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EDITOR-IN-CHIEF R YA N L O U G H L I N

10 Seacrest Recovery Center Brings Healing to Monmouth County

28 Ocean Township Eagle Scout Nick Billows Follows the Path that Inspires Him

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A Message from Ocean Township Mayor John Napolitani

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COVERAGE: Colts Neck and Holmdel • *100% of homes and businesses in Colts Neck (3,677) and Holmdel (6,152)

COVERAGE: All areas of Ocean Township — including Oakhurst, Wayside, and Wanamassa • Homes and Businesses in Oakhurst (2,663), Rest of Ocean Township (6,711) - Mailing to 95% of the town

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ith Thanksgiving being the symbol of a season of reflection and gratitude, we asked Monmouth County community leaders one simple question: What are you thankful for? Their heartfelt answers reveal the strength, resilience, and shared hope that bind our communities together.

BY BEN MILLER

“I am truly thankful for the many blessings in my life—first and foremost, my wife and children, who fill my days with love, laughter, and purpose.

Their constant support and joy remind me of what truly matters. I’m also deeply grateful for my job as the Director of Recreation & Human Services for the City of Long Branch, which gives me the opportunity to serve others, make a positive impact in my community, and provide for my family. And above all, I’m grateful for my health, which allows me to wake up each day with energy and strength to keep growing, giving, and living life to the fullest.

Kris Parker, City of Long Branch Director of Recreation & Human Services

“I’m grateful to live in our community. This is because I feel like our community has an abundance of generous, service-oriented organizations and non-profits that really help those in need — especially during the holidays.”

Margarita Mayor, Co-President of the Women’s Club in Asbury Park

“I’m thankful for my family at home and my barter family in business! There’s no better place to live and work than in our very special community filled with amazing familyowned businesses.”

Lisa Vitale, BarterPays in Fair Haven

“We are most grateful to everyone who has been a part of building the wonderful community at Shore Gamers! It has truly been a joy meeting everyone away from screens and over game tables during the past two years. We’re beyond excited to share our new space on Broad Street and write the next chapter of gaming in Red Bank with you all!”

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Local History: The Battle of Monmouth

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he Battle of Monmouth was by most accounts, the largest battle fought in the 13 colonies during the American Revolution. Some 25,000 (12,000 American/ Patriot as well as 13,000 British/Hessian/Loyalist forces) men participated in the battle directly. This tremendous engagement was fought right here in Monmouth County (in what is now Freehold and Manalapan) on June 28, 1778.

This battle is significant for numerous reasons. In addition to its massive scale (especially for battles of the 18th century when most armies were relatively small) it was the first major battle where the Continental Army, under the command of Gen. George Washington, fought the British Army in an open field, in broad daylight, in the traditional European style of fighting successfully. This time no one would be able to claim that battle was ungentlemanly or in some way not a “fair fight”.

Continental soldiers and their local New Jersey Militia troops, including Joshua Huddy of Colts Neck, would go toeto-toe with some of the best units in the British Army, including the Coldstream Guards (the oldest regiment in the British Army) and the 42nd Highlanders as well as Hessians Jaegers.

The Jaegers (German for "hunters") carried rifles and wore green uniforms that allowed them to blend in better with most natural surroundings. They did not fight in rigid battle formations like their counterparts in the British Regulars but instead served as skirmishers or light infantry.

The British Army had just spent their winter in Philadelphia, which was the Rebel capital at that time. However, their commander, Gen. Clinton, decided to move his army back to New York City, the British stronghold in the rebellious colonies because it was a more defensible position. The French had recently joined the war on the side of the Americans, and he feared that a large French fleet might sail up the Delaware River and trap his army in Philadelphia. His army inched its way across New Jersey, including Monmouth County while the Americans left their winter encampment at Valley Forge (outside Philadelphia) in hot pursuit.

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especially compared to the comfortable winter the British spent in Philadelphia. But the Americans had not been idle.

They spent the winter training and reorganizing under the guidance of Baron Von Steuben, a Prussian Army officer and first true drill master of the Continental Army. Washington had hoped to use his now well-trained army to attack a small portion of the British Army, (known as the rear guard) defeat it and pull back, which would allow him to claim a relatively easy victory without risking his entire army. However, the first casualty in any battle is always the plan.

Instead, the Americans, led by British-born American Gen. Charles Lee, retreated from a firm British counterattack and soon the entire British Army became involved in the fight instead of continuing their retreat as expected. A small battle had now become the largest of the war. Washington relived Lee of command and personally led the Continentals, braving enemy fire on horseback. In all, there were about 500 killed on each side with slightly higher British casualties by most accounts. The 100-degree heat was just as deadly as bullets that day. Tactically, the battle was a draw, but since they were outnumbered to begin with and because they did not run, it was a moral victory for the Americans. The British continued their retreat through Colts Neck, and Middletown, where they were harassed by militia along the way before making it back to Sandy Hook and sailing to New York or Staten Island.

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Making a Change Seacrest Recovery Center Brings Healing to Monmouth County

BY EMMA SYLVIA / PHOTOS BY ANDREI JACKAMETS

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ecovery” — when the word is evoked, one might think of sitting in a therapist’s office or perhaps journaling a list of greatest fears and hopes for the future. For some, however, the roads to recovery differ greatly from those more traditional paths. Perhaps it’s riding a horse on a sunny day, or casting a fishing line into a nearby river, but perhaps most importantly, it’s the people that you choose to surround yourself with. At Seacrest Recovery Center in Eatontown, Clinical Director Sara Velez and Director of Outreach and Community Engagement Carley Dietrick, recovery is the name of the game.

A Road to Recovery Seacrest Recovery Center offers a plethora of services for those with substance use and mental health disorders.

Providing clients with access and resources for supportive housing so they can nurture the skills required to live on their own, Seacrest opens their doors to clients to receive additional services such as: bi-weekly equine-assisted psychotherapy sessions at a rescue farm (focusing on leadership skills, connection, social skills and mindfulness) as well as breathwork groups, cooking classes with a professional chef (highlighting the importance of taking care of one’s body and what you put in it), and movement

classes to focus on mind/body connection and exercise.

Offering medication-assisted treatment, Seacrest has partial hospitalization programs, intensive outpatient programs and outpatient programs. By developing a comprehensive individualized plan for each client, Seacrest works to be a client’s first step toward recovery.

Velez and Dietrick’s own recoveries, after completing treatment programs themselves, lead them along a path to end up working together at Seacrest to help their community get well. They don’t just talk the talk – they walk the walk. This year, they each celebrate fifteen years of sobriety. “As two sober

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women, bringing in this programming and offering the value of nutrition, the different modalities, the expansive view of recovery — it’s not boring and sterile.

A sober life is still fun and rewarding,” Velez elaborates.

As Velez elaborates, what truly makes Seacrest different is many of its employees are in recovery themselves and can truly speak to the experiences and the journey required to achieve such a thing.

“Your life begins when you’re recovering and sober. Living a sober life is so much better,” Velez says.

Making a Change Dietrick graduated from Rutgers with a degree in Marketing and Communications before being recruited to Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield. About halfway through her time there, she entered recovery. After several years working in the corporate healthcare industry, she realized she wasn’t happy.

“If you’re not happy, make a change,” Dietrick recommends. “Not being able to express that I was in recovery in the corporate world? It wasn’t for me anymore. At the time, I was 9 years sober, and I thought, ‘I can’t let anyone know that I’m sober.’”

After she began volunteering at the Tigger Stavola Foundation, she met the CMO of Seacrest at the time, Nick Spinelli. After telling him her backstory, he encouraged her to come work for Seacrest.

“It’s exactly where I’m meant to be.

I’ve been in this role for six years. Our tagline – my tagline – at the end of the day is ‘We help anyone struggling with substance use disorder and mental health get well.’ It’s timely. When someone’s ready, they’re ready,” she says.

Healthy People, Healthy Living Velez is originally from California, moving to Monmouth County in 2009. A year later, she tragically lost both her fiancé and her mother. Since then, she’s maintained her sobriety. Knowing she needed community more than anything, she made the decision to dive head-first into the recovery network of Monmouth County.

That was when she met Dietrick.

“Having someone here who was also part of this community was so impactful for me as someone who grew up on the completely other coast,” Velez says. “So much about recovery is about finding healthy people and not isolating. That’s where our journey began. We call our-

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selves ‘Sober Sisters’” Velez says.

Together, Dietrick was nominated for the Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore - Phenomenal Women Under 40 Award in 2020, and Velez was nominated this year, emphasizing both their roles in the community as well as their sisterhood.

Velez soon began Operation HOPE in 2020, an equine-assisted therapy nonprofit (as she had been working in the recovery space since she graduated from Monmouth University in 2012). In spring of this year, Seacrest reached out to her, as they were in need of a clinical director – and she happily accepted. She began working there in June, after having already collaborated with them several times with her own nonprofit, seeking to bring together mental health professionals from different walks of life.

“It was an easy ‘yes’ to say I would accept the position as Clinical Director,” Velez says. “Getting the community and more speakers involved – that’s been fun.

We have some business seminars in the works and different events to bring people in to Seacrest. We’re here as a resource, we’re here to help people get well.”

Expanding Their Reach Dietrick and Velez emphasize that Seacrest’s main goal is to be a known resource for the community. Dietrick is the one on the front lines, fielding calls from those struggling with addiction or from concerned family members reaching out about a loved one. Wanting what’s best for their clients, Seacrest provides a direct way to help, whether it’s through their recovery center or outside it.

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that helped them achieve their happiness, even years after the fact.

“It’s the three legacies of fellowship: Unity, Recovery, and Service,” Velez says.

“Recovery is not just about going to meetings, it’s about building your network. It’s about finding things you love. It’s a great foundation to start experiencing what recovery can feel and look like.”

