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What do you get when you’ve: 1) Hustled for the last round of back-to-school essentials (pencil, paper, clean clothes); 2) Tackled all of the desired hair cuts without fusses (neglecting your own); and 3) Effortlessly packed (crammed) your child’s favorite PB&J sandwich in a superbly-arranged lunch box (or brown paper bag)?
You get: Cool first-day-of-school photos (or just out the door)! Ba dum tss.
I know. That was so bad. But you get the point — parent priorities vs. adolescents. (And speaking of PB&J, do y’all like the crust on or off?)
Most young people don’t care about how we (parents) struggle to get them to the finish line, as long as the memory is captured. But, selfishly, sometimes we just want to feel some sort of acknowledgment or appreciation of effectively getting over humps of surviving the day and preserving our sanity. Just a little bit.
Not at all that they’re (children) ungrateful, but it’s just how they process events in their underdeveloped mindset. As parents, we want our children to be equipped — knowing what’s ahead — even if we have to handle priorities for them. And as children, they just want to live in the moment. We totally get that, and believe their hearts and intentions are good. It’s all part of growing and maturing, which is a transitional phase we will continue as long as we live.
Growth and development are closely interwoven and are critical to the foundation of teaching and learning for both adults and young people. Positive results can create a healthy character, habits, lifestyle, and overall society.
Everyone can find areas within themselves (or life) that can be improved and prioritized better, hence the intentionality of this back-to-school issue focusing on growth
Our caring professionals can provide the level of support needed to help your child get back on track.
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and development opportunities for us all. We’ve compiled some great resources for the journey: utilizing play for childhood development, tips on simplifying school-year routines, and showing integrity, kindness, and grace to encourage others. Plus, catch a glimpse of our calendar to stay in the loop on all the fun happening around town.
As we kick off the 2025-26 school year, my hope is simple. That we — parents, teachers, and the overall community — will diligently seek positive growth in ourselves and young people who are learning (watching). Teach them to consistently choose to “do good, and be better.”
Best wishes this school year, and take lots of photos to commemorate growth!
Later, my friends!
Erika Cain Editor
Join Cazateatro Bilingual Theatre Group in celebrating Latin culture in a day full of music, food, dance, and a kids area. Overton Square, September 27, noon-6 p.m.
9 • Saturday
Special Story Time Event: Cairo’s Big Adventure: Magic in the Moment
Terriah L. Carver’s Cairo’s Big Adventures: Magic in the Moment is the first book in the Cairo’s Big Adventures series — a nursery book that celebrates the everyday joys of babyhood. Novel, August 9, 10:30 a.m.
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Explore Memphest
Join the Memphis Public Libraries in celebrating Memphis with free food, live music, story time, crafts, and a story walk.
Benjamin L. Hooks Central Library, August 16, 1-4 p.m.
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Delta Fair & Music Festival
Exciting, interactive, and educational, this festival has games, rides, and all your fair classics. Agricenter International, August 29-September 7
10 • Wednesday
Children’s Entrepreneur Market
Presented during the Memphis Botanic Garden’s Food Truck Night, the Children’s Entrepreneur Market will give kids the opportunity to run their own businesses for the day, and grow their entrepreneurial skills.
Memphis Botanic Garden, September 10, 5-8 p.m.
19 • Friday
Teen Workshop: Glow Party (ages 14-18)
Explore the effects of glow-in-the-dark color with painting, sculpting, and more experiences. Dixon Gallery & Gardens, September 19, 5-7 p.m.
4 • Saturday
Picnic for Pachyderms
Have a delightful encounter with the zoo’s elephants while you enjoy a picnic. Art for Elephants will be happening simultaneously. Memphis Zoo, October 4, 11-1 p.m.
10 • Friday
Zoo Boo
Have yourself a Halloween (not-so-scary) fright at the Memphis Zoo.
Memphis Zoo, select nights October 10-31
“CREATE | CREA”
The Dixon’s interactive gallery becomes a dynamic making space designed to spark creativity, curiosity, and hands-on exploration. Dixon Gallery & Gardens, through September 21 Concerts in the Grove
Enjoy music, food trucks, and corn hole, all in the beautiful, park-like setting.
Germantown Performing Arts Center, select Thursdays
Overton Square Movie Nights
Bring your picnic baskets and folding chairs for free movies each Thursday.
