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Sonoma Chic Meets New York Cool at 618 Restaurant in Freehold

BY PAMELA DOLLAK

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n one of New Jersey’s many nondescript state highways, NJ-33 – aka, Park Avenue in Freehold – sits 618 Restaurant, a Monmouth County jewel from the inside out.

Voted one of the 100 Most Romantic Restaurants in America two years in a row by OpenTable (2022 and 2023), the restaurant, under the tutelage of owners Matthew and Liz Borowski for the past seven years, has a vibe that blends Sonoma chic with New York cool. Rustic brick walls adorned with neon signs and flamboyant florals surround tables lit by either simple lantern sconces or uber-glamorous crystal chandeliers. The stunning, sleek, white, wraparound bar, recently remodeled, is backed by well-lit, contemporary, metal shelving units on which practically any liquor bottle imaginable is perched.

Manager Matthew Guerrera, an industry pro for nearly a decade and a half, has been with the Borowskis almost since Day One, and says that, gorgeousness aside, the reason that patrons keep returning to 618 is because of its hospitality.

“Our team goes above and beyond to continually raise the bar for our patrons,” says Guerrera, who prefers the word “patron” over “customer.” (“’Customer’ is transactional; a

‘patron’ supports you, they are more like friends and family.”)

“Obviously 618 is beautiful, but you need excellent service and high quality to stand behind.”

THE FOOD Part of the high quality that Guerrera extols comes from 618’s kitchen, helmed by Executive Chef Christopher Dutka. In fact, Owner Matthew Borowski says on their website that, “618 would not be here today if I had not met award-winning Chef Christopher Dutka.”

Though known for his popular meatballs and stuffed mushrooms – his family-inspired recipes, particularly those of his grandmother, that will never come off the menu – he is “super creative,” according to Guerrera, and the menu reflects that.

Unique smaller plates meant to be shared include items such as shrimp Saganaki ($17) with heirloom tomatoes, olives, feta, and chilis to give it some heat, and buttermilk fried Maine lobster tail ($32) with pickled sweet drop peppers and charred scallions, served with a delectable remoulade. As an entrée, Dutka’s cacio e pepe ($29) – an incredibly simple recipe that’s quite tricky to perfect – is

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nonpareil, served with the ribbon-like mafaldine pasta, pink and black pepper, and Pecorino and Grana Padano cheeses blended with rich truffle butter.

Pat LaFrieda steaks are featured heavily with a melt-in-your-mouth 8-ounce filet mignon ($45) and a skirt steak with chimichurri sauce ($38) as top sellers. But by far the biggest seller, says Guerrera, is Dutka’s Cabernet-braised short rib ($35) served with haricot verts and buttery whipped potatoes.

THE DRINKS Tapping into its Sonoma Valley-vibe, the wine list at 618 highlights bottles primarily from Northern California’s most famous and most prestigious vineyards, think: Caymus, Cakebread, Duckhorn, Nickel & Nickel, and even more.

As for cocktails, one peek at 618’s Instagram page and you know that these are a specialty. A simple old-fashioned is given a twist by Borowski, as Angel’s Envy and 1792 Bourbon are mixed with orange bitters, topped with Luxardo cherries, and smoked – tableside, if you like. The lychee martini is a crowd pleaser, created with Purity 34 Vodka, lychee, lemon, and orange blossom. And speaking of crowds, the skilled bartenders at 618, like Corinne Miller and Rachel Gelnick, concoct cocktails to share, like the flaming Year of the Dragon, served in a long dragonshaped glass with Don Julio Reposado Tequila, Aperol, poblano peppers, rockmelon, and lime that will serve up to three people.

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offers cocktail classes taught by Gelnick and Miller, where “students” will learn the tricks of their trade first-hand, with a fun cocktail competition at the end.

CUSTOMERS AND COMMUNITY Guerrera says that those who dine at 618 are coming for the full experience, meaning a fantastic meal at your leisure created and served by a staff that, he says, is one of the best in the industry.

“We figure out your needs and even help with alternatives,” says Guerrera.

“We try to educate patrons and expand their horizons. We’re very big on introducing people to new experiences.”

For returning patrons, the staff enjoys surprising them with special

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treats, like plaques for those with 25+ visits, holiday presents, or custom-made onesies for those expecting.

“Their money is hard-earned and they deserve to have us go above and beyond for them,” he says of their patrons.

Guerrera adds that community is important at 618, as well, whether it’s supporting the local police and fire department or utilizing neighboring businesses like beer from local vendors, peanut brittle from Old Monmouth Candies for the Exit Plan #2 dessert martini ($17), or 618’s cocktail-scented candles ($28) crafted by Belly’s Candle Co. in Howell.

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This summer the Borowskis, with the help of Guerrera, Dutka and other staff, are excited to bring a completely different restaurant concept to the area. They plan to open Mezcal, a contemporary Mexican steakhouse in Old Bridge, where Matthew Borowski promises on the website that his team “will continue to serve … our valued guests, as our family, in the very same exemplary manner (they) have come to expect at 618 and soon at our new restaurant.”

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A Season of Triumph

The Howell High School Cheerleading Team’s Journey to Glory

BY MATT DOHERTY

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n the heart of Howell, a story of ambition, dedication, and unparalleled success unfolded over the course of eight thrilling months. The Howell High School Competition Cheerleading Team, known affectionately as the Howell Rebels, embarked on a journey that would not only define their season, but also mark a significant chapter in the annals of their storied history.

approach to cheerleading. As an “all-music” team, they communicate their spirit and drive not through words but through the sheer force of their stunting, tumbling, jumps, and performance skills. This year, they chose a boxing theme for their routine, a decision that not only showcased their athleticism but also mirrored their fighting spirit and resilience.

THE PRELUDE TO VICTORY The season kicked off in August, with the choreography that would become the foundation of their triumph. Under the guidance of an exceptionally dedicated coaching staff, including Deanna Markovitch, Ashley Dodds-Gannon, Courtney Kalafsky, and Zoe Rosenmertz, the team committed to an intense regimen of two to four practice sessions a week. Their hard work paid off handsomely as they competed in seven local competitions, the NJCDCA State Championship, and the AmeriCheer International Championship, amassing an impressive record of 7-2.

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A TESTAMENT TO TEAMWORK AND TALENT The Rebels’ journey through the season was nothing short of remarkable. They faced stiff competition, particularly in the NJCDCA State Championship on February 24, where they emerged victorious in the All Music Mega division and won the Group 4 State Champion title. But the pinnacle of their success was reached at the AmeriCheer International Championship at Universal Studios in Orlando, Florida.

