout the day starting at 9:00am. Come and spend some time chatting with experts who can offer tips on how to use your digital camera and computer together. Learn how to email, store and print your memories. Beyond 50 Magazine will provide refreshments as well as a chance to win a digital camera!

Call Amy at Right Click 717-5800 for more details; hope you’ll stop by!

TOM COOPER, a retired graphic artist and teacher, occupies his time with freelance photography and by providing workshops on digital cameras, (digital) photography and photo-editing. He also volunteers for the Water Street Seniors Centre Society and the Society for Learning in Retirement, both in Kelowna, and the Westside Health Network Society in Westbank and is a member of the Central Okanagan Photographic Society. He, his wife Jane, and their Golden Retriever Taylor live in Westbank.

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The Gift of a R.E.S.P. Submitted by Colleen Pfannenschmidt

Undergraduate students will pay an average of $4,347 in tuition fees for the 2006/2007 academic year, up from $4,211 the year before. This is almost triple the average of $1,464 in 1990/1991.

Many of us parents, aunties, uncles, and grandparents just love to shower our children with gifts. It starts from those first Fisher Price toys all the way to laptop computers.

Especially with younger children,we often find that some of the toys they receive end up in the bottom of the toy box or under the bed in a very short while.

A great gift to give a child of any age is the gift of a Registered Education Savings Plan, also known as an R.E.S.P. While it doesn’t make any noise and can’t be played with, it could be the greatest gift of all. Most of us want our children to go to college or university, but many parents are faced with the challenge of, “How are we going to pay for our children’s post secondary education?”

By opening an RESP early, parents or grandparents can contribute to the plan regularly and over many years. Many new parents have the foresight to contribute their baby bonus cheques and gifts of money from relatives to their child’s RESP. This way they are getting a head start for the financial challenge that lies ahead. With an RESP, you can contribute up to $4,000 per child per tax year with a lifetime limit of $42,000. Unfortunately, you do not get a tax deduction for contributions but your investment will grow tax free inside the RESP. On top of that, you will qualify for the Canada Education Savings Grant (CESG). The CESG will provide up to a maximum $400 grant for children 17 and under. The CESG grant applies to the first $2000 per year.

This calculation may surprise you: If you invest $2,000 per year for 18 years @ 8% and factor in the CESG grant each 20

year, your child’s RESP will exceed $90,000. This will give your child or grandchild a great start towards their post secondary education – all for $167.00 per month!

Many grandparents understand that contributing to their grandchildren’s RESP is a great way to slowly “give away” some of their assets while they are still alive. What better way to leave a legacy by giving your child or grandchild the ability to achieve their dreams through a university or college education.

How much does it cost to send your children to university?

More than last year, according to a September 2006 findings by Statistics Canada. Here’s what it looks like: · Overall, students returning to Canadian universities for undergraduate studies this fall face greater increases in tuition than last year. · Students can expect to pay on average 3.2% more in tuition fees, almost twice the rate of growth in the previous academic year. · Undergraduate students will pay an average of $4,347 in tuition fees for the 2006/2007 academic year, up from $4,211 the year before. This is almost triple the average of $1,464 in 1990/1991. · Since 1990/1991, tuition fees have increased at an annual average rate of 7.0%. In the 1990/1991 and 1991/1992 academic years alone, they went up 15.2% and 16.5%, respectively. In contrast, since 2000, the increase has slowed to an annual average of 3.9%. The recent lower fee BEYOND 50 • WINTER 2007

increases reflect government moves to regulate fees. · Even so, average tuition fees between 1990/1991 and 2004/2005 increased at a faster pace than inflation. During this period, tuition rose at an average annual rate of 7.7%.

This was almost four times the average rate of inflation as measured by the Consumer Price Index.

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A Harley is the Best Medicine: the story of Nick Stokman Submitted by Laurel D’Andrea

PHOTO • WAYNE DUCHART, PHOTOGRAPHY WEST

Nick’s passion for riding was stronger than his passion for alcohol so he promised himself that he would never drink again. This way, he could ride whenever he wanted.”

The guy is almost 50 and he rides a Harley. My first thought is, “Someone is going through a change of life, some kind of midlife crisis.” For some reason,after we hit 40, most of us lose control of our minds. Our thought processes turn to mush and the word ‘rational’ escapes our brain completely.

So when your sensibilities are in doubt - buy a Harley?

When I asked Nick Stokman,“Why a Harley?”he said with conviction, “Because it springs to life when the starter button is pushed and feels alive when you twist the throttle.

When you’re stopped at a light, the engine is idling and it is still moving.”

When we talk about this change of life,we often think the worst. But this is Nick’s story. You’ll see that his change of life was one that he, his wife Judy, and his daughter Maggie all believe more men should make.

In 1996, Nick was a drinking man. His daughter Maggie was in her last year of high school. They had the seadoos and the motor-home, and did a lot of camping in remote areas.

When Judy decided to get a job, it meant working weekends so the camping thing pretty much came to an end.

Nick sold the toys and instead,sat around and drank beer with the neighbours and friends.

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people to try. Nick saw a Softail but through his excessive drooling, he managed to ask Blair Kane, “How much?!?”

Blair answered, “You don't want a Softail. You want a highway cruiser.”

Nick was excited. “Okay.

How much?!?”

With that and nothing else on his mind, he went home and tried to discuss it with Judy. Her response: Kelowna Capital News May 25, 2005 “Whatever.”