Overton Square, Thursdays
Sing It, Memphis
Memphis River Parks Partnership, alongside the talented Keri Lee, invites you to raise your voice in harmony.
Tom Lee Park, third Saturday of the month, through December
By Marge Eberts and Peggy Gisler
Parents: When your children return to school this month, don’t be surprised to see new technology and approaches implemented — varying by each school. Of course, as you probably have guessed, AI (artificial intelligence) will probably be leading the way in how teachers utilize innovative resources in their classrooms.
1. Artificial Intelligence: As teachers become more familiar with all the ways AI can be explored within the classroom, you can expect them to engage it more as an individual tutor to meet a student’s specific needs, quite like being a co-teacher.
2. Social-Emotional Learning (SEL): This is a rather new idea that academic success is entwined with emotional well-being. Because many classrooms today have a more diverse group of students, socialemotional learning helps every child to feel respected and empowered. Teachers will emphasize such things as relationship building and mindfulness, which is to be fully present, aware of where we are, and
not be overly reactive or overwhelmed by what is happening around us. Teachers will focus on helping students learn such skills as empathy, self-regulation, and responsible decision-making.
3. STEAM: STEM education will become STEAM in many schools by adding an “A” for arts, as an inclusion with science, technology, engineering, and math. It will involve using creative disciplines such as visual arts, music, drama, and design to foster creativity and innovation. It should help students learn to think outside the box. The idea is for STEAM to make learning more engaging as it combines with analytical STEM activities.
4. Gamification: School can become boring at times for children when they are learning lengthy or difficult material. Adding games or game-like elements to this learning material can increase engagement and interaction. Students will be more eager to learn when game elements such as pointand-reward systems are used.
5. Project-Based Learning: This, of course, is nothing new. However, parents may see an increased focus on their children completing projects, and a corresponding reduction in the number of worksheets and amount of rote learning. A class might work together on a real-world challenge that encourages critical thinking, collaboration, and problem-solving.
6. Blended or Hybrid Learning: This is a mixture of face-to-face classroom instruction with a teacher, as well as online materials to equip students in mastering a lesson. In many cases, the online components are in the form of a video. At times, students may use what is called flipped classrooms — viewing a video lecture from the teacher prior to tackling a topic in class.
7. Personalized Learning: There will be an increased emphasis on ensuring that learning is directed to meeting the very different needs and learning styles of each student. Your child’s assignments may not be similar to other children in the classroom. This requires additional work from teachers.
8. Digital Learning: Focus on navigating the online world will continue. Online safety will be emphasized, as well as responsible use of technology and digital etiquette.
9. Augmented & Virtual Reality (AR/VR): Students can explore virtual tours of historical sites, museums, or other locations. They can create virtual field trips and experience things they may have never seen before, such as the Amazon Rain Forest, South Pole, or Gettysburg battlefield. This will enhance what they are learning.
10. Experiential Learning: Students at all levels will participate in real-world situations and projects outside of the classroom. This helps them acquire practical skills.
11. Recreational Drugs: Teachers will discuss the use of recreational drugs when it is age-appropriate. Instead of the “Just Say No” approach, they will focus on factual information and promoting harm reduction. This discussion may be part of a health unit.
Your children’s classrooms — whether preschool, kindergarten, elementary, middle, or high school — will have more electronic gadgets this year. Many of the changes will be an increased focus on their individual educational needs, technological innovations, new workforce demands, and students’ emotional health.
Hello Mr. Chuck!
This educational series helps children of all ages explore values, emotions, and problem-solving with the gentle guidance of Mr. Chuck.
The impact of weaving childlike joy into everyday activities that support growth and development.
By Dr. Stewart Burgess
One way is by weaving joy into everyday activities.
Children are hardwired to observe and learn how to become successful adults. Why do children love playing with kitchen sets? They are mimicking their caregivers. Why do children love exhibits like the grocery store at the Children’s Museum of Memphis? They get to see their caregivers go shopping regularly. Because children are always watching, it’s important to find small ways to get them involved with the repeated activities that come with being an adult. So when it comes to the everyday tasks, how can caregivers engage with children in meaningful ways that leave a lasting impact?
The benefits of children engaging in adult activities.