There, they claimed the Large Varsity All Music division title, solidifying their status as national champions.

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Howell High School Principal Jeremy Braverman proudly proclaimed, “This team is built on a winning tradition.

Our student-athletes understand the importance of unity, culture, dedication and sacrifice. Our powerhouse program takes pride each year with an expectation to become champions.”

This incredible journey was underpinned by the leadership of captains Haylie Coyle, Katelyn Finnegan, and Gina Oberschewen. Their guidance, along with the contributions of every team member, was instrumental in the team’s success. The recognition of three senior athletes, Haylie Coyle, Jayla Devino, and Gina Oberschewen, for the New Jersey All State Team underscores the depth of talent within the team.

VOICES OF VICTORY Coach Ashley Dodds-Gannon reflected on the season with pride, saying, “Everything felt ‘right’ with this group; from the routine to the theme to the skills to the vibe of the team and the athletes on it. Our captains and seniors were amazing all year, and the underclassmen really embraced their leadership, which is a huge factor in the success of this team.”

This sentiment captures the essence of what made the season so special – a harmonious blend of skill, leadership, and a positive team environment. DoddsGannon continued, “Our coaching staff believes in the benefits of a positive environment, the value of hard-work, and the importance of setting small, tangible goals that eventually shape the bigger

picture. Our program has always been strong, but I think that because everyone embraced this mentality, this team had one of the most successful seasons in my 12 years of coaching.”

The captains shared their perspective on the season, stating, “To say this season has been memorable is such an understatement. Starting this year with almost an entirely brand new team was definitely not an easy task, but after tough practices and many learning experiences we not only grew in skill, but also as a team. This group of girls brought so much positivity, excitement, and joy to our program and we are so grateful to have been able to close out our cheerleading careers with them by our sides. Winning both State and National titles this year were extremely rewarding experiences, but most important were the unbreakable bonds that were made on this team that will last a lifetime.”

Olivia Henry, a Junior, reflected on the unity and determination that defined their season, saying, “Our energy and unity on the mat was something everyone in the crowd could feel, and it was a product of determination and constant motivation from each other. It was truly special to be a part of, especially after unexpectedly coming in second at States and Nationals last year.”

Gia Sarin expressed her gratitude for the experiences and relationships built over the season, saying, “Being that it was my senior year, I can honestly say it was one I won’t forget. Winning both states and nationals this year was such a great

experience, because it was with a team that had a great work ethic and positivity throughout the whole season. We are not just a group of girls that cheer, we are truly a family.”

Alex Robertozzi highlighted the lessons learned and the pride in representing Howell High School, stating, “As a senior reflecting on this championship season, I’ve witnessed firsthand the dedication, sweat, and determination that fueled our success.

Every routine we performed showcased countless hours of preparation and team unity. The season is a testament to the resilience and passion that define our team under the leadership of our amazing coaches. As a team we learned authentic life lessons that will stay with us forever.”

A LEGACY OF EXCELLENCE The Howell High School Competition Cheerleading Team’s season is a narrative of triumph, marked by unwavering dedication, exceptional teamwork, and the relentless pursuit of excellence. Their story is not just about the trophies and titles they’ve won but about the journey they embarked on together, the challenges they overcame, and the unbreakable bonds they formed.

As the Howell Rebels celebrate their victory, their legacy continues to inspire.

They have demonstrated that with hard work, unity, and a positive spirit, anything is possible. Their season will be remembered not just for its successes but for the spirit, determination, and heart they showed every step of the way.

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It’s May, which means the big day honoring the official MVP of the family is coming up, but that also means it’s your job to come up with a fabulous spot to take her to celebrate. That can be a stressful task, but fret not, as we’re here to save the day with a lineup of five places that are sure to leave all your favorite moms, grandmoms and matriarchs smiling from ear to ear.

MEEMOM’S IN MIDDLETOWN On Mother’s Day, it’s hard to go wrong with a spot that is not only named after the owner’s grandmother, but even has the word “mom” right in the name. And it’s even harder to go wrong when you have a menu as fun as the one at Meemom’s in Middletown. Known for offering more than 20 different versions of their signature French Toast, it’s worth skipping the predictable breakfast in bed this year and instead getting Mom a plate of their incredible French Cakes, which consist of two thick pieces of French toast dipped in pancake batter, fried and topped with cinnamon and powdered sugar. Meemoms.com

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MAIN AVENUE IN OCEAN GROVE Though it often gets overshadowed by Asbury Park, its hip neighbor to the north, we can’t think of a lovelier place to spend a day with Mom than Main Avenue in Ocean Grove. Like a real-life version of Disneyland’s Main Street U.S.A., Main Avenue boasts a picturesque block filled with quaint shops, restaurants, art galleries and bakeries, each dripping with old-fashioned charm and the classic Victorian architecture that has been a staple of the town since it was founded. Start out by grabbing a fabulous coffee or latte at Odessey Coffee, before heading across the street for a heavenly vanilla cream-filled donut at Ocean Grove Bake Shoppe. WanMonmouthCommunity.com MAY 2024

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der the shops and let Mom pick out a few knick-knacks or a piece of framed artwork from a local artist before heading up the street for a pleasant stroll down the boardwalk. OdesseyCoffee.net 618 RESTAURANT IN FREEHOLD 618 in Freehold is a fantastic spot to head for brunch this Mother’s Day. While their menu of new American dishes is a winner no matter what day you choose to dine there, on Mother’s Day they will offer a special prix fixe Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet that’s sure to please everyone at the table, including the guest of honor. For $69.95 ($24.95 for kids 4-12), guests can indulge in a luxurious spread of breakfast items, such as Cinnamon Vanilla Brioche French Toast, made-to-order omelets, and various bagels, muffins and breakfast sweets; while those in the mood for lunch can enjoy savory dishes like Herb-seared Salmon in a white wine chive butter sauce or Chicken breast with portobellos, marsala, rosemary and shallots; in addition to a carving station, pasta dishes and much more. Seatings are at 11 a.m.