So his first Harley was the Ultra Classic. Blair told him it could take from 6-18 months to get it so Nick just left with that and continued on with life, which included drinking.

In the late fall of 1996, he received a call from Blair. His bike was in! He rushed in to look at it and wow, was it nice. He asked to have it delivered on his 48th birthday, December 2.

What he didn’t know was that his wife and daughter had already made arrangements to have it delivered sooner.

It was a cold, snowy Saturday night. Nick and Judy, went out for dinner. While they were out, Maggie and the gang from Kane’s brought the bike into their living room. When they got home, all the neighbours were there to surprise him - with his new Harley. The party was on!

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Nick didn't have his class six license yet so he couldn’t even ride it. So for the winter, he added accessories and made it part of the family. Come spring, he took the riders safety course and said he would only ride it in nice sunny weather. After the thrill of his first ride, he quickly realized that he should never mix two wheels and alcohol; he didn’t want to do anything that would risk losing this amazing feeling. He needed a change in his life.

Nick’s passion for riding was stronger

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than his passion for alcohol so he promised himself that he would never drink again. This way, he could ride whenever he wanted. That was on April 17th, 1997 and he hasn’t stopped riding since. The 97 Ultra went 165,000K in three and a half years and got him hooked on the lifestyle.

During this lifestyle change, Nick’s wife and daughter have been along for the ride. They both have their class six licences and enjoy riding. Nick’s second Ultra ended up with 155,000K

in three years and the third with 100,000K in two years. Today, he is on his fourth Ultra Classic. It's now eight months old and he’s already got 55,000K on it.

The whole family belongs to BORES: Bikers Out Riding Every Sunday. They meet for breakfast Sunday mornings and go out for a day of riding, including a lunch at some restaurant along the way. It could take from four to seven hours, depending which way and how many people come along. If you ask him which way they’re going today, Nick usually uses both pointer fingers in opposite directions.

I asked Nick about his favourite trip.

His answer: “Well...every trip is the best until the next one.” Although he did admit that one of the great ones was calling his mother early one morning to wish her Happy Mother’s Day. A few minutes later, he decided, “What the heck.” He hopped on his Harley and drove all the way to her place in Yorkton, Saskatchewan, 1500 km, and gave her a big hug late that evening. Man, what a ride...

The great news is that Nick more than just survived the change of life.

His true love is his wife Judy; they’ve been together 36 years. Without her, none of this would have been possible.

Judy is trying to get comfortable riding with Nick driving, although there are times that isn't always the case. She did go across Canada this year,now the second time in five years. So she’s not doing too badly.

At 57 years young, Nick is a Heavy Duty Mechanic for Finning. He still doesn't drink and he doesn’t miss it, plus he still has a full time job,although he’s very close to retirement (retirement is when he can really start to ride. “Maybe I will never be home…” he admitted). When people ask him how he’s doing, they may get an answer something like: “Any day I can ride a motorcycle is a good one, and today I'm doing just that! If I have to explain it to you, you wouldn’t understand. It's that simple.”

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Rancho’s First Christmas Submitted by Karen Lee

Starving cats and dogs wandered everywhere; many had formed packs. This is when we found Rancho at the old church.

In amongst the broken walls of an old church in Ranch Vievos, a little puppy cowered, trembling after having survived the hurricane that ravaged the coast of Mexico. His brothers and sisters did not survive.

In October 2005, Hurricane Wilma’s destruction in Mexico’s Yucatan Peninsula shattered the lives of many.

Measuring a Category Five, this intense hurricane was experienced across the ocean and jungle; its force caused structural damage, treacherous rains and flooding, downed power lines, scattered debris, broken windows, and crumbled roads and walkways. The sands covered the roads, five to six feet deep, along with the once towering palm trees, now fallen. Devastation loomed all around.

Homes were evacuated as they were destroyed, leaving people homeless. All this, along with thousands of abandoned animals to live on the streets.

Lives were instantly shattered. Survival depended on faith, hope, and on all who reached out with medical supplies, food, clothing, and shelter. Emergency relief and recovery efforts were tremendous, the aid coming from Medical Personnel, Red Cross, Army Personnel, Veterinarians, HSUS, WSPA, Friends of the Animals, along with many volunteer humanitarians. The impact of the hurricane’s destruction was all around.

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Cancun with my friend, Rachel Genesis. Our inspiration and determination was to assist in Rancho at 6 months, dehydrated and starving. relief efforts with the animals; caring for animals is our passion and career. We accompanied various organizations, helping to distribute food, medication, and clothing to the island residents. Food and medication were also provided for their animals.

Starving cats and dogs wandered everywhere; many had formed packs. This is when we found Rancho at the old church. He was famished and dehydrated. His eyes were big, sad, and very frightened. He touched our hearts.

We took him on the ferry to Isla Mujeres, an island near Cancun, where many injured stray and abandoned animals wandered the empty streets searching for food. Their chance for survival was next to none. Here, we volunteered at a small veterinarian clinic. For homeless cats, open crates for housing and dishes with food lined the walkway to the front door.

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ceiling. Recovering animals were in travel crates with newspaper.

Running water and electricity was sporadic.