When children engage with their caregivers in adult activities, such as going to the bank or grocery store, they help young learners build rich vocabularies and a detailed understanding of what it means to function as an adult. By building this base of knowledge, it supports reading, writing, and math while promoting a healthy understanding of how the world works. As children develop, they can carry these skills or this knowledge into their personal and professional lives. There are daily opportunities to enhance a child’s potential for becoming a successful adult. It’s as simple as being responsive to their needs, talking to them, and making life and learning fun. When you’re out and about, play a game of I Spy or 20 Questions. Try to come up
with imaginative stories on long car drives. You can even turn on music and dance together while cooking dinner. You’re not just creating fun memories; you’re shaping the personalities and practices children lean into as adults.
Children like to move, explore, and play. When it comes to sitting and doing nothing, they often become frustrated. Researchers found that people can accelerate the learning young children take away from running errands and traveling for a vacation with two strategies:
1. Talk to children. Use descriptive words; make comparisons and explain what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. This shapes language skills and vocabularies and builds a deeper understanding of how the world works.
2. Be playful. Children were born to play. Adding elements of fun and imagination into the mundane tasks of adulthood has been linked to increases in linguistic advancement scores. Bonus – it can also build closeness between you and your child by spending fun time together.
As important as it is to engage with children in adult activities, it’s also vital that you engage with their interests because it demonstrates that you value and appreciate them. When adults pay attention to their children and activities that interest them, it has a lasting positive impact on a child’s growing sense of self.
The things adults pay attention to with their children tend to blossom. For example, if you engage with their interest in reading, they’re more likely to grow into avid readers. If you show interest in their love of music, sports, or art, they’re more likely to gravitate toward those activities as they grow up. Engaging and paying attention to self-directed and self-selected activities has been linked with greater success in their endeavors and measurable long-term cognitive growth.
No matter where life takes you and your children, be sure to look for ways to weave childlike wonder into their experiences. It’s important for your child’s development, and it can also spark joy for caregivers when they see their little ones light up when learning something new.
Dr. Stewart Burgess, CEO of the Children’s Museum of Memphis, is a developmental psychologist with an extensive career in early childhood. For more than 25 years, he has devoted his life to child development: researching, writing, teaching, designing curriculum, and engineering learning environments. To discover more childhood growth and development resources or learning opportunities at the Museum, visit cmom.com.
By Dr. Stewart Burgess
By Becky Thomas
With nearly three decades of experience in education, I’ve had the joy of working with children at every stage — from third graders to preschoolers, and even my own four children, whom I homeschooled at different times throughout their early years.
I’ve taught in traditional classrooms, preschool programs, and currently teach STEM classes to young learners across the Memphis area through Creative Education Services. But one of the most surprising and rewarding parts of my journey has been discovering how life on our small farm, Peaches Place, sparked a series of children’s stories centered around a not-so-charming rooster named Roscoe.
Back in 2020, my family decided to raise chickens. What I didn’t expect was that one of them — Roscoe — would quickly become the inspiration behind a new chapter in my life. Roscoe is bossy, loud, and not afraid to ruffle a few feathers (mine included!). After many mornings of fending off his feisty attitude, it struck me: what if this rooster could help teach young children about kindness, patience, and how to treat others?
That thought turned into my first book, Roscoe the Bossy Rooster, and from there, more stories followed — each one based on common character challenges children face: learning to wait patiently, trying again after failure, forgiving others, and showing kindness, even when it’s not easy. These themes weren’t just inspired by Roscoe’s antics in the barnyard — they were also drawn from my time in the classroom and the kinds of social and emotional struggles I saw children encounter every day.
For example, in Roscoe the Bossy Rooster,
after Roscoe told Chiquita not to play with the new chicken:
“Chiquita turned to him (Roscoe) and said, ‘Roscoe, that is not kind. You should treat others how you want to be treated. To be friendly, say nice things about others and make them feel welcome.’”
One of the things I love most about writing Roscoe’s stories is hearing how families and teachers use them to teach values and character in their homes and classrooms. Parents often tell me the books open up meaningful conversations with their children — conversations that might not happen otherwise. Instead of giving a lecture
or saying “Because I said so,” they can talk about how Roscoe handled a situation and whether there might have been a better way. It gives children a safe and fun way to explore their own feelings and choices.
Teachers share similar stories from their classrooms. I’ve heard from several who say that when a student is being unkind or impatient, a classmate might say, “Don’t be a Roscoe!” It’s become a lighthearted, yet powerful reminder of how we want to treat one another.