In their own recovery, Velez stays connected with nature, from getting out with her newly certified therapy dog, Scout, to the horses she works with at Operation HOPE. “We take advantage of all Monmouth County has to offer. It’s a great place to be sober,” she says. In addition to that, Velez is an active mom, currently chasing around her two kids and three step kids (with another baby due this November!)

Dietrick, on the other hand, says her claim to fame in the community is fishing. It’s where she finds her peace and gets her adrenaline going, hosting and being a part of recovery-based fishing trips. “Recovery is fun and exciting.”

“What’s important to me is the environment we create here,” Dietrick says. “We create a comfortable environment for our clients to begin a journey of recovery and when they complete our program they have the tools necessary to sustain recovery throughout their life.”

Recovery looks different for everyone – and perhaps the most important part, as the duo exemplifies, is taking that great big first step.

Seacrest Recovery Center is located at 162 Main St. in Eatontown.

To learn more, go to SeacrestRecoveryCenterNJ.com or call Carley Dietrick directly at 732-887-4851.

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Q: What do you find to be most rewarding about this kind of work?

A: My crew. I couldn’t ask for a more dedicated bunch of people. The friendships, the camaraderie, the support that everyone gives each other around here – I’m very grateful for everything they give to this department. The department is what it is because of them, not because of me.

Q: What is the hardest aspect of the job?

A: The toughest part of my job is the administrative part of it.

Up until you become chief it’s all firefighting; when you become chief, it’s paperwork, dealing with the government. There’s dealing with the state regulators; it’s an administrative burden at times.

Because we’re all volunteers, everyone’s got other jobs. That administrative part takes up a lot of time for me.

Q: Do any aspects of the job ever scare you?

A: Yeah. When you’re chief of the department – and I never felt this until I was the chief – you go to bed every night and wake up every morning and pray nothing happens. To the town, to the residents, and to my crew. I take that responsibility seriously, and the safety of my crew is the most important to me. If there’s anything that keeps me awake at night, it’s that.

Q: What was your most memorable experience on the job so far?

A: Every time I see a new firefighter graduate the fire academy, it’s a memorable experience for me. Every time I see them perform out in the field – this fire we had in Asbury Park was a case in point. Every time I see them do the job, that’s my pride.

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A: One thing I love about teaching is seeing the children build their skills and grow. It is amazing to see them light up and demonstrate pride in themselves. Over the years, many of my students have returned to my classroom as volunteers, student teachers, interns, and even medical students seeking mentorship.

Knowing that I have inspired some of them even into their adulthood is what keeps me going!

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Safety Tips from Ganguly’s Mixed Martial Arts

BY EMMA SYLVIA / PHOTO BY ANDREA PHOX

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ith the school year well underway, parents are always a bit worried that their child – perhaps a new student – is experiencing bullying at school. Colin Smith, a head instructor at Ganguly’s Mixed Martial Arts in Ocean Township, discusses one of the foundations of their methodology behind anti-bullying and self defense: CALM. C – Cool Down “The first part is one of the most important parts,” Smith says. “You have to keep a level head and keep yourself calm when emotional. It’s super important to learn that when someone is being a bully, you have to keep your cool.

We can’t go out in the world and hit people when we feel upset. The cooldown is so important because it teaches kids, ‘When someone is trying to hurt you, two wrongs don’t make a right.’ Take a second and breathe.

“On the other side, we also tell the kids that to a bully, bullying is like a game. They’re trying to make you upset and get you to lose your cool. When you do that, you’re showing your cards and giving them what they want. Don’t fall into their games. Be bigger than that. Cool down first, and then you can make the right decision. Can you walk away? Is there something to say to stand up for yourself? Or, if it looks like

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it’s going to get physical, you can get ready for that next step without doing that aggressively.”

A – Assert Yourself “If I was a kid and someone said, ‘Assert yourself,’ I’d say, ‘What does that mean?’ It ultimately means standing up for yourself. You can’t let someone push you around – it’s never okay.

“One of the biggest things I’ll hear from students is ‘I don’t want to get in trouble.’ It can scare the kids. Teaching them to assert themselves says, ‘No matter what, the bully is in the wrong. You are allowed to confidently tell them to stop, to leave you alone. From there, walk away if you can.’

When you tell the kid, ‘Assert yourself or speak up for yourself,’ you have to teach them in a way that they’re going to be able to understand and follow through. It’s more than words and teaching them what those words mean.”

L – Look the Bully Straight in the Eye “It’s pretty straightforward. But a lot of kids will look down, for whatever that emotion may be – whether it’s out of fear, anger, sadness. The next part is teaching the kids you have to look your bully in the eyes. It shows confidence.

You’re not that small, weak kitten” – and Smith gestures to the tiger logo of Ganguly’s – “You are a big strong tiger, and they thought wrong. That way is by looking them in the eyes.”

M – Mean It! “Making sure the child is speaking and saying things like they mean it. It can’t be playful, it can’t be soft. The bully is not going to take that seriously. If someone is being mean or rough, and they tell them to say stop softly, the teachers or parents may not hear that.

When a kid says it like they mean it, every head turns. That’s just built into us.

That’s the final part — say it like they mean it. They have to say it strongly, loudly and proudly.”

So how effective is the CALM tactic?

“There are students that come back and go, ‘Hey, there’s a bully.’ I ask what happened, and they say, ‘I did what we did in class. They ran away.’ I say, ‘Exactly. They thought you were small and

could get away with it. Instead, you did the opposite and overcame their game.

Looked at them, showed them that big tiger roar that intimidates everyone,’” Smith relays.

When a bully is assertive, however, Ganguly’s also teaches a defensive safety stance. “Just in case something occurs, we want them to protect themselves.”

However, according to Smith, life doesn’t always work out like a movie, or an end fight scene in “Cobra Kai.” “A lot of the time, it doesn’t get to that fighting level,” Smith says. The CALM technique is also used for a child to gain self-control and handle their own emotions outside of a bullying scenario. It can even be effective for kids who may once have been a bully themselves as this technique teaches a safe, healthy outlet for their wild emotions.

Smith recommends for all parents and teachers to recognize the signs of bullying and to communicate with children. “It’s always been important

to me. My daughter’s now 10, but ever since she could talk, I found it important that she knows that she can talk to me about anything. No matter what anyone says to her, her mother and I are always on her side and are a safe space.

Dad has her back.”

He reminds parents to establish a similar mindset and remind their children that they are never alone. “Times have changed. You can’t tell kids to solve their problems with fists. The right way is teaching them self-control, speaking up for themselves, safe means to defend themselves, and communication. There’s nothing we can’t do together. You’re never alone. That’s what the bully wants to make you feel. You’re not alone. We got your back.”

Ganguly’s Mixed Martial Arts is located at 865 W. Park Ave. in Ocean Township. For more info, visit gangulysmartialarts.com

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Jingling All the Way… Community Magazine’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide

BY EMMA SYLVIA AND BEN MILLER

The time for gift giving is here! Need ideas for the best present for your loved ones this holiday season? Monmouth County is full of local hotspots and hidden gems that offer the best presents. Here are just a few of our faves: Asbury Park Book Cooperative Nothing is better under the tree than a good book (ignore a writer’s biases). Pick up a classic, a noteworthy newcomer, or sit down for book club at Asbury Park Book Cooperative.

Katabasis by RF Kuang The newest novel by award-winning Kuang, fit for fans of Dante’s Inferno and mythology, this novel follows two academic rivals traversing Hell to rescue their Cambridge professor.

Asbury Park Book Cooperative is located at 644A Cookman Ave. in Asbury Park.

Go to asburybookcoop.org Canopy Crossroad Red Bank’s trusted dispensary, Canopy Crossroad offers not just premier cannabis products, but thoughtful education for any newcomers.

Strain Cannador – $220 The 4-Strain Cannador® (with nook) is a great product for the strain-conscious connoisseur who likes to keep smaller amounts of herbs separated and fresh with glass cups that contain adjustable ventilated lids and airtight lids in case you wish to use as a regular storage product. You can store up to one ounce (or two ounces ground) in this beautifully crafted humidor in either walnut or mahogany. With a

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double-fitted rim, you can rest assured that no smell will leak.

Each glass cup fits 1/4 oz (or up to 1/2 oz ground). The nook can fit your accouterments, like a grinder or vape. The Cannador comes with a lock and key, so you can keep your contents safe.

Veneer exterior with solid mahogany interior. The finish is a clear matte to give a more natural look and feel to the wood.

New Peak Pro with 3dXL Chamber in Pearl White – $420 The new Peak Pro 3DXL is the pinnacle of hash technology. This premium smart rig delivers incredible flavor and unparalleled performance.

Unlock the fullest potential of the plant with its patented 3DXL Chamber, single-button interface, and deep customization via the Connect app. Featuring the Joystick Cap and laser cut perc slots for improved water filtration, enjoy the best hash experience ever.

Canopy Crossroad is located at 9 West St, Red Bank.

For more info, go to canopycrossroad.com Pantano Outdoor Supply Pantano has over 20 years of knowledge and experience in the landscape industry, ready to help you craft the perfect, lasting outdoor space.

Linnea Forest Fir Reed Diffuser Kit - $52.99 A refined homage to the noble Fraser fir, the Forest Fir Reed Diffuser Kit invites the season in—quietly and beautifully. Housed in handblown white glass, it diffuses notes of spruce, fir needle, and balsam with graceful ease. Keep near your tree to subtly extend its freshness,

HOL I DAY GI F T GU I DE all season long. Find this scent and many more seasonal options at Pantano Holmdel.

Marble Board with Canape Knife - $29.99 Tree-Shaped Cheese/Cutting Board w/ Stainless Steel & Mango Wood Canape Knife.

The perfect gift for adding a little festive fromage to the wonderful holiday season!

Throw in one of their gourmet meats or jams to complete this seasonal hosting gift. Stop by Pantano Holmdel for more beautiful gift options just like this.

Pantano Outdoor Supply is located at 161 St. Rt. 34, Holmdel.