We would go into the City at night to feed at least 80 street/alley cats, trapping two or three each time to return to the clinic to vaccinate, spay/neuter, tattoo and release again.This helps prevent the spread of infection and disease, and helps control the population by sterilization. We did Many dogs have ticks.The the same with the dogs. Many of owner doused this puppy in motor oil thinking it the stray dogs were given the would get rid of the ticks. name ‘William’ or ‘Wilma’ in reference to the hurricane.

With the veterinarian, Dr. Delfino Guevara, we vaccinated and medicated, provided treatments, assisted with various surgeries in the emergency room, and provided post-operative care.

A clean puppy after the The veterinarian’s assistant,Alfredo, motor oil is removed. did animal grooming and assisted with surgeries. Luckily, some of the animals were adopted from the clinic. So we traveled around the five-mile island on a moped to do house visits, providing care for these animals.

Rancho was diagnosed with dehydration, starvation, Demodex (mange), and Coccidia (internal parasites). His paws were cut and bleeding. He was medically treated at the veterinary clinic and neutered when his body could tolerate the operation. His age was approximated at six

months old. Each day we cared for Rancho,we undoubtedly fell more in love with the little Mexican dog. It was decided - Rancho was coming to Canada. He received a health record, which would allow him entry into the country.

Rachel brought Rancho back to Canada in December.

Rancho had never seen snow. It was his first Christmas. A stocking filled with dog treats displaying the name “RANCHO”hung on the fireplace beside the Christmas tree.

Rancho stared up at the brightly decorated tree with curiosity. For him, the tree and presents were an unknown symbol, but receiving the attention and care indicated an abundance of love and peace.

He no longer needs to desperately search empty dirt roads for garbage to eat, or to huddle in makeshift shelters. He has so much love and attention; he receives any medical care needed, along with the security of a full food dish every day and a Mexican blanket to sleep on. His ribs are not visible and his fur has Rancho at 1 year old, happy and at grown in. His eyes have home in Canada. changed; they are no longer sad and frightened, but filled with trust.

The shadows of the hurricane have now passed, but are sorrowfully remembered by those who survived the experience and were left with tremendous inspiration to go on. Love, courage, hope, and faith always invite miracles.

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A Place to Give and Receive Submitted by Lian Couper, Coordinator of Volunteers

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One nice thing about SOSS is that we do not claim to have all the answers - but we will put you in contact with the people who do.

Our goal at Seniors Outreach Services Society is a simple one: "To enhance the quality of life for lonely seniors in Kelowna." For the past 17 years,that is exactly what we have been doing and will continue to do as long as we are needed.

So how does one go about enhancing another's quality of life? You offer advice when it's needed;you listen because sometimes we all just need someone to talk to, someone who can remain objective. You promote the community and let people know there are services available,services for them to seek guidance from and services that could use their time and talent.

Organizations like SOSS help build the bridge between need and want; we help people connect when they just need that little extra attention. We also help nurture relationships between people who want to help and those who need some help. SOSS has gathered information on every subject from housing, to transportation, to community resources - it’s all in our handy, free ElderGuide booklet. For those who are computer savvy, our ElderGuide is on the Internet at www.elderguide.ca. Still, if you’d like to hear a friendly voice, you can phone us or visit our office.

SOSS matches trained volunteers with lonely seniors in our outreach program. Isolated seniors who are looking for a companion to visit with may find one through SOSS by making a quick call to our office. Once a volunteer has been

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evaluated, trained, and matched with a client, it is up to the new friends to decided how their time together is spent, whether it is playing whist, shopping, or going out to a theatre matinee. Several of our original volunteers are still with clients who they met more than 15 years ago!

One nice thing about SOSS is that we do not claim to have all the answers - but we will put you in contact with the people who do. We are proud of the fact that we work hard to match the person's needs to the volunteers and agencies in our network; we want our clients and our volunteers to both feel good about the connection. Another valuable aspect of SOSS is everything is confidential - sometimes we are scared or worried to talk to the people we are closest to, so you can have a conversation with someone at SOSS that is kept confidential.

For the more mobile seniors, we have established a senior Coffee Break program where people can drop in for coffee, a chat, a game of Scrabble, and pick up the latest brochures and pamphlets on senior living. It is a great opportunity to meet others.Every Thursday from 1-2:30 pm, the group meets at the Capri Centre Mall, in front of the Fireplace in the Food court. Volunteers are on hand to make all welcome. A second group will soon be established in Mission.

SOSS provides a Volunteer Income Tax preparation program, and maintains a resource library with books and

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Your next question may be: how does one support such a worthwhile agency? Well,it is very simple. A lot of support for SOSS comes through public donations, our ‘leave a legacy’ fund, and many generous local foundations, agencies, and businesses. You can support us through cash donation or enquire about the ‘leave a legacy’fund. You can also become a valuable part of the volunteer team. The greatest volunteers are those who have "walked a mile in their shoes”; we all have a hidden talent or something good to share. Volunteering is one of the greatest ways to give back to a community. The organization you help appreciates your commitment and time. The people you help value your insight and expertise. You get the greatest feeling of all, the "warm fuzzy" for helping someone. So if you are looking for a place to give and receive,I suggest you check us out at #207-1889 Springfield Road, or call us at 250-861-6180. We also have a website and email address for your convenience, www.seniorsoutreach.ca and info@seniorsoutreach.ca We would love to hear from you!

Here are just a few of the events that the Kelowna Community Theatre will be hosting this winter!