What makes Roscoe relatable is that he’s not perfect — and that’s the point. Children see parts of themselves in his ups-and-downs,
Every question. Every giggle. Every game. Every moment of wonder. It’s all part of becoming who he’s meant to be.
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and that connection helps them absorb the lessons without feeling like they’re being corrected. Through his stories, they learn that mistakes are part of growing, and that they always have the opportunity to choose kindness, try again, or offer forgiveness.
To help keep those lessons close, I created a Roscoe plushy and keychain that children can take with them. Whether it’s clipped on a backpack or tucked into bed at night, it’s a gentle reminder that character counts — no matter where you are.
Looking back, I never imagined that a rooster would lead me to write books or visit schools as an author. But combining my love for teaching, my experience as a mom, and the unexpected lessons from life on the farm has been such a gift. At its heart, this journey is about helping children grow — not just academically, but into kind, thoughtful, and resilient individuals. And if a bossy little rooster can help do that, then I say — let him cockadoodle-do!
About the Author:
Becky Thomas is an award-winning author and seasoned elementary school teacher who brings her lifelong love of children, animals, and storytelling to life through the adventures of Roscoe — her lovable, bossy rooster. When she is not writing, she enjoys painting, woodworking, and spending time with her family and animals on the farm. To learn more about Roscoe the Rooster and Becky’s other books on character lessons, visit Amazon or roscoetherooster.com.
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It’s 9 p.m., on a Thursday, and I’m lacing up my basketball sneakers for the third time this week. My legs are sore, but there’s a magnetic pull to the gym I just can’t resist. Inside, the court’s already alive — someone yells, “Next five!,” and the game’s rhythm takes over. I catch eyes with someone waiting on the sideline. We’ve never had a real conversation, but here we’re teammates.
When I first showed up, I didn’t know a single person. Now, I’m in a group chat called Next 5? that lights up every Thursday night. We’re not here to win. We’re just here to move, to laugh, to belong.
In a world obsessed with performance and outcomes, there’s something radical about playing just for fun. Intramural leagues, late-night hoops, even a casual game of pickleball, o er space to move, connect, and let go. No pressure. No perfection. Just play.
While it may feel like a break, unstructured play does more than help us unwind. It builds bonds, strengthens coping skills, and quietly develops our smarts, empathy, and resilience. That’s the quiet power of play: it restores us in ways we didn’t know we needed.
It takes the pressure o .
Unlike competitive teams where performance is everything, pick-up games let you miss shots, try new things, and just have fun. Mess up? No big deal. You’ll still be welcome next time.
It brings people together.
Age, background, skill level — none of that matters here. Whether you’re a college freshman, a sta member, or a visiting parent, there’s a place for you. Sports like pickleball are especially beginner-friendly.
It happens naturally.
No sign-ups. No uniforms. Just someone with a ball and a few people saying, “I’m in.”
In a world packed with schedules, that kind of spontaneity feels rare and refreshing. It’s good for you.
Even 30 minutes of play can boost your mood, sharpen focus, reduce stress, and improve sleep. Harvard Health reports that light exercise increases endorphins and lowers stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. And honestly? After one of those late-night games, I always sleep better and feel lighter the next day. It’s not just in our heads, it’s science.
A few months ago, I wandered into the gym just planning to shoot around. Ten minutes later, I was in a game with two grad students, a campus security guard, and a dad visiting his kid. We didn’t know each other’s names, but by the end, we were laughing like we did.
“I came for the game. I stayed for the people,” one of the grad students said. The dad laughed and added, “I always thought you had to be good at sports to play. Turns out, all you need is sneakers.”
At the end of the game, someone called out, “Same time next week?” and we all nodded. No one swapped numbers. We didn’t need to. We’d already built something; a small community, just by showing up.
The best part? This kind of play isn’t limited to college students. I’ve seen middle schoolers start a spontaneous kickball game in the neighborhood on a Saturday afternoon. One of my friends started a weekly family pickleball night in their driveway, and now three generations show up, from little siblings to a surprisingly competitive grandma.
Unstructured play works because it doesn’t ask for much. No team. No league. Just the willingness to move, laugh, and be a little silly.
Answer yes or no:
■ Do you rarely move your body just for fun?
■ Are most of your activities goal- or performance-based?