And 1:30 p.m. Reservations required. 618NJ.com SWEET TEASE TEA ROOM IN BELMAR Those looking to take Mom for a lovely girls day out, can head to Sweet Tease Tea Room in Belmar. While they are not open on Mother’s Day itself, on Saturday, May 11, they will be hosting three separate seatings (11 a.m., 1 p.m., and 3 p.m.) for their five-course Mother’s Day Tea Party. Reservations are $50 per person or $25 for guests under 10 years old. Guests will enjoy pots of tea along with finger sandwiches, various sweets and scones and more. SweetTeaseTeaRoom.com MONMOUTH PARK IN OCEANPORT The annual Mother’s Day @ the Track event returns this year at Monmouth Park. All ladies will enjoy complimentary admission as well as free family fun day activities, including face painting, pony rides, clowns and a bounce house from noon to 4 p.m. in the picnic area. The first 1,000 moms to enter will receive a free carnation courtesy of In the Garden Flowers. Guests can pack a picnic, or enjoy a special Mother’s Day brunch in the Dining Club and Turf Club before watching the races. For reservations call 732-571-5459. MonmouthPark.com

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 4 AND 5 HANDS ON HISTORY AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM Spend the day exploring historic items at the farm from noon to 4:30 p.m. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

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SUNDAY, MAY 5 THE SPRING “LITTLE SIT” AT SANDY HOOK Stop by anytime from 7 a.m. – 2 p.m. and search for as many species of birds as you can during spring migration. Spermaceti Cove, 128 South Hartshorne Drive, Highlands.

For more information, visit www.monmouthaudubon.org.

FRIDAY, MAY 10 SCAN/SENIOR CITIZENS ACTIVITIES NETWORK’S 6TH ANNUAL SENIOR EXPO & FASHION SHOW On Friday, May 10, at the Monmouth Mall in front of Macy’s from 11 a.m.3 p.m. over 45 vendors showcasing products, services and healthy lifestyles for the senior community and their caregivers. The Fashion Show begins at 1:30 p.m. with models age 55+ walking the runway in fashions by Macy’s personal stylist and hosted by 94.3 The Point Morning Show Hosts, Lou Russo & Michele Pilenza. SCANNJ.org

SATURDAY, MAY 4 MONMOUTH MOMS SPRING FESTIVAL AT BELL WORKS Enjoy a full day of fun where you will find something for everyone! Over 80 vendors and a Touch –a-Truck outdoor zone for the kids. The event runs from 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. 101 Crawfords Corner Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.themonmouthmoms.com.

SATURDAY, MAY 11 THE CREATIVE ARTS FESTIVAL Enjoy the work of artists and fine crafters from all different mediums from 10 a.m.4 p.m. Admission and parking are free.

Thompson Park 805 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY, MAY 4 OCEAN GROVE SPRING FLING Enjoy this classic arts & crafts show from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Admission is free. 45 Pilgrim Pathway, Ocean Grove For more information visit www.oceangrovenj.com.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 11 AND 12 ASBURY PARK SPRING BAZAAR 2024 Enjoy a weekend of shopping and music in the Grand Arcade of Convention Hall. Noon – 5:00 p.m. 1300 Ocean Ave.,

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Asbury Park. For more information, visit www.asburyparkbazaar.com.

SUNDAY, MAY 12 PLANT A SUNFLOWER AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM Celebrate Spring by helping the staff plant this year’s sunflower field, then return in the fall for the harvest and bring one home. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. Noon – 2:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

WEDNESDAY, MAY 15 CLIMB TIME AT SHARK RIVER PARK Come on over to Shark River Park and climb the 25’ portable climbing wall. 3- 6 p.m. Open to ages 8 and up, free. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY, MAY 18 VINTAGE CAR SHOW IN OCEAN GROVE Enjoy live music as you peruse a lineup of classic cars from the good old days.

10 a.m. – 3 p.m. Please bring a canned good or a $5 donation to benefit St. Paul’s Food Pantry - 81 Main Ave. Ocean Grove For more information, visit www.oceangrovenj.com.

SATURDAY, MAY 19 SPRING MUSIC AT COFFEE CORRAL Enjoy live music with a cup of coffee 10 a.m. – 1 p.m.

For more information, visit www.redbankgreen.com.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 25 AND 26 CANOE RENTALS AT THOMPSON PARK Enjoy a day on Marlu Lake in a canoe, all equipment is provided. The cost is $15 per boat for 1-3 people and 2 hours of canoeing.

805 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

Freehold High School Students Pack ‘Blessing Bags’ for Charity

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he Blessing Bag Brigade Club at Freehold Township High School, advised by Mrs. Brusotti, hosted its first Blessing Bag Brigade Packing Event last month. Students came together to create blessing bags (consisting of water, granola bars, and toiletry items) for people in need.

The group made over 100 bags which the Blessing Bag Brigade Organization will distribute!

— Credit: Freehold Regional High School District Facebook page

Freehold Students Attend Empower Young Black Males Conference at Monmouth University

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hirty students from Freehold High School and Freehold Township High School attended the Empower Young Black Males conference at Monmouth University on March 26. The students listened to a panel of presenters and discussed developing leadership skills and empowering each other to reach their true potential. The day culminated with lunch and a tour of Monmouth’s campus, highlighting future opportunities for them.

— Credit: Freehold Regional High School District Facebook page

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Honorable Discharge Anna Diaz-White Steps Down After 40 Years of Helping Survivors of Domestic Violence

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hose who believe in fate might wonder if the foresight Anna Diaz-White’s parents had in escaping an oppressive regime, nearing the last opportune time to do so, somehow played into her dedication toward saving others from domestic violence and sexual abuse.

Diaz-White was only two when her parents fled Cuba for the United States in 1960. She would go on to earn a Master of Business Administration from New York University and embark on a career in finance with Citibank, now Citigroup, in Queens. After taking a break from business and a tough commute to raise her family, she re-entered the working world by accepting a part-time position closer to home as a finance grant writer for the non-profit 180 Turning Lives Around, located in Hazlet which serves as Monmouth County’s center for providing survivors of domestic and sexual violence and their families with free and confidential programs and resources.

Eight years after taking the part-time post, and with more flexibility in her schedule, she applied for and was granted the title of Executive Director of 180 Turning Lives Around, which was founded in 1976 as The Women’s Resource and Survival Center.

During her 32-year tenure as director, 180 achieved several major milestones, among them reaching in 2016 the mark of one-million 24/7 hotline calls responded to by the organization. Others include creating the first federally funded battered women’s shelter in the nation in 1986, starting 180’s Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence Response Teams (in 1996 and ’98), and overseeing the organization’s name change from The Women’s Center to 180 Turning Lives Around in 2002, which was done to “convey the comprehensive and integrated programs and services available for families.”