Jan. 13 Jan. 16 Jan. 20 Jan. 22 Jan. 24 Jan. 25 & 26 Jan. 28 Feb. 25

Okanagan Symphony KCC Present “Ben Hepner” “Come Together”Beatles Tribute Aarron Pritchett All in All it’s a Pink Floyd Rock Show Sunshine Theatre presents:The # 14 Dr. Lonnie Smith and Crash The Little Eagles of Siberia World Tour

Classical Music Concert Classical Tenor Concert Pop / Rock Concert Country Concert Live Musical Tribute Live Theatre Jazz & Blues Concert Children’s Chorus

• Our expansive lobby has a concession and two bars that serve a variety of domestic beers and Okanagan wines • There are over 800 parking spaces available within a three blocks of the theatre.

• Our professional staff, courteous volunteers and welcoming environment make the Kelowna Community Theatre an ideal place to enjoy an evening of top quality entertainment.

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A Passion for Sports…

Submitted by Harry Brust

PHOTO • HARRY BRUST

I have been able to see his tenacity, perseverance, and his passion for sports…

I first met Ian B.Taylor in 1988 on a cool Friday evening. It was at the Rutland Arena, when I was invited to play some hockey with the boys. Since that day, I have observed that Ian, in his youthful spirit of 76 years, has the enthusiasm to enjoy the game of hockey as long as his health will allow. He has always been involved in organizing the Kelowna Cobras hockey team in one form or another and has volunteered in many other community events. With family activities to church functions, Ian has still found the time and desire to compete in track events in BC Senior Games.

When I asked him why he involves himself in the volunteer process, he pondered for a few seconds as if he didn’t have an answer. Then he mentioned the name of Jack Brow, an instructor with the Department of Recreation in Kelowna,who inspired Ian with a new vitality in those earlier years. Ian was strongly influenced by Jack Brow because of what his character brought to the development of kids in the city through sports.

Since the early 1950s, Ian had a career in transportation with the CN. He moved to Kelowna in 1964,from Vancouver.

When he later retired from the CN, it allowed him to pursue his passion for sports… the competitiveness… the volunteering… the interaction with team players and

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friends… and to make an investment in those who participate in recreation in this beautiful Okanagan Valley community. From my vantage point,I have been able to see his tenacity, perseverance, and his passion for sports… and I know his investment has brought a great return. Thanks, Ian!

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for the United Way Drive Thru Breakfast Maxine DeHart says thanks! Thanks to all the sponsors, volunteers and all who came by to purchase a breakfast at the 2006 Ramada United Way Drive Thru Breakfast.The total raised by our community was over $39,500!

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Finding Ogopogo in the Snow PHOTO • HEATHER HOLLINGDALE

Submitted by Marilyn Brown

…we’ve experienced the real deal - Calgary, Boston, and Edmonton winters. For some reason, clearing driveways was nowhere near as much fun as playing in the snow…

One winter-time recreation activity has great memories for me – snow sculpting and snow tunneling. Growing up in Vancouver, there was a mixed attitude towards winter, and in particular, snow. Even as a small child, you develop a custom-fitted pair of webbed feet from all the rain; it almost always came as rain in the winter, or instant slush if the temps did drop a little. When we did in fact get enough snow to do anything decent with it, the next obstacle presented itself.

Imagine the cussing when Mom had to bundle three toddlers into zippered snowsuits to get out into the white stuff. My grandparents and any unfortunate older siblings would be recruited for the task. And heaven help you if one of us little gaffers hadn’t gone to the bathroom before the snowsuit went on! Needless to say, other family members were a lot less excited to see a real snowfall than we kids were.

Sometimes, there wasn’t enough supervision for all the kids. As a compromise of sorts, the huge metal laundry tub would get hauled out to the yard. Shovelfuls of the white magic would be loaded into it and then dragged back inside to rest in the middle of the kitchen floor where we could be watched. Perhaps that’s when my curiosity about snow sculpting began – with that lovely load of quicklymelting art media. Anyone could go outside and build a traditional snowman, but just try moulding a bunny or cat from snow (in record time), while trying not to totally saturate the kitchen floor!

Jump forward a couple of decades. There are two munchkins of our own and we’ve experienced the real deal – Calgary, Boston, and Edmonton winters. For some reason, clearing driveways was nowhere near as much fun as

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playing in the snow; that’s one thing we were able to rediscover as parents. The neighbours must have thought we were whacked as heck when we created a giant Pooh Bear and honey pot on the front lawn one winter afternoon.

Or maybe it was the giant snow lizard that made them shake their heads. We were always weary at the end of the day, but content with the creative process, and the kids thought they had something really special in their yard.

The last few winters here in Kelowna, I was delighted to witness the continuation of this snow wizardry through my now grown kids. Maybe it grew from boredom with hitting the university texts; perhaps just from a dull, grey afternoon and a necessity to clear the driveway.Or it could have grown from a twinkling memory of building snow igloos and monsters and forts and tunnels. Wherever their inspiration came from, one wintry day, my son showed his quirky humour and dexterity by building a full-size sofa and chair, TV and a lamp, with a can of beer on the side table: all chiselled from snow! Another time, over the course of a few hours, with those amazingly large snowflakes descending, brother and sister completed a good 30 foot run of tunnel through the embankment of snow beside the driveway.

They even revealed that they could crawl completely inside.

It was like a miniature version of the English Chunnel and proved to be a source of entertainment for passers-by and neighbours. Indeed, a grand bit of carving and shaping!