■ Do you want to connect with others outside structured settings?
■ Do you feel drained after school or work?
■ Have you avoided sports because of pressure or past experiences?
Results:
■ 4-5 Yes: You need unstructured play. Drop into a pick-up game or try something new — your mind and body will thank you.
■ 2-3 Yes: Set aside weekly time for casual play. It could reset your energy.
■ 0-1 Yes: Great balance! Keep playing as a regular part of your routine.
You don’t need a jersey or a schedule. Just start.
■ Find a game. Check your local gym, rec center, or park: many have open play hours.
■ Try something new. Pickleball, spikeball, frisbee, whatever sounds fun.
■ Start small. Bring a friend and a little energy. Others will usually join in.
■ Lead the way. Can’t find what you’re looking for? Create it. All it takes is one person to make space for play.
When I look back on my freshman year, it’s not the midterms or the all-nighters I remember, it’s the 10 p.m. games where I missed shots, made friends, and learned to let go.
In a world that constantly pushes us to do more and be better, those moments reminded me that growth doesn’t always happen in the classroom. Sometimes, it shows up when you simply play.
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So next time someone says, “Pickleball at 5?” or “Want to run?” — go. You never know what version of yourself might show up: smarter, lighter, kinder, and more in tune with the people around you.
• 1 frozen acai smoothie pack (100 milligrams)
• 1 cup low-fat milk
• 1 medium frozen banana, sliced
• 1 cup fresh or frozen mixed berries
• 2 slices whole-wheat bread
• fresh blueberries
• granola
• coconut flakes
1. Under warm water, thaw frozen acai smoothie packs, about 5 seconds.
2. In a blender, combine acai, milk, banana, and mixed berries. Blend until smooth.
3. Toast bread slices to desired darkness.
4. Pour acai mixture into a bowl and garnish with blueberries, granola, and coconut flakes before serving. Serve with toast.
• 1/3 cup old-fashioned rolled oats
• 1/2 cup low-fat milk
• 1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract
• 2 tablespoons mixed dried fruit
• 1 tablespoon walnuts, chopped
• 1 tablespoon honey
1. In a bowl or jar, combine oats, milk, and vanilla extract.
2. Cover and refrigerate overnight.
3. Before serving, stir in dried fruit, walnuts, and honey.
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If you’re in need of a quick breakfast, consider starting your day with one of these tasty breakfast ideas. This on-trend Acai Bowl with Whole-Wheat Toast provides a flavorful serving of fresh fruits while Overnight Oats can be made the night before for a grab-and-go solution as you head out the door in the morning.
Entrepreneurship is a career goal for many working adults. Autonomy and personal satisfaction are just a couple of the benefits of running your own business.
It’s a professional path about 3 in 5 teens would prefer over a traditional job, according to a survey by Junior Achievement (JA). Running a successful company depends on multiple factors, including a solid business plan, adequate startup resources, and a receptive market, as well as a strong sense of responsibility, work ethic, and ability to persevere under pressure.
Beginning to shape the skills and mindset necessary to flourish as an entrepreneur can begin well before entering the workforce. In fact, even students in middle and high school can begin working toward entrepreneurial goals with these tips from JA, a nonprofit that inspires and prepares young people by delivering lessons in financial literacy, work, and career readiness.
Students don’t have to wait until they’re in college to begin developing business skills and knowledge. If they have the ambition and drive to become an entrepreneur, they may find it beneficial to complement the classes needed for graduation requirements with electives that allow them to explore their interest in the business world. Some examples include accounting, marketing, finance, economics, psychology, and computer science.
Many students enter the workforce in high school to start practicing money management and contribute to expenses like gas and car insurance. While most jobs available to students are service-oriented and fall outside the business world, it doesn’t hurt to explore options that put students closer to their entrepreneurial ambitions. For example, local small businesses may be willing to hire someone eager to learn.
Kids can challenge themselves by putting their knowledge into practice as real-world entrepreneurs. For example, JA’s Company Program is an immersive program that fosters creativity, critical thinking, and business acumen, offering students unique opportunities to explore the world of business and economics by creating real companies. Participants learn to present their business plans and results during competitions that offer learning opportunities.
By Junior Achievement
Some of the best learning comes from emulating others who are successful in their fields. Meeting regularly with someone who serves as a role model can help students sharpen their vision for the future and learn from the experiences that propelled professionals into their current positions.