Community Magazine NJ spoke with Anna, who announced that she would be retiring later this year.

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You and your family fled Cuba in 1960. Was that just to escape the Castro regime and its oppression?

Anna Diaz-White: Yes. My parents were not in agreement with communism.

In 1960, they fled the country under a vacation visa. That was just before Castro closed it down and did not allow anybody to leave the country (a travel ban that lasted more than 50 years, until 2013, when Cubans were allowed to obtain a passport and travel).

I remember my mom telling me, years later, how she and everyone around her were in a constant state of panic during the Cuban Missile Crisis (in 1962), believing that a nuclear war was imminent.

It got close. Things got really hairy between (then Premier of the Soviet Union Nikita) Khrushchev and (then U.S. President John F.) Kennedy. I don’t think a lot of people realize how close we actually were to disaster.

I was amazed to learn that the number of calls received by 180 surpassed the one-million mark.

That’s a staggering number of people who needed help due to abuse.

ADW: It’s a lot of people, and many of them are children. In 2008 we launched the statewide 2nd floor Youth Helpline, which is now Youth Text/Helpline (see 2ndFloor.org), and that helped hundreds of thousands of kids throughout the state, along with the services we provide here in Monmouth County such as the shelter hotline, court-assisted counseling, and other services (all outlined at 180NJ.org

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under the Get Help or Get Info links).

What was your feeling when you were inducted into the New Jersey Hall of Fame last year? (She was introduced

by Tammy Murphy, the governor’s wife, and past NJHOF recipient/ famed singer Gloria Gaynor.)

ADW: I have to tell you, that was quite an experience (she was one of 14 inductees spanning six categories). I had no idea of what a big deal it was. I got to see Bruce (Springsteen, husband of Patti Scialfa, who was also a NJHOF inductee last year), Danny DiVito and all these people that I’d heard of but didn’t realize they were from New Jersey. It was a really cool night.

Can you talk a little about how 180 operates in terms relying on volunteers to help carry out your mission?

ADW: Sure, so it’s a combination of paid staff and volunteers, and the volunteers do all kinds of different things. Some are in direct services – they meet survivors in any of the 51 police departments or any of the five area hospital emergency rooms throughout the county. And they’ll also accompany a survivor to court if they request it.

If they’re called back to meet with a detective, or called into the prosecutor’s office, a volunteer could accompany them for support, including sometimes in the emergency room.

I understand 180 has one of the largest emergency domestic violence

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shelters in the state.

ADW: Yes, and it’s also the only shelter that accepts survivors of any gender or gender identity, and families with their pets. We are currently the only one that accepts families with pets and we are really encouraging other shelters to do so. A lot of folks won’t leave the situation without their dog or cat or whatever. If you had to flee tomorrow, how could you leave a pet behind that you’ve had all its life? That would be particularly traumatic to kids on top of how their lives have already been disrupted.

How much does 180 rely on fundraising events, on top of state and federal support, to help achieve its mission?

ADW: We rely on government funding for support, but that doesn’t cover everything, so we have to raise close to $1 million every year to keep the lights on, keep the services going, and keep the hotlines operating. The Seas The Day fundraiser (at the Rumson Country Club on May 2) is our annual gala where we recognize outstanding supporters.

And it’s up to those manning the phones at the 24/7 hotline to determine if the situation falls under the category of an emergency situation, or domestic or sexual abuse?

ADW: Well, I’d have to say that by the time they call us, abuse has usually been going on for a while. It’s the same as if someone were to call the police – rarely is it ever after just one incident. Typically,

it is after a bunch of incidents that started to escalate, and then something is triggered to the point that they realize they have to call the cops. Similar with us, it’s rare for someone to call us because they had a bad argument with a boyfriend or girlfriend or loved one.

Sometimes we’ll get calls where they’re not entirely sure themselves. They tell themselves “Hey, I’m college educated, I’m a nurse or a doctor or an accomplished person” and they do not identify themselves as victims or survivors. People sometimes have this mistaken notion I think of what a “victim” is.

If he or she had been hit, they’d know what that is and immediately identify that as not OK, but it’s often the insidious and constant verbal or emotional, or threats of abuse, that can have people walking around on egg shells because they’re worried about someone flying into a rage where, while they might not hit you, they might punch a hole in the wall, or throw furniture around, or kick the dog – those kinds of things where there’s often this constant atmosphere of violence and rage without anyone actually getting hit.

That’s the part that tends to confuse people, and makes them ask “how is that abuse?” We’ve had survivors who tell us that healing from physical abuse is far easier – I broke my arm, it healed, I’m OK now – but the emotional effects of abuse and threatened violence are really what linger, often for years, especially on children. We’ve had people say that the kids don’t know because they were sleeping.

The kids were not sleeping. Kids are aware of what’s going on. They might not be able to verbalize it, but they’re going to be acting out in different ways.

I’d guess that working in that environment, it would be hard not to allow dealing with such trauma in others to affect you personally.

ADW: I generally do not direct services personally, but certainly many of our staff and volunteers do, and for them especially hearing really tragic, horrible stories – to the point where you think you’ve heard it all, and then you hear something that is even more horrible than anything you’ve heard before – can and does have an effect on people and their mental health. We encourage our staff to take a break, take a mental-health day when you feel it becoming overwhelming or just becoming too much. Internally, we have peersupport groups for staff to be able to unload what’s going on or express how they’re feeling about what’s going on. It is stressful.

What made you decide to retire, and do you know who your successor will be at 180 Turning Lives Around?

ADW: This all started for me in 1984 and, 40 years later, I’m looking to retire and hand off the reigns to a new generation.

It became official (recently) that our new director will be Elizabeth Graham. She’s a great gal who’s been with us 15 years.

She was a former client and now she’ll be the director of the organization, so things have come full circle. She started out as my assistant, then was promoted to Chief Operating Officer, and now CEO. She’s fabulous. It makes me feel so good to know that 180 is going to be in great hands.

To me the organization will always have a place in my heart, but I am ready to have Liz run with the ball. She has some great ideas, a lot of energy, a lot of enthusiasm, and she’s so excited about this new role for her. And I’m excited for her. I’m looking forward to helping Liz in the next six months or so, and then I think I need to just take some time to breathe and decide what the next step is.

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rosecutor Santiago, along with members of the Monmouth County Prosecutors Office, send their deepest sympathies and thoughts to everyone at the Monmouth County Sheriff’s Office, especially Sgt. Kurt Kroeper, on the loss of their beloved 10-year-old bloodhound, K-9 Skye.