I was impressed that they had learned the lesson well.

Perhaps next time, when we gather over a snowy weekend, I can convince the troops to recreate a giant Ogopogo in the backyard. (Heck,if they can do it at a sandcastle festival,why not with snow?) I can’t wait to get out there this year with our kids and have some creative fun!

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Know Your Skin Care Products: Women and Men Submitted by Orla Cooper

PHOTO • BECKY CHAPMAN

Don’t automatically buy products based on your age.

The aging process depends upon several factors and just because you turn 50, it doesn’t mean that suddenly your skin is drying out and you need extra moisture.

There are many factors affecting how your skin ages: environmental elements, sun exposure, lifestyle, and heredity. The aging process varies from person to person and happens more slowly or quickly in different people. But taking proper care of your skin can slow some aspects of aging.

If you haven’t already, develop a healthy daily routine for the care of your skin. There are three basic steps for taking proper care of your skin. You should always cleanse, tone, and moisturize, morning and night, using products that are suitable for your skin type. If you’re not sure of your skin type, seek assistance from a beauty advisor at your local cosmetic counter.

Using a sunscreen daily is one of the most effective ways to slow photo aging, so try to find a moisturizer or foundation that contains a minimum SPF 15. There are many products on the market today known to slow skin aging and aid in repairing damaged skin. It’s helpful to understand what some of the ingredients do so that you can make an informed decision about what product will best address your specific skin concerns.

Alpha Hydroxy Acid (AHA) is well known for its ability to help with fine lines,irregular pigmentation,and age spots. It also helps to decrease enlarged pores. It is recommended to start with a low concentration to prevent irritation and gradually let the skin become accustomed to the product.

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texture of the skin. Its also penetrates hair follicles where oil and dirt collect, which can help with blemished or acneprone skin. There are many products available that contain salicylic acid, such as Vichy Normaderm, Roc Purif-AC, and Biotherm Acnopur.

Retinol is a derivative of Vitamin A and can be found in many different forms in skin care products. It can penetrate to the lower layers of the skin and is known to stimulate collagen and elastin production.It is effective for smoothing fine lines and wrinkles, improves the colour and texture of the skin, and increases hydration levels. There are several skin care lines that offer products containing different forms of retinol, such as Roc, Avene, Neostrata and Vichy.

Vitamin C in a topical form is a powerful antioxidant that is known to stimulate collagen production. It helps to smooth fine lines and wrinkles, reduce scarring, and it stimulates a healthy radiance to the skin. There are several brands that make products containing Vitamin C. One of the newest on the market is Lise Watier’s Vitamin C2 Skin Perfector capsules. Neostrata and La Roche Posay, Vichy, and Lancome also have products with Vitamin C, each having a different application.

There is a relatively new product available from Elizabeth Arden and Allergan called Prevage. Its main active ingredient is Idebenone, which has been used for years in pharmaceutical applications. Idebenone is now being touted as one of the most powerful anti-oxidants available in the cosmoderm market today. It is well tolerated by most skin types but it is recommended that you ease into using it.

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Idebenone smoothes fine lines and wrinkles, evens skin tone, fades dark pigmentation and freckles,and softens rough, dry skin.

Don’t automatically buy products based on your age. As I said before,the aging process depends upon several factors and just because you turn 50, it doesn’t mean that suddenly your skin is drying out and you need extra moisture. Also, be patient with the product that you try for the first time.

Our skin cells regenerate approximately once a month so to get a true feel for how your anti-aging product is working, you will have to wait at least that long before you begin to see some results. Using an exfoliator once or twice a week will remove dead skin cell build up and let the newer skin cells show. This gives a more immediate smoothness to the skin and also allows for better absorption of your moisturizer or treatment.

For men, skincare products will vary slightly from the ones that women will use. Men’s skin is thicker than women’s skin and has different needs. More and more men are taking better care of their skin today than ever before; that is why you will find a wider range of products available for men at the cosmetic counter, some of which include Biotherm Homme, Clarins for men, Zirh, and Boss skincare.

No matter what your concerns are, there are a wide variety of products available to suit your needs and budget. Talk to a knowledgeable cosmetician or beauty advisor about what your options are and what is right for you.

ORLA is the manager of the Cosmetic Department of London Drugs in Kelowna and has been with the company for 17 years. She is a 2nd generation local gal (mother also born and raised in Kelowna) When Orla is not working or with her kids Taisia 15 and Brandon 11, she loves to sing.So far her family hasn’t quite “tuned in”to her talent!

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Hot Dishes for Winter Days Submitted by Lisa Cham, owner of the Fixx Café and Pasta Bar and by Lydia Baldwin Specialty Bakery

Here is your chance to try something new but one really old family recipe.

LISA CHAM is the owner of the Fixx Café and Pasta Bar in the Mission. Lisa arrived from the Caribbean in January 2004 to open her restaurant. During her ten years in the Caribbean, she owned the “Ocean Allegro” in Saint Vincent and the Grenadines. Her favourite memories of the Caribbean are the ocean,the warm weather,and most of all, the “fabulous”people she met each and everyday. Now, Lisa enjoys life in the Okanagan with the lakes, the seasonal weather, and the “fabulous”people who live here.