Creating an inspiration board can help motivated students compile and organize ideas. This board, whether physical or digital, can serve as a source of inspiration and help motivate students to identify and overcome obstacles while working toward bringing their visions for careers as entrepreneurs to life.
Find more ideas to help students gain confidence and skills for future education and careers, and learn more about Junior Achievement at jausa.ja.org.
It’s not about the kids, it’s about the grandparents!
We’re hearing those magical words again: Back to School. It’s important to be ready for the new academic year, of course, and we’re not talking about the children. That’s why they have parents, to make sure the immunizations are up to date, names are permanently inscribed on clothing, orientation is attended, homework routines are discussed.
For grandparents, a new school year involves a different set of support activities, a big chunk of which is providing money. Those can be direct, like paying for aftercare, covering fees for activities, and financing instruments and/or sports gear. And then there are the indirect expenses, like buying all the leftover bake sale cookies or surreptitiously acquiring the comic books the parents are trying to limit. Yes, grandparenting duties often wander into the gray areas.
Often, though, it’s about simply being available. A child may need help with schoolwork and your decades of experience will be deeply valued, except in math, which nowadays is some confounding method devised by experts to keep grandparents out of the equation. So, prepare to pay for a tutor. Otherwise, be that engaging source of wisdom where youngsters will love to hear stories about the long-ago days of the 1950s, ’60s, and ’70s when dinosaurs roamed the Mid-South and gas was 19.9 cents a gallon. Don’t forget to show them photos of you with big hair (or any hair) wearing paisley and peppermint striped fashion combos. They’ll also love to hear how Miss Crabapple, your high school English teacher, enforced rules against split infinitives and
demanded subject-verb agreement. Much of what young people say these days would be deemed appalling by Miss C, and as a responsible grandparent, you can make a fun game of it by correcting your young charges constantly. They may tire of this exercise before you get sick of doing it, though. When, after all, do we decide when we’ve all suffered enough?
There are also opportunities with the written word. Inform your impressionable descendants that, as literacy expert Pam Allyn has said, “Reading is like breathing in and writing is like breathing out.” Encourage creative expression and you’ll have treasured birthday cards for years. And if you really want to give the kiddos an advantage, be sure and teach them to write in cursive. They’ll be the envy of their classmates, I’m pretty sure.
The larger mission is always to help the youngsters learn new things and cope with new situations. This is good and proper, but sometimes, your role as a grand is to simply be there and listen. School at every level has its stresses and it’s not always about tests and homework and academics. Sometimes, you serve best if you listen to them complain about their parents (they’re so unfair!), siblings (mean!), other students
(annoying!), cafeteria food (yuk!), teachers (unfair, mean, annoying, yuk!), girlfriends/ boyfriends (whatever!) — you know exactly what I’m talking about because it happened with your children and it happened to you back in the Cretaceous Period.
The key to all this is to simply pay attention. I once asked a minister how he counseled people who came to him with arrays of woes and troubles. I was looking for a clever set of words he’d always be able to produce on demand, but, he said, he mainly listened. So many issues get resolved, or at least eased, when the person can talk to someone about what’s going on. And then if you follow that up with an offer to go get some ice cream and a comic book, much has been achieved.
So keep in mind that “back to school” is merely a subset of activities going on in August and September. Students will be imagining how the new year will go, particularly if it’s a new school. Parents will be hashing out logistics and schedules. Grandparents, though, have the advantage of enjoying the big picture — helping out with details, providing a ready ear, arranging for welcome distractions, making sure the routine never gets boring.
And, of course, writing a few checks.
Are you ready for school?
By Jeff Hulett
Well, that happened fast. Seems just like yesterday, I was picking up my girls from their last day of school and heading down to the beach. Where does the time go? Now it’s just hot and our routine has been completely upended. Every year this happens and I can’t help but laugh.
As parents, Annie and I do our best to keep our kids active in camps, outdoor activities, and more, but we always seem to end up here – off balance and in need of some centering. While the summer has been amazing and somewhat restful, I think we are all eager to get back to the school routine.