Skye was always the shining star of the show at any event she attended, along with being one of the most valuable bloodhounds assisting in crime prevention here in New Jersey.

RIP Skye, you will be missed. Thank you so very much for your service to Monmouth County and its residents.

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Honoring Heritage: Celebrating 25 Years of Women of Irish Heritage Jersey Shore, Inc.

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vibrant community of women came together in 1998 to celebrate their shared Irish heritage and give back to their local communities. Founded by the visionary Peggy Carroll, the Women of Irish Heritage Jersey Shore, Inc. (WOIHJS) emerged as a beacon of camaraderie, philanthropy, and cultural pride.

Carroll, an active member of the Women of Irish Heritage in North Jersey, recognized the need for a sister club when she relocated to the shore. With the support of fellow Irish heritage enthusiasts, she spearheaded the formation of WOIHJS, officially incorporating the organization in 2002.

What began as a humble gathering blossomed into a dynamic force, drawing in close to 400 members united by their love for Irish culture and their commitment to community service.

As WOIHJS marked its 25th anniversary in April 2023, the occasion was met with jubilation and reflection.

Members and supporters gathered at the prestigious Jumping Brook Country Club in Neptune for a day of festivities honoring the organization’s rich history and achievements. Entertainment was provided by the beloved Willie Lynch Show Band, adding a lively soundtrack to the celebration. Among the honorees were Peggy Carroll herself, the pioneering founder, and esteemed supporters such as Kevin Orender of Orender Funeral Home and the Friendly Sons of the Shillelagh of the Jersey Shore, whose steadfast dedication had fueled WOIHJS’s success over the years.

From its inception, WOIHJS set out on a mission to promote and advance Irish cultural, social, and philanthropic activities. This purpose manifested in various charitable endeavors, with the organization donating generously to local charities in Monmouth and Ocean

Counties. Through fundraising efforts, WOIHJS supported health initiatives, educational programs, and public welfare outreach, leaving a tangible impact on the lives of those in need.

Notably, the organization established a scholarship fund, providing opportunities for students to pursue higher education beyond high school— an embodiment of their belief in the transformative power of learning.

Membership in WOIHJS is open to any woman over the age of eighteen with at least one-eighth Irish ancestry, fostering an inclusive environment where diverse backgrounds converge in celebration of a shared heritage. This inclusivity lies at the core of WOIHJS’s ethos, reflecting the organization’s belief in the universality of Irish identity and the strength found in unity.

Beyond milestone celebrations, WOIHJS maintains a vibrant calendar of activities, including monthly meetings at The Shore Club in Spring Lake, NJ. These gatherings serve as forums for discussions, guest speakers, and social events, fostering connections and enriching the membership experience.

As WOIHJS looks ahead to the future, its commitment to promoting Irish heritage, fostering community bonds, and serving those in need remains steadfast. For those eager to join this inspiring journey or learn more about WOIHJS’s initiatives, visit their website at www.woihjs.net or reach out via email at woihjerseyshore@ gmail.com. Together, let us continue to honor our heritage and make a positive difference in the world.

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Celebrate Monmouth County History with A Weekend in Old Monmouth

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Weekend in Old Monmouth is an annual two-day event, which will take place on Saturday, May 4 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Sunday, May 15 from 12 p.m. to 5 p.m. where 50 of the Monmouth County history sites open their doors to visitors and waive their admission fees. A Weekend in Old Monmouth is a self-guided tour.

A Weekend in Old Monmouth is also available online. A virtual tour has been created to present all 50 tour locations in a linear, place-based narrative with photos.

Each tour site is now a “story point” on an interactive map using geo-location technology. You can click sequentially through the narrative, or you can browse one of the tour routes by interacting with the map. The tour may be viewed on a computer, tablet, or smart phone.

Visiting the multiple pages within the virtual tour will help you to learn more about each of the tour routes and clicking on each point will reveal more about the specific historic sites.

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The 2024 Weekend in Old Monmouth Site list includes: All Saints Memorial Church, Middletown Allaire Historic Village, Wall Allentown Presbyterian Church Baird Homestead, Millstone Twp. Battery Lewis, Hartshorne Park, Highlands Burrowes Mansion Museum, Matawan Christ Church, Middletown - NEW Christ Church, Shrewsbury Borough Covenhoven House, Freehold Borough Craig House at Monmouth Battlefield, Freehold Township Crawford House, Tinton Falls Dr. Cooke’s Medical Office, Holmdel Eatontown Historical Museum, Eatontown Friends Meeting House, Shrewsbury Borough Great Auditorium, Ocean Grove, Neptune Township Grover House, Middletown Holmes-Hendrickson House, Holmdel InfoAge Science and History Museums, Wall Jewish Heritage Museum of Monmouth County, Freehold Township Joseph Murray Farmhouse, Middletown Keyport Fire Museum and Education Center, Keyport Keyport Historical Society Museum, Keyport Longstreet Farm, Holmdel Mackenzie House, Howell - NEW Marlpit Hall, Middletown Monmouth Boat Club, Red Bank Monmouth County Historical Assoc. Museum, Freehold Borough National Guard Militia Museum, Sea Girt Oakely Farm House, Freehold Township Ocean Grove Historical Museum, Neptune Township Old Ardena School, Howell - NEW Old First Church, Middletown Old Tennent Church, Manalapan Old Wall Historical Society, Wall Old Yellow Meeting House, Upper Freehold Parker Homestead, Little Silver Portland Place, Highlands Red Bank Woman’s Club, Red Bank Roosevelt Borough (Jersey Homesteads) Historic District, Roosevelt Rumson Presbyterian Church, Rumson - NEW Saint Catharine Church, Spring Lake Seabright Lawn, Tennis & Cricket Club, Rumson Shrewsbury Historical Museum, Shrewsbury Township Squan Village Historical Society Museum, Manasquan Stephen Crane House, Asbury Park Strauss Mansion Museum, Atlantic Highlands T.Presentation Thomas FortuneCoaching, Cultural Center, Red Bank Executive Coaching, Taylor-Butler House, Middletown Leadership Workshops, Corporate Seminars, Township of Ocean Historical Museum, Ocean Conference Keynotes,Business Development Twin Lights Museum, Highlands Village Inn, Englishtown Walnford, Upper Freehold

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MARINA GRILL, BELMAR This gorgeous restaurant sits right on the Shark River in Belmar and its sprawling outdoor space is second to none. The views are incredible whether you choose to enjoy them from a table or belly up to the bar for a livelier experience.