Cream of Caramelized Onion and Garlic Soup YIELDS 6-8 SERVINGS

2 tbsp olive oil 2 cups chopped onion 1/4 cup finely chopped garlic 1/4 cup sugar 2-3 small bay leaves Pinch crushed red pepper flakes 8 cups chicken stock 2 cups white wine 3 cups French bread 3/4 cup whipping cream 1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese Finely chopped parsley Sauté onion and garlic in olive oil. Add crushed bay leaves and crushed red pepper flakes. Add white sugar and caramelize until onions turn golden. Add white wine and reduce to 1 cup. Add chicken stock, bring to a boil then simmer for approximately 45 mins. Add French bread and boil slightly until bread softens. Add whipping cream and with a hand held blender puree until smooth.

Whisk in Parmesan cheese and garnish with chopped parsley. Enjoy on a cool winter day!

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LYDIA'S culinary experience spans over 50 years. Lydia began cooking at the age of 17. Her first job was in Winnipeg for the Ellis Inn; her next job was at our very own Kelowna Golf and Country Club. She spent a few years in Osoyoos, Oliver and Penticton. When she relocated back to Kelowna, she spent 13.5 years working in the cafeteria at BC Tel/TELUS. Once TELUS decided to restructure, Lydia was back on the move; she worked at the Happy Fryer and now hangs her apron at the

Specialty Bakery on the corner of Gordon and Springfield.

Her passion is revealed through the flavour of her food. And she makes the best tuna melt with Swiss cheese on light rye in the Okanagan!

We want to hear about your favorite recipes.

Please send them to info@beyond50mag.com or by fax at 869-1490 or mail them to 1850 Ranchmont Crescent, Kelowna, BC V1V 1T4.

Lydia then (left)... and now (right).

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Cut smoked sausage into chunks and brown in oil. Add vegetables, rice and spices and let brown for 1 minute.

Add broth, mix well and boil covered for approximately 15 minutes.

Trim pork loin of any excess fat and cut in thin 1 1/2 strips. Add these to the rice mixture. Let cook for 5-7 minutes.

Let stand 3-4 minutes.

Garnish with dill, green onions and shredded carrots if desired.

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2 onions finely chopped 1 red bell pepper finely chopped 3 celery leaves finely chopped 1 carrot finely chopped 2 smoked sausages 1 tbsp oil 2 cups parboiled rice 1 1/2 tsp salt 1 tsp paprika 1/4 tsp cayenne pepper (more if you like it spicy!)

1/2 tsp thyme 1 clove garlic crushed 5 cups chicken or turkey broth 1 lb lean pork loin 1 cup regular salsa Fresh Dill Weed, green onions and shredded carrots for garnish

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What’s happening This calendar of events is compliments of Community Information and Volunteer Centre 250-763-8008 Cheryl Miller and Linda Hartford of Civic.

DECEMBER 2006 KCR Holiday and Free Events Guide for December events - download a copy from our website at www.kcr.ca or call 763-8008 E. 24 1 World Aids Day (same every year) 1 - 7 National Safe Driving Week 3 International Day of Disabled Persons 2 Christmas Light-up – Towne Centre Mall to Kerry Park, Christmas Tree light up to start off the Christmas season, 5 International Volunteer Day for Economic and Social Development Volunteer Manager’s Day (same every year) 6 National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women (same every year) 10 Human Rights Day JANUARY 2007 Mothers March (March of Dimes) Kinsmen 2 Illusions – Magic N Miracles – Kelowna Community Theatre Kelowna Professional Firefighters – Burn Unit 4 World Braille Day 13, 14, 15 Avalanche Awareness 15 - 21 National Non-Smoking Week 20 Thompson Okanagan Housing Awards – Capri Hotel 21 Chinese New Year 22 Walk for Memories – Alzheimer Society of BC 18 - 21 Icewine Festival – Sunpeaks Resort 25 - 31 National Family Literacy Week 27 Munsch Madness 27 National Family Literacy Day 26, 27, 28 Kelowna Snowfest 26 - 28 Kelowna Home Show – Prospera Place FEBRUARY 2007 Black History Month Heart and Stroke Month Junior Achievement Month Psychology Month 3 L’Amore Bridal/Grad Extravaganza – Kelowna Community Theatre 6 - 12 Eating Disorder Week 6 - 12 International Coaching Week 14 Dress Red Day – Heart and Stroke Foundation 15 Flag Day 15 - 18 BC Special Olympics in Kelowna 2007 20 - 24 Chamber of Commerce Week in BC 20 - 26 Heritage Week

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Fishing, Cycling, Sailing, and Baseball: a vacation with my Grandson Submitted by Wally Dennison

…each of us paddled in separate kayaks up the lovely Au Sable River for more than two hours, ending at a spot where we hauled all four kayaks and accompanying equipment up a wooden stairway of 206 steps…

Perfect prescription for any grandparent yearning to revitalize a youthful, adventurous spirit: pair up for a few weeks of travelling fun with a grandson or granddaughter.

As 11-year-old Nicky Bonder says, it’s “cool”. Nicky is my grandson in Winnipeg, and his “cool”verdict on our one-onone bonding during a recent jaunt to Michigan struck me as really cool advice for any granny or grandpa. Could be the grandest, most fun-filled, exciting and educational journey of your life (and this comes from a 72-year-old who has written on travels to six of the world’s seven continents).

Watch your grandkid’ s face illuminate and feel his or her heart pounding as the passenger jet soars off, marking the kid’s initial airplane flight. Delight in the lavish and varied descriptions of the sky and clouds pouring forth from thrilled young minds. That’s only the appetizer to grand companionship, as Nicky and I discovered heading to Michigan (birth state of this naturalized Canadian).