For more info, go to pantanooutdoorsupply.com KUR Wellness Studios Kur knows that much like the holiday spirit itself, wellness comes from within. Their services include massages, facials, waxing, yoga and more to suit any and every guest’s needs.

Give a $100 Kur Gift Card + Get $20 Receive a bonus voucher of $20 for each increment of $100 gift cards purchased (to a max of $100 bonus per person).

Buy in-store or online December 1st thru 15th, 2025 Drop in to buy a plastic gift card in store or buy at www. kurstudios.com using promo code GET20.

Vouchers are good January-June 2026 Vouchers are used like cash for any products or services in the store (just not tips/gratuities) and expire 6/30/2026.

KUR is located at 412 Bond St., Asbury Park.

For more info, go to kurstudios.com The Fir Farm The Fir Farm, located at 166 Hillsdale Road in Colts Neck, offers locally grown, fresh products. Visit their beautiful property for hops, Christmas trees, raw honey, bee keeping and more! Christmas tree season begins in late November — follow Fir Farm on Instagram and Facebook for updates.

Raw Honey Fir Farm’s raw, unfiltered honey is award-winning and never heated. Endlessly popular and utterly delicious, it’s the perfect gift to fill anyone’s pantry this holiday season. Fir Farm honey is available at the farm on most sunny days 12pm - 3pm throughout the Christmas season, and by appointment.

Christmas Trees Fir Farm has been growing Christmas trees for over 40 years. Not only can you buy the perfect tree this holiday season, you can also learn about Trees for Troops, which the farm has been participating in for 12 years.

Trees for Troops is a nonprofit that delivers trees to thousands of military families in the US and to troops stationed overseas. Feel the joy this holiday season!

The Fir Farm is located at 166 Hillsdale Rd., Colts Neck.

For more info, go to the-fir-farm.square.site Sanctum Handmade This brick-and-mortar boutique is the perfect place for plant lovers, with accessories like journals, crystals, and bandanas to boot.

Brass Crystal Air Plant Hanger – $36.00 Adorable tiny geometric himmeli hanging shelves that are perfect for displaying crystals and other small items.

Sanctum Handmade is located at 601 Cookman Ave. in Asbury Park. Go to instagram.com/sanctumhandmade

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HOL I DAY GI F T GU I DE Vigor This holiday season, give the gift of relaxation and reliability with their strain-specific all-in-one disposable vapes. Each option is hand-selected for quality and consistency, ensuring that only the finest strains make it into your cart. Crafted with full-spectrum cannabis oil extracted through patented technology, these vapes deliver the natural essence of the plant with cannabinoids, terpenes, and flavor working together in one smooth draw.

At Vigor Dispensary, they believe the best input equals the best output. They start with premium flower sourced from trusted cultivators who meet the highest standards, so every inhale is pure, potent, and true to its strain. Whether you are an experienced consumer or gifting someone new to cannabis, these disposables combine convenience with uncompromising quality.

Gift Card Give the gift of fun this holiday season! iPlay America is one of the premier family entertainment venues in NJ. iPlay America Gift Cards can be used to unlock tons of entertainment throughout the 4-acre amusement park!

Rides, games, arcade, Laser Tag, Go-Karts, XD Dark Ride VR and more are all on the menu. Or use it at their onsite Topgolf Swing Suite, with 5 interactive bays to experience a new level of virtual sports gaming.

Getting hungry after a long day of fun? These gift cards can also be used at their full-service restaurant, The Bistro.

Just steps from all the action, dine and unwind at this delicious eatery offering a crave-worthy menu and jaw-dropping desserts. With maximum flexibility to play your way, these gift cards are a hit for the holidays. Plus, from 12/2 - 12/31/25 you get $10 BONUS PLAY for every $50 in gift cards purchased. Available in-store or online. iPlay America is located at 110 Schanck Rd., Freehold.

For more info, go to iplayamerica.com

Select All-In-One Disposable Vapes: Vitalize Strain-specific, uplifting, and carefully chosen for energy and creativity, Vitalize is the perfect companion for keeping holiday spirits lifted.

Vibe Balanced, versatile, and expertly curated, Vibe delivers smooth and adaptable effects that fit any moment, from daytime productivity to evening relaxation.

Vanish Hand-picked for its depth and tranquility, Vanish is the clear choice when it’s time to release stress and fully recharge after the holiday rush.

With thoughtful craftsmanship, premium inputs, and strict quality standards, these disposables are more than just convenient. They are a reflection of cannabis at its very best and an unforgettable holiday gift.

Vigor is located at 1082 Rt. 34, Matawan.

For more info, go to vigordispensary.com iPlay America iPlay America is the area’s most thrilling indoor amusement park and game center. And unlike the boardwalks, this form of family fun is available all year round!

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Rainbow Art Glass Rainbow Art Glass is here both to teach customers glass art techniques and promise new, beautiful decor for this holiday season.

Beginner and Intermediate Classes Looking for a new hobby or a fresh way to transform your home? How about stained glass?

Choose from over 100 architectural glass options for glass cabinetry, windows, and more to make your dream kitchen a reality. Rainbow Art Glass offers beginner and intermediate classes in stained glass, hot glass, and other glass applications.

Customers can mention this article for 10 percent off any class or cabinet glass order.

Rainbow Art Glass is located at 1761 Rt 34 S, Wall Township.

For more info, go to hsrag.com and/or customcabinetglass.com

HOL I DAY GI F T GU I DE Chêne Cheval For the equestrian in your life—or simply those who love the refined elegance of equestrian style—consider an appointment at Chêne Cheval, an exclusive, by-appointment-only boutique in Colts Neck, New Jersey. This expertly curated shop offers a sophisticated selection that makes holiday gifting both a unique and luxurious experience.

Wolf Fine Jewelers Wolf Fine Jewelers is Middletown’s premier location for all things jewelry, with the ability to craft the perfect custom piece for each and every customer.

Crystalline Toasting Flutes (Set of 2) – (also available with Gold Crystals) – $400 Dimensions: 10”H x 2-5/8”W x 2-5/8”D Delicate, elegant, and very festive, this is a set of two flutes for very special occasions. The clear crystal that fills the stems and the faceted clear crystal base of each of these adds an element of romance to any evening – making it a touch more special.

Minera Picture Frame – Medium – $219 (also available in a 4x6 – Retail: $179) Dimensions: 8-1/8”H x 6-1/8”W x 4-5/8”D Inject some timeless elegance into the home with this stunning picture frame. Created by product designer Thomas Feichtner, it shines in silver-tone metal and glistens with approximately 3,300 clear and silver-colored crystals. It features a glass front and a velvety flocked back and stand and fits a 5x7 picture. A gorgeous gift for someone special.

Equestrian Club Cotton Sweater (Women/Teens) – $200 Equestrian Club Riding Shirt (Kids/Teens) – $139 Equestrian Club Riding Shirt (kids) – $139) Cypress 16 Riding Pad – $120 Dada Sport Riding Helmet Visor – $190 Created and sold exclusively by Chêne Cheval.

The Experience Upon requesting an appointment, you will be contacted by a team member in order to start setting up your personal curated experience. Once you arrive at the private equestrian estate you will be escorted to the Chêne Cheval boutique where you and your guests will be offered champagne or your favorite beverage.

An expert personal shopper will measure you and provide you with both seasonal and classic options in the latest equestrian fashions. The store is yours exclusively during your appointment, offering a private and unique shopping experience in the heart of Colts Neck, NJ. Note: The exclusive Equestrian Club sweater is limited edition and will be sold first come, first serve.

Chêne Cheval is located in Colts Neck.

For more info, go to chenecheval.com

Holiday Cheers Gift Ornament – $119 Dimensions: 1-3/4”H x 11/2”W x 11/2”D This playful, gift-wrapped ornament is an ideal addition to any festive tree.

Suspended from a red grosgrain ribbon, the parcel design is crafted with Swarovski’s Golden Shadow effect and 426 facets, while also featuring decorative crystals in red, green and blue. The ribbon is neatly formed from champagne gold-tone metal with a red lacquer. Add this ornament to your own seasonal display or gift it to someone special for a touch of holiday joy.

Matrix Hoop Earrings – $189 Size: 11/8” These perfectly formed Matrix Hoop Earrings are defined by the timeless look of clear round stones and rhodium-plated metal. It’s a combination that is essential to any jewelry box.

These hoops deliver perfect circles of radiance to any outfit.

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HOL I DAY GI F T GU I DE Matrix Tennis Necklace – Medium (also available in Large) – $320 Size: 16-1/8” Delivering a modern take on a truly classic style, this Matrix Tennis Necklace is distinguished by the purity and elegance of its shimmering clear stones and rhodium-plated design. Each individual stone works beautifully with the next, creating an endless stream of glamour that is perfect for an everyday look. Enjoy it for yourself, or as a gift for someone special.

Matrix Tennis Bracelet – Medium (also available in Small, Large and Extra Large) – Retail: $249 Size: 6-1/2” This shimmering Matrix Tennis Bracelet delivers the classic combination of dazzling clear stones and cool rhodium plating, an enduring look that never goes out of style. Each of the crystals wonderfully reflects the light, ensuring your wrist is always eye-catching.

Crystal Myriad – Gouldian Finches – $23,000 Dimensions: 5-5/8” H x 5-1/4” D x 17-1/8”W With extraordinary color and exquisite detailing, Swarovski presents this spectacular scene of Gouldian Finches – the famous “winged jewels” that paint rainbows across the Australian sky. It takes 395 hours of dedicated work by a team of skilled artisans to meticulously hand-set over 31,500 crystals on each kaleidoscopic creation. The result is a masterpiece of precision and a wondrous tribute to the beauty of the natural world. Only 200 pieces are available in this Limited-Edition selection, making each one a rare treasure for collectors.

Wolf Fine Jewelers is located at 1580 NJ Rt. 35 South, Middletown.

