I might have an eating disorder: what do i do?

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I Might Have An Eating Disorder: What Do I Do? The moment when you recognize your eating behaviors have gotten out of control can be followed by intense fear and uncertainty. Will I need treatment? Where will I go? What will happen during treatment? The first thing you should do is choose to be hopeful, and choose recovery. There are effective treatments for eating disorders. Talk to a trusted friend or family member and seek help from a healthcare professional or facility that specializes in eating disorders. Right now, you might wonder how you could ever change. What could happen during treatment that would allow you to let go of the unhealthy behaviors you’ve held onto for so long? Here are 18 things that you will learn in eating disorder recovery, to help you let go of dangerous eating behaviors and start building a healthy, happy life: 1. Acknowledge that your behavior is harmful and will negatively affect your life now and in the future if you do not choose to change. 2. Identify your feelings and internal messages before, during, and after you binge, purge, or restrict. 3. Identify what triggers you to binge, purge, or restrict. 4. Focus on the present rather than the past, and on the positive aspects of your life. 5. Take time to nurture yourself in ways that have nothing to do with food or your eating disorder behaviors (a walk, movie, hot bath, etc.). 6. Enjoy your body. Choose physical activities for fun rather than weight loss, such as dancing, stretching, and swimming. 7. Take responsibility for changing your behaviors. 8. Work toward the point where weight is no longer something by which you rate your success. 9. Think about your accomplishments, positive personal qualities, and valued relationships, and affirm yourself for these things. 10.Identify goals and activities you have been putting off until you’re “thin.” 11.Set small goals that you can accomplish easily, and congratulate yourself for every success. 12.Explore any ambivalence about giving up old habits and your fear of living without them. Take the risk to try new behaviors, without being certain of the outcome. 13.Recognize your personal rights. You have the right to say “no,” to express your feelings and opinions and to ask to have your needs met. 14.Find a growth-oriented, non-judgmental community of relationships, such as a church, support group, or appropriate 12-step group. 15.Keep a journal of your experiences, feelings, thoughts, and insights. This is a safe place to be honest with yourself. The journal is for your eyes only: no one else will be reading it or judging it. The journal can also help you identify the feelings, internal messages, and triggers that lead to your eating disorder behavior, so that you may prepare yourself to choose alternate strategies. 16.Don’t let the scale run your life. Remember that numbers on a scale are not a value


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