Even those sitting inside can get a touch of the warm breezes as the restaurant boasts a series of garage door-style walls that can be opened when Mother Nature allows. Outside, a few blood orange margaritas for you and your friends are sure to go down smooth as will a pitcher or two of their awesome white sangria. Pair either with a few plates of locally caught clams from the raw bar or a pile of fresh ahi tuna nachos and you’ve got an afternoon worthy of anyone’s envy.

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Is there anything better on a sunny Saturday day in the spring than heading to a fabulous bar or restaurant and enjoying a few drinks on the patio and maybe an app or two?

The lovely temps in May allow us to do just that, and luckily Monmouth County is packed with great spots to bask in the al fresco experience. Here are five of our favorites.

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BAHR’S LANDING, HIGHLANDS With more than 100 years in business, Bahr’s Landing has more than earned its stripes. Not only does it serve possibly THE best seafood anywhere on the Jersey Shore, but it’s serene waterfront views and old school nautical vibe make it an absolute joy to visit anytime. But when the weather warms up, the outdoor deck is the place to be, and frankly, we can’t come up with a better spot to enjoy a cold IPA and a cup of some of the world’s tastiest clam chowder than right here. Bonus for boat owners, you can arrive by sea and dock and dine! BahrsLanding.com CONTINUED ▶

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BOND STREET BAR, ASBURY PARK A wonderfully grungy dive bar, Asbury Park’s Bond Street Bar is a true gem. It’s well weathered interior is a great place to belly up for a beer and a shot any time of year, but when spring hits, we love to head out to the handful of tables right on the sidewalk for some of the finest people watching anywhere in the state. Don’t sleep on the menu here either, as the kitchen puts out a killer selection of sandwiches, burgers and bar munchies. An order of their fabulous beer-battered onion rings is never a mistake, nor is choosing any of the 6 superb grilled cheese sandwiches that take up their own subsection of the menu (we are partial to the frizzled onion, bacon and cheddar variety.) BondStreetAP.com

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RED ROCK TAP + GRILL, RED BANK Hanging out at the patio at Red Rock Tap + Grill always manages to feel like you scored an invite to a fabulous party where something exciting is about to happen at any minute. The crowd is friendly and lively, the beers are always flowing and you can even bring your dog should he or she not want to miss out on all the fun. Red Bank has a lot of great spaces, but few are as enjoyable on a beautiful night as this. Grab a seat at one of the many picnic tables that scatter the space and watch one of the live bands perform on the outdoor stage or you can catch the game on one of many TVs that flank the bars.

RedRockRB.com METROPOLITAN CAFE, FREEHOLD Upscale, yet casual, hip yet approachable, Metropolitan Café in Freehold checks a lot of boxes all at once. Situated in the hubbub of Main Street, the outdoor space in front of the brick exterior is covered, shielding you from the occasional sprinkle should it pop up, and serves as a relaxing and excellent location to kick back with a martini after a particularly obnoxious week at work. Its menu focuses on New American classics with a pacific rim flare, with standouts including the filet mignon spring rolls, duck quesadillas and their signature calamari and shrimp with sesame seeds. Sushi lovers can high-five over a long list of apps and specialty rolls like the awesome “Rock and Roll,” made with shrimp tempura and cream cheese topped with spicy tuna. MetroCafeNJ.com

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The below piece was written by local historian and former educator William Gardell, MA. Gardell is a lifelong Middletown resident as well as a former educator and a 20-year veteran of the Middletown Volunteer Fire Department.

The Allen House Massacre and Other Engagements in Eastern Monmouth County

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he history of Monmouth while he was being taken back County during the to Sandy Hook in a canoe.

American Revolution is A party of 16 militia fired a complex one. The 13 British upon the boats and the canoe Colonies, including New Jersey, capsized, allowing his swim were in a state of rebellion to freedom. He had suffered a against the Crown. But within bullet wound to his thigh but New Jersey, Monmouth would live to fight another day.

County was arguably within However, in 1782 he would be a state of insurrection against hanged by Loyalists in what the Patriot-controlled state is now Highlands. The war in government throughout much Monmouth County was just of the war. The revolution was as much a civil war as it was a a long, drawn-out event that war of independence from the changed over time. Some were British. more or less opportunists who The Patriots won a minor The Allen House in Shrewsbury used either or both “causes” in victory over British Regulars order to rob their neighbors, taking goods and livestock away earlier on May 26th, 1777 in Middletown. Patriots Gen. from political enemies and using the war as an excuse.

Benjamin Lincoln gave the enemy “a pretty little threshing”.

Some used the war to settle old scores with neighbors that In the fighting the British lost 7 men and 3 lighthorse killed. had nothing to do with the American War for Independence.

The Americans suffered 3 wounded, 1 mortally.

The killing of Middletown Patriot Militiaman Joseph Murray In September of 1779 a skirmish occurred in Shrewsbury in 1780 is a prime example of this. Murray had previously that has come to be known as the Allen House Massacre. confiscated horses from powerful Loyalist neighbors during Twelve Continental soldiers from Virginia were stationed the war for the Patriot cause. He was later murdered while at Allen House, which was then operating as a tavern working on his farm for his deeds. His friends in turn tracked known as the Blue Ball Tavern since 1754. The Continentals down and killed at least one man suspected of slaying Murray were essentially an occupying force in the eyes of many in retaliation. local Loyalists. They were there to stop the locals from Many locals chose to fight for the British, including continuing to trade with British occupied New York. These former slave Titus Tye. He led a unit of Loyalists known as soldiers being from Virginia would not have familial ties to the Black Brigade which operated out of Sandy Hook. Tye had the locals and would have had no reason to overlook such previously fought at the Battle of Monmouth and was famous illegal activities. The Loyalists hid behind the gravestones for capturing local Patriot and Privateer Joshua Huddy. in the Church graveyard until they were ready and charged Huddy, who had fought both as an artilleryman and a privateer the tavern with bayonets fixed. They burst through the (essentially a pirate with a license) had been at his home in door and took the Continentals completely by surprise. One Colts Neck on September 1, 1780 when he was attacked by Tye raider managed to grab the muskets of the Virginians which and his men. Huddy and a servant girl fought against many, were stored together leaving the Continentals unarmed. exchanging musket shots from the second story windows of A brief melee battle ensued but ultimately the Lieutenant his home. Tye and his men set fire to the building and Huddy in charge of the Continentals surrendered due to his men surrendered in order to save his servant from burning. Tye not having weapons to fight with. Not before 3 of his men himself was wounded in the wrist during the fight and would were bayonetted and ultimately died of their wounds. The soon die from his wound. Huddy would escape from custody remaining soldiers were taken prisoner.