For more info, go to wolffinejewelers.com Belmar Bicycle Shop The Belmar Bike Shop offers one of the best options to get a new or used beach cruiser, road bike, or e-bike for the holiday. The 55-year-old bike shop uses generations of bicycle business knowledge to find the right bike or cycling equipment for you or a loved one. Additionally, Belmar Bicycle Shop offers unmatched bicycle repair services. If you are interested in cycling merch, a new bike, or are in need of a tune-up this winter, Belmar Bicycle Shop is a must stop.

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Belmar Bicycle Shop Branded Gear T-Shirts: $19.99 Hats: $29.99 Flat Tire Repair: $32.00 Removal of wheel and tire, careful inspection for cause of puncture. reinstallation of tire with new inner tube and new permanent rim liner (if not already present).

Specialized - Allied Road and Gravel Bike: $1,100.00 This Specialized Allez is the definitive recreational road bike.

This package may be the base model parts kit but this bike has excellent bones. Including a clean hydroformed and butted aluminum frame, carbon fork, sealed cartridge bearing hubs. The perfect bike to upgrade as you go or to ride as is. The shimano drivetrain, and disc brakes will perform perfectly on quick 20mile rides or 100-mile centuries.

Belmar Bicycle Shop is located at 1318 Main Street, Belmar, NJ 07719.

For more information, go to belmarbikeshop.com Monmouth Wellness and Yoga Monmouth Beach Yoga & Wellness is a great space to begin a new year with new movement. Between their classes and boutique items, Monmouth Wellness and Yoga offers various fitness related gift options for anyone on your list.

Class Packages and Options Retail: $25-$320 With monthly subscription options or class packs sizes from one to twenty classes, Monmouth Wellness and Yoga pricing and rates are designed to provide you with transparent and affordable options to join their vibrant community. Whether you’re a seasoned yogi or just starting your journey, they offer a range of packages tailored to fit your needs.

Boutique Items Retail: $10-$150 Before or after class, explore their in-studio boutique featuring: Ultra-soft, stylish apparel: yoga wear, dresses, joggers, sweaters, and luxurious cashmere.

High-quality yoga mats and props to elevate your practice.

HOL I DAY GI F T GU I DE Wrinkle Smoothing set: $101 value Vital Perfection - Lifting & Firming set: $116 value Future Solution LX - Anti-Aging Set: $155 value Sunny Skincare is located at 1294 NJ-35, Middletown Township, NJ 07748.

For more information go to sunnyskincare35.com

GIFT CARD

Caci Non-Surgical Facelift | Hydration Facial Cryoskin Fat Reduction | Microdermabrasion Anti-Cellulite Treatments | TriPollar Anti-aging Treatments Microneedling Radio Frequency | Body Massage

Handcrafted goods by local artisans: jewelry, body oils, natural soaps, healing rubs, shells, and other unique self-care gifts.

Monmouth Wellness and Yoga is located at 36 Beach Rd Suite 10, Monmouth Beach, NJ 07750.

For more information, go to mbyogaandwellness.com Sunny Skincare Sunny Skincare is the place to go for skincare products when the winter arrives. Having been in business over 25 years at their Middletown location, they are a full-service salon offering a wide range of expert skin treatments, with a full line of Shiseido and G.M. Collin skincare products. Whether that’s a deep cleansing facial, anti-aging therapies, or rejuvenating glow boosts, experience personalized care and radiant results every time you visit.

Ultimune: $125 A power infusing serum, Ultimune helps correct signs of aging such as uneven skin tone, dullness, redness, pores, roughness, fine lines, wrinkles, smile lines, and improves firmness and elasticity.

7 Piece Gift: Spend $85 and/ or spend $150 on any Future Solution LX formula and get a FREE 5-piece gift from the collection* Benefiance

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London Spa For a relaxing and stress-free way to bring in the New Year, London Spa in Rumson is worth a visit. Teresa Azzopardi, celebrity aesthetician, has been in the spa business for over 20 years and offers extremely effective treatments to please even the most discerning customers.

Gift Card – Whatever value you choose, this gift will be priceless to whomever receives it!

London Spa is located at 119 East River Road, Rumson, NJ 07760.

For more information, go to thelondonspa.net Jersey Cookie Girl Located in the heart of Red Bank, Jersey Cookie Girl offers a premier selection of holiday treats for the season. Their tasty assortments of cookies, brownies, chocolate covered pretzels and many other options can be purchased individually or various arrangements for the family.

Holiday Cookie Boxes: $30.00 - $150.00 Jersey Cookie Girl is located at 11 Mechanic St., Red Bank, NJ 07701. For more information, go to jerseycookiegirl.com

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GOTCC Ansell Grimm & Aaron, PC ‘Golfing Fore Heroes’ Classic Benefits Tunnel to Towers Foundation and Local First Responders

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he Greater Ocean Township Chamber of Commerce (GOTCC) hosted the Ansell Grimm & Aaron, PC ‘Golfing Fore Heroes’ event at Jumping Brook Country Club, Neptune on Monday, September 8, 2025. Because the event fell the week of Patriot Day, a National Day of Service & Remembrance, this year’s golf outing was also a fundraiser for the Steven Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation as well as local first responders, Township of Ocean Police Department and the Asbury Park, Oakhurst and Wanamassa Fire Departments.

Special guests for the day included the Township of Ocean Police Honor Guard and Kathy Cunningham, Tunnel to Towers. Prior to tee off, the Township of Ocean Police Department Honor Guard procession led the attendees in the Pledge of Allegiance.

After an afternoon of golf, the attendees enjoyed a cocktail reception and buffet awards dinner.

This event was made possible with the support of the Title Sponsor, Ansell Grimm & Aaron, PC, Ocean Township as well as the Platinum Sponsor, VCS Software, Gold Sponsor, Stavola Realty and Silver Sponsors, Bee Gone Pest Control, Minuteman Press, Morgan Stan-

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ley, the Navesink Group, Optimum, Slice, New Jersey Natural Gas, and Wil-Bur Investigations.

The GOTCC’s is grateful for their 2025 Corporate Sponsors – Ansell, Grimm and Aaron, Family First Urgent Care, Manasquan Bank, and Seaview Orthopaedics who support the chamber throughout the year and especially for the annual golf event.

Dinner was sponsored

by Encompass Health and Monmouth Medical. Lunch was made possible with the support of the PBA Local 57.

Miller’s Ale House sponsored the Golf Carts and Nana’s Kitchen and Fresh subsidized the beverage cart.

Contests were held for Closest-to-the Pin, sponsored by Dreyer’s Lumber.

The Longest Drive Contest was sponsored by Lola’s.

This year’s $5,000 Putting Contest was made possible

by Shipwreck’d.

The Greater Ocean Township Chamber of Commerce thanks all the golfers, volunteers and sponsors for making the 2025 Ansell Grimm & Aaron, PC ‘Golfing Fore Heroes’ such a success.

For additional information or to become a GOTCC member contact Regina Longo at gotcc@gotcc.org or call 732-660-1888.

EVENTS CALENDAR EVERY WEDNESDAY (NOVEMBER 5, 12, 19, 26) Bell Works Fresh Farmers and Makers Market Head down to Bell Works for a variety of local and fresh goods Bell Works 101 Crawfords Corner Rd, Holmdel 11am - 4pm For more information, visit bell.works/ events/bell-works-fresh-market-30/ EVERY WEDNESDAY (NOVEMBER 5, 12, 19, 26) Bingo Night Visit Twin Lights Brewing every Wednesday for bingo night Twin Lights Brewing 4057 Asbury Ave, Tinton Falls 6pm - 8pm For more information, visit twinlightsbrewing.com EVERY WEDNESDAY (NOVEMBER 5, 12, 19, 26) Trivia Night Join Wild Air Beerworks for a night of trivia Wild Air Beerworks 801 2nd Ave, Asbury Park 7pm - 9pm For more information, visit wildairbeer.com EVERY SUNDAY (NOVEMBER 2, 9, 16, 23) Red Bank Farmers Market Head down to Red Bank for a day of vendors, unique crafts and more Red Bank Galleria W Front St and Bridge Ave, Red Bank 9am - 2pm For more information, visit thegalleriaredbank.com/pages/farmersmarket.html SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 1 SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 2 Brookdale Haunted Theater Are you brave enough to last through the Brookdale Haunted Theater? Join them for their 22nd year hosting this terrifying event Brookdale Community College Performing Arts Center 765 Newman Springs Rd, Lincroft 6pm - 10pm For more information, visit brookdalehauntedtheater.com

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 1 Fall Fest and Bull Riding Rodeo Have an exciting day full of live entertainment, like bull riding rodeos, pig races and live music Maple Leaf Farms, 525 US-9, Manalapan 10am - 5pm For more information, visit mapleleaffarmsnj.com Fall Bird Walk Enjoy a morning of birding in Ocean Grove Ocean Grove Area Chamber of Commerce and Beachy Birder Ocean Pathway, Neptune 10am - 2pm For more information, visit visitnj.org SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 2 Fall Family Fun at Atlantic Farm Market The last day to head down to the Atlantic Farm Market for a day of family fun 1506 Atlantic Ave, Manasquan 10am - 5pm For more information, visit atlanticfarmmarket.com Happy Day Farm Fall Festival The last day to enjoy fall activities like pumpkin picking, corn mazes, tractor rides, and more at Happy Day Farm Happy Day Farm 106 Iron Ore Rd, Manalapan 10am - 5pm For more information, visit happydayfarmnj.com FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 7 First Fridays Art and Sound at the Station Stop by every first Friday of the month for a vibrant pop-up art and music show, a celebration of local talent Asbury Park Transportation Center, Asbury Park 5pm For more information, visit cityofasburypark.com SUNDAY NOVEMBER 9 Winter Fresh Farmers Market Visit Ocean Grove for a cozy indoor winter food and farm market 66 S Main St, Ocean Grove 10am - 1pm For more information, visit bellworksfresh.com/upcoming-events