So how do we get back on track? I think it starts with baby steps and easy wins. Lowhanging fruit, if you will. Remember, getting back on schedule is much harder than getting off. Patience and kindness are your friends. If possible, I would recommend trying to implement school-year parameters before
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the summer officially ends. While weekends and summers can be a free-for-all, we try to limit screens during the school year. Also, my girls can really sleep in, so in advance of the 7 a.m. wake-up call that comes with school being back in session, I’d recommend trying to prepare your children for what’s coming by waking them up a little earlier each day starting in late July.
And then there’s food choices. Something about summer means a more loosey-goosey diet, which in moderation can be okay, but let’s try and bring back some fruits and vegetables and put an emphasis on staying hydrated in this brutal heat and humidity. Is it fall yet?
There’s no magic bullet here folks. We are all trying to do our best to navigate the summer and make school reentry as stressfree as possible. Most of us are working during the summer, trying to fit in family
vacations and schedule all the doctor visits, so it’s absolutely normal to feel a tad bit overwhelmed with this jarring transition. Just thinking about it can create anxiety.
For me, when summer comes, I’m relieved. It’s a nice break from the daily grind of dropping off and picking up kiddos. I’m the taxi in our family — as my wife is a teacher — and enjoy the flexibility I have as a small business owner. I’m glad to do it because it gives me additional time with my girls, but I also like the extra chill that comes with those first days of summer. It’s not like it goes away completely, as my children have social lives, and not to mention camps and other activities.
Saying goodbye to summer is bittersweet, but I’m heartened by all the fun stuff that comes with school being back in session. Good luck!
By Abigail Morici
2 • Saturday
26th Annual Frayser Fun Fest
Join Frayser Library for an unforgettable experience filled with a diverse array of vendors, engaging games, and much more. Frayser Library, August 2, 11 a.m.-1 p.m.
9 • Saturday
Special Story Time Event: Cairo’s Big Adventure: Magic in the Moment
Terriah L. Carver’s Cairo’s Big Adventures: Magic in the Moment is the first book in the Cairo’s Big Adventures series — a nursery book that celebrates the everyday joys of babyhood. Novel, August 9, 10:30 a.m.
Summer Splash
Overton Park Conservancy is popping up waterslides on the Greensward, plus face painting and food trucks. Greensward, August 9, 10 a.m.-2 p.m.
SEPTEMBER 20-21ST
This festival brings together more than 20 stunning hot air balloons, live entertainment, food, arts and crafts vendors, and more to provide a great time for the whole family.
TN-57 and Frazier Road, Rossville, September 20-21
16 • Saturday
Rodgers & Hammerstein’s
The Sound of Music Sing-A-Long
Grab your lederhosen, practice your best Maria von Trapp impression for this sing-a-long. Orpheum Theatre, August 16, 2 p.m.
Memphis Reptile Expo
Get ready for an exhilarating adventure into the world of scales, tails, and extraordinary creatures. The Coronet, August 16-17
Magic Carpet: On Your Toes with the Sugar Plum Fairy
With the help of the Buckman Dance Conservatory, children will explore ballet and this holiday classic with interactive storytelling and creative movement.
Buckman Performing & Fine Arts Center, August 16, 10-10:45 a.m.
Explore Memphest
Join the Memphis Public Libraries in celebrating Memphis with free food, live music, story time, crafts, and a story walk.
Benjamin L. Hooks Central Library, August 16, 1-4 p.m.
The Memphis Public Libraries will have panels, community partner resources for families and caregivers, giveaways, food trucks, and more. Benjamin L. Hooks Central Library, August 23, 10 a.m.-2 p.m.
Youth Workshop: Terrariums (ages 10-13)
Students can learn how to build and maintain their own mini garden, then imagine and sculpt a creature to live there.
Dixon Gallery & Gardens, August 23, 1:30-3:30 p.m.
29 • Friday
Delta Fair & Music Festival
Exciting, interactive, and educational, this festival has games, rides, and all your fair classics. Agricenter International, August 29-September 7
1 • Monday
Tom Lee’s Mississippi River Gumption Revival Lantern Parade
Honor Tom Lee’s great rescue at the Lantern Parade, followed by good food, drinks, and entertainment. Leading up to the event, Memphis River Parks will host lantern-making workshops for families and adults.
Beale Street Landing, September 1, 7 p.m.
10 • Wednesday
Children’s Entrepreneur Market
Presented during the Memphis Botanic Garden’s Food Truck Night, the Children’s Entrepreneur Market will give kids the opportunity to run their own businesses for the day, and grow their entrepreneurial skills.