You can’t beat a one-on-one journey with granny or grandpa for giving a kid a deep, insightful dig into his or her family roots. Neither I nor my three older brothers knew our parents - our mom and dad, who met in New York, had emigrated separately to America from Russia several years before the 1917 revolution. For Nicky and me, this exploration was go-go-go from the moment we were picked up at Detroit International Airport by my 82 year-old brother, Adam, sole surviving member of my immediate family. Adam, now driving cars for Avis in retirement, was a superb tour guide, explaining the sights and scenes of notorious Detroit. Nicky saw the home where Adam and I were raised with brothers Vic and Al; in eastside Detroit, 44

where our modest home once warmly welcomed us,he saw the devastated neighborhood block where humongous weeds now grow so depressingly in its place.

In Midland,Michigan,en route to Hale in losco Country for a combined bridal-groom shower and family reunion, we were hosted for a day at the summer trailer home of my eldest niece, Betty, and her husband, Dan Ganish, a senior manager with Ford Motor Co. What a smashing time Nicky had fishing with Dan from the dock of a nearby stream,using worms, pieces of bologna, and a few small lures. He’s sure hooked on fishing,and the few nibbles only served to fuel his ongoing daily query, “When are we going fishing again?”

Nicky frequently rummaged though the tackle box and lures given him by Dan, just as he did later with another, larger tackle box given him in Hale by my eldest nephew, David.

We stayed with David and wife Mary on their 43 sprawling rural acres. There was the lovely weekend bridalgroom shower honoring David’s and Mary’s daughter, Natasha, and her fiancé, Gregory St. Martin. Sunburn notwithstanding, what a splashing great time Nicky had in the swimming pool with all his young cousins, while more than 100 guests broke bread and celebrated!

As the reminiscing, family history, and jocular repartee unfolded, Nicky’s ears perked attentively, particularly to the earthy comments of David, a 58 year-old iron worker now on disability after tumbling off a girder.

Everyone fondly calls him “Gunny” - a nickname earned as a marine gunnery sergeant in the Vietnam War. In Vietnam, Gunny’s jungle unit of 63 (only 17 survived) overpowered an enemy force of 480, killing 420. As we BEYOND 50 • WINTER 2007

informed Nicky, he was shot up badly but here was a “Gunny” whose battle heroism amazingly carried over into civilian life. Not only did he win a Silver Star (America’s 3rd highest metal for bravery), but his courage as a civilian ignited front-page coverage for two gallant acts. Once, he helped state police capture two prison escapees after they had robbed a drive-in and taken a woman hostage.Another time, he rushed into a flaming, gas-filled house to carry an unconscious man out to safety before a second explosion rocked the dwelling.

In looks, talk, and manner, Gunny is the mirror image of his uncle Vic. Vic was a Michigan divisional Golden Gloves boxing champ whose fistic gifts later proved life-saving: during WW2, medal-winning Chief Boatswain Mate Vic punched out cold a mate whose panic was threatening the buoyancy of a life raft jammed with guys blown off their ship by enemy gunfire and into the turbulent Atlantic.

(Several decades later, ex-sailor Vic would rib marine Gunny as “a seagoing bellhop”).

The couple’s industry sparkles throughout the homestead. With horse-pulled tractors and plows, Gunny and Mary carved out the magnificent network of nature trails where Nicky and I walked and cycled. Often, we’d take oh-so-comical Patch, their canine, named after famous clown Patch Adams. What an endearing howl that pooch was, snuggling to sleep in Nicky’s lap as we watched TV from the living room sofa.

Every day sported a gloriously new rustic panorama as Gunny drove us to different fishing spots on rivers, lakes, and dams, then coached Nicky in casting and other fundamentals. What excitement on our last night when Nicky finally reeled in his first fish - a catfish - then three others within minutes! Not small, not large, but that haul sure expanded Nicky’s chest as he displayed them for grandpa’s photo-shoot. The region is also a hunter’s paradise, and Gunny regaled us with his many deer- and bear-hunting tales.The roads themselves loudly confirm the area’s bountiful wildlife - so many raccoons and porcupines laid to rest under speeding tires. Now, Nicky’s science collection has some bones we pried from a porcupine’s carcass while cycling together.

George Sr.is Gunny’s close friend and a fellow iron worker, and the Korczowski spread was the spectacular afternoon theatre where Nicky was spellbound. This wonderland certainly breeds a hardy lot of outdoors people - like 21 yearold Aaron “Musher” Korczowski, a sled dog racer. One of Nicky’s grandest treats was a visit to the 11 acre homestead of Aaron’s parents, George Sr. and Darlene. “Musher” Aaron showed us the family’s llama, sheep, cows, pigeons (his dad races pigeons), and the Alaskan huskies he trains for races.

Quite a hand,that young man - he not only shears sheep and meticulously prepares his team of huskies to race-hungry sharpness, but he plays several musical instruments; gave us a mini-concert with violin, guitar, and accordion. But his prime passion is sled dog racing, as was obvious from his BEYOND 50 • WINTER 2007

impassioned answers to Nicky’s barrage of questions. Aaron has travelled throughout Michigan for races and is a member of MidUnion Sled-Haulers, Inc. (MUSH), a nonprofit club embracing several Midwest states.