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15 NJ Wine Expo Head to Bell Works for this historic event for wine enthusiasts and novices alike Bell Works, 101 Crawfords Corner Rd, Holmdel 11am - 7pm For more information, visit newjerseywineevents.com/events/nj-wineexpo-bell-works-holmdel-2 SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16 Turkey Trot Enjoy the fun in Howell with a 5k and 2-mile run/walk turkey trot 300 Preventorium Rd, Howell 9am - 11:30am For more information, visit twp.howell.nj.us TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18 Open Mic Night Join the Freehold Borough Arts Council for open mic night (the 3rd Tuesday of every month) American Hotel, 18 E Main St, Freehold 6:30pm - 9pm For more information, visit downtownfreehold.com SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 22 44th Annual Granny’s Attic Craft Show Head to Middletown for one of the largest craft shows on the East Coast Thompson Middle School, 1001 MiddletownLincroft Rd #85, Middletown 9am - 4pm For more information, visit thompsonpfa. membershiptoolkit.com/gainformation SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 29 Holiday Extravaganza Tree Lighting A day of family fun, ice skating, Santa and Mrs. Claus, music, food, vendors and more, with a grand finale tree lighting 1000 Sanger Ave, Oceanport 2pm - 5:30pm For more information, visit oceanportboro.com Keyport Tree Lighting Make and Take Join Keyport for a night of tree lighting and free hot chocolate Borough of Keyport and Keyport Recreation 70 W Front St, Keyport 12pm - 3pm For more information, visit keyportonline.com Small Business Saturday Head down to Spring Lake to celebrate and experience local businesses Downtown Business District, Spring Lake 10am - 5pm For more information, visit visitspringlake.com

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BIZBEAT

BY RYAN LOUGHLIN

A quick roundup of what’s new and happening at local businesses in Monmouth County.

First Atlantic expands into Freehold

Cotterell launches Netta Rose Events

First Atlantic Federal Credit Union is excited to announce its expansion into the heart of Freehold with a new branch opening at 34 East Main Street in 2025. Rooted in a tradition of putting people before profits, First Atlantic will bring its signature “credit union difference” to the community. The branch will provide personalized service, competitive financial solutions, and a true hometown banking experience. From checking and savings to lending and digital services, it will serve as a trusted financial partner for Freehold residents.

For more info, go to FAFCU.com or call 732-380-3600.

Overwhelmed by event details and worried you won’t enjoy your own party? Hospitality and events professional Erin Cotterell recently launched Netta Rose Events, a day-of event coordination business, so hosts can truly be present. Cotterell ensures everything planned is carried out exactly as envisioned on the day of the celebration, allowing you to relax and enjoy the event you’ve invested so much time, money, and effort into planning.

From weddings and milestone gatherings to intimate dinners and holiday parties, every occasion unfolds seamlessly. Inspired by her late grandparents, Netta and Louie, the company carries on their legacy of warm, joyful entertaining.

For more info, go to NettaRoseEvents.com

Slice celebrates 5th anniversary Slice Merchant Services is proud to celebrate its 5th anniversary since relocating from New York City to Holmdel, NJ. What began as a growing fintech company in Manhattan has flourished in Monmouth County, bringing new career opportunities and supporting local businesses with innovative, zero-fee payment solutions. Slice remains committed to helping New Jersey’s small and medium-sized businesses thrive while continuing to grow roots in the local community.

For more info, go to StartSlice.com

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Scouting Out His Future

Ocean Township Eagle Scout Nick Billows Follows the Path that Inspires Him

BY EMMA SYLVIA

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cean Township seems to be the place to be for Boy Scouts of all ages across the county. Month after month, they receive recognition for their community work and brotherhood bonds that often last a lifetime. One such Scout is Ocean resident Nick Billows, a senior at MAST who has reached the status of Eagle Scout.

Billows has set his sights on many lofty goals, including potentially attending such impressive institutions as Princeton, Rutgers, Cornell, or the Naval Academy. In the meantime, he aims to pursue naval architecture – or alternatively (depending on the institution he ends up attending) civil engineering and environmental engineering.

Billows sat with me to talk all things Scout, including his avian-themed final project (a service task that all Scouts must accomplish before graduation) to his Letter of Recognition which represents the impact that scouts have on their community.

Q: Aside from Scouts, are you involved in any other extracurricular activities?

A: I’m heavily involved in the Navy JROTC at MAST, where I’m the battalion commander, or the commanding officer of the unit. I run Track and Field for OT, I’m a member of MAST NHS, Key Club, Spanish Honor Society, and a founding member of the school’s Research Club. There wasn’t one already, and so many kids were looking for resources on how to participate in science fairs, networking events – stuff like that. We said, ‘Let’s organize the teachers and students and send them to these things.”

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think the community is awesome, the teachers are awesome. I’m so honored to be a part of so many opportunities. It’s opened so many doors.

Q: How did you get involved in Eagle Scouts?

A: My father was an Eagle Scout, my uncles were Eagle Scouts, my father’s friends were Eagle Scouts. A lot of male influence in my life came from those who were in the Scouts at some point or another. I don’t remember my first meeting at Cub Scouts, but I went every week, and I had a great time. There was no reason to not continue the program. I went through Cub, got my Arrow of Light, and moved on to Boy Scouts – now, I’m an Eagle Scout.

Q: What’s your favorite part about being a Scout?

A: Probably that when you go anywhere and you meet another Eagle Scout, you just instantly have that connection. It creates a meaningful connection between yourself and the person as soon as you share that. It frequently happens to me.

Q: Tell us about your Scout project. What inspired it? What did you do to accomplish it?

A: My project was four parts: Build an osprey nest, raise the fallen nest, reattach the braces of an osprey nest, and work on the online component of helping my beneficiary build a website to track ospreys.

I wasn’t initially going to do this project. But one of my teachers – who is also a boss of mine at an internship that I do – said, ‘I’m not giving you a choice; do this project.’ It was going to be a lot of work, and I was scared about that. But it ended up being a passion project of mine – planning, proposing, and doing the research. I started the project in February and completed it in April. Fundraising began in March.

I’m an intern at the Sedge Island Natural Resource Center in Barnegat Bay. It’s basically a marsh, and there are all these islands with osprey nests. This one was farther out than the rest. As we were taking the boat back to the research center, we saw the osprey fly above in circles and land on the brace I built. It was cool to see that it had an immediate effect.

That whole summer, I kept looking to see if the nest would fall. Both nests stayed up all summer.

Q: What does this recognition mean to you?

A: It’s the fruition of a lot of work. Every week, spending at least an hour and a half in meetings, plus all the camping trips, all the merit badge fairs, all the people I’ve worked with to get my project done, my family that’s gotten super involved in the troop – it means as much to me as it does to them. They’ve played such a big part in making it happen for me. It was a big journey with a lot of people.

It’s wholesome, it makes me feel great about myself and the people I surround myself with. My parents and grandparents, Ms. Woods, Mr. Lauria, the leadership of the troop, my fellow scouts – everybody, really. It took a whole village.

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A Vision Put in Motion Pediatric Physical Therapist Opens New Shrewsbury Business

BY EMMA SYLVIA / PHOTOS BY ANDREA PHOX

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he original blueprint, drawn hastily by a college student on a random afternoon and presented to a good friend more than a quarter century ago, was a lofty one: a playground, a pool, a dream put to paper. A few decades later, the practice looks a bit different, but the overall vision for Miracles in Motion Pediatric Therapy in Shrewsbury remains.

Renee Schneider, a resident of Oceanport since 2015, shares the heartwarming stories that she’s gathered in her new practice, opened in April of this year, and what physical therapy means to the parents of Monmouth County.

A Personal Investment Schneider attended Monmouth University for her undergraduate, originally

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picking Communications as her major (as she says, primarily so she wouldn’t have to study math and sciences). However, after knowing that she wanted to work with people and lean toward the medical profession, she opted to indeed take her long-awaited STEM courses before pursuing physical therapy courses at PT school and achieving her Masters.

“That was the hardest thing: Staying the course and not giving up,” Schneider recalls. “You needed to be tenacious. It was a rollercoaster. I was accepted into Mercy College’s first ever graduating class – it felt like I had won the lottery.”

Investing in herself at the time of her graduation in 2000 allowed Schneider to invest in her own patients years later when she opened her own practice.

Prior to opening Miracles in Motion, she spent years working at various local schools and private practices. After the pandemic, she returned to school to achieve her doctorate.

Spending so much time working in the field has allowed her to foster relationships with her patients that have lasted literal lifetimes.

“I run into some of the kids I treated as babies,” Schneider says. “Now, they’re graduating high school or in college. I ran into someone from when I worked in Rumson school, and now he’s going to law school. I love that I was part of the team that was part of the child’s life, and that the parents trusted me.

That’s what I’m grateful for — the faith of the parents in me. I love to watch the child succeed. I’m so invested in the child.”

A Grand Opening “I went to PT school with one of my dearest friends, Kristy,” Schneider recalls. “I drew a picture for her. She said, ‘What is this?’

I said, ‘This is the practice I’ll have when I graduate.’”

After several years of other priorities (namely, getting married and growing her family), Schneider was determined to take the leap of faith in herself. “I wanted to do it my way. I wanted to create a space that’s welcoming, warm, clean and healing.” She acknowledges that having your own business is “no joke,” but she’s grateful for the learning curve, forever loving what she does.

Miracles in Motion opened in April of this year, in a lieu of what Schneider describes as a mix of excitement and anxiety (when I first walk through the doors of her practice, she introduces herself as a “one woman army”). However, whenever Schneider expresses any selfdoubt, she’s quickly countered by a parent saying, “I told everyone about you,” after she’s helped their child, which

Schneider describes as making everything worth it.

Family First With her physical therapy practice focused toward children, Schneider has plenty of stories that tug at her own heartstrings. She recalls a two-year-old boy that previously couldn’t even stand – with her assistance, he’s now running.