Memphis Botanic Garden, September 10, 5-8 p.m.
13 • Saturday
Cooper-Young Festival
Taking place in Memphis’ largest historic district, this festival celebrates its 37th year.
Cooper-Y0ung, September 13, 9 a.m.-7 p.m.
14 • Sunday
Halloran Centre 10th Anniversary
Free Community Day
Celebrate 10 years of the Halloran Centre’s programming with live performances, tours, workshops, crafts, food, and fun for the whole family.
Halloran Centre, September 14, noon
Mid-South Pride Festival
Rescheduled this year due to rain, the MidSouth Pride Festival has vendors and exhibitors, entertainment, local musicians, education sessions, interactive activities, and a kids area.
Overton Park, September 14
19 • Friday
Teen Workshop: Glow Party (ages 14-18)
Explore the effects of glow-in-the-dark color with painting, sculpting, and more experiences.
Dixon Gallery & Gardens, September 19, 5-7 p.m.
25 • Thursday
Tablao Flamenco
Tablao Flamenco brings a fresh approach to the dynamic artform.
Halloran Centre, September 25, 7:30 p.m.
27 • Saturday
Breakfast with Gorillas
Join the zoo’s primates for a delicious breakfast. Memphis Zoo, September 27, 9-11:30 a.m.
Latin Fest 901
Join Cazateatro Bilingual Theatre Group in celebrating Latin culture in a day full of music, food, dance, and a kids area.
Overton Square, September 27, noon-6 p.m.
4 • Saturday
Picnic for Pachyderms
Have a delightful encounter with the zoo’s elephants while you enjoy a picnic. Art for Elephants will be happening simultaneously. Memphis Zoo, October 4, 11-1 p.m.
10 • Friday
Zoo Boo
Have yourself a Halloween (not-so-scary) fright at the Memphis Zoo.
Memphis Zoo, select nights October 10-31
By Abigail
The Dixon’s interactive gallery becomes a dynamic making space designed to spark creativity, curiosity, and hands-on exploration.
Dixon Gallery & Gardens, through September 21
Mini Masters (ages 2-4)
Introduce your little ones to the arts and nature with crafts, movement, and more.
Dixon Gallery & Gardens, Tuesdays, 10:30 a.m.-11:15 a.m.
Kaleidoscope Club (ages 5-9)
Each week, participants will enjoy an art or horticulture project that sparks creativity and critical thinking.
Dixon Gallery & Gardens, Wednesdays, 4-5 p.m.
Get Outside Fitness: Kid’s Yoga
Children explore breathing exercises to promote focus and relaxation through basic yoga poses with playful names that build strength, flexibility, balance, and mindfulness.
Shelby Farms Park, Wednesdays, 5 p.m.
Concerts in the Grove
Enjoy music, food trucks, and corn hole, all in the beautiful, park-like setting.
Germantown Performing Arts Center, select Thursdays
Get Outside Fitness: Kidokinetics
Young children learn the fundamentals of sports and movement through age-appropriate games and activities that build confidence, coordination, and a love for active play.
Shelby Farms Park, Thursdays, 5 p.m.
Overton Square Movie Nights
Bring your picnic baskets and folding chairs for free movies each Thursday.
Overton Square, Thursdays
Story Time
Enjoy stories, songs, art activities, and creative play that connect with Collierville’s history.
Morton Museum of Collierville History, Fridays, 10:30 a.m.
Project Grow
Learn something new about gardening and horticulture every month while getting your hands dirty with an experiential activity.
Dixon Gallery & Gardens, second Saturday of the month, 1-3 p.m.
Super Saturday
The Brooks offers free admission and artmaking during its monthly Super Saturdays. Memphis Brooks Museum of Art, first Saturday of the month, 10 a.m.-noon
Stax Family Day
Join the Stax for a fun-filled afternoon with free admission, games, activities, and music.
Stax Museum of American Soul Music, second Saturday of the month
Hustle & Flow Kids
Children ages 2-12 are invited to explore a variety of sports in a fun, non-competitive environment.
River Garden, second and fourth Saturday, through October, 9:30-10:30 a.m.
Sing It, Memphis
Memphis River Parks Partnership, alongside the talented Keri Lee, invites you to raise your voice in harmony.
Tom Lee Park, third Saturday of the month, through December
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