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5th Annual TopCookie Dessert Competition

dishes out delicious desserts and raises funds for Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore

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irl Scouts of the Jersey Shore and 150 guests gathered to support the Fifth Annual TopCookie Competition.

Five local chefs came together to compete for the coveted title of TopCookie Champion and People’s Choice Award, and created a special dessert made with iconic Girl Scout cookies. Guests were greeted with a delicious welcome dessert from former TopCookie competitor Tara, from Apple Street Kitchen. Tara created a one-of-a-kind cupcake made with the French Toast-inspired Toast-Yay! Cookie. CEO, Heather Coburn and Emcees Kimberly Bukowiec (formerly Kravitz) and Girl Scout Jennevieve welcomed guests to raise funds to support programs that inspire and motivate young women to be girls of courage, confidence, and character, who make the world a better place.

“This past year we’ve experienced a tremendous amount of growth, allowing us to serve over 11,000 members, but we know there are still so many girls who can benefit from Girl Scouts,” said Coburn.

It was also announced that Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore welcomed over 750 girls in underserved areas of Monmouth and Ocean County. Heather thanked the generous sponsors and underwriters who believe in the Girl Scout mission.

Competitors presented their desserts for judging and were critiqued on execution/appearance, taste/flavor, texture/ consistency, and creativity. The competitors and their cookies were: Bam Bam Burger Co. – Lemonades Coffee Corral - Adventurefuls Homesick – Thin Mints PURPLE GLAZE donuts, etc. – Peanut Butter Patties ShugaShack – Caramel deLites The judges tasted and scored each dessert, and after tough deliberation, they submitted their scores and for the first time in TopCookie history there was a tie, as Bam Bam Burger Co. and Homesick were crowned TopCookie Champions. Guests in person and on-line participated in voting for their favorite restaurant and dessert and awarded the 2024 People’s Choice Award to ShugaShack for their delicious dessert using the iconic Caramel deLites Girl Scout cookie.

The event raised almost $30,000 for the programs and services provided by Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore and the more than 11,000 members in Monmouth and Ocean County.

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Tigger Stavola Foundation Polar Plunge Makes a Big Splash

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ver 400 people came out on a windy, chilly Sunday morning to support the Tigger Stavola Foundation’s fifth annual Polar Plunge on March 10. Held at Edgewater Beach & Cabana Club, this year’s event was in memory of Brian Duddy, Jr. who lost his life to substance use disorder nearly a year ago.

Prior to plunging, attendees enjoyed breakfast and prepared inspirational stones used to form a heart in the sand as a memorial to the many beautiful souls lost to the disease of addiction. The event was supported by local political leaders including Monmouth County Commissioners Director, Thomas A. Arnone, who was a “Bear Friend” sponsor and Assemblywoman Luann Peterpaul, who was in attendance.

Athletic teams like Red Bank Regional High School Boys Lacrosse and service groups like the Boys & Girls Club Leaders of Asbury helped bolster attendance this year. Middle and high school students traveled from as far as New Egypt, Jackson

and Manchester Township to volunteer and plunge.

“Attendance at this event has more than doubled in the past two years,” said Founding Director, Lisa Stavola, who lost her son Tigger at 25 years of age to an accidental overdose.

“This incredible turnout is indicative of the impact that addiction and overdose is having on our community, so we’re thrilled to see so many of our youth showing up and engaging in important conversations about preventing addiction.”

Matt Bellace, a motivational speaker who is part of the foundation’s Partner School Program, delivered a preplunge pep talk about the benefits of achieving natural highs. Attendees also had the opportunity to sign up for the LED (Leadership, Education and Drug Prevention) by Tigger mobile engagement tool, designed to help 7th through 12th graders make smarter decisions when confronted with vaping, marijuana, alcohol, tobacco and drugs.

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Bringing Freshness to Communities: The Rise of Asbury Fresh

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n the vibrant landscape of local markets and community events, Asbury Fresh stands out as a beacon of freshness and entrepreneurship. Founded by Bret Morgan in 2011, Asbury Fresh has grown from a simple idea born over dinner to a thriving community-centric enterprise, enriching neighborhoods across Monmouth and Ocean Counties. I had the privilege of sitting down with Bret Morgan, CEO and Founder of Asbury Fresh, to delve into the roots of this inspiring venture and its impactful mission.

“It all started with a conversation among friends,” Bret recalls. “Back in 2011, during one of our Thursday night gatherings in downtown Asbury Park, the need for fresh produce and a farmers market became a topic of discussion. A few drinks in, someone suggested I start a farmers market, given my involvement in the local scene. The next week, I reached out to city officials, and soon after, Asbury Fresh was born.”

What began as a modest endeavor gradually gained momentum, drawing both tourists and locals alike to its market stalls filled with fresh produce and artisanal goods. Bret reminisces about the early years: “It took some time to build, but eventually, the market became a cornerstone of the community. By 2016, it had grown significantly, prompting

us to establish it as its own entity and expand to new locations.”

Asbury Fresh’s mission, as Bret explains, is to “enliven and enrich local communities through pop-up shopping experiences.” This ethos guides every aspect of their operation, from the selection of locations to the curation of vendors. “We aim to connect makers, food purveyors, farms, and startups with engaged customers, fostering a sense of community and supporting local entrepreneurship,” Bret emphasizes.

When deciding on new locations, Asbury Fresh prioritizes high-traffic areas that can benefit from their energy and vitality. “Whether it’s a downtown main street or a bustling event, we seek spaces where we can make a positive impact and collaborate with local businesses,” Bret explains. This strategic approach has led to successful partnerships with venues like Bell Works in Holmdel and events such as the Holland Ridge Farms Tulip Festival.

But Asbury Fresh’s impact goes beyond commerce. Bret highlights their commitment to building vibrant and sustainable communities, empowering small businesses, and addressing food insecurity. “Our markets serve as incubators for local entrepreneurs, helping them grow and thrive,” he says.