Another child from Old Bridge was a typical developing girl before catching a flu that resulted in anoxic brain injury.

“I met them, and my heart broke for her. She’s the sweetest girl, and they’re an amazing family. They’re here twice a week. That girl has taught me more about myself. The parents have such faith; they’re not giving up. I think every child I meet and treat teaches me something. Once I’m in a family’s life, I’m there. I’m in.”

Schneider works with gross motor development, aiming to get kids achieving as close to typical development as possible – though, as she succinctly adds, each child’s development looks different. In the near future, she’s aiming to achieve the next level (Intermediate A) in Dynamic Movement Intervention, as well as achieving an aquatics certification.

Another priority for Schneider is to get involved in the community, including participating in the Fall Festival with Monmouth Moms at Bell Works in Holmdel.

“We’re getting the word out that we’re here. I want to make a positive impact on the community and get involved in doing things, slowly but surely.”

After a few months in business, Schneider is nothing but grateful for her space, supporters and clients.

“I’m very happy where I am. I feel very blessed. My husband, Don, is very supportive; my kids are super excited for me. Everyone is so positive,” she says.

It’s this positivity that Schneider perpetuates through her own passions that makes her stand out from the rest – and all of Shrewsbury can feel it.

You can visit Miracles in Motion at 39 Ave at the Commons, St. 104 in Shrewsbury, or reach out at renee@miraclesinmotionpt.com, @MiraclesInMotionPT on Instagram and Miracles in Motion Physical Therapy on Facebook

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Our picks for some fun nights out at local bars and restaurants this month Saturday, November 1 What: Fantastic Cat Where: Stone Pony, Asbury Park When: 7 pm www.stoneponyonline.com/ Saturday, November 8 What: Kyle Smith Where: Wonder Bar, Asbury Park When: 7pm wonderbarasburypark.com Sunday, November 9 What: No Worries Band Where: McLoone’s Pier House, Long Branch When: 6pm www.mcloonespierhouse.com/ Thursday, November 13 What: Guns 4 Hire Where: Drifthouse Restaurant, Sea Bright When: 6 pm drifthousenj.com/ Friday, November 14 What: Joe Baracata Band Where: Bar A, Belmar When: 7 pm bar-a.com/ Saturday, November 15 What: Surfing For Daisy Where: Stone Pony, Asbury Park When: 7 pm www.stoneponyonline.com/

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PARENT'S CORNER

TEACHING THANKFULNESS

to Your Children This Holiday Season

BY MAIA FRANCO

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s the air turns crisp and the lights begin to sparkle, families start preparing for the warmth and bustle of the holiday season. Between school family gatherings and gift lists, this time of year can move fast — but it’s also a perfect opportunity to slow down and teach children one of life’s most valuable lessons: gratitude.

Research consistently shows that children who learn gratitude early tend to be happier, more empathetic, and better able to handle stress. According to a 2023 study in Child Development, kids who regularly practiced gratitude reported higher emotional well-being and stronger social connections. Gratitude doesn’t just make children “nicer” — it helps them build resilience, self-awareness, and joy in everyday moments.

1. Start Simple: Model “Thank You” Moments Children learn by watching. The simplest way to teach gratitude is to let them see it in action. When you thank a cashier, a crossing guard, or a barista, you’re showing your child that gratitude isn’t just polite — it’s meaningful.

Make “thank you” a family habit at home, too. Thank your child for helping set the table or for being kind to a sibling. When they hear gratitude used sincerely, they learn how to give it.

2. Create Family Gratitude Traditions The holiday season is a wonderful time to build small family rituals that center on appreciation rather than gifts. Try these local and easy ideas: • Gratitude Jar: Keep a mason jar on the counter and have each family member add a note of thanks every evening in November and December. Read them together on New Year’s Eve. • Nature Gratitude Walks: Take a stroll through a local outdoor spot like Holmdel Park or the Manasquan Reservoir and ask your children to share something in nature they’re thankful for.

• Bedtime Thank-Yous: End each night with everyone naming one thing they’re grateful for that day — even small joys, like “our dog snuggling by the fire.”

3. Give Back Together Few lessons teach gratitude more powerfully than helping others. Fortunately, Monmouth County offers many fami-

ly-friendly volunteer opportunities: • Lunch Break in Red Bank welcomes children (with parents) to help assemble meal kits or sort donations.

• Fulfill (formerly The FoodBank of Monmouth & Ocean Counties) often needs help with holiday food drives. Kids can collect canned goods from neighbors or friends.

• Habitat for Humanity’s ReStore in Freehold allows families to donate gently used home goods while learning about housing support.

If your children are too young for formal volunteering, start smaller — bake cookies for an elderly neighbor, donate gently used toys to the Monmouth County Library’s Giving Tree, or write thank-you cards for local firefighters.

4. Make Gratitude Creative Art can help children express feelings they can’t always verbalize. Try: • Gratitude Collages: Cut out photos or drawings of things that make your child happy — family, pets, the beach, their favorite ice cream from Hoffman’s — and create a “Thankful Board.”

• Thankful Letters: Have your child write (or dictate) letters to teachers, coaches, or family members who’ve made a difference this year.

5. Balance the Gift-Giving Excitement The holiday season can overwhelm even the most grounded kids. To keep gratitude at the center, try these strategies: • Before opening gifts, talk about how much love went into choosing or making them.

• Encourage children to give homemade gifts — a drawing, a song, or a simple craft.

• Reflect afterward: “What made you happiest today?” Often, the answer isn’t the biggest toy, but a shared moment.

As the holiday season unfolds, teaching children gratitude offers a gift that lasts far beyond Thanksgiving and the December holidays. Through simple acts of kindness, reflection, and giving back, families can help kids see that joy comes not just from receiving, but from appreciating and sharing.

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A Word from the Mayor...

A Trio of Dredging Projects in Ocean Township

BY OCEAN TOWNSHIP MAYOR JOHN NAPOLITANI

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he Township of Ocean is one of seven municipalities that surround the largest coastal lake in Monmouth County. Deal Lake, which is also surrounded by Loch Arbor, Allenhurst, Deal, Asbury Park, Neptune, and Interlaken, has representatives from each town that sit on the Deal Lake Commission (DLC). Our municipality has decided to coordinate three dredging projects in order, starting with Fireman’s Pond, Lollipop Pond, and Terrace Pond.

Fireman’s Pond, which is located on Wickopecko Drive between Grassmere and Raymere avenues, has been neglected for quite some time. Prior to this dredging project, which officially began on October 1, the pond was overgrown with trees, filled with an incredible amount of silt, and was truly unsightly. The pond has been hidden by a significant amount of tree growth, which has gotten worse over the years.

A project such as Fireman’s Pond cannot be taken on by the Township alone. We were able to secure grant funding in the amount of $500,000 from LD11 representatives Senator Vin Gopal, and Assemblywomen Dr. Margie Donlon and Luanne Peterpaul Esq. Couple this with significant assistance from Monmouth County Commissioner Director Tom Arnone, in the form of trucking and haul away, and you have the perfect bi-partisan partnership.

Lollipop Pond, which is located between So. Dittmar and No. Dittmar drives, is slated for dredging in late 2026.

This pond has also been neglected for quite some time. Our LD11 representatives were able to secure funding for the Chestnut Ave. bridge replacement and dredging the back side of the pond. We are in the planning stages for this project, which requires DEP permits, dredge spoil location, and assistance from the county.

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the years. Terrace Pond is also a beautiful sight while playing golf on William F. Larkin Golf Course. Although this pond is just as important as the others, work cannot begin until an upstream project is completed by the DLC in Seaview Square Mall sometime in late 2027. Once completed, this will reduce the amount of silt running downstream in the future.

Dredging projects are not easy to coordinate and cost a significant amount of money to complete. There are also strict rules on where the dredge spoils can be deposited, and it all runs through the DEP. If anyone with government experience knows anything, it’s that the DEP can take forever to approve the projects

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in a tight timeline. Therefore, a lot of time delays are not caused by the DLC or the municipality, but more so with approvals.

We have been very fortunate over the years to receive the funding and assistance from the County and State.

Although we received the money, our township is also providing manpower and assistance for the project. Projects of this magnitude require everyone to work together to be successful. Being vigilant about Deal Lake dredging projects is paramount to its survival in the future.

Without the plan we have put in place to begin these projects, we are in danger of losing this lake and its ponds.

ANGELICA of Wanamassa

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MILA of Wayside

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Four-legged Fun! Barktastic places to hang out with your pets this month and beyond Skinny Flowers Brewery, Oceanport — Located at Fort Monmouth off Oceanport Avenue in Oceanport, Skinny Flowers & Brewery is a great spot to enjoy a brisk autumn afternoon with your fourlegged best friend. Leashed and well-behaved dogs are welcomed within their Moxie Room. Recently opened at a spacious property, Skinny Flowers Brewery is a must-visit for beer enthusiasts and nature lovers alike. www.skinnyflowersbrewing.com Low Dive, Asbury Park — With the Asbury Park Boardwalk open once again to dogs until May 15th, there may not be a better spot to go with your K-9 companion and wind down with ocean views this November than Low Dive. Located at the end of 3rd Ave on the Boardwalk, Low Dive has outside and inside seating and regularly hosts live music, so be sure to check their calendar. www.lowdiveap.com Bagel Nook, Freehold — This Freehold-based breakfast shop serves up all kinds of bagels, sandwiches, and morning drink options! Known for their crazy bagels, the Bagel Nook offers plenty of seating outside, which makes it a great spot to start an autumn day with a coffee and Fido! www.thebagelnook.com Manasquan Reservoir, Howell — With the leaves changing colors and crisp air fully crisping, the Manasquan Reservoir offers plenty of space for you and your four-legged companion to enjoy the season.