Latest standings on the club’s website list Aaron as having the third-highest total of points in the five-dog class. Sure looks like Aaron is shaping up well for his ultimate goal of running the Iditarod - the globally-acclaimed race in early March that pits man and animal against the wild perils of Alaska.

Hearing of Aaron’s exploits sure engaged Nicky’s mind and muscles for a physical challenge of his own. So, with Gunny and Mary coaching, each of us paddled in separate kayaks up the lovely Au Sable River for more than two hours, ending at a spot where we hauled all four kayaks and accompanying equipment up a wooden stairway of 206 steps, to Gunny’s truck in the parking lot. Whew!

Throughout the week in upper Michigan and for the several days with my brother Adam and family in the Detroit area, Nicky and gramps were having some grand duels - to mention a couple, bedtime pillow fights and “spitball”fights (napkin-wads fired by exhaling them from the tips of pop straws). An adult must set limits but face it - even parents and grandparents occasionally ought to “bang loose” and play with their charges. It’s simple enough to respectfully declare,“Enough.” And it does wonders for them to see you praying regularly; Nicky sure took to the daily responsibility of saying grace before meals. Likewise, except for maybe a few yawns, that kid alertly “hit the deck” whenever I firmly shook him to “rise and shine”. After all, he has been a Navy cadet for a couple years.

Back in Detroit, it was a sunny Sunday afternoon at Comerica Park. We sat in the heat in prime, reserved seats along the third-base line near the Tigers’ dugout. It was Nicky,Adam,me,and Nicky’s cousin,Mike,Adam’s eldest son.

The Tigers, with the best record in major league baseball, were playing the Texas Rangers. Nicky’s head was topped by the Tigers’ distinctive “D” ball cap, his left hand gloved with my baseball mitt (anticipating a possible foul ball flying within his reach as a souvenir). We were there courtesy of businessman Kevin O’Hare, who holds season tickets to that section of seats and is the husband of my niece, Pat. Wow! Did my nephew, Mike, pour out a torrent of baseball lore and knowledge to Nicky, seated beside him.

Mike’s good with kids - an ability honed by his years as head of school district counselors working with troubled children and families. Plus he’s a father himself, coaches a kids’ track and cross-country team, and is a veteran marathon runner.

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there was Nicky, like Mike, disgustedly screaming in protest against the ump’s “Out!”call on a Tiger’s fancy slide attempt into home plate for the tying run. Minutes later, Nicky was again on his feet with Mike, repeatedly yelling, “Ball caps!

Ball caps!” as the crowd urged the Tigers for a come-frombehind rally. In that “ball caps” yell, fans en masse turn their caps inside out. No luck, but I wouldn’t have bet against Nicky spearing a foul ball had one zoomed his way. He pitches and plays outfield for his kids’ league team, and he has been voted the team’s Most Valuable Player in each of the past two years. Who knows, maybe a future Tiger in the making?

The next evening, our last, Nicky, grandpa, Adam, Pat and hubby Kevin all enjoyed a beautiful, leisurely sail for almost two hours on Detroit’s Lake St. Clair. An idyllic, picturesque sunset rippled the water. Kevin, a lifelong sailboat artisan, was at the helm, skippering the 37-foot sailboat and educating all of us in this nautical art and its terminology.

Nicky lapped it up. He was delighted to help swab the decks and loved bringing the vessel into dock.

Perfect climax to an unforgettable adventure.

Well, not quite climactic... yet. In Minneapolis, after the flight from Detroit, Nicky and I were in the first passenger seats behind the cockpit.Our jet’s takeoff time to Winnipeg was delayed for 45 minutes. As our amiable flight attendant told us, all flights must remain grounded until a certain famous plane has landed safely to a stop on the

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airstrip. The mother of three grown sons,she was so sweetly adorable and informative to Nicky.Seems a fellow known as U.S. President George W. Bush was cruising in on Air Force One while three planes hovered above for protective security. Bush was to campaign in the Twin Cities for a candidate in the November congressional elections. Excited Nicky and I did catch a one-second glance at Air Force One as our jet taxied past on takeoff. And I mused, what astounding contrasts for the bookends of our adventure! We were stymied by Bush now, and at Winnipeg International Airport on Aug.10, we were stymied on the very first day the new airport security restrictions came into effect - thanks to the foiled terrorist plot to blow up airplanes between London and the United States. Like innumerable thousands leaving and returning home,we had to transfer certain items from our carry-on bags to our cargo luggage, items that were formerly allowed. The bans included all liquids or gels, even our toothpaste.And we had to take off shoes and metal buckles. Time-consuming, yes, but an education to Nicky regarding the reality of today’s world.

But you can’t dash adventurous spirits. After a trip that developed into a gargantuan feast of walking, fishing, cycling, swimming, exploring forest trails with lovable Patch the English pointer, cheering the Detroit Tigers, sailing, mutual ribbing and game-playing, and photo-taking, we are ready for the next adventure.Tentative plans for the next few years are for Nicky and me to travel first throughout Eastern Canada, then secondly through Western Canada. God willing, we will mutually and joyfully share the countless wonders of our home;truly the greatest country in the world.

WALLY DENNISON is a retired journalist living in Kelowna. He is communication chairman for the 2007 BC Senior Games next September in Nanaimo and has a book scheduled for release in January (For the Love of God's Kids published by Essence Publishing, Bellville, Ontario).

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