“And as the only SNAP-certified farmers

LINEUP OF MARKETS: Asbury FRESH (May-Oct) Bradley Beach Main St Market (June-Sept) Broadwalk FRESH - Red Bank (June-Sept) Bell Works FRESH - Holmdel (Feb-Dec) Red Bank Oktoberfest (Sept) Holland Ridge U-Pick Tulip Festival & Sunflower Festival (April, September, October)

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market in Monmouth County, we’re proud to provide access to fresh, healthy food for all residents.”

Looking ahead to the summer, Bret is excited about returning to downtown Asbury Park. “We recently received approval to set up shop in Press Plaza every Sunday,” he shares. “It’s not just about our vendors; it’s about revitalizing the downtown area and supporting local businesses.

As for the future, Bret envisions continued organic growth for Asbury Fresh.

“We’re expanding our lineup of markets and events, reaching more communities and forging new partnerships,” he reveals.

“Whether it’s Red Bank, Bradley Beach, or beyond, our goal remains the same: to bring freshness and vitality wherever we go.”

As our conversation draws to a close, Bret leaves me with a glimpse of Asbury Fresh’s current lineup of markets, showcasing their diverse offerings and widespread presence. From the tulip fields of Holland Ridge to the boardwalks

of Red Bank, Asbury Fresh is weaving a tapestry of freshness and community across the Jersey Shore.

In a world where the local is valued more than ever, Asbury Fresh stands as a testament to the power of community, entrepreneurship, and fresh produce.

With Bret Morgan at the helm, this grassroots initiative continues to sow the seeds of vitality and connection, one market at a time.

Freehold Borough Officer Helps Students Celebrate National Read Across America Month

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his past March, as part of National Read Across America Month, Officer Walter Perski of the Freehold Borough Police Department stopped by the Freehold Learning Center to spend time with students, read them a book and join the class in celebrating reading.

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A guide to what’s new in Monmouth County’s small businesses

James Yarosh Associates Fine Art Gallery presents HER STORY This new exhibition (which opened April 6 and runs through Sept. 2) activates a dialogue between two great female humanistic expressionists of the last century. Located at 45 East Main Street (Rt.520) in Historic Holmdel Village.

Loaded Spoon announces new Executive Chef and Culinary Director The Loaded Spoon in Freehold is thrilled to announce the appointment of Neil West as its new Executive Chef and Culinary Director. With decades of culinary expertise, West brings a wealth of knowledge and passion to his new role. Chef West’s focus is to elevate the overall dining experience at The Loaded Spoon, to entice both new and returning patrons with his cuisine. Chef West’s vision is clear: “to create a menu that sparks conversation and leaves guests eagerly anticipating their next visit.”

Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce announces appointment of two new board members The Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce recently announced the appointment of two new members of the Board of Directors. The newly appointed members are Andrew Harris from Liberty Insurance Associates and Kelly Power from Absolute Home Mortgage Corporation, each of whom bring extensive knowledge

of business development and program management to EMACC. CSAV Systems expands On Tuesday, April 9, CSAV Systems president Glen J. Dalakian hosted an official ribbon cutting in recognition of the expansion of their office by adopting a new building. The event was held on the outdoor patio in front of 295 NJ-34 in Colts Neck. Founded in 2005, CSAV Systems has grown to be a leader in the professional sound, video, and teleconferencing industry.

Earth Treasures Jewelers celebrates golden anniversary Earth Treasures Jewelers in Eatontown is proud and humbled to announce that 2024 marks their 50th year in business. In honor of this occasion, they will be holding a storewide sale from now through May 11. For five decades, the business has consistently established a reputation for expertise, knowledge and a customercentric approach. This commitment has empowered them to play a meaningful role in helping the local community create lasting memories as they celebrate life’s biggest moments.

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We ask a question, you tell us the answer. Simple as that.

Q: With the weather warming up, there is so much to do in Monmouth County as summer nears. We know what things we are excited for, but we want to hear from YOU. What are you most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County? Could it be a concert? An annual sporting event you look forward to each year? A festival? An al fresco dinner at a seasonal spot? Tell us what you can’t wait to do!

A: What am I most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County?

That’s a cinch to answer – the Fair Haven Fireman’s Fair, of course! There is no better way to close out the summer than at this amazing Fair Haven tradition. The Fireman’s Fair is a wonderful opportunity to connect with friends and neighbors, test your skills at the game booths, indulge in the great food offerings, and enjoy the rides – even the Zipper – if you are brave enough! And best of all, the event is an amazing opportunity to support the Fair Haven Fire Department and First Aid Squad! As I did last year, I am looking forward to supporting the Fireman’s Fair as a volunteer worker. This time, I’ll make sure to wear my boots while working the Frog Bog! — Neil Blecher of Fair Haven OUR QUESTION FOR NEXT MONTH Did you watch the solar eclipse? Were you excited to see it? If you had the chance to check it out, where were you, with whom did you watch it with and did it live up to your expectations?

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A roundup of must-do events happening at local restaurants this month

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Thursday, May 9 Restaurant: The Rum Runner Location: Sea Bright Champaign Social from 6-8 p.m. Call 732-842-2894 for more information.

Friday, May 10 Restaurant: Triumph Restaurant and Brewery Location: Red Bank Cat Boy Sound performs live from 8:30-11:30 p.m.

Sunday, May 12 Restaurant: 618 Location: Freehold Township Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet – 11 a.m. seating and 1:30 p.m. seating. Visit 618nj.com for more information.

Thursday, May 16 Restaurant: Tim McLoone’s Supper Club Location: Asbury Park A Fundraiser to Benefit Holiday Express with The Jersey Shore Medium Linda Shields – 7 p.m.

Visit TimMcLoonesSupperClub. com for more information.

Thursdays, May 16, 23, 30 Restaurant: The Columns Location: Avon-By-The-Sea Lobsterpalooza – 5 p.m. start.

Live music and several chances to win free lobster dinners.

For more information, go to TheColumnsNJ.com.

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Freehold’s Porchfest to Take Place May 19

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oin the Freehold Borough Arts Council in a day of music and fun throughout Freehold Borough as the annual Porchfest event returns from noon to 4 p.m. Sunday, May 19. Many of your favorite entertainers will be participating in the event at porches of various homes within town.

Maps of entertainment locations and times will be distributed at the Downtown Freehold Gazebo at 10 E. Main Street on the day of the event. Porchfest is a fun and relaxing way to spend a family-friendly Sunday in the spring in Freehold. Attendees can look forward to vendors, artists and musicians set up and performing all afternoon.

For more info, go to DowntownFreehold.com.

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