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HEALTH CORNER

The Medicine of the New Age: How AI Is Transforming Diagnosis and Treatment

BY MAIA FRANCO

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hen it comes to healthcare, there are major concerns with receiving the right care: prompt diagnosis, access to specialists, early detection of disease, and finding effective treatments before illness advances. Artificial Intelligence (AI) is stepping in as a powerful tool to help meet those challenges. The following is a look at how AI is reshaping medical diagnosis and therapy, recent breakthroughs, and what it might mean for the near future.

What AI Brings to the Table AI uses computer algorithms, machine learning, and large datasets (from imaging, blood tests, patient histories, etc.) to help detect disease earlier, make diagnosis more accurate, personalize treatment, and even predict outcomes. Key benefits include: • Speed: AI can analyze images or lab data much faster than manual review.

• Early detection: Subtle signs that humans might miss are flagged by algorithms.

• Tailoring treatment: Using patient data (genomics, history, risk factors) to choose therapies that are more likely to work and less likely to have side effects.

Recent Breakthroughs & New Developments (2025) Here are some of the most exciting recent developments in AI diagnostics and cures: 1) Blood test for Alzheimer’s The FDA recently cleared a blood test (Lumipulse, by Fujirebio Diagnostics) that measures proteins such as pTau217 to detect amyloid plaques in the brain — a pillar of Alzheimer’s. This treatment offers a much less invasive option than PET scans or spinal taps.

2) AI Stethoscope for Heart Disease A device developed with the NHS uses an AI-powered stethoscope to detect heart failure, valve disease, and abnormal rhythms in just about 15 seconds. In trials of symptomatic patients, it significantly improved diagnosis rates.

3) Personalizing Breast Cancer Screening AI is helping to tailor mammogram schedules based on a person’s risk profile, rather than blanket guidelines. Tools such as “Mirai” analyze large databases of mammograms to better predict who’s at higher risk and when they should be screened.

4) New Drug Discovery Accelerated by AI Rentosertib, a compound designed with generative AI techniques, moved from discovery to early clinical trials

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in under 30 months in the field of drugs targeting certain pathways.

Challenges & What To Watch Out For With these powerful tools come caveats. Patients should be aware of: • False positives / false negatives: No tool is perfect. Misdiagnosis (or missed diagnosis) can occur, especially when AI is used outside of the populations or conditions it was trained on.

• Bias & equity: AI is only as good as its data. If certain groups (racial, age, geography) are under-represented, results can be less reliable for them.

• Privacy: Patient data is sensitive. With AI, large amounts of data are needed — ensuring that data is secure and consent is handled properly is essential.

• Regulation & oversight: FDA approvals, breakthrough designations help, but regulatory frameworks are still catching up. Clinicians must maintain oversight — AI should assist doctors, not replace them.

• Cost & access: Some of the newest tools may be expensive or not yet widely available. Ensuring access for smaller hospitals and clinics (which serve many Shore residents) is important.

Looking Forward: What to Keep an Eye On Some trends that may shape the next 5-10 years: • Personalized medicine grows, with treatments tailored to individual genetic, lifestyle, environmental data.

• Multimodal AI — combining images, lab data, clinical notes, genomics — to give richer, more accurate diagnostics.

• AI assistants for clinicians — tools that reduce paperwork, help with referral letters, documentation, freeing doctors to spend more time face-to-face.

• Ethical, regulatory frameworks being strengthened, especially around transparency • Greater insurance coverage of AI-based diagnostic tests and treatments as evidence accumulates of their efficacy and cost-savings.

AI is not a miracle, but it is a potent new tool in medicine’s toolbox — especially for early diagnosis, safer treatment, and making care more accessible. As these tools become more integrated, informed, and equitably available, we may see a future in which serious illnesses are caught earlier, managed better, and in many cases prevented altogether.

Four Diners Still Thriving in Monmouth County

BY REBECCA KING

Blue Swan Diner

Is there anything more iconically Jersey than a diner?

Those smooth, prefabricated curves. The bright neon signs.

The gleaming chrome accents and glossy Formica tables. This is the familiar aesthetic we’ve come to know and love in the “Diner Capital of the World.” Of course, when your state has more diners than any other, you know these homey institutions come in plenty of other shapes and sizes — as long as there’s a menu the size of a novella and a hearty stock of cakes and pastries twirling in an endless orbit inside a glass case up front.

And though the diner is a bit of nostalgia replicated the world over (this writer once went to Florence, Italy, only to stay a block away from an “American” themed diner right in the heart of the city), their numbers in New Jersey are dwindling.

Peter Sedereas, owner of Town Square Diner in Wharton, told NPR last year that he and the coalition of New Jersey diners he leads estimated that 10 years ago, the state had about 600 diners.

By 2024, that number was closer to 450. Ever since the pandemic shuttered so many incredible restaurants, the diner scene hasn’t yet been able to bounce back to its prior dominance, making the din-

ers we still have all the more precious.

But the great news is – some have weathered the storm.

So, let’s raise a malt to a few of our favorite diners in Monmouth County, carrying the torch for anyone and everyone who craves a plate of clams casino with a side of disco fries at 2 in the morning.

New Monmouth Diner, Middletown Diners don’t get more classic than New Monmouth Diner. It has the works: a big neon sign, red pleather booths, and plenty of memorabilia from the ‘50s featuring Elvis, Marilyn Monroe, James Dean and more. It also regularly hosts vintage

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car shows, leaning even further into the nostalgic vibe diners cultivate so well.

And even with all that antiquity, New Monmouth Diner has embraced the new age enough to implement online ordering and DoorDash, so you can enjoy its healthy portions on the go.

Standout dishes include its chicken bruschetta melt, topped with tomato, onion, basil, fresh mozzarella and a balsamic drizzle, its homemade meatloaf and its certified Angus Beef New York sirloin.

New Monmouth Diner is located at 1887 NJ-35, Middletown Township. Go to newmonmouthdiner.com for more information.

Americana Diner, Shrewsbury True to its name, the facade of the Americana Diner couldn’t be more classically American — from the tower of glass blocks to the star-spangled sign.

But the menu pulls heavily from Greek tradition (another diner staple, as so many Greek immigrants got their start in the U.S. operating diners).

You’ll find beef gyro omelets, stuffed grape leaves, and a Greek combo plate of spanakopita, moussaka, zucchini sticks and tzatziki sauce. The Greek classics are offered alongside a tome of American diner fare, like disco fries and

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corned beef hash. And for dessert? Those in the know recommend the moist layer cakes, the tart lemon merengue pie, and the cheesecakes, featuring a new flavor every week.

Looking for a night out with the family? Americana Diner regularly host kids nights with appearances from characters like Spongebob and Mickey Mouse.

Americana Diner is located at 1160 NJ-35, Shrewsbury. For more information, go to americanadiner.net.

Blue Swan Diner, Ocean Township Follow the blue and red neon lights as you cruise down Route 35 in Oakhurst, and you’re sure to find Blue Swan Diner.

This family-owned restaurant opened in 1974 and has been gaining local devotees since. In 2024, it was named a “Neighborhood Fave” by the social networking company NextDoor.

At Blue Swan, you can enjoy diner classics or trendy dishes all in one place.

Nosh on eggplant parm or a Stanta Fe salad (piled with guac, grilled chicken, black beans and corn) while your dining companion dives into a heaping stack of Dubai pancakes, a decadent dish with pistachio kataifi filling, chocolate chips, pistachio cream, Nutella, and phyllo.

Plus, there’s an app for ordering takeout or curbside delivery.

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Or, do as the locals do and stop by on Tuesday Pasta Nights where guests get their choice of sauce, pasta, soup or salad and garlic bread for $15.95.

Blue Swan is located at 2116 NJ-35, Oakhurst. Go to blueswandiner.com.

Fair Haven Diner, Fair Haven Fair Haven Diner just opened in May of this year and features a more modern aesthetic. The outside has clean white brick archways and beachy blue accents, while the interior takes on the look of a trendy bistro with warm exposed brick and wood floors.

Despite its new wave decor, its menu is full of classic diner dishes — thick cut meatloaf towers with frizzled onions, beef gravy, mashed potatoes and vegetables; mediterranean bowls; flatbread with saucy pulled pork and cheddar-jack cheese; and chicken, shrimp or eggplant parm. For something a bit different, opt for an appetizer of Jersey egg rolls, stuffed with pork roll, egg and cheese and served with sriracha ketchup. Fair Haven Diner also offers online orders for pick-up or delivery.

Fair Haven Diner is located at 583 River Rd, Fair Haven. For more information, go to fairhavendiner.com.

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Fall Fest takes over Joe Palaia Park

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cean Township celebrated its annual Fall Festival on Saturday, October 4. Held at Joe Palaia Park, the free, family-friendly event ran from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. and featured a classic car show, live music by the Beatles tribute band Pure McCartney, pumpkin painting, and a vendor and craft fair. A special sensory-friendly fire truck ride was also offered at 1 p.m. The festival included Green Fest, an environmental showcase promoting community sustainability. The event was sponsored by local businesses, civic groups, and Township of Ocean.

Photo and editorial credit: Ocean Township Community Celebrations Facebook page

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Student Successes

tephen Piancone of Tinton Falls has received his Bachelor of Science in Commerce & Business Administration from The University of Alabama. UA awarded over 1,300 degrees during its summer commencement ceremonies.

Caroline Bariscillo had a goal and an assist as Ocean Township defeated Trinity Hall, 2-1, in Oakhurst, for its 13th straight field hockey win.

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Spartans Dominate Division Rival

n Friday, September 26, the Ocean Township Spartans football team secured their third win of the season over divisional rival Freehold Borough by a score of 42-13.

The Spartans protected home field and led throughout the entire game. Congratulations to the team on an impressive victory!

Photo and editorial credit: Township of Ocean School District Facebook page

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A Labor of Love Asbury Police Officer Eugene Dello takes pride in his job and his hometown

BY EMMA SYLVIA / PHOTOS BY ANDREA PHOX

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e’s an Asbury Park police officer.” When discussing subjects for Community Magazine profiles, this descriptor my boss used doesn’t exactly narrow down the list enough for me to guess who he might be referring to, though I am familiar with the Asbury Park police force through the occupation of my brother.

“He’s an Ocean Township resident, too,” my boss says.

With this, I’m able to narrow it down just a bit more, and then when the name is finally said – “Eugene Dello” – I instantly say, “I’ll cover this one.”

The reason why is simple: Eugene Dello, a resident of Ocean Township for at least 25 years and a member of the Asbury Park police force for almost 43 years, is a good family friend.

Also crucially, he’s just the person to talk to involving all things Ocean and Asbury, and he’s happy to discuss his long-spanning career with me.

A Family Line Dello’s origins on the force date back to his father, a former police officer in Asbury Park, whom he describes as a knight in shining armor, his uniform inspiring awe in a young Dello.

Dello’s uncle was the chief of police, and his great uncle was a judge in town (whom Dello is named after).

“They’ve been around since almost the beginning of Asbury Park,” Dello recalls. “And, you know, I just continued that legacy.”

Of course, Dello didn’t begin his career with his status today as the Local 6 State Delegate for the Asbury Park PBA, being named the NJ State PBA’s (Policeman’s Benevolence Association) first vice president, and chair of the NJSPCA Cop Shot and Specials/Police Directors/Regionalization & Consolidation committees. Originally, he worked himself up from court officer to dispatcher to patrolman detective.

Starting in Asbury Park in the early 1980s, Dello says that he has seen the absolute turnaround of the city, especially in the last couple of years.

“I couldn’t be happier with the direction Asbury Park is heading. We used to go to gunshot calls years ago, where it was a natural thing. Now, it’s been eliminated to practically none – now we get calls about someone throwing their garbage out too early.”

His love for the town and the people in it, is obvious. At the

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end of the day, his work in Asbury Park is, as he describes it, a labor of love.

A Mini Renaissance Like many Asbury Park residents – and tourists – Dello’s favorite part of the town is the beachfront, calling that and the downtown area the “lungs” of Asbury. The restaurants, coupled with the great opportunities to work, deems it a “mini– New York City,” in Dello’s eyes.

“It’s a melting pot of people,” Dello says, acknowledging its welcoming nature to those of different classes, races and sexualities. “Everything is in Asbury Park.”

Meanwhile, his love for Ocean Township reigns strong as well. Being a resident of the town for more than two decades, his home is decorated with homages to Monmouth County history, as well as memorabilia and decorations suggesting Dello may just be the biggest fan of Frank Sinatra in the state.

He attributes the success of Ocean and Asbury Park to their town governments, especially mayors Napolitani and Moore, respectively. “They know what they’re doing. They keep the residents happy. I never want to leave.”

Above and Beyond When looking to the future, Dello first thinks of the past and how quickly time has flown. He can’t believe he’s standing

where he is today, thanks to his mentors, who enabled him to excel in his career as an officer and to ultimately be there as a current mentor for the incoming officers working today.

With the PBA, Dello is eager to give back to the community. “We, work hand-in-hand with the Asbury Park Homeowners Association and Mercy Center to do a food drive for the less fortunate for Thanksgiving. We’re also looking forward to the PBA Toy Drive for Christmas. These kids wouldn’t be getting Christmas gifts without the Asbury Park PBA Local 6 and members of the PBA. I look forward to doing that,” he says.

As a veteran of the force, he makes sure to remind young officers that this job is about working for the people, while still

acknowledging that it just might be the most gratifying job out there. And unlike many, retirement is simply not on his radar, as Dello jokes that he plans on being with the Asbury Police Department until he’s “thrown out.”

And that goes for his life as a resident of Monmouth County as well.

“There’s no better place to be. This area … it’s just phenomenal,” he says. “I couldn’t live anywhere else. It’s not even a thought in my mind. I’m very happy with everything going on with the city of Asbury Park – of Monmouth County, in general. All of our towns aren’t perfect, but we have a lot of good people trying to fix them.”

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A Diamond in the Rough

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Wolf Fine Jewelers Finds Home in Middletown

BY EMMA SYLVIA / PHOTOS BY MANNY CARABEL

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inding the perfect piece of jewelry can be near impossible. Either the diamond isn’t the exact cut that you need, or the price for perfection is far too steep. However, at Wolf Fine Jewelers in Middletown, the name of the game is perfection. And that’s exactly what owner Scott Wolf strives for every day.

Starting Early With a passion for watches, Wolf opened his first kiosk, American Watch Works, at the Ocean County Mall in Toms River in the early ‘90s. He was so impassioned that he went to study in Chicago to take trade school courses in watchmaking in order to expand his business.

“After a few years, I felt like I needed something more,” Wolf says. After this realization, he purchased the Jewelry Exchange at the former Monmouth Mall in Eatontown. Continuing his expansion all over New Jersey, from Atlantic City to Paramus (with his Middletown location still open today, and the Atlantic City location reopening at Caesars Atlantic City).

“Everyone kept telling me to do my

own brand, and that was Wolf Fine Jewelers,” he says.

Movin’ Out Due to the Monmouth Mall renovations beginning last year, Wolf Fine Jewelers relocated to Middletown for its new home – and they’re nothing but grateful for the butterfly effect that led them there.

“We love it here,” Wolf says. “It’s been a dream to be in a standalone building. The residents have been more than welcoming.

It’s a great time and experience.”

Wolf is ecstatic to be in a solo building instead of a mall, as it gives him more control over the store’s hours, events they can hold, product offerings, and better service. The new location in Middletown is even equipped with a lounge, where customers can enjoy a glass of wine or cup of coffee. In addition to this, there’s a private jeweler room. “It’s a much more rewarding experience. It’s like working but being on vacation. We control every aspect of our business,” he says.

Wolf Fine Jewelers hosted the grand opening of their Middletown space this

past March, which featured an exotic car show, a cigar roller, and food provided by MJ’s and Livotis. “We host events where we can give back to the community,” Wolf says. “It’s not just about purchasing jewelry but connecting and making friends.”

Coming up, they’re planning on hosting a car show, as well as doing an Adopt a Pet event, which is something near and dear to Wolf’s own heart, as he adopted his dog, Scotch, from the Humane Society (Scotch was present during the entire interview, acting primarily as Wolf Fine’s adorable mascot, aside from being Wolf’s best friend).

They’re ecstatic for the holiday season, as 2025 will be the Middletown business’s second Christmas. Last year, before their grand opening, the town was not yet familiar with them. “We’re expecting to have an even stronger season now that everyone knows we’re here. We’re looking forward to meeting new faces and establishing new relationships.”

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vice of any jeweler in the state. Faced with any challenge, the staff at Wolf Fine Jewelers doesn’t seem to know the word “no” – they’re always prepared to take on any design or request from a client, from sparkling, one-of-a kind engagement rings to necklaces that will eventually become family heirlooms. Wolf is a graduated gemologist from Gemological Institute of America (GIA).

“One of the most unique pieces I’ve made in the last couple of years was for my friend’s son who owns a deli in Marlboro,” Wolf recalls. “I made him a piece that consists of multiple components in white and gold with his family crest.”

Wolf puts on a pair of glasses and starts scrolling through his photos in or-

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der to show me the custom piece. As he works through his collection, he pauses every now and then to show a different unique piece – rings, logos, pendants and more – and explain in detail the behindthe-scenes work that went into it. They use CAD, a program that allows you to create a 3D product (something Wolf explains to me as he zooms in on various facets of each piece). The passion is palpable, and Wolf agrees.

“It was either going to be this or law enforcement,” he explains. “All my friends were in law enforcement, and I thought it was a cool field. You could help people, and I like to help people. But one hundred percent, I have this passion [for the jewelry business], and I had a lot of support.”

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Perfect Pieces It’s at the crux of Wolf’s character to give back. In his own words, he’s “big” in partnering with other local businesses in the community and helping those around him. He recalls not long ago a particularly special customer, a young girl who couldn’t initially get her ears pierced due to her chemotherapy.

“She just got over chemo,” he says.

“We pierced her ears for her, as a gift from our store to celebrate her beating cancer. We were all so inspired by her courage and strength.”

It’s this approach that has endeared so many people to the store and ultimately has turned Wolf Fine Jewelers into being more than simply a place to buy jewelry. It keeps people coming back — and that includes the staff. Many of the young women that once worked for Wolf when they were in high school are now married and have kids. “And now their kids have come to work for me,” he says. “We’ve created a generational environment. That’s rewarding, that people are loyal and stay with us for as long as they do.”

Wolf encourages all to come down to Middletown, have a chat, meet Scotch and find your new perfect piece.

“Nobody does I do, like we do.”

Wolf Fine Jewelers is located at 1580 Rt. 35, Middletown. Go to WolfFineJewelers.com or call 732-460-9653

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FIXING A STUFFY NOSE AND

SNORING QUESTION: My nose is always stuffy, worse on one side.

And not only that...I am told by my spouse that I snore loud!

What can I do?

ANSWER: Your best bet is a full evaluation by an ENT specialist who can determine what is causing your nasal obstruction and the most effective treatment. Often, once the nasal breathing is restored, the loud snoring is then diminished or even eliminated. There are several steps necessary for a thorough exam:

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HISTORY: Questioning the patient about previous trauma to the nose and also anything that may cause chronic swelling inside the nasal cavity like recurrent sinus infections, allergies and overuse of intranasal sprays such as Afrin.

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EXAM: Fiberoptic scope of the nose and throat to look for septal deviations, polyps, abnormal enlargements of other intranasal structures, and draining secretions which can be cultured. Check the external nasal structure for cartilage collapse that can result in a valve obstruction. Also allergy tests, home sleep studies and CT scans if indicated.

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TREATMENT: Customized to the patient’s cause of obstruction. Can be as simple as a regimen of intranasal and oral medications or more complex involving surgical procedures.

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